#9 Pati: What "Patience" Actually Means

Through the Lens of Love · Sep 15, 2026 · 19m

What if you couldn't hug someone? What if you couldn't move your own arms to scratch an itch, or reach for a glass of water?

In this solo episode, I get honest about something that's never come naturally to me: patience. I'm one of the most persistent people you'll ever meet — but persistent and patient are not the same thing. I share the moment as a kid at an amusement park when I couldn't just stand still in line, and how my husband has asked me, even years into marriage, "can't you ever just be happy?" — not because I wasn't, but because I was always reaching for what's next instead of…