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Everything Is Figureoutable: Fearless Friday Pep Talk · R.E.A.L. Talk for REAL L.Y.F.E.

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  Welcome to Real Talk for Real Life.
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  Realizing everyone is always learning and living your full experience.
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  This is where we live out loud, on purpose and with purpose.
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  I'm going to see your host and this is your Fearless Friday episode.
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  Fear less, everything is figureoutable.
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  It's fearless friday and friday
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  is honestly one of my favorite places to be the
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  energy is different the pressure of the week starts loosening its grip people
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  start exhaling and recently i came across this desk plate while scrolling amazon
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  one of my other favorite places to be and it said everything is figureoutable.
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  Now, first of all, I paused because I was like, is figureoutable even a real word?
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  But the more I looked at it, the more I had an entire aha moment because simple as it was, it was true.
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  Everything is figureoutable. Maybe not easy, maybe not immediate,
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  it, maybe not comfortable, but figureoutable nonetheless.
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  So stop panicking before processing. Some of us panic before we even process.
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  The moment life shifts, we spiral, we overthink, we catastrophize,
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  we start mentally packing bags for disasters that haven't even arrived yet.
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  But this is what I've learned living a fearless life.
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  No matter what comes our way, we do not have to fret.
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  What for? we're going to figure it
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  out and honestly we always
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  do now it may not unfold exactly
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  how we plan it may not happen on our timeline it may not look as polished and
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  pretty as we imagine but somehow some way we adapt we pivot we survive we evolve
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  that's the power of resilience.
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  Now here's the caveat though if we
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  let it everything works out good if
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  we let it that part matters because
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  some people go through hard seasons and become wiser others go through hard
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  seasons and become bitter some people let pain teach them others let pain track
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  them fearless Honest living doesn't mean life won't get hard.
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  It means you stop letting hard moments convince you that your story is over.
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  Sometimes the lesson was hidden in the loss.
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  Sometimes the redirection was the size as rejection.
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  Sometimes the closed door protected you from a room you would have regretted entering.
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  But you only see that when you keep moving forward instead of parking permanently in disappointment.
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  Listen, figuring it out is a superpower.
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  And let me say this, especially for the moms. Because if you have ever operated
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  in a season as a single mom, a struggling mom, a tired mom,
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  a making something out of nothing mom, then baby,
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  figuring things out is already your superpower.
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  You stretched money, stretched time, stretched energy, stretched faith,
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  stretched meals even, and somehow still made magic happen.
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  You figured it out. That's why I laugh sometimes when life tries to intimidate
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  me now because I'm like, respectfully, I've survived too much already.
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  Fearless people aren't fearless because life has been easy. We're fearless because
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  life repeatedly showed us you will find a way through this.
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  Now listen, less favorable doesn't mean less valuable.
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  Now hear me clearly, figuring it out doesn't always mean the outcome is more
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  fun, more fabulous, more comfortable, more convenient.
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  Sometimes the answer hurts.
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  Sometimes the pivot is painful. Sometimes figuring it out means letting go.
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  Sometimes it means starting over.
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  But even then you figure it
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  out and there's power in knowing
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  that no matter what happens i trust
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  myself enough to navigate it that right there that's fearless living so this
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  fearless friday i just came in your ear to remind you fear less because everything
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  is figureoutable The money?
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  Figureoutable. The career pivot?
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  Figureoutable. The heartbreak? Figureoutable. The uncertainty?
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  Figureoutable. The next chapter? Figureoutable. And even when the outcome isn't
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  what you originally wanted, you'll still discover this beautiful truth.
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  You made it through. You learned something. You grew. You became stronger.
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  And somehow it all still worked out.
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  Now, here's your fearless homework. Think about one situation in your life right
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  now that's causing you fear, anxiety, or overwhelm.
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  Now, ask yourself, what if I stopped panicking and started trusting my ability to figure things out?
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  Then write down one step, one possible solution, one lesson this season may
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  be trying to teach you, because clarity often shows up after movement.
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  This is Real Talk, where we're realizing everyone is always learning and living your full experience.
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  This is Coach C reminding you to fear less because everything is figureoutable.
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  And I'll see you in the next one.