Latest / Authentic Living / Michael Morrow Financial Expert and International Speaker
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- 0:01Welcome to authentic living with Roxanne, a place where we conscious conversations about
- 0:08things that really matter in our lives.
- 0:12And now here's your host, Roxanne Derhodge.
- 0:36Hi, everyone.
- 0:37It's, Roxanne Durgesh.
- 0:38Thanks for tuning in again.
- 0:40This week, I have a colleague, Michael Morrow, Hi, Michael.
- 0:43How are you?
- 0:44I'm great.
- 0:44How are you?
- 0:45Good.
- 0:46Good.
- 0:46Michael has, decided to spend some time with us today because We've talked a lot about
- 0:52authenticity, but I think a lot of times we kind of, I would say, deviate from the issue of
- 0:58money.
- 0:58I don't know if you've ever had conversations with friends or even family members, it seems
- 1:02to be that topic that most people don't wanna talk about.
- 1:05Michael is an expert.
- 1:07So I'm gonna tell you a little bit about his background.
- 1:09We're gonna jump into the concept of money and how how do you have what you need?
- 1:14And, if you don't, How do you start to think about the concept of money a bit differently?
- 1:19So Michael is the president of Moro Financial.
- 1:22He's certified financial planner.
- 1:25And, with Manulife Securities Investment Services Inc.
- 1:31He shows you how to Have enough for any important financial responsibilities.
- 1:36He helps you protect your lifestyle and make bet better business business better and
- 1:42retiring comfort.
- 1:45He has, done a lot of publication.
- 1:48He's been a national newspapers industry magazines and over, 40,000 financial.
- 1:55We spoken to over 40,000 financial advisors in 12 countries.
- 2:00And worldwide, people turn to him for his five books that he's written.
- 2:04He's a 2 time presidents of the local Financial Advisors Association of Canada.
- 2:11In a in addition to being an advisor, he's been heavily involved with community organizations
- 2:16like Big Brother's, United Way, Knight's Columbus, his church, his youth, bass,
- 2:22baseball, and as as well as Excalibur nights with a $1,000,000 round table foundation, which
- 2:28I know he has, a speaking event coming up there in June, so I'd like to hear a little bit more
- 2:33about that.
- 2:34My his wife, Nina, of 21 years are they live in Thunder Bay.
- 2:40So he sees a little bit more snow than I do here in Niagara.
- 2:43He enjoys his, his, family with his 2 children at their cottage on One Island Lake in the
- 2:49summer and skiing in the winter at Lock Lamont.
- 2:53So, Michael, thanks again for coming to talk with us today.
- 2:58So, you know, I know we, we met just recently, and, I was able to hear you speak and I'm I'm
- 3:05always intrigued by money, and I know it's something that even in my family was always,
- 3:10you know, you hear the concept.
- 3:11Money doesn't grow on trees.
- 3:13You know, you hear all these things going up over and over again.
- 3:17So I thought talking about the concept of money and what you see is kind of, would be a good
- 3:22topic is for us to focus on.
- 3:24Okay.
- 3:25Well, first thing is that we we just wrote a book that, the US version of the book, it's
- 3:30called Don't worry Retire Happy.
- 3:333 of us did the Canadian version of that book and it got a PBS special in the United States
- 3:38and it's gonna be available on audio book and on on Kindle and, on chapters, online.
- 3:46And basically what we did was the the reason for the book we call it don't worry, retire
- 3:51hopping.
- 3:51And, basically, what we did was we talked about the 7 steps to having a successful retirement.
- 3:58Before I talk about that, I think that one of the things is the first thing with money is is
- 4:02that when when you look at what what what couples argue about it and the number one
- 4:07reason for people divorcing.
- 4:09Number one arguments are about money, how it's how it's made, how it spent and and very often,
- 4:14we find couples that that aren't aligned on their goals.
- 4:17One person wants to buy a bunch of toys.
- 4:19The other person wants to save the money.
- 4:21And very often causes a lot of tension.
- 4:24In addition to that, money, you know, isn't really all that topical like you mentioned, and
- 4:29people don't talk about it very and very often have, retired clients come in.
- 4:34They pass away, and their children have no idea on which money they have, where they wanted it
- 4:40to go And so, you know, it it is something that should be talked about more openly and and is
- 4:45really in a lot of ways, extremely secretive.
- 4:48The the number one thing that I find I've been a financial planner for 30 years and number one
- 4:54thing that I I find is is that that people know they should be saving money, but they really
- 4:58have no idea how much.
- 5:00They don't know what they're saving for.
- 5:03You know, you you you graduate from school.
- 5:05Maybe you have some student loans.
- 5:06You go out and you buy a nice car and you got a car payment.
- 5:08Now all of a sudden, you go and you buy a house and, Next thing, you know, when you phone me up
- 5:14and you're 30, 35, 40 years old and you've got all these payments, you've got very little
- 5:18money and retirement isn't really all that far away.
- 5:22If we only look at somebody's life, the average person lives to about age eighty years old,
- 5:28just to use a nice round number.
- 5:30And if we take that, that's only 28,000 days that you have in your whole life from age zero
- 5:35to age eighty.
- 5:36And if you look at the 1st quarter of your life from age zero to age twenty, you're going to
- 5:41school, you're not making any money at all, then you enter the workforce, you know, for the
- 5:462nd phase of your life for me 28 age forties another 7000 days and then 40 to 60 is another
- 5:527000 days.
- 5:54And then you retire at age sixty and you're gonna live off your money from 60 to age
- 5:59eighty.
- 6:00And so you don't make any money from 0 to 20, which is the 1st 7000 days of your life.
- 6:05You you don't make any money from 60 to 80, which is the last 7000 days of your life.
- 6:10So from 20 to 60, counting weekends, you have about 14000 days to to accumulate enough money
- 6:17to to get all the financial goals that you wanna have in your life.
- 6:21And it's just not very much time at all.
- 6:23And now I meet somebody if I meet him at 30 or I meet him at 40.
- 6:27They're down to maybe 10000 days, 7000 days to gather a big enough pool of money together to
- 6:33be financially dependent for for the rest of their life.
- 6:37The number one thing that that that people have to do is have some sort of a financial plan.
- 6:42And we, when we do financial plans, for clients.
- 6:44The software is actually pretty simple and pictorial.
- 6:47And basically, we just go and somebody comes in, know, we don't judge where they're at as
- 6:53far as financially when they come in.
- 6:54They are where they are.
- 6:55They came to us for help.
- 6:57So now you sit down with me.
- 6:58Let's just say you're forty years old and then you and your spouse make a $100,000 a year
- 7:03each.
- 7:03You've got $200,000 of gross income.
- 7:06And, you know, probably you've got a couple $100,000 as a mortgage payment still you're
- 7:11working on.
- 7:11You've got you've got kids you wanna save for for their schooling, maybe even help give them
- 7:15a little bit of a head start in life.
- 7:17Hopefully, you have a pension plan and things like that through work.
- 7:20And so what we do is we just take all those numbers.
- 7:23We plug them in.
- 7:24We go, okay.
- 7:24Here you're forty years old.
- 7:25Here's your current assets.
- 7:27Here's how much you plan on saving.
- 7:29Here's all the benefits that are going to be available till you come retirement time through
- 7:33Canada Pension, through all these securities, through your current savings, maybe money from
- 7:38downsizing your house, different things like that.
- 7:42And, we're just going to plug them in and what happens is you're either gonna have enough for
- 7:48retirement and you're not gonna have enough for retirement.
- 7:50And then if you have enough or you don't have enough, what we do is we turn around, and we
- 7:55just change the different assumptions.
- 7:56If you don't have enough for retirement, there's really not that many choices that are
- 8:00available to you.
- 8:01You can either work longer you can save more money.
- 8:04You can get more aggressive to hopefully get a better rate of return or you can retire on
- 8:08less.
- 8:09And so if I do a financial plan for you or anybody else and there's not enough money, you
- 8:14know, instead of you retiring, let's just say it's 60.
- 8:16If I have you retired, you know, 62 or 63, I got 3 more years of you working.
- 8:21I have 3 more years of you saving money.
- 8:24I have 3 more years of you compounding.
- 8:27And 3 last years, if you're pulling money out that we can really fix a financial plan or
- 8:32retirement plan for people really, really easy just by playing with the different variables
- 8:36that we have.
- 8:39So what do you find the biggest issue as with peep when, people come to you?
- 8:43What what is it that they're struggling with?
- 8:45Well, I I think that if with I talked about people that come to see me and then I'll I'll
- 8:49talk about just society in general.
- 8:52Most of the people that that that come to see me they already have money when when they meet
- 8:56me or they get referred to me.
- 8:57And so, you know, they've been saving money where they're at their bank or through their
- 9:01group RSP or you know, with an investment firm, whatever an offense to be.
- 9:06You know, husband and wife, let's just say get together and they go, okay.
- 9:09We can save a $1000 a month.
- 9:11They start putting it away for a while.
- 9:13And then they get to the point and they got 50,000, a 100,000, a couple of $100,000, and
- 9:17they don't really know what that money is gonna do for them.
- 9:20And then they call up somebody you know, maybe who's a little bit more established in the
- 9:24industry like myself to go and kind of basically take all the different pieces and put
- 9:29them together.
- 9:30So that's the biggest challenge that they have is that they're saving.
- 9:34They don't know how much they need.
- 9:35They don't know when they can retire.
- 9:37They don't know what the money's gonna do for them when they reach out here.
- 9:40So that's that's sort of the the average person that comes to see me, with their challenges.
- 9:45Everybody, if I if I go and I look at the average person just in society in general,
- 9:50their biggest challenge is is that they're up to their eyeballs in debt, the amount of debt
- 9:54that people have is just absolutely insane.
- 9:58You know, when you go and you look back a generation ago or or 2 generations ago, most of
- 10:04the people that are probably watching this are are children or grandchildren of immigrants,
- 10:08and you take sort of what an immigrant was like.
- 10:11They they moved over with with very little.
- 10:13They were just thrilled to get a job.
- 10:15They didn't care what that job was.
- 10:16They saved all their money.
- 10:17They didn't go out to restaurants.
- 10:19They they didn't have 2 or 3 cars.
- 10:21They didn't have 3 cell phones.
- 10:23They lived in a normal house.
- 10:25You know, most most people who were, you know, fifty and over, they lived in a house.
- 10:30There were 6 people living in a house.
- 10:32There was a two or a three bedroom house and, you know, everybody got along.
- 10:35Everybody was happy.
- 10:37And now today, everybody needs to live in 2000 square foot.
- 10:40They need to drive a nice car.
- 10:41They need to have all the toys, and there's just a huge cost to that.
- 10:46And the cost to that is basically that instead of you having money that you're saving for your
- 10:51future of all of this debt, which means that you're not only spending a 100% of your money,
- 10:56you're spending more than a 100% of your And so I gotta get you just just ground 0 where you're
- 11:02you're you're you're not, you know, you're you're making a little bit of progress instead
- 11:06of working yourself backwards.
- 11:09You know, when when we look at retirement and white people retire, you know, some people,
- 11:11they they they they're just they're just counting down the days until they retire.
- 11:18And there's other people, myself included.
- 11:21I don't really have I'm not gonna say I'm gonna not retire ever.
- 11:25But it's like a long way off for me.
- 11:27I I like my job.
- 11:28I I like coming into work.
- 11:29I like providing value and and having fulfillment in my life.
- 11:33But sort of the formula for retirement happiness is how much you you dislike what
- 11:37you're currently doing multiplied by how much you wanna do something So if you really dislike
- 11:42your current job and you really wanna do something else, then retirement is is a really,
- 11:47really important thing to you.
- 11:49But if you really, really like what you're doing and you don't really wanna do anything
- 11:53else, then retirement isn't that important.
- 11:56For sure.
- 11:57Like, you and I pivoting into different careers, speaking and and doing things like
- 12:01that.
- 12:02We're doing something we like, but you know, I will often hear people when I'm consulting or
- 12:06whatever, and they can't wait.
- 12:08They know by the by the months, the days, the hours, and I'm like, wow.
- 12:12What a way what a way to live.
- 12:13It's a a difficult concept to think that, you know, I'm thinking 6 6 years, 5 months, 3 days,
- 12:19and 24 hours kind of thing.
- 12:20You know, it's it's it's That's a public kind of thing.
- 12:23But you know, what happens is, you know, when people often get their priorities, misaligned,
- 12:28and I I guess if you just look at your whole life, forget about finances, your whole life is
- 12:33just a journey and the the the the purpose of your goal should be just to enjoy the whole
- 12:38ride.
- 12:39What it happens is, you know, very often you you you see scenarios and, everybody knows
- 12:44somebody who's like this where, you know, they're working day and night, you know, so
- 12:48they can pay for a big house.
- 12:50They can they can, you know, pay for all this stuff for their kids.
- 12:53They never see their kids.
- 12:54They never see their spouse.
- 12:55They never do any of this stuff, and it's like, why are you working so hard?
- 12:58And I was like, I'm doing it for my family.
- 12:59And it's like you're you're doing a lot for your family.
- 13:02You're you're never there for your family.
- 13:05You know, and and again, I I I guess sort of a a little bit of the thing that I have in the
- 13:09back my mind is, you know, that I guess the same working for the man.
- 13:13And, you know, when you're working for the man, your whole life is just a treadmill.
- 13:17You get up in the morning.
- 13:18You're your eyeballs and debt.
- 13:20You worry about, you know, what happens if you get sick?
- 13:22What happens if you lose your job?
- 13:24But if you don't have money, and you have your your spending less than you make and you have a
- 13:29little bit of a backup plan because you have money saved, you get to walk through life sort
- 13:34of a little bit more confident because, you know, all of a sudden, you know, your backup
- 13:39plan, if you if you do lose your job, it's it's okay.
- 13:41I'll be able to figure it out.
- 13:42You know, if you if you do take a step back with your health or or different things like
- 13:47that.
- 13:48So so those are just the kind of the things that that we just talk to people about in
- 13:52general, but I just I I find that that people don't understand debt, and they don't
- 13:57understand just how bad debt is.
- 13:59And we're we're here right now in a really low interest rate environment where, you know, you
- 14:04could have, let's just say a $100,000 line of credit and you're paying, let's just use a
- 14:08number 4% on it.
- 14:10And so you're not worried about it because you're just, you know, it's not that big of an
- 14:13amount, but what happens when interest rates go up?
- 14:17How are you ever gonna get ahead of all you're doing is just paying interest?
- 14:20And so so I I just feel that that that if people can get a better grip on their spending
- 14:26and under savings and on the fact that there is a bright future care for them because they they
- 14:30have a plan, then your overall quality of life is just gonna go up as as a as a result of
- 14:36doing that.
- 14:37So, Mike, what I clearly hear is that it's a mindset, right, because you're talking about
- 14:41where, you know, if you think about 2 generations ago, people were in the saving kind
- 14:47of mode.
- 14:48And right now, our thinking or even the exposure of of what we're seeing you know, with
- 14:53their kids or just what they get bombarded with with marketing.
- 14:56It's all about spending spending consuming.
- 14:58Right?
- 14:59So we're an consuming kind of, environments.
- 15:02If you kind of think about commercials on TV or just billboards or, you know, just driving by
- 15:05something, you're constantly being bombarded with stimuli that says, by me, you will make
- 15:12make it better.
- 15:13Make make whatever better.
- 15:14You'll you know, relationships better.
- 15:18It it, you know, you look better in this car.
- 15:20You'll have the pretty girl in the whatever.
- 15:22It's always we're being bombarded.
- 15:24When when people come in and what are some of the main kind of mind blocks that you hear from
- 15:28people
- 15:29around money?
- 15:29What what they say?
- 15:34Well, I I think that, you know, people just as a general rule, in the back of their head, they
- 15:39go, you know, everything will work itself everything will work itself out.
- 15:43And it's, well, you know what?
- 15:45You know, happily ever after is how all the movies end, but that's not necessarily how
- 15:49everything ends in real life.
- 15:51And so what happens is, you know, I remember some people that were in here that, had retired
- 15:57and didn't really have enough money when they retired because of you know, different
- 16:01challenges that they had that maybe weren't foreseen for them.
- 16:05And now they're ready at retirement, and they kept calling me up to take money out and take
- 16:09money on this.
- 16:09Like, we can't keep doing this.
- 16:11And they came in.
- 16:12It's like, you know, everything is gonna work out.
- 16:14Everything's gonna work out, and I saw their account put on.
- 16:16It was 400,000.
- 16:17It's 300,000.
- 16:18It's 200 1000.
- 16:19And all of a sudden, they're sitting in my office one day and a $150,000, and I'm trying
- 16:25to explain to them how this is gonna last them the rest of their life on top of pensions and
- 16:29is not a very good picture.
- 16:31And, you know, they're they're they're looking at me and they're trying to figure out how
- 16:35possibly gonna make do, and it's like, I've been telling you this for years.
- 16:39Like, you you told me everything's gonna work well.
- 16:41Everything's gonna work well.
- 16:43Is it gonna work out?
- 16:44You need to either go back to work or you need to start spending, you know, substantially less
- 16:49money than than than you currently are in order for this, you know, your lifetime is a an
- 16:55indefinite period of time.
- 16:56I don't know when you come and see me if if you're gonna live until you're 70, if you're
- 16:59gonna live till you're 80, till you're 90, you know, until you're a 100.
- 17:03And, you know, so how are we gonna how are we gonna properly allocate this money?
- 17:08And it's just a very, very elusive thing because you have no idea how long you're gonna
- 17:14live for.
- 17:14And, unfortunately, we used to have where everybody had a defined benefit pension that.
- 17:19Yes.
- 17:20Yes.
- 17:20That just paid them a guaranteed income for life.
- 17:22You know, let me go back a generation and a half for 2 generations and go you know, it'd be
- 17:27possible to to to live in in Windsor, Ontario, graduate as a C student from high school.
- 17:34Walk across the street, get a job at Fort Motor Company.
- 17:37At eighteen or nineteen years old, have a lifetime of job security, have a lifetime
- 17:41pension when you're all done.
- 17:43You'll have health insurance paid for for the rest of your life.
- 17:46You'll be able to go out at 20 years old, go buy a nice white house with a picket fence, you
- 17:50know, have have 3, 4 kids and just live a life heavily happily ever after.
- 17:54Well, that's again a generation of Afro.
- 17:57Let's go and let's take the same scenario.
- 17:58Today, we have straight a student graduates from high school at the top of their class.
- 18:03They go out.
- 18:04They get a university degree.
- 18:06They they graduate from university.
- 18:07They got $50,000 student debt and they're they're working at Starbucks.
- 18:12And, you know, that reality today is a lot different than it used to be.
- 18:16And so what happens is you need to go out, you know, any suggestion I could have is anybody
- 18:21that can go out and get a really nice defined benefit pension plan like like city employees
- 18:26do, like teachers do, like people that work at hydro.
- 18:29Those are very, very, very attractive things to have.
- 18:32Because it's it's a guaranteed income for life.
- 18:36And if you don't have that, even if you have money, having money you know, you come to me
- 18:40and let's say you're sixty five years old, you have a $1,000,000.
- 18:43How much can I pull out?
- 18:44Well, what if we earn 5% on it?
- 18:46What if we earn 7% on it?
- 18:49So we can give you You know, what if you live for 10 years?
- 18:51What if you lived for 30 years?
- 18:52What if you lived for 40 years?
- 18:54So just tell me a guaranteed income is just a really, really good thing to have.
- 18:59Because it it solves your biggest problem, which is how long you're going to live for
- 19:03because you really have no idea.
- 19:05You know, if you're a £400 chain smoking diabetic, I can give you a pretty good idea,
- 19:10where if all you do is, you're a vegan and goes to the gym for 2 hours every day, you know, I
- 19:15can give you a reasonably good idea as to how long you're gonna live for.
- 19:19But that's me telling you as a group how long people like you would normally live for, but
- 19:23you as an individual are gonna live longer or or shorter depending on you know, your own
- 19:29individual needs.
- 19:31So it's really about thinking about yourself knowing what, you know, kind of having a a
- 19:36vision of what kind of retirement you have in level of lifestyle that you want to.
- 19:40Right?
- 19:41So thinking, you know, so let's let's say the average Canadian, and I know that's hard.
- 19:46Let's say you're gonna retire at 65.
- 19:49Let's say sixty five years old.
- 19:50Is that how what is it that someone at that age needs needs to have to retire?
- 19:56Well, if I were to just use some general numbers, there's there's, you know, if if we
- 20:00look at inflation, we have to look at making sure that we inflation protect your retirement
- 20:05because your purchasing power goes down substantially.
- 20:07You know, even if you only have 2 or 3 percent inflation, if you have 2% inflation for 20
- 20:13years.
- 20:14Your purchasing power is about 50%.
- 20:16If you have 3% inflation, your purchasing power is only about 30% or 40% in 20 years.
- 20:22So what happens is is when I'm giving you a number, it's kinda like an inflation protected
- 20:28number, which is really, really So let's just say you have a $1,000,000 for a round number.
- 20:33If we get 5% on that and we pull 5% on, hypothetically, always gonna have your
- 20:391,000,000 but because we need to be pulling out because of inflation, you know, you probably
- 20:44should only be taking out about 4% of it.
- 20:46So You know, if we when we look at different research studies, the the rock solid number for
- 20:51the amount of the amount that you can take out is more around 2 or 3 percent of what your lump
- 20:56sum of money is as it rocks all the number again.
- 20:59That's because we don't know how long you're gonna live for.
- 21:01But if we look at maybe more practical number, if somebody's gonna take care about 4 to 5% of
- 21:05what their compounds is each year, that would be you know, what I would call a safe and
- 21:11reasonable number.
- 21:13Now next to that, you know, we've got Canada pension.
- 21:16Will they security.
- 21:17So just for a round number, somebody who's getting maximum Canada pension is gonna get
- 21:22about $14,000 a year.
- 21:24At age sixty five.
- 21:26Old age security, you can take at age sixty five.
- 21:29That's for round number, about $6000 a year.
- 21:31So Some of these come maximum Canada pension comes to me as planning on retiring age sixty
- 21:37five.
- 21:38I already have a guaranteed income of about $20,000 a
- 21:42Right.
- 21:42So now that person has a $1,000,000.
- 21:44Maybe we pull $50,000 a year out of it.
- 21:47So maybe I'm gonna give them you know, as a gross gross number, about 70,000, I'd rather
- 21:52have that number be more around 60,000 just to be a little bit on the safe side because what
- 21:57if we lose money in the market?
- 22:00Right.
- 22:00Right.
- 22:00What if we have a couple of values?
- 22:01What if you have a couple unexpected expenses?
- 22:05My health or something happens with your children or whatever.
- 22:09Those are all things that do you buffer that in to the number that you're looking at.
- 22:13You could do it in, but as a general rule, what happens is we start with, you have no money.
- 22:18We do it, and here's your money growing, growing, growing, and now you're retiring, goes
- 22:21down and it goes down to 0.
- 22:23Let's just say age ninety.
- 22:25Well, that's how most people envision their their their their plan working.
- 22:30That's how most people envision their their life working, but, you know, that's not really
- 22:34how it works.
- 22:35If we look at what what happens, you know, when Canada pension first came out, it started at
- 22:41age sixty five.
- 22:42Life expectancy was only age seventy one.
- 22:45If you go and you take a sixty five year old today and you look at what their life
- 22:48expectancy is, you know, it's the chance that you've got a 50% chance of being alive.
- 22:55You know, for a sixty five year old, that number is pretty close to age ninety.
- 23:00Now if I have a husband and wife, I've got 22 of them, the chance of one of me alive, you
- 23:04know, 50% chance is well above age ninety and a 25% chance is probably around age ninety five.
- 23:10So am I planning from 65 to 75.
- 23:13My plan from 65 to 85, 65 to 95, then you go and you go, wow, that's so fine.
- 23:20I'll spend all my money let's just stay by age eighty five.
- 23:25And then, all I have is my my my pensions or something like that.
- 23:29Her base income just to pay my most necessary expenses.
- 23:34And then I go, well, you know, all sounds fine and dandy.
- 23:38But, the problem with living a long time is it costs a lot of money.
- 23:42And if you go and you look, if somebody ends up in a long term care facility, You know, you're
- 23:47looking at cost just for a round number of $2500 to $3000 a month.
- 23:52Well, Anybody here has been in a long term care facility.
- 23:56That is not the desired place to live.
- 23:59My mom is one step away from going in a long term care.
- 24:02She's living in assisted living.
- 24:04She has a one bedroom, apartment, sort of the size of two small hotel rooms.
- 24:10They serve her breakfast lunch and dinner.
- 24:11That's $3700 a month.
- 24:13Well, now on top of that, she goes out to exercise in class is three times a week.
- 24:17We get driving miss Daisy.
- 24:19To to pick her up for that 3 tech.
- 24:21There's another $700 a month.
- 24:23Then she doesn't like going in the elevator on her own, so they go and they pick her up for
- 24:27breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
- 24:29They show up six times a day to give her her pills.
- 24:31That stuff costs like another 4000 or pardon me $1400 a month for all of that.
- 24:37So I got $3700 bucks for the basic.
- 24:40I got an extra $1400 in services.
- 24:42Now I went to 5100 bucks.
- 24:45Now I got her exercise classes and her her driving miss Daisy for that.
- 24:49I'm at close to $6000 a month for her expenses right now.
- 24:53And so now, is she gonna stop buying clothes?
- 24:56Is she gonna stop gonna buy in her her kids and grandkids something for their birthday and for
- 25:00Christmas?
- 25:01Like, you know, it costs a lot of money getting old, and I think that people are really, really
- 25:05unaware of that.
- 25:05So we really caution people, you know, who are retired not to plan on spending all of their
- 25:10money.
- 25:12So, really, if you were let's say you were talking some, you know, young kids, right,
- 25:17because a lot of kids today, you know, Mike, it's they're they're not very optimistic coming
- 25:23out of university.
- 25:25A lot of them, you you're talking at 50,000.
- 25:27And a lot of times, they're coming out with, you know, higher debts.
- 25:31Yeah.
- 25:31Like 50,000.
- 25:33Right?
- 25:33And they're they're like you said, you're lucky if they don't have an actual skill, right, a
- 25:37specific skill.
- 25:40They're they're looking at, you know, something like a job at Starbucks and stuff like that.
- 25:44I I don't know what the what the rate would be.
- 25:47So what advice do you have for young people coming out that don't have the DB benefits to,
- 25:53you know, they get, you know, the new, what is it?
- 25:56DC'd it's called?
- 25:57Yeah.
- 25:57To find contribution where a certain percent of your income goes into an investment, you pick
- 26:02the when it grows to whatever it grows to.
- 26:05My advice to anybody who's why do you say to anybody, but specifically to younger people, My
- 26:10my daughter's going into 1st year university in September.
- 26:13My son's, a year and a half out graduating, top of his class in civil engineering.
- 26:19He's got a good job.
- 26:21Is is I I I guess if you go and you look at ultimately how you get paid, you, me, everybody
- 26:28that's listening to this ultimately gets paid for providing value.
- 26:31And so if you wanna get paid paid more, you don't have to provide more value or in essence,
- 26:35you have to make solve more valuable.
- 26:37And I I guess if I looked and let's just take, I'm gonna use a twenty five year old and, if
- 26:43they they work from 25 to 65.
- 26:45Let's just say they make $50,000 a year.
- 26:48Well, if I take that, I multiply that over 40 years.
- 26:52They have a a future of an economic potential of about $2,000,000, which is 50,000 times 40
- 26:57years.
- 26:58So now that twenty five year old comes to me and says, hey, Tell me what the best thing is
- 27:02for me to do for the future.
- 27:04You know, I want I know I need to be saving some money, paying up debts, doing all that
- 27:07stuff.
- 27:08You know, the best advice I give that person would be to continue going to school, continue
- 27:12going to a part time course, taking something to so if they're not stuck at $15,000 a year of
- 27:18income per hour.
- 27:19There's nothing wrong with with having a job that set aside income that isn't really gonna
- 27:24go up.
- 27:24You know, somebody has to work at a restaurant.
- 27:26Somebody has to work at a department store.
- 27:29These these are good, honest, hardworking, jobs that normal people doing.
- 27:34I'm not knocking that at all, but you know, if I could get that person making $50,000, if I
- 27:39can convince them to go and make themselves more valuable to make, you know, $60,000 75
- 27:45$1000.
- 27:46A 100 let's say a $100,000.
- 27:47Well, that person know is gonna have a future economic value of a $100,000 a year.
- 27:53For 40 years.
- 27:54They've got a future earning power of, you know, $4,000,000.
- 27:58The person 50,000 has a has, a future earning power of $2,000,000.
- 28:04So, you know, if if let's say somebody came to me and they're they're they make a $100 a year
- 28:11and they're they're forty five years old.
- 28:12They're right in the very middle of their their career.
- 28:15And so they're they come in these.
- 28:16They're sitting in money in the office and they make it a hundred grand a year and they have
- 28:19much say $500,000 of of net worth when their house, their assets minus their liabilities,
- 28:25everything.
- 28:26So now I have this this forty five year old with $500,000 of investable assets sitting in
- 28:32front of me, but they only have 20 years left to work left to work.
- 28:36So what happens is They only have a future earning power for that 20 years of, say,
- 28:42$2,000,000.
- 28:43And now let's just say they have their twenty five year old son sitting right next to them
- 28:47who has no money.
- 28:49But they make a $100,000 a year.
- 28:51You know, who's actually more valuable?
- 28:54The twenty five year old with no debts who's gonna have a future earning power of of
- 28:58$4,000,000 or, you know, the person who's halfway through the credits got 500,000.
- 29:04So what happens is Over a period of time, you start the day you graduate from school.
- 29:09Your earning your future earning potential is here and year by year by year goes down, down,
- 29:13down until the day you retire.
- 29:15Well, while that's happening, you need to have your assets start to go up, up, up like this to
- 29:20sort of replace it so that, you know, you you start.
- 29:23You have no money.
- 29:24Your your earnings come from you physically going out to go to work.
- 29:27Well, the day you retire, what happens is you're not earning any money anymore.
- 29:31You have to have this pool of money Let's just say it's in an hourglass and it's slowly gonna
- 29:35start dripping on.
- 29:36We wanna make sure that it drips out at a pace that's gonna cost you the rest of your money
- 29:41and, you know, hopefully look out after the the legacy needs that you you have for, you know,
- 29:46wanting to pass something on to the next generation and so on.
- 29:50So for that forty five year old, you're saying they have $2,000,000 left in that 20 years.
- 29:56Yeah.
- 29:56A 100,000 a year of income for 20 years.
- 29:59Right.
- 29:59So you're saying to that person to, to say what, 10% is?
- 30:03I don't know.
- 30:04They'd always say like
- 30:05Oh, I used to 10 10% was what I gonna call sort of the golden rule.
- 30:08And that, you know, that's been around forever.
- 30:10The wealthy barber made that famous.
- 30:12We're anxious.
- 30:13No matter where you are, save 10%, save 10%, save 10%.
- 30:18If you came to me and you were, again, 45, you're halfway through your career, and you
- 30:25don't have all that much money, maybe it's not the worst thing because maybe you paid your
- 30:29house off.
- 30:30Maybe you're not all these student Like, you started at a different spot in your life than I
- 30:34started, and everybody else started, but basically, you have to, have Money that's gonna
- 30:41turn around and provide you with income when your income actually stops.
- 30:44And so to use the number 10%, I think that almost anybody would use in the financial
- 30:50services industry would say that 10% is far far too low of a number.
- 30:55But if you come to me and you're not saving anything, And, you know, again, you make a
- 31:00$100,000 a year in this scenario.
- 31:02You come to me or you you you you currently aren't saving anything.
- 31:06And I go and I I do a financial plan and I tell you, you need to save whatever $2000 a month or
- 31:12some $3000 a month.
- 31:13It's gonna be such a big number.
- 31:16That you're that you're gonna, you know, get scared off and you're not gonna really do
- 31:19anything.
- 31:19I go, what's what's even the point?
- 31:21So what I don't have to do is I have to convince you that Rome wasn't built in a day.
- 31:25And then grain by grain a castle and brick by brick, a a or a brick brick or grain by grain
- 31:31and a loaf of bread, brick by brick a castle.
- 31:34And everything you do, everything in your life counts.
- 31:37You know, it's it's kinda like if you're you're on a diet and you go and you you You you you
- 31:43sit down at lunch and you have your your kale salad and your your vegan meal and all that
- 31:47stuff and you, you know, you you you drink your your sparkling water with a lemon wedge in it.
- 31:51And then when it's all done, you had a site to wear a nice big piece of chocolate cake.
- 31:55And you go, well, I don't really count that.
- 31:58Well, it doesn't matter whether you counter or not.
- 32:00Your body is gonna count those calories.
- 32:02And what I what I find happens is is that people think that the two bucks are spending
- 32:07you know, on a on a coffee.
- 32:09It's no big deal.
- 32:10Well, you know, $22 a day on a coffee is 700 bucks a day or 700 bucks a year that you're
- 32:16spending on coffee on a way to work.
- 32:17You're probably not spending $2 on a coffee.
- 32:19You're probably spending $5 on a coffee.
- 32:22And so then we turn around and we go, okay.
- 32:24Well, what are all these extras that you have?
- 32:26And, like, if there are things that you don't really need that you could scale back on?
- 32:30And, you know, it's, well, could you get a more basic cable package or maybe not have cable at
- 32:34all?
- 32:34Like, why are you paying for cable and Netflix?
- 32:36I I look in my life.
- 32:37I've got a cell phone.
- 32:38My wife has a cell phone.
- 32:39My daughter has a cell phone.
- 32:41My son has a cell phone.
- 32:43When I was my kid's age, we had one landline at our house, and we had one landline in my
- 32:48office.
- 32:48Us.
- 32:49I'm paying for 4 cell phones.
- 32:50Now I got a cottage.
- 32:51I'm paying for Internet in my cottage.
- 32:53I'm paying for Internet in my house and paying for a landline in my house.
- 32:57My bill comes in for my technology bill every month comes in.
- 33:00It's like a $600 bill.
- 33:02And it's like, could we could could I drop?
- 33:04Could I getting my data package down a little bit.
- 33:07I've got I'm the type of person.
- 33:09I don't care where I am.
- 33:11If I want data, I don't care.
- 33:12I'm gonna pay for it.
- 33:14But at the end of the day, I could use Wi Fi.
- 33:16I could use, you know, I could get a basic data package.
- 33:19I could, you know, why do I have to have a smartphone?
- 33:23You know, these are things that are are necessities today that that were complete
- 33:26luxuries.
- 33:28You know, I live in Thunder Bay.
- 33:29I have a car starter in my car.
- 33:31Well, I remember the first time 25 years ago when one of my friends and they got a car
- 33:36starter.
- 33:37I thought it was insane.
- 33:38You know, and now a car starter is like, Everybody has to help.
- 33:41Yeah.
- 33:42Yeah.
- 33:42Yeah.
- 33:42And then you go and you and and you you look at this the subscriptions you're paying for, the
- 33:46internet packages you're paying for.
- 33:48All these things that are are necessary will say, well, that's fine.
- 33:52Let's assume they are necessary.
- 33:53Well, how are you gonna save enough money to continue having all of these things as part of
- 33:59a necessary necessary lifestyle.
- 34:01You know, other things that I'd like to throw out, You know, is anybody anybody here that's
- 34:07listening to this have a have a child or a grandchild that, you know, gets divorced and
- 34:11calls you up and says, hey, I need I need you to, you know, you're now sixty five years old,
- 34:15seven years old, and your your son phones you up, your daughter phones you up and was, hey, I
- 34:19gotta borrow a hundred grand because I gotta You know, we were paying for one house, and now
- 34:24we're paying for 2, and I gotta do it as part of a settlement.
- 34:27And, you know, that's just what the reality is.
- 34:30You know, I I there was this a stock that I read, just recently.
- 34:33I believe it was in the Toronto star.
- 34:35Over 50% of people are supporting children.
- 34:39They're over 30 years old.
- 34:4150% of people have children are in some way financially supporting their children over 30
- 34:46years old.
- 34:47I live in Thunder Bay.
- 34:50You know, $300,000.
- 34:51I I just get you a pretty good house.
- 34:53You know, if you make You're your husband and wife and thunder bay and you, you both make
- 34:57$50,000.
- 34:58You're you could actually, you know, have a reasonably good life.
- 35:01Well, what if you live in Toronto?
- 35:03You live in Vancouver.
- 35:04And, I'm making $50,000 a year.
- 35:07My wife's making 50.
- 35:08We're we're working hand the mouth forever.
- 35:10My kids Now because of that, maybe don't get the opportunities that they would have had.
- 35:15Now they're not getting off to to as good of a start in life.
- 35:19And now they graduate from school or they don't graduate from school.
- 35:22They got debt.
- 35:23They're now paying these outrageous rents, trying to pay it.
- 35:25How are you ever gonna get to a spot where you're gonna be know, have a down payment for a
- 35:29house or be able to afford stuff like that.
- 35:31So it's just, you know, if you if you have I don't wanna say a a philosophy of scarcity, but
- 35:38if you just recognize that that that, you know, money is is is is scarce to you because total
- 35:44amount of money you're gonna make is what your future earning power is.
- 35:47And you go, well, you know, my neighbor just bought a new truck.
- 35:50They work at the same place as me.
- 35:53We should buy a new truck.
- 35:55You know, my my other neighbor, they just took their family down to Florida.
- 35:58We should go down to Florida.
- 35:59You know, the first time I was at Florida, I was twenty four years old.
- 36:04Well, I look at my kids.
- 36:05Again, they're 17 24.
- 36:07I've had them on European cruises, and them on Caribbean cruises.
- 36:10We've been down to Florida probably ten times, and we've got a vacation property close to our
- 36:15house.
- 36:15We got 3 boats on it.
- 36:17This stuff is all.
- 36:19Very, very expensive to maintain.
- 36:21Well, I'm still doing the fundamental things and, myself and my wife both have good incomes.
- 36:26Then we can afford a lifestyle like this, but if we were doing it all on debt, we're just
- 36:31robbing our future and we're also robbing our our, you know, in some ways, our kids future.
- 36:35And everybody has a different philosophy on, you know, some people, their their approach is,
- 36:40hey, the minute you walk out the door, you graduated from University, you're not my
- 36:44problem anymore.
- 36:45Well, so what?
- 36:46Know your twenty five year old phone's up, your 3 year phone's up and was, hey, mom, I got
- 36:50cancer.
- 36:51What are you gonna do?
- 36:51Is it okay?
- 36:52You're on your own, you're gonna help them out.
- 36:54You know, we what about your parents?
- 36:56You know, we have we have people with sandwich generation.
- 36:59They're supporting their parents.
- 37:01I'm not supporting their kids.
- 37:02Well, how are you ever gonna get ahead if you're you're doing all that stuff?
- 37:05So I would just tell anybody, make yourself valuable as possible so your future earning
- 37:10power is as high as it can possibly be.
- 37:13You know, do all the stuff that your grandmother, your grandfather told you, sitting
- 37:17by the fireplace, you know, work hard, put away some money for a rainy day, you know, all all
- 37:22those different things.
- 37:23Those are just the good basic things that that that everybody should sort of abide by just
- 37:29with their their life in general.
- 37:33That wanting and that wanting in the moment has really kinda really deterring people from
- 37:38having, really a a, like you said, a relaxed kind of lifestyle knowing that in the future,
- 37:43if you like you said, if you make $10 and you save, you know, 2, all
- 37:48the time.
- 37:49There's gonna be something left versus if you're spending 10 or you're spending 12 and
- 37:53you're having to pay that extra 2.
- 37:56Yeah.
- 37:56Under that treadmill throughout your life.
- 37:58Yeah.
- 38:00You know, and and for especially for younger people, they get a $100,000 under your belt
- 38:05fast as you possibly can.
- 38:07You know, for somebody who's maybe living at home, you know, they graduate.
- 38:10They're living at home.
- 38:11They've got a good paying job.
- 38:12You should be saving, like, 50% of your income, 60% of your income.
- 38:16You know, let's let's take 2 twins.
- 38:18They both graduated from the university.
- 38:20They're both making, you know, whatever.
- 38:23$100,000 a year is to keep it as a simple number.
- 38:26One of them decides they wanna get a new car.
- 38:28They wanna go on all these trips.
- 38:29They wanna have you know, the the Louis Vuitton, you know, perch, purse, and watch, and
- 38:34and all all those things.
- 38:36And the other one decides to live a more conservative lifestyle.
- 38:39And saves $20 a year.
- 38:40So now we're there and we're 5 years ahead.
- 38:43And twin a has no money and twin b's got a $100,000.
- 38:46Well, let's just say that that $100,000 is is is earning 5% just to for a real simple number.
- 38:52So now let's say the 2 of us are twins, and so I got a $100 and you don't Well, I could stop
- 38:58saving right now, and you would have to save $5000 a year for the rest of your life just to
- 39:03keep up with what my money's growing by.
- 39:06So in essence, now I'm because I did that and made that good early decision, I've got $5000
- 39:12more free cash flow.
- 39:13You know, look at people like my myself, my house is paid off and, again, has been paid off
- 39:18for some time.
- 39:19And again, you know, out of respect for everybody here, we're not living in a 1,000,000
- 39:22and a half dollar in Toronto.
- 39:24So your warehouse is 300,000.
- 39:26I'm fifty four years old.
- 39:27It should be paid off.
- 39:28So now the fact that it is paid off, you know, it just let's say let's say my twin didn't pay
- 39:36theirs off, and now they've got a $1500 month mortgage payment.
- 39:39Well, because I don't have them I have $1500 a month of a free cash flow.
- 39:44So what can I do with that?
- 39:45I could spend that now.
- 39:47I could I could save it.
- 39:48But here's the thing I wanna really wanna kinda drive home for everybody.
- 39:52How much more confidence am I gonna walk around with, you know, over the next 10 years?
- 39:56Because I know I have a little bit more of a backup plan maybe than than somebody else does.
- 40:02And so, you know, money gives you relevance.
- 40:06And so, you know, just the fact you have money, you have more confidence you're able to make
- 40:10maybe more long term decisions.
- 40:12You know, let's go and look at the opposite end of We got somebody that that lives completely
- 40:16on the mouth.
- 40:17You know, they're they're out of money, by the time the next paycheck comes, you know, what
- 40:23what do they do?
- 40:23They got 20 bucks.
- 40:25They they they don't get paid for 2 days.
- 40:26They got 20 bucks.
- 40:27They got to get some food.
- 40:28Well, where did they go?
- 40:29They go to salmone or something like that.
- 40:31They buy everything in small quantities at the highest price because there's no point going to
- 40:35the grocery store it's a mile away because it's only gonna be an extra dollar or 2 savings.
- 40:40So that person is now paying more than they should for almost everything they're doing.
- 40:46You know, meanwhile, the person who has has money behind them, They go to the grocery
- 40:50store.
- 40:51You see the toilet paper's on sale.
- 40:52They buy a whole bunch of toilet paper.
- 40:54They they fill their freezer with the stuff that's on sale.
- 40:57So as a result now, their their their their money is being used just more efficiently.
- 41:01So if you can but, you know, by having money behind you and having more of a long term
- 41:07perspective, you actually aren't able to use your money more efficiently.
- 41:10You know, if you go and you pay for things, if you I I just renewed a a health club
- 41:14membership.
- 41:15If I pay it for it monthly, you know, let's just say for fun, it's a $100 a month.
- 41:20Well, if I because I paid for it annually, I got a discount.
- 41:22So I paid, you know, in this analogy, $1100 for my my health club membership instead of
- 41:27somebody who has no money, pay it a $100 a month or $1200.
- 41:31So I'm 10% more efficient than that person is.
- 41:34And what what what I did.
- 41:36It cost me nothing.
- 41:37It just was a matter of me being in a position where I could make that that that that annual
- 41:41payment.
- 41:42So that's a good point because whether it's the the $2 coffee or the paying the membership,
- 41:48off, you you're constantly, instead of saying, oh, it's just $2 or it's $20.
- 41:52It's it it all it's cumulative.
- 41:54Yeah.
- 41:55Right.
- 41:55Like, if I go and I do, you know, we all in essence compounding.
- 42:00So now I go and I somebody comes to see me again, mirror mirror on the wall.
- 42:03I have a $100,000 a year.
- 42:06You know, here it is at 5% or 6% whatever.
- 42:10So here's how much money you get now.
- 42:11Well, if I turn around and I I I change that rate of return by by 1% or 2%, you know, over
- 42:17somebody's lifetime, they're gonna have substantially more money come retirement time
- 42:22and, in a better just because of a 1%, you know, better rate of return.
- 42:26And so what happens is, you know, if I go and I take that analogy and I and I say, okay, what
- 42:32if you just did a whole bunch of things just a little bit better than you're currently doing?
- 42:36You know, let me use weight, you know, exercises, an example, or losing weight You
- 42:41know, you decide you want it, you wanna lose some weight.
- 42:44Well, there's really only, you know, Ian, I'm not a diet expert here, but, you know, for some
- 42:48simple version, you need to either burn more calories, you need to eat less calories.
- 42:52Right.
- 42:53So whatever you're currently doing, you're eating x number of calories a day.
- 42:56So now I get you to a 100 calories a day loss.
- 43:01Well, it's well, it's only a 100 calories.
- 43:03Well, no, it's it's a 100 calories.
- 43:05Well, at the end of a month, it's 3000 well, is that 3000 calories?
- 43:09I don't know.
- 43:09Maybe you're gonna weigh a pound less than a month.
- 43:11Well, you know, if you wanna lose £20, as long as you're on the path, like, I just need to get
- 43:16you on the path.
- 43:17Like you're here.
- 43:18Your here's your normal weight, somewhere between normal weight and your current rate,
- 43:22weight, you made a whole bunch of really, really small bad decisions and they'll give you
- 43:27that £20 extra weight.
- 43:28So now all I have to do is just change your momentum, and it doesn't matter how much you
- 43:32change it, but if I get you, you'll lose one pound.
- 43:34I don't care whether it's this month or quarter.
- 43:37You know, if you just stayed on that plan, you're gonna lose that £20, you know, but what
- 43:41if all of a sudden now instead of just having you eat a few less calories.
- 43:45What if I can get you to exercise a little bit more?
- 43:47And, again, whatever exercise you're doing, all I do is I just get you to walk an extra 5
- 43:52minutes every day.
- 43:53Know, it's only 5 minutes.
- 43:54I understand that, but it's a positive choice.
- 43:56So now you're you're you're burning a few more calories plus you're consuming a few less
- 44:01calories.
- 44:01Now we have a double impact.
- 44:03Well, here's what's maybe gonna happen is that now all of a sudden, because you're exercising
- 44:08a little bit more, you're eating a little bit better.
- 44:10Maybe now you're gonna sleep a little bit better night.
- 44:12So now you sleep a little bit better tonight.
- 44:14You can see how how one of them starts to impact the other one and the other one.
- 44:18So now you sleep a little bit better tonight.
- 44:20Now you wake up tomorrow.
- 44:21You got a little bit more energy, you actually had today.
- 44:24And so everything is compounds on everything.
- 44:27So if I can get somebody to to save just a little bit more money, and then I can get them
- 44:31to spend a little bit less, you know, and then I can get them to maybe earn a little bit more.
- 44:35And just a whole bunch of little things all put together, everything counts and and know, I I
- 44:41think that people discount that everything counts, and the the the opposite of saying that
- 44:45everything counts is, well, I'm never gonna get there anyway.
- 44:48So why even bother?
- 44:50And if you see you see that, you know, forget about money.
- 44:54You see that in so many areas in people's lives.
- 44:56It's like, you're in a job.
- 44:57You don't like this, well, why don't you Why don't you go, you know, you need to go to
- 45:02school.
- 45:02Let's say for a year to get the education to to get a better job.
- 45:05And so I can't leave I can't leave my job, you know, for a year.
- 45:09I and go back to school.
- 45:11No way, you can't, but but you could read a block.
- 45:14You know, you could maybe take one course and then maybe after this year, maybe take a second
- 45:19course, you know, and then, you know, you're gonna be you're forty years old right now.
- 45:23What are you gonna do?
- 45:24You're gonna stay in a job you're gonna help you with for the next 25 years.
- 45:27That's door number 1.
- 45:28You can pick door number 1.
- 45:30Maybe you could say, Hey, I really don't like this job and the pain of going and, you know,
- 45:35getting education or whatever to get a promotion or whatever.
- 45:37Maybe that's less pain.
- 45:39Then then then go on a job you don't like for the next 25 years.
- 45:42And but you're not gonna go pick up and go back to school, but it can't.
- 45:46You could read a book.
- 45:47There's you could there there's there's something you could do to make yourself a more
- 45:51valuable employee and maybe put yourself in a better position.
- 45:54Than than than you're currently at.
- 45:56So it's incremental and additive, really, is what you're saying.
- 45:59Small, small, incremental steps and And and, you know, for me as a as a financial planner,
- 46:05but just for for anybody out there, it was listening.
- 46:08It's just as an individual.
- 46:09Your your job is to to to be a beacon of hope and to sell the promise of the future to, to to
- 46:15other people.
- 46:16You know, let's let's just paint the difference there.
- 46:18You can You come to me.
- 46:20You're a client of mine.
- 46:20You come to me.
- 46:21You're just devastated because, you know, one of your one of your kids got an illness.
- 46:25And meanwhile, you're having financial problems.
- 46:28And, and you're getting divorced.
- 46:30And you go, you know what?
- 46:31It's all hopeless.
- 46:32Well, you know what?
- 46:34Tomorrow's still another Okay.
- 46:36And so I just need to sell you on it.
- 46:38Tomorrow is another day.
- 46:39Maybe things will be a little bit better tomorrow.
- 46:41And maybe there's some things that you could do, you know, financially, personally, and
- 46:47spiritually, whatever it happens to be.
- 46:49Couple decisions you can make today.
- 46:52They're gonna put you in a better spot.
- 46:54When I when I present to people, I I love telling to tell them a story about, I got a
- 46:59bunch of custom fit cloak And my weight fluctuates by probably about £15 through it,
- 47:05throughout the year.
- 47:05And I, I guess, I was maybe a little bit on the later side when I got all these custom fit
- 47:10clothes.
- 47:12And, so then what happens is all of a sudden, my console looked too tight, and it's, you
- 47:16know, it's pretty bad when you're you closed them with it, but when you're you're custom
- 47:20fit, they'll close them if it is really really bad.
- 47:22And so, you know, I talked to a friend of mine, and, he's a personal trainer.
- 47:28It's like, what do I what do we need to do to take an inch off my waist?
- 47:31And he's like, in addition to everything you're doing, do 20 sit ups a day.
- 47:34Take 20 steps of it.
- 47:36That's something I could do right now in a minute.
- 47:38You could do it.
- 47:39All of us could do it.
- 47:40Here's here's the thing I found out though.
- 47:42I found out that it's actually easier to walk around with your pants too tight all day, then
- 47:47there is to be 20 sit ups, okay?
- 47:49Because the fact of the matter is if my pants are too tight and I put them on right now on
- 47:53the too tight, If I do 20 sit ups right now, my pants are still gonna be too tight.
- 47:58And so the the the the things that I'm doing today, you're gonna solve my problems tomorrow
- 48:02and for months from now and 6 months from now.
- 48:04And if I go, oh, you know what?
- 48:06It's not worth it.
- 48:06My pets are still gonna be too.
- 48:08So what am I gonna do?
- 48:08Walk around my past too tight for the rest of my life?
- 48:12And so so it's just just just the game.
- 48:15I at 30 years, just, you know, with thousands, thousands of people, both their goals, what
- 48:19they wanna do, you know, what their challenges are and and things like that.
- 48:23I just I can't convince people enough that that it's not really your big decisions that are
- 48:29that are, they're aware why you feel.
- 48:31It's just a whole bunch of of small, small decisions.
- 48:34And again, the health and allergy that I used, I think, is pretty good where, you know, it's
- 48:38just you know, my son, he says to me all the time, he goes, I have no problem getting to the
- 48:42gym.
- 48:43The hardest part is just getting getting to the gym.
- 48:45That's the hardest part.
- 48:46And she just got up you know, look at where you are right now and just decide you need to just
- 48:51change your momentum just down the path and just start making decisions that are little
- 48:55decisions that you're gonna do.
- 48:57And, you know, again, you know, somebody decides, I I love when I see people on Facebook
- 49:02and they're checking in at Goodlife Fitness and January 2nd, and I check-in, January 3rd, and
- 49:08they check-in, I just like, I, I don't know how I, I already know how this movie is gonna end.
- 49:14Okay?
- 49:15And so what I would much rather do is convince you if you're not going to the gym at all is to
- 49:19to start going once a week, you know?
- 49:22And then when you're going once a week, then maybe start going it twice.
- 49:25If you also
- 49:26I I think that's the case with all change, Mike.
- 49:28Like even with what I do for living with people when they wanna make changes, in the mental
- 49:32well-being.
- 49:33And I often say it doesn't take a it doesn't take a lot, but it has to be often
- 49:37inconsistent.
- 49:38It does not have to take a long time, you know, to just to kind of pivot and do something
- 49:43different if you're if you're, you know, stressed out, if you're, you know, you're kind
- 49:47of finding that you sleeping well.
- 49:48Those types of things.
- 49:49It's small, small steps, ultimately.
- 49:52And then like it's like you're right.
- 49:54Initially, maybe you're not seeing the change, but it's the small incremental step often, like
- 49:59persistence and looking at the long term, which is really what you're saying.
- 50:02If you think about it with any of us, we want to be able to We all have values and beliefs
- 50:07about the kind of life that we have that we want.
- 50:10And if you're thinking really and you're connected to that, you should be able to be
- 50:14strategizing financially to be able to achieve that goal versus, oh, I won't think about it.
- 50:20You know, I'll have that extra piece, a chalk with Jake and Hope to God.
- 50:23I'm not gonna the £30 or whatever.
- 50:25Right?
- 50:26But one more thing I really would like to touch on is before we close all this off is is that
- 50:31the concept of exploring what we call a hybrid entirement.
- 50:34Then a hybrid retirement is where instead of being, let's just say the full time, you know,
- 50:40teacher and then you work full time and then all of a sudden one day, you're not working at
- 50:44all anymore.
- 50:45People change careers so many times throughout their lifetime, you know, there's so many
- 50:49people that, you know, full time job, and there may be a couple of casual jobs or things like
- 50:53that.
- 50:54Well, maybe what you could do if you're you get to retire and you're not quite in as good at
- 50:57positions you wanna be in.
- 51:00That's the timing you can change careers.
- 51:01You can go and you can become a consultant.
- 51:03You can go out and you can you can quit your job that, that you that you don't like.
- 51:07That's maybe the good paying job, and then go and get a jump working at the flower shop with
- 51:11it that you love doing part time.
- 51:13And so now, you know, instead of going from a $100,000 a year of income down to nothing,
- 51:18maybe you go from a $100,000 of income down to a job that's pays $50,000 and you do not for a
- 51:24couple years, and it's a little bit of a transition in the retirement.
- 51:27You can get a better grip on your expenses.
- 51:29You can get a better grip on, you know, how many couples you get the border if all of a
- 51:35sudden, the 2 of them went from working full time racing around and all of a sudden, they
- 51:39both retired and they're sitting home with nothing to do all.
- 51:41So, you know, if you have a little bit of a hybrid but maybe you retire now and your spouse
- 51:45doesn't retire for another year or 2, and you just do a transition.
- 51:49You figure out the money.
- 51:50You figure out the, the lifestyle and stuff like that, but you know, one of the things is
- 51:55is that people talk about, you know, I I I go to them like, what do you wanna do when you
- 51:59retire?
- 52:00And they go, oh, I wanna travel the world.
- 52:02I five boat, you know, I want to do, you know, do buy a nice car and I want to see the world.
- 52:08And then it's like, well, what are you doing right now?
- 52:10Oh, I'm working 80 hours a week.
- 52:12And so you're working 80 hours a week, so you can pay for all this stuff.
- 52:15You don't see your kids.
- 52:16You're you've missed your kids in silos.
- 52:18Your marriage goes on the rocks a couple of times.
- 52:20Your health soft softwares.
- 52:22And all of a sudden, you go from work in 60, 78 hours a week.
- 52:25And all of a sudden, when they just retire, now you're gonna just gonna start coughing 4 days a
- 52:30week, 5 days.
- 52:31That's not that's not, you know, that's not what retirement is like, and so So what you
- 52:36need to do is you need to figure out what you're gonna do when you retire.
- 52:39And if you enjoy doing those things, just like, what are what are all the things you like doing
- 52:43in your life?
- 52:44You know, you you you write them down and you go, okay.
- 52:46Are you doing any of those things?
- 52:47I was like, no.
- 52:48Well, why why did like, your life is gonna be 8000 days, maybe 30000 days.
- 52:55You know, today is one of those 30000 days.
- 52:57Like, why aren't you doing the things that you like doing today?
- 53:00Properly balance your work with with your with with all the things that we sort of sort of
- 53:05discussed and again, look at life as just being a whole journey.
- 53:08It's not like you're doing something you hate.
- 53:10And all of a sudden, one day you're just gonna wake up and and retire and then you're gonna be
- 53:14happy.
- 53:14If you're not happy before you retire, you're probably not gonna be happy after your there.
- 53:19And and again, the key thing is just to always wake up.
- 53:23Forget money.
- 53:24Just wake up and just just your your job is you walk out to the world and you gonna you're
- 53:28gonna you're gonna come back at the end of the day after you you went on and you you met the
- 53:32world and hopefully you made the world a better place.
- 53:35Hopefully, you're you're a little bit better spot, you know, financial, your relationship
- 53:39wise, or, or, or, you know, knowledge wise, and, and, you know, I would just encourage
- 53:45people to to just not think that retirement is is that this this the most amazing time of your
- 53:52life, you know, probably, you know, for a lot of people, you know, most amazing time in your
- 53:57life is you're you're you're there.
- 53:58You're raising your kids.
- 53:59You got your kids are there.
- 54:00And then all of a sudden, no, you got, you got, you know, maybe your your kids have grandkids
- 54:05and now you're in your fifties, you're early 60?
- 54:08These are
- 54:08exciting, exciting times.
- 54:10You know, how many people do you know that, I go see my mom and assist the living almost
- 54:15every day.
- 54:16It's, it's, you know, it's, it's, it's unfortunate on how few visitors these people
- 54:22So live so rarely what you're saying is live your value and let your let your, your strategy
- 54:28for, retirements be in line with that and but don't start it when you retire because I know
- 54:34that somebody was telling me in financial services, and you could probably tell me that
- 54:38people that do what you're suggesting with the 80 hours and stuff like that that there's a
- 54:42there's a demographic that those people, a lot of times, not too long after retirement.
- 54:47There's a high mortality rate.
- 54:49Very very high mortality rate.
- 54:51You know, if you I don't wanna quote me exactly on this, but the fastest growing segment is,
- 54:58for suicide.
- 54:59It's people over the age of
- 55:00Yes.
- 55:01Yep.
- 55:02And, you know, so so maybe one day you're gonna be like, let's not forget for you for me.
- 55:07Everybody here at Good Health is not not a guarantee of the future.
- 55:11And, you know, you can turn around and and everybody's gonna get a phone call one day.
- 55:15It's gonna save you a chance or you aren't busy.
- 55:18We're all gonna get that phone call.
- 55:20And, you know, for some of us, maybe that phone call is gonna radically change our life for the
- 55:24next 20, 30 years.
- 55:25Well, it'd be ashamed to have not enjoyed the first You know, again, what if what if all was
- 55:31said in my life changes forever?
- 55:32And I have a stroke tomorrow, and I end up I'm in a bed for the next 30 years.
- 55:36Well, at least they can say I made the most out of the first 54 that I had.
- 55:41You know, what if I just work day and night for the future?
- 55:43And I find out that the future is not as bright as it's gonna be.
- 55:46Mike, I know you, you know, you do obviously you're cons you're consulting it with clients,
- 55:51but you also speak.
- 55:52So for, tell me a little bit about speaking and then tell me, and the people listening, if they
- 55:57wanted to connect with you and even for consultation or to to have you speak where
- 56:03where they would,
- 56:05would be to, go on my website, which is more financial at morrowfinancial dotca.
- 56:12I'm in Thunder Bay.
- 56:13I'm not gonna be to talk to anybody on the phone for half an hour about anything you wanna
- 56:17talk about.
- 56:18And if somehow we see that there's a bit, you know, we travel all over the country, and we've
- 56:23got clients all over the country, and, We just feel that we have a real common sense approach
- 56:28to put all of the pieces of the financial puzzle together for people.
- 56:32And again, the key thing that they're gonna get out of that is the confidence actually enjoy
- 56:36their life development.
- 56:38So we we I won a grand prize in a national best idea contest for sort of my whole business
- 56:43plan, so I've spoken really all over the world, you know, to financial advisors and to their
- 56:49clients, on how to build a business, how to explain money, to clients how how to move
- 56:54people to action and, remembering that the, you know, most people when I call them up, if I
- 56:59just got referred to you, today, I'm Mike Moore from Warren Financial.
- 57:02I'd like to talk to you about your money.
- 57:04Your life was going to explain before your phone rang and you think it's gonna but just
- 57:09playing off, you get off the phone with me.
- 57:10So what I need to do is I need to compel you to be moved to auction.
- 57:14You know, I need to do that by by by shortening then that the time horizon on how long you have
- 57:19to save money and the important how long you're gonna have to live on it and putting you in a
- 57:23position where you can see what your future is gonna like under the current path, and then we
- 57:26can we can change what that path looks like.
- 57:29So that's what we do.
- 57:30We we speak to to financial advisors.
- 57:32We speak to clients, Again, our new our our new book don't worry, retire happy.
- 57:37That's a book for consumers.
- 57:38And we're just we did the the first, caught copies of it, just to fix all the spelling
- 57:44mistakes, and we've set that off now for the final final printing.
- 57:48It'll be available on choppers online.
- 57:51It'll be available on audible.
- 57:52And we just think that it just we we put together the seven steps.
- 57:56And what those seven steps are, the first one is to have a plan.
- 57:59The second one, you know, is to maybe have a little bit of a hybrid retirement.
- 58:03We work a little bit longer and save a little bit more.
- 58:05And we wanna make sure we cover all your basic expenses with some sort of a guaranteed income,
- 58:11and then we try to optimize you the rest of your retirement for inflation by investing in
- 58:15equities Then we we teach people how to maximize Canada pension will be secure use.
- 58:20Something, you know, 9 out of 10 people that are in your watch is a have no idea how Canada
- 58:24pension works.
- 58:25You know, and with with our president, I'm going to go to Tim Hortons and everybody at Tim
- 58:28Hortons at the coffee club, you know, tell them when to take it, you know, and without knowing
- 58:32what their situation is at all, and we find that most people make the wrong choice about
- 58:37when they're gonna take their Canada pension and their old age security.
- 58:40You know, the last two steps is make sure you have some sort of a plan for long term care
- 58:44Long term care can basically bankrupt you and your family.
- 58:48And then, you know, the last one is the usual home equity wisely, and then we get people to
- 58:52buy life insurance to conserve our state.
- 58:54And we just slowly put it all together.
- 58:56We get people saving more money than they're currently saving.
- 58:59And, at the end of the at the end of the day, most people are quite hot.
- 59:03Fee that they've done that.
- 59:04So you're you're also speaking.
- 59:06I know you have a big event coming up.
- 59:09Tell tell them what you speak about.
- 59:12And what that, speaking event is because I know it's a pretty cool.
- 59:15Yeah.
- 59:15The the big event I'm doing this year I'm speaking for a group that I remember called a
- 59:19$1,000,000 round table, which for Anybody who's in the speaking profession, that's playing in
- 59:24regard as, the most prestigious place that you can speak, presumably, 14,000 people added in
- 59:31Miami in June.
- 59:32I'm doing a a focused session.
- 59:34There'll be a 90 minute focused session, and Probably the people, I don't know about 2000
- 59:38people out of which be financial advisors from all over the world, and we're just gonna
- 59:42basically talk to them about how to market themselves, how to how to have niche markets,
- 59:47all the different things that we do in our business to attract clients to keep to keep
- 59:52clients to foster client loyalty.
- 59:54And then after we show them how to get clients and keep clients, then we actually use a whole
- 59:58bunch of, financial concepts to to help them to explain how money works.
- 1:00:03And so that they can explain, you know, how life insurance work, and then you explain how
- 1:00:07RSPs work, how how tax free savings and how it's working, and the different products out
- 1:00:11there so that they can have the tools to basically, you know, assist their clients and
- 1:00:16and and moving them to action by by taking something that's really unknown to the client,
- 1:00:20which is how money works, and make it much more familiar and known to them by using simple
- 1:00:25concepts to, so they they actually get it, you know, and then after they get it, and, you
- 1:00:31know, we just work together with them as as clients to work towards whatever their
- 1:00:35financial goals are.
- 1:00:37That's amazing.
- 1:00:38That's quite the accomplishment being able.
- 1:00:40And I know you've you, have spoken there several times, in the speaking business it's
- 1:00:45it's definitely one of the places that most people wanna be at and hopefully someday I'll
- 1:00:51be able to to to be able to do that at some point.
- 1:00:54So you know, my my, this has been, very, very helpful.
- 1:00:59I know personally, I'm thinking of all the things that I need to read this book, first of
- 1:01:02all, And, just to, you know, the basic things that I know that I can do today to really kind
- 1:01:09of, you know, start to think about, like you said, from the $2 coffee, you know, kind of
- 1:01:14looking at what the extra expenditures are that you can start to to shift down now and really
- 1:01:19to be realistic.
- 1:01:20And those What I found very, very interesting is the the hours.
- 1:01:24Right?
- 1:01:25So I'm thinking, okay, I'm 53.
- 1:01:27And if I want to re, you know, look at at semi reach, I will do hybrid because I love what I
- 1:01:32do.
- 1:01:32I like you.
- 1:01:34At 60 let's say 65 to kind of start to think about what are those hours, even if I'm gonna
- 1:01:39go into a hybrid.
- 1:01:40That's really, what a teachable moment there for me.
- 1:01:46You know, so and I hope that the everyone listening is also thinking along those terms.
- 1:01:50And, you know, to to live the life that you want now, don't hold your breath.
- 1:01:56Don't hope that all of a sudden, you know, make the changes now.
- 1:02:00You know, live, you know, make sure that you spend the time doing the things that you wanna
- 1:02:04do.
- 1:02:04That you're aligned with what you value and what you believe because like Michael said,
- 1:02:08there's no guarantee.
- 1:02:10You know, at 65 after you're doing all the things you you've done that you we wear
- 1:02:15guaranteed health, even though we know Canadians are living, a very, very long time
- 1:02:20because, just with technology and stuff like that.
- 1:02:24So I go, you know, thanks so much again.
- 1:02:26Good luck with the event.
- 1:02:27My pleasure.
- 1:02:27One one other thing just that people are interested I gave it one website, which is my
- 1:02:32financial planning website, which is morrofinancial.ca.
- 1:02:35But for my other website, whereas my speaking website in and stuff like that.
- 1:02:40It's called ideas for advisors dot com, idefor@visers.com.
- 1:02:47Okay.
- 1:02:47And I will I will put both of them in the, the show notes.
- 1:02:51They can, so should you want it to to deal with Michael individually or if you wanted to have
- 1:02:56him speak at, your events, you can you'll be you'll be able to kind of hit the link below
- 1:03:02and, be able to connect with them.
- 1:03:04Our book don't worry, retired happy.
- 1:03:06The Global Mill wrote a very, very favorable article about it.
- 1:03:09Awesome.
- 1:03:10Awesome.
- 1:03:11So maybe if you send that to me with a link.
- 1:03:13I could put it in, the show notes so that people could kind of, you know, be able to kind
- 1:03:18of, read that article because I think Very perfect.
- 1:03:22Thanks so much for having me.
- 1:03:24Okay.
- 1:03:24Well, thanks for coming on.
- 1:03:25So for everyone, thanks for tuning in again to authentic living with Roxanne.
- 1:03:29As you know, I'm a mental health and wellness specialist.
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