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Unlearn Everything ( Jason Wilson Interview) · The Breakfast Club

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Speaker 1: I don't sit down is becoming the most prominent form
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Speaker 1: Good morning Usa yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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Speaker 1: yo yo yo, Good morning Angelo, Ye good money v
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Speaker 1: Chola mine the guy piece to the plane. It is Tuesday, Yes,
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Speaker 1: it's tuesday. Hing is what's happening? How's everybody feeling out? Then?
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Speaker 1: How you guys doing? I'm blessed black and Holly favor man,
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Speaker 1: God is good man. It's another dead life. Man. You
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Speaker 1: know you gotta send everybody positive energy, love and like
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Speaker 1: beat before another day. You woke up this morning, you're breathing,
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Speaker 1: might be a little under the weather, but you're still here. Okay,
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Speaker 1: so be happy now. Question now, have you got I
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Speaker 1: know I know we were talking about a long time
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Speaker 1: Anthony Ramos came up a month ago. Did you guys
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Speaker 1: see The Heights the movie? No? I didn't. I didn't
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Speaker 1: see it. Oh my goodness, that movie is good. Drop
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Speaker 1: a bomb for Anthony Ramos and nights. I just seen it. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I seen it on on a plane ride and my
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Speaker 1: goodness it was. I watched it on the plane ride back.
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Speaker 1: And then my daughter who was taking acting classes, she's
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Speaker 1: really into acting. I watched it with her last night
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Speaker 1: and it was really really dope, like surprisingly like I
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Speaker 1: thought it. I knew it was good, but think now
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Speaker 1: critically acclaimed Mirandas and didn't see it. Well, I went
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Speaker 1: to the plane. He's great. I'm gonna tell you why,
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Speaker 1: because I'm not gonna lie when I seen a movie
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Speaker 1: and they're gonna they rapping and singing in the movie.
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Speaker 1: The movie goes like Hamilton, Hamilton, but not in the
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Speaker 1: movie for him. That's a play. How are you talking about? Yeah?
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Speaker 1: But you know, and The Heights was a play first. Yes,
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Speaker 1: I know that as a full movie for two hours
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Speaker 1: and twenty minutes, there's no way that I thought it
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Speaker 1: was going to be that good. And keep me You've
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Speaker 1: never seen them musical, not in a movie for him,
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Speaker 1: not as a movie whiz yeah, as a kid. But
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Speaker 1: talking about yeah, those were kiddy movies. Those were kids.
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Speaker 1: Musicals are musical music. This was a grown up musical
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Speaker 1: and I love grown up I enjoyed it. Like West
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Speaker 1: Side Story, I didn't see West Side Story. It doesn't
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Speaker 1: surprise me that Lynn Manuel Miranda made something dope, and
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Speaker 1: that was before Hamilton, and that was a critically acclaimed
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Speaker 1: play before that happens. No, but I've seen it last
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Speaker 1: yesterday on the plane and I just thought it was great.
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Speaker 1: So there's a couple of curses in there, but you know,
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Speaker 1: it was fine for my daughter, who was eight years old.
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Speaker 1: But we really enjoyed it. I really thought it was great.
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Speaker 1: Man good shout out to Anthony Man Brooklyn Zone. And
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Speaker 1: I think I think there was two hours and twenty minutes.
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Speaker 1: I was well entertained for two hours and twenty minutes
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Speaker 1: on that flight. Okay, So if you haven't seen The Heights,
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Speaker 1: like my guys in here to talk about it was
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Speaker 1: critically claim they haven't seen it, go watch it because
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Speaker 1: it's really really and The Woods is not a kiddy movie,
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Speaker 1: by the way. There's people getting killed in the Woods.
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Speaker 1: Have you ever guys. Ever seen this movie um called
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Speaker 1: The Hangover. I heard it's funny, it's a comedy. You
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Speaker 1: heard of it? Have you guys? Have you guys critically
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Speaker 1: acclaim you took all this issue? You know, I don't
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Speaker 1: think the Non Heights sadly wasn't critically somebody didn't. No,
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Speaker 1: no, no no, not not the movie play. It was definitely
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Speaker 1: and that's why they ended up making it into a movie.
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Speaker 1: The movie didn't do well at the box office, and
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Speaker 1: they didn't get good reviews because they said that, but
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Speaker 1: they had they had issues with the fact that there
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Speaker 1: weren't any dark There weren't any dark skin um Latino
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Speaker 1: people in it, and it wasn't a good representation, and
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Speaker 1: they apologize for it and everything. So that was some
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Speaker 1: of the issues that they had with it. It did
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Speaker 1: forty three point nine million at the box office. All right, Well,
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Speaker 1: let's get the show cracking front page news. What we're
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Speaker 1: talking about. Hello, we got a guest today, man, the
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Speaker 1: Good Brother, Jason Wilson from Detroit will be here this morning.
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Speaker 1: He has an organization called Union. You know, he's fourteen
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Speaker 1: years of experience in training and developing young black men.
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Speaker 1: You know, if you've seen online. You know, you see
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Speaker 1: the brother who teaches young black men how to deal
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Speaker 1: with their trauma through martial arts. That's mister Jason Wilson. Okay,
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Speaker 1: so he'll be here this morning. He's got a documentary
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Speaker 1: coming out that Lawrence Fishburn is doing about his life.
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Speaker 1: He got a couple of books out called Battle Cry
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Speaker 1: and Cry Like a Man, and he'll be here to
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Speaker 1: talk to us this morning. All right, Well, let's get
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Speaker 1: the show cracking front page news. What we're talking about, Well,
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Speaker 1: the Raiders coach John Gruden has resigned over these misogynistic
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Speaker 1: and homophobic emails. All right, we'll get into that next.
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Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, everybody is DJ mvy
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Speaker 1: Angela yee Charlemagne the guy we are to Breakfast Club
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Speaker 1: is getting some front page news now. Monday Night football,
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Speaker 1: the Ravens beat the Coats thirty one twenty five. All right,
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Speaker 1: Now at w NBA Finals is tomorrow, Chicago takes on
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Speaker 1: the Mercury Phoenix Mercury. The game is at PM two motto.
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Speaker 1: All right, what else we got you? Well, John Gruden
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Speaker 1: has resigned as head coach of the Las Vegas Raiders.
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Speaker 1: He said, I love the Raiders and do not want
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Speaker 1: to be a distraction. Thank you to all the players, coaches,
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Speaker 1: staff and fans of Raider Nation. I'm sorry. I never
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Speaker 1: meant to hurt anyone. And the owner of the Las
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Speaker 1: Vegas Raiders actually accepted that resignation and so in the
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Speaker 1: meantime their assistant will be the interim head coach. So
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Speaker 1: there was a revelation about an email, initially that John
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Speaker 1: Gruden has sent out that contained some racist comments regarding
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Speaker 1: the head of the Players Association Association for the NFL,
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Speaker 1: Demorris Smith, and then they did an investigation and found
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Speaker 1: other emails. Now, this first email initially said Don Morris
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Speaker 1: Smith has ellipse the size of Michelin tires. He said
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Speaker 1: he Gruden said he wasn't a racist, But then The
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Speaker 1: New York Times reported that there were other emails that
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Speaker 1: were sent there were also unearthed as part of this investigation.
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Speaker 1: They said he used anti gay slurs. He referred to
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Speaker 1: Roger Goodell, the NFL commissioner, as a something that runs
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Speaker 1: with Maggie yes, the gay sword that starts with the
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Speaker 1: F and the clueless anti football vagina. Also in an
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Speaker 1: email that Goodell shouldn't have pressured the Saint Louis Rams
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Speaker 1: coach at the time, Jeff Fisher, to draft queers, which
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Speaker 1: was a reference to Michael Sam, who was the first
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Speaker 1: openly gay player drafted by the NFL in twenty fourteen.
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Speaker 1: There were also emails where he criticized the hiring of
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Speaker 1: women as referees and also the acceptance of players protesting
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Speaker 1: for racial justice during the national anthem. They also said
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Speaker 1: there were photos of topless women that he was exchanging,
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Speaker 1: including one of the cheerleaders. So those are some of
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Speaker 1: the things that they found in these emails. Yeah, I
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Speaker 1: mean the big lip thing, that's definitely a racist trope.
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Speaker 1: But there's from gray area because you could say I
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Speaker 1: wasn't being racist. I just made a comment about the
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Speaker 1: size of his lips. But you know, the F word,
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Speaker 1: that's a gay slur. And you know, calling Michael Sam
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Speaker 1: the key word. That's not up for debate, is it.
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Speaker 1: It's pretty cut and dry. It's pretty clear. So he
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Speaker 1: has since resigned and the players have reacted. You know,
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Speaker 1: us as a team, we were like, yeah, coach, it
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Speaker 1: was ten years ago. We love you, man, we got
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Speaker 1: your back. We're just trying to be there a support coach.
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Speaker 1: I know, it's a hard time for him. He told
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Speaker 1: this man learned from my mistake when we left that meeting.
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Speaker 1: We didn't take it as how it came out. So
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Speaker 1: he said he could see how. According to Las Vegas
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Speaker 1: quarterback Derek Carr, he said the team did rally around
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Speaker 1: growding after Friday's meeting and they acknowledged they could see
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Speaker 1: how the emails would offend and hurt that the words
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Speaker 1: have caused you think, but you know what it is is.
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Speaker 1: Originally the email was from two thou eleven, but some
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Speaker 1: of these emails go up to I think twenty eighteen.
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Speaker 1: So it don't feel like Michael Sam was that long ago.
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Speaker 1: When it was the Michael Sama fourteen, I think, I
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Speaker 1: don't feel like that was that long ago. Yeah, that
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Speaker 1: was twenty fourteen. All right, Well that is your front
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Speaker 1: page news, all right, get it off your chess eight
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Speaker 1: five eight five one o five one. If you need
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Speaker 1: to vent phone lines to wide open, hit this up now.
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Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. I'm
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Speaker 1: telling I'm telling you if this is your time to
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Speaker 1: get it off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed, one,
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Speaker 1: we want to hear from you. On the breakfast clause, Hello,
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Speaker 1: who's this? Indeed Colim for Hall been in Jordan. Let's up, broke,
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Speaker 1: get it off your chest, man. I just thought of
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Speaker 1: my own independence record company because we ain't got that
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Speaker 1: down here, like hey, Lina, Jordian dude and my wife
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Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Pure Pure Paint Records would
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Speaker 1: why the hood got to stop cannibalizing its own because
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Speaker 1: all I'm saying suit the Pure Paint Records man, r
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Speaker 1: All right, bro? Hello, who's this? Good morning? Good if
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Speaker 1: your chest all right? Are you doing? Answer? They dj
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Speaker 1: mvy Charlomagne the GUARDI how you doing? Black? You know
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Speaker 1: I'm doing good? About God's graces. I wanted to call
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Speaker 1: in and somebody said in passing, you know, back when
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Speaker 1: everything was going on with Haiti. Why does America hate
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Speaker 1: Haiti so much? And I just wanted to you know,
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Speaker 1: gives you guys some sacks. Okay, you know everybody knows
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Speaker 1: that we were the first to take our freedom. You know,
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Speaker 1: they hate us for that. Yeah, we also when we
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Speaker 1: did so, you know, we offered freedom to any American
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Speaker 1: that can come over to Haiti who can make it.
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Speaker 1: A lot of people don't know that. France also came
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Speaker 1: back twenty twenty years later and basically demanded that we
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Speaker 1: give them back their property, i e. The slaves and uh,
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Speaker 1: they basically forced us to pay them one hundred and
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Speaker 1: fifty million francs, which is about twenty one billion, you
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Speaker 1: know dollars. Also, America also came to Haiti back in
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Speaker 1: nineteen four team and stole about five hundred thousand dollars
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Speaker 1: you know, so all of that was levied by America
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Speaker 1: City Bank. They took that five hundred did he even
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Speaker 1: put it towards the debt and basically stole a lot
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Speaker 1: of money from France. So I would also feel like
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Speaker 1: that it's grounds for you know, if they were ever
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Speaker 1: to give you know, reparations that they owe us money. Also,
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Speaker 1: you know a lot of Americans also don't know that
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Speaker 1: Haiti played a lot roles in America's history, like we
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Speaker 1: fought in the Civil War. We actually there was a
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Speaker 1: Haitian by the name of John Baptist point Do Stab
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Speaker 1: who founded Chicago. And also four Haitians flew with the
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Speaker 1: Tuskegee Airmen, you know. So the craziest thing is that
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Speaker 1: we asked France for reparations back to two thousand and
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Speaker 1: four and they essentially gave us the middle finger. You know,
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Speaker 1: they hate that we took our freedom first. Uh. We
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Speaker 1: played a lot of roles in america history and the
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Speaker 1: haters for it, well, thank you for the history. Lesson
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Speaker 1: for the history. Lesson, Brothers, get it off your chests.
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Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one on five one. If
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Speaker 1: you need to vent, hit us up now. It's the
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Speaker 1: breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast club. This is your
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Speaker 1: time to get it off your chest. Whether you're man
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Speaker 1: from you on the breakfast clubs, you got something on
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Speaker 1: your mind? Hello, who's this good? More than DJ Hanvy?
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Speaker 1: This court? You from Atlanta? Bro Get off your chests. Bro,
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Speaker 1: I just got a blend of y'all in Midklett a
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Speaker 1: little bit. I just need all of y'all in the
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Speaker 1: studio for a week, every last one of y'all. It's
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Speaker 1: like missing your cousins and your your favorite cousins. May's
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Speaker 1: given dNaM when you know, all y'all not there. So
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Speaker 1: I need all y'all diver like a week in the
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Speaker 1: studio together. Everybody's here right now? Oh oh bet bet
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna going and watching on YouTube when I get
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Speaker 1: off the juice. Yeah, I got you from Mersings down
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Speaker 1: here in Atlanta and Atlanta you need some juices, okay, juice?
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Speaker 1: All right? Right now? Hello? Who's this yo? We have
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Speaker 1: solved it's deading. Good morning guys. Yeah, what's up? So
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Speaker 1: I'm actually going to see air because I do night
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Speaker 1: shout out hers in so many Kansas. The thing is,
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Speaker 1: you gotta either have a vaccination card or a show
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Speaker 1: that you or negative, which I just think it's so
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Speaker 1: I don't mind taking a COVID test. But I just like,
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Speaker 1: why do you think that's stupid? They gave you two options.
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Speaker 1: You either got to have a car to be get
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Speaker 1: a negative test. What's wrong with that? That's the world
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Speaker 1: we live in now, right, But what stupid is I
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Speaker 1: don't mind taking a COVID test, right, negatived? But what
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Speaker 1: about the people who have a COVID test? You can
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Speaker 1: still get COVID. I don't understand what you're saying. I'm
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Speaker 1: saying I have to get a COVID test. Fun huh,
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Speaker 1: I don't care about that, right, what's I don't know?
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Speaker 1: Samonica right, she is vaccinated, but she could still have COVID.
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Speaker 1: I get. That's what you're saying is even if you're vaccinated,
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Speaker 1: you should still have to take a test, right, Okay,
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Speaker 1: I agree? So they don't you know you just got
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Speaker 1: okay yeah, most places, Yeah, most places, even when you
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Speaker 1: show your card, you still got to take a test. Man. No,
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Speaker 1: but well either way you get to see miss bob
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Speaker 1: do look at the bright side. I mean I don't.
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Speaker 1: But what about the first one they might have? Right?
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Speaker 1: She don't want to get COVID from a vaccinated person.
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Speaker 1: Now that's true too. Well, hopefully um Erica bod smudges
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Speaker 1: the whole arena so that keeps the COVID up. Hello,
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Speaker 1: who's this? What's yo? Man? I heard this whole little Friday.
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Speaker 1: Somebody t had to hate on you, yo, And it's
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Speaker 1: crazy because if you're the same woman that was in
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Speaker 1: my DMS, Colia, you failed to mention that show? Are
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Speaker 1: you man? Like, excuse me? I don't hit my dms
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Speaker 1: and then blocked me when I don't want you because
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Speaker 1: black men don't. She like said, the girl that calls
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Speaker 1: up here trying to talk crazy about you was in
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Speaker 1: your DMS. I think this is the one because like
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Speaker 1: literally she said, yo, I'm like, she try to hit
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Speaker 1: me up and I'm like, yeah, chill, you know black No,
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Speaker 1: she you know what I mean. Next thing I know,
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Speaker 1: I'm blocked and I got I'm here in the cool
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Speaker 1: that I'm a can fish like it's two plus to
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Speaker 1: its full. I think it was her, like I said, man,
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Speaker 1: your body going backwards, like you couldn't have had me
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Speaker 1: what I was single or not? Like why she body? Why?
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Speaker 1: Why was she body shaming you? Thokay yo? She she
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Speaker 1: built like me. Okay, listen to me, I think so okay, Well,
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Speaker 1: salute to both of y'all. It wasn't mean now when
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Speaker 1: she called up here doing all that for no reason,
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Speaker 1: like barun talk about trifling, because you know what, I'm
14:54
Speaker 1: in a relationship and you're still try to shot okay, right,
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Speaker 1: everybody knows mellow got a girl, all right, mellow, black
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Speaker 1: men don't cheat king exactly, black men don't get it
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Speaker 1: off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five one oh
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Speaker 1: five one. Now we got rumors on the way. Yes,
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Speaker 1: and how is Netflix responding to these demands to pull
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Speaker 1: down Dave Chappelle's special. We'll tell you what the co
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Speaker 1: CEO has to say. All right, we'll get into that next.
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Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, The Breakfast Club's filling
15:28
Speaker 1: the team. This is the rumor report with Angela Yee
15:32
Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club. Well, people are still torn on
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Speaker 1: how they feel about Dave Chappelle's special The Closer, but
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Speaker 1: a top Netflix executive co CEO Tes Surrondos says that
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Speaker 1: they are not going to pull down that special off
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Speaker 1: of Netflix. He told managers that some talent may join
15:49
Speaker 1: third parties and calling for the show's ren movements, and
15:51
Speaker 1: he said, we are not going to do that. And
15:54
Speaker 1: so as much as people are saying pull it down,
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Speaker 1: pull it down, it's not gonna happen. He made some
16:01
Speaker 1: statements about stand up comedy that I thought we were
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Speaker 1: really dopeful. Basically, I don't I'm paraphrasing it. We basically
16:07
Speaker 1: said that's what stand up comedy is forced here to,
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Speaker 1: you know, push the limit. I just hope he feels
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Speaker 1: like that about everybody, not just Dave Chappelle. Yeah, I mean,
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Speaker 1: I also think that when it comes to comedy and
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Speaker 1: pushing the limit, that has to be like thoughtfulness and
16:22
Speaker 1: purpose behind what you say, because some people just say
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Speaker 1: things for the sake of being shocking too. And if
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Speaker 1: it's not funny and it's not thoughtful, then it doesn't work.
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Speaker 1: Even if it's funny and thoughtful, looking still a fan,
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Speaker 1: and I mean and it's still and it's still can
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Speaker 1: a fan. But I think that if it's based in something,
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Speaker 1: and it's gonna still be divisive, right, And Flay Munroe
16:39
Speaker 1: was actually on Don Lemon and here's what you had
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Speaker 1: to say about Dave Chappelle. And I think that he
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Speaker 1: has opened up an opportunity for us to come to
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Speaker 1: the table and have real conversations done about this. The
16:50
Speaker 1: problem is we keep sitting disgrown through the angry people
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Speaker 1: with the fistballs up, and they face it with an
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Speaker 1: attitude to come to the table. If you come to
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Speaker 1: the table already with an attitude, you will never hear
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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, and I will never hear what you
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Speaker 1: saying if we don't take the time to have real
17:05
Speaker 1: conversations with real people in the community that represent you
17:08
Speaker 1: can't come with an already agenda, so we can let
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Speaker 1: down the smoke screen between us and them, so that
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Speaker 1: would just be in us. He pretty much said that
17:15
Speaker 1: we are so much more alike than we are different.
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Speaker 1: And I'm telling you you hear what you want to hear.
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Speaker 1: Drop on a clue bumps for Flame on the road.
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Speaker 1: That's why I love Flame. Flame is always down to
17:24
Speaker 1: have a conversation of dialogues we can get to a
17:26
Speaker 1: place of understanding. That's why Flames podcast is appropriately called
17:29
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Speaker 1: I Heart Radio podcast network. Thank you all right, Now,
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Speaker 1: as far as there was some other people who were
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Speaker 1: speaking out in the family of Daphne, who is the
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Speaker 1: LGBTQ person that she that Dave Chappelle addresses in the closer,
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Speaker 1: He refers to Daphne who killed hself out under attack
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Speaker 1: for sticking up for Dave Chappelle over some of his
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Speaker 1: earlier things that he had to say about the trans community.
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Speaker 1: Here is the actually what Dave Chappell had to say
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Speaker 1: on The Closer about Daphne. One of the coolest people
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Speaker 1: that I ever met was a transgender woman lived in
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Speaker 1: San Francisco. Daphne Dowarman is a name. I would do
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Speaker 1: eighteen shows in the Babe and she would be there,
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Speaker 1: a white trans woman, laughing loud and hard at everything
18:12
Speaker 1: I said, especially the trans jokes. And one night after
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Speaker 1: one of the shows I met up. Turns out it
18:18
Speaker 1: was their dream to be a comedian and I was
18:21
Speaker 1: a hero. It's very moving. I could not dislike somebody
18:24
Speaker 1: that felt that way about me. We became fast friends.
18:28
Speaker 1: And when I made that special Sticks and Stones, right
18:30
Speaker 1: as it was coming out, I happened to be in
18:32
Speaker 1: San Francisco and I wanted to do a show, but
18:34
Speaker 1: I needed an opening that so I called her on
18:36
Speaker 1: the phone and she was like, yeah, all right. In addition,
18:41
Speaker 1: here is what Dave Chappelle had to say about Daphne
18:44
Speaker 1: actually taking her own life. When Sticks and Stones came out,
18:47
Speaker 1: a lot of people in the trans community were furious
18:50
Speaker 1: with me, and the hardest thing for a person to
18:52
Speaker 1: do is go against their tribe. But Daphne did that
18:55
Speaker 1: for me. And when she did that, the trans community
19:00
Speaker 1: dragged that bitch are all over Twitter. But six days
19:03
Speaker 1: after that wonderful night, I described to you, my friend
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Speaker 1: Daphne killed herself. I don't know if it was them Dragon,
19:10
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on in her life, but
19:12
Speaker 1: I bet Dragon her didn't help. This is a good conversation,
19:16
Speaker 1: which man, and this walks to a really good conversation
19:18
Speaker 1: because you know, you can't tell people how to react,
19:20
Speaker 1: and you can't tell people you know what should and
19:23
Speaker 1: shouldn't offend them. But I wonder if the folks who
19:25
Speaker 1: are outraged know that their intentions are actually malicious. Dave
19:29
Speaker 1: Chappelle's are not. So Dave said something his intention is
19:32
Speaker 1: to be funny. You reply to Dave, but your intention
19:35
Speaker 1: is actually to be hurtful because you feel Dave hurt you.
19:38
Speaker 1: Or what if that hurt you were projecting that you
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Speaker 1: took out on Dave and Daphne contributed to her taking
19:43
Speaker 1: her life. Now, Daphne's sisters have since defended Dave Chappelle.
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Speaker 1: They said, Dave loved my sister and as an LGBTQ ally,
19:52
Speaker 1: his entire set was begging to end this very situation.
19:55
Speaker 1: And what He's saying to the LGBTQ family, is I
19:59
Speaker 1: see you? Do you see me? I'm morning my friend
20:00
Speaker 1: in the best way I know. How can you see me?
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Speaker 1: Can you allow me that? And she called to set
20:05
Speaker 1: a call to come together and according to you know
20:11
Speaker 1: other messages, Becky, who his Daphne's sister, also said she
20:14
Speaker 1: did not find his jokes real recruit, off coloring, off
20:16
Speaker 1: putting anything. She thought his jokes were funny and Daphney
20:20
Speaker 1: understood humor and comedy. She was not offended. Why would
20:22
Speaker 1: her family be offended? So that is the family speaking out.
20:26
Speaker 1: Have anyone from the trans community responded to you know,
20:29
Speaker 1: possibly that rhetoric, you know, pushing Daphne over the edge
20:34
Speaker 1: her being? You know? Now, I haven't seen. I haven't
20:37
Speaker 1: seen people addressed that specifically. But I did see that
20:41
Speaker 1: Netflix has suspended three employees, and those three employees did
20:44
Speaker 1: crash a meeting of its top executives, including and a
20:48
Speaker 1: trans person who criticized the Dave Chappelle special terror Field,
20:53
Speaker 1: a senior software engineer based in San Francisco, was among
20:56
Speaker 1: those who were suspended for crashing this meeting and failed
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Speaker 1: identifies as queer and trans and had actually done a
21:04
Speaker 1: series of posts on Twitter saying I work at Netflix.
21:08
Speaker 1: Yesterday we launched another Chappelle special where he attacks the
21:10
Speaker 1: trans community and at the very validity of transness, all
21:13
Speaker 1: while trying to pit us against other marginalized groups. You're
21:16
Speaker 1: going to hear a lot of talk about offense. We
21:19
Speaker 1: are not offended. Being trans is actually pretty funny if
21:21
Speaker 1: you're someone who actually knows about the subject matter and
21:25
Speaker 1: goes on to discuss the reasons why she is offended. Now,
21:29
Speaker 1: other people who were offended by this, TS Madison had
21:33
Speaker 1: some things to say on social media. Now. TS Madison
21:36
Speaker 1: has actually not seen the special, but here's what she
21:40
Speaker 1: had to say. Bitch. What I said was I was
21:43
Speaker 1: not watching it because I was exhausted with the conversations
21:47
Speaker 1: wrapped around it. And I also said, you can't tell
21:50
Speaker 1: people what to be offended by. I said, if you
21:53
Speaker 1: mother got feel some type of way about anything that
21:56
Speaker 1: you've seen or any whatever, and you feel something, bitch,
21:59
Speaker 1: I stay scrap y'all beaches. We all on my page
22:02
Speaker 1: with this damn transphobic as this is the rhetoric that
22:05
Speaker 1: comes with it. I mean, how weet, How can we
22:07
Speaker 1: get to a place of understanding though. We can't stay
22:09
Speaker 1: in this space of just going back and forth with
22:11
Speaker 1: each other, right, Like, it's got to be a conversation.
22:13
Speaker 1: That's that's had to get everybody to a proper place
22:15
Speaker 1: of understanding, because I don't think anybody's intention is to
22:17
Speaker 1: see anybody harmed or want anybody harmed. Right right, Well,
22:22
Speaker 1: you know the conversation is happening. I mean, that's something.
22:26
Speaker 1: It's happening, But that's want to know what's the end goal, Like,
22:28
Speaker 1: what's the place of understanding are we trying to get? There?
22:30
Speaker 1: Were just all, you know, yelling and screaming at each other. Well,
22:33
Speaker 1: we can continue to discuss this morning, but that is
22:36
Speaker 1: your rumor report. All right, we got front page news. Next,
22:38
Speaker 1: what we're talking about, Yes, are you planning to get
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Speaker 1: this booster shot? Well, there might be some more things
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Speaker 1: that are being cleared to make it more accessible for you,
22:45
Speaker 1: all right, we'll get into that. Next is to Breakfast Club.
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23:20
Speaker 1: the Ravens beat the Colts thirty one twenty five. Now
23:23
Speaker 1: what else are you talking about? You? Well? A TikTok
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Speaker 1: user name Brianna had some issues when her toddler actually
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23:37
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Speaker 1: I of course to her to come in so I
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Speaker 1: the phone while I'm in the shower. I quickly realized
23:50
Speaker 1: that my phone is broadcasting live on Instagram in my
23:53
Speaker 1: hand while I'm in the shower. How many followers, yeah,
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Speaker 1: she said, no idea? How many people saw it? She said,
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Speaker 1: I deleted it so quick. I didn't see any of that,
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Speaker 1: so goodness gracious, And just to put it out there,
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Speaker 1: a lot of people are talking about this feature called
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Speaker 1: guided Access, which can restrict an iPhone to a single app,
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Speaker 1: let your child play with your cell phone. All right, now,
24:16
Speaker 1: the United States is moving closer to clearing Maderner and
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Speaker 1: Johnson and Johnson for these COVID booster shots, and they're
24:22
Speaker 1: saying panel is meeting this week to debate these extra doses,
24:26
Speaker 1: and they're hoping that these booster shots will ensure a
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Speaker 1: long term and endurable protection against COVID. They said, even
24:33
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24:35
Speaker 1: as far as hospitalization and severe disease. So more than
24:40
Speaker 1: seven million Americans have gotten a boost of dose in
24:43
Speaker 1: the US as of Saturday. And a Wisconsin parent is
24:47
Speaker 1: suing the school district after their son came down with
24:51
Speaker 1: COVID from sitting next to an unmasked classmate who was
24:54
Speaker 1: infected with COVID. So the whau Keisha School District and
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Speaker 1: school board are defendants in the federal case. It's filed
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Speaker 1: You know once Jared kids to have to sit next
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Speaker 1: end up getting COVID. They want to make sure that
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Speaker 1: classmates have to wear masks. All right, and that is
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Speaker 1: your front page news. All right, thank you, miss ye.
25:35
Speaker 1: Now when we come back, we got the founder and
25:38
Speaker 1: CEO of Union, mister Jason Wilson. He trains and develops
25:42
Speaker 1: young black men, teaches black men how to deal with
25:44
Speaker 1: their trauma through Marshall Arts. He's got a documentary coming
25:47
Speaker 1: out with Lawrence Fishburn about his life. You've seen him
25:51
Speaker 1: on Doctor CNN, heard him on Joe Rogan The Today Show.
25:54
Speaker 1: You're now you're about to listen to him on The
25:56
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. I love Jason Wilson. He spoke it my
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Speaker 1: mental welfax bot this past Sunday. All right, we'll get
26:01
Speaker 1: into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the
26:04
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is tj Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne,
26:12
Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got a
26:14
Speaker 1: special guest joining us right now. Yes, Jason Wilson. He's
26:16
Speaker 1: the found in CEO of Union. Okay. Jason has over
26:19
Speaker 1: fourteen years of experience, you know, training and developing young
26:22
Speaker 1: black men. You've probably seen his videos on Instagram where
26:25
Speaker 1: he teaches, you know, young black men how to deal
26:27
Speaker 1: with their trauma through martial arts. He's got two great
26:30
Speaker 1: books out Cry Like a Man in Battle Cry. You've
26:33
Speaker 1: probably heard him on the Joe Rogan podcast. You've seen
26:36
Speaker 1: him on CNN Doctor Oz. He's spoken my Mental Wealth,
26:39
Speaker 1: expotus past Sunday, and now he's on the Breakfast Club.
26:42
Speaker 1: Mister Jason Wilson, Good morning brother, Good morning brother. How
26:45
Speaker 1: are you all as well? Man? I love New York.
26:48
Speaker 1: Love walking early in the morning here, especially late at night.
26:51
Speaker 1: Give me time to really reflect and release things that
26:54
Speaker 1: I need to let go of. You wrote a couple
26:56
Speaker 1: of books, Cry Like a Man and now Battle Cry.
26:59
Speaker 1: Why trying such a theme? It was imperative for me
27:03
Speaker 1: that I learned how because my life well, I was
27:05
Speaker 1: self destructive, pretty much about to lose my marriage and
27:08
Speaker 1: my family, and I didn't know how to not only
27:11
Speaker 1: express them, but to even process what I was feeling.
27:13
Speaker 1: So I was only taught to express it through either
27:16
Speaker 1: fighting or really suppressing it. And as a result, Man
27:20
Speaker 1: I lost it one day, man and demonstrall, be yelled
27:23
Speaker 1: at my wife in the kitchen, hit a hole in
27:25
Speaker 1: my refrigerator, and I just I had to make a change.
27:28
Speaker 1: And when I saw my wife, I saw her go
27:31
Speaker 1: from trusting me and loving me to her whole spirit
27:35
Speaker 1: was torn down in front of me. And at that
27:37
Speaker 1: very moment, I realized I had a problem, and that
27:40
Speaker 1: problem was I wasn't a comprehensive man. I was just
27:42
Speaker 1: a masculine male, and I needed to learn how to
27:46
Speaker 1: express the gamut of emotions that God has given me.
27:50
Speaker 1: You know, more so than just being strong, a protector
27:53
Speaker 1: and provider, I needed to express being a nurturer, express
27:57
Speaker 1: being compassionate, loving, long suffer from you know, when Kobe
28:01
Speaker 1: Brian died in a helicopter accident with Gianna and nine others,
28:05
Speaker 1: we didn't see a lot of pictures of him playing basketball.
28:08
Speaker 1: We saw him operating as a nurturer, and then a
28:11
Speaker 1: hashtag girl dad went viral through what men, but over
28:15
Speaker 1: a million one point two million men posted pictures of
28:17
Speaker 1: themselves loving their daughters. And so we've always been nurturists,
28:21
Speaker 1: but we've allowed society to define us as men just
28:25
Speaker 1: by one adjective, which is masculinity. But we're more than masculine.
28:29
Speaker 1: Can we talk about your background a little because this
28:31
Speaker 1: is our first time meeting, So I know that you
28:33
Speaker 1: have this youth organization in Detroit, Union, but I want
28:37
Speaker 1: to talk about you and how you started doing this work. Yes,
28:40
Speaker 1: well I started actually was a popular DJ and Detroit
28:44
Speaker 1: and actually did a few concerts with Public Enemy. I
28:46
Speaker 1: was in rap group called Chaos a Maestro. So the
28:48
Speaker 1: Union nonprofit started as a record label, and so we
28:52
Speaker 1: would use as a Christian I would use the music
28:54
Speaker 1: to counter what at the current time, what we would
28:58
Speaker 1: call like gangster hip hop, and saw the negative impact
29:01
Speaker 1: that was having on youth, and so we created music
29:04
Speaker 1: to counter it. But we realized quickly that once the
29:06
Speaker 1: music stopped, they still had to deal with the trauma.
29:09
Speaker 1: And so we're like wall and we need to stay
29:11
Speaker 1: in their lives, we need to get into schools more so,
29:13
Speaker 1: we went after our nonprofit status and in two thousand
29:16
Speaker 1: and seven we received our first grant for mentoring through
29:20
Speaker 1: the government and we haven't looked back since. And currently
29:23
Speaker 1: we've reached over fifteen thousand youth and young adults in
29:26
Speaker 1: Detroit and we just purchased a fifteen thousand square foot
29:30
Speaker 1: building due to the demand of the Cave of Adullum,
29:32
Speaker 1: which is the Transformational Training Academy where I used martial
29:35
Speaker 1: arts to help young boys navigate through their emotions instead
29:39
Speaker 1: of succumbing to them. When did you get into martial arts?
29:43
Speaker 1: It was that a way of channeling anger. Yeah, So
29:45
Speaker 1: it was interesting when my good friend she was shot
29:49
Speaker 1: and killed when I was in the eighth grade and
29:52
Speaker 1: we didn't have grief counsels or anyone come to our school,
29:55
Speaker 1: and I didn't know how to process what I was feeling,
29:58
Speaker 1: so I gravitated toward the jets. At the time, I
30:00
Speaker 1: was twelve years old. But then I quickly realized if
30:03
Speaker 1: I only process my anger by hitting things, whenever that
30:07
Speaker 1: anger rise, I start hitting things and hitting people. And
30:10
Speaker 1: so from that day on, because I have my father around.
30:13
Speaker 1: He was in the same city, but wasn't in my life.
30:16
Speaker 1: I saw the sin Say as a father figure, and
30:19
Speaker 1: I longed to have that affirmation and teach me how
30:22
Speaker 1: to be a man. And it helped me with some
30:25
Speaker 1: processing some of the training combat communication, which I talk
30:28
Speaker 1: about in battlecry and fighting. If we're getting ready to fight,
30:33
Speaker 1: I'm downloading all of your moves, your anger. If you
30:35
Speaker 1: move on my jab or my kick, I'm seeing how
30:38
Speaker 1: your defense is. I use that in communication with my wife.
30:41
Speaker 1: I try to read the room. How is she feeling
30:43
Speaker 1: to day? Is this a good time for me to
30:45
Speaker 1: share with her how all of my emotions? Would it
30:47
Speaker 1: overload her? And so instead of sometimes when you become
30:51
Speaker 1: emotionally free, when you break free from emotional incarceration, we
30:55
Speaker 1: can come home and unload too much on someone who
30:58
Speaker 1: already had a heavy day. And I've learned to use
31:01
Speaker 1: combat communication to excuse me. Read my wife, Read my son.
31:06
Speaker 1: You know he's quiet today, what's going on with you?
31:08
Speaker 1: Instead of yelling at him. Now I want to ask
31:10
Speaker 1: you about for women who are dealing with a man
31:12
Speaker 1: who may be experiencing trauma or doesn't identify ways that
31:16
Speaker 1: he can improve his own communication. What advice do you
31:19
Speaker 1: have for women that have to deal with that? My
31:21
Speaker 1: wife A lot of people ask her that because it
31:24
Speaker 1: was all new for us, you know. And so the
31:26
Speaker 1: first thing I would say is that we as men,
31:28
Speaker 1: we not only have to unlearn what we've been conditioned
31:31
Speaker 1: to believe a man is, but also our women. And
31:33
Speaker 1: we have to give our wives and our women the
31:35
Speaker 1: grace and the space needed to do so, because you've
31:38
Speaker 1: been also programmed to see a man a certain way.
31:40
Speaker 1: My wife had never seen a man crying to me,
31:43
Speaker 1: you know. And so that's number one, is to unlearn
31:45
Speaker 1: what you've been taught to believe. Number two, never impassively
31:49
Speaker 1: dismiss your husband or your significant other's emotion. When he
31:53
Speaker 1: come to you, he's trying to open up, he's trying
31:55
Speaker 1: to become comprehensive and whole. The worst thing a woman
31:58
Speaker 1: could do is shut him down or I'm busy. Can
32:00
Speaker 1: I come back to that When you see that door opening,
32:03
Speaker 1: like okay, cool, he's allowing me access to that heart.
32:07
Speaker 1: And then lastly is to listen without expectation. That's what
32:11
Speaker 1: she would saying. She says, listen to your husband's or
32:14
Speaker 1: your significant other's heart, like it's your girlfriend. Be slow
32:19
Speaker 1: to speak, quick to listen. But I said, you also
32:21
Speaker 1: need to know how to allow your wife to help
32:24
Speaker 1: you through that process. Can you break down what is
32:27
Speaker 1: emotional incarceration? It is a self imposed imprisonment, a mental
32:32
Speaker 1: prison that a man confines his non masculine emotions and
32:36
Speaker 1: his true heart from the world to keep him from
32:39
Speaker 1: hurting others and even himself. And what's interesting about emotional
32:42
Speaker 1: incarceration and we all as men, we can admit this.
32:45
Speaker 1: There is no door keeping us locked in. We choose
32:48
Speaker 1: to stay in there, and because we have to face
32:51
Speaker 1: or acknowledge feelings or traumas or emotional pain that we
32:56
Speaker 1: don't feel comfortable with, we choose to stay in there.
32:59
Speaker 1: And a lot of good men and a tide of
33:00
Speaker 1: being bad guys, even myself, Man, I ever suppressed all
33:04
Speaker 1: of my emotions, you know, and because that's what I
33:07
Speaker 1: was taught. And because of that, I didn't even they
33:10
Speaker 1: not only know how to love my wife and my children, bro,
33:12
Speaker 1: I didn't know how to love myself. And that self
33:15
Speaker 1: hate caused me not to really be available for my wife.
33:18
Speaker 1: And as I share it at the Mental Wealth Expo,
33:21
Speaker 1: she had five miscarriages, and I was checked out. I
33:25
Speaker 1: didn't know how to express the hurt or anything. To
33:27
Speaker 1: this day, it bothers me because we should say we
33:30
Speaker 1: had five miscarriages. No, I say she had and I
33:33
Speaker 1: should have been there, but I was emotionally checked out.
33:36
Speaker 1: But now it's it's truly a blessing to be able
33:39
Speaker 1: to drop my guard with the woman who really holds
33:42
Speaker 1: my heart with care. All Right, we got more with
33:44
Speaker 1: Jason Wilson when we come back, dute more. It's the
33:46
Speaker 1: breakfast club, Good morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,
33:53
Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast Club. We're still
33:56
Speaker 1: talking with Jason Wilson, Charlemagne. The things you see in
33:59
Speaker 1: regards of your wife so relatable. And it's the same
34:01
Speaker 1: reason I got myself together too, because you know, I
34:04
Speaker 1: didn't want to be like my pops, and you know,
34:06
Speaker 1: I saw the pain my pops called my mom, you
34:09
Speaker 1: know what I mean. And I saw how you know,
34:11
Speaker 1: them getting divorce affected the family. So why are so
34:14
Speaker 1: many men just comfortable with saying, you know what, Yeah,
34:17
Speaker 1: I'm married, but I'm gonna still cheating. I'm still have
34:20
Speaker 1: a whole other family out here, another girl like, why
34:23
Speaker 1: is that okay? You think that something's it's affeckless attempt
34:26
Speaker 1: for affirmation and so you know, again we taught you
34:30
Speaker 1: know masculinity as well being a man that's having multiple women.
34:34
Speaker 1: My father told me I was going to him proud saying, hey, Dad,
34:38
Speaker 1: I'm about to engage to Nicole. He said, why the
34:40
Speaker 1: hell you want to do that? When I come front
34:43
Speaker 1: of my dad about cheating my mom, my dad said, oh,
34:45
Speaker 1: you only got one girlfriend. If it one day, you
34:47
Speaker 1: gonna understand. Hey, And I told my dad. I told him,
34:51
Speaker 1: I said, I don't want to end up like you.
34:53
Speaker 1: You're broke. You're still having to cut hair, Dad in
34:56
Speaker 1: your sixties because you've had three marriages that failed because
34:59
Speaker 1: you couldn't have any sexual self control. But when I
35:03
Speaker 1: allowed my father developed Parkinson's, I finally was able to
35:05
Speaker 1: get a relationship with him because he couldn't go anywhere.
35:07
Speaker 1: So when we finally sat and talked, he shared with
35:10
Speaker 1: me the pain of growing up and feeling lacking in
35:13
Speaker 1: so many areas he was called to preach. He told guy,
35:16
Speaker 1: there's nowhere on earth I'm gonna do that because he
35:18
Speaker 1: came up in the sixties, when the cops cracked down
35:21
Speaker 1: on the pimps in Detroit, many of them became pastors.
35:24
Speaker 1: So he said, the last thing I'm gonna do is
35:25
Speaker 1: be one of these guys. But because of that, he
35:28
Speaker 1: never really knew how to express what he was going
35:31
Speaker 1: through and what he felt. And that's why sharing battle
35:33
Speaker 1: cry too. As where we are now as men, we
35:36
Speaker 1: got to go back and reach and help our fathers
35:38
Speaker 1: learn how to process what they're dealing with. So you
35:40
Speaker 1: gotta think my grandfather, not my great grandfather, a great
35:43
Speaker 1: great grandfather. My grandfather was lynched, beating and lynched, and
35:47
Speaker 1: then after his lynching, my mother's family was terrorized by
35:51
Speaker 1: the police to ensure that none of them would ever
35:54
Speaker 1: feel like they're equal to white people. In Fort Pierce, Florida.
35:57
Speaker 1: I saw that trauma transferred throughout general ration through our generation,
36:01
Speaker 1: and until I allowed my dad that freedom to be human,
36:07
Speaker 1: I didn't hear him say he loved me until thirty
36:09
Speaker 1: seven years of age. I told my dad, and it
36:12
Speaker 1: didn't make sense to me at the time. He's landing
36:15
Speaker 1: his bed and the Holy Spirit told me, he says,
36:18
Speaker 1: tell your father, thank him for being a great dad.
36:22
Speaker 1: That doesn't make sense to me. But what my father
36:24
Speaker 1: needed was affirmation. So I leanked over to him while
36:28
Speaker 1: he was landing his bed and I said, I said, Dad,
36:30
Speaker 1: I said, thank you for being a great dad. So
36:34
Speaker 1: I was walking out and I heard him like getting
36:37
Speaker 1: heavy in his breath, and I turned around and I
36:39
Speaker 1: saw the strongest man in my life. Crime he finally
36:42
Speaker 1: had a release, and this is a tough one. So
36:46
Speaker 1: I went back over to him. I held his hands
36:49
Speaker 1: and I kissed him on his forehead and he wouldn't
36:51
Speaker 1: let me go, and he says, son, he says, I
36:54
Speaker 1: love you. And that there it removed so many shackles
36:59
Speaker 1: off of me and freed me to really live from
37:01
Speaker 1: my heart instead of my fears, instead of trying to
37:05
Speaker 1: live up to this limited definition of what a man is.
37:08
Speaker 1: Now I can be a comprehensive man, which is a
37:10
Speaker 1: man who is courageous but also compassionate, strong but sensitive,
37:14
Speaker 1: a man who can boldly but freely live from his
37:17
Speaker 1: heart instead of his fears. How important is it for
37:20
Speaker 1: men to give other men positive affirmations? Because you know,
37:23
Speaker 1: I thought about this after the mental wealth export, because
37:26
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff came up for me when we
37:27
Speaker 1: was on the panel having a conversation. That's why that's
37:30
Speaker 1: why the tids came, because it's like, just listening to
37:32
Speaker 1: you tell me, oh, I'm proud of you, YadA YadA,
37:34
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, oh, I didn't. I didn't get that
37:37
Speaker 1: the way I wanted to growing up from my father.
37:40
Speaker 1: So even just hearing it from another black man at
37:43
Speaker 1: your respect is like whoa, it gets your emotional or
37:46
Speaker 1: whether we realize that or not, we do that all
37:47
Speaker 1: the time. That's why we gonna get the cars because
37:51
Speaker 1: we want other men to give us affirmation. Yeah, like
37:53
Speaker 1: I said, it's a feckless attempt for affirmation. Even with women.
37:56
Speaker 1: You know, it's like we call you trophy wives and
37:59
Speaker 1: all this other foolishness you would create. You're not meant
38:02
Speaker 1: to be objects, you know what I'm saying it. But
38:04
Speaker 1: it's when we objectify women that a lot. When I
38:07
Speaker 1: saw that evil, that's what allowed me to break free
38:11
Speaker 1: from pornography because again, to have this right in front
38:15
Speaker 1: of you where you feel you can have control over
38:16
Speaker 1: the most beautiful woman in the world. I didn't know
38:19
Speaker 1: how to really give a woman my heart, But when
38:22
Speaker 1: I allowed myself to be free, I started cherishing women
38:26
Speaker 1: for who they are, even their superior qualities, not that
38:29
Speaker 1: equal qualities. Because my wife runs our nonprofit. If it
38:33
Speaker 1: wasn't for her, I look at the stuff we do now,
38:36
Speaker 1: that's because I allowed my wife to operate in the
38:38
Speaker 1: fullness of who she is. Right, I don't need you
38:41
Speaker 1: to be just at home with my children. God has
38:44
Speaker 1: created you to lead this organization, this ministry, and then
38:47
Speaker 1: eventually I hope she gets her own health center. The
38:50
Speaker 1: goal for us to even be healed, brother, and I
38:52
Speaker 1: was sharing this at the ex Bowl, for us to
38:55
Speaker 1: heal this black men. I want us to heal so
38:57
Speaker 1: we can finally decrease what's going on the side of us,
39:01
Speaker 1: so that our sisters can finally unload the weight and
39:05
Speaker 1: emotional pain that they've been in doing for decades. Now.
39:09
Speaker 1: As far as affirmation, it's so important, especially with our boys.
39:13
Speaker 1: You know, I remember I had one kid when I
39:15
Speaker 1: piloted the cave of a dullum. The principle introduced me
39:19
Speaker 1: to this young man by all negative descriptions. I took
39:23
Speaker 1: that young man and for twenty four weeks affirmed and
39:26
Speaker 1: poured into him, taught him how to meditate, release the anger,
39:30
Speaker 1: the frustration, and it actually the hurt of not having
39:32
Speaker 1: a father there. He smoked about two blunts a week.
39:36
Speaker 1: This was an eighth grader. His great point average was
39:38
Speaker 1: point eight. Within twenty four weeks, his whole life change
39:42
Speaker 1: and he graduated because I affirmed him in who he was,
39:47
Speaker 1: even the young man he didn't see. They saw the prankster.
39:51
Speaker 1: I saw someone who could negotiate, whose wives, who's clever?
39:55
Speaker 1: They saw someone anger. I saw a young man who
39:57
Speaker 1: would fight against injustice, who would think kids who are bullied.
40:01
Speaker 1: That's what affirmation does. I thank you for who you are,
40:05
Speaker 1: and I meant everything that I said. Man, I'm proud
40:07
Speaker 1: of you, and that's why I affirmed you. And we
40:09
Speaker 1: need to affirm each other that way. And then more so,
40:12
Speaker 1: as I told our brother Van Lathan when I was
40:15
Speaker 1: on his podcast, we're so quick to just deflect it
40:18
Speaker 1: or just here, you're the man too. I love what
40:21
Speaker 1: you're doing, like no, I want you to hold that, brother,
40:24
Speaker 1: because you're doing some great things. And I want you
40:26
Speaker 1: to really embrace who you are as a man. And
40:29
Speaker 1: that's all I ever wanted, man, And that's why I'm
40:32
Speaker 1: thankful I finally allowed my wife access to hear, because
40:36
Speaker 1: what causes men to really drift away. You want to
40:39
Speaker 1: feel important, you want to feel loved, But it's if
40:42
Speaker 1: you don't work as hard as you do in the community,
40:45
Speaker 1: in your home. How do you expect those in your
40:47
Speaker 1: home to give you the accolades that you desire when
40:50
Speaker 1: you're working twice as hard for those who don't even
40:53
Speaker 1: live with you. Right? You said something so powerful yesterday
40:56
Speaker 1: at the Mental welfect Bo when Max Ball asked you,
40:59
Speaker 1: what's the definitely of a man? How do you define
41:02
Speaker 1: a man? Yeah? I said nothing. You can't define. Once
41:06
Speaker 1: you allow yourself to be defined, you can't be anything
41:09
Speaker 1: and everything you have to be at any given moment.
41:12
Speaker 1: That's the goal of a man. That's comprehensive manner. I
41:14
Speaker 1: want to be able to morph between transformers and everything
41:17
Speaker 1: that I need to be for to complish my mission
41:20
Speaker 1: here on earth, for my family, for you, for my sister,
41:24
Speaker 1: my brother, my brother, And that's the goal. Once you
41:27
Speaker 1: allow yourself to be defined, you've just cut off your potential.
41:31
Speaker 1: And so I tell people to live I was telling
41:33
Speaker 1: to me, and live from what we long for instead
41:35
Speaker 1: of what we lack. We tend to blame my father's
41:37
Speaker 1: for not being there what we didn't have, And now
41:40
Speaker 1: we bring that stuff to the present. We allow our
41:42
Speaker 1: trauma to time travel living the present so you can
41:46
Speaker 1: fully be there. And that's the key. Man. If you
41:48
Speaker 1: only feel as a man that you're only a protector
41:51
Speaker 1: and provider, how you're going to be there for your family?
41:54
Speaker 1: How can you have a relationship with your wife? And
41:57
Speaker 1: you're only you can only manifest two attributes, You're extremely limited.
42:02
Speaker 1: A friend of mine compared it to that crayon boxes,
42:05
Speaker 1: the ones of eight and the ones of sixty four.
42:08
Speaker 1: As men, we take out three crayons out the one
42:10
Speaker 1: of eight, and we said, we're gonna stay in that
42:12
Speaker 1: that area because it feels comfortable, it's safe. But the
42:15
Speaker 1: most I created us to exude all sixty four and
42:18
Speaker 1: even more now move We got more with Jason Wilson.
42:20
Speaker 1: When we come back, it's the Breakfast Club, Morning Morning.
42:23
Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne, the guy. We
42:27
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. We're still talking with Jason Wilson. Yea.
42:30
Speaker 1: You also have a documentary that you've been working on, right, Yes,
42:33
Speaker 1: can you tell us something about that? Yeah, that's really exciting.
42:36
Speaker 1: I signed with Lawrence Fitzburn's film company sent them a
42:39
Speaker 1: gypsy to do a documentary film on my work with
42:42
Speaker 1: boys in the Cave of Adullum. We submitted it to
42:44
Speaker 1: Sundance and so we're waiting to hear back from them,
42:47
Speaker 1: but it's supposed to release next year and we're really excited.
42:50
Speaker 1: You get to see them follow four of my boys,
42:53
Speaker 1: and you see the effects of intergenerational trauma, but then
42:56
Speaker 1: you see it broken and it's so powerful, it's beautiful.
42:59
Speaker 1: How do you black and brown people learn to stop
43:01
Speaker 1: wearing trauma as if it's a bad honor, acknowledge that
43:07
Speaker 1: it's nothing good about it. There's nothing honorable about getting shot.
43:12
Speaker 1: There's nothing honorable about hating each other, mean mother and
43:16
Speaker 1: not being able to say how you doing my brother,
43:19
Speaker 1: how you doing my sister? There's nothing honorable about I
43:23
Speaker 1: guess just the pain that we've been through. I mean,
43:26
Speaker 1: we look at it as like, you know, especially I
43:28
Speaker 1: love hip hop. I came up in the culture. We
43:31
Speaker 1: brag about getting shot. We don't brag about living in
43:34
Speaker 1: a good neighborhood. We brag about being in the roughest neighborhood.
43:38
Speaker 1: And so until we recognize that this isn't how it's
43:41
Speaker 1: supposed to be. Yes, trauma will happen to all of us,
43:45
Speaker 1: but it's not the Black experience as we always say.
43:48
Speaker 1: You know, just as trauma can be passed down through
43:51
Speaker 1: our generation, so can healing. But we first have to
43:54
Speaker 1: renew our minds. We have to allow. For me, it
43:56
Speaker 1: took for me to ask the most how to break me,
43:59
Speaker 1: break away my stubborn will, the evil in my heart.
44:03
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be his light to the world,
44:05
Speaker 1: to help those who in darkness see And so until
44:09
Speaker 1: I allowed him to break me, I wasn't able to
44:12
Speaker 1: see that all that I've been through, the stuff that,
44:15
Speaker 1: even for my benefit today, wasn't meant for me to
44:18
Speaker 1: stay there. So when traumatizing things happen, we have to
44:22
Speaker 1: let go and keep moving forward. But a lot of
44:25
Speaker 1: us we stay there because we fear moving forward because
44:28
Speaker 1: of something else traumatizing may happen. And so as a
44:32
Speaker 1: Black people, we got to start living from what we
44:35
Speaker 1: desire and hear the good that's in here. We love
44:38
Speaker 1: each other man, we do, we just have to learn
44:41
Speaker 1: how to express it. And there's nothing weak or docile
44:45
Speaker 1: about telling you I love you, telling you I love
44:47
Speaker 1: you and who you are. I'm proud of you. I
44:50
Speaker 1: need help. I'm hurting. Just because something is wrong with
44:53
Speaker 1: me doesn't mean something is wrong with me. So when
44:56
Speaker 1: we get to that place where we understand, okay, we
45:00
Speaker 1: can break through what we've been through, that's when you
45:03
Speaker 1: see us rise together. My final question, you know, as
45:06
Speaker 1: your profile raises, how did your wife feel about all
45:10
Speaker 1: these women calling you zaddie? I didn't know they called me.
45:15
Speaker 1: They called me that them on Instagram. Oh man, I
45:20
Speaker 1: um um. My wife and I have a very like
45:24
Speaker 1: transparent relationship. If she feels something isn't right, she said,
45:27
Speaker 1: you know, but this is a funny story. One day
45:30
Speaker 1: I met Halle Berry, right, and I took a video
45:35
Speaker 1: from my daughter because my daughter, you know, was into
45:37
Speaker 1: modeling at the time, and so I called the cart
45:40
Speaker 1: I say I met Holly Berry. She's like really, where
45:42
Speaker 1: was she at? And I told her at this conference.
45:44
Speaker 1: So we get off the phone and her friend was like, oh,
45:48
Speaker 1: so your husband is with Halle Berry and she was
45:50
Speaker 1: like yeah, and she could looking at my wife and
45:53
Speaker 1: my wife called back and she says, are you okay?
45:59
Speaker 1: Because you know, Holly Barry is was like attractive like
46:02
Speaker 1: our generations lean a horn. But my wife was like,
46:06
Speaker 1: are you okay? Because I know she's beautiful and I
46:09
Speaker 1: know you know you together, You' good. I'm like, yeah,
46:13
Speaker 1: I'm good and we both laughed about it. But the
46:15
Speaker 1: beautiful thing. When I got home and I looked at
46:17
Speaker 1: my wife, I said, dang, you look better than her.
46:21
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying, and so and so when
46:25
Speaker 1: she knows my wife, she affirms me man and I
46:29
Speaker 1: fight it. I'm still growing, bro, I don't like dan,
46:31
Speaker 1: how do you what? You? She had touched my face
46:33
Speaker 1: all gent. I'm like, what are you doing inside? That's
46:36
Speaker 1: why I'm cringing because I'm thinking when my father told
46:40
Speaker 1: me I wasn't nothing, and they have a woman cress
46:44
Speaker 1: my face and then tell me I'm beautiful and she
46:47
Speaker 1: loves me. And as a man, you look in your mirror,
46:49
Speaker 1: you see your flaws. You ain't big enough, you ain't
46:51
Speaker 1: buffing up, you ain't smart enough. What can any of
46:54
Speaker 1: these women give me? Man? What's a night of sex?
46:57
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna give away everything in our god
47:00
Speaker 1: just to have a moment with a woman. That's not
47:03
Speaker 1: peace to me, that's chaos. I ain't got time to
47:05
Speaker 1: have three cell phones, and I don't. I don't have
47:07
Speaker 1: an energy for that. We're chasing a sense of worthiness
47:10
Speaker 1: that we can't get from another woman. That's that's feeding
47:13
Speaker 1: your ego. Being with your wife, that's feeding your soul. Yeah,
47:16
Speaker 1: it's it's it's she's a part of me, man, and
47:18
Speaker 1: so you know, Yeah, they're flirt you can see them.
47:22
Speaker 1: They look at you. But I don't have an available look.
47:24
Speaker 1: You know a lot of brothers who struggle with infidelity.
47:27
Speaker 1: Y'all look available. You look like they can holler at you.
47:30
Speaker 1: I consciously make sure I don't look available. I don't
47:37
Speaker 1: look like you know. I practice with my sister. You know,
47:42
Speaker 1: we're talking. I'm like, you know what I'm talking about. Okay,
47:48
Speaker 1: so I do this. Okay, I take my ring off,
47:51
Speaker 1: but I'm not. I'm talking, but it's respectfully. How are
47:54
Speaker 1: you doing? I shake your hands right, I'm not doing this?
47:57
Speaker 1: So how are you doing you? I'm not doing all that.
47:58
Speaker 1: I'm like, how are you doing? Press A pleasure to
48:01
Speaker 1: meet you. I'm proud of you, thank you. What are
48:03
Speaker 1: you doing later? No, I'm kidding, I said, I'm calling
48:07
Speaker 1: my wife. I'm telling you right now, taking that ring
48:10
Speaker 1: off and then having the conversation not make you less available.
48:14
Speaker 1: But but but but the look is the spirit is
48:17
Speaker 1: the vibe. And that's why I tell my brothers. One
48:19
Speaker 1: of my friends standing back in the day, amaze women
48:22
Speaker 1: beyonly man, I'm trying to be faithful. I said, you
48:24
Speaker 1: look like you want them too, And he started laughing.
48:28
Speaker 1: And we was in the gym, and I said, look
48:30
Speaker 1: at you. He was like, I get it, Doug. You're
48:33
Speaker 1: coming here every day with great sweat faces. And so
48:39
Speaker 1: you know, and and and that's my my thing. I
48:41
Speaker 1: just you know, Um, I love our women. I do.
48:44
Speaker 1: And they need a man who doesn't want to get
48:47
Speaker 1: between their legs just to talk to him and affirm
48:49
Speaker 1: them to hear from just a man who just wants
48:52
Speaker 1: to affirm you for who you are, not because I'm
48:56
Speaker 1: you beautiful, I'm trying to hog light you. Man. These
48:58
Speaker 1: women would just you know, I just you know. That's
49:01
Speaker 1: why I say, Man, when we can get healed, keep
49:04
Speaker 1: doing those expos man. I mean, just we gotta continue
49:06
Speaker 1: to do what we do. But when we can get healed,
49:08
Speaker 1: we gotta sit down and open the space for our
49:11
Speaker 1: sisters to heal. And that's when you're gonna start seeing transformation.
49:16
Speaker 1: When we both can truly find that and get that
49:18
Speaker 1: heal and we desire and our families become whole, then
49:22
Speaker 1: our communities to change, and then you got the world. Yeah,
49:25
Speaker 1: I'm so extra grateful for like the men in my
49:27
Speaker 1: life who do affirm me and have positive things to
49:30
Speaker 1: say to me, and it's not for any reason other
49:32
Speaker 1: than they really feel that way, and I don't feel
49:35
Speaker 1: anything crazy from them. I know their families, I know
49:39
Speaker 1: their wives and significant others, and it's completely comfortable. And
49:42
Speaker 1: I'm so appreciative all the time of people that are like, yo, Angela,
49:46
Speaker 1: you really doing your thing. I'm so proud of you.
49:47
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come support like it means a lot to me. Yes,
49:50
Speaker 1: And that's that's awesome. And you know, because sometimes people
49:53
Speaker 1: feel like men and women can't have these relationships where
49:57
Speaker 1: there's nothing going on. And if you could take a
49:59
Speaker 1: picture with somebody like he trying to holler and you're like, dude,
50:02
Speaker 1: come on, just because he's a man doesn't mean that
50:06
Speaker 1: that's what it is, just because somebody can affirm you,
50:09
Speaker 1: but people sometimes are scared to even do that. Yeah,
50:11
Speaker 1: but the more men who who model it, the more
50:14
Speaker 1: men feel comfortable and say, Okay, this is what a
50:16
Speaker 1: man is, you know, and that's what our women need,
50:20
Speaker 1: you know, even at the union. Just affirm and love them.
50:23
Speaker 1: I got you. Don't worry about that. I ain't trying
50:25
Speaker 1: to holight you. They need brothers, They need men in
50:27
Speaker 1: their lives that they feel that they got their back,
50:30
Speaker 1: you know. And then ain't always wanting something, you know.
50:33
Speaker 1: And so I went I did what is it called
50:36
Speaker 1: virtual reality. I was at this conference and they they
50:39
Speaker 1: put put me in a headset where I saw through
50:42
Speaker 1: the eyes of a woman at work, and it showed
50:46
Speaker 1: how many like advances men were making to this woman
50:49
Speaker 1: throughout the day and from the handshake to just having conversation.
50:54
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn it, can you just just respect me
50:57
Speaker 1: as a woman, affirm me just as a woman instead
51:00
Speaker 1: of just trying to get between my legs, you know.
51:02
Speaker 1: And so I'm glad you have men like that. I
51:05
Speaker 1: try to make myself available for the women in my
51:07
Speaker 1: life the same way, you know, and it's so needed
51:10
Speaker 1: as men that again, as long as we're seeking affirmation
51:14
Speaker 1: in the wrong places. And that's what I did for
51:16
Speaker 1: the longest would never truly respect our women for the queens,
51:21
Speaker 1: the jewels, the gifts that they truly are true to
51:24
Speaker 1: use points. I mean, that's why I'd be so happy.
51:25
Speaker 1: I you know, I got too many women that call
51:27
Speaker 1: me any brother uncle because I really wear that as
51:29
Speaker 1: a badge of honor, like you know, I want to
51:32
Speaker 1: be there for them in that way. And I'm glad
51:34
Speaker 1: they see me in that way. Yeah, they need it.
51:36
Speaker 1: And we need women like when my mother when my
51:39
Speaker 1: when my mother passed, man, I needed a nurturer. I
51:43
Speaker 1: needed to allow older women and my wife access to
51:46
Speaker 1: my heart in that way, you know. And so and
51:49
Speaker 1: I don't need women sisters trying to holight me. I
51:52
Speaker 1: need a sister. Sometimes women who pray for me, man,
51:55
Speaker 1: ain't trying to holler praying for me, and they say,
51:58
Speaker 1: we know what you're doing. We got you. I feel invigorated,
52:02
Speaker 1: you know, I'm ready to go. And my wife doesn't
52:05
Speaker 1: mind it, man, And so you know again it's it's
52:08
Speaker 1: our minds need to be renewed so that we can
52:10
Speaker 1: truly live from the good in our hearts. His name
52:13
Speaker 1: is Jason Wilson. Giving me your Twitters and Instagrams and
52:15
Speaker 1: all that good stuff. My handle throughout all social media
52:18
Speaker 1: is mister Jason O. Wilson. That's m R J A
52:22
Speaker 1: S O N. The letter O W I L S
52:25
Speaker 1: O N. And I want to thank you for doing
52:27
Speaker 1: the Mental Wealth Expert yesterday. I couldn't even have done
52:29
Speaker 1: an event like that and not have you there, because
52:32
Speaker 1: you're such a leader in this space, man, and you
52:34
Speaker 1: inspire me and you make me want to be a
52:36
Speaker 1: better man every time I hear you speak, ary time
52:38
Speaker 1: I read your books, seeing you on Instagram, everything, So
52:41
Speaker 1: I just I thank God for your existence. Brother, thank
52:43
Speaker 1: you feeling this mutual thank you and it was really
52:47
Speaker 1: powerful yesterday and I look forward to being at the
52:49
Speaker 1: next one. Brother, Yes, sir, thank you. Finally, Jason Wilson
52:53
Speaker 1: is the Breakfast Club. Listen It's well. Lila is speaking
53:14
Speaker 1: for the first time about her divorce. She was on
53:16
Speaker 1: with Angie Martinez and she explained about keeping it private
53:20
Speaker 1: for a while, how it made her fail. Here's what
53:22
Speaker 1: she said. I still had my moments, but for the
53:24
Speaker 1: most part, I can't talk about it now and laugh
53:26
Speaker 1: about it and find, you know, the humor in it all.
53:28
Speaker 1: Otherwise I'll be a basket case. Were you really bad?
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Speaker 1: I was bad because it was public. I was bad
53:34
Speaker 1: because there were other people involved. That was bad because
53:37
Speaker 1: there were allegations. It was it got bad. And then
53:39
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not a person that ever put my
53:41
Speaker 1: business on social media. I'm not a person whoever I've
53:43
Speaker 1: never spoke the first time I spoke about But you're
53:45
Speaker 1: my friend and I'm comfortable. But it's like, you know,
53:48
Speaker 1: so many times you do want to say, oh you
53:50
Speaker 1: guys really want to know what happened. You want to
53:51
Speaker 1: hear from me, but you hold it in and it's like,
53:53
Speaker 1: oh Li is doing good, she looked good on a Gramm.
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Speaker 1: It's like, nah, that shopped me really hard. Oh la la.
53:59
Speaker 1: And then in addition to that, she also talked about
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Speaker 1: her post that she does on Instagram and where her
54:04
Speaker 1: DM's looking like I am in a new phase and
54:07
Speaker 1: chatter in my life like I didn't think at this
54:09
Speaker 1: phase I would be entering into being signal. And so
54:13
Speaker 1: now I got to readjust so I can't be out
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Speaker 1: here look at it crazy. I'm trying to get some
54:18
Speaker 1: DMS popping. I'm trying to see what's going on. I
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Speaker 1: could only imagine what is happening. In las ms right now?
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Speaker 1: Can you tell me one thing they don't tell the person.
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Speaker 1: I can pull dms up with friends of mine and
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Speaker 1: it's the same message in each one of our dms
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Speaker 1: from a person like what are you just copy and past?
54:34
Speaker 1: I thought you was somebody's super high profile too. Traveling
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Speaker 1: include bonflatz Leasy is a group chat favor, meaning that
54:43
Speaker 1: if you're in a group chat with like guys, you'll
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Speaker 1: see a la la picture float across the group chat
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Speaker 1: timeline a lot. She's definitely a group chat favorite. All right, Well,
54:54
Speaker 1: that's good. She waited till she was more comfortable to
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Speaker 1: speak about it to actually do it, and then she
54:59
Speaker 1: did it in a s environment with Angie. So I
55:01
Speaker 1: think that's great. And I have to be honest, I'm
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Speaker 1: a snitch. I do be telling her? Who be posting
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Speaker 1: her in the group chat? You be posting la la. Oh.
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Speaker 1: You can't tell other people stuff that happens in the
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Speaker 1: group text. That's against policy. And from what she said though,
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Speaker 1: she my friends being a text like Delicias after she
55:20
Speaker 1: said she told you and Angie she's a you know,
55:23
Speaker 1: trying to figure out Delia's after and we see some
55:26
Speaker 1: people tell all right now, let's talk about Superman. John Kent,
55:30
Speaker 1: the son of the original Superman Clark Kent, and journalist
55:33
Speaker 1: Lois Lane, is turned out to be bisexual. So according
55:38
Speaker 1: to the writer Tom Taylor, he said, it's not a gimmick.
55:40
Speaker 1: When I was off at this job, I thought, well,
55:42
Speaker 1: if we're going to have a new Superman for the
55:43
Speaker 1: DC universe, it feels like a missed opportunity to have
55:46
Speaker 1: another straight white savior. And he said, we don't want
55:49
Speaker 1: this to be DC Comics creates new queer Superman. We
55:52
Speaker 1: want this to be Superman finds himself, becomes Superman, and
55:55
Speaker 1: then comes out. And I think that's a really important distinction. Now,
55:59
Speaker 1: according to Tell, the reactions have been mostly positive. He said,
56:01
Speaker 1: I'm seeing tweets of people saying they burst into tears
56:04
Speaker 1: when they read the news that they wished that Superman
56:07
Speaker 1: was this when they were growing up, that they could
56:09
Speaker 1: see themselves. People are saying, for the first time ever,
56:11
Speaker 1: they're seeing themselves in Superman, something they never thought was possible.
56:15
Speaker 1: So he's a supertop of super Bottom does not say,
56:17
Speaker 1: but he's bisexual. When your comments as a kid, did
56:20
Speaker 1: they have any sexuality in the comics, anybody dating man
56:23
Speaker 1: woman and woman, I mean Superman with David Lewis, Lane
56:26
Speaker 1: Clark Kent. No, you meant like LGBTQ relationship. Yeah, yes,
56:30
Speaker 1: there was what's the what's the young lady that? Uh?
56:35
Speaker 1: Players on? Thor's her name? The character test the Thompson players.
56:39
Speaker 1: I can't remember her name right now. And it was
56:41
Speaker 1: always rooms that Deadpool dead Pool was bisexual, which you'll
56:46
Speaker 1: probably explored in future comics. So yeah, it's not a scratch.
56:49
Speaker 1: It's not like the things that they're doing now scratches sknew,
56:53
Speaker 1: But yes, it's it's characters. I'm a Marvel guy, I'm
56:55
Speaker 1: not a DC guy, but there's characters in the Marvel
56:56
Speaker 1: universe that have been LGBTQ historically. All right, now, let's
57:01
Speaker 1: talk about being offended by labels. Demi Levado is saying
57:05
Speaker 1: that the label alien is offensive when referring to extraterrestrials.
57:10
Speaker 1: Now we can flash back to a previous interview where
57:14
Speaker 1: she actually addressed this, w kid, you please clear up
57:18
Speaker 1: this fan theory that you have an unreleased song titled Aliens.
57:21
Speaker 1: I do not have a song called the Aliens I wish.
57:25
Speaker 1: Yeah it sounds cool, but it would be called ets. Yeah,
57:28
Speaker 1: my fans should know that I do not call them
57:30
Speaker 1: aliens because alien is a derogatory term for anything that's
57:34
Speaker 1: even extraterrestrials, which is why I call them ats. Did
57:39
Speaker 1: she have a conversation with an alien that he said
57:41
Speaker 1: he was offended or she said that they were offended
57:43
Speaker 1: by that term? The WOKEE gotta get some sleep, man,
57:45
Speaker 1: because when you don't get no sleep, you just be
57:47
Speaker 1: mad tied, and you just be saying silly stuff man, like, Yes,
57:50
Speaker 1: you're right, And we don't know what beings from other
57:51
Speaker 1: planets want to be called. We've identified a whole potential
57:55
Speaker 1: population of beings with words I'm sure they don't use
57:58
Speaker 1: to identify themselves, and now we're trying to convince ourselves
58:01
Speaker 1: that they are offended by words that we made up
58:03
Speaker 1: to call them. So we can't call aliens aliens anymore.
58:06
Speaker 1: I don't know. I wonder if it's because people are offended,
58:10
Speaker 1: actual people who I'm offended by your phone going off
58:12
Speaker 1: every morning at eight o'clock. Well, get my parking situation, right, um,
58:17
Speaker 1: But I wonder if it's because the term alien is offensive.
58:19
Speaker 1: I'm referring to people who are coming from other countries,
58:22
Speaker 1: like that's an offensive term. So I wonder if she
58:24
Speaker 1: just thinks the term alien. I don't know, but we
58:28
Speaker 1: terrestrials want to be called. We're calling them extraterrestrials. We
58:30
Speaker 1: didn't even know if that's their name. We've made all
58:33
Speaker 1: of these terms up to describe a bunch of beings
58:35
Speaker 1: we've we've never encountered. What can I call it? I
58:37
Speaker 1: thought you have. I've seen them before, so you haven't counted.
58:41
Speaker 1: I didn't call them by their name. I just saw
58:42
Speaker 1: I saw sauce before and I woke up with it.
58:45
Speaker 1: You call them one who was standing over me. I
58:46
Speaker 1: called it a flying saucer because that's the term they
58:48
Speaker 1: gave us to describe it. So what can we call?
58:50
Speaker 1: Can we call them aliens? Go? We go? What you
58:52
Speaker 1: call them? Me? To you? What do we leave me alone?
58:54
Speaker 1: By the way, the character is Valkyrie from Marvel. That's
58:56
Speaker 1: who Testa Thompson play Valkyrie? Okay? Val and Loki. Loki
59:01
Speaker 1: is bisexual too. I don't know if you watched Loki
59:03
Speaker 1: on Disney Plus. Well, that is your room of reports.
59:08
Speaker 1: The bottom line is, you can't call aliens. Don't call
59:10
Speaker 1: me your bottom Okay, I hope you referred to super
59:17
Speaker 1: Are you giving your donkey too? Um? John Grew? John
59:20
Speaker 1: Grew needs to come to the front of congregation aka Supercracker.
59:22
Speaker 1: We need to have a conversation. Okay, all right, we'll
59:24
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Speaker 1: Ain't no big deal. I know Charlotmagny got grow out,
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Speaker 1: funny sleep say out his mouth. You gotta say something
1:00:01
Speaker 1: you may not agree with. Doesn't mean he's getting that donkey.
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Speaker 1: That donkey that don't don't don't, don't don't donkey other
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Speaker 1: day right to breakfast club. Bitches, you can call me
1:00:11
Speaker 1: the donkey of the day, but like I mean no harm. Yeah,
1:00:15
Speaker 1: donk you today for Tuesday, October twelfth. Gold to former
1:00:18
Speaker 1: Raiders coach John Gruden. If you haven't heard, John Gruden
1:00:21
Speaker 1: has resigned as head coach of the Raiders after homophobic,
1:00:25
Speaker 1: misogynistic emails that he wrote between twenty ten and twenty
1:00:28
Speaker 1: eighteen have come out. Let's go to ESPN for the report.
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Speaker 1: John Gruden resigned after The New York Times reported he
1:00:34
Speaker 1: frequently used misogynistic and anti gay language and numerous emails
1:00:37
Speaker 1: before he was hired as coach of the Raiders in
1:00:40
Speaker 1: two eighteen. According to The Times, Gruden sent the emails
1:00:43
Speaker 1: to Bruce Allen, then the president of the Washington Football team,
1:00:46
Speaker 1: and others during a seven year period that began in
1:00:49
Speaker 1: two thousand eleven. The NFL sent the Raiders additional Gruden
1:00:52
Speaker 1: emails to review after the first, which Gruden had been
1:00:55
Speaker 1: asked about, which included the racial troupe about NFLPA executive
1:00:59
Speaker 1: director Demorris Smith that surfaced last week. Gruden was employed
1:01:02
Speaker 1: by ESPN as the lead analyst for Monday Night Football
1:01:05
Speaker 1: at the time that he sent these emails, which are
1:01:07
Speaker 1: now under review. The comments are clearly repugnant under any circumstance,
1:01:13
Speaker 1: ESPN said in a statement. Gruden released the following statement,
1:01:17
Speaker 1: I quote, I resigned as the head coach of the
1:01:19
Speaker 1: Las Vegas Raiders. I love the Raiders and do not
1:01:21
Speaker 1: want to be a distraction. Thank you to all the players,
1:01:24
Speaker 1: coaching staff, and fans of Raider Nation. I'm sorry. I
1:01:28
Speaker 1: never meant to hurt anyone. This is a teachable moment.
1:01:31
Speaker 1: It's a teachable moment because life is interesting. Life is
1:01:33
Speaker 1: just something you simply can't run from. Because who you
1:01:36
Speaker 1: truly are in the dark will always come to light.
1:01:39
Speaker 1: It always does. This is why I subscribe to one
1:01:41
Speaker 1: of John Wooden's most famous quotes, be more concerned with
1:01:44
Speaker 1: your character than your reputation, because your character is what
1:01:48
Speaker 1: you really are. Why your reputation is merely what others
1:01:51
Speaker 1: think you are. People be so caught up in the
1:01:53
Speaker 1: reputation of others. There's so many people out here who
1:01:56
Speaker 1: present well, who have these reputations of being nice, genuine people.
1:01:59
Speaker 1: When he is damn moving like the John Grudens of
1:02:02
Speaker 1: the world behind the scenes, it's nothing you know to
1:02:05
Speaker 1: even take personal. Okay, he makes joke using racist tropes,
1:02:08
Speaker 1: He uses gay slurs to refer to homosexuals. Makes you
1:02:11
Speaker 1: think what he really thought about Carl Nazer Is that
1:02:14
Speaker 1: a pronounce cars last name who came out a gay
1:02:16
Speaker 1: before the start of the season. Okay, he played for
1:02:18
Speaker 1: Gruden and the Raiders. I would love to see the
1:02:20
Speaker 1: emails about that move, all right. Gruden doesn't like the
1:02:23
Speaker 1: emergence of female refs. See the problem with guys like
1:02:27
Speaker 1: Gruden is he's not just the biggest he is actively
1:02:29
Speaker 1: against the advancement of marginalized communities. Okay, John Gruden said
1:02:34
Speaker 1: Goodell shouldn't have pressured Jeff Fisher to draft Michael sam
1:02:38
Speaker 1: who was, you know, openly gay man. So to mean
1:02:41
Speaker 1: he's against the gay man prospering, all right, he doesn't.
1:02:43
Speaker 1: He doesn't want that gay man to eat. In my interpretation,
1:02:45
Speaker 1: According to the emails, Gruden denounced the emergence of female referees. Therefore,
1:02:49
Speaker 1: he doesn't think that a woman's place, you know, it's
1:02:52
Speaker 1: on the sidelines. Like, what other reason would he have
1:02:54
Speaker 1: to be against that? No other than she's a woman,
1:02:57
Speaker 1: you know. Gruden also wrote in his emails that Eric
1:02:59
Speaker 1: re former all Pro defensive backs should be fired for
1:03:03
Speaker 1: protesting during the national anthem. So you don't care about
1:03:06
Speaker 1: police brutality against black people either. Gruden also criticized the
1:03:10
Speaker 1: bill that would have forced Dinner Redskins to change their
1:03:13
Speaker 1: name in twenty fifteen. So let's look at the list
1:03:16
Speaker 1: gay people, women, indigenous people, black people, America. We've seen
1:03:21
Speaker 1: this movie before. This is what I mean when I
1:03:24
Speaker 1: say we have to have a decratification of this country.
1:03:26
Speaker 1: All right. The problem is you can change systems, but
1:03:29
Speaker 1: you can't change people's minds. But these are the kinds
1:03:31
Speaker 1: of crack ass crackers that are in positions of power
1:03:33
Speaker 1: all throughout America. And the problem is there is white
1:03:36
Speaker 1: people listening to me right now who heard all those
1:03:39
Speaker 1: things John John Gruden said and did, And they are
1:03:42
Speaker 1: more mad at me using the word cracker to describe
1:03:45
Speaker 1: John Gruden than they are of all the things John
1:03:48
Speaker 1: Gruden putting those emails that make him a cracker ass cracker.
1:03:51
Speaker 1: And you know why, because you probably a cracker ass
1:03:53
Speaker 1: cracker too, all right. Crackers a word. It's a word
1:03:55
Speaker 1: used to describe racist biggots, derived from the slave masters
1:03:58
Speaker 1: who used to crack whips on the back of the end.
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Speaker 1: Go back and watch episode one of the Gods Honest
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Speaker 1: Truth if my Late Night Talks show on Comedy Central,
1:04:04
Speaker 1: it's titled de Gratification. You can stream it on Paramount Plus,
1:04:08
Speaker 1: watch on demand, whatever. But we discuss how the denotification
1:04:11
Speaker 1: of Germany could apply here in America. Wouldn't be a
1:04:14
Speaker 1: permanent solution because once again, you can't change people's minds,
1:04:18
Speaker 1: but it's a step in the right direction to real healing,
1:04:22
Speaker 1: and that is what is happening right now. See, the
1:04:25
Speaker 1: universe is trying to heal itself. I truly believe that.
1:04:28
Speaker 1: And you can't heal what you don't reveal. So whatever
1:04:31
Speaker 1: you truly are will be revealed because the universe is
1:04:35
Speaker 1: flushing things out and bringing things to the forefront. That's why,
1:04:39
Speaker 1: once again, you should focus on character, not reputation, because
1:04:43
Speaker 1: character is who you really are. Reputation is who people
1:04:46
Speaker 1: think you are, and reputation can be created, okay, through
1:04:50
Speaker 1: smoking mirass. That's why I don't believe anything I hear
1:04:52
Speaker 1: or see about people, because folks present one way in
1:04:55
Speaker 1: person and be like John Gruden behind the scenes, and
1:04:57
Speaker 1: some people's presentation might be horrible, but in real life
1:05:01
Speaker 1: they're the nicest, most genuine people. Okay, So just sit
1:05:04
Speaker 1: back it's a lot of people that we misjudged who
1:05:07
Speaker 1: we said with trash, who are about to be revealed.
1:05:09
Speaker 1: It's really great humans, and it's a lot of people
1:05:11
Speaker 1: who present as really great human humans who will be
1:05:14
Speaker 1: revealed as trash. John Gruden is just the first of many.
1:05:17
Speaker 1: Because if we don't deracify America, the universe will do
1:05:20
Speaker 1: it for us. Please give John Gruden the biggest he
1:05:23
Speaker 1: are Just sit back, you ship back and watch the
1:05:30
Speaker 1: reveal clock as clock. Okay, okay, okay, alright. A matter
1:05:35
Speaker 1: of fact, why didn't I let Chelsea hand look, give
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Speaker 1: John Cruden the biggest he harms he he haw. That
1:05:41
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Speaker 1: All right? I love the show. I just want to
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Speaker 1: I want to give Charlotte man to guard the donkey
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Speaker 1: to David. That's that's how we could do. But ahead go.
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1:08:26
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1:08:28
Speaker 1: how could you free our people? You know? If you
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Speaker 1: I'm corrupted vocabinary, So that's one of the says. Uh,
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Speaker 1: My brother Jesus is black. My brother Jesus is a
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Speaker 1: the breakfast club. So I really want to get on
1:09:36
Speaker 1: you and Charlemagne because y'all don't know the difference between
1:09:38
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1:09:43
Speaker 1: You can, I'm not Dominican. I'm black. Yeah, you're black,
1:09:46
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1:10:08
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Speaker 1: black and Dominican. It's not like you're not black and
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Speaker 1: you're you can't be you. I don't know that racist
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Speaker 1: based on your did you say your hair texture and
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Speaker 1: you're well, your your field cool characteristics like your skin color.
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Speaker 1: What about when you wear white jeans after labor day?
1:10:29
Speaker 1: Does that make you Dominican? That makes you Dominican? Mama, No,
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Speaker 1: I'm not domnicaated. I wear white why I don't wear
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Speaker 1: white jeans at all? But I don't care about wearing
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Speaker 1: white beings after labor day. Well, because like Michael Cole's bags.
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Speaker 1: What do you? What does that mean? Whoa? Whoa whoa?
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Speaker 1: Who's gonna get this smoke? First? You go? Whatever? You
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Speaker 1: whoever you want to give it to. I want to
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Speaker 1: give it to Charlottemagne. You know now that he's getting money,
1:11:26
Speaker 1: he want to put that black make up for him. Man,
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Speaker 1: let's take it back to the Wendy ms. You have
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Speaker 1: fifteen shades of black, Charlottegagne. Come on now, who told
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Speaker 1: you I'm getting money? We all know you're getting money.
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Speaker 1: It ain't true. Don't tell them, don't spread them. Live
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Speaker 1: y'all all getting my Angela? You next, you're ready, Angela?
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Speaker 1: I'm ready. I don't like how I met you the
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Speaker 1: That's that's all. No, you know what I came on
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Speaker 1: every way I see, I'm like old. That's it with
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Speaker 1: ye the first time I'm showing you know, just for me.
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Speaker 1: You didn't mean that. You just seen a build. Bull
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Speaker 1: If you ain't like how youre going to really represent
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Speaker 1: our liation brothers like that, you know what I mean?
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Speaker 1: If you're gonna be on a real weird time out
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Speaker 1: of change, you know what I mean? If you're going
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Speaker 1: five years ago, bro, like where you ast like you
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Speaker 1: who's this this rooney? I want to slender ye goad
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Speaker 1: go yeah, give us some logic. Year. I'm tired of
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Speaker 1: every time somebody come on the show you're talking about well,
1:12:37
Speaker 1: I feel like you always feel like something you use
1:12:41
Speaker 1: that logic, young ladies, beautiful self. I don't have feelings
1:12:46
Speaker 1: on they use logic. That's right, Okay, goodbye. I feel
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Speaker 1: like that's a terrible idea. Hello, that's a good conversation. Logic,
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Speaker 1: which one is? It should be logic of a feelings
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Speaker 1: and feelings of a logic. That's a good conversation. I
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Speaker 1: want to spend all three, y'all. Go all right, let's
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Speaker 1: start off for you. Um he did good on the first,
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Speaker 1: kind of like a young Diddy kiss and he's kind
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Speaker 1: What version did you do? Kiss? Ahead? Go oh Charlemagne
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Speaker 1: and heavy? Man, I'm tired of this textual tension between y'all.
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Speaker 1: My time, y'all has the text is gonna be so trash,
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Speaker 1: y'all building up. I'm gonna be y'all get it in man,
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Speaker 1: you can't now that's funny. That's that was hilarious. That
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Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, man, you gotta stop usually in
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Speaker 1: words so freely, man, what a I use the A word.
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Speaker 1: Don't you use the times you be talking about it
1:14:02
Speaker 1: and you'd be using it, man, I think would be
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Speaker 1: a good idea if anytime you use it, you know,
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Speaker 1: pay yourself for fine and didn't take that money that
1:14:11
Speaker 1: you accumulate from using the word so much and donated
1:14:14
Speaker 1: to a charity. You're right, I'm trying not to use it.
1:14:16
Speaker 1: But here's the thing, man, I use it in this
1:14:17
Speaker 1: proper context. I don't use it as a term of endemic.
1:14:20
Speaker 1: I use it. And when i'd be like these this boy,
1:14:22
Speaker 1: well you know, he just use it again. How much
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Speaker 1: should that fine be? I don't know, ma'am. Maybe a thousand.
1:14:29
Speaker 1: Let me tell you how my brain works. In my mind,
1:14:31
Speaker 1: whenever I use cracker, it off sets the N word.
1:14:36
Speaker 1: Thank you. He right, though, I gotta stop using that word. Hello, Hello,
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Speaker 1: Hey Slater the breakfast clab Mama. All right, so this
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Speaker 1: one for Charlomane. Listen, I'm a cancer. I rock with
1:14:51
Speaker 1: you every day. Okay, Yes, man, When you see that
1:14:57
Speaker 1: when I say what I didn't hear it? Script eight
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Speaker 1: cake to it, your phone is breaking up. Your phone
1:15:08
Speaker 1: is making me upset. But I'm from Monkst corner of
1:15:11
Speaker 1: South Carolina. You know what I'm saying. I don't. I'm
1:15:12
Speaker 1: not gonna blame it on South Carolina, but I do
1:15:15
Speaker 1: feel like straight screech, scrump scrimp. That's just how we talk.
1:15:19
Speaker 1: All right, Well, slander the Breakfast Club eight ondred five
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1:15:25
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1:15:27
Speaker 1: you think about it. Now you've got rooms on the way, yes,
1:15:30
Speaker 1: And let's talk about being offended. Who was offended by
1:15:34
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian's monologue on SNL. All right, we'll get into
1:15:37
Speaker 1: that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Come morning, the Breakfast Club.
1:15:44
Speaker 1: This is the rumor report with Angela years well. Michael
1:15:53
Speaker 1: Jordan was on NBC Today's Show and Craig Melvin asked
1:15:56
Speaker 1: him if he's concerned about the NBA's COVID vaccine protocols.
1:16:01
Speaker 1: And here is what Michael Jordan had to say in response,
1:16:04
Speaker 1: Are you at all concerned about the protocols? Not at all.
1:16:08
Speaker 1: I am total in unison with the league, and I
1:16:11
Speaker 1: think everybody you know it's been speaking about the vaccinations,
1:16:14
Speaker 1: and you know, I'm a firm believer in science, you know,
1:16:17
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna stick with that and hopefully everybody ad
1:16:19
Speaker 1: buys by whatever the league sets the rules, and you know,
1:16:22
Speaker 1: I think that, you know, once everybody buys, we're gonna
1:16:24
Speaker 1: be fine. I mean, what would be different from last year?
1:16:28
Speaker 1: Last hit? They got through it. It was traveling, they
1:16:31
Speaker 1: was playing home games in away games, Like, what would
1:16:33
Speaker 1: be different without an audience was two years ago the
1:16:40
Speaker 1: season before. Huh? But were they at full capacity? I
1:16:43
Speaker 1: don't think. I don't know if they were full some
1:16:45
Speaker 1: of them were, not all of the not all of them. Yeah.
1:16:47
Speaker 1: And then I think it also coincides whatever their restrictions
1:16:50
Speaker 1: are in the city that you're into. So if the
1:16:53
Speaker 1: city is saying you can't come in here if you're
1:16:55
Speaker 1: not vaccinated, you have to buye by that. It was
1:16:57
Speaker 1: like that last season though. The vaccine was rolled out
1:17:01
Speaker 1: last season because I remember at the Barclays you had
1:17:03
Speaker 1: to get a COVID test and then at a certain
1:17:06
Speaker 1: point in time you had to be vaccinated. Yeah, you
1:17:08
Speaker 1: have to go to some of the I think Atlanta too,
1:17:10
Speaker 1: you had to have the COVID test before you walk
1:17:12
Speaker 1: into the arena as well. Now, was Michael talking about
1:17:14
Speaker 1: players just now or was he talking about just overall?
1:17:16
Speaker 1: He's talking about players because he's saying whatever the leader. Okay, okay,
1:17:20
Speaker 1: all right, yeah he's talking about players. Okay, that's different,
1:17:22
Speaker 1: all right now. Kim Kardashian the the monologue that she
1:17:27
Speaker 1: gave on SNL offended Nicole Brown's sister, and Tanya Brown,
1:17:32
Speaker 1: who is a sister of Nicole Brown, said she thought
1:17:34
Speaker 1: that they were in poor taste and that Nicole's death
1:17:37
Speaker 1: should not be portrayed as a joke. Here's what she said.
1:17:40
Speaker 1: You know, my father was and still is such an
1:17:43
Speaker 1: influence and inspiration to me, and I credit him with
1:17:46
Speaker 1: really opening up my eyes to racial injustice. It's because
1:17:49
Speaker 1: of him that I met my first black person. You
1:17:52
Speaker 1: want to take a stab in the dark at who
1:17:54
Speaker 1: it was. I know, it's sort of weird to remember
1:17:58
Speaker 1: the first black person you met, But O J doesn't
1:18:01
Speaker 1: leave a mark or several or none at all. I
1:18:04
Speaker 1: still don't know. Now. Tanya Brown says that these jokes
1:18:08
Speaker 1: were beyond inappropriate and insensitive, and she's wondering how much
1:18:12
Speaker 1: the Kardashians actually cared about Nicole because Chris Jenna was
1:18:15
Speaker 1: one of Nicole's close friends. Yeah, I wondered. I wondered,
1:18:18
Speaker 1: you know, did that hurt more because it's coming from
1:18:20
Speaker 1: Kim and Kim and you know, the families were close.
1:18:22
Speaker 1: Because comedian has been making OJ Simpson jokes for ever,
1:18:25
Speaker 1: everybody making it's probably different when you know the person
1:18:28
Speaker 1: and they supposedly were friends with the person. So she
1:18:31
Speaker 1: feels like, even though she knows Kim didn't write it,
1:18:33
Speaker 1: she should have pushed back and refused to do that
1:18:36
Speaker 1: particular joke. That is one of those things about those
1:18:38
Speaker 1: jokes tho. And I even realized that with the surviving
1:18:42
Speaker 1: R Kelly situation, Like, you know, we all made jokes
1:18:44
Speaker 1: about R Kelly, but you don't realize there's actual victims
1:18:47
Speaker 1: of all. Even when you're making jokes about OJ and
1:18:49
Speaker 1: fans hurts them as well. Of course people will kill
1:18:52
Speaker 1: so I get it. Yeah, And I'm sure it's the
1:18:53
Speaker 1: worst when it's somebody you know personally and you're like, damn,
1:18:57
Speaker 1: you was at the house, you know, so hurt more? Yeah?
1:19:00
Speaker 1: All right. Now, Kanye has put his Wyoming ranch up
1:19:03
Speaker 1: for sale. The list price is eleven million dollars he
1:19:06
Speaker 1: initially purchases for fourteen point five million, and they said
1:19:10
Speaker 1: it's a forty five acre Monster Lake property with eight
1:19:13
Speaker 1: lodging units, two freshwater lakes, a restaurant and events center,
1:19:16
Speaker 1: and meeting facilities and barns for eleven million dollars. Not bad.
1:19:21
Speaker 1: And I think he has others owl he's losing. I'm saying,
1:19:24
Speaker 1: not bad. If you want to buy it, that's a
1:19:26
Speaker 1: lot for eleven million dollars. It comes with all that.
1:19:29
Speaker 1: So he wants to leave Wyoming Now, I think he
1:19:31
Speaker 1: also has other properties. There's one of his ranch properties,
1:19:34
Speaker 1: so that one is on the market. We don't know
1:19:36
Speaker 1: if he's leaving and selling everything yet, all right, now,
1:19:40
Speaker 1: former judge duty bailiff Peter Petrie Hawkins Bird and he's
1:19:46
Speaker 1: saying that he's upset because he's not reprising his role
1:19:48
Speaker 1: in the spinoff series Justice Judy. He said that he
1:19:52
Speaker 1: told the outlet that he was excluded from the new series,
1:19:55
Speaker 1: but he caught wind of the new project when she
1:19:57
Speaker 1: made the announcement in twenty twenty. During an apparent on
1:20:00
Speaker 1: The Ellen Show, he said, my assumption is if you
1:20:02
Speaker 1: were going on to do something else, that you were
1:20:04
Speaker 1: at least going to ask me if I wanted to
1:20:06
Speaker 1: have the opportunity to audition for the role. They never
1:20:09
Speaker 1: discussed the new show during their time filming the twenty
1:20:12
Speaker 1: fifth and final season, so he was on there with
1:20:14
Speaker 1: her for twenty five seasons. He said he didn't have
1:20:17
Speaker 1: time to think about or ask about Judy Justice because
1:20:19
Speaker 1: after filming wrapped up, he had to focus on his wife,
1:20:22
Speaker 1: who's also a veteran show producer, who was scheduled to
1:20:24
Speaker 1: have brain surgery, and he revealed that he did reach
1:20:28
Speaker 1: out to Judy Shinlan and she told him that he
1:20:30
Speaker 1: was not being asked to come along on the project.
1:20:32
Speaker 1: He said, I didn't inquire as to why that's her choice,
1:20:35
Speaker 1: but she did inform me that fundamentally I was priced
1:20:37
Speaker 1: out as a new bailiff on her new show. My
1:20:38
Speaker 1: salary would have been too much, but he would have
1:20:40
Speaker 1: liked the opportunity to have accepted a lower salary if possible.
1:20:45
Speaker 1: Tiger is cooperating with authorities. His ex is saying that
1:20:48
Speaker 1: he got physical and she posted some alleged injuries. Cameron
1:20:53
Speaker 1: Swanson is her name. She came over to his home
1:20:55
Speaker 1: around three am after he told her not to, and
1:20:58
Speaker 1: she was at his front door shout at the top
1:21:00
Speaker 1: of her lungs. According to a source, they said Tiger
1:21:03
Speaker 1: and other family members in his home felt that she
1:21:05
Speaker 1: appeared to be under the influence. He led her inside
1:21:08
Speaker 1: to talk to yell and continue, they said. Cameron claims
1:21:10
Speaker 1: Tiger put his hands on her during the argument. Afterward,
1:21:13
Speaker 1: her mother came to pick her up and then she
1:21:15
Speaker 1: called the cops to report the alleged incident. So she
1:21:17
Speaker 1: did also post a video showing these injuries. She said
1:21:20
Speaker 1: she is standing up for herself and he is cooperating
1:21:25
Speaker 1: with authorities right now, so we'll keep you updated on that,
1:21:29
Speaker 1: all right. Teraji has been talking about launching her music career.
1:21:32
Speaker 1: She has a new feel good EP and she's been
1:21:36
Speaker 1: working on that, so it's a surprise for people. But
1:21:38
Speaker 1: as you know, her new season of her Facebook watch
1:21:41
Speaker 1: series has just kicked off and one of the people
1:21:44
Speaker 1: on there was Megan the Stallion. So here's what Meghan
1:21:48
Speaker 1: the Stallion had to say about her Boo partisan Fontaine.
1:21:52
Speaker 1: My boyfriend does make me very happy. He definitely takes
1:21:55
Speaker 1: care of me emotionally. He makes my brain feel good,
1:22:00
Speaker 1: my heart feel good. That's, you know, a big thing
1:22:03
Speaker 1: for me because I used to be so into the
1:22:05
Speaker 1: physical right. But he moves me, he inspires me. We
1:22:09
Speaker 1: just feel like a real team. Okay, you can watch
1:22:13
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Speaker 1: It's three weeks away, super duper excited in Detroit. That
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Speaker 1: is October thirty. So if you want to take the
1:22:59
Speaker 1: kids trick or treating, or maybe you're fearful of what
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Speaker 1: we're gonna have it the day before, so would it
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Speaker 1: My kids are gonna be dressed up. What are you
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Speaker 1: gonna come as? I don't know. I don't want to
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Speaker 1: say yet. I don't say yet, so you already know. Yep.
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Speaker 1: Is it a car? No, I'm not gonna dress us
1:23:32
Speaker 1: a car. But yeah, I will be dressed up for Halloween.
1:23:37
Speaker 1: So I can't wait to see you guys, all right.
1:23:39
Speaker 1: And also I want to tell everybody just be careful
1:23:41
Speaker 1: out there. I mean, you know, it's getting close to
1:23:44
Speaker 1: the holiday season and I see robberies up, people getting
1:23:48
Speaker 1: robbed and assaulted up. Just be careful out there. You
1:23:52
Speaker 1: sell a candy man? Did canny man is fake? You?
1:23:56
Speaker 1: I saw yesterday? Did they caught some of those people?
1:23:58
Speaker 1: I get one guy, didn't you never leave? Yeah? They
1:24:01
Speaker 1: believe it was flip child. They believe that there's a
1:24:03
Speaker 1: gang in New York City if you're from out of town.
1:24:05
Speaker 1: But this is all over the place that they were
1:24:07
Speaker 1: just robbing people going to the hot spots, the clubs,
1:24:09
Speaker 1: the restaurants and waiting for people to walk out, and
1:24:13
Speaker 1: you know, trying to take their watches and rings and
1:24:15
Speaker 1: phones and all that. So just be extra careful if
1:24:18
Speaker 1: you see something, call the police. See something, say something,
1:24:21
Speaker 1: But they are out there. This is robbery season. Just
1:24:23
Speaker 1: be extra careful. When you go into your crib, your house,
1:24:25
Speaker 1: just look over your shoulder to look for paul cars.
1:24:27
Speaker 1: Just be extra careful out there. I mean, I've never
1:24:30
Speaker 1: seen the city like this. The city's bad. The hell
1:24:33
Speaker 1: you mean You've been in since the eighties and it's bad.
1:24:35
Speaker 1: This is this is one of them. Not even just
1:24:37
Speaker 1: people get robbed like you seeing you seeing like yesterday,
1:24:40
Speaker 1: I've seen a lady push a three year old on
1:24:43
Speaker 1: the floor. I've seen somebody trying to push some money
1:24:45
Speaker 1: in front of a train and somebody cut somebody in
1:24:47
Speaker 1: the face. Like it's c yeah, and I think it's
1:24:48
Speaker 1: because of social media too, But you're right. I was.
1:24:50
Speaker 1: I was having a conversation with an older white home
1:24:53
Speaker 1: in your mind, and um I said that. I was like, man,
1:24:55
Speaker 1: I said, your New York look like it did in
1:24:57
Speaker 1: the early two thousands, late nineties. She said, no, this
1:25:00
Speaker 1: is like how it wasn't the sixty seventies. I was like, well,
1:25:02
Speaker 1: it wasn't around. I'll take your word for it, man,
1:25:05
Speaker 1: but it's bad out there, so just be careful. And
1:25:08
Speaker 1: it's and it's because people starving. It's literally because of
1:25:10
Speaker 1: the economy. I'm telling you. Then PPM, then PPM, then PPP.
1:25:14
Speaker 1: Loans gone, the unemployment gone, the holiday season about to
1:25:18
Speaker 1: be upon us, everything looking like a lake for people
1:25:21
Speaker 1: who need eat. Yeah. And the dude that they caught yesterday,
1:25:23
Speaker 1: he's from the Bronx, of course, because the craziest people
1:25:26
Speaker 1: in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. Yes, yes,
1:25:31
Speaker 1: so all right, Well when we come back, positive noticed
1:25:34
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club go Morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,
1:25:37
Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club,
1:25:41
Speaker 1: Yes we are, and shout out to everybody that was
1:25:43
Speaker 1: calling in today. One person that was talking about the
1:25:47
Speaker 1: sexual attention between Envy and Charlottage. He said, by the
1:25:50
Speaker 1: time y'all have sex. It's going to be trash. That
1:25:54
Speaker 1: has to be such a disappointment if you wait for
1:25:56
Speaker 1: years and years and years and hold out and then
1:25:59
Speaker 1: you finally have sex with someone and it's not what
1:26:01
Speaker 1: you thought it was. I think it's scranged that people
1:26:04
Speaker 1: um think about me and envy having sex. Me and
1:26:07
Speaker 1: iv ain't thinking about that. No, you know what I'm saying.
1:26:11
Speaker 1: Just just because you tell your brother you love him
1:26:13
Speaker 1: and you value them and you appreciate them, don't mean
1:26:15
Speaker 1: you wanted to sleep with him. Jesus Christ, people get
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Speaker 1: your names out the gutter. Also, sleute to Jason Wilson,
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Jason Wilson, the author of
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Speaker 1: Jason Wilson. He's got a documentary coming out produced by
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Speaker 1: Lawrence Fishburn about his life. He's just a really really
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Speaker 1: good brother man who's really out here, you know, helping
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Speaker 1: the people, helping the community, especially in Detroit, Like I
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Speaker 1: mean his organization Union, you know, he's he's helped over
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Speaker 1: ten thousand young black men, you know, deal with their
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Speaker 1: trauma through Marshal Larch. So really, hell yeah, Detroit, get
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Speaker 1: his number because maybe he got some young men that
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Speaker 1: he wants to give, you know, look to getting the
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Speaker 1: Ask you can ask Ty Royce any of him about
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Speaker 1: Jay and Jason absolutely demand sleute to Jason Wilson. So
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