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New Dirty Little Secret: “He Lies to Everyone Just to Love Her" · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off your chest. Commis you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the Dirty Little Secret.
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  Speaker 1: It makes one or two point nine Dirty Little Secret.
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  Speaker 1: If you got one, you let us know. Okay, it's
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  Speaker 1: bail like a kid can slow pants producer pooh, confess
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  Speaker 1: with us. Okay, no matter when it is, even if
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  Speaker 1: we're not doing Dirty Little Secret, you got one, call
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  Speaker 1: us or at Billy on the radio on Instagram. What's up? Well?
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  Speaker 2: This might sound a little messed up, but I tell
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  Speaker 2: everybody I broke up with my girlfriend. You know, from
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  Speaker 2: my friends and my co workers, you know, family members,
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  Speaker 2: you know who know her.
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  Speaker 1: You broke up with. Do you say that you broke
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  Speaker 1: up with her?
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  Speaker 2: I do?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't.
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  Speaker 2: Just recently, I didn't. I mean, you know, I just
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  Speaker 2: basically told him it was too toxic, and then they're
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  Speaker 2: all happy. I'm out of it, But I'm not really out.
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  Speaker 1: Of it really? Why do that? Why? Why?
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  Speaker 2: Well, she's a little bit of a wild card. I
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  Speaker 2: mean she's cussed out my mom. She's not off of
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  Speaker 2: my sister. Yeah, she's gotten in fights with my friends verbally,
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  Speaker 2: you know, not physically.
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  Speaker 1: Gee, I know she sounds great. Did did she d Billy?
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  Speaker 1: I'd have to ask her, okay, so wow, So she
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  Speaker 1: cusses out your she cussed out your mom, your friends
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  Speaker 1: got into your sister.
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  Speaker 2: And part of it, I think is my fault in
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  Speaker 2: a way, because every time something like you know happened,
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  Speaker 2: I would vent about you know, our fights and how
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  Speaker 2: bad it is, you know, and so everything they see
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  Speaker 2: is like all the worst stuff, you know, you know,
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  Speaker 2: but you know, then the crazy part is she did once,
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  Speaker 2: you know, put her hands on me, you know, and uh,
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  Speaker 2: and like she like what, she gets mad. Sometimes she
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  Speaker 2: throws things, she hits, you know, and you know it
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  Speaker 2: was bad enough. One time she actually got arrested for all.
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  Speaker 1: Lence real okay, now this is not now, this is
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  Speaker 1: we're laughing about it. But then it crosses the line
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  Speaker 1: where because like, okay, this is not funny because yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know it just because you're a man, it should
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  Speaker 1: not be okay, it's never okay for anybody to hit
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  Speaker 1: anybody in the hands on each other. But this happens
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  Speaker 1: more than I think some guys would like to admit
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  Speaker 1: in relationships. So she went to jail.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah overnight, you know, and uh, you know, but I
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  Speaker 2: took her back, and everyone thought I was crazy doing it,
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  Speaker 2: So nobody trusts her, you know, they don't respect her,
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  Speaker 2: and they don't forgive her. So now I'm just pretending
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  Speaker 2: I'm single because it's easier, you know, So I don't
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  Speaker 2: really post anything on social media that don't catch on
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  Speaker 2: and don't bring her around, and you know, so I
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  Speaker 2: don't know, I mean, to me, it just seems, you know,
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  Speaker 2: like that be'st of the solutions because I love her,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you know, yeah, but you know, it's easy
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  Speaker 2: to say we're done, but you know, I still do
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  Speaker 2: like all her good qualities when she's not you know,
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  Speaker 2: going off a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, but let me ask you this is think about
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  Speaker 1: all this because I have been in some I've been
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  Speaker 1: in the past in some toxic relationships. Right is this
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  Speaker 1: worth it?
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  Speaker 2: Right? I mean right now I think so, you know,
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  Speaker 2: but I just, you know, I'm tired of hearing from
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  Speaker 2: everybody else like to get out of it, and how
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  Speaker 2: terrible she is. So it's just easier to pretend, you know,
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  Speaker 2: with her.
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  Speaker 1: And and I feel for you because you said something
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  Speaker 1: earlier that really truly reminds me of not my last relationship.
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  Speaker 1: I want to make that clearer. But a relationship I
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  Speaker 1: had in the past where I would say things like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I shouldn't just tell everybody our business,
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  Speaker 1: and I would make excuses for us. I'm not saying
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  Speaker 1: I was perfect in the relationship. I would make excuses
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  Speaker 1: for us. I'd be like, well, they don't people didn't
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  Speaker 1: need to know everything. But the truth of the matter
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  Speaker 1: was we were toxic. So normal people don't have those
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  Speaker 1: things to say at all. Right, So that's normal relationships
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  Speaker 1: that are happy and safe in a good place, and
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  Speaker 1: they don't. You don't have these crazy stories like she
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  Speaker 1: went off on my sister and my mom and then
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  Speaker 1: hit me. You wouldn't have those things to say if
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  Speaker 1: it was healthy. And I'm not saying it can't get there,
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  Speaker 1: but I think this is a little more serious than
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  Speaker 1: you're You're playing into it, and I get it, but
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  Speaker 1: if you're lying to your friends and your family, I
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  Speaker 1: just don't know if that goes anywhere that it's good. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, we have our ups and downs, and I
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  Speaker 2: just feel like focus too much on the negative, and
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  Speaker 2: so I'm going to give it a shot and see
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  Speaker 2: what happens, but not tell anybody.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, take care of yourself, and that's not acceptable.
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  Speaker 1: She's not allowed to.
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  Speaker 2: I hate for you to be in a relationship for
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  Speaker 2: like how long like this, like eventually you can't just
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  Speaker 2: not bring her around for years, so you won't tell me. Literally.
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  Speaker 1: I know people who are in relationships where their families
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  Speaker 1: just don't talk to their wives or girlfriend or husband.
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  Speaker 1: And family is so important, you know, there's only I
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  Speaker 1: have a small family, so family is important. If I
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  Speaker 1: if they don't get along, that's that's a major problem. Yeah, well,
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  Speaker 1: good luck, and I hope it works out, and I
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  Speaker 1: do hope she changes and it becomes healthier and maybe,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe those relationships can be healed. But
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  Speaker 1: in the meantime, make sure that she's not abusing you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well, thank you guy,