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- 0:26Speaker 1: How you doing Arrow, Santino. You've nailed it with this book.
- 0:29Speaker 1: I mean it is so authentic. I'm a third down
- 0:32Speaker 1: in martial arts, and if you're not learning anything in
- 0:35Speaker 1: class besides hitting, punching, blocking, and falling, you're doing it
- 0:38Speaker 1: wrong then, and you can tell that you have learned
- 0:41Speaker 1: a lot from your masters.
- 0:43Speaker 2: Yeah, I appreciate that. You know, it's it's going punching
- 0:47Speaker 2: and kicking is an easy part, right, It's waking up early,
- 0:51Speaker 2: going to bed the night before to make sure that
- 0:53Speaker 2: you're there and ready and able to learn. You know,
- 0:56Speaker 2: that's the hard part. So often.
- 1:00Speaker 1: Oh sorry, I was gonna say you say it right
- 1:01Speaker 1: there in your title. I mean you say you know,
- 1:03Speaker 1: kick ass in everything that you do. I don't think
- 1:05Speaker 1: the average person understands. That means the business world, That
- 1:08Speaker 1: means in your community where you can go out there
- 1:10Speaker 1: and you can have a you know, just the discipline
- 1:12Speaker 1: in life is so important, and you remind not only
- 1:15Speaker 1: the martial artists, but you remind those in the everyday
- 1:17Speaker 1: world that hey, look, there is a better path if
- 1:20Speaker 1: you choose to walk it.
- 1:22Speaker 2: Yeah, success is success. It doesn't matter if you're an athlete,
- 1:25Speaker 2: it doesn't matter if you're trying to get good grades,
- 1:27Speaker 2: doesn't matter if you're trying to start a business or
- 1:30Speaker 2: do research in science. Success is success and all the
- 1:34Speaker 2: fundamental tenants are the same. It's doing. It's being disciplined
- 1:39Speaker 2: to do the thing again and again and again without
- 1:43Speaker 2: getting distracted. That's what too many people do, is they
- 1:45Speaker 2: get distracted and then they quit. It's keeping focus on
- 1:48Speaker 2: the goal. And that's success in anything we do.
- 1:52Speaker 1: Isn't that Because we get swayed by other people's reasons
- 1:55Speaker 1: why they're in class, and so it's almost like we're
- 1:57Speaker 1: trying to keep up with the Joneses. Well, I just
- 1:59Speaker 1: want to get up there with Jim, because Jim's got
- 2:01Speaker 1: is his brown belt right now, and I'm down here
- 2:03Speaker 1: with my Yellow Belt or even in the everyday world,
- 2:05Speaker 1: we just feel like that we're always trying to catch
- 2:07Speaker 1: up with somebody. It's like, no pay attention to your
- 2:09Speaker 1: own life.
- 2:11Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, I say it all the time. We have
- 2:14Speaker 2: to reach our own personal ceiling. Our ceiling is different.
- 2:17Speaker 2: Everyone's ceiling is different. Academically, some people are really intelligent
- 2:21Speaker 2: and some people aren't as intelligent. You know, Physically, some
- 2:24Speaker 2: people can jump forty five inches in the air and
- 2:27Speaker 2: some can jump ten. But the person that can jump
- 2:30Speaker 2: ten inches in the air, if they work really, really,
- 2:32Speaker 2: really hard, they can jump eleven or twelve. But there's
- 2:38Speaker 2: the analogy. We've heard this all the time. Who's faster
- 2:40Speaker 2: a sharker a cheetah? Right, It's like, well, are we
- 2:43Speaker 2: in the water? Are we on land? And that's the
- 2:46Speaker 2: thing is people are looking at other successful people and
- 2:49Speaker 2: going I can never achieve that. It's like, well, maybe
- 2:52Speaker 2: you can't, but you can achieve a lot more than
- 2:54Speaker 2: where you're at. And we have to find a way
- 2:57Speaker 2: to be as successful as we can be and whatever
- 2:59Speaker 2: and ever that we are trying to achieve. And we
- 3:03Speaker 2: look at other people, and we look at our neighbors
- 3:05Speaker 2: and oh, they've got a new you know, escalade, Well
- 3:08Speaker 2: I want that. It's like, well, you should be happy
- 3:12Speaker 2: with just getting a new camera. You know, you know
- 3:15Speaker 2: you're not gonna you can't afford the escalade, So don't
- 3:17Speaker 2: don't reach for the escalade, reach for the car that
- 3:19Speaker 2: you can get. And do you look at the mirror.
- 3:23Speaker 2: The mirror is the only person that you need to
- 3:25Speaker 2: compare yourself with.
- 3:26Speaker 1: See, I'm so glad that you said that, because I've
- 3:28Speaker 1: written about that a lot, about the power of the
- 3:31Speaker 1: mirror versus the power of the window. And I've always
- 3:33Speaker 1: called the window a liar because a window will lie
- 3:36Speaker 1: to you about the weather conditions outside. You walk out there,
- 3:39Speaker 1: you freeze your butt off, and it's like what happened here?
- 3:41Speaker 1: And that's what I love about your book Fight Ready,
- 3:43Speaker 1: is that you give us that honest approach of keep
- 3:46Speaker 1: your eyes open and be honest with yourself.
- 3:49Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to because if you're doing anything for
- 3:52Speaker 2: anybody else, you're gonna fail. Because when things get hard,
- 3:58Speaker 2: all like out side, you know, influences go away. Even
- 4:04Speaker 2: in fighting. I see it so often. I see people
- 4:08Speaker 2: getting hit and they're in a bad position and somebody
- 4:11Speaker 2: is on top of them. Just beating them, and you
- 4:14Speaker 2: see it. You see it all the time when people
- 4:16Speaker 2: decide they're done and they want out, and then you
- 4:19Speaker 2: see people who just keep continuing to fight. And the
- 4:23Speaker 2: people that keep continuing to fight, I mean, their brains
- 4:26Speaker 2: are being you know, shattered inside their skull and their
- 4:29Speaker 2: jaws hanging off, and there's blood everywhere, and they just
- 4:33Speaker 2: keep fighting and fighting and fighting. Those people are doing
- 4:35Speaker 2: it for themselves and the people that quit when things
- 4:39Speaker 2: get hard. If you're doing anything for anybody else, whether
- 4:42Speaker 2: it's money, whether it's you know, family members, whether it's
- 4:46Speaker 2: for fame, you're going to quit when things get hard.
- 4:50Speaker 1: Did you ever have one of those bouts or one
- 4:52Speaker 1: of those matches where something went unexpectedly wrong and you
- 4:56Speaker 1: just sat there and you looked at the ref going
- 4:58Speaker 1: is it even there anymore? Because I remember getting kicked.
- 5:00Speaker 1: It was a turning hook kick that got me right
- 5:02Speaker 1: across the nose. I thought the dude ripped my nose
- 5:05Speaker 1: completely off my face and I could not tell if
- 5:08Speaker 1: my nose was even there anymore.
- 5:10Speaker 2: Did you?
- 5:10Speaker 1: How do you deal with that and to move beyond that,
- 5:13Speaker 1: knowing that the rest of your life you're going to
- 5:15Speaker 1: face a lot of those walls in Dangers. Yeah, I was.
- 5:18Speaker 2: Actually I was on The Ultimate Fighter and so I
- 5:22Speaker 2: was fighting. I was supposed to be on the second season,
- 5:24Speaker 2: and when I went in for the medicals, they found
- 5:26Speaker 2: a brain aneurysm, and so I was told that I
- 5:29Speaker 2: would never fight again. My career was over. I was done,
- 5:33Speaker 2: and so I went and had brain surgery. I don't
- 5:35Speaker 2: know a year and a half later, whenever I was
- 5:37Speaker 2: able to afford it with medical insurance, and then I
- 5:40Speaker 2: started training again and I actually got approved cleared to
- 5:44Speaker 2: fight again, and so I don't know a year or
- 5:47Speaker 2: two later after being approved, I was in the Ultimate
- 5:50Speaker 2: Fighter in the UFC and we had to fight to
- 5:53Speaker 2: get into the house to even compete, and I was
- 5:55Speaker 2: fighting a guy who was a three time I think
- 5:57Speaker 2: he was a D two or D three national wrestling champion.
- 6:00Speaker 2: He looked like a mini pony. He was just just
- 6:01Speaker 2: a horse of a human, and he took me down
- 6:04Speaker 2: and was just beating me for five minutes, just elbowing
- 6:07Speaker 2: my skull for five minutes, and the ref didn't stop it,
- 6:10Speaker 2: and I was panicked because I was like, oh my gosh,
- 6:12Speaker 2: I'm going to die. My brain, my brain, what do
- 6:14Speaker 2: I do, And I was just kind of paralyzed with
- 6:18Speaker 2: the fear of that aneurysm, and I just got beat
- 6:21Speaker 2: up for five minutes and the ref didn't stop the fight,
- 6:23Speaker 2: and I went back to the corner and my coach
- 6:26Speaker 2: at the time, Gastavo, said he's like, hey man, you
- 6:30Speaker 2: gotta fight, Like what are we doing here? And I
- 6:33Speaker 2: was like, I am going to die if I don't
- 6:36Speaker 2: get if I don't beat this guy, because the ref's
- 6:39Speaker 2: not going to stop me. And so right after that,
- 6:42Speaker 2: I was like, I have to go in and I
- 6:43Speaker 2: went out through a flying knee, took the guy down
- 6:46Speaker 2: and choked him out. But there was that moment right
- 6:49Speaker 2: there it was like I need to do this or
- 6:51Speaker 2: I will not get out of here. And you know,
- 6:54Speaker 2: that was a life changing moment.
- 6:56Speaker 1: One of the things that inspires me most about your
- 6:58Speaker 1: book Fight Ready, is the fact that as as martial artists,
- 7:02Speaker 1: it is we continue to grow on the black belt path.
- 7:04Speaker 1: The thing is is that everybody is still a white
- 7:06Speaker 1: belt and you are the instructor and you must meet
- 7:09Speaker 1: them at their level. And I feel that in this
- 7:12Speaker 1: book that as a black belt, you're going to get
- 7:14Speaker 1: a lot more out of it. But even as a
- 7:15Speaker 1: white belt you're going to get a lot of things
- 7:17Speaker 1: out of this as well. You really do speak to
- 7:19Speaker 1: every level of the journey growing forward.
- 7:23Speaker 2: Yeah, I wanted everybody to be able to relate to
- 7:25Speaker 2: this book. My children. I have a thirteen year old
- 7:28Speaker 2: and a fifteen year old, both boys, and during the
- 7:31Speaker 2: summer we always make them read, like because otherwise, what
- 7:34Speaker 2: are you gonna do? Just play video games for ten
- 7:35Speaker 2: hours a day, So I have to read for thirty minutes.
- 7:38Speaker 2: I have to do con academy, some maths and some
- 7:40Speaker 2: other stuff for thirty minutes, and then it's like, all right,
- 7:42Speaker 2: now you can go play. You can go, you know,
- 7:44Speaker 2: jump on some video games and whatever. And one of
- 7:47Speaker 2: the things that I'm going to have both of them
- 7:48Speaker 2: read is actually this book over the summer, thirty minutes
- 7:52Speaker 2: a day. Because they're both athletes, they both want to compete,
- 7:56Speaker 2: they both want to be successful. And if my thirteen
- 7:59Speaker 2: in my f fifteen year old can get something out
- 8:02Speaker 2: of this book and understand it, then anybody can. And
- 8:05Speaker 2: that's what I want is I want everybody to be
- 8:07Speaker 2: able to improve themselves, whether it's mental or physical, to
- 8:11Speaker 2: achieve the most that they can achieve and reach their
- 8:14Speaker 2: personal ceiling.
- 8:16Speaker 1: And to grow with it and to teach it. I mean,
- 8:17Speaker 1: because that's the thing about it is that if you're
- 8:19Speaker 1: not teaching it, what did you learn along the way? Yeah,
- 8:23Speaker 1: we've got to.
- 8:24Speaker 2: I think we're I think we're obligated as humans when
- 8:27Speaker 2: we achieve any sort of success, we have to show
- 8:31Speaker 2: others how we achieve that success, because if we just
- 8:34Speaker 2: keep that knowledge to ourselves, like, what fun is that? Like?
- 8:37Speaker 2: What fun is it to be like rich and not
- 8:41Speaker 2: share the wealth and not bring the people up around you?
- 8:46Speaker 2: What do they say? Rising tides lift all ships? And knowledge?
- 8:50Speaker 2: It is such an important function of where we are
- 8:54Speaker 2: as humans that sharing that knowledge. It's it's like we're
- 8:58Speaker 2: giving everybody money.
- 9:00Speaker 1: Please do not move. There's more with Santino DiFranco coming
- 9:03Speaker 1: up next. The name of the book Fight Ready, How
- 9:08Speaker 1: to Get Fit, Lose weight and kick ass and everything
- 9:11Speaker 1: you do. We are back with MMA Fighter Santino DiFranco.
- 9:16Speaker 1: You give kudos to Kamala Kirk and Tracy Cortez. Good job, dude,
- 9:19Speaker 1: because you know, you got to recognize these people as
- 9:21Speaker 1: the mentors that they are because they need that inspiration too.
- 9:24Speaker 1: They still have those valley floors like the rest of us.
- 9:26Speaker 1: And it's little things like this that become huge things
- 9:29Speaker 1: in their own personal lives.
- 9:31Speaker 2: Yeah, Tracy. You know, I've trained Tracy since she was
- 9:34Speaker 2: an amateur, and you know, I've watched her grow up
- 9:37Speaker 2: and I've watched her progress and become successful. And I
- 9:41Speaker 2: remember before she made her UFCJB, she was panicking. She
- 9:44Speaker 2: was freaking out. She didn't think that she could do it.
- 9:47Speaker 2: She was like mentally like she We had a conversation says,
- 9:50Speaker 2: I can't do it. I'm not ready, I'm not ready.
- 9:52Speaker 2: I'm not ready. And I told her, I said, you're
- 9:54Speaker 2: absolutely ready. I said, with all of the weight that
- 9:57Speaker 2: you have on you right now, I said, I pile
- 10:00Speaker 2: on a thousand more pounds on top, because I know
- 10:04Speaker 2: that you're still going to get it done. And seeing
- 10:07Speaker 2: these people become successful, Kamuela and Tracy are literally why
- 10:11Speaker 2: I stayed in the sport as long as I did.
- 10:13Speaker 2: I at one point had received a couple of really
- 10:16Speaker 2: good offers to get out of MMA and to go
- 10:18Speaker 2: do some other things, and I almost took them. And
- 10:22Speaker 2: the reason I didn't is because of Tracy and Kamuela.
- 10:25Speaker 2: I said, I have got to see these two through.
- 10:28Speaker 2: I've got to get them to the UFC. This is
- 10:30Speaker 2: their goal, this is what they need to do, and
- 10:32Speaker 2: it was my obligation to get them there. And I
- 10:35Speaker 2: got them both there and I was like, Okay, now
- 10:37Speaker 2: I'm good. If they stay there, it's on them, like
- 10:40Speaker 2: I did my part, you know, but I had to
- 10:43Speaker 2: do that, and I had to see those guys through,
- 10:45Speaker 2: and I've had to see it through with a lot
- 10:48Speaker 2: of the fighters because these are husbands, these are father
- 10:52Speaker 2: you know, fathers to children. These are good humans that
- 10:56Speaker 2: need help to get to where they need to go,
- 11:00Speaker 2: to support their families, to achieve their goals. And that's
- 11:03Speaker 2: always been a lot of fun and I take personal
- 11:06Speaker 2: pride in that.
- 11:07Speaker 1: Well yeah, and you know how it is because you
- 11:08Speaker 1: being an instructor and I'm may be going too far here,
- 11:10Speaker 1: but you know how it is. You've got the perfect
- 11:12Speaker 1: student that's still in high school or they're in middle school.
- 11:15Speaker 1: But the problem is, though, once they graduate, it feels
- 11:17Speaker 1: like that's when we need to be in there with
- 11:19Speaker 1: the disciplines because they're going out there into the real
- 11:22Speaker 1: world and they're making real world mistakes, and it's like,
- 11:25Speaker 1: oh my god, am I supposed to let them make
- 11:27Speaker 1: that real world mistake and let them grow from it,
- 11:29Speaker 1: Because I'm kind of pulled in all directions with that.
- 11:32Speaker 1: Because our students, when they grow beyond their education, they
- 11:36Speaker 1: think they can take on the world. Yeah.
- 11:40Speaker 2: I've seen so many people who have had situations like
- 11:45Speaker 2: I had growing up. And I had kind of a
- 11:47Speaker 2: you know, it was a rougher upbringing, you know, and
- 11:52Speaker 2: I didn't really have a lot. And I see these
- 11:54Speaker 2: kids who don't have a lot, but they want something.
- 11:58Speaker 2: They want there's a goal and there's a drive, but
- 12:01Speaker 2: they don't necessarily know how to get there because they've
- 12:04Speaker 2: never really had the adults in their lives to teach
- 12:08Speaker 2: them good habits, to teach them how to do this stuff,
- 12:10Speaker 2: to teach them how to be good humans and functional humans.
- 12:14Speaker 2: And so I've always had we only know what we know, right,
- 12:18Speaker 2: and we're only exposed to what we've been exposed to.
- 12:22Speaker 2: And you see some of these people and you want
- 12:26Speaker 2: to guide them because you see where they're at, and
- 12:28Speaker 2: you see that they're good people, and you see that
- 12:30Speaker 2: they can be successful, and you know, just like our kids,
- 12:34Speaker 2: like you said, like, my fifteen year old knows everything
- 12:37Speaker 2: there is to know about everything on the planet, right,
- 12:40Speaker 2: but we as adults know they don't really know what
- 12:43Speaker 2: they're doing and they're really not ready for the world.
- 12:46Speaker 2: And you know, I think we have to. I think
- 12:49Speaker 2: we have to help teach the youth, whether it's a
- 12:52Speaker 2: fifteen year old kid or a twenty three year old kid,
- 12:56Speaker 2: if they haven't had the guidance in their life, we
- 12:58Speaker 2: have to guide them.
- 13:00Speaker 1: And and to me, you know where that starts when
- 13:02Speaker 1: they go, oh, show me a martial arts move? Why?
- 13:05Speaker 1: Why why do you want to do that? You know,
- 13:07Speaker 1: are you going to incorporate it into your job to
- 13:09Speaker 1: where you can, you know, have a better day and
- 13:11Speaker 1: you can become a better leader through it. And they go, no, man,
- 13:14Speaker 1: I just want to kick someone's ass. No, that whoa, whoa, whoa.
- 13:16Speaker 1: That's not what we're trained And that's what I love
- 13:18Speaker 1: about your book. That's not how we're trained and what
- 13:21Speaker 1: we're trained to do.
- 13:23Speaker 2: Yeah, we're It all depends on the goal. I say
- 13:27Speaker 2: this again and again and again. The goal is the
- 13:30Speaker 2: defining everything. And like you said, why do you want
- 13:34Speaker 2: to learn that? Well, the why is the answer to
- 13:37Speaker 2: the why is the goal, Well, I want to achieve this,
- 13:40Speaker 2: I want to do that. I want to do this.
- 13:42Speaker 2: The goal and if we have a goal, everything else
- 13:46Speaker 2: around us will gravitate toward that goal. If we have
- 13:49Speaker 2: a negative goal, if we want to do bad things
- 13:51Speaker 2: in life, we will find a way to do those
- 13:53Speaker 2: bad things. And if we want to do good things
- 13:55Speaker 2: in life, and that is our goal, our personal goal,
- 13:58Speaker 2: not for outside you know, of money or fame or
- 14:01Speaker 2: to make our parents happy, but our actual goal. Everything
- 14:06Speaker 2: that we do is going to go into that goal.
- 14:08Speaker 2: And we will move mountains to reach that.
- 14:11Speaker 1: Oh my god, you're speaking my language. Oh my god. Yeah,
- 14:14Speaker 1: because it's sobbing. IM used to look at me and say,
- 14:16Speaker 1: when you take down the mountain, it's one rock at
- 14:20Speaker 1: a time, one push up at a time, dude. And
- 14:23Speaker 1: you know what, in the business world, that's exactly how
- 14:26Speaker 1: I handle stress or anxiety. One rock at a time.
- 14:30Speaker 1: And see, and your book is all about that.
- 14:33Speaker 2: Yeah, I say that. I don't say one rock at
- 14:36Speaker 2: a time, I say one step at a time, because yeah,
- 14:39Speaker 2: I use the analogy of a race. And you know,
- 14:42Speaker 2: we all start strong, we're all motivated and happy and
- 14:44Speaker 2: excited to get going, but that excitement wears off, and
- 14:48Speaker 2: you know, the last you know, five percent, the last
- 14:51Speaker 2: mile of your marathon, we're all excited to hey, we're motivated.
- 14:54Speaker 2: We can push through. It's that middle ground where you've
- 14:58Speaker 2: just got to keep your head down and go one
- 14:59Speaker 2: foot in front of the other, one foot in front
- 15:01Speaker 2: of the other. And when you've gone far enough to think, hey,
- 15:03Speaker 2: I should look up and see if that goal is insight,
- 15:07Speaker 2: zip it. Put your head back down and just keep
- 15:09Speaker 2: going one foot in front of the other, one foot
- 15:11Speaker 2: in front of the other. And if we do that
- 15:14Speaker 2: over and over and over again, eventually we find success.
- 15:17Speaker 2: You know, if you put a dollar in the bank
- 15:20Speaker 2: every day, not one hundred dollars because oh, we can't
- 15:23Speaker 2: all afford one hundred dollars, and that adds up too quickly.
- 15:26Speaker 2: If we put a dollar in the bank every day,
- 15:28Speaker 2: and we do that again and again and again and again,
- 15:30Speaker 2: eventually we have a lot more money, and we have
- 15:33Speaker 2: compounding interest. And these things occur in bulk and mass,
- 15:37Speaker 2: but not one year, five year, ten years, it's twenty thirty,
- 15:41Speaker 2: forty years later that interest explodes. But we've got to
- 15:46Speaker 2: put a dollar in a day. We've got to do
- 15:48Speaker 2: a little bit every single day. And when things get hard,
- 15:52Speaker 2: we can't panic. You just got to wake up and
- 15:55Speaker 2: keep putting one foot in front of the other. And
- 15:57Speaker 2: when things are easy and we like the way that
- 15:59Speaker 2: we're going, don't sprint, don't get excited, don't know because
- 16:03Speaker 2: we're going to run out of energy. We're going to
- 16:05Speaker 2: run out of guess. Just keep one foot in front
- 16:07Speaker 2: of the other and keep pace.
- 16:09Speaker 1: Is that the reason that you start off chapter one
- 16:11Speaker 1: and of all chapters, and it's the best place you
- 16:13Speaker 1: talk about the delusion because we have these delusions of
- 16:16Speaker 1: what it's supposed to be and what we want to do.
- 16:18Speaker 1: We have these goals, but we have this delusion we
- 16:20Speaker 1: think we're going to take this shortcut. No, if you're
- 16:23Speaker 1: going to become a grand master, whatever you do in life,
- 16:25Speaker 1: you got to do it, like you said, one step
- 16:27Speaker 1: at a time. Yeah, you have to.
- 16:30Speaker 2: You have to be delusional and you have to do
- 16:32Speaker 2: things you know momentarily because if we're not delusional, we're
- 16:36Speaker 2: never going to achieve anything right, because the law of
- 16:40Speaker 2: averages says that we're going to be average, because that's
- 16:45Speaker 2: how the world works. I mean, there's literally a mathematical
- 16:48Speaker 2: law that states we're not going to be exceptional, and
- 16:52Speaker 2: you have to fight against that average. The law of
- 16:56Speaker 2: averages is your enemy. If you want to be successful,
- 16:59Speaker 2: you've got to for your way through that. And if
- 17:02Speaker 2: we let everybody look, when we're kids, right, all our
- 17:05Speaker 2: parents say, oh, you could be an astronaut, you can
- 17:07Speaker 2: be president, you can be this, like they give us
- 17:10Speaker 2: these hopes and dreams. Then as we're graduating in high school,
- 17:13Speaker 2: everyone's like, well, you better get a job, don't be
- 17:15Speaker 2: an artist, Like you're not gonna make it. Like that's silly.
- 17:18Speaker 2: Don't you know you're not gonna make the NFL, You're
- 17:21Speaker 2: not gonna make it to D one sports, You're not
- 17:23Speaker 2: gonna If we listen to all of the stuff that said,
- 17:26Speaker 2: we're not gonna make it wherever we want to go,
- 17:28Speaker 2: we're not going to make it anywhere. So we've got
- 17:30Speaker 2: to fight against that. The least little bit of glimmer
- 17:34Speaker 2: of hope that we have is to think we can
- 17:37Speaker 2: achieve it, and then at least we're going to work
- 17:39Speaker 2: toward that. We might not achieve it, but we're going
- 17:41Speaker 2: to get is a heck of a lot higher and
- 17:44Speaker 2: closer to that goal than we will if we think
- 17:46Speaker 2: we can't, what do they say, shoot for the stars,
- 17:49Speaker 2: you just might hit the moon or so.
- 17:51Speaker 1: True, so true. This is one of those books where
- 17:53Speaker 1: that readers need to tell their doctor that they're doing it.
- 17:55Speaker 1: And the reason why is because my doctor does that.
- 17:57Speaker 1: Now what book are you reading? Because he knows. I
- 18:00Speaker 1: take this stuff very literal, especially when it comes to
- 18:02Speaker 1: losing weight. If you if their doctor knows what they're
- 18:05Speaker 1: doing inside this book, then he's not going to sit
- 18:07Speaker 1: there and say, well, I have to take this test.
- 18:09Speaker 1: I have to take this test. I have to take
- 18:10Speaker 1: this test. Know that you're changing your mind, body, and
- 18:13Speaker 1: soul and share it with those that you hire to
- 18:16Speaker 1: take care of your mind, body and soul.
- 18:20Speaker 2: Yeah, if you want, like you said, with your doctor,
- 18:22Speaker 2: what is your doctor saying, what are you doing? If
- 18:26Speaker 2: you want to be successful, if you want to lose weight,
- 18:28Speaker 2: if you want to get strong, you have to just
- 18:30Speaker 2: do stuff in moderation again and again and again and again.
- 18:34Speaker 2: And if you were to bring this book to your doctor,
- 18:37Speaker 2: he would he or she would read it and go,
- 18:40Speaker 2: oh wow, this makes sense. It's nothing crazy, it's nothing.
- 18:45Speaker 2: What's funny is it's not instagrammable. You know, like it's
- 18:48Speaker 2: not overly controversial, it's it's like simple in the sense
- 18:53Speaker 2: where we're not trying to reinvent the wheel. We're trying
- 18:55Speaker 2: to bring you guys back to what actually works. And
- 18:59Speaker 2: the gimmicks and these fad diets and these crazy workouts
- 19:03Speaker 2: and honestly, you know, not to put them down, but
- 19:06Speaker 2: the date, the David Goggins intensity of the world. Look,
- 19:10Speaker 2: that's really instagrammable. That's not realistic for most people, and
- 19:15Speaker 2: it's too much, and honestly, like, you don't need to
- 19:18Speaker 2: be David Goggins to get in shape, to be successful,
- 19:22Speaker 2: to have a good family, to have a good life,
- 19:25Speaker 2: you need to have moderation and consistency, and moderation is
- 19:29Speaker 2: the key to success. Again. The tortoise and the hair
- 19:32Speaker 2: who won the race?
- 19:33Speaker 1: All right?
- 19:34Speaker 2: The hair went too fast, too soon, tired out, took
- 19:37Speaker 2: a nap, and that tortoise just one foot in front
- 19:39Speaker 2: of the other, one rocket a time, you know, ended
- 19:42Speaker 2: up winning the race.
- 19:43Speaker 1: Dude, you got to come back to this show anytime
- 19:45Speaker 1: in the future. Twenty minutes with you is never going
- 19:47Speaker 1: to be enough. Man, not with two martial artists.
- 19:48Speaker 2: Hell no, man ah I appreciate it. Thanks for having me,
- 19:53Speaker 2: Thanks Charlotte. For my sister lives in Charlotte. I need
- 19:55Speaker 2: to tell her to come take a listen and bring
- 19:57Speaker 2: you guys some lunch. Oh.
- 19:59Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. Man. Will you be
- 20:01Speaker 1: brilliant today?
- 20:02Speaker 2: Okay, sir, I appreciate it. You too,