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Popping Off with Sharleen Joynt · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with our radio Ashley, I canetti get to talk to
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  Speaker 1: you to the first time in a long time. Last
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  Speaker 1: week I felt like it was just cut short. You know,
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  Speaker 1: the podcast was as long as we typically get to
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  Speaker 1: have and today it's just you and I. It's actually
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  Speaker 1: so nuts. The last time I was in this room
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  Speaker 1: looking at you on Skype was like four weeks ago
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  Speaker 1: because we did the Switchero podcast, then we did the
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  Speaker 1: NAPA Valley one, and then last week we were remote.
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  Speaker 1: Isn't that sad? We're back and there's so much to
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  Speaker 1: talk about. I'm telling you, it's wild to think that
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  Speaker 1: we're less than a month away from the start of
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  Speaker 1: the Bachelor At Before we jump into Bachelor At talk, Ashley,
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  Speaker 1: I know that there's been some things going on in
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  Speaker 1: your life that have kind of had, you know, a
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  Speaker 1: little funking. So if any of our listeners out there going,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, actually, just she she feels a little
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  Speaker 1: heavy today. Just her spirit is a little bit heavier
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  Speaker 1: than what we're used to. Ashley. We need help. You
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  Speaker 1: need help more than I do. I need a lot
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  Speaker 1: of help most of the time in my life. All right,
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  Speaker 1: now you need help, and we're gonna open up to
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  Speaker 1: our listeners to help be your counselor. And so listeners,
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  Speaker 1: here's how it's gonna go. Actually, gonna give you a
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  Speaker 1: little background, tell you about the story that's happening. I
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  Speaker 1: have very little advice for her because I haven't dealt
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  Speaker 1: with this situation before in my life. And then we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna ask you to email us at Ben and Ashley
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  Speaker 1: I heart media dot com all of your suggestions, all
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  Speaker 1: of your insights, all of your knowledge, all of your
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  Speaker 1: sweet little words of help and care for Ashley and Jared.
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  Speaker 1: Ashley and Jared, you actually you're going through a really
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  Speaker 1: tough time. Jared's there beside you. Let's talk about it.
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  Speaker 1: You're definitely making it sound like it's some serious relationship
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  Speaker 1: issue and actually has to do with a dog. Guys. Ever,
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  Speaker 1: everyone out there, So about a week ago, my my
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  Speaker 1: sister has actually been trying to get this dog adopted
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  Speaker 1: for a couple of weeks now because she has this
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  Speaker 1: friend at school whose mother in law is was wanting
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  Speaker 1: to get rid of their twelve and a half year
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  Speaker 1: old Lab German Shepherd mix and she just she used
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  Speaker 1: to take it for like one walk a day. She
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  Speaker 1: was overtaking care of it. The ladies older I wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: say necessarily old enough that she couldn't take care of
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  Speaker 1: a dog or like debilitated in any way. But they
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  Speaker 1: decided to not just take the dog out for a
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  Speaker 1: one walk a day, but that they were going to
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  Speaker 1: move into an apartment complex that no that didn't accept dogs,
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  Speaker 1: so they were just going to bring the dog to
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  Speaker 1: the pound a shelter, just be done with a dog
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  Speaker 1: after twelve and a half years, which just makes me
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  Speaker 1: like sad to my soul that anybody would do that.
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  Speaker 1: I I'm sorry, I'm judging them. It's very, very crazy
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  Speaker 1: for me to think that like this, this soul that
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  Speaker 1: has been in your life for so long, you can
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  Speaker 1: just throw it away. Basically, so, my sister and I
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  Speaker 1: we've adopted three dogs over the past three years, which
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  Speaker 1: is insane, and we have no more room. We have
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  Speaker 1: two dogs that live with us of the ones that
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  Speaker 1: we've adopted, and one lives with my parents. We have
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  Speaker 1: we have no more room to take care of this dog.
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  Speaker 1: But last week, Jared and I were away for about
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  Speaker 1: ten days, so my sister said that she was going
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  Speaker 1: to take the dog in, tried finding a home, and
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  Speaker 1: then deal with it when we came back, because she
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  Speaker 1: could deal with two dogs in the house. So Jared
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  Speaker 1: and I get home last night and the situation isn't good.
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  Speaker 1: It's just our dog Lois was not having another dog
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  Speaker 1: in the house and we can't deal with it either.
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  Speaker 1: There's that we try to separate them. They were getting
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  Speaker 1: kind of violent and they were just like scratching at
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  Speaker 1: the doors and barking whatever. They couldn't get with each other.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm obviously going on to tangent. You don't need
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  Speaker 1: to know all this detail. What makes me sad is
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  Speaker 1: that Jared had to go and this after this morning,
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  Speaker 1: this morning um bring him to We wanted to take
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  Speaker 1: him to a sanctuary, which is basically where old dogs
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  Speaker 1: who don't have homes or have been given up or
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  Speaker 1: have um owners that have passed away going to run free. Well,
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  Speaker 1: we learned when he took the dog to the sanctuary
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  Speaker 1: that those dogs actually come from shelters. Like the sanctuaries
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  Speaker 1: go to shelters and seek out old dogs so that
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  Speaker 1: they can live their last years and happiness. So the
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  Speaker 1: only option we really have is to bring this dog
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  Speaker 1: to the shelter now, which was what the whole the
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  Speaker 1: whole process over the past couple of weeks has been
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  Speaker 1: trying to avoid. But we don't know what else there
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  Speaker 1: is to do. And it just sucks because I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I want to help every other dog in this world,
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  Speaker 1: and I think about all the dogs and shelters and like,
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  Speaker 1: what are you gonna do? I donate to the A
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  Speaker 1: B C. A. I don't. I adopted three dogs, but
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  Speaker 1: this time there's like nothing I can do to help.
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  Speaker 1: And it sucks. And if any you guys are listening
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  Speaker 1: and you live in southern California or you want to
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  Speaker 1: take the drive out here and you want to give
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  Speaker 1: a twelve and a half year old dog a lawn
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  Speaker 1: d run in for the last couple of years of
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  Speaker 1: the last maybe a year of its life. I mean
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  Speaker 1: a German Shepherd lab mix. I can't imagine it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: last much longer than like thirteen and a half years. Um, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you can let me know. I'm gonna put on my
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  Speaker 1: Instagram and uh then I know you have nothing else
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  Speaker 1: to say about this. No I do, But what I
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  Speaker 1: think this is a really tough real life situation. And
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  Speaker 1: to sum up Ashley's story. Please email us at been
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  Speaker 1: an Ashley I Heart media dot com with all of
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  Speaker 1: your insights into this. This is just tough. We got
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  Speaker 1: a dog that's getting old. Ashley's heart is heavy, Jared's
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  Speaker 1: heart is heavy. It's not a situation that's working off
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  Speaker 1: with two of them. And on top of that, they
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  Speaker 1: travel at the time, so this poor dog would be
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  Speaker 1: sitting alone in their apartment really upset with this small,
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  Speaker 1: little white dog that's been around the beginning, so little
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  Speaker 1: small white dogs. We've got two small white dogs and
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  Speaker 1: we have them portable size so that we can travel
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  Speaker 1: with them. Because Gurgy and Lois go everywhere. They go
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  Speaker 1: on planes all the time. This dog can't go on planes.
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  Speaker 1: And that was even if they did get along. So
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  Speaker 1: please email us all of your thoughts, all of your questions,
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  Speaker 1: all of your insight. Just is just Ashley's and Jared's
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  Speaker 1: real life being displayed here on this podcast almost famous podcast.
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  Speaker 1: today one of We've gotten so many emails on the
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  Speaker 1: Almost Famous Podcast about this next guest since the very beginning.
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  Speaker 1: I bet this next guest has gotten at least top
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  Speaker 1: five amount of emails from any person that we haven't
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  Speaker 1: had on the show yet. This person is somebody that
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  Speaker 1: a lot of us in Batchelor Nation look up to.
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  Speaker 1: Is good friends with the masses on the Bachelor Nation,
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  Speaker 1: and Ashley Connettie loves her a ton. We also have
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  Speaker 1: a new producer who's sitting in studio right now named Danielle.
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  Speaker 1: Danielle just say hi real quick. And Danielle has a
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  Speaker 1: story to share with our next guest once we bring
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  Speaker 1: her on. Why wait, let's bring it on now. Charlene
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  Speaker 1: Joint Welcome to the Almost Famous Podcast. Thank you for
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  Speaker 1: having me, guys, I am honored to be here. Yeah, Charlene,
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  Speaker 1: how are we done this podcast for two years? I
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  Speaker 1: think this is like almost our two year anniversary, Ben,
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  Speaker 1: and we've never had Charlie. That's freaking weird. Honestly, I
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  Speaker 1: think an we're getting weird. That I'm here like I cannot.
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  Speaker 1: I'm shocked that people have requested me thank you. Surely
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  Speaker 1: there's something about you that people still like even though
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  Speaker 1: you didn't. You weren't on the show during the Instagram age.
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  Speaker 1: People I love you still talk about you to this day.
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  Speaker 1: I'm flattered. Thank you. Also have our producer here wants
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  Speaker 1: to tell a little story about your ringy dinghy. This
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  Speaker 1: is a really random story. But I just got married
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  Speaker 1: in October and um, but when we were going through
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  Speaker 1: the whole ring shopping phase, I had sent him, my husband,
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  Speaker 1: a picture of your ring because I loved it. And
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  Speaker 1: it was a random picture of you, like eating an
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  Speaker 1: ice cream sandwich with your engagement ring, and that's what
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  Speaker 1: I used to pick up my ring. And I have
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  Speaker 1: a very similar ring to yours. That makes I know
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  Speaker 1: exactly the a you're talking about. And actually my biggest
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  Speaker 1: takeaway from that everyone was like giving me a break
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  Speaker 1: because photos my big takeaway from that photo. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: so happy that you got your right. Thank you. This
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  Speaker 1: is uh, this is actually Charlie. This is Daniel's very
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  Speaker 1: first podcast with almost famous podcast, and she let us
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  Speaker 1: know right away. I mean, how crazy is it that
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  Speaker 1: your inspiration has allowed her to have a voice on
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  Speaker 1: this podcast on day one. That's a really great story.
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  Speaker 1: I'm happy to hear it. Well, thank you, I appreciate it.
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  Speaker 1: My husband thanks you as well, because it was very
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  Speaker 1: easy for him to figure it out. Yeah, I was
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  Speaker 1: less easy with with the ring. He was like, what
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  Speaker 1: do you want. I'm like, I don't know. I'll know
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  Speaker 1: when I see it. So, Charlene, we have a segment
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  Speaker 1: on this podcast and I don't I feel I don't,
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  Speaker 1: I feel wrong. Don't say it. Then I have to
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  Speaker 1: say no, no, I don't like it. I saw it
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  Speaker 1: all the run down on all get I don't like
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  Speaker 1: it either, But we're gonna do it. Charlene, I asked
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  Speaker 1: for a little bit of grace in this moment because
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  Speaker 1: we've had a segment that means nothing more than the
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  Speaker 1: fact that you're coming on and that you've been on
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  Speaker 1: the show in the past. But in the offseason, we
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  Speaker 1: bring us somebody on that says, who the heck are you?
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  Speaker 1: Because what the whole segments supposed to be is people
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  Speaker 1: from Bachelor Nation that our love, that are cared about,
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  Speaker 1: that have been requested by our listeners, but we've maybe
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  Speaker 1: missed them and haven't heard from them in a while.
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  Speaker 1: So Charlene, welcome to the who the heck are you? Segment?
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  Speaker 1: That's uh with that? Can you please catch any listeners
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  Speaker 1: up because now, I mean it's weird. I just turned
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  Speaker 1: thirty and Ashley's into thirties. It's been a while since
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  Speaker 1: some of us have been on the show. Just in
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  Speaker 1: case there's some listeners out there to maybe in their
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  Speaker 1: teens and thenn't watch the show when you were on,
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  Speaker 1: can you please give all of our listeners a little
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  Speaker 1: rundown of what your season was like, who season you're
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  Speaker 1: on and why people may know you. Oh, I have
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  Speaker 1: to do this little man um. So I was on
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  Speaker 1: the show five years ago. I was on one Pablo
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  Speaker 1: Susan And when I say that, it usually elicits grown,
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  Speaker 1: but he actually wasn't so bad. And yeah, on my
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  Speaker 1: claim to say, I guess are leaving on my own
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  Speaker 1: m being an office singer. Actually the that's sent about right. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: What I love about Charlene is that if you do
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  Speaker 1: follow her blog all the pretty pandas dot com she does,
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  Speaker 1: you do it's in coordination with another magazine. What's the
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  Speaker 1: magazine called? That you do your reviews with Yeah Flare,
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  Speaker 1: I like using articles with them, and you talked about
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  Speaker 1: this before about a recapping. You are notorious recaper, though
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  Speaker 1: you're so good at them. I feel the same way
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  Speaker 1: about you. Thank you well, thank you for I honestly
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  Speaker 1: think that I was inspired by your recap is because
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  Speaker 1: they are very authentic and you're not afraid to talk
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  Speaker 1: about what goes on behind the scenes. You're also not
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  Speaker 1: afraid to defend people, um who may not look that
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  Speaker 1: good because you're able to see it from a different
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  Speaker 1: perspective and you're able to like give a little bit
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  Speaker 1: of an insight as to what you think they may
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  Speaker 1: have been thinking in that moment. I appreciate that. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I really I try and darn to do that. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what something about going on this show and like,
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  Speaker 1: and it's not even like I watched myself back and
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that's so tordly not who I am.
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  Speaker 1: It's more that I don't know. You feel like there's
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  Speaker 1: so much less unsaid and there's so much more to
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  Speaker 1: every person on the show. It's like I kind of
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  Speaker 1: kind a bit of a chip on my shoulder. I
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  Speaker 1: guess right, the wrongs I guess why is it? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I do see oftentimes during a season that your name
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  Speaker 1: is brought up on defending somebody for you know, the
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  Speaker 1: actions that were being taken, that were being done. Why
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  Speaker 1: do you feel like that is your role? Or why
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  Speaker 1: is that chip existing on your shoulder? I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if I'm always defending people. I guess it's hard to
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you can go to test for this, but
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  Speaker 1: when you sit on the show, it's hard to not
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  Speaker 1: watch it through the lens of a former contestant. And
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  Speaker 1: when you hear someone sentence was clearly chopped up or
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  Speaker 1: you know how obviously some things are out of order chronologically.
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  Speaker 1: I just can't help myself, Like I'm I want people
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  Speaker 1: to know it's even and sometimes it'll work in someone's
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  Speaker 1: favor and sometimes it won't. Like I am not afraid
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  Speaker 1: to jump on the bandwick and when I think someone's
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  Speaker 1: behaving badly, but when I think it's truly just a
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  Speaker 1: matter of lack of self awareness and maybe you know,
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  Speaker 1: trusting the producing a little too much, Like I cannot
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  Speaker 1: keep that to myself. I mean I look back on
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  Speaker 1: your season, right and I remember watching and I know
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  Speaker 1: that you and actually have a good friendship out that
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  Speaker 1: I don't know a lot of the women on my
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  Speaker 1: season really appreciate you as well. I've heard your name
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  Speaker 1: brought up many times, but I remember, and we haven't
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  Speaker 1: talked about a ton on this podcast, but I remember
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  Speaker 1: watching your season of The Bachelor and Wan Pablo was
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  Speaker 1: the Bachelor at the time, and he was obviously criticized
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  Speaker 1: and still is to this day as not being the
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  Speaker 1: most likable bachelor in history. Do you defend him? Do
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  Speaker 1: you agree with the masses? Do you get where everybody's
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  Speaker 1: coming from? I defend him on a near daily basis,
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  Speaker 1: and not not you know, like, oh, he's still wonderful
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  Speaker 1: kind of way, just you know, especially when it's been
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  Speaker 1: five years and bears than the show. It's one of
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  Speaker 1: the defining features of my you know, bachelor experience that
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  Speaker 1: I was on kids season and he's still well known
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  Speaker 1: for being you know, so quote unquote terrible, but I,
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  Speaker 1: you know, being on the other side of an advoc
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  Speaker 1: contestant onto season, he was truly a gentleman for me,
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  Speaker 1: and he was just not I think he has cursed
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  Speaker 1: is that he wasn't able to sort of go through
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  Speaker 1: the motions and you know, he didn't do things just
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  Speaker 1: for the sake of what there was the right thing
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  Speaker 1: to do, And I think it that really does not
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  Speaker 1: translate well on TV, especially when you're dealing with people's
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  Speaker 1: feelings and women who like checked us a lot to
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  Speaker 1: be there, it just makes them seem, you know, like Talus.
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  Speaker 1: But truly, if you were looking at the way he
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  Speaker 1: behaved in like a real world sense, he was simply
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  Speaker 1: more interested in some women than others and didn't really
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  Speaker 1: have the time with a patient to pretend. He just
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  Speaker 1: wasn't a good pretender. I think, oh he was terrible pretender.
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  Speaker 1: I still remember like at the tail and this my
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  Speaker 1: second one on one, we had to do this like
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  Speaker 1: responsive things for these like cattleboards that had life coming
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  Speaker 1: out of the bottom, and we were just exhausted with
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  Speaker 1: the end, you know, at the end of the date.
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  Speaker 1: But I feel like any other back to be like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: well you know, let's do it. Let's go out on
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  Speaker 1: these paddle boards and make out on the paddle bow
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  Speaker 1: of the night. And he was just like he was
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  Speaker 1: like a little bit about it. It's not she was like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to do this, but I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to do this paddleboard scene, and it was like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't mind, Like I didn't really want to do
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  Speaker 1: it either, But I do feel like, you know, nine
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  Speaker 1: out a Bachelors, and I'm sure you would have been like,
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  Speaker 1: all right, we'll do it. Do the battle productions hated him. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: It's like he made all these little things so much
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  Speaker 1: more difficult than they had to be. There's no question. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: is that a bad thing that I would have done it? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I definitely wouldn't. So I actually think that you were
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  Speaker 1: one of You're one of the most loved to this day.
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  Speaker 1: Whenever anyone I talked about the show, anyone like you
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: were the season that people remember like you were like
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: the you know, the ultimate Bachlor. It's true. I'm not
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: just right now, I'm gonna talk to you. And Ashley first,
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: Sank actually gets to talk to me every week. She's
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: one of the my closest friends in this Batchelor world.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: And Charlene, I do hear from most people. Most of
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: the women on my season or women I read, they
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: love you, they appreciate, they do look up to you.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know you personally, but you must have something
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: about you that that other women and other men when
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: they're around you to go, yeah, she's somebody that I
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: just enjoy, appreciate or find interesting. So so let's talk
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: for a second, because you just said something that we've
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: never touched on in this podcast. If this is true, right,
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: and I'm not claiming it's not, because I do hear
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: that you know you are one of the most favorite batchelers,
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: or maybe the statement is, um, you were the best
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: bachelor or you did it the best. It's starting to
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: feel more and more. Not to interrupt, but I've never
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: I'm very good friends with I've told them that, well,
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: that's fair, you're honest, and I appreciate that. But here's
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: here's what's happening. As time goes on, it's feeling less
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: and less like a compliment, and it's feeling more and
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: more like I'm a little bit insecure when somebody says
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: it because and because of what you just said before
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: with you know, he couldn't fake it or whatever he was,
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: he just had to be to himself the whole time.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: For me, even though I didn't fake it. And there's
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: very few moments I could name a b two that
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: I was in a situation that I just didn't want
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: to be in and I did it for the sake
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: of the show. And I could, I could name those
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: I'm just not going to because it be offensive to
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: the person that I was on the date with or around.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: But but for the most part, I really did try
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: to do it to the betterment of the women, to myself,
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: and to the production team, because there's two undred people
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: that worked that show and that rely on this show
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: to make them a living. Is it a compliment? Should
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: I kind of cringe when I'm told it? Or should
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: I let it soak in and enjoy it and take
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: it with me now as my life continues and the
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: Bachelor becomes lesser part of my legacy, should I hold
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: that close to my heart and say no, I did this? Well, yes, yeah, yeah,
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: I agree to. I mean, editing on an easy thing
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: to do. I think possibly you could have been more
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: true to yourself and like freed yourself up a bit,
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: like because you probably felt like you're holding onto like
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: a lot of tension at that time because you were
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: trying to be so well behaved. But I think for
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: the sake of the girls on the show and for
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: the sake of the whole crew, you did a very
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: lovely thing for them and for what it's worth, I think,
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, audiences are not dumb, like they can tell
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: when someone is taking it. Like it was clear you're
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: just a considerate perceptive because like courteous person like, yeah,
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: you might have done a couple of things you didn't
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: want to do, but I've never doos the thing when
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: anyone thinks somebody is taking it even slightly. People are
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: not a pretty clip that you know. Like, so you
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: just seemed like well behaved and well spoken. It didn't
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: seem like you were putting on anything. I think that
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: that's something you should just let wash over you and
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: give you a warm, steady feeling. Yeah, that's a nice
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: thing because you are just like you put other people's
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: feelings and like their jobs before yours, and that's beautiful.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: It is true. And further director the context of the
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: whole tattle board with the lights, you know, the context
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: of that was that was a moment where I could
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: see why he wasn't like, you know, we might call
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: them a little bit about it, I don't. I think
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: that it's just something of which to be proud that
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: you would have done it even though you were tired.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: You didn't want to do it. It's one of the
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: things you sign up for if your duty is that,
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: yeah it is, and then you know it is. It's
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: just an interesting world to live in. But you get
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: I mean, I hope you understand where I'm where I'm
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: coming from when I say yeah. Now, as I get
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: older and it's it's farther and farther in the past,
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: it doesn't feel like as much of a compliment as
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: maybe it did when it first happened, and people like
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: your loved I was telling Colteness together night I was
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: with Colton. It's like Colton people a doory. They love you, um,
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: but just know that, like that's not going to be
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: that cool anymore in five years, Like you being a
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: good bachelor isn't that tight? Ones like you know you
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: have you know, hopefully Cassie and him have kids or
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: they get married or whatever. And then like the pressures
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: of a job start setting it again, and the world
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: stops recognizing you, and then you're you know, getting asked
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: to show up two shows and everybody else is like
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: twenty six years old, just getting off the show, and
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: you're like, yeah, I'm thirty four to meet and greet
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: this sounds great. Um, you know. So the other side
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: of that coin is in five years, you know you'll
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: remember this so fondly and it'll be such a non
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: part of your life side. It'll just be a pleasant surprise,
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: isn't When you hear it, it'll be a little tripped
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: down memory lane, you know, as he was on the
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: show five years ago, when someone you know miraculously recognize
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: as me or tells me that they read my blog,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: it's I you know, it's it's kind of cool. Like
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: in the beginning that first year or two, it's full on.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: We all know that, and I'm sure you guys still
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: experience that quite a bit. But as it stay, it's like,
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: it's for the most part, really cool. But that said,
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: when someone does remember you, that means it pretty die hard.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: It's been five years and it's just it's so nice.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: So and you know, it takes the time out of
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: their day to tell them to tell you that you
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: made an impact of Oh, I'm saying it's enjoyous. That's
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: what we're taking it. Then, yes, I agree, Charlene. I
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: have so many questions for you, but I'm gonna get
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: like We're gonna get like a little bit like dirty Now.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: I always say that because I want to get some
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: juice out of you. Who are you? Who are you
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: friends with on your season that you're still friends with today? Um?
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: You know time taps is it's it's not just to
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: make it sound like I'm not friends like the people
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: that I was really close with straight off my season
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: or Kelly, Um, Nicky, somewhat Andy Dorkman and uh Cat Okay, so,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: but like you, I don't know none of them live
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: in the city election that's what Andy business city. It's
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: just like, you don't what brought you together with this
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: unique experience and if you don't have that sort of
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: continuing on in your life, I don't know. It's I
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: don't have still will towards anyone. It's just sort of
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: like we're just not clot Like I still tech Kelly
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: all the time, and you're in touch with everyone, but
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: it's just not the same. It's the same degree. This
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: goes the beginning. It feels like you're going to get
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: tattoos forever, right, I know. It's so crazy how like
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: some of the strongest friendships are built on the show,
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: but then it's interesting which one's last and which ones
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: were like a star that just burned bright and then
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: burned out. It's like so weird, but something that I'm
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: experiencing now, And it's not just a bachelor thing. It's
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: something that I think a lot of girls experiences once
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: they find their guy and they're engaged and they're getting married,
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: friendships start changing. Because with all my single friends, I
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: used to just bond about being single and like guy
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: struggles and stuff with and now ever i've been with Jared,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: you see like you don't relate to those friends as much,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: or like you have other friends that are getting into
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: serious relationships as well. It's just it's a weird time
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: of life for female relationships. I think. I'm not sure, Ben,
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: do you do guys do the same thing, Like when
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: you do get coupled up, do you find yourself relying
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: less on your friendships and you just you just put
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: everything almost into the relationship. Uh, you know, It's it's interesting,
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: Charlie and I I don't know if you uh I've heard,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: but I've had a girlfriend, a wonderful girlfriend who has
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: really made my life a lot better here in the
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: last couple of months. And I was telling Ashley about earlier,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: and we had this conversation this weekend, Um, and one
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: of the things that we talked about was that we
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: we hope as a couple here as we do continue
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: to date and we do get closer and we do
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: start to build on, you know, the relationship we have,
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: that we never give up those friendships because I've seen
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: it happen. It's I've seen it happen in relationships around me,
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: and it becomes the relationship is just too dependent and
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: you're do to depend on each other, and that you
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: lost your kind of edge and you lost your factor
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: when it comes to you and your friends. You've lost
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: the ability to explore and adventure outside of your relationship.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: And and so yes, I do think it happens to guys.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: I think it's it is something that is a natural
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: transition because this person is your closest friend, your confidente,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: your lover on on all levels, they know you best
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: and they care about you most. But there is still
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: that level of friendship that I think is vitally important
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: to keep, even if it doesn't always feel convenient. I
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: agree with you, Ben, but I think what I meant
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: more is like, do you have you have always been
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: the single guy of your married friends. So maybe you're
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: not relating the way that I'm talking about with Charlene, Like,
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: did you feel like once you got together with Andy
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: you had less things to talk about with your single
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: girlfriends who you always would just like complain about guys
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: or share dating stories with. Yeah? Um, yeah, so I
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: and I talked to that's this when we first met,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: and it's it's very real, unfortunately with female friendships, but
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: actually with male for institute, But you can really tell
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: you who your friends are by not how say how
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: they are when things are rough. Everyone thinks it's all
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: about having a shoulder to cry on and like you're
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: there for me when the going got the going gets tough,
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: But it's actually opposite. It's when you're genuinely happy that
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: you can tell your true friends are interesting. It's sad, actually,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: but I mean it was something that I'm sure you're
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: dealing with now and I have absolutely dealt with and
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: it does definitely make you, you know, just reconsider your
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: certain friendships for sure. Just to chime in then to
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: answer that I always have been the single we've talked
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: about in the podcast A bunch. My dynamic with my
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: friendships have. I've always been a single friend a bunch
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: of the married friends, and so I don't know what
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: that's going to look like or how it's changed for me,
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: because now I just feel like I fit into the
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: mold a little better. Right now, I'm a part of
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: the team and I'm not the outside. Look I'm not
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: on the outside looking in, you know, Like that's that's
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: kind of it is, where there's no longer the victim
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: mentality I can hold or the sympathy I get from
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: my friends on we're gonna find you somebody or that
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: person is waiting for you out there, they're gonna be there.
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: Now it's like, let's move on from that. Let's let's
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: make life happen, and I'm no longer your project. So
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: I think in that in that world, yes it happens, guys, girls, whatever. Yeah.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: I always feel find myself feeling guilty when like I'm
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: talking about my relationship and then I'm looking over to
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: my single friend and I'll be like, we're gonna find
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: you someone, Like who can we set you up with?
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: It's just like, oh, it's just it's just a pity party,
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: and I don't it doesn't feel good. Yeah, I mean,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: I know exactly the feeling where you actually are sort
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: of censoring what you're saying based on based under your
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: w Yeah. But god, you're like, you're so have everything
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: is so great. Just enjoy it. Yeah, all right, more
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: random questions for Charlene. Now, uh, well, actually this kind
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: of rolls over in that conversation. When it came to
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: inviting people from the Bachelor franchise to your wedding with Andy,
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: how'd that go about? How did you pick and choose
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: because we had some pretty famous faces there. We had Becca,
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: we had Nick, we had Chris souls Andy, how did
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: you go about that? Because it's it's a very sensitive
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: subject when because it's a family, it is and it's
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: kind it is a family, and it's also there are
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: a lot of huge and just sort of people that
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: you know, some people you're close with them, you should
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: be equally closed to someone else for you just you know,
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: you just don't really connect with them in the same way.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: I'm sure you're facing this or have been facing it.
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: I just honestly, I was little ruthless when it came
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: to wedding stuff. We knew we wanted a hundred people,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: and it just came down to like who I really
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: bond with and and it would matter to me that,
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: you know, wouldn't Russell Feathers down the line? If that
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: makes sense. That makes like there there was a sort
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: of hierarchy, like these are the most important people who
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: I'm super close with, and it's like, yeah, I could
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: invite this like other person, but if that primary person
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: is not thrilled about it, then I just you know,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: I don't feel so passionately that I'm gonna go there.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: But you know, I mean, this world is a funny one.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: You know, only send me degrees of separation in every direction. Yeah,
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: I think, Jared and my general idea is that like
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: we're inviting bachelor family who has been with us through
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: it all and who we socialize with in a like
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: just like on our own, not a bachelor, not bachelor
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: of related events, not professional only events, just like people
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: who are actually part of our everyday life and yeah,
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: friendship with through all. Yeah, there, they serve a deeper
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: purpose for you in your life. And just like the
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: occasional Instagram photo right about them being there, Yeah, totally
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: so crystal exciting. It is a very citing. Thank you.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: Um I met you at it was that the first
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: time we met, No we met before that we did.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: I was wondering if you were going to bring this
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: up how we first met. Oh my god, we met
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: randomly in a Delhi. Oh my goodness. Okay, this is
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: a good this is a good story. So I was
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: in casting. I was through, like to like the talking
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: to the producer's face, not just like I had submitted
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: a tape. And Charlene was one of my favorites from
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: one Pablo season and I saw her in a deli
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: in New York and I went up to her. I go,
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: this is so awkward, but I'm in casting, in the process,
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: and do you have any advice for me? I still
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: feel like a why I do not remember what I
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: told you? Did you say, don't do it? I said
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: twice about Oh my god, how hilarious. I'll go down
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: in history. Is the worst I've ever given to any bachelor.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: So funny. I mean, in my defense, I was like,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: it was, you know, the period after the show where
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: it's hardest. But I still feel really bad about I
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: feel like it was during the airing or like one
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: month after one public season wrapped airing, because I think
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: it was like April or May of that I was
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: like a peak fame and teake like you know, criticism
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: from and just not not kind of wondering why I've
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: done it, and you know, it looked like it could
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: have possibly been back to my career, and it was
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: just like I was definitely not in like a rosy,
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: huge place about the show. Well, I was gonna say
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: it was like a backhanded compliment, but like I didn't
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: really remember your advice, So there you go. That's all
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: that's all you need. Yeah, I think I think we
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: exchanged numbers. And then you texted me when you were
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: doing casting weekend. Yeah, okay, yeah, I remember. And then
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: while you were filming, I had texted like a lawn
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: and I were texting and I told him about our
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: deli meat and he's so pun intended and he said,
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: um again, what did you tell her? And I was
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: like to thank you so much about doing that. He
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: was like, well, that's that's just that's a very funny story.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: I saw you again when there was a taping for
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: Caitlyn season, the day in which Nick went on Caitlin Season,
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: Like all these monumental times and when it comes to
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: me and also your Valentine's Day event. Yeah, yeah, it
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: has good meat. How did you become good friends with Nick?
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: You know, I actually from my recap, I he was
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: a classic case of me defending the sort of villains.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: I just really didn't think he was all that bad.
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: I found him pretty entertaining and he broke the fourth
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: wall a lot, and I really applaud that on my
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: you know, retract and like, yay breaking the fourth wall
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: looking into the camera. Um, and it's the greatnest thing
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: that can happen for the show. I mean, it's happening
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: more and more, and that's clearly less and less of
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: Freid to show it. But so we kind of, you know,
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: as it happens, we should have ended up d ning
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: each other and he's in the city doing I don't know,
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: some morning show and this is at the scale end
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: of um uh andy season obviously, and then we just
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: could have became grant. He became close with Andy as well,
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: because he's sort of he's one of our favorite third wheels. Okay,
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: So Chris Souls was invited to your wedding. He attended
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: your wedding, and it was, as far as I know,
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: one of his big outings after his accident. Is a
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: couple of months after his accident, he still keeping to
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: to Chris and how is he doing? Can you give
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: us us an update on that? Um? Yeah, I mean
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: I don't. I'm not going to talk about yes, you know,
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: so we can understanding. But yeah, no, I've actually met Chris.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: You were there like that, you know Becca's blog launch
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: as the Yeah, at the best. That's it was that
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: weekend where we met him. We had met him like
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: to night before with Nick, and he just bonded with
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: him so hard. He's a nice guy. Yeah, he really is. Yeah,
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: Like it's how that must have been fun, Like I
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: feel like he would have. He was probably was super fun.
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: He wasn't like I think he was a little bit
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: al ofvis Elman as the Bachelor. But the times that
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: I spent with him outside of filming like a year
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: or so, removed so much fun. Just like bring so
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: much warmth and love to a room. Absolutely. Yeah. He
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: does not have like a mean or medacing bone in
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: his body. The ultimate fun loving teddy bearer. Yeah, it's
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: like a dad's I like dad's love crystalls. You know.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: She's very small to the earth that way. Yeah yeah. Um, yeah,
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: so then we should have wanted with him and hung
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: out with him a couple of times in the city
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: and then we were like why a kind of her
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: wedding and he was like, yeah, yeah, yeah, it was
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: a good time. You saw him recently actually in the city,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: just a couple of weekends ago. Oh good, I heard that.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: The Yeah, Charlene, not to We're taking out a ton
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: of your time today. Sorry, And I know you're an
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: extremely busy person, um, but we have to celebrate with
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: you a little bit because you haven't been on the
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: podcast in the two years that this has been going on.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: That's not fair for anybody involved. I just wanted so
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: quickly and give you like a classing emoji, because I mean,
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: this is a really awesome podcast. You guys are chilling it.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: We fake it so well. It's really amazing how good
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: we are at just faking this. And then it's really
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: great that the show is on television year over year
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: over year, three times a year for us to breakdown
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: and talk about people that are new every year. It's
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: we have a blast of this podcast. But thank you
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: for that. I appreciate it, Um, But we have to
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: talk about your wonderful looking husband. Um, he's a great
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: looking fellow. I'm looking at him now. I googled him
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: the Jewish Richard gear. He's so good looking. He'll be
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: very happy just as that. Will you tell us really
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: quick about your love story, how you met and what
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: life has looked like over the last two years before
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: we say good bye to you, if you think it's
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: of interest. Um, yes, we love love. Oh, everyone loves love. Yeah,
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: he'll be very flattered to hear that. He you know,
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: he spends a lot of time with that to people,
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: and you know, I don't. He's extremely confident and not
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: in an arrogant way. But I think, you know, whatever
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: any one in there being with him, he know, conventionally attractive.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: He's like huo's not that. Um, so yeah, I happened.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: We we met in a very rare way. Now it
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: is not as rare as actually and Paris, obviously, but um,
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: we happened to sit next to each other at a
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: fundraiser one night on a rainy night when both my
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: girlfriends like veiled on the plans because it was like
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: like torrential downpour, and his friend bailed on him too,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: And I don't know something drew me to this event
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: that night despite the weather, and I happened to sit
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: next to him, and if anyone had been with me,
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't have sat there because there's only one seat.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: And yeah, we just sat sort of sat next to
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: each other, like on our phones as we do, and
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: he I think he was sort of observing me and
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: sort of trying to figure out what my deal was,
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: and then he just struck up a conversation and the
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: rest with history. I knew within five minutes that it
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: was you know, legit, there's something special. It's that that
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: that I mean, I'm telling you that is a story
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: that we all hope to have, and some people out
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: there have found them. You know. This brings me to
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: a great point. Charlene has been an amazing guest. No
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: wonder people love her. If you're out there listening and
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: you have a love story similar to Charlene's, where all
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: of a sudden you had a random place at a
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: random time, we like to say on this podcast, Charlene
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: that if if you took a second in your day
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: to think back of how you're actually sitting in the
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: place that you are in the time that you are,
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: so take about the small events that got you to
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: this place, to the city that you're in, to live
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: in whatever apartment you're living in, and have the friendships
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: that you have. It would be a really incredible story
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: and journey to tell. So I want to hear yours.
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: Please email us at been a Nashley iHeart media dot Com.
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: Email us the small little things that have happened in
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: your life that have made the biggest impact long term. Charlene,
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: your story is one uh that uh that a lot
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: of people listening. I'm sure going now that is something special.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: Never knowing when love is gonna find be found. She
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: found it. Its to it. Yeah. Um, I was invited
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: to this event by someone I had gone on to
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: Max dates with like three years before, and I'd stayed
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: platonic friends with and Andy was at this event to
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: be a s coeptical right on Tinder. So even though
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: we did not meet online, as we met because of
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: online dating. Pretty cool whatever, friend, like the heralds of
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: online dating. I'm like, just get on there. You never know,
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: you never know. I we have so many stories about it.
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: I mean we talked about it. We we actually I
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: think had a podcast last year that we we asked
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: for stories of online dating encounters, and I think it's
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: time to do that again. It's been a year. People
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: are dating still, right? Is that still a thing? In
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: two people still dating? Yeah? What's actually the better response? Hey, Charlene,
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: you're awesome. You're great. We appreciate you. And and also
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: I just want to let you know, and I mean this, um,
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: just because I have heard it. Thank you for being
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: so great to the women getting off of the season
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: of The Bachelor that I was a part of, because
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: I know that you were a great influence for them
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: and you gave them a safe place to talk to
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: you and land on it. And I really appreciate that,
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: even though I don't get to talk to those women
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: very often. Um, it made me feel warm and fuzzy
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: inside knowing that they had somebody like you. So thank
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: you and they should know. Check out our blog All
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: the Pretty Pandas dot com. And you're an opera singer.
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: Are you on tour right now or are you a
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: stationed anywhere on the theater? Um? I'm generally freelance, so
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: I just I go where the contract takes me. Right. Yeah,
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: you know how, we do have a contract and when
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: I I have like the slow periods when I'm singing again. Yeah,
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: it's good. I get to have the best of both world.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: It's really nice. It's a nice lifestyle. All right. Thank you, Charlie,
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: I thank you. I'm really I'm very honored, Like I
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: like the least relevant first never No, you're you're actually not.
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: You're really not. We can name a lot more. We
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: just won't be weird to them right now. Thank you
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: for having me. It means a lot. All right, Bye bye?
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: That was Who the heck are you with? Charlene joint Uh,
• 42:02
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  Speaker 1: almost Famous to this weekend Bachelor Nation. Uh, there's a
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: couple of hot topics that we got to discuss. It's
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: the off season and this is when we get to
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: dive into the things happening around bachelations and some of
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: our contestants lives that we all love. In the door,
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise isn't that far away? And one of
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise's favorite couples, Crystal and Chris. They had
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: an ad this week on their Instagram, and I mean,
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: I guess this work because now we're promoting the ad
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: as well. If you haven't seen it, you gotta go
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: out and watch it. Here's a sneak peek at what
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: happened in the ad. It shows Crystal manskaping Chris Ashley.
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: You and I both have strong thoughts on this. I'll
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: let you start and i'll close in where you don't
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: what you don't touch on. Okay, Well, I have no
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: problem with the ad because I am all about doing
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: ads in the most creative way possible, where you make
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: it fun, you make it personalized to you, to yourself
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: or as a couple, and you get attention for the
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: company that's paying you. Three things right there present in
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: Crystal and Chriss Instagram ad. Is it cringe? E? Sure?
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: Did it get our attention and work of the brand? Yes?
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: Was it true to them as a couple? Yes? They
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: are like that. They are that like all put it.
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: They put all their junk out there. You know, they
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: air their relationship out there, and they don't present themselves
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: as like this innocent couple. They prevent themselves as like
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: a sexy couple, So manscaping is sort of on brand.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: The only thing that really Okay, there are two things
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: that made me cringe. And I'm not saying they should
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: have done it, but you know, we're talking about the
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: cringe worthiness of the ad. Then the fact that they
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: said babe and baby like eight times was like, okay,
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: can we not? Can we refer to each other by
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: another pet name? Give it some variety, um, maybe each
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: other each other's names, but babe, baby, babe, baby babe.
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: That was a little bit much um. And then Crystal
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: getting like the shot of Crystal ian Chris's crotch doing
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: the manscaping herself was like, oh my god. But I
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: hear I am saying, oh my god. But like I
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: don't have a real problem with it. It's them. I
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: couldn't do it, couldn't get I couldn't pull it off.
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to do it. Jared would. I could
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: never see Jared letting you do this. You know, here's
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: my thoughts. I I think it's creative. I think it's funny.
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: I think it was one of the better like commercial
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: ads that we've seen really anybody do, because typically I
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: scrolled right through and I had to stop and watch
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: the whole thing just based on pure interest and what
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: the heck was happening. I would agree with you. My
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: biggest critique, and it's one that I'll stand on. I
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: had to stop watching it because the babe baby baby babes.
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: We gotta get better at that, you know, for criticized that,
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: We've got to get better at the content and the writing.
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: The video itself really really catchy. So I'll give Crystal
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: and Chris an a on that ad. It's it's content,
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: just the writing. Struggling with the writing. Yeah, they grabbed
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: the audiences attention, that's for sure. I'm done talking about
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: Chris's balls. I've talked about I'm way too long writing.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: Um here's one that is personal to me. This weekend,
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: we celebrate Blake's Blake Hurtzman's thirtieth birthday in Denver, Colorado.
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: We did it at Chase mcnerry's club or bar called
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: Revel Social and Denver. It was a really good evening.
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: Jessica and I were able to stop by and be
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: there for about forty five minutes before the crowds got on.
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: Here's actually I gotta talk about this. So here's the scenario. Right,
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: I have sweet little jess with me, um, And I'm
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: telling you, Jessica is is just a tremendous person. The
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: attention for the fans she just doesn't get and she
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: definitely doesn't get it when it revolves around me. She's
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: just so confused all the time because you know, she
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: now knows me just as her boyfriend. And so when
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: like people start screaming or yelling or whatever, she just
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: gets thrown off. So this is what happens. We went
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: to dinner with my parents here in Denver at a
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: great restaurant down south, and uh, come back up and
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: on the way home, I have way up to the house.
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: I have my my parents dropped Jesse and I off
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: at the bar to see Blake can celebrate his thirtieth
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: birthday with him. Well, the bar is set up where
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: and revels a great great bar downtown Denver now, and
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: Chase has done a great job of setting up. But
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: you walk in through a side door and there's this
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: kind of roped off area for any v I P
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: guests and Jesse and I just happened to be the
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: first two v i P guests there. We showed up
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: before everybody else. So you know what happens is walk
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: into this pack bar all waiting for you know, these
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: Bachelor contestants show up. There was David Louiser there, and
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: Wills is there. I mean, there were so many guys
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: in that picture. It was so many. I was like,
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: what is this a Bachelor reunion? It was Jason Tartik
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: was there. I mean, there was a lot of guys there.
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: So Jesse and I walk in first, fans start going crazy,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: and then it's just Jesse and I standing in this
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: roped off area that probably fifty square foot big, like
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: pretty big for two people, while there's fans ten ft
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: from us just staring, and Jessica goes, I don't want
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: to be here anymore, said I don't want to be
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: here either, and we walked. We just walked right back
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: to the kitchen. We stood in the in the Revel's
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: kitchen for forty five minutes, probably until Blake and got there.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: It was so awkward, it felt like, I mean, especially
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: for jess like eyes were just on you. There's too
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: much anyway, Um, but anyway, we celebrated Blake Courtsman's thirty birthday.
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: He's a great dude, good friend, uh, and it was
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: a great time. But there's a topic that was brought
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: up even that evening that I want to discuss on
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: the podcast with you. It feels like Bats their nation
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: is in complete support but also putting a ton of
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: pressure on the Hannah Gee and Blake situation and Paradise.
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: And to me, I have two thoughts, and I'll start
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: this one with my thoughts. One, it's unfair to the couple.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: It's unfair to to the other people there um, and
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: it's unfair to the love story that could exist for
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: Hannah Gee and some other guy, or Blake and some
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: other girl, or maybe even still free themselves, like maybe
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: they do get together. I don't like it. As a
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: friend of Blake's, I feel like it is too much pressure.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: And after meeting Hannah Gee the first time, I'm such
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: a fan of her that I don't want her to
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: go into Paradise with any pressure or feelings other than hey,
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: I'm here to maybe meet my match. What do you think?
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: I just completely agree with you. Knowing both of them
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: a very tiny bit, but like, no, you know, interacting
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: with both of them in real life. It's not like
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh my god, you would be the
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: perfect match with Blake. Like nothing about their personalities like
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: screams their destined to be together. For me, I think
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: people just love the fact that she was such a
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: front runner on her season and got screwed over and
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: that he was the same in his season, And people
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: just want to see those two big powerhouses come together.
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: But I'm not saying they're not compatible. I'm not saying
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: there's something like amazing that I see between them either. Yeah,
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: I mean I think I think you're spot on, like,
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: why are we going to force? The coolest thing about
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: Paradise to me has always been that there's these random
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: couples that we never would have guessed existed. Or I
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: put Tanner in Jade at the top of that. Jade
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: was like fought fought four and sought after and Tanner
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: was this like kind of goofy, funny, great dude that
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: we all loved from Caitlin season. And then they go
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: down there and I would say, Jay gave Tanner a
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: chance and then they fall in love and now look
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: at him, and I'm thinking, why put pressure on those situations.
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: Let let Paradise be what it is. Yeah, I agree,
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: super great, But I have to say, I had a
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: dream about Hannah Gee. I regard her this highly, you guys,
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: I had a dream of her last night. It was
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: like it was a concert that ABC had on their
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: you know, their channel, and it was like Billboard Music
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: Oars or something about Billboards on ABC, and she was
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: part of a collaborative performance. It was her, Celine Dion,
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: j Lo Beyonce, like Taylor Swift and Carrie Underlood Like, yeah,
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: I apparently think that Hannah Gee is that great, that
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: she's amongst those those women. She is that great. Here's
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: a story, Ashley, that almost feels as great. Um headlines happened.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: I think it was last week. I'm on a chat
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: thread with a bunch of people, uh, former Bachelor's and
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: this was the topic that was brought up. Nick Vile
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: admits that he's hooked up with a guy and it
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: and and in quotes he says it moved. Now I'm
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: assuming I know what he's talking about when he says
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: it moved, Ashley, are you surprised? What is the context here?
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, okay, I don't know what's happening.
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: I was shocked when I read it. I haven't read
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: the story yet, but what was moving and why was
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: it moving and what was happening in the situation. Actually,
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: he was acting. I think it was for a small
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: a short film, uh, something independent, and he had to
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: kiss a guy for his role. Apparently he's just saying that, Uh,
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: he didn't hate it. He didn't hate it. There you go,
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: he didn't hate it. Hey, good for Nick for admitting it,
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: Good for Nick for doing it. No problem there. But
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: it was a topic. And wow, I'm telling you, if
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: you want to get clicks, that's something that we all
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: stopped and go surprising. Good for Nick and and Nick
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: would be the guy that would do He's just he's
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: just an open guy that would discuss anything. And you
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: look at his Instagram, he's he's answering all these questions
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: in brilliant ways all the time. So uh, anyways, check
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: out Nick's new short film. The headlines aren't what they
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: point to. He did kiss a guy. It was for acting.
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: But either way, good for Nick. Next topic in the
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: Bachelor world, the Bachelor at Reunion. The special is happening
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: because The Bachelor is premiering May thirteen and May six,
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: there is a reunion show that I've got to check out.
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: I mean these bachelorettes. When I look at the picture
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: of all the bachelorettes in history, I mean, these are
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: some classy, amazing women. Actually, what do you know about
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: it and what's going to happen. I don't know anything
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: about it. That's fantastic. Are going to be a surprised,
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: But I will say that those pictures of all them
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: together are quite dominant, Like those are some powerful ladies
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: that have looks, personality and Brand's album it's pretty cool.
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, leading ladies, amazing women. It just shows and
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: you know what, as and I've I've said this actually
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: changed my mind on this. I believe that Hannah b
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: not only will be standing that group obviously she's a bachelorette,
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: but she will be a force to be recognist with
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: in Bachelor Nation. I think she's gonna go down as
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: one of the favorites just based on even some of
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: the clips. I think she's gonna be rab. I don't
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: think she prepared for this. I think she's very unprepared
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: to be the Bachelorette, and I think we're going to
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: get a very authentic, genuine Bachelorettes season because she's so
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: unprepared and I'm so stoked to watch. I don't know
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: that we ever talked about that Cinderella esque promo, like
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: how it was that that the best promo they've ever
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: put out there. It was like a Taylor Stuff music
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: video plus the most amazing chick flick rom com of
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: all time. I mean, the transformation from prom queen to
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: like this kick ass bitch. You can't take that out? No, yeah,
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: take that. You know what I meant? A wonder woman,
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: wonder woman? That's it? Am I wrong? Maybe I'm crazy here.
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: When I watched that promo, I thought it was Beauty
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: the Beast esque because Hannah Beast. I thought like that
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: felt like very like transformational. Was I wrong? So transformational?
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: So awesome? I don't know. It was so good, the
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: music behind it, the lyrics. Going to be a really
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: really good season and I'm so pumped to watch it. Anyways.
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: The Bachelotte Reunion Special premiers May six, with The Bachelorrette
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: premiering mayte. We're back in Bachelor Nation and we're coming
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: in strong. Hey, two stories I want to talk to
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: you about, Ash. Yeah, we we forgot one other headline.
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: Clay and Angela officially broke up. I wondered. I was
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: with him this weekend. I want to ask, I wondered,
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: and I was looking at h I was he came
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: out for the he came out for the U the
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: birthday party. And I didn't want to ask because I
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: really enjoyed that couple. I thought they were great together.
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: I know we had her on the podcast and she
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: was so into him at the times. Something obviously happened.
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: I'm glad we can finally break that news. Because I
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: looked at their instagrams, hadn't seen pictures being posted in
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: a while. I was like, something's going on here? Can
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: we get juicy? Yeah? What if they but bring them
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: both to Paradise? Oh no, what if they will? They will? Right?
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: That would be so good for us yours. Oh my god,
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: there's some storylines that are gonna be existing in Paradise
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: this year. Uh, you know, we gotta look out. I
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: wonder if any of Joejoe's guys will be there. Chase
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: is really the only one I can think of that
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: should should be there. Robbie, Robbie's coming back, I know it.
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: Probably he's not coming back to the Third Paradise. You know,
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: we need to do Ashley I think we need to
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: call on somebody I haven't got talking a while, um,
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: and bring Amanda Stand onto the podcast for an in
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: depth episode. You know our special episodes that we do
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: called in depth, where we really dive deep into somebody's life.
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: I think we need to do that too. I think
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: we need to bring up with Amanda Stand talk about Paradise,
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: what works in Paradise, what didn't work in Paradise. She
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: just obviously got out of a new or she just
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: got out of a relationship. We should hear about that
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: and just kind of dig deep with batch Nation's favorite mom,
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: Amanda Stanton. Let's call her up and see if we
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: can do that. What do you think call her right now?
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: I wanted in depth? Yeah, okay, yeah, yeah yeah. Let's
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: call her off air to see if she'll do an
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: indpth in depth episode. It would be fun. That would
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: be a good one. I think it would be helpful
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: for everything. Hey, two storylines I want to touch on
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: that shocked the world uh this week. One is Nicolas
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: Cage is getting divorced after four days and his uh
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: the lady that his I don't know what you call
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: it his divorce or the why the woman that he's
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: now divorcing after four days is asking for spousal support,
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: which means she's asking for money after four days. Anybody
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: out there listening, please write, has it been in Ashley?
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: I hurted media dot com? Is it right or wrong?
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: Should he be paying spousal support? What is happening here?
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: What is this situation? And why have we got to
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: this point? Actually? Any context? Any comments? Didn't know the
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: story existed? I mind boggled. I thought he was still
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: married to his other wife. But uh what? Oh it
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: was a Vegas Was it a wild night in Vegas?
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: Still Nicolas Cage divorced after four days? I want to
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: hear your thoughts. Please read the articles you can google
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: Nicolas Cage. Not a lot else is happening in his life?
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: And read and then get back to it been in Ashley?
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: I hurted me dot com. The next story. Before we
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: close out, we had a couple of big updates why
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: the podcast has existed today and why we've been recording
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: it in Ashley's Life with the Dog. Before we start
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: talking about this dog story, let's touch on one that
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: shocked the world that came out in April. This one
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: is one that brought tears to my eyes. A dog
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: was found off the coast of Thailand, a hundred and
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: thirty five miles out of puppy had been swimming for
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: who knows how long and was found by an oil rig.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: You can google the article oil rig worker rescues a dog.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: It's an amazing story of a puppy a hundred and
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: thirty five miles off the coast of Thailand to do
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: amazing things. I wonder if you jumped off a boat
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: or something, who knows, who knows? Would we should ask
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: the dog? He was, Hey, please catch all of our
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: listeners up because I'm sure we we've been getting emails
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: already about what has happened with you and Jared's foster dog. Okay,
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: so Jared took the dog to a no kill shelter,
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: which here's some news for you guys. I thought no
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: kill shelters actually meant zero kill. It actually means not kill.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: Just know this for the future. Um, they keep all
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: dogs alive that they feel like have a good chance
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: of being adopted and living a full life. So we
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: dropped it off a no kill shelter. It's at one
• 1:01:24
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• 1:01:36
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• 1:01:39
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• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: thet of April, but if you guys heard it here
• 1:01:47
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• 1:01:51
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• 1:01:57
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  Speaker 1: pimple Popper. Oh, I love it too. I love Dr
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  Speaker 1: pimple Popper. Why Because it's satisfying, it's engaging, and every
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  Speaker 1: when I feel well, that was gonna rhyme. Let me
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  Speaker 1: do that one more time. I have an addiction and
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  Speaker 1: have those blemishes and those issues. And I was backstage
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• 1:08:02
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  Speaker 1: and Colton, and they both were so grossed out that
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• 1:08:17
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• 1:08:25
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• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: am a part of that audience. There's a show for
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  Speaker 1: a reason because some of us out there. Maybe it's
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  Speaker 1: They just need an audience of like maybe a million,
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: and the million of us are satisfied by watching these
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: pimple's insists mostly cis and abscesses get relieved. As you said,
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: relieved is the perfect way it is. It is satisfying
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: because you're like, and now something is healed. These people
• 1:08:58
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• 1:09:02
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• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: accepting people of my kind. We like to see others happy,
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: and I like to think that watching that pimple be
• 1:09:11
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