Latest / Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families / #799 Un-brr-lievable Winter Winners
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- 0:03Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast. It's the podcast for the
- 0:07Speaker 1: time poor parent who just wants answers.
- 0:10Speaker 2: Now, I don't understand smalls.
- 0:12Speaker 3: As soon as you melt your marshmallows, you just stick
- 0:14Speaker 3: them between the biscuits and the chocolate melts. You've got
- 0:17Speaker 3: gooey marshmallow and you've got this beautiful wheat biscuit.
- 0:20Speaker 2: It's amazing gross, just gross.
- 0:23Speaker 1: And now here's the stars of our show, my mom
- 0:26Speaker 1: and dad.
- 0:27Speaker 2: Hello, this is doctor Justin Colson. I'm the founder of
- 0:29Speaker 2: Having Families dot com dot au. I'm here with Kylie,
- 0:33Speaker 2: my wife from under our six kids, and we are,
- 0:37Speaker 2: like so many of you, struggling at the moment because
- 0:39Speaker 2: it's the middle of winter school holidays, or at least
- 0:41Speaker 2: it is in Queensland. I know that there's a couple
- 0:43Speaker 2: of states where school holidays are just around the corner.
- 0:45Speaker 2: But it's cold, the day's daylight hours are shorter, and frankly,
- 0:51Speaker 2: a lot of us have still got work to do.
- 0:52Speaker 2: We can't just stop work because the kids aren't at school,
- 0:55Speaker 2: and it gets kind of tricky. Kylie, I came across
- 0:58Speaker 2: as statch team spends between seven and nine hours each
- 1:04Speaker 2: day using electronics. Wow, seven to nine hours. So we're
- 1:10Speaker 2: talking school holidays, parents are working, the kids are like, well,
- 1:12Speaker 2: just figure it out for yourselves, kids, And so that's
- 1:15Speaker 2: what the kids are doing seven to nine hours for
- 1:18Speaker 2: the average team in front of a screen. That means
- 1:21Speaker 2: that they're likely not getting the recommended minimum sixty minutes
- 1:23Speaker 2: of exercise per day that they're supposed to be getting.
- 1:25Speaker 2: I know that a whole lot of Australian parents just
- 1:28Speaker 2: laughed into their cupa as I said, sixty minutes of
- 1:31Speaker 2: exercise per day for my teenager. So I thought, it's
- 1:36Speaker 2: tricky at the moment. It's really tricky to deal with
- 1:39Speaker 2: kids and school holidays and cold weather and being inside
- 1:44Speaker 2: more than outside. I just thought, let's have a fun conversation,
- 1:48Speaker 2: a brainstorming session. Let's just chuck a whole lot of
- 1:50Speaker 2: stuff out there about what we can do when it's
- 1:52Speaker 2: cold and we can't always be fully present for the kids,
- 1:55Speaker 2: so they don't climb the walls or stare at a
- 1:57Speaker 2: screen all day because we know that's not healthy for
- 1:59Speaker 2: them to.
- 2:00Speaker 3: Get into character. I'm sitting in our studio with a
- 2:04Speaker 3: blanket wrapped around me because I'm freezing.
- 2:07Speaker 2: I love that you called our studio. It's like it's
- 2:10Speaker 2: just a well, it's a room that doubles us with
- 2:13Speaker 2: concrete wall, multiple other things.
- 2:15Speaker 3: And it was warm when I got here, but it's
- 2:17Speaker 3: not so warm anymore.
- 2:18Speaker 2: And I'm wearing a jumper. In fact, it was so
- 2:20Speaker 2: cold when I came to work this morning. And they're
- 2:23Speaker 2: in mind, folks, we are on the Sunshine Coast right,
- 2:25Speaker 2: so we have a low tolerance for cold weather. In fact,
- 2:28Speaker 2: I was on call with a client just yesterday and
- 2:32Speaker 2: this is so embarrassing. I can't believe. I was complaining
- 2:34Speaker 2: about how cold it was. And then I remember that
- 2:36Speaker 2: I was speaking to some people in Melbourne and they
- 2:38Speaker 2: said it has been cold today and I said, I know,
- 2:41Speaker 2: and then I opened up my weather app. I said,
- 2:43Speaker 2: it's twenty degrees right now, but it says that it
- 2:45Speaker 2: feels like nineteen and it just cracked up. They're like, yeah,
- 2:49Speaker 2: it's five degrees right now here in Melbourne. I was, oh, sorry.
- 2:52Speaker 3: So I'm just a little bit like Sammy and Jason,
- 2:55Speaker 3: our Lighthouse parents on Parental Guidance, who when they got
- 2:58Speaker 3: to Glenworth Elly said, yeah, we don't really do much.
- 3:01Speaker 2: We don't do mud and cold and we don't do that.
- 3:03Speaker 2: So I've actually just put them on. I've got my gloves,
- 3:06Speaker 2: my cycling gloves that I wore to the office before
- 3:10Speaker 2: we recorded this, because I just don't I don't do cold.
- 3:15Speaker 2: I don't do cold anyway. So likely your kids only
- 3:18Speaker 2: that they like the heater. They like being indoors when
- 3:21Speaker 2: it was winter when you were a kid growing up,
- 3:23Speaker 2: before we do the brainstorm, and this is part of
- 3:25Speaker 2: the brainstorm, I guess what did you do? And I'm
- 3:27Speaker 2: talking about from the age of maybe twelve up. Let's
- 3:30Speaker 2: go with your adolescent years, because I can't remember what
- 3:32Speaker 2: I did before that. What did you do?
- 3:35Speaker 3: Well, I was going to say, if you were talking younger,
- 3:38Speaker 3: I grew up in New Zealand.
- 3:39Speaker 2: And that's cold. Yeah it was old.
- 3:42Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't actually know it was cold.
- 3:45Speaker 2: I love that.
- 3:46Speaker 3: So I have vivid memories of me swinging on our
- 3:50Speaker 3: swing set in the backyard with the wind blowing in
- 3:52Speaker 3: my singlet top and little shorts in the middle of winter.
- 3:56Speaker 3: And it wasn't until we moved over to Australia and
- 3:58Speaker 3: then it was so hot. I'd never experienced heat like
- 4:02Speaker 3: I did when we moved to Brisbane.
- 4:04Speaker 2: Not in winter of course.
- 4:05Speaker 3: No, no, no, that the winters felt way colder.
- 4:09Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, interesting. Yeah, because we get such warm.
- 4:11Speaker 3: We kind of make a joke that Australian summers thinned
- 4:15Speaker 3: our blood. I just can't deal with the cold anymore.
- 4:18Speaker 3: So I would think in my teenage years, I just
- 4:24Speaker 3: hibernated inside under the blankets, did so much.
- 4:28Speaker 2: Didn't get that physical activity there.
- 4:29Speaker 3: No, definitely not. No. I used to love writing in
- 4:32Speaker 3: my journal and kind of doing craft and stuff, so
- 4:34Speaker 3: I would have spent a lot of time doing that.
- 4:36Speaker 2: How did we ever end up together? I don't know,
- 4:38Speaker 2: because my winters once I turned thirteen, I was thirteen
- 4:42Speaker 2: years old, I just started surfing, and my winters and summers,
- 4:45Speaker 2: my every weekend, my every school holiday was just I'm
- 4:48Speaker 2: going to catch a bus to the beach and I'm
- 4:50Speaker 2: going to go surfing. So I put on the wetsuit
- 4:52Speaker 2: and go surfing. And it didn't matter what the weather was,
- 4:54Speaker 2: I just surfed and that was literally it. There's nothing
- 4:57Speaker 2: else that I did. Maybe a bike ride now, and
- 5:00Speaker 2: I was totally outside and totally physical all the time.
- 5:03Speaker 3: So, you know, my favorite kind of weather.
- 5:06Speaker 2: Warm weather where we can be at the beach and
- 5:08Speaker 2: in the water.
- 5:08Speaker 3: No, I actually love this temperature right now, as long
- 5:12Speaker 3: as I'm moving my body right, yes, you're going to
- 5:14Speaker 3: get a warm body. I actually love the feel of
- 5:17Speaker 3: that crisp air touching my skin.
- 5:20Speaker 2: So there's a lot of parents that do not have
- 5:23Speaker 2: teenage sons who serve, and a lot of parents who
- 5:26Speaker 2: do not want their kids, male or female, to be
- 5:29Speaker 2: hanging out of the room just writing in their journal
- 5:31Speaker 2: or staring at a screen. So let's dive into a
- 5:34Speaker 2: whole lot of fun winter activities for our kids that
- 5:39Speaker 2: they can do either with or without us, to stay
- 5:42Speaker 2: sane through these holiday weeks. What have you got written
- 5:47Speaker 2: down on your list? I want to hear your listen,
- 5:48Speaker 2: then I'm going to share a couple of mine, or
- 5:50Speaker 2: maybe we'll sort of Well, you didn't.
- 5:51Speaker 3: Quit me very well because I kind of just assumed
- 5:54Speaker 3: that this was going to be parentally navigated. I didn't
- 5:58Speaker 3: know you about doing it on their own. So mine
- 6:03Speaker 3: probably require a little depending on the age of the kids.
- 6:05Speaker 3: Obviously mine require a little bit of supervision. But like
- 6:09Speaker 3: I said, I actually I actually think embracing the cold
- 6:12Speaker 3: can be so much fun. But you've got to be
- 6:13Speaker 3: prepped for it. You don't show up at the snow
- 6:15Speaker 3: in your sandals and singlet top.
- 6:18Speaker 2: Sure, so the more prepared.
- 6:20Speaker 3: You are, the more you can enjoy it. So, you know,
- 6:23Speaker 3: having a brazier or using a big wock in the
- 6:25Speaker 3: backyard and creating a little fire, all rugged up and
- 6:29Speaker 3: you wear your beanies.
- 6:30Speaker 2: That was the first thing I was going to say,
- 6:31Speaker 2: as well, it's a nighttime activity. But get your kids,
- 6:34Speaker 2: even if they're four, five, six seven, get the kids
- 6:37Speaker 2: to come over and stick some marshmallows on some sticks.
- 6:40Speaker 2: You can buy a cheap brazier from Bunnings or Kmart
- 6:44Speaker 2: and just toast the marshmallows. Let the kids have fun
- 6:46Speaker 2: for an hour or so in the backyard.
- 6:47Speaker 3: We found a cheap way of making smalls that doesn't
- 6:50Speaker 3: take any effort at all.
- 6:51Speaker 2: I don't understand smores. I know that we've got some
- 6:54Speaker 2: American friends and they're all about smalles. I think smores
- 6:56Speaker 2: are just disgusting. You love them away. You go just use.
- 7:00Speaker 3: Chocolate, wheat and biscuits. So as soon as you melt
- 7:03Speaker 3: your marshmallows, you just stick them between the biscuits and
- 7:05Speaker 3: the chocolate melts. You've got gooey marshmallow and you've got
- 7:09Speaker 3: this beautiful wheat biscuit. It's amazing.
- 7:11Speaker 2: Gross, just gross. What else is on your list?
- 7:18Speaker 3: I'm doing a camp out inside. So when we were
- 7:20Speaker 3: in Brisbane, we had very high ceilings in our laundry
- 7:24Speaker 3: and we actually put the tent up inside the living room.
- 7:27Speaker 2: We put literally like what is an eight or ten
- 7:29Speaker 2: man tent, and we just took up the whole living room.
- 7:31Speaker 2: It was really hard getting the tent pegs through the floorboards. No,
- 7:34Speaker 2: I'm just kidding.
- 7:35Speaker 3: We didn't do that, and one of those pop up
- 7:37Speaker 3: tents and it was great and the kids thought it
- 7:39Speaker 3: was amazing.
- 7:40Speaker 2: Yeah, we literally just camped in the living room with
- 7:42Speaker 2: the big, great ceilings.
- 7:42Speaker 3: Well most of us don't have the option of doing that,
- 7:44Speaker 3: and you know, moving our finitshry around that much. So
- 7:47Speaker 3: you know, having a camp out, you know when kids
- 7:49Speaker 3: used to make blanket forts.
- 7:52Speaker 2: Yeah, have a camp out like that.
- 7:54Speaker 3: You know, it doesn't matter how old you are.
- 7:55Speaker 2: There's nothing stopping there's literally nothing stopping you though, putting
- 7:58Speaker 2: up like your two men or your form tent in
- 8:00Speaker 2: the living room. Just push the lounge chairs back and
- 8:03Speaker 2: put the tent down and sleep on the air mattresses,
- 8:05Speaker 2: or drag the kids mattresses out of their beds and
- 8:06Speaker 2: stick them in the tent. It's a little bit of hassle,
- 8:09Speaker 2: but it's so much fun. And the tent isn't going
- 8:11Speaker 2: to buy away. You don't actually need ten pegs when
- 8:13Speaker 2: you're putting it up in the living room.
- 8:14Speaker 3: You can put their conditions, that's right, but.
- 8:16Speaker 2: It still feels like a campout. Or if you want
- 8:18Speaker 2: to be really brave and you're luckily lucky enough to
- 8:20Speaker 2: have enough space in the backyard, go on camp out
- 8:23Speaker 2: in the backyard, or let the kids camp out in
- 8:24Speaker 2: the backyard. It's one of my favorite school holiday things.
- 8:28Speaker 2: When I was I think I was probably about twelve,
- 8:30Speaker 2: maybe eleven, is we would literally put a tent up,
- 8:34Speaker 2: a two man tent up in the backyard. I'd do
- 8:36Speaker 2: it with one of my mates, and then we'd walk
- 8:37Speaker 2: down of the shops and we'd buy I don't know,
- 8:39Speaker 2: two dollars worth of hubber Bubba and some chocolate buds
- 8:42Speaker 2: and whatever other treats we wanted, and then we just
- 8:45Speaker 2: we'd camp out in the backyard tent chewing hubber Bubba
- 8:49Speaker 2: all my long and talking about life the universe and everything,
- 8:54Speaker 2: and I mean it was just so awesome and it
- 8:56Speaker 2: felt really safe as well because we were at and
- 8:58Speaker 2: the universe.
- 8:59Speaker 3: I just cut believe you just said that. Yeah, life
- 9:01Speaker 3: and the unifse you're talking about.
- 9:02Speaker 2: Girls probably almost certainly all night long, and so doing
- 9:09Speaker 2: that kind of thing, like the camp out inside or
- 9:11Speaker 2: in the backyard, it's totally safe, it's totally convenient, but
- 9:14Speaker 2: the kids feel so awesome. It's just so novel.
- 9:19Speaker 3: I also had, you know, having your own like private
- 9:22Speaker 3: little paint and sip sessions.
- 9:24Speaker 2: Paint and sip.
- 9:25Speaker 3: Yeah with the kids, I have a sip of a
- 9:27Speaker 3: hot chocolate okay in the cold.
- 9:29Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 9:29Speaker 3: Sure. There's just something really raw about being able to
- 9:33Speaker 3: do that and not have any expectations about the outcome
- 9:37Speaker 3: and just yeah, getting creative together.
- 9:40Speaker 2: So I'm going to add to that. Well, as you know,
- 9:43Speaker 2: I'm neither artistic nor into sitting still and sipping a
- 9:47Speaker 2: hot chocolate. But I don't think that there's anything wrong
- 9:51Speaker 2: with saying to the kids, depending on their age, hey
- 9:53Speaker 2: here's a couple of bucks, four or five bucks, go
- 9:56Speaker 2: down to the cafe and buy yourself a hot chocolate,
- 9:58Speaker 2: or why don't I walk with you, if you've got
- 10:00Speaker 2: the capacity, walk them down to the cafe and just
- 10:03Speaker 2: this is about time together. It's about getting out of
- 10:08Speaker 2: the house and moving your body. All right, let's talk
- 10:11Speaker 2: about some other ideas that we've got for getting through
- 10:14Speaker 2: the winter chill. When the kids are on holidays, you're
- 10:16Speaker 2: at work, you're busy, you've got stuff to do. The
- 10:18Speaker 2: kids are staring electronics or climbing the walls. What else
- 10:22Speaker 2: is on your list? Let's do some rapid fire.
- 10:24Speaker 3: So recently, my mom started a new hobby. She's making
- 10:27Speaker 3: beanies for cancer patients. And it's all done on a
- 10:31Speaker 3: ring loom and use the crochet hook, so it's very
- 10:34Speaker 3: very simple. It's pretty much winding wool around this loom
- 10:38Speaker 3: and then using the crochet hook to just kind of
- 10:40Speaker 3: pull off your threads. And the girls were watching her
- 10:44Speaker 3: do it and they decided they wanted to give it
- 10:47Speaker 3: a go. I was really shocked because it's not something
- 10:50Speaker 3: that you see kids doing these days. But Annie got
- 10:54Speaker 3: so excited about it. She's halfway through making her first beanie. Well,
- 10:58Speaker 3: and my mum also had this all pom pom maker,
- 11:03Speaker 3: so Lily got involved making the pompoms to go on
- 11:05Speaker 3: top of the beanies, and so it just got me
- 11:08Speaker 3: thinking about what's a new hobby that you can introduce
- 11:11Speaker 3: your children to, depending on their age, depending on their gender, Like,
- 11:15Speaker 3: what's something that they might enjoy doing that they've never
- 11:18Speaker 3: done before.
- 11:19Speaker 2: Now there's a challenge with this because if you say
- 11:20Speaker 2: to your kids, can you think of a new hobby
- 11:22Speaker 2: you'd like to try, They're not going to have any
- 11:24Speaker 2: ideas at all. So you probably need to do a
- 11:25Speaker 2: bit of legwork around this. But the resource that you've
- 11:28Speaker 2: just highlighted that is perhaps most valuable here is grandparents.
- 11:33Speaker 2: Like school, holidays are tricky, it's cold, you're gonna have
- 11:37Speaker 2: to be indoorsed for some of the time. But if
- 11:38Speaker 2: grandparents can be involved, especially if they're teaching the kids
- 11:41Speaker 2: some art, or if they're teaching them some card tricks,
- 11:45Speaker 2: or they're teaching them a new craft, or they're teaching
- 11:47Speaker 2: them something, maybe they're just reading to them. Just doing
- 11:50Speaker 2: those kinds of activities with grandparents awesome, awesome stuff. I
- 11:54Speaker 2: love it.
- 11:55Speaker 3: A couple of terms ago, Emily started doing beads at
- 11:58Speaker 3: bead club at school in the lunch break, and she
- 12:01Speaker 3: started bringing home all of these little trinkets. She was
- 12:03Speaker 3: making mostly key rings and things, and so when her
- 12:06Speaker 3: birthday came around, I thought, you know what, she's actually
- 12:08Speaker 3: really enjoying this. I'll get her some beads. So I
- 12:11Speaker 3: spent twenty dollars on this box of beads, and I
- 12:15Speaker 3: think she's made probably I don't know, sixty seventy dollars
- 12:19Speaker 3: from this one box of beads because she's been so
- 12:22Speaker 3: intent on making her own little creations. And then she
- 12:24Speaker 3: goes down to our streak corner and she bugs all
- 12:28Speaker 3: of the neighbors that are walking their animals.
- 12:30Speaker 2: Whoever walks past, would you like to buy one of
- 12:32Speaker 2: my necklaces of bracelets?
- 12:34Speaker 3: And she's got it all worked out. These ones are
- 12:35Speaker 3: two dollars and these ones are three dollars, and our
- 12:38Speaker 3: beautiful neighbors.
- 12:40Speaker 2: And getting taken to the cleaner is by a nine
- 12:42Speaker 2: year old with a sweet smile.
- 12:43Speaker 3: Keep buying her things.
- 12:45Speaker 2: They just can't say no.
- 12:47Speaker 3: But what I love about it? And this kind of
- 12:49Speaker 3: I guess it's twofold. She's been introduced to a new
- 12:52Speaker 3: craft that she loves, but now she's utilizing it to
- 12:55Speaker 3: be industrious in other ways. And so what's something that
- 12:58Speaker 3: your kids can do. Do they like baking, and is
- 13:00Speaker 3: baking something that they can then go around and sell.
- 13:03Speaker 2: There's so many ideas. I'm going to share a couple
- 13:05Speaker 2: of other quick ones as well. We've already talked about
- 13:07Speaker 2: the sleepovers, but I love the idea of a slumber party,
- 13:10Speaker 2: whether it's inside or outside, whether it's a tent or not.
- 13:13Speaker 2: Obviously some parents will have some concerns about that. You
- 13:15Speaker 2: want to make sure that you're satisfied with the safety.
- 13:17Speaker 3: I think a family sleepover it doesn't have to be.
- 13:19Speaker 2: And we've done that. We've just filed all the mattresses
- 13:22Speaker 2: into the rumpus room and all slept in the same room.
- 13:24Speaker 2: You were talking before about the bracelets and the bake
- 13:27Speaker 2: sale and that sort of stuff. You can actually create
- 13:30Speaker 2: a fundraiser, get the kids to do stuff to raise funds,
- 13:33Speaker 2: or you can get the kids to bake stuff and
- 13:36Speaker 2: then take it down to the local fire fieries or
- 13:39Speaker 2: the local ambos or the local whatever it is, people
- 13:43Speaker 2: who are serving the community of the local surf club
- 13:45Speaker 2: and just say hey, we care about you, we really
- 13:46Speaker 2: appreciate what you're doing, and get them involved in that.
- 13:49Speaker 3: We don't even have to go to that extentee. I
- 13:51Speaker 3: was just thinking about the things that Emily likes doing.
- 13:54Speaker 3: We've got a whole street of elderly people and I
- 13:57Speaker 3: can't believe a whole term's gone by, and for the
- 13:59Speaker 3: most I haven't managed to see them. So what can
- 14:02Speaker 3: the kids do. Bake some cupcakes, bake some slices, and
- 14:05Speaker 3: just go and knock on their door. They don't get
- 14:06Speaker 3: a lot of visitors often, and especially in the cold,
- 14:10Speaker 3: they're often shut in. So just a really nice something
- 14:13Speaker 3: that can get the kids out of the house, but
- 14:15Speaker 3: making a difference in people's lives as well.
- 14:17Speaker 2: So I feel like we've shared probably ten to fifteen
- 14:18Speaker 2: ideas for being active and doing things, either together or
- 14:22Speaker 2: the kids working solo on stuff. But lastly, I know
- 14:26Speaker 2: that this is all about keeping the kids off screens
- 14:29Speaker 2: during the school holidays, but there are some pretty cool
- 14:31Speaker 2: things that you can do on screens, and I just
- 14:33Speaker 2: want to highlight some of those. So we've got a
- 14:35Speaker 2: daughter who is great at guitar, and she's been thinking
- 14:37Speaker 2: about guitar lessons for kids in the neighborhood. So maybe
- 14:42Speaker 2: you could get your kids to build themselves a website.
- 14:45Speaker 2: Like websites are so easy to build nowadays compared to
- 14:48Speaker 2: what they used to be so much a it's just
- 14:50Speaker 2: drag and drop, plug and play. So the kids could
- 14:52Speaker 2: maybe build a website. Maybe if you wanted to be
- 14:56Speaker 2: one of those really proactive parents, you could see if
- 14:59Speaker 2: they wanted to go and shadow somebody at work, maybe
- 15:02Speaker 2: there's somebody who they can follow around for a couple
- 15:04Speaker 2: of hours at work one day and not be a pain,
- 15:06Speaker 2: but actually watch Now, they have to be teenagers for that.
- 15:08Speaker 2: You're not going to send you eight year old to
- 15:09Speaker 2: shadow the local lawyer in town or something like that.
- 15:12Speaker 2: But you can do that. There's things like movie marathons,
- 15:15Speaker 2: like I don't actually, as much as I don't like screens,
- 15:18Speaker 2: I don't have a problem with saying, hey, we're going
- 15:19Speaker 2: to do a movie marathon, or we're gonna spread our
- 15:22Speaker 2: movie marathon. We're gonna watch every Harry Potter movie over
- 15:25Speaker 2: the next seven days or something like that. You've got
- 15:27Speaker 2: these opportunities where you can just get involved, to take
- 15:31Speaker 2: classes online. Maybe maybe the kids can just go and
- 15:35Speaker 2: be active. Go and be active with you, Go and
- 15:37Speaker 2: be active with friends. They're the other ideas that I
- 15:39Speaker 2: had what visit.
- 15:40Speaker 3: The local library to books that you've never introduced them
- 15:44Speaker 3: to before. I didn't think of that, or like have
- 15:47Speaker 3: a puzzle out on the table. You know, it's interesting
- 15:51Speaker 3: how hard it feels to actually initiate something. But if
- 15:57Speaker 3: you've started a puzzle and it's just sitting on the table,
- 15:59Speaker 3: es as kids are going to come along and pick
- 16:01Speaker 3: up a piece and put it in.
- 16:02Speaker 2: Yeah, getting lift off is hard. Once you've got momentum,
- 16:04Speaker 2: it's really easy to keep things going.
- 16:06Speaker 3: So there's always your favorite board games card.
- 16:08Speaker 2: Oh don't even start me, goly gosh, gee whiz. You
- 16:11Speaker 2: had to bring that up, and we're not even going
- 16:13Speaker 2: to talk about that one. Let's wrap this up. Our
- 16:16Speaker 2: time is fast spent. Loads of ideas requires effort. I
- 16:19Speaker 2: think that's the main thing, and that's why so many
- 16:21Speaker 2: people get stuck.
- 16:22Speaker 3: You know the one that we haven't said. No playdates.
- 16:24Speaker 2: Oh yeah, all the time, and do as many as
- 16:28Speaker 2: you can. It's so good for the kids. But we
- 16:30Speaker 2: really hope that these ideas are a little bit of
- 16:32Speaker 2: inspo to help you get going with the school. All days.
- 16:36Speaker 2: If the weather's a little bit cold and everything's a
- 16:38Speaker 2: bit daunting and everything feels hard, there's lots to do.
- 16:41Speaker 2: It just requires some time, some efforts, some intention and
- 16:45Speaker 2: a good thought start so hopefully and a jumper. That's
- 16:47Speaker 2: what we've given you. Yeah, there's no such thing as
- 16:49Speaker 2: bad weather. There's just a lack of preparation for the
- 16:51Speaker 2: bad weather. We really hope there's been a useful and
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