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- 0:01Speaker 1: If you would like to have us answer your questions.
- 0:04Speaker 1: If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or
- 0:07Speaker 1: a terrible throuffle.
- 0:09Speaker 2: Guess what, you've got decisions.
- 0:13Speaker 3: You've got decisions and do too.
- 0:17Speaker 1: All right, guys, we almost had more than a decision
- 0:21Speaker 1: after I tell you guys about my doctor's is it?
- 0:25Speaker 1: Because girl?
- 0:27Speaker 2: Okay, what happened there?
- 0:30Speaker 1: So y'all there's an STD on the market called m GEN.
- 0:39Speaker 2: Have you heard? Okay, No, I haven't.
- 0:43Speaker 1: M Gen is an STI that feels like a UTI
- 0:48Speaker 1: and most people have no symptoms, and the reason they
- 0:51Speaker 1: don't like to test for it is because I guess
- 0:54Speaker 1: it's a gut bacteria sometimes or it's like a healthy
- 0:57Speaker 1: bacteria that can live in your body, so it's very confusing.
- 1:02Speaker 1: Those are the guy I know. And I went right
- 1:04Speaker 1: after Europe because I was like, fuck, I knew I
- 1:08Speaker 1: got a UTI in a boat. She gives me a
- 1:11Speaker 1: full panel, does the whole thing. I saw my STD
- 1:17Speaker 1: screening with everything coming back undetected, and so I was like,
- 1:23Speaker 1: all right, I'll just take cystex or whatever for my
- 1:25Speaker 1: UTI because to nothing else. Doctor calls me beach, She's like, hey,
- 1:32Speaker 1: do you still have symptoms. I was like, no, I'm okay,
- 1:34Speaker 1: but I really did have them. And you're saying my
- 1:37Speaker 1: culture was fine, but I thought for uti you would
- 1:39Speaker 1: see something in the culture. She's like, normally we do.
- 1:42Speaker 1: Let's get you tested for mgen which.
- 1:45Speaker 3: By the way, I looked up is mico plasma genitalium.
- 1:50Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a and it has like four different types
- 1:53Speaker 1: of things that can be detected for. So I'm just like,
- 1:56Speaker 1: if my nigga gave me em gin, I'm gonna lose
- 2:00Speaker 1: whatever the fun that is. Gra get to the place
- 2:04Speaker 1: they give me a test. All I know is they
- 2:07Speaker 1: asked me for a swab and you're xample. I got
- 2:11Speaker 1: a phone call from CBS saying they had doxy cycling
- 2:15Speaker 1: in for me by my doctor, and.
- 2:18Speaker 2: I'm like, what the fuck.
- 2:20Speaker 1: So now it's between me, my nigga, and God because
- 2:24Speaker 1: I'm losing it, bitch. You know, of course obviously we
- 2:28Speaker 1: use cond them and all this shit with other parties.
- 2:29Speaker 1: I'm like, what the fuck And he's like, Yo, we've
- 2:32Speaker 1: been tested it before, Like I haven't had text with
- 2:37Speaker 1: anyone but but you, he'sot, so maybe you got it
- 2:39Speaker 1: from somewhere. And I'm like oh, Nigga, ain't about to
- 2:41Speaker 1: do this shit with me because we do it every
- 2:43Speaker 1: ninety days. He like, I really haven't slept with somebody
- 2:44Speaker 1: else in the next ninety days. Like I'm not lying
- 2:47Speaker 1: to you. I'm like, Gara fucking liar bah. I called
- 2:51Speaker 1: the place I also talk about this story happening in
- 2:54Speaker 1: one of my homegirls a few years ago. And this
- 2:57Speaker 1: is why I was mad.
- 2:58Speaker 2: I called them.
- 2:59Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, grip was called in for me. Can
- 3:01Speaker 1: I get a call back? They told me that they
- 3:03Speaker 1: had a virtual appointment with the doctor available for me
- 3:05Speaker 1: in four days. I said, listen, I have a wedding
- 3:07Speaker 1: to cancel. Okay, you better get somebody on the phone
- 3:11Speaker 1: with me. So they called me back RNE eight pm.
- 3:13Speaker 1: Because I went to doctor in La and the woman goes, yeah,
- 3:15Speaker 1: we saw blah blah blah detected in your urine. We
- 3:18Speaker 1: just sent in doxy cyclin. I was like, so you
- 3:22Speaker 1: so I have the MGEN thing. She was like, I
- 3:24Speaker 1: didn't say that. I said, well, yes, said you were
- 3:28Speaker 1: testing me for mgen. MGEN kind of shows up with whatever.
- 3:35Speaker 1: That's actually another test you have to do and pay
- 3:37Speaker 1: another one twenty five for I tested you for a UTI.
- 3:42Speaker 1: I was like, listen, girl, you literally send an email
- 3:48Speaker 1: saying lab results and the test said m GEN said,
- 3:52Speaker 1: I'm looking at it right now. I'm telling you it's
- 3:55Speaker 1: just a urinary tract infection. Basically, for another twenty four hours,
- 4:01Speaker 1: we was beef and bitch because I said, well, you
- 4:03Speaker 1: better send me to somewhere in New York so we
- 4:05Speaker 1: could double check this em gine bitch quest diagnostics. But
- 4:08Speaker 1: after twenty four hour turnaround, y'ere, I would love to
- 4:12Speaker 1: hear so embarried, so embarrass thinking we didn't gave some
- 4:16Speaker 1: shit back and forth. However, I wanted to tell everybody
- 4:20Speaker 1: about MGEN because I learned so much from the second
- 4:23Speaker 1: doctor that was great. Okay, Basically, this is a rampant
- 4:28Speaker 1: new STI that people come in with UTI symptoms.
- 4:33Speaker 3: Okay, yes, uscaus symptoms, and people with a penis is
- 4:38Speaker 3: burning or pain when you pee, watery or cloudy discharge,
- 4:42Speaker 3: itching or irritation, pain or swelling in the testicles, and
- 4:46Speaker 3: for vaginas it's unusual or abnormal vaginal discharge, pain or
- 4:51Speaker 3: discomfort during sex, bleeding after sex or between periods, and
- 4:56Speaker 3: lower belly or pelvic pain.
- 4:59Speaker 2: Right because I.
- 5:02Speaker 1: Had UTI symptoms and she said, my culture was good.
- 5:05Speaker 1: I guess that's why she told me. She was checking
- 5:07Speaker 1: for the engine.
- 5:08Speaker 2: And what I.
- 5:08Speaker 1: Learned, and this was something that I was like, Oh
- 5:10Speaker 1: my god, I hope everybody today hearing this can really
- 5:16Speaker 1: resonate with it. I've had vaginismus before, and I did
- 5:20Speaker 1: pelvic floor therapy for it from some sexual trauma I had.
- 5:24Speaker 1: I've talked about it on Horrible over the years, just
- 5:27Speaker 1: randomly you'll hear it. Basically, what she said was people
- 5:32Speaker 1: with vaginismus sometimes after sex, you can feel a discomfort
- 5:39Speaker 1: during your nation. Not to be confused with the UTI.
- 5:43Speaker 1: It could be your muscles tightening up or whatever. Also
- 5:47Speaker 1: with the UTI, depending on how much water you've had
- 5:50Speaker 1: or whatever vitamin you've taken that day, you could have
- 5:53Speaker 1: a false negative result. So when that woman said I'm
- 5:59Speaker 1: gonna give you a MGEN test, and it technically was
- 6:03Speaker 1: just the UTI test or whatever, I had thought, I
- 6:04Speaker 1: had an STD this whole time. She said, we are
- 6:07Speaker 1: pushing people towards MGEN. If that person had a UTI
- 6:13Speaker 1: medication and didn't work, or they don't have chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, triconosis,
- 6:18Speaker 1: and are still experiencing symptoms. And she said, and the
- 6:21Speaker 1: crazy thing about this MGEN, which is why I really
- 6:23Speaker 1: want a lot of people to opt in for this.
- 6:26Speaker 1: I heard it's free at Planned Parenthood. It wasn't free
- 6:28Speaker 1: at my Guido. This particular STD can be passed around
- 6:34Speaker 1: with partners for a very long time because it's not
- 6:37Speaker 1: commonly tested. It is not a UTI, because a UTI
- 6:41Speaker 1: is something that our body gives us on our own.
- 6:42Speaker 1: My body did that with its own pH balance when
- 6:45Speaker 1: I went swimming and was fucking around, and is very
- 6:47Speaker 1: common for me. However, MGEN is not going to go
- 6:51Speaker 1: away with a common medication. MGEN is also something that
- 6:56Speaker 1: when you receive it from a partner, they may be asymptomatic.
- 7:00Speaker 1: So a lot of women are experiencing symptoms for this,
- 7:04Speaker 1: and because their partner doesn't have anything, they just think
- 7:06Speaker 1: it's a blip. And she believes in the next forty
- 7:10Speaker 1: eight months it's going to be one of the most
- 7:13Speaker 1: prevalent STDs outside of Chlymytia and gonria, just because of
- 7:17Speaker 1: the fact that people aren't able to test for it
- 7:20Speaker 1: that easy. So yeah, I want all y'all hols to
- 7:24Speaker 1: know about engine. I remember when we learned about trick
- 7:26Speaker 1: and nosis. We brought that. Yeah, because back in the day,
- 7:30Speaker 1: remember when we all got tested, or when you and
- 7:31Speaker 1: I got tested, when we first started the show nine
- 7:33Speaker 1: years ago, trick was not something we were talking about.
- 7:36Speaker 1: Trick was not something doctors offered.
- 7:38Speaker 2: No, and it was something that a lot of people didn't.
- 7:41Speaker 3: It's normally the gonorrhea, chlamydia, HIV, and herbies. Those are
- 7:48Speaker 3: the four that people know, but there are so many
- 7:51Speaker 3: other STDs, and I think for women listening, one of
- 7:55Speaker 3: the most like prevalent reasons why you should get tested,
- 7:59Speaker 3: even if you think you trust your partner and all
- 8:02Speaker 3: these things, is if you're someone that's looking to procreate,
- 8:07Speaker 3: a lot of STDs.
- 8:08Speaker 2: Do cause problems.
- 8:11Speaker 3: With fertility if they treated for too long, and so
- 8:16Speaker 3: a lot of these two don't always have symptoms. You
- 8:19Speaker 3: can be asymptomatic. So just if you're someone looking for
- 8:23Speaker 3: family planning, definitely, like just getting tested every three months
- 8:29Speaker 3: is smart just for your own sense of peace.
- 8:34Speaker 1: And it's also causes infertility in men too, Like it's
- 8:38Speaker 1: not even trust us, Like that's what STDs can do.
- 8:41Speaker 1: And we always talk about women because we're you know,
- 8:44Speaker 1: child bearing, I get it, but it's really everybody, like
- 8:48Speaker 1: the sperm got to be healthy to my niggas because
- 8:50Speaker 1: you got it baby coming out when I on the
- 8:52Speaker 1: East coast, we're on the West coast. It's because Joe
- 8:54Speaker 1: I set them up agid, which I'm telling you, the
- 8:57Speaker 1: fact that there's new breeds of best t like all
- 9:01Speaker 1: this different shit.
- 9:02Speaker 2: All the time, they said, uh, I don't know.
- 9:04Speaker 3: Didn't they say you could get chlamytia in your throat
- 9:06Speaker 3: now or some or goneriea on your tongue.
- 9:08Speaker 2: There's some shit now you could get all that shit
- 9:10Speaker 2: in your mouth now?
- 9:11Speaker 1: No, I mean yeah, I mean I guess it's always
- 9:13Speaker 1: existed and we're just not taking it serious. But the
- 9:16Speaker 1: thing that also kind of freaked me out, so like.
- 9:18Speaker 2: I mean, I'm the only sucking dig with a kind
- 9:20Speaker 2: of on it.
- 9:20Speaker 1: But after we got tested, the main conversation we had,
- 9:24Speaker 1: because you know, we'll exchange results with partners, he was like,
- 9:29Speaker 1: damn nigga, Like, now we got to ask a bitch
- 9:32Speaker 1: for this shit, because think about the tests we normally
- 9:35Speaker 1: see chlymydia, guyrina, got chlamydia, gonneri and HIV are normally
- 9:40Speaker 1: like the things I've seen or we've exchanged the most
- 9:44Speaker 1: and he's like, so, now what and mind you, I'm well,
- 9:48Speaker 1: I mean, my partner uses condoms with every other person
- 9:50Speaker 1: but me, but I'm still having sex with women, you
- 9:53Speaker 1: know what I mean with him, And so when we're
- 9:55Speaker 1: all in that scenario, we're exchanging results. But yeah, it's
- 10:00Speaker 1: weird because he's like, if this is really a new
- 10:04Speaker 1: fucking thing, much like trick, we don't see on results
- 10:07Speaker 1: too often. And that's just the truth, by the way,
- 10:10Speaker 1: And this is all up to your comfortability lifestyle parties.
- 10:16Speaker 1: I would even say on porn sets, I know there's
- 10:19Speaker 1: like a big three HIV is of course the one
- 10:21Speaker 1: on a porn set. They're like, right, you know, So really,
- 10:25Speaker 1: when you're exchanging it results with anybody, y'all. If you
- 10:29Speaker 1: want to know more or you want them to get
- 10:30Speaker 1: tested for more, if you guys are close, just just
- 10:33Speaker 1: mention it to them. Because I really just shared that
- 10:35Speaker 1: with some friends. This happened a week ago. I shared
- 10:37Speaker 1: it with some friends, like, oh my god, y'all, like please,
- 10:40Speaker 1: Like the woman basically told me until she had learned
- 10:43Speaker 1: about it, and she'd been a guy knowing an ob
- 10:45Speaker 1: for fifteen years. She's like, girl, I had women coming
- 10:48Speaker 1: in here that we're giving me UTI symptoms and we
- 10:51Speaker 1: would just send them homes stuff. It wouldn't be fixed.
- 10:52Speaker 1: And we're like, okay, are y'all wiping front to back?
- 10:54Speaker 1: Like talking to grown ass women like that thinking they
- 10:56Speaker 1: had their own shit fucked up, because how the fuck.
- 10:59Speaker 2: Would they know?
- 11:00Speaker 1: And it's not even covered by regular insurance all the way,
- 11:04Speaker 1: it has a small I think I added on another
- 11:06Speaker 1: seventy five to do the test, but yeah.
- 11:09Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta let them know to do the tests.
- 11:11Speaker 4: And by the way, this week we actually have a
- 11:21Speaker 4: story to share with you guys of a girl who said.
- 11:26Speaker 3: Bitch my birthday weekend. This is what happened. But before
- 11:31Speaker 3: we get there, I do want to tell you, if
- 11:33Speaker 3: you are listening to this right now, take your ass
- 11:37Speaker 3: on over to Adore amore rite dot com. This weekend
- 11:44Speaker 3: I will be at the Adore a More Romance Festival
- 11:47Speaker 3: with tempest X talking about our New York Times bestseller
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- 11:56Speaker 3: August fifteenth, this Saturday, if you haven't yet, get know
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- 12:04Speaker 3: at the Andrew Friedman Home at eleven twenty five Grand Concourse.
- 12:09Speaker 2: Again.
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- 12:18Speaker 1: I'm sad I can be there, y'all. I had well,
- 12:22Speaker 1: I told men he was for a wedding a few
- 12:25Speaker 1: months ago, and I would actually be in Atlanta when
- 12:28Speaker 1: they're there, which really sucks because I've been wanting to
- 12:30Speaker 1: do that festival for with one of our listeners who's
- 12:32Speaker 1: reached out to us over the last two years talking
- 12:35Speaker 1: about having us there. So yeah, be sad that I
- 12:38Speaker 1: can't go. However, tag me and picks like I was there,
- 12:42Speaker 1: find a band.
- 12:44Speaker 3: If you had the book already too, bring it and
- 12:46Speaker 3: bitch I'll sign it.
- 12:47Speaker 2: Okay.
- 12:49Speaker 3: Okay, so let's get into a good old nasty birthday.
- 12:54Speaker 3: Okay to follow up our STD education segment with a
- 13:00Speaker 3: good old nasty birthday here we got Okay, Hey, Mandy
- 13:04Speaker 3: and Weezy, Sorry in advance, this is kind of long,
- 13:07Speaker 3: so if you are at your desk, just go ahead and.
- 13:10Speaker 2: Be ready to be a little moist. Here we go.
- 13:14Speaker 3: I just wanted to share my birthday week story because
- 13:17Speaker 3: it's too good not to share. I took a page
- 13:20Speaker 3: out of Mandy's book and involved my bestie, so boom bitch.
- 13:25Speaker 2: By the way, I ain't involved.
- 13:27Speaker 3: I've been casually seeing this guy I met off friends whoop,
- 13:35Speaker 3: we'll call him Saints, and we've only fucked one time
- 13:39Speaker 3: up until this point. So for my birthday weekend, my
- 13:43Speaker 3: homegirl and I went to a club and Saint was
- 13:46Speaker 3: going to be outside too with his boys, so I
- 13:48Speaker 3: told him we needed to link. He ended up not
- 13:51Speaker 3: linking outside, but he came over after and me and
- 13:55Speaker 3: my homegirl were the perfect amount of tipsy. He comes
- 13:59Speaker 3: over with a bottle of tequila, pours up some shots
- 14:03Speaker 3: I knew, but tell him to open up and I
- 14:07Speaker 3: pour mine in his mouth from mommy mouth what Saint
- 14:13Speaker 3: start making out. I'm sitting on the back of my
- 14:16Speaker 3: couch and he's in between my legs and it's a good,
- 14:20Speaker 3: nasty makeout. He's hard at this point and comes to
- 14:24Speaker 3: sit down in between me and my homegirl. I start
- 14:28Speaker 3: rubbing on his dick. I take it out and start
- 14:31Speaker 3: sucking it. My friend gets her things and starts to
- 14:34Speaker 3: head upstairs.
- 14:35Speaker 2: I'm like you don't want some of this friend?
- 14:38Speaker 3: Oh, he's acting shy like no, I'm okay, y'all got it.
- 14:44Speaker 2: I insist and say, come get some. It's so good.
- 14:49Speaker 3: She starts jerking him off while I'm still sucking, but
- 14:52Speaker 3: laughs and goes upstairs.
- 14:55Speaker 2: Me and Saint still going.
- 14:56Speaker 3: She comes back down, though, and starts sucking his dick,
- 15:00Speaker 3: and I'm talking about going to town.
- 15:05Speaker 2: He's standing at this point.
- 15:06Speaker 3: My friend is bent over sucking, and I'm on my
- 15:09Speaker 3: knees looking up at him and sucking his balls. At
- 15:13Speaker 3: this point, you could cut Diamond with his dick, that's
- 15:17Speaker 3: how hard he was.
- 15:19Speaker 2: Just moaning and grinny.
- 15:23Speaker 3: We moved back to the couch and my friend gets
- 15:25Speaker 3: her pussy devoured them. She's fucked first and she's taking
- 15:30Speaker 3: it so good. I'm holding her legs back so he
- 15:34Speaker 3: can go even deeper. Satan is kissing me so passionately
- 15:39Speaker 3: while fucking her, and he tells me to go get
- 15:41Speaker 3: my toy.
- 15:43Speaker 2: I run to go get it.
- 15:44Speaker 3: Come back, and he's looking at me, whispering in his low,
- 15:48Speaker 3: deep sexy.
- 15:49Speaker 2: Voice, you see me fucking your friend, baby me?
- 15:55Speaker 3: Yes, daddy, I put my rose on my clip, grab
- 15:59Speaker 3: my friend's hand and put her fingers in my pussy.
- 16:03Speaker 2: Oh, I say, I'm in bliss. Now it's my turn.
- 16:09Speaker 3: Saint devours my pussy too, like the man is a
- 16:12Speaker 3: true head Hannah. Then he's fucking me missionary while making
- 16:18Speaker 3: out with her at this point, talking extra dirty in
- 16:21Speaker 3: between kisses, turns me around and starts drilling my pussy
- 16:25Speaker 3: from the back. At this point, I don't know what's
- 16:29Speaker 3: happening between.
- 16:30Speaker 2: Me, but everyone's moaning while.
- 16:33Speaker 3: My five finger necklace playlist is carrying the moment. After that,
- 16:40Speaker 3: my friend is like, okay, y'all go play. So Saint
- 16:43Speaker 3: and I take it upstairs and he eats my pussy
- 16:46Speaker 3: while fingering me and playing with my titties for like
- 16:49Speaker 3: thirty minutes. We fuck again, but that was our last condom.
- 16:56Speaker 3: He tries to leave, but I was starving for more.
- 17:00Speaker 3: Go get more, cops. He leaves and takes forever. So
- 17:04Speaker 3: I ended up falling asleep. But I turn over midsleep
- 17:08Speaker 3: and he was laying next to me, cuddled up.
- 17:11Speaker 2: It was so sweet.
- 17:13Speaker 3: All in all, we were all drained by the end
- 17:16Speaker 3: of the night. Now, my friend and I refer to
- 17:19Speaker 3: that night as trace lay Chase.
- 17:22Speaker 2: I love y'all.
- 17:24Speaker 3: Hope y'all enjoyed the debauchery. You will, of course stay
- 17:28Speaker 3: anonymous and if you care. She did share her alight g.
- 17:35Speaker 2: But yeah she did.
- 17:36Speaker 1: Let me go because bitch, I want to see the
- 17:38Speaker 1: miracle that is.
- 17:40Speaker 3: I doubt she posted him. She said, they only posted
- 17:42Speaker 3: one night before.
- 17:43Speaker 1: What you think. I'm not about to DM her, bitch
- 17:45Speaker 1: showing me. Did niggat show your friend?
- 17:46Speaker 2: Oh my goodness. You know need.
- 17:48Speaker 1: People, by the way, and this is just for everybody
- 17:50Speaker 1: to know. By the way, this is random btst because
- 17:55Speaker 1: everybody know that I love to see what niggas look like.
- 18:00Speaker 1: They'll DM me Mandy and be like, hey, weezie, I
- 18:02Speaker 1: was the update to Speed. I was the YGD hold on,
- 18:05Speaker 1: let me see. Oh oh, sometimes you write each other.
- 18:09Speaker 2: Damn.
- 18:09Speaker 1: She been listening to us since twenty nineteen. Hey girl,
- 18:13Speaker 1: me and Mandy recording right now live. I love the story,
- 18:16Speaker 1: like I said, because you love your IRG. I'm just
- 18:18Speaker 1: going to see what the digga looks like, So send
- 18:20Speaker 1: me saying send me the homegirl. What's the t I
- 18:23Speaker 1: need an app?
- 18:26Speaker 2: Well, guys, if y'all.
- 18:28Speaker 3: Have a debaucherous story, you also want to share, make
- 18:33Speaker 3: sure you send it to decisions pod at gmail dot com.
- 18:38Speaker 3: Or if you have any sort of dilemma, any sort
- 18:42Speaker 3: of thing you just don't know what decision to make,
- 18:44Speaker 3: you got decisions, send that over as well to decisions
- 18:48Speaker 3: pod at.
- 18:49Speaker 2: Gmail dot com. Hope you enjoyed this.
- 18:52Speaker 3: Hope you you know, did not have the children in
- 18:56Speaker 3: the car, and if you listen to it at work,
- 18:58Speaker 3: hopefully you had them headphones and go wipe that pussy
- 19:02Speaker 3: and go wipe and y'all let me just describe her
- 19:05Speaker 3: really now, she's got a really beautiful dark skin, nice
- 19:09Speaker 3: fucking titties, nice legs, body shape.
- 19:13Speaker 2: Right guy, I'm just
- 19:17Speaker 3: Like, thank y'all fortune to get to another You got decisions,
- 19:20Speaker 3: were gonna holler up, bab