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90 Day Fiancé Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 14 “Prepare for Immediate Descent” · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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  Speaker 1: Hi Loves, Welcome back to Vanity. Farah. My name is
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  Speaker 1: Chris Farah, and today we are talking about, Oh, the
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  Speaker 1: Stamby of Stambys. It's ninety Day Fiance before the ninety
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  Speaker 1: Days season eight. Next one's gonna be like, please secure
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  Speaker 1: those transformations that we just watched and how their lives
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  Speaker 1: Though so at the same time, obviously, esthetically a huge
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  Speaker 1: So if you're into that, that's what's happening at the
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  Speaker 1: same time at Babes. I'm going to start with Anna.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna start with Annie and Javon, so I'm excited
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  Speaker 1: to talk about them because, you know what, here's the thing. Anna.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why I keep calling her. I go
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  Speaker 1: back and forth between Anna and Anni Land because she
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  Speaker 1: goes Analin sometimes and I feel like there's an e,
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  Speaker 1: but it's really Anna, so Analin, Anna and Javon. Obviously,
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  Speaker 1: Anna is really a lovely, funny person when she's not
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  Speaker 1: being weighed down by the personality of like a wet blanket.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's interesting. He he's not a funny one.
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  Speaker 1: He's not a quick one. He's barely charming. You know.
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  Speaker 1: I wonder what it is other than the fact that
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  Speaker 1: he is marginally attractive and tall, and you know, I
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  Speaker 1: think that he does maybe just like smile at her,
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  Speaker 1: and she's like, that's enough. But sometimes she knows it's
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  Speaker 1: not enough, and I think that's when she like speaks up.
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  Speaker 1: And when she speaks up, it comes out like angry, upset, combative,
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  Speaker 1: and it's because I think her soul wants more. But
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  Speaker 1: you know that's just me. She wished me a happy
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  Speaker 1: birthday my DM, so I mean, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 1: She really is a nice lady. And so I hope
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  Speaker 1: that she's not mad at anything. I say, I hope
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  Speaker 1: you no. I you know, I get obviously anxiety when
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  Speaker 1: I hear that anyone listens or watches me, because I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, don't be mad. But anyway, she's a
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  Speaker 1: lovely person. Obviously her mom is spectacular, and this, I
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  Speaker 1: mean this episode also shows us like how spectacular her
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  Speaker 1: mom is. Her mom is just amazing. And I will
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  Speaker 1: say that. She says that she also knows how great
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  Speaker 1: her mom is. I DMed her and I said, I
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  Speaker 1: love your mom. She's too pure for this world. She said,
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  Speaker 1: she's the best, too sweet and too good. I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I always had to protect her. Now. It's funny
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  Speaker 1: because she sent me that DM before I watched this episode,
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  Speaker 1: and then when I watched this episode, I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: you probably did have to like unfortunately, protect your mom
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  Speaker 1: and see things. Since she shared what she did. Then
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  Speaker 1: I just wish that no one did, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to you know, God bless so okay, so
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  Speaker 1: my loves we pick up honey with them. After that
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  Speaker 1: pink pony petticure club fight, a pink pony pedicure club fight,
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  Speaker 1: it would have been great. Should have just been a scrub,
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  Speaker 1: you know, a little massage. It should have been so
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  Speaker 1: lovely for both of them. It should have been healing
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  Speaker 1: for him in so many ways. To think that he
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  Speaker 1: came to the Philippines with them smelling ass feet and
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  Speaker 1: then he's like, I'm gonna do her a favor. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna be nice to her, gonna be romantic for her,
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  Speaker 1: and just take them both to a pedicure, which is
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  Speaker 1: what you should be doing. Anyway. Seems like that's that's hygiene.
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  Speaker 1: That's not romance. I want to give grace for graces.
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  Speaker 1: It's just that that's, yeah, that's hygiene. And you've already
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  Speaker 1: established that, like you need that is. Remember how in
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  Speaker 1: I don't know my youth or in the nineties, there'd
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  Speaker 1: be this thing where like husbands would give wives like
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  Speaker 1: vacuum cleaners things like that for like their birthdays, and
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  Speaker 1: I would be like, fuck you, it's obviously than a
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  Speaker 1: vacuum cleaner. But it's kind of the same thing. It's like, well, Budy,
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  Speaker 1: you needed the pedicure, and we already like she gets pedicures.
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  Speaker 1: That's her upkeep. She knows that that's like what humans do,
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  Speaker 1: like they take care of theirselves, their bodies and you
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  Speaker 1: know whatnot I'm not saying every person needs to get
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  Speaker 1: a pedicure, but I'm saying every person has to pedicure
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  Speaker 1: their feet. So if they're not doing it, someone has
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  Speaker 1: to so you don't have to pay someone. But if
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  Speaker 1: he's not doing it, then it should get done. And
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  Speaker 1: the fact that it's getting done is not romantic at
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  Speaker 1: this point. It's fixing a wrong. It's a necessity. It
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  Speaker 1: is like, you know, because she's getting massages anyway once
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  Speaker 1: a week, so you know, it isn't like, oh, how
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  Speaker 1: romantic for you to get me a pedicure. We're you know,
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  Speaker 1: not every person, but a lot of females who get
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  Speaker 1: duty treatments, they get pedicures. It's not one of the
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  Speaker 1: like hard to get ones. Pedicures and manicures are a
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  Speaker 1: little like the easiest things to get. You go up
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  Speaker 1: from there, it goes Petticare's panicures. Massages can be obviously expensive,
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  Speaker 1: they can also be cheap, you know, depends on where.
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  Speaker 1: So a facial like a high end massage, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like maybe. But so she is upset, and we get
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  Speaker 1: this producer moment because I can't imagine it's really gonna
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  Speaker 1: happen where she's like going to maybe like leave him
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  Speaker 1: in the middle of who you know, this pin pony club,
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  Speaker 1: petticure place, but where he's not really going to be,
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  Speaker 1: you know, left there. She's not that kind of person.
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  Speaker 1: She's waited like this whole time for him to come.
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  Speaker 1: For some reason, our lovely Filipino ladies have just been
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  Speaker 1: waiting vision and hope and praying for these like tall
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  Speaker 1: yet daft Americans Forest and Javon to like get their
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  Speaker 1: asset to the Philippines, and they never show up correct.
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  Speaker 1: They never come correct. Doesn't feel like either of these
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  Speaker 1: men like understand the assignment. If I'm just gonna like
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  Speaker 1: dive deep into the millennial lingo. So then it's like
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  Speaker 1: this thing where she's like, I'm going to get a
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  Speaker 1: taxi and we're like okay, and she's like just kidding.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna make the taxi go back and pick up
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  Speaker 1: my husband. I'm not that mean, we're like we know,
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  Speaker 1: you know anyway, So then she does and they go
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  Speaker 1: home and then you know, mom's there. Mom has to
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  Speaker 1: open the door and she has to hear you know,
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  Speaker 1: Yanni come in upset and it makes me, it makes
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  Speaker 1: her upset. She's like, not may Anna, and she's like,
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  Speaker 1: how's mama's baby? Listen. This is why I love her mom.
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  Speaker 1: Her mom shows love by like touch and affection. She's
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  Speaker 1: like very obviously affectionate and warm, and she's just very loving.
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  Speaker 1: Oh the broken promises this scene, there's like this silent,
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  Speaker 1: knowing pain that her mom sometimes feels like I read,
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  Speaker 1: which is I don't know if you guys think I'm crazy,
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  Speaker 1: just tell me if you think this too. Sometimes with
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  Speaker 1: her mom and her she's just like, baby, I know,
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  Speaker 1: men aren't shit, baby, I know. Listen, if this one
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  Speaker 1: makes you happy, just grin and bear and tolerate whatever
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  Speaker 1: you gotta do because you're so fabulous. I think that
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  Speaker 1: you think there's going to be someone to like be
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  Speaker 1: cute or be funny, or be nice or be sweet
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  Speaker 1: or have fun with. And he's just not that. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: he's not that, and he's sinking deeper and deeper into myself.
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  Speaker 1: Believe you listen to just Stebe Wonder songs, maybe your baby.
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  Speaker 1: He just seems to be wanting to find the negative
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  Speaker 1: in the relationship to like either be like, this is
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  Speaker 1: why I haven't come already, or this is why the
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  Speaker 1: podcasts about the manisphere is right, this is why it's
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  Speaker 1: hard for me to find love because women are angry
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  Speaker 1: and women don't want to dessert power or give power
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  Speaker 1: or whatever it is. And I think that, yeah, it's
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  Speaker 1: hard for men to understand that, like not coming for
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  Speaker 1: that many years and just show up and being like
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  Speaker 1: you should just be happy. I'm here. It was hard
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  Speaker 1: and you make it hard. Is like a really shitty
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  Speaker 1: attitude for someone you're supposed to like be in love
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  Speaker 1: with and want to be with. And yeah, I think
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  Speaker 1: that there's a part of him that maybe has been
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  Speaker 1: told over and over again. But your attitude is shitty,
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  Speaker 1: like you're never happy, you're never excited, it's just so
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  Speaker 1: whole hum everything is so like it's like Eore but
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  Speaker 1: on top of you, or like an angry Eore is
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  Speaker 1: what his energy is. And I mean I said the
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  Speaker 1: following things like he is attractive physically, he has again
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  Speaker 1: a bad personality, which makes that hard to deal with.
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  Speaker 1: He's just not like a he's not like a charming
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  Speaker 1: or cool person and I've never heard him say anything
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  Speaker 1: like nerdy or funny or about her that's like really
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  Speaker 1: specific or nuanced. Are true, I'm happy that he treated
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  Speaker 1: her mom well. So after this conversation with her mom,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and you know, God bless her mom is like,
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  Speaker 1: you're you got to just figure out what you want.
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  Speaker 1: If you want him, you got to just get your
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  Speaker 1: hopes a little dashed, honey, bring those expectations down. And
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  Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, I mean I do want to be married.
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  Speaker 1: And she's like, well, then yeah, you got to take
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  Speaker 1: down your pride, which is hard to say. And pride
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  Speaker 1: is one thing and then there's another thing where I'm sure,
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  Speaker 1: Like you know, Anna, I was just like, I also
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  Speaker 1: just want him to be happy in public. I want
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  Speaker 1: to have a good time sometimes. I want to. I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: just experienced joy with someone. It's hard to be like
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  Speaker 1: you guys have never spent time together and now you're
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  Speaker 1: in the same space, and I don't feel like you guys.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't feel that kind of forever
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  Speaker 1: Kindred Spirit our souls are aligned. It's just that you're
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  Speaker 1: really beautiful and he's so sad and depressed. And I
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  Speaker 1: think it's really easy to have like a lovely, beautiful
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  Speaker 1: wife and then be able to like say that you
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  Speaker 1: have that, you know, when you can't make things work
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  Speaker 1: in America. I just don't know. I wish I could
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  Speaker 1: say that I feel really great about them, but I
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  Speaker 1: feel like me and her mom doesn't. So your mom, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I okay, let me say this, so like I wonder
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  Speaker 1: how this shakes out. So basically, they have a conversation
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  Speaker 1: where she apologizes and then he's like, Okay, I won't
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  Speaker 1: be sarcastic or arrogant anymore. And we're like, oh, okay,
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  Speaker 1: are you gonna stop listening to those podcasts? Are you
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  Speaker 1: gonna be like you know what, let me take accountability
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  Speaker 1: for having married someone and then just pretending that you know,
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  Speaker 1: I never did, and then I never really tried to
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  Speaker 1: make you feel like safeer secure in this relationship being abroad.
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  Speaker 1: I emotionally cheated on you with someone that I had
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  Speaker 1: feelings for and then use that against you to make
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  Speaker 1: you feel like you deserved it. I'm sorry about that.
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  Speaker 1: That's not something a husband would do. I mean, those
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  Speaker 1: manis Fair podcasts would have a field day with that too.
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  Speaker 1: But I mean, you know it's like but he doesn't
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  Speaker 1: think that. In fact, you know that he likes it
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  Speaker 1: still because he brought up the like you can't get
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  Speaker 1: too comfortable. And the weird thing is is that I
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  Speaker 1: feel like he is too comfortable with her, and I
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  Speaker 1: feel like he chose a woman that he doesn't have
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  Speaker 1: to deal with on a day to day land to
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  Speaker 1: land basis because it would be comfortable for him. I yeah,
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  Speaker 1: this kind of like in cell behavior, like really scared
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  Speaker 1: of like the day to day of being with someone
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  Speaker 1: is really interesting, Like I really there is a podcast, sorry,
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  Speaker 1: there is a well, of course there's a podcast. There
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  Speaker 1: is a documentary on Netflix right now about this, and
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  Speaker 1: I really want to watch it because I do find
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  Speaker 1: it fascinating of wanting so bad to be accepted, to
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  Speaker 1: be loved, and having such insecurities that you block your
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  Speaker 1: chances of like having love, acceptance, a family, a companion,
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  Speaker 1: a relationship in your life, and then it further like
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  Speaker 1: makes you upset because there's like one thing for like
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  Speaker 1: in cells to be like really unattractive or you know,
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  Speaker 1: unable to talk to women. But you know he isn't.
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  Speaker 1: He just feels so lazy and so like defensive over
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  Speaker 1: change of his behavior of any way, Like he doesn't
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  Speaker 1: feel like he wants to soften for a woman or
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  Speaker 1: wants to make a woman much less anna like feel good,
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  Speaker 1: like feel good around him. He doesn't he wants to
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  Speaker 1: like soften the blows for his day to day life.
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  Speaker 1: And that's why I feel like the Ping Pony Club
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  Speaker 1: pedicure was like little lack luster. You know, like if
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  Speaker 1: you if you are just coming to this country and
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  Speaker 1: you are just meeting this beautiful wife for the first time,
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  Speaker 1: like something romantic would be something romantic like taking her
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  Speaker 1: to a beautiful dinner or away or something, or like
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  Speaker 1: treating her something or something specific to her or her life,
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  Speaker 1: you know, not just like the place that she usually
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  Speaker 1: goes to get her like weekly pedicure. Yeah, I would
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  Speaker 1: love to know like what her dating history is. It's
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  Speaker 1: so interesting because obviously we get two people that are
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  Speaker 1: Americans going to the Philippines in the same season with
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  Speaker 1: Forest and Shena, and on this we're going to move
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  Speaker 1: on to Forest and China. Now obviously we're getting a
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  Speaker 1: lot of information on how Forest and Sheena could potentially
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  Speaker 1: just go to the Philippines or be stay in the
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  Speaker 1: Philippines and get married. And Javon's never brought that up.
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  Speaker 1: And remember how like he talked about how he knows
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  Speaker 1: he has a small dick and like a small income
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  Speaker 1: and like how things aren't working out for him. I
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  Speaker 1: would just think, you know, you have like this beautiful
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  Speaker 1: wife and she has a home, and her mom has
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  Speaker 1: a home right next door. The mom is great, mom
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  Speaker 1: has a shop. Move there. Then take care of the
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: old folks in there. You can make that mint lemonade
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  Speaker 1: here if you want. You know, I don't know. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So Forest and Shina, Oh today, Oh, I want to
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  Speaker 1: say one more thing about Aneline and Javon, even though
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: I said everything I did about him, which was mean
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  Speaker 1: and like or whatever, I'm not interested and he's not
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  Speaker 1: for me. She ends this episode very much being like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm in him, I'm real into it.
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you we fought and then he told me
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  Speaker 1: that he wasn't going to be arrogant or sarcastic anymore.
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  Speaker 1: And then I hugged him and he smelled it was
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  Speaker 1: sweaty and We're like, yeah, girl, And then she could
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: not take her hands away from like her nose in
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: a very like Mary Kathy Gallagher kind of way. And
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about like superstar old reference she and then
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  Speaker 1: in the Confessionals she was like all over him. There's
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  Speaker 1: a part of her that like really loves this man.
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  Speaker 1: I mean even after the fight, she's like, yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: start to look hot. I wonder if he knows like
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  Speaker 1: what to do with her. I feel like an every
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  Speaker 1: moment he must be like playing dodgeball, because I think
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  Speaker 1: that one part of him is like I cannot believe
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  Speaker 1: this really beautiful, feisty lady like has interest in me
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  Speaker 1: and why over and over again. And b she's probably
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: scares the hell out of him because she's very smart
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  Speaker 1: and he's he's he's just lazy. He has a lazy
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  Speaker 1: quality to him. It's like he's just it's not slow
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  Speaker 1: in the way of like slow. I'm not saying he's dumb.
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  Speaker 1: He's just like he's just legato in his energy, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like but to legato, like you know, he's like a
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  Speaker 1: brown noise, you know that just is And she is
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  Speaker 1: all over the place frequency wise, you know, she's almost
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: like an Irish accent. She starts appear and goes down there,
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: you know, she's and so they are very opposite and
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  Speaker 1: in that alone, I just don't know how it's going
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  Speaker 1: to last. Also, yeah, like they just met and like
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  Speaker 1: you know, they barely tolerate each other, and I can't
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  Speaker 1: quite tell if they like each other at all. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I think that she's physically attracted to him, and I
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  Speaker 1: think that he wishes that he could be enough for
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  Speaker 1: someone like her. Is that is? Is that it? I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Forrest and Sheena. So you know, they're hailing
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: a taxi. You know, it's like again you know, different
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: modes of transpotassion in Philippines. This is going to be
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: a jipney. They're on the way to see a lawyer. Now,
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: this is where we get a lot of Forrest did
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: not do his legwork, and I find that so wild
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: because here he is, here's Mollie who acts like his
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: caretaker slash lawyer slash like doctor, power of attorney like
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: you know mother, you know all of that. That's who
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: she is, matchmaker, like, that's who Molly's energy comes with.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: And this conversation with the lawyer is so unbelievable that
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: forced found out information that is basic that he didn't
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: know that I can't tolerate it quite here. So monetary wise,
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: we understand that we had been set up to believe
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: the following. Sina has a job, great job, makes money,
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: puts money that she can into a savings account. That
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: savings account has gone up and down. Now here is
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: why a Forrest thinks that Sheena should have the brunt
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: of the entire responsibility to get her to America and
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: pay the fees so they could be together. He and
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: her talked about when that would happen, and she said
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: this and this and that. She didn't tell him that
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: she also gives money to her family. And she also
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: didn't tell Forest, buddy, you're going to give some money too, though, right,
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: like your due diligence of the money. Right. Because she
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: feels bad for Forrest because Forrest has God bless autism.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: Now I'm not saying she should feel bad, but that's
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: what I think she is happening. At the same time,
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: she is neurodivergent because they met in that group. So
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: she is like, buddy, get a job. I know it
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: can be hard, but like you can find something to
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: get a job. This is Sheena, I feel like talking,
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: and she has said like, there's got to be something
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: you can do, and Forrest hasn't really talked so much
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: about why he hasn't got a job until this episode.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: So of course they go to the lawyer place, and
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: the lawyer's like hey buddy. He's like, what's up. And
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: he's like, hey, hey, let me just ask you some questions.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: So what's this whole thing about getting She had to
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: America and I'm talking to a Filipino lawyer like okay,
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: Filipino lawyers like yeah, well, you know you need twenty
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: six thousand dollars as at the petitioner and that's the
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: income you need per year. And we're like, oh that's
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: not that's it. It seems like a small amount. He's like, okay,
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: cool income. Let me tell you bout my income. I
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: get disability and they're like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, doesn't
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: count as income. And Forrest didn't know that. He thought
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: it did. Now, income like meeting the money that you're getting.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I could see how he thought that money he was
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: getting was incoming to his life and therefore his bank
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: account and incoming income. But this part doesn't make me
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: feel like real Republican. Yeah, like whatever, but it's like
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: in my mind, you have to understand that if you
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: are American and you're saying you're going to bring someone
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: from a different country to come and move and live
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: in America, you have to like have some things to
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: make sure that, like you can you have more for
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: other people like that. It's not just you, like you're
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: you're trying to prove that like you had the capacity
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: to help and to help others bridge the journey to America.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Like that's what you're saying. You're saying, I found someone
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: from a different country. Let me be the bridge for
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: them to come to America. Uh, that bridge has to
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: be like financially stable. And the thing about disability and
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: stuff like that is that I don't know, you know,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: with unemployment and disability, I'm not exactly sure like how
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: forever they are all the time. Like I don't think
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: the country wants to always be like that's a forever
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: thing for the rest of your life. So always count
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: on it. In fact, count on it so heartily that
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: if you have extra of what we're giving you, you
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: can go ahead and just like bring people in from
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: different places. It's just like a it's not a great look.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: And I'm someone who you know, fuck ice, Like I
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: want people to have the ability to come to America.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, if you're going to be petitioning to
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: be like the sponsor of someone, I think you have
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: to have like the wherewithal that you are going to
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: be a provider at that point, like any American, regardless
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: of sex, is going to provide they're loved ones. The
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: bridge of like coming and living now in your home
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: and like what you're doing. It'd be the same thing,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: you know, I would like as we go into this
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: conversation with the lawyer, it's not just the Americans. If
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: I was moving to England, if I was Greta and Matthew,
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I would assume Matthew would have to have an income.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Matthew can't just be like, well, England gives me twenty
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: six thousand dollars a year for disability. Guess what, it's
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: five thousand more than I need. So I can just
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: use that five k all documented to get someone else
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: to just come live on an English dime. You know,
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: Like no, no, now, Sheena has a whole less job.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: We know that, But She's job is in the Philippines.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: So all of Forest not knowing this and as well
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: as Mollie not making sure that her son find out
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: any of the rules of this but making sure that
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: he put all of the emphasis on Sheena being the
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: financial provider, is weird to me. Mollie's indignant attitude about
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: Sheena's money makes me now be wary of Molly, like
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: as a financial schemer, that's crazy. Forest hears, Okay, I
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: need twenty six thousand dollars a year. Okay, I hear that. Okay,
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: And you say my disability doesn't count. Okay, Okay, Well
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: does her money count? No, Like, okay, I need Mollie
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: to I need Molly to make sure that Forrest understands
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: what a visa is and what is expected of him.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: And I know that processing could be and you know
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: it can be a challenge. So I want her to
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: focus on getting these basics right before she starts putting
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: her nose into people's finances, like how Sheena spends her
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: money from being a doctor. Mollie should be like, hey, Forrest,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: you know obviously I tell you that you need me,
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: that you have to go to Philippines, and I have
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: to be there because you can't, you know, handle yourself.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Let me is, buddy, make sure you know she is
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: going to come to America. You have to be able
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: to have money. She can't work for like two years,
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: one year until the green card comes. You have to
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: provide money for both of you guys to eat, to sleep,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: all of it. And it's more expensive in America than
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: it is in Philippines. These are the numbers. These are
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: literally the numbers. Here are some numbers you make whenever,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: how I'm make you make whenever. The difference between your
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: disability and this is this. You can't even count the disability.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: So we're gonna have to make sure that you can,
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: you know, find some task rabbit services that you're good at.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: I mean, Forrest is a smart man, and he is
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: like a good soul. And I think that there are
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: so many different jobs. I wonder if we can just
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: like isolate some things can be good at, Like is
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: he good at puzzles? Would he could be put like
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: I said, task rabbit. Is he good at putting ikea
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: furniture away? Would he be good at putting ikea furniture away?
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: If he put together two or more of the same
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: basic Ikea model desks. Could you just watch YouTube videos
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: of like the schmartching for desk, you know what I'm saying.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: And then and then if you watched that YouTube video
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: on how to put together the Ikia smarching garf desk
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: fourteen times, can you then be like a task rabbit
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: and then just like help some little ladies or some
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: stupid blobbity blue college frat boys put together their smarching
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: garf desks for you know, forty dollars an hour. I mean,
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: I'm just just one. I but the fact that he
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: doesn't know these basic things makes me feel like he
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: was wronged by Molly. That they could have gotten this
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: done before they step in the plane, before they started
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: pointing fingers about Sheena's money and where it was going
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: and why she's giving it to her parents and the
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: cultural importance of that they needed to get their ducks
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: in the row, And it was what are the laws
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: about these things? What has to happen? What are my responsibilities?
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: What are her responsibilities? And we kept wondering why he
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: was skirting all of his responsibility and putting it all
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: on her. We also kept wondering why she wasn't like, hey, buddy,
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: take them take some of those responsibilities back. Why it
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: was kind of like on Sheena's dad to be like
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: tiptoeing around, like, oh, right, well, this is our daughter.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: Don't you have something going for you? You know, Molly
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: and your son Forrest, And you know, we know the
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: answer is now. But I think it's like we assumed
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: they knew the answer was no and we should change that.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: But now I realize Forrest thought the answer was, oh,
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: I need to do something as well. I don't know Molly,
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: Molly is the lost cause you know, we don't know
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: because I'm assuming Mollie understands financial stuff a little more,
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: or at least she says she does. I don't know
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: how they all live. How have they survived the entire time?
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: Like do they all just pod together her and dev
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: like and like do they just like, you know, survive
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: the winter elements together by just shivering all and using
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: body heat? I mean, I can't imagine it. I can't
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: imagine it. So basically, the FO lawyer is like, Okay,
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: I'm seeing that this conversation is blowing your mind for
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: us that you, as an American, didn't I don't know,
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: do like a Google AI lookup of like what's happening here?
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna tell you that you can avoid
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: all of this talk and worrying about how you're gonna
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: like make ends meet by just moving the Philippines. We
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: don't deal with that. You could just literally move here
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: and you just get married and be here. So it's
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: so interesting because this whole time Forrest has been like
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: low key threatening that right, right, this whole time Forrest
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: has been like I just might live in the Philippines,
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: but it's might move there with all other underwear for
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: people like me. You know, you're just like, oh. But
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: then when he painted himself in a corner by not
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: doing any homework to find out how things work here,
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: when the lawyer is like, all right, buddy, well just
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: move here, then I guess if that's what it is,
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: then Forest is like, I don't know if I can,
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: and I don't. I wasn't really thinking that that's what
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: I wanted to do. Is as much as I talk
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: the talk and I walk the walk. I love my mommy,
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: I need my mom was really deaf. I can't be
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: without death. Run Sheina run, run, Sheina run. It's just
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: that here's the thing. I get it. She is like
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: I think you know she is like I met this
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: person online. He loves me so much, he wants to
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: be with me so much. He you know, Forest not
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: only loves Sheena. They're in a codependent relationship where they
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: feel like there's you know, soulmates and they have no
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: other way about this and that each other's presence in
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: each other's lives has changed it for the better, you
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And so I know that's how
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: she feels too, And it's the other unspoken part of
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: what's real what's not, Because, like I said, a lot
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: of people thought there was a lot of fraudacity with
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: their storyline, and it's really difficult to believe that he
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: was so daft to basic visa stuff, so much so
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: that I wish the producers would make it a little
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: more believable, like unless he really has a conversation with
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Molly next where he's like, Mom, Mom, why didn't you
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: tell me that I needed to have twenty six thousand
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: dollars a year and that my disability didn't count and
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: that Sheina couldn't give me money like that seems like
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: you probably knew that, right, Why didn't you tell me that?
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: Why did you keep telling me to harp on whether
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: she was putting money into a bank account if it
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: really didn't make a difference, because I need to have
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: an income mom, like I need to have Molly answer
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: to that. I didn't know. I was too busy trying
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: to make burgers as tasty is a strip club. Burger's
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: Dead always talks about I kept putting salt on them.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: I don't know, but yeah, I think it's so shitty
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: that he's like, yeahbum to the Philippines and now he's like,
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: I don't want to move. I also remember how there
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: was this one moment where we found out that Sheen
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: and like always wanted to move to America, and we
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: sort of never really discussed that. We just were like, huh,
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: I wonder if, like I want to see Sheena be
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: upset at Forest. I kind of wanted to be like,
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: you fucking asshole. This whole time you could have gotten
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: a job, you were just like so obsessed with like
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: my shit, and now what Now we're not gonna be
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: together because you're not gonna even try to get a job.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: And you know how much I've wanted to like go
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: find Zach Braff's house. I don't know. I cannot imagine
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: that Sina is a Scruffs fan. I don't know why,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: I said, Zach Brath. I think there's like some stupid
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: pop culture story where you like allegedly was it a
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: relationship with like an Ai chatpot. I don't think it's
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: true anyway, But I want her to be upset at
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: her situation with Forrest, and I want her to try
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: and whip him into shape with a little anger, with
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: a little yeah, with a little like you might lose this.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: You've gotten too comfortable. You were blaming me the entire time.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: To get your shit together. Okay, well then what is
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: this forest? Are you gonna like put your big boy
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: pants on and get something done? All right? My loves Okay,
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: So Rick and Trish they're packing at the hotel and
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: they are going to go back to well, they're gonna
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: go to her village. So he brought baby wipes because
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: he doesn't believe in the plumbing there, and I think
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: that that was probably a good sign. It was probably good.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: He can't flush the baby wipes, obviously, he I mean,
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know he can do something with them. He's
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: gonna find out. Okay, So do you know that they
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: have portable bad days? They do. They're portable bad days.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: I bought one. Yeah, it's like it comes like in
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: a little comes in a little like water bottle, and
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: they have this device that you charge and then somehow
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: squirts things like where you want it to be squirted.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: And I will say that I lived a long part
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: of my life without using a a day, because you know,
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: I'm like American. It's so interesting though, once you get
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: a day that you can't ever go back, then you
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: get a person, you get like a travel a day
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: because you're like, oh no, I really like him. He
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: has a sensitive but though he's very sensitive, his whole
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: life is sensitive. She's like he's always whining, and he is.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: He's always complaining, always whining. He's like such a little
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: kind of guy. It's funny because there's a part of
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: his face where he does look young. He can almost
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: like see what he looked like when he was like smaller, younger,
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: and he probably was such a little menace when he
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: was young, and then he got on like whatever roids
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: or whatever that makes him look the way he does.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: At the HDH growth hormone or whatever those dudes do.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: But his personality is so like wimpy. He's just so limp.
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: He's like the limpest, flascidest kind of like hear little whiny, selfish, weird,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: gross guy. And it's funny because he's physically not that
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: you know, like I mean, now, of course he is
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: like you know, but like when you saw him, you
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: wouldn't you wouldn't immediately say these things if you hadn't
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: heard him talk or anything like that. But yeah, it's
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: so it's so interesting. I like the idea of having
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: his ex wives or like his like the people that
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: he's been with watch him on this show, and it's
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: being like he never was shit. Like I like to
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: think of the people that watch Rick or other people
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: we don't like on the show, who have known their
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: whole lives that this person is ridiculous and now they
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: get to watch them be cringy on TV make foolish choices. Okay,
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: so that's one thing. So he does this really annoying
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: thing where he like apologizes to Trish for picking a
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: fight with her yesterday, but he don't really apologize. He's like,
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: I apologize for you know, getting mad the other day,
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: but you just got a stop being stuck in the past.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: And it's like, don't say a butt on your fucking
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: sorry buddy. You were walking and she's like, I like
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: this restaurant. I went to this restaurant before. Oh really yeah,
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: like my ex looking to this restaurant. It's really no,
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: it's no a good restaurant. No, I mean I did
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: eat there. It's a good restaurant. This is my country.
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: I mean, I know things. You have to man, explain
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: me what a good restaurant is. Like, he's so insecure
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: and he went and fucked some woman, like because she
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: hadn't talked to him in three days. I hate this.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: I hate it so much so that I mean, I
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: hate him. So I don't want to do like there's
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: no how to get out of this, like hat okay.
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: So so anyway, they get a tuk tuck and they
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: go to the village to like find her whole family,
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: and her whole family comes out and everyone is super
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: lovely nice. It was like her sister posey, honey. They
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: all come out. There's Randrey, there's a russel. Everyone has
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: like interesting names. You know, You're just like, oh my god, okay,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: and he Rick is overwhelmed. It's a lot of people
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: and they all kind of look like her, and he's like,
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna remember who who is and what their
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: name is, and they're like, hopefully the same. Hopefully we
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: can say the same about you. He also had made
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: this comment where he's like, she was like, yeah, my
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: family's gonna be so happy to see me, and he's
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: like happy, so you, how about me? And I want
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: to be like, no, she was right the first time,
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: her why are they happy to see you? You're the
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: same age as her father, and like it's the same
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: kind of thing. I hate, Okay. I detest when Americans
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: don't under understand, sorry, understand basic things about a different culture.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: And I know I'm Arab, but I'm so American that
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: this seems wild to me, Like it's always seemed wild
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: to me that an American doesn't understand that like a
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: person from a different country, country and culture, especially if
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: they're young, that having children, unless unless it's one of
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: the first things they say, is a deal breaker. They
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: want it not just for them, but for their parents
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: and their whole family. And I'm saying, even if they
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: themselves don't want it. I hate to say this. Culturally,
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: they'll not be able to say no to their entire
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: family that expects a lineage so much so that it's
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: fucking insulting to consider trying to nab and steal away
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: such a beautiful, genetic mother giver like Trish to deny
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: that family Trisha's babies. Now talking from like someone who
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: I'm assuming is from that culture and wants to have kids.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that Americans should think that or that you,
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: but Rick has to understand this. It is insulting to
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: be like, I want to marry your beautiful young daughter,
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: furtile ass fuck daughter, gorgeous. The whole city town like
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: wants to be with your daughter. I think I'm good
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: enough to take her away, but I don't want to
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: have kids with her, thereby stopping your lineage. So this
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: is your daughter, sir, you wish to upon seeing grandchildren
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: because you know, like your culture, your life, your religion,
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: like you know, feels and says that that is like happiness, joy,
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: it's what life is made out of, like whatever, you know,
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: whatever the traditional things are that a lot of cultures
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: think about family and all that stuff. For him to
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: have the audacity to even show up at that family,
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: that family's house, in that family's greeting room, not knowing
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: what a slap in the face it is to not
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: offer children to them. It's confusing because the other thing
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: about it is this, This is what it is. I
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: love your daughter. I want to marry your daughter. I
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: want to make your daughter happy for the rest of
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: her life. Just kidding, No, I don't, because he has
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: to assume that paramount to Trisha's happiness is Trisha being
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: able to experience motherhood in a visceral way. She's been
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: a doula, all that stuff. She wants to have children.
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: So it doesn't make any goddamn sense to show up
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: at a family's house and be like, I want to
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: marry your daughter. I love your daughter. You don't love her,
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: you don't want her happiness. If you wanted her happiness,
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: this young, beautiful woman who wants to have children, if
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: you did, then you would give her true you're so
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: stupid and ugly and old, Rick, and unfortunately you can
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: have kids for the rest of your goddamn days. So
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: it's like the fact that you are denying her this
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: when and you could easily do it, really goes to
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: show how much you don't care about her and how
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: much she only is a piece to the puzzle of
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: Rick to make Rick look good. Because Rick can't get
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: anyone in America that looks, or acts, or is anything
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: like her to be interested in him, and knowing that
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: to his core, he still won't do the basic thing
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: of having a kid for her. Why is because a
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: he doesn't want another kid. Be here's the truth. Off camera,
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: he dealt with a really horrible tragedy. Now he might
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: not talk about that on TV, and I'm bringing it
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: up now because it happened and they brought it up
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: on Reddit. He had a child that was unlived, so
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: there could be trauma there. However, you can't put someone's
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: trauma on someone else. Your trauma isn't hers. She wants
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: a child period. If you don't want to give her
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: a child, get the fuck out of there, go to
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: Colombia and go back to the lady you want to
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: be with, or I don't know, find someone age appropriate
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: of yours that doesn't want Chiltern anymore. It's so easy,
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: but he won't. He wants to be with a hot
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: ass squirter, right. It's what Rick wants. It's what Rick
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: wants in the moment. He wants a hot ass squirter,
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: and he wants her to just grin and bear and
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: be happy with her life, raising his kids, holding the
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: camera as he does his lives for his hair extensions.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: Think about what he wants her life to be. Think
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: about how this man shows up to her house to
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: what ask for her hand so that he can take
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: away her from her family for what? How horrible everything
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: about this? I hate so I hate that. I hate that.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: You know, when he is shown in the house, he
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: you know, and the amenities and the bathroom is like
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: an outhouse, you know. Yeah, he's not gracious. He's not
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: at all like, oh, outside, okay, I'm just gonna have
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: to learn how to use it or whatever. Like he's
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: just like, what what the fuck? No? What do you
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: use way? You want me to wipe my butt with
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: old papers, like the papers that are used for my contracts,
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: because in America we have things shure, I don't know.
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: Like it's just so loud and enough where she's like embarrassed.
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: She's like, shut the fuck up. You're always complaining and
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: now you're to complain at my parents' house. Like I
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: I you know, I just obviously got done tell you
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: that I have like a travel bday, so you know
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: I am bougie. I'm a bougie person. You can tell
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: if you're looking at me on YouTube right now. I'm
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: one of the kind of people that even overlines their
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: top lip a little bit, like I wish I was
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: in this way here. I am all that to say, Like,
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: if I found myself on TV with people like the
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: way I was raised, I would rather the soul. I
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: would rather like the earth swallow me whole than to
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: be rude on television in someone's home, or to the
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: thought of embarrassing someone who's hosting me by making them
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: feel bad about what they have in relationship, to the
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: privilege of that, I know that I will go back
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: to momentarily like makes you know, makes my face want
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: to melt off. I can't feel my face when I
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: watch this, Rick and yeah, I don't want to be
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: with you. Uh. And Trisha has to bear it too.
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: It's really difficult to watch, and it's interesting because they
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: all gather after like he makes a big fucking stink
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: of like how the bathrooms work or whatever. She hates
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: him so much and they're asking questions to him or whatever.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: He's like getting interrogated. It feels a little bit like
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: Ashley's dad and Love is blind, and you know, he
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: tells him how old he is, and it's old, and
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: you know, they're like, well, you know, what do you
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: want kids? And she has to obviously translate for Rick
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: the whole time. Her head has been in her hands
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: the whole time because she knows what's coming. And he's
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: doing a horrible job. He can barely stay, he can't sit,
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: he can't stand. He's so uncomfortable literally figuratively. He's like,
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: what they say, what are they asking me? And she's like,
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: they want baby's asshole, They're asking you when you're gonna
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: have a baby with me? And he has to be like, well,
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to not offend your
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: family enough like it. It's interesting to me that Rick
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: doesn't understand how offensive it is. I mean, you know,
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: even though he's American, he's old, he's older than me,
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: so like, you know, in that sense, like he I'm
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: at some point he was raised with enough traditional folk
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: to understand that some people in this world like think
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: babies are real important in the cycle of things. Again,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: Chris Fara is not saying this, but we have to
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: understand culturally, other people that like families, babies, making babies
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: and making the family name, keeping on, keeping on, you know,
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: like all of that is like a whole big ass
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: thing in many cultures. I mean, it's like being like, Okay,
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: you want to take my daughter away? Uh yeah, well
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: what should I expect? Well, we're never going to have
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: a home. I can't tell you I'm gonna buy it.
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: If I'm going to allow her to live in a home,
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: I really kind of just want to like couchsurf it
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: with her for the rest of our lives, like different
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: people's places that we can do. Like it's it's as
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: unstable as saying that, you know, like it's unfathomable. It's
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: like you, yeah, okay, so he yeah, I just don't
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: know what it's going to be like for them. He
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: definitely didn't deserve that water sprinkle blessing. He's not going
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: to deserve like that bracelet. I'm like, who gets to
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: wear that bracelet? Is that for her? She needs it? Oh? Okay,
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: So let's move on, my loves, Let's move on to
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: Alise and Josh so Alise, you know she's coughing in bed, honey.
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: I don't know if it's like the time difference or
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: the fact that she was like forced to just jump
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: into like a slutty ass dress right off of like
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: a forty hour or I mean airplane and then go
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: right to like you know, a bar and who knows,
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: stay up all night long, like just drink all of
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: the things. So she's like, you know, tired af And
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: obviously the whole thing was like he was going to
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: like start on the couch, but she got so sick
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: that he turned into like mister nurse. And the way
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: that he missed her nursed her was that he got
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: into bed and cuddled her all night while she coughed. Okay, now,
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: first of all, if you haven't ever had sex with someone,
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: and you have never even slept in the same room
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: with someone or the same bed with same one, and
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: you do so, I can I can't even imagine what
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: it's like to even sleep. I never sleep one wink
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: when I'm in bed with someone the first time. Never, never, never,
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: I can't imagine it. So many people do, right, here's
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: the thing. Yeah, like people will just pass the fuck
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: out and snore immediately crazy to me, Alise, if she's sick,
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: I can't imagine is comfortable just suddenly sleeping in bed
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: with someone like I can't sleep. I can't imagine. I'm like,
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: oh I can't sleep. Oh good, a stranger in bed,
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: a hot ass stranger, like now'll sleep well. Like Alise
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: wasn't sleeping well. Lise was doing that thing where she
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: was putting that like booty right up in his like
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: you know, like doing that like little spoon, like a
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: hard ass little spoon, you know, like with like you know,
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: a booty out little spoon, you know. And she kind
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: of like he was rubbing her booty around, you know,
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: like that area, you know, to like just oops, I shift.
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: That's what she did all night long. Neither of them slept, Okay.
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: Next thing, he gets her famous Australian dish veggie might
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: and toast. Now that toast looks good, I mean doesn't
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: like I love a rye bread. Now she does not
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: like the taste of veggie mind. And so let me
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: tell you what you might is. It's a dark brown, salty,
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: savory Australian food spread made from leftover Brewers yeast extract
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: with added vegetable and spice flavors. It has an umami
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: flavor similar to beef boullion. It's rich and glutamites. How
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: the hell did it even get made? Okay, I'll tell you.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: It was developed by Cyril Callister in Melbourne, Victoria for
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: a food company. It's a spread in its low food
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: MILEP Vegan, kosher, and halal. Yeah, and she has a
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: lot of bee vitamins. Why though, Oh okay, So this
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: guy had to make it because he was tasked and
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: developing a spread from the used yeast being dumbed by breweries,
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: and he used autolyssis to break down the yeast cells. Honey,
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know, God bless you know. It's just like, ugh,
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: it is wildly fucked up when you consider how things
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: were forced on society for certain benefits. Now, I think
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: fermentation is good and stuff like that, But a weird
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: process product spread in a canned jar like that, I
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: can't quite understand. Okay, this is what is. I like
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: salty things, but like I love cheese, Like I could
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: imagine a world in which like I've you know, made
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: cheesy toast every day. So it's like, yeah, putting like
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: an umami flavor on a toast. She's disgusted by it.
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: He thinks she should give it a second shot. He
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: I don't quite understand if he realizes how bluci she is.
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: He's gonna find out though. So then, honey, they go
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: to a beach. Now here's the thing about the beach.
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: They're walking in the beach, it looks beautiful. She's wearing
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: like this bando top that is strapless and has like
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: these cute gold hardwarees and we're like, oh great, and
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: like white jean shorts. And then she's like, oh the beach.
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: Oh no, I have to change And we're like, oh,
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: just take you out to take off those take off
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: those white shorts. Girl, you have the bikini bottoms underneath.
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: But she doesn't. Elise has a whole different, complete bathing
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: suit that she has to change into on the beach.
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: And I found that interesting because, I mean, her top
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: was a bikini top. To me, well, that's a bikini top.
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: Isn't that a bikini top. I don't understand what they
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: dress like in Miami. I mean it is wild to me.
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: Miami is crazy, that's she I mean, I think I
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: understand now, Like the Darcy is at a at all,
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: Like I think I thought that every time Darcy was like, oh,
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: this is classy and this is what they wear, like
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: I think that I always thought that can't possibly be real.
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: And I haven't spent a lot of time in Miami,
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: but I'm gonna go in April. I'm so excited. I've
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: been only once but it was like for like a
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: religious convention. Well anyway, so now I'm gonna go back,
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: and it's like I need to see if people really
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: dress this way? Are people dressed like wild ban cheese
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: all the time? I mean, gut bless? Is it always
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: just painted on dresses? Like? Do am I gonna look
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: like I'm in a full hujab if I wear my
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: normal clothes, which is like American clothes and not you know,
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: like religious clothes? You know, Like what am I gonna
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: look like? Do I have to go shopping? I don't
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: have any latex I mean wild Okay. So after the beach,
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: they're like, you know, really frolicking in the water, I
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: mean true frolicking. You can really see like a good
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: frolic and you're like, okay, those people want to bone
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: and she's jumping on his back and he's loving it.
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: And then they get back to the apartment, Chris is
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: nowhere to be found, and she's like, you know, we
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: have such a good sexual cab. I never're supposed to wait,
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: but it's really hard. And then he like lights a
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: fancy candle, and I want to say, it's a fancy candle, Josh,
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: because you know, there's a lot of shitty candles in
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: this world, and no one cares less about candles than
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: like some straight men. You know, I one time was
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: given a Yankee candle for Valentine's Day and it was
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: the last Valentine's Day I had with that person. Okay, couples, so,
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: but I don't know what it is. His candle is fancy.
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: I do like that he knows it's good. He knows
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: that she's bougie, so God bless. He's like, I'm gonna
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: give you massage. She's like, great, great, great, the cough's gone.
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: He does the classic fuck boy move of like a
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: quick bra snap. Now in this picture he's using two fingers,
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: which were like, well, the true fuck boys, honey can
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: do it in that one pinch, that one pinch. We've
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: all been there. If you're a female if you wear
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: a bra, if you've hooked up with uh a fuck boy,
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: which is that there are certain and maybe there's you
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: know what, tell me though, tell me this. I haven't
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: hooked up with a lady. I want to know if
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: there's any like I guess, like flippers or studs or
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: like whatever kind of like what's the fuck boy version
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: of a lesbian fuck girl, like a charming you know,
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: like anyone like a smooth talk or whatever kind of
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: like player, the player version of whatever gender. I don't
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: give a shit anyone who unsniffs, undoes a bra. There's
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: something to having it being done by someone in one
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: fall swoop, and two things happen, You're like, oh shit,
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: this person you know has definitely attempted this before and
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: like loves this trick and loves to show it off
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: and like can't wait to get my bra. And the
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: second thing is oh no. And the third thing is
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: great good because I hate taking off my bra. And
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: by the way, because I have like triple d's. If
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: you do my bra in one snap, it's kind of
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: like you did like three little guys like you do.
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: It's like a three good thing. It is impressive. It
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: is impressive, but it does mean that you do it
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: a lot, and it does sort of mean that you
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: like that maneuver, and it does sort of mean that
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: you worked on that maneuver. I wonder like through Yeah,
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: there's like I'm trying to think there's no like really
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: great blowjob techniques I have, like you know, but I'm
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: trying to think if there was like something I would
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: do that the minute a guy saw me do it,
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: they'd be like, oh fuck, she does this a lot,
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: this is her thing. Number one. I don't know. I
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: used to be like fun ways to put on a condom,
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: like rolling it down with your mouth's people use condoms still,
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: I think so right, I'm trying to think of like
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: fun tricks that you do when you're hooking up with
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: someone that sort of shows everyone in the playing field
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: that like professionals are afoot. Anyway, can you please comment
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: and tell me, like what your favorite move is? I
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: really need a to know and then also be any
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: new moves. Okay, so you know Josh feels safe with
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: a lease. I'm not quite sure. I'm not saying she's
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: not a safe person, but like, I don't know why
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: it would be about her in the dimei just like
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: that she allows him to pick her outfits or exactly
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: what it is that you know is so safe for him.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: I mean, she's hot as hell. She has like such
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: a great body. I don't know if it's like her
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: incredibly hot body makes him just feel so safe, you know,
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: like I don't know, it just came out of left field.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: You're like, all right, all right, Josh, honey, he just
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: like told her his trauma was hard. He one time
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: was like with this person that really wanted him to
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: make money. It was so bad for him him because
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: he always felt bad. Alise hears this, and she doesn't
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: run for some reason. Yeah, it's like at least wants
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: a rich person. She can't be with someone who's like
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: really okay, she can't be with someone who's not financially stable.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: And I hate to say that, but it's obvious, right,
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: Like look at Elise, look at her, Look at her,
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: look at her. She obviously, yes, like at last, cannot
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: understand that Josh doesn't have the money she wants him to.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: It's so interesting. She's like, Josh, Josh, everything would be great.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: I just gotta ask you a question.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 2: Josh, why why do you have to have a roommate
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 2: and she's already said it, which is like, oh, because
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: he can't afford to not, but she asks she asks
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: him that question, she sort of makes him like say it.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: She's like, he's like, well, I was living with my parents,
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 2: remember right, and then I really couldn't. Yeah, so I
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: got remember the job thing? Yeah, so.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my option was for you to come and meet,
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: not to have a place, or for me to have
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: like a place for three months, and I can't afford
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: it by myself for three months. So that's why Chris
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: is here. She's like, well, what happens? What happens when
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: I'm not here? And he's like, well, I live with Nat.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: And she's so shocked by that. I think that she
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: thinks that he is just choosing not to spend money
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: that he does have, and I feel like she kind
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: of keeps wanting him to just be like, Alase, I
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: spend all my money I make on coke and alcohol.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: I surely can't afford like to whine and dine you
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: at all. I can barely afford like the goldfish crackers
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: you asked for, and then you asked for towels, bitch,
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: I can't I get afford towels. We have one and
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: it's NAT's. I stole that towel from Nat and I
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: still has her hair dye on it. I mean, I
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: was like, Josh doesn't have money, that's why it's sticking.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: So she's like, okay, So anyway, Yeah, Chris obviously comes
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: in when the massage is happening, and she's like, no, Chris, no, Chris, no,
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: don't look at my booby. Chris is like and at
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: the same time, yeah, She's like, god, it was so embarrassing.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: In the confessional, she's like, it was so crazy. I
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: was just laying there tits out, my body just pressed
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: against the couch, and you massage in my whole ass body.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: And then Chris comes in. Who would have guessed the
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: other person that has a key to this place walks
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: in because the cameras are rolling and so he knows
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: when people are there, and then he sees my body.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: Did you see it? Chris? It was so weird, Josh,
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: why did he happen? And what could happen again? And
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: You're just like, oh my god, I mean, fucking god,
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: bless they all fucking they all want to fuck you
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: know what, I'm saying, God bless. I hope at this
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: point they should be they should be selling it for
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: only fans. They make money that way, you know, God bless.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: So you know, obviously they're having sex now, and they're like,
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: you know, now it's like what from like we can't
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: have sex? But now it's like day two, they're in bed.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: She's like popping and said, it's God bless, it's real fast.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: And she's like, I'll tell you one thing about that, Josh,
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: the Dickson's circumcised. I'm always like wildly shocked how quick
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: they get people to talk about the nitty greedy details,
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: not just like we you know, not just like we
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: had sex it was bad or it was good or
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: it was ten times or you know, okay, or you know.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: It's just always like, yeah, his dick is big, his
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: dick is small, his dick you know. And I will
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: say this as a female, it's really shitty. Don't talk
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: about your lover's genitals on TV. Because let's just say this,
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: there's not a realm in which Josh could ever say
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: anything about Elisa's leases like Vajina that we would tolerate.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: The Only time a male has ever remarked about a
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: woman's nether regions on the show. Was mohammed doing it
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: to Danielle. And that's why we still watch the show
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: because when he said better parts smelled weird, we were like,
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: it's horrible, It's really bad that you said that. Don't
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: say it. Don't air a whole other season of this
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: hopefully no, right, but they did, and then you know,
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: now we're obviously on season eight, but before the ninety
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: days when I'm talking about happened original ninety days anyway,
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: So he would never right be like, Elise has longer
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: labyas than you would think she has uncircumcised labias or
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: longer What am I gonna do with all that extra
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: laby a skin? Is the first thing I thought when
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: I saw Elisa's vagina, and then I was like, oh,
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: make it work right. That's not what he would ever
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: say to her. I'm not saying she has long labyas
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: and if you do, God bless you. I think they're great.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: But that's what she said about him. Basically, she was like,
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: you know, he's uncircumcised. What am I gonna do with
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: all that skin? And you know, the truth of the
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: matter is okay, Elise's thirty three. She's never remember with
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: an uncircumcised man. I think a Lisea's did, she said,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: I don't remember if she I can't remember, if I
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: don't know what her ethnicity is or what her religion is.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: But yeah, maybe she just have only been with like
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: circumcised men. I just I'm shocked that's sitting at some
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: point a girl like Elise has seen a bunch of them,
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, I just all biblical dicks, A lot
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: of biblical dicks. Also, like bodies and themselves look so different.
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: I guess I never feel like you should remark on
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: someone's body like that. There are so many uncircumcised penises,
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: it's not that crazy. Also, the skin is like not
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: that hard to deal with, because like, once you know
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: things are on the up and up, things rebony themselves.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: By the way, I talk about this a lot, but
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: I really feel like everyone should go through a period
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: of watching Naked Attraction that like BBC or like that
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: British show, because watching Naked Attraction sort of does desensitize
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: you to the need for human bodies to look perfect
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: all the time or have like some idealistic thing, especially
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: in this age, especially in fucking Instagram age and filters, Like,
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: I do think there's this thing where like we don't
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: know what bodies look like what you know, or we
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: are so afraid that our body looks so vastly different
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: from what is expected, which is a perfect ideal, that
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: it weighs on us and we're like no, no, there's
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: so many different types of bodies that yours, like, whatever
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: yours looks like, looks like a lot of other people's. Like,
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: that's what I want to say, Like, I don't it's
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: it's very rare for someone's body part, for someone to
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: have a body part that looks sodly different from a
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: lot of other people's. I mean, like, if you think
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: of like the perkiest tits to the most pendulum tits, Oh,
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of pendulum tits. There's a lot of
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: pendulum tits. Like the entire National biographic was pendulum tits.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So it was so nice
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: in the nineties to not be like oh, because you
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: would be like, wait, that's so weird. It felt like
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: there were playgirl boobies. I knew it my look like,
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: And then anytime I'd see boobs, I'd be like, want
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: to know what it would look like. But then you know,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: other when you grow up, you realize boobs are plenty.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: They're all over the place literally, like same thing with dicks,
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: same thing with badges, same thing with like stomachs and legs,
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: and you know, like everything looks so everything looks right.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: Everyone has a range of different looks, but not so
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: much that the majority of everything we have isn't like
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: easily identifiable. That someone probably hasn't seen a pair of titties,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: titties that look like mine. I know they have. Like
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: I've seen a whole human woman's body looks just like mine.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: I've seen a couple of them, you know what I'm saying,
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: I've seen them online or like I've seen them in
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: real life. Or I'm like, wow, we have almost an
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: identical body. Like what I mean that, Like, Wow, our
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: boobs look the exact same, Like our waists are high
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: if high wais oh, our legs. It's just everything that
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: I think makes my body, you know, different looking, and
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: you know, maybe yeah, it's herd to tailor myself for
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: the following reasons. I'm short waisted, I have long legs,
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: i have big boobs I have, you know, like whatever,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: goas none of those things are like so crazy looking.
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: No human has ever seen me naked and being like
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: what the fuck is that? And I think we can
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: feel so other because I think that we think that
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: everyone looks the exact same. Yeah, it is it surprising
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: when she's just it was so surprising for me to
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: be like, girl, be a little more sophisticated, Honey, go
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: to Europe. See some dicks, see the dates, See David's dick.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: See David See David's dick. Takes all kinds of dicks
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: to make a world babe anyway. So then okay, So
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: then they finally go and meet up with his friends,
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: like his female friends, like Nat and this other girl. Okay,
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: God bless and the least comes dressed the way she comes, Honey,
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: which is like a blue bandau dress. I mean, she
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: looks hot as hell. But it's hilarious because again I'm like,
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: oh my god, She's like, it's really important to be
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: accepted into the group of friends. Now she knows she's
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: gonna go meet Nat, which I'm happy about. She makes
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: Josh Carrie her Christian dure. I think it's fake though,
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: shopping tote because she says it matches his perfectly. And
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: I'm confused by that because I'm like, well, yeah, you
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: do know this dress. You do know this bag doesn't
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: match your outfit, but why bring it? What's in it?
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: Are you going to change into another bathing suit? Like
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: you're going to go have drinks with these lovely people.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: They're all like wearing like white linen shirts. Why are
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: you bringing this like huge ass bag. It's too big anyway. Meanwhile,
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: look at this, like Chanel, is that real? I don't know.
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: I love that. Like Nat and her friend are like, listen,
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: we knew we had to like wear our titty tops.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: We had no fucking clue that, like we were gonna
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: have this kind of titty in our life. So then
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: Alise comes up and she's like, nice to meet y'all. Elise, okay,
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: and then right fucking away, NAT's like, oh you're a
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: y'all person. Huh. It's almost a little too dry, almost
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: a little too snappy, almost a little like too like
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: not British beat on, and like that. You kind of
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: uk her. It's quick, it's snappy, it goes over her head, honey.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: She's like, you're right, I am tall. No, I'm y'all
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: not tall at least just like mm hm onto the next, onto,
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: the next Elise is not paying attention. She's like an
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: Elise Land. She's like, I showed up, I look like this.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: I got to meet his friends. She's like, hug another guys.
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: She's just like, Okay, so Josh lives with you, and
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: she almost like starts to sort of blame mad about it.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: She's like, I just feel like you have financial dominance
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: over him. And it's a little bit because like NAT's like, listen,
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: he needed to place to live, and I let him
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: live at my house. And I want to be like, Okay,
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: two things here. Ay, if your man had finances, he
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to be dominated. That's not NAT's fault.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: That's his fault. Also, be findahm is a whole thing. See, Yeah,
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: this isn't someone who's like using their money to like
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: manipulate Josh. This isn't like some high powered attorney who's
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: like trying to buy his way into like college coed
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: dorm rooms with like wild amounts of money and then
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: saying he's in a blackmail. It's like, that's not what's
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: happening here. She probably likes to party. She is like, listen,
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: I have a whole ass house. I'm fucking fabulous. I
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: have Chanelle's whatever. If Josh is poor, poor, poor sad
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: bloke who doesn't have any money and doesn't mind just
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: like putting his head downstairs for some free rent every
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: now and then, that's what's happening, and that's not on me. Like,
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: that's what I feel like. Nat and Josh's relationship is
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: they of course have sex. Of course they do. Of
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: course they do. They get messy all the time, they
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: fuck all the time. They drink, and they fuck, period, period. Done.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: It's not a question. It's not a thing at least.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know you want to do with that information.
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: I mean you have two things. You can either be like,
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, well I like a man who's scrappy who
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: can get free rent, or that makes you mad. And
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: if that makes you mad, it can make you mad
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: for one of the two reasons. A because you wish
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: that your chosen guy had, you know, options to not
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: have to fuck for rent. But you can't be mad
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: at Nat. Why be mad at He'd be homeless if
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: it wasn't for Nat. Nap didn't say come live with
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: me or I will't. I mean, like, you know, it's
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: just it didn't make any sense. It also is that
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: thing where Elisa is like blaming a woman for something
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: that she should be blaming Josh for. Here is the
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: real truth. She's already come in being like I want
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: a man who you know, isn't going to be a
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: gold digger, and I want a man who's like, you know,
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: gonna make my parents proud, because I like fucked over
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: this other relationship. Like Alise knows in her heart of
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: hearts that she is the kind of woman that wants
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: like a financially secure man to pay for fancy Nobu
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: knights and like to make one of those bags real
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: and all that stuff. Like that's what she wants, and
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: I get it. I think she deserves it, you know.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: And I think Miami, like you know, there's people that
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: probably you know, have that. I also think that she
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: probably that does thing that Josh is hot. I don't
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: understand why Josh is lying about being thirty nine though,
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: or or if that is just what happens with like
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: wild amounts of like sun damage and alcohol decay. Josh
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: is going to resent not being able to provide Aalise
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: a lifestyle that would make her like happy and Alise,
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: I can't wait for her to like put two two
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: together that he can't afford meals for her, Like who's
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: gonna pay for you guys to go out? Who's even
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: paying for the drinks the whole time you're there? Like
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: I'm assuming Elease is at some point you know, or
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: I mean or I I feel like Chris and Josh
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: like con together to get shit. It's interesting though, So yeah,
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: I think it's I can't wait for I want. I
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: feel like it's going to come to I think this
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: is what I want to say. We know that Matt
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: Sharp loves a secret, and I think there's going to
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: be a secret involved in like Josh and Chris's life,
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: Like there's something they're not telling us. There's a reason why,
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: like you know, everything is a little temporary or something.
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: I would love them to be like cam models together,
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: like something like that. I really I feel like something's
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: coming for them because I think that Elise would be
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: great to ambush in that kind of surprise will Like
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: I feel like the producers were better or for worse,
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: would know that an Elise style personality would give good
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: TV if they shocked her with an oh shit, what moment,
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: which she would you know, Alise is good TV. Like
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: Alise knows that a Lease, assuming I'm assuming that she
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: understands that she like is surely superficial and like very
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: very vain, very very vapid, and you know, like comes
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: across as being a little like holier than now, but
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: also like kind of done. But she leans into it
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: in such a fun way that I don't mind it.
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: I don't think that she is mean or has a
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: mean spirited bone in her body. I do think that
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: she has like a lot of insecure bones in her
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: body that like manifest themselves in the way they do,
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: which is pointed and or like angry or whatever or
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 1: or I don't know, like just improperly aimed at people.
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: But there's also a part of a Lease that, like,
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: to me, just like also is like a little girl
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: that wants to have fun and like be loved and
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: you know, be made to feel like a sexy, pretty princess.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: Emphasis on sexy. She wants to she h Alise is sexy,
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: but she doesn't feel that way on the inside. When
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: she looks in the mirror. There's something that she sees
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: that she wants to like eradicate, And I wonder what
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: Elise's energy would be like if like she could somehow
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: look in the mirror and see the person she sees
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: and be like, hey girl, we did it. I love you,
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: we did it. I wanted let's just you know, of course,
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: could I have Elise with less filler? Yes, I can,
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: Like I wish the lips were down a little bit,
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: for sure. But I wonder like if Elie could look
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: at the mirror and be like, you know what, I
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: was nerdy or whoever. I I don't know how she
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: felt when she was younger or whatever. I was an
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: ugly doug whatever she was it felt like or whatever.
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: But now you know, like I'm hot. I live in Miami,
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: you know, I live a privileged life. I you know,
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 1: was on some stupid TV show as and like basically
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 1: an extra, and I got myself to be basically a
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: cast member, like a serious regular cast member on that show.
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about hot for love. And then turn around
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: and now I get to be on the show really
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: like I did it. I want her to like almost
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: sit in an air of acceptance and happiness and in
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 1: validation for herself, and I wonder if she like felt
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: a little more secure about what she accomplished for herself,
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: if she could like wield that to get I don't know,
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: like a little bit of that neediness, a little bit
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: of that desperation off of her and attract someone that
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 1: could like give her happiness and joy for more than
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 1: two nights. I wonder if the Lease has ever I
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 1: don't know, because I'm not like a deep diver. On
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 1: her Instagram, has she put up pictures of herself like
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: in high school and stuff like I surely looked crazy,
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: you know, in grade school, in high school, like I,
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: you know, I was. You can look at my YouTube.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 1: I've been every way possible. I've you know, God bless,
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: I've I've had bushy eyebrows, I've had you know, race
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: on my teeth. I've you know, didn't brush my hair
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: for so long because whatever, God bless. There's a billion
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: things that I've done aesthetic wise and didn't do aesthetic wise.
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: And when I was in school, like for sure, there's
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: just so many awkward years. So all that, to say,
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 1: a Lease makes me feel like she felt awkward or
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: that she felt like an ugly dougling, And so I
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: wonder if she's ever put up pictures of the way
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: she used to look when she was younger. So I
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: feel like it'd be like a major change, and a
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 1: major I think she like really transformed herself, you know,
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 1: and therefore I think that she when she looks in
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: the mirror, it doesn't even see the person she is
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 1: now and still sees the other person. And the difference, though,
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: is I don't want her to hate that person. You
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: can still see the little person inside you or the
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: person that you like. Everyone looks in their mirror and
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: like sees a version of themselves, but for better or
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: for worse, you have to learn to love that version
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: and be like, I have compassion for you. I'm proud
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 1: of you. There were things that were hard for you,
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: but we did it. You did it. We did it,
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 1: you know, like we we went through uncomfortable things and
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 1: we learned lessons and we felt bad and we you know,
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: we overcame or whatnot. Anyway, Okay, my love is a
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 1: little I don't know, this is the longest episode. Jesus Christ. Okay,
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 1: Lisa and Daniel, I don't know, why did I talk
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 1: so long other that it's not even a co host,
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: it's still longer than every other co host episode. Oh
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: my god. Okay, this is the craziest one though. Lisa
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 1: and Daniel, so obviously we're hot on the heels of
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 1: her being like, I have more to tell you. And
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: the thing is, you know, uh married, married five times,
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 1: not quite divorced yet. But don't worry. It's not a man,
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: it's a woman. And Daniel obviously is wildly homophobic, wildly homophobic,
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: really bad, really shitty. Now that's his culture, this whole
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: igoo culture, I guess, really, you know, the whole time
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: has been not into women and women and men with men.
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: Not the first culture to not be into it, or
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 1: historically you know a lot of religious ones for surely not.
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: But that's what's happening here. It's uncomfortable. Now. We're like, Lisa,
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 1: every decision you've made has been crazy and why would
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 1: you do that? Now? When I say every decision except
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 1: for honestly, the clothes. She has come with great clothes.
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: I loved all her outfits. I've loved her shoes. She
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 1: even bought like brand new luggage for this and she had,
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 1: you know, came with extra wigs. Now we're going to
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: break all of this down. But let's get into like
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 1: the back and forth of Lisa and Daniel. First, he's
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: upset and and he is just like straight up mean
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 1: and calling her like evil. He is just like looking
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 1: at her as if her head is spinning, and she's like,
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you who I am, Daniel. I'm
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 1: not a lesbian, I'm not straight, I'm not bisexual. And
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 1: at this point we're like, well, well, Pan, are you
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 1: about to say pan? Your pan? And then she says,
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: I just believe that people should love people. And we're
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: kind of like, Pan, I don't want to label you, girl,
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 1: but you could do it. But just if you're gonna
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 1: say a bunch of labels, you're not gonna actually say
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 1: one that is like a positive. If you want to
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 1: look it up, it seems like you might be Pan.
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 1: But you know this is not me. I'm just moving on.
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: So that happened, and you know, obviously everything she's saying
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 1: is right, and then he is obviously upset, and he
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 1: is upset, and he's done for being upset because you
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 1: have two options in this world, Daniel. You can either
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 1: let the ancestors, allow this white woman to save you,
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 1: and if so, then you grin and bear whatever the
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 1: fuck she says or not. But he's like, you are evil,
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 1: and she's like, I'm not evil. I take care of people.
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 1: In fact, I've been taking care of you. You like
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 1: that orange shirt you're wearing, Daniel, all your friends? Do
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 1: you like those new slides you're wearing? Daniel? You think
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 1: I was evil when I bought you those slides? Did you? Daniel?
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 1: Do you think the devil bother you those slides? You
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 1: to wear your devil slides? Then, Daniel, take off your
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 1: clothes and all. That's why you feel I mean, half
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 1: of me easy, Yeah, like I'm a fucking petty bitch.
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, David, Yeah, then the devil bought
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 1: you everything you own. It's all devil worshiping clothes. You've
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 1: already been wearing them, just so you know. But that's
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 1: not what happens. Obviously, get mad. He goes on, he
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 1: goes from your head to your toe. Is full of
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 1: secrets and lies. In fact, you just keep on vomiting secrets.
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 1: He's just so upset about the secrets. Meanwhile, it's like,
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 1: you haven't said shit about your life to her. I
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 1: don't know why she never asked any questions about his
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 1: life A because she did not want him to ask
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 1: questions about her life, right, And so he doesn't have
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 1: any secrets because she's not pressed him on anything, and
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 1: if she did, he'd lie about them. Okay, So anyway,
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 1: go bless. So yeah, I'm like, I'm not evil. I
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 1: take care of people, and I've been taking care of you.
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 1: And he goes, what makes you a good person? And
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 1: then she goes, I have a good heart and I
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 1: am a good person. And then she like for a moment,
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: is like, you know what, Daniel's not going to accept
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: me for who I am. And then she does something
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 1: that we're all so happy about. Lisa is like fah
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 1: hip bah yeah yeah, if you know. I try to
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 1: get a close captaining picture of it. Didn't quite happen,
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 1: but she really does like a whole turn. She just
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 1: like she's like, I'm in love with him. I came clean,
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 1: this is who I am. People should love people. I
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 1: just believe a person loves a person. I don't think
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 1: anything's wrong with that. And we're all like, yeah, Lisa,
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 1: you're right, there's nothing wrong with that nothing wrong with that.
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 1: Now this Marian did tell you that he does think
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 1: it's wrong. Did he does? Okay, you're right, it's not wrong.
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 1: He did. He did say he thinks it's wrong. So
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 1: the problem is you should have heard that and been like, oh,
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 1: so you think I'm wrong? All right? I love myself
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 1: enough to be like, you're not for me, and I'm
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 1: okay with that because I love me more than I
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 1: love you. But she didn't, right, she doesn't. Lisa doesn't
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 1: love herself. Why is it difficult to love yourself? Lots
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 1: of people? Why is it difficult for to love herself?
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 1: Why is it difficult for Vanya to love herself? Why
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 1: is it difficult for Lisa to love you herself? Three ladies?
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 1: There are men that don't love themselves too, But let's
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 1: just bring up these three ladies. Now, Vanya and Vanye
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 1: is on single life obviously, but there is and all
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 1: three women a need, a loud need. And I think that, like,
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 1: you know, it's funny, It's like how loud the need
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 1: is is dependent on so many things, how desperate someone is,
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 1: how much insecurity they might have, But also it could
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 1: be how much they have found a connection with someone
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 1: who might not be true full with them, it might
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 1: be like leading them on. But at the same time,
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 1: I think there might be like some due diligence in
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 1: sitting and like processing what actually is happening with how
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 1: sematically your body's feeling with someone. I think that it's
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 1: easy to lie to yourself and ignore red flags, but
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 1: if you don't want to lie to yourself, it's just
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 1: as easy to sort of sit in and acknowledge how
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 1: your body is feeling in the moment. And I think
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 1: that like your body doesn't lie, like in the sense
• 1:30:43
  Speaker 1: of this. I think when you feel unease or unclear
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 1: or confused about someone's like feelings towards you, or if
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 1: someone is distant or whatnot, I think that like, yeah, like,
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 1: I think that there is just a propensity to want
• 1:31:01
  Speaker 1: to figure out why or can or make like almost
• 1:31:07
  Speaker 1: excuses for them, or if they also can be lying
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 1: to you and saying certain things are different than they are.
• 1:31:14
  Speaker 1: And I think you just have to like wait it
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 1: out and see if their actions are like you know,
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 1: like their words. But if they do not line up,
• 1:31:23
  Speaker 1: you gotta fucking bounce. And the thing about like Daniel
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 1: is he has you know, nothing going for him in
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 1: the sense of what he's going to bring to Lisa,
• 1:31:35
  Speaker 1: and he surely hasn't offered anything. Nothing, not even like
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 1: when I come to America, I'm going to help you
• 1:31:43
  Speaker 1: in Faith, I want to meet Faith. I have let
• 1:31:46
  Speaker 1: me talk to your daughter, like nothing about uh, making
• 1:31:50
  Speaker 1: it like nothing with the least like Josh doesn't have
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 1: anything going for him and just sort of wants like
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 1: an American party girl to like come and like show
• 1:32:10
  Speaker 1: off to Chris that he got like this hot Instagram
• 1:32:13
  Speaker 1: bought Battie from America for like a week and then like,
• 1:32:15
  Speaker 1: you know, get her to go home, give up the place,
• 1:32:18
  Speaker 1: move in with Matt and get the you know, a
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 1: little bit of home cooking and some home loving. So
• 1:32:31
  Speaker 1: when Lisa finally is like fuck him, We're so happy.
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 1: We're like, oh my god, is this it? Oh my?
• 1:32:37
  Speaker 1: What if? This is it? What if? This whole time
• 1:32:39
  Speaker 1: it was like she was so upset to tell him
• 1:32:42
  Speaker 1: all her secrets and that she'd like, you know, she
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 1: really dosed out the secrets, honey, I mean she just
• 1:32:45
  Speaker 1: like deep and then like a week later, but what
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 1: if after all that, after like having him say that
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 1: she's evil, after all that she's done for him, if
• 1:32:56
  Speaker 1: his homophobia would snap her out of it to be
• 1:32:59
  Speaker 1: like you're not shit, fuck you, you homophobe with piece
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 1: of shit, or whatever she want to say to him,
• 1:33:06
  Speaker 1: like because truly everything she says about loving the person
• 1:33:11
  Speaker 1: that you want to love is like real, Like that
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 1: is real. So like you know, a part of her
• 1:33:14
  Speaker 1: believes that, which she should, and so I almost want
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 1: her to like hold on to that tenement as like
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 1: a personal value of her life, almost as if that
• 1:33:24
  Speaker 1: alone will be like stronger than her like desperate need
• 1:33:27
  Speaker 1: to fall in love with the idea of someone, and
• 1:33:29
  Speaker 1: the idea of Daniel is like someone who's not gonna
• 1:33:31
  Speaker 1: even do any good for you. The idea of Daniel
• 1:33:34
  Speaker 1: is just someone hot, young hot man. Maybe I don't know,
• 1:33:42
  Speaker 1: young hot man. Maybe fetish thing too, I don't know,
• 1:33:46
  Speaker 1: Like what is I Okay? So when she is like
• 1:33:57
  Speaker 1: fuck him, she packs her way bag and she puts
• 1:34:01
  Speaker 1: on my favorite pair of spider stomp and shoes that
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 1: red doily, flowery strappy sandal. I do love it, like
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 1: for her bad decisions. She didn't come with ugly clothes,
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 1: and I just will forever be happy with her for that.
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 1: Thank you. Now this is where I got to give
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 1: her unfortunately, some tea girl. Something happens in the packing episode.
• 1:34:29
  Speaker 1: Do I not have a picture of it? I thought
• 1:34:30
  Speaker 1: I took so many pictures of it. I'll bring one
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 1: up now. I don't know if like she's been crying,
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 1: or if the weight of the world is on her,
• 1:34:44
  Speaker 1: or if she's been sweating or whatnot, But something happens
• 1:34:48
  Speaker 1: where her wig that she's using has become vastly dry
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 1: at the ends. Wildly dry. I mean so dry that
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 1: you're like, where do Emma go to the bazaar and
• 1:35:02
  Speaker 1: get the hair oil, because like Lisa's wig has a
• 1:35:09
  Speaker 1: different color at the ends. There it is. She brought
• 1:35:14
  Speaker 1: three wigs. I don't know what day we're on, but
• 1:35:17
  Speaker 1: now I realize this wig is no more. The ends
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 1: of this wig are fried. I don't know if she
• 1:35:22
  Speaker 1: got them like stuck in a fan honey or whatever.
• 1:35:27
  Speaker 1: But like, wherever there's olive oil, whatever the nearest oil is,
• 1:35:31
  Speaker 1: you got to grab a budget of it and then
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 1: just soak the bottom of that hair in that. I mean,
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 1: here's the thing. There's nothing left. I mean, I don't
• 1:35:38
  Speaker 1: know about wigs like this, like long ass wigs like
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 1: this you. I mean this needs like a hardcore deep
• 1:35:43
  Speaker 1: conditioning treatment, like this needs oil. I mean there's not
• 1:35:47
  Speaker 1: almost nothing coming back from this wig. Can you look
• 1:35:49
  Speaker 1: at that? Oh my god, Lisa, Onto the next, onto,
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 1: the next. Okay, now here is where it gets weird.
• 1:35:57
  Speaker 1: Then Daniel comes back and they talk. Now Daniel is like,
• 1:36:04
  Speaker 1: here's the thing. I got talked to my uncle. She's like,
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 1: fuck your uncle. I don't want to deal with your uncle.
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, but it's the uncle, does it all?
• 1:36:12
  Speaker 1: I hate you laying with women. I think being gay
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 1: is so gross and I'm so mad about it, and
• 1:36:17
  Speaker 1: my uncle does too. But if my uncle says yes
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: and it's all gay, she should not have lied truly
• 1:36:25
  Speaker 1: to like the spirits or her uncle, you know, or
• 1:36:28
  Speaker 1: the uncle, but she just did. She makes really bad decisions.
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 1: I just can't imagine walking into a situation where someone
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 1: is just so wildly vocal about hating something that I
• 1:36:41
  Speaker 1: believe in so much. Like I don't like, yeah, I
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 1: mean I'm not gay, but like I love gay people
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 1: enough that like I couldn't be with anyone that was
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 1: like wily homophobic. I you know, I couldn't just because
• 1:36:52
  Speaker 1: well I have friends and all like that. But like, I,
• 1:36:54
  Speaker 1: you know, I can't imagine actually being something and then
• 1:36:59
  Speaker 1: someone hating you that much and then you just being
• 1:37:01
  Speaker 1: like okay, I'll change them or they'll change. Lisa's end
• 1:37:09
  Speaker 1: goal was a little confusing. It felt like she thought
• 1:37:12
  Speaker 1: that she was just going to not ever have to
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 1: tell him, or maybe that she'd tell him and it
• 1:37:19
  Speaker 1: would be okay, But she didn't expect all the like
• 1:37:22
  Speaker 1: religious blessings to come in her way where she had to,
• 1:37:25
  Speaker 1: like you know, talk to kings and uncles and like
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 1: furry lions and lie to all of the furry lions
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  Speaker 1: about how much she doesn't like women. But in this
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it's like, yeah, when Lisa's like fuck him,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like so happy. So when this scene happens where
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  Speaker 1: he comes back and he's like, well I got to
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  Speaker 1: talk to the uncle, and she's like okay, because I
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  Speaker 1: love you so much, Daniel, I'm so mad. Half of
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  Speaker 1: me is like Lisa, leave him and go find a
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  Speaker 1: man that would be happy to like deal with you
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  Speaker 1: in your ways and all the money. I'm surprised Daniel
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  Speaker 1: even says like you're evil and all that's stuff to her,
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  Speaker 1: except that he knows that it's not going to deter
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  Speaker 1: her from being in love with him. I want to
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  Speaker 1: know what Daniel's other options are. The way that he
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  Speaker 1: tells her off and gives her his ring makes me
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  Speaker 1: feel like he is truly done with her, and for
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  Speaker 1: him to come back and have it be an option,
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  Speaker 1: just to see what the uncle says. Would the producers
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  Speaker 1: tell him to do this? Was he like over it?
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  Speaker 1: And they were like, no, please come back? Okay, Oh
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  Speaker 1: that's the end. I have, Yeah, all my pictures. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I guess I did. Oh my goodness, gracious, I guess.
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  Speaker 1: I talked for an hour and forty minutes. Goodness, gracious,
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  Speaker 1: that is the end of the episode. I love you
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  Speaker 1: Here's the thing, it's a long episodisode. However, we have
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  Speaker 1: a lot to talk about. There is just so much
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  Speaker 1: is in the human behavior. I want the best for everyone.
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  Speaker 1: that if that's how I'm feeling, when I think I
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  Speaker 1: It's hard because, yeah, everyone just wants love and companionship,
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  Speaker 1: and I think that it's difficult for some people sometimes
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  Speaker 1: be like, well, don't you You're pretending like you want this,
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  Speaker 1: so why are you making it difficult? But alas, we
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  Speaker 1: fall in love with the idea of things like Alice
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  Speaker 1: fallowing me with the in love with the idea of
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna give a breath, We're gonna do two why
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  Speaker 1: mindful moments. So it's important that you can check in
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  Speaker 1: with how you're feeling because you can live easily in
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  Speaker 1: your mind, and you can be preoccupied with other people
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  Speaker 1: or you can even disassociate and then sort of just
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  Speaker 1: be staring at yourself from the ceiling or some other place.
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  Speaker 1: But I think that we do our best work, our
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  Speaker 1: best communication, our best connection. I think we feel our best,
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  Speaker 1: and I think that we take care of ourselves, we
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  Speaker 1: know our boundaries. We love ourselves the best when we
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  Speaker 1: know how we're feeling. And that connection between our mind
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  Speaker 1: and the body can be worked on. Uh yeah, through
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  Speaker 1: mindfulness and through like meditation. But like, yeah, they do
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  Speaker 1: like body scam stuff like that. That's a definitely therapeutic
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  Speaker 1: stuff you can do. You can do a body scan
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  Speaker 1: before you go to bed, how you're feeling, checking in
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  Speaker 1: where you're holding tension, where you can release it, all
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  Speaker 1: that stuff. But the same principle is just what we're
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  Speaker 1: doing now. Where Okay, your mind is? Where? Where is it?
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  Speaker 1: What are you thinking about? Odds are the past? Things?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe you're worrying or cringing about things that happened, or
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  Speaker 1: you're planning or worrying about the future. Things you didn't done,
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  Speaker 1: things you have to do, things you want to do perfectly,
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  Speaker 1: things you know you're playing out conversations you're you know,
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  Speaker 1: trying to control things you have no control over. Those
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  Speaker 1: are usually what's happening in our mind. All of that
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  Speaker 1: takes us away from, of course, the present moment. The
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  Speaker 1: present moment of reality is where truth lies. This is
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  Speaker 1: what's happening right now. How we feel right now is
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  Speaker 1: what's happening. If we can get to how we feel
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  Speaker 1: authentically trust ourselves, then how much easier it is to date.
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  Speaker 1: If you love yourself and you know yourself and you
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  Speaker 1: can tap into how you're feeling in a visceral way,
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  Speaker 1: then you can start to feel how you are with
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  Speaker 1: someone with someone who makes you feel good, secure, clear headed, joyful, peaceful, familiar,
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  Speaker 1: or someone who makes you feel on edge, weird, uncomfortable,
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  Speaker 1: and it maybe it's confusing because those things could also
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  Speaker 1: be like excitement, confusion, instability, newness. You know, it's just hard.
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  Speaker 1: So being able to pepper in as much of your
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  Speaker 1: life with present moments, make sure that you connect to
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  Speaker 1: that for yourself and also just gives you the process
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  Speaker 1: and the practice to do so. And That's what I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to do for myself, and that's why I'm doing
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  Speaker 1: what I'm doing right now. With you, which is two breaths,
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  Speaker 1: one in, one out, one in, one out, and the
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  Speaker 1: thing is perfect. So if your mind wanders, try again,
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  Speaker 1: and just try again until we try again. Then the
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  Speaker 1: trying again can happen tomorrow too. All right, babes, Let's
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  Speaker 1: breathe it all out and do it one more? Thank
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  Speaker 1: you that, or just use my voice presently in this
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  Speaker 1: time to bring you into the present moment, feet on
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  Speaker 1: the floor, one more? All right? Do you do it?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe one second? I had one half second a present moment,
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  Speaker 1: and then I quickly went back to what am I doing?
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  Speaker 1: Am I doing it right? And is my voice sound weird?
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  Speaker 1: Am I taking too long? So my little monkey mind
• 1:44:38
  Speaker 1: rarely gets in line, so if yours doesn't as well,
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  Speaker 1: let's just put the part of this all is. It's
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  Speaker 1: just the practice, my babe. So just take care of yourselves, right,
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  Speaker 1: That's what we're doing, and one another stand up for
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  Speaker 1: what you believe and make art and breathe another day.
• 1:44:57
  Speaker 1: All right. Secret Lives Mormon Wives is out there if
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  Speaker 1: you guys are watching it, but I hope you're enjoying it.
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  Speaker 1: hmm