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- 0:17Speaker 2: Dads Papa Team six Welcome to another episode for the Dads.
- 0:22Speaker 2: I hope the trash is taken out. Look, we got
- 0:24Speaker 2: we got a lot to hit on this episode today
- 0:26Speaker 2: too much. We have a rat in the house, and
- 0:29Speaker 2: I'm not talking a little critter. I'm talking we got
- 0:33Speaker 2: a mole, we got a liar, we got a snitch
- 0:37Speaker 2: in the house. Rue has dropped our first curse words.
- 0:41Speaker 2: Surem left his family when the AC was out, went golfing.
- 0:46Speaker 2: We we will get in all that. We also have
- 0:48Speaker 2: an apology at the top of the episode. A lot
- 0:51Speaker 2: of talk about last week's episode, the opening Taylor's delivery,
- 0:57Speaker 2: Autism Miller Autism Miller us for the afterpod report. That's
- 1:01Speaker 2: the APR. We will get into all that. If you
- 1:03Speaker 2: are new to the show, we are a dad podcast
- 1:06Speaker 2: for the dads by the Dad's Fat Stafford. Uncle sheram
- 1:09Speaker 2: over there, Papa Shrham. He's got a kiddo eight months
- 1:12Speaker 2: eight months, eight months old. I have two little girls.
- 1:15Speaker 2: Her name is Scarlett. My two little girls, Scottie and
- 1:18Speaker 2: Rue is three about to before. Scott Zilla the Little Menace.
- 1:22Speaker 2: She is sixteen months old. We just talked dad life.
- 1:25Speaker 2: Just a couple dads talking shop, busting balls, talking about wins, learns, ups,
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- 3:36Speaker 2: the real Ptsichos. You've seen the Easter eggs probably on
- 3:39Speaker 2: the desk on the wall throughout past episodes, and we've
- 3:43Speaker 2: heard you guys, We've listened to you guys. We now
- 3:45Speaker 2: have a pt Sicico merch drop that dropped today on
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- 3:50Speaker 1: Three shirts, three hats. You're looking at shirm right now.
- 3:54Speaker 2: PT siko an iteration we had to make because we've
- 3:57Speaker 2: learned and grew with you guys. Is it's not an S.
- 4:00Speaker 2: It's a six pt siico the call. And finally we
- 4:05Speaker 2: have a coffee mugg, three shirts, three hats, and a
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- 4:21Speaker 3: There were a lot of comments about the PT Sicko
- 4:24Speaker 3: gear because we wore a couple episodes back at people.
- 4:27Speaker 3: Where's the PT sicko gear? Where's the PT sicico gear?
- 4:30Speaker 3: Here's the ptsick O gey.
- 4:31Speaker 2: It's here. It's part of our When we sit down
- 4:33Speaker 2: and meet and we have our own little APR after
- 4:37Speaker 2: pod report, we go through a lot of the stuff
- 4:39Speaker 2: that the community is saying and vocalizing to us to
- 4:42Speaker 2: help allow and make the show better. I have I
- 4:45Speaker 2: have some APR reporting to do. Yes, please, I know
- 4:48Speaker 2: you do as well. Let's let's just start it off
- 4:52Speaker 2: the top with the apology, our apologies because last week
- 4:57Speaker 2: I dropped the first what thirty seconds introing Taylor's news
- 5:01Speaker 2: that he delivered to the pet siko community, the pop
- 5:04Speaker 2: Team six community, and I got several messages about it,
- 5:08Speaker 2: making sure everything was all good. They haven't listened to
- 5:11Speaker 2: the episode yet, Hey, Willie boy, haven't listened to the
- 5:14Speaker 2: episode yet.
- 5:15Speaker 1: Just saw the clip.
- 5:15Speaker 2: Just want to make sure everything's good in your world
- 5:17Speaker 2: and I'm like, everything's fine.
- 5:20Speaker 3: There's a lot of empty Sikos that were very worried
- 5:24Speaker 3: in the comments.
- 5:24Speaker 2: Drove a lot of good link clicks, pushed a lot
- 5:26Speaker 2: of new people to the brand, the community. Hopefully people
- 5:31Speaker 2: engage stuck with us, be like, oh, this seems like
- 5:33Speaker 2: a fun show. We welcome you aboard to everybody else
- 5:36Speaker 2: like inside jokes. Maybe you didn't feel like it was
- 5:38Speaker 2: an inside jokes, because yes, we cry a lot.
- 5:40Speaker 1: On this show. We do get serious a lot on
- 5:42Speaker 1: this show.
- 5:43Speaker 2: So who I understand and empathize with people thinking like, oh,
- 5:46Speaker 2: I thought this was going to be serious, you know
- 5:49Speaker 2: f you guys, Yeah yeah, yeah, like with autism, Miller,
- 5:52Speaker 2: We'll get to autism. We'll get to that. But here's
- 5:53Speaker 2: one from Brittney Underwood sixteen on YouTube. Y'all, this wasn't okay.
- 5:57Speaker 2: I almost started crying because Taylor seemed like he was
- 6:00Speaker 2: seriously going to announce some terrible news. Now you have
- 6:03Speaker 2: me in the first half anyway, Girls Rule, Girl Dad's
- 6:05Speaker 2: Rule even more part emoji Britney, Brittany, thank you for
- 6:08Speaker 2: writing in. It was you know, we primed it up.
- 6:14Speaker 2: We did.
- 6:15Speaker 3: It was an electric lead up. As far as like
- 6:19Speaker 3: before the Dads goes. Yeah, as far as our intro
- 6:22Speaker 3: clips that go out, maybe a hundred likes here, maybe
- 6:25Speaker 3: a couple comments there, Hey.
- 6:27Speaker 2: Ge't wait to go chuck out the bud Supersto guy.
- 6:31Speaker 3: We had like crazy comments across all the trailers and
- 6:35Speaker 3: the post from Taylor, the post from you, and we played.
- 6:38Speaker 3: We played with the sickos hearts.
- 6:40Speaker 1: We played.
- 6:41Speaker 2: Yeah, we tugged on some heartstrings, we leveraged some things.
- 6:43Speaker 2: But however, everybody in our community knows you never know
- 6:47Speaker 2: what you're gonna get.
- 6:48Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why you tune in.
- 6:49Speaker 3: That is and if we haven't illustrated that already with
- 6:53Speaker 3: some of our clips where it's uh, Will sobbing and
- 6:56Speaker 3: then ten minutes later he's playing rap music on him
- 7:00Speaker 3: phone that we're dancing to. Then I'm sobbing, and then
- 7:03Speaker 3: I'm doing the Boston terrible dad voice.
- 7:06Speaker 2: Ten minutes later, you apologize to me after the show
- 7:11Speaker 2: I did from the Austin Miller layup that you got
- 7:14Speaker 2: me on. But I'm thinking I said, dude, fuck you
- 7:17Speaker 2: for that, because you truly have.
- 7:18Speaker 3: Oh no, you're talking about the sad, the fake sad
- 7:22Speaker 3: comment that I was also gonna hoologize.
- 7:26Speaker 1: Austin Millers or autism. Miller's a separate one.
- 7:28Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, the sad comment of the wife leaving
- 7:31Speaker 2: the family, you teamed me up, and I was like,
- 7:35Speaker 2: I was kind of frazzled and upset that you delivered
- 7:37Speaker 2: it to me that way. However, game respects game. That
- 7:41Speaker 2: was phenomenal. Thank you.
- 7:43Speaker 3: But also I will say this, I like actually apologize
- 7:49Speaker 3: to listeners because there probably are some listeners that like
- 7:53Speaker 3: do if we are like crying, they probably cry along
- 7:56Speaker 3: with it and like they're emotionally invested in the show.
- 7:59Speaker 2: And I feel like that's a pretty cool part of
- 8:01Speaker 2: our show.
- 8:02Speaker 1: And I.
- 8:04Speaker 3: Definitely pulled that string too hard. I feel like I
- 8:06Speaker 3: pulled that string too. That's one where you actually took
- 8:08Speaker 3: advantage of me. I did in us in the community.
- 8:11Speaker 2: Yeah, because when it is sad alert, it's it's the
- 8:16Speaker 2: time been a sad alert. Yeah, so you kind of
- 8:19Speaker 2: took advantage I did on that.
- 8:23Speaker 3: I like, I feel very bad and it's not Dom's fault.
- 8:27Speaker 3: That was funny. Yeah, what Dom did was funny.
- 8:31Speaker 2: And as Dom's listening to it, He's like, Wow, he's
- 8:33Speaker 2: really hyping this up. Dom did follow back up with us.
- 8:38Speaker 4: Oh good, Dom wrote just listen to the pod that
- 8:40Speaker 4: I love the shout out, thanks for my message. I
- 8:42Speaker 4: love the fake quiver Insuran's voice, and I was cracking
- 8:45Speaker 4: my or up to myself hearing will be genuinely concerned
- 8:48Speaker 4: for a bit. I'm sorry for giving you boys a
- 8:50Speaker 4: brief part attack. You guys are seriously the best looking
- 8:52Speaker 4: forward to the pod every week, and I just wrote back,
- 8:54Speaker 4: you're a sick out.
- 8:56Speaker 2: Well, if Dom had fun, then everyone wins yeah hopefully, yeah,
- 9:01Speaker 2: yeah yeah, but I do.
- 9:02Speaker 3: I do genuinely apologize for that. There was one time
- 9:05Speaker 3: where I pulled the prank on you with Taylor and
- 9:10Speaker 3: was trying to mess with you with Taylor, and then
- 9:12Speaker 3: you went into full oh Sherman's gonna mess with me,
- 9:15Speaker 3: I'll mess with them back, and you pretended to be
- 9:17Speaker 3: really mad at me, and it took about ten minutes
- 9:20Speaker 3: for me to then call you and say, hey, since
- 9:23Speaker 3: you're my boss, I'm really scared right now, and so
- 9:27Speaker 3: whatever game we're doing, I would love for it to end.
- 9:30Speaker 3: And I am really really sorry. I think I said
- 9:34Speaker 3: that I loved you maybe like eight times on the call,
- 9:37Speaker 3: and you were laughing exactly like that I'm not going sure, Bro,
- 9:40Speaker 3: I love you.
- 9:41Speaker 2: I'm kidding. I'm kidding. Oh you kid, I kid too. Yeah,
- 9:45Speaker 2: And so that I was like, I'm done. I'm done
- 9:48Speaker 2: doing pranks on Will and Taylor. I'm gonna steer clear
- 9:50Speaker 2: of that. So you have an apology. That was my apology?
- 9:55Speaker 1: Oh that was it?
- 9:56Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, Yeah, I thought you had one with our boy,
- 9:58Speaker 2: Austin Miller. Oh, I have a thank you. I have
- 10:01Speaker 2: a follow up. You have an APR. I have an APR.
- 10:06Speaker 3: This came from our good friend Austin Miller. This is
- 10:11Speaker 3: Austin Miller. Austin Austin. We have show notes that are
- 10:15Speaker 3: typed out. There was a mistake made as highlighted a
- 10:18Speaker 3: highlighted in our clip last week and on the podcast.
- 10:23Speaker 3: Will you did a fantastic job of both reading and
- 10:27Speaker 3: pronouncing autism. Miller, you did nothing wrong. Will is blameless
- 10:33Speaker 3: in this, okay, but Austin's name and unintentionally that was
- 10:40Speaker 3: not a bit that was Bitloh. Yeah, can we get
- 10:43Speaker 3: the bitchecker to check that, and just can we make
- 10:46Speaker 3: sure that that was bitless because it was Yeah, well
- 10:50Speaker 3: there was some follow up on Facebook because.
- 10:52Speaker 2: On Facebook, yeah, you know, it's real when it's on Facebook.
- 10:56Speaker 3: Well, you know the mom and dad are getting involved
- 10:58Speaker 3: when it's Facebook too, which they did. The probably Austin's
- 11:04Speaker 3: entire family basically found this clip and jumped in. I'm
- 11:09Speaker 3: sure chef will probably pull these up on the screen.
- 11:11Speaker 3: Do we want to do it that way? And I'll
- 11:13Speaker 3: just read some of these comments out. Austin said, Hey,
- 11:17Speaker 3: I'm never gonna live this down. If you smell smoke
- 11:20Speaker 3: coming for Texas, just know it's me getting risk regardless,
- 11:24Speaker 3: though I appreciate the shout out, just wanted to highlight
- 11:26Speaker 3: the boys coming together and supporting each other on our
- 11:29Speaker 3: respective dad journey.
- 11:31Speaker 2: Great group of guys.
- 11:32Speaker 3: I wouldn't trade for anything less than eight weeks left
- 11:34Speaker 3: until we have our little one, and I couldn't be
- 11:37Speaker 3: more excited. Austin, that is that is great news. We
- 11:41Speaker 3: can pause there just for a second and say congratulations.
- 11:45Speaker 2: Yeah, let's celebrate Austin, Yes, for just this moment.
- 11:49Speaker 3: He still loved his closing remark, still love the pod.
- 11:54Speaker 3: Good We then we replied, We basically apologized via Derek
- 12:00Speaker 3: on the FDD account. Austin got in there, Hey, don't
- 12:06Speaker 3: be sorry, it's okay. Well then Katie Miller jumps in,
- 12:09Speaker 3: you may recognize that last name. Hi, I'm the wife
- 12:15Speaker 3: and this is one of the funniest days of my
- 12:17Speaker 3: life with six crying, laughing jeez. Ashley Chinnawith then jumped
- 12:23Speaker 3: in said, as the sister in law, I'm changing his
- 12:25Speaker 3: name in my phone.
- 12:28Speaker 2: Austin Austin.
- 12:32Speaker 3: Jackie Chappa then jumped in, bajaha, thanks for the laugh,
- 12:35Speaker 3: and as his sister, yes, he will be referred to
- 12:39Speaker 3: as Autism Miller for the next twelve and a half weeks.
- 12:44Speaker 3: Katie then replied, he had to remind me where the
- 12:46Speaker 3: twelve and a half came from. You ain't right, what
- 12:49Speaker 3: is the twelve and a half from?
- 12:51Speaker 2: No clue? Oh okay, fabulous. It's good they have their
- 12:54Speaker 2: own lord and inside they have their own lord. The
- 12:56Speaker 2: only thing I'm worried about is Austin saying yeah, in
- 13:00Speaker 2: eight weeks, I'm gonna be a dad and maybe they're like, actually,
- 13:03Speaker 2: that's twelve and a half. Hey, slow down, Autism Millers,
- 13:09Speaker 2: like he my boy's Austin. This is now going to
- 13:14Speaker 2: be his nickname for any time he screws up in
- 13:17Speaker 2: the family, just because he thought of like an any cookout,
- 13:19Speaker 2: any family gathering. Anytime he messes up, it's just gonna
- 13:22Speaker 2: be a autism pipe.
- 13:29Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, and uh he just he just enjoyed a podcast. Yeah,
- 13:33Speaker 3: like that's the only crime he did. And he just
- 13:36Speaker 3: rode in because he's a part of the community. He's like, yeah,
- 13:39Speaker 3: let me get right with the boys. Let me just
- 13:41Speaker 3: shout them out. Let's hope to get shows. Four best friends,
- 13:45Speaker 3: all wearing Pete six, like they're all in on it,
- 13:53Speaker 3: and he's out numbered. Dude, wife, sister in law and
- 13:57Speaker 3: sister can jump in.
- 13:58Speaker 2: And want more. And one more? Oh no, it's uh
- 14:05Speaker 2: where where is that? One more?
- 14:07Speaker 3: Christ And O'Reilly? We love our son in law Austin.
- 14:13Speaker 3: Oh no wait wait, I was gonna say, I misspoke.
- 14:20Speaker 2: I missmoke.
- 14:21Speaker 3: Mother in law said, we love our son in law.
- 14:23Speaker 3: Autism Miller.
- 14:26Speaker 2: The laws are in on it, Autism Miller. He's awesome
- 14:29Speaker 2: and this is hilarious.
- 14:31Speaker 1: We ruined his life.
- 14:32Speaker 2: We ruined his life because a nickname like that, like,
- 14:37Speaker 2: they'll continue to use that and at some point it'll
- 14:39Speaker 2: bubble and it'll get personal. And man, there's nothing we
- 14:46Speaker 2: can do. Because again, that was that was that was bitless. Yeah,
- 14:51Speaker 2: there was.
- 14:52Speaker 3: There was zero pre production notes of like I just
- 14:55Speaker 3: read the card.
- 14:59Speaker 5: Job yeah sure, Yeah that clip when you added in
- 15:03Speaker 5: the ron burgundy was a very nice touch too.
- 15:06Speaker 2: Saw that thank you to read anything on that card.
- 15:10Speaker 2: Go check out the clips the dead Spot on all socials.
- 15:13Speaker 2: Go follow. I have some quick recaps too that I
- 15:16Speaker 2: can do really quickly. Yeah, rip through them.
- 15:19Speaker 3: Meg Allenson on Spotify said, my dad forgot me at
- 15:23Speaker 3: preschool one time, and I refuse to let him forget it.
- 15:26Speaker 2: I'm thirty years old, mind you. That comes from me
- 15:29Speaker 2: forgetting to pick up Scarlet the other day from daycare man,
- 15:35Speaker 2: forgetting to pick up at because how long, like, how
- 15:38Speaker 2: late were you picking up Scarlett?
- 15:39Speaker 3: Thankfully I did get there before the cutoff, because there
- 15:43Speaker 3: is a cutoff where you.
- 15:44Speaker 1: See you're fine.
- 15:46Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's not even a real thing you forgot
- 15:48Speaker 2: in the moment you're like, oh shit, I gotta go
- 15:50Speaker 2: pick her up. She's just letting me imagine the fear
- 15:53Speaker 2: and just oh you forget to pick up your kids?
- 15:57Speaker 1: Cool.
- 15:58Speaker 2: Yeah. I was late one time picking up Rue and
- 16:03Speaker 2: I thought it was the cutoff was three thirty, which
- 16:05Speaker 2: the cutoff is three thirty, But they want the older
- 16:07Speaker 2: kids going at three thirty, so they want all everybody
- 16:10Speaker 2: in Rue's age picked up by three fifteen. Yeah, but
- 16:12Speaker 2: I just as I'm driving over there, just feeling terrible.
- 16:15Speaker 2: I'm just envisioning sweet Roue sitting there by herself, and
- 16:19Speaker 2: it just like broke my heart. As I'm going to
- 16:21Speaker 2: pick her up. Everything was fine, yeah, but just everything
- 16:24Speaker 2: that goes on in your head as a parent, you.
- 16:25Speaker 1: Just feel terrible.
- 16:27Speaker 2: You feel sad thinking about your little one just sitting
- 16:30Speaker 2: there by themselves, Like, yeah, when's my dad gonna pick
- 16:34Speaker 2: me up? And my dad gonna be here right?
- 16:36Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 16:36Speaker 2: And then I had to remind myself she has no
- 16:38Speaker 2: concept of time. Yeah, so she's not like checking her
- 16:41Speaker 2: watch back man, it's past three fifteen to day probably
- 16:44Speaker 2: having a blast. Yeah. Yeah, it was all good, But
- 16:46Speaker 2: everything that I was creating in my brain, I was like, oh,
- 16:49Speaker 2: this feels awful. I couldn't imagine like forgetting my kid.
- 16:52Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and thankfully, like, oh, you didn't pick them
- 16:55Speaker 2: up and you're both at home.
- 16:56Speaker 1: You didn't pick up Rue.
- 16:58Speaker 3: That that was just the greatest question I've ever been asked,
- 17:02Speaker 3: who's picking up our daughter if you're still at work?
- 17:08Speaker 2: I think go so far, honey.
- 17:11Speaker 3: Kyle Smith wrote on YouTube, this is my final callback.
- 17:14Speaker 3: My wife is pregnant and we found out the gender,
- 17:17Speaker 3: and we find out the gender in about a month.
- 17:20Speaker 3: Taylor's announcement is what I'm hoping doesn't happen to me.
- 17:23Speaker 2: Lol.
- 17:24Speaker 3: I want an heir to the throne boys. But of
- 17:26Speaker 3: course we will be happy no matter the gender. Healthy
- 17:29Speaker 3: is a true goal for our baby has to be healthy,
- 17:32Speaker 3: has to be.
- 17:34Speaker 2: Kyle, Congratulations. You get caught in like wishing for a
- 17:36Speaker 2: certain gender and it's just it's ah, you're just planning
- 17:40Speaker 2: a seed to be let down, Adam expectation, planning a
- 17:44Speaker 2: seed to be let down.
- 17:45Speaker 3: Yeah, and that bilical cord just playing tricks, dude, Yeah,
- 17:49Speaker 3: figure it out.
- 17:50Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 17:50Speaker 1: Man.
- 17:51Speaker 2: What's hilarious about the tailor thing happening is they were
- 17:55Speaker 2: going into it wanting to be surprised by the gender, like,
- 17:59Speaker 2: not no the gender until.
- 18:01Speaker 1: The baby was born.
- 18:02Speaker 2: I didn't even know that.
- 18:02Speaker 1: You know, people they just.
- 18:04Speaker 2: Wait until the end to be like, we're just gonna
- 18:06Speaker 2: find out what it is like in the in the
- 18:08Speaker 2: delivery room. That was their path at first. Then they
- 18:11Speaker 2: got curious and found out the gender through the ultrasound. Yeah,
- 18:17Speaker 2: hyped up tears of joy. Taylor's finally getting a boy.
- 18:21Speaker 2: I mean, you know Taylor, for those weeks, he was
- 18:23Speaker 2: like sky high, really dud, he just can't do anything
- 18:28Speaker 2: but just be happy for him. Yeah, you see the emotion. Yeah,
- 18:32Speaker 2: and it's like he's finally getting he's finally getting one.
- 18:34Speaker 2: And he didn't know what that meant for this office too.
- 18:37Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it's truly a thing in that Like we
- 18:39Speaker 3: did the whole bit of the ritual and everything, but
- 18:43Speaker 3: it's a that's a real thing in this office that
- 18:45Speaker 3: gets talked about a lot.
- 18:47Speaker 2: Yeah, anybody who's been in this office. We just have girls. Yeah,
- 18:51Speaker 2: both my girls. It's when Bust with the Boys was going,
- 18:55Speaker 2: Willow like Taylor already had win. But since Bust when
- 18:58Speaker 2: the boy started, he said, h Willow, yeah girl, clump,
- 19:01Speaker 2: he's got two boys. But when he started working for
- 19:04Speaker 2: busting girl, he's got a girl on the way. I
- 19:08Speaker 2: have a girl. You have a girl? Yeah, forgot about you.
- 19:12Speaker 2: He was about to be the pack ripper, the curse breaker.
- 19:16Speaker 1: M But going back to it, if they had stayed.
- 19:20Speaker 2: On their path of just being surprised, they would have
- 19:23Speaker 2: never had to go through this grief. Yeah, being let down. Yeah, good.
- 19:32Speaker 1: S's and pas man. I mean, we'reaking the white chromosome.
- 19:35Speaker 3: We're not even into the episode yet, and think about
- 19:37Speaker 3: how much we've already covered a lot.
- 19:40Speaker 2: There's been a lot. Yeah, listen, I know I said
- 19:43Speaker 2: at the top, we have a rat in the house.
- 19:44Speaker 3: Yes, I'm scared. I'm legitimately like I thought it was
- 19:50Speaker 3: a mouse.
- 19:51Speaker 1: A rat, it's Rue. Rue's a rat.
- 20:00Speaker 2: In two things, two things I think. I think to myself,
- 20:05Speaker 2: she's a little she doesn't know she's being a rat,
- 20:07Speaker 2: but she's also being a rat. How do you confront
- 20:10Speaker 2: your kids when they're tattling on you? Because now I
- 20:13Speaker 2: found out, like Ruge's tattled on her dad, but also
- 20:16Speaker 2: my second one. And this is for the dads out there,
- 20:18Speaker 2: because I know what happens. I doubt it happens to
- 20:21Speaker 2: the other side because I'm never prying about or probing
- 20:24Speaker 2: the way mom operates. I'm never probing about how Charlie operates.
- 20:29Speaker 2: But Mom's playing the little manipulation game to figure out
- 20:32Speaker 2: what dad has up to. Oh, they're brushing their teeth
- 20:36Speaker 2: last night, Charles's doing bedtime.
- 20:39Speaker 1: Yeah, and.
- 20:42Speaker 2: Charle comes down We're sitting on the couch, We're about
- 20:44Speaker 2: to watch Young Sherlock or this, and.
- 20:51Speaker 1: Charlie hits me.
- 20:52Speaker 2: With like, so I learned a little bit about who
- 20:55Speaker 2: Rue's favorite is when it comes to brushing her teeth.
- 20:59Speaker 2: And what Ruth said was Charo asked her who do
- 21:03Speaker 2: you like? Who do you like brushing your teeth with
- 21:06Speaker 2: the most? And she's like, well, Dad Dad And She's like,
- 21:09Speaker 2: why do you like brushing your teeth with Dadad the most? Well,
- 21:12Speaker 2: Dadad does a way shorter. And right there, I'm like,
- 21:17Speaker 2: I'm like looking at my wife thinking like, you know
- 21:19Speaker 2: what you were doing, you know, you were trying to
- 21:22Speaker 2: figure out how dad ad operates? Yeah, or what made
- 21:25Speaker 2: dad add better? Yeah, you're a little three year old.
- 21:28Speaker 2: Now you're turning into a rat. And Charles asking me like,
- 21:34Speaker 2: how long do you brush Rue's teeth? And I'm like
- 21:37Speaker 2: probably twenty to thirty seconds. She's like she's the way
- 21:41Speaker 2: she explained, it seems like you go faster than that.
- 21:43Speaker 2: You get.
- 21:45Speaker 1: Who was like She's like because then she asked Rue like, well,
- 21:48Speaker 1: how does Dadad do it?
- 21:49Speaker 2: He goes he does like he does my bottoms like
- 21:52Speaker 2: inside and outside on my bottoms and he goes to
- 21:54Speaker 2: my top. He does the inside and outside, then we
- 21:56Speaker 2: do cheese, then we do tongue roof and then I spit.
- 22:00Speaker 2: That's twenty seconds at least that's what I'm thinking. But
- 22:03Speaker 2: then as something in third in Charles starting to question me,
- 22:05Speaker 2: I'm starting to sweat a little bit. Am I all right?
- 22:07Speaker 2: Maybe it's like I'm like thinking in my head because
- 22:09Speaker 2: I used to do this counting method with ru one, two, three, four, five.
- 22:16Speaker 2: I get around her bottoms, then I go to the
- 22:18Speaker 2: top one or six, seven all the way to ten,
- 22:21Speaker 2: and then I do cheese and I do tongue in roofs.
- 22:24Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, maybe it's like fifteen to twenty seconds.
- 22:26Speaker 2: She's like, why are you backtracking? I'm like, how long
- 22:27Speaker 2: do you do She's like she's like, you know, when
- 22:30Speaker 2: you brush your teeth, it's supposed to be like two
- 22:31Speaker 2: minutes long each time, like as a grown adult. She's like,
- 22:34Speaker 2: you know, on your little electric toothbrush, like it has
- 22:37Speaker 2: a timer where once two minutes hits, the toothbrush stops.
- 22:41Speaker 2: And I'm like, she's like, how often do you do that?
- 22:42Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, me, you've done this in front
- 22:44Speaker 2: of me. I've only done it the one time when
- 22:46Speaker 2: you told me about the timer. Yeah. Like, other than that,
- 22:48Speaker 2: I'm probably forty five seconds at most. And sometimes I'm
- 22:53Speaker 2: just hanging in there because I know you're brushing your teeth,
- 22:55Speaker 2: and I'm like, I know you're judging me on how
- 22:57Speaker 2: long I brush my teeth. It's the old hand washing
- 23:00Speaker 2: the restaurant. Yeah, it's like, oh, they're sitting there washing
- 23:02Speaker 2: their hands, or hey, do I just want to walk
- 23:04Speaker 2: out the door. Somebody's in here. Let me show them
- 23:05Speaker 2: that I watched. No way, this guy's go longer than me. Man,
- 23:08Speaker 2: no way, you gotta scro get the germs off. Yeah.
- 23:15Speaker 1: I I go a little quick when I brush your teeth.
- 23:18Speaker 2: Yeah, sue them, Yeah, sue me. Take him to court.
- 23:22Speaker 2: Then Roo comes down the next morning. This this is
- 23:24Speaker 2: at nighttime, and I'm sitting there. I'm thinking to myself,
- 23:27Speaker 2: shall I make a video? I gotta talk about this
- 23:29Speaker 2: on the dads because Charles's now like, hey, why do
- 23:33Speaker 2: you like doing that?
- 23:34Speaker 1: At best?
- 23:34Speaker 2: She said, oh that it goes away faster the daughter
- 23:37Speaker 2: of Will And soon this morning I'm making eggs rouse
- 23:45Speaker 2: the lady and she's like yells, up from the stairs.
- 23:47Speaker 2: Roo always loves the preface, like what you're gonna say
- 23:49Speaker 2: and what you're gonna do, Like I'm gonna come down
- 23:51Speaker 2: and surprise you.
- 23:51Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, I'm making some eggs.
- 23:53Speaker 2: I bet you off.
- 23:53Speaker 1: And she's like, I'm gonna run up behind you, and
- 23:55Speaker 1: you got to say who's there.
- 23:58Speaker 2: I'm like all right. She comes up and gives me
- 24:00Speaker 2: a hug, buying my legs. I was like, oh, who's
- 24:03Speaker 2: behind me? Who's behind that? I'm like, nobody's talking. I
- 24:07Speaker 2: can't figure out who it is. You got to say something.
- 24:09Speaker 2: She's like, I don't know. And I was like, oh,
- 24:11Speaker 2: is that rude?
- 24:12Speaker 1: I go run the room.
- 24:13Speaker 2: She goes over to you know. I'm like, oh, I
- 24:14Speaker 2: got eggies for you. Got her little yogurt. Yogurt and
- 24:18Speaker 2: strawberries is her breakfast of choice.
- 24:21Speaker 1: Ruce sitting there eating.
- 24:22Speaker 2: I'm finishing up the eggs and I'm like, uh, hey, Rue,
- 24:26Speaker 2: we got a rat in the house. Charles starts chuckling
- 24:31Speaker 2: and shake a rat. I'm like, yeah, we got a
- 24:34Speaker 2: rat in the house. Somebody who's tattling, somebody who's telling secrets,
- 24:38Speaker 2: somebody's telling on their old man. She's kind of like thinking.
- 24:41Speaker 2: She's like looking up trying to put it all together,
- 24:44Speaker 2: like what does that even mean? Like what's a rat?
- 24:45Speaker 2: What is like telling a dog? And she's like wet
- 24:50Speaker 2: in the house.
- 24:50Speaker 1: And she's like U.
- 24:51Speaker 2: She's kind of sitting there thinking and then she just goes, dad,
- 24:55Speaker 2: look how big my bite is?
- 24:57Speaker 1: Like, oh, your's so big.
- 24:58Speaker 2: I'm like, so you're the rat spoken like a true rat. Honey, yeah, spoking,
- 25:02Speaker 2: you're the rat.
- 25:02Speaker 1: And she goes, look how big my bite is.
- 25:04Speaker 2: You just don't get it. Wait a segue. Yeah, it's
- 25:09Speaker 2: gonna it's gonna grow. It will grow.
- 25:12Speaker 3: Because I saw a fantastic clip online of a dad
- 25:16Speaker 3: and a daughter. Now I got I gotta send it
- 25:19Speaker 3: to chef of the mom's yelling about the the hairdo
- 25:24Speaker 3: the daughter and the dad and the daughter in a
- 25:25Speaker 3: separate room and dad's filming the daughter and the mom's like,
- 25:28Speaker 3: you gotta change that hairdo before.
- 25:30Speaker 2: You go to school. You're not wearing your head like that.
- 25:33Speaker 2: And the daughter's just like she's probably five six, and
- 25:35Speaker 2: she's like oh. The dad's like, hey, you want you
- 25:39Speaker 2: want me a teller that you don't need to change
- 25:41Speaker 2: your your hair And she's like yeah, yeah, yeah, honey,
- 25:46Speaker 2: I think her hair's fine.
- 25:47Speaker 3: I think, you know, I think, And the daughter's sitting
- 25:50Speaker 3: there going like you just hear this like silence for
- 25:54Speaker 3: three seconds, and finally the mom's voice is like okay,
- 25:56Speaker 3: but she's wearing it like that. The next day he's like,
- 25:58Speaker 3: I bought you a day, I buy you We're good,
- 26:00Speaker 3: oh bye you day. But I feel like that is
- 26:04Speaker 3: going to develop more and more.
- 26:06Speaker 2: Yeah, the dynamics real Charles able to infiltrate and keep
- 26:10Speaker 2: tabs empty. Six is able to keep tabs on BT
- 26:14Speaker 2: six And it's already happened to me.
- 26:16Speaker 3: I do the bathtime, and I swear I do not
- 26:19Speaker 3: do this consciously of like a timesaver. I enjoyed bathtime,
- 26:25Speaker 3: but I will legitimately not do Scarlet's hair sometimes.
- 26:29Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I've been in that edge hot water.
- 26:32Speaker 2: I just won't do her hair sometimes.
- 26:35Speaker 3: And Jill gets back from work right as final bottle
- 26:39Speaker 3: is being done, and she's in her sleepsack going into
- 26:42Speaker 3: the crib. That's right when Jill gets home, and so
- 26:45Speaker 3: hair is usually a little bit dry slash wet.
- 26:49Speaker 2: And she caught me one time and it turned into
- 26:52Speaker 2: a police interrogation. I felt tourist that you.
- 26:56Speaker 1: Didn't wash Scarlet's hair, like her hair wasn't that wet?
- 26:59Speaker 2: Yeah? Are you just doing that every time? Do you
- 27:02Speaker 2: just not wash your hair?
- 27:03Speaker 7: Sherman?
- 27:04Speaker 2: Do you know how many germs are gonna sit on
- 27:06Speaker 2: her head? Do you know what that's gonna do with
- 27:08Speaker 2: her scalp and her hair development? When was the last
- 27:11Speaker 2: time that you forgot to do this? And dude, I
- 27:14Speaker 2: if I just need to shut my mouth, if I
- 27:17Speaker 2: ever get in a police interrogation room and just say
- 27:20Speaker 2: I need a lawyer. I need a lawyer because I
- 27:23Speaker 2: folded like a blanket.
- 27:26Speaker 1: You know what, I'm not doing this, no comment, I
- 27:27Speaker 1: plead the fit.
- 27:28Speaker 3: No comment, I plead the fit, and then I forgot
- 27:29Speaker 3: to do it, like three days later. I think you
- 27:34Speaker 3: know I'm holding Scarlet. I've made the bottle. I know
- 27:37Speaker 3: that Jill's about to be home, like three minutes. I
- 27:39Speaker 3: put the bottle down. Honey, I'm sorry. I dip my head.
- 27:44Speaker 2: With the hair to make it simmy dry, Simmy.
- 27:48Speaker 1: What so Mama don't find out?
- 27:51Speaker 2: Hey, don't tell your mother, don't I know you can't talk,
- 27:53Speaker 2: But also don't tell her. I was so scared. My
- 27:55Speaker 2: my heart is kind of pounding telling that story. Yeah,
- 27:58Speaker 2: because you got to go home to the grim Reaper.
- 28:00Speaker 2: Yeah now yeah, now she knows like Charles listeners right now.
- 28:04Speaker 2: And all I'm thinking about is how have I butchered
- 28:05Speaker 2: the story? Or have I said too much? Or maybe
- 28:07Speaker 2: I didn't say enough. But Dad's Pete six got to
- 28:10Speaker 2: be on their p's and q's man two. We have to,
- 28:13Speaker 2: like I do have to have a conversation with Rue
- 28:16Speaker 2: tonight when I do bedtime, go shooter. I know you
- 28:19Speaker 2: love doing brushing your teeth with that that, but you've
- 28:22Speaker 2: got to give me some more slack if you're gonna
- 28:24Speaker 2: love Like the way we get to operate is that
- 28:28Speaker 2: had my goal a little faster because we play a
- 28:29Speaker 2: little chase game when I go chase you back in
- 28:31Speaker 2: bed and we played good guys and bad guys or
- 28:34Speaker 2: you want me to be You're You're the Grandma and
- 28:36Speaker 2: little Red riding hood and I got to eat you
- 28:38Speaker 2: because I'm the wolf. Yeah, like you, I want to
- 28:42Speaker 2: continue doing that. But when Mama.
- 28:43Speaker 1: Asks you, why is that that so great?
- 28:46Speaker 6: Oh?
- 28:46Speaker 2: He's just the best, Like he probably does it two
- 28:48Speaker 2: minutes every time, makes it fun, makes it clean, fresh, breath. Yeah,
- 28:53Speaker 2: if you can't tell her I do fifteen twenty seconds.
- 28:56Speaker 2: You can't tell her the formula that I do. You
- 28:57Speaker 2: can't tell her that. Sometimes I allow you to not
- 29:00Speaker 2: brush your teeth because one day you're gonna be twelve
- 29:02Speaker 2: and we're gonna be in an empty Walmart parking lot
- 29:05Speaker 2: and I'm gonna look at you. I say, hey, you
- 29:07Speaker 2: want to learn to drive a little bit today, And
- 29:09Speaker 2: Mom's gonna hate that. Yeah. And we can't be telling
- 29:12Speaker 2: Mama that. Oh he's letting me, you know, practice driving
- 29:15Speaker 2: in the Walmart parking lot.
- 29:16Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't.
- 29:17Speaker 2: I talkt to Mama. Yeah. Yeah, And I need to
- 29:19Speaker 2: do it better. I just know if you need to
- 29:21Speaker 2: tell Mama, just let me know so I can get
- 29:23Speaker 2: out in front of it. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, I gotta
- 29:25Speaker 2: get it, get out in front of it before you
- 29:27Speaker 2: take it to the papers. Yeah. She took it to
- 29:30Speaker 2: the papers. Yeah, and she went down with you unknowingly. Yeah.
- 29:37Speaker 2: Because sometimes I'll just share a pass her, like, oh,
- 29:38Speaker 2: you're tired, you want to brush your teeth? Like, oh,
- 29:42Speaker 2: can I do it in the morning? Oh you can
- 29:43Speaker 2: do it them? Oh for sure, that's not all the time. Sweeter,
- 29:46Speaker 2: I swear to God, that's not all the time, because
- 29:48Speaker 2: I already know I'm gonna get questions about that. Like
- 29:51Speaker 2: that is rare. That's some very rare occasion. She's like,
- 29:54Speaker 2: when we're all tired, I see we had a day
- 29:55Speaker 2: at the pool. Are you something where she's worn out?
- 29:57Speaker 2: She looks like she's dozing off. Listen, we both know
- 30:00Speaker 2: we don't want to do the brush teeth. We can
- 30:02Speaker 2: brush it the morning, yeah, I'm saying.
- 30:05Speaker 3: And Honey, I'm sitting there thinking, I do the soap
- 30:08Speaker 3: three times, and I do the I do hands, and
- 30:12Speaker 3: then I do rag like I am into bad time.
- 30:15Speaker 2: I love bathist love bad time. I've never once said
- 30:19Speaker 2: I don't want to do that because.
- 30:20Speaker 3: I've already done the bad thing kind of along. I
- 30:22Speaker 3: don't want to do the hair. I want to do
- 30:23Speaker 3: the hair. I forget to do the hair. I'm talking
- 30:26Speaker 3: to her, I'm singing, there's a lot of space. I'll
- 30:29Speaker 3: dance for scarlet. She loves bad time. I just gotta
- 30:33Speaker 3: lock in in those moments.
- 30:34Speaker 2: Yeah, why don't you you take the cump and dump
- 30:37Speaker 2: it on their head. It's easy. That's the easiest part.
- 30:40Speaker 2: Like bathing rue doing her hair is like fuck for
- 30:44Speaker 2: me as a dude, because she's got so much shit.
- 30:47Speaker 2: It has hair, you know what I'm saying.
- 30:50Speaker 1: Yeah, she's got a ton of hair.
- 30:52Speaker 2: But I'm just thinking that Scarlet doesn't that like Scotty
- 30:54Speaker 2: doesn't have a whole whole lot of hair. And Scotty's
- 30:56Speaker 2: not like Rue to where Rue always hated when gotten right,
- 31:00Speaker 2: you can just tell she's different when it gets water
- 31:02Speaker 2: gets on her face than what Scotty is. Scotty go
- 31:04Speaker 2: take it to the j bro. Oh like, I'll dump
- 31:06Speaker 2: it up. Oh you like that, and dump it a
- 31:08Speaker 2: couple extra times, just to test her. She'll go do
- 31:11Speaker 2: it again. Yeah, yeah, again.
- 31:16Speaker 3: Scarlett and Scarlet's the same way I'm operating with a
- 31:20Speaker 3: baby that wants her hair washed.
- 31:22Speaker 2: Yeah again, that's on Dad. Yeah, I'm sorry on us.
- 31:24Speaker 2: Dad losses, Dad loss, Dad losses.
- 31:26Speaker 1: Choking up.
- 31:27Speaker 2: I had a huge dad loss this weekend that you
- 31:29Speaker 2: already brought up. You left your family with the AC
- 31:33Speaker 2: went out. Yeah, I saw the selfies on on X. Yeah,
- 31:36Speaker 2: just hooting and hollering loud. I'm golfing loud and proud,
- 31:42Speaker 2: loud and proud. What happened there? And when the AC
- 31:47Speaker 2: was out? What what in your brain continued to say, like,
- 31:51Speaker 2: I need to go golf. I need to go golf
- 31:53Speaker 2: on Sunday.
- 31:54Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 31:56Speaker 2: So, first off, I don't think I've ever had somebody
- 31:59Speaker 2: advocate for me. My mother in law did this weekend.
- 32:02Speaker 2: It was actually phenomenal, nice and win.
- 32:05Speaker 3: It's a dad win and it's the plot twist of
- 32:07Speaker 3: the century because there's always the uh you know, oh,
- 32:10Speaker 3: the mother in law, the mother in law.
- 32:12Speaker 2: With any.
- 32:14Speaker 3: Pet sicko husband. Mother in law advocated for the golf round.
- 32:19Speaker 3: She was one of the voices going, what does the
- 32:21Speaker 3: ac going out have.
- 32:22Speaker 2: To do with him going golfing? No shit, mom, mother
- 32:27Speaker 2: in law Lisa, Lisa, Wow, Lisa's a dog. In general,
- 32:34Speaker 2: She's a dog. She's saying this in front of both
- 32:37Speaker 2: of you. Yeah, Jill, were you kind of like this
- 32:40Speaker 2: and then you just like you just like looked at
- 32:42Speaker 2: Jill like, oh, suck on that.
- 32:43Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 32:44Speaker 3: No, it was out of body experience where I just
- 32:48Speaker 3: it was like a Jesus take the wheel thing. But
- 32:51Speaker 3: Lisa's taking the wheel and she's driving for me. I'm
- 32:54Speaker 3: sitting there going.
- 32:54Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't have to say a word.
- 32:56Speaker 2: Right.
- 32:57Speaker 3: We haven't hit a single cone yet Yeah, this is incredible,
- 33:01Speaker 3: and Jill was beyond pissed, as she should have been
- 33:06Speaker 3: the entire situation.
- 33:07Speaker 2: And there's more details, but to to keep this a
- 33:12Speaker 2: very clean story of nobody's nobody's getting dragged.
- 33:17Speaker 1: Don't want to do that.
- 33:18Speaker 2: Don't want to do that. We're already in hot water.
- 33:21Speaker 2: We're already in hot well.
- 33:23Speaker 3: I'm talking about I'm talking about third party dragging because
- 33:26Speaker 3: we got we got to pay for the hotel room
- 33:28Speaker 3: with you.
- 33:29Speaker 2: Yep, yep, listen.
- 33:31Speaker 3: Yeah, so uh so, uh just a lot went on
- 33:36Speaker 3: and it was basically my wife was like, you're defending
- 33:40Speaker 3: our landlord more than you're defending me. I have to
- 33:44Speaker 3: go stay in a hotel with my mom. She never
- 33:47Speaker 3: comes in town, and when she does, this happens.
- 33:50Speaker 2: This sucks.
- 33:53Speaker 3: You're the man of the house. You should be on
- 33:55Speaker 3: top of these things. I get that, but I am
- 33:57Speaker 3: not the homeowner.
- 33:58Speaker 2: I do not. That is not my see unit, but
- 34:02Speaker 2: I did take it. It's you're a BT sixer. There's
- 34:04Speaker 2: a wonder I'm a PT sixer. And to that point,
- 34:07Speaker 2: when Michael came to he was the AC repair man.
- 34:10Speaker 2: Shout out Michael. He was a sickoh father of three.
- 34:14Speaker 2: I believe.
- 34:15Speaker 3: And I said, Michael, I don't own this house, and
- 34:18Speaker 3: I don't want to be breathing down your neck. I will,
- 34:22Speaker 3: I will soon be a homeowner, and I really want
- 34:25Speaker 3: to know what's going on here.
- 34:26Speaker 2: Ka. I just sit out here with you, and you
- 34:27Speaker 2: just kind of talked me through what you're doing.
- 34:29Speaker 3: Best best forty five minutes I've ever spent, best forty
- 34:34Speaker 3: five minutes I've ever spent.
- 34:35Speaker 2: In what delivery by you? Thank you to get you
- 34:40Speaker 2: walking kind of arm in arm with him. Yeah, I'm
- 34:42Speaker 2: on your team. Like relentless curiosity. That's what that screams
- 34:45Speaker 2: right there.
- 34:45Speaker 1: And guess what. Guess what?
- 34:46Speaker 2: I figure out. Michael's a salesman too. He sells AC units.
- 34:51Speaker 2: He doesn't just fix them. Got his info. Let me
- 34:54Speaker 2: know when you're buying a house. I got you.
- 34:56Speaker 1: So he's got seven different kinds of smoking.
- 34:58Speaker 2: Yeah he does. And he said, man, hey, hey, you
- 35:00Speaker 2: don't use Linux, don't get Linux, don't go Pioneer either,
- 35:04Speaker 2: you want to go this route? The blah blah blah.
- 35:06Speaker 3: Now this guy unit right here, let's just say I
- 35:09Speaker 3: want to have it for my grandma's house. You know
- 35:11Speaker 3: what I'm saying, but he'll do the job. This is
- 35:14Speaker 3: your compressor. Here's the motor. Now, this one is an
- 35:17Speaker 3: old you know, there's an old trick of the trade.
- 35:20Speaker 3: We'll get the screwdriver and maybe we can get that
- 35:22Speaker 3: fan going. If the fan doesn't go, motor's blown. That
- 35:25Speaker 3: means you're out of AC on Wednesday. Because I got
- 35:27Speaker 3: to order that part on Monday. Motor was broken. Oh
- 35:33Speaker 3: AC's not getting repaired till Wednesday.
- 35:35Speaker 2: God good. So as people are listening, your AC gets
- 35:38Speaker 2: repaired today. AC gets repaired today.
- 35:42Speaker 3: What Jill did not realize in this moment, because I
- 35:45Speaker 3: really got the full bright on Saturday from Wifey. Totally understandable.
- 35:52Speaker 3: Jill was totally in the right. Look at the camera
- 35:55Speaker 3: when you say that, Hey honey, you're always right, and
- 35:59Speaker 3: you were very right on Saturday. Thank you Dan Gable,
- 36:03Speaker 3: Thank you Dan Gable. But to that point, it does suck.
- 36:09Speaker 3: It is a sticky situation. I have the tea time
- 36:13Speaker 3: before the AC broke. Jill is telling me to get
- 36:16Speaker 3: out of the house more. She's like, you need to
- 36:19Speaker 3: go do.
- 36:20Speaker 2: I want you to go do. When this happens, then
- 36:23Speaker 2: it's like, oh, they're in the hotel.
- 36:25Speaker 3: I'm staying with the dogs with a portable AC theme
- 36:27Speaker 3: that bought at home depot to make sure they're good
- 36:30Speaker 3: at the house. I'm sleeping on the couch and I'm
- 36:32Speaker 3: freezing cold from the portable AC. But if my foot
- 36:35Speaker 3: goes out of the freezing cold the air waves, all
- 36:38Speaker 3: of a sudden, the couch is burning hot. It was
- 36:40Speaker 3: like pockets of temperature that I had never experienced before.
- 36:44Speaker 3: Thankfully we're not in Texas and it's not a hundred
- 36:47Speaker 3: degree yeah, because that's what we're Jill and I have
- 36:50Speaker 3: experienced that in Texas. Way better for your ac to
- 36:53Speaker 3: go out in Tennessee, but to bring it back and
- 36:56Speaker 3: put a bow on it. With Miss Lisa coming to
- 37:00Speaker 3: my aid, we were coming up with a plan of
- 37:03Speaker 3: Sat of Sunday in my golf round and we want
- 37:08Speaker 3: to go look at this new house in spring Hill.
- 37:10Speaker 3: We're kind of figuring out a plan and Jill goes, well, Scarlett,
- 37:13Speaker 3: your dad's golfing tomorrow, so we can't do it in
- 37:16Speaker 3: the morning.
- 37:16Speaker 2: He'll be busy all day. And Lisa, well, golfing doesn't
- 37:22Speaker 2: take all day. It'd probably be about four hours. Oh
- 37:31Speaker 2: did you call you?
- 37:33Speaker 3: She deserved one in that moment I did not. I
- 37:35Speaker 3: went like, you want to see what I did when
- 37:37Speaker 3: this was going on, And that's all I did.
- 37:45Speaker 2: That's the I know my wife he's hearing this, but
- 37:47Speaker 2: I'm so happy it's being said and it's not coming
- 37:49Speaker 2: from my mouth.
- 37:50Speaker 3: Don't do not smile, No, don't smile. Do not agreeeping
- 37:54Speaker 3: together in law, Do not agree with mother in law.
- 37:57Speaker 3: Maybe give her a little look when wife isn't looking
- 37:59Speaker 3: and going, hey, this is always this is a fucking thing.
- 38:05Speaker 3: This is a thing I keep doing that. I have
- 38:07Speaker 3: the opposite of a rat.
- 38:09Speaker 5: I have.
- 38:10Speaker 2: I have my own little ally.
- 38:13Speaker 3: It's phenomenal, dude, it was phenomenal. And uh, that's pretty
- 38:18Speaker 3: much the story. It does segue into running into the
- 38:22Speaker 3: pt cicico, which I can tell very quickly.
- 38:27Speaker 2: To heos are out and about, PTOs are out and about,
- 38:32Speaker 2: and I really don't run into a lot of pt cicos.
- 38:35Speaker 3: I really don't. And when I do, it's usually with
- 38:38Speaker 3: you or Taylor. And Tohee Golf Club in spring Hill,
- 38:45Speaker 3: great spot. They have a restaurant at their golf course,
- 38:48Speaker 3: said it's part of the golf course, but it's so
- 38:50Speaker 3: good that people just go eat there. So I got
- 38:53Speaker 3: to learn about that golf round wins so well, dude,
- 38:56Speaker 3: and I'm calling up wife and mother in law.
- 38:59Speaker 2: I said, this restaurant apparently so good, and it's right
- 39:02Speaker 2: by the house. We want to go look at. How
- 39:03Speaker 2: about y'all come down here and eat. We'll go look
- 39:06Speaker 2: at the.
- 39:06Speaker 3: House altogether as a happy family. Already woke up to
- 39:10Speaker 3: a text from Jilly Bean. I'm so sorry for the
- 39:12Speaker 3: way I spoke to you yesterday. You know, you're the
- 39:14Speaker 3: most incredible father and husband, and I was just really
- 39:18Speaker 3: frustrated the moment. I couldn't lose. You played a good
- 39:22Speaker 3: round terrible because that's how the universe works.
- 39:26Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
- 39:27Speaker 3: If Jill was still mad at me, I would have
- 39:30Speaker 3: played lights out. I would have played lights out. But
- 39:36Speaker 3: fun round, very fun round. Got to golf with a
- 39:38Speaker 3: retired cop from Long Island. His name was David. We
- 39:45Speaker 3: can have a whole other episode about David. Dude, Okay,
- 39:48Speaker 3: we could truly have an episode about David. Back to
- 39:50Speaker 3: the restaurant. We're finishing up our meal and this family
- 39:55Speaker 3: with this really cute baby is leaving the restaurant and
- 39:58Speaker 3: Jill wants to say something to them about their baby.
- 40:01Speaker 2: Because of how he was dressed. They're playing with it.
- 40:03Speaker 2: It was so cute.
- 40:04Speaker 3: And this family of like eight completely walks past us,
- 40:08Speaker 3: and the mom and the baby are at the tail
- 40:09Speaker 3: end of it. And as Jill is turning to say
- 40:12Speaker 3: something to the mom, the mom is now kind of
- 40:15Speaker 3: like coming towards us and looks like she wants to
- 40:18Speaker 3: say something about our.
- 40:19Speaker 2: Baby, but instead she just goes. My husband's a huge
- 40:24Speaker 2: fan of the podcast. I don't know why he just
- 40:27Speaker 2: walked by.
- 40:27Speaker 3: I think he was a little too scared to say something.
- 40:30Speaker 3: He'll come back over here, but I wanted to tell
- 40:32Speaker 3: you that my husband is a huge fan of for
- 40:34Speaker 3: the Dads and we love your show. And I'm like,
- 40:37Speaker 3: oh my god, what a like this is incredible? And
- 40:40Speaker 3: dad comes around, shout out Nate, shout out the pet
- 40:43Speaker 3: sick o. Nate comes around, and he's like just gassing
- 40:47Speaker 3: up the community. That's all he was gassing up. He
- 40:51Speaker 3: loves the show. But he just kept on talking about
- 40:54Speaker 3: the comments, the blah blah blah, the community.
- 40:57Speaker 1: The comments are the best.
- 40:59Speaker 2: It's the best, And it was really fantastic to me, Nate.
- 41:03Speaker 3: It was very humbling, and it was like really really
- 41:06Speaker 3: funny that Wifey came in there and was like, Okay,
- 41:09Speaker 3: he's not going to do it.
- 41:10Speaker 2: I'll go do it for him.
- 41:11Speaker 3: He'll be pissed, but he's gonna be happy that I
- 41:14Speaker 3: did it. It was funny, so funny, love that it
- 41:18Speaker 3: never a bother Derek and I were like laughing about
- 41:22Speaker 3: how they were like, we didn't want to bother you.
- 41:25Speaker 3: Jill and I have never been bothered before at a meal.
- 41:30Speaker 3: At a meal, you want to know how many people
- 41:32Speaker 3: have come up to tell me that they enjoyed my
- 41:34Speaker 3: podcast While I was eating one, Nate, you did not
- 41:38Speaker 3: bother us.
- 41:39Speaker 2: You're like getting the booze and you're kind of like
- 41:41Speaker 2: looking at Jill. You got to see here, Lisa nued me.
- 41:48Speaker 2: She said, that's my son in.
- 41:49Speaker 1: Law said he just wanted a photo.
- 41:51Speaker 2: She was like, oh man, you crushed it. You're the best.
- 41:55Speaker 3: You're the best on along the entire world. I said,
- 41:56Speaker 3: your kid, don't just say that. I'm not just saying
- 41:59Speaker 3: that and noted me. God, I made up that last part.
- 42:04Speaker 3: I lied about that.
- 42:04Speaker 1: Okay.
- 42:05Speaker 2: I was about to say, what an allyship you got
- 42:08Speaker 2: going on with mother? She was Jill's and shambles listening no,
- 42:13Speaker 2: she was excited. Though.
- 42:14Speaker 3: Lisa is great. And this week really, this weekend has sucked.
- 42:19Speaker 3: It's been hard, really hard weekend. There's some other stuff
- 42:22Speaker 3: going on, just like logistics wise, with moving and all
- 42:26Speaker 3: that stuff. It's very stressful. And Jill has been an
- 42:29Speaker 3: absolute trooper. We've been working through just all the headaches
- 42:35Speaker 3: of you know, becoming a homeowner, becoming.
- 42:37Speaker 2: A homeowner, renting, ac going out.
- 42:40Speaker 3: Yeah, and thank you to Lisa for like we kept
- 42:44Speaker 3: on saying, we felt so bad that Lisa, this happened
- 42:47Speaker 3: while Lisa is here. Thank god this happened while Lisa
- 42:51Speaker 3: is here because she's watching Scarlet right now. Like, we
- 42:56Speaker 3: don't have daycare on Tuesday Thursdays, so I.
- 42:59Speaker 2: Would have to be I'm not to mention you would
- 43:00Speaker 2: have been in the doghouse. Doghouse, dude, you'd have been
- 43:04Speaker 2: off today. I mean you've been off your game.
- 43:08Speaker 6: Oh.
- 43:08Speaker 3: I would have been off my game for sure. We
- 43:11Speaker 3: would have figured out a way to do this. Yeah yeah, yeah,
- 43:14Speaker 3: but you see me, when I get stressed, I just
- 43:16Speaker 3: I lock up.
- 43:17Speaker 2: I would have been that.
- 43:20Speaker 1: You want to hear a dad loss of mind?
- 43:21Speaker 2: Yeah, Rue has cursed a couple times, and dude, before
- 43:35Speaker 2: parenthood happens. There is I want to say Papa Team
- 43:39Speaker 2: six is probably on board with this idea. Yeah, there's
- 43:43Speaker 2: a part of thinking when they do start talking, when
- 43:45Speaker 2: they drop their first curse word because Dad curses, I
- 43:48Speaker 2: drop some I drop some bombs, sue me, I dropped
- 43:52Speaker 2: some bombsh Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, there's a party like
- 43:54Speaker 2: I wonder when they're going to say their first one,
- 43:56Speaker 2: just because they're mimicking Dad. I'll throw a mom in there.
- 43:59Speaker 6: Two.
- 44:00Speaker 2: I'm sure there's moms out there that throw throw some
- 44:02Speaker 2: trash talk around, and there's part of you that kind
- 44:05Speaker 2: of fantasizes about when that's gonna happen, that it's gonna
- 44:08Speaker 2: be funny, you know, all the things. Let's not be
- 44:10Speaker 2: too serious about it because they have no clue what
- 44:12Speaker 2: they're saying. But ru's dropped what the fuck and a
- 44:19Speaker 2: gosh damn it, A gosh damn it, A gosh damn it.
- 44:25Speaker 2: Her morals are there, her morals are there, reeled in
- 44:28Speaker 2: something that part of me on the gosh part that
- 44:33Speaker 2: came from dad, that came from that. Yeah, yeah, Charles
- 44:38Speaker 2: dropping the bombs or did that come for dad?
- 44:42Speaker 1: That's chorro.
- 44:47Speaker 2: That's gotta be.
- 44:48Speaker 1: But I'll operate like, yeah.
- 44:49Speaker 2: I've dropped some F bombs, but I always like I'm
- 44:52Speaker 2: almost I'm always like, what the I just say that
- 44:56Speaker 2: the F part? Oh rus now dropped WTF twice forward
- 45:03Speaker 2: all of it. First time it came in success, like
- 45:07Speaker 2: WTF came first, and then gosh damn it eventually came
- 45:11Speaker 2: like within ten minutes of the WTF where I'm obviously laughing,
- 45:15Speaker 2: and you know, I'm not like laughing so much to
- 45:18Speaker 2: to just enable rue that you need to keep saying
- 45:20Speaker 2: it because this is hilarious because I'm hearing my wife too.
- 45:24Speaker 2: Charles like, hey, we got it. You can't.
- 45:26Speaker 1: I got you, I got you. But also it is
- 45:28Speaker 1: kind of funny.
- 45:29Speaker 2: Yeah, when they just drop a curse word, they have
- 45:31Speaker 2: no clue, like they're obviously mimicking Dad.
- 45:33Speaker 1: I'll reel it in.
- 45:34Speaker 2: I'll do a much better job. Yeah, So we gotta
- 45:37Speaker 2: have that to where I'm like, oh, I said, gosh
- 45:40Speaker 2: damn it, and then Rude just members me gosh damn it,
- 45:42Speaker 2: Like immediately immediately after on the WTFO, I'm like, what
- 45:46Speaker 2: the she just goes what the fuck.
- 45:52Speaker 1: Bit on the F so obviously she's heard it com
- 45:55Speaker 1: out of my mouth before.
- 45:56Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm like, what the what the going on? Shoe?
- 46:00Speaker 2: What the fuck? I no, no, I'm like laughing, I no, no, no, sweetheart,
- 46:04Speaker 2: you can't you can't say you can't see that. Joe
- 46:06Speaker 2: and I kind of put the fire out. But fest
- 46:09Speaker 2: Or go back to last Thursday or Friday. I'm getting Rue.
- 46:15Speaker 2: It's just me and Rue. I'm taking her to school
- 46:18Speaker 2: and we go outside. I'm like, come on, I'm like,
- 46:19Speaker 2: you want me to pick you up? Are you gonna
- 46:21Speaker 2: climb in?
- 46:21Speaker 1: She's like, oh, pick me up.
- 46:22Speaker 2: I'm like, what the you always climb in? And then
- 46:24Speaker 2: she's as she's climbing in, she goes, what the fuck?
- 46:30Speaker 2: And I'm biting my laughter, holding in my laughter behind her. Oh, sweetheart,
- 46:35Speaker 2: because now I'm thinking it's just me and her. Oh,
- 46:38Speaker 2: you have to operate a little bit different. We're not
- 46:41Speaker 2: with everybody. I can't just get away with laughter and
- 46:43Speaker 2: laugh it off and allow mom to be the gast
- 46:45Speaker 2: or in the moments where no one's looking. We got
- 46:47Speaker 2: in for it. So the moments where nobody's looking, but
- 46:50Speaker 2: I'm thinking, okay, how do I maneuver her drop in
- 46:54Speaker 2: the F word? I'm like, a sweetheart, you can't say that,
- 47:00Speaker 2: and she's like, uh, I forget what she says. I'm like,
- 47:04Speaker 2: do you do you know what that word means? She's
- 47:06Speaker 2: like what word? I'm like, say what you said? She goes,
- 47:10Speaker 2: what the fuck? And I go do you know what
- 47:12Speaker 2: that means? She's like no.
- 47:14Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I say, I know you get that
- 47:17Speaker 1: from Dad.
- 47:17Speaker 2: Dad. I say it too, but honestly, I don't know
- 47:20Speaker 2: what it means. And now that I'm thinking out loud
- 47:22Speaker 2: and learning you, we don't need to be saying words.
- 47:26Speaker 1: That we don't understand.
- 47:27Speaker 2: Well, so, Rue, I know you saw dadad laughing, but
- 47:32Speaker 2: you should not say that word because you don't know
- 47:34Speaker 2: what that word means.
- 47:34Speaker 1: I don't know what it means. I need to stop
- 47:36Speaker 1: saying that word. We'll do it together.
- 47:37Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 47:38Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's kind of how I put that out.
- 47:40Speaker 2: And then I'm thinking now that this whole rat things
- 47:42Speaker 2: came back around to where I know where's rat. There
- 47:44Speaker 2: was a part of me that I go to Charro.
- 47:47Speaker 2: I waited a while. I kind of waited a couple
- 47:49Speaker 2: of days to tell charl But part of me is like,
- 47:53Speaker 2: I can't let this leakage happen or rue, like tell
- 47:56Speaker 2: Mama that dadad corrected her saying I couldn't. I couldn't
- 48:00Speaker 2: allow rude to control the narrative. So I needed to.
- 48:02Speaker 2: There was almost a part of me that almost understood
- 48:04Speaker 2: subconsciously that we're just gonna tell on me. Eventually. I
- 48:07Speaker 2: need to come clean. Yeah, so I came clean. Charo
- 48:11Speaker 2: told her to the situation. She's like laughing at me,
- 48:14Speaker 2: and she's like, well, what'd you saying. I'm like, well,
- 48:15Speaker 2: this is what I did. And I was like, I do.
- 48:18Speaker 1: I got to reel it in. I got to reel
- 48:19Speaker 1: it in.
- 48:20Speaker 2: But it's funny when route curses, when you're a three
- 48:24Speaker 2: year old drops curse words. I can't help it, Sudie,
- 48:28Speaker 2: it's funny to me. I'm going to give you a
- 48:31Speaker 2: little heads up. In fourth grade, I got cut.
- 48:33Speaker 5: I had a very bad mouth growing up, and I
- 48:37Speaker 5: might have got it from an older gentleman that.
- 48:40Speaker 1: I lived with dead.
- 48:42Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe Mary got him. You know.
- 48:44Speaker 5: John Hanning is known to say a few words from
- 48:46Speaker 5: time to time. But I got him in hot water,
- 48:48Speaker 5: Like in fourth grade. I forgot how I got caught
- 48:50Speaker 5: swearing like on the bus right home and uh, I
- 48:54Speaker 5: remember feeling like I was in a lot of trouble
- 48:56Speaker 5: and my parents actually let me go, like both my
- 48:59Speaker 5: go across the street neighbors and play football and stuff,
- 49:01Speaker 5: which really caught me off guard. And I realized looking
- 49:04Speaker 5: back at it when I came back home, like the
- 49:05Speaker 5: old man was just in the fucking doghouse.
- 49:08Speaker 2: Yeah, Mom has.
- 49:10Speaker 5: A slip up here in time, but she was, you know,
- 49:13Speaker 5: very adamant on like, no swearing. The old man he
- 49:16Speaker 5: gets hot. Who knows he's like a Joe Peschi And
- 49:20Speaker 5: imagine Joe Peschi and home alone, just not with the
- 49:25Speaker 5: so yeah, hey, just down the road giving your heads up.
- 49:29Speaker 2: Yeah, beat the six. We gotta stay tight on, got
- 49:31Speaker 2: to stay t My old man was the same way.
- 49:33Speaker 2: You kind of just knew, Okay, I'm not allowed to
- 49:35Speaker 2: curse because momal mom will drop the hammer on you.
- 49:38Speaker 2: There's just no you know, you're not having a bad Oh,
- 49:40Speaker 2: you kind of get away with the bad mouth at
- 49:42Speaker 2: school or with your boys or anything else. But once
- 49:44Speaker 2: mom gets wind of it.
- 49:45Speaker 3: It's my dad had the ultimate cheek cote in the
- 49:48Speaker 3: world because my mom's go to and dude, I'm talking
- 49:53Speaker 3: about my mom.
- 49:54Speaker 2: She was not hard on me or strict, but my
- 49:56Speaker 2: mom was the time of mone was like a good morning, Sherman,
- 49:59Speaker 2: and I'm really tired. I'm like, good morning.
- 50:02Speaker 3: She's like, what's that tone? Who have you been hanging
- 50:06Speaker 3: out with that's talking to their mom like that? Which
- 50:11Speaker 3: one of your friends is talking to their mom like that?
- 50:13Speaker 3: And I'm like why, where where did this come from?
- 50:17Speaker 3: It was always who have you been hanging out with?
- 50:19Speaker 3: And so the one time that I dropped an F bomb,
- 50:22Speaker 3: I dropped a plate on my foot. I was maybe
- 50:24Speaker 3: fifth grade. I dropped a F bomb out of reaction too,
- 50:28Speaker 3: tried to muffle it as I said it, and it
- 50:31Speaker 3: was instantly, we need to we need to talk about
- 50:34Speaker 3: who you're hanging out with at school because I shout
- 50:38Speaker 3: out Dylan Law, shout out Taylor, shout out Taylor Locke
- 50:40Speaker 3: because those are like my friends that My mom was like,
- 50:44Speaker 3: I know Taylor Locke doesn't talk like that.
- 50:47Speaker 2: I know Dylan Mauv's not talking like that. So who's
- 50:49Speaker 2: talking like that? Would you learn that word? Yeah?
- 50:53Speaker 1: Empty six days on it. They're they're they're the standard.
- 50:55Speaker 1: They got to keep dads in check.
- 50:56Speaker 2: Yeah, they got to keep PT six in check because
- 50:58Speaker 2: they're right, Charlotte, it's not about just the dynamic of us.
- 51:02Speaker 2: Like she's gonna go to school, she could say these
- 51:05Speaker 2: words at school. She can her other kids say and
- 51:07Speaker 2: if she hears another kid say it, she's thayking, Oh,
- 51:09Speaker 2: I've heard that word too, Like Dada says that I've
- 51:10Speaker 2: never been like corrected the uh.
- 51:13Speaker 3: The one thing that did come to mind with your
- 51:15Speaker 3: correction if we don't need to be saying words that
- 51:17Speaker 3: we don't know the meaning of. Is I laughed at
- 51:19Speaker 3: myself of her playing like wizards or something at recess and.
- 51:24Speaker 2: Some girls like Aleck exam and Rie's like, what's that
- 51:27Speaker 2: word mean?
- 51:30Speaker 1: Do you know what that word?
- 51:30Speaker 2: Do you know what that word means? Don't Probably shouldn't
- 51:33Speaker 2: be saying, Probably shouldn't say Amrica dabra if you don't
- 51:37Speaker 2: know what that means. God, it's constant learning. Oh yeah,
- 51:41Speaker 2: you means, well, it's okay if you don't. Not really,
- 51:54Speaker 2: I mean I don't either at the end of the day.
- 51:56Speaker 1: I mean, we know what it means when it comes
- 51:57Speaker 1: to shock, but just saying like.
- 51:59Speaker 2: What the fuck I've heard that comes from it? And
- 52:01Speaker 2: bleep that out, Just bleep that one out, please, bleep
- 52:04Speaker 2: that one out, just bleep the one out in case, Yeah,
- 52:08Speaker 2: that one out. But I guess I don't know what
- 52:10Speaker 2: that phrase means. So that you have been pulled up. No,
- 52:16Speaker 2: it's a work computer, yeah, computer bro, But no, but
- 52:20Speaker 2: it is. It can be everything. It can be now.
- 52:23Speaker 4: It can be an adjective, it can be an adverb,
- 52:25Speaker 4: it can be a verb. It's the one word that
- 52:27Speaker 4: really just it's a catch off.
- 52:30Speaker 2: Series on this.
- 52:31Speaker 5: They did in a Netflix series on the word that's
- 52:33Speaker 5: like medieval origins right.
- 52:35Speaker 2: Abbreviated as w t F, is an intensive vulgar slang
- 52:39Speaker 2: phrase expressing extreme surprise, confusion, anger, or annoyance. It acts
- 52:44Speaker 2: as an emphatic form of what often signaling disbelief or
- 52:48Speaker 2: frustration in a situation. If I had that in multiple choice,
- 52:54Speaker 2: I would have got you would have got it right.
- 52:56Speaker 2: It's just the explaining part. Yeah, I guess I don't
- 52:59Speaker 2: fully know what a means. So dada, don't be saying it. Yeah,
- 53:03Speaker 2: god forbid. But funny moment, dad lost, funny moment, love
- 53:07Speaker 2: it all. Yes, we're gonna learn, We're gonna get better. Yes, man,
- 53:11Speaker 2: she says it again, though that's on her, that's on her,
- 53:16Speaker 2: I am gonna laugh.
- 53:16Speaker 3: And the old George Bush fooled me once and then
- 53:21Speaker 3: he does a very eloquent job. Yeah he can finish that.
- 53:25Speaker 2: Yeah, he does a great job with me once. Shame
- 53:28Speaker 2: on you for me twice shame on me on me
- 53:32Speaker 2: or wait, it's gotta be your bull.
- 53:33Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 53:35Speaker 2: But yes, that that was everything.
- 53:37Speaker 3: As far as uh my notes from the weekend of
- 53:41Speaker 3: like the ac being broken, I have some dad wins
- 53:46Speaker 3: that we can go through.
- 53:47Speaker 2: We see her, We have a rat in the house,
- 53:49Speaker 2: rue cursing, Scottie dropping massive dumps. She must eat something.
- 53:54Speaker 2: I think it's like dairy related. Oh yeah, what's going
- 53:56Speaker 2: on with that? He's dairy related? She had a cheese
- 53:58Speaker 2: stick last week and throughout the entire weekend. I'm talking massive,
- 54:02Speaker 2: massive bombs, stinky ones too. Right when it happens, you
- 54:07Speaker 2: can smell it immediately. There was one where I'll change
- 54:09Speaker 2: your diaper. It's the first time it's ever happened. Where
- 54:12Speaker 2: you know, you lift the little eggs up, you're wiping
- 54:14Speaker 2: their little butt. You throw the you throw the wipe
- 54:16Speaker 2: on top of the poo. Yeah, on top of the poo,
- 54:18Speaker 2: just in case you get a little get a little
- 54:20Speaker 2: ants and the heeled cake. But when I went to
- 54:23Speaker 2: roll it up, as I had the new one underneath.
- 54:26Speaker 2: As I went to roll it up, it was so heavy.
- 54:28Speaker 2: Half of it falls out of the first diaper and
- 54:30Speaker 2: onto the second diaper. Oh, and I'm upstairs. I'm like,
- 54:34Speaker 2: oh shit, this is day my sixteen month. It's Scott's
- 54:42Speaker 2: zilla drop a curseword right now, that would be so funny.
- 54:47Speaker 2: But half of it falls onto the other diaper. I'm
- 54:50Speaker 2: scrambling Jesus, But it was. I come downstairshars like what
- 54:54Speaker 2: happened up there. I'm like, just be glad you weren't
- 54:57Speaker 2: the one on this one. But Joe heavy, big dumps, Bro,
- 55:01Speaker 2: big dump, even like you know how they'll sleep through
- 55:06Speaker 2: the night and really it's just a heavy diaper from them. People, Dude, Yes,
- 55:10Speaker 2: dump comes usually after but like in the morning, they're
- 55:13Speaker 2: thinking her, she's waking up with dumps. She woke up
- 55:15Speaker 2: Bro Sunday morning with a massive dump in her diaper
- 55:19Speaker 2: and it was with all of the pea from the night.
- 55:21Speaker 2: Heavy diaper. I'm talking, hey, I'm talking this big heavy,
- 55:25Speaker 2: like you could work out with it, yes, putting it
- 55:28Speaker 2: in the.
- 55:28Speaker 3: Pane and it's got this is some lord for pts
- 55:32Speaker 3: empty sid because these logs, because Scarlett just had one
- 55:36Speaker 3: of these, not huge, not big, like an eight month old,
- 55:40Speaker 3: big eight month old, big eight month old, and uh
- 55:43Speaker 3: it was from her waking up because she's a big
- 55:46Speaker 3: pooper with that morning bottle, dude, and she'll stop halfway
- 55:49Speaker 3: through the morning bottle and kind of give you one
- 55:52Speaker 3: of these, and I'll take the bottle out and she'll
- 55:53Speaker 3: sit there and.
- 55:54Speaker 2: Just they're getting their morning too in get in the
- 55:57Speaker 2: morning too.
- 55:58Speaker 3: But I changed it and it's it's a log, but
- 56:01Speaker 3: it's got like a little it's got the butt cheeks
- 56:04Speaker 3: on it didn't have the mud cheeks on it, like
- 56:06Speaker 3: the imprint or oh yeah yeah from it being on
- 56:09Speaker 3: her but yeah, yeah, yeah, because I'm thinking that this
- 56:11Speaker 3: is just a massive polo shit shadow of Jurassic Park,
- 56:14Speaker 3: like the dump of the Triceratops.
- 56:16Speaker 2: Like that's a load that's like getting in Scotty's diaper.
- 56:20Speaker 2: That is a man from we believe the cheese.
- 56:23Speaker 1: Because she just have this.
- 56:24Speaker 2: She has like some eggs on her skin and we're
- 56:26Speaker 2: trying to eliminate some stuff from her diet. There you
- 56:28Speaker 2: got one of them, like we're doing like almond milk
- 56:31Speaker 2: instead of whole milk to see if it like help,
- 56:32Speaker 2: to see if it's been helpful.
- 56:34Speaker 1: Yeah, so we think that's what it was. Oh, really
- 56:37Speaker 1: getting into a cheese stick.
- 56:38Speaker 2: Yeah, dang, dude, well done, Scotty. And it sounds like rude.
- 56:42Speaker 2: Never have that because you know this.
- 56:46Speaker 1: Yeah, more like impressed.
- 56:48Speaker 2: Let's surprise disbelief, like just again, I and I just
- 56:51Speaker 2: have it on my list, scott Zilla dropping massive dumps.
- 56:54Speaker 2: Yeah she really is her daddy's girl. But yeah, yeah,
- 56:59Speaker 2: she's a daddy's girl. Rufe farts now like farts and ones?
- 57:04Speaker 2: What's that like? Is she giggling like her dad?
- 57:07Speaker 5: Like?
- 57:07Speaker 2: Is she? Are you teaching on how to use it
- 57:09Speaker 2: as a tool for comedy? Awesome? Yeah? Really it's going well.
- 57:12Speaker 2: Her training's going well. Really Yeah.
- 57:14Speaker 1: Yeah, she'll rip a big one and kind of look
- 57:16Speaker 1: at me and giggle.
- 57:20Speaker 2: You heard that? Come on, now, come on now, reach out,
- 57:24Speaker 2: give her a little debt, Dad, I hear that. You
- 57:26Speaker 2: hear this? Are y'all are going to be dueling banjos?
- 57:31Speaker 2: We will? Yeah, that's the dream, just living the dream
- 57:35Speaker 2: man girl, dad. Yeah, you know, as a young man
- 57:38Speaker 2: growing up women don't poop, women don't fart. Yeah, just
- 57:42Speaker 2: not wanting to believe it, you know what I mean.
- 57:43Speaker 2: Then you get married, then you got a daughter.
- 57:47Speaker 1: You're trying to train her to be as great as you.
- 57:50Speaker 2: But I you just reminded me of something. I know.
- 57:54Speaker 2: We're segueing a lot, dude.
- 57:55Speaker 1: We're just we're potting.
- 57:57Speaker 2: We're potting.
- 57:57Speaker 1: We're potting about fatherhood.
- 58:00Speaker 2: We had a we had a nice little hater joined
- 58:03Speaker 2: the crew on my golf tweet. Really I wanted I
- 58:08Speaker 2: want to give him a.
- 58:09Speaker 3: Shout out because it's a nice little plug for our
- 58:11Speaker 3: new girl dad hats, which your currently.
- 58:12Speaker 2: Oh I saw that. That was smooth.
- 58:14Speaker 1: That was smooth.
- 58:16Speaker 2: He said, Uh, sorry, should I do name or should
- 58:19Speaker 2: I not do name?
- 58:21Speaker 1: Shout his bitches out, dude, like.
- 58:26Speaker 2: Up stand up shout that bitches out out of control
- 58:33Speaker 2: with two t's and two els. Uh.
- 58:37Speaker 3: He said, if someone in my tea time showed up
- 58:39Speaker 3: wearing a girl dad hat to play to play golf,
- 58:42Speaker 3: they would be getting clowned on every tea box.
- 58:47Speaker 2: Because God forbid you love your kid, God forbid, I
- 58:51Speaker 2: would ask God to control some What if somebody showed
- 58:55Speaker 2: up at your tea time with a girl that had
- 58:58Speaker 2: on and he just happened to whoop your candy ass? Yeah,
- 59:03Speaker 2: then he wo'd be getting clowned on.
- 59:04Speaker 3: Yeah, And sadly, you know, I'm thinking to myself, what
- 59:09Speaker 3: is the ideal girl dad hat for out of control?
- 59:12Speaker 2: How can I make out of control happy?
- 59:14Speaker 3: Instead of just being like, hey, maybe out of controls
- 59:17Speaker 3: wrong and we're okay, it's like, do you want girl
- 59:20Speaker 3: dad on top and then like football red meat power
- 59:22Speaker 3: tools underneath it?
- 59:24Speaker 2: Maybe it's just badass football red meat power tools. And
- 59:27Speaker 2: then then he might feel like, uh and then girl
- 59:30Speaker 2: dad on for real?
- 59:34Speaker 1: Oh, he must not be a buss. He's wearing badass
- 59:36Speaker 1: red meat football power tools.
- 59:38Speaker 3: But you like, whoa hold on here? Man, I saw
- 59:42Speaker 3: that your hat says football red meat power tools. Are
- 59:44Speaker 3: you interested in any of those three things? Matter of fact,
- 59:49Speaker 3: I love all three of them.
- 59:50Speaker 2: I would love to see out of control like a
- 59:53Speaker 2: physical picture of him, yeah, because you know he ain't
- 59:56Speaker 2: well and unfortunately he's just projecting. He's on his profile picture,
- 59:59Speaker 2: which was shot oh yo, surprise, surprise. And so I
- 1:00:04Speaker 2: just got quote tweeted in my set available now and
- 1:00:07Speaker 2: I put a link to the great promo by the
- 1:00:09Speaker 2: way I saw that.
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: I loved it.
- 1:00:10Speaker 2: That's it doesn't Yeah, that's I've learned that as well too, Like,
- 1:00:15Speaker 2: that's a great promo, that's a great prod. Let's say
- 1:00:16Speaker 2: you handle it. It's easy. Oh you don't like the merch,
- 1:00:19Speaker 2: well here's a link. Thank you for helping us make
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: some more content, and then a.
- 1:00:23Speaker 3: Budget shout out the betsinkas that they went to his
- 1:00:26Speaker 3: tweet because of my quote tweet and they're like, whoa,
- 1:00:30Speaker 3: whoa tough GUYO, don't beat us up.
- 1:00:34Speaker 4: Though.
- 1:00:34Speaker 2: Nothing gets the blood flown below the belt more than
- 1:00:38Speaker 2: when Papa Team six enters the chat. Yeah. Yeah, that's
- 1:00:43Speaker 2: when you know buddies in trouble. Oh yeah, j Chef
- 1:00:47Speaker 2: has something that he's got cooking up with me. That
- 1:00:49Speaker 2: tweet I got. He sounds like the time of guy.
- 1:00:51Speaker 5: For all my golf cig goes out there, probably has
- 1:00:53Speaker 5: p xg irons, Slice from Hell. If you have iron covers,
- 1:00:58Speaker 5: Oh I hope he has iron. Yeah, let's ask for
- 1:01:01Speaker 5: the Bag's just I want to see what he wears out.
- 1:01:04Speaker 2: I want you to.
- 1:01:05Speaker 5: I'm gonna tweet at him, say send me your bag,
- 1:01:07Speaker 5: send you what you wear for a day, because if
- 1:01:10Speaker 5: we want to get into like the pretentious golf world.
- 1:01:12Speaker 2: I'm the guy I'll tee up on. Oh yeah, you
- 1:01:15Speaker 2: are a show. You have a match play chef versus
- 1:01:18Speaker 2: PT six hater might be electric. Nothing would make me Jeff,
- 1:01:22Speaker 2: we're a girl dad hat.
- 1:01:25Speaker 3: I would be proud, proud of chef in that moment.
- 1:01:28Speaker 3: Nothing would make me happier. We also have a little
- 1:01:31Speaker 3: easter egg as have you been told no? In regards
- 1:01:35Speaker 3: to chef, he's in buds training. Well win way back,
- 1:01:43Speaker 3: way back.
- 1:01:44Speaker 2: You better. Oh, I don't want to say something out
- 1:01:47Speaker 2: of pocket, and it's not the case. I kind of
- 1:01:48Speaker 2: just did. It's to call back. I don't hear. I
- 1:01:50Speaker 2: didn't hear what you said, so it's okay.
- 1:01:53Speaker 3: He said you entered Bud's training, which wasn't too far show. Yeah,
- 1:01:57Speaker 3: that's part of the chef call back to a call
- 1:01:59Speaker 3: back chef moment. You want to let no, chef, is.
- 1:02:02Speaker 1: He cooking a turkey in the ground?
- 1:02:05Speaker 2: That's a good callback.
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: Is is he uh graduating from a uh from a level?
- 1:02:13Speaker 5: No?
- 1:02:14Speaker 2: No, go back to Turkey hopefully to be out.
- 1:02:22Speaker 5: Chef is taken on the show. Turkey's won the other one,
- 1:02:24Speaker 5: this one, but to be fair. This is something that
- 1:02:26Speaker 5: we never talked about on camera. Has been a behind
- 1:02:29Speaker 5: the scenes thing that has been an inside joke. Think
- 1:02:32Speaker 5: of thrown ship at the wall during a brainstorm. This
- 1:02:35Speaker 5: content idea kid maybe the maybe the dumbest.
- 1:02:39Speaker 2: Thing I've pitched.
- 1:02:42Speaker 1: Brain card.
- 1:02:43Speaker 2: What has four wheels and is awesome truck? And who
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: got a new one recently?
- 1:02:49Speaker 6: Dad?
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: He brought Chef is now getting a new truck.
- 1:02:52Speaker 2: Nope, even better, he's driving his dad's new truck. Trucks
- 1:02:58Speaker 2: outside to show you. By the way, it's drunk and
- 1:03:06Speaker 2: he drove it today. I know that, I know the
- 1:03:08Speaker 2: one manswer listening context. Parents are out of town. I hope,
- 1:03:13Speaker 2: I hope the keys are great.
- 1:03:15Speaker 5: I told my dad I was driving, and he goes,
- 1:03:17Speaker 5: can he please wait until like Thursday or Friday? So
- 1:03:19Speaker 5: that way, if something happens, we'll be back soon. I
- 1:03:22Speaker 5: figured today would be the best day. It's a dream
- 1:03:26Speaker 5: to drive. It's been fine, so nice.
- 1:03:29Speaker 2: So we'll have some bonus content. Yeah, bonus content.
- 1:03:32Speaker 3: We'll get to have Chef showing uh his dad's tructor will,
- 1:03:35Speaker 3: which I'm very excited for.
- 1:03:36Speaker 2: Okay, Chef shows off his dad's new truck.
- 1:03:39Speaker 1: Yeah, probably.
- 1:03:40Speaker 2: I mean, it's it's probabe and joy, it's a beast
- 1:03:42Speaker 2: to drive too.
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: Yeah, hell yeah, it is.
- 1:03:47Speaker 2: So excited for the cliff that's gonna come from this dude.
- 1:03:51Speaker 2: Oh my god. Okay, so we want to do some
- 1:03:55Speaker 2: dad wins, some some right ends from our lovely new
- 1:04:00Speaker 2: Let's get to the community. Hang on, let me organize,
- 1:04:03Speaker 2: let me organize, dead Dad hack of the week, Empty
- 1:04:08Speaker 2: six shoutouts, New Dad. Oh, I forgot to do. I
- 1:04:12Speaker 2: forgot to talk about pet fit. The support from the
- 1:04:15Speaker 2: bar community that is nothing but comments everywhere. It's always
- 1:04:18Speaker 2: even tell me, uh, the ladies have been hitting her up,
- 1:04:21Speaker 2: sending her the clip the comment, and I told Charles,
- 1:04:23Speaker 2: I'm like, uh, every Bar three profile and brand needs
- 1:04:27Speaker 2: to be sharing that because what's gonna happen is the
- 1:04:30Speaker 2: women who just love Bar three, They're gonna be showing
- 1:04:33Speaker 2: their ubbi.
- 1:04:33Speaker 3: Yeah, they're gonna be showing their man. And that was
- 1:04:36Speaker 3: happening in the clip. Did you see all the other
- 1:04:38Speaker 3: Bar three Derek was showing me.
- 1:04:40Speaker 4: You have the comment in front of you, But there
- 1:04:41Speaker 4: are people tagging their local Bar three location and they've
- 1:04:45Speaker 4: been commenting back a lot of comments about the vibes
- 1:04:48Speaker 4: of Bar three, So I think you you kind of
- 1:04:50Speaker 4: got that nailed down will as the vibes seemed to
- 1:04:52Speaker 4: be what everyone's right.
- 1:04:53Speaker 1: It's a good vibe. It's a fun vibe. Especially for dudes.
- 1:04:56Speaker 2: You're used to just getting shit on and talking about
- 1:04:57Speaker 2: being a pus and you're not strong enough.
- 1:04:59Speaker 1: They don't do that.
- 1:05:00Speaker 2: It's it's very encouraging.
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: It's a very encouraging atmosphere. Good vibes.
- 1:05:05Speaker 2: You're moving and grooving as long as you can accept
- 1:05:07Speaker 2: yourself that you don't feel awkward, kind of hitting some
- 1:05:10Speaker 2: of the moves and you just rip it next to
- 1:05:12Speaker 2: the women like you're gonna do great, You're gonna flourish.
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: And I was telling Charlie because.
- 1:05:16Speaker 2: Charles only about it.
- 1:05:16Speaker 1: We do need to do a collab, whether.
- 1:05:18Speaker 2: It's an outdoor class where you get BT six emptyms
- 1:05:23Speaker 2: no way like women in their significant other, all the
- 1:05:25Speaker 2: dudes come, all the boys. We just embrace. We just
- 1:05:29Speaker 2: embrace a pt FI got a park or like Yeah,
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: there's also the thought of doing one in studio, like
- 1:05:36Speaker 2: the ten am one that I took. I took on
- 1:05:38Speaker 2: Friday on which is one of the ones Charlie teaches
- 1:05:42Speaker 2: just having it to where it's just for the dads.
- 1:05:44Speaker 2: It's like us and our significant others getting the ladies
- 1:05:47Speaker 2: in getting jilly beans. Yat, could we do it?
- 1:05:50Speaker 1: I'm a miss chef.
- 1:05:51Speaker 3: Can we do it at Centennial? I've seen some like
- 1:05:54Speaker 3: big classes at Centennial before and it looks so fun.
- 1:05:57Speaker 2: Charlie's ripped a couple out of people. Well, Charle's done
- 1:05:59Speaker 2: on that Centennial. I believe I'm probably gonna get an
- 1:06:03Speaker 2: APR report.
- 1:06:04Speaker 1: But she's done some outdoor.
- 1:06:05Speaker 2: They do outdoor classes each year like a couple throughout
- 1:06:07Speaker 2: the year and they I mean, there are hundreds of women.
- 1:06:10Speaker 1: I'm so in, go to it, so in.
- 1:06:13Speaker 2: But yeah, a lot of support from the bar community.
- 1:06:16Speaker 2: I see one here from Petit Petite FLA seventy seven
- 1:06:19Speaker 2: is such a great class. One of my absolute faves
- 1:06:21Speaker 2: of the week. Yes, Blue Hearts, Little Heart Taylor Swift
- 1:06:25Speaker 2: Hearts at a Boy Vibes on Point from Bar three, Huntsville.
- 1:06:32Speaker 4: Bottom book corner has a char of shout out which
- 1:06:34Speaker 4: one bottom right corner from Jamie vank Jamie.
- 1:06:37Speaker 2: Vank Iss seven am Cardio class was at Cheetoh Underscore.
- 1:06:40Speaker 2: Charlie's the best, most challenging thing I've ever done. Shut ah,
- 1:06:43Speaker 2: shot at. I come for the vibes. Let's get a
- 1:06:48Speaker 2: dad class one hundred percent in make it happen. Yeah, bro,
- 1:06:54Speaker 2: here's a good here's a good vibe. I used to
- 1:06:56Speaker 2: use bars my second leg day during the week. This
- 1:07:00Speaker 2: must be a gentleman chiming in yeah yeah, yeah, don't
- 1:07:03Speaker 2: sleep on. Boro will have you quivering in the corner
- 1:07:05Speaker 2: while sixty eight year old Barbara hasn't even broken a.
- 1:07:07Speaker 1: Sweat yet, while she smiles at you and gives you
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: the thumbs up. Tell you it's a different beast in there.
- 1:07:14Speaker 3: And I would love to have a good leg day regiment,
- 1:07:18Speaker 3: like I like something that you know, you could go
- 1:07:21Speaker 3: to this class and learn from take part in and
- 1:07:25Speaker 3: core and lower back to oh buddy, which I'm.
- 1:07:29Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And you know, all my problems stem from
- 1:07:32Speaker 2: just having an out of whack like hips elvis, low back, yeah,
- 1:07:36Speaker 2: knee and it is like a very My explanation is
- 1:07:40Speaker 2: just it's a very like intense rehab class that you
- 1:07:44Speaker 2: don't you feel like you fail at, but ultimately they
- 1:07:47Speaker 2: say you do a great job. Well the fact that
- 1:07:49Speaker 2: you're doing it, and I'm not saying that when I
- 1:07:51Speaker 2: believe I feel great the rest of the day, like
- 1:07:53Speaker 2: when I'm bending over, like putting scott in the crib.
- 1:07:55Speaker 2: The little things for me is like a low back
- 1:07:57Speaker 2: dad survivor. Yeah, is like when I've been too to
- 1:08:00Speaker 2: put Scotty in the crib, when I lean down to
- 1:08:02Speaker 2: pick her up, when I'm getting in the bottom drawer
- 1:08:05Speaker 2: and I'm like, can we get this in a higher drawer?
- 1:08:07Speaker 2: I just hate, like been getting down to do bathtime,
- 1:08:09Speaker 2: like my l five and SI, Like I have issues,
- 1:08:13Speaker 2: they're not like they're not to the point where I
- 1:08:15Speaker 2: need surgery. People would probably offer up surgery. You don't
- 1:08:18Speaker 2: want to do back surgery, No, you don't, and if
- 1:08:21Speaker 2: you do, you want to do it way down the
- 1:08:23Speaker 2: road when you have to do it. Yes, yes, But
- 1:08:26Speaker 2: a lot of those little things where my back is
- 1:08:29Speaker 2: like a very annoying every day when I hit the class,
- 1:08:34Speaker 2: like dude, I'm feeling great, it gives me probably a
- 1:08:37Speaker 2: thirty six of the next thirty six forty eight hours.
- 1:08:40Speaker 2: Like my back feels like everything feels intact. It's hard
- 1:08:44Speaker 2: to explain, but to where I'm like, I do like
- 1:08:47Speaker 2: Charles always wanting me to come to a class but
- 1:08:49Speaker 2: I'm always like I'm just the masculine vibe of it.
- 1:08:53Speaker 2: Doesn't it feels uncomfortable like I feel, I feel awkward.
- 1:08:56Speaker 1: I just don't.
- 1:08:57Speaker 2: I don't put myself out there. Dude. Hey, that's okay,
- 1:09:00Speaker 2: because guess what. These women dominate me. You know what
- 1:09:02Speaker 2: I mean. It's just you just feel.
- 1:09:04Speaker 3: But now that a flipped switch, and hey, you got
- 1:09:08Speaker 3: a brother in arms right here. I know these two
- 1:09:10Speaker 3: guys have said that they're down too, and let's go.
- 1:09:12Speaker 3: Let's all go fuck it up together.
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: Let's all go fuck it. That's what we do on
- 1:09:16Speaker 1: the show.
- 1:09:16Speaker 3: I want to walk in there. I want to have
- 1:09:19Speaker 3: my little water bottle and my little bag whatever I
- 1:09:21Speaker 3: need to bring. I want to sit down. I want
- 1:09:22Speaker 3: to say, fuck me up. Sam, Yeah, with your toes out.
- 1:09:26Speaker 3: What I mean, there's no socks. That's a new thing
- 1:09:29Speaker 3: for your boy. Ruin me, destroy me. I want to
- 1:09:34Speaker 3: see Barber in the corner giving me a winking film.
- 1:09:37Speaker 2: You're doing great.
- 1:09:38Speaker 3: I wanted to see Jill had eight eight months postpartum,
- 1:09:43Speaker 3: just destroying it. Yeah, running circles around me.
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm fine.
- 1:09:49Speaker 2: Well, we are getting it in the work, so something
- 1:09:51Speaker 2: will come. Just gotta figure out the timing. I do
- 1:09:54Speaker 2: have one last update before we get into the shutouts.
- 1:09:57Speaker 2: Donut update. Father in law he brought a box of donuts.
- 1:09:59Speaker 2: This has been this is big, This is big. I'm
- 1:10:01Speaker 2: sure he saw the clip. There's a lot of back
- 1:10:04Speaker 2: and forth in between us. Nothing said between us, but
- 1:10:06Speaker 2: he brought donuts over. I sent him that text last
- 1:10:09Speaker 2: week while we were on the show. Yeah, I still
- 1:10:10Speaker 2: can't believe you took my chocolate donut. Father in law
- 1:10:13Speaker 2: brought a donut box over on Sunday when they came
- 1:10:15Speaker 2: over and enjoyed the pool a little bit so clear
- 1:10:18Speaker 2: that up, dude, Well done, Opah. Yeah, thank you, Ope,
- 1:10:22Speaker 2: shout out Opah. Oh good Man, good Man.
- 1:10:24Speaker 3: And a lot of people kind of coming in support
- 1:10:26Speaker 3: of Opah in the comments, a lot of people calling
- 1:10:30Speaker 3: out Opah as well.
- 1:10:31Speaker 2: But it sounds like a fine line that you guys
- 1:10:33Speaker 2: were able to navigate. Yeah.
- 1:10:35Speaker 1: Yeah, And people did have a good point.
- 1:10:38Speaker 2: I commented somebody yesterday on my own Instagram and I
- 1:10:41Speaker 2: just replied to him, not in my house, because he's
- 1:10:45Speaker 2: saying this is essentially payback for the generation before us,
- 1:10:49Speaker 2: the ones who raised us. We is it ramsacked or ransacked?
- 1:10:54Speaker 2: Or in Nancy. I believe the kids their friends with
- 1:10:59Speaker 2: ransack the pantry in the kitchen all the time. This
- 1:11:02Speaker 2: is now payback because they get to come over your
- 1:11:03Speaker 2: ust I get yeah, yeah, but not in my house.
- 1:11:07Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, And like Opah isn't quite
- 1:11:11Speaker 3: there once Opah's in the recliner and like it's kind
- 1:11:14Speaker 3: of a it's a whole thing to like get Opah
- 1:11:16Speaker 3: on his feet and oh, aren't you glad Opah's here.
- 1:11:20Speaker 2: And moving around like that? Age, Yeah, did Opah take
- 1:11:23Speaker 2: the doughnut? Then I'm okay vibeing with that, vibe with
- 1:11:28Speaker 2: that vibe with.
- 1:11:29Speaker 1: That, especially if he takes the kids stuff. Yeah yeah yeah.
- 1:11:32Speaker 3: And you look over at Opah and he's he's asleep
- 1:11:34Speaker 3: at you know, yeah, it's eleven thirty. He's already taking
- 1:11:37Speaker 3: a nap.
- 1:11:38Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 1:11:38Speaker 2: But fun update there, fun update, dude. Let's dive into
- 1:11:41Speaker 2: some comments. I like a cold one.
- 1:11:44Speaker 3: I'm just gonna break the ice because this is my
- 1:11:46Speaker 3: first actual satellert after the prank of the joke satellert
- 1:11:51Speaker 3: that we did.
- 1:11:52Speaker 2: So I'm just gonna break the ice. I'm gonna say
- 1:11:54Speaker 2: this is an actual satellert.
- 1:11:56Speaker 1: Are you being for real.
- 1:11:57Speaker 2: I'm because now you see what happens. That's why I'm
- 1:12:00Speaker 2: draw the guards up. That's why I'm addressing it. I'm
- 1:12:02Speaker 2: saying that joke will never be played again. And apologies
- 1:12:06Speaker 2: because of this awkward moment right here where I have
- 1:12:09Speaker 2: a legit sadd alert. We're gonna read it and we
- 1:12:11Speaker 2: are very happy that people do send in emotional stories. Yeah,
- 1:12:16Speaker 2: so that's just my breaking of the ice.
- 1:12:20Speaker 3: Gosh, she's got a great last name, and I will
- 1:12:23Speaker 3: butcher it in apologies, Daniel bowdese Bach. Daniel says, fellas,
- 1:12:31Speaker 3: I've never done anything like this, but got to share
- 1:12:33Speaker 3: with you. I'm a new father of one precious little girl.
- 1:12:36Speaker 3: She is now just four days old and we are
- 1:12:40Speaker 3: fust show in the trenches. Her name is Hallie and
- 1:12:44Speaker 3: bodese Ba. I just wanted to write to you guys
- 1:12:48Speaker 3: and say that I appreciate you. It's got to be
- 1:12:50Speaker 3: pretty cool that what you love to do helps many people.
- 1:12:54Speaker 2: I guess.
- 1:12:55Speaker 3: I'm also asking for a little shout out to my wife, Gabriella.
- 1:12:59Speaker 3: We have been together there for fourteen years now. Congratulations
- 1:13:03Speaker 3: to them. Shout out, and she and I just lost
- 1:13:07Speaker 3: her younger brother, Christian Showfield Christian Showfield just a day
- 1:13:13Speaker 3: before we were going to tell him the good news
- 1:13:17Speaker 3: that Gabriella was pregnant with Hallie Anne. She has been
- 1:13:21Speaker 3: incredibly strong through the process and just walk through childbirth
- 1:13:24Speaker 3: like it was something to do. I was very impressed
- 1:13:27Speaker 3: with her poison focus through it all.
- 1:13:30Speaker 2: Anyway.
- 1:13:31Speaker 3: Christian was also a firefighter with Cali, fire like me,
- 1:13:36Speaker 3: and he was the only true brother I ever had myself.
- 1:13:40Speaker 3: And I'm sure many other viewers feel connected to you
- 1:13:43Speaker 3: guys because of your approach to the podcast and in general,
- 1:13:47Speaker 3: Thank you guys for what you do.
- 1:13:49Speaker 2: Big fan. Hope all is well and stay up boys.
- 1:13:54Speaker 1: What's his first name?
- 1:13:55Speaker 2: Daniel? Daniel? Yes, yeah, Daniel. I'm sorry, brother, so sorry,
- 1:14:01Speaker 2: and also like so much to celebrate there too, Like
- 1:14:05Speaker 2: it's cool that Daniel's able to sit there and reflect
- 1:14:08Speaker 2: with the family that he's built and they're able to
- 1:14:12Speaker 2: like process and feel what they're going through.
- 1:14:16Speaker 1: Yeah, it's there.
- 1:14:18Speaker 2: You really are like no words that you can tell
- 1:14:20Speaker 2: people when you lose a loved one that close and
- 1:14:23Speaker 2: you have such a story where it's a brother that
- 1:14:25Speaker 2: you've never had, that you've operated with, that your wife
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: is close to as well that you were about to
- 1:14:30Speaker 2: deliver news the next day. Like those are moments that
- 1:14:32Speaker 2: obviously are going to be permanent in your head. But
- 1:14:37Speaker 2: when you do get out on the other side, or
- 1:14:38Speaker 2: the moment you do get out on the other side,
- 1:14:40Speaker 2: you reflect in such a way to where again pulling
- 1:14:43Speaker 2: experience from that happening with my mom. It's like you
- 1:14:46Speaker 2: pull from those things to help kind of cultivate your family,
- 1:14:51Speaker 2: like they live through you and they trickle down into
- 1:14:55Speaker 2: your little ones, even though it sucks that your little
- 1:14:58Speaker 2: ones will never meet them and they'll never truly grasp
- 1:15:00Speaker 2: and know how much that person meant to you. And
- 1:15:04Speaker 2: you know what I mean, and like that real in
- 1:15:05Speaker 2: such a real way to where I'm just so conscious
- 1:15:08Speaker 2: that they'll never know. However, it is through myself, it's
- 1:15:13Speaker 2: through Chorrow, it's through everybody that's in the family that
- 1:15:15Speaker 2: do my mother yea, and or the new year loved
- 1:15:17Speaker 2: one that pours into them to where they will have
- 1:15:20Speaker 2: that perspective way down the road, maybe after you're gone,
- 1:15:24Speaker 2: you know.
- 1:15:24Speaker 7: What I mean.
- 1:15:26Speaker 2: Absolutely, So it's tough, dude, Condolen says, man, I know,
- 1:15:29Speaker 2: words don't make it at all better, because you're you're
- 1:15:32Speaker 2: kind of in your own you're kind of in your
- 1:15:34Speaker 2: own fights, and you and your wife lean on each
- 1:15:36Speaker 2: other and don't. My advice would be everybody wants to
- 1:15:41Speaker 2: always jump into help solve problems or solve thinking when man,
- 1:15:46Speaker 2: a lot of the time it's just do I want
- 1:15:48Speaker 2: to say this out loud and just know that you're
- 1:15:50Speaker 2: next to me. Yes.
- 1:15:52Speaker 3: Only thing that I could even remotely say to that
- 1:15:56Speaker 3: ride in is a fun anecdote of my mother had
- 1:16:00Speaker 3: a little song that she would sing to my mom
- 1:16:02Speaker 3: when my mom would put her arms around her in
- 1:16:05Speaker 3: the pool and my grandma would walk like in the
- 1:16:08Speaker 3: shallow end and drag her and she would sing, come on,
- 1:16:11Speaker 3: let me take you on a sea cruise. And she
- 1:16:14Speaker 3: would sing that to her mom, saying that to me, juju,
- 1:16:18Speaker 3: my grandmother. It's not long pass but just in a
- 1:16:23Speaker 3: what's that called? Uh, not innate, but it's just like
- 1:16:28Speaker 3: in my subconscious. I put Scarlet up on my shoulder
- 1:16:33Speaker 3: one night and was like bopping her around, and I
- 1:16:35Speaker 3: started singing, come and let me take you on a
- 1:16:37Speaker 3: sea cruise. And it's just like those little there's gonna
- 1:16:41Speaker 3: be those little things, yeah, I said.
- 1:16:42Speaker 2: And then when they Scarlet's probably going to do that. Yeah, yeah,
- 1:16:47Speaker 2: And you're right, man, I do as many things as
- 1:16:49Speaker 2: I can remember. My mom told me that she did
- 1:16:51Speaker 2: when I was a baby. Where it's like my mom
- 1:16:54Speaker 2: would always tell me she loved like rubbing on my
- 1:16:56Speaker 2: palm at night. Scottie doesn't like her hands being touched
- 1:16:59Speaker 2: as much. Times they get in there where she's like
- 1:17:01Speaker 2: having the bottle or I'm rocking her and she just
- 1:17:02Speaker 2: like hold her hold her hands up like while I
- 1:17:04Speaker 2: just rub the inside of her palm.
- 1:17:06Speaker 1: You know what I mean.
- 1:17:07Speaker 2: It's like the connecting, connective vibe just like, oh my,
- 1:17:11Speaker 2: I know my mom said she used to do this.
- 1:17:13Speaker 2: I mean now I'm doing it to my little ones.
- 1:17:15Speaker 1: Rue always loved it.
- 1:17:17Speaker 2: Now now I'm the backscratcher, snuggle, backscratch, arm rub God dude.
- 1:17:23Speaker 1: But like little things like that, that, yeah yeah.
- 1:17:26Speaker 3: That will that will come out, like little little parts
- 1:17:30Speaker 3: of Christian will be there and come out over time
- 1:17:33Speaker 3: and it'll be a really beautiful moment and you aren't
- 1:17:35Speaker 3: even playing for it.
- 1:17:36Speaker 2: It's just gonna happen and it's gonna be great. Yeah yeah, man,
- 1:17:41Speaker 2: what was the segue with that? I have another dad
- 1:17:44Speaker 2: win Dad wins Okay, yeah, I think these were dad wins.
- 1:17:49Speaker 2: That was a new dad. Oh that was new dad.
- 1:17:51Speaker 2: But you do have dad wins, but you each have
- 1:17:52Speaker 2: some new dads. I have a new dad.
- 1:17:54Speaker 1: Would you like me to read a new dad?
- 1:17:55Speaker 2: Please? Please? Please please? Here we go. We got a
- 1:17:58Speaker 2: photo here Alyssa Harris on Instagram. My husband is your
- 1:18:03Speaker 2: biggest fan up in Gulf Canada. He talks about your
- 1:18:09Speaker 2: pod all the time and relays everything you guys talk
- 1:18:11Speaker 2: about to me as he works hard being the best
- 1:18:13Speaker 2: dad he can for his little girl. Everly, I made
- 1:18:15Speaker 2: sure to get him some of the four the Dad's
- 1:18:17Speaker 2: Merch for Christmas and he reps it wherever he goes.
- 1:18:20Speaker 2: Thanks for giving him the confidence to be an absolutely
- 1:18:23Speaker 2: amazing partner and daddy to our little family of three.
- 1:18:26Speaker 2: We have a phenomenal photo right here. Oh and that's
- 1:18:30Speaker 2: from Alyssa. Yeah, that's from Alyssa Harris on Instagram. And
- 1:18:33Speaker 2: what's her husband's name? Does she even listen? You're a
- 1:18:42Speaker 2: sick Oh.
- 1:18:43Speaker 1: Yeah, empty sick.
- 1:18:44Speaker 2: She's like, oh, I forgot that gives your name. Let's
- 1:18:48Speaker 2: give him a name just for the segment so we
- 1:18:49Speaker 2: can say, shout out his name. What's your gut tell you, oh, brat.
- 1:18:54Speaker 2: He seems like a kind gentle brat. Yeah, just a
- 1:18:58Speaker 2: nice breath. He's just brat. Brett Harris.
- 1:19:00Speaker 1: Yeah, Brett Harris, Brett Harris.
- 1:19:02Speaker 2: CONGRATU. Shout out Bratt, you and Alyssa and your little girl. Everly,
- 1:19:06Speaker 2: she looks like a stud. I love the high single pony.
- 1:19:10Speaker 2: And look at Brett's hat. But is he wearing a
- 1:19:12Speaker 2: PT six hat and that got on backwards? Yeah? Yeah,
- 1:19:16Speaker 2: yeah he's wearing he's wearing the PT six shirt. Oh
- 1:19:19Speaker 2: you got a logo right there? BT six shirt. Come on,
- 1:19:21Speaker 2: But just a little pony up top. The first time
- 1:19:23Speaker 2: you're able to make that happen, you're like, oh, look
- 1:19:24Speaker 2: how adorable she looks like.
- 1:19:27Speaker 3: Scarlet's like, I have another new dad, new dad alert,
- 1:19:33Speaker 3: new dad alert. This comes from Mattie Lynn on Instagram.
- 1:19:39Speaker 3: Mattie says, hey, proud member of Empty six here. My
- 1:19:42Speaker 3: husband Ryan is an absolute pet sico. He loves listening
- 1:19:46Speaker 3: to the pod every week on his way to where
- 1:19:48Speaker 3: he is finishing his residency, training and starting interview season
- 1:19:53Speaker 3: while killing it as a new dad too, are two
- 1:19:55Speaker 3: month old Jordie. He is the best and hardest word
- 1:20:00Speaker 3: and it would make his day to get some love
- 1:20:04Speaker 3: from the dads.
- 1:20:04Speaker 2: He's wearing our dad's shirts right there.
- 1:20:07Speaker 3: Let's go, Maddie. Thank you for writing in, and Ryan,
- 1:20:11Speaker 3: best of luck to you in the job search. Only
- 1:20:15Speaker 3: advice i'd give before a job interview. I'm a big
- 1:20:18Speaker 3: believer in the body language pregaming. When you're going into
- 1:20:22Speaker 3: a stressful environment, get big the was it called.
- 1:20:27Speaker 2: The capillary whatever?
- 1:20:29Speaker 3: Open up, hell, get the blood flow going, and just
- 1:20:33Speaker 3: get real big dude. To do some stretches before you
- 1:20:35Speaker 3: go into that room. Go sneak into the bathroom, get
- 1:20:37Speaker 3: in the stall and just move around. You get big,
- 1:20:40Speaker 3: because when we get nervous, we shrink a couple of.
- 1:20:42Speaker 2: Nasal breathing, some good damn nazel breathing. Look in the
- 1:20:45Speaker 2: mirror and say, you're the fucking man. Wait, who is
- 1:20:51Speaker 2: that in the mirror?
- 1:20:52Speaker 6: Who is that?
- 1:20:53Speaker 2: Is that a motherfucking pt siico? I see that's gonna
- 1:20:56Speaker 2: land this job. It's got a bethroomdoor opens up and
- 1:21:03Speaker 2: I put it and I put soap on it. By
- 1:21:04Speaker 2: the way, I did put soap on it because he's
- 1:21:06Speaker 2: probably a doctor. Alex Marquette Boys Official PT sixer here
- 1:21:10Speaker 2: love the pod, Keep up the good work. It is
- 1:21:12Speaker 2: currently four eighteen twenty six. Ooh, it's not April. Oh,
- 1:21:18Speaker 2: March eighteen twenty six. My son arrived yesterday at eleven
- 1:21:23Speaker 2: fifty am after having an emergency C section. We are
- 1:21:26Speaker 2: the prod parents of a Saint Patrick's date baby. However,
- 1:21:30Speaker 2: we aren't out of the woods yet. Little Bam Bam
- 1:21:32Speaker 2: was taken into the nick you last night due to
- 1:21:35Speaker 2: low blood sugar and body tempt. They also found a
- 1:21:37Speaker 2: little heart murmur, so we were hoping for the best.
- 1:21:40Speaker 2: They did say he's shown improvement, so we should be
- 1:21:42Speaker 2: good again. Love the pod, keep it up. PT six out.
- 1:21:45Speaker 2: PT six out.
- 1:21:47Speaker 3: Not to make light of that thought, we had a
- 1:21:48Speaker 3: time traveler there for a second thought we did.
- 1:21:51Speaker 2: I got excited Willie read it this is future. Well, hello,
- 1:21:56Speaker 2: will it's April eighteen, twenty twenty six. Hang on, no,
- 1:22:01Speaker 2: how did I figure that out? A month's big shout
- 1:22:09Speaker 2: outs to them? We also going to what'd you grab? Dad? Wins? No, dude,
- 1:22:13Speaker 2: MT six You can't shout out the dads and not
- 1:22:16Speaker 2: shout out the moms.
- 1:22:17Speaker 1: Come on officially a PT. Six.
- 1:22:20Speaker 2: Her wife gave birth today March nineteenth to a baby
- 1:22:23Speaker 2: boy eight pounds seven pounds or eight pounds seven ounces.
- 1:22:27Speaker 2: Let's go.
- 1:22:29Speaker 1: In my hospital chair bed.
- 1:22:30Speaker 2: As I type this, just want to give a shout out,
- 1:22:32Speaker 2: no free shoutouts to my wife Brie, who was amazing
- 1:22:35Speaker 2: and pushed them out in forty minutes. She kept it
- 1:22:37Speaker 2: under an hour. What Bree after being in labor for
- 1:22:41Speaker 2: fourteen hours? Good as she's pushing. I told her to
- 1:22:45Speaker 2: embrace the suck man. She was determined. Thanks for the pod.
- 1:22:48Speaker 2: You guys make my wednesdays and help me stay calm
- 1:22:50Speaker 2: and cool throughout the pregnancy. Thank you, Jordan, Thank you Jordan.
- 1:22:55Speaker 2: Shout out Jordan M burnout, bigger shout out to Bree, bigger.
- 1:22:58Speaker 3: Yes, and I want to do a quick segment, probably
- 1:23:01Speaker 3: everybody's favorite segment where we pitch a new merch idea
- 1:23:04Speaker 3: live on air.
- 1:23:06Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody's superite segment.
- 1:23:08Speaker 2: Everyone's favorite for that. The one time you said, well
- 1:23:12Speaker 2: I know, I know, but we're gonna make We're gonna
- 1:23:15Speaker 2: normalize it. We're gonna normalize it.
- 1:23:18Speaker 1: Normal lives.
- 1:23:18Speaker 2: Everybody's favorite segment, everyone's favorite segment. So this is our
- 1:23:25Speaker 2: show where we pitch a merch idea live on air.
- 1:23:28Speaker 2: My idea is a newborn.
- 1:23:31Speaker 3: Beanie, because I know all these dads are wearing the
- 1:23:34Speaker 3: stuff when they're coming out, but I'm seeing all these
- 1:23:36Speaker 3: little beanie pictures on the newborn babies and their little mittens.
- 1:23:40Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Well, if we had a
- 1:23:42Speaker 3: newborn beanie for them, That's all I'm saying. And that
- 1:23:47Speaker 3: commences everybody's favorite segment of the show.
- 1:23:50Speaker 2: Hang on, that's fucking brilliant.
- 1:23:55Speaker 3: Wait, reopen segment, Hold on, Hold on, reopen segment. Guys,
- 1:24:00Speaker 3: welcome back to Pitch Live on air. I just pitched
- 1:24:04Speaker 3: a genius idea to my boss, Will Compton.
- 1:24:08Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I like it. What do we call them?
- 1:24:14Speaker 1: Baby Team six?
- 1:24:16Speaker 2: I mean some of the stuff just makes itself. BT
- 1:24:19Speaker 2: six rhymes with PT six. Derek are kind of I mean,
- 1:24:24Speaker 2: you kind of head up the marketing arm of the merchandise.
- 1:24:28Speaker 2: He's kind of like the merch guy. He's really just
- 1:24:31Speaker 2: our marketing team at this point. Yeah, I pitched. I
- 1:24:35Speaker 2: think I pitched something, not not that that is genius.
- 1:24:38Speaker 2: I love that.
- 1:24:39Speaker 4: Oh I'm not okay with the fact that Will's okay
- 1:24:41Speaker 4: with the segment because I've pitched ideas and I've been
- 1:24:43Speaker 4: told that my horses are too high or fast or
- 1:24:46Speaker 4: some ship, and you've yelled and yeah, you've been mad
- 1:24:48Speaker 4: at me for like pitching like things on air. I
- 1:24:51Speaker 4: can't follow through it. I can't make a baby beanie.
- 1:24:53Speaker 4: And I'm mad at you for being okay with this segment.
- 1:24:58Speaker 1: Why am I in trouble?
- 1:25:01Speaker 2: I think this is a good this is a good
- 1:25:04Speaker 2: moment where we can are you saying I shot down
- 1:25:06Speaker 2: stuff like when we you've said that we shouldn't pitch
- 1:25:09Speaker 2: merch on air because we can't even get our ship
- 1:25:11Speaker 2: straight most of the time. I believe it was now okay, Well, yeah,
- 1:25:16Speaker 2: it's an okay thing. Yeah, very protective for our audience
- 1:25:21Speaker 2: and us, because we get we pitch something and everybody's like, yeah,
- 1:25:24Speaker 2: when's it coming, when's it coming? And we don't deliver.
- 1:25:27Speaker 2: We're all we're doing nothing. But it's a disservice to everybody. Further,
- 1:25:33Speaker 2: gotcha stray from Derek. We started, we started it, normalize it,
- 1:25:40Speaker 2: and then he was like, oh, well, I'm they pitched
- 1:25:42Speaker 2: it all the time.
- 1:25:44Speaker 5: I'll start pitching. When Derek started here, we pitched ship.
- 1:25:48Speaker 5: Every let's make mayby backs, you know what, You're right?
- 1:25:56Speaker 2: Really? Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, that's that's all fair. That's
- 1:26:00Speaker 2: all fair. Okay, So segment approved and time out all right,
- 1:26:06Speaker 2: like off the pod time out, off the pod time.
- 1:26:09Speaker 2: Oh wait wait.
- 1:26:11Speaker 4: Sure this is a bit oh off the pod time
- 1:26:14Speaker 4: back to the off the pod, on the pod, off
- 1:26:15Speaker 4: the pod time out. Yeah yeah yeah, this is a
- 1:26:16Speaker 4: real in the pod, off the pod moment. Yes, so
- 1:26:20Speaker 4: are we in the pod right now? I technically we're
- 1:26:23Speaker 4: off the pod, but the listeners can hear us because
- 1:26:24Speaker 4: it's still part of the pod. But we're having a
- 1:26:26Speaker 4: talk as a team off the pod while got you.
- 1:26:29Speaker 1: So they're getting inside on making that goes this.
- 1:26:32Speaker 2: But they're getting inside this is a team meaning got you. Yeah.
- 1:26:36Speaker 2: My only hesitation is the points that they were bringing
- 1:26:39Speaker 2: up that where I was just getting lax brained right there.
- 1:26:42Speaker 2: I was getting dad brained and truly buying into the
- 1:26:44Speaker 2: idea that's brilliant. We should one hundred percent do that.
- 1:26:47Speaker 2: And hey, he's bringing up old stuff that I would say,
- 1:26:50Speaker 2: which he's right on. And so now that we're coming
- 1:26:53Speaker 2: back around to do we continue to do merch ideas.
- 1:26:57Speaker 2: But my only thing is we would need to deliver
- 1:26:59Speaker 2: on the merch ideas.
- 1:27:03Speaker 4: One hundred percent agreed. I agree with what you're saying
- 1:27:06Speaker 4: because it's consistent with what you've always said. What just happened.
- 1:27:10Speaker 4: And you wear many hats. You are CEO Will Compton,
- 1:27:13Speaker 4: you are former NFL player Will Compton, You're for the
- 1:27:15Speaker 4: co host Will Compton.
- 1:27:16Speaker 2: You got a lot of hats, A lot of hats,
- 1:27:17Speaker 2: a lot of hats.
- 1:27:18Speaker 1: There are times where I got to be former NFL.
- 1:27:20Speaker 2: Players Will Compton. That was one of them. It was like, ah, yeah,
- 1:27:24Speaker 2: that's a great idea. I love this idea.
- 1:27:27Speaker 4: They've got to be cheaper than the beanies we make
- 1:27:29Speaker 4: because the beanies we make are bigger and so little
- 1:27:31Speaker 4: beanies have to be cheaper, and so I can look
- 1:27:33Speaker 4: into it if we really want to see the same thing.
- 1:27:36Speaker 4: I just want you to know that I've pitched things
- 1:27:38Speaker 4: on the show, and you've told me to stop pitching
- 1:27:40Speaker 4: things on the show.
- 1:27:41Speaker 2: Because I get nervous that we can want deliver. Sure,
- 1:27:43Speaker 2: but I love the line of you'll look into it.
- 1:27:46Speaker 2: I will look into it.
- 1:27:48Speaker 5: Yea.
- 1:27:49Speaker 1: Then then I think that kind of.
- 1:27:50Speaker 2: Saves everything because then the audience also knows if they're
- 1:27:53Speaker 2: in this with us, like we do have to look
- 1:27:54Speaker 2: into these things.
- 1:27:55Speaker 1: To see if it's like feasible.
- 1:27:56Speaker 2: Or the right moves or the best move or I
- 1:27:58Speaker 2: wish we were on the podcast right now so that
- 1:28:00Speaker 2: the audience could hear this.
- 1:28:01Speaker 3: Yeah, Deep does follow through. That's the one thing that
- 1:28:04Speaker 3: I am confident on. If he says he's gonna look
- 1:28:06Speaker 3: into it, he'll look into it.
- 1:28:08Speaker 2: Yeah. That makes me feel comfortable.
- 1:28:11Speaker 4: Now I'm thinking back on everything that if I haven't
- 1:28:13Speaker 4: followed through on, I think we're okay.
- 1:28:16Speaker 2: No, you always fall you.
- 1:28:18Speaker 1: No, I's been a trust that's built.
- 1:28:21Speaker 4: I also don't want PT six to be like, oh,
- 1:28:23Speaker 4: where's that thing and get mad at me, because sure
- 1:28:25Speaker 4: I got the.
- 1:28:26Speaker 2: Idea that that's and that's what this all opens up to, Like,
- 1:28:30Speaker 2: no matter what, if we get excited about a potential
- 1:28:33Speaker 2: idea and it doesn't.
- 1:28:34Speaker 1: Happen, where is it?
- 1:28:35Speaker 2: Where is it? You almost need? You need whoever the
- 1:28:39Speaker 2: bad guy is in whatever story they are.
- 1:28:41Speaker 4: When they I'm the military guy getting arrows in his
- 1:28:44Speaker 4: back and you two are on the bed sleeping, cuddling,
- 1:28:47Speaker 4: and I'm taking I'm aware. I just also want to
- 1:28:50Speaker 4: pitch the ideas that I'll get shot in the back
- 1:28:52Speaker 4: for as an arrow on it.
- 1:28:53Speaker 2: Okay, as long as we're cool with that. As long
- 1:28:55Speaker 2: as we're good with that. When we get back on
- 1:28:57Speaker 2: the pod, how are we going to present this to
- 1:28:59Speaker 2: Pt six real quick? What we saw? I think since
- 1:29:02Speaker 2: it was an internal meeting with us, we don't we
- 1:29:04Speaker 2: don't carry it over into the pop. They don't here,
- 1:29:06Speaker 2: so we just don't don't acknowledge the meeting.
- 1:29:08Speaker 3: And then we just go right back into that segment
- 1:29:11Speaker 3: where he said it was a genius idea.
- 1:29:14Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I think we come back into it with
- 1:29:17Speaker 4: oh my gosh, that's such a good idea, shirm and
- 1:29:19Speaker 4: we just keep going.
- 1:29:19Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, we're gonna say, all right, we're back,
- 1:29:23Speaker 2: had just had a great meeting. Yeah, oh yeah, Dike's
- 1:29:26Speaker 2: going to look into it. Yeah, let's get in a
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- 1:29:33Speaker 2: are back from the internal meeting we just had with
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- 1:29:47Speaker 2: des the gatekeeper to just throw extra wood on this bonfire.
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- 1:37:12Speaker 2: krekit Coal one this week, My krackit Coal one is
- 1:37:15Speaker 2: going to go to Rue dominating the monkey bars. Dominating
- 1:37:22Speaker 2: a chef will obviously get the video to you so
- 1:37:24Speaker 2: you can put it up there.
- 1:37:26Speaker 4: You got this through.
- 1:37:31Speaker 2: Focus, don't look at me, Oh my gosh, but one
- 1:37:42Speaker 2: after another bro and even at the end, a little
- 1:37:45Speaker 2: planet of the apes hang before she got onto the
- 1:37:47Speaker 2: other side. Can I do something pretty dramatic here before
- 1:37:50Speaker 2: you go into this story, if that's basically the story,
- 1:37:54Speaker 2: before you talk about how proud you are of your daughter.
- 1:37:57Speaker 3: I want to give that video a full moment. I
- 1:37:59Speaker 3: don't even wanted to play up here like I think
- 1:38:02Speaker 3: we should roll tape and welcome back. Can you believe
- 1:38:08Speaker 3: what you just saw?
- 1:38:09Speaker 5: No?
- 1:38:10Speaker 2: I look up there, and when I see you're going
- 1:38:11Speaker 2: across the monkey bars, I think scholarship. Yeah. The week
- 1:38:15Speaker 2: before Ruth's Ben she loves the monkey bars at school,
- 1:38:19Speaker 2: and I guess it's lower to where her maybe their
- 1:38:20Speaker 2: feet in touch or something like that. But she was
- 1:38:24Speaker 2: starting to get it to where she goes on the
- 1:38:27Speaker 2: first one and then goes to the second one, but
- 1:38:29Speaker 2: won't go to the third one. She'd be like, dadd
- 1:38:31Speaker 2: grab me, and I would kind of like grab her
- 1:38:32Speaker 2: rib cage and help a little, you know, just enough
- 1:38:34Speaker 2: to where she can kind of get all the.
- 1:38:35Speaker 1: Way to the other side. But she she would only
- 1:38:38Speaker 1: do two.
- 1:38:38Speaker 2: She only do two monkey bars before it's like Dad's
- 1:38:41Speaker 2: grabbing her on the rib cage and she's going across
- 1:38:43Speaker 2: the other side that one.
- 1:38:44Speaker 1: Charlot, they're at the park. I wasn't there, and Charle
- 1:38:47Speaker 1: rips me that video.
- 1:38:48Speaker 2: I'm just smiling ear to ear, like dude, and even
- 1:38:51Speaker 2: at the end you hears say send it to dad, Dad. Yeah,
- 1:38:54Speaker 2: But she just rips across the monkey bars and I'm
- 1:38:57Speaker 2: just like, yo, you're doing it, man. Yeah, Like I'm thinking,
- 1:39:00Speaker 2: I knew you could do this. You just got to
- 1:39:01Speaker 2: like trust that you're strong enough and trust that you
- 1:39:04Speaker 2: you know, it's like the fear of that creeps in
- 1:39:05Speaker 2: once you get by one. You're like, okay, grab me. Yeah,
- 1:39:07Speaker 2: It's like, bro, you're strong enough. I've seen you I've
- 1:39:09Speaker 2: seen you hang on the monkey bar for over fifty seconds. Yeah,
- 1:39:14Speaker 2: like you got it, bro just and yeah, I was.
- 1:39:16Speaker 2: I was on cloud nine, I whenever wherever I was.
- 1:39:19Speaker 2: I was in the conference room on the other side.
- 1:39:22Speaker 2: But whoever was in the room or it was maybe
- 1:39:23Speaker 2: the stream room. We were watching March Madness. Yeah, stream room,
- 1:39:26Speaker 2: and I stopped them, like everybody watched this video.
- 1:39:29Speaker 1: Watch this video. Yeah that's Rue. Yeah, that's that's me.
- 1:39:32Speaker 3: You halted all work being done in the back too.
- 1:39:37Speaker 3: There was like three or four of us sitting back there,
- 1:39:39Speaker 3: and it was like, a this is important.
- 1:39:41Speaker 2: Yeah, watched this and it was right.
- 1:39:44Speaker 3: My note that I took away from it, yeah, was
- 1:39:49Speaker 3: most kids that you see on the monkey bars have
- 1:39:52Speaker 3: this action going, and this is their torso going and
- 1:39:55Speaker 3: they're having to use the momentum of there by bro
- 1:39:59Speaker 3: Rue center gravity is crazy in that video.
- 1:40:02Speaker 2: She's doing no leg swinging, She's full on. She looks
- 1:40:05Speaker 2: like one of those American Ninja warrior thing that her
- 1:40:09Speaker 2: body American Ninja warriors. Because what now, it's like, I
- 1:40:14Speaker 2: don't know, she's three, she's about to be four. Yeah,
- 1:40:16Speaker 2: but I'm thinking, hey, is this rare? It looked rare
- 1:40:22Speaker 2: to me, dude, most of them are up there like
- 1:40:26Speaker 2: she's just doing doing, doing doing. We could we could
- 1:40:29Speaker 2: ask AI, are you a big American ninja warrior guy?
- 1:40:32Speaker 2: I'm just saying that's super impressive. It is like the
- 1:40:35Speaker 2: potential could seem high. The bar is high, but maybe
- 1:40:39Speaker 2: maybe all three year olds do this. Yeah, of three
- 1:40:42Speaker 2: year olds, I will say her dad can play in
- 1:40:44Speaker 2: the NFL do her mom was a ballerina and is
- 1:40:49Speaker 2: currently still in fitness. Very athletic mom. Listen, this is
- 1:40:54Speaker 2: just a I s a I overview. Okay, I typed
- 1:40:57Speaker 2: in Google what percent of three year olds can do
- 1:40:59Speaker 2: all the monkey bars? Cool? It is very rare, but
- 1:41:02Speaker 2: AI might be feed my ego is very rare for
- 1:41:05Speaker 2: a three year old to complete an entire set of
- 1:41:07Speaker 2: standard monkey bars, as most children like necessary strength and
- 1:41:10Speaker 2: coordination until ages five and six. While some toddlers can
- 1:41:13Speaker 2: hang or do one or two bars with assistance, full
- 1:41:16Speaker 2: independent traversal traversal traversal is not typical as they generally
- 1:41:22Speaker 2: lack sufficient grip strength will shut shout out ROUE was
- 1:41:27Speaker 2: that claude? That's Google? AI, that's just I type in
- 1:41:30Speaker 2: the search bar. Okay, I trust Google AI. That's very rare, dude.
- 1:41:36Speaker 2: So shout out, rush, shout out, crack a cold one. Yeah,
- 1:41:39Speaker 2: that's my crack of cold one. Thank you, lollipop, Thank
- 1:41:42Speaker 2: you lollipop, Thank you Dan Gable. My crack a cold
- 1:41:49Speaker 2: one is the same crack of cold one I have
- 1:41:52Speaker 2: last week, but now we're on the flip side of it.
- 1:41:54Speaker 2: It was the first t golf lessons.
- 1:41:56Speaker 3: I got to do my first first tea golf lesson
- 1:42:00Speaker 3: and go out there and teach the kiddos how to golf.
- 1:42:02Speaker 2: How was it? Bro It was everything I was looking
- 1:42:04Speaker 2: It was truly everything that I was looking for.
- 1:42:07Speaker 3: I pull up to Smyrna, the public course that I'm
- 1:42:11Speaker 3: coaching at, there's not a single golf club to be seen.
- 1:42:15Speaker 3: They're playing sharks and minnows. You remember that one dude? Oh,
- 1:42:18Speaker 3: I remember remember sharks and this one kid. I mean
- 1:42:21Speaker 3: they did like three rounds of he was the only
- 1:42:24Speaker 3: mino and he was making it to the other side
- 1:42:27Speaker 3: every time. I was like, this kid's a freak. But
- 1:42:30Speaker 3: we're here to do golf. We're not even here to
- 1:42:32Speaker 3: do sharks and minnows. But you're just kind of getting
- 1:42:34Speaker 3: integrated into that, like playground mentality. Being outside it was
- 1:42:39Speaker 3: like seventy four with just like a little bit of
- 1:42:42Speaker 3: wind in the sun. It's just like perfect. I'm in shorts.
- 1:42:47Speaker 3: The other leaders of the thing, they're like, hey, guy,
- 1:42:51Speaker 3: Sherman's new. We're gonna show him the rope. Sherman, you
- 1:42:54Speaker 3: just shadow. His name's Alex, And thank god, dude, because
- 1:43:00Speaker 3: these kids were all over the place with the clubs.
- 1:43:03Speaker 2: Hey don't swing that by his head, but hey, hold
- 1:43:06Speaker 2: it in safety position. What are we doing?
- 1:43:08Speaker 3: We don't run on the green, blah blah blah. Alex
- 1:43:10Speaker 3: was on it, and I was kind of sitting there.
- 1:43:13Speaker 3: I'm taking notes from Alex. I'm like, okay, I'm seeing
- 1:43:16Speaker 3: I've worked with kids before, but not like this, not
- 1:43:20Speaker 3: like a full like sports thing. So taking notes from Alex.
- 1:43:24Speaker 3: I had mid golf lesson, girl comes up.
- 1:43:28Speaker 2: To me, do you know sign language? Said, I know
- 1:43:31Speaker 2: that is that thank you? Like that right there? That
- 1:43:35Speaker 2: thank you? She goes thank yeah and walks off.
- 1:43:39Speaker 3: Had another girl tell me about her brother's soccer practice
- 1:43:42Speaker 3: that's happening immediately after her golf lessons.
- 1:43:46Speaker 2: That was about a fifteen minutes story, and.
- 1:43:49Speaker 3: That was between hey, good swing there, Yeah, Hey, let's
- 1:43:52Speaker 3: adjust that club a little bit. Got to learn about
- 1:43:54Speaker 3: her brother's soccer team. It was incredible, nice man, it
- 1:43:59Speaker 3: was really.
- 1:43:59Speaker 2: Fun, dude.
- 1:44:00Speaker 3: And yeah, and then we had a nice little pow
- 1:44:03Speaker 3: wow breakdown. At the end of Hey, what we learned today,
- 1:44:08Speaker 3: sweet little six year old seven year old girl gets
- 1:44:12Speaker 3: up and just puts on an absolute show of a
- 1:44:16Speaker 3: monologue of what she learned today. And none of it
- 1:44:19Speaker 3: made sense, none of it connected to anything that was
- 1:44:23Speaker 3: taught that day.
- 1:44:24Speaker 2: And she ran out of breath a lot as she
- 1:44:26Speaker 2: was doing it, too, and she got a round of
- 1:44:30Speaker 2: applause from everyone standing. Oh, it was a standing o
- 1:44:34Speaker 2: and need to wait and uh, that's my mom and
- 1:44:42Speaker 2: when but when you're putting standing, Oh, I took my
- 1:44:49Speaker 2: hat off too, shook her hand, shook her hand. So
- 1:44:53Speaker 2: that's right, Gabriella, that's right. Cheers bro, Hey, cheers. Very fun.
- 1:45:01Speaker 6: Though.
- 1:45:03Speaker 2: Voicemails voicemail, So, dude, let's hit the voicemail six and
- 1:45:06Speaker 2: one of the dad's call in their hotline vent to
- 1:45:09Speaker 2: the boys.
- 1:45:11Speaker 3: And usually I haven't pulled up. This is the part
- 1:45:14Speaker 3: of the show where we talk a little bit while
- 1:45:16Speaker 3: I pull it up.
- 1:45:17Speaker 1: Yeah, so we like to do this.
- 1:45:22Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll look into it. You can look into it
- 1:45:28Speaker 2: all right. First one unknown allergy.
- 1:45:30Speaker 8: Here we go, Hey boys, Joe from Texas calling in.
- 1:45:37Speaker 2: Joe from Texas, requesting a little bit of.
- 1:45:39Speaker 8: A dad hack or something. I found out my wife
- 1:45:43Speaker 8: it's got an allergy. She's allergic to putting shot back
- 1:45:48Speaker 8: where it goes after she's done using it, just you
- 1:45:53Speaker 8: know my brain.
- 1:45:57Speaker 7: Where it goes.
- 1:45:59Speaker 3: She is allergic to putting shit back to where it
- 1:46:03Speaker 3: goes after she's done using it. Oh, start from the top, maybe, Sharon,
- 1:46:08Speaker 3: let's start from the top, because this is a medical condition.
- 1:46:12Speaker 2: This is an unknown allergy. We are doctors. Joe from Texas.
- 1:46:17Speaker 8: Take two, Hey boys, it's Joe from Texas calling in,
- 1:46:23Speaker 8: requesting a little bit of a dad hack or something.
- 1:46:26Speaker 8: I found out my wife it's got an allergy. She's
- 1:46:31Speaker 8: allergic to putting shit back where it goes after she's
- 1:46:35Speaker 8: done using it.
- 1:46:38Speaker 2: Just you know my brain.
- 1:46:40Speaker 8: The task is only complete once you got everything back
- 1:46:44Speaker 8: in this place. But her now she abandons sight right
- 1:46:50Speaker 8: then and there, and all the shit she used just
- 1:46:53Speaker 8: not back where it goes. So I was wondering if
- 1:46:56Speaker 8: we got any dad hacks. Maybe a doctor in the community.
- 1:47:00Speaker 8: Can let me know Claritan to give her in the
- 1:47:02Speaker 8: morning so we can battle this allergy together.
- 1:47:05Speaker 2: Yeah, we can get all my ship back where it goes.
- 1:47:10Speaker 2: Thanks appreciated, Joe from Texas. Joe from Texas. Wife has
- 1:47:15Speaker 2: an allergy to putting shit back where it belongs.
- 1:47:19Speaker 3: After she's done using and I love the idea, Joe
- 1:47:22Speaker 3: of using Clareton. I actually take Claardon every morning. Yeah,
- 1:47:28Speaker 3: but unfortunately I was born with said allergy as well.
- 1:47:35Speaker 3: My nurse wife love, I love you, Honey, would tell
- 1:47:38Speaker 3: you I have that same allergy my.
- 1:47:41Speaker 2: Wife as well. I have an allergy to putting ship
- 1:47:44Speaker 2: back where it belongs. Everything needs a home, he is
- 1:47:48Speaker 2: what I'm told. Yeah, everything has a place. Do we
- 1:47:52Speaker 2: need to switch to bin a drill? Maybe Clareton's not
- 1:47:56Speaker 2: cutting strong enough. Yeah, I would say, Joe, thank you
- 1:48:01Speaker 2: for calling in from Texas. This is more of a hack.
- 1:48:05Speaker 2: You need to ask my wife because I am the
- 1:48:08Speaker 2: wife in this scenario. I have an allergy to put
- 1:48:11Speaker 2: hip back where it goes. I can give you advice
- 1:48:19Speaker 2: from the perspective of your wife on things that I
- 1:48:22Speaker 2: get told. Yeah, what's going on there? Charl will hit
- 1:48:26Speaker 2: me with how can I help you remember to put
- 1:48:33Speaker 2: ship back where it goes?
- 1:48:35Speaker 6: Like?
- 1:48:35Speaker 2: How can I walk with you versus just telling you
- 1:48:38Speaker 2: or reminding you or about Hey, it's been six months
- 1:48:41Speaker 2: that you put the boxes. You've been saying you're gonna
- 1:48:42Speaker 2: put the boxes outside for six months now. Oh yeah,
- 1:48:44Speaker 2: the leaning tower boxes. Yeah I have that too. Yeah,
- 1:48:48Speaker 2: when you're going to handle the boxes they've been sitting out.
- 1:48:50Speaker 2: Now that they're out in the garage, you said you
- 1:48:51Speaker 2: were going to handle them. Oh, I do have hack
- 1:48:55Speaker 2: for the boxes. Yeah, I tweeted about it. My beautiful
- 1:48:58Speaker 2: wife came up with a wonderful strategy put it on
- 1:49:01Speaker 2: the front porch. So then her.
- 1:49:05Speaker 3: Husband, that is a people pleaser and seeks the approval
- 1:49:08Speaker 3: of everyone, is then terribly embarrassed that his neighbors will
- 1:49:12Speaker 3: see empty boxes on his front porch and will immediately
- 1:49:16Speaker 3: then go put him in the trash. Pretty good strap from.
- 1:49:20Speaker 1: The wife there.
- 1:49:21Speaker 2: Wife, you will randomly ask me, so, what do you
- 1:49:24Speaker 2: want to do with all this? It's like a mail
- 1:49:26Speaker 2: pile there, what do you want to do with all this?
- 1:49:28Speaker 2: Y Sunday evening, I'm already trying to watch I'm locked
- 1:49:31Speaker 2: into whatever I'm watching on TV. Why do we got
- 1:49:33Speaker 2: to do this right now? My favorite?
- 1:49:35Speaker 1: Well, sweetheart, I wouldn't. I wouldn't want to do this
- 1:49:38Speaker 1: right now.
- 1:49:38Speaker 2: But this pile has been sitting here, yeah, for a
- 1:49:41Speaker 2: very long time, and it's the same conversation over and over.
- 1:49:44Speaker 2: How can I help you organize when the mail gets
- 1:49:47Speaker 2: brought in and your dumb ass brain can't figure it out?
- 1:49:53Speaker 2: You said that. I didn't say no yet. She said that.
- 1:49:56Speaker 3: She said that my favorite thing that my wife does you.
- 1:50:01Speaker 3: She asked a really great question of is.
- 1:50:03Speaker 2: That where this goes? Yeah, they ask you a question
- 1:50:07Speaker 2: when it's like, hey, why don't you just tell me
- 1:50:09Speaker 2: what's on your mind? Because I hear the question game
- 1:50:12Speaker 2: happening now? Oh that's funny. Is that where the pants
- 1:50:16Speaker 2: go on top of the piano? Yeah?
- 1:50:19Speaker 5: Oh?
- 1:50:20Speaker 2: Will? There's a coaster sitting right next to your cup.
- 1:50:24Speaker 2: Can we put the cup on the coaster? That's a
- 1:50:26Speaker 2: good call. That's about the only thing I am pretty
- 1:50:29Speaker 2: good at. That's about it. The sweating glass, that's about it.
- 1:50:33Speaker 2: It's not even sweating it. It's gonna sweat.
- 1:50:37Speaker 5: It.
- 1:50:37Speaker 3: Took ruining one piece of furniture of my mom's too.
- 1:50:41Speaker 3: I learned that lesson quickly voicemail too.
- 1:50:45Speaker 4: Can I give you one of my douchey mentality things
- 1:50:47Speaker 4: for that guy? Yeah, mentality I think called the one
- 1:50:54Speaker 4: touch rule, which is I try to do it. I'm
- 1:50:57Speaker 4: very bad about it. If I bring home a gym
- 1:50:58Speaker 4: bag or something, the only time you should touch it
- 1:51:01Speaker 4: is when you're putting it back in its place. So
- 1:51:02Speaker 4: if I bring out the vacuum and I leave it
- 1:51:04Speaker 4: in the corner, I have to touch it a second
- 1:51:05Speaker 4: time to put it back. So you just need to
- 1:51:07Speaker 4: put it back. So your shoes when you take them off,
- 1:51:09Speaker 4: like you just put them back where they belong. Don't
- 1:51:11Speaker 4: just set them there because you just want to touch
- 1:51:14Speaker 4: it once. You just want to touch the thing once.
- 1:51:16Speaker 4: Is what I try to think of with does not
- 1:51:18Speaker 4: work at fuck all for me, but it's something I've
- 1:51:21Speaker 4: learned a lot about it.
- 1:51:21Speaker 1: That would be a hack.
- 1:51:22Speaker 2: It would be a hack is just touch it once.
- 1:51:25Speaker 4: Like if you're done with a cup and you set
- 1:51:26Speaker 4: this cup down here, instead of sending it down here,
- 1:51:28Speaker 4: would have to touch it a second time to throw
- 1:51:30Speaker 4: it away, Just throw it away a piece of shit.
- 1:51:32Speaker 2: That's what I tell myself. Doesn't work yet, That's why
- 1:51:35Speaker 2: that's why. That's why we got you on here, man,
- 1:51:38Speaker 2: That's what we weren't going anywhere with it. Where Like
- 1:51:40Speaker 2: I'm thinking you said shoes, I'm like, god, shoes is
- 1:51:42Speaker 2: another one, shooeses another one.
- 1:51:44Speaker 3: Joe from Texas or yeah, you can do what I
- 1:51:46Speaker 3: did when I got really frustrated and just told my wife, Hey,
- 1:51:49Speaker 3: you married me, and I like putting my shoes by
- 1:51:51Speaker 3: the door. So that's where they're going. NAM worked out. Hey,
- 1:51:58Speaker 3: let's see, let's see how that works up for it.
- 1:52:01Speaker 3: But yeah, Joe from Texas, thanks for calling in, Thank
- 1:52:04Speaker 3: you for calling.
- 1:52:05Speaker 1: I hope it works out.
- 1:52:07Speaker 2: I did too. This is a simple question of how
- 1:52:10Speaker 2: can I help you. That's Charles's approach with me that
- 1:52:14Speaker 2: works best for me hearing that, and she asked me
- 1:52:17Speaker 2: with a question thing like I see right through it. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 1:52:22Speaker 2: I went in in all seriousness of putting things back
- 1:52:26Speaker 2: where they belong.
- 1:52:28Speaker 3: It's that you remember when I was trying very hard
- 1:52:31Speaker 3: when Jill was pregnant to be leave as little of
- 1:52:35Speaker 3: a footprint in the house as possible, almost not even exist.
- 1:52:40Speaker 3: You could walk into that house and go, wait, I
- 1:52:42Speaker 3: thought she was married. I need to readopt that I
- 1:52:46Speaker 3: lost it.
- 1:52:47Speaker 2: Yeah, and just understanding too that my wife loves when
- 1:52:50Speaker 2: things are just decluttered because if there's clutter, it feels
- 1:52:53Speaker 2: like it's cluttering her brain, which helps me empathize and
- 1:52:57Speaker 2: see what her vantage point is. Other than feeling like
- 1:52:59Speaker 2: she's coming at me for not doing something that she's wanting,
- 1:53:03Speaker 2: She's giving me perspective into her world. I that's always
- 1:53:07Speaker 2: what I think about, Like last night, perfect example last night,
- 1:53:10Speaker 2: because I started doing more PT Fit, I've started getting
- 1:53:13Speaker 2: into the pt fit. Go, oh, that's right, But I
- 1:53:15Speaker 2: have my own I have a separate backpack for my
- 1:53:17Speaker 2: my extra set of clothes in that pack and my
- 1:53:19Speaker 2: shoes they go in the backpack in case I want
- 1:53:21Speaker 2: to get it in here. But by any means, I'm
- 1:53:23Speaker 2: trying to set up structure. But I left the backpack
- 1:53:26Speaker 2: on the couch or like the little the couch at
- 1:53:29Speaker 2: the foot of the bed. Okay, And she hit me with, oh,
- 1:53:33Speaker 2: that's something new that's on the couch. I said, sweetheart,
- 1:53:38Speaker 2: I'm with you. This isn't going to be a reoccurring thing.
- 1:53:40Speaker 5: This is day one. That's day one. Yet that backpack
- 1:53:43Speaker 5: is not going to be on that couch every day.
- 1:53:45Speaker 5: I have a question for the crowd, and maybe this
- 1:53:47Speaker 5: is a younger generation thing. Have you ever heard from
- 1:53:51Speaker 5: your loved one I'm overstimulated? Is that word ever perspirated
- 1:53:57Speaker 5: during any kind of issu.
- 1:53:59Speaker 1: Yeah, like it's go.
- 1:54:00Speaker 2: It plays into the cluttering in her mind, like it
- 1:54:02Speaker 2: just feels like stuff has to be organized in the
- 1:54:06Speaker 2: right spot.
- 1:54:07Speaker 5: That's been a new one I've been doing with the
- 1:54:09Speaker 5: overstin and I'm like, is there anything I can do
- 1:54:12Speaker 5: or something? And it's kind of like that's her, like,
- 1:54:14Speaker 5: get the fuck out of my way.
- 1:54:16Speaker 2: It's been nice. Yeah, spoiler warning.
- 1:54:18Speaker 1: Co existing with the female gender is a very fascinating.
- 1:54:22Speaker 5: It is.
- 1:54:24Speaker 3: Spoiler warning if you don't want to know what my
- 1:54:27Speaker 3: lesson of the week is this week, before we get
- 1:54:30Speaker 3: to that section, it actually hits exactly on this there.
- 1:54:33Speaker 3: We're going to be put on some game later in
- 1:54:35Speaker 3: this pod. Okay, this is a really cool voicemail. Will
- 1:54:41Speaker 3: This is a callback voicemail to a pretty emotional comment
- 1:54:46Speaker 3: that you had read in a prior episode. Okay, just
- 1:54:52Speaker 3: to I'll recap, Yes, just to recap. You had the
- 1:54:58Speaker 3: comment from Grant where he was not on a flight
- 1:55:05Speaker 3: that some of his marine buddies. They all passed away
- 1:55:09Speaker 3: in a plane crash. Yeah I remember, Yes, Okay, now
- 1:55:13Speaker 3: check out this voicemail.
- 1:55:19Speaker 6: Hey boys, Andrew here a few weeks behind on the episodes,
- 1:55:24Speaker 6: but believe it's the February twenty fifth episode. You guys
- 1:55:29Speaker 6: just finished off with the letter from Grant, and I'm
- 1:55:34Speaker 6: in a similar situation. Me and my wife for separated
- 1:55:36Speaker 6: because the military, but I still go see them all
- 1:55:40Speaker 6: the time as much as I can. But Grant's yankee
- 1:55:48Speaker 6: got my tears in my eyes. But I actually responded
- 1:55:53Speaker 6: to that crash and help with the search and recovery
- 1:55:58Speaker 6: of our brothers. So it's just crazy to think about
- 1:56:03Speaker 6: how this podcast can bring stories. Although I've never met Grant,
- 1:56:13Speaker 6: we're part of a similar story, and how these moments
- 1:56:19Speaker 6: kind of put things in perspective and you don't know
- 1:56:23Speaker 6: what someone else is dealing with, whether it's tragedy or
- 1:56:28Speaker 6: just everyday life. So thank you boys doing much for
- 1:56:31Speaker 6: doing and just wanted to shout you guys out and
- 1:56:34Speaker 6: the work you're doing and how you're kind of bringing
- 1:56:37Speaker 6: the community together, and shout out to Grant and I
- 1:56:41Speaker 6: hope you're doing well, brother Petistic.
- 1:56:48Speaker 2: That's unreal dude, that's crazy, that's unreal.
- 1:56:55Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:56:55Speaker 2: I remember going home that day and I was telling
- 1:56:57Speaker 2: Charles all about Grant is right in and it's just
- 1:57:02Speaker 2: how you know his story and you know how it's
- 1:57:05Speaker 2: like if he would have been on that plane and
- 1:57:06Speaker 2: coming back and remarrying and going through like raising his daughters.
- 1:57:11Speaker 2: And that phone call is from it's Andrew, right. I
- 1:57:15Speaker 2: believe he said his say Andrew, yes, boy, Andrew here.
- 1:57:20Speaker 1: Yeah, just I don't even know what to say, Like
- 1:57:25Speaker 1: that is nuts to me.
- 1:57:27Speaker 2: Like he's listening, He's like, oh, I still got some
- 1:57:29Speaker 2: episodes to catch up, but he just hurd the one
- 1:57:31Speaker 2: with Grant. And to think that in his world he
- 1:57:34Speaker 2: was part of like a research and rescue team for
- 1:57:37Speaker 2: that story years ago. The fact that Grant even put
- 1:57:43Speaker 2: the call sign for the plane in the story that
- 1:57:47Speaker 2: then would allow Andrew to then tie it like it
- 1:57:52Speaker 2: really Derek, we he'll show me some things that have
- 1:57:56Speaker 2: like layers so that it's easier to go through on
- 1:58:00Speaker 2: the pod. And he showed me all this information.
- 1:58:02Speaker 3: We sat there for at least like three or four
- 1:58:04Speaker 3: minutes just going what a small world?
- 1:58:08Speaker 1: Yeah, what a world?
- 1:58:10Speaker 2: That is so crazy to me, And like he's saying
- 1:58:14Speaker 2: at the top, like he's empathizing and hearing all the things,
- 1:58:17Speaker 2: like he's struggling and being he struggles being away from
- 1:58:19Speaker 2: his family and seeing them as much as he can.
- 1:58:21Speaker 2: Here's a story like that sees the tag and like man,
- 1:58:24Speaker 2: I was part of that research and rescue team. And literally,
- 1:58:26Speaker 2: because this damn podcast is rolling, he is connecting dots
- 1:58:33Speaker 2: from years ago, and then also saying, like Grant, I
- 1:58:36Speaker 2: hope you're doing well, bro, if you if he's if
- 1:58:38Speaker 2: Grant's listening right now, and just here's that.
- 1:58:42Speaker 1: It's that is that is wild. That is wild.
- 1:58:46Speaker 2: I don't.
- 1:58:48Speaker 1: That's one where you're just thinking about.
- 1:58:49Speaker 2: I'll be thinking about that driving home, and then I'll
- 1:58:51Speaker 2: be telling Charlie about you know, listen to this story.
- 1:58:54Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of a lot of little wins that
- 1:58:57Speaker 3: we have nothing to do with other than just existing.
- 1:59:02Speaker 3: Right around this podcast of we've Derek and Chef and
- 1:59:06Speaker 3: I have been joking about the ex community that was
- 1:59:10Speaker 3: created by Jared Ladd. Yeah, in a good way, joking
- 1:59:13Speaker 3: about it of how funny that idea is. And then
- 1:59:17Speaker 3: I'm going to bed. I've had one hell of a Monday,
- 1:59:22Speaker 3: not bad because of work, bad because of ac stuff
- 1:59:25Speaker 3: that's happening outside of work, and so I'm stressed as
- 1:59:29Speaker 3: all get out. I probably have a really negative attitude.
- 1:59:32Speaker 3: And I pull up my Twitter notifications. I see that
- 1:59:35Speaker 3: Jared has sent into that dad group a picture of
- 1:59:38Speaker 3: his family on a vacation on a road trip, and
- 1:59:41Speaker 3: that another dad that doesn't know Jared at all other
- 1:59:44Speaker 3: than being in this community, just said hey, sake travels
- 1:59:47Speaker 3: shared and then Jared under it, hey, thank you, buddy,
- 1:59:52Speaker 3: and I just had to stop there and smile and
- 1:59:55Speaker 3: just go, Bro, that's so cool, it's so crazy. It
- 1:59:59Speaker 3: just hilarious, said I. I tweeted in something like a
- 2:00:02Speaker 3: dad reached out to another dad for safe travels in
- 2:00:06Speaker 3: a dad group. That's the most pet sickup thing I
- 2:00:09Speaker 3: could ever read. And this obviously this voicemail email connection,
- 2:00:15Speaker 3: like that's way deeper and like there's some tragedy there,
- 2:00:18Speaker 3: but it's just another illustration of just that happening.
- 2:00:23Speaker 2: Yeah, just the community. Man, It's really sick because I
- 2:00:28Speaker 2: have that one in my closet that I keep one
- 2:00:34Speaker 2: of the cards that we had back when somebody wrote
- 2:00:38Speaker 2: and it's over it's like international and Ruth talking about
- 2:00:41Speaker 2: her her in her friend, her friend. Yeah, and how
- 2:00:45Speaker 2: it connected and gave that now, gave him peace. Yeah, Nell, Nelly, Nelly,
- 2:00:51Speaker 2: And that one sits in my closet just because it's
- 2:00:55Speaker 2: it's just nuts. It's crazy, man, really cool, is super cool?
- 2:01:01Speaker 2: It is super cool. One more, two more? How are
- 2:01:06Speaker 2: we doing? Two more?
- 2:01:08Speaker 1: One more?
- 2:01:09Speaker 2: One more?
- 2:01:09Speaker 1: One more?
- 2:01:10Speaker 2: Dadding our balls off? Let's dad our balls off?
- 2:01:17Speaker 7: Hey, boys, this is Kevin from Michigan checking in. First
- 2:01:20Speaker 7: weekend of March. Wife. He goes off for our girl's trip.
- 2:01:23Speaker 8: Good.
- 2:01:25Speaker 7: Second weekend of March, another girl's trip, long weekend, solo
- 2:01:29Speaker 7: parent good. Third weekend of March. Wife, He's gotta work
- 2:01:33Speaker 7: the whole weekend triple good. But you know what, we
- 2:01:37Speaker 7: just dadding our balls off over here in Michigan, And
- 2:01:40Speaker 7: just checking in to shout out to all the dads
- 2:01:42Speaker 7: to just be dadding their balls off. You know, you
- 2:01:44Speaker 7: just gotta do what you gotta do. Oh wonderful girls
- 2:01:47Speaker 7: at home. Three and a six year old, and we
- 2:01:49Speaker 7: just we're in the trenches right now. Boys, So just
- 2:01:51Speaker 7: checking in. Let everybody know, have a good weekend, have
- 2:01:54Speaker 7: a good week out.
- 2:01:56Speaker 2: Just solo dad and his ass off. Mama have his
- 2:02:00Speaker 2: some fun, mama having some work. Yeah, good good? Oh
- 2:02:05Speaker 2: another girls trip back to back? Oh that's great? Yeah, wait,
- 2:02:09Speaker 2: who's watching? Oh, I'll watch the kids. I'll watch the
- 2:02:12Speaker 2: kids all weekend, is all right? If I do that
- 2:02:14Speaker 2: while you go on the girls trip, you're gonna make
- 2:02:17Speaker 2: all their dinners good, gonna wipe all their little tshies
- 2:02:21Speaker 2: when they're done going potty.
- 2:02:22Speaker 6: Good.
- 2:02:22Speaker 2: Oh, it's picture day tomorrow, perfect, perfect, March Madness is on.
- 2:02:29Speaker 2: You know, I got a I got a dad. My
- 2:02:30Speaker 2: ball's off. Good, mission to get him in some basketball.
- 2:02:34Speaker 3: Michigan's on a generational run this year. Yeah, it's probably
- 2:02:37Speaker 3: a big Blue fan.
- 2:02:38Speaker 1: Good, sweethearts.
- 2:02:39Speaker 2: Since you're staying up, let's watch the Huskers take down
- 2:02:42Speaker 2: Vanderbilt in a barn burner.
- 2:02:44Speaker 3: Good and honey, do you realize that this is actually
- 2:02:47Speaker 3: a very big deal for the Huskers. This would be
- 2:02:49Speaker 3: their second all time victory in the tournament in program history.
- 2:02:53Speaker 2: And would be will be is their first ever Sweet
- 2:02:57Speaker 2: sixteen appearance. Good?
- 2:03:00Speaker 1: Awesome?
- 2:03:00Speaker 2: Yeah, that's awesome.
- 2:03:01Speaker 3: What I love about the voicemails, not that I love
- 2:03:04Speaker 3: him more than the emails, is you can hear it
- 2:03:06Speaker 3: in the voice no matter what the voicemail is and
- 2:03:09Speaker 3: we have that one guy, the Oreo guy, where we
- 2:03:11Speaker 3: could hear it in his voice he needed he needed somebody. Yeah,
- 2:03:16Speaker 3: I can hear it in Kyle's voice that he's in
- 2:03:18Speaker 3: the trench. He's letting us know he's literally in the trenches.
- 2:03:21Speaker 2: Gun, Hey, all good, here, all good. And then he
- 2:03:24Speaker 2: dad's out there. Keep that in your balls off, Keep
- 2:03:27Speaker 2: that in your balls off.
- 2:03:28Speaker 1: What I love too.
- 2:03:30Speaker 2: He knows this, but maybe he needs to be reminded
- 2:03:34Speaker 2: his petiqs. He's pete.
- 2:03:36Speaker 1: His PT six standard is up here.
- 2:03:39Speaker 2: Oh yeah. The fact that your wife has so much
- 2:03:42Speaker 2: trust in you to operate solo weekendst not is the trenches,
- 2:03:48Speaker 2: raise the trenches, Like, yeah, that comes with some suck
- 2:03:50Speaker 2: that you've got to embrace that suck. But knowing that, like, dude,
- 2:03:54Speaker 2: hats off to you, that's big. Like I know people
- 2:03:58Speaker 2: where the wife does not feel comfortable leaving the house.
- 2:04:02Speaker 3: Yes, you took me off to the side before that
- 2:04:05Speaker 3: very first solo weekend and you legitimately took me off
- 2:04:09Speaker 3: to the side over there, and you were being dead
- 2:04:11Speaker 3: serious and you're like, this is a big weekend.
- 2:04:13Speaker 2: This is where you show her that you got it.
- 2:04:16Speaker 2: Yeah that you you got this, that you can go
- 2:04:18Speaker 2: have a free weekend now back to back to back. Yeah, goodness, shot,
- 2:04:24Speaker 2: but bro good on you. Yeah, that's what we need,
- 2:04:27Speaker 2: the more dads that just they can just operate the
- 2:04:30Speaker 2: PT six missions solo.
- 2:04:32Speaker 3: Yeah, Kyle's a killer, Dude, He's a killer. He's dadding
- 2:04:36Speaker 3: his balls off. You're setting you're setting an example for
- 2:04:39Speaker 3: the next generation.
- 2:04:40Speaker 2: M hm, yes, two are right? Two girls? He said.
- 2:04:44Speaker 2: I think yeah, two girls three and six. Shout them out,
- 2:04:47Speaker 2: shout them out. But I love it that that sucks,
- 2:04:52Speaker 2: but it also fires me up. Hey will, Yeah, I
- 2:04:59Speaker 2: have an email. Well do you have an email?
- 2:05:02Speaker 1: Yeah, I have an email. This one is from Chase
- 2:05:06Speaker 1: showing scoing sech Oheen shown shown Chase shown thank you
- 2:05:15Speaker 1: for writing in again six I won the dads at
- 2:05:18Speaker 1: gmail dot com. For fourteen months, our little guy didn't
- 2:05:21Speaker 1: sleep through the night. Bedtime was meant bedtime met Mom
- 2:05:25Speaker 1: or Dad rocking him to sleep, followed by the constant
- 2:05:27Speaker 1: anxiety of wondering when he'd wake up, usually two or
- 2:05:31Speaker 1: three times. Mom wasn't on board with sleep.
- 2:05:33Speaker 2: Training because she wanted to cherish the cuddles for as
- 2:05:35Speaker 2: long as possible, knowing one day he wouldn't want to
- 2:05:38Speaker 2: be held to sleep anymore. I understand that, but I
- 2:05:42Speaker 2: was handling most of the nighttime wake up so she
- 2:05:46Speaker 2: could be rested for the next day, and as dads know,
- 2:05:49Speaker 2: mom usually wins those debates. Then came the final strawl.
- 2:05:53Speaker 2: One night, he was up from eleven pm to four
- 2:05:56Speaker 2: am with zero interest in going back to sleep. The
- 2:05:59Speaker 2: next day, while Mom was working a late shift, I
- 2:06:02Speaker 2: told her I was going to test the waters, put
- 2:06:05Speaker 2: him down awake, and see if you could fall asleep
- 2:06:07Speaker 2: on his own. Ooh, night one. A few small cries,
- 2:06:11Speaker 2: maybe for ten minutes. Then he slept through the night.
- 2:06:14Speaker 2: Good Good Night two, about five minutes of crying, slept
- 2:06:17Speaker 2: through the night, good Night three. He just stared at
- 2:06:21Speaker 2: us when we left the room, slept through the night. Good.
- 2:06:25Speaker 2: Now a month later, all three of us are sleeping
- 2:06:28Speaker 2: through the night. Little man even blows us a kiss
- 2:06:30Speaker 2: as we leave the room, and everyone's mood has improved.
- 2:06:33Speaker 2: We've officially made it out of the no sleep trenches.
- 2:06:36Speaker 2: Of Course, I still remind Mom this was Dad's idea.
- 2:06:39Speaker 2: You have to, yeah, you have to just real sweetly, yeah,
- 2:06:43Speaker 2: real sweetly.
- 2:06:44Speaker 1: You gotta.
- 2:06:45Speaker 2: You have to take the winds where you can take them.
- 2:06:47Speaker 2: If not, they'll be forgotten. Yeah, and I'll happily accept
- 2:06:51Speaker 2: payment in any form now that we have all of
- 2:06:54Speaker 2: this free time during the night.
- 2:06:57Speaker 1: Right, there are two funk coupons.
- 2:06:59Speaker 2: Is he talking about crypto? What do you mean by that? Yeah?
- 2:07:05Speaker 2: Oh he Okay, I see what he's doing. He's putting
- 2:07:08Speaker 2: a bow on it. We'll give him some digital coupons. Yeah,
- 2:07:11Speaker 2: we could do that.
- 2:07:12Speaker 1: One a shockwave. Yeah, yeah, one to put a bow
- 2:07:15Speaker 1: on it.
- 2:07:16Speaker 2: And just you know, keep on walking around the house
- 2:07:18Speaker 2: and doodle in here and there and just under your
- 2:07:20Speaker 2: breath going, Man, I can't believe I had that idea
- 2:07:23Speaker 2: that It still just blows my mind.
- 2:07:26Speaker 1: That's crazy.
- 2:07:27Speaker 3: Gotta do it, gotta do it. My lesson of the
- 2:07:31Speaker 3: week is very evergreen. So if you have one this week, I.
- 2:07:35Speaker 2: Had an Instagram shout out. But if again, got to
- 2:07:38Speaker 2: keep it under an hour, you have a lesson, dude,
- 2:07:40Speaker 2: rip your lesson.
- 2:07:40Speaker 3: Okay, we're gonna start with everybody's favorite segment. Before the segment,
- 2:07:47Speaker 3: it's a Dan Gable quote.
- 2:07:48Speaker 2: This one's quick. Dan Gable says, I got a Minnesota
- 2:07:52Speaker 2: cabin I got a little garage by the lake.
- 2:07:57Speaker 3: At that cabin, I got an air dine will workout
- 2:08:00Speaker 3: bike in said garage, and I got a set of weights.
- 2:08:06Speaker 2: I got a big lake there to jump in, and
- 2:08:08Speaker 2: I got a hot sauna right there on the lake.
- 2:08:10Speaker 3: Would burner. I don't go anywhere without it, Dan Gable, pt. Siko,
- 2:08:17Speaker 3: pt Fiddo. I just thought that would inspire you. I
- 2:08:21Speaker 3: know you love saunas.
- 2:08:22Speaker 2: I know you. That's a phenomenal setup. That's an A
- 2:08:24Speaker 2: plus setup. That's when I would dream to have something
- 2:08:29Speaker 2: like that I have. Dun dun dun, d dun dun duh,
- 2:08:37Speaker 2: take your sweet ass time.
- 2:08:40Speaker 1: We got nothing to do.
- 2:08:42Speaker 2: Dun dum. Jeff's got nothing to do after this. Just
- 2:08:45Speaker 2: take your time, take your time.
- 2:08:46Speaker 3: Dun da dut dum. My lesson of the week. All right,
- 2:08:52Speaker 3: This one has a video which I sent to Chef.
- 2:08:53Speaker 3: He'll play it, but I'll play it for you now.
- 2:08:55Speaker 9: I study babies for a living and I'm raising four
- 2:08:57Speaker 9: of my own. The mental load is not about tasks.
- 2:09:00Speaker 9: It's about tracking. Most dads think that mental load means chores.
- 2:09:05Speaker 2: It's not.
- 2:09:05Speaker 9: It's the fact that your partner knows when the pediatrician
- 2:09:08Speaker 9: appointment is that your toddler's shoes are getting tight, that
- 2:09:10Speaker 9: you're almost out of diapers, that the library books are
- 2:09:13Speaker 9: due Thursday, and that your four year old has been
- 2:09:15Speaker 9: weird about bananas this week. That's not a to do list,
- 2:09:19Speaker 9: that's a continuous monitoring system running in the background of
- 2:09:22Speaker 9: everything else.
- 2:09:23Speaker 2: That they do.
- 2:09:24Speaker 9: You can't fix this by doing more tasks. You fix
- 2:09:28Speaker 9: it by owning entire categories. Don't just take out the
- 2:09:31Speaker 9: trash when it's full. Own the kitchen, know what's running low,
- 2:09:35Speaker 9: schedule the restock. When you own the tracking, not just
- 2:09:39Speaker 9: the task, your partner's brain gets to let go of
- 2:09:43Speaker 9: that thread. That's the real relief.
- 2:09:44Speaker 2: See on the next one, is that not some game?
- 2:09:48Speaker 2: That is game?
- 2:09:50Speaker 1: So that is game? Because what he's saying, I'm like, yeah,
- 2:09:53Speaker 1: that's how I see it.
- 2:09:56Speaker 3: This is what I wrote down immediately after watching that
- 2:10:00Speaker 3: this guy is putting out absolute game. I've never had
- 2:10:03Speaker 3: my wife's brain described to me so eloquently before from
- 2:10:07Speaker 3: a complete stranger. This is going to be applied to
- 2:10:10Speaker 3: my notes from the past episode of working on the
- 2:10:13Speaker 3: Three P's, and I want to announce here on this
- 2:10:16Speaker 3: podcast that I will be committing my talents for the
- 2:10:20Speaker 3: next seventy years, hopefully to the bathrooms of all current
- 2:10:25Speaker 3: and future across the day.
- 2:10:27Speaker 2: Youngs, I'm going to own the bathroom.
- 2:10:32Speaker 1: No, that dude crushed it.
- 2:10:33Speaker 2: He crushed it. He did.
- 2:10:35Speaker 1: Just give a nice look.
- 2:10:37Speaker 3: And I fall short in the bathroom thing, and I'm like,
- 2:10:42Speaker 3: I'm going to make sure that we have the body wash.
- 2:10:44Speaker 3: I'm going to make sure she has her favorite shampoo.
- 2:10:47Speaker 3: She loves Kirkland. Shout out Kirkland. Apparently, Uh do we
- 2:10:51Speaker 3: have toilet paper? How are we doing on Q tips
- 2:10:55Speaker 3: in cotton swabs on the toilets?
- 2:10:57Speaker 2: Clean the streaks there?
- 2:11:00Speaker 1: This did just open up.
- 2:11:03Speaker 2: Everything. And guess what, Jill's never gonna have to think
- 2:11:05Speaker 2: about ever again. If I do this right, when you
- 2:11:09Speaker 2: do this right, come on, come on, she will never
- 2:11:14Speaker 2: have to think about the bathroom again. Buddy, I'm starting small.
- 2:11:21Speaker 2: You can tell I obviously, I see, yeah, I started yeah, yeah,
- 2:11:25Speaker 2: I think that's great. And again that explanation, I think
- 2:11:30Speaker 2: if you're sitting at home watching every empty six er
- 2:11:33Speaker 2: is salivating, I got this has to go to my husband.
- 2:11:36Speaker 2: But it's dude, all of the PT sixers need to
- 2:11:39Speaker 2: truly listen to that video. Oh dude. When I watched that,
- 2:11:42Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, that's exactly that's it,
- 2:11:46Speaker 2: because I'm thinking, as he's saying in my brain's getting
- 2:11:49Speaker 2: found out. That's a good thing. Yeah, because that's a
- 2:11:52Speaker 2: perspective where my brain might shut off if you're getting
- 2:11:55Speaker 2: into like a debate, a debate or like a friction
- 2:11:59Speaker 2: style conversation. Yes, about like the mental load and all
- 2:12:03Speaker 2: the things. They don't think about this, And I think, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 2:12:06Speaker 2: that was a very good explanation of me, like wrapping
- 2:12:10Speaker 2: my brain around that. Yeah, that's my lesson. I got
- 2:12:14Speaker 2: work to do.
- 2:12:15Speaker 1: I got work.
- 2:12:16Speaker 2: You're talking great lessons. You're talking to the guy.
- 2:12:18Speaker 1: Great video. Yeah, great video.
- 2:12:21Speaker 2: Goods old good said good, sold great sod okay good Yeah,
- 2:12:25Speaker 2: thank you, Dan Gable. Any comment that we any emoji
- 2:12:28Speaker 2: that we want to leave in the comments? Do we
- 2:12:32Speaker 2: want to kick it over to the producer table? For truck,
- 2:12:35Speaker 2: I was just about to say, truck.
- 2:12:38Speaker 1: Truck, let's do it, truck tru. We got the trash.
- 2:12:41Speaker 1: See you next week.