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Men don’t understand why women would choose bears! | Maintaining Frame 94 · Honey Badger Radio

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Hello everybody, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian.
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I'm here with Alison and this is maintaining frame. I don't remember what number
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we're on. We're gonna be talking about the bear man simple bear. Yeah,
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the bear necessities. Yeah, I get it. Oh boy, go
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ahead, I apologize. I just when you said bear, we're gonna be
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talking about the bear, I had to go with the bear necessities. I
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think it was like some sort of reflexive memory from my childhood, you know.
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Yeah. Yeah, Well, we're gonna be looking at this whole meme
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or internet conversation such as it is. Well, I don't know, it's
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well, I guess we'll just does this first video kind of like spell it
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out? Yeah, do you want to? Okay, insofar as if you
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believe that this is the guy who started the whole bear versus man meme,
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you know, like, okay, let's just yeah, it's before we get
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into that. Maybe maybe we should maybe you should tell us how you found
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out about the bear meme. Brian. I saw a video of a guy
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was like one of those men on the Street videos where a guy was asking
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women like would you rather be you know, and like, the overwhelming majority
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of women said they would rather. Essentially, the question is would you rather
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be in the middle of the wild with a man or a bear? And
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the over and they were asking women, and the overwhelming majority of women said
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they would rather be with a bear. And one could say it was a
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troubling number if they didn't really understand that it's actually not shocking, not to
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me anyways. I mean, I knew they would say that, and there's
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a number of reasons for it. But but yeah, so that's how I
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found out about it. How do you find out about it? I honestly
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don't know. I think it just it's just like I'm sitting on the bottom
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like some sort of plank and feeding animal and it just floated through, like
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just the just the the toxic edge of it floated into my my territory somehow.
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It just and then I and I just noticed that it was there.
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And honestly, I apologize, I just moved back from a from the mic,
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like I just it just was there, and I'm like, wow,
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Okay, So basically what you've said is women, you could you could say
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to men that they are in some way not horrible, or you could say
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that bears are better than men. Which do you choose? And of course
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the women almost universally go with the option of insulting men and dehumanizing them and
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uh whatever, Like I I am. My ability to think of women in
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any positive light is dwindling. Yeah, what is what is drizzled is drizzled
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drizzling down the drain. Well, now it's grizzled, grizzling, Yeah,
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grizzly grizzling, or like it's yeah, don't like. This is just ugly.
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This entire meme is ugly. Right, you are now embarking on the
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kind of territory that they use to dehumanize groups of men that they consider to
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be the periphery of society, which is to compare them to animals, except
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that in the past, men would be compared to animals, but at least,
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you know, the comparison to the animal was what was considered unfavorable.
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Now you're saying that the animal is more favorable than the man. It's like,
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how do you how do you excuse this behavior? Like how do you
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And I know they're like, well, you gotta learn, you gotta know.
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We we were so afraid, you see, we're so so you get
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to dehumanize another entire gender publicly because you're afraid of them. That's that's certainly
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what people do when they're afraid of some from they you know, big guy
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in at the corner, what do you do? You immediately go up to
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him and poke him in the eye because you're so afraid of him. M
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h. It's it's just despicable. And I watched the videos of the women
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when they were describing how they would choose the bear shitty and grins. They're
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really getting off on it, like they were getting off on being cruel.
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Yeah, and it's like it's just like you look, you watch this,
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and this is just cruelty. That's all it is. It's just cruelty on
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his face. They make excuses about, oh, we're trying to bring attention
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to but I mean, we don't actually mean that bears are less dangerous than
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men. But what we're trying to bring attention to all of the things that
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men do. No, you're just being cruel, Like if you if you
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went on the streets of like I don't know if we had video from two
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thousand or nineteen forty two for oh, I'll actually probably be after the war
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fifties. We had video from nineteen fifties of somebody going around and saying,
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would you want to meet a bear or a black man in the woods,
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And then you had a whole bunch of smirking white people saying, I would
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prefer the bear. You know exactly what it was. It was cruelty.
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It was cruelty. It was a kind of emotional segregation and dehumanization of a
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group of people. That's what it is. That was what it would be
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then, and that is what it is now. And there is no excuse
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for it. Every single one of those women should feel deep shame for her
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behavior for stating this. It's absolutely shameful. And it becomes even more shameful
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when you realize the actual statistics around, for example, domestic murder, when
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you include the statistics when it comes to children and don't just exclude them because
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somehow children aren't part of a home. And then you also look at the
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statistics around rape and sexual assault. Right, this is completely unconscionable and it
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is just an act of cruelty. And we're going to go through the guy
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who brought this into the world, because he obviously wanted to construct a monument
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to how he's different from every other goddamn man on the planet. And incidentally,
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those are the guys that are really, i would say, the men
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who are like, yeah, I'm going to condemn all other men, but
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I get to be the good guy because I'm doing that. Those are the
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ones you should probably pay attention to as putting being maybe a little bit more
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likely to be dangerous. Okay, driven by that kind of narcissism and also
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believing that they're confessing something, but they're putting into the mouths of other men,
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that kind of that kind of confession. Yeah, it should. Those
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are fingers that he's pointing should be pointing back at him. But we'll we'll
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cover that video and then we'll look at some of the fallout. Apparently there's
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a there's a woman who imploded her relationship because she asked this question and she
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put this up. They've written articles about how it's like been like straining relationships.
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Okay, I'm gonna say this before we even get into it. If
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you have a female partner who does this to you, that is a red
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flag, right, and if she doesn't immediately apologize when you explain this is
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dehumanizing and abusive, and you are actually becoming You're like, you're making yourself
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a threat. And y'all would take this lightly if she can see you in
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those like, what is she saying, Oh, I would choose the bear
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over a man. She is insulting and and humiliating and what's the right word
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for it. She is dehumanizing an aspect of you, right, that is
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an indication that she can split black on you. That is a very strong
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indication of her of her future behavior in the relationship. Okay, you should
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really really think about whether or not you want to continue to be in a
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relationship with a person who does stuff like this, especially based on some kind
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of Twitter or some kind of a viral meme like, yeah, this is
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And honestly, if she doubles down, it's even bigger of a red flag.
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Like if she brings this in, what is the purpose of bringing it
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in except to humiliate you and dehumanize you. Well, it's to get I
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think it's to get men to say, oh, honey, we are far
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more dangerous. Like it's basically like a it's a kind of submission or you
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know, a ship test, as some people would call it. Just pass
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the ship test. Bro, Well, you know what the problem with that
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is if she can put you in the villain role that easily, that you
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should take note to that because that when you are in the villain role is
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when you are the most vulnerable to a woman. Okay, and a woman's
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uh well, the powers of the state and her community that she can bring
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to bear. So take note and be very careful. And I know that
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men exist in a situation where they really can't question their partners that much because
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you know, in many cases they're their only source of any kind of social
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approval, affection, all kinds of other things. So it puts them in
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a very bad position. But this is the kind of behavior really like,
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if you can, I mean, you maybe don't even confront her publicly about
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it, keep yourself safe. If she's not the kind of person who you
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can be open with or vulnerable with. If she is sort of if she's
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incredibly callous, if she dismisses your experiences, you know you can't do that.
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Then just think about quietly moving along, making yourself uninteresting to her,
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trying to uh you know, just just move out of her sphere and do
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so in the most neutral quiet and careful way possible by cultivating an or Usually
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the way that they do it is cultivate an aura of boredom and she will
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eventually float away and then you can breathe a sigh of relief. But that's
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that's what and I don't like. No, No, this is actually a
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pretty big red flag. You can, you can, you can. I'm
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getting off my podium. If you have a if you have an alternative viewpoint,
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Brian, go ahead and stay. No, I'm gonna we'll look at
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these links. So you want me to start with this video? Sure?
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Well, okay, so this is a tweet a tweet? Wait, why'd
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you close your thing? I'm I'm still here. Okay, all right,
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don't close your thing because people can see that you left just gonna. I
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was just gonna take off my jacket, that's all. Oh okay, okay.
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So I have this tweet from sister Phanta Maria. Yeah, just do
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it on the stream and uh it's well, she writes or she is that.
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I assume it's a woman. She tweets or posts, well, hashtag
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all men here. It is from the horse's mouth, the man that started
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the entire man versus Bear thing and guess what, I'm still hashtag team bear
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because feminists are so pleasant? Or or am I just saying women? All
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right, so let's play this video? Well, go ahead, all right,
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No, no, let's play the video. All r Let's play the
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video. It's a minute and a half. So it's on Twitter or a
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man in the woods thing was never actually would you rather? Question? I
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know because I'm the one who started it, and I figured i'd use this
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tag to clarify something. On March twelfth, I ended a video by saying,
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if you're alone in the woods, seeing a man is ten times scarier
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than seeing a bear. Someone commented on that video saying, no, seeing
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a bear is so much scarier than seeing a man. Bro I responded to
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that comment laying out why women are more scared of men than the bear,
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and that response went viral. On the nineteen this topic started trending and growing
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for a few weeks, and then it really blew up with the street interviews.
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I never presented it as a would you rather question, because I already
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knew that women were picking the bear and men were picking the man. My
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whole page is trying to get people who look like me to empathize with and
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understand the life experiences of people who don't look me. You don't even understand
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what myia was to get men to think about why the world looks so different
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for women that they would actually choose the bear. And my challenge to any
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man watching who picks the man in this scenario is can you get yourself to
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a place where you would rather pick the bear? Can you get to that
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level of understanding, because if you can bring yourself to understand why they choose
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the bear, congratulations, you've experienced one percent of one percent of one percent
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of what they experience every day of their lives, and you experienced it for
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two and a half minutes. Very helpful. Yeah, Like you know,
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birth rates aren't low enough. The inability for the sex is to see eye
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and I isn't bad enough. Well, all I'll say is this is TikTok.
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So that guy probably works for the Chinese government. It's a good job.
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Probably. No, I'm serious. I think like a lot of this,
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a lot of this stuff is propaganda. We know for a fact that
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a lot of people work for either or the Chinese government, the Biden administration,
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or some other entity, the CIA, and they they go out and
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they go into social media and they propagandize the cramp out of people, and
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it's very very very effective against women, very effective against women. I'll say
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it again. It is very effective against women. And so when that guy
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said, I knew that I would choose women because I'm such a great guy
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that I know how terrifying I am. And women just eat it up.
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Boom boom, boom boom, I'm so scared boom boom boom. And and
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other women are like, oh you're scared. I'm scared too. Boom boom
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boom. Sistern go goom, go go. And so you know this is
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effective. And unfortunately that's just the way it is. Now. Here's here's
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what I made a video about it. Actually I did it like a little
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live because I wanted to see what the Twitter live was like. And I
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said that what I think is going on with this man versus bear thing is
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somebody, the establishment, the communists, the feminist, whatever, doesn't matter,
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the people who want to see the West collapse. They occasionally will start
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a meme to scare the crap out of women, and then they'll just and
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then they will do like a like a health check like, let's see how
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scared women are today, how effective has our four payer, our fear porn
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been and that, and they check in and that's why. Like I saw
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a video on Twitter where a woman was saying, you know something to the
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effect of women are choosing the bear, therefore women's fear is justified, and
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it's like, no, the propaganda against you is effective, and your reaction
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proves that. That's all Like that, Like literally, you can be as
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scared of something as you want, but if it's irrational, it's irrational.
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And that is just irrational. So I do have a video that I shared
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of a woman who was actually attacked by a bear and a bunch of men
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and came to our rescue. Do you want to see that? Sure?
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All right, so I'm going to share that. Yeah. Well before we
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get into that, Yeah, if you want to respond to this, to
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this other thing first, that's okay. Well, he's basically saying, well,
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this is a consciousness raising exercise. So why men need to think about
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why women would choose the bear? Well, the reason we choose the bears
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because they think that men are more dangerous because the propaganda right told them that
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for years and years and years, and I'll go through generations generations, Yes,
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through one aspect of that propaganda, which is the sexual assault numbers.
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There is no reason, based on the sexual assault numbers for women to bear
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an asymmetrical burden of fear. In the last year, according to the CDC,
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which put had put on the largest study into sexual assault and sexual violence
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ever in the US. According to their study, in the last year,
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for three years in a row, men and women were assaulted sexually assaulted,
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that is, forced to have sex equally. Of course, they didn't regard
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it when men were forced to have sex as rape in most circumstances, because
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if a woman forced a man to penetrate her, that was not considered rape
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by the study. But if you include all the instances of force sex,
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which you know, I think that forced sex A is pretty much equivalent to
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force sex B. So and I'm going to include all of them, then
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men and women have equal risk. And the men report about eighty percent female
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perpetration. So the rate of perpetration is not significantly gendered either. So the
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risk is not gendered. The rate of perpetration is not gendered. And yet
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we live, we labor under this perception that somehow women are at such greater
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risk than men. They're not, They're not. Okay, this is something
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that is ungendered. It's something that men and women do do each other.
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It's a problem that we're all facing together against the criminals and the abusers.
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And the other thing is that I get all these people with all but the
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lifetime numbers are so different. Yes, but if you look at the if
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you look at the research into child memory, traumatic memory, so remembering traumatic
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sexual assaults, men do not remember verified histories of child sexual abuse. They
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remember at one fourth the rate that women do. Let me say that again.
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Clearly, men remember a verified history of child sexual abuse, so that
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he was investigated as a child and it was found that he was indeed being
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sexually abused. Men remember that at one fourth the rate of women one fourth.
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And women also don't remember every instance of verified sexual abuse either. So
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sixty four percent of women who've had a verified experience or incidence of child sexual
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abuse remember it. That's thirty six percent of women who somehow it just the
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traumatic memory just disappears, or it doesn't become sailing it, or they can't
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recall it on a survey instrument. Sometimes that happens, and then with men,
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sixteen percent, sixteen percent of men with a verified history of child sexual
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abuse recalled it on a survey instrument. Okay, so you want to know
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why the lifetime numbers is like one fourth for men is one fourth that of
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women, and yet the last twelve month numbers is equal. That is why.
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That is why the end, So we cannot look at the lifetime numbers
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and you simply have to recognize and accept that men and women run the same
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one hundred percent the same risk for sexual assault in the upcoming twelve month period
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the same. So that this is this is the one huge part of the
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fear because they talk about how in this whole bear meme, they're like,
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well, bears, they they they'll just kill you horribly, Yeah, unbelievably
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horribly, Like you'll have part of your testine being eaten by a bear while
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you're still alive. But you know they'll just kill you. But but you
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know men will do horrible things to you. It's like, well, women
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do horrible things to men. Men and women do horrible things to each other.
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Right, the honest to god truth is Okay, you know what I'm
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continuing on my podium. So I'm gonna I'm gonna walk off of that.
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Then all right, I'm gonna walk get right back off. I just want
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to I just want to add to what you're saying that, Like, even
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if it's true the numbers are the same and everybody knew that, I still
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don't think men would be as afraid. I don't think they would make They
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would not say that I would rather be in the woods with a bear than
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a woman like this, this is different. Yeah, but this is like
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I think that even if men now it could just be because men are different.
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But even if men knew the numbers and they knew them to be one
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hundred percent certain that it's the same, I don't think men would make generalizations
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like that full stop, No way, they just wouldn't do it. Well,
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let's put it this way. Let me put it this way. I'm
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sorry, I'll get back to my mic. I have to cheat myself to
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do this, but let's put it this way. I don't think men want
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to cause women that level of distress. Like I'm pretty sure that, Yeah,
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sure men aren't as afraid. Well, first of all, they have
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a better threat assessment, and when it comes to women, versus bears.
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But let's just look at women versus men in terms of fear of the opposite
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sex. Yeah, men aren't quite as afraid of women's sexual aggression against them
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in some cases, because it's it's like a hidden secret. Nobody talks about
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it, nobody really presents it, and it just ends up blindsiding a lot
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of the guys who experience it. But what about false accusations? You know,
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what about being abused publicly and you do something to prevent yourself from being
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harmed and everybody jumps you as a man, Like, these are fears that
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men have, and I don't know if they're as large as women's fear of
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men generally, because no, I don't think I think men understand. Yes,
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let me just finish, Okay, Now, men have fear of women.
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They fear women, they fear women's false accusations. Right, look at
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what happened to Johnny Depp. What I think is really happening is men don't
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tell women that because they do not want to cause them distress, because simple
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as that, they just don't want to upset women. Yeah, but but
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apparently their existence upsets women. Yeah, so they can't really avoid that so
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what do they got to do is basically be the one good man to get
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out of like distrosge just simply say like, men are afraid of women.
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They don't want to say that because it doesn't earn them any social points,
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and because they don't want to be cruel Like a lot of this just comes
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down to cruelty. Look at the shit eating grinlin the women who say,
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oh I cheat the bear like. It's about cruelty. It's about bullying,
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it's about being abusive towards a group of people you can publicly be cruel towards.
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And I don't think men are as motivated to do that to women.
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I think there's a subgroup of men, like maybe the red pillars can get
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pretty cruel, but like for the most part, I don't think men really
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want to do the same. You know, right, I don't know,
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are you do red pillars? Are they? Are they cruel in this way?
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I don't know? No. I mean, well, I think that
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when you generalize women, women are they take it way more personally than men.
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Ye. So, but okay, let's let me show. Oh I
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got a super chow I should read so Richard Berre gave us five bucks and
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said it's on the screen. Perhaps women chose the bear, or choose the
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bear because they imagine the bear as a furry representation of a bear versus an
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actual bear. If realistic size and temperament are basically a Dylan Mulvany embodiment of
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a bear, the follow up question would be would you rather encounter a random
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man or the cocaine bear? And also, this is absolutely ridiculous because just
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think about being lost in the Alaskan wilderness and having to deal with bears and
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then you see a man. You're not gonna be running screaming from that man.
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Yeah, good lord, you know, I just recently watched I think
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it was the Chilean Yeah, I think it was the chill No, No,
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it was the team that ended up crashing in the South American Andes.
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Yeah, right, the Andies. I think they might have been Chilean.
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No, Uruguay. I think they were from Uruguay. Am I saying that?
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Right? Okay? So I was watching this and there was absolutely zero
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sense of any kind of unique threat to the women who remained as survivors in
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that group. They all ended up dying, but they ended up dying because
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let's be frank, In a survival situation, young men are the ones who
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were gonna survive because they just have more physical resilience and you know, they
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can lose more blood, they can sustain more injury, they can hike further,
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and they can live with with food for long without food for longer.
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So I'm just like, I'm watching this something, you know, and it's
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perfectly believable to me that in this extreme circumstance, you know, had nothing
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to do with this kind of sexual violence, hysteria. There wasn't even a
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whiff of it. It was just people trying to survive. And that's it.
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And I mean, when you're up against something so horrendous, like that's
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so overwhelming, you really get that sense of you're all just people trying to
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survive. It breaks down this idea like oh, oh man, woman,
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this kind of conflict between the two, Oh, I would choose a bear.
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No you wouldn't. No, you wouldn't. You really wouldn't. Okay,
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all right, so I'm gonna show the video of Sorry, I got
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a bit of a headache. That's okay. I think it's this one.
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No, this is the one we're doing. Where's the other one. Wait,
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tabs disappeared. No, okay, you found them again? No,
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no, here it is. I just had to find the right one.
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Yeah, it's a bit a it's a bit complex for no reason. So
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here's a video clip that I actually I shared so and it was shared by
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someone named Mike Oslo's Best Fruit fruitfly Wrangler saying this whole debate is indicative of
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how much miss injury has jumped to shark and I will play the clip here.
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So here's a woman that's a brown bear. I don't know how.
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I mean, that was a bear on a chain too. So now look
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I this this it to me. This is obvious, like I don't even
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know like why like we would have to share this, Yet people were still
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arguing with me about it. I didn't mute this person. I don't know
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why. It says I mute at them. Oh you did, Oh okay,
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this is your your account. Yeah, just get aggravated by how much
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these Yeah, I get a lot of people. And really, if I've
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muted somebody, it's because I've had days and days of circular argument with them.
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Yeah. Yeah, well they were basically saying what you said, you
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know, And I mean I don't know. Like to me this this should
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be a no brainer, like to answer correctly, but it's also not at
28:51
all shocking to see how it was actually answered. Just doesn't surprise me at
28:56
all. So, I mean, I just think that this is how captured
29:03
women are by fear by my irrational fear of men. It's like androphobia is
29:08
completely irrational, but it is what it is. I mean, this is
29:11
just where we are. Now, Well, what did what were the responses
29:15
to that video? I'm curious. I have to look at it at my
29:18
Twitter feed. Yeah, well, go good if you need to log out
29:21
and because I can, no, no, no, I don't. I
29:23
don't know my log in stuff. Let me see. So if I go
29:26
to somebody said, I forgot what they said, like, that's a just
29:33
women do internal risk assessment about men. Stop acting like it's a surprise.
29:37
Oh, I said, I'm not, And let me look at these.
29:45
I spent ages very stoically saying our criminologist accepts that the risk of men becoming
29:52
more savage increases under hunger, stress and in an uncivilized environment like being alone
29:59
in the forest, and numerous men can separate this from negative judgments. I
30:03
don't really want to talk about this person anymore, so let's move on.
30:06
I know, but well that's all. That's basically what I got. It's
30:08
just like a bunch of that. That's ridiculous that under stressful circumstances like that
30:15
people work together better. They should. Good watch the survival of of that
30:22
flight and from Uruguay to I think Chile, we'll get the exact flight crashed
30:30
and eased. It was You're Aguayan Air Force flight five seven to one.
30:37
I mean, actually, look at Tales of Survival, look at the story
30:41
of the Real Lord of the Flies, because this is pig ignorance. Well,
30:48
no, I didn't, I didn't put it through. I just I
30:48
just found the name of it's You're going Uruguay Air Force flight. So just
30:52
take a look at that that movie, right, and look at the Real
30:57
Lord of the Flies, because what happened is that in some one of those
31:02
things. Oh yeah, yeah, I know they did they didn't. Yeah,
31:03
we know the story of that. Yeah. Well, just really quickly,
31:07
there was a group of boys who got shipwrecked, and when they were
31:11
found like months later, I think it was sixteen months later, the people
31:15
who found them were surprised at how healthy they were and how well taken care
31:22
of they were, and by how well ordered and cooperative their society was,
31:26
and how much they had achieved alone on an island on like an island in
31:30
the Pacific. And these were like young young boys on the cusp of manhood.
31:37
And they didn't engage in the shenanigans that people expect of young men.
31:42
Right, this is nonsense. Look at the survivor island and what men do.
31:48
They just get down to doing the work that needed to survive. So
31:52
no, no, no, if men got more hinky in a survival situation,
31:57
we wouldn't have gotten this far because that was all our our history was.
32:04
Okay, Well, I was gonna say, shoot, I was going
32:08
to add something to that, but I can't remember what it is now,
32:15
Sorry about that. So that's okaypical difficulties in your memory. Yeah it doesn't
32:22
well oh oh yeah, right, So here's what I was gonna say.
32:23
So I brought this up. Well, I've been seeing people talking around this.
32:29
That's how lotus eaters talked about it. And I was annoyed because they
32:32
nobody seemed to get it. They were all like, would you rather be
32:36
in the in the woods with a bear or a man. They were like,
32:38
well, I guess it depends on the kind of man. Is it
32:40
a you know, or a kind of bear? And I was like,
32:44
no, you're missing the point. The point is that it's the question is
32:52
it's the precedent of the question, is whether or not a wild animal is
33:00
a higher risk than a civilized man, like a human male. That's so
33:06
it's not about like, well, if he's like a crazy psychotic man,
33:09
so yeah, But what we're asking is what are the of the of all
33:14
the men on earth, what percentage of those men are psychotic and violent?
33:19
That's the question, right, Bears are wild animals. Now, you could
33:23
say, well, if the bear isn't hungry, Again, you're you're getting
33:27
into bullshit semantics. What are the odds that a wild animal will be dangerous
33:35
to you versus a man? Not? Not like it depends on the man,
33:37
depends on the bear. No, it does not depend on that,
33:39
because the question is predicated on what the odds of that, you know,
33:45
the the creature or the man being hostile are. That's what it's so like
33:50
you could say, well, what about a wolf that's like, you know,
33:52
I don't know like really overweight. It just ate and it's unconscious.
33:57
Well yeah, that wolf's not dangerous, but we're not. But we're not
33:59
talking talking about that. We're talking about if it's just a wolf and it's
34:01
a dice roll, you know, what are the odds? Right with a
34:06
bear, it's easily like more you know, higher odds that they're going to
34:10
be hostile. Like It's like I was, you know, I said,
34:14
well, well, and I changed it because people are like, what depends
34:16
on the bear? And I was like, well, okay, how about
34:17
if it was a gorilla, you know, like just a gorilla. Now,
34:22
gorillas are generally peaceful and they eat vegetables and they keep to themselves.
34:25
But if you're a round one, you don't know what it's going to do,
34:29
and if it chose to do something to you, you would be screwed.
34:31
Like you wouldn't be going to do anything about it. This is what
34:34
I'm saying, right, So the whole like conversation about well depends on the
34:38
man that's don't do that, Like, it's predicated on the odds of that
34:43
person being hostile. So when you say the man is more dangerous than the
34:46
bear, you are saying that in general, men are more dangerous because just
34:53
because right so, you're basically saying men are more likely to be violent,
34:58
more likely to be dangerous. And going back to this guy, the one
35:01
good man guy who started this whole thing, he is basically saying men have
35:06
to think about this because men's empathy is important. But they're literally trying to
35:12
fill an empathy, well, an understanding appeal to an empathy that they say
35:17
doesn't exist, right, but also that you would have to You're basically asking
35:23
people who really have very little to no empathy for you to not consider you
35:29
a monster because a woman with empathy would say, well, I know that
35:31
most men wouldn't hurt me, right like those like even stranger men would come.
35:39
I consider the fact that this statement is a very harmful, abusive statement.
35:45
Okay, because what I'm seeing is when they say that, then they
35:50
say, what's really being said is I am choosing the bear. I'm throwing
35:55
myself on this horrible thing because you are so much worse. Make yourself better
36:02
by I don't know my criteria that I will state, itemize to you and
36:08
send to you. You know that that's it's this is this is an emotional
36:13
extortion. This is basically I am holding your humanity hostage until you solve these
36:19
problems which you may have absolutely no control over at all. Like an average
36:24
man has absolutely no control over the behavior of a rapist. I mean just
36:30
a male rapist, female rapist, we don't even care about, right,
36:34
But a male rapist is more genetically distinct from the average man than a gay
36:39
man is a straight from a straight man. How much control does straight man
36:44
have over gay men's behavior? That's so much even less control over a rapist
36:49
behavior Like this is that there is no connection between a normal man and a
36:55
rapist. Okay, and even the genet equalities that make a man a rapist
37:02
genetically distinct from normal men because it's it is not normal sexual behavior for men.
37:07
It is absolutely abnormal. It's a result of a genetic defect. But
37:13
it's also not You don't just these men don't just have a genetic defect.
37:17
They're not only defective genetically, they also have been sexually abused themselves in many
37:23
cases. In most cases, yeah, you not only have to have a
37:29
genetic defect to be a sexual abuser, at least for men. We don't
37:32
know for women because we haven't done the work. But you also have to
37:36
have been subjected to sexual abuse or severe neglect yourself. All right, what
37:43
are what are normal men going to do there? Well? Well, what
37:46
conceivably could normal men do to change that? Well, I guess they could
37:52
institute a policy of eugenics to get rid of the genetic defect that creates rapists.
38:00
I mean they could do that. I suppose they could create services to
38:05
intervene for at risk youth, which we used to do in the nineties before
38:09
they the feminists got rid of them. And also, justin Tratci of Cafe,
38:15
the man single handedly bringing men's services to Canada is trying to do but
38:19
is being stonewalled by feminist bureaucrats in doing so. We could do that,
38:23
But but what a normal man cannot do is anything that feminists ask him to
38:29
do in order to actually reduce the rate of rapists. Nothing that feminists ask
38:36
men to do is going to recrease decrease the rate of rape, and in
38:39
fact, a lot of it will only increase or keep it stable. Because
38:44
they ask that we look at this from an ideological lens. We focus on
38:49
rape jokes or bad taste comedy or other things like our victim blaming what was
38:55
she wearing kind of stuff. Yeah, I got I got a victim blame
38:59
me to say about bears and wild animals there. But yeah, we we
39:02
have to focus on all of this other stuff and not on the things that
39:07
actually would reduce the number of rapists, which would be conventions, mental health
39:10
interventions, therapeutic interventions, and I guess maybe in the future some kind of
39:16
genetic like a palliat it, like a genetic you know, like the genetic
39:22
therapy to get rid of the defect. You know that that might work.
39:28
That might work, But it's one hundred percent not what feminists are telling us
39:32
to do because they don't want to take this from the realm of ideology and
39:37
controlling the culture. Listen to me. They want to control the culture and
39:43
they are using rape to do it. They don't have no interest in any
39:47
kind of intervention that might actually work but doesn't support their bid to control the
39:53
culture. So everything that feminists ask men to do, or sorry demand the
39:59
app man, who has no control over these genetic freaks that are rapists,
40:04
everything they ask them to do will either do nothing to change the existence of
40:09
rapists or make it worse by diverting attention away from legitimate interventions. And I
40:17
wanted to say before I hand the mic back to you, Brian, I
40:20
know I've been saying a lot when you look at this whole thing, I've
40:24
seen a lot of tweets saying, oh, well, at least that wouldn't
40:28
be victim blamed? Are you freaking kidding me? Whenever a person gets into
40:34
some kind of situation with a violent animal, the first thing people say is
40:37
why were you there? That's the first thing people say. Why were you
40:45
in its territory? Why were you in its line of sight? Why were
40:50
you going anywhere near its den? Why did you get between it and it's
40:53
young? Why? Why? Why? And then after that, what were
40:59
you wearing attracted it? Did you not put your your food in up above
41:04
on a on a cachet stick, you know? Did you did you have
41:08
sense on you that are attractive to bears? Did you go into the woods
41:12
on your rag? Like this? Question after question after question? Are you
41:15
kidding me? Be attacked by an animal and you will see everybody start their
41:22
engines in terms of what you would call victim blaming if it was a man,
41:27
because you get no excuses. When you're attacked by an animal, everybody
41:31
will one five percent put it on you for not knowing better. Okay,
41:43
all right, so I got something else. I think, sorry about that.
41:50
I was just I mean, if if there was anything further you wanted
41:52
to add to it, this is really infuriating. I didn't even realize how
41:55
infuriating this was. You want to do this Reddit thing. I should be
42:00
like you, Brian, I should be like, yep, yep, yep.
42:04
This is just just is just another cycle in the machine. I mean,
42:07
I don't even I don't even think this is a particular I don't know,
42:12
I don't well, no, it's just sort of par for the course,
42:15
Like this is just what I expect. And I think that it does
42:19
come down to, like women benefit from their appearance of weakness, and so
42:28
they use it whenever they can. And feminism has the reason why feminism has
42:32
not addressed the issue of rape ist because if they did, then they would
42:38
stop getting paid and they can't do that. So it is to maintain their
42:43
hold on society, to maintain the control over the culture. It is not
42:45
to solve women's problems. It is not to solve men's problems. It is
42:50
simply to keep men and women fighting with each other and divided, and and
42:54
it works. And I mean, you know, men like they're still putting
43:00
up with it. They're still putting up with it. So all right,
43:05
so I got this Reddit post. Okay, yep about this, So we're
43:09
gonna look at this. Here we go, and this is Oh, I
43:15
got a super chow and that I should read. That's that's the other thing
43:19
I forgot. So I got a super chow from I think it was great
43:23
Indoors and he gives five bucks and says, but what if it was the
43:28
bear in the movie The Shining Well, I don't remember that, but it's
43:30
been a while. And then I got another super chow from Richard Bierre and
43:37
he says, for five bucks, would you rather encounter a bear in the
43:40
woods or encounter eight in the woods? Oh? Oh, a star of
43:46
David. Don't read this out it's too edgy. Oh, I know what
43:50
you're saying. But imagine if you had like a star of David on the
43:52
ground, like etched into the like the the like some kind of summoning circle.
43:58
Yeah, like a summoning circle. That might be a little bit intimidating.
44:04
Uh yeah, but again, well like those little twig things from Blair
44:08
Witch Project. Yeah, sure, like twig things like hanging out as branches.
44:14
Yeah, that'd be creepy, creepy, but anyway, not useful.
44:21
So this is Reddit. I shared the bear versus man dilemma with my boyfriend
44:27
and didn't get the response I expected. Now I'm sad, and this is
44:31
the thing. This is how I know this is like a trap. This
44:35
is why I suspect the guy who opened it out there is either paid by
44:38
the by the administration of CIA, or the Chinese government or all three,
44:44
because it is it is a setup. Like women are already conditioned to down
44:51
men whenever they get a chance, or say that they're afraid of them or
44:54
whatever, because they know that it controls men's behavior. So they have to
44:59
like make a claim that men would never be okay with because they get a
45:04
result that they like, which is essentially male submission, and men will be
45:07
on the defensive immediately because it's kind of a ridiculous thing to assert about men.
45:13
So it's a setup. It was a trap from the get go,
45:15
and that's why the guy could confidently say, oh, yeah, you know
45:19
how many men probably said, dude, we're not dangerous. Well, somebody
45:23
who's really dangerous would say something like that. It's essentially what's going on,
45:27
right, And of course it's a trap. Like you it's like the way
45:30
that you know, when when the way that some women argue with men when
45:35
they try to like get them in trouble and they and they like put them
45:37
in this you know, rhetorical corner, and the men are just trying to
45:42
like not be like, you know, dogged on. Yeah, I know
45:45
I've done that. Yeah, And and the women are like, oh,
45:49
you're digging yourself a deeper hole. Her herd her, you know. And
45:52
it's like okay, but you know, if if one day, if one
45:55
day men were like, you know what, fuck this, women are going
45:59
to be like they're gonna be like, oh Handmaid's Tale, Oh my god.
46:04
But it's like, you know what, you know what, it's funny
46:06
too, Allison. All it takes to like really piss women off is just
46:09
say hey, hey, repeal the nineteenth right, And there's like videos and
46:15
they're like posting blogs and they're going crazy. But when it comes to like
46:20
whether or not men or or bears are more dangerous, they're They're totally happy
46:23
to jump in there and just like get there, get their digs in.
46:28
But they would never find themselves in that situation because a man, I guarantee
46:31
you would come to the rescue anyway, and they'd be like, well,
46:35
you know, they'd have something to say about that. Go ahead, Well
46:37
I was gonna say, I've done that with Jonathan, like get get him
46:42
into a rhetorical court. Of course, he doesn't play. So what ends
46:45
up happening is I'll do that and then I'll just they'll just run away and
46:49
chuckle. Yeah, but I don't I don't necessarily judge him for for getting
46:57
into those rhetorical corners. But again, he doesn't. He doesn't play.
47:00
It is like if I went up to him and says in my ass like
47:02
fat and these jeens, he'd be like, I don't, I am not
47:07
here to make you feel better about your ass m h or something like that.
47:13
So but but you know, it's just I think all women do that.
47:17
I think the differences maybe they become more self aware about it and don't
47:23
allow that to sort of set the tone of their relationship if you make it,
47:30
if it makes sense, I don't know, it's just you know,
47:35
being insecure seems to be parson and parcel with being a woman. I'll just
47:37
say that, yeah, yeah, and also blaming men for your insecurity as
47:43
parton part. Yeah, that's true. That's and that's one thing that's got
47:45
to stop anyway. You're right, yeah, it does. All right.
47:50
So I shared the bear versus Mandlemma with my boyfriend and I didn't get the
47:53
response I expected. Now I'm sad. His response was, quote, I
47:57
think there are two questions here, one fear that women feel of men to
48:02
the total lack of knowledge that women have about what it means to meet a
48:07
bear. End quote. Yes, that's true. Then I said that it
48:10
wasn't about the bear, but rather our perception of men. Well that's a
48:14
problem, isn't it. But he wanted yeah, but rather, isn't it
48:17
giving me say that in number one, the fear that women feel of men.
48:22
Yeah, no, But women's perception is important. It is reality,
48:27
Allison. It's reality. Can't just say well, maybe if it's about your
48:30
perception, maybe your perception is wrong. Let's look at this and look at
48:35
it logically and correct your perception. Like this is a Kafka trap. Okay,
48:39
keep going yeah. But then I said, it wasn't about the bear,
48:45
but rather our perception of men. But he wanted to take another route.
48:49
How many people know how to judge the differential danger of all these animals,
48:52
you know? And even an audio about statistics on the number of bears
48:57
you encounter versus the number of men and the rate of bad internal actions.
49:00
Then I said, I'm not going to talk to you about this, okay,
49:02
because clearly we were having two separate conversations, and at that moment I
49:07
thought it was insensitive for him to go that route, and I didn't want
49:09
to hear about it. Oh so, oh my god. So you just
49:15
wanted him to say men are dangerous? Honey. I know I'm a terrible
49:21
person. I get what you're saying. I wish I understood the fear that
49:24
women feel every day. But because he was like, no, let's be
49:29
rational. You're being ridiculous. Let me explain, and you're like, well,
49:31
you don't get it. I'm still afraid all the time. Why don't
49:37
you understand that. It's like you're pathetic, You are pathetic. Anyway,
49:43
Yeah, I'll finish this, Okay, Well, let's talk about what she
49:46
might have action okay, let's finish this. I'll finish it, okay.
49:50
So she says, I'm not going to talk about this, okay, because
49:52
clearly we're having two separate conversations, yet one in reality and yours, And
49:55
at that moment, I thought it was insensitive for him to go that route,
50:00
and I didn't want to hear about it. And in addition to audios
50:01
saying he was mad at me, he writes, I don't accept that you
50:05
come and cut off a conversation. I'm upset even now. I don't want
50:08
to hear your random questions anymore. I will no longer answer them. I
50:12
have no obligation. I'll go to sleep angry and probably wake up angry.
50:15
I don't know what I'll be like tomorrow. Maybe I don't want to see
50:20
you. And now I have a horrible feeling in my stomach and uncontrollable tears.
50:23
I know there's a lot wrong there. I feel it, but my
50:25
feelings are blurry, and I know I will hide it in my subconscious and
50:30
not elaborates. So he wrote this, so he basically's likes no, he
50:35
did that. He said that to her because she made him feel like shit.
50:39
I mean it comes down to it, ladies. So like I thought
50:45
men are supposed to I thought men were supposed to express their feelings more,
50:47
I thought, this is what we were supposed to do. Yes, his
50:50
feelings, and I don't know if it would have helped if he had.
50:53
But here's the thing. When you beak off about this shit like this,
50:58
when you dehumanize men, they don't like it. And yeah, sure they
51:02
start going well actually, because that's what men do when you fucking hurt their
51:07
feelings, they start to go into that kind of place of logic. As
51:13
a defense, this guy should have simply said, why are you being abusive
51:17
to me? Why are you bringing up this abusive kafkaesque trap? Why are
51:23
you putting this on me? I'm trying to live my life and you are
51:29
trying to abuse me. Right, you are trying to dehumanize me. Go
51:34
put that shit back on TikTok and come back when you're ready to have a
51:37
real relationship. Now, ye say that, but he probably should have.
51:42
Instead, He's like, well, let me talk about when we engage with
51:45
this rationally. This was his last ditch effort to basically salvage the conversation.
51:52
Let me engage with this statement, rationally you have apparently you've dehumanized me based
51:55
on my gender identity. Let me engage with it rationally, so maybe I
52:00
can get you to see my side. That is, I mean, there
52:05
is absolutely no point that that is actually him being gracious and saying, Okay,
52:09
I'm gonna actually give this the time of day. Honestly, guys,
52:15
you have my permission if your girlfriends or your wives come with you at you
52:20
with this bear versus man crap to simply say, you don't get to dehumanize
52:24
me. Go away. When you want to do want to engage with me
52:30
on an adult level, then we'll talk. But you don't get to dehumanize
52:35
me. You don't get to put me into that category of something less than
52:39
you. Right, goodbye, I'm not interested in this, and just just
52:46
leave it at that. Explain that this is dehumanization, It is hurtful,
52:51
it is damaging, it removes trust and intimacy, and don't do it like
52:57
you're just being an abusive chauvinist late, And he didn't say that. Instead,
53:01
he was like, my wife, my girlfriend is being an abusive chauvinist.
53:05
What do I do? Maybe I can articulate myself in a logical way
53:09
so that she can understand my position. That's him attempting to salvage her assholeish
53:17
behavior. That's him saying, Okay, so you have decided to be a
53:22
complete pig today, let's see if we can make a silk purse out of
53:30
this. And she didn't even but nope, she continued to be a pig.
53:34
And I hope this guy goes with his gut instinct when it comes to
53:37
this woman. I hope he does, because I'm telling you that the finally
53:42
like salvaging it then going to you made me angry. It's not even anger.
53:46
When men say you made me angry, that means you hurt them deeply.
53:52
Okay, you've caused pain, and now they are reacting angrily, defensively
53:58
because you have become the enemy, right you. This is what this woman
54:01
has done. And I hope now that he's in a position of understand or
54:05
he's in the emotion of it, that he goes with his gut instinct in
54:09
regards to her, and that whole thing like I don't want to see you
54:13
becomes we're done. And that is what she did. She did this to
54:17
her relationship. She did it. She even if even if he was a
54:22
guy who's like, yeah, a han Le, I know, I know
54:24
I'm less than you. I'm just I'm just a wild animal and you're a
54:29
real person. Yeah yeah, I understand it. Yeah no, no,
54:31
I know. Women just they're just live in terror because we're so awful.
54:36
And I'm a man, and I deserve to feel the guilt and the shame
54:38
of all men because you know, even if he does that, you have
54:42
just murdered the intimacy and trust in your relationship. Ladies, Goodbye, he's
54:46
he's on his way out. I mean he may not actually be able to
54:50
physically leave you, but his soul and his heart is out the door.
54:53
Congratulations, you've destroyed your relationships. Unbelievable. I got a Rumble rant that
55:01
I wanted to read. I forgot to read it from before Nova Fan twenty
55:05
one gave us a dollar on Rumble and says feminist, we need men to
55:07
trust women twenty second century men not trusting them is how our grandfather survived the
55:14
twenty first century. Okay, thank you for that, Nova Fan. I
55:22
will say that some woman was talking about how I did this tweet where I
55:30
resent out that meme about microaggressions. The woman who did a while back,
55:35
some woman did a comic on a comic on microaggressions, right, and then
55:40
some wag sort of did a parody of her comic, and I sent out
55:45
the parody, and some woman commented on it and said, we're telling men
55:52
we don't want we don't want to have people pay, we won't want to
55:55
have people paying attention to us. We're just we're just drowning. And I'm
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like, well, first of all, and then they said nobody's listening.
56:05
I'm like, well, there's no hive mind to listen to you when you
56:09
appeal to men. But you'll be happy to note that ten percent of men
56:15
over the last two years, the number of men who are willing to engage
56:19
with women for any capacity, not just relationships or like hitting or a potential
56:23
date, that's any capacity, like going to them and saying, hey,
56:27
where where's the way, Hey, where's the bathroom? Right, has dropped
56:31
ten percent, ten percent in two years. It's pretty significant. I'm pretty
56:37
sure the bar meme has dropped that another ten percent. But you know,
56:42
let's keep doing this, let's keep doing it. Yeah, I'm sure this
56:46
is going to be incredibly beneficial in the future. Yeah, now she's sad
56:52
and she's gonna make herself a victim of her boyfriend's instinctive response to her abusive
56:58
behavior. Yeah, watch this space, go to go to the look at
57:02
the comments or trying to move on because we got like no, all right,
57:06
all right, so horrifying, like the yeah, they're all like I've
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I lived in I've been around bears. They're not as dangerous as man,
57:13
I've I'm I lived it. I know the comments. Your boyfriend is awful
57:16
because he didn't coowtow to your abusive behavior. Like like literally, ladies,
57:22
do you want like would you want to be in a relationship or the man
57:25
it just comes in with a huff and he's like, well, I saw
57:30
this tweet and it's said that, uh men, women are are worse than
57:36
snakes, And what do you say to that? And then and then he
57:39
expects you to go, yeah, of course, uh yeah, I'm worse
57:43
than a wild animal. I'm less moral than you, and you're total threat
57:46
to you because you're civil as people and you're better than me, Like is
57:50
that like what would you say about that? Like honestly, like a demand
57:57
for this woman. This man to subordinate himself morally to his partner and also
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to I don't know, use his empathy to empathize with how unempathetic his gender
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is. Okay, yeah, let's look at some memes. They're pretty funny.
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Well, I just have that one. Do you do know? There's
58:21
plenty more like if you if you hit that link, you will see a
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ton more. All right, no, no, we can. We can
58:29
expect first, So we have for those of you who are just listening,
58:32
we have a da a German shepherd or probably malwaw jumping off a cliff after
58:38
a eagle, and the malwaw is labeled women. The eagle is labeled insulting
58:45
men, and the cliff, like the cliff. The drop of the cliff
58:50
is labeled bears. It is like the start of a thread. Yeah,
58:57
I only see the one. I'm in the meme bunker. Yeah, keep
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going down, scroll down. Oh okay, yeah, they're in there.
59:06
Yeah yeah. Oh. And by the way, guys, I'll do the
59:08
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the Badger dot com slash just the tip. Okay, So the Ryan gosling
59:35
bear being chosen by the by the the AI girlfriend in in a Blade Runner.
59:43
Yeah, very adorable. These all like AI things or no, no,
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no, that's it, that's the DEVI well some of you, No,
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I've watched Blade Runner. I'm just looking at some of the other ones.
59:55
Yeah. A woman hugging the bear and the so cute and cuddly,
1:00:00
but the slightest, the slightest, I can't get it up and open just
1:00:07
a second, sorry a little bit, No sorry, okay, so just
1:00:15
a second. I got to open it up myself so I can read it.
1:00:17
And I have to find it. Our discord is gone. What are
1:00:20
you looking for? You want me to read the thing? It looks so
1:00:22
cute and cuddly, but the slightest thing can turn this beautiful creature into something
1:00:27
so dangerous and violent that the toughest of men could be killed or made for
1:00:30
life. Here you can see it cuddling a bear. Yeah it's a woman.
1:00:35
The woman cuddling a bear. Yeah, no, I've read that.
1:00:38
I kind of saw that coming. It was like there was a long throw,
1:00:44
I saw a wind up. I saw the wind up, and I
1:00:46
was like, oh, I know where this is going. Let me see
1:00:49
if I got another super I did get another super chat or super chow.
1:00:52
Rather, this is such dulcia like this this meme. Here is a woman
1:00:58
yelling into a man's ear. The point is we don't want to choose the
1:01:00
bear bros. So you need to look within yourself to figure out why I'm
1:01:04
making that choice. So, in other words, I'm creating this false dichotomy
1:01:08
and you need to I don't submit to my will. Like it's not really
1:01:15
about the fact that bears are actually more dangerous than men, because they actually
1:01:19
are more dangerous than men. It's about the fact that we're throwing ourselves on
1:01:23
this danger because you're so mean to us. So change how you're mean to
1:01:27
us and take responsibility for a genetic abnormality that causes men to ripe that you
1:01:35
probably don't have and never would do, but you need to take responsibility for
1:01:38
it because reasons. And if you don't, I'm going to dehumanize you.
1:01:43
Like good, Yeah, oh good. That's from Balder's Gate. The man
1:01:55
and the bear have a relationship. You know about that? Yeah, of
1:02:00
course I do. I can tell from that group. All right, I
1:02:07
get I get the I get the you get the gist. Yeah, I
1:02:10
get the gist. The theme of these memes. Yeah, I like the
1:02:15
one. I like the one from Star Wars. Yeah, Anakin says I
1:02:21
too, I too think women should pick the bear, and she says,
1:02:24
great, that's because you agree with us, right, Oh my god,
1:02:34
this is like the last forty percent of men willing to talk to women right
1:02:37
now. Nope, no, it's okay, you can choose the bear.
1:02:43
Okay, all right, I got another, sup super chow. Sure let
1:02:47
me see here, make sure I didn't. So this one is from anonymous
1:02:58
and they said, consider streaming via YouTube shorts. You'll get way more traffic.
1:03:01
I explore the streaming method. I've seen channels that normally get thirty views
1:03:06
during streaming jump to two hundred plus views and their subscriber count triple there are
1:03:10
tutorials and house to stream on shorts with stream labs and OBS. I jump
1:03:15
on this before YouTube nerves it. Well, we're not using we're not using
1:03:19
OBS. Well we are now, but we weren't going to so I didn't.
1:03:23
I didn't explore that yet. But thank you. But we could.
1:03:27
I know people have been trying to get us to do that. Yeah,
1:03:29
I know, but we wouldn't. We wouldn't be able to do that and
1:03:32
riverside at the same time, so we'd have to choose, well, yes,
1:03:37
we can do that, all right, son. The memes I think
1:03:45
so, I mean, I think we got the gist of it from this.
1:03:46
I mean, the meme crop from this particular cycle of women demonizing men
1:03:53
or feminists demonizing men. It's it's not bad, Like the meme crop isn't
1:03:59
bad. The shit, the shit fertilizes the memes, you know. Mm
1:04:02
hmm, oh man, you know what this does. I mean, I'm
1:04:06
laughing, but this, this actually really is sad because this is not it's
1:04:13
not helping anything about any of this. Yeah, and women just really want
1:04:17
this to be true, like they just want to be able, you know,
1:04:20
It's like they just want to be able. To make these claims and
1:04:25
have no one come forward and debunk anything. They just just accept it.
1:04:29
Just accept it. We're afraid of you. Accept it. That's what we
1:04:31
want. Apparently they want men to sympathize and empathize with them and say,
1:04:38
oh, I'm sorry you have this fear of men, And honestly, I
1:04:45
think it's maybe it's just like women need a man to sympathize with their general
1:04:53
fear of the universe. Yeah, I think so. They want men to
1:04:59
tell them, look, you're not crazy. The world is scary, but
1:05:01
men are just like, well, actually, let's look at this rationally.
1:05:04
But we're like, no, not like that. Well, what do women
1:05:09
expect? They're basically demonizing men. Like, honestly, ladies, if you
1:05:13
went up to your girlfriend and said, you know, I would rather choose
1:05:15
the bear instead of you, what do you think that would happen? Like,
1:05:19
seriously, do you understand how absolutely noxious that behavior is. So you're
1:05:26
going up to your girlfriend and you're saying, well, I would choose to
1:05:30
be in the woods with a bear instead of seeing you, and you're expecting
1:05:34
her to respond rationally or not. Well, of course men are responding or
1:05:40
trying to respond rationally, because that's what men do when you kick them in
1:05:43
the freaking proverbial nads as they try to rationalize what's going on. Mm hmmm.
1:05:48
They don't in need immediately jump into hey, you're actually hurting me when
1:05:53
you dehumanize me this way, right, But it's amazing to me that women
1:05:57
don't realize that that's what they're doing. Well, maybe why what am I
1:06:00
talking about? I guess the ones with the big shit eating grin probably realize
1:06:04
it. They probably are relishing it. But what do you expect. Do
1:06:10
you expect that's going to improve your relationship? You go up to a man
1:06:14
and say, yuh, I'm gonna dehumanize you. Now you think that's going
1:06:17
to improve your relationship with them? And then when they respond badly, you're
1:06:21
like, oh my god, you're one of them. Like it just feels
1:06:28
like these are these random ass waves, not random, but these periodic waves
1:06:31
where some dufis is like, hey, ladies, you could abuse your man
1:06:36
in a new way, and all the women are like, oh yeah,
1:06:40
yeah, that sounds really great. I'll go and abuse them in this way.
1:06:44
Oh shit, he responded badly. Oh he must be one of them.
1:06:47
Like this is somebody's being played for a fool. Here, someone is
1:06:51
really being played for a fool. And you know, maybe one day,
1:06:56
in like twenty years, this woman will regret the fact that she lost this
1:07:00
guy. She'll be like, you know, that was the one that got
1:07:02
away, And I screwed it all up with a stupid internet meme where I
1:07:08
basically was told by some random dude with a very very trained voice, surprisingly
1:07:14
like, I mean, did you notice that, Brian, His voice is
1:07:15
very trained. Yeah, that guy is a professional something or other. But
1:07:21
you know, oh, that's what I'm saying. Totally not it's random,
1:07:25
dude, Dude. The guy's totally a glowy. I'm convinced glowy. I
1:07:30
listened to this random dude who said, yeah, totally punch your boyfriend in
1:07:34
the nads metaphorically. It'll, you know, just see what she does.
1:07:39
And he reacted badly and ended the relationship. And I actually think that that
1:07:43
was the one, you know, And it's just like, why are you
1:07:47
doing this? Lady? Like, can you not realize that this is stupid?
1:07:54
When I say, would you do this to your girlfriends? Why would
1:07:58
you do it to the most intimate relationship in your life? You wouldn't do
1:08:01
it to your girlfriends. You wouldn't walk up to your girlfriend and say,
1:08:04
hey, I'd rather spend time with a bear than a you. Okay,
1:08:09
everybody knows what you're doing when you say something like that, everybody. But
1:08:12
somehow, if you do it to a man, it's something some switch in
1:08:15
your brain flicks off and you don't realize that what you're doing is nasty and
1:08:20
cruel and abusive. And then when he reacts badly, you think you put
1:08:25
it on him, And honestly, that wasn't really a bad reaction. That
1:08:29
was him trying to rationalize you. You abusing it. Like in this case,
1:08:33
the woman abuses him. He's trying to just use logic to get her
1:08:38
to see his point of view, and she cuts it off, right,
1:08:43
she cuts it off, And then he's upset because what he was trying to
1:08:47
do was say, don't talk about that, it hurts my feelings, right,
1:08:53
or maybe reconsider saying this because it hurts my feelings. And he was
1:08:57
doing it in a male way. But why would you do this at all?
1:09:00
It's like it's like there's some kind of mind out there who's like,
1:09:03
yeah, I know how women will respond to this, and I know how
1:09:06
men will respond to this, and I can totally fuck that up. I
1:09:11
can totally fuck up both groups because I can tell you that's how a man
1:09:15
would respond, Like when you are being abusive, he's like, well,
1:09:18
let's talk about this logically, because that's the way men are trained. They
1:09:24
aren't trained to go immediately to emotion because they need to control that. And
1:09:29
then when the logic didn't work, you got the emotion, you got the
1:09:31
anger, which is a defensive response to the pain that you caused him from
1:09:38
being abusive. Oh yeah, good lord, Well the aliens are manipulating us.
1:09:48
That's a joke. Maybe, Okay, I think all right, so
1:09:57
you should up huh yeah, I think we've beaten this into the ground.
1:10:00
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it and then you know, say the end. No, I think I
1:10:27
said what I wanted to say. I mean, I think that it's just
1:10:30
like, you know, it's a woman health check and also a slight reinforce,
1:10:35
like women's check. Women haven't been afraid of men enough lately. Let's
1:10:39
throw another, you know, a grenade into the relationship as wee men and
1:10:44
women and just like wait and see what happens, and we go, We'll
1:10:46
get We'll get the you know, the liberal women, the conservative We'll just
1:10:50
get all the women activated. Yeah, it's an invitation to think about how
1:10:55
it's an invitation to think about how awful a small minority objecting Jenette to the
1:11:00
abnormal men make women feel and then project that onto all men. Yes,
1:11:05
exactly, or they'll say too many men or whatever it is. But you
1:11:11
know that, I mean, that's that's like at the end of the day,
1:11:15
like if women don't like grows, fine, this is just gonna keep
1:11:18
happening over and over and over and men the reaction. Basically, they're just
1:11:23
gonna check out soft guy era. You know, that's it, Like they're
1:11:28
just gonna check out, and and that's just where we're gonna get the society
1:11:31
we deserve. Because women, you know, they they wanted to be liberated,
1:11:36
and they're so liberated they're terrified of every person other than themselves. So
1:11:42
that's all I that's all I got to say, internalized misogyny. They're also
1:11:45
terrified of themselves. Yeah, yeah, all right, So once again,
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1:12:00
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what we discussed on the show today. There's links to the various things that
1:12:13
we responded to in the description. I did get one more super child,
1:12:16
because of course I did. If this is for Richard Bierre for five bucks,
1:12:20
he says we need to look deeper behind the curtain to find out just
1:12:24
who the true puppet masters are. This didn't originate with a single person,
1:12:28
but rather from a meeting around a conference table. I suspect that the feline
1:12:31
overlords are intending to regain their power where they used to be worshiped as deities.
1:12:36
Thank you for that, yeah, appropriately obscure. No, he's talking
1:12:42
about like cats, I know, and it's cats. Yeah, but let
1:12:47
them have the world they deserve it. I think that if humans go the
1:12:53
way of the panda, so be it. I mean, I'm not happy
1:12:58
with it. But there seems to be somebody who's deeply invested in destroying the
1:13:02
relationship between men and women with this nonsense, and women keep biting. It's
1:13:08
like it's literally, hey, hey, ladies, come over here. I
1:13:12
got someone to sell you. This is how you can abuse your male partners
1:13:16
and boyfriends and husbands today. Go ahead, go do it. Go do
1:13:20
it. And if he responds in a way that a man, normal man
1:13:24
would, that means he's one of the awful ones, like oh, that's
1:13:29
basically what it is. Yeah yeah, But women. The thing is,
1:13:31
at the end of the day, women agree to it. They're like,
1:13:33
oh, yeah, we'll do that. Yeah yeah. So it's I mean,
1:13:36
I put I put it at there, I put it lay it at
1:13:39
there. I'm laying it at your feet. Ladies, you did this,
1:13:42
nobody else you need to stop. You need to doing this. Some sleezeball
1:13:45
comes by and says, hey, how do you considered abusing your man this
1:13:49
way? You ladies need to say, hey, no, no, okay,
1:13:58
all right anyway, like, share, subscribe, comment, hit develop
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