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- 0:02If you notice something a little bit different, if you've been watching the podcast up to this point, if you've been listening to it, then you don't know a difference.
- 0:09But if you notice anything as you're watching this, the difference between Bradley and I and maybe what you saw just a minute ago.
- 0:16We had some technical difficulties.
- 0:19Some of the audio was starting to go out.
- 0:20So I asked uh Bradley to come back because we didn't get to finish recording the episode.
- 0:25So here we are.
- 0:26This is part two, if you will, but it's just going to be it's just blended with the original recording.
- 0:31I just wanted to make everybody aware.
- 0:33It's like, wow, this looks a little different.
- 0:36So without further ado, though, we're going to roll right into the rest of the questions.
- 0:39I wanted to address the elephant in the video, if you will.
- 0:45We're quick change artists, yes.
- 0:48right, that's right.
- 0:50Well, Bradley, we've had a great conversation at this point.
- 0:53uh You've shared a whole bunch and thank you for that.
- 0:56So uh what I'd like to know is in the season where everything did fell apart, did fall apart, how did your understanding of God change?
- 1:05Not just intellectually, but relationally?
- 1:10you know, you are very good at asking questions.
- 1:13like those questions because they're not surface easy questions.
- 1:17And so that's, that's a talent to be able to go deeper than the average.
- 1:23So nice work.
- 1:24The, it's interesting because in, in the process of building the companies that I had before, uh, I always believe that I was serving God and loving God and doing it for his
- 1:36kingdom and his glory.
- 1:38And, and, and, know, truthfully, I would get up and I'd speak to a group or whatever the case is, is, and I would, I would even say that.
- 1:49And, um, what's, what's interesting is when everything fell apart, I started looking at God as somebody that really couldn't stand me.
- 2:00mean, it was like, it was like, uh, everything I tried, he was punishing me for something.
- 2:06And for the life of me, had no idea what he would be punishing me for.
- 2:11And I think I might have mentioned earlier that there was a time where it just all fell apart on me.
- 2:17I was sitting in my car on the side of a road after something else fall apart.
- 2:22And I was just banging on my steering wheel saying, God, why do you hate me so much?
- 2:27Why is it that you're treating me like I am the worst person on this planet?
- 2:34Everything I touch.
- 2:36used to work and now nothing I touch will work.
- 2:39And I just fell apart.
- 2:42As I went through my journey of rebuilding, I started realizing how much he really does love me.
- 2:51And I found that in his word.
- 2:53You know, when you read his word, you start reading it like, okay, this is for everybody else, but it's not for me.
- 3:01And when you switch it around to realize,
- 3:04Every single one of these words he would have written down for me.
- 3:08And he gave that to me as a loving gift to say, Brad, I do love you.
- 3:16And then I was able to put together in much Bible study to realize the enemy has dominion over this earth.
- 3:26And that happened when Adam and Eve ate of the fruit and
- 3:34and the enemy was able to take dominion over the world.
- 3:40And, you know, when we look at what happened when Jesus came and he died on the cross and gave us access to a in-depth relationship with him, um if we believe in him, when he did
- 3:55that, he took the keys to the kingdom.
- 3:58And he even went and...
- 4:02battled the enemy to get the keys of the kingdom.
- 4:05And it allows us access to his kingdom.
- 4:08It allows us access to pray and hear what he has to say and to have that in-depth relationship.
- 4:15But the enemy still has dominion over this earth.
- 4:19And that's why he gives us the armor of God to be able to walk with the sword of the spirit and the, you know.
- 4:28all the pieces of the armor to be able to allow us to walk in this world that the enemy has dominion over and be strong and be able to hear and walk the way God wants us to walk.
- 4:40And, you know, he's sovereign, which means he can work whenever we ask him to, um but he's not going to interfere in that.
- 4:47So when I was putting this all together, I started realizing God's not doing all this to me.
- 4:53um Now, he knows it's happening.
- 4:55He's understanding it's happening.
- 4:58And all he wants me to do is go to him and ask him, how can I walk this out in a way that brings glory to you and be able to walk through this mess and get back onto a place of
- 5:13where he wants me to be.
- 5:15And that is that place of peace and that place of joy that he says the kingdom really is.
- 5:20And so when I started realizing how much he really does love me and how he is
- 5:26orchestrating it to help me get through this mess.
- 5:30Everything started to change and I started being able to pray and abide.
- 5:36In John 15 it says, in me and I in you.
- 5:39And it's where we're to connect our branch to the vine of Jesus and allow the sap or the Holy Spirit to flow through us and understand and hear what he has to say to walk through
- 5:51this process.
- 5:52m
- 5:54It was quite a healing journey to just soak in the Word and see what He has to say about me.
- 5:59um You know, this is spectacular in my mind.
- 6:03um You asked, I'm going to just keep sharing, but this is spectacular.
- 6:10In Revelations, He says, we are kings and priests.
- 6:15He also says, we're His children.
- 6:17And if we're His children and you think about your children or
- 6:21uh what your children who your children would be if you don't have children but we're his children and and we're not childlike we're we're his kings and his priest because he is
- 6:34the king of kings when he is the king of kings and we're his kings we need to operate like kings we need to operate with the authority that he has given us to be able to walk
- 6:45through this land that the enemy has dominion over we need to walk through this land
- 6:51realizing that we are a king under his leadership.
- 6:55In addition to that, we're priests, which means that we can even have the authority in the priesthood that we can bless others and we can help others and we can be those priests
- 7:07that be able to represent Christ in a way that is nourishing to all those that are not quite kings yet.
- 7:14And they need to understand that relationship that they can have with the
- 7:20King of all kings.
- 7:21And so it took a while to really get that into place in my spirit.
- 7:28But when you realize who he's placed us as, it gives us a lot of authority to be able to walk in peace and joy and love in a way that I've never been able to do without the word.
- 7:43So much that I kind of want to go in all kinds of different directions with what you just said.
- 7:48But one of things that comes to mind first and foremost is, because we actually talked about this at church the other day, is that some people will go around saying, God will
- 7:59not give you more than you can handle.
- 8:01That's not true.
- 8:03Right?
- 8:04God will allow and...
- 8:07with stuff that you can't handle for the purpose of you going to him because when it comes more than you can bear, you know who you need to go to.
- 8:17Do you feel like that kind of relates to your story a little bit?
- 8:21Oh, completely.
- 8:24I think number one, he's not the one giving it to us.
- 8:28So, you know, that's what a little mental twist is.
- 8:35of course, he will allow it because he's sovereign.
- 8:38He's over and he wants everyone to be responsible for our own decisions and our own choices.
- 8:44But he's not giving it to us.
- 8:46Just like in Job, ah you know, the enemy had to to God and get permission.
- 8:51He didn't do it.
- 8:53God didn't do it.
- 8:53The enemy did it.
- 8:56So when we understand that, we say, okay, well, the truth is we should never be walking around doing anything in our own power and strength.
- 9:06um That should not be a thing that we think is a smart idea.
- 9:11We should always be walking around um asking him step by step.
- 9:17said in Psalms that he's the light to our feet.
- 9:22not the spotlight down the path.
- 9:23He's showing us what step we're supposed to take, Nast.
- 9:27He's not saying that's the direction I want you to go.
- 9:30And so whatever comes up, whether it's good or bad or neutral, we should be asking, uh what step would you like us to go?
- 9:41And I find myself intentionally being a little silly about that, where if I'm getting in the car and driving to uh my office or someplace, I just...
- 9:51Say, God, show me, do you want me to go the normal way?
- 9:54And I don't never hear anything, but my intention is to remind me that I don't want to get into routine.
- 10:03I want to allow God to have the freedom to redirect, if that makes sense.
- 10:09Yeah, I also kind of did the same thing in some of the what people might figure my new to little things I asked for kind of direction in right because it's big or small he's there
- 10:24and it's just funny because I was just uh sharing with someone else earlier today that my day yesterday
- 10:31oh I was not very, I spent time, I spent time with God, I'll put that in quotation marks, because I did a hurry prayer, I did a quick Bible study, right?
- 10:40My mind was on, let me get through this, not like, let me spend time with God.
- 10:45My day did not go well, right?
- 10:49oh I seemed to run into every, everything that seemed like a quick thing that would, quick to do, just fell apart.
- 10:57So what I do today?
- 10:59oh I spent more intentional time with God.
- 11:02Right?
- 11:02And you know what?
- 11:03My day has gone so much better today.
- 11:06It's just...
- 11:07uh I don't know really how that relates, but it made me think of that.
- 11:13Well, it is very true that spending time with him, and what I find fascinating is if my target or goal is to be with him, he is the Prince of Peace.
- 11:32He is the one that will bring peace and joy into my life.
- 11:38It's a gift that he gives.
- 11:41If I'm not with him,
- 11:42If I am preoccupied in another thing and I'm not even walking in the Spirit or I'm not connected with Him, I am giving up that gift for that temporary period of time of that joy
- 11:58and that peace.
- 11:59And from my perspective, if I'm walking in peace and joy, I know that I can trust what I'm hearing in the Spirit speak to me.
- 12:09If I'm not in peace, if I'm angry at somebody or I'm not forgiving something that somebody did to me, I better not trust anything that I'm thinking about because that is, it's not
- 12:21something that um is necessarily coming from the Father if I'm not obeying the basic principles of life and that is forgiving those that have wronged me or uh being, you know,
- 12:38not being
- 12:39full of anger or whatever those cases, those are the basic things that we need to understand that we need to work on and maintain that closeness and that relationship with
- 12:48God.
- 12:49But when we're in that spot, we can trust that he's leading us step by step and we can understand that.
- 12:56And believe me, I know the difference.
- 12:59When everything was falling apart on me, I lived in an immense level of bitterness and anger.
- 13:04uh
- 13:07I wouldn't have mind seeing my enemies die.
- 13:09I probably would have gone to funerals and laughed based on where I was at in my spirit at that time.
- 13:16But God allowed me and taught me how to forgive so that I was able to release the anger that I was holding against so many people and let God work through those situations in a
- 13:30way that God's glorified and I have nothing to do with, which is wonderful.
- 13:36Yeah, I think this is pivotal and I kind of want to state.
- 13:40here for a moment because I really want to clarify because this is what I believe.
- 13:46believe once you're saved, you're always saved.
- 13:49Your salvation is never in doubt, but your relationship can be fractured with God based on your lack of obedience.
- 13:57And it's kind of like sounds like you're saying the same thing.
- 14:01Like if you're not willing to forgive, if you're not willing to do the things that God has called us to do.
- 14:09the relationship gets strained a little bit.
- 14:12I completely agree.
- 14:14He calls us to look at him as our Lord and Savior.
- 14:18And when you become saved, you are saved.
- 14:25Your spirit is alive.
- 14:27Because when Adam and Eve ate of the fruit, they killed their spirit.
- 14:30That's what God was saying is that when you eat of this fruit, you will surely die.
- 14:35Now their bodies didn't die, but we're made up of three.
- 14:39We're made up of our
- 14:41body, soul, and our spirit.
- 14:43And our spirit died in that instant, which left us with our soul and our body.
- 14:49And when we're born again, our spirit becomes alive again.
- 14:53And when our spirit becomes alive again, that's what's connected to the kingdom.
- 14:58And our soul, and that's what the Bible is all about, there's so much about how do you make your choices?
- 15:07How do you choose not to sin?
- 15:09How do you
- 15:12Forgive, how do you do all the things that he wants us to do because he knows that it will give us a much greater life.
- 15:19That's our spirit, our mind will and our emotions.
- 15:23And our spirit, if our spirit is aligned to the flesh or aligned to our body, we give ourselves a much more difficult life because we can't hear the Holy Spirit guiding us
- 15:36through the steps of difficulty that the enemy keeps throwing our way.
- 15:40But if we align our spirit with our soul, our mind, will and our emotion to our spirit, and we're able to hear uh God's wisdom and how do we walk through that, um we have a much
- 15:55greater life.
- 15:55We live a life of much more abundance.
- 15:57And I'm not talking about just financial abundance.
- 16:01I'm talking about the real abundance of peace and joy and of course finances as well.
- 16:08If we understand that that's the way, that's the process that's really happening, we're so much more motivated to be able to say, I want to obey what scripture says.
- 16:18I don't want to live in sin because that is aligning myself to my flesh.
- 16:24And I get stuck making a lot more mistakes.
- 16:27But if I align myself to my spirit, I can, when I choose not to be sinning, or if I choose to forgive and I choose...
- 16:35to do those things, I can stay in that peace and my life goes so much better.
- 16:42oh I want to touch on abundance.
- 16:45Every time you say something, I'm just firing on all cylinders over here.
- 16:52You had mentioned abundance, and yes, I really think prioritize, right?
- 16:57There are different things of abundance that you should seek.
- 17:00The first one being that joy, that peace with the Father, right?
- 17:04If that's your first and foremost...
- 17:06uh
- 17:08know, desire among all things.
- 17:11I think the other things just kind of come along with it, right?
- 17:14As long as you don't get your priorities out of whack is basically where I'm getting at.
- 17:18That's exactly right.
- 17:19Romans 14 says, the kingdom of God is righteousness, peace and joy.
- 17:25And if you understand what that really is doing is that saying, your righteousness is not anything that will get you to the kingdom.
- 17:35You cannot live righteous to be able to get there.
- 17:38It has to be a gift from Jesus himself that says, here is my righteousness.
- 17:44and it now becomes yours.
- 17:46It's a gift that he gives us and we have his righteousness which allows us to be in the kingdom and the kingdom is righteousness, peace and joy.
- 17:55And so his righteousness allows us to live in that peace.
- 18:00And it's not temporarily living without problems.
- 18:04That's not what it is.
- 18:05It's peace in the problems.
- 18:06uh The Bible says very clearly, you will have troubles.
- 18:11There's no doubt around it because we're living in the kingdom's dominion, but he will give you peace in the midst of the problems.
- 18:19And believe me, I know the difference when I look through that, when I realize how he took me through the messes that I had.
- 18:27So then when you look at it and say, I can live in joy.
- 18:31Joy is not happiness.
- 18:33Joy is not fun.
- 18:34Joy is nothing along those lines.
- 18:37Joy is that complete contentment of
- 18:40being in his presence.
- 18:41is like I need nothing else other than being in his presence.
- 18:47And he is also, he's our abundant provider.
- 18:51He will provide what we need if we stay in uh his kingdom, we stay in his ways.
- 18:59Now if we step out of that,
- 19:03We're struggling, and we don't need to struggle.
- 19:07We want to believe in his ways.
- 19:09And that is, is choosing not to fall into the temptations and the traps that the enemies laid out in this world that we keep getting ourselves tripped into.
- 19:22I constantly use the word joy in the struggle.
- 19:25You won't necessarily have happiness, but most likely you won't have happiness in a struggle, but you can definitely have joy.
- 19:31ah It's hard to explain to people sometimes, especially when you're in a struggle and you say something like that.
- 19:40They're like, what are you, you're different.
- 19:47Well good, I'm glad you see me as different because that's what I desire to be.
- 19:51a very kind word.
- 19:52I've not heard different lately, weird, odd, dumb, stupid.
- 19:58heard many, but it's okay.
- 20:01I can still be in joy.
- 20:04Yeah, yeah, because a lot of times it's because they are ignorant to what joy actually is.
- 20:08They are actually trying to equate joy to happiness, it's not.
- 20:12So.
- 20:14Let's, I think this is all a really good segue to talking about the unshakable life.
- 20:19And I always like to leave the audience with practical advice, right?
- 20:25We talk, we go deep on, a lot of different things and it's a lot to think about for the audience.
- 20:30But um I would love for there to be something that the audience can like later today or tomorrow after listening to this, they can start applying.
- 20:38So my question to you is what does living an unshakable life actually look like in everyday decisions?
- 20:45um Again, you are very good at asking questions and walking down that path, even in what you would consider a light question.
- 20:55um in my mind, living an unshakable life is living a life um with Him and allowing Him to walk you through those paths like we're talking about.
- 21:08And the way that at least I started.
- 21:12Now understand,
- 21:14I have been a believer all my life.
- 21:16I don't even remember becoming a believer, which I think most used pastors would have a heart attack over.
- 21:23But um the way I started is I just started saying, OK, God, what do you have to say to me in your word?
- 21:33um And I had a lot of anger, I had a lot of bitterness, I had a lot of frustration at that time.
- 21:41And I just said, teach me, teach me what
- 21:44you what I need to know because I'm missing something major.
- 21:47I believe in you.
- 21:48I trust you.
- 21:50I know I'm going to heaven, um but I have no idea what's going on.
- 21:56This is highly confusing to me.
- 21:58And I just started reading.
- 22:00And when I was reading, after I asked him to show me, I said, okay, when something jumped out at me, when I read a verse that I thought, that's interesting, I didn't keep going.
- 22:14I stopped, it wasn't a race.
- 22:16I said, this is not how do I get through a chapter before I stop?
- 22:23Sometimes I just stayed on one verse.
- 22:25And I wrote that verse down in a journal and I've never journaled in my life, but I wrote that verse down in a journal and I underlined what was important to me.
- 22:35And then I wrote down a little bit next to it about why I felt like that was important.
- 22:41I wanted to see what God was trying to say to me.
- 22:46you know, if the God of the universe says something to you, you probably ought to write it down, I figure.
- 22:53once that gets there, I go and I do what I call bouncing.
- 22:59I go to the references.
- 23:00You know those references you have in the center of your Bible or at the bottom, at least most reference Bibles have it.
- 23:07If you don't have one,
- 23:08go buy one immediately.
- 23:10I mean, you can get them for next to nothing.
- 23:12um And so if you go and get one with references, you can go to that verse where the references are, and you can go to other places of the Bible that say similar things.
- 23:25So you can read that again.
- 23:27So if you go to another verse and you read that and you say, gosh, this is jumping out to me, or it might not jump out to you at all, but...
- 23:36This is jumping out and I write that down and I underline it.
- 23:39And I write something about it and I underline what's the most important pieces there.
- 23:44And I just keep bouncing through scripture asking God, show me your truth.
- 23:49Show me what you're trying to tell me because I'm not getting it right now and I need help.
- 23:55And I just keep writing it all down.
- 23:57And then when I know that I know that God is trying to say something to me, I go through and I underline everything in red.
- 24:04And sometimes I write it out in red.
- 24:06so that I can go back into that journal and I can see what God is saying to me.
- 24:11And I've got, I've never journaled before in my life, but I've got these journals that I've done over and over again.
- 24:18And that's really what the Unshakeable Life is, is it was me telling the story of great destruction that happened to us, but then how God restored our souls, restored our spirit
- 24:33and brought us through this disaster.
- 24:36into this abundant life that is incredible.
- 24:40And you know, I had a lot more money back then than I have now.
- 24:45And God's still blessing us in a great way.
- 24:47But I had a lot more money, but I would have spent every penny to have the peace and the joy that I have now.
- 24:57And that is uh saying a lot for where I was and versus where I am now.
- 25:04I've always been a believer, but I've never had lived a true life where I had God as my Lord, as opposed to just being a saved person, if that makes any sense.
- 25:16But if you just soak in the Word and allow the Word to fill you, all of a sudden that is a real thing.
- 25:24The Word of God is alive.
- 25:26You can read, you know, a verse five different days in a row and find different pieces that God speaks to you through.
- 25:34So it's not a speed read.
- 25:36I really don't like these read through the Bible in a year courses.
- 25:39It's like this is not about reading a book.
- 25:42This is about using the Word of God as a live word that God can speak to you.
- 25:50And when you do that, your life opens up.
- 25:53And I wrote this all down in the Unshakeable Life to kind of walk people through that process.
- 26:01Yeah, I love all that.
- 26:02And we're going to include the link to your book below.
- 26:05But one thing I want to touch on that you just said was uh Savior and Lord, right?
- 26:12A lot of people are OK with God being the Savior.
- 26:15Yes, let him be my Savior.
- 26:16They struggle with him being Lord.
- 26:19And oh I think you could tie that into the unshakable life a little bit.
- 26:24When you're ready to make him Lord, your life becomes a lot more unshakable.
- 26:29That is exactly right.
- 26:31I proved to myself that I was not good at being the lord of my own life.
- 26:42that had nothing to do with the great destruction we went through.
- 26:46That had everything to do with me being able to create my own happiness and create my own um contentment.
- 26:55ah
- 26:58I had so many companies and my rule of thumb was, is I wasn't even allowed to spend my own money until it went out and started another business at least once.
- 27:07I mean, it was really kind of an over aggressive purpose of uh creating an empire to myself, if that makes any sense.
- 27:20And when I realized God is the one that wants to provide for me, he's the one I'm taking that
- 27:27gift away from God saying, I want to show you what I'm going to bless you with.
- 27:33And that is an amazing thing when you allow him to be the Lord that he wants to.
- 27:40And the big kicker is when I realized that what he wants for me is far greater than what I even want for myself, it was so easy to take my hands off and say, okay, I get it.
- 27:55Just
- 27:56take me to the path you want me to be on and I'll do it.
- 27:59um Because I realized at the time, I wasn't really trusting that his plan included greatness for me.
- 28:09I thought, oh, yeah, his plan is gonna be good for Doug or for whoever, um but I'm gonna sacrifice because it's his plan.
- 28:19And that's never his agenda.
- 28:21His agenda is giving everything he can to the kids.
- 28:25that he loves the dearest.
- 28:28And that is all of us.
- 28:30Amen.
- 28:30ah That is so good.
- 28:33If this conversation has resonated with you, I want to encourage you to check out Bradley's book, Unshakable Life.
- 28:38The link to that will be below.
- 28:40I think you also have UnshakableLife.com.
- 28:42Is that correct, Bradley?
- 28:43Yes, on UnshakeableLife.com and that has a couple other books there that you can see as well.
- 28:51Nice, I ask one last question of everybody that comes on the podcast because I always feel like there's something that you have on your mind that might be left unsaid and I don't
- 29:01want to leave anything on the table.
- 29:03So do you have any parting words for the audience, whether it's wisdom or otherwise?
- 29:08You know, that's funny because I don't typically just leave things unsaid.
- 29:12just say, but I really, I think the most important thing that anybody can walk away with is to realize God loves you specifically.
- 29:29He loves you more than you can ever comprehend.
- 29:33And believe me, I have questioned that myself.
- 29:35I was living in a spot where I
- 29:37I thought he loved most everybody else except for me.
- 29:41And when I realized what was really happening, I could absorb and understand how much he really does love me.
- 29:49And when you go through Psalms, if I get down and out a little bit, I just go through Psalms and I absorb what it is that he's saying to me.
- 29:57I'm like, man, I just get disconnected.
- 30:02He is wanting to talk to me 24 seven.
- 30:05And if I allow him to, he will.
- 30:09And the only reason that he's not talking to me is because I'm not connected to him.
- 30:15I disconnect.
- 30:16And it doesn't mean that I'm not going to heaven.
- 30:18That's not what that means at all.
- 30:19It means that I've leaned my spirit way too much to my flesh and I can choose with one second to move it back to the kingdom.
- 30:31And that's my thing is that if you
- 30:34understand how much God loves you and that you accept that I want to stay in line with the kingdom.
- 30:42You can live a life that you can never even imagine, but it is the life that we are very similar life that we will have when we go to heaven.
- 30:52I look forward to that day.
- 30:53And as you were saying that, and I think I might even said this earlier in podcast, I'm not a great chapter and verse guy, but when you were saying Psalms, he leads me by still
- 31:02waters.
- 31:03That's what came to mind.
- 31:04oh So good.
- 31:07Yeah.
- 31:09leads you by, I did a study on that.
- 31:12That is one of the funnest chapters to go through, 23 is just to go through and realize how much he is saying to that.
- 31:21And I can tell you what he said to me, but I think more importantly, go read it yourself and see what he's saying to you.
- 31:28Well, thank you again so much, Bradley.
- 31:30This has been great.
- 31:31I know this has kind of been like part two of uh pre-recording, but I feel like there might be more to say.
- 31:38So we might bring you back for another episode.
- 31:39So thank you so much, Bradley.
- 31:43Well, thank you.
- 31:44And I would love to come back and talk.
- 31:47I have a new book coming out on April 14th called The Power of Ore.
- 31:51uh And then I have another one that is not being published yet, but uh I have it to the publishers and uh that one's Heaven Starts Now.
- 32:02So that'll be a fun thing.
- 32:06I once that one comes out, I definitely want you back.
- 32:09I just love the title of that one.
- 32:12Alright, thank you again, Brad, Bradley, and until next time, keep moving forward.
- 32:20Excellent, thank you.