Latest / The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast / Cleared for Takeoff with Pilot Pete
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
- 0:03Speaker 1: with on our radio Pilot Pete. Season is off to
- 0:09Speaker 1: a soaring star. I'm not even kidding. This season has
- 0:13Speaker 1: opened up with the highest ratings that we've ever seen
- 0:16Speaker 1: in Bachelor history, and it just continues to build on
- 0:18Speaker 1: itself every season, every season. And here's the thing, Pilot,
- 0:22Speaker 1: Pete is going to be on our show today. But
- 0:26Speaker 1: before we do, actually and I have an important announcement.
- 0:28Speaker 1: Actually take it away. We are doing a live show
- 0:32Speaker 1: in San Francisco this coming Saturday, January eleventh. The show
- 0:37Speaker 1: starts at eight, the doors open at seven anyone in
- 0:40Speaker 1: the San Francisco area. We want to see you. What'll
- 0:43Speaker 1: be talking with you personally. We're gonna be playing games
- 0:46Speaker 1: on stage with some of your Bachelor favorites. There's gonna
- 0:49Speaker 1: be a performance. We're gonna get really in depth with Derek,
- 0:54Speaker 1: Peth and Paith that's right, path Um and all. We're
- 0:59Speaker 1: gonna get the nitty gre of his past season of Paradise.
- 1:03Speaker 1: But most of all, we can't wait to interact with
- 1:05Speaker 1: you guys, see your faces in person. It's gonna be
- 1:09Speaker 1: really nice to you know, to see the people that
- 1:12Speaker 1: we talked to every week, so please come out. You
- 1:14Speaker 1: can still get tickets at ape Concerts dot com and
- 1:19Speaker 1: ticketmaster dot com. Tickets start at thirty five dollars. We
- 1:23Speaker 1: cannot wait to see you there. Actually I'd pay thirty
- 1:28Speaker 1: see you It is true though, I mean we've done
- 1:33Speaker 1: this thing um for two or years. Two years now,
- 1:37Speaker 1: we're over fifty million downloads. That's a lot of people
- 1:39Speaker 1: and a lot of minds and interactions that we miss
- 1:41Speaker 1: out on because the studio gets a little lonely. This
- 1:44Speaker 1: is something we want to do for a long time,
- 1:45Speaker 1: and Ashley and I now get to do it, and
- 1:47Speaker 1: we're coming to San Francisco to see you all there. Hey,
- 1:50Speaker 1: this episode is is a massive one every season. Um,
- 1:54Speaker 1: we get really excited for opening week of The Batchelor,
- 1:57Speaker 1: not only because we now we have something uh to
- 2:00Speaker 1: hagible to talk about, but also because we get the
- 2:03Speaker 1: lead onto our podcast. And today we have a ton
- 2:07Speaker 1: of time with pilot Pete. Yes, the man himself is
- 2:11Speaker 1: coming into our studio. And then Ashley, you have some
- 2:14Speaker 1: really pointed questions I know about this season in general.
- 2:17Speaker 1: I'm going to talk so much about the ten minutes
- 2:21Speaker 1: that we had of Hannah Brown on that episode. It
- 2:24Speaker 1: was so good, so good, I'm presidented. It's it's a
- 2:31Speaker 1: lot of process. Here's how we're gonna do this thought.
- 2:34Speaker 1: Pete is going to be coming into studio here in
- 2:36Speaker 1: a little bit. Before he gets in, actually, I'm going
- 2:38Speaker 1: to break down this episode and what we feel and
- 2:40Speaker 1: what we think about it. But before we do, there's
- 2:43Speaker 1: some massive things going on in Bachelor Nation that we
- 2:46Speaker 1: have to talk about. Yeah, and we haven't been here
- 2:48Speaker 1: for two weeks, so we have to catch up on that.
- 2:51Speaker 1: It's been too long. So actually, before we break down
- 2:55Speaker 1: the Bachelor news that is happening in the last two weeks,
- 2:57Speaker 1: let's take a break here from our sponsors and come
- 3:00Speaker 1: back ready to go. Alright, guys itan Bachelor news. About
- 3:11Speaker 1: a week or so ago, Courtney Robertson came out an
- 3:15Speaker 1: announced on Instagram that she's engaged in expecting her first
- 3:19Speaker 1: child with fiance Humberto Prissa Precidio. I really like his name.
- 3:27Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm pronouncing it a beautiful, but
- 3:29Speaker 1: its beautiful. I'm so happy for her. We've had her
- 3:33Speaker 1: on the show before. She's the sweetest she I know.
- 3:36Speaker 1: People who just saw her on bed for next season.
- 3:39Speaker 1: It's like, she's the sweetest. No, She's truly a very
- 3:41Speaker 1: kind woman, and I know how badly she wanted to
- 3:46Speaker 1: have a family of her own, and I'm really happy
- 3:49Speaker 1: it's coming together for her now. Then we also had
- 3:52Speaker 1: Dean's skiing accident, which happened over the Christmas break. I
- 3:56Speaker 1: know that Dean did an episode of Help by Second
- 3:58Speaker 1: Dating where he kind of broke down exactly what happened
- 4:01Speaker 1: and his recovery that he has to go through in Europe.
- 4:07Speaker 1: It's this is a wild one. Actually, these two news
- 4:10Speaker 1: stories are not small, right. I mean, as we talked about,
- 4:12Speaker 1: Corty Robertson came on our podcast during our season because
- 4:16Speaker 1: she was friends with Ari and so she talked a
- 4:18Speaker 1: lot about kind of their relationship. And then Dean, Dean,
- 4:21Speaker 1: this is a major accident. And I don't know about you,
- 4:25Speaker 1: but I was home in Indiana for the holidays. My
- 4:27Speaker 1: mom and I were on Instagram like scrolling through together,
- 4:31Speaker 1: and this Dean's story that pops up, and it's excruciating,
- 4:34Speaker 1: Like it's hard to watch because he's laying in this story. Yeah,
- 4:38Speaker 1: it's he's laying in the snow looking up at the
- 4:41Speaker 1: sky and at the time you're like, ha ha, Dean
- 4:43Speaker 1: kind of felt like he's not that hurt to come
- 4:45Speaker 1: to find out that his whole hip was dislocated as
- 4:48Speaker 1: a leg was broken. Can you believe how calm he was.
- 4:51Speaker 1: He's just like, oh, look, there are some birds that
- 4:53Speaker 1: are going to feast on my dead body. When when somebody,
- 4:57Speaker 1: you know, when I'm not gonna get I he's choking
- 5:01Speaker 1: and like he wasn't crying. He's just laying in snow
- 5:04Speaker 1: in what I imagine is just utter pain. I can't believe.
- 5:07Speaker 1: I think, like what he said on his Instagram story
- 5:10Speaker 1: was that he called for help and then they didn't
- 5:13Speaker 1: really make it seem like it was that urgent. And
- 5:15Speaker 1: then after an hour of lying there, somebody skied right
- 5:20Speaker 1: by him, and then he went to go get help
- 5:22Speaker 1: and he finally got somebody. But I don't think he
- 5:25Speaker 1: was attended to for like an hour and a half
- 5:27Speaker 1: after he fell. It's I mean, like now it really
- 5:30Speaker 1: does make sense of why he thought maybe he was
- 5:32Speaker 1: going to die. Things are bad, I mean matter Dean
- 5:37Speaker 1: is a daredevil m He pushes me to my limits
- 5:40Speaker 1: anytime we hang out. The guy really has um just
- 5:44Speaker 1: a massive adrenaline. I don't know what you call it.
- 5:46Speaker 1: He's adournaline junkie and the guy just loves kind of
- 5:50Speaker 1: risking it. Here's a sad part about this story, and
- 5:52Speaker 1: then we can move on. I think Dean's days of
- 5:55Speaker 1: being a daredevil might be coming to an end. He's
- 5:57Speaker 1: not getting younger, and this doesn't help. I don't think
- 6:00Speaker 1: he's going to be able to write. I mean, doesn't
- 6:02Speaker 1: A dislocated hip and a broken famer like kind of
- 6:07Speaker 1: stay with you forever, like you may never be again.
- 6:12Speaker 1: I don't. I doubt you'll ever be again. We feel free.
- 6:15Speaker 1: Dam we loved Dean, UM, love Courtney somebody we don't
- 6:18Speaker 1: know well. I don't think he's ever been on the podcast. Um.
- 6:22Speaker 1: He's kind of gone off and done a couple of
- 6:24Speaker 1: these other shows. He pops up in the news every
- 6:26Speaker 1: once in a while in some controversy. Ashley Robbie Hayes
- 6:30Speaker 1: is now on cs Q. Yeah, so I haven't watched
- 6:34Speaker 1: cs A key, I'll be honest. I know that he
- 6:38Speaker 1: is dating the scool name Juliet on it, and that
- 6:41Speaker 1: his sex tape with one of the a it was
- 6:45Speaker 1: a surveillance camera. It wasn't a real sex tape. It
- 6:48Speaker 1: becomes part of the drama on cst Q, I believe. Anyway,
- 6:52Speaker 1: Robbie is on CSQ on MTV. Do you guys wat
- 6:55Speaker 1: check that out? Listeners. I gotta get your perspective here,
- 6:59Speaker 1: because shows a show. We get it. The Bachelor feels, um,
- 7:04Speaker 1: it feels fine to do like I would recommend my
- 7:06Speaker 1: friends doing it and my loved ones doing because it
- 7:09Speaker 1: can work or there's a lot of self growth through it.
- 7:11Speaker 1: What do you all think about a Bachelor contestant or
- 7:15Speaker 1: any of these continuing to go on these reality shows?
- 7:17Speaker 1: Is it something that we just should celebrate? Is it
- 7:19Speaker 1: something we go ad this? This feels weird? Um? Either way,
- 7:24Speaker 1: Robbie Hayes is on cs T key if you want
- 7:26Speaker 1: to watch him, tune in. If not, I'm not going
- 7:29Speaker 1: to be doing it. Yeah this next story. Actually have
- 7:32Speaker 1: a lot of questions for you on so please, uh
- 7:35Speaker 1: let the listeners know what's going on. But I have
- 7:36Speaker 1: a lot of questions for you. I don't think I
- 7:39Speaker 1: have many answers, but I have further speculation. Go for it. So,
- 7:43Speaker 1: Caitlin Bristow says publicly and I quote, so why I
- 7:48Speaker 1: have bitter feelings towards one person from the Bachelor out
- 7:50Speaker 1: of hundreds, I will choose to love the hundreds of
- 7:53Speaker 1: others who changed my life, she wrote on Monday. I
- 7:56Speaker 1: will try to remember the positive experiences. Ashley. Two things
- 8:01Speaker 1: for you. Where is this coming from? And who is
- 8:03Speaker 1: that one person? Is it Sean or is it somebody else?
- 8:06Speaker 1: I gotta think that it's Sean. And if it's not Sean,
- 8:10Speaker 1: then I feel like it might be a producer, somebody
- 8:12Speaker 1: behind the scenes. But I think it has to be Sean, right.
- 8:16Speaker 1: I just think it's where that she even like brought
- 8:18Speaker 1: it up, because I think we're actually at the point
- 8:21Speaker 1: where people are associating Caitlin more with Jason than Caitlin
- 8:24Speaker 1: with Sean, and she still meant him through the Bachelor process.
- 8:27Speaker 1: So I don't know why she would even bring it up.
- 8:29Speaker 1: But is this in an interview with with the Entertainment?
- 8:33Speaker 1: What was interesting was that this was on her Instagram story.
- 8:37Speaker 1: That was on her Instagram was her Instagram caption, So
- 8:40Speaker 1: like she brought it up on her own, unless like
- 8:43Speaker 1: something that we don't know spurred it on. Here's the
- 8:46Speaker 1: here's the part about this that I kind of was
- 8:48Speaker 1: shook by because my mind immediately and I'm sure to
- 8:50Speaker 1: listeners out there as well. When I read this, my
- 8:53Speaker 1: mind immediately went to Nick, like, oh, she's talking about Nick.
- 8:57Speaker 1: She has bitter feelings towards Nick. Nick was but now
- 9:00Speaker 1: they've healed things. She came onto the podcast, he came
- 9:02Speaker 1: on her as they did a little switcherru thing they're
- 9:05Speaker 1: good now. So it's not Nick, it's not me. I
- 9:11Speaker 1: don't think, Um, you know, it must it has to
- 9:15Speaker 1: be Sean or maybe there's a few that we just
- 9:17Speaker 1: don't know about. Either way, Um. She did make a
- 9:20Speaker 1: public statement on her Instagram and that yes, uh is
- 9:25Speaker 1: news hey one. A couple of other things here bats
- 9:28Speaker 1: Our Nation's Blake Hortsman's manage sword surgery after a crazy
- 9:32Speaker 1: person randomly punches him. Crazy person in quotes because that's
- 9:35Speaker 1: what Blake said. He said he was standing in New
- 9:38Speaker 1: York City. Somebody randomly punched him in the face. For people.
- 9:41Speaker 1: Here's my thoughts here, How in the world does one
- 9:44Speaker 1: person get four good punches in on four different people? Um,
- 9:50Speaker 1: I don't know, that's really weird, but I thought the
- 9:52Speaker 1: same thing like boom boom boom, and then runs away.
- 9:56Speaker 1: If my buddy is getting pounded in the face. You
- 9:59Speaker 1: better boom leave that. I'm not letting him pound myself,
- 10:02Speaker 1: my buddy, and another buddy before we let him go. Yeah,
- 10:05Speaker 1: this would be a strong rock type person, crazy person
- 10:09Speaker 1: quote quote. The last piece of Bachelor news we have
- 10:12Speaker 1: until we dig into the episode, because I know that's
- 10:15Speaker 1: what you guys want the most, is that he recently
- 10:18Speaker 1: did a tally of sorts of the Bachelor alums favorite
- 10:25Speaker 1: Bachelor and our winner was ours truly, Ben, Ben, you
- 10:31Speaker 1: are the favorite Bachelor of all time when when tallied
- 10:36Speaker 1: up amongst the participating bachelor alone. Yeah, well it's sweet,
- 10:40Speaker 1: it is. I mean, there's been some awesome ones. I
- 10:42Speaker 1: was thinking about that. Here's a funny part Ashley about this.
- 10:46Speaker 1: Um I tipped. I mean I was asked for my
- 10:49Speaker 1: favorite Bachelor. I I love Nick Vile, Um, I love souls.
- 10:53Speaker 1: I love these recent guys, and I'm buddies with their
- 10:55Speaker 1: great dudes, um and friends of mine. I really just
- 10:59Speaker 1: love Andrew Fireston and Bob getting did for me personally
- 11:02Speaker 1: as they gave me like kind of mentored me along
- 11:04Speaker 1: the way. And now guys come to you to be mentor.
- 11:08Speaker 1: I actually, yeah, I just saw Peter at the NBC
- 11:11Speaker 1: building before he's coming in here, and he was talking
- 11:14Speaker 1: about you for a second, and I was like, oh, yeah,
- 11:16Speaker 1: nobody does the Bachelor anymore without talking to mentor Bend first. Well,
- 11:21Speaker 1: and here's what's cool about it. Actually, I really do
- 11:24Speaker 1: believe this. I don't these things don't typically kind of
- 11:27Speaker 1: like shrug off my shoulders or I get a little
- 11:28Speaker 1: like embarrassed. You know, you just feel like this is whatever.
- 11:31Speaker 1: I read these and I read what people are saying
- 11:33Speaker 1: about me, and I'm sitting in Nashville at Jessica's house,
- 11:38Speaker 1: and I start to tear up because here's some things
- 11:41Speaker 1: that people said, Like they said, Hey, when he looks
- 11:43Speaker 1: at you, you like, I know he cares. And if
- 11:46Speaker 1: I can do that in my life and if that's
- 11:48Speaker 1: how people are seeing me, like it's almost as a
- 11:51Speaker 1: sense of like like wow, Ben, like you are doing this,
- 11:55Speaker 1: like you are like people like you do love people. Well,
- 11:59Speaker 1: it was reminder that I kind of needed to know
- 12:01Speaker 1: that people feel loved by me. You love people so
- 12:04Speaker 1: hard and people love you so hard. That's so sweet. Well, hey,
- 12:09Speaker 1: bachel Nation, I'll continue to be around um for a
- 12:12Speaker 1: long time. In fact, Hey, I'm gonna be seeing you
- 12:15Speaker 1: in your hometown sixties six cities coming up here in February.
- 12:19Speaker 1: The Bachelor Live on Stage is coming to your hometown,
- 12:22Speaker 1: so I will be around for a while and maybe,
- 12:25Speaker 1: just maybe we'll build a meet in person, I hope. So, so, listeners,
- 12:28Speaker 1: please look for the Bachelive on Stage coming to a
- 12:30Speaker 1: city near you. Becky Coofer and I will be meeting
- 12:34Speaker 1: and greeting. Will be allowing love to flourish on stage
- 12:38Speaker 1: amongst locals in the hometown. And yes, if you come
- 12:41Speaker 1: to the event, you will be involved as well. It's
- 12:43Speaker 1: gonna be a great time. So go to Bachelive on
- 12:45Speaker 1: Stage dot com make sure you check it out. Ashley,
- 12:48Speaker 1: let's take one more break. We'll come back. We'll break
- 12:51Speaker 1: down this episode and then we'll bring the man himself
- 12:53Speaker 1: right onto the episode. And I'm pumped for it. So
- 13:05Speaker 1: before we bring Pilot Pete on, because it's gonna be happening, listeners,
- 13:10Speaker 1: hold tight, buckle up, you're gonna all this ridiculous. Hey,
- 13:15Speaker 1: Pilot Pete's coming on the episode, but before he does,
- 13:18Speaker 1: Ashley and I want to give our thoughts on last
- 13:22Speaker 1: night's opening night. I'll start Okay, I think the women
- 13:27Speaker 1: are going to be terrific this season. They're beautiful. I
- 13:30Speaker 1: think Pilot Pete today a great job. I thought he
- 13:33Speaker 1: was goofy, I thought he was awkward, I thought he
- 13:35Speaker 1: was weird. I thought he was smiley, And I think
- 13:37Speaker 1: that's all we want and a bachelor, because really you
- 13:40Speaker 1: could tell he wasn't trying to be impressive. He was
- 13:43Speaker 1: just trying to be the best version of himself possible.
- 13:46Speaker 1: The second, UM, thing I just talked about was the women.
- 13:50Speaker 1: The women were awesome last night, like engaged, they were passionate. Uh,
- 13:55Speaker 1: they tried hard, they were bold, and they were beautiful.
- 13:58Speaker 1: The bold and the beautiful. It's how I describe Peter's
- 14:02Speaker 1: women actually from there. What were your takeaways initially? Um,
- 14:07Speaker 1: I have four girls that stood out to me, one
- 14:11Speaker 1: being Hannah Brown. How did you feel about her coming
- 14:15Speaker 1: back and doing it in this moment, like in this
- 14:18Speaker 1: way she's she's telling Peter about how she's feeling. And
- 14:22Speaker 1: I I am always going to be a fan of
- 14:26Speaker 1: just like getting it off your chest and even even
- 14:28Speaker 1: if like the ideal time to do it has passed.
- 14:32Speaker 1: So I know a lot of people are on the
- 14:35Speaker 1: internet being like, Hannah, you had chance after chance, get
- 14:38Speaker 1: off my TV screen, blah blah blah. And I can
- 14:41Speaker 1: understand where they're coming from, but in this moment, I
- 14:45Speaker 1: feel like you just have to get it out there.
- 14:47Speaker 1: You have to get out there. Do you think it
- 14:50Speaker 1: was selfish of her to come back right now? No?
- 14:52Speaker 1: I don't think it's selfish. So my thought is, I
- 14:55Speaker 1: don't There's so much to this. I don't want to know,
- 14:57Speaker 1: and we can only really talk to Hannah about it.
- 14:59Speaker 1: I two theories about what happened the show, and the
- 15:02Speaker 1: producers knew that Hannah still probably had strong feelings for Peter,
- 15:06Speaker 1: and they knew that if she showed up and saw
- 15:08Speaker 1: him face to face, she might be interested in pursuing
- 15:12Speaker 1: something more. So here's my thought, and it's always been
- 15:15Speaker 1: this towards the show, is if you're in love, and
- 15:18Speaker 1: if we're trying to pursue a life, lifetime lasting love,
- 15:21Speaker 1: like there is no boundaries to that. There there is
- 15:24Speaker 1: no like easy, straightforward way. If she feels like she
- 15:27Speaker 1: loves him and that there's a chance that he could
- 15:29Speaker 1: love her back and that they could be happy together forever,
- 15:32Speaker 1: no matter what the history was, then come on to
- 15:34Speaker 1: the season, because ultimately, if this ends with him picking
- 15:38Speaker 1: his second choice and Hannah was his first, that's gonna
- 15:41Speaker 1: be a sad moment for him and the woman he chooses.
- 15:44Speaker 1: So no, not selfish, but I want to know. Listeners
- 15:47Speaker 1: please emails at Ben and Ashley at I heart media
- 15:49Speaker 1: dot com or on Twitter hashtag almost from his podcast.
- 15:54Speaker 1: I think Hannah had no clue why or what she
- 15:58Speaker 1: was showing up for until she saw Peter face to face,
- 16:02Speaker 1: and at that moment she realized that she was in
- 16:04Speaker 1: deep I think the first time she came out of
- 16:07Speaker 1: the limo, she thought, who uh, I feel jealous, right,
- 16:12Speaker 1: And then I think the second time she was like,
- 16:14Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna be here, I'm gonna exert my dominance,
- 16:16Speaker 1: Like I bet you he still wants me more than
- 16:18Speaker 1: anyone else here, which is probably true because he knows
- 16:21Speaker 1: her the most there. And then um when it was
- 16:25Speaker 1: time to leave, and I think she was like, oh, wow,
- 16:27Speaker 1: this is really it. This is this is gonna be
- 16:28Speaker 1: the end of us. That's this. If I don't say
- 16:32Speaker 1: something now, then I may never have my chance with
- 16:35Speaker 1: Peter and it may be the biggest regret of my life.
- 16:37Speaker 1: And You guys know I've said at a zillion times
- 16:39Speaker 1: on this show, but I'm a big fan of not
- 16:42Speaker 1: leaving any what ifs. I think that everybody should eliminate
- 16:46Speaker 1: as many ways to never look back and think, I
- 16:52Speaker 1: wonder what would have happened if And I think that
- 16:55Speaker 1: was her eliminating that. We don't even know how the
- 16:58Speaker 1: conversation concludes, but well, we'll see next week. Do I
- 17:02Speaker 1: think it's great that she came back on. I don't
- 17:04Speaker 1: know if I can define it as great. Do I
- 17:06Speaker 1: think it's a problem. I think it will cause a
- 17:08Speaker 1: massive problem in the house, and I think the women
- 17:10Speaker 1: will feel really really confused at why Peter, after meeting
- 17:15Speaker 1: all of them, still decides to go back with somebody
- 17:18Speaker 1: that he's already given it a shot with. I think
- 17:20Speaker 1: the biggest problem here is not Hannah coming on and
- 17:22Speaker 1: not her problem, and not that she's selfish. I don't
- 17:25Speaker 1: think it's Peter for saying, hey, come into the house again.
- 17:27Speaker 1: I think it will be the problem that Peter then
- 17:29Speaker 1: has to navigate with the other women now involved. Very
- 17:34Speaker 1: very good thoughts, Ben. My other girls that stood out
- 17:38Speaker 1: was Hannah Anne, who I didn't like from her very
- 17:42Speaker 1: first package seemed a little conceited. She's the model. She's
- 17:47Speaker 1: also the one that got the first impression Rose and
- 17:50Speaker 1: the one that um interrupted girls even after she got
- 17:56Speaker 1: her first night number one kiss. And I'm like, okay,
- 18:01Speaker 1: you're You're definitely caught his eye. Let's not be obnoxious now.
- 18:05Speaker 1: And not only did I find it obnoxious how many
- 18:07Speaker 1: times she interrupted, so I also found it really cold
- 18:10Speaker 1: of her when she sat down with that girl who
- 18:14Speaker 1: she interrupted. She just seemed fake. She seemed like she
- 18:22Speaker 1: didn't think she did anything wrong, and it was condescending
- 18:26Speaker 1: she acted to me, and how I viewed it, it
- 18:30Speaker 1: seemed like she was really looking down on the girl
- 18:33Speaker 1: who she hurt. I was just getting a general vibe
- 18:36Speaker 1: of coldness. I think I try to put myself in
- 18:39Speaker 1: Peter situation. Here's the biggest difference between Peter and I'm
- 18:42Speaker 1: sure there's a lot. He likes boldness and I hesitant.
- 18:46Speaker 1: Like if somebody came up to me three nights and
- 18:48Speaker 1: three times a night one my guard would go up
- 18:51Speaker 1: and go, what is exactly happening here? Like why is there?
- 18:54Speaker 1: Why why are you being this person? Because you know
- 18:57Speaker 1: it's going to rub people the wrong way, and I
- 18:59Speaker 1: don't want to be with somebody that is intentionally or
- 19:02Speaker 1: maybe even non intentially running people the wrong way. But
- 19:05Speaker 1: Peter chose her with his first impression Rose, which makes
- 19:07Speaker 1: me think he's into that. Like he wants somebody that's forward,
- 19:11Speaker 1: he wants somebody that kisses him right away, he wants
- 19:13Speaker 1: somebody that will will fight and grab for him, and like,
- 19:16Speaker 1: that is a difference with Peter and I. You wouldn't
- 19:18Speaker 1: have seen that with me. Yeah, she seemed like she
- 19:20Speaker 1: would be the kind of like a confrontational girl, right.
- 19:24Speaker 1: I would have been on I would have been on
- 19:26Speaker 1: edge and gone, why why do you? Like? At some
- 19:28Speaker 1: point I would say hey, Hannah, and like you're great.
- 19:31Speaker 1: I think you're beautiful. You're gonna be here next year,
- 19:34Speaker 1: in weeks after this. But here's what we have to remember.
- 19:37Speaker 1: There's a lot of other people involved, so and I
- 19:40Speaker 1: would come up with a better way to say. But really,
- 19:41Speaker 1: what Peter needs to tell her is like, make my
- 19:43Speaker 1: job easier by not doing this anymore. Please, totally, totally um.
- 19:50Speaker 1: And then Madison was such a standout. I thought Madison
- 19:54Speaker 1: came across confident, but not with any sense of ego,
- 19:58Speaker 1: very comfortable with her self. She wasn't she wasn't trying
- 20:02Speaker 1: to charge. She didn't look over eager. She just was like,
- 20:04Speaker 1: I am me, and we're we're having good conversation and
- 20:08Speaker 1: I'm fitting in with your family so well. I just like,
- 20:11Speaker 1: I don't think there was one little thing to nippick
- 20:14Speaker 1: at Madison. I think that was a perfect date. She
- 20:16Speaker 1: set the standard so high for one on ones. I
- 20:20Speaker 1: got a lot of tweets. I mean a lot. I
- 20:23Speaker 1: don't know. Again, I don't know how you quantify a lot.
- 20:25Speaker 1: I got multiple tweets comparing Madison to Jessica, my girlfriend,
- 20:30Speaker 1: and so she's bringing off Jessica vibe. I felt the
- 20:32Speaker 1: exact same way. I thought that which is a great thing, Yes,
- 20:36Speaker 1: a terrific thing, UM, because like I would say, Jessica
- 20:40Speaker 1: is the most loyal, sweet, caring, like attentive person I've
- 20:45Speaker 1: ever met, and so to have Madison like compared to her,
- 20:49Speaker 1: I think it's a huge compliment to Madison, especially if
- 20:52Speaker 1: people are tweeting me about it. You know, Ashley, I
- 20:56Speaker 1: think I take this away. I I I'm a Hannah
- 21:00Speaker 1: and fan because of the way, because of the way
- 21:04Speaker 1: her family was during UM, the dinner and the way
- 21:09Speaker 1: she communicated about Peter. The thing is this Hannah An
- 21:13Speaker 1: might have the Peter syndrome. Meeting Hannah And could do
- 21:17Speaker 1: a lot of wrong. And because of like just how
- 21:20Speaker 1: like cute she is, we're gonna be like, that's okay,
- 21:23Speaker 1: Tanna just being Hannah. You know, Peter can make out
- 21:26Speaker 1: with a bunch of people a night wanted it's Peter
- 21:28Speaker 1: being She's cute, for sure, she's stunning, But I just
- 21:33Speaker 1: find I found her not a girl's girl. I think
- 21:38Speaker 1: that's the part that might throw me off the most,
- 21:41Speaker 1: and I need to see more of her. Is because
- 21:43Speaker 1: when you come up three times in one evening and
- 21:46Speaker 1: you know people are gonna be upset about it, like
- 21:48Speaker 1: that makes me go this, there's more to this, Like
- 21:51Speaker 1: I'm not willing because if you remember, right, Hannah And
- 21:53Speaker 1: was one of my favorites going into this night one,
- 21:55Speaker 1: so I'm a little bit biased. But I have to
- 21:58Speaker 1: see a little bit more from her because right away
- 22:02Speaker 1: I was going, wait, this feels weird, like you're too
- 22:04Speaker 1: like you're confident yet this you know this is causing controversy,
- 22:08Speaker 1: and I don't want anybody that's going to cause controversy.
- 22:10Speaker 1: So I get what you're saying. I just am not
- 22:13Speaker 1: willing to go away from Hannah and quite yet, there
- 22:17Speaker 1: have been multiple people that have been Villain's Night one,
- 22:20Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, a couple of weeks in,
- 22:21Speaker 1: we're like, oh my god, can you believe that she
- 22:23Speaker 1: was a Villa Night one and that could happen with her?
- 22:27Speaker 1: I don't know. I just really didn't like the way
- 22:29Speaker 1: that she sat, how she sat down with the other girl,
- 22:32Speaker 1: and how cold she came across. That was the most telling.
- 22:35Speaker 1: The interrupting itself is like, okay, so you want to
- 22:38Speaker 1: store something up, but it was the way she handled
- 22:40Speaker 1: that conversation that really like wave my red flag. M
- 22:43Speaker 1: that's interesting, Okay, I get it. I'm not I'm not
- 22:45Speaker 1: against it. Um. I just she was like my favorite
- 22:48Speaker 1: I think, and I'm not willing to put it down,
- 22:51Speaker 1: but I will say Madison was my biggest surprise at
- 22:54Speaker 1: Fantastic So good. And so then we have talked about
- 22:57Speaker 1: Kelly because Kelly was the other big, per big, other
- 23:00Speaker 1: role player in this episode. She met Peter a couple
- 23:04Speaker 1: of months ago while she was at a wedding and
- 23:07Speaker 1: he was at a reunion at the same hotel. And
- 23:10Speaker 1: the girls don't like her because well, one, she's already
- 23:14Speaker 1: had time with Peter, and too, she cheated on the
- 23:18Speaker 1: relay race during the first group date. She went straight
- 23:21Speaker 1: when she was supposed to go like a swiggle pattern
- 23:23Speaker 1: on the twice ago, and then she ends up with
- 23:26Speaker 1: extra time on a sunset flight with Peter, and of
- 23:31Speaker 1: course the girls are sensing how much of a heads
- 23:34Speaker 1: up she has in this competition. I understand how they
- 23:38Speaker 1: could be a little bit jealous, but I also don't
- 23:40Speaker 1: think it's been anything that she's done. She couldn't help it.
- 23:43Speaker 1: She ran into him, that she had a connection with him.
- 23:46Speaker 1: What do you think about that? I like her. I
- 23:50Speaker 1: like this date. Yeah, first off, I love the date.
- 23:53Speaker 1: I thought the flight school thing was like super creative
- 23:55Speaker 1: and fun and enjoyable. I think she cheated, Yes, very
- 23:59Speaker 1: clearly she cheated. However, um, it's just kind of like
- 24:04Speaker 1: one of those things where was it intentional cheating or
- 24:07Speaker 1: was she just in the moment and like peddling as
- 24:08Speaker 1: fast she could and ended up going straight instead of
- 24:11Speaker 1: around the curves And then she's done, and then nobody
- 24:13Speaker 1: said anything, so she just went onto the flight. Either way.
- 24:16Speaker 1: Here's how we have to look at this and hear
- 24:17Speaker 1: how the girls in the house have to look at
- 24:19Speaker 1: it is you're still like there's other women out there,
- 24:23Speaker 1: You're you're not competing as much as you're pursuing time
- 24:27Speaker 1: and time is your biggest resource, and so she has
- 24:30Speaker 1: more time than other women. Instead of complaining and using
- 24:32Speaker 1: your time to complain and get distraught about it, say hey,
- 24:36Speaker 1: I'm still in this. Peter is still interested in me
- 24:40Speaker 1: now tonight, I'm gonna make sure to sit him down
- 24:43Speaker 1: and tell him Kelly did her thing whatever she was
- 24:46Speaker 1: one out of the twenty of us or whatever that
- 24:48Speaker 1: that got to do that. But right now with you, Peter,
- 24:51Speaker 1: I want you to know how I feel and what
- 24:52Speaker 1: I want out of this, like take advantage of your
- 24:54Speaker 1: time and not spend it getting distraught and upset because
- 24:57Speaker 1: there's a lot of time left. And the earliest the
- 25:00Speaker 1: earlier you get start getting like emotionally attached and upset,
- 25:04Speaker 1: the earlier it's gonna get harder and harder, which we saw.
- 25:06Speaker 1: I mean, actually, I don't remember a group date, a
- 25:10Speaker 1: first group date like this where any more tears were shed,
- 25:13Speaker 1: Like there were so many tears shed on this date.
- 25:16Speaker 1: And it makes me think that these women need need
- 25:18Speaker 1: to know, like this isn't over yet by no means
- 25:21Speaker 1: is it over? Yeah? Did you? I liked her personally
- 25:25Speaker 1: and as somebody who wasn't victimized by the time that
- 25:30Speaker 1: she had. I didn't find myself reading against her at all.
- 25:34Speaker 1: I wasn't on the other women's side. I was like, hey,
- 25:37Speaker 1: other women, just yeah, like what you said, deal with it,
- 25:40Speaker 1: move on, use your time for you. Yeah, now I'm
- 25:44Speaker 1: with you. I mean. The part that kind of was
- 25:46Speaker 1: sad in a sense is like they kind of put
- 25:49Speaker 1: Kelly into a corner where it felt like she had
- 25:50Speaker 1: no good explanation. Hey, you cheated and you took time
- 25:53Speaker 1: with Peter what she supposed to do say, sorry, hey cheated,
- 25:55Speaker 1: I'm gonna bow out. I'm not gonna go on this
- 25:57Speaker 1: plane ride like I don't need to because I no, like,
- 26:00Speaker 1: don't force her into being um the villain here. She
- 26:05Speaker 1: took time with the man that she's pursuing, and at
- 26:08Speaker 1: that we have to leave it there. And I think
- 26:10Speaker 1: that's where, you know, contestants, the show gets so sucked
- 26:12Speaker 1: up in the immediate and they don't look at the long,
- 26:16Speaker 1: long term and the long play here and The truth is, Hey,
- 26:20Speaker 1: they had just as good a shot with with Peter
- 26:23Speaker 1: Um as Kelly did. The next part I really want
- 26:26Speaker 1: to talk about, So Madison is one on one was terrific.
- 26:28Speaker 1: H Kelly's time with Peter seemed like a spark flu.
- 26:32Speaker 1: Hannah came into um at a limo and surprised us all.
- 26:37Speaker 1: Was there any other limo kind of entrances that shook
- 26:41Speaker 1: you before we end this breakdown with talking about what
- 26:44Speaker 1: happened with Hannah Brown backstage? There wasn't no one who
- 26:48Speaker 1: came out of the limo that I was like, Oh man,
- 26:51Speaker 1: she like she got him from the first impression. Was
- 26:56Speaker 1: there anyone for you? No? I agree. I thought I
- 26:59Speaker 1: thought were all high quality. I thought they were all
- 27:02Speaker 1: really good. I thought they were some funny ones. The
- 27:04Speaker 1: condoms kind of made me giggle. Um, there was like
- 27:08Speaker 1: I have one dry the girl, the Victoria. The Victoria
- 27:12Speaker 1: was like that took some like that took some guts.
- 27:15Speaker 1: It reminded me of like a Caitlin Bristow entrance. UM,
- 27:19Speaker 1: like there were some ones that stood out, But no,
- 27:21Speaker 1: I'm with you, there wasn't one that I go, that's it, Like,
- 27:23Speaker 1: That's why I think this season will be fun because
- 27:25Speaker 1: there isn't necessarily a front runner except for the girl
- 27:28Speaker 1: that we're gonna talk about next, and when Peter comes
- 27:30Speaker 1: on in a bit, we're gonna ask him about it
- 27:33Speaker 1: as well. Before we talk about Hannah Brown, let's take
- 27:35Speaker 1: a break, talk about our sponsors, and we'll get back
- 27:37Speaker 1: to break down Hannah Brown before Peter comes on. Okay,
- 27:49Speaker 1: actually I have to hear thoughts. Peter is on his way.
- 27:52Speaker 1: He'll be here in a few minutes. Um, Hannah Brown
- 27:54Speaker 1: is sitting backstage now with Peter. Um, we've talked about
- 27:58Speaker 1: is it an issue or not? Here really we can
- 28:00Speaker 1: summarize everything we've talked about in this. Do you think
- 28:03Speaker 1: Peter and Hannah Brown are together today? I think there's
- 28:06Speaker 1: a fifty fifty chance that they are. Holy count But wait,
- 28:10Speaker 1: what do you think? Yeah? Actually, uh, Jessica last night
- 28:15Speaker 1: Um texted me and she goes, I have a theory.
- 28:17Speaker 1: And she doesn't watch She hasn't watched the show until
- 28:20Speaker 1: we started dating, and so she's like a two year
- 28:23Speaker 1: well two and a half year or two and a
- 28:25Speaker 1: half two season vet now at this and she goes,
- 28:29Speaker 1: I have a theory that Hannah and Peter are together,
- 28:31Speaker 1: and I think kind of the people that haven't watched
- 28:34Speaker 1: it longest will be the ones that could tell us
- 28:36Speaker 1: the most accurate truth, so that because they're not biased,
- 28:39Speaker 1: and I think Jessica might be onto something. I really
- 28:42Speaker 1: think that Hannah Brown and Peter could be together, which, again,
- 28:45Speaker 1: as we talked about, not a bad thing, shocking though
- 28:49Speaker 1: for the world. What it's crazy is that we would
- 28:51Speaker 1: have one season Hannah's that didn't end with like a
- 28:56Speaker 1: normal outcome, that we would have another season Peters that
- 29:00Speaker 1: also didn't end with the normal outcome, but all could
- 29:03Speaker 1: have just been solved. Had Hannah picked Peter, it wouldn't
- 29:08Speaker 1: be half as much fun and Warner Brothers would have
- 29:10Speaker 1: made half as much money. They would have been so
- 29:13Speaker 1: much less of a time commitment on our part. Um Ashley,
- 29:17Speaker 1: to summarize this whole breakdown, what are some things that
- 29:20Speaker 1: you don't know that you're most looked like, some storylines
- 29:23Speaker 1: that you're most looking forward to going into the rest
- 29:25Speaker 1: of the season. Well, I do have a theory that
- 29:27Speaker 1: I want to express once Peter comes, but it also
- 29:32Speaker 1: has to do with him ending up with Hannah. I
- 29:34Speaker 1: think the mystery that they have given us to solve
- 29:38Speaker 1: is what is the news that Chris Harrison comes to
- 29:42Speaker 1: Peter with on that finale day? And I hope that
- 29:46Speaker 1: we get a clue every week. I wonder if it'll
- 29:49Speaker 1: just be like the fence Jump, where they're going to
- 29:52Speaker 1: tease a teez a tease it and we're not going
- 29:54Speaker 1: to get like a lot of context, or are we
- 29:58Speaker 1: going to get a clue each week to help solve it.
- 30:02Speaker 1: I think you're spot on. I think this season is
- 30:04Speaker 1: gonna be very intriguing. I think this season will be
- 30:06Speaker 1: unlike anything we've seen. I do imagine that it will
- 30:10Speaker 1: be twists and turns and untraditional until the very end.
- 30:14Speaker 1: And when Peter comes on, I want to break down
- 30:17Speaker 1: kind of his thought process on on being the Bachelor
- 30:21Speaker 1: and seeing not if we can get the ending out
- 30:24Speaker 1: of him as much of it is as he sits
- 30:27Speaker 1: here today, is he glad he did it? Hey, I'd
- 30:30Speaker 1: say a great night one for Peter. I'm excited to
- 30:33Speaker 1: bring him in the studio. He's on his way, he
- 30:36Speaker 1: just arrived, he's walking in right now. So as we
- 30:39Speaker 1: get him settled, let's take another break and come back
- 30:43Speaker 1: with the man himself, Pilot Pete New Year new decade,
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- 31:58Speaker 1: want to enjoy the show from your seat, It's going
- 32:01Speaker 1: to be a night to remember. This is a special
- 32:09Speaker 1: day f ash and as we mentioned earlier in the podcast,
- 32:11Speaker 1: one of our favorite episodes of the season is when
- 32:13Speaker 1: we bring the lead on to talk about Opening Night.
- 32:16Speaker 1: The rest of the season just picked their brains a
- 32:18Speaker 1: little bit, and today we're lucky enough to have the
- 32:22Speaker 1: man himself in Student, the man himself who brought the
- 32:25Speaker 1: highest ratings to any opening night in Bachelor history. Pilot
- 32:30Speaker 1: past so crazy. This show keeps getting bigger and bigger
- 32:36Speaker 1: does it's a beautiful show. Well, thank you for being here, Peter. Um.
- 32:39Speaker 1: We only have you for about a half an hour,
- 32:41Speaker 1: so I'm not going to like do pleasantries. I'm going
- 32:43Speaker 1: to get into the question. Okay, straight to the point,
- 32:49Speaker 1: and we'll talk about something that you've talked about a
- 32:51Speaker 1: lot of places over the past couple of days. A
- 32:54Speaker 1: spoiler free finale, so kind of up. Yeah. So my
- 33:00Speaker 1: only deduction when hearing that is that you haven't picked
- 33:03Speaker 1: anyone yet. That's uh yeah, that's a reasonable guess. Um.
- 33:08Speaker 1: I guess the main reason why I said that was
- 33:10Speaker 1: just the so that last week for me was was
- 33:13Speaker 1: just an insane week. It was definitely the hardest week
- 33:15Speaker 1: in my life, and um, I definitely couldn't have predicted
- 33:19Speaker 1: what ended up happening. There's just no way I could
- 33:21Speaker 1: have and that's kind of what made me say that. Um, Literally,
- 33:26Speaker 1: up until the very last second, that's happening, that which
- 33:29Speaker 1: we see when Chris Harrison comes to you with possibly
- 33:32Speaker 1: life changing news. Yeah, that's that's no bs Um. Literally
- 33:36Speaker 1: until the very last day, the last second, I'm going
- 33:38Speaker 1: through stuff. And again, it was the most beautiful experience
- 33:42Speaker 1: in my life, but the hardest, and that last week
- 33:43Speaker 1: was definitely the hardest, the entire thing. Now, we normally
- 33:46Speaker 1: don't utter the words reality seve, especially when they're Bachelor
- 33:49Speaker 1: producers in the room, but I like, he hasn't figured
- 33:53Speaker 1: it out. And when I was typing my Cosmo article yesterday,
- 33:58Speaker 1: I started like puting all these little puzzle pieces together,
- 34:02Speaker 1: and while I was writing, I was like, oh my god,
- 34:04Speaker 1: I think I just spoiled the season. Yeah, I'm gonna
- 34:07Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you my theory right now briefly, and
- 34:09Speaker 1: if you guys want more detail, you can go rent.
- 34:13Speaker 1: I don't even want you to respond to it. I
- 34:15Speaker 1: want to tell the audience what your face looks like
- 34:17Speaker 1: when I say the theory. Okay, I'm very exciting, and
- 34:19Speaker 1: I'm sorry you guys that there's no video attached to this,
- 34:22Speaker 1: so um, I realized that your finale, when you're supposed
- 34:27Speaker 1: to hand out your final rows, seemed to have coincided
- 34:32Speaker 1: with Hannah Brown's Dancing with Stars win. And my theory
- 34:38Speaker 1: is that Chris Harrison comes to you saying, we just
- 34:42Speaker 1: found out that Hannah won Dancing with the Stars and
- 34:45Speaker 1: that she felt like it was great, but you weren't
- 34:48Speaker 1: there to celebrate with her, so like she's still wanting
- 34:52Speaker 1: you back, like you're still a huge missing part of
- 34:54Speaker 1: her life. And Peter has a huge smile on his
- 34:57Speaker 1: face and he's laughing, and the mirror ball it wasn't
- 35:03Speaker 1: enough for her. And then, um, you find this out
- 35:07Speaker 1: and you were about to give out your final rows,
- 35:09Speaker 1: but then you realize that you couldn't give out that
- 35:12Speaker 1: rose yet until you dated Hannah in real life. So
- 35:14Speaker 1: right now or in the past month or so, you've
- 35:17Speaker 1: dated two girls in real life, and now on the
- 35:20Speaker 1: after the final rows, which there was no final rows,
- 35:24Speaker 1: you will decide who you're going to be with. This
- 35:26Speaker 1: is what I tell you. Well, I don't put this
- 35:34Speaker 1: podcast on the universe, we'll see it. I'm excited for
- 35:37Speaker 1: I want to fall along and um, I keep going
- 35:39Speaker 1: back to as well, like I kind of related to football.
- 35:41Speaker 1: If you know, you know the Super Bowl, you know
- 35:43Speaker 1: the outcome, it's a little bit different. One would you
- 35:45Speaker 1: watch the whole season the same way? Probably not. So
- 35:47Speaker 1: It's just it's just cool. I think it's a unique
- 35:49Speaker 1: thing and it's something fun if if no one figures
- 35:51Speaker 1: it out. And again, now I didn't go into it,
- 35:53Speaker 1: expect you all. I'm going to have this be unspoiled.
- 35:55Speaker 1: That was never again, You're gonna see I couldn't have
- 35:57Speaker 1: predicted what happened. Um P. I gotta ask you though,
- 36:00Speaker 1: because I'm trying to go back in my mind of
- 36:03Speaker 1: what it was like and I can't really remember. But
- 36:06Speaker 1: after last night, right, this story starts for you and
- 36:09Speaker 1: for the next you know, ten plus weeks, this will
- 36:11Speaker 1: be the story that people are watching and unfolding alongside
- 36:15Speaker 1: of your life. But this has already happened in your life.
- 36:17Speaker 1: This is a huge moment probably no matter how this
- 36:20Speaker 1: ends up, the biggest, one of the biggest, if not
- 36:23Speaker 1: the biggest moment in that you've ever had in your
- 36:26Speaker 1: story as a human. What is it like now sitting
- 36:28Speaker 1: here today, going all this has happened. There's been a
- 36:30Speaker 1: ton of tears a ton of emotion, a ton of love, whatever,
- 36:34Speaker 1: and I'm sitting here going I have this all kind
- 36:36Speaker 1: of like inside of me build up and I just
- 36:38Speaker 1: can't talk about it. Yeah, I mean, I mean, I'm
- 36:40Speaker 1: sure you know exactly what I'm feeling right now. It's
- 36:42Speaker 1: it was, It is the craziest feeling I you know,
- 36:46Speaker 1: I kind of had the hiatus from when we finished
- 36:48Speaker 1: filming and you know, you're processing everything, all the good,
- 36:51Speaker 1: all the bad, and it's a little bit of a lull.
- 36:55Speaker 1: And now after last night, I'm reliving it again. And
- 36:57Speaker 1: I knew, I mean, I remember from Hannah season and
- 36:59Speaker 1: the actually it was kind of crazy to do it,
- 37:01Speaker 1: have a little break and then relive it. And this
- 37:03Speaker 1: whole season obviously it's a lot bigger for me specifically.
- 37:06Speaker 1: And um, it's a beautiful season. It's a tough season,
- 37:09Speaker 1: and I know that it's gonna be there's me a
- 37:10Speaker 1: lot of highs, but I know it's gonna be a
- 37:12Speaker 1: lot of loads and I don't have to re experience
- 37:13Speaker 1: and um, yeah, it's a very unique, surreal experience. Well
- 37:17Speaker 1: it's a spoiler free ending. Supposedly, you did say on
- 37:21Speaker 1: your Instagram yesterday, where's the quote, I'm thankful for the
- 37:24Speaker 1: most amazing opportunity to find my girl. And he's smiling, guys,
- 37:29Speaker 1: and he's just lit up a little bit. Oh yeah, Okay,
- 37:32Speaker 1: so I'm gonna run with it a little bit. And
- 37:34Speaker 1: I'm thinking that even though, like you may have not
- 37:36Speaker 1: been able to make a final decision on that finale,
- 37:39Speaker 1: it still ended up being a happy ending for you. Yeah.
- 37:43Speaker 1: I I can say I'm happy, and I can say that,
- 37:47Speaker 1: but is it an ending. I don't know. I want
- 37:49Speaker 1: to say it's it's funny how everyone like reads into
- 37:51Speaker 1: every little word. And I'm not gonna lie because I'm
- 37:53Speaker 1: in this position. I don't know if you did this, Ben,
- 37:55Speaker 1: It's just maybe I'm kind of weird. Since i have
- 37:57Speaker 1: to be in secret about it, I'm kind of having
- 37:59Speaker 1: fune then maybe throwing people off, you're a little bit.
- 38:01Speaker 1: They're a little bit. They're the saying things that you know,
- 38:03Speaker 1: just to throw them off. Just have fun with it
- 38:04Speaker 1: because you know this, I'll never be in this kind
- 38:06Speaker 1: of situation ever again. So um, it's cool. Yeah, it's
- 38:10Speaker 1: this is a funny time because you have all this
- 38:13Speaker 1: that you know, you're one of a few people that
- 38:16Speaker 1: do know. Now you're doing press outlets. Everybody's trying to
- 38:18Speaker 1: get something out of you. They're treating you almost like
- 38:21Speaker 1: an object. They're just like drilling you questions, and you
- 38:27Speaker 1: do have fun with it. It is fine. I mean,
- 38:29Speaker 1: I guess until like one day you just snap and
- 38:33Speaker 1: you're like, this is ridiculous, Like can we not just
- 38:35Speaker 1: let this thing play out? Because I'm tired of like
- 38:37Speaker 1: always being on guard in public. I need buddy that
- 38:41Speaker 1: I talked. I know, I hate now like to go
- 38:43Speaker 1: to like you gotta tune in and find out. Like
- 38:44Speaker 1: I literally find myself saying that every single day to everyone.
- 38:47Speaker 1: And I mean, I know everyone's curious and they're excited,
- 38:49Speaker 1: and I appreciate that, but I know what you mean.
- 38:51Speaker 1: But I'm trying to have as so much fun with
- 38:53Speaker 1: it as I can. Before we talk about Hannah, I
- 38:56Speaker 1: have to say I've been thinking that you look like that,
- 39:00Speaker 1: Like I feel like you look like a lighter colored Ben.
- 39:02Speaker 1: I've heard that before, okay, and then like you guys
- 39:04Speaker 1: have similar voices, but now that I'm actually next to
- 39:07Speaker 1: you in person, I'm thinking that you are the actual
- 39:10Speaker 1: child of Ben Against and Nick File. It's actually weird.
- 39:15Speaker 1: It's so weird. It's so crazy because honestly, Ben, I
- 39:18Speaker 1: told you, I'm such a huge fan of Ben. I
- 39:19Speaker 1: remember his season, like that guy did it right, and
- 39:21Speaker 1: I just you know, I think she's the film all
- 39:23Speaker 1: the guys. You know, you certainly feel the most reminiscent
- 39:26Speaker 1: of Ben watching last night's episode than anyone we've seen
- 39:29Speaker 1: since little a little corny trying her hardest to be
- 39:33Speaker 1: like semi cool. It works right, Okay, Now for Handah questions,
- 39:40Speaker 1: you said that when Hannah came out of the limo
- 39:42Speaker 1: that you didn't want to stop looking at her, and like,
- 39:45Speaker 1: I feel like your heart probably sunk. It was that huge,
- 39:47Speaker 1: and I think you probably got a little excited that
- 39:49Speaker 1: she was there to join the house. Yeah. I so
- 39:53Speaker 1: when that when that door, that door first opened, At
- 39:55Speaker 1: first I didn't realize it was actually hurt. I just
- 39:57Speaker 1: saw this beautiful girl, and then as she kind of
- 39:58Speaker 1: stepped out, John dropped, I realized that's Hannah, and just
- 40:02Speaker 1: I mean all the motions just hit me at once,
- 40:04Speaker 1: obviously really excited, really nervous, just not knowing why she's there,
- 40:08Speaker 1: and a little bit of me definitely kind of I
- 40:10Speaker 1: really loved the gesture and her giving me back the wings,
- 40:12Speaker 1: but a little bit of me did. It was curious
- 40:14Speaker 1: if she was gonna like ask to come in, you know,
- 40:17Speaker 1: coming in the mansion. I'm not gonna lie in that
- 40:18Speaker 1: moment um. You know, she didn't, and she left, and
- 40:23Speaker 1: you guys saw what happened later on with that group
- 40:25Speaker 1: day in that conversation, and that was that was pretty
- 40:27Speaker 1: deep for sure. So that must have just thrown you off.
- 40:29Speaker 1: Like you're excited about meeting new women, but then you're
- 40:32Speaker 1: reminded of all the feelings that you have her hand,
- 40:34Speaker 1: and then when you walked into the room where you
- 40:36Speaker 1: just kind of like, I hope somebody here can compare
- 40:41Speaker 1: in my heart absolutely absolutely remember, Yeah, the first kind
- 40:44Speaker 1: of toasts I gate with all the women after all
- 40:46Speaker 1: the entrances, and I needed obviously address why she was there,
- 40:49Speaker 1: and I did, and all the women didn't. They were
- 40:50Speaker 1: really understanding, which was awesome because they could have gone
- 40:53Speaker 1: off on me, you know the first night, and um,
- 40:57Speaker 1: you know, they all knew how much you know, she
- 40:59Speaker 1: means to me. And I remember telling him like it
- 41:02Speaker 1: just it made me even more hopeful that this was
- 41:04Speaker 1: going to work because it kind of brought back some
- 41:05Speaker 1: feelings of what I was feeling with her on that season,
- 41:07Speaker 1: and I'm like, this is gonna work. I have all
- 41:09Speaker 1: the hope in the world. I'm going to find my
- 41:10Speaker 1: girl that she's in this room right now, And um,
- 41:13Speaker 1: I really just I really appreciated that gesture by Hannah.
- 41:16Speaker 1: So you were in on it though. A couple of
- 41:18Speaker 1: days later, when she was one of the like leaders
- 41:23Speaker 1: of the date, Um, what made you think, like, I'm
- 41:29Speaker 1: cool to have her make another appearance. Maybe it wasn't
- 41:32Speaker 1: the best best I remember the date card said, I
- 41:35Speaker 1: hope this isn't awkward. Was awkward, but I, um, it
- 41:40Speaker 1: was fun. We're everyone knows about our passes than secrets.
- 41:43Speaker 1: Were kind of owning it, and it was really supposed
- 41:46Speaker 1: to be like a fun date. It was gonna be
- 41:47Speaker 1: awkward for sure, and uncomfortable kind of getting the girls
- 41:49Speaker 1: out of the comfort zone and and me as well,
- 41:51Speaker 1: And um, what ended up happening like that? The date
- 41:54Speaker 1: just not happening. That wasn't planned. Obviously, we were supposed
- 41:57Speaker 1: to to go forward with it, and that conversation kind
- 41:58Speaker 1: of took over and we had to with it, and
- 42:00Speaker 1: it was a very honest conversation that for sure had
- 42:03Speaker 1: happened in that moment, and you know it is what
- 42:06Speaker 1: it is. I felt like when Hannah was up telling
- 42:09Speaker 1: her sex story on the stage, she was come across
- 42:12Speaker 1: a little bit of a little cocky. She was like
- 42:14Speaker 1: exerting some dominance. I think she was kind of like, ladies,
- 42:18Speaker 1: this is my man, this is what happened between us,
- 42:21Speaker 1: and you won't be able to compare. I think there
- 42:23Speaker 1: was a lot of jealousy coming out. Yeah, and I
- 42:26Speaker 1: get it. I totally get it, and part of me
- 42:28Speaker 1: felt bad about it, kind of putting the woman through that. Again,
- 42:31Speaker 1: I didn't know that was going to be the date.
- 42:33Speaker 1: So maybe if I did, maybe I would have, I
- 42:35Speaker 1: thought twice. But um, so you didn't know that was
- 42:38Speaker 1: gonna be the topic of the date. I had no
- 42:39Speaker 1: idea what the date was. All I knew that Hannah
- 42:41Speaker 1: was hosting it. I had no idea what we were doing.
- 42:43Speaker 1: And then yeah, I didn't tell the girls obviously that
- 42:45Speaker 1: Hannah was hosting it until I saw her. But that's
- 42:47Speaker 1: the only part that I knew. Let's talk about the
- 42:50Speaker 1: date in general. Um, just like sex stories, do you
- 42:52Speaker 1: feel like that's like something that's okay to do on
- 42:55Speaker 1: the first date with women, Like, it's a thing I
- 42:59Speaker 1: took my for is one on ones my parents about renewal.
- 43:01Speaker 1: So I was like, just like going out of the
- 43:03Speaker 1: gates fast. Um, you know again. Yeah, it obviously is
- 43:08Speaker 1: a theme of you know, our the last season with Hannah.
- 43:11Speaker 1: The last couple of seasons, sex has been a big thing.
- 43:13Speaker 1: It is, Um, I for one, listen, I people don't
- 43:16Speaker 1: believe it, but I am very usually private about my
- 43:19Speaker 1: intimate life. It's kind of gotten blown up. I understand.
- 43:21Speaker 1: I'm just owning it. Good thing is I'm comfortable talking
- 43:23Speaker 1: about it. And I know there was a big theme
- 43:25Speaker 1: of Hannah talking about women empowerment with sex and not
- 43:27Speaker 1: letting it, you know, be something that they can't talk
- 43:29Speaker 1: about or feel ashamed about it. So I think that
- 43:32Speaker 1: was the what she was trying to get through to them.
- 43:35Speaker 1: But do you mind if I go with a couple
- 43:36Speaker 1: more questions before I know I'm loving this. Man was
- 43:41Speaker 1: laughing over here. I like the comment that Pete just
- 43:42Speaker 1: made he typically private with his private life, and I
- 43:45Speaker 1: was like, there's no shot. I know nobody believes that,
- 43:48Speaker 1: but I swear it to you, and you can look.
- 43:50Speaker 1: I never said anything about the woman. I was never me. No,
- 43:53Speaker 1: you know you never did. Um, okay, So what I
- 43:56Speaker 1: did love was that Hannah was what we oh Hannah
- 44:00Speaker 1: to be. She didn't change at all when you saw
- 44:03Speaker 1: her backstage, and she was like not going to hold
- 44:06Speaker 1: back what she was thinking, what her heart was telling her.
- 44:10Speaker 1: And I think you were frustrated that she waited till
- 44:13Speaker 1: that moment to tell you about all these lingering feelings
- 44:17Speaker 1: and frustrations that she had. What were you thinking, I
- 44:20Speaker 1: need to I mean, we know what you were thinking.
- 44:21Speaker 1: You were thinking. You're asking me to be like third
- 44:24Speaker 1: place again. You've already like tried it with Jed and
- 44:27Speaker 1: that didn't work out. Then you already asked Tyler and
- 44:29Speaker 1: that didn't work out, and so now here you are
- 44:31Speaker 1: placing me third again. I don't know if like I was,
- 44:35Speaker 1: that was how the conversation started. It was more, you know,
- 44:38Speaker 1: I saw she was emotional and we went in and
- 44:40Speaker 1: we talked, and um, you know she I was just
- 44:44Speaker 1: trying to pick her mind because I had genuine questions
- 44:46Speaker 1: that I had wondered about for a long time, specifically
- 44:49Speaker 1: going back to Afar and if anything was ever going
- 44:51Speaker 1: to possibly happen with us and so it was kind
- 44:53Speaker 1: of more me asking her the question. I don't think
- 44:55Speaker 1: it was. It wasn't necessarily her like part of me, oh,
- 44:58Speaker 1: you're in my third place, And it wasn't like that. Um.
- 45:01Speaker 1: I just wanted to get some answers to stuff that
- 45:03Speaker 1: I want to get answers to and try to get
- 45:05Speaker 1: that closure. And in that moment, I remember kind of bad.
- 45:08Speaker 1: I'm like, is this appropriate to be talking to her
- 45:10Speaker 1: about this with? You know, I have the rest of
- 45:12Speaker 1: these girls outside waiting for me to come back for
- 45:14Speaker 1: this group date, and I just came to the realization Listen,
- 45:18Speaker 1: I it was so early on, and that it was
- 45:19Speaker 1: a couple of days from when I met them. I
- 45:21Speaker 1: didn't really have any real feelings or emotions with any
- 45:23Speaker 1: of those women yet I knew they were amazing, but
- 45:26Speaker 1: I had feelings for Hannah, and those all resurfaced, and
- 45:30Speaker 1: so I was treated myself and I told the girls
- 45:32Speaker 1: that from the very first night I would do that
- 45:33Speaker 1: the entire entire time, and I didn't. I couldn't have
- 45:36Speaker 1: predicted it like that coming off. But yeah, I don't
- 45:38Speaker 1: think it was ever handed trying to put me like
- 45:40Speaker 1: in a third place thing. It was more me kind
- 45:41Speaker 1: of questioning her. Do you think it was coming from
- 45:44Speaker 1: a place of jealousy fomo for her, or do you
- 45:48Speaker 1: think it was coming from like, oh, crap, I really
- 45:51Speaker 1: miss out on this opportunity and I I need to
- 45:54Speaker 1: get it off my chest. A mix with like her
- 45:59Speaker 1: explaining everything happened, like yeah, why she was coming back, now,
- 46:03Speaker 1: why she was telling you this? Now? Yeah, listen, we're
- 46:07Speaker 1: all human. We you know, if you want to call
- 46:10Speaker 1: mistakes or whatnot. I mean, we learned from him and
- 46:12Speaker 1: you go through these experiences, and no one's perfect. She
- 46:15Speaker 1: preached that from the very beginning of her season. I
- 46:18Speaker 1: remember the first thing, and that's one thing I took
- 46:19Speaker 1: with me kind of into my first speech to kind
- 46:21Speaker 1: of set the tone of my my season with the girls,
- 46:24Speaker 1: like we're not perfect, m raw and be vulnerable. And
- 46:27Speaker 1: she was displaying that again like she is always done
- 46:31Speaker 1: and something I love about her, and um, you know
- 46:34Speaker 1: again it was an honest talk that had happened. Those
- 46:36Speaker 1: were all real feelings. And you guys, I'll see what
- 46:39Speaker 1: happens next week. You talk about you know, I mean,
- 46:45Speaker 1: I've just been talking about how Hannah comes and tells
- 46:48Speaker 1: you this. Now, what if she had come and told
- 46:52Speaker 1: you that a couple of weeks prior, what would you
- 46:56Speaker 1: what would you have said? Would you have dropped out
- 46:59Speaker 1: of the Bachelor root? Ben's laughing. You're gonna think I'm
- 47:08Speaker 1: crazy for that when you hear what I'm about to say. Um, oh,
- 47:13Speaker 1: he would have? I told you? I told her that.
- 47:15Speaker 1: I'll be straight up, I don't have no reason I
- 47:17Speaker 1: had anything I told Hannah, and whether it's shown or
- 47:21Speaker 1: not in that moment that Ah, if if we would
- 47:28Speaker 1: have had that conversation earlier before obviously I decided to
- 47:31Speaker 1: do this, I probably wouldn't be the Bachelor. Wow. So
- 47:34Speaker 1: that must have frustrated her even more and probably made
- 47:38Speaker 1: her want to stay in that house even more. But
- 47:40Speaker 1: we know that she doesn't stay in the house because
- 47:42Speaker 1: she goes on twin Dancing with the Stars. Ben, do
- 47:45Speaker 1: you have any questions to go? I could keep going here.
- 47:47Speaker 1: I have so many questions, but any more questions about
- 47:50Speaker 1: Hannah because I'm like, I'm gonna dick I can. I
- 47:52Speaker 1: gotta dig that doesn't believe me that. Here's the thing.
- 47:57Speaker 1: Can of course, here's my honest feedback, And I could
- 48:02Speaker 1: be wrong you. I've heard um from the team at
- 48:07Speaker 1: the Bachelor that you are a tremendous fellow, um, and
- 48:10Speaker 1: I've got to talk to you quite a bit, and
- 48:12Speaker 1: I know that to be true. I think it would
- 48:14Speaker 1: be so hard to be prepping my life to become
- 48:17Speaker 1: the Bachelor, to be out there in public as the
- 48:20Speaker 1: next Bachelor, to know that a relationship just this is
- 48:24Speaker 1: me talking. I'm not you agree or disagree to know
- 48:26Speaker 1: that this relationship just ended. Somebody told me that they
- 48:29Speaker 1: didn't want to be with me, meaning you and Hannah.
- 48:31Speaker 1: They call you once you're already announced the Bachelor, and
- 48:33Speaker 1: you would say, yeah, you know what, I'm gonna quit
- 48:37Speaker 1: this thing with a whole new opportunity and tons of
- 48:40Speaker 1: new women to meet, to go back to somebody that's
- 48:43Speaker 1: just dumped me. I think that would be really hard
- 48:46Speaker 1: to process. Yeah, that's totally fair, and I'm not saying
- 48:51Speaker 1: it was the smart decision if I would have done that,
- 48:53Speaker 1: but I'm just I'm deciding to be a percent transparent
- 48:56Speaker 1: with you guys and honest, and that's speaking from my heart.
- 48:59Speaker 1: In that moment, I remember all that stuff and I
- 49:02Speaker 1: was processing then that's where my mind was that so here,
- 49:04Speaker 1: just to close this thought, it means a lot that
- 49:07Speaker 1: you say this, Pete, because the last night, as I'm watching,
- 49:10Speaker 1: to be honest, I'm watching and going, ah, this is
- 49:12Speaker 1: kind of just like in the moment, right, he's trying
- 49:14Speaker 1: not to hurt her feelings. Um, he's trying to fill
- 49:17Speaker 1: conversation with saying what if? What if? What if? And
- 49:20Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't I get it as a as
- 49:22Speaker 1: a man, or somebody doesn't love controversy or confrontation, Like
- 49:26Speaker 1: this would be what I would do, Like you ask
- 49:27Speaker 1: a bunch of questions and you say the what ifs
- 49:29Speaker 1: of everything until it ends and then you both move
- 49:31Speaker 1: onto your separate ways. But to know that I'm sitting
- 49:33Speaker 1: there last night and seeing you actually saying, hey, I
- 49:35Speaker 1: really care about you or I cared about you like
- 49:38Speaker 1: this is hard for me to see you sitting here crying.
- 49:41Speaker 1: It makes me go. While that moment was so much
- 49:43Speaker 1: more real than what I assumed. Oh I assumed it
- 49:45Speaker 1: was so real. Yeah, that was That was an extremely
- 49:50Speaker 1: real moment for me, and no one saw it coming.
- 49:52Speaker 1: I didnt see it coming, Um, but I was really
- 49:55Speaker 1: thankful that I did have the opportunity to have that
- 49:57Speaker 1: conversation with hand in that moment because we definitely needed that.
- 50:00Speaker 1: I could kind of tell it was so real because
- 50:02Speaker 1: I saw her like panicky with the producers and the
- 50:05Speaker 1: little bit that we got to see that fourth wall broken,
- 50:09Speaker 1: and I knew that like it. It was probably something
- 50:11Speaker 1: she was like, I don't want to do this, I
- 50:12Speaker 1: don't want to do this, but nless, she just couldn't
- 50:13Speaker 1: hold it back, and it was just like, I'm just
- 50:14Speaker 1: gonna be here and he's gonna find me and it's
- 50:16Speaker 1: gonna be really really awkward, but I have to get
- 50:18Speaker 1: this off my chest. Actually, I'm giving you one minute
- 50:21Speaker 1: in thirty seconds to continue to drill this poor fellow
- 50:23Speaker 1: before I started talking about because I have to. I
- 50:26Speaker 1: have two really big questions, Um, if you loved her
- 50:29Speaker 1: that much that you would have denied the bachelor role,
- 50:32Speaker 1: why didn't you reach out to her like she mentioned?
- 50:36Speaker 1: Because I I truly wanted it to be a very
- 50:39Speaker 1: authentic conversation when we met a far and when we
- 50:41Speaker 1: saw each other and being again complete eyes, I was
- 50:46Speaker 1: told not to, so I didn't. I was told not
- 50:48Speaker 1: to reach out, like to talk to them, and um,
- 50:51Speaker 1: talk to Hannah until until then, and you know I
- 50:53Speaker 1: was told you know by producer too, Like there's a reason,
- 50:55Speaker 1: like you want that to be authentic and that's a
- 50:57Speaker 1: big moment. So, uh, that's the reason I didn't do it.
- 51:00Speaker 1: She kept saying that it was going to be between
- 51:02Speaker 1: you and Jed, but then it wasn't. What in the
- 51:06Speaker 1: world that threw me off? Yeah, so what what? What
- 51:09Speaker 1: did you interpret that as? I if she said that,
- 51:12Speaker 1: I don't remember ever seeing that to me, that it
- 51:14Speaker 1: was me and Jed. I never ever recall that that
- 51:16Speaker 1: she kept picturing you and Jed, but then it just
- 51:19Speaker 1: wasn't that. Yeah, and she, I guess almost like kind
- 51:22Speaker 1: of swears that she did. Maybe she I don't know,
- 51:25Speaker 1: I don't remember that. Um, that didn't necessarily feel good.
- 51:27Speaker 1: I didn't like enjoy it. That didn't make me feel better.
- 51:29Speaker 1: I guess hearing that, But it's crazy. There's a mess.
- 51:33Speaker 1: It was uh real. And I would say, like, now
- 51:36Speaker 1: that you have said that you didn't reach out to
- 51:39Speaker 1: her because you weren't supposed to, which is true. Um,
- 51:43Speaker 1: I would say that it wasn't in her It was
- 51:45Speaker 1: her right to reach out to you, Like if she
- 51:49Speaker 1: wanted to go out with you, she should have reached
- 51:51Speaker 1: out to you because she was the one that dumped you,
- 51:54Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Absolutely, yeah, just like the
- 51:56Speaker 1: way that she asked Tyler out. Was your friendship with
- 52:00Speaker 1: Tyler in any way a reason that you didn't go
- 52:03Speaker 1: near Hannah after a f r uh? No, The main
- 52:07Speaker 1: reason was just that, I remember. So I saw her
- 52:09Speaker 1: that that the day that I was on the finale,
- 52:12Speaker 1: and then I went to New York that night and
- 52:13Speaker 1: I watched We had talked a little bit about possibly,
- 52:15Speaker 1: you know, catching up and meeting up again, and and
- 52:17Speaker 1: then she asked Tyler out the next night. And then
- 52:19Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I'm done because you had two
- 52:22Speaker 1: separate nights of a far last week. Yes, And so
- 52:24Speaker 1: once I saw that, then I just kind of gave
- 52:26Speaker 1: up on the on the hand, on pursuing hand, I
- 52:28Speaker 1: was like, Okay, well they're obviously going at it now,
- 52:30Speaker 1: so um giving it a shot. So that was kind
- 52:33Speaker 1: of it for me. And get it all right, Benjamin, Oh,
- 52:39Speaker 1: these are my favorite days. I'm telling you. Actually get
- 52:41Speaker 1: so excited. There's so much going through that that girl's
- 52:44Speaker 1: mind right now about this season, Peter. You just she's
- 52:47Speaker 1: going to sleep so much easier night because of you,
- 52:49Speaker 1: And I just have to say that I have to
- 52:51Speaker 1: ask Kelly questions when you're done, but you go first,
- 52:56Speaker 1: All right, Actual, I'll give you your time. But before
- 52:58Speaker 1: I do, uh, Peter, I want to sit down for
- 53:00Speaker 1: a second and just chat with you a little bit.
- 53:01Speaker 1: I want to tell you how, um, what I think
- 53:04Speaker 1: of you so far. UM. Like that matters to anybody,
- 53:07Speaker 1: but it does to our listeners. They listen because they
- 53:08Speaker 1: want to know what I think. UM. I've really enjoyed
- 53:11Speaker 1: getting to know you. UM. We've talked a few times.
- 53:15Speaker 1: Your mind going into this and kind of your attitude
- 53:17Speaker 1: going into this was something that I admired and was
- 53:20Speaker 1: learning from. And UM, I think what I saw last
- 53:24Speaker 1: night was that same guy that we you know, before
- 53:27Speaker 1: we talked and you started your season, the same guy
- 53:29Speaker 1: stood up there And I think that that for me
- 53:32Speaker 1: is refreshing, um, and it's exciting. So that's how I
- 53:36Speaker 1: want to start this. And then I also want to say,
- 53:39Speaker 1: uh that one of the things that I take, uh
- 53:42Speaker 1: that really breaks me is is when I when people
- 53:45Speaker 1: get off this season and I hear that they weren't
- 53:47Speaker 1: nice to the staff or to the team that works
- 53:50Speaker 1: on the show. Because there's you know, two d plus
- 53:52Speaker 1: people that this is their full time job, so they
- 53:55Speaker 1: feed their families and it every year we bring up,
- 53:58Speaker 1: um things that have happened during the show, and how
- 54:01Speaker 1: hard that must have been for the employees involved, the
- 54:02Speaker 1: people that that do this for a living. And I
- 54:05Speaker 1: heard nothing but amazing compliments about you and how you
- 54:08Speaker 1: treated people. Why why was that something that you made
- 54:11Speaker 1: um important in your experience and it wasn't just about
- 54:15Speaker 1: you that it was about the others. Yeah, I mean,
- 54:17Speaker 1: I mean, I think for me, it just it comes
- 54:18Speaker 1: down to just gratitude and I felt like the most
- 54:21Speaker 1: grateful person and are just the luckiest person in the
- 54:23Speaker 1: entire world. Um that everybody involved, and you guys know
- 54:26Speaker 1: the huge team that's involved with everything just that people
- 54:30Speaker 1: never see with all you know, prepping the next day
- 54:33Speaker 1: and the next week in advance and getting everything set up.
- 54:36Speaker 1: There's so much work that goes into it. And it's
- 54:38Speaker 1: literally all for me to hopefully find my person and
- 54:41Speaker 1: that just I I don't understand, like what I did
- 54:44Speaker 1: to be able to have this amazing opportunity and have
- 54:47Speaker 1: the time of my life doing and just the most
- 54:48Speaker 1: fun dates ever. Like it's freaking awesome, man, And how
- 54:51Speaker 1: could you not just be so thankful for everyone that
- 54:54Speaker 1: and I could tell it to you like I got.
- 54:55Speaker 1: I had an amazing relationship with a lot of people
- 54:57Speaker 1: you know, on on the crew, and it's just it
- 55:00Speaker 1: so great that they actually, like I could just see
- 55:01Speaker 1: how much they truly wanted me to find what I
- 55:04Speaker 1: was after and they were so invested. And I saw
- 55:06Speaker 1: that from night one until the very end. There were
- 55:08Speaker 1: so many tears and laughter and just it literally family,
- 55:11Speaker 1: and I just I'm so lucky. Where did that great
- 55:15Speaker 1: gratefulness lead you then? So? I mean obviously at night uh,
- 55:18Speaker 1: in the first episode, we saw you involve your family, um,
- 55:21Speaker 1: and it we saw you be really appreciate to the women.
- 55:24Speaker 1: We obviously now know behind the scenes you were great
- 55:26Speaker 1: to the staff. How did your gratefulness going into it,
- 55:29Speaker 1: and your consistent gratefulness throughout where? How did that guide
- 55:32Speaker 1: you and lead you? And what kind of things stood
- 55:34Speaker 1: out because you were so grateful? I think, Um, you know,
- 55:39Speaker 1: I like the entire journey. I I knew what I
- 55:43Speaker 1: wanted to happen in the end. And I'm a very
- 55:46Speaker 1: obviously optimistic, positive person. I don't think anyone there's no
- 55:49Speaker 1: doubt about that. Um. But something that I just always
- 55:52Speaker 1: focused on because there was a lot of tough times,
- 55:55Speaker 1: you know, being the badge, like in the same time
- 55:56Speaker 1: the hardest times in my life. But I know that
- 55:58Speaker 1: I always go back to it's impossible to feel two
- 56:01Speaker 1: things at once, and if you always have that feeling
- 56:04Speaker 1: of gratefulness and gratitude, you can't feeling negative feeling. And
- 56:06Speaker 1: through all those hard tough moments, or even when I
- 56:08Speaker 1: was like messing up and I felt horrible that I
- 56:11Speaker 1: was letting the girls down and I wasn't doing the
- 56:13Speaker 1: best job that maybe I could have done, I just
- 56:15Speaker 1: tried to bring in ground and center myself back to
- 56:18Speaker 1: just being grateful for this opportunity, not knowing I didn't
- 56:20Speaker 1: need to be perfect, and just grateful that they were
- 56:23Speaker 1: there and they were giving me a chance, and um
- 56:27Speaker 1: it literally just like that's how I lived my life,
- 56:29Speaker 1: and even beyond the batchelor like that just that's me,
- 56:32Speaker 1: and um, you know it's worked for me up to
- 56:34Speaker 1: this point and keep saying it broken record, but it's
- 56:37Speaker 1: grateful for this entire journey. I heard that when you've
- 56:40Speaker 1: got your Harry Potter's car, you know, you're like gushing
- 56:43Speaker 1: blood and you're apologizing to the crew for like delaying
- 56:47Speaker 1: the day because I wasn't feeling any pain at that point.
- 56:50Speaker 1: I had so many endorphins going like they adrenaline. Have
- 56:52Speaker 1: felt no pain, so I'm thinking, like, shoot, it's done,
- 56:55Speaker 1: Like it's over, Like it's I don't know if we're
- 56:56Speaker 1: going to continue this. I literally my sporehead was split
- 56:59Speaker 1: like this day like three. It was insane. It was
- 57:02Speaker 1: a murder scene. It was crazy, so much blood um.
- 57:05Speaker 1: But luckily, you know, we got to do the date
- 57:07Speaker 1: the next day, didn't flown it down the I remember
- 57:11Speaker 1: this moment for me, P and I want to see
- 57:14Speaker 1: if you had one like it, And again, don't I'm
- 57:16Speaker 1: not asking you to spoil anything. I don't. I don't
- 57:17Speaker 1: really care about that. I want to watch it along
- 57:19Speaker 1: with you. But now people know how my season kind
- 57:22Speaker 1: of went through. And then I had a really tough
- 57:24Speaker 1: decision at the end, and I was having really strong
- 57:26Speaker 1: feelings for two women, and I knew I was going
- 57:27Speaker 1: to have to break up with one of them. And
- 57:29Speaker 1: then I was also at this point a little peeved
- 57:31Speaker 1: at the whole experience because I was tired and we
- 57:35Speaker 1: had been traveling, and I knew this was leading up
- 57:37Speaker 1: to the probably the biggest moment in the life and
- 57:39Speaker 1: also one of the saddest moments of my life. And
- 57:41Speaker 1: I was just like being the victim. I had a
- 57:43Speaker 1: victim mentality. And I remember this moment. I was sitting
- 57:45Speaker 1: on the edge of my bed and I don't know
- 57:47Speaker 1: if you're a man of faith, but I was sitting
- 57:48Speaker 1: on the edge of my bed and I'm looking out
- 57:50Speaker 1: in Jamaica at the ocean um from this insane house.
- 57:55Speaker 1: And then I look out and there's this team to
- 57:57Speaker 1: the right of me in the in like the the
- 58:00Speaker 1: grass building the stage for what was going to be
- 58:04Speaker 1: the proposal. And then I looked to the left of
- 58:05Speaker 1: me and there was my team of Bachelor producers sitting
- 58:08Speaker 1: down below me, having food together. And I just started
- 58:12Speaker 1: praying this like overwhelming prayer of like I can't believe
- 58:16Speaker 1: I get to do this, Like I cannot believe that
- 58:19Speaker 1: this is my story, that for the rest of my life,
- 58:21Speaker 1: this will be a piece of what I talk about,
- 58:23Speaker 1: and that I get to stand here in this moment
- 58:26Speaker 1: as a dude who was not even a year ago
- 58:29Speaker 1: working in an office and today like people care about
- 58:32Speaker 1: me in ways that I've never felt before and I
- 58:34Speaker 1: just started praying this like prayer and it changed my
- 58:37Speaker 1: perspective from that moment on until today on what I
- 58:40Speaker 1: viewed this thing is. It's beautiful. As you had that moment,
- 58:45Speaker 1: I mean I had that from the very first night.
- 58:47Speaker 1: I have a very similar moment. I remember standing there
- 58:50Speaker 1: outside with the first limo coming up and you look
- 58:52Speaker 1: to the left and we can't see, you know, from
- 58:53Speaker 1: behind the scenes, but all the crew there and all
- 58:55Speaker 1: the cameras and everyone just there for me to get
- 58:59Speaker 1: this going, and just throughout the entire entire journey, like
- 59:03Speaker 1: every day, I mean up to the very end, and
- 59:05Speaker 1: you know, I don't want to give away like the end,
- 59:07Speaker 1: but like there's you know, obviously some big moments there
- 59:09Speaker 1: and a lot of work is put into it um
- 59:12Speaker 1: for me and how life changing that is and how
- 59:15Speaker 1: beautiful a moment, and I'll never forget it. And uh,
- 59:19Speaker 1: I know what you mean. Man, It's like it's just
- 59:20Speaker 1: it's crazy, it's very surreal, and it's just knowing that
- 59:25Speaker 1: there's so many people that truly are invested in you
- 59:28Speaker 1: and care about you finding what you're after. It's I
- 59:31Speaker 1: get as I when I'm on airplanes and I'm saying
- 59:33Speaker 1: by the passengers and they come up to me like
- 59:34Speaker 1: we hope you find what you're looking for and just
- 59:36Speaker 1: like like just so supportive, like that means so much
- 59:38Speaker 1: and people don't really realize how much that means to me,
- 59:41Speaker 1: and um, it's this is the support has been unreal.
- 59:44Speaker 1: I know we don't have a lot of time left
- 59:45Speaker 1: with you, Pete. I just want to go through a
- 59:47Speaker 1: few things with you and get some get some info
- 59:50Speaker 1: from it. Uh, A couple of things fears before the
- 59:55Speaker 1: show um started and now fears now as you walk
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: to this world as the Bachelor. The biggest one for
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: going into it was was for sure just somehow having
- 1:00:09Speaker 1: someone in some type of way kind of fool me
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: and have me just fault for them, um, you know,
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: without possibly letting me see the full the full side
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: of them or um some type of issue in that regard,
- 1:00:26Speaker 1: because I knew I was, and I asked all the
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: women that that first night, I said, you know, please
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: show me the respect that I'm going to show everyone
- 1:00:31Speaker 1: of you. And you know, I know I'm not naive.
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: I get what this amazing franchise and opportunity can do
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: for you outside of this, but please, because I'm taking
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: this so seriously. Please show me the respect back of
- 1:00:43Speaker 1: you know, only being here as much as you can
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: just to see if there's something with me, and if
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: it's not, like please please don't stay. And that was
- 1:00:51Speaker 1: the biggest fear that maybe they wouldn't take me seriously
- 1:00:53Speaker 1: in that regard. Um after the show, now, um, you
- 1:00:59Speaker 1: know it's tough. This is weird now being in this
- 1:01:02Speaker 1: situation of you know, you got the secret that you're
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: keeping and no one really knows it, and um, I
- 1:01:11Speaker 1: don't know, maybe maybe I like I put too much
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: pressure on myself. I remember going and I was asked,
- 1:01:16Speaker 1: you know, you have Colton with the fence and and
- 1:01:18Speaker 1: and Han out with the windmill and all this stuff,
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: and what do you want to be remembered for? And
- 1:01:21Speaker 1: I remember, like, I don't want to be remember for
- 1:01:23Speaker 1: any of that stuff. I just wanted to truly get
- 1:01:25Speaker 1: because I love this show so much and what it
- 1:01:26Speaker 1: stands where I wanted to give everyone that opportunity to
- 1:01:28Speaker 1: follow a love story and kind of live like curiously
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: through it. And I guess my biggest series, you know,
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: lighting people down in some way, I don't know, Well
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: that's what Everybody wants from the show is just a
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: really good love story at the end of it, and
- 1:01:41Speaker 1: I hope you got it. But did you also hook
- 1:01:44Speaker 1: up with Kelly before the show? I promise you. I didn't,
- 1:01:50Speaker 1: and I was very I didn't even get her phone number.
- 1:01:53Speaker 1: I was like, listening, kiss no kiss you guys, how
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: to dance you? How too? We had a great time.
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: We met. We met in the lobby. We went in,
- 1:02:01Speaker 1: we got because I was leaving, I'm like, we want
- 1:02:02Speaker 1: to get a drink, So we went to get a
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: drink and then we went out. We went back. It
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: was it was a close so when we did some
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: dancing outside, her friends had like a boom box. We
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: started dancing. We did a little swing dancing that was
- 1:02:11Speaker 1: really fun. And then the night was over. We're gonna
- 1:02:14Speaker 1: head out and my friends are going to Denny's. Remember,
- 1:02:15Speaker 1: and um, I was like, all right, well, I guess
- 1:02:18Speaker 1: you know, we'll see what happens. I didn't get her number.
- 1:02:20Speaker 1: I was like, if it's meant to be, it'll be
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: serendipity exactly. I remember. I just like, and that was
- 1:02:25Speaker 1: the smartest move you've ever made existed? I did. It
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: was hard because like there was a connection that I'm
- 1:02:32Speaker 1: not gonna lie. It's palpable. We can feel it. And yeah,
- 1:02:35Speaker 1: I remember watching her. She left, then she turned, I
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: gave her hug, she walked away with her friend in
- 1:02:38Speaker 1: the elevator. I was like, that could have been the
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: last time I ever saw that girl. Something amazing could
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: have happened with that girl if I would have pursued it. There,
- 1:02:44Speaker 1: we'll see what happens. Oh my god, that's amazing. Yeah,
- 1:02:46Speaker 1: I know she has a target on our back right now,
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: but I really like her. And my last fun question
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: is when that What was the last time you flew
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: a plane commercially? Um, like a week and half ago. Wait,
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: Bill Bachelor is actually out there still flying plans? Hell yeah, money. Actually,
- 1:03:04Speaker 1: I know this job. That is awesome. I went back
- 1:03:08Speaker 1: to work like like a week after we finished film
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: and but that's like my happy place. People have to
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: understanding I love what I do, and I know it's obvious,
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: but I really do. That's so cool. All right, Well,
- 1:03:17Speaker 1: thank you so much. I have one really interesting thing,
- 1:03:21Speaker 1: and you just talk through with you before we let
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: you go. It's gonna take two minutes, so I know
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: your producers over there are probably going, we gotta go,
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: we gotta go. Well, so night one, you you kissed.
- 1:03:32Speaker 1: I mean, i'd say a lot of people, here's what
- 1:03:36Speaker 1: happened during my season. Chris sol did the same thing.
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: So I went to the night one in the big
- 1:03:39Speaker 1: contint fracy that I wanted that everybody asked me going
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: in The Bachelor from all the networks was how many
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: girls are you gonna kiss on night one? So I
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: went into it going, I'm gonna be really cautious of this,
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: like super cautious to not kiss anybody on night one.
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: You did the opposite. But here's the thing, and we've
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: talked about on this show before about you and I
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: think you're good dude, I think you you respect people. Well,
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: I don't think any of those things. I'm not saying
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: that here. But if like, for whatever reason it is,
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: you can make out and have sex in a wind
- 1:04:11Speaker 1: mill and everybody goes, oh sweet Peter, I like, I
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: don't know, man, I honestly, I guess because I never
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: brought it up. I don't know she did it. Yeah,
- 1:04:25Speaker 1: so she kind of set me up. But that was
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: still going, oh sweet, Peter, I'm going this dude, I'm
- 1:04:33Speaker 1: a passionate man. No, but it's funny. I actually I
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: remember going to the first night I promised you I
- 1:04:37Speaker 1: was gonna I had that same approach and then it
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: was and I loved it. Savannah was very bold. She
- 1:04:41Speaker 1: came up with with the blindfold and got it going
- 1:04:44Speaker 1: and kind of like broke the ice there, and I
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: was like, all right, let's go. How do you feel
- 1:04:47Speaker 1: about that? You were okay with that? I was, Yeah,
- 1:04:51Speaker 1: I thought it was bold. It was cool as different
- 1:04:52Speaker 1: and um, and then when I was dealing with anyone
- 1:04:55Speaker 1: else at night, like that's why I wasn't afraid to
- 1:04:57Speaker 1: go and for a kiss. Yeah, you're like, hey, somebody
- 1:04:59Speaker 1: already started me actually before we let you loose again,
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: because I know. Yeah. Hey, uh, Peter, great job all
- 1:05:07Speaker 1: Night one. Congratulations on finishing the season. Uh, we'll be
- 1:05:11Speaker 1: excited to watch along with you again. The ratings were
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: as big as ever, and a lot of that becomes
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: because people are rooting for you, and here at the
- 1:05:17Speaker 1: almost from his podcast, we're rooting for you as well.
- 1:05:19Speaker 1: Don't let this be the last time, though you come
- 1:05:22Speaker 1: on and chat with us. I would love to have
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: to have you back. You're so you're such a fun interview. Okay,
- 1:05:31Speaker 1: Pilot Pete just walked out the door. Hey, we are
- 1:05:35Speaker 1: now hooked. This season will be unlike any other, so
- 1:05:38Speaker 1: make sure you come to San Francisco and here even
- 1:05:42Speaker 1: more of our thoughts to hang out with us to
- 1:05:45Speaker 1: enjoy an evening. We'll be in San Francisco January eleven.
- 1:05:49Speaker 1: Doors open at seven pm. To get start at thirty
- 1:05:52Speaker 1: five dollars. To get tickets, go to APE Concerts dot
- 1:05:56Speaker 1: com and ticketmaster dot com. It's mysel fin Ashley I Connetti, Yes, Ashley,
- 1:06:02Speaker 1: I canntti with special guests and performances, doing a lie
- 1:06:07Speaker 1: almost famous podcast from the Palace of Fine Arts in
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: San Francisco, California, January eleven, and we hope to see
- 1:06:15Speaker 1: you there. Can I just say that I am even
- 1:06:17Speaker 1: more excited for the season after we've talked to Peter,
- 1:06:20Speaker 1: gotten to know him and his sweetness even more, and
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: some of the answers that he gave make me even
- 1:06:28Speaker 1: more curious about how this Hannah thing is going to
- 1:06:30Speaker 1: turn out. I would say it is going to be
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: something interesting, and I agree. Talking to Peter makes me go, hey,
- 1:06:36Speaker 1: I'm rooting for the guy. I'm rooting for these women.
- 1:06:38Speaker 1: I think they're great. Um, but it's one of those
- 1:06:40Speaker 1: seasons that I feel like it might be the first
- 1:06:42Speaker 1: time in a long time we've had moments for me.
- 1:06:46Speaker 1: At the end of this on a proposal, I maybe
- 1:06:48Speaker 1: tear eyed. I don't know it could happen, who knows,
- 1:06:52Speaker 1: But anyways, Ashley, I know that we'll have a great
- 1:06:55Speaker 1: time in San Francisco. With that, I've been been, I've
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