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The One About What To Expect With Baby #2 · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, baby Mama's and baby daddy. It is Lala.
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  Speaker 2: I have one whole.
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  Speaker 1: It is Lala can't welcome back to the Is this
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  Speaker 1: a bonus episode? No it's not. This is a fall episode.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome back to a full episode. Who give them Laala Podcast? Again?
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  Speaker 1: We are pre recording because mom is ready to pop
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  Speaker 1: in about three weeks. I'm super excited because I've been
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  Speaker 1: asking people that I run into that have two kids,
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  Speaker 1: like what should I expect? And their eyes get really
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  Speaker 1: big and I get terrified. And I've told you guys
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  Speaker 1: a million times. Even Stoss was on here where I
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  Speaker 1: said what should I be prepared for? And she doesn't
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  Speaker 1: really tell me. She just says, law having two kids
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  Speaker 1: is no fucking joke, and I'm like, oh.
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  Speaker 3: God, it's a whole. One is one, two is twenty thing?
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  Speaker 2: Right?
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  Speaker 4: I remember saying that when Stasi was on here, though,
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  Speaker 4: and she was like, it's not really like that.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I think because obviously, when you have like a
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  Speaker 1: brand new baby and a toddler, I'm sure it can
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  Speaker 1: be very intense. But then the baby starts getting older
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  Speaker 1: and developing a personality and it's not so like alien
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  Speaker 1: and oh my gosh, one wrong move and the neck
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  Speaker 1: is snapping right. Oh no, but really, yeah, it's so
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  Speaker 1: intimidating to have a newborn baby. No.
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  Speaker 4: I remember when Ocean couldn't hold her head up because
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  Speaker 4: I would look at you hold her and I'd be like, oh,
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  Speaker 4: this baby can't hold her head up, and like even
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  Speaker 4: watching you hold her and you were holding her beautifully
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  Speaker 4: terrified me so much that I was like, I want
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  Speaker 4: to hold that baby so bad, but I won't until
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  Speaker 4: she can hold her head up.
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  Speaker 1: And were you like, what a rookie human that she
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  Speaker 1: can't even hold her head up?
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  Speaker 3: I was like, can't this baby talk yet?
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  Speaker 1: Why is she not walking around yet? But she was
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  Speaker 1: maybe even do like what does she do? She's three
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  Speaker 1: months old?
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  Speaker 3: She just hangs out.
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  Speaker 1: I guess could she did not keep her head up
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  Speaker 1: at three months? I can't remember.
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  Speaker 3: Well, okay, she could keep her It was very like
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  Speaker 3: she was just a baby.
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  Speaker 5: She was three months old and she is a peanut.
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  Speaker 1: She was very very lismall. And you know that the
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  Speaker 1: baby when you first started working for me, Jess, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's how old the baby baby s is gonna be.
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  Speaker 1: So three months when we go to Hawaii, that is
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  Speaker 1: wild and we started talking about what we were going
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  Speaker 1: to do, and Mom's like, I want to go on
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  Speaker 1: one of those rapture trucks. And I'm like, I cannot
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  Speaker 1: take baby s on a raptor truck.
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  Speaker 3: No, lisaid, yesterday we're talking to you, We're like saying,
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  Speaker 3: let's go hang lie or whatever.
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  Speaker 1: We were saying, what about like a zipline am I line?
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  Speaker 2: You're gonna You're gonna listen to Lisa.
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  Speaker 6: Lisa is the queen of we have a trip coming,
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  Speaker 6: let's plan and then when we're on the trip, let's
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  Speaker 6: just hang today.
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  Speaker 3: Oh right, just hang not this time. Let me tell you.
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  Speaker 4: I've been looking on No, I've been on freaking What
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  Speaker 4: the website via tour looking for all the activities.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna have a whole list, but will also chill.
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  Speaker 5: But here's pend me them so I can.
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  Speaker 2: Pick and choose.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Here's what's great about it, though, is that there
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  Speaker 1: are certain things that, like we could leave babys with
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  Speaker 1: mom and us, we could go do.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if Lisa's gonna love that.
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  Speaker 4: Also, I had a smoothie right before this, and now
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  Speaker 4: I feel like berries are in my teeth.
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  Speaker 1: No, I don't know if Lisa's good. Yeah, you're good.
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  Speaker 1: You have such good teeth. You guys, what do you
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  Speaker 1: do about my teeth? What's wrong with them?
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  Speaker 4: The front two are longer, but your mom said not
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  Speaker 4: to shorten them because it might because of what happens.
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  Speaker 7: I have a Yeah, I don't do that. The fact
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  Speaker 7: that you said I have good teeth, I hate my teeth.
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  Speaker 7: Really all you would need to do. You don't need
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  Speaker 7: to do anything. But I know what you're saying is
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  Speaker 7: just near like caps. Yeah, just a little cap and
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  Speaker 7: then it evens it out.
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  Speaker 3: Teeth doctor, it's cosmetic tooth.
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  Speaker 1: You'd like to sponsor me and East on the podcast.
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  Speaker 5: I do need a new grill.
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  Speaker 1: You know what, though, I second that because when I smile,
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  Speaker 1: it looks like I'm missing my back teeth because I
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  Speaker 1: go narrow through the back like my dad smiles. I've
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  Speaker 1: got broad and then a barrow, so it looks like
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  Speaker 1: I have no teeth right there.
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  Speaker 4: I was gonna say, you're both of your teeth. I
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  Speaker 4: love your smiles.
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  Speaker 5: Well, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: After I have babys if someone wants to broaden my smile,
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  Speaker 1: then come on at it.
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  Speaker 3: What do we Our list is growing, by the way, tits.
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  Speaker 1: I'm on that last we need new boob, new boobs
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  Speaker 1: possible bbl. No, I'm not.
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  Speaker 2: Teeth.
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking about maybe a little threading. Maybe a little threading.
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  Speaker 2: You need to get pregnant again, so you don't do anything.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, she's about to fuck up everything.
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  Speaker 2: You look beautiful.
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  Speaker 5: Don't touch your face, just like you told her to
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  Speaker 5: not touch your teeth.
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  Speaker 1: I got to touch. I have to look at her.
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  Speaker 1: For me, I just have to glance in the mirror,
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  Speaker 1: and if I don't like what I see, a bort mission,
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  Speaker 1: don't look in the mirror. But I have to look
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  Speaker 1: at her.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, she does every day, which we can of looking
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  Speaker 4: at me. I realized yesterday I can't wink Scout.
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  Speaker 1: And I love it and I'm so jealous.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you Leethetics.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love it. You love it. Oh
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  Speaker 1: you're so lucky.
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  Speaker 3: Are deep foreheadlines?
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  Speaker 1: Because I was like, how are they going to fix those?
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  Speaker 1: And they're gone. They're gone. Oh, they're gone. That's what
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  Speaker 1: I need Lee to do when I'm after I drop
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  Speaker 1: babys which by the time this episode comes out, I
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  Speaker 1: will have hopefully I need it to her to make
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  Speaker 1: it so I can't lift my eyebrows this high, so
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  Speaker 1: I saw this mean you guys, someone else someone saw
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  Speaker 1: did this mean? But they put me and I know
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  Speaker 1: they were trying to be rude, but I was honestly
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  Speaker 1: so flattered because it was me next to Uncle Leo.
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  Speaker 1: I'm from Seinfeldt, busy of high eyebrows. He did something
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  Speaker 1: in that to make him really high, and I was like, no,
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  Speaker 1: he burns.
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  Speaker 5: He burns his eyebrows off, so they cross.
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  Speaker 1: Eyebrows. I was so battered.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, God, died.
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  Speaker 1: We look identical past the phone show, show, the audience,
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  Speaker 1: the phone.
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna also send this photo to our producers and
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  Speaker 4: maybe they'll cut it in.
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  Speaker 1: That's hilarious. But there are times where my eyebrows get
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  Speaker 1: stuck and I have to go like this to like anyway,
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  Speaker 1: moving on, so let's talk about what to expect with
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  Speaker 1: second baby versus the first. So I want to hear
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  Speaker 1: what our friends say about baby number two coming. I
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  Speaker 1: will say, as far as being pregnant with baby number two,
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  Speaker 1: completely different pregnancy. And I know that that sounds like, well, no,
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  Speaker 1: no it doesn't, but for me, I was thinking that, however,
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  Speaker 1: because people asked me, did you like being pregnant before
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  Speaker 1: I was pregnant with Babys. I loved being pregnant with Ocean.
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  Speaker 1: I just remember like eating a lot of good food,
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  Speaker 1: taking a load off this pregnancy. It's weird because I've
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  Speaker 1: had a lot of energy, but like yesterday when we
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  Speaker 1: were out and about and I was like, someone needs
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  Speaker 1: to unlock the car immediately because my legs are about
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  Speaker 1: to just like collapse.
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  Speaker 3: You have been getting like the dizziness.
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  Speaker 1: I don't.
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  Speaker 4: I wasn't with you during pregnancy for Ocean, but you
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  Speaker 4: didn't have this like dizziness like I might pass out
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  Speaker 4: with Ocean, did you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so burpy? Me so sorry. No, it's like, really,
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  Speaker 1: I have zero control of my body.
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  Speaker 2: You do.
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  Speaker 1: Well. This is good to include both. By the way,
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  Speaker 1: love that I'm like, does I don't know what you
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  Speaker 1: is that your ass? I'm like, I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: What to tell you. We're just making everybody feel comfortable.
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  Speaker 1: No, I didn't have these waves of like, oh shit,
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  Speaker 1: like I'm really struggling breathing. Like at night, there are
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  Speaker 1: times where I have to lift my arms above my
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  Speaker 1: head and like turn on my side just to get
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  Speaker 1: into a position where I am not struggling. To breathe.
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  Speaker 1: The first time that happened, I spoke about it as
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  Speaker 1: my ache on the podcast because it was very terrifying.
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  Speaker 1: Apparently that's pretty common. It happened to me at my
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  Speaker 1: final anatomy. Every time I say anatomy or anonymity, it's
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  Speaker 1: I feel like Nemo being like anemone anatomy scan, which
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  Speaker 1: normally doesn't happen. Like you only have I think between one,
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  Speaker 1: maybe two of those doctor's appointments during pregnancy. Because of Ocean,
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  Speaker 1: they've been checking me pretty frequently. So I went to
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  Speaker 1: my final one. Baby looks great. But while I was
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  Speaker 1: laying there, I was like, I'm getting a little dizzy.
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting a little faint and I can't breathe. And
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  Speaker 1: the doctor was like so nonchalant. Do you remember Jess.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, okay, just turn on your right side. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And I started getting nervous.
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  Speaker 4: But seeing how like cool and collected he was, I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 4: he probably deals with this all the time.
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  Speaker 2: Did you ever get the legs with Ocean?
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  Speaker 1: No, and I certainly didn't have hot dog legs with
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  Speaker 1: Ocean a hot dog. I had beautiful inkles.
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  Speaker 5: You've got cheese dog legs.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, that sounds really good. A cheese dog.
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  Speaker 3: Cheese dogs are vegan cheese dog.
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  Speaker 6: Just a cheese dog, American, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: So I would love to know what people are saying
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  Speaker 1: about their second babies. I also I dropped Ocean off
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  Speaker 1: at school today and people were talking about their second
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  Speaker 1: children and how intense it is. But also most people
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  Speaker 1: that were talking to me about their second babies today
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  Speaker 1: at school they had them within like nineteen months of
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  Speaker 1: each other. Oh wow, And I'm like, okay, that does
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  Speaker 1: sound like a lot. I was like, but so fun
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  Speaker 1: as time passes, and like they get into like that
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  Speaker 1: fun stage and even beyond, think about how close they're
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  Speaker 1: going to be when they like, I know, this is
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  Speaker 1: a very far far time away, but it's like when
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  Speaker 1: they have kids and it's like Christmas time where you're
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  Speaker 1: celebrating Hanukkah and like the kids come and they're only
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  Speaker 1: nineteen months apart. Like I originally wanted that. I wanted
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  Speaker 1: them that close. With Ocean.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I do have to say, as one of
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  Speaker 4: five and me and my brother are I think it's like,
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  Speaker 4: I don't know, very close, like seventeen months apart or something.
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  Speaker 4: We were close and we still are but it's very
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  Speaker 4: I'm I'm like way closer with my sister and my
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  Speaker 4: younger brother, and my little sister is I don't know,
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  Speaker 4: like five years younger, and my little brother is well
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  Speaker 4: he's twenty one and I'm thirty three. Oh okay, we're
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  Speaker 4: like besties, the three of us.
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  Speaker 1: So I think it just all depends. It just all
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  Speaker 1: depends nine and a half years, because it's literally gonna
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  Speaker 1: be three and a half years apart, like exactly. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I mean September is six months away from March.
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  Speaker 5: Right, they do get to go to school together for
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  Speaker 5: a while.
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  Speaker 1: They do get to go to school together for a year, right,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, it is six months, so they're
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  Speaker 1: still going to be close in age. I think they'll
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  Speaker 1: have a lot of fun. Ocean's super excited about it,
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  Speaker 1: and I think I'm doing myself a service by not
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  Speaker 1: really preparing for it to be one way or the other. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just welcoming it however it comes. Yeah, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: planning on a second baby being any certain type of way.
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  Speaker 1: If that makes sense, that's good.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I mean, did anyone tell you to do that?
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  Speaker 4: Or you just feel like I just it's.
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  Speaker 1: So strange, Jess. I have the hardest time finding the
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  Speaker 1: gray in life. I'm so black and white. Easton knows this.
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  Speaker 1: It's like it's this way or that way with motherhood.
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  Speaker 1: It is the only place in life where I find
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  Speaker 1: the gray when I don't even try.
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  Speaker 2: Really.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh that's interesting.
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  Speaker 4: That's very interesting because it's almost like when the stress
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  Speaker 4: and anxiety is gone, that's when you can easily find
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  Speaker 4: the gray, like you just naturally find it when the
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  Speaker 4: stress and I don't know, or.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I don't, I don't know. I just know it
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  Speaker 1: is completely when I think about every aspect of my
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  Speaker 1: life where I'm like I have to control this, this
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  Speaker 1: needs to go that way, and if it doesn't, you know,
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  Speaker 1: the wind blows the wrong way, I'm gonna be thrown
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  Speaker 1: right with being a mom.
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  Speaker 5: It is like I'm thinking of that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't find it now.
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  Speaker 6: And it's the video that I showed you of the
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  Speaker 6: girl who's like in the morning where it's like if
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  Speaker 6: you put your clothes on, we'll do this all right.
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  Speaker 2: You can just wear your pajamas.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's maybe the kid makes you fine with the gray.
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  Speaker 1: That's that could be very true. There's a really funny
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  Speaker 1: clip of this woman. She's a comedian. It's a TikTok, right,
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  Speaker 1: I think it's a TikTok. And this was a while ago,
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  Speaker 1: but of course I see everything. I think the two
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  Speaker 1: decades late. Yeah, we did bring it up already where
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  Speaker 1: she said being a parent to a toddler is like
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  Speaker 1: going through the five.
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  Speaker 2: Stages of grief.
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  Speaker 1: We need to that's a single day.
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  Speaker 6: If you put on your clothes, this or that, all right,
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  Speaker 6: Just fucking wear your pajamas, anger.
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  Speaker 1: Put your all right, just wear those closes to school.
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  Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck. Just get in the car.
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  Speaker 1: Acceptance it is.
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  Speaker 6: I think that's what because it's not up to you,
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  Speaker 6: because in your life you choose black and white.
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  Speaker 2: It's not up to you.
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  Speaker 6: It's the kid putting you, and you can only make
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  Speaker 6: the kid do so much, so fuck it.
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  Speaker 2: We find the gray.
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  Speaker 1: But that's why I say that, Like when people talk
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  Speaker 1: about like you have to teach them to do this,
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  Speaker 1: that and the other, and I'm like, okay, I do
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  Speaker 1: understand that, But there are kids like my kid, who
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  Speaker 1: is so defiant and she doesn't give a shit about
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  Speaker 1: anything that I say. On certain days, and if she
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  Speaker 1: doesn't want to clean something up. Or she doesn't want
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  Speaker 1: to sleep in her own bed truly, unless I chain
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  Speaker 1: her to the bed, she's not staying there. So what
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  Speaker 1: would you like me to do? You have to do this.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I I would welcome, come, come, welcome.
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  Speaker 1: Try go do it, Go fucking do it.
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  Speaker 4: By the way, her name is Sarah Tiana. If you
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  Speaker 4: just go to TikTok and look at real s A
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  Speaker 4: R A h t I A.
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  Speaker 1: N A, it's so funny.
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  Speaker 3: It's so she's.
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  Speaker 1: So funny, and it resonated with me, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: that's it. So maybe I haven't found the gray Maybe
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  Speaker 1: she's just kicked my ass so hard that this is
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  Speaker 1: just called.
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  Speaker 5: Defeat and that's great.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Like she'll ask me for a popsicle so many times
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  Speaker 1: and I say no to the point where I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: just fucking eat it.
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  Speaker 6: I don't care, I don't care, or it's not instead
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  Speaker 6: of the popsicle, you give her a sucker, and it's saying,
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  Speaker 6: here's the gray area.
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  Speaker 2: Didn't you know what she wanted? But we found something.
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  Speaker 1: We found something that's absolutely correct. She wants a million
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  Speaker 1: chocolate kisses. Here's a chocolate covered offsieberry compromise.
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  Speaker 3: Compromise though, that's teaching compromise.
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  Speaker 1: That's so important, you guys. Today she went to school
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  Speaker 1: and she wanted gel in her hair, so she had
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  Speaker 1: the most slicked back Ballerina Bun I kissed her ever seen,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, did she have gel gel on
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  Speaker 1: her whole head? I know because she was trying to
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  Speaker 1: also do it, so she had like gel marks on
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  Speaker 1: her forehead and I was like, I need to get
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  Speaker 1: it off, and she wouldn't let me. So she has
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure gel. It's just a slash.
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  Speaker 4: When she has the slicked hair and the freaking little
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  Speaker 4: tuft or something on the top, it's the cutest things.
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  Speaker 1: I love her with you, I just am so obsessed.
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  Speaker 1: I just look at her and I'm like, you're just
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  Speaker 1: fucking light dude, so cute, And how will I ever
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  Speaker 1: love anything more than you?
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  Speaker 7: You know?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So I would love to know if people are
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  Speaker 1: like my second kid was kind of a buzzkilled.
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  Speaker 4: Many things that so many amazing things people row and
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  Speaker 4: this is where our friends, I think, thrive because just amazing,
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  Speaker 4: amazing things.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, are you ready? I'm ready.
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  Speaker 4: So the first thing Rachel said, baby will be so
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  Speaker 4: easy compared to oh, crying laughing faces.
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  Speaker 1: But why I would.
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  Speaker 3: Assume at least newborn baby. I would assume she means ocean.
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  Speaker 1: Now I don't know.
• 17:09
  Speaker 6: Okay, I feel she's in the realm of all of it,
• 17:11
  Speaker 6: because you've done it. You know, like when she if
• 17:15
  Speaker 6: new baby starts burping or something like that, and you're
• 17:18
  Speaker 6: when it was ocean, there were so many Now you
• 17:23
  Speaker 6: kind of know, Okay, let's try flipping her and just
• 17:25
  Speaker 6: patting her. Let's do this, let's do that. You kind
• 17:28
  Speaker 6: of know so you don't get as flustered.
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: I'd feel that's a great point. That's probably what they mean.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: I feel like I forgot. I've forgotten everything.
• 17:36
  Speaker 5: I think that until she's in your arms, you'll remember
• 17:39
  Speaker 5: it all.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: It's like riding a bike.
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: Pick the bike back up?
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: How to ride a b got on one right now,
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: But we should do that in Hawaiian.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: Ride bike ride would be fun. Hold on, I do
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: have a follow up to what she said, though, Yes,
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: at my doctor's appointment, he said, what did ocean come
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: out as? And like, how many pounds announces? And I
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: said she she arrived at five tens five pounds ten ounces,
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: And he said, well, that's what this kid is at
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: right now, so you'll probably babys will probably be like
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: a seven pound baby. I also the way that she's
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: moving in my stomach, she feels lanky. Okay, she got limbs.
• 18:30
  Speaker 5: Okay, come out like.
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: Sweet and it's so cute, just shoved up into Lalla's lungs.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: I go, oh, this makes well. I've been wondering what
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: it is that keeps going back and forth. Yeah, and
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: it's her foot. She's got her heel there and she's
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: just like, no, this is a runner. She's a runner.
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: She's a track star for sure inside of their Yeah.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: So that is also going to be very different because Easton,
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: don't get freaked out by this. I know it's weird,
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: but I have pictures of me nursing ocean and my
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: boob is like triple the size of her head because
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: she's so so tiny, Like her hand, her head fit
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: in my hand and I just have like a watermelon.
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: It was like you were just putting a p on
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: her head.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, her head was like the size of Lawless area.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: So it will also be different because when this baby comes,
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: it's like, oh, all right, we got some solidness. Happened
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: like Ocean's like a bird. You pick up summer Moon
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: and pick up Ocean. There they look the same size,
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: same height. Ocean has hollow she's dense. Yeah, but so
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: are the rest of the kids. Ocean has like hollow
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: bird books. Yes, so it's gonna be different with this kid,
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: because I think she's also gonna hat like she's gonna
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: be like dance. This is just come out jitsu talk.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: You're like, mom, what's up?
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: Like my girl?
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: Oh like mother like daughter, you know, Mama loves I do. Okay, okay,
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: this is so this might make you emotional.
• 20:23
  Speaker 4: But this person said, oh, well, look like an entirely
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: different kid. After you lay eyes on baby s, they
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: grow instantly.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: Oh like when I see I know because someone said
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: this to me. They were like, you you'll look at
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Ocean like she's a grown up, self sufficient because I'm like,
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: she's my forever baby, right, And they're like no, it's
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: so weird that it changes where you're like, oh, you're
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: not mommy's like baby anymore. Like I'm looking at you
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: like a big kid, like you're my little partner in crime.
• 20:59
  Speaker 4: Yeah, she's trotting around going off to school, backpack.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: She's so cute. I can't even sad, but you know what,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: and I do think I'll look at her differently because
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I'm going to see her in a position of like
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: big sister Bottle. I would never speak that way.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: I will I'll be freaking out.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: But Ocean just we've spoken about it, and you know,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: someone brought this up. They said, Actually it was Amber,
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: who also shares kids with that person. She said, I
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: think what you and Ocean have, or what you have
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: with Ocean because Ocean was too young to remember, but
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: you have a trauma bond with her. And I was like,
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: that's so interesting. Maybe that is why I look at
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: her a certain way because it's a trauma bond, which
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: I don't know much about those bonds, like meaning children.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: I've had trauma bonds with friends, but not my baby.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: So I think I will look at Ocean differently because
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: she's gonna be in a completely different role.
• 22:06
  Speaker 4: It's a completely different experience, which is what this person wrote,
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: that everything will be completely different than your first experience.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: Well, and that's also true just the way that we're
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: doing it, and like we did a run through me
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: Jess and my mom m yesterday just in case there's
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: an emergency that happens and we have to get to
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: because yes, I was in labor and delivery at the
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: same exact hospital that I gave birth to Ocean, but
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: I was induced, so we kind of had the luxury
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: of like taking our sweet time, like going where we
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: were going. I need everyone to be on their game.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: God forbid the water breaks, and I am the biggest
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: balls of life, Like I can take no pain. Pussy
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: takes pain. I wish I were a pussy, all right.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: I'm a set of freaking nuts sack so freaking soft.
• 23:02
  Speaker 6: I'm like, oh pain, no.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Why So we did the run through and I'm like,
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: this is gonna be so fun. Just chicks in the
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: house and just like bros and their friends, like, look
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: at this little it's gonna be like Simba, I know, baby,
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: I know. If I just gave the name away, I
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: just had the whole time.
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: That's kind of sick ass name.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: It's actually going on the list, baby, Simba.
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: You know what's wild that we're talking I just I
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: love this because we're talking about all this now.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: But you've already had the baby at this point.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: I know, Oh my god.
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: So we don't know, we don't know if like you
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: had it on the day.
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: We don't know if it was like your water broke
• 23:49
  Speaker 4: or we just sauntered on in there and said, okay,
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: it's time.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: We have no idea.
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: But the good news about this is when we talked
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: about like this, Yeah, when we pre recorded and I
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: said about my jiu jitsu tournament, I was like, I
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: just hope that, and I said all the things that
• 24:05
  Speaker 4: I hoped and it went.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: That way, and then you kicked ass.
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: So what do you say? What do you hope?
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: What I hope is that I hope for to be induced. Okay,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: I hope to walk in, have the epidural, all the things,
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: and have it just be me not experiencing any pain.
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: And it would be September first, and we can say
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: it now because it's September fourth, right.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would like a September baby. I would like
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: a Virgo baby. I just feel like we would be
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: good together.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: So after August twenty second, Yeah.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I'm good with I'm good with Leo. Men. I'm good
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: with you though, and you're a Leo, but your daughter
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: are different, then I might want to kill you, yes.
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: Very strong like yeah, because as a daughter, we're like
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: we're set in the rules. There's not really much you
• 24:57
  Speaker 4: can do or say, oh.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm fucking you shit up. Yeah, that falls in
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: line one hundred percent.
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: But I had a Leo mom and a whatever December
• 25:07
  Speaker 4: twenty second as dad, so I was able to do
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: that as a LEO, like I could set the rules.
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: And they tried, but I was like, no, this is how.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Here's what I don't want in motherhood. I want to
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: be Lauren from Utah. Okay, but these two little girls
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: that are coming into the mix, we got Ocean and baby.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I will become Lalla from
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: Banner Pump Rules real quick on your ass. If you, oh, don't.
• 25:29
  Speaker 5: Fall in line these children, Oh it's gonna be.
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: It's gonna be so fun as the years go on,
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: and I'll be there taking content all the way.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: I'll be up. If they're menaces to society, no, they're.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Gonna be great. They're gonna be great.
• 25:45
  Speaker 4: This person said, it's as humbling as the first, but
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: with an edge of calm and confidence.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: That's great. Okay, that's excellent. I will take that and
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: manifest that.
• 25:55
  Speaker 4: This person said they are feral. I love my second
• 25:58
  Speaker 4: so much, but she is no limit soldier of chaos.
• 26:02
  Speaker 4: She is a no limit soldier of.
• 26:04
  Speaker 5: Chaos at least child.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: Literally soldier of chaos? Is it just mirror? All these s?
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: Is starting to sound good? Soldier soldiers? Nice to All
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: the names that I've been wanting have started with an S.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: So when people ask me, do you have a name,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, if they follow me at all,
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: they're gonna know when if I say no. But I
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: don't lie because I'm like, all the names start with
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: an S. So I'm really lucky. I'm just gonna look
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: at her and that's what I'll name her. Yeah, because
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: Sunset Sunshine now simba soldier. I literally just almost said
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: the name.
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: No, I was gonna say blank, and I was like.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: What A don't do that?
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: Do you think you'll have announced the name by now?
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: We'll see? I really no, it's it's Today's Beyonce's birthday,
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: September fourth. She's gonna it's her day. I need to
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: make sure that it's. Yeah. No, we can't announce.
• 27:02
  Speaker 5: Today that she gets her day.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: You just can't. I mean, no one's gonna give a
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: ship it's Beyonce's birthday.
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: But it might be three days later.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: It could be, but it's still September fourth.
• 27:14
  Speaker 6: You're gonna you'll post wait on her birthday so Babyes
• 27:17
  Speaker 6: gets her moment.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, baby, it'll be over shadow, shadowy shadow Damn. I
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: do like that one too, kind of like shadow is
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: just mirrors. Veto starting quote, I don't know that's from
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: That's funny.
• 27:34
  Speaker 6: No, what we'll say names And if you don't like
• 27:36
  Speaker 6: him Veto, they say names Veto.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: If anybody the name Veto, mir is.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: Veto sounding really great. I like the name Veto, very Italian.
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: I like that a lot.
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: Okay, you going they will be different in personalities and
• 27:54
  Speaker 4: that is okay.
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: Oh that's a good one because they most likely will be.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: They most likely will be. Okay, So can I tell
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: you me? Me and my best friend since birth. She's
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: a Pisces, I'm a Virgo. Granted, those are just our
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: sun signs, and as everyone knows, your rising sign also
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: plays a huge role in your personality. Ocean's double Pisces.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: But if we're just focusing on the sun sign, myself
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: and my friend, my bff, my soulmate, we are such
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: a good balance with each other, like the perfect balance.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: And I think That's why I'm so dead set on
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: babys being a virgo, because I love the dynamic between
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: two females one Pisces, one virgo. Yeah, I love that.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: This person said, can I say one more thing? Please do?
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: Ocean is very like she's here for a good time.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: I'm here for a good time. I want to enjoy myself.
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: I want to do arts and crafts. You show me
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: a caterpillar that I'm supposed to draw. Fuck that, I'm
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: doing whatever I want with this green paint and quarkscrew,
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: not cork screw, but the white cork just haven't had school.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: I was like, doesn't look, this is a deconstructive whoever
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: it is. Baby s is giving me money making moves
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: in that she's a goer, a wheeler, a dealer. You
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: can just tell, you know, she's all over the place. Yeah,
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: And I just feel like she's got that type of mentality.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna have one kid who's like I want
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: to just live in a box and do like artistic
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: dancing and paint, and then I'm gonna have another one
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: who's like, Ocean, you need to get a job and
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: pay these bills. Like I just see that happening.
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I see I see ocean. I see that one
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: hundred percent. I see ocean being like the creative a
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: little more wild, and I see baby s being like
• 30:07
  Speaker 4: well behaved rule follower, almost to the point where you're like, honey,
• 30:10
  Speaker 4: you can mess up. Sometimes you can be a little like, yeah,
• 30:13
  Speaker 4: hang out, be a little wild.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: Ocean's gonna be like, it doesn't matter if I'm broke, mom.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: I'm passionate about it.
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: And I love that about it.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: I know I love that. And babys is going to
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: be the one that says passion doesn't pay bills. Ocean, Yeah,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: it's just I picture it right now. I think you're right,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: and ocean is gonna be kind of short. Ocean is
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: my body. I love that growing No, I'm telling you.
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: I look at ocean and then I see my baby
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: pictures and I'm like, that is me.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: It makes me thrill. I love that a little dense.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: I'm so in love.
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: I know, Okay, this is this is a very interesting
• 30:56
  Speaker 4: and good one. The possibility, oh may regress and start
• 30:59
  Speaker 4: acting like a baby are acting out for attention.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: Already happened, already happening, yep, but not for attention. She's
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: not doing it for attention. She tells me how the
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: baby's gonna talk, and how she's gonna talk to the baby,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: and she walks around and goes, mama, mama, mama, mama.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, but you're a big kid, remember,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: like you're a big kid. That's how baby Ice is
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: going to talk at first. But we talked to baby
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: because I've always spoken to ocean. Obviously I used cue
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: talk at the beginning, but like as she got older
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: and was alert, I spoke to her like a normal person,
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, And I think that that could be
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: a big reason why she will and having older siblings,
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: because I've learned that having older siblings, they tend to
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: grasp vocabulary and they just talk a little bit quicker
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: and a little bit better than most. It's their age.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: Not saying that most kids their age are dumbasses, they
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: just don't have the older siblings right, right, But I
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: feel like that's why she's she spoke. She speaks the
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: way she does, you know, like she tells my mom,
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: you look phenomenal today.
• 32:20
  Speaker 4: No, she has the best vocabulary and she says the
• 32:23
  Speaker 4: words correctly. Yes she does, yeah, And the context and
• 32:28
  Speaker 4: the timing for her comedy.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: Come on, and when I give her ice cream, she goes,
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: this is so delicious. She's so cute.
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: I cannot no, she's so cute. This person said, oh,
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: feeling like feeling like a shit mom because you can't
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: spend as much time with Oh.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: I'm struggling with this. I'm very appreciative that someone would
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: open up about that, because that is mom guilt. I
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: feel it. It's finest. We struggle with it all the time,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: no matter what, whether we have to go and work
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: or there's something that takes time away from our I
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: mean I feel that way when i have to go
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: do something on a day where I'm like, why couldn't
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: this take place on a day that ocean is at
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: the other house?
• 33:18
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: So now new baby comes into the mix, and not
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: only do I not have oh full time, I've heard
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: the majority of the time, but still, you know, I'm
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: the type of person where I'm like not enough. I'm
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: an all or nothing kind of gal. Yeah, that's why
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: I got a donor. I want all or nothing, just
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: kidding all with my kid, I'll take the middle, but
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: I think that'll be a struggle for me too.
• 33:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah, this person the next one underneath, which I'll read
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: also because it kind of goes hand in hand. Involve
• 33:49
  Speaker 4: Ocean and make sure she still gets her quality time too,
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: maybe like which you guys know, I'm not a mom,
• 33:57
  Speaker 4: but like having them make decisions for the baby, like
• 34:01
  Speaker 4: what the baby's gonna wear today or something.
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel and I'm glad that this
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: person wrote in just to remind me. But with Ocean
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: taking on this role of big sis, I have been
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: drilling it in her that this is also your baby,
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: like this isn't this isn't just mama's Like this is
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: your baby's sister, and you're gonna teach her things and
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: you're gonna dress her, and I think I think we're
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: gonna have a lot of quality time just me and
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: oh and also the three of us, like I'll make
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: sure of it. Yeah.
• 34:39
  Speaker 4: Actually, losing all your sleep and body bounce back is harder,
• 34:44
  Speaker 4: but it's easier in some ways.
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: How do you feel about that?
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: Are you stressing it? Do you stress about the body
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: at all? It's just like it's about to do an
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: incredible miracle. Let it be what it is for now.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: The sleep thing I think about all the time. But honest,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: right now, I get no sleep, so it's not going
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: to be much of a transition as far as like sleepy.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: At least I'll have something to do while I'm awake.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: Right now, I'm like, well, I guess i'll watch Young
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: Sheldon at three am. Right. But the body thing, I
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: think maybe because I've never I've never struggled with my weight.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: Of course, I've looked at myself and thought, ooh girl,
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: we could like definitely do some squats.
• 35:32
  Speaker 5: We could definitely get.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: That thing a little. And I've looked at my tummy
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: at times where I'm like, okay, we could like definitely
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: use some crunches, like that might be something to benefit
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: the bod. But I've never looked at my body and
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: gone like, I'm struggling. I want to lose X amount
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: of pounds. I need to go on a diet. So no,
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  Speaker 1: I've had the luxury of mentally not ever going there.
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  Speaker 1: Not because I mean, there's plenty of people who are thin,
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: who are banging, who are tough on themselves, and they
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: think that if I lose ten pounds, I'll be happy
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: with my body. I don't really think that way. I'm
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: not worried about losing the baby weight. If it is
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: different than it was with baby, oh, then it is
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: what it is. But I think that also comes with
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: the fact that, like, I don't like men that much.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: Like who the fuck am I trying to impress? But
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: I just mean the men. I just kid. I actually
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: can I tell you I love men, just not as
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: the father of my children. Ah but I no, no.
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  Speaker 2: No, no never.
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: But you loved your dad.
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: I love but they don't make them like that anymore.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: We're in a different day and age. I love men, like,
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: come one, come all, I want you surrounding me. You're
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: sexy or beautiful. Let's like have commitment ceremonies and have
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: it just be you and me forever. I don't want
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: to have your babies. All good, not a big deal.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: I do love men, but I think because I'm doing
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: this on my own and I don't really feel like
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: I have anyone to impress, and I just want to
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: create my family unit and make a shit ton of
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: money and build an empire and have a beautiful family structure.
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: I don't think about the body, like I'll get the
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: body in check.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: And it's also like I know it's like everyone says it,
• 37:22
  Speaker 4: but it just performed a miracle.
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: Give yourself a break. And I'm not even saying.
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: To you, just like people are like body bounce back,
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: because some women do. They'll go on socials and be
• 37:30
  Speaker 4: like three weeks postpartum and they're like, you know, tiny
• 37:34
  Speaker 4: or whatever, and it's like everyone's body's different just because.
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: Everyone's Yes, everyone's body is completely different. And yeah, sometimes
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: I see trolls on the Internet and I'm like, listen here, motherfucker,
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: I just created an immune system today. What the fuck
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: did you do? I just created a fucking brain.
• 37:47
  Speaker 4: You fucking a heart as a heart chamber, a heart chamber, lungs,
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: you bitch.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: Like I'm doing alright, if my ass could use a
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: few squats, I'm gonna take the win for today of
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: like creating a finger. Yeah, let alone ten let alone
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: ten bit No, but I do. I do want women
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: to start focusing on the fact that their body just
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: did X, Y and.
• 38:14
  Speaker 4: Z, right, And I'm sure easier said than done, but
• 38:17
  Speaker 4: yeah it is.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: But if you tell yourself that enough, you start to
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: believe it. Yeah, fake it till you make it, Take
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: it till you make it. You know, yeah, day at
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: a time, one day at a time, day at a time. Iow,
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: do you want me to read? It applies in every day?
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: It does, yes, last but not least. Things that worked
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: for baby number one won't necessarily work for baby number two.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: But you're more experienced. That's a good point. The vert
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: that freaks my Virgo out because Virgo likes the same.
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: You'll be like, why isn't this working, and it just yeah,
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: But that's the other thing of like that may not work,
• 38:53
  Speaker 4: but you'll do.
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: You'll figure out what will work.
• 38:56
  Speaker 6: And you've probably done something to ocean that will work
• 38:59
  Speaker 6: for baby I work for But you do know what
• 39:03
  Speaker 6: you have to do.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: It just can be a different but you.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: Know, and I've been saving a lot of Instagram reels.
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: Have you about like what to do and what works
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: and stuff.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: Yep, all the different cries that like you learn because
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: you're their mom and you know the different cries. But
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: just when you're pregnant, you're like, I'm saving this just
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: in case.
• 39:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm very excited by now. Congrats on the
• 39:26
  Speaker 4: new baby and the bigger family.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: I know have two kids, wild mom of two, mom
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: of two.
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: Wild, Damn, I remember Kim Kardashian posting mom of four
• 39:40
  Speaker 3: or whatever, and I was like, oh, Mama, anything is
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: so hot.
• 39:44
  Speaker 4: When you're post a hot photo and it's like mom
• 39:47
  Speaker 4: of whatever, it's like, h amazing hot.
• 39:49
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: Pussy dripping, Yeah, pussy dripping.
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: To wrap up this.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: Episode, I think we might be overdoing it. We're getting
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: too excited. Sorry, all right, it can release, it can relieve. Okay.
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: It's September fourth for me, which means this weekend is
• 40:16
  Speaker 4: I will be in San Diego for an all women's
• 40:19
  Speaker 4: jiu jitsu weekend called Femvasion.
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: I'm very excited, very excited.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: It's going to be fun.
• 40:25
  Speaker 4: It's with Donna Gonzales and she's a tenth Planet jiu
• 40:29
  Speaker 4: Jitsu black belt and so she's gonna kill it, which
• 40:32
  Speaker 4: also is exciting because she'll be on the podcast in
• 40:34
  Speaker 4: a couple of weeks when Conna and I have our guests.
• 40:37
  Speaker 4: I can't wait, and so we'll talk about that. Number
• 40:40
  Speaker 4: two is I guess my.
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: Ache would be. I haven't decided yet at this point,
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: so we'll see.
• 40:46
  Speaker 4: But there's a competition the Sunday of this weekend that
• 40:50
  Speaker 4: I really want to do. But then I would have
• 40:52
  Speaker 4: to miss one of the Fembasian days. So we'll see you, guys.
• 40:56
  Speaker 4: It's just a jiu jitsu.
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: Time for you and your cauliflower ear.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I hope.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: It's gone by the time September fourth.
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: Actually, it must be, it must it must t.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: T what's going on with you.
• 41:09
  Speaker 6: My relief of the week is happy birthday.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: Like my real birthday. Yes, so we did the birthday
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: episode which came out Monday.
• 41:19
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, we did that also. But it's been a
• 41:21
  Speaker 5: great birthdays.
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: I've had two birthdays. I've had my own, and I've
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: had and I've given something you've given.
• 41:26
  Speaker 5: So that is the that's my relief. Love it and
• 41:29
  Speaker 5: there's no ache.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: How could there be, right, not a happy day?
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 41:33
  Speaker 5: Well, we'll see when we Yeah, we'll see how much
• 41:35
  Speaker 5: bullshit I.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: May have by the time that's there. My relief, my
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: ache is that I can no longer use I'm pregnant
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: as an excuse to not do ship. You could say
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: that for two months, you could say.
• 41:52
  Speaker 5: I just I just know that's going to be.
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: I was just about to say something.
• 41:56
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: The relief is the fact that I am a mama
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: of two and I've been wanting this and wishing this,
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: and I made my life happen on my own terms,
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: and that, to me is a beautiful thing. So I'm
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: feeling very proud. We love you.
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: The family grows, which means the End of the World
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: crew has gotten bigger. I will be buying us a
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: bunker soon.
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: Oh, I love that. Will you buy us a cyber
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: truck as well?
• 42:23
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: You, guys, I love you so so much. Thank you
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: for listening to this episode of the Give Them Lalla podcast,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: and I will catch you guys next week.