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Inspiring Human Potential Inner Growth 5D Self-Empowered Enlightenment Time 2 · Inspiring Human Potential

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  Guess how the amazing Universe always works.
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  We are going to change up our intro and at first, I wasn't
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  sure. And then I was like, you know
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  what, wait a minute, let me go revisit that.
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  I am expanding Consciousness intro and just hearing the first
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  couple minutes of a. Okay, yes, it is time for an
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  update especially with all the new episodes that you'll be
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  hearing. And the integration of
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  trauma-informed and somatic informed, as well as the somatic
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  experiencing informed upcoming mine site.
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  So, all of the lovely addition to our human elements, the
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  intro, this one's going to be kind of short, and I'll revisit
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  them. Probably, according to when time
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  will ask me for a new one again, in the meantime, anybody who's
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  new welcome, you can find in really the description of all of
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  the podcasts since their standard.
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  The nation of what we're all about.
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  And so, I'm just going to break it down, where enlightened Soul
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  age group. And so people who are in their
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  5D self empowered and letting State of Consciousness, and what
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  this means and human terms is people who are functional
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  adults. They are differentiated selves
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  differentiate itself. You can find that in family of
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  origin, therapy stuff, and we also Have mindfulness brain and
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  mind frame. So we are able to use our lovely
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  brain and the neuroplastic way and just using words to describe
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  Concepts that my regular listeners know about, but that
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  anybody who wants it's in, you know, you would want to know
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  about, otherwise you can't follow the conversations also
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  and like mental age, when people are in their ventral vagal
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  system. So we are always safe and social
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  with Humanity. In fact, we love humanity and
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  Life to death, the death of us. In fact, we're all still
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  breathing for now, right? And I wake up tomorrow.
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  I'm still breathing and we don't suffer.
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  We actually experience emotional pain in its natural form,
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  allowing it to flow and do its thing and we don't sit and
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  create stories. There's a way that I can explain
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  this. By the way, it's always
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  Neuroscience, psychology education and we only have love
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  Cycles, but I do look at those who might have shame Cycles
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  because I know that everyone is always going to be looking to
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  expand. So there are people who will
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  choose move out a 3D 4D and or other Soul age groups and so
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  they will begin to be able and see wait a minute, my body heart
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  and mind. They speak something.
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  And I actually want to listen to it, I want to be the grown-up
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  version of myself. So taking those emotions and
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  sting, you know, I'm going to pay attention to what I think
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  and feel and I will be able to move forward with respecting
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  others by being able to be Economist because see, when you
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  are a functional do. That means you're forgiving and
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  nuanced because you're Using again, your mindfulness brain
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  and I forgot you're in a state of physiological compassion.
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  You're actually able to sit in your psychological floor.
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  It's called a neocortex. It has six neurons to for the
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  hearing now, to for the implicit memory stuff that every human
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  being body holes, and it goes all the way back to fishies.
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  Thank you Dan Siegel, for that explanation.
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  They meet in the middle where there's other two neurons, which
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  creates our subjective reality. So everybody's emotions or based
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  for our own self survive, Evil, but it comes in begin since we
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  were little. So again, when you are in the
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  enlightenment still age group, you're actually aware when the
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  implicit memory stuff is coming off and you're able to sit in
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  this zero place. And understand, I'll wait, these
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  are my motions in to talk about them and in every one of our
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  episodes, we look at different things to inflame.
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  So mates, over Soul because I have a person who's also in that
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  community of the mystics. Mystical is a terrorism
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  metaphysics. So besides the human elements
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  and oh spirituality. Sadhguru lovely, yogic Sciences.
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  He's the one who I learned from. They took his inner engineering
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  course and I also did some Bobby Korean.
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  I'm doing another thing with him.
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  So I listened to him when it comes to spirituality.
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  He's my room of choice and the other subject matter experts,
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  I'd aim as I as it goes, but long story short, we're in a
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  physiological state of compassion.
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  So we know how to be able and sit with a orange and apple.
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  And actually, Enjoy our conversation.
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  You get to learn about this and more from both the perspective
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  of again, Mystic as well as a person.
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  It's the infinite higher human consciousness expression.
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  Potential etc, etc. That's why in our growth is All
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  Me, What comes forth and we don't have regret.
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  We don't have any of that, we don't suffer again, we don't sit
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  in our Temple Junction. So explain all these things and
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  more through our topics. There's also subscription-based
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  model content, for those who want to Learn to put into
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  practice because there are some episodes that are for practice
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  and then there's also the light workers life that's where I
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  share my personal, Claire stories, and relate it to you
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  from an indictment. So age group perspective we do
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  have, I'm Consciousness expanding Consciousness but I
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  evaluate month to month, we have at least one episode, you can
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  dollars Euros would be probably not more than six year olds and
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  in other currency. And I'm not sure what that would
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  be but meantime, thank you for tuning in to the intro and I
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  hope you stay for the episode and if not thank you for
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  stopping by and I share with you my unconditional love and wish
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  you the best. Welcome back to my lovely HP
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  Community. We have some Enlightenment time
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  and I want to start by sharing. Sometimes you will, obviously
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  you already know this from a regular losers but you will hear
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  from anybody's new colleague. Come out more.
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  Then I probably would want, but then again, it's where the
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  feminine has an ability to no shame as soon as it starts to
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  pop up. And that's why with our twin
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  flame stuff. We will have overestimated, our
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  masks, Humans, because we will not know that basically all
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  masculine people, all people who talk about Source Law of
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  Attraction and they do so in a specific way or even objectify
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  the entire experience. And what I mean by that is when
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  they're making these little lists versus empowering, you
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  with understanding that you as a person are infinite.
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  And then with helping you to understand again that you are
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  your own. Eight or not with the belief
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  system. There are people that speak in
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  these ways, but there are many, who don't they create?
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  A tribe based on the insecurities that all people
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  will have. So, what I was trying to get at
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  is, we will under we will overestimate our masculine
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  because we will have thought that we found a match.
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  And when I say match, it means a differentiate itself.
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  A human being who's actually mentally emotionally and
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  physically independent socially. Financial doesn't matter, but
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  that they do not use societies. Little Rule books to say, here's
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  what you have to do, or not do because this is where the
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  feminine of the Enlightenment till age group is not a person.
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  Based on society, we do know what we get taught as we move
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  into our actual maturity. We will be like, fuck all this
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  shit. What are you talking about?
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  I'm a person. I'm going to do what I want to
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  do. I will follow the rules of my
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  country because that's hello, Common Sense.
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  Other than that, you don't Define me.
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  Son what I'm wearing. You don't Define me based on my
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  job. I don't care what you think, but
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  so this is where we don't do it by being egoic about it.
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  We don't go yelling it, we will be it won't be speaking it.
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  So when you hear people being Advocates, there yelling is an
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  indication of where they still actually have not taken
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  ownership. They're still seeking to be
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  taken care of and redeemed or redeem.
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  So there's still an element of the shame vibration.
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  In fact, that's why they're yelling.
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  And that's why these are all social orienting emotions.
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  So all people who are yelling at each other are not in the
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  indictment. So age group won the masculine
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  sense that get to their Enlightenment Soul, age, group
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  will have gone through dark. No, so ego death and more than
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  just that, because they're not looking, oh my twin flame.
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  And I have a Divine mission to have to do Now, that's not how
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  Enlightenment. So, age group works, it works
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  on. I'm an independent human being,
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  they're an independent human being and they move Beyond any
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  belief. System.
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  Spirituality is something that is boxed up in a belief system.
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  When I see the people who follow our lovely said, Guru, they look
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  all the same to me, they all in fact, you know, have a specific
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  regiment. They're all like little soldiers
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  in a different way. I mean, if I have to pick a
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  group to lead, of course, I'm going to pick the group that is
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  enlightened because hello like he's Talking about
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  all-inclusiveness, I'm country loving each other and everything
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  that actually has what is needed in the focus.
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  The air, the water, the food. So that's the only reason but
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  when I see them and that's not the future, I want I see a
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  future of actual independent people expanding human
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  consciousness so it's something very different.
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  We are Globe. 12, internet does connect us three.
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  We speak different languages. We have different cultures.
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  We have different things. We want to keep bringing them
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  for Earth and we will unfortunately those who want to
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  keep those past medieval institutions alive.
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  They're dying. I'm so sorry that they can't
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  accept it. That's the patriarchal masking
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  that thing. Yeah, they're dying.
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  We can see it. The feminine sees it and we feel
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  very sad that they are so frightened by what is different
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  that, but then again, they're not sharing it through
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  frightening. Oh no.
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  They're sharing it through their conspiracy theories through
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  their law of attraction to other means.
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  It's not about the law of attraction, by the way, not
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  working. We are Energy.
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  So here's where it's about. You moving beyond an
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  understanding that more than one subject matter is actually what
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  life is. And I'm speaking tangibly
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  speaking, not in a way that those who are not in the
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  enlightenment, so a troop will not understand.
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  So I repeat if you're looking for logic then you're not in the
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  indictment. So agent like you're still
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  identifying with information. If you're intuitively flowing
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  and understanding that multidisciplinary is because we
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  are multi-dimensional in your following the conversation.
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  Isolation, then you're inclined to be here.
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  We are all energy. The number one thing that
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  physicists have found, is that everything in the universe is
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  sound is a vibration. Okay, so when you look at how
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  the universe was created, or is created, and I've been watching
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  a bunch of documentaries on that, you will note what the
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  technology shows. Now, people love to use their
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  mouth but then they don't follow through with a lot of things.
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  So, when I hear people talk about Reiki energy, if you're a
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  Christian, I can understand. I read a paper about how
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  Christianity is deeming, it. However, it is, or could demon
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  however, it is because behind their belief systems, blah,
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  blah, blah. So, again, if people are in that
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  section, then of course, they're going to look at me.
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  But hey, guess what? Peter Levine, a psychologist,
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  helping a person with their own trauma.
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  She goes in and says, I'm not coming back to you because only
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  God heals, and what you did is not God's work.
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  It must be the devil's work because you're not God.
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  A person who's getting actual mental health by a professional
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  goes back in a session because they start dreaming and they're
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  starting to heal though and will claim and has claimed in this is
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  recent, I'm sure it was not, you know, in medieval times again he
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  began practice in 1960 with the sabbatic experiencing so it's
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  2023 but still 1960, I mean, come on you're not in the
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  medieval times so Enlightenment still age.
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  Your people are people who are common sense.
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  Their furthermore people who are compassionate are not
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  compassionate and all-inclusive you're not Listen, like mental
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  age group, yet it's not a race and most people don't really
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  want to be here, they want to feel taken care of and redeemed.
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  They're still working through what they don't realize the
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  mammalian Heritage, which is why re-recorded this try and be a
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  little bit more compassionate towards that.
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  Shame blame fault Revenge cycle a little bit.
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  I'm trying to, I need to maintain my focus because again,
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  we will have overestimated, the match Rarity of individuals are
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  entire life and particularly these lovely twins.
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  Flame experiences. We will have thought in our
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  brain, that we will have met an individual.
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  That will be our match. Meaning they have mental
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  emotional Clarity, maturity that they can speak their words,
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  authentically transparently and that they will be a constant,
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  you know? So at the end of the day, turns
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  out that all masculine is until they become enlightened.
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  And here in the enlightenment show age group, as I see, plan
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  your people in the 3D 4D Community, who are still mad
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  Humans every time they're saying it's ideal timing when it comes
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  in any. So I do know, plenty of people
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  look to have types of consultation when it comes to.
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  When they come to me, they know that they're not going to get
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  that. You're not going to get the
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  perfect timing. No, no.
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  There is an empowering message for them.
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  There is a here's where it stands and usually they'll
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  already know things than the options that they have.
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  Here's where it's Yes, but what I'm trying to say is we are not
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  the ones that will save believe in Source, believe in this it's
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  perfect timing. 5dc person that doesn't come out of our mouth
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  fact, when we are actually experiencing these moments
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  without knowing how to remember other forget their moments or is
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  like the source thing. It's starting to get on my
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  nerves whole perfect timing. I'm starting to be really, you
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  know, like what the fuck are you talking about?
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  You know, like anytime I hear that phrase, my colleague would
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  just come up. And that's because it's like
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  begging for something. And, and again, I think of the
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  protector lenses and the mailing Heritage, a person who wants to
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  feel safe in their body because the nervous system is what these
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  are body. And so when you feel afraid of
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  life, which is natural, we all have fear.
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  I have fear, our one-year-old will have fear.
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  That's the one place that we got to work through as we get to
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  become an embodied. Embodied whole person and
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  thinking, differentiate itself, but also, when you're
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  recognizing how the physical Sensations are in your body
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  while staying connected to your thoughts and your feelings.
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  So, being able to be in your neocortex to here, now, with the
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  denim there, and in a moment where your subjective reality,
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  you're not speaking about it being good or bad, you're aware
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  of it. And so, as I said more than
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  once, Feminine will overestimate their twin flame because they
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  will think that they have somebody who's mature and a
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  differentiate itself until we realize, they're not the only
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  way a masculine will be, a differentiated self is if they
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  find that their own feminine within themselves.
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  So that means that there will and desire to live is based on
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  their own knowledge of every day.
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  I wake up and I get to choose how I'm going to live
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  uncovering. Shame blame fault Revenge so
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  uncovering these Patterns not as karma and this.
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  We love perfect timing. No.
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  Not with the belief system with the actual human stuff of.
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  Okay, I have patterns that keep me in my relationships in a way
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  that I don't want to be in. The enlightenment.
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  So they drove masculine will be a person or is a person or are
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  people. I'm sure there are plenty of
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  them out there. I just haven't met them.
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  I've met a Divine masculine the making but here's where there's
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  still another sole trip. There's still the making.
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  So, the biggest difference is that they're conscious, they're
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  here their presence. They like to be on their journey
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  and they're doing mindful awareness and so, they're aware
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  humanly speaking of where they're at, what they're up to
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  and have their own willpower. So they're very Much confident
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  in who they are, because they know that if they set their mind
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  to it, they will do what they've set their mind to.
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  So, that's a beginning. And when it comes to feminine
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  's, they actually, I mean, if I have to pick, it's nice to see a
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  Divine masculine in the making when they're feminine.
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  And so they want to be protected in a way of them acknowledging.
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  It And see, here's where the feminine of the Enlightenment.
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  So, a drupe will already have their own masculine and so we
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  don't actually get lost. We feel very grounded.
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  We wake up. Knowing I choose my everyday.
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  I choose if it's going to be a good day, like we don't just
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  believe in it. We know it, like there is not
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  even a shot on that about it. So we won't whine about, oh my
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  God, you hurt my feelings because that will feel like
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  whining to us. And it's not because Top that I
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  have a very loving mother, although she does say she was
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  firm but she's an unconditional loving mother.
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  Hugs me a lot, kisses me, you know, all that stuff.
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  So, plenty of physical contact, which is very important to
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  actually have a body feel safe and social and stuff like that.
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  So I was always given a balanced indication of how to be who I
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  am. But here's where, if you ever
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  hear any stories, maybe I'll have her share.
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  Sometimes, I've never Needed to be pushed to do anything.
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  I've always taken charge because I always know what I want to do.
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  And so again, the feminine is not lost.
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  We don't need people in our lives.
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  We choose to have people in our lives.
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  So we will when we when I perceive and that's where I have
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  a quote unquote bias even though it shouldn't do it, a quote,
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  because the reality is it's not a quote on quote, I feel that
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  life is very easy, is what I'm going to spell out and when I
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  meet a masculine energy No, that shame is dominant in a way of
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  the herd. Let me tend to my her, to the
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  masculine want to tend to their heart.
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  They're always thinking they need to put.
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  This isn't a that's also. That's why gender stereotypes
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  took me off is like, neither people needs each other and
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  really, if you want to create Independence you shouldn't be
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  like this type of energy that just clings onto each other like
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  that. And I'm going to create an
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  independent person, you're going to create a person who come here
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  and you know, like what is that. So we're free Souls is what I
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  should say. We we just like that's yeah.
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  Even just talking about, it makes me feel, yuck is the word
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  that comes to my mind, even though it's not yet again, I
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  take steps back at me, remind our lovely community of the
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  mammalian Heritage. So our natural inclination as a
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  species that evolved with nature is to be with the herd because
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  that's how we would stay protected.
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  We got kicked out then we would be in danger so our body
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  remembers that my body feels very differently about it.
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  But I have my own story, right? I feel like, dude, get the fuck
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  off of me and let me be myself and it might be because I have
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  an identical twin. I don't know, it might just be
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  as my mother points out my personality because I was a
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  little bit of a person when I was growing up.
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  So there you go. When we meet the feminine who's
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  not a dominant, it feels even worse than the masculine because
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  the masculine will feel that unworthiness, right?
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  So we'll be like okay that will Tell you, you're good, you know
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  that way you can feel strong and then you start thriving.
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  But then the feminine zico take care of me, take care of my
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  defenseless and we're thinking but you're not defenses, you
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  have so many tools that use so we are we already know that you
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  can make it is what I'm trying to get at life feels that you
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  will be able to make it and so that's why we feel.
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  Life is easy the feminine in the enlightenment still age of okay
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  so making our own stand is not something where like oh my God
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  I'm so sad that I had to do that.
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  No. Anytime we get the opportunity
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  we will learn. In fact, one of my first
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  memories, you all know the story was, when I went to get help
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  from a teacher and they made me give a presentation.
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  I did not have joy in having to give the presentation.
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  I did not get the help. I actually went to ask for but I
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  didn't remember it as oh, my God.
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  How horrible of a teacher? No, I said, okay, I didn't get
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  what I wanted. What did I learn from it?
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  I won't be going to the The adults for help, I will figure
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  it out on my own because you were not able to give me what I,
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  but this is where I acknowledge. They're not me.
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  So, of course, you're not going to give me what I want because
• 21:20
  you are not me and I'm not you. So we think differently, we are
• 21:23
  different. Therefore, of course, how can I
• 21:25
  expect you? And that's why it was of me
• 21:28
  understanding to expect somebody to read my mind or BB, that's
• 21:33
  actually a wrong expectation and I was not even 11:00 and I had
• 21:38
  You learned about how I would not be jealous because jealousy
• 21:41
  is unnecessary to insecurity and it really shows that you don't
• 21:45
  trust each other as well and stuff like that.
• 21:47
  And this was from, you know, actual very fascinating story
• 21:52
  but again, the feminine will not be like oh what the world?
• 21:56
  Such a hard plate. Now does nothing hard about
• 21:59
  that, it's actually very common sense.
• 22:00
  Masculine on the other hand creates a whole bunch of
• 22:03
  scenarios feminine as well. And so, we see this dependency
• 22:08
  some Something that doesn't need to a full-blown.
• 22:11
  Functional adult in fact and once you get to hear about just
• 22:15
  how many people have these protector lenses on again, when
• 22:18
  someone sings Source perfect timing I can see.
• 22:21
  Even in the way that those people who are Consulting their
• 22:24
  group, they are providing them with reassurance.
• 22:26
  So they're saying it's okay, you'll be taken care of.
• 22:29
  Don't worry, or you're worthy, you need to claim your word.
• 22:32
  The u.s. same thing goes, when you go to get therapy with that,
• 22:36
  either sensorimotor or somatic or you, Full-blown trauma
• 22:40
  expert. They're going to be walking you
• 22:42
  through the path of getting out of your shame blame fault
• 22:44
  Revenge cycle of getting out of regret Identity or remorse or
• 22:49
  getting out of perfectionism is another one getting out of the
• 22:53
  fear of rejection. So all of these words which we
• 22:56
  will look to work on as well in the subscription-based model
• 22:59
  content but for us it comes from a different place.
• 23:02
  And what I mean by that is those who are inclined to be in the
• 23:06
  enlightenment still age, group are people who already?
• 23:08
  We understand the equation of we're flawed, of course, and
• 23:13
  we're imperfect. Of course, on we all have this
• 23:16
  thing called ego, of course, and when we're dreaming, and having
• 23:20
  Claire's doesn't mean we have to have come from some other
• 23:23
  planet. Although we will know those
• 23:24
  experiences. This is why the lightworkers
• 23:26
  life for the subscription-based model content.
• 23:29
  And we will do understand that it also is connected to this
• 23:32
  energy, this Consciousness that we are, which can then link to,
• 23:36
  you know, spirituality with said Guru, And the whole yogic
• 23:40
  Sciences but this also links us back to somatic, so to
• 23:44
  psychotherapy and just being a person, and now we don't have to
• 23:47
  call ourselves a technology even though we can heal ourselves
• 23:51
  through energy. And so there's all these
• 23:53
  different beautiful pieces of information.
• 23:56
  And here's why the infinite higher human consciousness
• 23:59
  potential experience, because we're people the 4D 3D and all
• 24:04
  these other Soul age groups, they actually get lost in the
• 24:07
  subject matters. It's because they stay divided
• 24:10
  with them versus and but Mercy seeing the Harmony and how they
• 24:14
  complement because their brain is looking at it from a left
• 24:18
  brain perspective. They don't have a relationship
• 24:20
  with their right brain, except for when they're either feminine
• 24:23
  or masculine depending on which way they're going to achieve
• 24:27
  their. So here's where for me, they're
• 24:29
  all masculine 's because the fem even though there are the
• 24:32
  feminine things in the case of, oh, take care of me, I want to
• 24:35
  be protected. Okay, so that case all of the
• 24:38
  ones who are not Leading life from their own heart or not in
• 24:41
  the feminine of the Enlightenment.
• 24:42
  So, a troop. And when I say leading from your
• 24:44
  own heart, it means that you're a person.
• 24:46
  You have your name, you're being the authentic transparent self.
• 24:50
  You understand that you can have trauma.
• 24:52
  All of us have trauma. All of us can have not suffered
• 24:56
  or suffered, you know? Like everybody has a journey, so
• 24:58
  you be able to not say, oh, that narcissists are an asshole.
• 25:02
  Do you actually know that narcissism isn't a choice?
• 25:05
  Sociopathy, isn't a choice for the psychopath psychopath.
• 25:08
  See they're still doing research and for now there's only one of
• 25:11
  these little jeans that they say and you know, there's so many
• 25:15
  people that are so ignorant on all these topics, I don't say
• 25:18
  anything because I don't remember the data.
• 25:20
  The way that they would be able to hear it, but I also don't
• 25:23
  want to get into those conversations because whenever
• 25:25
  somebody will sell out only one gene.
• 25:27
  No, actually, it's not one gene, but I don't want to try and
• 25:31
  educate you on it because it's not going to be educational.
• 25:34
  It's going to turn into. I have to listen to why people
• 25:37
  are shitty and you The keep on trying to get me to, you know,
• 25:41
  like this is where these are not.
• 25:43
  You don't have conversations when people don't love humanity
• 25:46
  and they just have shit to say about each other.
• 25:48
  So we feminine. Yeah Will overestimate the
• 25:53
  masculine because we'll know there are twin flame flames and
• 25:57
  so we'll just in time they'll realize as with all of my
• 26:00
  definitely experiences in time, there was a realization of
• 26:04
  basically I don't even know what word I want to use.
• 26:08
  Use because to me, if you're a mature human being, it means,
• 26:12
  you know what you want means. Your constant means, you can
• 26:16
  speak your emotions. It means that with your loved
• 26:19
  ones, you actually have a dialogue.
• 26:21
  And, so, in all of these cases, I had always been my authentic
• 26:26
  self with dialogue the minute. You present to me clown face,
• 26:31
  which will look in different ways shapes and forms.
• 26:34
  I'm not going to argue with you because Immediately will be
• 26:39
  like, hold on a minute. What is this?
• 26:42
  So I'll be taking steps back and evaluating.
• 26:46
  How do I want to handle a person?
• 26:49
  Giving me a mask when we were talking about something specific
• 26:54
  in a specific way, you know or anyways, in one of the cases,
• 26:56
  there's nothing to talk about there is just saying okay you
• 27:00
  really need to reconsider what you're doing because this isn't
• 27:03
  going to work what you want is not going to happen.
• 27:06
  And so this is again something that we We know what we're
• 27:09
  doing. We know who you are, we know
• 27:11
  what the relationship is about, and we're not going to be
• 27:14
  presenting anything in a way that we won't try to seek
• 27:19
  dialogue. We're going to try and seek
• 27:21
  dialogue. Now, here's where the lovely
• 27:23
  psycho Educators come into the mix and remind me of things that
• 27:28
  I did not know which is how shame deflects itself and these
• 27:33
  protector lenses are actually seeking the replacement of their
• 27:36
  parental figure. So people Who seek Partnerships?
• 27:40
  They seek each other if they're not in the indictment.
• 27:43
  So a true to support each other, to be taken care of, or redeem,
• 27:47
  their in the mammalian Heritage. So they're not emotionally
• 27:50
  mature, they're not mentally mature, and they're definitely
• 27:53
  not physically mature. Meaning, they can't commit to
• 27:56
  something every day day after day, after day, after day in the
• 28:00
  same vibration, while those of us who are the feminine can't
• 28:03
  and we do, we're always in our Enlightenment lens with our
• 28:07
  compassionate. Ends.
• 28:09
  Which means we're confident lens, which means are going to
• 28:11
  tell you how we think or feel, but it ain't going to be from
• 28:13
  some book. And so the minute you begin to
• 28:17
  tell us. We need to be some book is a
• 28:18
  minute. We're going to have another
• 28:20
  issue going down cause we ain't a book and you just told us that
• 28:24
  what we are is something that you're now disagreeing with and
• 28:30
  canceling. It's kind of like Teenage
• 28:32
  boyfriend story where I'm going to say.
• 28:34
  No, no, no, I know who I am and I would love for you to stop.
• 28:38
  Telling me who I am. And so we'll figure out how many
• 28:41
  different ways can we do this? And you know, the funniest part
• 28:45
  is when you realize that you're completely unknown besides
• 28:50
  nothingness, right? But this is where I have to
• 28:53
  share this because in those moments you know while all these
• 28:57
  other Soul age groups and then talking about oversold twin
• 29:01
  flames, soul mates, perfect timing Law of Attraction, you
• 29:05
  name it, you know like or them looking to become a guru so that
• 29:08
  they Have this badge of honor than this lifetime, or again,
• 29:11
  the ones who are all mental health.
• 29:13
  But then they're turning their back on their friends because of
• 29:15
  some because of their own judgment and their own hurt.
• 29:19
  Really, instead of realizing, if somebody is manipulative, that's
• 29:22
  not because they chose to be it. And one were all manipulative
• 29:25
  according to the psychologist because that's how we get to
• 29:28
  talk to each other. Well, those of us, who are in
• 29:31
  the enlightenment, so age of, we try not to engage with people,
• 29:35
  especially once we know what areas are going to be affected.
• 29:39
  Meaning if you start being pissy about something we're just going
• 29:42
  to avoid it completely because you know if there's one thing
• 29:45
  ego loves to do is to talk about itself and so people are always
• 29:48
  sure what they're going through. And so in that way we don't have
• 29:50
  to manipulate anything and actually we get to know you
• 29:53
  which is really awesome because we get to know how you feel.
• 29:55
  I think you get to know us and us is what US is the person that
• 30:00
  is in front of you, who actually cares about what you're saying
• 30:03
  because see, again, we don't need to prove who we are, so we
• 30:06
  don't care about sharing our thoughts and feelings.
• 30:08
  Necessarily especially if they're going to be told to us
• 30:11
  to be not true. That's when you're going to
• 30:13
  begin to put us in a spot in the feminine.
• 30:15
  We don't waste our time with ears that don't hear the minute.
• 30:18
  You're in, that, you're not hearing me.
• 30:20
  Because you just told me that I can't be, who I'm saying, I am.
• 30:24
  And so, that's where we are going to step back and stop
• 30:27
  sharing who we are. You know what, I love most when,
• 30:31
  you know, I have the experience that can share is the Divine
• 30:33
  masculine and the making and being able to share something
• 30:36
  like that. We do you want to get to know
• 30:38
  Me, or do you want me to be a version of what you're seeking?
• 30:42
  Like, which one and the actual understanding of those words?
• 30:46
  And what they mean? And the actions of no, I want to
• 30:49
  know you. I like knowing who you are, not,
• 30:52
  I don't want the facade. I don't want to be, you know,
• 30:56
  kind of patted on the head and just said, yes, yes, yes.
• 31:00
  So this is very beautiful when you can meet Consciousness
• 31:03
  because that's where a person like I who is very much I have
• 31:08
  Many of my own thoughts and feelings.
• 31:11
  But most people whine about it because they have some shit to
• 31:14
  say about Humanity or they just do, you can't be this.
• 31:16
  There's no. What do you mean?
• 31:18
  What are you talking about? When I hear the psycho
• 31:21
  Educators, you know, they make me giggle, sometimes a person
• 31:24
  who's not jealous, man, and I'm thinking, man, should I present
• 31:27
  myself to, some of these, let them experiment, you know, I
• 31:30
  don't know like which one is. And then I'm like, I laugh about
• 31:33
  it because the reality is, That's So Not, there's so many
• 31:36
  Enlightenment. So, Adrian people out there, And
• 31:39
  so many of us we need, that's why we need to be able to be
• 31:42
  here and say, yeah we don't have this this this and this because
• 31:45
  we actually were able to have no XYZ BFG and we didn't need to be
• 31:49
  take care of or redeem we're not looking for that.
• 31:52
  We actually love our lives just the way they are.
• 31:55
  And we love independent people because that way we can all be
• 31:58
  happy and married together. So, you know, here's where and
• 32:02
  we don't do Eagle sensitive people.
• 32:04
  We only put up with the ones that ended up along the journey
• 32:07
  with us and I I'm shouldn't say that but we all put up with each
• 32:11
  other. I know my family puts up with me
• 32:12
  all the time. All of my loved ones, put up
• 32:15
  with me. And so we always will tease, you
• 32:18
  know? This is where I am bossy, I
• 32:21
  can't be repetitive, I can be a worrywart, I can be a bunch of
• 32:24
  things with my family and they are bunch of things with me and
• 32:29
  we're not perfect, because that's not what relationships
• 32:32
  are about. It's actually about being able
• 32:34
  to grow up together. So if there's one thing not
• 32:38
  being Feminine always knows is that we can grow up together and
• 32:43
  that we don't need to suffer. So the whole twin flame thing,
• 32:46
  we will look to meet whatever is needed in order for those
• 32:50
  protector lenses of the Twin Flame people that we meet to go
• 32:54
  down because we don't have to be anything we are already.
• 32:58
  Obviously going to be a something whether that be
• 33:01
  friends or potential lovers, it doesn't matter but we will have
• 33:05
  known each other is what I'm trying to get at.
• 33:07
  And so the The feminine of the Enlightenment silly group will
• 33:11
  not be looking to try and create any situation because we enjoy
• 33:17
  the company of our loved ones. And again, the one realization
• 33:21
  will be that we will have overestimated and or thought
• 33:27
  that we had found. If you will again a person that
• 33:32
  can match the mental and emotional and physical Financial
• 33:37
  societal again, in the sense of Independent human being.
• 33:40
  So a constant a constant in all ways shapes and forms and that
• 33:46
  will be revealed to be untrue because of the emotional
• 33:50
  component not being there and the protector lens is what comes
• 33:55
  up because we're emotional being.
• 33:56
  So we are reactive or we autonomous feminine, is a ton of
• 34:01
  - we don't want you to take care of us.
• 34:02
  We don't need you to pamper us. We don't actually have this,
• 34:06
  you're making us cringe as you treat us like that.
• 34:08
  That this is one of the reasons why we don't do if we have to
• 34:12
  play along to make you feel strong will do it.
• 34:15
  But that already is like man you know, seriously, you need to
• 34:19
  feel this worthiness this way. Like but that's another, you
• 34:24
  know, again situation that people do keep with each other,
• 34:30
  the other sole troops, but for the enlightenment.
• 34:33
  Yeah, we don't, it's you're not independent, obviously, if you
• 34:37
  need to feel You don't even know you're strong.
• 34:40
  So now I have to pretend to make you feel strong.
• 34:43
  And yes I did say the word pretend because I was a teenager
• 34:48
  and I remember people being insecure.
• 34:50
  And I'm like, oh my god. Seriously like just but I
• 34:53
  thought it was teenagers. This is the part so now that I'm
• 34:56
  an adult in the psychoeducation, it just makes everything so much
• 34:59
  more organized, I'll between feminine and masculine if
• 35:03
  they're not in their Enlightenment.
• 35:04
  Still a jerk for us. They're going to be a child a
• 35:08
  teenager Major. I don't even know.
• 35:10
  There's so many different ways that there that they come across
• 35:13
  when they're engaging with us and or when we see them engaging
• 35:16
  with each other, the part that's sad is when we see the suffering
• 35:20
  cycle. So here's where I am so sad for
• 35:24
  like my attachment style friend and I hope they find Solace.
• 35:28
  That's where we love when our family and loved ones, find
• 35:31
  their their group because now we know they're happy.
• 35:35
  Now we know, they got to find the people who help their
• 35:38
  bottom, You feel happy? So they're going to live a happy
• 35:40
  life which is very different than the lifetime of an
• 35:44
  adventure. But again, not everybody is
• 35:47
  going to be in this spectrum for different reasons and that's not
• 35:52
  good or bad, we will perceive it.
• 35:54
  So what we pick up on is the attachment wound and the trauma
• 36:03
  and so that's somatic stuff comes up in the person's body.
• 36:07
  And in fact, It's because that nervous system is organized with
• 36:11
  a touch cry, collapse. Submit please appease fight.
• 36:13
  Flight. Freeze Fawn freeze, pause, shut
• 36:15
  down. And they will have their every
• 36:19
  year, we have cycles. And so, now, while before I only
• 36:22
  had the knowledge of karma or Dharma, right?
• 36:26
  I also could see with Ascension every time the full moon or the
• 36:30
  new moon or these planets moving around the people and their
• 36:33
  themes. Like it's very easy for me to
• 36:35
  spot because one they come And talk, right?
• 36:39
  We talk to each other about life.
• 36:41
  And so there's an ability to notice.
• 36:43
  And most of the people that you'll have in your life, you'll
• 36:45
  know them pretty much your entire life.
• 36:47
  So, you know, that's where that's at.
• 36:50
  And you in time, notice truths, of course, and the repeats.
• 36:55
  The repeats are not our business, but the repeats are
• 36:59
  part of our day-to-day life because they're our loved ones,
• 37:01
  right? So like with my attachment style
• 37:03
  friend, they've grown, they've grown a lot.
• 37:05
  They still have the same attached cry, do so.
• 37:08
  So hopefully this is the year that they'll find solace in that
• 37:12
  they can settle into their soul age group, which is the one with
• 37:15
  relationships our society and they can keep doing Karma that
• 37:18
  way. And so, in this case, this is
• 37:21
  where that unfulfillment keeps coming up because all masculine
• 37:26
  Czar unfulfilled. They have a feminine outside of
• 37:29
  them. It's again, the only difference
• 37:31
  when somebody is from the feminine perspective, they will
• 37:35
  have Claire's. So they will have a relationship
• 37:38
  with the Around, they will be highly sensitive.
• 37:41
  Don't have to be female, they will just be highly sensitive
• 37:44
  and they will be able to pick up on each other's energy.
• 37:47
  So you're more likely to find them in the whole holistic
• 37:50
  naturopath, all that stuff, but you'll also find the ones who
• 37:53
  begin to grow up to the. That's both feminine and
• 37:56
  masculine, and they're going to grow up by learning new subject
• 37:59
  matters as well. So, the feminine though, is the
• 38:02
  one who will have that idea, I'm gonna be taken care of.
• 38:07
  I want to be taken care of. I want to feel protected, okay,
• 38:10
  so they're going to want the masculine energy.
• 38:13
  You see them when they're talking about it?
• 38:15
  And this type of story We the masculine is going to want
• 38:20
  instead you have that so other so age groups, they want these
• 38:24
  types of identifiers for us. No, don't don't bring me one or
• 38:30
  the other, you know? Because again, it's we're equal
• 38:33
  plane physically. No, I'm not strong, but I have
• 38:37
  strength in. Every other area, which is
• 38:40
  called my own, you know, willpower my brain everything,
• 38:43
  you know the only place is physical, but other than that,
• 38:46
  you know, again we we shouldn't have to worry about that, right?
• 38:50
  So that's where we won't be concerned with our physical
• 38:54
  safety because will make sure that be smart about it.
• 38:56
  And so the masculine though of the indictment still age, group
• 39:00
  will not look to have a situation of that's attached to
• 39:07
  each other and Stifle each other, they'll be independent.
• 39:10
  And really what it is, is there's many different ways that
• 39:14
  they will understand what manipulation is.
• 39:17
  And that's where it's by encountering, you know,
• 39:21
  feminine, that takes advantage of their compassion, not because
• 39:24
  they're taking advantage of it, necessarily in a mean way, but
• 39:28
  they'll be used. So, they'll find being used,
• 39:31
  they'll find other areas and that will not feel very good.
• 39:38
  Good obviously furthermore as they become a true masculine,
• 39:44
  once they got to their own Enlightenment still age groups,
• 39:48
  they say true masking because a true masculine to a true
• 39:53
  feminine and I really should just use the enlightenment
• 39:56
  still. A true person will be a
• 39:57
  differentiate itself. It will be a person who
• 40:00
  understands that we are each unique but we're each
• 40:04
  independent mentally emotionally physically financially socially,
• 40:08
  or if we're not. It's okay.
• 40:10
  It's about being able to we're in 2023, okay?
• 40:13
  Like I don't even know how to pose this but there's a whole
• 40:16
  different way we have Lifestyles.
• 40:18
  This is why we have polyamorous polygamy, monogamy.
• 40:21
  You know, he she it, they, the reality is the times are
• 40:24
  changed. So anyone who wants to stay in
• 40:27
  rows of male, female or this type of energy, they're all in
• 40:30
  other soldiers, it comes down to what is a real functional
• 40:35
  adults. Is a person who is not In their
• 40:38
  relationships because they need validation from each other and
• 40:42
  while the psycho Educators work with people who have issues,
• 40:46
  because they really do have insecurities, that's why they go
• 40:49
  to them. And they don't, then they even
• 40:51
  have to negotiate with these people, to get them to say same
• 40:54
  thing. Goes with people in the
• 40:55
  spiritual or only the spirituality elements.
• 40:58
  Any person that I see who's not yet ready to see that humanity
• 41:01
  is not shitty like they can realize we're imperfect, you
• 41:05
  know like that they have an ego that bruises.
• 41:08
  That's just, you're still on your journey.
• 41:10
  Any person who has an issue with anything without the awareness.
• 41:14
  That it's my own opinion isn't one thing.
• 41:17
  It's my own opinion and I can own it, and then I can exchange
• 41:20
  it. This is why the nice exchange
• 41:21
  with the Divine master in the making, because they own their
• 41:24
  opinions, I own my opinions. And this is why, again, there's
• 41:28
  just different ways. When, a person's conscious
• 41:32
  conscious means they're taking ownership of the self, the
• 41:35
  psychological floor, that is their own And so, they don't
• 41:39
  have to tend to their insecurities with any other
• 41:42
  people. And, in fact, they don't want
• 41:44
  to, they want to tend to their own Awakening, their own sense
• 41:50
  of safety security. So there's a realization if they
• 41:54
  get to this Independence, the masculine side because the
• 41:57
  feminine are already independent.
• 41:59
  If the maskings got to this Independence, they will be in a
• 42:03
  place of not looking to the feminine energy.
• 42:07
  She as needing them because they will know.
• 42:10
  We have both energies, we're both masculine and feminine.
• 42:13
  So they will have had their own experience to get to wholeness.
• 42:17
  And that's because they're not seeking their parents in a
• 42:22
  partner, the one way shape or form, they become aware and, or
• 42:26
  are not seeking to have a partnership because they must be
• 42:30
  taken care of, or redeemed, they get out of all of this illusion.
• 42:34
  And so, once they're out of all this illusion this All of the
• 42:38
  feminine is completely not there because they already were
• 42:42
  compassion in the first place. The feminine.
• 42:44
  The only difference between again feminine masking is that
• 42:46
  we are unconditionally loving already were compassionate and
• 42:49
  welcoming the mature ones and the mature ones will want to be
• 42:55
  protected by their Master unit. Okay, the ones who stay?
• 42:58
  Another sole troops, they will want to become pretty and you
• 43:01
  know, whatever it is, that makes them feel all flowery and you
• 43:03
  can see, I can see people who are working into that Spectrum
• 43:06
  online. I'm like, I can see those who
• 43:09
  instead they only develop the masculine part of it.
• 43:12
  Okay. So the enlightenment.
• 43:13
  So HR person we are not one or the other.
• 43:15
  We're both all on our own whether female or male and we
• 43:19
  actually again feel very much. Wow, this is awesome but we do
• 43:23
  know which side we stand with. So like with me I know I'm a
• 43:27
  feminine because I don't want to be harsh.
• 43:29
  I don't like being harsh. I don't like being categorical.
• 43:33
  I will not set up any type of rule book.
• 43:35
  I will let you even think you're walking.
• 43:37
  Over Me versus have to defend, my will only defend myself
• 43:41
  physically speaking. That's it.
• 43:43
  Other than that, I don't want to have any type of Confrontation.
• 43:46
  It's not because I'm uncomfortable by the way.
• 43:48
  It's because I don't want to waste my time in it.
• 43:51
  And so, here's where I know by having the comparison with The
• 43:56
  Divine masculine the making, that's the whole difference is
• 43:59
  that there's an inclination to be okay with setting up certain
• 44:03
  types of structures and being firm.
• 44:07
  I prefer compassion and that's because of one for me.
• 44:12
  The knowledge of how shame keeps people stuck from my personal
• 44:16
  experience, the unnecessary suffering, which now, I know
• 44:20
  from the psycho educational perspective is an actual mental
• 44:22
  prison for people, but again, once you achieve your wholeness
• 44:27
  one would be able to know, okay, I'm inclined to be from this end
• 44:32
  of the spectrum. And usually, it's because by the
• 44:34
  way, the masculine comes out of. As we've been saying the ego
• 44:37
  Dark Night of the Soul. So that is for that.
• 44:41
  If we want to look into the immature feminine that I
• 44:44
  described, they would become an empowered compassionate feminine
• 44:50
  with a level of again request. So they will see themselves with
• 44:55
  a specific type of masculine energy is the best way I can put
• 45:00
  it. And on that note, back to what I
• 45:04
  was trying to get to as well. Once we realize Guys, immature
• 45:08
  emotional and immature, mental situations.
• 45:11
  We don't engage because we don't have anything to say about it.
• 45:16
  We're actually intrigued to find out if there are ways that we
• 45:20
  can be of support because only if a person is ready to see
• 45:25
  their protector lenses. So that means they would be
• 45:28
  aware of it, like, my attachment stuff, and they were not aware
• 45:32
  of it. And even if they are aware of
• 45:34
  it, it's not in a way of taking ownership because they I want
• 45:37
  those people to tend to their needs, the emotional ones.
• 45:43
  And here's why when said grew spells out that people don't do
• 45:46
  their spirituality Journey. He says, it's not because they
• 45:50
  don't want to. It's that once you get married,
• 45:52
  once you do this, once you do that, you're going to start
• 45:54
  having things to do. And you're not going to be
• 45:56
  looking within. And I don't know if he yet has a
• 46:00
  full spectrum on the somatic experiencing approach or any of
• 46:04
  the psychoeducation stuff. But even if he does or did, I'm
• 46:09
  sure he's connected at all, to the yogic Sciences because the
• 46:13
  same thing has happened in the somatic.
• 46:16
  You will find that people who work with the body.
• 46:18
  They talk about yogic science and they talked about the
• 46:22
  feminine and it's the time of the feminine.
• 46:25
  But here's where an established again and Lightman.
• 46:29
  Still age. Your feminine will not be taking
• 46:33
  any of those beliefs or ideologies and setting them up.
• 46:37
  in the Forefront, what we set up in the Forefront is where people
• 46:42
  and we have you know the body and we have different ways that
• 46:46
  we've evolved they are going to set it up practically It's not
• 46:51
  good or bad, it's just a different way because when you
• 46:54
  give people answers not stories, when you give them explanations
• 47:00
  not stories, you're empowering them with information, that's
• 47:05
  what creates Independence. And so, here's where the
• 47:08
  feminine when pushed when push comes to shove in the
• 47:13
  indictments will age group, we will spell out what we know to
• 47:17
  be true, and we will not be Cuddling or compassionate or
• 47:22
  like oh let me keep pretending know at a certain point in like
• 47:27
  the whole twin flame Journey. When there's a push of, I'm
• 47:30
  going to keep doing and accusing and whatever it is.
• 47:33
  That's taking place. We will say no enough.
• 47:35
  This is enough. This is bullshit.
• 47:38
  And however ways you know it's come out it's come out because
• 47:42
  of the what happens is there's I don't even know how to explain
• 47:48
  it but at a certain point the On face is too much.
• 47:51
  It's too much for us to put up with the bullshit.
• 47:54
  And really, we've only put up with it when we do, because
• 47:57
  we're trying to be nice about it.
• 48:01
  And really, we're just trying to see if that protector lens will
• 48:06
  come off. So that the truth can come forth
• 48:09
  because we know that beneath the surface, there's an ego that is
• 48:13
  hurt and that's where doesn't matter what it can look like.
• 48:18
  We will simply be nice. Nice, until we are not able to
• 48:22
  pretend anymore because too much, too forceful to whatever,
• 48:28
  and it's going to be like, no, that's not going to work.
• 48:32
  And so, here's where we're not like crying over anything.
• 48:35
  Because we in the entirety of any of our soul relationships,
• 48:42
  try to seek how we can bring forth the ideal harmony with who
• 48:47
  we are. And with, who you are, who you
• 48:49
  are, is chosen. By use, if you're going to stay
• 48:51
  in your limited potential, that's great.
• 48:53
  You stay in there. Just don't get into my lane and
• 48:56
  that's what isn't going to work for people who are masculine
• 49:01
  because they are not emotionally or mentally secure.
• 49:03
  So they are looking for their parental relationship in you and
• 49:08
  you're not doing that because you're not doing, you're not
• 49:12
  babying and you're not, you know again a parent you're not you're
• 49:16
  not trying to tend to any needs because that's not what the
• 49:18
  relationship is about. The Ship is about enjoying life
• 49:21
  as it is and as two individuals who are their actual independent
• 49:26
  human beings, you know. So yeah, we don't we don't do
• 49:31
  any of the okay, let me keep on saying yes, to anything in the
• 49:37
  circumstances where we are brought to have to speak up in
• 49:43
  ways that we will not be very fond of but that we will take up
• 49:48
  and here's where Not even using our neocortex and the way that I
• 49:54
  was sharing it with you and this other episode, we will not truly
• 49:58
  speaking. Have the ability to spell out
• 50:02
  how we feel, and think about something because we genuinely
• 50:06
  will have tried to say, this is who I am.
• 50:09
  I don't understand who you are or what you're doing.
• 50:13
  You know, at this point, it depends on how the journey
• 50:15
  everybody has a different story but it will be like yeah that's
• 50:19
  that's not that's not Right, this is not right.
• 50:21
  It doesn't matter what you want to want, to how you want to
• 50:24
  justify it and how its told To Us, by the way, doesn't matter
• 50:27
  either because we're not thinking of being attacked.
• 50:30
  Meaning, when a person manipulates gaslights or is
• 50:33
  lying or is being passive-aggressive, or will use
• 50:39
  their specific ways. That throughout my years, I will
• 50:42
  see people all people do what they do because they have
• 50:47
  attached cry, collapse. Submit please appease fight
• 50:49
  flight, freeze fun. Please pause.
• 50:51
  So now I'm actually always aware which, which charged state I'm
• 50:54
  dealing with what their, what their game is, you know.
• 50:57
  And it's not a game to me, but it's a game that they don't even
• 51:00
  know they're playing. By the way, which is why it's
• 51:02
  not a game. The one that still requires that
• 51:06
  longer time as the please appeasers because they mask
• 51:10
  completely their body and then their calculative which is where
• 51:14
  they actually are good at studying other people and they
• 51:17
  are good at hiding but see because they're hiding So here's
• 51:21
  where the feminine is their own masculine for a reason.
• 51:24
  And the enlightenment, so age group and we are not pretending
• 51:26
  to care, we actually do care. We don't judge people because we
• 51:29
  don't have to, you're not me. I'm not you.
• 51:31
  I ain't going to judge you like from our body.
• 51:33
  We're always at a venture of ego state, which is why we
• 51:35
  understand how people are like, ah, you can't be that loving
• 51:38
  because they're going to think you're pretending or are.
• 51:41
  You can't not care. If not we're not pretending.
• 51:43
  We actually are at ease in our body with anyone and everything,
• 51:46
  unless your physical threat, that's the only time our body
• 51:49
  will begin to. Of there's a threat here so
• 51:52
  we're not pretending to care. We really do and we're not using
• 51:56
  this prefrontal cortex to try and figure you out because we
• 51:58
  don't want to figure you out. We're allowing you to be
• 52:01
  yourself because we want to get to know who you are.
• 52:04
  The please appeasers, they're not doing that.
• 52:07
  They are actually not only scouting their area, your
• 52:11
  energy. They're trying to figure out,
• 52:13
  they're not going to pick up anything.
• 52:14
  Because again, you're in your rental vehicle until they pick
• 52:17
  up what is going to be when we're picking up on them.
• 52:20
  Them. Then they're going to start
• 52:21
  picking up on stuff, which is why the more you move into your
• 52:25
  Enlightenment. So age group, The more instead
• 52:27
  like with my friend, when they, you know, started yelling at me
• 52:30
  and I'm able to maintain my composure and I'm talking to
• 52:33
  them and I was able to stay in that sense of East to the best
• 52:38
  of my ability. So, we learn how to be just
• 52:41
  complete somatic empaths, with this compassion, this pencil
• 52:45
  vagal system. Because, you know, that person
• 52:47
  to me wasn't being rude, I knew immediately, they Are there
• 52:51
  reacting? I was mortified.
• 52:52
  I was sad. I was all these things and I was
• 52:54
  probably picking up on how they felt too, which is why I was
• 52:57
  like, okay I just need to try and make it clear to my friend
• 53:00
  that I didn't mean to offend them.
• 53:01
  You know. And let me bring peace to this
• 53:04
  thing. That was all that was going
• 53:06
  through my mind. My stuff was my stuff.
• 53:09
  I knew that I have nothing to do with this stuff, but long story
• 53:12
  short, the people who are people Pleasers appeasers, they are
• 53:16
  actually bullshitters and so they're their quote unquote, the
• 53:19
  worst Because we end up finding out later because what they're
• 53:22
  doing is pretending to agree with us, they're hiding their
• 53:25
  feelings. They're hiding them so well,
• 53:27
  because they've learned, since they were infants how to do this
• 53:30
  because of authoritarian household, unsafe households,
• 53:33
  whatever it may be, it's a way that their body learn to protect
• 53:36
  themselves. So we will notice it only in
• 53:39
  time. And in fact, it comes out it's
• 53:42
  come out in the past years, for four years about at least twice,
• 53:46
  two times that I'm pretty. Certain because I like to always
• 53:52
  leave things out in the open, we don't make assumptions that are
• 53:54
  set in stone ever two times, though.
• 53:58
  I figured in time because of interactions because, you know,
• 54:02
  there's only so much bullshit. You can handle before your
• 54:08
  actual true feelings come out. And that's not because you're
• 54:12
  choosing, it's because they're there.
• 54:14
  The truth will always set a person free because it stays
• 54:17
  stored in your body. So the thing is a, please
• 54:20
  appeaser doesn't know that they're doing this because of
• 54:22
  their own trauma and attachment history.
• 54:25
  This is why feminine will never tell any of their masculine
• 54:30
  something in a certain way because we will already know.
• 54:33
  Like, we know with our entire oversoul.
• 54:35
  That something is up. That is a wound.
• 54:38
  It's not our business and we don't want to pry it out.
• 54:41
  We don't want to pull teeth. You tell us if you want and if
• 54:44
  you don't it means you don't want to.
• 54:47
  We respect privacy very much and More.
• 54:50
  We respect that a person chooses, who they feel safe,
• 54:53
  because they must trust your own body.
• 54:55
  Of course they must. This is the part, we're not in
• 54:58
  it to be anything. And so, one thing is for sure
• 55:02
  is, were very sad that there's not trust, but it's very
• 55:05
  understandable when you understand safety behaviors of
• 55:09
  trauma, which is why we don't make a hissy fit, whether it be
• 55:12
  friends, love the whoever it is, we don't make a hissy fit.
• 55:16
  And that's because it's their business not ours.
• 55:19
  And you know, what if they don't want to share it, then that's
• 55:22
  fine. Again we don't need to be in
• 55:24
  each other's lives. So we will be upset because they
• 55:28
  will have shown us that they don't trust us to want their
• 55:31
  best interest that they don't, but we will not be aware that
• 55:34
  this is all coming from Fear meaning until we are, of course.
• 55:38
  Thank you Chama experts and somatic experiencing people
• 55:42
  because that's the only reason I human being will actually be
• 55:44
  able to stop crapping on. On each other, which is why all
• 55:47
  those mental Advocate people until they're talking ill about,
• 55:50
  they're narcissists, sociopath or psychopath.
• 55:53
  I'm going to keep saying, hey, I think you need to revisit a
• 55:55
  little bit more of trauma education, because apparently
• 55:58
  you didn't get the memo that it's not a choice to have an
• 56:00
  inflated ego. It's not a choice to be a liar.
• 56:03
  It's not a choice to Gaslight. It's not a choice to do any of
• 56:06
  these things now that they can be helped supported.
• 56:09
  Yes, but what I'm trying to say is you turning your back on a
• 56:11
  person, you care for and just calling them an energy vampire
• 56:15
  or Somebody who says, I am in favor of mental health, but then
• 56:19
  the person who manipulates you, you say, peace out.
• 56:23
  I'm creating my boundaries. These are all people who still
• 56:25
  have wounds and it's not good or bad, they still need therapy and
• 56:29
  fact and they're still healing. So until they are completely
• 56:32
  healed, they will not be able to be actual somatic and pass and
• 56:35
  they're definitely not in the enlightenment.
• 56:36
  So age group. Again, it's not a race, it's a
• 56:39
  choice. But for those of us who are here
• 56:41
  because we do actually only care only care.
• 56:45
  And I mean, in it, in the way of all people are people, there's
• 56:49
  not an issue and actually standing near somebody who may
• 56:52
  be a narcissist sociopath or psychopath and say, hey, you
• 56:54
  know what, I'm in it for the long run, let me see how can I
• 56:57
  help as long as you're not any, you know, physical threat to me
• 57:01
  and as long as you're not, creating hurt all around you, so
• 57:06
  here's where that full-blown narcissist.
• 57:09
  For example, this is something very unique, one of the whole
• 57:13
  three twin flame experiences. I do not regret any one of the
• 57:18
  choices that I made because I tried helping a person that I
• 57:22
  care about that. Other people have judgement is
• 57:27
  something that I already knew would be possible.
• 57:30
  And I accepted that risk and to this day, I can say that I would
• 57:35
  still do it again, because there is no reason why I shouldn't
• 57:39
  have helped a person who can have, if they had the right
• 57:43
  people, they could be helped. Narcissist can be helped.
• 57:47
  This person can be helped but if their family saying they sold
• 57:50
  their soul to the devil will guess what?
• 57:52
  They're not going to get help or like, my attachment style
• 57:55
  friend, who instead of seeing the benefit of what I tried
• 57:59
  sharing in the year that we were connected.
• 58:01
  No, I want friends that give me their time and I don't want to
• 58:05
  go to get any therapy because I should not have to work on
• 58:08
  anything. It was not about you having to
• 58:10
  work on anything, you know. So again feminine will be
• 58:13
  straight once they have to be if they have to be but we will not
• 58:16
  because we will know what shame means because we will see how it
• 58:19
  destroys people. But by the way like here's the
• 58:22
  thing we're in rigidity does not do anything except for
• 58:24
  destroyed. So we will rather seem like we
• 58:29
  don't care or whatever it is that people want to interpret
• 58:32
  then sit back and or do something that we know will
• 58:37
  potentially trigger a reliving of trauma because that's the
• 58:42
  other part. The reliving People don't know
• 58:47
  what happens when a narcissist is being sent Away by their
• 58:50
  loved ones, which is why I like. So I think of one of my friends
• 58:54
  that I hope I can help because they're definitely a person who
• 58:57
  lies and lies. I mean, it's just something that
• 59:02
  I don't even know if I'm going to be able to help them with
• 59:04
  what I have understood their pattern to be.
• 59:07
  And it's because they already have a therapist but their
• 59:10
  therapist is in a sensory motor or somatic one.
• 59:13
  So they're not working with the bottom up and this Person will
• 59:16
  close out with this, they have a very specific cycle every year.
• 59:20
  I got to be around them. So here's what we get to notice
• 59:23
  the feminine, which tortures us to death is a person's pattern
• 59:27
  and that's where it's become. Even more obvious to me so much.
• 59:30
  So that in just the past week, I've noticed another two and
• 59:34
  then, there's the part that people they don't actually have
• 59:37
  awareness of their protector lenses, or of their shame cycle.
• 59:40
  And they don't call it that because, of course, no person's
• 59:42
  going to call what they have a cycle there.
• 59:46
  Maybe talk about it as karma. But even then, when people are
• 59:48
  40 talk about Karma, they don't know what they're talking about
• 59:50
  because if they did they'd be out of it.
• 59:52
  So again, we don't set up anything because I said we're
• 59:58
  points out, it's not our job to expand.
• 1:00:01
  People who choose to stay in specific States Of Consciousness
• 1:00:04
  has, and it's really about it being a responsibility.
• 1:00:07
  And it's not even about the fact that we can't take it on.
• 1:00:09
  Is that if a person doesn't become mindfully aware of their
• 1:00:13
  own patterns, we can speak from They to the morrow.
• 1:00:17
  And here's why again we will always do what we will do.
• 1:00:20
  The feminine of the indictments will age group with love and
• 1:00:23
  kindness. Please appeasers, they do it by
• 1:00:25
  pretending once. If they figure it out that's on
• 1:00:28
  them, you know. So that I'm closing out that
• 1:00:31
  part of the story but finishing up with the feminine who's their
• 1:00:36
  own masculine. We will always not have regret
• 1:00:41
  because everything we will have done, we will have done from a
• 1:00:43
  pureness of We Care. This It mean, right or wrong?
• 1:00:47
  It means that we did the best we could and we're okay with that
• 1:00:50
  because flaws and Imperfections are of all.
• 1:00:52
  But one thing we will know, we will not have done.
• 1:00:55
  We will not have made false accusations, we will not have
• 1:00:58
  tried to hurt people on purpose. We will not have in any way,
• 1:01:02
  shape, or form, done something to try and hurt another life.
• 1:01:07
  We will have tried to have what is called a conversation.
• 1:01:11
  And of course we all learn how to manipulate language because
• 1:01:14
  Here's Where We Are. All will read each other's
• 1:01:16
  nervous systems. It's humanly what we do, right,
• 1:01:19
  brain? Right brain, so feminine and
• 1:01:22
  masculine like learn to read each other.
• 1:01:24
  The difference is the feminine doesn't do it because we need to
• 1:01:26
  protect ourselves from people. We actually learn how to be more
• 1:01:30
  compassionate and when we meet those protector lens, most of
• 1:01:33
  the time, we're pretty good at keeping the peace because we
• 1:01:35
  avoid them. The only times were not quote on
• 1:01:38
  quote good at meeting the pieces because they are looking to be
• 1:01:41
  taken care of or redeemed. And we will not do that.
• 1:01:45
  We're not creating In a codependent relationship.
• 1:01:48
  So those please, appeasers, we end up finding out about them
• 1:01:51
  later on because they're trying to please appease us because
• 1:01:54
  they think we're going to reject them at a certain point,
• 1:01:56
  obviously, you don't reject them.
• 1:01:57
  So the truth comes out and that's when the differences come
• 1:02:00
  out, which is where for the feminine, who's their own
• 1:02:03
  masculine no big deal for the other end of the growth.
• 1:02:06
  Depends, if they don't agree with your belief system, they
• 1:02:08
  might distance themselves. They might go find their other.
• 1:02:10
  We groups you do. We actually are not fond of
• 1:02:13
  keeping them around. Anyways, because We were in the
• 1:02:16
  relationship to begin with because we like, who they are
• 1:02:19
  the minute that we've learned, they were pleasing.
• 1:02:20
  Appeasing, is the minute that we've learned, they lied to us,
• 1:02:23
  which is the minute that we will now know.
• 1:02:26
  We can't tell you what we think, because you're just going to try
• 1:02:28
  and make me happy and I'm not trying to be made happy.
• 1:02:39
  I don't want to be made happy. I wanted to actually have a
• 1:02:42
  conversation in. This is not a conversation.
• 1:02:46
  So again, when we are around the please, appease one is a very
• 1:02:52
  fascinating experience, because we will have understood that
• 1:02:57
  there's the trying to tend to us in a way that we're not looking
• 1:03:03
  to be tended. To this is we have the feminine
• 1:03:07
  with their own masculine is looking for partnership, which
• 1:03:10
  means adults, and each person is who they are.
• 1:03:15
  We Stand it though, humanly speaking.
• 1:03:18
  So from all the circumstances that I have experienced, this is
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  we're learning that it's not lying.
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  Obviously please appeasing. It's a safety Behavior.
• 1:03:27
  Manipulating gaslighting. All of these are essentially
• 1:03:30
  shame blame for Revenge cycles and people who don't have
• 1:03:34
  Clarity of their adaptive child responses or protector
• 1:03:38
  responses. So for us, we know it's not a
• 1:03:41
  conversation anymore. Now you apparently think that
• 1:03:45
  you know, whether Again a friend or partner that I want you to
• 1:03:48
  take care of me and or say yes I don't want you to see us.
• 1:03:51
  I like the exchange we like exchanges.
• 1:03:54
  Hmm. And this is where when those
• 1:03:56
  masculine from our twin flame experiences come into the mix.
• 1:04:00
  However maybe same thing goes. We're not asking to be pleased.
• 1:04:03
  Appease, we're not asking to touch cry.
• 1:04:05
  We're not asking to collapse submit, we're not asking
• 1:04:09
  fight-flight, we're not asking. Freeze pause, we're not asking
• 1:04:11
  shutdown. We're not asking for the
• 1:04:13
  adoptive child, you're asking. And really we're not asking, we
• 1:04:17
  are engaging from a differentiated self when we meet
• 1:04:21
  the protector lenses, we learn, what's what?
• 1:04:23
  And so this please appease is one of the ones that takes us by
• 1:04:27
  surprise because in two ways that's what it's going to look
• 1:04:31
  like. I'm trying to take care of you,
• 1:04:33
  we don't need taken care of. I'm trying to be worthy in your
• 1:04:37
  eyes. I don't need to deem you worthy.
• 1:04:39
  You're worthy as you are, we're independent people.
• 1:04:42
  If you need my reassurance, that's not how it's going to be.
• 1:04:45
  I'm not supposed to reassure you as a friend as a lover as a fast
• 1:04:49
  as anything. And here's where, while the
• 1:04:53
  cycle is Educators, keep talking about people needing this
• 1:04:57
  Enlightenment. So a true feminine.
• 1:04:58
  We are not wanting this. It's called a person who doesn't
• 1:05:02
  know how to be there differentiate itself.
• 1:05:05
  And so whether friend family lover or not the feminine is not
• 1:05:10
  going to play, it's not even a game.
• 1:05:12
  We just we cannot create dependency.
• 1:05:15
  So we are in fact, again in a detached we love pure love is
• 1:05:22
  not through attachment or entanglement, may I add so
• 1:05:25
  masculine wants to get out of. There you go Slumber, stuff.
• 1:05:28
  Which is not even Slumber once they get out of their protector
• 1:05:32
  lenses. But once they start using their
• 1:05:35
  brain, the way that the psycho educator spelt out and I loved
• 1:05:40
  her real. When he says, it's very easy to
• 1:05:42
  snap people out of Shame. He's very direct with his
• 1:05:44
  clients. He People with relationships
• 1:05:47
  actual people who are together and he's the first to says,
• 1:05:50
  people manage each other better bet.
• 1:05:52
  A famine is not going to be managed and we don't want to
• 1:05:54
  manage you and so we're not. This is the that's work,
• 1:05:58
  relationships aren't work and probably gets a little out of
• 1:06:03
  hand when we get to this. Because, you know, the please
• 1:06:06
  appease is a tricky one, when it comes from people who are
• 1:06:09
  friends and family. And so, in that sense, it's
• 1:06:14
  because we got Got it. They're just trying to make sure
• 1:06:18
  we stay there friends and love them that mammalian Heritage and
• 1:06:22
  it's less personal because it's not that partnership.
• 1:06:28
  The word partner means something to the feminine, he's an
• 1:06:31
  independent masculine as well. It means we can see eye to eye.
• 1:06:36
  It means we can. Build means we will build it
• 1:06:39
  means that but this is why we overestimate again, All the
• 1:06:44
  masculine is really, but particularly those who come
• 1:06:48
  across our path, and we will know they're that again to
• 1:06:52
  inflame experienced in Flames, or just if even if it's not the
• 1:06:56
  twin flames as soul mates, we will overestimate in the sense
• 1:07:00
  of think that in front of us, we have a conscious piece of life
• 1:07:04
  that can speak their mind, can speak their feelings will not
• 1:07:09
  shy away. And will be a constant because
• 1:07:11
  they will be able to be in this. Which is not the case for all of
• 1:07:17
  the people who are not in their Enlightenment.
• 1:07:19
  So a troop for the feminine, who's their own masculine.
• 1:07:24
  Okay. And so yeah, please appeasing in
• 1:07:27
  the case of partnership. Don't try to make me happy.
• 1:07:30
  I didn't ask you to make me happy.
• 1:07:32
  I don't want to be made happy. I want a human being who can
• 1:07:35
  stand behind the words that they speak from their mouth, that can
• 1:07:38
  take the steps that they speak through their legs.
• 1:07:40
  And that then can also hold compassion.
• 1:07:43
  Has compassion, is actually something that we have and we
• 1:07:47
  will not put it down. So when we are in any type of
• 1:07:52
  relationship, we are still in favor of humanity and how we're
• 1:07:59
  headed and when I say that, I mean we're the biggest
• 1:08:02
  cheerleader of human evolution and Consciousness.
• 1:08:05
  We cannot be with somebody who will not be able to hear us talk
• 1:08:09
  about how beautiful we think life is.
• 1:08:12
  And this is a Side note because here's where we're always able
• 1:08:16
  to make anything work, the feminine with the masculine any
• 1:08:20
  relationship because we're autonomous adults.
• 1:08:23
  So the reality is any masculine that will have crossed our path
• 1:08:29
  to inflame. So made or not, we will be able
• 1:08:32
  to make room for them and on that note we'll and with this is
• 1:08:36
  why, for me, at least realizing from the enlightenment.
• 1:08:40
  So age group, masculine has to be awakened from their shame
• 1:08:46
  cycle from their blinders because it's It's a way that
• 1:08:54
  they can get in touch with their own actual feminine, which is
• 1:09:01
  with their own ability to choose.
• 1:09:03
  Am I going to become a differentiated self?
• 1:09:06
  Mentally emotionally, physically financially socially?
• 1:09:10
  Again, financially is not a big deal but the ability to be on
• 1:09:15
  affected by other people. All people people meaning even
• 1:09:20
  the partner. Okay.
• 1:09:22
  If there's a Wonder if you will and stuff like that.
• 1:09:24
  So that's why polyamorous, for example, for the feminine in
• 1:09:30
  this case. And I raise my hand because we
• 1:09:33
  will recognize our oversoul. We have Claire's.
• 1:09:35
  There's a lot of different things that take place in our in
• 1:09:38
  our day-to-day, and in our life and in the dream state.
• 1:09:42
  And one people of my oversoul are engaging.
• 1:09:44
  So there's always these different aspects that are a
• 1:09:47
  part of our journey, which is also why For the enlightenment.
• 1:09:52
  So they drew person. It will not be an actual
• 1:09:56
  partnership with people who don't have the ability to
• 1:10:00
  venture off into every subject matter there is.
• 1:10:03
  And, you know, again, the Divine masculine means even the ones in
• 1:10:07
  the making they stand very firm on their grounds, which doesn't
• 1:10:12
  allow room for full creativity to go into Infinite territory,
• 1:10:19
  which is where are we? Just love imagination man.
• 1:10:23
  And so you know, if we can't be in the we're not going to have
• 1:10:27
  much to share with anybody because our mind wants to
• 1:10:30
  wander. And so here's this is a side
• 1:10:33
  note. But to please, appeaser, they
• 1:10:35
  will pretend to say yes, but they won't be participating will
• 1:10:38
  notice that. And if there are pretending to
• 1:10:41
  make us happy will notice that it will say why, you know,
• 1:10:44
  you're not listening you don't care about it.
• 1:10:46
  It's okay. So that's where the more you
• 1:10:50
  become aware. Our of when you are in this
• 1:10:54
  indictment. So a troop, what it means.
• 1:10:58
  We are empowered. We don't want the person to Baby
• 1:11:01
  us and us baby them. We don't need to be told you're
• 1:11:04
  happy, we're serious when we talk.
• 1:11:07
  So this is we're serious because we we are thinking it through,
• 1:11:11
  we're feeling it through there. There's a reason why we're
• 1:11:14
  presenting to you our thoughts and our feelings.
• 1:11:17
  If you're not going to take me seriously, because you don't
• 1:11:20
  agree with With it, I will be okay with it but I will know
• 1:11:23
  that that's not going to allow our constant expansion together
• 1:11:29
  and so it's a one of those areas for friends.
• 1:11:32
  The same thing goes and with the friends and family and stuff
• 1:11:37
  like that, it's still about you pretended to agree because
• 1:11:41
  you're afraid of sharing your own opinion and that means you
• 1:11:44
  don't trust that I am going to show you love you which makes me
• 1:11:46
  very sad. And now also knowing though that
• 1:11:49
  you don't know how to speak your truth.
• 1:11:51
  And so when we see Lies, We just get used to people lying because
• 1:11:54
  they don't know how to speak their truth because they're
• 1:11:56
  afraid that they're going to be rejected or they're trying to
• 1:11:59
  make us happy. And so again, we're not looking
• 1:12:01
  to be mothered or fathered by the way, in either or and this
• 1:12:05
  would be the same for once the masking gets into their own
• 1:12:08
  feminine and is in their Enlightenment so age group.
• 1:12:11
  So they would be equal at that point in the way on the way
• 1:12:17
  would be where they're not looking for.
• 1:12:21
  Conversations that are like, yes, yes.
• 1:12:24
  Yes, they want. Also to have conscious
• 1:12:27
  conversations that move Beyond and into territory that they are
• 1:12:32
  curious about. And so the masculine with their
• 1:12:35
  own feminine, also is able to navigate infinite because they
• 1:12:39
  have passion, they have purpose, they have Drive, they have
• 1:12:42
  everything that they want in life, they know life is easy and
• 1:12:46
  they want, you know, a partner. If there is that because the
• 1:12:50
  reality is in life, So the age group people don't need anyone,
• 1:12:53
  life is beautiful and we always will have someone because, you
• 1:12:58
  know, again we have siblings, we have friends, we will have each
• 1:13:01
  other. So that's why the person who is
• 1:13:03
  here, as a, differentiated self isn't bothered with anything.
• 1:13:08
  Different states of Consciousness again, flight,
• 1:13:11
  freeze, farfan freeze past, shut down.
• 1:13:14
  It's all about shame. Blame for Revenge.
• 1:13:17
  So we have a bit of, so sad that people don't know that.
• 1:13:21
  They can be their own parents, but then again, it's not sad.
• 1:13:23
  There's plenty of ways that they can try to get there and then
• 1:13:26
  there are those who find Solace. And so in the years in time we
• 1:13:31
  just learned whatever safety behaviors, and the choice of
• 1:13:35
  moving out of those are of the people as they present to us if
• 1:13:39
  they want to, we'll know the ones who are serious about it
• 1:13:42
  because the ones who are serious about it when their shame cycle
• 1:13:46
  and their patterns come up, they are the ones who come and
• 1:13:50
  address them. Openly with us and here's why I
• 1:13:54
  like the HP content will only resonate consistently and grow
• 1:13:58
  with the community who is thinking about life, with
• 1:14:02
  Enlightenment as your inclination with 5D as your
• 1:14:06
  inclination. So you unconditionally loved
• 1:14:08
  Humanity, you unconditionally love who you are.
• 1:14:11
  You know, you have flaws and Imperfections.
• 1:14:13
  You don't speak ill of people who have biological rudeness
• 1:14:16
  narcissists, sociopaths Psychopaths.
• 1:14:18
  You don't speak ill of them, you understand?
• 1:14:21
  Or at the very least, you're going to start learning or
• 1:14:23
  whatever you hear from here. These episodes, what it means
• 1:14:26
  for people to actually have a journey ahead of them.
• 1:14:30
  You know, it's educational for reason.
• 1:14:33
  Personal development is a choice moving out of attachment wounds
• 1:14:37
  and traumas, also choice, it's very challenging for those who
• 1:14:40
  have shame we don't have to be pointing it out to them because
• 1:14:43
  when that happens, what really happens is that their shame,
• 1:14:46
  gets that much bigger. So what we learn in a way that
• 1:14:53
  is sad to us. Again, the feminine with the
• 1:14:55
  masculine is that we cannot speak our own truth and feelings
• 1:14:59
  because people around us, are that ego sensitive That's all we
• 1:15:04
  learn. In fact, twin flame thing.
• 1:15:06
  The only reason for sad stories because all we learn is that we
• 1:15:09
  got another individual and we are individuals, who don't know
• 1:15:12
  how to talk about their thoughts and feelings and who apparently
• 1:15:14
  get into whatever mood is, is they decide to get into and that
• 1:15:19
  once they've done that, it's like, okay, dealing with the
• 1:15:21
  same immature individual as any other immature individual, which
• 1:15:25
  is every other Soul age group besides the enlightenment one.
• 1:15:28
  It's very straightforward. So the feminine really again,
• 1:15:31
  breath of fresh air. When you meet at least
• 1:15:32
  semi-conscious - Divine masculine the making or divine
• 1:15:36
  feminine the making, because they are owning their energy.
• 1:15:41
  And we can feel that the others we love because they're part of
• 1:15:45
  our over. So we love them.
• 1:15:47
  We run along the path with them. Their energy is where it's at is
• 1:15:51
  how I'm going to. It's just very straightforward.
• 1:15:54
  They usually represent a specific number of pieces of
• 1:15:57
  information. They represent a specific box,
• 1:16:00
  they represent a specific thing. So as a person who can perceive
• 1:16:05
  We perceive their level of expression and they then make it
• 1:16:11
  very clear to us through conversation when their safety
• 1:16:15
  behaviors are on. We just learned how to not
• 1:16:18
  engage with them and the reassurance it depends always on
• 1:16:23
  the person but really we don't reassure so like with please
• 1:16:26
  appeasers, we don't do anything in the case of I'm trying to
• 1:16:30
  make you happy will say, dude I didn't ask you to make me happy
• 1:16:32
  or do that. At the case of I wanted your
• 1:16:36
  approval so I was pretending the whole time along it's like okay.
• 1:16:40
  Now I know what you actually believe which is opposite of
• 1:16:43
  what you would say you believe. And now I know that you're just
• 1:16:46
  playing along because x y z. So we'll we'll because of course
• 1:16:50
  there's a history of interactions and when we look
• 1:16:53
  back with the actual truth in mind, please appeasing
• 1:16:56
  everything was a facade. So all of this is false, what is
• 1:17:00
  true? Is this and we have the
• 1:17:02
  protector lens in the fourth. Which means we know exactly how
• 1:17:05
  we can handle you the next time around, because we won't trigger
• 1:17:08
  any of your fears because we don't want to have anything to
• 1:17:11
  do with your fears because we're not here to baby you.
• 1:17:13
  The thing is, we're not here to be the parents of any person and
• 1:17:18
  like men. So the agent we're here to live
• 1:17:19
  life with people and luckily, we have loved ones who put up with
• 1:17:25
  our own flaws and Imperfections and they don't baby us either.
• 1:17:27
  They tell us what they think. They say fuck you, fuck you, we
• 1:17:32
  can say, fuck you as many times. As we want, we can even tease
• 1:17:35
  about it and laugh about it in each other's faces and it's very
• 1:17:38
  easy. We learn how to navigate formal
• 1:17:42
  places because we don't want to hurt people's feelings and
• 1:17:46
  because we actually do know without a shadow of a doubt that
• 1:17:49
  if we told them the truth, their feelings would be hurt.
• 1:17:52
  Because that's what you go sensitive people do.
• 1:17:55
  And that's exactly where all these other Soul, age groups are
• 1:17:58
  for us. So we are always curating and
• 1:18:02
  see, here's where I love when Segura calls it transformational
• 1:18:05
  leadership. I think at the psycho Educators
• 1:18:08
  when they say, you know, people really need to make manipulation
• 1:18:10
  something that's not good or evil.
• 1:18:12
  Because in order to get along all together, we all manipulate
• 1:18:16
  and when you look at the fact that we have words, well, guess
• 1:18:19
  what? And you know what?
• 1:18:20
  I really like actually more than anything is when you meet
• 1:18:23
  Consciousness and they're ready to present to you.
• 1:18:27
  So I'm still thinking of that Divine masculine the making
• 1:18:29
  because they're they're so adorable and cute.
• 1:18:33
  And it's just so awesome to hear certain things presented to me
• 1:18:37
  because I know my traits, I know who I am.
• 1:18:39
  Right? So whenever there's the ability
• 1:18:41
  to be presented, something that I do know I have, but it's in a
• 1:18:45
  way of saying I noticed this about you.
• 1:18:48
  So here's why I call bullshit on this sentence.
• 1:18:50
  And it's like, okay, wait a minute, let me clarify and
• 1:18:54
  they're actually intrigued because they do get it.
• 1:18:56
  So there's a way that they pick up on the part again.
• 1:19:01
  Enough time reveals to person that Feminine with their own.
• 1:19:05
  Masculine is just being nice. It's being compassionate, it's
• 1:19:08
  saying okay to something as soon.
• 1:19:10
  Okay, the misunderstanding quote unquote and that's what we will
• 1:19:15
  try. When presented the opportunity
• 1:19:17
  to share is that they think we are trying to say that we don't
• 1:19:23
  do these things. We don't judge we don't, you
• 1:19:26
  know, have opinions, where nothing.
• 1:19:28
  There's the idea that we're stating aspects to deny To say
• 1:19:33
  that we don't have the attributes of a person and so
• 1:19:38
  that's why we understand and that's why I get to present to
• 1:19:41
  you more things because of being able to have this exchange and
• 1:19:45
  these exchanges. And it's like, okay, yeah,
• 1:19:47
  mammalian Heritage wise, the psycho Educators, they say a lot
• 1:19:50
  of things that's like, you know, the feminine doesn't have these
• 1:19:53
  traits, we don't feel shame. We don't feel the rejecting
• 1:19:56
  thing. We don't need to be validated,
• 1:19:57
  we are actually already a differentiate itself, this
• 1:20:00
  posture of collapse. It doesn't come about And we
• 1:20:05
  don't need to shine brighter than anybody else.
• 1:20:07
  You know, we got plenty, I got plenty of stories.
• 1:20:09
  I don't know if I shared the one, because this is a remake of
• 1:20:12
  the ending, but I'll share it in some other episode.
• 1:20:16
  Long story short, though, we will have learned how to be nice
• 1:20:23
  because we will not have been able to speak our own opinion.
• 1:20:26
  So when presented with the opportunity to say, hey, now
• 1:20:29
  we're not saying we don't judge because we're not a human, we're
• 1:20:32
  saying we don't. Don't create, you know, a
• 1:20:35
  sentencing. But of course, I have an
• 1:20:37
  opinion. Of course, there are things that
• 1:20:39
  I agree with more, or not more. So, here's where when those
• 1:20:43
  questionings come from a actual Divine masculine in the making
• 1:20:48
  their ask because the person stands behind what they think
• 1:20:51
  and feel and they're open to more consciously because they're
• 1:20:56
  actually open to of the exchange, your also open to
• 1:21:00
  building the relationship because they've noticed a trait
• 1:21:03
  of A person that obviously they're interacting with and so,
• 1:21:07
  it's in these moments that you build relationships, and if
• 1:21:12
  that's not happening, we will most of the time which is where,
• 1:21:16
  it's not because we will notice the facade versus the presence
• 1:21:22
  of I'm intrigued and I want to know more.
• 1:21:26
  And I can see that you're different and I stand here and
• 1:21:29
  I'm intrigued by what is different with actual curiosity.
• 1:21:34
  Their nervous system is in ventral vagal, they're safe and
• 1:21:36
  social, they're not interacting. I want to compete with you.
• 1:21:41
  I'm an insecure ego. I'm an immature ego.
• 1:21:44
  I'm an immature masculine or feminine.
• 1:21:47
  I'm an immature person. I'm an adoptive child, I need
• 1:21:50
  protection, I need taken care of, I need Redemption, I need to
• 1:21:53
  feel worthy. I need you to say yes to what I
• 1:21:56
  want, or I'm going to have to say yes, okay, all these
• 1:21:59
  attached by collapsing with these apiece, flight freeze, for
• 1:22:02
  all the, Stuff. So it's always going to be
• 1:22:05
  either, you are truly interested engagement or no, you're not,
• 1:22:08
  you're competing with me, you're in an insecure place.
• 1:22:11
  When I answer, you're giving me your opinion or you want me to
• 1:22:14
  adhere do it because you want me to be you and here's where we
• 1:22:18
  are just like, okay, let me see how to create a situation that
• 1:22:24
  doesn't allow any of the feathers to be ruffled if you
• 1:22:28
  will. But that's yeah, something we're
• 1:22:32
  just really Not even we don't even get halfway through a
• 1:22:37
  sentence usually that's what happens.
• 1:22:38
  We don't get halfway through a sentence before.
• 1:22:40
  We were able to already know where we're at and you know if
• 1:22:44
  there's one thing I will say that is intriguing when it comes
• 1:22:49
  to meeting Consciousness. Like this Divine masculine, the
• 1:22:53
  making is that you are engaging actively with life.
• 1:22:59
  So the Twin Flame thing and soul mates and oversoul.
• 1:23:02
  The only difference here is that we will recognize them so we'll
• 1:23:08
  recognize are merging will recognize the energetic.
• 1:23:12
  Imprint so will recognize it which is what makes the bonds
• 1:23:16
  stand out, what makes us, you know, interact.
• 1:23:20
  But when I compare my oversoul, all of it with the Divine
• 1:23:24
  masculine making and conversations.
• 1:23:26
  Like when I have conversations on an energetic in Yeah, I mean
• 1:23:31
  this this one's over because only a million times, because I
• 1:23:34
  have a life who's engaging with me on all levels, mental
• 1:23:40
  emotional and physical, like they're intrigued, but and so
• 1:23:44
  that will Trump the energy of what is something that, of
• 1:23:49
  course, it's home. Of course, we know home.
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  So my over so is my home. All my loved ones are my home.
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  I have nothing to say about. Out the shame blame for Revenge
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  Cycles, except for, I'm sad for people.
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  But then again, those who find Solace.
• 1:24:04
  They're happy. So, there's nothing to be sad.
• 1:24:06
  About the people who suffer like my attachment style friend.
• 1:24:10
  I still am here if they want, if they need support.
• 1:24:12
  You know, so this is where our relationships.
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  They don't actually go through any type of transformation.
• 1:24:19
  We recalibrate a feminine, recalibrates to support their
• 1:24:22
  entire oversold and will do it because they're not taking
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  anything away from us because the only So we can gift each
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  other's time and time, we don't have a lot of it.
• 1:24:32
  Anyways, because everybody's busy with life.
• 1:24:34
  So the reality is we will tend to our loved ones to the best of
• 1:24:37
  our ability. Because why wouldn't we?
• 1:24:40
  But if we have to talk about when you're experiencing life,
• 1:24:43
  so here's why we don't have this idea of twin flames have to be
• 1:24:46
  anything. No no we're treating people like
• 1:24:49
  people. And it will be, it's not about
• 1:24:54
  it being confusing. Again, we'll have overestimated
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  our own masculine because we will know there are twin flames
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  so we will think and know them to be what they are but the
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  thought and here's where we create our own illusion.
• 1:25:09
  Again, we think that they are emotionally and mentally mature
• 1:25:14
  and able to be with us authentically and transparently
• 1:25:17
  until we start realizing that they're not Not and then we
• 1:25:21
  figure out how can we bring Harmony and allow, you know, the
• 1:25:25
  recalibration to begin because really, you're just
• 1:25:28
  recalibrating it to another area that will be good for both
• 1:25:33
  energies involved. So, for us, it's easy to allow
• 1:25:36
  ourselves to enter a sphere that is in neutrality land.
• 1:25:41
  Because we're coming at it from Enlightenment, a constant there
• 1:25:44
  and non-duality, I'm presence. And will be in neutral the
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  minute. You're touching upon topics That
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  differ than us because we want to hear what you have to say.
• 1:25:54
  And this is why it makes all the difference when you got an
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  empowered person in front of you, which is why, when they
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  pointed out, you know, inside I laugh, every time I get pointed
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  out something and the way they pointed out because I'm like,
• 1:26:05
  wow, okay, yeah it is here. But you're the first person
• 1:26:08
  who's actually noticing this in this way and I and intrigued
• 1:26:12
  enough to point it out or you know, you have the balls to
• 1:26:15
  point it out. I guess you could say because
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  some people, that's what exactly.
• 1:26:19
  They don't have the balls to Isn't their thoughts, but they
• 1:26:21
  don't have the. And in this case, what I mean
• 1:26:24
  is, they're not even aware of it, because the reality is, it's
• 1:26:26
  a person who's aware of themselves, if you're aware of
• 1:26:29
  yourself and you know what, you want, who you are, what you
• 1:26:32
  think you're not looking for a person's approval, you're not
• 1:26:35
  looking for them to say you're worthy.
• 1:26:37
  So this is the exchange that we get to have with each other as
• 1:26:41
  people. And that's where the indictments
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  will age group. We don't do.
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  Please appease, we don't do attached prior.
• 1:26:47
  We don't do collapse submit, we don't do unconscious.
• 1:26:50
  We'll have to use whatever we can and we don't have to we
• 1:26:56
  automatically recalibrate to the energy in the room.
• 1:26:59
  We don't even notice that we're doing it.
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  Which is why, when it's pointed out to us or like, okay, so
• 1:27:04
  you're different. Let me not.
• 1:27:06
  Let me come and talk to you for a little bit and so, yeah, it's
• 1:27:10
  really cute. It's amazing.
• 1:27:13
  It's amazing. So energetically speaking, we
• 1:27:16
  always recognize those who are part of our oversoul, And then
• 1:27:21
  we also always recognize Those Who present themselves and as
• 1:27:28
  they continue to present themselves where they're at,
• 1:27:31
  what they're at. You know, and the exchange of
• 1:27:34
  course, is the most amazing exchanges ever.
• 1:27:39
  So as we move into more and more of 5dc conversations and
• 1:27:43
  Enlightenment so age group and that type of time, I'll be sure
• 1:27:48
  to share more stories. It comes to the different types
• 1:27:52
  of exchanges. And remember, it's not about
• 1:27:56
  being what's the word. Well, I'm trying to build a
• 1:28:01
  community where we can understand.
• 1:28:03
  We are life sensitive, not ego sensitive.
• 1:28:05
  So the ability for Kali to come out and they're not to be Shiva
• 1:28:10
  the ability to know that this does not mean that we go
• 1:28:13
  pointing fingers at people. But the ability to say, you
• 1:28:15
  know, because when we meet immature emotions, it's beyond a
• 1:28:19
  reasonable I pulled out it's like, man again, you know.
• 1:28:23
  So we want to have different conversations.
• 1:28:25
  I want us to have open. And on all those emotional
• 1:28:30
  spectrums, Please Subscribe. If you're interested in those
• 1:28:34
  because this is where I plan on using our subscription-based
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  fee, but really it's because I want to be certain that the way
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  our stories go involved in Lightman, sole troop, inclined
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  or interested people because those who are in their ego are
• 1:28:59
  in a space, that does not involve the awareness.
• 1:29:03
  And, and so, what I mean by that is they take sides we want to
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  have or I want to have conversations where I share with
• 1:29:11
  you like with the Divine masculine, the making.
• 1:29:15
  Okay, here's where we're presenting.
• 1:29:18
  The differences, But it can get very heated and passionate
• 1:29:22
  because there are a lot of different areas.
• 1:29:24
  So, long story short, though I'm thinking of how to curate the
• 1:29:28
  content so that I'm a match what I'm looking to support those who
• 1:29:33
  are inclined to be here, with differentiate itself will have a
• 1:29:36
  lot of things to say, like, we see out there with people
• 1:29:40
  shouting at each other, but the difference is we are not
• 1:29:42
  shouting because we don't like each other.
• 1:29:45
  We are the ones who are saying, fuck you, fuck you for real.
• 1:29:50
  And here's why but we're not leaving our sides were actually
• 1:29:55
  able to continue this discussion because we are each a
• 1:30:00
  differentiated self-enlightenment, still a
• 1:30:02
  trooper differentiate itself so we sell.
• 1:30:05
  So we like to have exchanges. Plus the reality is when you
• 1:30:08
  have mature, emotions, and thoughts.
• 1:30:11
  This doesn't actually even happen, but there can be that
• 1:30:14
  over. So, right because our oversoul
• 1:30:17
  condensed really will still be in Making or anyways, you got
• 1:30:21
  plenty of people in different types of walks of life, so here
• 1:30:23
  you go. And so when we're meeting ego
• 1:30:25
  sensitive people, we're meeting the ones who say, I stand up for
• 1:30:29
  this, and then they turn and punch each other in the face,
• 1:30:32
  but they actually don't care about each other's well-being.
• 1:30:34
  So they'll stay still with the whole lot.
• 1:30:36
  You are the devil, you are this, and you're that.
• 1:30:39
  And that's where the difference is.
• 1:30:41
  We actually get passionate, we get very fired up.
• 1:30:45
  We have places, we sit and stand, but at the end of the Say
• 1:30:49
  if somebody tells me, I think you're a fucking asshole, I will
• 1:30:52
  still lift them up from the ground.
• 1:30:54
  If I see them, they are not my enemy, you know, nobody's my
• 1:30:58
  enemy, nobody's our enemy. If somebody is only physically
• 1:31:01
  life-threatening us, we get into this self-preservation mode.
• 1:31:05
  Other than that, everything is up for conversation.
• 1:31:07
  And so for the subscription-based model content
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  though if this is for lightworkers life so involves
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  our Claire's, then I have, I am expanding Consciousness and then
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  we'll also have some type of Sizes, like the inner growth
• 1:31:21
  mindset exercises, but it will be involving also somatic and
• 1:31:25
  the universal love energy transmission sessions for our
• 1:31:28
  free episodes is always going to involve different stories and so
• 1:31:32
  I still will share. Of course, the masculine
• 1:31:34
  feminine perspective from the indictments of age group.
• 1:31:38
  Obviously, as I keep stating, I'm from the feminine angle with
• 1:31:42
  my own masculine, but the masculine is very
• 1:31:44
  straightforward because it's ego death Dark Night of the soul and
• 1:31:48
  its people. Hang out of their, shame blame
• 1:31:50
  fault Revenge cycle. So it's people becoming aware of
• 1:31:54
  their own psychological floor of their own trauma and attachment.
• 1:31:59
  And so, because they're now, though out of it, that means
• 1:32:03
  they're going to be with their own feminine, so it means they
• 1:32:05
  can know that it's a okay to say, you know what, shame, go
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  take a hike, they're not going to be in the pity party of.
• 1:32:14
  Oh you need to be sensitive, you need to know that.
• 1:32:17
  Okay, I'm just trying to present that Because that's the
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  difference. We're not like, oh my God, you
• 1:32:21
  don't have a way out. Your we don't suffer for
• 1:32:23
  Humanity. We're evolving for grown-ups,
• 1:32:27
  and so that's again, the that type, I will keep Kali if you
• 1:32:31
  will and the actual rawness of this for our community because
• 1:32:36
  it needs to be done in a space where I know without a shadow of
• 1:32:41
  a doubt that at the very least, I got a group of people who are
• 1:32:44
  interested and inclined to be in 5D self empowerment Within
• 1:32:49
  alignment in the indictment. So a true otherwise you're going
• 1:32:52
  to misunderstand or it has room for misunderstandings that it's
• 1:32:57
  not where I want to head with that.
• 1:32:59
  So I wanted to be a place where people can understand and then
• 1:33:04
  by the way, you know, here's the other part, it's not only about
• 1:33:09
  understanding is that if you don't take ownership of your own
• 1:33:14
  charge stuff, you actually are like my attachment style friend,
• 1:33:18
  who in their And they are right for doing what they did and in
• 1:33:22
  any other person's mind, who wants the herd to give them the
• 1:33:26
  okay, they will think the same. This is where my friend in the
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  book of the Enlightenment. So they drew person is wrong,
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  not to mention with all the psychoeducation, they are wrong,
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  meaning, what they did is an example of an attached cry.
• 1:33:42
  It's the perfect actually. Like if you go and grab the the
• 1:33:46
  description, it's that plus ambivalent attachment and with
• 1:33:50
  all of the most creative ways, meaning, with the knowledge of
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  how any person will take when somebody's trying to support
• 1:33:59
  them. In, this Arena of Shame, blame
• 1:34:02
  fault Revenge cycle in this Arena of there.
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  Being a not safe attachment for a person.
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  So an attachment wound with a trauma.
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  Turi, with the knowledge without even needing to be in the
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  psychoeducation Community. I already knew how to handle and
• 1:34:20
  still to this day because we actually immediately know we
• 1:34:24
  have a person in front of us. Who needs more love?
• 1:34:27
  Who is in a state of stress? We know that they need
• 1:34:30
  compassion and firmness comes with maturity.
• 1:34:36
  So today I know how to be firm, which does not involve a firm.
• 1:34:40
  I'm judging you, it involves a Ventral Vegas state of I am here
• 1:34:45
  without being in a pity party because you know, this is where
• 1:34:48
  shame doesn't want you to feel. Oh.
• 1:34:51
  Poor shame though, they don't like that because the same
• 1:34:54
  teenager still pissed at the one-year-old, they need you to
• 1:34:58
  be, you know, don't have pity for me.
• 1:35:00
  I just want you to make. It's a child.
• 1:35:03
  It's a two-year-old, plus the teenager.
• 1:35:05
  So Here's where what I'm trying to point out.
• 1:35:08
  As a specific example, is that the enlightenment so age a
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  person will know that we're not wrong, but we won't say it
• 1:35:16
  because that's not the point. And here's why the Divine
• 1:35:19
  masculine in the making that I get to exchange with.
• 1:35:21
  They're like, you know, you're bullshitting.
• 1:35:23
  When you say blah, blah - I'm not bullshitting, but I get what
• 1:35:26
  you're saying because. Yeah, of course I know which
• 1:35:28
  side has validity for me, but that's not why.
• 1:35:32
  I'm here, I'm not here to do like hey here's my point of view
• 1:35:34
  on you. You're you I'm me.
• 1:35:36
  Me, I don't want to tell you who to be furthermore, as I was
• 1:35:39
  describing the attached cry. This friend is a perfect.
• 1:35:44
  One, two, three, four of structural dissociation, all of
• 1:35:48
  it. And they don't want to go to
• 1:35:50
  therapy and they're not learning to self regulate.
• 1:35:54
  So if they get lucky. So this will come with Co
• 1:35:57
  regulating with some person who matches their vibration on the
• 1:36:00
  attachment, whatever it is. Then this is where the spiritual
• 1:36:03
  stuff does come into the mix when people Build their karma,
• 1:36:07
  and they begin to take actions if they find their spot where
• 1:36:11
  they're taken care of. And they're redeemed.
• 1:36:13
  They find their soulless. We're all too happy for them.
• 1:36:16
  Does it mean they've expanded? No, but they are not capable of
• 1:36:20
  it. Apparently every time life tries
• 1:36:22
  to send them something they keep being hammered by it and here's
• 1:36:26
  where spirituality with food Guru comes in.
• 1:36:28
  So in this case I see the growth that my friend has made but they
• 1:36:32
  repeat the same cycles and they're in the same level of
• 1:36:35
  suffering. And so, From Human spiritual and
• 1:36:37
  spirituality. I can tell you all three of
• 1:36:39
  these and with the most attempts of trying to break it down to
• 1:36:45
  them authentically transparently.
• 1:36:48
  No formalities. You know, none of the cuz they
• 1:36:51
  would say, don't don't be in this place.
• 1:36:54
  I'm like, I'm not pitting you. There's not what this is.
• 1:36:56
  So all of this and at the end of the day, you know what, the
• 1:36:59
  protector lenses of an attached cry, the minute that you don't
• 1:37:04
  match what they want from that. Parent.
• 1:37:08
  This is where you are misaligned and now they're off on their own
• 1:37:13
  if they're ready to move beyond their shame cycle they will and
• 1:37:15
  if not they won't but this is actually something that happens
• 1:37:19
  to therapists that I'm getting to learn from.
• 1:37:22
  So once again we have a reaction of your the person I'm going to
• 1:37:28
  point my finger at and say you're not doing what I want you
• 1:37:31
  to do because you're not tending to my suffering.
• 1:37:33
  The way, I want you to tend to it, but I'm not going to claim
• 1:37:36
  ownership on it. No, I'm going to point.
• 1:37:38
  Point a finger, you're a bad friend.
• 1:37:40
  You're a bad friend, the other person that got accused and the
• 1:37:43
  same period of time. And then it's going to be I'm
• 1:37:45
  going to make new friends, here's where I'm going to go and
• 1:37:48
  these people, they're making me happy now.
• 1:37:51
  And that it was that I just needed to stand up how hard it
• 1:37:55
  is to get self respect from people that love you or
• 1:37:58
  something like that, right? So my parents didn't teach me
• 1:38:01
  how to get respect and it's so hard to get respect from people
• 1:38:03
  but now that I've learned to speak my truth, I'm going to
• 1:38:06
  demand respect from people That's a masculine for you.
• 1:38:10
  They're all masculine as anyone who's like I've been man, that's
• 1:38:13
  why. When said we're says didn't
• 1:38:14
  respect what he talking about. Respect is a representation of
• 1:38:17
  what people are. If you need self, respect to
• 1:38:19
  says, You must be crazy. Means you don't have respect.
• 1:38:23
  He already knows what a differentiate itself is.
• 1:38:25
  He just didn't put it into words.
• 1:38:26
  I am. We actually do automatically
• 1:38:29
  respect each other ourselves and that's why we don't need any
• 1:38:32
  boundaries and we don't need the whole.
• 1:38:33
  So all these ego sensitive people there Beyond childish for
• 1:38:37
  us. Yes, and here's where I'm going
• 1:38:39
  to leave that one because Kylie keeps wanting to come into this
• 1:38:42
  Enlightenment time and it's not time for that.
• 1:38:45
  What's time for is to say goodbye and to remember to have
• 1:38:49
  compassion for each other to disengage from anything.
• 1:38:52
  You can in order to just leave the protector lenses of people
• 1:38:55
  alone when they come out it's really bad for them.
• 1:38:58
  Not for you. It's they don't know where they
• 1:39:01
  stand, they have no idea that they're looking for the parental
• 1:39:04
  figures approval to be taken care of, or whatever.
• 1:39:08
  Is so they're not aware and their ways, they don't know,
• 1:39:13
  they don't know any better. Just, you know, for me it's
• 1:39:16
  learning how to drop it and it's the best thing that could ever
• 1:39:20
  come with really not having to do it many times, by the way.
• 1:39:24
  So, I've never dropped anything. It's usually the other way
• 1:39:26
  around like my attachment style friend.
• 1:39:28
  I'm dropping you because you're not meeting my demands.
• 1:39:30
  So, sorry, I have a job, you know, I don't know what else to
• 1:39:32
  tell you and for the other end of the spectrum again,
• 1:39:37
  Enlightenment still age would feminine, we seek people who are
• 1:39:41
  a match in maturity. So when we meet that we all know
• 1:39:46
  it, we always do. And when we don't we'll know
• 1:39:48
  that too. And it's not good or bad, it's
• 1:39:51
  something that happens because everybody is their own self and
• 1:39:55
  their own psychological floor, has its Journey.
• 1:39:58
  Some are shaky and some are very strong.
• 1:40:01
  And again, we're here to support each other.
• 1:40:04
  So let's be loving and kind. And remember, To turn our backs.
• 1:40:09
  So like for me I got a bunch of people that I look forward to
• 1:40:12
  being supportive and particularly I keep thinking of
• 1:40:15
  my one friend who I do know, they have narcissistic traits
• 1:40:20
  and I keep wondering because obviously it's only the
• 1:40:22
  beginning of our friendship and so I don't know if I'll be able
• 1:40:25
  to help them to move out of their attachment wounds and
• 1:40:29
  trauma, but I sure, I sure hope so, I really do and everybody
• 1:40:35
  else who obviously has something like that.
• 1:40:37
  That because it's nice to see when people are happy.
• 1:40:41
  So, so this is a good thing when we see our friends having solace
• 1:40:45
  in our loved ones. But some people, they really
• 1:40:48
  have more than just, you know, this type of interpersonal
• 1:40:52
  relationships do. I'm talking about the, like, my
• 1:40:55
  attachment style friend. I'm sure they could find Solace
• 1:40:58
  and I hope they do with like a partner, so they find one person
• 1:41:01
  that matches them, they'll be good to go.
• 1:41:03
  This other friend that I'm thinking about, it's different
• 1:41:05
  because they have Of soothing mechanisms that are not very
• 1:41:11
  great long-term. And so here's why I'm hoping and
• 1:41:15
  praying that I can be the friend that actually supports them.
• 1:41:20
  One of the friends they have friends, but not many put up
• 1:41:23
  with their inflated ego because it is an inflated ego and they
• 1:41:28
  definitely can be an asshole. So, you know, we'll see but in
• 1:41:34
  the meantime, you know, everybody I love Love, love that
• 1:41:38
  you're here. Keep tuning in and have a
• 1:41:40
  wonderful day. Love, love that you're here.
• 1:41:39
  Keep tuning in and have a wonderful day.