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She means it this time....Abby is FINALLY deleting Hinge. Again! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is Magic 94.9.
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  Speaker 2: And welcome to a new episode of Scotty and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 2: If you haven't yet, we got a YouTube channel now.
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  Speaker 1: The YouTubes, you can check it out in our episode
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  Speaker 1: description if you... Want to stare at us, which is weird.
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  Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing. We do put a little bit
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  Speaker 2: of effort into how we look. Like, not a lot.
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  Speaker 2: I can't speak for you, but, like, I do a
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  Speaker 2: little bit of effort in the morning.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I've gotten a little bit of... I've got some
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  Speaker 1: DMs where people are like, you just look so different
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  Speaker 1: than you did in Atlanta. I'm like, that's because I
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  Speaker 1: would literally go straight from my bed to the Burt
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  Speaker 1: Show Studios.
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  Speaker 2: Would you really?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I kind of do the same thing here,
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  Speaker 1: except I.
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  Speaker 2: wash my face. Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: And I try to have my hair styled a little
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  Speaker 1: bit just because there's so much more focus on me.
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  Speaker 1: Like with the birth show, I was like, okay, it's
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  Speaker 1: going to cut to me like every two seconds and
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  Speaker 1: you're going to see me for like 15 seconds. And
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  Speaker 1: so it's like, who gives a crap how I look?
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  Speaker 1: And now I'm like, Oh God, like there's only two
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  Speaker 1: of us.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. It's gotta be on somebody.
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  Speaker 1: And you're constantly like a busted. So I'm like, one
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  Speaker 1: of us has to carry the face team.
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  Speaker 2: It is funny how my routine in the morning has
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  Speaker 2: changed because I've done it like once so far since
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  Speaker 2: growing out my hair. Where it's like I wake up
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  Speaker 2: and I can just throw in a hat and I
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  Speaker 2: come in. Yeah. It just doesn't feel right.
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  Speaker 1: You can't do it anymore.
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  Speaker 2: I can't do it anymore.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to hell, Scotty.
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  Speaker 2: It's a whole process now. The hair dryer, I got
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  Speaker 2: the diffuser thing that you put on and you gotta
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  Speaker 2: like throw it through your hair. I have noticed though,
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  Speaker 2: my head's so much bigger now with this hair. It
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  Speaker 2: definitely is. Like you can't tell me you don't look
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  Speaker 2: at me and think, hey boy, I got a big
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  Speaker 2: old head.
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  Speaker 1: You do just look so different. And it's funny seeing people,
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  Speaker 1: because we were at the Lightning Game last night and-
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  Speaker 1: I don't know who came up to you. Was it
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  Speaker 1: Ethan's wife? Yeah. So you look so different because yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, six months ago you had like the fifth
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  Speaker 1: grader hair. You had the Stuart little kid hair. Could've
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  Speaker 1: gotten you some, some lenses and you would look like
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  Speaker 1: a little Stuart little kid.
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  Speaker 2: It is wild. Cause I was joking with them, but
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  Speaker 2: I really meant it. I was like, yeah, no, I
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  Speaker 2: still look at the mirror and I'm like, huh?
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  Speaker 1: Who is that? Who is that?
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  Speaker 2: Who's behind me? No, it's me. And I was just
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  Speaker 2: in the bathroom right now. And I was like, God, I,
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  Speaker 2: This is not to say like it's not a compliment.
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  Speaker 2: It's just like the hairstyle. I'm like, I look like
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  Speaker 2: Prince Charming from Shrek. Like that's what my hair looks
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  Speaker 2: like right now for me.
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  Speaker 1: Kind of like squint, like close your right eye, close
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  Speaker 1: your left eye. And then you plug both ears.
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  Speaker 2: It's honestly ridiculous because I do put on hats now
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  Speaker 2: and I'm like, I got to expand it. Because my
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  Speaker 2: head's gotten so much bigger.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Because when my hair's cut, it's short. Like, my head's small. I've,
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  Speaker 2: because of genetics, I don't know. My dad has a
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  Speaker 2: small head. I got a small head. My brother was
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  Speaker 2: gifted with a big old head. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like we gotta, so I feel like you'll
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  Speaker 1: look less Prince Charming-y if you style it more, like
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  Speaker 1: you have bangs. So for those who aren't watching the
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  Speaker 1: video right now, you have your hair is doing what
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  Speaker 1: my hair does.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: To where you get the McDonald's arches on your scalp
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  Speaker 1: to where it looks like one big M.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Whereas I feel like it'll look more natural on
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  Speaker 1: your head if it's more of like a bang, like
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  Speaker 1: a swoosh.
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  Speaker 2: Like a swoosh.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Like push it down for a second.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 1: All the way.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. This is going to look horrible then.
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  Speaker 1: Did you just get it cut? No. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: I've been trying to do a little more hairspray in it.
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  Speaker 1: Don't do that.
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  Speaker 2: Now I look like a little pony.
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  Speaker 1: It looks worse.
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  Speaker 2: I am playing around with it, but I need to
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  Speaker 2: have somebody that actually could do it properly.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Because sometimes I slick it all the way back, and
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if that's what I'm looking for.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: But my AI photo, chat said, when I throw it back,
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  Speaker 2: I like that look the most. That's why I started
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  Speaker 2: growing it back. Okay. Because there's some layers. But I
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  Speaker 2: think maybe that's what I need.
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  Speaker 1: We're getting there.
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  Speaker 2: We're getting there. It's piece by piece. But now I
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  Speaker 2: actually don't hate it.
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  Speaker 1: Now I'm like... Okay, cool. Do you like yourself with
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  Speaker 1: this hair butter? Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Or do you miss the ease of- No, no, I
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  Speaker 2: don't miss the ease of it. I like the hair better.
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  Speaker 1: Uh-huh.
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  Speaker 2: Like, for 80% of the time, I like this more.
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  Speaker 1: We need to free the men of the high and
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  Speaker 1: tight haircut. I don't know why everyone looks like they're
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  Speaker 1: about to get drafted for World War III.
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  Speaker 2: We're ready for it.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, give us the hockey flow.
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  Speaker 2: Did you notice, though, where were we? It was probably
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  Speaker 2: Saturday at the Lightning game where a lot of guys
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  Speaker 2: have a lot of hair now. Like, I've noticed that
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  Speaker 2: a lot more. Like, even yesterday at the game- You know,
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  Speaker 2: the guy that was there with us. Well, not a
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  Speaker 2: sales dude. He had short hair. But a couple of
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  Speaker 2: the other guys had some flow. They were growing it out, too.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, cool.
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  Speaker 1: One of them, yeah, had the long hair flow. The others,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't really... pay much attention to.
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  Speaker 2: Well, they had good hair.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they were sitting there. OK, so the people I'm
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  Speaker 1: referring to, they literally. So we were in the suite
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  Speaker 1: last night. We were in the Cox Media Group suite
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  Speaker 1: and there were some people that were mingling with us.
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  Speaker 1: So I know who one of the guys you're talking about.
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  Speaker 1: He talked to us. He was literally sitting in front
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  Speaker 1: of us the whole time. But there were two guys
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  Speaker 1: that when we showed up, they just walked in and
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  Speaker 1: just sat front row. And we were like, are they
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  Speaker 1: supposed to be here? Because it was some clients and
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  Speaker 1: we don't know the clients because we don't really work
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  Speaker 1: with a lot of advertisers. And so they just like
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  Speaker 1: walked in and I was like, they just really just,
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  Speaker 1: we didn't really even question them. They're just like here
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  Speaker 1: and we just kind of went with it.
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  Speaker 2: It is kind of funny because you could technically just
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  Speaker 2: walk into those suites and I'm not, I mean, I'm
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  Speaker 2: sure people check.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: But like, it's not like you need a card access.
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  Speaker 2: You just open the door.
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  Speaker 1: Well, cause a lot of these times it's, it's, it's
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  Speaker 1: the exact scenario that we were in where your company
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  Speaker 1: gets a suite. You don't know who's coming in. You
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  Speaker 1: don't know a lot of the people that are there.
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  Speaker 1: So you're mingling and bumping elbows with clients and, So
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  Speaker 1: you could probably walk into somebody's suite, like a company suite,
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  Speaker 1: and just, I don't know, I mean, you could get
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  Speaker 1: some free pizza at the very least. Not that it's
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  Speaker 1: mind-blowing pizza, but.
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  Speaker 2: I will say, though, like, I mean, you're kind of
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  Speaker 2: picking on me. I was diving into those wings. They
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  Speaker 2: were so good. Yeah. It was like fall off the bone.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, gosh, damn, like, this is insane.
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  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 2: That's why I couldn't stop. I was like, okay, well,
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  Speaker 2: if there's ever going to be a time to dive
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  Speaker 2: into some food... I'm gonna do it.
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  Speaker 1: When it's free considering how good their concession food is
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  Speaker 1: and by good I mean like it's just solid concession
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  Speaker 1: food and the mark which is the club level food
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  Speaker 1: buffet I was surprised at the lack of bougie nests
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  Speaker 1: of the Sweet food.
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  Speaker 2: That's actually a good point because sometimes it's like a
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  Speaker 2: whole spread where it's like this I was pizza wings
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  Speaker 2: little burgers Yeah, all good, but it's not like I
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  Speaker 2: don't know maybe some sweets have different things where it's
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  Speaker 2: like with.
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  Speaker 1: The broke-ass sweet and The sliders were good.
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  Speaker 2: The sliders were very good. The bread was good. I actually,
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  Speaker 2: I love the little chips.
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  Speaker 1: The chips were good.
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  Speaker 2: They felt freshly fried.
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: And it was so good.
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  Speaker 1: They were giving potato.
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  Speaker 2: Did you like the cookies?
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  Speaker 1: The cookies were solid. Nothing mind-blowing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, just enough. It's nice that it's free. I
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  Speaker 2: wonder how much it is, like, if you were just
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  Speaker 2: to say, let's say, like, okay, because I'm about to
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  Speaker 2: go to Key West for my birthday. If instead of
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  Speaker 2: that trip, what would it have cost to, like, go
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  Speaker 2: and have a sweet at the lightning game?
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to guess $ 5, 000 to $ 10, 000.
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  Speaker 2: You think so?
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  Speaker 1: Let me ask ChatGPT.
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  Speaker 2: That's a good question because.
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  Speaker 1: Because it was also a Monday night game. Yeah. Against
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  Speaker 1: the Flyers. You know what I mean? Against the Florida
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  Speaker 1: Panthers on a Thursday or a Saturday.
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  Speaker 2: Different story.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe $ 15, 000. Let me ask.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 1: How much do suites cost at Benchmark International Arena?
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  Speaker 2: I'm just curious as you're sitting there because you're like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: the food's free, the drinks are free.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, can we afford this? I was like,
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  Speaker 1: why don't you just give me a raise?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 1: No. Imagine what you could get out of me for
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  Speaker 1: an extra 10K. Wow. What does it say? So executive
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  Speaker 1: suites include 22 tickets.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so that's like what we were in yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: So that puts the starting total at about $ 6, 000. And
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  Speaker 1: I guess Chachapiti is just making an educated guess. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So $ 6, 000. On the resale private rental market, you'll see
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  Speaker 1: more variation. Current estimates put Lightning Suites around $ 3, 000 to $ 6, 000,
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  Speaker 1: with another suite marketplace estimating around $ 4, 000 to $ 7, 000. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: that's surprisingly economical.
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  Speaker 2: That's reasonable.
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  Speaker 1: For a business, I mean, or like a rich person
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  Speaker 1: that lives on Bayshore. So for planning purposes, I'd budget $ 6, 000
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  Speaker 1: for a 22-person suite or roughly $ 300 a person. So, okay,
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  Speaker 1: there's 42 home games. Now multiply that by 42.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my God. The price that they're getting for it?
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  Speaker 1: What is 42 times? I wonder if there's, like, a
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  Speaker 1: buy one, get one free deal. Like, you buy 40 games,
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  Speaker 1: you get two free.
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  Speaker 2: I would hope so. Maybe some kind of deal.
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  Speaker 1: Let's just do 5,000. I feel like that's a good,
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  Speaker 1: even number.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't know if I'd want to do it
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  Speaker 2: for a game. I don't know. Because, like, a game,
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  Speaker 2: it's kind of what we talked about yesterday. Like, anywhere
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  Speaker 2: you go, you get a good view of the game. But, like,
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  Speaker 2: a concert, that actually might be worth it. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so if you were going to do a whole season...
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  Speaker 1: Of home games. So it's 42 games, which I'm pretty
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  Speaker 1: sure is correct. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Times six.
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  Speaker 1: Two hundred and ten thousand dollars. That's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: That's crazy. But if you've got a business that's rocking. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And you're like tax write off, I guess. Maybe. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It is funny how we do kind of take for
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  Speaker 1: granted going to as many lightning games as we want to,
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  Speaker 1: because I mean, that's pretty expensive.
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  Speaker 2: I mean.
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  Speaker 1: Those mark tickets are, what, $ 300 to $ 400? Mm-hmm. And
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  Speaker 1: they have 42 games. So what are we getting?
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  Speaker 2: Well, we also are, like, again, like, that's when we
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  Speaker 2: talk about these things. We're partners with the Lightning, like,
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  Speaker 2: our radio station here, so it helps. But that's, honestly,
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  Speaker 2: I was having kind of a mental, not a mental
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  Speaker 2: breakdown yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 2: But as I was, like.
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  Speaker 1: Let's unpack this.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no. Because we were getting ready for
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  Speaker 2: the Lightning game, and I forgot that we were asked
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  Speaker 2: to do that last week. And I was, like, okay.
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  Speaker 2: And we talked about it on Monday, and I was, like,
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  Speaker 2: All right, right now in this very moment, I'm overwhelmed
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  Speaker 2: with my schedule today. And I got to make my
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  Speaker 2: way out there. And I was sitting on my couch
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, Brick, I don't, truthfully, I didn't
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  Speaker 2: want to go. Because I was like, I got to
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  Speaker 2: drive all the way to Tampa, which is like 40 minutes.
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  Speaker 2: Then I got to find parking. I don't even know
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  Speaker 2: if I have to pay for parking. It's going to
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  Speaker 2: be a late night. I'm going to be tired. And
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  Speaker 2: my whole thought process was, am I going to ruin relations?
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  Speaker 2: Am I looking too greedy if I text Mike and say,
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to pass on this game.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, that's why I keep posting because I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I want as many perks as possible. I always want
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  Speaker 1: the ticket to the suite. I always want the ticket
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  Speaker 1: to the mark.
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  Speaker 2: And that's why I felt bad because I was like,
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  Speaker 2: who am I? I begged for these tickets. And then
• 9:51
  Speaker 2: the one time it's like a no brainer.
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  Speaker 1: And then you didn't even show up to do social.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I still did social when I got there.
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  Speaker 1: Did you?
• 9:58
  Speaker 2: Yes, I did.
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  Speaker 1: What did you post? Name one thing you posted. Name
• 10:00
  Speaker 1: five brothers.
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  Speaker 2: Look at my story.
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: Oh, you posted on your story?
• 10:03
  Speaker 2: I'll post other things throughout. I actually have this post
• 10:05
  Speaker 2: that I'm going to create based off of like, I
• 10:07
  Speaker 2: didn't need therapy.
• 10:08
  Speaker 1: I just needed hockey.
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  Speaker 2: It's going to be a bunch of clips of the lightning. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: that's cute. I found that on the template.
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  Speaker 1: There you go.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't want to make that last night because it
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  Speaker 2: was late. But once I got there, it was that
• 10:17
  Speaker 2: thought of, dang, like, I don't want to take this
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  Speaker 2: for granted. Like, what a cool opportunity that, you know,
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  Speaker 2: before I even honestly, a few years ago, I was
• 10:26
  Speaker 2: never going to lightning games, never had that access, never
• 10:29
  Speaker 2: was given tickets. So to now have it, I don't
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  Speaker 2: want to take it for granted. So when the opportunity
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  Speaker 2: comes and I was super happy and I round this
• 10:35
  Speaker 2: out by saying once I got there, I was so
• 10:38
  Speaker 2: happy I was there.
• 10:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: It was just that, you know, sometimes your brain gets
• 10:42
  Speaker 2: a little anxious. I was like, well, if there's traffic. Okay,
• 10:44
  Speaker 2: that's going to be an hour. And then what if
• 10:46
  Speaker 2: I get there and I don't have parking? I got
• 10:48
  Speaker 2: to spend another $ 40 on parking. Money's already tight. My
• 10:51
  Speaker 2: car's broken down.
• 10:52
  Speaker 1: You can park on DI. Like, you can just park
• 10:54
  Speaker 1: in front of my house.
• 10:55
  Speaker 2: You know, here's the thing, Abby. You are a trooper
• 10:58
  Speaker 2: for making that walk because it is close.
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: I like that walk. That's a very enjoyable walk. For
• 11:02
  Speaker 1: those of you who are not familiar with Tampa, I
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: live in an area called Davis Islands. And getting off
• 11:07
  Speaker 1: Davis Islands sucks because it's just, I don't know, it's
• 11:10
  Speaker 1: just a lot of gross architecture. And then once you
• 11:12
  Speaker 1: get off Davis Island, you're on Bayshore. And Bayshore is
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  Speaker 1: this really beautiful scenic walk with all the expensive houses.
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  Speaker 1: You can see the skyline. As you're walking towards Benchmark
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  Speaker 1: International Arena, it has all the gold bull. It's just
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  Speaker 1: like very, gets you very amped up. It's like a
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  Speaker 1: beautiful scenic walk.
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  Speaker 2: I love the walk. My only problem is right now
• 11:29
  Speaker 2: it's still a little too moist for me outside. Yeah,
• 11:32
  Speaker 2: it's too hot. Your boy sweats. So if I walk
• 11:34
  Speaker 2: with you from DI, I will sweat. Be sweating my
• 11:38
  Speaker 2: ass off.
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: You will, because I was sweaty. Thank God I got
• 11:40
  Speaker 1: a blowout right before. Yeah. Because otherwise you'd be like, ooh.
• 11:42
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I have to clean up in the bathroom
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  Speaker 2: a little bit. So I don't want to take those
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  Speaker 2: games for granted. I'm very grateful that we have those opportunities.
• 11:50
  Speaker 2: And it was awesome being there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's a $ 12, 000 value. If you went to
• 11:53
  Speaker 1: every single home game.
• 11:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Which we're not going to get that access.
• 11:57
  Speaker 2: It's going to start off hot. We'll probably dip down.
• 11:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know about you. Mike O, because I have
• 12:00
  Speaker 1: good relations with Mike O, our promotions guy. I have good.
• 12:03
  Speaker 2: He hired me.
• 12:04
  Speaker 1: I'm good.
• 12:05
  Speaker 2: Okay. I have a post going up today. Thank you
• 12:07
  Speaker 2: very much. We do. Okay. Now that we've spent some
• 12:10
  Speaker 2: time catching up, we have a lot of stuff to
• 12:11
  Speaker 2: talk about.
• 12:12
  Speaker 1: What do we need to talk about?
• 12:13
  Speaker 2: The fact that you literally nearly went to the hospital. Oh, yeah.
• 12:16
  Speaker 2: Because you mangled your hand.
• 12:17
  Speaker 1: Dear God, y'all. I was having a very peaceful Sunday.
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: I was recovering from a... from a, I don't want to,
• 12:23
  Speaker 1: I wasn't really even not hung over on Sunday, but
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: you know, when you just feel gross after drinking, I
• 12:26
  Speaker 1: was in one of those moods on Sunday where I
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: just didn't want to leave the house. I was just
• 12:29
  Speaker 1: kind of bopping around. But the one thing I was
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: looking forward to all day was I'm going to put
• 12:33
  Speaker 1: on my matching set and then I'm going to go
• 12:35
  Speaker 1: to solid core. And so as I'm sitting in my
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: house on a very lonely Sunday, Because there's no worse
• 12:41
  Speaker 1: day to be single than a Sunday. Being single on
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: a Sunday sucks.
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: That's an interesting thought.
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: You're hungover. You're by yourself. You don't want to hang
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: out with friends, typically. That's how I feel on Sundays.
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't want to see anybody. It feels
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: so gross. And so I was like, you know what?
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: I'm going to feel so much better after I get
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: my workout in. I'm going to go to Solid Core.
• 12:59
  Speaker 1: And right before, I was like, you know what? I
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: went on a walk and I got some sourdough from
• 13:04
  Speaker 1: the local sourdough lady. And I thought, I'm just going
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: to have a little sweet treat. Just a little tiny bite.
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: A little sweet treat. My big back was calling. It said, Abby,
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: remember the sourdough that's in the fridge? Oh. I remember
• 13:16
  Speaker 1: the sourdough that's in there. Anyway, so I go and
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: I get the sourdough out of the fridge. And I
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: grab just a random knife from my knifery. And then
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: I was like maladaptive daydreaming about something like my head
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: wasn't screwed on right. And then all of a sudden
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: it just slipped because the bread's kind of like a
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: big cinnamon roll. So it's not very like even if
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: that makes sense, which I'm assuming is why it doesn't
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: come pre-sliced. That's the other thing. Can we talk about
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: my social media from the last weekend? Because I'm scared.
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: I have ended up on incel straight man TikTok.
• 13:49
  Speaker 2: Have you?
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: The hell did you get there for?
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: I think it was the thunder bug. Video where I
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: was like making a joke that I was gonna shave for.
• 13:57
  Speaker 2: The mascot I'm gonna shave my entire body.
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: I have now ended up on their feeds because it's
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: just all these men in my comments making like rage
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: bait jokes like well Have you thought about getting sliced bread?
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: I'm like okay, Jared Some of us get artisanal sourdough
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: from the local sourdoughest.
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: Some of us know how to cut bread.
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: And yeah and some of us have serrated knives and
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: To be able to cut your artisanal bread. Some of
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: us aren't getting the Sara Lee from your local Kroger.
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: This isn't buy one, get one. I'm going into debt.
• 14:30
  Speaker 2: This is fresh-ish.
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: Over somebody's sourdough starter.
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: This is homemade, bees.
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: Anyway, so I slice my finger. Ironically, my left ring finger,
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: which is just really just- Very symbolic. I know. And
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: then it's twisting the knife. For lack of a better term.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: And I just start gushing blood. Like when I tell
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: you gushing, mama was gushing blood all over my cinnamon toast,
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: all over me, all over the floor. And. It was
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: a pretty clean cut. Like, I was really nervous to
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: look down because I was like, oh, my God.
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Like, what if your tip of your fingers like that's.
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: What I was thinking. I was like, and I posted
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: on social media because, you know, I'm I'm dedicated to
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: my craft. I'm like, what would a content creator do
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: in this moment in time? Post online about what I'm
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: going through. But genuinely, I I started gushing blood. And
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: once I started getting it under control and it stopped burning.
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: I was like, let me document this because I genuinely
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: actually don't know what to do. Like, is this cut
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: bad enough that I need to go to the ER?
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: Can I still go to solid core if I put
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: enough bandages on it? I don't want to get that
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: $ 20 late fee. And I post on social media being like,
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: you know, this is kind of poetic just in this
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: phase of life where I've been very open about the
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: fact that this has been the hardest age for me
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: to be single. Just with where my life's going, being 29,
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: I think, in general is really hard because you feel
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: like you're in 30 purgatory. Like, I'm so envious that
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: you're about to get out of thurgatory. Thurgatory? Thurgatory, where
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: you don't have to worry about being 30 anymore. You
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: just turned 30.
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: I would be 30. Like, it's happening.
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: Granted, you're a man. Your life's only going to get
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: better from here. But I feel like I'm in thurgatory,
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: where I... This is like the year leading up to
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: 30 and everything's going to be like, oh my God,
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: what am I doing with my life? And then I'm
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: going to turn 30 and be like, it's fine.
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, everything's actually fine at that age.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: So for me, I'm in purgatory with my singleness where
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: I'm like, my life flipped upside down and what am
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: I doing with my life? And I just want to
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: find somebody. And then as I'm like spiraling about that
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: and like, you know, trying to cope with it, I
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: slice my ring finger and then start gushing blood everywhere.
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: And of course, I'm by myself with my two cats
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: who are walking around in the blood.
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: Your cats are ready to eat you at that point.
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: They're like, if she goes down. And first bite. Yeah.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: And I'm sitting there and I'm like the only I
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: just kind of had like a little teeny teeny teeny
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: teeny teeny tiny crash out. Nothing crazy. Just kind of
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: like it more of an exasperation than crash out. Just
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: kind of like, oh, my God, here I am. A
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: poor single woman of twenty nine, a spinster of twenty
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: nine cutting my finger. gushing my own blood all over
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: my kitchen and i have to be here to tell
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: myself it's going to be okay i have to clean
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: up my own blood if i have to go to
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: the er i have to take myself to the hospital
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: and just in that moment i was like you know
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: what i just wish there was some man that i
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: have minor resentment for but i've stuck out the relationship
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: with because we care for each other and i've already
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: met each other's friends and families i just wish there
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: was a man here which is words you'll never hear me.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: Say ever Mm-hmm. That's the one time.
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: I just wish I had somebody. Like, I wish I
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: had that companionship. And I just had a moment where
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: I got online and talked about it. And then my comments, oh,
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: my God, the men in my comment section just make
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: me want to, like, slit my wrist.
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: I didn't even see those comments.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just guys being like, uh, women are cooked.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: This is just called being an adult. And I'm like, understandable,
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: but also, like, shut the fuck up.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, also, like, here's the thing. Like, that's what sucks
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: about social. It's like, you could share your, like, raw emotion. Like,
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: here's exactly what I'm thinking. I'm just being honest.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: Like.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: If I don't say these things, I'm lying to myself,
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: and then people online are like, Get over it.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: You suck. You're being vulnerable. It's like what the one
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: time I'm being authentic on how I feel that a
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: lot of people are feeling that same way. Yes.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: And that's why I posted it, because I thought that
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: is so poetic. And I know there are so many
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: other women that feel that we're like something. Something happens
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: to you. And you thought at this point in time
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: you would have somebody to do life with. And it's
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: just you. It's just you fucking you. Which is, again,
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: I get it.
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: But you're allowed to be upset about it.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: But you're allowed to be like, fuck, it would be
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: so much easier if there was someone here to like,
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: like if you get sick or whatever, it's just me.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: It's just me. When I was sick all last week,
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: it was just me.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: He's got to take care of you.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: When I sliced my finger, it was me with one hand.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: I'm like on just with the one thumb I have
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: on my phone trying to find the local urgent care.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're like, what?
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: Driving myself. My finger is hanging off and I'm driving
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: myself with my bleeding hand. to the channel side, TGH, um,
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: Tampa general hospital, the definition of an independent woman.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: I was just having a moment. And what's so funny
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: is I show up to urgent care the next day.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: Cause the other reason I decided to post online was
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: I knew there would probably be somebody who followed me who.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: Would know what to do.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: And I was like, this is the community I know
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: I can lean on right now. I have a lot
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: of friends spread out across the world. The one person
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: I can rely on right now is my following. And
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: so there were people in my DMS having me send
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: photos and they were giving me advice. And I had a,
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: One girl I went to college with that was like, okay,
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: it looks kind of fine, but I don't know that
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: it's going to heal correctly if you don't get stitches.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: So she was like, if I were you, I would
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: go to the ER. And so I'm sitting there going, literally,
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: this is so funny. I'm just sitting there. I'm like,
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: that's a lot of work. I'm actively bleeding out. I'm like,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: that's a lot. And also I'm thinking, how much is
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: that going to cost? Like to go to the ER
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: and then I'm going to be stuck there all night
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: and I'm going to be tired. Am I going to
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: let the lightning in the next day? I don't want
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: to do. So I was like, you know what? I
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: think if I put enough pressure on it, I'll probably
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: be fine to go to urgent care the next day.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: i go to urgent care the next day and this
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: is how my mind works because i'm thinking my mind
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: likes to finish stories in my head of course like
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: i'm definitely like a big i'm a storyteller in my
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: head like things will happen and i like to finish
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: the ending in my head if that makes sense like
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: if something bad happens to me i think well, what's
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: a magical way this could turn around?
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: That's a good way to think of it.
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: And I was in the urgent care, and I had
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: my hand sprawled out, again, my left ring finger, and
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: the nurse kind of looked it over, and she's like,
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: you're fine. I'm like, that's not what the internet told
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: me yesterday, but whatever. She goes, okay, I'm going to
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: go get the doctor. His name is Andrew. He'll be
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: in here soon. And the way my mind works is, oh,
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: my God, this would be the cutest me cute of
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: all time. Like, he comes in. It's my ring finger.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: He's got to, like, patch up.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: He's like holding it.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: He's hot. He's like, he's a cute new, I don't know,
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: PA or whoever works there. And he mends me up
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: and he goes, wow, you're really beautiful when you're not
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: actively bleeding on your kitchen floor.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: He's like, you want me to check on you a
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: couple days later? Would you like to get married? Everything's okay.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: Can I take care of your ring finger for the
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: rest of our lives? And of course that didn't happen.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: It was just.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Some man.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Some man probably married.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: And he was just looking at my finger. He's like, yeah,
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: you're good. I'm like, so why did I come here?
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: Now I got to pay $ 80 for you to just go.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: You're fine. So.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Well, it looks good, though.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: I got a tetanus shot.
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah. You know, maybe you're about to get tetanus. It's
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: preventing you from that. I guess the hindsight, at least
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: he didn't cut it off. Can you imagine having like
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: a little nub right there?
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I can't even tell you. Like, that's the only way
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: this year could get worse.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: If you actually cut off your finger?
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: Yes, I would be so upset. I feel like that
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: would just be like the universe going, girl, give it up.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: Delete hinge.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: Well, delete hinge, yes.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: Can we talk about fuck-ass smiley guy?
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Because this situation just... I'm just waiting for it
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: to get better.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: Did I not tell you? I know.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: I told you something was going to happen. And I
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: kind of feel like it's because I went viral this weekend.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: Here is a real thought. We were talking about this
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: over the weekend.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: It's like....
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: Is it because we talk about it so much? Do
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: you think?
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: Sometimes I underestimate how many people listen to this.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: The thing is, is guys will actively seek you out.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: And I've had this conversation on The Burt Show before
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: where I'm like, I feel like guys ask me out
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: and then they get cold feet because they're like, oh,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: she talks about things. And to be fair, I did
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: talk about this guy a lot.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: You do.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: But I just didn't realize the podcast is popular, but
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: it's not that popular. It's not in my bio. Like,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: where would he find it? Do you know what I mean?
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: And also, I don't know why, like, nothing that has
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: been said so far would have made me go, I'm out.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: You don't think so? You don't think the pure fact that, okay,
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: hang on. Let me back up for any new listeners.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: I recently got back on the dating apps and I matched,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: I actually liked this guy. I thought he looked cute
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: and normal. And the only thing I didn't like about
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: him was he kept using this, what I've been calling
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: the fuck ass smiley face. Yeah, yeah. Where he uses
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: the colon and the parentheses. But he's not even. Old school.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: He's not even doing it the right way. He's doing parentheses, colon.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: And it's colon, parentheses. Everybody knows this.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: That's how we grew up in the 2000s, texting on
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: our little flip phones.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: Yes. So I'm like, what are you, a psychopath?
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: What is it? And why all the time? Like, one
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: time's kind of cute. Like, all right, can't wait for
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: a date.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: One time, okay. Two times, whatever.
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: Every time?
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: Every time? Come on now.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: Kind of crazy.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: So anyway, I match with this guy. We go back
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: and forth. He immediately asked me out because he noticed
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: the Raze picture.
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that we all agreed was like the best photo.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: Yes. And he was like, are you a big Rays gal?
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: And I said, I'm a big sports gal. He goes,
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: we should go to a playoff game. And I was like, well, damn,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: I would like to go to a playoff game. Maybe
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: he was at the playoff game last night and that's
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: why he doesn't want to go out tonight. Anyway. That's
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: a lot of what ifs. Anyway. I matched with this
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: guy and I basically am just like, ask me out. Like,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: but he said, oh, we should do a playoff game.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: And I said, we should meet for drinks before and
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: just make sure we don't hate each other. Cause baseball,
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: baseball be long. Heck yeah.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: And what do you guys sit down and you're like, oh,
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: there's nothing here. We're going to sit there the whole game.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: No, I can't do that. Absolutely not.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: So, um, I basically said, when are you free? I
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: can do Thursday or maybe on Saturday or Sunday, which they,
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: if he'd taken me out on Sunday, I would have
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: never sliced my hand.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: This man is the reason.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: This man is the reason.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: The urgent care visit.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: So I match, yeah, I tell him my availability because
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: I'm like, let's just do it immediately because I have
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: found like it's just too awkward if you wait too
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: long because you're just sitting in each other's messages. Do
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: you talk? Do you not talk? What do you talk about?
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: And basically he said he couldn't do anything until Tuesday.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: And I was like, But I just knew, like, somebody's
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: going to, that's too much time.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: It is too much time.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I got to get you in person immediately. So I said, yeah,
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: I can probably do a Bev. And then I said,
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: let's do it. So the next morning he goes, so
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: this is, we made those plans Thursday. It's now Friday.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: Friday morning at 5.30 a.m.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: Gosh dang, he was excited.
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: Ready to meet you. Good morning. And then I said, morning,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: I'll see you Tuesday. Just let me know where and when.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: Because I'm like.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: Dude. Yeah, like, we don't need to go back and forth. Like,
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: let's just lock in the plans.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: I appreciate the gesture.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Of course. I'm like that, too. Like, I'm a very
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: enthusiastic texter. Like, let's go. Yep.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: I'm like, thank you. Appreciate it. Where are we going?
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: And then he said, okay, I'll start thinking. That was Friday.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: So I go, okay, he's going to think, and then
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: he's going to tell me where he wants to go.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: Correct.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: That's logic. So when I don't hear from him all weekend,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: yesterday I go, have you thought about it yet? And
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: he has not responded.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: My God, as it's supposed to be tonight.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: It's supposed to be tonight. So I'm going to unmatch him.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: Well, no, you got to ride it out for the
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: rest of the day. He might pop in there.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: However... No, because I want to make a point. I
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: want to make a point.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: But then you don't get to make the point.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: I guess it's not already... Now it's very, very against...
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: This would be so weird to be like the dates
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: tonight here like that's rude.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: To you I'm not going out with him tonight. If
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: he wants to go out tomorrow. I'll go out with
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: him tomorrow Yeah, and that's it I'll go out with
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: him Wednesday. I got plans Thursday Yeah, I would say
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I mean, I.
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: Don't know I guess it's like if you want it's just.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: I just kind of want to make a point and
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: be like dude You don't get access to my photos now.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you're doing with those photos I
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: know they're on Instagram, but I don't want you to
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: think I want you to see those photos.
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. Like, I don't want you to think you
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: still have a chance because you literally like made me wait.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: Like you don't do that to somebody. Yeah.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: Cause either here's what happened. One of two things. He
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: either found my social media and was like, Ooh, I
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: don't know how I feel about this girl being all
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: up in the social media space. Which then, you know,
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: you're not for me anyway.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: Correct.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: Because I don't want to feel like you're embarrassed about
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: what I do because there's a part of me that's
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: embarrassed about what I do.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: We can't have two people embarrassed.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, two of us can't hate me. I need somebody
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: to love me.
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: Oh my God.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: Or you met somebody else, which is I think probably
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: what happened. Like you found some other bitch.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: I mean, maybe. And I mean, maybe it is that
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: he saw you online. He's like, OK, I can't handle that.
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: I'm not man enough to handle that.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: And that's probably it.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: That's what it is. He's just not man enough to
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: handle it.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: That's I literally look at it like I remember having
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: these conversations like me and Brianda. It's like one of
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: the things that we agreed on. It's like we support
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: each other in that, especially the online space because of
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: what we both do. Like you need somebody that's going
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: to do that. If you get intimidated that I post
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: and things go viral and I have opinions. shoot let's
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: just save ourselves the time and the money yes let's
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: not even do that that's just.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: Not something I want to feel I don't want to
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: feel because when you put yourself out online there is
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: just an element of cringe until it's not cringe.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: Oh my god every single time and if.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: You've ever wondered oh how does Abby feel so confident
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: to post that or do you know do what she
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: does I cringe every time I post because I'm like
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: why am I posting this does anyone care is anyone
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: gonna watch this um and I don't want you to
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: to be cringed out with me I want you to
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: be like, yeah, like post it. Like what's the worst
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: that could happen?
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. Like supporting that because that's literally what you do.
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: You are a creator and you will continue to create.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: And so the person that comes along and we're assuming
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: maybe it's not that, but it is annoying. Like you said,
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: you're thinking you left me hanging on a thread and
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: now you haven't even got back to me. Yeah. Goodbye.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: I just think guys have too many options when they're
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: on the dating apps. I just got to get off
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: because I think because I saw him and I was like, oh,
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: he looks normal.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: But what would you do differently? Like, let's say like, OK,
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: forget the dating apps. We just like all together. Just
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: live life.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I think I just rather would meet
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: somebody in person.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: I think so too.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: And I just think that's how I'm going to meet
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: my person. I think it just sucks not being on
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: the apps because it reminds me of just how big
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: the void is of not having anyone romantically. And sometimes
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: just the dating apps reminds me that I'm still like
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: someone that can experience romance.
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like you could have daily conversations at least.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels like I'm doing something. But at the
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: end of the day, I think I just need to
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: get off of it. And you know what? I'm getting
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: a lot of traction online that I'm kind of hoping
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: if I just look hot enough online... Some man will
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: slide into my DMs.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: Somebody will pop up. Somebody was going to get up
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: in there. But also, like, I don't know. They got
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: run clubs every night. Just popping out in person. Daily conversations.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: But it is. I guess I could understand the dating
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: apps would make you feel like, OK, there's a little
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: bit of validation there. Like, OK, I'm still relevant here. Like,
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: it's not like it's not really me.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not not trying.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: Correct. Like, I'm doing my part. But if that's going
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: to continuously be the case, it's kind of, you know,
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: I was thinking about this with certain followers I have on.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: Every time I see them, I feel worse. Like there's
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: certain people that I follow and I compare this to
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: like every time you're on a dating app and this happens,
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: feel worse. Like it just doesn't help the situation.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Okay. Give me an example for you. Not for me.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: Because when they're like, this is your most compatible, and
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: it's Igor, Igor the Sasquatch Man.
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: Like, we have to know when to walk away from
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: a certain environment, when it's just not serving us for
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: the benefit. Like, the positives maybe are 30%, but the
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: negatives are 70%. So I'm like, all right, there's certain
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: male influencers in this Tampa Bay area I catch the
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: way I feel when I see them and one of
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: us all yesterday like literally just running in Tampa I
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: was like oh.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: Like you don't feel like you're doing as good as
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: them yeah.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah like I started like comparing myself negatively and I
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: was like why am I putting myself through that.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: Wait move your mic I want to know who it
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: is oh my okay so bitch do not compare yourself.
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: Here's why though here's what I just I felt I Okay,
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: let me try that.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, let's unpack this. So I'm not going to reveal
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: who it is, obviously. Yeah, yeah, no.
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: I don't think I actually have a problem with this person.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: I think him and I would be fine.
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: Are you envious of him?
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: I think there's a smidge of me that was envious yesterday.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: And I thought, here's how my thought process went. I
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: was like, if I feel that when I see them online...
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: Why am I putting myself through that of seeing them online?
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: I have the power of just clicking unfollow. Like, they're
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: not bringing me any benefit. You know what I'm saying?
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: Okay, I'm going to describe this person in vague terms.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: Just so people kind of have context for when we
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: just start getting into this. Because I have some questions
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: for you. So this is a younger male influencer who
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: he's ripped. He's very social. He's very active in the
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: Tampa community. Yeah. Um, any other vague words you would
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: use to describe him that you think other people, he's
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: just like, he's a male, he's a hot male influencer.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: He's younger than us. Um, and he's probably a full
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: time influencer.
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: I think so.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: He's just one of those hot young people doing Friday
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: stares every, every week.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: That group has gone out of control. But yeah, I
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: think it was like a little bit of envy. I
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: was like, damn, like I, I, he's getting access to
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: all these things. I don't know. I was just taking
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: it out negatively on me in that moment.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: Access, and just give me a vague example. You don't
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: have to be like, give me specifics, but like access
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: to a restaurant opening, a movie premiere.
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: Like building their name and it's just like a big
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: way of being invited out to influencer events or even
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: let's just say access to travel or, again, your brain
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: makes up things. Like, I don't know. Maybe he's making
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: a lot more just by being an influencer. And I
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: was like, I don't know. It just doesn't seem genuine.
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: It doesn't seem genuine. It seems kind of douchebaggy. And
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: so I got mad. I was like, why do these
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: bad people win?
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: He's like a, he's a hot 25 year old. I
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: actually don't know what his age is. He's probably a douchebag.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah. But I think that was the envy.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: I was like, damn. So, okay.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: I say that all to say back to the apps
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: of like, if I noticed there's like 70% I'm feeling,
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: you know, worse about my dating situation than it is.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: It's like you say before, it's time to get off
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: it for a little bit and like decompress where it's like,
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: for me, I'm like, maybe I need to do some
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: inner work yeah and just unfollow because they haven't brought
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: any benefit sometimes you follow these people and you're like
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: maybe I'll feel inspired or I'll have a good connection
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: and then I'm like wait a second I've actually never
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: had those thoughts anytime I've seen them so okay.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: So I I understand that because there are certain female
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: influencers that I had to unfollow because I was just
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: kind of feeling like every time I saw them I
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: go yes it's funny that you bring that up. Cause
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: I feel like some of the content I post, I
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: almost go out of my way to not look too attractive.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: If that makes sense.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: Interesting. Yes.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: Um, like there are certain times where I'm like, God,
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: I feel like I do need to be pretty to post.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: Cause like I looked really good this weekend and I
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: saw how my views jumped and I was like, damn,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: maybe there's something, maybe there's something to this. But I,
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: I would hate for anybody to see my content and
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: feel that way. And sometimes you can't control that. Like,
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: you can't control how someone's going to respond to you
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: posting an OOTD or whatever. But there are certain influencers
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: that I literally, I'm like enraged by seeing them just
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: because they do a lot of like body checking content
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: and body checking content is triggering to me for some reason.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: Cause it just feels so narcissistic. Like, Ooh, look at
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: my body. And there's nothing wrong. Listen, I've worked hard
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: for my abs. I like to show them off in
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: certain outfits, but I feel like when I'm showing them off,
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: it's like, here's me in my outfit. When girls body check,
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's like, here's my body. And they're
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: constantly contorting themselves in weird ways. I'm like, girl, what
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: the fuck are you doing?
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: It just feels like, I don't know. There's something about it.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: Like the energy of it is weird.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: I know. And that's how I feel. But some people
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: I follow online, we're like, some people I follow because
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: it's like, okay, I'm inspired by them. And maybe I'm
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: inspired by their body or the things that they're doing
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: out in the community. And then there's a second handful
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: of people that I'm like, I actually don't feel that
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: way anytime I see you.
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: Who are you inspired by?
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: I can't think of anybody off the top of my
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: head right now.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: Like for inspired by, let me think of like.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: You love Bobby bones. Okay.
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I love Bobby bones. Like I love inspired by
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: people just in general, which.
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: Is so funny to me. I was telling our radio
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: consultant cause he brought up cause y'all have the mutual
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: connection of Bobby bones. I was like, Of all the
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: people I thought you would be inspired by, he is
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: the last person on the list. Not because he's not inspiring,
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: but you guys are so different. Really? You guys have
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: two completely different approaches to radio.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, okay. I think what I always was inspired
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: by was the openness to just be completely yourself, share
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: your story, let people judge if they're going to judge,
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: and just live your life the way you're going to
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: live it. But also be daring. I always loved the story.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: I love a story, and this is what I try
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: to show people on my social media, speaking of, where
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: it's like, I don't ever want somebody to think that
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: it was just handed over. that's a weird fear of mine.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: Like even as I'm training for this 100 miler.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: You don't want a nepo career.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like I don't want people to think like in
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: April when I run this 100 miler, oh, he could
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: just do it because that's just how he's always been.
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: I could never do that. That's just something left for
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: other people. No, no, no, no, no. We're going to
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: go through every step. It's going to be very hard.
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: I have no idea. I have always liked his career
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: because I watched it grow where I was like, damn,
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: he just believed and he kept doing it even when
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: it didn't work, kept pushing forward and making it happen. Inspiring.
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: Very inspiring for the people that earn every step along
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: the way to where they are.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: See, I want my career handed to me.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: I'm not above sleeping to the sound. I'm just kidding.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: It's actually completely the opposite of my philosophy.
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: Literally what you've done. It's like, all right, I've worked
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: my ass off to get here. And every day still trying.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: I've done so much bullshit to get here.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: You know what? That's what I think it is. Okay,
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: wait a second. As we uncover it, there's certain people
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: that I'm like, you're just being handed stuff. I don't know. Yeah, no, no, no.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: And I was I talking to you about this where
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: at my last job, I was talking to some salesperson
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: and they kept comparing me to somebody that we both
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: knew in the industry. And I've always she's somebody that
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: I really like as a person, like we would be
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: friends in real life. But I felt like her career
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: came easier to her than to me. And there's a
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: part of me that's like. don't compare me to her
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: because i had to do a lot of i had
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: to do a lot of bullshit to get here and
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: um not that i don't think she had that same
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: path but i sometimes it just feels like life just
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: is so not easy life is not easy for people
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: but it just seems like everything just sort of like
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: unfolds for them yeah like they're just beautiful and then
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: they get the career then they get the hot husband
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: and then you know it just seems like life is
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: just just comes naturally to.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: Them yeah like a lot easier to just like Oh,
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: your next steps are a lot shorter in between maybe.
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: It's like if it's a staircase, you're taking like a
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: little step. It's like, boom.
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: Oh, my God. You put up one thing and it
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: just blew up.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: And I think it's important to remember that everybody's journey
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: is different. Correct. And everybody's journey is long. And you're
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: going to experience different pain points in different areas. Like
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: maybe that person's career in marriage is great, but maybe
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: they have like a really difficult like family situation. Like
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: you don't know.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: We don't know the full story.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: Or maybe they're experiencing a lot of blessings elsewhere. which
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: sounds really cheesy back to back in their twenties and
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: early thirties. But maybe it's because they're going to have
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: kids in like their forties are going to be really
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: tough because their kids are hard.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: So like life, God willing is long and everybody's journey
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: is a bit different. Yeah.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: I have a friend that I remind that of all
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: the time. Cause he's gone through some hard stuff and
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: he's like, man, I just, I hate this fact that like,
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: you know, what other people from my past will think of.
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: And I was like, look, here's the truth. If somebody
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: is going to judge you, like their time will come. And,
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: I really hope that in these moments they can understand, like,
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: when their time comes, you would hope that other people
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: give you a little more grace instead of judgment. Because
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: we're all going to go through a chapter. It's just life. Like,
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: it's not all going to be sunshine and roses. Like,
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: you will get slapped. And hopefully you have people there
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: that are able to say, we're not going to judge.
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: We understand. We're here to see you all the way through.
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: And hopefully you get better and you grow through that process.
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: It will happen. Maybe it's in the 20s, 30s, 40s.
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: But it will happen. But that's a good point. Because...
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: That's where the online world can get very toxic.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: You don't see all those things.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: I can't believe of all people, you compare yourself the
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: most to him.
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: It was just a quick moment yesterday. I don't always.
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: What was it? Can you show me what you saw
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: that triggered you?
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: I'm just curious. I literally just saw them out in Tampa,
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: and I was already not in a great place mentally.
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: And so it was like a... And I was like, Scott,
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: chill out.
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you were... On one yesterday. I was. You were
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: very upset.
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: I'm not upset. Not upset. Scott was upset. I was
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: not upset. I was a little overwhelmed. And when I
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: get overwhelmed, I like have to take a second to
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: like regroup, get my pieces back in order. Because right
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: now it feels like all my toys and my toy
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: box are just spread out all over the floor. And
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I got to take this time.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: Don't tell me about your toys.
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: I got to put them all.
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: Back in my box.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: That's fair lady. In my bedroom drawer. So all that
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: to say.
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you should get off the dating apps.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: I think that's where I was going with that. Okay.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: Can I unmatch with him right now?
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, you don't see any part of going out
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: with him, right? Even if he asked you right now,
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: would you want to go out with him tomorrow?
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: No.
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I wouldn't either because he's like.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: I've been looking for a reason to not like him
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: and he's given me one.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's an unfollow. You told me today
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: was going to be the day. You didn't give me
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: a plan. You didn't give me a time.
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: I just find it really disrespectful. I do too. And
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: it reminds me of the last guy that I was
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: telling you about that... um canceling me for two other
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: girls correct and it was just because he felt like
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: he didn't know me as much because they were talking
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: to him and I'm like respectfully dude I'm 29 I
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: don't want to be your pen pal I don't know
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: you correct like we're gonna meet each other we're either
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: gonna vibe or we're not like I don't understand why
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: you want me to like be your fucking like back
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: and forth AI robot.
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: To be like he I really do think there needs
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: to be like a dating class for men.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: I don't think men were taught. And I'm not, this isn't,
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: I'm not blaming men. And I also don't want it
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: to seem like, I don't want to seem like I'm
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: blaming their moms either. Cause I don't want it to
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: be like a women hating thing. But I really feel
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: like our generation wasn't taught courtship as a skill.
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: If that makes sense. Properly. Yes. I would agree.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: And that's my whole, that's my theory. That's my thesis.
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to get into it too much cause
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: I'd be here for days, but we're, being raised by
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: the first generation of people who didn't have to get married.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: And I think because there was no have to or
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: need like necessity, it wasn't a skill that was taught.
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: Like for example, my mom is the first generation. Well,
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: not necessarily the first, but one of the first generation
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: of women that, knew that they could get a credit
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: card in their own name or start a business or whatever.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: Like my grandmothers never had that thought. So they always
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: knew that they had to date because it was a necessity.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: It was a skill. And also our society was set
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: up because they knew it was necessity. That courtship was
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: just a thing. And I feel like we've lost the
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: art of courtship because nobody has to get married anymore,
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: which is great. I love that people are getting married
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: because they want to now. But we've lost that pipeline
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: for the people that still want that.
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: No, I agree. And also a big part of it
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: is just it's truly that because guys have some, a
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: lot of guys, not all guys, but a lot of
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: guys have peanuts for brains. And there's so many options.
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: And the options just like it drives guys crazy. You know,
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: you could have a conversation with somebody online and But
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: as soon as there's any little bit of like, you
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: can go on Instagram and find 3,000 other people that
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: look similar, have other qualities that you like, and maybe
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: are an option, even though that's not realistic. Or you
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: just want to, you know, all these different things that
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: we see on social media, you just want to be
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: the playboy for a little bit and just, you know,
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: see your options. Which, again, if that's what you want,
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: go ahead. But also, I think a lot of guys
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: get worried that, how it's going to look to their
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: guy friends settling or getting in a relationship. And when
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: I say settling, I mean settling down with somebody, not
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: just settling because it's like, Oh, I think I have
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: to do this. But when you see a culture of like,
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: Oh my God, but they, they're telling me these stories
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: of the hookup culture and there's so many options and
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: everywhere you go and there's new conversations. But what I
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: have learned in dating is there's a lot of work
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: to be done on yourself to To understand when those
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: problems arise in a relationship, it's not always time to
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: just run. But I think for so many people, because
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: there's so many options, it's just the easiest thing. Well,
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: we got in a fight and I don't think we
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: see the same on this and I don't think this
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: is the way. So I'm going to be done with it.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: You're like, wait a second. No, that's actually something you
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: could have grown through and seen both sides because that's
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: no matter what you do, eventually you will have to
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: come to an agreement on things that you see differently.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: It's not always going to be, it's never going to
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: be 100% that you see the same things. But I
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: think about the guys right here in Tampa Bay where
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: I'm like, gosh, yeah, imagine. We live in a very
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: hot area. Everyone's hot.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: Everybody's hot.
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: To walk around and say, wait a second, I'm going
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: to find somebody that I truly like. It takes time
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: and investment. And it's hard to get somebody to want
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: to sit down and put in that time and effort
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: to see if it's actually going to be worth something. Yeah.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: So I think I'm just going to focus on being
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: hot on the internet. So if you see me and go, Oh,
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: Abby looks so good in that video. I don't want
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: to see that. Just know I'm putting in the work
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: because I'm sick of being single. Okay. Just let me
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: have this. Let me, I won't, I don't like a
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: body check, but you know, if I, if you see
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: my body on the Instagram, just let me be. Yeah.
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: Let's just go do you go do you making new connections,
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: new friends, lightning games, build your career, be hot on
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: the internet.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: I'm just going to be hot on the internet and
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: drink a lot of white wine, a lot of white wine,
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: a lot of good times. That's my new bio. Being
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: hot on the internet and probably drinking a white wine
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: at some point.
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: There's a lot of other things you could do beside
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: the hinge dates because so far it doesn't seem like
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: anybody's got it. And again, we've said this before, but
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: you're not the only one. We have other friends that
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: literally have had the same exact stories where it's like,
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: I don't get it. I try to give guys a
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: lot of the benefit. I really do. I've tried. But
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: so far, all the stories I've heard, I'm like, damn, guys,
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: what are you doing?
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: I mean, literally, what did I do other than talk
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: about this man on the internet?
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: That's true.
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: And technically, I didn't talk about him on the internet.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: I talked about him on my podcast.
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: Exactly.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: And all I said was I didn't like his emojis.
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: And you didn't reveal anything about him.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: Respectfully, if that's going to bother him, he's not going
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: to like my sense of humor. And I've always said this.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: I need a guy who can take a couple emotional
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: punches and think it's fun.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: Like the challenge.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: Like, be like, oh, she's giving me a hard time. But, like,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: there's something about you that you like it.
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: You, like, like it a little bit. Like, you need to, like,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: you need to like the challenge a bit.
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: Absolutely, because that's you. Yeah, you're going to want somebody that,
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: you know, you don't have to change towards. You don't
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: have to put on a different filter for. That's truthfully... Actually,
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: way worse than being single.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: If any of you guys know a man who wants
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: to be bullied by a 5'3 blonde chick.
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: I'm going to say be ready to have it given
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: right back. Because if somebody could handle it, they're going
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: to be able to dish it out too.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: But I want that. You know what I mean? Like,
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: bring it back. Like, let's swing at each other. I
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: think that's hot.
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: Well, somebody will pop around, but it doesn't seem like
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: right now. At least not in that environment.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: That's what I've been saying my whole 20s, Scotty. I'm
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: going to unmatch this guy.
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: Unmatch. 3, 2, 1.
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: Bye, bitch.
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: Unmatched. Yeah, because at this point, it's like you said,
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: it's disrespectful.
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: It's actually so disrespectful.
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: I agree.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: And I don't want him to know that I'm upset.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: Or not upset. I want him to know that.
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: That's not okay.
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: That's not okay. And you don't just get to keep
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: me in your hinge folder while you're dating some other chick.
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: Agreed. Goodbye, sir. Goodbye. On to the next one. One
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: of the things I talked about before, because I've been
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: thinking about it all day. My dad sent me this
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: photo because I'm about to... Y'all, this is about to
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: be my 30th birthday. I'm excited. I'm excited. I'm now
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: accepting that I'm about to be 30. It is a
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: weird time to be like, damn, I'm at the age
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: that my parents like had me. That's kind of a
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: weird thought. I've seen pictures of my dad and my
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: mom at this age and they're getting married. I'm like, wow,
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: I've now hit that point. That's crazy. So I'm getting
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: ready to do all these celebrations. I'm excited. I'm looking
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: forward to it. And then my dad calls me yesterday
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: and he's like, did you get the package? Like what package?
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: What are you talking about? He's like, I sent a
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: package to your house. Like, no. And I live at
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: a friend's apartment, so I was like, maybe he has it,
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: but he hasn't told me. And he's like, well, I
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: sent it to this address, and it was the address
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: of my old house. And I was like, oh, shoot.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: This isn't good. So I went over there, and I
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: started looking around the house, and I didn't see the package.
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: No, no.
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: And my dad sent me a photo this morning. The
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: package was right on the front door just a couple
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: days ago. Well, yesterday when I looked, it wasn't there.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: And he hasn't told you what it is?
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: Hasn't told me what it is, which I don't want
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: him to tell me what it is. But now it's stolen.
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: So now I might never know what it is because
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: I've never dealt with a, what do they call them?
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: A porch pirate in the neighborhood that I used to
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: live in was very safe. I was really, I was
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: honestly shocked that somebody would come along and steal a
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: package in the three days that it sat there.
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: Do you think it was the person living there?
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: Nobody's living there right now. That's also the problem because
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: the person who owns the house is a friend's mom.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: So I texted her first. I was like, did you see?
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: Any package over the weekend? Did you drive by? She's like, no,
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: I was there Thursday. Didn't see anything.
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: Oh, no.
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: Package got delivered Friday. I went there yesterday. No package.
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: So it looks like it got stolen. So now I
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: feel so bad because my dad calls me yesterday. He's
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: furious on the phone. He's like, son of a.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Son of a nutcracker.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: I'm out of a lot of money because of it.
• 47:20
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I wonder what it could be because I'm like,
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: it is weird getting gifts at this age. I love it.
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: My dad always gives me good gifts.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: Something electronic. I don't know what it could be, though,
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: because I'm going to show you the package to see
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: if you want to take a guess of what do
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: you think it could be. Maybe like an iPad. That'd
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: be crazy. I don't think so, though.
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: You kind of have iPad-kin energy.
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: Look at it. It looks like it's like two feet.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: And if it says it in the picture, I didn't look. Like,
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: don't tell me what it is.
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that could be like a... Maybe a new laptop?
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: That'd be crazy. I don't think so.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: I mean, he said a lot of money. Laptops are
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: a lot of money.
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: He didn't say exactly how much, but he did say,
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: dang it, like... I'm out of that money. I was like, yeah,
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: it looks like somebody stole it.
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: He didn't get insurance on it?
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: I don't think so. He got it off a TikTok shop.
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: That's what he did. He did get it off a
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: TikTok shop. My dad's a big TikTok shop guy.
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: That's so funny.
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: It's so funny.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: You should do TikTok shop.
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: I want to. I did try. So one of the
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: things I've tried recently to make money in my side
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: muscles is I did order a product off of TikTok.
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: It was going to be like these little energy drinks.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: And then I got a message from him that was like,
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: we're no longer going to send it to you. I
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: was like, what?
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: Why? You have too much energy. Yeah. Back it up.
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: Back it up, Sally.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: We don't want you to die on camera with us
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: because we gave you too much caffeine. But I did
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: want to do it. I wanted to be one of
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: those people on TikTok where it's like you're swiping and
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: then all of a sudden they're live and you're just
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: like they're selling and they have a beautiful setup.
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: Just QBC.
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: Some people.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah. On TikTok.
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: Some people have made a lot of money.
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: We should do a challenge around Christmas. We should see
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: who can make more money on TikTok shop. Me or you.
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: Here's actually, okay, I love that idea.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: We just do like a one week challenge.
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: But that'd be great because what if it takes off?
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: And then we have like Christmas money.
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: Here's what I thought. And I'm going to say it
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: on the podcast because I don't think we're legally allowed
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: to do it. So we're not going to be able
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: to do it. But we could stream this podcast as
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: we just have products. And as we're doing it, we're
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: doing the podcast. We're working and we're selling.
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: Wait, why can't we legally do that?
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: I don't know because we're using the studio of the company.
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: They're going to want to cut. They're definitely going to
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: want to cut.
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: They're not going to come out. We're going to make
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: like $ 5. I don't know.
• 49:17
  Speaker 2: What if we have like, I don't know, like we have,
• 49:19
  Speaker 2: for example. like have a cute Halloween shirt and we're
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: wearing it in the videos. And we're like, oh, by
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: the way, or we just put the link as we
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: post the clips of this podcast. People could buy the shirt.
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: I don't think CMG is going to come after us
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: for that.
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Sometimes these big companies.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: Listen, pay me more and you can have a cut
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: of my TikTok shop. workout clothes that I'm going to sell.
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: Ah, I was thinking of a way for us to
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: make more money, but I was like, I don't think
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: that's the way, but we do already do all this content.
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: I'm like, we could be selling on Tik TOK shop.
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: That's the way I want to do it.
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, our YouTube videos are getting a decent amount.
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: The Warren Sapp one got 640 views. Damn. I mean,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: that's like a, I mean, I'm sure you guys wonder
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: how many people listen to this podcast. It's like a
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: couple thousand. So I mean like that's, we, we went
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: up by 25%. Yeah.
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: I mean, that's like, You posted it once. We've talked
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: about it once here. So to see that growth is awesome. Now,
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: if they can make money for it, that'd be awesomer.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: Well, maybe if you tried a little harder on your hair,
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: we would be getting more views.
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: Y'all should see me in the morning. I got the
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: whole diffuse. It takes me like 10 minutes to dry
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: this sucker.
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: I'm literally joking.
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: So not sure what I'm going to get that package.
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: What are you going to get me for my birthday?
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: You already know what I'm getting you for your birthday.
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: Oh, my God.
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: I'm getting you a Zep-Bound prescription.
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: As you saw me munching yesterday.
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, you can put away a lot of food.
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: Y'all, people don't understand. I don't know. I guess I
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: don't look it, but I could eat.
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because you do have a lot of muscles, so
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: you probably do have a really high resting BMR. Oh,
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: my God, yeah. Because you were going to town, and
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: I'm like, dude.
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: Okay, it wasn't that bad.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: It was pretty bad.
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: Let's see. I had one burger, like 12 wings, a
• 50:59
  Speaker 2: cookie- Okay, it's starting to add up. That's crazy. Yeah,
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: that was good. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That was good.
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: Well, I just worry about you, because you mentioned you
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: have a little bit of a hard time with stopping,
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: and I didn't know if it's, like, a problem for you.
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: Oh, that's a good point. Yeah, no, no, I don't
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: have a... I do love, like, diving into that thought
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: of mine, because I'm like, when there's free food available,
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: your boy's going to eat.
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: That's what I mean. It's like, do you have a
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: binging problem?
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: No. I can stop at any point, but it's like when.
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: You sound like every alcoholic. I can stop whenever I want!
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: I'll be fine. I swear.
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: I'm good.
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: I'm good.
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: And I only say that because I used to have
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: a hard time with binging. And so I'm just, you know,
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: checking in if you need support.
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: I like that, though. I have no problem if you
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: put me in check.
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: I mean, I called you fat yesterday. I don't know
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: what else you need me to do.
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: No, I thought it was fun.
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: Like, okay, tubby.
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: I was like, heck yeah, I'm going to eat these wings.
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: I'm going to eat.
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: When it's time for me to eat, I'm going to eat. No,
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: I'm very cognizant of it. Because I'm like, I just
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: came back from work. I'm like, I'm going to eat.
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: I'm going to eat all these wings.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, get after it.
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: Because I was planning on buying food there. And then
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: we walked into a suite. I was like, oh, I
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: didn't know we had this today. This is going to
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: be really nice.
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: I told you we were in the suite.
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: I was stressed, Abby.
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: I was stressed.
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: But then once I found out, I was good.
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: I was like, we got on the Jumbotron.
• 52:07
  Speaker 2: Did we get on the Jumbotron?
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah. I saw myself on the Jumbotron.
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't see myself on the Jumbotron. But I'm
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: happy to be a part of it. Happy to be there.
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: Now if we could only get Raze tickets to get
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: into the actual games for the Raze.
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: For the playoffs. But they're not our partner. Why are
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: we not the Raze partner? I don't know.
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Here's what's funny about the Rays is
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: you see the trop is like packed and everyone in there,
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: like everyone's there. Where are you at the whole season?
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: Like literally all season, that stadium was so empty. I know.
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: And then all of a sudden, every seat's full.
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: Because everyone's excited because it's playoffs.
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: I hope it lives through. I just, I hope that
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: it would go beyond like, let's say like the next season,
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: no matter how far we go in the series, like
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: somebody next year, then go to the games. I say
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: that for myself, too.
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: They're just so boring. I know.
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: And I'm a bandwagoner, too. Like, I'm not a big
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: baseball fan, but I want to go now. I want
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: to be part of it.
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: I have too many baseball fans or teams that I'm
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: a fan of that I'm like, I can't keep track.
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: I'm like, do I start looking like a fraud now?
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: Because my dad's a Rangers fan because I was literally
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: born when I was born because of the Rangers. My
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: dad used to work for them.
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, yeah.
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: And then I loved the Braves because that's where I
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: would go make friends in Atlanta. And now I'm like...
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: Can I take on the Rays now?
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: Well, here's a little conflict for you because the Braves
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: are in the playoffs. Let's talk back to our sports podcast.
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: I know. How did we become the Tampa Bay sports podcast?
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: It's fun.
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: So the Braves are in. The Rays are in.
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: The Braves.
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: The Braves.
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: Go Braves.
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: They have a possibility of both being in the World
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: Series at the same time. If they play each other,
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm going to do. That's literally
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: what I was thinking this morning. I was like, who
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: would you root for? Let's just say they got to
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: both make it to their next round anyway.
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: I guess the Rays because I'm in Tampa and I
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: value my life. Yeah. And I feel bad because I'm
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: technically a bandwagoner fan. But, you know.
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: Hell yeah.
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: I feel like, here's the thing. I feel like when
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: it comes to sports teams, I'm not necessarily supporting the team.
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: I'm supporting the city.
• 53:54
  Speaker 2: Correct.
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: Does that make sense? Yes. 100%.
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: Because if the city wins, like, we all win.
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. So when I was in Atlanta, I
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: was obviously like, go Braves. Correct. And now that I'm
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: in Tampa, I'm obviously going to be like, go Braves.
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: Because I'm in fucking Tampa.
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: Well, it is kind of cool because we have so
• 54:10
  Speaker 2: many Atlanta listeners that I'm like, y'all, that'd be fun.
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: I'd love to see y'all and us. together in the end.
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: It would be very tough though. But I think at
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: least either you want to have a little conflict with
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: people here because you could be your OG fan if
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: you wanted to be a Brave fan. But it is
• 54:25
  Speaker 2: a lot more fun when you're like all together rooting
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: for the one team.
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I like the social aspect of it. Like I
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: like that we're like I like getting passionate about something.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: I don't feel, unless it's the Florida Gators because I'm
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: like I went to that school so of course like
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: it's my team.
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that one makes sense.
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I like the camaraderie of it.
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: Well you do a good job about being all about
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: it because like so far if you've seen Abby's Instagram
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: it's Like, so much lightning content.
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: I love a theme.
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: You nail it.
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: And listen, I'd get on the Bucs too, but the Bucs....
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: It ain't... Not this year.
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: Not this year. Yeah. I'm sorry. Sorry about that. That's
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: not going to be a while.
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: Are we doing a tailgate with them this weekend?
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: We are doing a crasher tailgate.
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I need a fit for that.
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: I'm going to be flying in after Key West and
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: then hopping in a truck with y'all and going to
• 55:09
  Speaker 2: crash a tailgate.
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: So expect some Buc content on Sunday. A lot of.
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: Did you say butt?
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: Buc.
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah. That content is when I get fired from this job.
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Thank you for all the comments, too, that are
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: popping in. Our last conversation, we did get pretty deep
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: into the whole Cornell 7 situation, which, oh, my God,
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: the things that have come out since.
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: Don't trigger me.
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: Don't trigger me.
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: We don't have to dive in.
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: Are there any good comments that you want to read
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: them first?
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: Well, we asked last episode if you all would be
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: down for a live episode in Atlanta. Okay. And everybody
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: is saying yes.
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: I will wear my Braves gear if we go to Atlanta.
• 55:43
  Speaker 2: That would make sense. Amy said, love y'all. Please come
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: back to Atlanta for a live show. Abby, I met
• 55:49
  Speaker 2: you at your live podcast at Painted Horse.
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: Oh, hell yeah, brother. That was a long time ago.
• 55:53
  Speaker 2: Well, Amy's down for it.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: Come on, Amy.
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: I also saw, let's see. Oh, there you go. Jshuck12,
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: I would love y'all to do a live show in Atlanta.
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: Love that. And then Trey, Atlanta Bar Night, please.
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: Let's do it. I think that would be fun.
• 56:10
  Speaker 2: Make it happen.
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: And there'd probably be a lot of bird show people
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: that came too, like you know, Kristen.
• 56:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that'd be cool to see, to see your peeps.
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: I know I probably will go back to Atlanta sometime
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: before Christmas.
• 56:22
  Speaker 2: I just got to figure out a date, put it
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: on the calendar. We could put it on as a,
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: a show expense, do a live show for it. Y'all
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: keep the comments coming. Thank you so much. And if
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: you haven't yet check out the YouTube, you can put
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: your comments in there because you're part of the conversation
• 56:36
  Speaker 2: as well. We'll be back tomorrow.