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Sins of Omission: The Failure to Love One’s Neighbor · Reformed Thinking

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Welcome to the podcast Reform Thinking.
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Today we're taking a deep dive into the source material,
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unpacking an assumption that, well, almost all of us make
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about our own goodness. Yeah, it's a very common human
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default setting for sure. Right.
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I mean, think about how you evaluate your day.
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When you are driving home from work, you are sitting in
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traffic, you are tired, and you run through this mental
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checklist of your behavior. You are looking at the things
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you actively avoided. Spot on, you tell yourself.
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You know, I didn't steal office supplies.
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I didn't yell at the guy who cut me off on the highway.
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I didn't cheat on my taxes. You look at that clean Ledger
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and you feel a sense of moral safety.
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You feel decent because like you said, we measure our
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righteousness by the visible jagged lines we managed not to
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cross. Yeah, it's like we think of
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morality as a well as a series of guardrails.
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And as long as our car doesn't smash into one of those
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guardrails, we consider ourselves excellent drivers.
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It is a very comforting way to live because it's binary.
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You either robbed the bank or you didn't.
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But when you step into the world of systematic theology,
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specifically looking at the human heart through the lens of
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the Westminster Confession and Reformed theology, that entire
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baseline assumption gets obliterated.
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Oh, it completely falls apart, Yeah.
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The sources we are looking at today argue that judging your
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goodness by the bad things you haven't done is a massive
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theological blind spot. We are unpacking the concept of
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sins of omission, specifically the failure to actively love
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your neighbor. It strips away all that padding
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we build around our daily routines.
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The premise of this deep dive is that harmlessness is an
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illusion. Which is a tough pill to
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swallow. We have this idea that passive
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compliance, just leaving people alone and minding our own
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business, equals holiness. But the text argues that God's
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law requires something far more aggressive and demanding than
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just a policy of non interference.
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So let's establish the ground rules for this.
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Where do we even start with defining a sin of omission?
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Because if we are moving beyond, just don't break the rules.
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Well, we need a clear standard. The anchor for the source
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materials entire argument is James chapter 4 verse 17.
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The text states the premise with unnerving simplicity.
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What does it say? It says therefore to him that
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knoweth to do good and do with it, not to him it is sin.
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That single verse redefines the boundaries of human guilt.
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Wow, yeah, that really does change the framework.
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It exposes a category of transgression that we naturally,
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almost instinctively, prefer to ignore.
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You can entirely refrain from theft, yet fail to relieve
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someone who is financially drowning.
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Right. You can successfully avoid
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speaking slander or gossip, yet refuse to speak words of comfort
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or gospel truth when someone desperately needs to hear them.
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So we are talking about the good that we withhold.
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It's a failure to act rather than an act of malice.
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To give this some systematic clarity, the authors point is
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straight to the Westminster Shorter Catechism, right?
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Yes. Specifically question 14, which
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asks what is sin? The answer provided by the 17th
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century divine's is brilliant in its precision.
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Let's unpack that answer. They state that sin is any want
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of conformity unto or transgression of the law of God.
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Notice the two distinct halves of that definition.
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OK, so a transgression is stepping over a line you are
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strictly forbidden to cross. It is an act of violation.
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Right, But a want of conformity is a lack.
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It is a failure to meet the positive shape of the standard
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God has set. That phrase want of conformity,
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The lynchfin. Here, let's think about why
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human nature heavily prefers the second-half of that definition,
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the transgressions. We love negative commands.
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Don't steal, don't kill, don't bear false witness.
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We latch on to those because they allow for entirely passive
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compliance. I mean, you can sit in a chair
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alone in an empty room for 24 hours, do absolutely nothing,
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burn 0 calories and successfully not murder anyone.
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Yeah, and then you can congratulate yourself on your
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stellar moral record. Which is why harmlessness is
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such a deceptive metric for our standing before God.
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The text argues that God's lot is not a vacuum.
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It requires positive, active love.
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Look at how Jesus summarizes the law in Matthew chapter 22.
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When asked about the greatest commandments, He doesn't frame
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man's duty in negative terms. He doesn't say, Thou shalt not
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bother anyone. No, he says.
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The second great commandment is Thou shalt love thy neighbor as
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thyself. That requires a disposition of
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sincere goodwill it. Requires concrete muscular
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action directed toward the physical and spiritual good of
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another person. Let's use an analogy to
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illustrate the mechanism of this duty.
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It helps separate passive non interference from actual
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righteousness. OK, lay it on me.
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Imagine a security guard hired to watch over a bank vault.
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One afternoon, a group of armed thieves walks in and starts
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emptying the safety deposit boxes.
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And what does the guard do? Security guard just sits in his
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chair behind the desk. He watches the entire robbery
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unfold. He doesn't hold the door open
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for the thieves, he doesn't hand them any tools, and he doesn't
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pocket a single dime of the stolen money.
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Oh, I see where this is going. Later, when the police arrive
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and question him, his defense is I didn't steal anything, I broke
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no laws. I am completely innocent.
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Any jury in the world would look at that guard and convict him on
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the spot. His defense is absurd.
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Right. Because by failing to act, by
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sitting there in passive silence when he had a specific mandate
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to protect that bank, he violated his duty.
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He didn't actively commit the theft, but his harmlessness
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means nothing by omitting the required action.
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He is entirely guilty of failing his post.
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If we pull that analogy out and apply it to the broader culture,
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we start to see how our entire society is structured to
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validate the security guards mindset.
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How so? Well, modern civil laws are
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built almost exclusively around the concept of non interference.
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Our civic framework is designed to keep us from injuring one
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another, stealing from one another or defrauding one
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another. So classical liberalism
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conditions us to believe that as long as we respect property
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rights and don't physically harm anyone, we have fulfilled our
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highest civic duty. Yeah, leaving people alone
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equates to being a good citizen. And the fatal flaw is that we
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take that horizontal civic framework and we project it
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uttered onto God's moral law. We assume God grades on a curve
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of external decency. We treat God like a cosmic civil
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magistrate whose only concern is that we don't disrupt the peace
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in his universe. But the law of God is a
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revelation of his own righteous character.
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Because God himself is generous, patient, truthful, and merciful.
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Right. And so the image bearers he
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commands are expected to reflect those exact same excellencies.
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He isn't just looking for an absence of crime, he demands the
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presence of his character in our actions.
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That really reframes how we have to read the 10 commandments.
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Even the negative ones like Thou Shalt Not Steal aren't just stop
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signs. The old Reformed theologians,
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guys like Zacharias Ursinus and the authors of the Heidelberg
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Catechism, had a very specific hermeneutic for this.
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What was their approach? They taught that wherever God
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forbids a sin, he simultaneously requires the contrary virtue,
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and wherever he commands a duty, he forbids the neglect of it.
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So the command Do not Murder isn't just a prohibition against
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taking life, it implies a positive, binding duty to
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preserve life and seek the physical well-being of your
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neighbor. Yes, and the command Do not
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Steal implies a positive duty to protect and promote the lawful
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good of your neighbor's possessions.
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This means neighbor love isn't some optional extra credit
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adornment to the Christian life for people who have the
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spiritual gift of mercy. No, it is structurally embedded
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into the very commandments we claim them to follow every
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single day. So let's look at how the text of
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Scripture explicitly targets this passive mindset.
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Where do we see the Bible dismantling the idea that
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minding our own business is a virtue?
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The source text provides some rigorous biblical exegesis to
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demonstrate this, starting in the Old Testament.
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Leviticus chapter 19 verse 18 is where the command to love your
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neighbor as yourself originates. I think the Hebrew word used for
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neighbor there is really significant, right?
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It is. The word is Rhea.
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Moses deliberately chose this word over more restrictive terms
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like ah, which specifically means a blood brother or an
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Israelite kinsman. So Rhea is much broader.
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Very much so. It refers to anyone in your
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proximity, anyone you encounter. The sphere of your
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responsibility extends to whoever God's Providence places
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in your path on any given day. And the word for love in that
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passage carries a lot of weight, too.
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It's not the way we use the word love today.
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Not at all. The Hebrew word is ahav.
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In a covenantal context like Leviticus.
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It does not mean a fleeting emotion, a warm sentiment, or
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just wishing someone well in your heart.
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It demands active covenantal loyalty.
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Right. It is a commitment of the will,
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often at great personal cost, to seek the highest good of that
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person in your proximity. Here is where the tension really
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ratchets up. Jesus takes that Old Testament
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concept from Leviticus and weaponizes it against the self
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righteousness of the religious leaders in the 1st century.
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The sources highlight three major parables and teachings in
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the New Testament that expose the specific danger of passing
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by. Let's look at the Good Samaritan
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first in Luke chapter 10. That is the definitive text on
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this issue. The setup is crucial.
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A lawyer asks Jesus, who is my neighbor?
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But the text tells us he asked us to justify himself.
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He was looking for a theological loophole to narrow his
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responsibility. He wanted Jesus to give him a
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finite list of people he had to care for so he could safely
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ignore everyone else. Yeah, and Jesus responds with
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the story of a man traveling down the road from Jerusalem to
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Jericho. And that road was notoriously
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dangerous. It was a steep drop in elevation
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full of caves known as the Way of Blood because bandits
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constantly ambush travelers there.
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So the man gets beaten, stripped and left half dead.
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And then the first two travellers come along.
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A priest and a Levite both see the man both pass by on the
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other side of the road. Now we have to look at the
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historical context to understand the mechanism of their sin.
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They likely have religious justifications for their own
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mission. Oh right, because of the
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ceremonial laws. Exactly.
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Well, spot on. According to Numbers 19,
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touching a corpse would render them ceremonially unclean for
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seven days. So if they were heading to
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Jerusalem for temple service, touching this half dead man who
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might die while they were helping him would disqualify
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them from their religious duties.
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So they wrapped their apathy in the language of piety.
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They convinced themselves that maintaining their ceremonial
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purity was a higher duty than showing mercy to a dying man.
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But the crucial detail here is the basis of their condemnation.
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They aren't condemned because they participated in the
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violence. They didn't swing the clubs.
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The robbers did the beating. The priest and the Levite are
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condemned entirely for their distance.
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They embody a religion that maintains an outward appearance
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of flawless orthodoxy while entirely neglecting active
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mercy. They were not violent, but they
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were loveless. Their omission proved that their
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piety was hollow. By contrast, the Samaritan, A
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cultural and ethnic enemy of the beaten man, draws near.
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He binds the wounds, corzine, oil and wine, puts the man on
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his own animal, pays for the lodging and promises to return
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and cover any additional costs. Jesus is showing the passing by
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when love requires action is a definitive transgression of
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God's law. We see the exact same dynamic,
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maybe even more terrifyingly, in the story of the wealthy man in
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Lazarus in Luke chapter 16. You have a man clothed in purple
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and fine linen, feasting sumptuously every single day,
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and right at his gate is Lazarus, covered in Thor's,
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hoping just for the crumbs that fall from the table.
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Look at what the text does not say about the wealthy man's
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behavior. That's the scariest part.
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It never says the wealthy man ordered his guards to beat
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Lazarus. It doesn't say he unleashed the
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dogs on them. He didn't curse him or drive him
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away into the street. He didn't commit any aggressive
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act of malice against him. He simply stepped over him day
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after day. It was a quiet, respectable sin.
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He lived in absolute abundance and allowed the misery at his
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doorstep to go entirely unaddressed.
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His comfort was untouched by mercy.
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He didn't actively create Lazarus poverty, but his refusal
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to alleviate it was his defining moral failure.
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And when the text moves to the afterlife, we see that this cold
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hearted disregard was enough to damn him.
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He possessed the ability to relieve distress.
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He saw the distress clearly and he remained totally unmoved.
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Which leads directly into the third major text.
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The source material examines the final judgement described in
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Matthew Chapter 25. Right where the Son of Man
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separates the nations like a shepherd separates the Sheik
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from the goats. The goats are placed on the left
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hand, condemned and told it apart into everlasting fire, and
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the ground of their condemnation is entirely based on an absence
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of action. I was hungry and you gave me no
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meat. I was thirsty and you gave me no
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drink. Naked, and you clothed me not.
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Sick and imprisoned and you visited me not.
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Notice their reaction? They are genuinely shocked by
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the verdict. They ask Lord, when saw we thee
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hungry or a thirst? They assume their harmlessness
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was a shield. They probably thought we didn't
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steal your food, we didn't throw you in prison, we didn't tear
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your clothes. They evaluated their lives by
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the negative commands, but Christ identifies their failure
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to minister to the least of these as a direct failure toward
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Him. It proves that their hearts were
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completely untouched by saving grace.
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Let's push back on the standard for a minute, because it feels
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overwhelmingly strict. Let's go back to James 4.17 to.
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Him that knoweth to do good and do with it, not to him it is
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sin. The source text points out a
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specific detail about the Greek syntax used in that verse that
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provides some necessary nuance. Yeah, the syntax prevents us
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from turning this into an impossible legalistic trap.
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The Greek participle for knowing indicates A settled established
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knowledge, and the participle for not doing is a present
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active participle which points to a habitual ongoing failure to
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perform the good. Wait, so let's get practical
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here. Say I am running late for a
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flight. I am sprinting through the
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terminal. I see someone drop a huge bag of
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groceries and I keep walking because I am panic about missing
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my plane. OK, I see what you're asking is
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that? The kind of sin James is talking
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about. Am I living in a state of
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apathetic rebellion because I missed that one opportunity?
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That is a vital distinction to make.
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Now, from a strictly theological standpoint, any failure to love
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perfectly is a falling short of God's glory.
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But James is targeting something much deeper than a momentary
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lapse in judgement. He is addressing A settled
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disposition of the heart. So he is talking to the person
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who consistently, habitually looks at the needs of others and
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chooses self preservation or comfort as a lifestyle.
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Right. It's not about a panicked moment
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at the airport. It's about a life architecture
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built on ignoring the neighbor. It is a systematic daily refusal
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to engage with the suffering or needs of those God has placed
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based in your proximity. So this habitual apathy isn't
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just a horizontal social failing.
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We aren't just talking about being a rude neighbor or a bad
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citizen. No, the theology runs much
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deeper. This brings us to the vertical
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dimension of the offense. The authors argue forcefully
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that failing to love a neighbor is first and foremost a sin
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against God himself. It is an act of moral
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insubordination against the Creator.
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We constantly reduce neighbor love to a horizontal issue.
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We think of it as a matter of courtesy, philanthropy or civic
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decency. But scripture elevates it to a
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divine command. When a person refuses to show
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Mercer they are not merely, they're not simply letting down
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another human being, they're actively rebelling against the
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sovereign who issued the decree. The severity of the sin is
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measured by the infinite authority of the God it defies.
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And it is also measured by the dignity of the person we are
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ignoring. The sources dig into the concept
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of the imago dei, the image of God.
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From Genesis chapter 1 onward, Scripture teaches that human
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beings possess a unique inherent worth because they are made in
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the likeness of their Creator. They reflect his rational, moral
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and relational attributes. When you neglect a neighbor, you
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are disregarding the imago day in that person.
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To ignore someone's suffering is to treat an image bearer of God
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as a disposable inconvenience. James actually points out this
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exact contradiction in his epistle.
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He says we use our tongues to bless God and then we turn
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around and curse men who are made in the similitude of God.
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The exact same logic applies to neglect.
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You cannot claim to have deep reverence for God while
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displaying contemptuous indifference toward His image
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bearers. It is a theological
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impossibility. This raises A fascinating
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diagnostic question about the human heart.
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If we are habitually omitting love, what does that actually
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reveal about what is operating beneath the surface?
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The sources argue it reveals A staggering amount of idolatry.
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Outward dramatic sins like explosive anger or adultery
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expose erupting passions, but sins of omission uncovered the
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silent, calculating idolatry that lives beneath the surface
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of our highly respectable behavior.
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A person may maintain a flawless public image, perfectly well
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mannered, while inwardly worshipping ease, comfort,
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convenience and self protection. We don't help because helping
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cost time and our schedule is our idol.
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We don't give because giving diminishes our own financial
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reserves and our bank account is our security idol.
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We enthrone the self where love should reign.
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Pride, unbelief, coldness, and the fear of man all converge in
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this sin of omission. It.
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Proves how thoroughly sin has penetrated human nature, because
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it is the fruit of a heart curved completely inward upon
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itself, seeking only its own preservation.
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If you're listening to this right now, you're probably
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feeling totally crushed, let's be honest.
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Yeah, if every person on the street is an image bearer, and
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if withholding act of love is an act of moral insubordination
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against God, am I sinning every single time I walk past a
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homeless encampment without emptying my wallet?
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That is the pastoral tension we have to navigate with tremendous
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care. I mean, am I sinning when I
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silence my phone because I just need an hour of peace knowing
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someone might need me? How do we manage this standard
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without falling into absolute paralyzing despair?
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We must differentiate between human circumstantial limitations
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and a cold, detached heart. God created you as a finite
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creature. You are bounded by space-time,
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physical energy, and financial resources.
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You literally cannot fix every problem, feed every hungry
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person, or relieve every affliction on the planet.
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God does not demand omniscience or omnipotence from you.
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So finitude is not a sin. The limitation of our capacity
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isn't the failure. Right.
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The sin occurs when we weaponize those very real limitations as
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an excuse. Or when we use modern
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therapeutic language like I'm just setting healthy boundaries
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as a polished, acceptable excuse for raw selfishness.
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The question at the end of the day is not whether you solved
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every problem you saw. The question is, what is the
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genuine disposition of your heart toward the specific
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neighbor as God has placed in your immediate path?
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When Providence presents a clear, unavoidable opportunity
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for mercy and you actually possess the means to act, do you
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move toward the need? Or do you harden your heart,
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sight a technicality, and walk away to protect your comfort?
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That forces us to look at the mechanism of our inaction.
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Are we genuinely incapable of helping in that moment, or are
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we just unwilling to be inconvenienced?
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Having established just how pervasive this sin is, and how
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impossible it is to justify ourselves through passive
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harmlessness, we need to examine how different theological camps
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attempt to handle this guilt. The source material takes some
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very clear polemical stances here.
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It contrasts reformed theology with several other frameworks to
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show how unique the reformed view of human ability really is.
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Let's start with how it addresses Arminianism.
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The text relies on the Reformed doctrine of total depravity to
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critique Arminianism. The Reformed view argues that
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fallen humanity is completely dead in sin.
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We do not possess the natural inherent free will to initiate
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or fulfill this radical self denying kind of neighbor love
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apart from sovereign regenerating grace.
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The human will is naturally in bondage to self love.
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Armenianism, according to the author's critique, suggests that
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man retains enough natural ability to choose to cooperate
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with God and produce this good on his own.
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The reformed counter argument is that if the standard of love is
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this absolute, relying on any native human ability is a recipe
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for either arrogance or despair. We need a new heart, not just a
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pep talk. The text also draws a sharp
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contrast with Roman Catholicism, specifically regarding how
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omissions are categorized in their moral theology.
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Yeah, the source notes that Roman Catholic moral theology
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often categorizes certain omissions as venial sins.
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These are considered lesser offenses that might damage our
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relationship with God but do not destroy justifying grace or
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warrant eternal damnation. The Reformed perspective,
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drawing heavily on the Westminster Confession, entirely
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rejects the mortal venial distinction in that sense.
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It asserts that every sin, whether an active Commission or
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a quiet omission, deserves God's wrath and curse because it is a
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violation of His infinite perfect law.
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There is no such thing as a minor failure to love an
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infinite God. Now moving into the modern era,
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the source material specifically critiques modern liberalism, the
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social gospel, and critical race theory.
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Let's look at how the authors deconstruct these movements.
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Now, to be clear to the listener, we are impartially
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reporting the arguments found in the source text here.
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We aren't taking sides on these political or social frameworks,
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just conveying the ideas the original authors present.
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Right. They argue that these secular
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and progressive frameworks essentially hijack the biblical
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language of neighbor love. The mechanism of their critique
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is fascinating. They argue that these movements
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take the vocabulary of Christian love and detach it from
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Christian theology. They turn the command to love
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into a form of legalistic political activism.
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Instead of offering genuine gospel peace through the
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forgiveness of sins, the source claims, these movements base
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their actions on analyzing shifting power dynamics,
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dismantling external societal structures, and pursuing utopian
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social projects. So, they argue, the world
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defines loving your neighbor as political advocacy, whereas the
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biblical standard requires sacrificing your own life for
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the spiritual and physical well-being of the neighbor,
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beginning with the proclamation of absolute biblical truth.
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Let's dig deeper into the critique of the social Gospel
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movement, which originated in the late 19th and early 20th
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centuries. The concern raised by the
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authors is that the Social Gospel shifts the focus of the
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Church away from substitutionary atonement and individual
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regeneration, and places it almost entirely on structural
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reform and physical relief. It offers physical help while
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neglecting the eternal state of the human soul.
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Think about the theological failure of that approach like
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this. Let's hear the analogy.
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Imagine a doctor working in an urgent care clinic.
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A patient comes in with a scraped knee.
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But the doctor looking at the chart also realizes this patient
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has a terminal, aggressively spreading disease that will kill
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them in six months if untreated. OK, a grim scenario.
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If the doctor cleans the scrape knee, puts a nice bandage on it,
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gives the patient a lollipop, and sends them out the door
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without ever mentioning the terminal illness, is that doctor
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actually showing love to the patient?
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No, that is medical malpractice. It is negligent.
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Right. And the sources argument is that
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providing physical bread, fighting for better wages, or
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pushing for social reform without providing the truth of
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the gospel is an incomplete and in the end, an unloving form of
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care. It is treating the knee while
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completely ignoring the terminal disease of sin.
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True neighbor love must encompass both the physical
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reality and the spiritual reality, because humans are both
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body and soul. The text also aims A critique at
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the opposite end of the spectrum, the prosperity gospel.
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How does the prosperity gospel fail the test of neighbor love?
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By turning the neighbor into a transaction.
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The prosperity gospel teaches a form of pragmatic mysticism
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where you give money or do good deeds with the explicit
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expectation of receiving a multiplied financial or material
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return from God. It completely corrupts the
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motive. You aren't sacrificing for the
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good of the neighbor, you are using the neighbors need as a
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slot machine to get a blessing for yourself.
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It is self love masquerading as charity.
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Let's bring all these broad theological frameworks down to
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the ground level. How do these sins manifest in
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our actual everyday behavior? The source material outlines the
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contemporary forms of loveless submission, and they are
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strikingly, painfully ordinary. They are the sins we commit in
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our living rooms and at the office.
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The text lists several disguises that a mission wears in the
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modern era. It mentions material,
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relational, verbal, familial, ecclesiastical, and digital.
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Let's unpack familial and relational omission first,
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because this is where the absence of harm is most
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frequently mistaken for the presence of love.
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Picture a husband and father. He works a steady job, he
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provides financially, he never raises his voice and anger, and
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he is never physically violent. By every sociological standard,
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he is a good guy. But he comes home, sits in his
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recliner and completely withdraws emotionally.
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He offers cold silence. He doesn't ask his wife about
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her burdens. He fails to provide spiritual
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leadership or tender affection. He is physically present, but
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relationally a ghost. He commits no act of aggression,
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but his omission starves the marriage.
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The same applies to parenting. You have parents who avoid all
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scandalous forms of abuse, but they completely neglect the
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steady, exhausting daily work of instructing their children,
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disciplining them in love, and praying with them.
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The text argues that the most painful wounds in a home are
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often not explosive acts of rage, but a established patterns
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of absence, emotional withdrawal and silent neglect.
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Then there's verbal omission. We live in an age of endless
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communication, testing, emailing, talking.
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Yet we frequently fail to speak when Love Actually requires it.
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We withhold encouragement from someone who is clearly
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discouraged because we are too busy.
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We withhold correction from a close friend who is wandering
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into destructive behavior. We withhold the gospel from an
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unbelieving Co worker and let's look at the mechanism behind
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that silence. Why do we stay quiet?
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The text nails the diagnosis. On this one, we remain silent to
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avoid awkwardness. It is vastly easier to say
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nothing than to risk relational friction.
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We convince ourselves we are being polite or keeping the
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peace when in reality we're just withholding truth out of pure
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cowardice and self preservation. The source also addresses
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ecclesiastical omission, omission within the walls of the
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church. This one is particularly
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convicting for the Reformed tradition.
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You can have a congregation that is doctrinally precise,
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perfectly orderly in its liturgy and highly conservative in its
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morals, yet completely marked by omission.
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You can sit in a Pew, pass a theological exam on the
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Westminster Confession, sing the hymns beautifully, and
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simultaneously ignore the weeping widow sitting three rows
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behind you. You don't create burdens for
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anyone of the church, but you don't lift a finger to bear
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anyone's burdens either. It is a doctrinally sound
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freezer. The final category the text
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highlights is Digital omission. This is brilliant because it
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addresses how we interact with information today.
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Technology allows us to appear well informed and highly
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connected while remaining the patched from actual human need.
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We've developed highly refined ways of evading the second great
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commandment while maintaining the illusion that we are
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champions of it. I think of it as a digital
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anaesthetic. You scroll through your social
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media feed and you see a tragic news story, a natural disaster
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or a post about a family whose house burned down.
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You click like or you type praying, or you share the post
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to your own timeline with a sad face emoji.
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When you do that, your brain gets a literal dopamine hit of
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righteousness. You feel a psychological sense
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of accomplishment. You feel like you just played
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the role of the Good Samaritan. You have publicly signaled your
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compassion to your followers. But what is the reality?
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You haven't offered a single physical bandage.
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You haven't sacrificed a dime of your actual money.
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You haven't given up five 5 minutes of your time to drive
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over and help the person. Digital media mimics compassion
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without requiring an ounce of actual sacrifice.
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It anesthetizes our conscience, making us feel moral while we do
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absolutely nothing. If a listener has stayed with us
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this far, the weight of the law has likely done its job.
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If harmlessness is dead, if doing no harm is not enough, and
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if every convenient silence and ignored need is a sin of moral
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insubordination, how do we survive this?
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How does Reformed theology we offer a way out of this
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crushing, impossible weight? This is where we have to pivot
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to the Law Gospel distinction, which is the engine of Reformed
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theology. Everything we've been discussing
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up to this second is what theologians call the first use
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of the law. The law acts as a mirror.
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Its purpose is to expose our sin, shatter our self
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righteousness and silence every clever excuse we have
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manufactured. It proves our total devastating
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inability to save ourselves. It leaves us with no defense,
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but the text does not leave the Sinner bleeding out in the ditch
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of despair. It pivots immediately to the
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gospel remedy. Justification and the act of
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obedience of Jesus Christ. Let's unpack the act of
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obedience of Christ because the sources frame Him as the
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ultimate staggering contrast to our apathy.
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He is the true Good Samaritan. When we look at the incarnation
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and the earthly life of Jesus, we don't just see a man who
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successfully avoided sinning. We don't just see a man who sat
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in a room and didn't break the rules.
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We see a man who perfectly, actively fulfilled every
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positive command of God's law. Where we have failed to love our
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neighbor as ourselves, he loved perfectly.
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Where we withhold mercy, he overflowed with it.
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Think about the gospel narratives.
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When the crowds were hungry, he didn't tell them to figure it
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out and go buy their own food. He had compassion on them and
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fed the 5000. When his friends Mary and Martha
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were grieving the death of Lazarus, he didn't offer a
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distant, stoic platitude. He stood at the tomb and wept
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with them. When the lepers approached him,
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people the priests and Levites wouldn't dare touch, he reached
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out and touched the unclean. He never once treated a human
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being as an interruption to his personal schedule or comfort.
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This brings us to a critical, gorgeous distinction in Reformed
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federal theology. When we talk about how we are
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justified, how we are made right with God, we often focus heavily
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on Christ's passive obedience. Meaning his suffering and dying
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on the cross to pay the penalty for our sins.
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He bore the wrath of God for our act of transgressions and our
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cold silences. But if he only wiped the slate
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clean, we would just be innocent, not righteous.
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We are justified by His act of obedience as well.
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By act of obedience we mean his perfect life of neighbor love,
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the years he spent fulfilling the law.
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Precisely that. Remember the covenant of works
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in the Garden of Eden. Adam didn't just have to avoid
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eating the fruit. He had a positive duty to guard
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the garden and obey God. He failed.
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Christ comes as the second Adam. His entire earthly life of
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joyful, continuous, positive obedience to the law of God is
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imputed or credited to the believer.
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He bore the guilt of our respectable omissions on the
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cross, and in exchange, he gives us the credit for his perfect
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record of love. When God looks at the believer,
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he does not see our habitual apathy.
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He sees the perfect active compassion of Jesus Christ.
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OK, let me push on that doctrine because human nature will
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immediately try to find a loophole.
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Here, I know exactly what you're going to ask if.
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Christ already fulfilled the law perfectly on my behalf, and His
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pristine record of neighbor love is permanently credited to my
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account. Why do I need to worry about
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doing it now? Doesn't that mean I can just
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relax? Right, the thought process is my
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omissions are covered, His love is mine, so I can go back to
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minding my own business and enjoying my imputed
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righteousness. That is the classic accusation
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of antinomianism, the idea that grace eliminates the need for
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the law, but it fundamentally misunderstands the mechanism of
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salvation. That question leads us directly
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into what the Reformers called the third use of the law and the
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ongoing process of sanctification.
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The logic of the Gospel is not that we are saved so we can
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remain safely apathetic. We are saved, regenerated, and
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united to Christ so that the life of Christ begins to
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actually flow through us. We don't act to earn salvation,
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we act from a place of already being completely saved.
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The pressure is off, but the engine is turned on.
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Under the covenant of grace, the law is no longer a crushing,
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terrifying burden that condemns us to hell.
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It changes functions. It becomes a friendly guide for
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grateful obedience. Because Christ has loved us with
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a radical covenantal love when we were his enemies, we are now
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free to begin loving others. And specifically empowered by
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the indwelling Holy Spirit to do so, we begin to reflect the
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family resemblance. So the very same grace that
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pardons our lovelessness also trains our hearts in new
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obedience. But the source material stresses
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that moving forward requires specific searching repentance.
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Vague blanket confessions are totally insufficient.
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Human nature loves a vague confession because it's safe.
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We like to pray. Lord, I am not perfect.
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Forgive my many shortcomings. It sounds humble, but it keeps
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the conscience heavily insulated.
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You aren't actually dealing with a root issue.
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The text calls for believers to identify precise, specific areas
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of neglect. It's like a Doctor Who sees a
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patient in obvious agonizing pain, but because it's five in
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the evening on a Friday and he wants to go home, he just
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refuses to order the X-ray. He doesn't break the patient's
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bone, but he actively chooses to stay blind to the fracture so
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you won't have to do the hard work of setting it.
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If we want genuine spiritual renewal, we have to stop
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refusing the X-ray. We have to be willing to look at
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the exact location of the fracture.
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You have to get brutally honest. You have to admit I neglected my
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wife's emotional needs this week to protect my own peace and
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quiet. Or I saw my Co worker struggling
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with a massive workload and I actively chose to look away and
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leave the office early because I didn't want to spend the energy
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to help. You have to name the specific
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silence for what it is. Only then can you bring it to
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the cross. The sources also discuss how
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this concept of active love and union with Christ applies to the
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life of the Church, specifically regarding the sacraments like
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the Lord's Supper. The Lord's Supper is described
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in Reformed theology as the visible word at the communion
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table. Christ sacrificial love for his
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neighbors, meaning the Church, his people, is tangibly
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physically displayed. The broken bread and the poured
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out cup signify the ultimate fulfillment of the active
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neighbor love we failed to provide.
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Feasting on that reality spiritually nourishes the soul.
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It gives the believer the strength to go back out into the
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world on Monday morning and practice mercy.
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It grounds our future actions not in our own white knuckled
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willpower, but in the finished work and the ongoing life of the
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Savior we love because He first loved us.
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If we synthesize all of this and connect it back to your daily
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life as a listener, the call here is the radical paradigm
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shift. It is a call to move from the
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quiet, respectable sin of omission to a life of proactive
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Christ exulting love. It means walking into your home,
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your workplace, and your church and asking a terrifying but
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beautiful question. Whom have I neglected, and what
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does love require of me right now?
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We have covered a massive theological landscape today.
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We have moved from a baseline of just doing no harm and hoping
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that is enough for God to a standard of active, Christ
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empowered love that seeks the highest physical and spiritual
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good of the people God places in our path.
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And we have seen that union with Christ is the only mechanism
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capable of producing this kind of self denial.
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Without that vital spiritual union, any attempt to love our
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neighbor simply devolves into either exhausting legalistic
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pride or crushing despair. So as we wrap up this deep dive,
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I want to leave you with a final thought to Mull over as you go
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about the rest of your day. What if the most accurate
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measure of your spiritual health isn't found in the visible,
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jagged transgressions you confess, but in the quiet,
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convenient silences you justify every single day?
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That is the diagnostic question that forces us to look to
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Christ. Thank you for joining us for
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this deep dive into the theology of omission.
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We will see you next time.