Latest / Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad / 100p
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Bea Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
- 0:04Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Award winning podcast. Hello everyone, we are scrubbing in the
- 0:18Speaker 2: biggest day of my year. Weird, Becca, Would you like
- 0:28Speaker 2: to introduce our guest of honor.
- 0:30Speaker 3: We have a very special guest, my fiance, Wally.
- 0:40Speaker 2: I'm so happy to be Is it weird saying my fiance? No,
- 0:47Speaker 2: but it's fun to say.
- 0:48Speaker 3: It is fun to say. It's like the best thing
- 0:51Speaker 3: fiance is. Fiance is fun to say.
- 0:54Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. John is just staring
- 0:59Speaker 2: at me.
- 1:00Speaker 4: I know, because there's like a banner that says just engaged,
- 1:04Speaker 4: hind us and she.
- 1:05Speaker 3: Brought champagne and cupcakes and her personal veil from her wedding.
- 1:11Speaker 2: Yes, yes, my actual wedding veil.
- 1:14Speaker 3: It's no like party party favor.
- 1:17Speaker 2: You think a party city veil on my best friend's
- 1:20Speaker 2: head after she gets engaged. No chance. So we are here.
- 1:27Speaker 2: It's the big, big day.
- 1:29Speaker 3: It's been a week since we got engaged.
- 1:31Speaker 2: Nobody knows anything. Let's pop the champagne, okay and like
- 1:36Speaker 2: really get this party started.
- 1:39Speaker 3: Okay, like super fan, I might need you to do
- 1:42Speaker 3: it because you're okay, okay, Haley, No, not you. I
- 1:47Speaker 3: was about to it. Yeah, but don't don't shoot it.
- 1:51Speaker 3: Don't shoot it, don't shoot it. Just like, yeah, we're
- 1:53Speaker 3: in the studio.
- 1:54Speaker 5: Yeah, a little concerned. Oh Dohnya went over to get
- 2:06Speaker 5: her cups filled. No, thank you, I'm fine.
- 2:10Speaker 2: There we go.
- 2:11Speaker 5: Cops are being filled.
- 2:13Speaker 3: Cops are being filled, cups filled, cups, say vision, this
- 2:21Speaker 3: is so surreal, I know.
- 2:24Speaker 2: Okay, let's raise a toast to here, Mark, just so
- 2:28Speaker 2: you can thank you. Let's raise a toast to our
- 2:32Speaker 2: newly engaged couple to the start of the best exciting
- 2:39Speaker 2: era of your lives and the start of your lives together.
- 2:43Speaker 2: Cheers to Becca Hayle.
- 2:52Speaker 3: Mmmm delicious.
- 2:55Speaker 2: Yeah, rich, some nice champagne right there. I'm gonna be
- 2:58Speaker 2: siping on that the rest of the podcast.
- 2:59Speaker 3: Yeah, loosen up.
- 3:02Speaker 2: Okay, So we know nothing. I mean, I know a
- 3:05Speaker 2: little bit, but I'm gonna pretend I know nothing.
- 3:07Speaker 3: I know because we were on our trip and I
- 3:10Speaker 3: knew I was going to get to see you in person,
- 3:12Speaker 3: and you were on your trip, so I wanted to
- 3:14Speaker 3: like be able to tell you all the details and
- 3:17Speaker 3: go through it without just being like text like you
- 3:19Speaker 3: were wanting text, but yeah, I was.
- 3:21Speaker 2: After I heard the news, I was sending texts like
- 3:24Speaker 2: rapid text to Becca like every day emoji, yeah, exclamation,
- 3:29Speaker 2: we have wake up call yeah, and she would like
- 3:31Speaker 2: respond the next day and answer like one of the ten.
- 3:34Speaker 5: Questions that torture for you.
- 3:35Speaker 2: So I was like being respectful and I was like
- 3:37Speaker 2: letting her be present in her blissful moment. I did
- 3:39Speaker 2: a great job, Thank you.
- 3:40Speaker 3: I did it for you, and you know what, you
- 3:42Speaker 3: did a great job, and you also made us feel
- 3:44Speaker 3: you and Robbie made us feel so loved and celebrated,
- 3:47Speaker 3: So it was like the perfect It was just lovely.
- 3:50Speaker 2: Wow, that's nice to hear. You know we're our first
- 3:51Speaker 2: cause I was really restraining myself.
- 3:54Speaker 3: Y'all were the first call we made after we got out.
- 3:57Speaker 2: I wasn't gonna say that because I didn't want to
- 4:01Speaker 2: it started. I didn't want to start a drama. I
- 4:03Speaker 2: was gonna take that with me to the grave. But
- 4:04Speaker 2: can you believe that?
- 4:07Speaker 3: I couldn't believe it. It just was like we were
- 4:10Speaker 3: one hundred percent sure that you would give us a
- 4:13Speaker 3: celebratory response and be so excited for us. So it
- 4:16Speaker 3: was like, I think we were just excited to call you.
- 4:20Speaker 3: Like I was so excited to call you and have
- 4:22Speaker 3: your response because I knew it was gonna be so good.
- 4:24Speaker 5: Was it celebratory? Did you start crying?
- 4:26Speaker 3: Oh?
- 4:26Speaker 2: Yeah, that was like heaving.
- 4:29Speaker 3: I have a really funny video. I'm gonna send Crystal
- 4:31Speaker 3: so she can post it because it's hilarious.
- 4:33Speaker 2: Yeah, crying like a lot. I was, so I was
- 4:37Speaker 2: convinced that you guys weren't getting engaged on this trip.
- 4:40Speaker 4: Made you back up, because remember you had commented bridal Era, Yes,
- 4:48Speaker 4: convinced that it was happening on the trip at one point.
- 4:51Speaker 2: Yeah, like you called us on speaker and was like,
- 4:53Speaker 2: are you guys gonna get engaged in my or guy?
- 4:56Speaker 4: And I'm like in the car like, oh my gosh,
- 4:59Speaker 4: I di And I was like, I wasn't planning to
- 5:04Speaker 4: tell you, but at that point I was like, I
- 5:05Speaker 4: cannot tell it. Ton, Like you all see each other
- 5:09Speaker 4: way too much, and this like just trying to surprise
- 5:14Speaker 4: Becca is just like beyond Like I've never surprised her.
- 5:19Speaker 2: I guess you have.
- 5:19Speaker 3: You came home from tour early one time.
- 5:22Speaker 2: Okay, fine, ones, but it's really hard to surprise her
- 5:24Speaker 2: because she's super intuitive. Yeah, cookie, and she's always first
- 5:30Speaker 2: to the punch first. Yes. Yeah. So like I was,
- 5:34Speaker 2: I thought it was gonna happen in Myerica, and then
- 5:37Speaker 2: I realized Becca's not prepared yet. So I really convinced
- 5:41Speaker 2: myself it's not happening on this trip. So like I
- 5:44Speaker 2: and then even Robbie pulled me aside and was like, Babe,
- 5:46Speaker 2: remember before we got engaged and everybody was like ring
- 5:49Speaker 2: ring ring ring ring, Like how annoying. It was like,
- 5:52Speaker 2: don't do that to your best friend. And I was like, Okay,
- 5:55Speaker 2: you're right, I'm not I'm gonna like lay off.
- 5:57Speaker 5: Why it's.
- 6:00Speaker 2: So I was convinced you guys weren't getting engaged on
- 6:02Speaker 2: this trip.
- 6:03Speaker 4: And imful because I do think that like me, I
- 6:08Speaker 4: was telling beck I was like, Tanya's like freaking me
- 6:10Speaker 4: out because like she is putting pressure on this, like
- 6:13Speaker 4: she's commenting bridal Era on Instagram like it's a lot,
- 6:18Speaker 4: and like it actually worked in my favor, yeah, because
- 6:22Speaker 4: I was like, you know, telling Beca like I'm just
- 6:24Speaker 4: not ready for that, you know, Okay, So I was like.
- 6:28Speaker 3: Okay, and I also like in my mind, which I've
- 6:31Speaker 3: said on the podcast, I always thought I would be
- 6:33Speaker 3: the first to propose. So I went on the trip
- 6:35Speaker 3: being like all my I had several friends being like,
- 6:39Speaker 3: are y'all getting engaged? Are you proposing? And I was like, no,
- 6:41Speaker 3: you guys, it's just a vacation. We go on trips
- 6:44Speaker 3: all the time, and I don't even have a ring
- 6:46Speaker 3: or anything, so we're not getting engaged. So when I
- 6:49Speaker 3: tell you, I had absolutely no clue. It wasn't even
- 6:53Speaker 3: a thought in my mind going into the trip. I mean,
- 6:56Speaker 3: I was clueless.
- 6:58Speaker 2: So when you packed for this trip, like, were you
- 7:00Speaker 2: trying to help, like knowing Hayley you're gonna propose, were
- 7:04Speaker 2: you like trying to encourage her to like pack a
- 7:06Speaker 2: little like cheater, or.
- 7:08Speaker 4: Like, well, she's always cute, she's always prepared, So that
- 7:12Speaker 4: was like check. But I was like making I was shot.
- 7:16Speaker 4: I was like making sure I had outfits, which I
- 7:18Speaker 4: don't normally do. I got my nails done with her,
- 7:21Speaker 4: which I I haven't got my nails done in years.
- 7:24Speaker 2: Did that throw you off at all?
- 7:25Speaker 5: No?
- 7:26Speaker 3: I was just like, Oh, she's growing up.
- 7:31Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean when you look back, there's so many moments.
- 7:34Speaker 4: So and then with the ring concierge thing too.
- 7:36Speaker 3: Oh yeah, crazy.
- 7:37Speaker 4: So I was unsure what ring she wanted exactly, and
- 7:42Speaker 4: so I worked with ring concierge to basically pretend that
- 7:46Speaker 4: she was being gifted jewelry, like free jewelry. So I
- 7:49Speaker 4: had them DM back up at me like Hey, we're
- 7:52Speaker 4: gifting like free jewelry for pride, like.
- 7:56Speaker 2: Come into the shower. They were just like all in
- 7:59Speaker 2: my mind it was Pride, but yeah, they were just like, yeah.
- 8:02Speaker 3: They've gifted me stuff before. So they messaged me and
- 8:04Speaker 3: there they were like, hey, come into the LA location
- 8:07Speaker 3: and we want to gift you in Haley, I.
- 8:09Speaker 2: Feel like you told me about this and they have
- 8:11Speaker 2: some event they where you were like I remember you
- 8:13Speaker 2: inviting me to a ring concierge event.
- 8:15Speaker 3: No, that was a different event. Well that was a
- 8:17Speaker 3: long time ago if I invited you to that, but
- 8:18Speaker 3: this was just recently. I think I talked about getting
- 8:22Speaker 3: the free jewelry because I posted an engagement ring and
- 8:26Speaker 3: I put like for engagement right, But was that the
- 8:30Speaker 3: actual ring?
- 8:31Speaker 4: No, it wasn't the actual ring, but I did set
- 8:33Speaker 4: it up. So basically they don't normally have engagement rings
- 8:35Speaker 4: like like on the store, so they they had the
- 8:39Speaker 4: rings out and then Marla and I've been talking and
- 8:43Speaker 4: we brought back there and we were like browsing, and
- 8:46Speaker 4: so the goal was to figure out what you know,
- 8:48Speaker 4: diamond she wanted.
- 8:49Speaker 3: Basically like what you know what shape?
- 8:51Speaker 2: Shame And so she is just having a.
- 8:54Speaker 4: Black and Bega doesn't know that they don't have engagement
- 8:57Speaker 4: rings no like and the woman who was working and
- 9:00Speaker 4: they're also wasn't in on it, which is good. They
- 9:02Speaker 4: didn't tell her because they didn't want anyone to like
- 9:04Speaker 4: spoil the surprise.
- 9:06Speaker 3: But it was hard.
- 9:07Speaker 2: It was one of the hardest parts of the whole.
- 9:09Speaker 4: Engagement because she would not she would be refused to
- 9:13Speaker 4: go look at the engagement rings like she she no. Literally,
- 9:17Speaker 4: like Marlon and I were like trying rings on.
- 9:19Speaker 2: Being like what do you think of this?
- 9:21Speaker 4: We were like, begad come over here, and she'd be
- 9:22Speaker 4: like I'm chopping, like I'm out my free stuff. And
- 9:26Speaker 4: I literally had to look it back and I was like, babe,
- 9:29Speaker 4: come over here and look at these rings.
- 9:31Speaker 2: Like she had no interest. She was probably focused on
- 9:34Speaker 2: trying to figure out.
- 9:35Speaker 6: No on what he no.
- 9:38Speaker 4: I and I got in my head at that moment
- 9:41Speaker 4: I was like, if I gave it away, that was
- 9:43Speaker 4: the moment I was like, that.
- 9:45Speaker 2: Was it trying to find the ring?
- 9:47Speaker 4: Yeah, basically like making basically forcing her to try these
- 9:51Speaker 4: rings on.
- 9:52Speaker 3: Yeah, but I didn't. I was just like, why are
- 9:54Speaker 3: they trying to bust me around and give me to
- 9:55Speaker 3: trial on rings? I'm just trying to get my gifted jewels.
- 10:00Speaker 3: They're interrupting me. So I I was clueless, and then
- 10:04Speaker 3: I posted it clueless and then still had no idea.
- 10:09Speaker 3: And then when she told I still didn't know until
- 10:11Speaker 3: she explained.
- 10:14Speaker 6: So you mean like getting the story, okay, but I
- 10:17Speaker 6: want to I'm not the ring, the ring, the ring
- 10:20Speaker 6: that you picked out, the ring that you're wearing, it's
- 10:23Speaker 6: not it's not the exact one that she showed in
- 10:26Speaker 6: the photo.
- 10:26Speaker 2: No, but it's the same shape. So how did you
- 10:29Speaker 2: know that that was the exact one? And did you
- 10:30Speaker 2: go like, cause do you have a hidden halo under
- 10:33Speaker 2: the underneath?
- 10:34Speaker 4: Yeah? So she's friend or friends with Nicole, who owns
- 10:38Speaker 4: Ring Concient Yeah. And so initially when I reached out
- 10:41Speaker 4: to Nicole, she had said she wanted a cushion, and
- 10:45Speaker 4: so she was actually almost perfectly right with what Becca wanted,
- 10:49Speaker 4: but I was like, I don't know if this is
- 10:52Speaker 4: like I can't just take your word on it, like
- 10:54Speaker 4: I need to make sure. So when I brought her
- 10:55Speaker 4: in the store, that's the one she picked out, and
- 10:57Speaker 4: so I was like, Okay, that's the.
- 10:59Speaker 2: Did she elongated cushion? Elongated cushion, yeah, which most people
- 11:03Speaker 2: don't know exists. Yeah, and it's good. It's good. It's
- 11:07Speaker 2: really good. It's like the perfect hybrid of Oval and
- 11:12Speaker 2: Wrecked and Emerald. Yes, it's like the perfect yes combo. Yeah,
- 11:17Speaker 2: it's very good, nicely done. Thank you. Okay, so the
- 11:22Speaker 2: ring is secured and you know you're going to get
- 11:24Speaker 2: it in time for your trip? Absolutely?
- 11:26Speaker 6: Yes.
- 11:28Speaker 2: Because that was recent, they were not stressed.
- 11:30Speaker 4: I literally called them like months in advance, and they
- 11:32Speaker 4: were like, this is like having a year. She was like,
- 11:36Speaker 4: I'm so used to guys calling me being like.
- 11:38Speaker 3: I have five days to go to the ring.
- 11:41Speaker 4: So she was like, this is a dream come true.
- 11:43Speaker 4: And she was like, we have so much time. And
- 11:45Speaker 4: I was like, great, wow, okay, that's the easiest part.
- 11:49Speaker 2: Okay, ring ring, secured, ring, secured planet packing for the trip. Yeah, yeah,
- 11:54Speaker 2: where'd you hide it?
- 11:56Speaker 4: So that was I heard, like no horror stories, but
- 12:01Speaker 4: like it's most stressful to go through security because and
- 12:03Speaker 4: I'm always like the girl who gets flagged because I'm
- 12:06Speaker 4: bringing like Chinese herbs or I have some kind of
- 12:09Speaker 4: weird thing and they're like what is this?
- 12:12Speaker 2: So I basically put the ring box was huge, so
- 12:16Speaker 2: I put the ring box.
- 12:17Speaker 4: You know those take cookies, yeah, like a green So
- 12:22Speaker 4: I took the cookies out, and I put the ring
- 12:25Speaker 4: box in that bag because I always bring snacks on
- 12:27Speaker 4: the plane, and then I put you put it in
- 12:29Speaker 4: your carry on, yes, yeah, oh yeah, you know my
- 12:32Speaker 4: cherry on and then I and then I have a
- 12:34Speaker 4: jewelry box where I carry my jewelry. It's like a
- 12:37Speaker 4: small yellow box, and I put the ring there. So
- 12:39Speaker 4: I separated them just in case because if they were
- 12:42Speaker 4: going through my jewelry, like they just want to really
- 12:44Speaker 4: notice the ring hopefully, but if they like open a
- 12:47Speaker 4: cookie thing and like a ring is in there and
- 12:50Speaker 4: it's empty, like who cares? Right, So that's what I did.
- 12:54Speaker 4: There's no rule book, you guys. It's very stressful. People
- 12:57Speaker 4: don't understand how difficult, like I get at how people
- 13:00Speaker 4: just go well, I like it's you. You're fighting, fighting
- 13:06Speaker 4: the surprise the whole time, because it's just it's so
- 13:08Speaker 4: hard to not tell your partner what's going on.
- 13:11Speaker 2: And then in the house like how did where did
- 13:14Speaker 2: you hide it? In the house? I put it in
- 13:15Speaker 2: my hiking bag with my hiking shoes.
- 13:19Speaker 4: Smart like Becca would never grabbing my hiking We're hiking,
- 13:27Speaker 4: we're hiking.
- 13:27Speaker 2: We're not wearing hiking shoes.
- 13:29Speaker 5: Cereal box be a bad idea, right, yeah, the waffle
- 13:33Speaker 5: the waffle box in the freezer.
- 13:36Speaker 4: It was very stressed going. Luckily I have t s
- 13:39Speaker 4: a prechect she doesn't. So I abandoned her and I said,
- 13:43Speaker 4: she you later, She's.
- 13:45Speaker 3: Done that before. This is a new behavior, so I
- 13:48Speaker 3: didn't question that either. I was like, go ahead, I'm clear, well,
- 13:51Speaker 3: because she gets upset.
- 13:52Speaker 2: I go through regular and then I get flagged and
- 13:54Speaker 2: I'm like, I am upset.
- 13:57Speaker 4: Well, but it's just like you know, it's just okay,
- 14:00Speaker 4: a little thing your stuff. No, to not bring your
- 14:03Speaker 4: Chinese herbs is a block back, you know, et cetera.
- 14:06Speaker 2: What do they what do you think those Chinese herbs are?
- 14:08Speaker 2: Isn't there drugs? I don't know, Oh, I don't know,
- 14:11Speaker 2: but regardless, when I got through security, I was like yeah,
- 14:16Speaker 2: I was like big one, and I was like, okay,
- 14:18Speaker 2: we're good, We're good, we're going. But did you like
- 14:22Speaker 2: carry that bag? Like was that bag attached to you?
- 14:24Speaker 2: You don't like it's a marry bag, Like I literally
- 14:27Speaker 2: never go anywhere without it, and.
- 14:28Speaker 3: It's a roller bag. It's like something Grandma carries. She does.
- 14:33Speaker 4: She's like a briefcase on wheels rolling around a am
- 14:37Speaker 4: I asking too many?
- 14:37Speaker 2: Am I?
- 14:38Speaker 3: No?
- 14:38Speaker 5: I think you're doing a fantastic job.
- 14:40Speaker 2: Well, okay, thanks, Will you keep me like on time?
- 14:42Speaker 5: Yes, I'm watching the clock door.
- 14:43Speaker 2: Great, it's gonna be a three hours keep.
- 14:48Speaker 3: Yeah, don't you worry.
- 14:49Speaker 2: Okay. So we land in my Orca on what day?
- 14:54Speaker 3: Tuesday night?
- 14:55Speaker 2: The first July first Tuesday night, And do you know
- 14:58Speaker 2: what day you're proposing?
- 15:00Speaker 3: No?
- 15:00Speaker 4: I had a like I was like, I'm proposing between
- 15:03Speaker 4: three and five, no, July third, between July third and
- 15:11Speaker 4: July fifth.
- 15:11Speaker 3: Okay, Well so there was.
- 15:12Speaker 2: A way time frame. Yeah, okay, because also was stressful
- 15:15Speaker 2: because I don't live in my arca. So we're going.
- 15:18Speaker 4: You know, her dream is to go to my Arca
- 15:20Speaker 4: during like high season with beautiful weather, but with that
- 15:24Speaker 4: comes lots of people. So and I'm like, okay, so
- 15:28Speaker 4: my mission is to find turquoise water a beach with
- 15:31Speaker 4: no one around, and I have to somehow figure this out.
- 15:35Speaker 3: So well, you did well, we did. So.
- 15:38Speaker 4: My photographer Yk, who did my tour photography, he lives
- 15:42Speaker 4: in Singapore, so he I texted him and he was traveling,
- 15:46Speaker 4: and so he flew out and basically landed before we
- 15:49Speaker 4: got there, and he scouted out the airbnb, he scouted
- 15:54Speaker 4: out the beach, and so I'm like texting him while
- 15:56Speaker 4: I'm on the plane. He's sending He's basically doing a
- 15:59Speaker 4: little key patient scout, and he's driving around to the
- 16:02Speaker 4: beaches and checking them out in the mornings to see
- 16:06Speaker 4: how crowded it is and how busy. And luckily people
- 16:09Speaker 4: sleep in over there, like the beaches aren't busy till
- 16:12Speaker 4: like eleven, right, right or eleven. I thought I was
- 16:15Speaker 4: gonna have to propose to her at like six am,
- 16:17Speaker 4: So I was like mentally preparing to like drag.
- 16:20Speaker 2: Her out of the bed, get her into position.
- 16:23Speaker 4: Like I literally was like, this is gonna be the
- 16:26Speaker 4: hardest thing, because she's very go with the flow. So
- 16:29Speaker 4: my thought is, you know, between July third and fifth,
- 16:32Speaker 4: we could plan to do a July third and then
- 16:34Speaker 4: she might be like, I'm tired, I want to sleep.
- 16:36Speaker 2: In, right, I can't drag her out of bed. We're
- 16:38Speaker 2: gonna but you have a photographer, like you have to
- 16:40Speaker 2: tell him.
- 16:41Speaker 3: He just.
- 16:43Speaker 4: Stand by like just ready to go, and like then
- 16:46Speaker 4: uh and then so yeah, I'll keep asking questions.
- 16:49Speaker 2: No, but like that is like something that is so
- 16:53Speaker 2: like such a girl thing, do you know, like having
- 16:56Speaker 2: the securing the photographer and like making sure that that's
- 16:58Speaker 2: good to go. Like I remember, I think Robbie would
- 17:00Speaker 2: reach out to Becca to be like our photographer for
- 17:03Speaker 2: our engagement.
- 17:03Speaker 7: And like.
- 17:06Speaker 2: Might somehow somebody nudged him to get a photographer. Yeah,
- 17:12Speaker 2: but like leave it to like Haley to like make
- 17:14Speaker 2: sure like I know she wants to go to be secure.
- 17:19Speaker 4: But it was helpful because he was basically scouting out
- 17:21Speaker 4: the areas I wanted reporting back, she shared.
- 17:25Speaker 2: When they facetimed us, Haley showed us like a stick
- 17:28Speaker 2: figure drawing of like where the spot was scouted out.
- 17:31Speaker 2: He put like a rock there so that like she
- 17:34Speaker 2: would stand there. Becca would stand like he.
- 17:36Speaker 4: Like so he basically, my friend who used to live
- 17:40Speaker 4: in my Arca recommended me this beach and so y
- 17:43Speaker 4: K scouted it. It was perfect and I was trying
- 17:47Speaker 4: to get I had a very specific vision of the shot,
- 17:50Speaker 4: which was like turquoise water and then like Becca and
- 17:53Speaker 4: so I drew out what the shot should be, and
- 17:56Speaker 4: then y K got to the location and literally was
- 17:59Speaker 4: drawing on the photo stick figures of where I should
- 18:03Speaker 4: stand and where to position her.
- 18:05Speaker 2: And then the night the morning of, y K was
- 18:09Speaker 2: texting me.
- 18:09Speaker 4: He left this like rock and like a piece of
- 18:11Speaker 4: tissue on on the ground and he was like, look
- 18:15Speaker 4: for the rock and the.
- 18:16Speaker 2: Tissue, and he sent me like a video of how
- 18:19Speaker 2: to get there.
- 18:20Speaker 4: And so that was like my position to you know,
- 18:24Speaker 4: to look out for for the shot because the shot
- 18:26Speaker 4: had to be perfect.
- 18:27Speaker 5: And you're on the rock or she's on the rock
- 18:28Speaker 5: or you're on the rock.
- 18:30Speaker 4: Was just like a placement holder. I was actually supposed
- 18:32Speaker 4: to move the rock, but I forgot to move it.
- 18:34Speaker 5: Rock, big rock. Yeah, yeah, I haven't seen I just
- 18:38Speaker 5: found out an hour ago, So no, I haven't seen anything.
- 18:42Speaker 5: We can keep going, Yeah, Mark.
- 18:46Speaker 4: Let's see if it matches his vision. This is like important,
- 18:50Speaker 4: but I think Becker should talk more because this is her.
- 18:54Speaker 2: Becca will became of their engagement.
- 19:06Speaker 5: Congratulations, much congratulation. Now I've seen the photos. I can't
- 19:14Speaker 5: imagine a more perfect spot.
- 19:15Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you.
- 19:16Speaker 4: Yeah, so Becca, no crazy crazy chills that around eleven
- 19:22Speaker 4: thirty at that beach, there's like like tens of twenties.
- 19:26Speaker 2: Of boats, like just boats everywhere.
- 19:28Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 19:29Speaker 3: People, So what time was this? I think we got
- 19:31Speaker 3: there around tens We got there like nine okay?
- 19:35Speaker 5: And was there was there an excuse given as to
- 19:37Speaker 5: why we need to be there early?
- 19:39Speaker 2: Brian did becka push back?
- 19:41Speaker 3: No, so we Her friend told her, who lived in Majorca,
- 19:44Speaker 3: about this beach that's like a little more just known
- 19:47Speaker 3: by the locals, but it gets busy, you know, at
- 19:50Speaker 3: a certain point after ten. Yeah. So she told me, which,
- 19:53Speaker 3: we go on vacations all the time and we'll go
- 19:56Speaker 3: travel to a beach and like we we will get
- 19:58Speaker 3: up early because if you read like views and stuff,
- 20:00Speaker 3: people are like you need to get here early for parking.
- 20:02Speaker 3: So like I was totally not thrown by that at
- 20:05Speaker 3: all because we did all the time, and she was like,
- 20:06Speaker 3: let's go. It's so beautiful, we'll take pictures.
- 20:08Speaker 2: I remember you guys went on one of your Cabo trips.
- 20:10Speaker 2: You got up like with the sun, right, Yeah, yeah,
- 20:13Speaker 2: we've been just shocking.
- 20:15Speaker 3: Yeah, I am up for an I'm willing to get
- 20:18Speaker 3: up for an experience.
- 20:19Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so we're up. You know what's happening the
- 20:24Speaker 2: next morning?
- 20:26Speaker 4: You basically yeah, I had texted wy I was like,
- 20:28Speaker 4: depending on whether she wakes up, I'll let you know.
- 20:30Speaker 4: And so we had texted, like, we're temporarily proposing July third,
- 20:34Speaker 4: okay to the temporary plan.
- 20:36Speaker 2: How did you get Becca to like be cute at Oh,
- 20:40Speaker 2: this is a good question.
- 20:42Speaker 3: However, let's take a break and we'll be right back,
- 21:04Speaker 3: and we're back. I also.
- 21:08Speaker 2: Even walked in. Do you want some champagne we're celebrating.
- 21:11Speaker 2: I'm good, but I don't drink, but like for ceremony.
- 21:14Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, a little bit. I don't have any. Man,
- 21:19Speaker 5: It's okay, we did.
- 21:22Speaker 2: We'll do a toast at the end too.
- 21:23Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 21:24Speaker 2: Okay, So it's the morning of the proposal. You told
- 21:28Speaker 2: Becca we're getting up at whatever time. How are you ready?
- 21:33Speaker 2: Like you looked cute in the photos.
- 21:35Speaker 3: Ish, which really I mean I looked.
- 21:38Speaker 2: I liked my outfit because I know you're in makeup.
- 21:41Speaker 3: I mean, okay, we What we haven't mentioned is that
- 21:44Speaker 3: there was a intense heat wave going on in my Orca.
- 21:48Speaker 2: It was they had never seen anything.
- 21:50Speaker 5: Yeah, it was.
- 21:51Speaker 2: It was all of Europe, like us shut down the
- 21:53Speaker 2: Eiffel Tower or something. It was like crazy were there.
- 21:56Speaker 3: We were in it. And so my let me tell
- 21:58Speaker 3: you before, I was probably the most casual I've been
- 22:02Speaker 3: about packing outfits on this trip. I packed a few
- 22:04Speaker 3: hair tools, but like I was like whatever, I'm just
- 22:06Speaker 3: gonna try and like disconnect.
- 22:08Speaker 2: Recharge, like we're not doing content.
- 22:11Speaker 3: My outfits were fine, but I didn't get anything like
- 22:13Speaker 3: oh my god, because I was just like I'm just
- 22:15Speaker 3: gonna disengage.
- 22:17Speaker 2: She's never done that.
- 22:18Speaker 7: You know.
- 22:20Speaker 2: What's so funny is before we left, when I was
- 22:22Speaker 2: packing for our honeymoon, I was texting Becca and because
- 22:25Speaker 2: like Becca always overpacks, and I was like finding myself
- 22:30Speaker 2: overpacking for my honeymoon. I was like just about how
- 22:32Speaker 2: many bags do you pack? And like how many hair tools,
- 22:34Speaker 2: how many outfits? What's appropriate? What's appropriate? And I had
- 22:38Speaker 2: packed like essentially what you normally pack, which is like
- 22:41Speaker 2: a big suitcase and then like a carry on.
- 22:43Speaker 3: Yeah, so I didn't. I packed a big suitcase and.
- 22:46Speaker 2: A carry on, but I'm not all your tools.
- 22:49Speaker 3: I packed. Well, yeah, because there's only a certain amount
- 22:52Speaker 3: in brands that will work in Europe without like overheating.
- 22:56Speaker 3: So I just brought what I had and I was like, whatever,
- 22:59Speaker 3: it's fine, I'm just gonna go chill. My hair was
- 23:01Speaker 3: like so poofy every day. I was like, I mean
- 23:06Speaker 3: you would, you would get ready walk out and it
- 23:08Speaker 3: was like instant sweat.
- 23:10Speaker 4: Yeah, like in an oven, Like you couldn't walk around
- 23:13Speaker 4: and chop, like you had to immediately get into a
- 23:16Speaker 4: body of water.
- 23:17Speaker 2: Yeah, it's always be when I'm.
- 23:18Speaker 4: From Los Angeles, so I'm used to desert and like
- 23:21Speaker 4: I'm not used to humidity. So I we got there
- 23:24Speaker 4: and I was like, oh my gosh, I'm gonna have
- 23:26Speaker 4: to propose to.
- 23:27Speaker 3: Hur at like six am.
- 23:29Speaker 4: You guys by ten am, You're like, I can't be outside.
- 23:32Speaker 4: But that's just because I'm not used to that weather.
- 23:35Speaker 3: You know, I'm not either. So I put on the
- 23:37Speaker 3: outfit and it's like a beach outfit, you know. I
- 23:39Speaker 3: had a swimsuit on a little bandana around my as
- 23:42Speaker 3: a top and then like, okay, I thought so too.
- 23:45Speaker 3: You know, it was great. I was like, oh, this
- 23:46Speaker 3: will look so good with the turquoise water when we
- 23:48Speaker 3: take pictures. But by no means was I thinking.
- 23:51Speaker 2: This is a proposal you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, but
- 23:54Speaker 2: I love that.
- 23:54Speaker 3: I didn't know because it was I mean, I kind
- 23:57Speaker 3: of had a spiral about it because I was like,
- 24:00Speaker 3: was it the most flattering?
- 24:01Speaker 4: I don't know, but no, it was super It just
- 24:04Speaker 4: I just remember she had said like these are this
- 24:07Speaker 4: is what I would want when we proposed, And so
- 24:09Speaker 4: when she put her outfit together, I was like texting
- 24:12Speaker 4: Marla like panicked, like like is she going to get
- 24:15Speaker 4: mad at me if I don't give her heads up?
- 24:17Speaker 4: Like do I tell her that they're photographer? Is like
- 24:19Speaker 4: waiting for us, And Marla was like, no, it's going
- 24:22Speaker 4: to give it away. And so I just was like,
- 24:24Speaker 4: you know what, We're just gonna have to go with
- 24:27Speaker 4: this because giving her the surprise was the most important
- 24:30Speaker 4: thing to me. Yeah, And I was like, we'll just
- 24:32Speaker 4: do more photos if we need to later, you know,
- 24:35Speaker 4: like we'll just do another photo shoot.
- 24:37Speaker 2: So she's your cue, little bandana.
- 24:39Speaker 8: Beach outfit on and I said, I texted y K
- 24:42Speaker 8: and I said, we are on our way, And so
- 24:45Speaker 8: he was at the beach waiting in like the bushes,
- 24:49Speaker 8: like in heat.
- 24:50Speaker 3: Yeah, poor guy, I know. And it was also one
- 24:54Speaker 3: of the things that in hindsight, I should have been
- 24:56Speaker 3: suspicious about, is that she was steaming her clothes and
- 24:59Speaker 3: she just care about wrinkles ever, Like an she'll leave
- 25:03Speaker 3: the house, I'm like, babe, please let me stee your pants.
- 25:06Speaker 3: Like I'll just be like, I'll do it for you.
- 25:08Speaker 3: So she goes, I think I'm gonna steam my clothes
- 25:11Speaker 3: for tomorrow the night before, and I should have been like,
- 25:14Speaker 3: something's going on, but again I was like, she's growing up.
- 25:20Speaker 3: So yeah, we go and we drive to the beach.
- 25:24Speaker 3: We had a breakfast and.
- 25:26Speaker 2: At our house and the region is in your pocket.
- 25:29Speaker 2: The ring is in my purse. Oh right, yeah, And
- 25:32Speaker 2: she I have.
- 25:34Speaker 3: To say, like I will say, and I've always said
- 25:36Speaker 3: this on the podcast, but like, Haley makes me feel
- 25:39Speaker 3: like the most beautiful person in the world. Like I
- 25:40Speaker 3: walked out and she was like, baby, you look amazed.
- 25:43Speaker 3: So I was like, dang, she's so into me in this.
- 25:48Speaker 2: She's like this on.
- 25:50Speaker 3: Yeah, So we drive It was like an hour drive
- 25:53Speaker 3: to get to the beach. And we get there and
- 25:56Speaker 3: she's like, let's just leave the stuff in the car
- 25:58Speaker 3: or beat stuff in the car, will come back and
- 25:59Speaker 3: get it. And I'm like, this looks like a hike.
- 26:01Speaker 3: You're gonna we're gonna come back up and get the
- 26:03Speaker 3: beach stuff because she don't want there to be like
- 26:05Speaker 3: a pile of.
- 26:06Speaker 5: Stuff our suff Wow, that is a level of thinking
- 26:10Speaker 5: through that is really.
- 26:11Speaker 3: Impressive, so impressive.
- 26:13Speaker 4: And so we walk down and we go on this
- 26:17Speaker 4: like little path where and mind you, I had never
- 26:19Speaker 4: been there, so I had to watch like a video
- 26:22Speaker 4: and memorize how to get down to the spot and
- 26:25Speaker 4: find the raw correct.
- 26:27Speaker 5: So did you play it like, oh, let's go this way?
- 26:30Speaker 6: Why here?
- 26:31Speaker 2: Oh I think my friend told me to go this way.
- 26:33Speaker 3: And I just say yeah, and I'm just following her.
- 26:36Speaker 3: I'm like okay. So she makes it like abrupt stop
- 26:41Speaker 3: and start setting up the dry bottom like okay, I guess,
- 26:47Speaker 3: and I'm like watching her. She comes up. I had
- 26:50Speaker 3: a like a key little sun bucket hat on and
- 26:52Speaker 3: sunglasses and she just takes the hat off of me,
- 26:55Speaker 3: takes my sunglasses and I'm like, why.
- 26:58Speaker 2: Are you doing?
- 26:58Speaker 3: Like she's not saying anything.
- 27:00Speaker 2: The camera was set up and rolling because you sent
- 27:02Speaker 2: us that and I saw that, and that's like the
- 27:05Speaker 2: mys are like shaking, Yeah I can't. And you see,
- 27:10Speaker 2: like you see her walk over to Becca and pull
- 27:12Speaker 2: her hat and her sunglasses off, and Beck it's just
- 27:14Speaker 2: like I'm.
- 27:14Speaker 4: Like, I don't even say anything to her because I
- 27:16Speaker 4: was just like at this point, I'm making no excuses.
- 27:18Speaker 2: I gotta just like go, yeah she didn't. Watching Becca's
- 27:22Speaker 2: face go from like what the hell did you just do?
- 27:24Speaker 2: To like whatever you pull out of your purse like
- 27:27Speaker 2: and the moment you realize what's happening is like so sweet.
- 27:30Speaker 3: Well, I was watching her set it up and she
- 27:32Speaker 3: was struggling, like I could tell, and it was so bright.
- 27:35Speaker 3: At that point she crossed the shot, so I see
- 27:43Speaker 3: her because I was watching her. I see her pull
- 27:46Speaker 3: the box out of her purse and I'm like, what
- 27:50Speaker 3: is well, yeah, I was like what is that?
- 27:53Speaker 7: What is that?
- 27:54Speaker 3: And she walks me over to the now I know,
- 27:57Speaker 3: the rock and she.
- 28:01Speaker 2: I'm crying.
- 28:02Speaker 3: She's already crying, and I'm like so overwhelmed because I
- 28:06Speaker 3: was so un it was so unexpected, and I was
- 28:09Speaker 3: just like so overwhelmed and like trying to be present.
- 28:13Speaker 3: She said like amazing things to me, and she can't remember,
- 28:19Speaker 3: was about like I'll keep you safe and like I'll
- 28:22Speaker 3: be your safe, you know, just like just like beautiful
- 28:24Speaker 3: things that have always made me feel like she was
- 28:27Speaker 3: my person. And then she got down on me and
- 28:33Speaker 3: asked me to marry her and I said yes.
- 28:37Speaker 5: And at what point, though, did it register for you?
- 28:39Speaker 3: I mean, as soon as I saw the ring but
- 28:44Speaker 3: I was the ring box. The ring box. Yeah, I
- 28:48Speaker 3: was just like, oh my god, I can't believe I'm
- 28:50Speaker 3: so caught off guard because I always thought it was
- 28:52Speaker 3: going to be me. And there was this moment like
- 28:55Speaker 3: honestly where like the part of me that has some
- 28:58Speaker 3: control issues was like very caught off guard, like, oh
- 29:02Speaker 3: my god, she got me.
- 29:03Speaker 4: Yeah, she called me so good, and she was stressed
- 29:07Speaker 4: that we only had the iPhone. Very had a convo
- 29:12Speaker 4: like that she needed professional photos and there's nothing against
- 29:16Speaker 4: iPhone photos, but like that's a request she had asked for.
- 29:19Speaker 3: I just was like I would love to have a
- 29:21Speaker 3: photographer capture at the moment, of course, and especially you know,
- 29:24Speaker 3: when you're in a place like that. It was just
- 29:26Speaker 3: like wow, and so I did have it was funny
- 29:29Speaker 3: what was running through my mind, which was, oh my god,
- 29:32Speaker 3: oh we we don't even know if it's on us
- 29:38Speaker 3: shop Orgles. So she got downe on knee and said
- 29:44Speaker 3: yes and then opened the box and I was just like,
- 29:47Speaker 3: oh my god, and I said yes, and then then
- 29:51Speaker 3: you put it on. She put the ring on me
- 29:53Speaker 3: and it's perfect.
- 29:55Speaker 2: And then y K popped out of the bushes and went.
- 29:58Speaker 3: Hi, And then I started, I think that sunk in.
- 30:03Speaker 2: Yeah, she starts crying.
- 30:05Speaker 3: I think maybe it's because I knew we got good photos,
- 30:09Speaker 3: but I was just.
- 30:13Speaker 6: No.
- 30:13Speaker 3: But I think it was like all of a sudden,
- 30:15Speaker 3: it was like sinking and what just happened and it
- 30:19Speaker 3: was magical. And then we jumped into the crystal clear
- 30:22Speaker 3: blue water and we swam and it was just like.
- 30:26Speaker 2: Wait, what did she say? Does anybody remember? Did you
- 30:30Speaker 2: both black out?
- 30:31Speaker 3: Yeah? I was trying. She was just saying, like, you know,
- 30:35Speaker 3: like making her promises to me and that she'll be
- 30:38Speaker 3: my family and my safe space and that she we've
- 30:41Speaker 3: been through so much and we've gotten to this point
- 30:44Speaker 3: and we did it. All in our own time, and
- 30:47Speaker 3: it was just so beautiful and perfect for to like
- 30:50Speaker 3: encapsulate our relationship and our journey. So it was it
- 30:54Speaker 3: was so special. It was so cool.
- 30:57Speaker 4: Like I get why people once they get engaged and
- 31:01Speaker 4: they get married, like they they will not stop posting
- 31:03Speaker 4: their foot They'll be like had a burger and then
- 31:06Speaker 4: they're posting their photos from there, because it's just like,
- 31:10Speaker 4: I mean, we're obviously committed to each other, but and
- 31:12Speaker 4: we both have had commitment issues and we've gone through
- 31:15Speaker 4: like like do we want to get married, do we
- 31:17Speaker 4: want to get engaged?
- 31:18Speaker 3: Like do we need this?
- 31:19Speaker 4: What do we So it's so cool to just do
- 31:21Speaker 4: it on our own terms and to do it just
- 31:24Speaker 4: because we wanted to to like celebrate even though we
- 31:27Speaker 4: knew it was going to be forever anyways.
- 31:30Speaker 2: And so it was a really it was a really
- 31:32Speaker 2: cool feeling, like I get it, Like I'm like, oh,
- 31:35Speaker 2: this is cool.
- 31:37Speaker 4: This is really cool, and like you know, another layer
- 31:42Speaker 4: of teamwork of like navigating. You know, we've navigated so
- 31:47Speaker 4: much and so to know that we can literally get
- 31:50Speaker 4: through anything, it's just like amazing to be able to
- 31:53Speaker 4: start this chapter with that much like strength and endurance
- 31:57Speaker 4: and confidence each other. And this is just the beginning
- 32:02Speaker 4: of it.
- 32:02Speaker 2: I know it's only going to get stronger as it
- 32:05Speaker 2: goes on, and then when you get married, like it
- 32:07Speaker 2: just gets better and better. And I'm so excited that,
- 32:10Speaker 2: like you guys are starting this because it's just like
- 32:14Speaker 2: I was just like so shocked, Like.
- 32:16Speaker 3: I like, I was terrible.
- 32:18Speaker 2: I wasn't able to tell you.
- 32:20Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like prize was the most important thing
- 32:23Speaker 4: I I had to prioritize.
- 32:25Speaker 2: Becca was upset. I understood why you didn't tell me,
- 32:33Speaker 2: although I found out Robbie knew so that through a
- 32:35Speaker 2: whole nother.
- 32:37Speaker 3: She had to tell Robbie to tell Tanya to quit
- 32:41Speaker 3: with the comments of bridal era. And so that's why
- 32:43Speaker 3: he said that interesting.
- 32:45Speaker 2: Yeah, but actually, do you know what's even funnier about
- 32:48Speaker 2: that is And it all came back to me after
- 32:51Speaker 2: like I found all this out. But we were out
- 32:53Speaker 2: to dinner. Uh this was before our honeymoon, and he
- 32:56Speaker 2: was like, Babe, like if somebody came to you and
- 32:59Speaker 2: like or if like Becca came to you and said,
- 33:01Speaker 2: like don't tell anybody something like, would you tell me?
- 33:04Speaker 2: And I was like yeah, I was like I think
- 33:06Speaker 2: Becca tells me stuff, assuming that I'm gonna tell you.
- 33:10Speaker 2: And he brought it up again in like a dinner
- 33:12Speaker 2: with like Pauline and Sophia, and he was like, if
- 33:14Speaker 2: somebody came to you in confidence, like would you tell
- 33:16Speaker 2: I'm like, so he was struggling, was right because then
- 33:22Speaker 2: I kept saying no, I would tell you for sure,
- 33:24Speaker 2: like that was always my response. And then after you
- 33:27Speaker 2: guys got engaged, he like was telling me all that
- 33:29Speaker 2: and I was like, oh my gosh, you little so
- 33:36Speaker 2: who did know?
- 33:38Speaker 4: Well, only just a handful of people really like Marla
- 33:42Speaker 4: like five yeah, yeah, like like a group of four
- 33:46Speaker 4: or five, and nobody's spilled. Nobody's spilled like literally Academy
- 33:50Speaker 4: Award winning performances truly.
- 33:53Speaker 3: Well, the night one of the few nights before we left,
- 33:56Speaker 3: we were laying in bed and she had gardened and
- 34:00Speaker 3: I did not, and she we were like giggling. She
- 34:03Speaker 3: was being really giggly, and.
- 34:05Speaker 4: I said, yeah, this was like two nights before we left,
- 34:09Speaker 4: and I go, what what sort of the conversation?
- 34:12Speaker 2: I didn't know, but she literally looked me in the
- 34:15Speaker 2: eye and went, do you have a ring?
- 34:18Speaker 4: And I just start giggling, like hackling, and my whole
- 34:22Speaker 4: theory was like if I lie to her, she'll know.
- 34:27Speaker 4: So I was always trying to be truthful but just
- 34:30Speaker 4: finding a way around it.
- 34:32Speaker 2: So you were like, yeah, I have a ring.
- 34:35Speaker 3: Actually wouldn't answer me, and I go, you to swear
- 34:39Speaker 3: on our relationship.
- 34:40Speaker 5: I don't have a ring, and.
- 34:42Speaker 3: Like the closet and like yes, but she's like laughing,
- 34:46Speaker 3: and so I'm like, you swear on my relationship you
- 34:48Speaker 3: don't have a ring? And she goes, yes, I do,
- 34:49Speaker 3: and I'm like you do what? And she was like
- 34:52Speaker 3: I swear And I was like, say it, I s
- 34:55Speaker 3: our relationship. I don't want to do.
- 34:57Speaker 2: That's actually a smart move to not lie. Was trying,
- 35:00Speaker 2: but I did have to lie there, yeah, which I get.
- 35:04Speaker 3: I mean a relationship.
- 35:05Speaker 2: I was like, you're about to ruin your engage. I'm
- 35:08Speaker 2: not going to want me to tell you that, yes,
- 35:10Speaker 2: I do have a ring.
- 35:12Speaker 3: I just was like, there's no way I would know.
- 35:14Speaker 3: I'm so happy.
- 35:18Speaker 2: I'm all still so shocked, Like I was like so
- 35:20Speaker 2: convinced you weren't that, Like even I was getting my
- 35:22Speaker 2: hair done and Tawny our mutual friends like they're totally
- 35:25Speaker 2: getting engaged. On this trip, right, And I was like, no,
- 35:27Speaker 2: they're they're not, Like I know for sure they're not.
- 35:29Speaker 2: Like I know for sure they're not. It's so interesting.
- 35:33Speaker 2: So many people had like energy about it.
- 35:36Speaker 3: It was so weird. Tawny texted me today and was like,
- 35:39Speaker 3: I knew it, and I go, I did it. I
- 35:42Speaker 3: wasn't lying when I said we weren't getting engaged.
- 35:46Speaker 5: According to me, what was the amount of time from
- 35:49Speaker 5: yes to.
- 35:53Speaker 3: They got engaged?
- 35:53Speaker 2: Day?
- 35:54Speaker 5: Okay?
- 35:55Speaker 3: We called her that night? Oh we did, yeah, because
- 35:59Speaker 3: like I just thought that you called me.
- 36:01Speaker 2: It was nighttime, your time.
- 36:03Speaker 3: So we got engaged at like eleven am. We like
- 36:05Speaker 3: swam in the ocean stuff, and then we went and
- 36:07Speaker 3: got lunch and then walked walked around the town there
- 36:11Speaker 3: and then we drove home and that's when I called you, and.
- 36:14Speaker 2: Then we called you a few and then we had
- 36:17Speaker 2: dinner and did some more photos. Mind you, when they
- 36:21Speaker 2: called me Robbie on my phone, he was trying to
- 36:24Speaker 2: like send photos to his phone from my phone, and
- 36:27Speaker 2: he just becka face times me and he's like becka
- 36:29Speaker 2: his face timing and just answers it. I was like, bro,
- 36:34Speaker 2: I just answered my phone like that and also I'm like,
- 36:36Speaker 2: why is Becka facetiming me? Like I was like he
- 36:39Speaker 2: knew right, like you didn't want me to miss it.
- 36:41Speaker 2: He was like yeah, little liar. But anyways, I was
- 36:46Speaker 2: like also thrown off. I was like, why is she
- 36:48Speaker 2: facetiming me? And then you said it right away and
- 36:51Speaker 2: I was like just totally freakin'.
- 36:54Speaker 3: It's so good.
- 36:54Speaker 4: The video is so funny when I tell you, shock
- 36:57Speaker 4: like it was just so she was when I'm proposed
- 37:01Speaker 4: to her, she literally like I've never seen.
- 37:04Speaker 2: Her like that, and she was so giddy.
- 37:06Speaker 3: It was so cute.
- 37:06Speaker 4: She kept like looking at her ring and then like
- 37:09Speaker 4: screaming to herself, like like a silent scream, like.
- 37:13Speaker 3: You know, and it was so cute, like she just
- 37:16Speaker 3: kept like pinching herself. She just was like in shock.
- 37:20Speaker 1: If something comes over you, yeah, you feel with the ring,
- 37:25Speaker 1: She's like, it just feels like right, like I never
- 37:28Speaker 1: wear rings because I'm always bothered by something being like
- 37:31Speaker 1: on my fingers and tight.
- 37:32Speaker 3: But it hasn't bothered me at all. I haven't. And
- 37:34Speaker 3: it's a moment of putting it on.
- 37:35Speaker 2: Are you sleeping with it on?
- 37:37Speaker 3: No? No?
- 37:37Speaker 2: No, you take it off to sleep.
- 37:38Speaker 3: The first time I slept with it and then my
- 37:40Speaker 3: finger was like swollen, and I was like, oh, maybe
- 37:43Speaker 3: I'm not so to sleep in this. Oh do you sleepiners?
- 37:46Speaker 2: I did for like six months.
- 37:48Speaker 3: I'm a little different in that way.
- 37:50Speaker 2: I now I now take it off.
- 37:53Speaker 5: Is that is that normal? I haven't had mine off
- 37:56Speaker 5: except to clean it in twenty three years.
- 37:58Speaker 2: I think it's different for men because Robbie ever takes it,
- 38:00Speaker 2: Robine sleeps in his.
- 38:01Speaker 5: I'm not wearing mine right now. Yeah, yeah, exactly, ladies. Yeah, no,
- 38:09Speaker 5: my favor was swollen. I took it off for a
- 38:10Speaker 5: couple of days.
- 38:11Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 38:13Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, so then you make phone calls, you go
- 38:19Speaker 2: to sleep, and then I don't know what you guys
- 38:23Speaker 2: have been doing the last.
- 38:25Speaker 5: Let's find out all about that when we come back.
- 38:47Speaker 2: And we're back. So I did bring you a little
- 38:50Speaker 2: something if you want to open it, because we're talking
- 38:52Speaker 2: about like the ring.
- 38:54Speaker 3: Wow, we're talking about there.
- 38:58Speaker 2: It's like literally very little and it's nothing.
- 39:01Speaker 6: But.
- 39:03Speaker 3: It's not nothing.
- 39:04Speaker 2: It's definitely something that is opening.
- 39:11Speaker 4: Yeah, you read your I literally was laying in bed.
- 39:14Speaker 4: I was like, I need to tell one of her
- 39:16Speaker 4: friends to get her a ring.
- 39:18Speaker 2: Dish, So I like, I'm obsessed with ring dish. I
- 39:23Speaker 2: literally travel with a ring dish now because it's become my.
- 39:28Speaker 5: My routine.
- 39:29Speaker 2: No, I have a routine every night now I take
- 39:31Speaker 2: it out, I put it in my ring dish, and
- 39:32Speaker 2: then every morning I take my ring dish and I
- 39:34Speaker 2: put it on Like that's like so I know I
- 39:35Speaker 2: never lose it. It's always not ring dish. I have
- 39:37Speaker 2: one by my bed, I have one in my bathroom,
- 39:39Speaker 2: and then I have one by the sink in the kitchen.
- 39:41Speaker 2: So those are like the three places I can always
- 39:43Speaker 2: I'll only put my ring down. It was a dish,
- 39:46Speaker 2: So this is your first one? Wow, Because I didn't know.
- 39:52Speaker 2: And then I started getting into like a Robbie wanted
- 39:55Speaker 2: to like make.
- 39:55Speaker 8: Merch and.
- 39:59Speaker 2: We're going on tour. I want to make merch, And
- 40:02Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know, Like are you guys
- 40:04Speaker 2: going to be like are you taking each other's last names?
- 40:07Speaker 2: Like what's our Like, Oh, we have a questions we
- 40:09Speaker 2: haven't even got.
- 40:12Speaker 3: We're still like processing and telling people like we just
- 40:15Speaker 3: announced it, you know publicly, and like the people that
- 40:19Speaker 3: have colleges, they're like.
- 40:22Speaker 2: To propose to her. I know, it's gonna get a K,
- 40:24Speaker 2: like a K for your ring dish. And then and
- 40:27Speaker 2: then Robbie is like, I think you should get a K,
- 40:28Speaker 2: and I'm like, no, because what if I don't know
- 40:31Speaker 2: if she's taking her last name. And also like she
- 40:33Speaker 2: wears an H. She has all these H necklaces.
- 40:36Speaker 3: Literally it's so perfect. She literally I was looking for
- 40:40Speaker 3: one in my or and I couldn't find.
- 40:42Speaker 2: We were trying to find. This is perfect. I have
- 40:45Speaker 2: another one that like I want to get, like the
- 40:47Speaker 2: nice one to like nice one that's gonna get made,
- 40:50Speaker 2: but like this was I was like, I seed something.
- 40:51Speaker 3: Like fast, this one by the s perfect. Yeah, yeah,
- 40:59Speaker 3: I So we ended up y K was there to
- 41:04Speaker 3: take photos of us, so we took some like sunset
- 41:06Speaker 3: photos that night when we got back to where we
- 41:08Speaker 3: were staying, and then he also was there the next day,
- 41:11Speaker 3: so we did like we did.
- 41:13Speaker 2: Like did a bunch of photos, a bunch of photos.
- 41:15Speaker 3: She really made sure I had the photos.
- 41:17Speaker 2: If I'm being honest, the photo that you sent Robbie
- 41:20Speaker 2: and I from that photo shoot is like, actually, we
- 41:23Speaker 2: both agree, one of the coolest photos we've ever seen
- 41:26Speaker 2: in our lives. So yeah, we haven't posted that money. Yeah,
- 41:28Speaker 2: it's gonna be posted at some point, right, Yeah, yeah.
- 41:30Speaker 3: You have to. We're gonna We're gonna do a series.
- 41:33Speaker 3: Yeah yeah.
- 41:34Speaker 2: I mean it's literally one of the coolest photos I've
- 41:36Speaker 2: ever seen in my life.
- 41:37Speaker 3: Thank you.
- 41:38Speaker 2: Yeah, it was.
- 41:39Speaker 3: It was really just like all around so special and
- 41:43Speaker 3: I just have never felt so I mean, I think
- 41:45Speaker 3: that's the whole thing about our relationship is that Haley
- 41:47Speaker 3: like knows me and she's always made me feel so
- 41:49Speaker 3: seen and I felt like every detail of it was
- 41:52Speaker 3: so thought out to be tailor made for me, and
- 41:55Speaker 3: it was just like, wow, the dream easiest yes I've
- 41:59Speaker 3: ever said.
- 42:01Speaker 4: Are you guys just in like total Like it's just
- 42:04Speaker 4: we're just like stoked, like and that's why it's like
- 42:06Speaker 4: people are like asking us questions and it's like for us,
- 42:09Speaker 4: like and having like commitment issues and stuff like just
- 42:13Speaker 4: getting engaged is like the go in Like to us,
- 42:17Speaker 4: that's the end, Like that's the finish. Yeah, like we've
- 42:22Speaker 4: done that, and that's like the skin sometimes the scary
- 42:25Speaker 4: thing to do, you know, because you don't know. And
- 42:28Speaker 4: so it's so cool to be in a place where
- 42:31Speaker 4: you just feel one hundred percent confident, and I'd always
- 42:34Speaker 4: be like when.
- 42:35Speaker 6: Do you know?
- 42:36Speaker 4: And I think for me emotional, but for me it's like,
- 42:40Speaker 4: you know, people talk about having fear of commitment, and
- 42:43Speaker 4: it's like it's about finding a partner where you can
- 42:46Speaker 4: you can change with Like I think what's changed my
- 42:50Speaker 4: like fear of commitment is knowing that I can change
- 42:54Speaker 4: and I can grow with Becca and not that our
- 42:56Speaker 4: relationship can always evolve and so I'll never feel stock
- 43:01Speaker 4: or trapped or like can I do this forever? Because
- 43:04Speaker 4: like with her, we can do anything forever, like we
- 43:07Speaker 4: can so so she gives me this freedom that takes
- 43:11Speaker 4: away this fear that I've had for a long time,
- 43:15Speaker 4: and also too like being you know, w LW. Growing up,
- 43:20Speaker 4: I didn't legally I wasn't legally allowed to get married,
- 43:23Speaker 4: and so growing up it was never like I can't
- 43:26Speaker 4: wait to get married. It was like, oh, I can't
- 43:28Speaker 4: do that, right, And so it was never something that
- 43:31Speaker 4: I dreamed of doing because I couldn't. So it's been
- 43:35Speaker 4: like a very long evolving process to be like can
- 43:39Speaker 4: I do this?
- 43:40Speaker 2: Is this something I want to do? And now that
- 43:42Speaker 2: we legally can, hopefully that doesn't get taken away in
- 43:48Speaker 2: the next couple of sen you know, decades.
- 43:53Speaker 4: But yeah, so it's just it's been cool to be like, oh,
- 43:55Speaker 4: like I feel free, to be able to commit forever.
- 43:58Speaker 5: Safe, it's a safe year. Yeah, the opposite of fear. Yeah.
- 44:02Speaker 4: So yeah, so it was interesting how they they they
- 44:05Speaker 4: work with one another and to see like what kind
- 44:08Speaker 4: of holds people back from commitment because they need to
- 44:11Speaker 4: feel free, and like I feel free with Becca and
- 44:14Speaker 4: so that's what's like so cool.
- 44:16Speaker 5: When did you make if I made that decision, because
- 44:18Speaker 5: you know, Becka said she was going to propose. There
- 44:21Speaker 5: are no rules here obviously, when did you make the decision?
- 44:24Speaker 5: You know what, I'm just going to do it, and
- 44:26Speaker 5: I'm going.
- 44:26Speaker 2: To do it.
- 44:27Speaker 5: Yeah this summer.
- 44:28Speaker 4: So I last year, I was just like when I
- 44:33Speaker 4: am done with work and that twenty twenty five is
- 44:37Speaker 4: the year.
- 44:37Speaker 2: So like I mentally committed to that. I was like,
- 44:41Speaker 2: you know, this feels like the right.
- 44:43Speaker 4: We're just we're just in like bliss, Like we just
- 44:45Speaker 4: have figured like we've done couples therapy, we've done everything,
- 44:48Speaker 4: and like I just feel so confident in her as
- 44:50Speaker 4: a partner and so and we've always do our trips
- 44:54Speaker 4: in July. For fourth of July, it's like the best
- 44:57Speaker 4: week to take off because everyone one's off and so
- 45:01Speaker 4: and that was like our go mode, you know. And
- 45:05Speaker 4: so I found the perfect airbnb. She's been wanting to
- 45:08Speaker 4: go to Majorca, and so it all just like worked
- 45:11Speaker 4: out perfectly.
- 45:12Speaker 2: I like, it's so so we got so you guys,
- 45:15Speaker 2: I found out obviously we were on our honeymoon, so
- 45:17Speaker 2: we were like gone, and in my mind, I'm like
- 45:19Speaker 2: like I gotta do this, and I was like talking
- 45:23Speaker 2: to Robbie and I'm like I mentally was prepared for
- 45:25Speaker 2: like top of twenty twenty six, like that's where my
- 45:28Speaker 2: head was with Becca, so like, well I.
- 45:30Speaker 4: Knew she was going to probably propose to me in
- 45:32Speaker 4: twenty twenty six, correct, And so I needed to go
- 45:34Speaker 4: before her, and I needed to get it done before
- 45:37Speaker 4: her because I wanted to surprise her because she deserved,
- 45:39Speaker 4: like she does so much for me, Like she deserves
- 45:41Speaker 4: to be like absolutely showered with love and shocked and
- 45:46Speaker 4: just like going second. It's just like like I want
- 45:49Speaker 4: her to have the first moment, you know, so beautiful
- 45:52Speaker 4: and so special and like I mean, I can't even I.
- 45:55Speaker 3: Was like.
- 45:57Speaker 2: I got rid of all my bridal stuff because like
- 46:00Speaker 2: time like it's gonna be twenty twenty six, and then
- 46:03Speaker 2: I was like scrambling like to get these signs up
- 46:05Speaker 2: and stuff. It's just like if I was like as
- 46:09Speaker 2: shocked as I was, I can't imagine, like it probably
- 46:12Speaker 2: was like times like a bazillion to you. Yeah, it's
- 46:15Speaker 2: like so crazy.
- 46:16Speaker 3: And I have to say. We we got home and
- 46:19Speaker 3: it was a long travel day coming home. We were
- 46:22Speaker 3: like dead. And we get to our house and it
- 46:26Speaker 3: is the most insane floral arrangement anyone has ever seen
- 46:31Speaker 3: on our front porch. It's like a heart that's.
- 46:34Speaker 2: I want to say. It was like four feet tall, yeah,
- 46:36Speaker 2: three tall of a huge heart of roses.
- 46:40Speaker 3: I've seen this in movies. I've never seen this in
- 46:43Speaker 3: real life.
- 46:44Speaker 4: And I'm.
- 46:47Speaker 3: Froman and Robbie. It was so thoughtful because you know,
- 46:51Speaker 3: I know that you're the most celebratory person, and I
- 46:55Speaker 3: know how much you love us, you and Robbie, and
- 47:00Speaker 3: I think like I knew y'all were on your honeymoon,
- 47:03Speaker 3: so I didn't expect anything. I just knew that y'all
- 47:06Speaker 3: were happy for us, and that felt like enough. And
- 47:08Speaker 3: then we get home and it's like this big arrangement
- 47:12Speaker 3: and then we get here and it's like all this
- 47:13Speaker 3: stuff and you're just the best.
- 47:15Speaker 2: I love it. I'm like both of us, Robby and
- 47:18Speaker 2: I are so so happy for you guys, and like
- 47:21Speaker 2: it killed me that I couldn't be there, like I
- 47:23Speaker 2: wanted to like be there with you guys, and so
- 47:25Speaker 2: I was like, my god, it like really when they
- 47:27Speaker 2: get home, like I want them to just like show
- 47:29Speaker 2: up to something just like so beautiful and like just
- 47:32Speaker 2: that I want. I was like, I want them to say,
- 47:34Speaker 2: like I just want them to feel so loved when
- 47:36Speaker 2: they see this. I was like I need it to
- 47:38Speaker 2: be big and beautiful and yeah, trying to leave you
- 47:44Speaker 2: alone and not ask you a million questions, but I
- 47:46Speaker 2: was like I need to know what time you guys
- 47:47Speaker 2: are getting back, because it was like one hundred degrees
- 47:50Speaker 2: that day, so I didn't want flowers sitting out all day. Yeah. No,
- 47:53Speaker 2: it was literally perfect. Yeah, it was amazing, Yeah, amazing.
- 47:56Speaker 3: It was like out of a movie. Yeah. So the
- 47:59Speaker 3: rest of the trip we just kind of like we
- 48:01Speaker 3: we went back to our engagement spot and like spent
- 48:04Speaker 3: the whole day at the beach and we.
- 48:06Speaker 2: Didn't tell the best part.
- 48:08Speaker 3: What's what's better than It's just a really great detail.
- 48:12Speaker 2: You want to say it.
- 48:14Speaker 4: Oh so my friend told me about this beach okay,
- 48:17Speaker 4: but he didn't tell me it was a newdist So
- 48:22Speaker 4: I'm literally proposing the back guy and there's like a
- 48:24Speaker 4: sea of penises. I have never she was educated that day,
- 48:31Speaker 4: seen so much education in my life.
- 48:35Speaker 3: Yeah, she was like, babe. I was like, just don't
- 48:38Speaker 3: make like, can we take a picture of you?
- 48:40Speaker 4: And I was like, I can't look at you right
- 48:42Speaker 4: now because literally someone's butt hole in my face.
- 48:47Speaker 3: It was like and honestly it was like it was
- 48:50Speaker 3: so like we joined. It was its great, We loved it.
- 48:56Speaker 3: But it was just so funny that these two women
- 48:58Speaker 3: are getting engaged and if you panned the camera, they're
- 49:02Speaker 3: just penis.
- 49:04Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 49:06Speaker 2: So yeah, that was so that's why that location worked
- 49:09Speaker 2: perfectly because.
- 49:11Speaker 4: People very Yeah, definitely, no kid, everyone's just there to
- 49:16Speaker 4: get their tan on and chill.
- 49:19Speaker 7: You know what.
- 49:19Speaker 2: I also just realized, I think it might have been
- 49:22Speaker 2: the day you guys got engaged. But on our honeymoon,
- 49:24Speaker 2: the first day we got to Anguilla, there was a
- 49:26Speaker 2: double rainbow.
- 49:27Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I say it was beautiful.
- 49:30Speaker 2: I think it was the day you guys got engaged.
- 49:32Speaker 3: Wow, that's emotional because you.
- 49:34Speaker 2: Ended up calling me the next day. I called you
- 49:37Speaker 2: the day of July third, but for me it was
- 49:39Speaker 2: the next day.
- 49:40Speaker 3: Nor behind us. We'll have to look at that. But
- 49:45Speaker 3: that's like I believe, regardless, it happened at the same time. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 49:50Speaker 3: so yeah, it was just a trip of a lifetime,
- 49:55Speaker 3: and we're so excited.
- 49:57Speaker 5: I just kept thinking about the day you met in
- 49:58Speaker 5: that whole story, and you too, sizing each other up.
- 50:01Speaker 5: But they what's going on here? It's just interesting. I
- 50:04Speaker 5: haven't swam in this end of the pore curious and
- 50:08Speaker 5: now look years later, seven years later, spending the rest
- 50:12Speaker 5: of your life together.
- 50:13Speaker 2: You're gonna spend the rest of your lives together, which.
- 50:16Speaker 3: Is so crazy. Like I always thought, I'm like, I
- 50:19Speaker 3: cannot imagine a life or future without Haley. But there
- 50:22Speaker 3: is something really fun about having the symbolism of forever,
- 50:28Speaker 3: you know. Yeah, so, no, she's next. I gotta get.
- 50:32Speaker 5: Really grievous quiet a surprise.
- 50:36Speaker 3: Let you talk about that.
- 50:36Speaker 7: I guess not gonna tell any say no, I have
- 50:39Speaker 7: to say because Haley said, having some people to like
- 50:44Speaker 7: talk to when she was stressed about things was like crucial,
- 50:47Speaker 7: So I might end up telling you, wow, exchanged my perspective.
- 50:54Speaker 2: This is big news. Watch your words.
- 50:57Speaker 5: This is not.
- 51:00Speaker 2: Secret. And I don't see you as much as I know,
- 51:03Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I was like, y'all see each
- 51:05Speaker 2: other every single week, every day you I would I
- 51:10Speaker 2: think I would blow it for Becca, Like if you
- 51:12Speaker 2: had not intentionally your energy, she would be like, what's
- 51:16Speaker 2: going on on?
- 51:16Speaker 3: You was just staring at me with smile.
- 51:19Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, now I understand. I actually like really
- 51:21Speaker 2: get it. Thank you so much. Yeah, I love you. Yeah,
- 51:24Speaker 2: I love you too. Okay that we're gonna wrap up
- 51:28Speaker 2: this episode, the one where Becca gets engaged.
- 51:32Speaker 5: Hundred p yeah, upgrade, I love it.
- 51:40Speaker 2: That was the probably going to make percent.
- 51:44Speaker 5: Years ago. You've getted a percent a year since so much.
- 51:49Speaker 3: She's early elevent you had to get those percentage points.
- 51:54Speaker 2: So we're getting married. We're going to wrap up this episode,
- 51:59Speaker 2: but we did ask scrubbers to submit their questions, so
- 52:04Speaker 2: we're gonna do a special Q and A with back
- 52:06Speaker 2: end Hailey, So look for that. I don't know when
- 52:10Speaker 2: we're gonna post it, but just look for it.
- 52:12Speaker 3: It'll be.
- 52:14Speaker 5: Refreshing, refreshing.
- 52:19Speaker 2: Everybody. I love you guys so much. I love you, man,
- 52:25Speaker 2: I love you, I love you guys.
- 52:30Speaker 3: We love you.