Latest / The Breakfast Club / The Breakfast Club Best Of Episode(Stephanie Mills Interview, Joseline Hernandez Interview, Deon Cole Interview, Jess Hilarious And Baby Father Rome)
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Breakfast Club is old. We got the breakfast Club Envy
- 0:06Speaker 1: and Charlomagne the voice of the culture.
- 0:08Speaker 2: He then i'nna come here when this thing.
- 0:10Speaker 1: See y'all different, y'all the coach, it's different. You know
- 0:12Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like, y'all know what y'all talk about.
- 0:14Speaker 1: This is probably becoming the most prominent form for here, probably.
- 0:17Speaker 3: Be here next to all of you guys. It's really
- 0:20Speaker 3: put it.
- 0:21Speaker 1: Put it in perspective to the breakfast club. Bitch, wake up.
- 0:26Speaker 1: This is your time to get it off your chest.
- 0:28Speaker 1: I got an indoor pool pool. We want to hear
- 0:31Speaker 1: from you on the breakfast club.
- 0:32Speaker 4: Get on the phone right now here, tell you what it.
- 0:34Speaker 1: Is we live. Hello. Who's this yo? This is Chris, Chris,
- 0:40Speaker 1: what up? Get it off your chest? Hey, man, I
- 0:42Speaker 1: want to say, Man I on party, y'all man DJ
- 0:45Speaker 1: envied Charlomad solo.
- 0:47Speaker 5: Man, I've been reading your book. Boy, got me your book.
- 0:50Speaker 6: Man, I've been taking that out and it's been real
- 0:52Speaker 6: helpful for me.
- 0:53Speaker 7: Man.
- 0:53Speaker 8: Like what y'all go?
- 0:55Speaker 1: Thank you King? Which book you got you black privilege
- 0:57Speaker 1: and shook one old them? Matter of fact, you got
- 0:59Speaker 1: me one for father's there and one for all the
- 1:03Speaker 1: Christmas last year.
- 1:04Speaker 4: Man, I appreciate that.
- 1:08Speaker 1: Hello, what is this?
- 1:10Speaker 8: I don't want to say my name?
- 1:12Speaker 1: Okay, well what's something on the radio? Nobody can see you.
- 1:16Speaker 4: But you know, may people be listening.
- 1:18Speaker 9: But I have a question because I just recently got
- 1:21Speaker 9: broken up. But great, I'm in a lesbian relationship. And
- 1:24Speaker 9: I went out of town not so long ago.
- 1:26Speaker 8: And I, you know, I have a business.
- 1:28Speaker 9: So I was networking and I was speaking to a
- 1:30Speaker 9: mail about my business and who worked at the bar
- 1:34Speaker 9: that I was doing my homework aap and so I
- 1:36Speaker 9: came back home and he sent me a message was like, hey.
- 1:39Speaker 3: How you doing.
- 1:40Speaker 8: How's your family to start?
- 1:41Speaker 9: Get backstafe?
- 1:42Speaker 8: And my girlfriend has a problem with it, and so
- 1:44Speaker 8: she broke up with me. Like she's like, I'm a lesbian,
- 1:46Speaker 8: I don't deal with mails, and I'm just like I
- 1:48Speaker 8: do business. I network with males and females. I just
- 1:51Speaker 8: wanted to like, is that wrong?
- 1:54Speaker 10: I don't think that's wrong at all.
- 1:56Speaker 1: I mean, if there was, even if it was another woman,
- 1:58Speaker 1: I mean, as long as y'all not flirting in this business,
- 2:00Speaker 1: I don't see a problem with it.
- 2:01Speaker 10: You weren't hiding it from your.
- 2:02Speaker 1: Girl, So it's not like you were trying to be
- 2:04Speaker 1: deceptive or sneaking around. Now I don't see a problem
- 2:07Speaker 1: with it. Yeah, but those you know, she she probably upset.
- 2:11Speaker 1: She probably upset because you're talking to somebody who you know,
- 2:13Speaker 1: got something that she could never have, which is a penis.
- 2:16Speaker 2: You know.
- 2:16Speaker 9: And I feel like that when the insecurity only comes
- 2:19Speaker 9: out with males because I speak to females in the
- 2:22Speaker 9: same way and it's usually about my business as I
- 2:24Speaker 9: do with males. But it's just males, she always has
- 2:27Speaker 9: a problem. And I'm like, it makes me feel like, Okay,
- 2:30Speaker 9: you're like immaturely dating, you don't know how to date.
- 2:32Speaker 9: But I'm like, I don't know, like can have friends
- 2:34Speaker 9: to man that his wife have.
- 2:36Speaker 1: You know, your circumstances are totally different. Now I have
- 2:40Speaker 1: to ask you a question. Did you get penis before
- 2:42Speaker 1: you became a lesbian?
- 2:43Speaker 10: Good question?
- 2:44Speaker 1: Did you like, yes, yes, that's what it is.
- 2:47Speaker 10: The problem back to penis. She don't want you to realize.
- 2:51Speaker 8: But what does that have to do with me?
- 2:53Speaker 3: That's her in security?
- 2:54Speaker 4: Like, is that something that I'm supposed to adjust?
- 2:57Speaker 1: It is? But I will say this, I will say,
- 2:59Speaker 1: try to have a conversation and bring her in on
- 3:01Speaker 1: part of the conversation, you asked if if my wife
- 3:03Speaker 1: has male friends, we have friends.
- 3:06Speaker 11: She doesn't have friends that I don't know about. She
- 3:08Speaker 11: doesn't have friends, and she speaks to that I don't know.
- 3:10Speaker 11: We all have friends, just like I have female friends,
- 3:13Speaker 11: but my wife knows them.
- 3:15Speaker 1: Uh.
- 3:15Speaker 10: But it means by though, so I'm not by shut up.
- 3:19Speaker 3: Many we try.
- 3:22Speaker 11: To be serious, but I would give a conversation to
- 3:24Speaker 11: try to make it feel comfortable as possible. Obviously she
- 3:26Speaker 11: feels a little uncomfortable because she feels like you're gonna
- 3:29Speaker 11: get back to the penis.
- 3:30Speaker 1: But let her know that you don't want any penis.
- 3:31Speaker 1: And it's all box for you.
- 3:33Speaker 9: Curious, okay, all right, and go and go.
- 3:36Speaker 1: And go box them out, saying go box them out? Face?
- 3:44Speaker 10: What's wrong with you?
- 3:44Speaker 2: Man?
- 3:45Speaker 1: You heard what she said? She said? You was very
- 3:47Speaker 1: like skinned to say that. I concur Hello, who's this.
- 3:53Speaker 2: Hell?
- 3:53Speaker 1: You said?
- 3:53Speaker 10: A little off phone?
- 3:54Speaker 1: You got bluetooth in or your head piece? He hear me?
- 3:58Speaker 1: I can hear you perfectly.
- 3:59Speaker 5: Whatever, All right, what's up?
- 4:01Speaker 3: Man?
- 4:01Speaker 5: Calling to get off my dad? Brother, get off my chest? Yeah. No,
- 4:05Speaker 5: me and my girl. We finally feeling good today. Me
- 4:08Speaker 5: and my girl we offer seven month dry fell man
- 4:12Speaker 5: like you know, so we finally have you know, inter
- 4:15Speaker 5: course again and I feel good about it.
- 4:17Speaker 10: Seven months? Why so long?
- 4:19Speaker 1: Huh said? Why so long?
- 4:20Speaker 5: I kind of you know, I kind of messed up
- 4:22Speaker 5: with you know, I was cheating. I was messing up
- 4:26Speaker 5: a little bit cheating. Not cheating, you know, not not
- 4:29Speaker 5: physically cheating, probably emotionally cheating. So uh, yeah, she finally
- 4:34Speaker 5: you know, so it was a while she wasn't you know,
- 4:37Speaker 5: feeling me.
- 4:38Speaker 1: Do you know, y'all do no? Humans, women especially are
- 4:42Speaker 1: more emotional than physical, so emotionally cheating and emotionally hurting
- 4:48Speaker 1: her can probably cause her to dry up more so
- 4:50Speaker 1: than the physical.
- 4:52Speaker 5: You know what I mean? You know, I realized that.
- 4:55Speaker 10: Yes, I'm glad you y'all are back.
- 4:57Speaker 5: Brother, Thank you man, have a good one you suit jam.
- 5:01Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club is your time to get it off
- 5:07Speaker 1: your chest, way up, whether you're man or pleas tith
- 5:11Speaker 1: to get up and get something call up now eight
- 5:14Speaker 1: hundred five eight five one o five one. We want
- 5:16Speaker 1: to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
- 5:18Speaker 12: Hello, who's this, Hey, good morning, good morning.
- 5:20Speaker 6: How you doing this is Ronnie called out a.
- 5:22Speaker 5: Bad rooms Louisiana.
- 5:24Speaker 1: Get it up your chest, man.
- 5:26Speaker 4: I just wanted to call in, man, because I'm so excited.
- 5:28Speaker 6: For you guys.
- 5:29Speaker 3: Man.
- 5:29Speaker 4: I love being y'all on the radio. Man, y'all been
- 5:31Speaker 4: doing a great job.
- 5:32Speaker 5: Man, y'all sound.
- 5:33Speaker 12: Really really even news man this time around.
- 5:35Speaker 6: So it's great to have you guys here in bad rude.
- 5:38Speaker 8: Man.
- 5:38Speaker 1: I'm in here. I'm in here burning my Pola santo
- 5:40Speaker 1: right now. The energy is great. I got my candles lit.
- 5:44Speaker 1: Me and him be just being here living our best lives. Man,
- 5:46Speaker 1: you enjoy having a good time. That's that's without and
- 5:50Speaker 1: that that is a great compliment because we thoroughly do
- 5:52Speaker 1: enjoy coming in this studio absolutely every day in.
- 5:56Speaker 6: That man, go hear you, guys man.
- 5:58Speaker 1: And that has not always been the but nowadays.
- 6:03Speaker 5: Hello this Hey, what's up?
- 6:05Speaker 4: Guys? This is your favorite white listener, Tim FM Toledo.
- 6:11Speaker 10: Get it off your chest?
- 6:12Speaker 12: What's going on?
- 6:12Speaker 4: Guys?
- 6:13Speaker 12: I love you guys.
- 6:14Speaker 1: Man.
- 6:15Speaker 4: So I've been on a team the last couple of
- 6:18Speaker 4: times I got through about toxic people, and lately it's
- 6:22Speaker 4: been I find it's more family usually than it is
- 6:25Speaker 4: than anybody. And so I found I'm forty five and
- 6:29Speaker 4: I think a lot of people can relate Rocker life.
- 6:32Speaker 4: We you know, we main need to lean on people
- 6:34Speaker 4: for help. And it might be in a rough time.
- 6:36Speaker 4: It might be a house payment, it might be they
- 6:39Speaker 4: order you a pizza when you down on your luck,
- 6:42Speaker 4: and then you find out these people get mad at you.
- 6:44Speaker 4: You know, it could be a six months down the road,
- 6:47Speaker 4: two years down the look, you know, they're on your
- 6:48Speaker 4: Facebook because they're mad, and you find out that you
- 6:52Speaker 4: owe them a million dollars all of a sudden, Well
- 6:55Speaker 4: they didn't order you a pizza. They you know, they
- 6:58Speaker 4: act like they be buying food for the last three years.
- 7:01Speaker 4: You know, the story justn't completely blown out of contact
- 7:04Speaker 4: because they're mad.
- 7:06Speaker 1: That's why sometimes you just got to give people thoughts
- 7:08Speaker 1: and press absolutely not you.
- 7:10Speaker 4: Know what, And I tried to you know what, I
- 7:12Speaker 4: I just put this real quick. I put this on
- 7:14Speaker 4: my bio. I heard it a new Facebook, and I'm
- 7:16Speaker 4: adding friends that I would try to go to their
- 7:18Speaker 4: funeral or if they would come to mind, because otherwise.
- 7:21Speaker 12: It's just disgrace.
- 7:22Speaker 4: School people got two thousand friends and they don't even
- 7:24Speaker 4: know half of them. I put this in my bio.
- 7:27Speaker 4: When I need help, give me a hug, not money.
- 7:30Speaker 4: That way, you're mad. All I owe you is a hug.
- 7:32Speaker 1: But I will I will say this.
- 7:34Speaker 11: You know, in life, and I think Charlamagne and I
- 7:36Speaker 11: think even you can will say this, it's.
- 7:37Speaker 1: Always highs and lows, right. You always have a good
- 7:40Speaker 1: part of your life with everything is going great, but
- 7:41Speaker 1: it could be a left turn and sometimes you need help.
- 7:43Speaker 11: And it doesn't have to be financial. It could be
- 7:45Speaker 11: just a good you know, a hug, or a good
- 7:47Speaker 11: hold or good conversation. And those are the people I
- 7:50Speaker 11: keep around me. And whether they family or friends, it's
- 7:53Speaker 11: all the same. If you can't provide me that and
- 7:55Speaker 11: I can't provide you that, then we don't need to
- 7:57Speaker 11: be around each other. But I want to be around
- 7:59Speaker 11: people that's going to hold hold each other up and
- 8:00Speaker 11: make sure we all all right.
- 8:01Speaker 1: I think the biggest problem. I think the biggest problem
- 8:04Speaker 1: is that you know your family, and you know and
- 8:06Speaker 1: your close friends be having a sense of entitlement. That's true,
- 8:08Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And when they want, when
- 8:10Speaker 1: they want more, they act like you never did anything
- 8:12Speaker 1: for them, you know what I'm saying. So he could
- 8:14Speaker 1: be a pizza or you know, our money when they
- 8:18Speaker 1: want more. Anything you ever did will never be enough
- 8:22Speaker 1: to act like you never did anything correct, you know,
- 8:24Speaker 1: And I can't. I don't deal with entitled people. Gets
- 8:26Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 8:31Speaker 10: That's hilarious is our guest.
- 8:32Speaker 1: So so, ladies and gentlemen.
- 8:34Speaker 10: Stephanie Mills, good morning, Miss Mills.
- 8:36Speaker 7: Good morning, good morning. Oh yeah, eyes, I'm fine. Don't
- 8:39Speaker 7: you think he has bamby beautiful eyes.
- 8:45Speaker 1: Beautiful?
- 8:45Speaker 3: That's my baby.
- 8:46Speaker 7: Yeah. I love Stephanie Mills. You know that we have
- 8:49Speaker 7: a love affair. He's like my son. He could be
- 8:52Speaker 7: my son.
- 8:53Speaker 1: That's right, literally son. Now you got a lot going on,
- 9:02Speaker 1: Miss Mills. You got your PBS special.
- 9:04Speaker 3: I have a lot going on the Broadway, Babe.
- 9:07Speaker 1: Pride.
- 9:08Speaker 3: The movie.
- 9:08Speaker 7: Pride executive produced the TDJ Derek Williams, and they just
- 9:14Speaker 7: offered me the part. Derek called me and said, do
- 9:16Speaker 7: you want to do this role?
- 9:17Speaker 3: And sent me the script and I said yes, And
- 9:19Speaker 3: You're torn. I'm torn, Wow, And I'm getting ready this possibility.
- 9:23Speaker 7: I'm getting ready to come back to Broadway to do.
- 9:25Speaker 3: My own shot?
- 9:26Speaker 1: What based on your life?
- 9:28Speaker 7: No not, I don't want to do anything based on
- 9:29Speaker 7: my life, but just songs and where I've come from
- 9:32Speaker 7: and all of that.
- 9:33Speaker 1: Wow, Wow, how are you managing everything that you're doing
- 9:37Speaker 1: at the moment?
- 9:38Speaker 7: I have a great manager I call amp Yum Yums.
- 9:41Speaker 7: He's just he's a yummy manager. You know how when
- 9:43Speaker 7: you find somebody that just you can trust.
- 9:45Speaker 3: And believes in you.
- 9:47Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 9:47Speaker 3: Absolutely, so pretty, thank you so much. So, how does
- 9:51Speaker 3: it feel to still be so legendary? Like forty years later?
- 9:58Speaker 1: Relevant?
- 9:58Speaker 5: You like?
- 9:59Speaker 3: Relevant? Relevant? Even is like just still like it's people
- 10:03Speaker 3: still walking around singing your songs. He can't sing, but
- 10:05Speaker 3: he was literally walking around still just sing your songs
- 10:09Speaker 3: before you even said yeah, I come up there with
- 10:11Speaker 3: y'all and he was still walking around singing, Like how
- 10:13Speaker 3: does how does that feel?
- 10:15Speaker 7: It's a blessing. I feel really blessed because I didn't
- 10:19Speaker 7: have the machinery behind me.
- 10:21Speaker 3: Okay you know what I'm saying.
- 10:22Speaker 7: So for me to still be here doing it and
- 10:25Speaker 7: I'm doing it on my own terms because I kind
- 10:27Speaker 7: of backed away from the industry because it became too
- 10:30Speaker 7: much for me to still do it and then find
- 10:33Speaker 7: someone like Amp who believed in me and allows me
- 10:36Speaker 7: to be who I am, because you know, in this
- 10:38Speaker 7: business they try to change you to meet a certain criteria.
- 10:42Speaker 7: And I never fit into that criteria and didn't want to.
- 10:46Speaker 3: And I love that. I love that, And and so
- 10:48Speaker 3: for the Rolling Stones magazine, greatest of all time? Yeah,
- 10:52Speaker 3: the greatest one of things of all time? How do
- 10:54Speaker 3: you feel being left out of that? I don't feel anything.
- 10:57Speaker 7: I don't pay any attention to that. That's something behind
- 11:00Speaker 7: a desk who doesn't really know what they're talking enough.
- 11:03Speaker 3: How could you leave Celine Dion off? How could you?
- 11:07Speaker 3: It's a great you know, how could you?
- 11:09Speaker 1: So?
- 11:09Speaker 3: I don't pay attention to that.
- 11:10Speaker 7: I don't pay attention to awards and all that, even
- 11:13Speaker 7: though I have awards of everything that of musically.
- 11:16Speaker 3: But it doesn't mean anything.
- 11:17Speaker 7: What means matters to me, and which has kept me
- 11:20Speaker 7: with my sold out shows that I'm proud of is
- 11:23Speaker 7: my people coming to see me and paying their hard
- 11:26Speaker 7: earned money.
- 11:27Speaker 3: That's what keeps me going.
- 11:29Speaker 1: Yeah, igue with you with the Rolling Stone. Clearly those
- 11:31Speaker 1: people are culturally coolest, you know what I mean? Leaving
- 11:34Speaker 1: people like you, Selina.
- 11:36Speaker 7: But see, I was never played on vh one or MTV,
- 11:39Speaker 7: none of my videos because they always said I was
- 11:41Speaker 7: too urban and I only had a pop record with
- 11:44Speaker 7: Never Knew Love. That's the only one they allowed to
- 11:47Speaker 7: cross over.
- 11:48Speaker 1: I wonder you said something earlier. You said that you
- 11:49Speaker 1: never had the machine behind you. And it's interesting because
- 11:52Speaker 1: you can see how that might still impact you now
- 11:54Speaker 1: when it comes to these lists.
- 11:55Speaker 7: Right exactly when you think about it, like back in
- 11:58Speaker 7: the day when MTV, I my MTV and they didn't
- 12:01Speaker 7: want to play Michael. You know, it was a president
- 12:03Speaker 7: of the company that said, if you don't play him,
- 12:05Speaker 7: I'm going to expose that you're racist. And I don't
- 12:08Speaker 7: think really anything has changed. I think you have to
- 12:10Speaker 7: have And back then I didn't have that kind of
- 12:12Speaker 7: person that would go on the front line for me.
- 12:15Speaker 7: But Michael did, and I'm glad he did because just
- 12:18Speaker 7: imagine you not hearing Thriller the way it was, or
- 12:21Speaker 7: being exposed to all those wonderful videos that he did.
- 12:25Speaker 7: And they didn't acknowledge his forty at the anniversary of
- 12:27Speaker 7: Thriller or anything at the Grammys or American Music a BOYD.
- 12:31Speaker 1: How did they pick and choose who got the machine
- 12:33Speaker 1: back then though, because I feel like back then you
- 12:36Speaker 1: really needed talent to get a deal.
- 12:38Speaker 7: You really needed talent to get a deal. That's why
- 12:41Speaker 7: my audience is predominantly black, because Beet and all those
- 12:47Speaker 7: black outlets played my videos, you know, and black radio
- 12:50Speaker 7: supported me so much. So that's why I'm able to survive.
- 12:55Speaker 7: That's why I don't understand why a lot of black
- 12:57Speaker 7: artists like don't go back to the black publications and
- 13:01Speaker 7: things like that that made them, well, I know, white,
- 13:05Speaker 7: I colder always why, you know, I don't understand that.
- 13:10Speaker 7: I never understand why they think vanilla ice cream is
- 13:13Speaker 7: colder than chocolate.
- 13:14Speaker 1: I think it's because they want that mass look, you know,
- 13:17Speaker 1: I mean.
- 13:18Speaker 3: But you could have that. Let me tell you something.
- 13:20Speaker 7: I went to Oh What's the Girls group? They came
- 13:23Speaker 7: to Charlotte and they sold out the arena. There was
- 13:25Speaker 7: nothing there but black people escape.
- 13:29Speaker 3: Yes, so what's wrong with the black dollar? I definitely
- 13:32Speaker 3: get what you're saying that. My generation they also feel
- 13:37Speaker 3: like because I don't, although I'm a part of them,
- 13:40Speaker 3: they felt that's some type of advanced validation. When you
- 13:44Speaker 3: get like then they call it the crossover. It's like,
- 13:47Speaker 3: you know, and people, I did a show for Fox,
- 13:49Speaker 3: Sitcom on Fox. People around ye shout to the show
- 13:53Speaker 3: real and I was on it with Simbad he played
- 13:57Speaker 3: It was amazing, right, I love him too, Like the
- 13:59Speaker 3: show people was telling me because people was only used
- 14:02Speaker 3: to seeing me on like wild'n Out and all that
- 14:04Speaker 3: type of stuff, you know, more production with black people.
- 14:07Speaker 3: And then they were like, oh, that's your crossover. Fox
- 14:11Speaker 3: is your crossover. It's like you really made it. Now,
- 14:14Speaker 3: I really made it because I'm on Fox, you know,
- 14:16Speaker 3: working around all these white people. No, I've been made
- 14:19Speaker 3: it and it's still I still ain't make it. That's
- 14:22Speaker 3: that sitcom wasn't like the cream of the crop for
- 14:24Speaker 3: me yet. I'm still not where I want to be
- 14:26Speaker 3: in terms of you know, just where I'm going, right,
- 14:29Speaker 3: But I didn't consider that as my crossover. That's another
- 14:33Speaker 3: show that I'm on. That's another stepping stone, right, Like
- 14:36Speaker 3: you know, so I never so I get exactly what
- 14:39Speaker 3: you're saying.
- 14:39Speaker 7: And that's what we think. We think when we cross
- 14:42Speaker 7: over to that pop we've made it. Why do we
- 14:45Speaker 7: want to be so accepted? And I never really want
- 14:48Speaker 7: I just wanted to be accepted. I wasn't good at smoothing,
- 14:51Speaker 7: you know, Charla Mane, I wasn't good at doing that,
- 14:55Speaker 7: and I didn't want to go to the parties and
- 14:57Speaker 7: have to meet this one. And I didn't like auditioning.
- 15:00Speaker 3: Yeah, I know that's Do you like it? No?
- 15:03Speaker 7: I know they look at you like you're crazy, but
- 15:05Speaker 7: they make it.
- 15:06Speaker 1: So hard for you.
- 15:06Speaker 3: I won't do it, or don't act like.
- 15:09Speaker 10: We got more with Stephanie Mills when we come back,
- 15:11Speaker 10: don't move.
- 15:11Speaker 1: It's the breakfast Club. Good morning, the breakfast Club. Let's
- 15:17Speaker 1: get back into it.
- 15:18Speaker 2: It's the breakfast Club.
- 15:19Speaker 10: Good morning.
- 15:19Speaker 3: I got a question Michael too, because I want to
- 15:22Speaker 3: know I will answer. Okay, good. So it's the true
- 15:25Speaker 3: that you and Michael I called it daty?
- 15:29Speaker 1: How was that?
- 15:30Speaker 3: It was wonderful.
- 15:31Speaker 7: Michael was gentle, he was kind, very determined, knew where
- 15:36Speaker 7: he wanted to go, and we just had fun.
- 15:38Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 15:39Speaker 7: Used to come to the Wiz all the time.
- 15:41Speaker 3: So was he a smooth criminal? It was a smooth criminal.
- 15:51Speaker 7: I loved him that afro and chocolate.
- 15:54Speaker 1: Yeah, So why did he change all that? I think
- 15:56Speaker 1: that's what people get. Michael misconscrewed and you know, they'll
- 15:59Speaker 1: they'll they label Michael tom as an uncle Tom or
- 16:02Speaker 1: you know, a coon because of that.
- 16:04Speaker 7: I gotta be strategic because that's my baby. But Michael
- 16:09Speaker 7: wanted to be the King of pop He had a
- 16:11Speaker 7: fetish with Elvis Presley and he had his eyes on
- 16:16Speaker 7: Lisa Presley when she was very young. I think he
- 16:19Speaker 7: always knew he wanted to because he felt like.
- 16:22Speaker 3: That was the epitome.
- 16:23Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, and I think he really wanted to
- 16:28Speaker 7: be king.
- 16:29Speaker 3: But then when he got.
- 16:30Speaker 7: Over there, they showed him that you still.
- 16:35Speaker 3: And he broke his heart.
- 16:36Speaker 1: Did y'all have a relationship up until his path?
- 16:39Speaker 3: No, he was too different. I couldn't relate to that. Michael.
- 16:43Speaker 7: It had gone too far. But I think he knew
- 16:46Speaker 7: that it had gone too far.
- 16:47Speaker 3: But what can you do. You can't go back at
- 16:50Speaker 3: this point. You can't go back.
- 16:51Speaker 7: Because we went to the opening of the Atlantist and
- 16:57Speaker 7: he asked me to come. He asked to see me,
- 17:00Speaker 7: and I didn't go because I was rehearsing, and I
- 17:03Speaker 7: often wondered what.
- 17:05Speaker 3: He wanted, what he wanted to tell me.
- 17:07Speaker 7: He probably wanted to tell me something or you know,
- 17:09Speaker 7: but it had gone too far.
- 17:11Speaker 3: And I couldn't relate.
- 17:13Speaker 7: And Michael was taught the moonwalk by my ex husband
- 17:16Speaker 7: Jeffrey Daniel.
- 17:18Speaker 3: I went to those rehearsals.
- 17:19Speaker 7: Yeah, I know everybody claimed that they did not Jeffrey
- 17:23Speaker 7: Daniel taught Michael the moonwalk and all those things. But
- 17:26Speaker 7: you know, the Motown people, they don't always give people credit.
- 17:30Speaker 7: You know, they're taught not to give people credit. I
- 17:32Speaker 7: love giving people credit for what they do for me
- 17:35Speaker 7: because you can't do this by yourself. But you know,
- 17:38Speaker 7: Michael never gave him credit, and he should have.
- 17:41Speaker 1: M It's just interesting to me, how, you know. I
- 17:44Speaker 1: always wondered, like, what can make a person like totally
- 17:47Speaker 1: lose their blackness? And have you seen somebody lose their
- 17:51Speaker 1: blackness or fall out with black people find a way
- 17:54Speaker 1: to get back with the community. Cause it feels like
- 17:56Speaker 1: once you, once you turn your back on us, we
- 17:58Speaker 1: turned our back on you forever.
- 18:00Speaker 3: But look at it.
- 18:02Speaker 7: You know, I can remember a time people not gonna
- 18:05Speaker 7: like this either, But I can remember a time when
- 18:07Speaker 7: Michael would be at the awards and you would have
- 18:09Speaker 7: to get in a line to see him. I never
- 18:12Speaker 7: did that. I'm not getting an a line to see nobody.
- 18:14Speaker 7: Ain't nobody is that important. Nobody's more important than God.
- 18:17Speaker 7: And I think there's no one that's you know, like
- 18:19Speaker 7: some people say, well, how can you say something about
- 18:22Speaker 7: Oprah or something about Gail?
- 18:24Speaker 3: Aren't you afraid? I fear God? And you know that,
- 18:26Speaker 3: you know.
- 18:27Speaker 7: That, Charlamagne. I only fear fear God. I don't feel
- 18:31Speaker 7: a backlash. I mean, I'm sixty six years old, right.
- 18:36Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
- 18:38Speaker 7: But I think and nobody's above critique, Like nobody. I
- 18:43Speaker 7: don't care who you are and how much money you have,
- 18:45Speaker 7: because you could lose that. Look at Harvey Weinstein. I
- 18:49Speaker 7: remember a certain person calling him God. I you know,
- 18:53Speaker 7: Charlie Rose, who would have thought, you know, Matt lower.
- 18:56Speaker 3: Where he's kind of arrogant. He was arrogant.
- 18:59Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, But I just don't think that anybody's under approach.
- 19:02Speaker 7: But I do think Michael knew he went too far.
- 19:05Speaker 7: And you got to remember towards the end of his
- 19:06Speaker 7: career he went to Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton and
- 19:11Speaker 7: he even wanted to give Pops his minister barrickon his
- 19:15Speaker 7: his catalog and Pops wouldn't that Rye can be vicious
- 19:18Speaker 7: as we see with other people that are white dealing
- 19:22Speaker 7: with it. Britney Spears, and and and and I go
- 19:24Speaker 7: back to them because I really see how the business
- 19:28Speaker 7: has tormented them and the people around them.
- 19:31Speaker 1: The movie Pride seven Deadly Sinned story. It's gonna be
- 19:34Speaker 1: on lifetime.
- 19:35Speaker 7: Yes, with nephew Tommy, who did a brilliant job. He
- 19:40Speaker 7: plays with my son Gabe, and Kenya King who's a
- 19:43Speaker 7: Canadian actress, and Erica Campbell came in to uh play
- 19:48Speaker 7: Pastor Tray?
- 19:49Speaker 1: Is your first feature?
- 19:50Speaker 7: My first feature?
- 19:51Speaker 1: That's crazy, my first So since Broadway and everything else,
- 19:55Speaker 1: nobody decided seventy milis should be active.
- 19:58Speaker 3: They wouldn't give me a job. Damn they wouldn't.
- 20:01Speaker 1: Do you want to do more? Oh?
- 20:02Speaker 7: Yes, I got the bug now, but I'm not auditioning.
- 20:05Speaker 3: No, no, she's not auditioning, so don't ask her.
- 20:10Speaker 1: What roles? Would you want to play?
- 20:12Speaker 3: Mothers?
- 20:13Speaker 7: I mean I could play a mother, you know, an
- 20:16Speaker 7: older sister, but mothers. I want to do a Christmas Yes,
- 20:20Speaker 7: I'm a therapist. Or I want to play somebody really
- 20:23Speaker 7: tough and like gangster.
- 20:25Speaker 1: I can see that too. I can see that too.
- 20:28Speaker 3: Now, until you see your side.
- 20:33Speaker 1: I would Kevin, you know anybody shorter than you? When
- 20:37Speaker 1: does the movie like like the.
- 20:39Speaker 7: Movie alight and then Black to Broadway is.
- 20:45Speaker 1: Yes. Well, Stephanie Mills is always a pleasure sitting down
- 20:48Speaker 1: the bill with you and talk to you. And I
- 20:49Speaker 1: just love seeing you all the time.
- 20:50Speaker 7: I love seeing YouTube.
- 20:52Speaker 2: Bam b eyes.
- 20:53Speaker 1: Yes, ma'am, that's right. It's Stephanie Mills, y'all. The Breakfast Club.
- 20:58Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club Mornings will never be the same. It's
- 21:06Speaker 1: topic times.
- 21:08Speaker 2: Called eight hundred five five five one to join into
- 21:11Speaker 2: the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
- 21:14Speaker 1: Morning. Everybody you see ej Envy, Charlamagne the God.
- 21:18Speaker 10: We are the Breakfast Club.
- 21:19Speaker 1: We got our guest co host, Jess Hilarious here what's
- 21:21Speaker 1: good and if you're just joining us, we were talking
- 21:24Speaker 1: about Jess and her baby daddy Roam and their relationship.
- 21:27Speaker 10: A lot of people are called up this morning.
- 21:29Speaker 11: Actually two people called up and said they had bad
- 21:31Speaker 11: relations with their baby daddy. Said they don't help out,
- 21:34Speaker 11: they don't pay any money, and it's just not good.
- 21:36Speaker 1: And I've never seen a co parenting relationship the way
- 21:40Speaker 1: Jess and Rome have, Like they got the coolest co
- 21:42Speaker 1: parenting relationship. They got to show that they do on
- 21:45Speaker 1: YouTube with the show YouTube.
- 21:46Speaker 3: It's called Pants and Therapy in the second season, but
- 21:49Speaker 3: the first season is just as good as the second one.
- 21:51Speaker 3: The second one we sitting down with couples trying to
- 21:53Speaker 3: help them create healthy boundaries and healthy environments for their
- 21:57Speaker 3: kids parents not.
- 21:58Speaker 1: The only thing I found odd about their relationship is
- 22:01Speaker 1: that Rome is rom on the phone. Yeah, rooms on
- 22:04Speaker 1: the phone, rong rong, good on wrong, come on peace
- 22:08Speaker 1: king now room. I heard oh with her just talking
- 22:11Speaker 1: yesterday and she was saying, how you call her sis? Yeah?
- 22:15Speaker 1: Now you done shot her club up? Y'all got a
- 22:17Speaker 1: whole ten year old first of all, seven, why do
- 22:21Speaker 1: you call her siss?
- 22:23Speaker 12: Because the situation is right now and we built to
- 22:27Speaker 12: that point. But it's like I looked at.
- 22:30Speaker 8: Her like a sister family member, be said.
- 22:33Speaker 6: That take the shihead, await man.
- 22:37Speaker 5: It is different.
- 22:38Speaker 12: It's hard to explain. Some people call it weird, but.
- 22:40Speaker 1: I don't know. It's no more sexual. It's just that's
- 22:43Speaker 1: my sister. That's the you know, that's my love. I
- 22:45Speaker 1: don't killed somebody from m but I ain't shooting the
- 22:47Speaker 1: club up again. I think y'all soul makes wrong, Yeah.
- 22:50Speaker 12: But you know what it is, no sexual Yeah, that's
- 22:54Speaker 12: just what it is.
- 22:55Speaker 1: You know. You know. I'm but how did y'all get
- 22:57Speaker 1: to that point though, because most people don't get to
- 22:59Speaker 1: that point How did y'all get to that point where
- 23:01Speaker 1: you guys are damn their best friends. Y'all focus on
- 23:05Speaker 1: your future, your life, the business, the baby, the family.
- 23:08Speaker 1: But y'all can still do your thing.
- 23:10Speaker 3: Rome has been through a lot of things and like
- 23:12Speaker 3: he he don't really have a lot of family to
- 23:15Speaker 3: rely on. He don't really have a lot of friends
- 23:17Speaker 3: to rely on. It through the years, he'll have friends,
- 23:20Speaker 3: then he don't. Then they'll like to open up. And
- 23:22Speaker 3: he's never felt like he was in a safe space enough.
- 23:25Speaker 3: You got to provide like a safe space for a
- 23:27Speaker 3: man to even open up and become vulnerable, because that's
- 23:29Speaker 3: not what they do, especially man, They don't, you know.
- 23:32Speaker 3: And I was the first female that just didn't run
- 23:37Speaker 3: from his whole story, didn't judge him, always helped them.
- 23:41Speaker 3: Now he has a best friend and she you know,
- 23:43Speaker 3: they they cool, but like it's a little bit more
- 23:46Speaker 3: hands on with me, like and after all the feelings
- 23:49Speaker 3: and getting past them. We became friends on that. You know,
- 23:52Speaker 3: I was like a therapist for him or whatever, and
- 23:55Speaker 3: he the same foot. Well, he don't really do nothing
- 23:57Speaker 3: for me in.
- 23:57Speaker 1: That asset my parent you know you don't.
- 24:00Speaker 3: But I'm saying, yeah, that is big wrong.
- 24:04Speaker 1: That is big wrong.
- 24:05Speaker 12: What's that elaborated on that you take out all the
- 24:09Speaker 12: emotions and are feeling and you can be great. Yeah,
- 24:14Speaker 12: but one of the biggest problems we did had that
- 24:17Speaker 12: we was able to overcome as well.
- 24:19Speaker 1: Well.
- 24:20Speaker 12: Jacksually did like over that boundary the little bit like
- 24:24Speaker 12: in relationships, what.
- 24:25Speaker 1: You mean, She'll she'll run up on girls you messing
- 24:28Speaker 1: with no no but.
- 24:31Speaker 12: Me and made a good advice. She she wanted to
- 24:33Speaker 12: be she would want to be in it two months
- 24:36Speaker 12: and then I used to used to make me mad
- 24:38Speaker 12: because I always feel like I mind my business when
- 24:40Speaker 12: it comes to you. Even when she realized that it
- 24:44Speaker 12: took that away, it became even better.
- 24:46Speaker 10: So you're trying to holler out a chicken.
- 24:47Speaker 11: She's telling you, now, I don't like shorty, shorty, did
- 24:50Speaker 11: Shorty that she dived into your relationship?
- 24:53Speaker 3: Just no, no, no, no, no, no, no, wrong, not even
- 24:55Speaker 3: necessarily that right, Let me tell him what it is
- 24:58Speaker 3: wrong because you you're talking a little slow. You just
- 24:59Speaker 3: woke up, obviously. Look, this is the thing that room
- 25:03Speaker 3: room will be in a relationship, and then Rome will
- 25:06Speaker 3: introduced me to these girls. Rome will want me to
- 25:08Speaker 3: build a nice, little cool relationship with them. And then
- 25:11Speaker 3: when things start happening because he's not able to be
- 25:13Speaker 3: faithful lawyer or whatever.
- 25:15Speaker 1: Then damn, it's yeah.
- 25:16Speaker 3: Then it's they they then I got and then they
- 25:19Speaker 3: break up with him, and now when he beefing with him,
- 25:22Speaker 3: I gotta beef with him. And it's like no, but
- 25:25Speaker 3: now it's am I your business? But you called me,
- 25:27Speaker 3: you put me in the business. But don't be in
- 25:29Speaker 3: a business too damn much. Don't be saying like I'd
- 25:31Speaker 3: be giving a damn that much. I just give a
- 25:33Speaker 3: damn about you like you be introducing me. That's how
- 25:37Speaker 3: I end up cool with all the baby mothers, you
- 25:38Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, Like, and they cool, and I
- 25:40Speaker 3: love his kids like and even girls they didn't have
- 25:43Speaker 3: babies with a lot of them were cool. But then
- 25:45Speaker 3: he moved, bing bing bing bing bing. Here it is like, dang,
- 25:49Speaker 3: what happened to shorten? Don't worry about it?
- 25:51Speaker 1: You move on with me. I don't know what you do. Yeah,
- 25:54Speaker 1: that's what it is. I want to know how many
- 25:58Speaker 1: more relationships are out there, like just in Rome, Like
- 26:00Speaker 1: how many people got baby daddy brothers? Right? You know
- 26:02Speaker 1: what I mean? Because you got a baby daddy brother,
- 26:05Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And you got a baby
- 26:06Speaker 1: mama's sister. But it takes a lot, and you gotta comment.
- 26:09Speaker 12: I think it's a lot. I just think it's not
- 26:12Speaker 12: the norm and people are agreed to put it to
- 26:15Speaker 12: the world because of being be not the first person
- 26:19Speaker 12: to do this.
- 26:20Speaker 1: I know that I've never seen it. I think, you know,
- 26:23Speaker 1: I've just never seen it evolve go from a baby
- 26:25Speaker 1: mama uh to to you know, Oh that's like that's
- 26:29Speaker 1: my sister. And y'all really hold each other down like that.
- 26:31Speaker 1: I think that let's take some calls. Let's say, Roman,
- 26:34Speaker 1: appreciate you.
- 26:35Speaker 10: I know you, we just woke you up. We appreciate
- 26:36Speaker 10: you for checking in.
- 26:37Speaker 1: Brother. Appreciate and Rome, you're a great father. Man, You're
- 26:41Speaker 1: a great father. I love the way you hold it
- 26:43Speaker 1: down for your son.
- 26:44Speaker 2: Man.
- 26:45Speaker 12: I appreciate that.
- 26:46Speaker 3: Man.
- 26:46Speaker 12: Thank you you having brothday.
- 26:49Speaker 10: Hello is this this is man? Yay, jazz me, good morning.
- 26:56Speaker 6: I have a baby daddy, but it is not peaceful.
- 27:00Speaker 6: So parenting is not easy. And we spent thirteen years
- 27:03Speaker 6: together and I felt like yesterday listening to just fix
- 27:08Speaker 6: people's messages, I thought about you know, I think their
- 27:12Speaker 6: relationship is so commendable. They co parents so gracefully, and
- 27:17Speaker 6: you know, they're funny together. They make it, they make
- 27:20Speaker 6: it a good time. They make it look like a
- 27:21Speaker 6: good time. So I'm like, how how is that even possible?
- 27:27Speaker 3: Just it just literally shut up. It just literally takes.
- 27:30Speaker 3: It takes time, it really does. And you know it
- 27:33Speaker 3: it depends on how y'all both feel about each other.
- 27:36Speaker 3: You know, y'all still does one half feelings for the
- 27:39Speaker 3: other one. You know, it's just okay, okay, you said
- 27:42Speaker 3: that very strongly.
- 27:43Speaker 1: Very but you said.
- 27:46Speaker 6: You couldn't pay me the sweet Framewater girl.
- 27:49Speaker 4: Okaye.
- 27:51Speaker 1: Well do you do you even like them at all? No?
- 27:54Speaker 10: Okay, so you don't even want to be you' even
- 27:57Speaker 10: like it?
- 27:57Speaker 6: But because I know the bigger it is, the bigger
- 28:00Speaker 6: picture is my children. So I know how to put
- 28:03Speaker 6: my bike on to the side.
- 28:04Speaker 3: Right, but don't think right? Okay, all right, but are
- 28:08Speaker 3: you still heard about anything is that's what is that
- 28:11Speaker 3: was stopping?
- 28:11Speaker 6: Well, I will say this, I am very betrayed. I
- 28:15Speaker 6: was very betrayed from the beginning, so that it's hard for.
- 28:18Speaker 1: Me to let go.
- 28:19Speaker 3: Definitely.
- 28:19Speaker 11: Okay, So you still I don't think you could be
- 28:21Speaker 11: friends unless you let that go, because you'll always have
- 28:23Speaker 11: that overyard relationship even if y'all just become friends.
- 28:26Speaker 1: So I think that's where it has to go. Yeah,
- 28:29Speaker 1: if you know about having a baby daddy, it was
- 28:30Speaker 1: a lot of things. What the hell you're my only
- 28:33Speaker 1: baby daddy, which is what was going on here?
- 28:35Speaker 3: Hold on, all right, I'm sorry.
- 28:36Speaker 1: You want just to fix the mess?
- 28:38Speaker 6: Yes, I need to know, I want I need her.
- 28:44Speaker 3: Yeah, that's but that's what it literally takes.
- 28:47Speaker 1: Though.
- 28:47Speaker 3: You just have to get past your hurt. Because a
- 28:50Speaker 3: lot of things wrong did to me. I had to
- 28:52Speaker 3: let go. I didn't just put them to the side.
- 28:55Speaker 3: You know, it's a big difference between putting it to
- 28:57Speaker 3: the side and really getting past it. It was man,
- 29:00Speaker 3: he had ran into a lump summer money. I was broke,
- 29:03Speaker 3: lights off everything, the and my son and we had
- 29:06Speaker 3: to we had candles, I had a car. I had
- 29:09Speaker 3: to go in the car to get air. All of that,
- 29:10Speaker 3: and he knew all of this, but I couldn't hold
- 29:12Speaker 3: that over his head. I didn't have time to hate
- 29:14Speaker 3: him because he was so young, never had no money,
- 29:16Speaker 3: so when he got it, he just did whatever he
- 29:18Speaker 3: wanted to do with it.
- 29:19Speaker 1: You feel me.
- 29:19Speaker 3: And he was young.
- 29:21Speaker 1: He never tossed y'all nothing, No, he.
- 29:23Speaker 3: Never, no, he never talk to me anything.
- 29:28Speaker 1: Be a good story.
- 29:28Speaker 10: I thought he came up with some money and helped
- 29:30Speaker 10: you out. Oh no, I don't know to this day.
- 29:32Speaker 1: No, So how do you stay from being discrediled?
- 29:34Speaker 2: How did you?
- 29:35Speaker 3: I didn't have time to hate him, yo, Listen. I
- 29:37Speaker 3: was trying to figure out the next game, the next
- 29:38Speaker 3: way to get some money, to way to get my
- 29:40Speaker 3: lights on, Like he ain't, never had no bread like that,
- 29:44Speaker 3: And so when he came into it, he just you know.
- 29:48Speaker 1: Know that. From what I'm getting from your situation and
- 29:51Speaker 1: hearing these calls is you never stopped liking him as
- 29:54Speaker 1: a person, as a friend, You know what I mean?
- 29:57Speaker 1: These people grew to hate their baby daddy. I think
- 30:00Speaker 1: once you go to hate your baby daddy's hard to
- 30:01Speaker 1: come back from that.
- 30:02Speaker 10: Yeah, what's the story.
- 30:06Speaker 3: I guess just what, y'all, I'm not drunk no more.
- 30:10Speaker 3: Stop being drunk at four o'clock this morning.
- 30:12Speaker 1: Look the moral of the.
- 30:14Speaker 3: Story, I don't really know what the moral of the
- 30:16Speaker 3: story is. It ain't no story. It's just you know,
- 30:19Speaker 3: you you just you have to learn how to move
- 30:21Speaker 3: forward am amicable. Yeah I'm still drunk, all right. Yeah,
- 30:25Speaker 3: you have to learn how to You gotta learn how
- 30:29Speaker 3: to move forward amicably. Yes, with the with the other parent, Yo,
- 30:33Speaker 3: you got to take all them feelings out of there.
- 30:34Speaker 3: If y'all want to be like me and Rome, you
- 30:35Speaker 3: gotta take out all those feelings and you can't hold
- 30:38Speaker 3: on to hurt like yeah, like Charlamagne say. And I
- 30:40Speaker 3: never got to the point where I wanted to hate them, Yo,
- 30:44Speaker 3: I was gonna hate him. My life is still gonna
- 30:46Speaker 3: be off. I ain't got time for that. And I
- 30:49Speaker 3: never stopped him from saying the sun not ever. Look,
- 30:51Speaker 3: please come get them, but bring them back, you know
- 30:53Speaker 3: what I mean? Like never, It's never been no malicious intent,
- 30:56Speaker 3: no nothing, no ever took com downtown. And I should have,
- 30:58Speaker 3: you know, I felt like I should have back then
- 31:00Speaker 3: like now, but I just didn't want to do that.
- 31:03Speaker 3: I was like that girl who called up earlier, it
- 31:05Speaker 3: was gonna be a struggle fantists.
- 31:06Speaker 1: I feel like it was rooted in respect until it
- 31:08Speaker 1: grew into what it is now. I feel like a
- 31:10Speaker 1: lot of these relationships aren't rooted in respect, you know
- 31:13Speaker 1: what I mean. That's good suit everybody out there with
- 31:16Speaker 1: a baby, daddy, brother and figured out my sister.
- 31:19Speaker 3: People that figured it out because I love my room.
- 31:21Speaker 3: You know, I love my best bro. That's your ma.
- 31:24Speaker 3: That's it. Ain't got to be somebody that you with.
- 31:28Speaker 3: You can have a best friend of the so many
- 31:29Speaker 3: you can have. I'm telling you, it's your soul. And
- 31:31Speaker 3: ain't got nothing to do with instancy.
- 31:34Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club more than everybody.
- 31:38Speaker 11: It's DJ n V Charlamagne to God. We are the
- 31:41Speaker 11: Breakfast Club.
- 31:42Speaker 1: Jess hilarious to see our guest co host and we
- 31:45Speaker 1: got a special guest in the building, Jocelyn Hernandez welcomed breakfast.
- 31:51Speaker 3: Thank you and in town.
- 31:52Speaker 10: I didn't even know that you are doing your Jocelyn's
- 31:55Speaker 10: cabaret in New York.
- 31:56Speaker 7: I am.
- 31:57Speaker 3: I cannot believe you didn't come see me yet. It's
- 31:59Speaker 3: so much much fun.
- 32:00Speaker 1: D J MVY so break down with the cabarets, because
- 32:03Speaker 1: you know, Stallless is a strip club, it's a gentleman club.
- 32:05Speaker 3: It is a strict shout out to Starless and Marty
- 32:07Speaker 3: and everybody. So okay, So the cabaret, you know the cabaret.
- 32:10Speaker 3: I'm on my fourth season on Graduations. Yes, four seasons, girl,
- 32:15Speaker 3: that's a lot. That is a lot. And I owned
- 32:17Speaker 3: the show. I owned the IP, my intellectual property. I
- 32:20Speaker 3: wrote it. I wrote the cabaret. I created it, I
- 32:23Speaker 3: produced it, I do everything about it. I act in it.
- 32:25Speaker 3: So basically, it's like a group of ladies. They compete
- 32:29Speaker 3: to be inside of my cabaret. Actually, less performance which
- 32:33Speaker 3: was Saturday, I had twelve ladies dance with me on stage.
- 32:35Speaker 1: You know.
- 32:35Speaker 3: Some of them put theirselfs on fire, shoes on fire,
- 32:39Speaker 3: they skate on stage. So it's like a whole show
- 32:41Speaker 3: that this first actually moving to the house. They compete.
- 32:44Speaker 3: It's like it's like, uh, it's like Tyra Banks with
- 32:46Speaker 3: her show with the Modern Show, except that they're dancing.
- 32:50Speaker 1: They're not modeling, you know what.
- 32:51Speaker 10: They set themselves on fire on the pole.
- 32:53Speaker 3: On the pole they choose they kitty cat everything be
- 32:56Speaker 3: on fire, the kit the kiddy cat be on fire,
- 33:00Speaker 3: did envy?
- 33:00Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to tell you.
- 33:03Speaker 3: You talking about, yes, you know, not that type of
- 33:06Speaker 3: like you know, messed up fire. I'm talking about like
- 33:08Speaker 3: fun fire, like you know, like a real show, like
- 33:10Speaker 3: a real show. Definitely this season the Ladies step third
- 33:13Speaker 3: game up because season one, season two, season three of
- 33:15Speaker 3: the Cabaret it was great, and you know, we built
- 33:18Speaker 3: to it. You know, the first season, I was trying
- 33:20Speaker 3: to get the ladies to understand my vision. I want
- 33:22Speaker 3: to do a cabaret with my music and I want
- 33:24Speaker 3: some dancers, and says I'm a musician. I want to
- 33:27Speaker 3: do it on TV. I want the girls to dance.
- 33:28Speaker 3: I want to I want to make it make sense.
- 33:29Speaker 3: I want to make it make one. Some of the
- 33:31Speaker 3: girls didn't believe. Season two, we did it. One of
- 33:33Speaker 3: them one ten thousand dollars. We performing Atlanta. We did
- 33:36Speaker 3: the whole choreography to one of my songs.
- 33:38Speaker 1: So that was great.
- 33:38Speaker 3: Season three, I went on tour to twelve different cities.
- 33:41Speaker 3: It was a lot. It was quick, it was fast,
- 33:43Speaker 3: so we really need to have an actual show. But
- 33:45Speaker 3: the people love that, you know, they can they seen
- 33:47Speaker 3: the girls getting on stage door and they thing them
- 33:49Speaker 3: in the post. But now season four, it's more organized.
- 33:52Speaker 3: We got a routine, we got the whole show. It's
- 33:54Speaker 3: a thirty minute show. I think I'm performing like eight
- 33:57Speaker 3: songs for thirty minutes, and you know, then I do
- 33:59Speaker 3: my meeting. Read my last tour, I would just go
- 34:01Speaker 3: and just keep before me. But now I have to,
- 34:04Speaker 3: like you know, I have to preserve myself.
- 34:05Speaker 1: I have to film.
- 34:06Speaker 3: And I'm actually also filming Season four at the Cabaret
- 34:08Speaker 3: that would be airing next one on Suious Network.
- 34:11Speaker 11: You think people don't take you serious because of the
- 34:13Speaker 11: love and hip hop, because of the College Hill, because
- 34:16Speaker 11: of the Cabaret, like they don't take you as serious
- 34:19Speaker 11: as you feel like they should.
- 34:20Speaker 3: I feel like they take me super serious. I always
- 34:22Speaker 3: have Cella shows. I have my only my fans that
- 34:25Speaker 3: I personally fans of Johnson that if you go on
- 34:28Speaker 3: my Instagram, on my Twitter or any of the hashtags.
- 34:30Speaker 3: At the Cabaret, they say my songs word for word,
- 34:34Speaker 3: word for word, like you got. I do shows sometimes
- 34:37Speaker 3: with fifteen hundred people, twenty five hundred people, one hundred people,
- 34:40Speaker 3: three hundred people, five hundred people. It's different cities, different shows,
- 34:44Speaker 3: different locations, and every city you go to they sing
- 34:47Speaker 3: my songs every song, not just birthday song, not just
- 34:51Speaker 3: Vegas I want to ride, but every now of the week,
- 34:54Speaker 3: get Rico, fingupcheck slay every song. They run me my
- 34:58Speaker 3: money every song that I have. And I you know,
- 35:00Speaker 3: I've never put out an album, but I put out
- 35:02Speaker 3: singles like all the time. And so I definitely feel
- 35:06Speaker 3: like people has taken me.
- 35:07Speaker 1: Seriously.
- 35:07Speaker 3: Do I feel like it took them a long time?
- 35:09Speaker 1: Yes?
- 35:10Speaker 3: But do I feel who am I to be before
- 35:13Speaker 3: anyone else? I just have to keep working. If I
- 35:15Speaker 3: believe in myself, I have to just keep pushing. I
- 35:17Speaker 3: love that I see a lot of different things for you.
- 35:19Speaker 3: It's like, why the hell you won't get into like
- 35:22Speaker 3: pro wrestling? Why?
- 35:23Speaker 1: Wow?
- 35:23Speaker 12: What?
- 35:24Speaker 1: What was happening? Like? Why you won't go in some
- 35:26Speaker 1: pro What is wrong with you?
- 35:30Speaker 3: Slapping security? You're supposed to protect you. She's slapping this
- 35:34Speaker 3: quick enough clouds. So I tell you what, I tell
- 35:36Speaker 3: you what I'm not really you know. You know I
- 35:40Speaker 3: just got out of jail. Yes, you know, I just
- 35:42Speaker 3: got out of jail. There's really not too much that
- 35:44Speaker 3: I could talk on that, But I will, you know,
- 35:47Speaker 3: because you know, you know, I was gone, girl, I
- 35:48Speaker 3: was in a lot of the el Brownwood County. I
- 35:50Speaker 3: was cold, came out with a coughing everything I thought
- 35:52Speaker 3: I was for two days, and I'm seeing it up
- 35:56Speaker 3: here as sick as a dog.
- 35:58Speaker 6: Why me?
- 35:59Speaker 5: Why me?
- 36:00Speaker 3: Yeah? So I can't really speak too much on that,
- 36:02Speaker 3: but but what I can say is that I'm gonna.
- 36:04Speaker 1: Always protect Yes, how do you say it is?
- 36:07Speaker 10: Protect?
- 36:07Speaker 1: Yes? Me? Right?
- 36:10Speaker 3: And if you see me out here in the streets,
- 36:12Speaker 3: when you know, you two in the world America, whoever
- 36:15Speaker 3: knows me, know where I come from and what I've
- 36:18Speaker 3: done and how I've changed, you know, I'm just making
- 36:20Speaker 3: sure that I'm straight and no one hurts me, you know.
- 36:24Speaker 3: So you know, the media only show you one thing.
- 36:25Speaker 3: It looks like a whole lot of chaos, but you
- 36:28Speaker 3: might not know what happened prior to that chaos, like
- 36:30Speaker 3: five seconds before or ten seconds before. You just see
- 36:33Speaker 3: like the row, right, And because it's me, it's always
- 36:35Speaker 3: so much bigger than what it actually is. Yeah, And
- 36:38Speaker 3: that's another big point too. So it's like even to
- 36:41Speaker 3: keep going back to a you know, love and hip hop,
- 36:43Speaker 3: they had you, I know that the it was a
- 36:45Speaker 3: lot of tension with you on Mona because it's like
- 36:47Speaker 3: she always wanted to portray you in that light. You
- 36:50Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. Do you ever feel any way
- 36:52Speaker 3: about that, like how you would be for Mona about it?
- 36:54Speaker 3: Then you go over in Laul Lamel. He got you,
- 36:57Speaker 3: you know, looking the same way when you're so many
- 37:00Speaker 3: of the things and just fighter. Well, I say this,
- 37:02Speaker 3: I will sell this. Shout out. Shout out to Mona
- 37:04Speaker 3: and shout out to let me. They both gave me
- 37:06Speaker 3: amazing opportunities. And I will also say I'm a grown
- 37:10Speaker 3: person right the way I run my cabaret as far
- 37:13Speaker 3: as like being on Suit's network, because when I did
- 37:16Speaker 3: love on hip hop, I was like, you know, I
- 37:17Speaker 3: was younger, I was wild, I was out there. So
- 37:20Speaker 3: it's only but so much that and network could do
- 37:22Speaker 3: for yourself to help you or break you. You know,
- 37:25Speaker 3: you still have to as said responsibilities as a human being,
- 37:29Speaker 3: as a you know, for yourself. So with that, that
- 37:32Speaker 3: was what it was right And if it wasn't for
- 37:34Speaker 3: love of hip hop, let's just be real, I will
- 37:36Speaker 3: not be here with the cabaret. And then you know,
- 37:38Speaker 3: with the cabaret. Like, listen, that's just how I run
- 37:40Speaker 3: my show, you know what I'm saying, Like I run
- 37:42Speaker 3: my to do what I tell them to do. If
- 37:43Speaker 3: you can, you can't be in the cabaret. You know
- 37:45Speaker 3: when you see me on suits will lend me on
- 37:48Speaker 3: the cabaret. I just think that you see so much
- 37:50Speaker 3: more of me running a business instead of seeing like
- 37:54Speaker 3: the personal Jocelyn, Like the person of Jocelyn is different
- 37:57Speaker 3: than the Jocelyn that's actually running a business. So I
- 38:00Speaker 3: might look like I'm row or like I'm being putting
- 38:02Speaker 3: this one life, but you got to remember you're only seeing, like,
- 38:05Speaker 3: really just twenty thirty percent of my life. Because even
- 38:07Speaker 3: though I got camerase out for forty six weeks, like
- 38:09Speaker 3: I do right now, feel me Johnson discabaret, He said, four,
- 38:12Speaker 3: it's still not everything that you know. You don't see
- 38:15Speaker 3: when I'm crying. You don't see when I'm taking care
- 38:17Speaker 3: of my daughter. You don't see when I'm you know,
- 38:19Speaker 3: working out doing yoga every day. I've been in New
- 38:21Speaker 3: York and I've been doing yoga every day with my husband.
- 38:23Speaker 11: But you could, I was gonna say, but you know
- 38:25Speaker 11: the fact that it's your show. You can display what
- 38:27Speaker 11: you want to display. Now, you can put that out there.
- 38:29Speaker 11: You just ain't got to put the cabaret port. You
- 38:31Speaker 11: could put that out too. And I was gonna ask
- 38:33Speaker 11: you shout it out, you know, Mota Scott. I know
- 38:35Speaker 11: one time you were saying, so now you your Mota
- 38:37Speaker 11: go back and forth. But the fact that y'all shout
- 38:39Speaker 11: her out, have y'all spoke, have y'all squashed that beef
- 38:41Speaker 11: at that time, or you just let it go?
- 38:43Speaker 1: You know what.
- 38:43Speaker 3: I haven't talked to her. But it's just like you
- 38:45Speaker 3: come to a place where you grow up. I don't
- 38:48Speaker 3: got to keep being mad at Mono, being mad at
- 38:50Speaker 3: anybody for nothing, Like, well, how does that help me?
- 38:53Speaker 3: How does that give me any blessing? How does that
- 38:55Speaker 3: make God open the door for me to get like
- 38:58Speaker 3: keep opening up my third eye so I can keep
- 39:00Speaker 3: pursuing my dreams and my career. How could I help
- 39:03Speaker 3: young ladies in the world. You know, like that ain't
- 39:05Speaker 3: gonna you know, my my biggest goal to be in life.
- 39:08Speaker 3: I grew up and I always say this, I grew
- 39:10Speaker 3: up in Puerto Rico. I grew up in Cattle Lina,
- 39:13Speaker 3: and like say's middle, And I said, yo, I grew
- 39:15Speaker 3: up in the ghetto, in the hood, in the trenches,
- 39:18Speaker 3: and I used to be running around without no shoes
- 39:20Speaker 3: and have needles hero on needles on my feet.
- 39:23Speaker 1: I had to come home.
- 39:24Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to pull in my My dad used
- 39:26Speaker 3: to be up crack and a heroin addict. So I
- 39:28Speaker 3: come from nothing right, and my dad died when I
- 39:30Speaker 3: was very young. And for me, my most important thing
- 39:33Speaker 3: is to showcase to the little girls that they could
- 39:36Speaker 3: do it. If I did it, you could do it too.
- 39:38Speaker 3: Like that's always going to be my in goal because
- 39:40Speaker 3: I have a daughter, and it's it's it's it's rooted
- 39:44Speaker 3: deep in my heart. I want to always be that
- 39:46Speaker 3: voice of reasoning to the young girls because they know
- 39:49Speaker 3: I was a mess when I first came out. But
- 39:50Speaker 3: look where I come from. Look what cars was given
- 39:53Speaker 3: to me for me to play. So you got to
- 39:54Speaker 3: remember I come from a really low income family. When
- 39:57Speaker 3: I tell you low income, I mean like food stampslow
- 39:59Speaker 3: in you feel me. And so for me now, it's
- 40:02Speaker 3: like all I want to do is really just do
- 40:04Speaker 3: my job, do what I love to do, music TV,
- 40:07Speaker 3: help the little girls, take care of Bonnie, have another
- 40:09Speaker 3: child with my husband. Yes, I'm an audist. Yes I
- 40:12Speaker 3: do messed up things. Yes I'm out there. You might
- 40:14Speaker 3: see something. Oh she crazy. I'm not crazy.
- 40:17Speaker 1: You know.
- 40:17Speaker 3: I'm not gonna ever do anything that truly in my
- 40:20Speaker 3: heart don't feel like I need to do, and I'm
- 40:23Speaker 3: gonna take the consequences.
- 40:24Speaker 1: Afterwards, we got more with Johnson Henandas when we come back,
- 40:27Speaker 1: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning everybody. It's
- 40:30Speaker 1: the dj NZ, Charlomagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club.
- 40:33Speaker 11: We're still kicking it with Jocelyn Hernandez. Jess Solaris is here,
- 40:37Speaker 11: Charlamagne is out for a couple of days. Do you
- 40:39Speaker 11: turn up for the cameras? The reason I say that
- 40:40Speaker 11: is absolutely when people talk about Johnson, I'm like, I've
- 40:47Speaker 11: been on flights with Jocelyn, like, and she's the coolest.
- 40:50Speaker 10: Comments, how's your family, how's your wife doing? So then
- 40:53Speaker 10: when I turn on the TV, I'm like, that's not
- 40:55Speaker 10: the person.
- 40:55Speaker 1: I just do it for three hours.
- 40:56Speaker 10: I'm like, that's not the same person. So you you
- 40:59Speaker 10: make it your business to entertain?
- 41:01Speaker 3: Can I tell you something you could ask my family?
- 41:03Speaker 3: You could ask my best friend Melissa, which is my
- 41:05Speaker 3: manager and my husband. But listen, say I am a trip.
- 41:08Speaker 3: I wake up in the morning tripping. I'm tripping. I'm
- 41:11Speaker 3: high off life. I'm recently clean. And when I say clean, listen,
- 41:14Speaker 3: let me tell you I'm grown. I could do whatever
- 41:17Speaker 3: I want. I got my stuff together. I ain't never
- 41:19Speaker 3: been in the streets.
- 41:20Speaker 1: Y'all.
- 41:20Speaker 3: Ain't never heard that I owe nobody money. You ain't
- 41:23Speaker 3: never heard that I'm broke. You ain't never heard that
- 41:25Speaker 3: I ain't getting no money. You ain't never heard that
- 41:27Speaker 3: I'm a junkie outside shooting up.
- 41:29Speaker 1: No.
- 41:29Speaker 3: Did I like to party, Absolutely, still love to. But
- 41:32Speaker 3: I know that I have to focus and I have
- 41:33Speaker 3: to be as clean as I can to be the
- 41:35Speaker 3: best that I can be. Right, But you could ask
- 41:37Speaker 3: this too. I don't have to have nothing in my system.
- 41:39Speaker 3: I wake up with the bush. Just like a funny person.
- 41:42Speaker 3: People always be like, you should be a commedian. No,
- 41:44Speaker 3: I'm funny because I don't want to be a commedian.
- 41:46Speaker 3: I'm funny because that's just who I am as a person.
- 41:48Speaker 3: So like I do turn off for the cameras, but
- 41:51Speaker 3: envy I'm a funny ass. No matter what, Like I
- 41:54Speaker 3: wake up funny. I just like to have fun. I
- 41:56Speaker 3: like to have fun, I think, and I'm very and
- 41:59Speaker 3: you got to remember, when I'm working and filming, I
- 42:00Speaker 3: have to be very strict. And the second I getting
- 42:02Speaker 3: out to be strict, I'm gonna be funny, I'm gonna
- 42:05Speaker 3: be a bitch. I would be cracking jokes everything.
- 42:07Speaker 10: Now you said you're clean?
- 42:08Speaker 1: Is it? You're clean because you have your baby? And
- 42:10Speaker 1: you're like, I have to change or what decided you? Like?
- 42:13Speaker 5: You know what?
- 42:13Speaker 10: I want to be clean? And what does clean mean?
- 42:15Speaker 3: Well, you're not clean? Is not you know, you know,
- 42:17Speaker 3: not doing it? Want to not doing it? One too?
- 42:23Speaker 3: I'm done but doing not doing?
- 42:25Speaker 1: What did baby make?
- 42:29Speaker 10: You want to say? You know what I got to change?
- 42:30Speaker 10: Or what was it that made Was it a.
- 42:31Speaker 1: Scare or it wasn't?
- 42:33Speaker 3: Like no scared? No, scared?
- 42:34Speaker 4: No.
- 42:34Speaker 3: I always being very cautious and I do everything very limited,
- 42:37Speaker 3: you know, because I'm I'm cuteed.
- 42:39Speaker 1: I want to stay that way, you know what I'm saying.
- 42:41Speaker 3: So I'm like, you know, I be like you know
- 42:42Speaker 3: when I hang out with my you know, I'm I'm more.
- 42:45Speaker 1: Like a social party person.
- 42:46Speaker 3: You know what I mean, and I don't hang out
- 42:48Speaker 3: all the time, but I feel so much stronger and
- 42:50Speaker 3: so much better. It's like I feel like I don't
- 42:52Speaker 3: need the crutches anymore. To me, the way I think
- 42:55Speaker 3: about it's like a crutch, and I just feel like
- 42:57Speaker 3: I'm finally walking without them and I don't need them.
- 42:59Speaker 3: And I feel younger, I feel smarter, I feel sharper. Look,
- 43:03Speaker 3: I finished working last night too. In the morning, I
- 43:05Speaker 3: went to sleep, and I'm back up at seven o'clock.
- 43:08Speaker 3: I told my manager, so, I said, I cannot believe.
- 43:10Speaker 3: I took a poop, I brushed my teeth, I drank
- 43:13Speaker 3: some tea, I drank some water, I did some medicine.
- 43:15Speaker 3: I did my haird and my makeup and got here
- 43:18Speaker 3: by I said, that is.
- 43:19Speaker 1: Not Johnson r Nan. That's that's evolution.
- 43:25Speaker 3: That's having open that's making sure that you don't abuse
- 43:29Speaker 3: any drugs, you don't abuse anything in your path that
- 43:32Speaker 3: could potentially throw you off being the best you.
- 43:36Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 43:36Speaker 11: I want to ask you know, after the Floyd fight,
- 43:38Speaker 11: we we spoke about your relationship with your husband, right,
- 43:41Speaker 11: and I want to ask you about that because what
- 43:43Speaker 11: we said was and this is what I said on
- 43:45Speaker 11: a I said, you know, I look at my wife
- 43:46Speaker 11: as not only as my wife, my lover, she's my sister,
- 43:50Speaker 11: she's my best friend. So if she swing, I'm swinging.
- 43:52Speaker 11: And then when we get home, I got to find
- 43:54Speaker 11: out if she was right or wrong. That's just how
- 43:55Speaker 11: our relationship works. But how is your relationship when it
- 43:58Speaker 11: comes to those type of things, because you are on
- 44:00Speaker 11: TV and you are you know, taped all the time,
- 44:02Speaker 11: and you are out and about, So how is that
- 44:04Speaker 11: relationship with you and you and your man?
- 44:07Speaker 3: Well, shout out to Relistick. He is the man of
- 44:09Speaker 3: my dreams. I love that man. How she did a
- 44:12Speaker 3: day dream room.
- 44:14Speaker 9: I love that.
- 44:15Speaker 3: We know, but the relationship is say, I'm gonna tell
- 44:17Speaker 3: you like this, if he swings on the man, I'm swinging.
- 44:21Speaker 3: If I swing, he don't swing. It's just that he
- 44:23Speaker 3: always there in the moment by me making sure that
- 44:26Speaker 3: don't nobody else but the person that is involved is
- 44:29Speaker 3: not doing nothing.
- 44:30Speaker 10: Chara, say, he just gonna hold the other girl.
- 44:31Speaker 1: But no, no, no, never, never never never.
- 44:37Speaker 3: No, He'll be like, why the is you here? He
- 44:39Speaker 3: gonna be he gonna say, why is you here? Now
- 44:42Speaker 3: you know johnsonally don't want your ass here, you know.
- 44:45Speaker 3: But my man is a very respectful man. He's been
- 44:49Speaker 3: around all the ladies from the cabaret. He's a trusted
- 44:52Speaker 3: man and he's a real man. He will not swing
- 44:55Speaker 3: on the lady. And he's never swung on old lady.
- 44:58Speaker 3: If he looks at the heat of the moment where
- 45:00Speaker 3: he might be screaming on their whole day making sure
- 45:02Speaker 3: that don't nobody else do anything to me. He gonna
- 45:04Speaker 3: always do that as a man, because that's what the
- 45:07Speaker 3: man is supposed to do, you know. And he's so strong,
- 45:09Speaker 3: he's got all the African power. If he's swings on
- 45:11Speaker 3: a lady, she's dead.
- 45:12Speaker 1: Look at that man.
- 45:13Speaker 3: That man six feet sometime two hundred and sometimes. He's
- 45:16Speaker 3: a big, old strong man, you know. So he know
- 45:19Speaker 3: better than that. You know. He doesn't do it now,
- 45:21Speaker 3: you know, without talking about the incident. But you perform
- 45:24Speaker 3: that night I performed. That was my first time performing
- 45:26Speaker 3: at an arena. Shout out to let me for letting
- 45:28Speaker 3: me do that, because I asked let me, let me
- 45:30Speaker 3: let me well from the owners network, he put the
- 45:33Speaker 3: fight together and I was like, oh my gosh, let
- 45:35Speaker 3: me can I perform there and he was like sure.
- 45:37Speaker 10: I was like, yeah, how was that performance? Yeah, butterflies,
- 45:39Speaker 10: because I mean you perform.
- 45:40Speaker 2: I mean you not.
- 45:42Speaker 3: I perform in my shows that people know my music
- 45:45Speaker 3: and they come to see me and pay to see me.
- 45:47Speaker 3: I never performed in a place.
- 45:49Speaker 1: Where they go you feel me.
- 45:54Speaker 3: So that was my first time. So I was I
- 45:56Speaker 3: was nervous. But we've been practicing because I'm also filming
- 45:58Speaker 3: the Cabaret here in New York. So we been dancing
- 46:00Speaker 3: every day and it went really good. And then actually
- 46:03Speaker 3: the girls that I had just picked, four dancers that
- 46:05Speaker 3: I just meant in New York to dance with me.
- 46:07Speaker 3: So we we learned that routine twenty four hours prior,
- 46:11Speaker 3: and you trusted them and not even I mean, I
- 46:14Speaker 3: gotta trust something if you want to If I wanted
- 46:17Speaker 3: to go well and it went well, look it would look.
- 46:21Speaker 3: Here's what I can't say. When I did my first song,
- 46:23Speaker 3: they were clapping about the rhythm and they clapping for me.
- 46:28Speaker 3: This is this is this is good stuff. These people
- 46:31Speaker 3: don't know. My mean said this. All people coming to
- 46:32Speaker 3: see people fight like them. All people don't be out
- 46:35Speaker 3: there really just knowing what you know like the underground
- 46:37Speaker 3: artists on myself is really doing like yeah, they might
- 46:39Speaker 3: have heard my song, do it like if you'll be there,
- 46:41Speaker 3: I want to write in their in their grandkids you
- 46:44Speaker 3: know house or the children house.
- 46:45Speaker 1: But not like that.
- 46:46Speaker 3: But you don't know, you don't know, you could have.
- 46:48Speaker 3: You don't know if some of them old people was
- 46:50Speaker 3: probably leaving it like yeah whatever, but you never know
- 46:55Speaker 3: that would happened. I was like, oh, many fads, so
- 46:58Speaker 3: I was.
- 46:58Speaker 1: I was excited about that.
- 46:59Speaker 3: I did like a three songs said because I only
- 47:01Speaker 3: had like seven minutes and thirty seconds, and I thought
- 47:04Speaker 3: it was great.
- 47:04Speaker 10: Now when you drunk that night, because people asked were
- 47:06Speaker 10: you drunk?
- 47:07Speaker 3: I had a lemonary youself. I always love to say
- 47:10Speaker 3: I wasn't drunk, but I would have one or two
- 47:12Speaker 3: drinks and for some reason, and I think, because I'm
- 47:15Speaker 3: not chasing it with any drugs, it just hits me
- 47:18Speaker 3: so much harder. Yeah, because I remember when I used
- 47:20Speaker 3: to be on my she could drink ten drinks.
- 47:22Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I could drink ten drinks.
- 47:24Speaker 3: But it's not like I tell my husband, oh my gosh,
- 47:26Speaker 3: I got a headache. How many drinks your hell, but
- 47:28Speaker 3: only I like to drinks. I was neay with a headache.
- 47:30Speaker 3: It's like it's like my brain just don't want to
- 47:32Speaker 3: go back.
- 47:33Speaker 1: It's called age.
- 47:36Speaker 10: That's what it's called.
- 47:38Speaker 1: What you talking age? Get it called age.
- 47:42Speaker 10: When we come back, we got more with Johnson and
- 47:44Speaker 10: there this is the Breakfast Club.
- 47:45Speaker 1: Good morning morning everybody to Envy, Charlomagne to God, we
- 47:50Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club.
- 47:51Speaker 11: Were still kicking it with Jocelyn Hernandez. Jess Solaris is here,
- 47:54Speaker 11: Charlomage's out for a couple of days.
- 47:56Speaker 1: Jess.
- 47:56Speaker 3: Okay, So how is your co parents and relationship with Stevie?
- 48:00Speaker 2: I was that?
- 48:01Speaker 3: How were y'all? I mean, you know, I don't really
- 48:03Speaker 3: never talk to him. He talks to Bonnie on the
- 48:05Speaker 3: phone and uh, you know, he says, sir, I have
- 48:08Speaker 3: I have primary custody of Bonnie. I have physical custody
- 48:11Speaker 3: of Bonnie, and uh, he's seen her life. He's you know,
- 48:14Speaker 3: he has the right to see her whenever he wants to.
- 48:16Speaker 1: So I think I think it's pretty cool.
- 48:18Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's good. And you know, my husband
- 48:20Speaker 3: being with Bonnie since she was six months and he's
- 48:22Speaker 3: been taking care of her because I me and my husband.
- 48:24Speaker 3: When Bonnie was like six two eight months, it was
- 48:26Speaker 3: really she was like a like a little toddler, like
- 48:28Speaker 3: a little baby, not even a taller, she was a baby. Yeah.
- 48:31Speaker 3: And so you know she loves she loves my husband,
- 48:33Speaker 3: and you know she has a great relationship with her dad.
- 48:36Speaker 3: I'm sure she loves him too. So sure, I mean
- 48:38Speaker 3: I think I think it's great. So she has two dads,
- 48:40Speaker 3: I mean I never put it that way because yeah,
- 48:45Speaker 3: all the time, it's just two dads.
- 48:46Speaker 8: Yeah.
- 48:47Speaker 10: Now what made you do college?
- 48:48Speaker 1: Hill? Did you want to go back to school with that?
- 48:50Speaker 2: One of it?
- 48:51Speaker 10: Was that one of your dreams? Like I want to
- 48:52Speaker 10: can I.
- 48:53Speaker 3: Tell you something?
- 48:53Speaker 1: Yes? Really yes?
- 48:55Speaker 3: And I told my husband, I'm like, damn, I got
- 48:57Speaker 3: the opportunity to go back to school.
- 48:58Speaker 1: I never want.
- 48:59Speaker 3: First of all, I didn't even fit high school yard.
- 49:00Speaker 3: I'm very smart though. I got ownership for always got ownership.
- 49:04Speaker 5: Big.
- 49:05Speaker 1: You gotta go get your g D first before you
- 49:07Speaker 1: are But you skipped the ged you went to college
- 49:09Speaker 1: that experience.
- 49:10Speaker 3: So well, First of all, it was a great experience
- 49:12Speaker 3: because HBCU, a lot of people always see this is
- 49:14Speaker 3: something I need to clarify, maybe I need to do
- 49:16Speaker 3: it at the Breafast Club with Chatu because I've always
- 49:20Speaker 3: considered myself a black woman. But I was born in
- 49:22Speaker 3: Puerto Rico and I speak Spanish. My first language is Spanish.
- 49:25Speaker 3: But that's that that doesn't take away from the pack.
- 49:28Speaker 3: When I walk in the building, people look at me
- 49:30Speaker 3: and they say, that is a black woman, right, And
- 49:32Speaker 3: so I always been cool and love to be a
- 49:35Speaker 3: black woman, and they'd be like, Afro Latina. No, I
- 49:38Speaker 3: don't have an afro. I don't have an afro. I
- 49:40Speaker 3: don't have an afro. And I am a black woman
- 49:44Speaker 3: that was born in the island of Puerto Rico. That's
- 49:45Speaker 3: space Spanish.
- 49:46Speaker 1: And I teach my daughter, my daughter confused out of
- 49:48Speaker 1: somebody right now, but go ahead, but why because you're
- 49:51Speaker 1: Puerto Rican? I am Puerto Rican. But back to the HBCU.
- 49:54Speaker 1: In the HBCU, you know what I learned.
- 49:57Speaker 3: I learned that the Puerto Ricans, the people that were
- 49:59Speaker 3: born in Pero Rica that were black too, and back
- 50:02Speaker 3: in the days, back in those days, they were definitely
- 50:04Speaker 3: Afro Latinos because they all used to wear you know,
- 50:07Speaker 3: the big the big here. But you know that the
- 50:10Speaker 3: Black African American and the Puerto Ricas. They were tight,
- 50:13Speaker 3: you know that when they were trying to do everything
- 50:14Speaker 3: with the freeing the Negro and stuff like that. That's
- 50:17Speaker 3: the stuff that I learned at the HBCU in the Alabama.
- 50:20Speaker 3: You know, they were kind of telling us how the
- 50:22Speaker 3: black Spanish and the Black African American came together and
- 50:26Speaker 3: they were so much tighter than we actually are now.
- 50:28Speaker 3: But me, I considered myself culture. Yeah, I consider myself
- 50:31Speaker 3: a black woman that was born in Puerto Rico. Yes,
- 50:33Speaker 3: I'm Latina because of course I see Spanish and I'm Latin.
- 50:37Speaker 3: But for me, it's more than just saying that. For me,
- 50:40Speaker 3: it's just that I'm proud to be black, whether I'm
- 50:42Speaker 3: Spanish or not. And I just feel like a lot
- 50:45Speaker 3: of people just have a problem with me being so proud.
- 50:47Speaker 1: To be black.
- 50:47Speaker 3: What's your with me proud that I have for this color?
- 50:50Speaker 3: Like what's the problem? And was that what kind of
- 50:53Speaker 3: like takes you off with Amber? Like because I kind
- 50:55Speaker 3: of seen that. It was like even like what happened
- 50:58Speaker 3: because I don't know what to what happened with I mean,
- 51:00Speaker 3: I didn't have the camera, I wasn't in the class.
- 51:05Speaker 3: She was like selling her, like, yo, like you don't
- 51:07Speaker 3: want to be black, you don't want to be black.
- 51:09Speaker 10: I've seen you told am, but she didn't want to
- 51:10Speaker 10: be black.
- 51:11Speaker 3: But I've seen previous you know, like it's been years.
- 51:15Speaker 1: Everybody.
- 51:15Speaker 3: It's not no damn secret, you know. And but really
- 51:18Speaker 3: she you know, she she liked to dismiss the black
- 51:21Speaker 3: side of her.
- 51:21Speaker 1: I mean, it is what it is.
- 51:22Speaker 3: I mean, she wasn't lying. I guess that's just a trigger,
- 51:26Speaker 3: you know what I mean, you was lying. I wasn't lying.
- 51:31Speaker 3: I was lying because I wasn't lying, And you know,
- 51:33Speaker 3: I wasn't lying because we were talking about being black.
- 51:36Speaker 3: And I just have to let them know. You don't
- 51:38Speaker 3: want to be black. You came out of a big
- 51:40Speaker 3: black just like I did. My mama got a big
- 51:43Speaker 3: old black pidy. She's a perto Rican woman, but that
- 51:45Speaker 3: lady black and her mama was blacker than the table
- 51:47Speaker 3: my mama. So I come out of black. You came
- 51:50Speaker 3: out of a black people. You don't want to you
- 51:52Speaker 3: don't want to say you're black. That's weird to me.
- 51:55Speaker 3: That's so weird to me. I don't care where your
- 51:56Speaker 3: color is. I always thought she considered herself black too,
- 51:59Speaker 3: Like I really seen that she was a Karen.
- 52:00Speaker 1: When I got there, I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa.
- 52:04Speaker 1: It was just pretty whoa.
- 52:07Speaker 3: He said, that was crazy to find out that she
- 52:09Speaker 3: was a Karen.
- 52:10Speaker 11: What do you mean Karen? Like she she did not
- 52:12Speaker 11: respect black rights. We like, because I didn't see that
- 52:14Speaker 11: the show. So I'm confused. So I want you to
- 52:16Speaker 11: tell me because I don't know.
- 52:17Speaker 3: You know what a Karen is. I do, But then
- 52:19Speaker 3: that's what she is.
- 52:20Speaker 1: I'm telling you, yo, It's just not.
- 52:22Speaker 3: The only one that say that. You can go so
- 52:24Speaker 3: it come up. It's just yeah, it was like it
- 52:26Speaker 3: was you were just saying that for the first time there,
- 52:28Speaker 3: but then that for the first time to her, like period,
- 52:31Speaker 3: like when she was getting upset about what I was saying,
- 52:33Speaker 3: the joke I was being ignoredt at school. Sometimes you
- 52:35Speaker 3: go to school, you would you want to be in Glasgow.
- 52:38Speaker 1: I was just talking.
- 52:39Speaker 3: I was like, man, I'm the biggest I got up
- 52:41Speaker 3: that day. I said, I'm the biggest man.
- 52:43Speaker 1: Then you got into a Philly in Miami scuffle. We
- 52:47Speaker 1: got a little scuffle. Listen that Joan is not from
- 52:51Speaker 1: the part of the Philly that you think she's from.
- 52:53Speaker 1: And yo, I don't it's not.
- 52:58Speaker 10: Johnson practice that when that Joe, And mean, the.
- 53:01Speaker 3: Only thing I practiced is my bullet points that I'm
- 53:04Speaker 3: supposed to speak on. I don't practice nothing else. Everything
- 53:06Speaker 3: else is gonna always be me.
- 53:07Speaker 1: And you should know that that John that Joe when
- 53:09Speaker 1: you know her husband.
- 53:10Speaker 3: Is to Philly. So you know, I know a few words.
- 53:12Speaker 10: Really, I gotta ask you, big LEXI, I don't know that, Okay,
- 53:17Speaker 10: I really.
- 53:18Speaker 2: Want to know who she is.
- 53:18Speaker 10: I didn't really know who she is.
- 53:19Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know that.
- 53:22Speaker 10: I wanted to know what you know what we don't know.
- 53:25Speaker 3: We don't know. We don't know her.
- 53:26Speaker 1: I never knew, we never know her. No, I just know.
- 53:29Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 53:29Speaker 10: I'm just trying to figure out because I know I
- 53:31Speaker 10: googled that. I seemed like that night I googled and
- 53:33Speaker 10: I seen and I was trying to figure out know
- 53:35Speaker 10: that I don't know. So I was gonna ask Love
- 53:38Speaker 10: and Hip Hop, would you ever.
- 53:38Speaker 1: Do it again?
- 53:39Speaker 10: It seems like the ratings.
- 53:40Speaker 3: Literally I want to go do it. I want to
- 53:41Speaker 3: do it right now, please I right now, whoever charge
- 53:45Speaker 3: of love a hip.
- 53:46Speaker 1: I come home at the Princess. I'm gonna come through ballistic.
- 53:48Speaker 10: It's cool going on there and then having the family
- 53:50Speaker 10: and everything.
- 53:50Speaker 3: Oh, no, accident.
- 53:52Speaker 1: I don't listen Like look man, I'm already this farr
- 53:56Speaker 1: I'm I'm just gonna.
- 53:57Speaker 3: Say they need some more ratings, and I just I
- 53:59Speaker 3: need how to go ahead on over there? Man, what
- 54:01Speaker 3: you should I go to the one in Miami or
- 54:03Speaker 3: the one in Atlanta, Miami, turn up anyone she is
- 54:06Speaker 3: because I live in Miami. Please go to you.
- 54:09Speaker 1: You gave you.
- 54:09Speaker 3: You don't owe nothing else to Atlanta, and you you
- 54:11Speaker 3: already put that franchise on the missap I need you
- 54:14Speaker 3: to do Miami. I do I do her hoodie?
- 54:16Speaker 8: Why not?
- 54:17Speaker 10: Are you making money off the mook shot? They said
- 54:19Speaker 10: that you were put there.
- 54:20Speaker 3: Everybody, get listen. Jocelyn Cabaret Tour dot Com. I should
- 54:24Speaker 3: have brought your something. Listen.
- 54:25Speaker 1: Why ain't wearing? Why warn't bring Jessica? Now?
- 54:27Speaker 3: So you're selling I am and it's going to make it. Listen.
- 54:31Speaker 3: Can you please go download that there right there, because
- 54:34Speaker 3: you're gonna it go it look good. I had them
- 54:35Speaker 3: deluver time briefcase with the Louisverton shoes, and the louisver
- 54:38Speaker 3: Time glasses, the mud shot and and and the gene
- 54:40Speaker 3: Now for oh, I was flying is like it was show.
- 54:44Speaker 3: Oh yeah, babe, I thought I would say potty and
- 54:46Speaker 3: killing it. Yeah, thank you? So God got your T shirts? Yeah,
- 54:49Speaker 3: Johnson discabaret to dot com you could go get them.
- 54:51Speaker 10: Well, Johnson, we appreciate you for joining us. Thank you
- 54:53Speaker 10: so much.
- 54:54Speaker 11: Like I said, I see you all the time, and
- 54:55Speaker 11: and you're so calm and so nice. But I ain't
- 54:58Speaker 11: gonna front you.
- 54:58Speaker 1: Gotta you. You might to get in boxing after this
- 55:01Speaker 1: is all. You might just want to just maybe even
- 55:04Speaker 1: you know a couple of them.
- 55:05Speaker 3: Can I truly tell you something? If I didn't, if
- 55:08Speaker 3: I wasn't an autist and I didn't care about breaking
- 55:10Speaker 3: my face, I would do UFC. Oh yeah, I would.
- 55:12Speaker 3: I love it.
- 55:13Speaker 1: I do UFC. I want to box. I would do UFC.
- 55:15Speaker 3: But I can't. I told my husband all the time,
- 55:17Speaker 3: and her I'd be like, I would do it, but
- 55:19Speaker 3: I can't because the first thing is going to break
- 55:21Speaker 3: on me is my nose and then it's over. But
- 55:23Speaker 3: she is so fixed she could set it up how
- 55:25Speaker 3: she want to set it up and she know, no,
- 55:27Speaker 3: that is not fair. No, that's why I said wrestling.
- 55:29Speaker 3: I mean because she can do wrestling and that that's
- 55:31Speaker 3: big money. No, I would do you break this just down.
- 55:37Speaker 3: I'm a great fighter. You know what I told somebody
- 55:40Speaker 3: the other day, I said, because I told somebody, I said,
- 55:42Speaker 3: do you do karate? Don't? You ain't gonna do no
- 55:44Speaker 3: more karate than me. I don't know karate, but I
- 55:46Speaker 3: know crazy. I know crazy?
- 55:50Speaker 1: You know? You know what's his name? Said that?
- 55:52Speaker 3: What's the singer name, James Brown in the song? I
- 55:55Speaker 3: don't know karate, but I know crazy. You know James Brown?
- 55:57Speaker 1: To you?
- 55:57Speaker 10: I know that's right, ladies and general man. Oh, last
- 56:01Speaker 10: question is that your security go out there that I
- 56:02Speaker 10: was out there at the fight that night.
- 56:04Speaker 3: You know what, I troubled with about twenty security guards.
- 56:06Speaker 11: So I'm not sure you know which one I'm talking about.
- 56:08Speaker 11: I'm talking about the three pizza?
- 56:10Speaker 1: Is that the one right there? The three pizza?
- 56:12Speaker 3: And is it a slap slap test that they gotta get?
- 56:16Speaker 12: You?
- 56:16Speaker 1: Can? I say y'all to say y'all so funny? Why
- 56:19Speaker 1: is y'all so funny?
- 56:20Speaker 10: When I see them? I noticed him before I noticed you.
- 56:22Speaker 1: I said, it's like, no, we want to be like you,
- 56:24Speaker 1: good good, like that. I don't want to do acces that.
- 56:32Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you.
- 56:32Speaker 3: They got plenty of money from the suits. They'll be
- 56:34Speaker 3: just fine.
- 56:35Speaker 10: Right, we know that, Ladies and gentlemen.
- 56:38Speaker 3: It's Johnson, the Puto, Rican Princess, the biggest.
- 56:42Speaker 2: It's the.
- 56:46Speaker 1: Donkey up today. By damn heg, it's time to donkey.
- 56:54Speaker 1: I mean, trying to be dunky today.
- 56:56Speaker 7: No more.
- 56:56Speaker 1: They should be embarrassed by what they already did. I'm
- 56:58Speaker 1: not making these people do these days called Donkey of
- 57:00Speaker 1: the day, and it really caught me off guard.
- 57:03Speaker 3: Damn Charlamagne, who got the donkey out of day to day?
- 57:08Speaker 1: Welless hilarious. Donkey of to Day for Tuesday, March twenty
- 57:11Speaker 1: eight was a double donkey. It goes to thirty eighth
- 57:14Speaker 1: year old Chief Chastain and the Clovis Police Department. It
- 57:17Speaker 1: comes a point in time in life where we all
- 57:19Speaker 1: must remember it takes to you. Okay, to you, all right, kids,
- 57:24Speaker 1: gather around your uncle Sharloh would like to tell you
- 57:26Speaker 1: about some things that have been going on since the
- 57:28Speaker 1: nineteen hundreds. Okay, One of those things is the saying
- 57:31Speaker 1: it takes to you, okay, are it takes to you
- 57:35Speaker 1: to tango? That means that a situational argument involves two
- 57:39Speaker 1: people and they are both therefore responsible for it. I repeat,
- 57:44Speaker 1: it takes to you to tango. Means that a situational
- 57:48Speaker 1: argument involves two people and they are both therefore responsible
- 57:51Speaker 1: for it. It takes two. There's also a classic hip
- 57:53Speaker 1: hop record that will make anyone with a soul who
- 57:56Speaker 1: grew up in the nineteen hundreds and eighties lose their mind.
- 58:00Speaker 1: The reason I'm giving you this history lesson to day
- 58:02Speaker 1: is because in this donkey that I'm delivering, it absolutely
- 58:05Speaker 1: took to you. All right. See, Keith was arrested ten
- 58:09Speaker 1: times in one monff. I repeat, Keith Chastain was arrested
- 58:13Speaker 1: ten times in one monf See y'all think I'd be lying.
- 58:16Speaker 1: Let's go to Fox twenty six News for the report.
- 58:18Speaker 13: Police local law enforcement agencies say they are very familiar
- 58:23Speaker 13: with thirty eight year old Keith Chastain, who has been
- 58:26Speaker 13: booked in Fresno County jail not once, not twice, but
- 58:30Speaker 13: ten times in the last thirty one days. Chastain is
- 58:34Speaker 13: from Fresno, and it's currently facing eighteen felonies and fifteen
- 58:38Speaker 13: misdemeanors from his recent arrests. According to Clovis Police Department,
- 58:42Speaker 13: his charges include stealing six vehicles, a dui, vandalism, fraud,
- 58:48Speaker 13: possession of controlled substance, and more. Clovis Police Department alone
- 58:53Speaker 13: says it has arrested Chastain six times in the last month.
- 58:57Speaker 13: Around nine thirty Tuesday morning, Clovis Police received a call
- 59:00Speaker 13: about a stolen truck that Chastain was suspected of driving.
- 59:05Speaker 13: Police sayan officer found the stolen truck driving an old
- 59:08Speaker 13: town Clovis and followed it until more officers arrived. Officers
- 59:12Speaker 13: pulled Chastain over in front of Clovis Police Department and
- 59:16Speaker 13: arrested him without incident. Police say he was the only
- 59:19Speaker 13: person in the stolen truck and happened to be on
- 59:22Speaker 13: his way to pick up his personal property from Clovis
- 59:25Speaker 13: Police Department. From the last time he was arrested. Mind you,
- 59:29Speaker 13: he was in a stolen vehicle.
- 59:34Speaker 1: Now. As you just heard, Keith Chastain was arrested ten
- 59:38Speaker 1: times by Clovis Police six times, okay, six times by
- 59:43Speaker 1: Clovis Police and four times by other agencies he was
- 59:47Speaker 1: in a stolen vehicle on the way to pick up
- 59:51Speaker 1: his items from the jail. Okay, Now, if he had
- 59:55Speaker 1: gotten locked up by different agencies once or twice, I
- 59:58Speaker 1: would understand. But if you get locked up by the
- 59:59Speaker 1: s AIM agency the Clothes Police department six times, six times,
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: at what point does it become the police department's fault
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: as well for constantly letting you out? At what point
- 1:00:11Speaker 1: does it become a judge's fault for constantly grant you bail.
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: He's facing eighteen felonies in fifteen misdemeanors, with charges including
- 1:00:17Speaker 1: stealing six vehicles, dui vandalism, fraud, possession of a controlled substance,
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: and a whole lot more. At some point, maybe after
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: arrest number three, possibly after arrest number five, surely at
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: arrest number six, someone at the Clovis Police Department has
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: to say, no need to let this man out, because
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: he's just gonna come right back. Okay. If the Clovis
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: Police Department had a customer loyalty program like Starbucks or
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: Subway or Sophara, this man Keith would get his tenth
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: arrest for free. Okay, hit the rest of nine times,
- 1:00:46Speaker 1: get your tenth for rest for free. Clearly this man
- 1:00:49Speaker 1: has a boyfriend behind those walls. Either that or he
- 1:00:51Speaker 1: likes the food. Okay. When someone shows you who they are,
- 1:00:54Speaker 1: believe them. And this man Keif has shown us he's
- 1:00:57Speaker 1: a serial criminal. Okay, so give him what he wants,
- 1:01:01Speaker 1: and what he wants is clearly zero bond, ten arrest
- 1:01:04Speaker 1: in thirty one days. Insanity is doing the same thing
- 1:01:08Speaker 1: over and over and expecting different results. So yes, Keith
- 1:01:11Speaker 1: is insane because he keeps committing crimes in the same
- 1:01:14Speaker 1: crimes and getting locked up. And the Clovis Police Department
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: is insane because they keep locking Keith up for these crimes,
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: the same crimes and letting them out. They both are
- 1:01:22Speaker 1: to blame. So please give Keith Chastain a heat and
- 1:01:25Speaker 1: give the Clovis Police Department a hall together, because it
- 1:01:29Speaker 1: takes two to give them the biggest he hal. This
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: man wrote his name in jail, yo, that's why they said,
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: don't write you name. They don't write your name on
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: the walls in jail. You keep coming back to that jail.
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: Jesus the breakfast club morning, Everybody's dja envy Cholamagne to God,
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: we are the Breakfast Club. Of course, Jess Hilaries is here, yes, indeed,
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: and we got a special guests in the building, Dion Co.
- 1:01:57Speaker 7: Wow.
- 1:01:57Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, hello, my brother. How's everybody doing?
- 1:02:04Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I'm happy to see you.
- 1:02:05Speaker 1: I can't I'm just I'm so happy.
- 1:02:09Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, definitely, man, thanks for having me.
- 1:02:17Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely a lot to talk about. You got Average Joe.
- 1:02:21Speaker 1: Are you you're in a new color purple too? Right?
- 1:02:23Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, absolutely yeah yeah, new color purple, Average Joe.
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: We just talked about that yesterday. We were talking about
- 1:02:28Speaker 1: they just released the trailer. What's your thoughts on the movie?
- 1:02:31Speaker 1: Because we were like, Color Purple?
- 1:02:32Speaker 10: Is that a movie that you do.
- 1:02:33Speaker 1: Hard to remake? Classics? Man?
- 1:02:35Speaker 2: So the director Blizz I don't know. He did Beyonce's
- 1:02:41Speaker 2: The Lion King where she was like han Jay. They
- 1:02:43Speaker 2: was like, uh, live action Lion King. Yeah, but remember
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: this video she had. It was like a twenty minute
- 1:02:49Speaker 2: video where she was like and cars and on the
- 1:02:52Speaker 2: beach running and Jay had these like suits and stuff whatever.
- 1:02:57Speaker 2: It was like very beautifully yeah yeah, all of that. Yeah, yeah,
- 1:03:02Speaker 2: he directed all of that. And so for him to
- 1:03:04Speaker 2: take that vis and then apply it to this movie.
- 1:03:07Speaker 2: It's like bananas. Plus it's a different spin on it.
- 1:03:11Speaker 2: It's a whole different spin on a color purple. So
- 1:03:16Speaker 2: it's gonna be way different than the other one. But
- 1:03:18Speaker 2: still in it's all right, you know, holding up to
- 1:03:21Speaker 2: what it is. But I ain't really big on remakes,
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: neither like that. But but this one, Yeah, it's crazy
- 1:03:27Speaker 2: because it's a different perspective now.
- 1:03:29Speaker 1: That I was saying the twenty twenty three you can't
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: do color purple. You have to have to be woke. Yeah, yeah,
- 1:03:33Speaker 1: so much. Yeah.
- 1:03:34Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a whole different, whole different look on it,
- 1:03:38Speaker 2: a whole different span on it.
- 1:03:39Speaker 11: But you know, some of the remakes so like I
- 1:03:41Speaker 11: didn't like Coming to America too, right, I just the
- 1:03:43Speaker 11: first one, which is classic.
- 1:03:44Speaker 10: I don't touch that.
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I didn't like There was another remake that
- 1:03:47Speaker 1: they did, but people told me white Man Can't Jump.
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: I didn't want to go see that, but people telling
- 1:03:50Speaker 1: me it's really really good, so I guess it can
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: if they come from a different perspective for a new
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: way House Party was another one.
- 1:03:56Speaker 10: I didn't like it though, I didn't. I don't really
- 1:03:57Speaker 10: like that one.
- 1:03:57Speaker 11: But yeah, when they do it from a different perspective
- 1:04:00Speaker 11: or shot. Well, I don't think there's a problem.
- 1:04:02Speaker 2: Yeah, I play our Fonzo, So I play Cee's father,
- 1:04:09Speaker 2: got when I take Philly.
- 1:04:12Speaker 1: You can't have you can't have I can't remember, you
- 1:04:14Speaker 1: can't have her, but you can have.
- 1:04:21Speaker 2: Exactly. Yeah, yeah, I play him kept. No, No, it's
- 1:04:27Speaker 2: it's different. Yeah, but you know you still you still
- 1:04:30Speaker 2: get it. He's still that dude got you.
- 1:04:33Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:04:33Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's.
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: Still call it ugly and woke away because of this
- 1:04:42Speaker 1: new era.
- 1:04:43Speaker 2: Yo, Yeah I do. I do hate it definitely. That's
- 1:04:46Speaker 2: why I don't understand why people who don't like that
- 1:04:49Speaker 2: kind of stuff, Like why do you even come to
- 1:04:51Speaker 2: the shows? You're messing it up for the people that
- 1:04:53Speaker 2: really pay to come see in here, you know what
- 1:04:57Speaker 2: I mean? Like, why would you come in there with
- 1:04:58Speaker 2: your beliefs and feeling it's about something that I thought of,
- 1:05:02Speaker 2: And you ain't in my world. You ain't in my
- 1:05:04Speaker 2: tax bracket, you ain't around the people I'm around, you
- 1:05:07Speaker 2: ain't not about my culture. But you come over here
- 1:05:09Speaker 2: and try to tell me what I need to be
- 1:05:11Speaker 2: saying and doing. It don't even make sense. So yeah,
- 1:05:14Speaker 2: I hate that that we have to kind of conform
- 1:05:17Speaker 2: to that. And I heard somebody say that in the
- 1:05:19Speaker 2: interview that we don't and if and it's not a problem,
- 1:05:22Speaker 2: and it is a problem. I think honestly, you got Lenny,
- 1:05:25Speaker 2: Bruce and Richard and all these people who stood up
- 1:05:27Speaker 2: for us to be able to say whatever we want
- 1:05:29Speaker 2: to say, and now we can't. It's like, it's crazy
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: to take away from the whole thing. It's like, now
- 1:05:35Speaker 2: you go to comedy shows and they tell you what
- 1:05:37Speaker 2: they think you want to hear in order to be safe, right,
- 1:05:40Speaker 2: you know what I mean. But there's certain comics that
- 1:05:41Speaker 2: are still out on the front line that get loose,
- 1:05:44Speaker 2: you know, like Dave just don't give a note about nothing,
- 1:05:48Speaker 2: you know. So you got great comics that's still out
- 1:05:51Speaker 2: here fighting for that that voice that we all have
- 1:05:55Speaker 2: and that people want to hear, except for certain people
- 1:05:58Speaker 2: that don't.
- 1:05:58Speaker 1: So and your circumstances because you you definitely edgy on stage,
- 1:06:01Speaker 1: but then you got all the court.
- 1:06:03Speaker 2: Going on, yeah, yeah, exactly, yeah, yeah, I can't yeah,
- 1:06:08Speaker 2: I can't say exactly what I wanted to say. That's
- 1:06:15Speaker 2: what that's my whole life, sitting back trying to figure
- 1:06:18Speaker 2: out another way. That's what That's all I do. How
- 1:06:20Speaker 2: can I say this another way and still be able
- 1:06:24Speaker 2: to say it?
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: But you know, you to face an old Spice bro crazy,
- 1:06:28Speaker 1: Like that's why if you really think about it, it's
- 1:06:30Speaker 1: really wild. It's like time only think of two people.
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: The dude who used to ride the horse back.
- 1:06:35Speaker 2: Then yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah, it's crazy
- 1:06:43Speaker 2: right yeah. I couldn't even even when they came to
- 1:06:46Speaker 2: me about it. I was just like, wow, they can't
- 1:06:48Speaker 2: even say, hey.
- 1:06:49Speaker 10: We want you to do this old Spice commercially be
- 1:06:51Speaker 10: the fake? What was your thought?
- 1:06:52Speaker 2: So at first they came to me and they was like,
- 1:06:55Speaker 2: I guess they have seen me do all these different
- 1:06:57Speaker 2: kind of like quirky like characters like on Angie, Tribeca
- 1:07:01Speaker 2: and Conan and Blackish, and I was doing all these
- 1:07:05Speaker 2: like trippy characters, and I guess they were like, yo,
- 1:07:08Speaker 2: it made sense where it was like yo, you come
- 1:07:11Speaker 2: in and yo we can all we can rock And
- 1:07:13Speaker 2: I was like yeah, I was like yeah I can
- 1:07:15Speaker 2: do that. So they flew me to Portugal, man, and
- 1:07:18Speaker 2: I shot all of this basically how old Spices get down,
- 1:07:22Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like really wild in the woods,
- 1:07:25Speaker 2: beard growed and throwing trees and you know, I did
- 1:07:29Speaker 2: all of that, and then I came back to the
- 1:07:31Speaker 2: US and there's like they ain't they didn't want to
- 1:07:34Speaker 2: use none of all of that and then use none
- 1:07:37Speaker 2: of it. And then they came to me about something else.
- 1:07:41Speaker 3: And then me and.
- 1:07:43Speaker 2: I, Me and this other guy, we was just sitting.
- 1:07:45Speaker 2: I mean this other guy, he was cute. He was
- 1:07:49Speaker 2: writing this whole new premise. And then when it came
- 1:07:52Speaker 2: to me about it, and I was like, man, that's cool,
- 1:07:55Speaker 2: and so we did it, and man, it took off.
- 1:07:58Speaker 2: You know, just me and my girl a Gap. Yeah, yeah,
- 1:08:02Speaker 2: we just we just got it.
- 1:08:03Speaker 4: Then.
- 1:08:03Speaker 2: Yeah, we just I went and grabbed Gap and was like, yeah,
- 1:08:06Speaker 2: they're thinking about this, this thing where it's relationship with
- 1:08:09Speaker 2: a couple and trying to take your old spice, and
- 1:08:12Speaker 2: you know, they was like, yeah, let's do it. This man,
- 1:08:15Speaker 2: we did it.
- 1:08:16Speaker 3: And because it's a storyline, commercial story I was supposed
- 1:08:22Speaker 3: to be in one of them.
- 1:08:24Speaker 1: Sister.
- 1:08:25Speaker 3: Yeah he brought that up.
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: Yeah man, yeah, I don't know.
- 1:08:34Speaker 2: They picked.
- 1:08:38Speaker 3: Like family member and it was know, you're here supposed
- 1:08:49Speaker 3: to tell me get your black ass hands on my
- 1:08:52Speaker 3: something and again because somebody else, they never would have
- 1:08:57Speaker 3: said that.
- 1:08:59Speaker 1: I cut the every time I see that, that's supposed
- 1:09:02Speaker 1: to be me. I'm serious, I'm supposed to be listening. Yeah. Really,
- 1:09:07Speaker 1: ain't gonna tell you. You know, you were at the top.
- 1:09:11Speaker 1: So when we come back, we got more with Dion Cole.
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: It's the World's Most Dangerous Morning short of Breakfast Club.
- 1:09:16Speaker 1: Welcome back to the World's Most Dangerous Morning short of
- 1:09:18Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Charlomage the God just hilarious Dion Cole.
- 1:09:21Speaker 3: Now, Jess, So I want to know, are you doctor
- 1:09:23Speaker 3: because I saw you just you know.
- 1:09:25Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, Like if somebody on the plane high
- 1:09:29Speaker 2: out they need a doctor, they're gonna be ass out,
- 1:09:32Speaker 2: but they ain't the doctor. But yeah, yeah, I just
- 1:09:35Speaker 2: got that, just gotragulation.
- 1:09:38Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's crazy.
- 1:09:39Speaker 2: Clander Smith College, which is now about because you're in
- 1:09:42Speaker 2: the first city. Yeah, thanks man, it's.
- 1:09:44Speaker 10: How did you for all the work that you did
- 1:09:45Speaker 10: and everything?
- 1:09:46Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 1:09:46Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, and uh paid for his Yeah.
- 1:09:51Speaker 1: I got an endowment at South Carolina State University, Okay,
- 1:09:54Speaker 1: made me an honorary doctor it is. And I get
- 1:09:57Speaker 1: a commitment speech.
- 1:09:58Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah I did too. It was I gave mine.
- 1:10:00Speaker 2: They really didn't give to what I was saying. I
- 1:10:05Speaker 2: thought I was dropping some gems sitting down there on
- 1:10:08Speaker 2: their phone.
- 1:10:11Speaker 1: I was like out there like this might have been
- 1:10:15Speaker 1: taking think, so do you keep going when you see that? Man?
- 1:10:21Speaker 2: It was I was bombing, like for real, like I was.
- 1:10:23Speaker 2: I was giving it and then it'd be like a
- 1:10:26Speaker 2: couple of chuckles, a couple of coughs, and then I
- 1:10:29Speaker 2: just keep going, like just going up to the next
- 1:10:31Speaker 2: topic or whatever.
- 1:10:32Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, it wasn't.
- 1:10:34Speaker 2: I was thinking I was doing like stand up you
- 1:10:36Speaker 2: thinking in front of an audience like that, you're about
- 1:10:39Speaker 2: to be ripping.
- 1:10:40Speaker 5: Nah.
- 1:10:40Speaker 2: They was out there like, nah, I want to see
- 1:10:42Speaker 2: my baby cross and get her degree, and that's what
- 1:10:45Speaker 2: I'm here for.
- 1:10:46Speaker 1: But that's standing up, muscled on kicking when you see
- 1:10:48Speaker 1: people like ignoring you because you know you you'd get
- 1:10:51Speaker 1: at somebody for that. Nah.
- 1:10:52Speaker 2: Like nah, I'm I'm quick to leave.
- 1:10:56Speaker 10: I leave.
- 1:10:58Speaker 2: I leave, man, I didn't up some shows. Yeah, I
- 1:11:03Speaker 2: try it and I keep going. If it ain't working,
- 1:11:07Speaker 2: I just know that I ain't for them, and I go.
- 1:11:10Speaker 2: I'm Trevor good Night. I leave A whole nother name.
- 1:11:20Speaker 3: Sean.
- 1:11:21Speaker 1: He's Outville Sunky joke coming out through it.
- 1:11:27Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I was Joe. Man. This this was thank
- 1:11:31Speaker 2: you so much. It was man, this was a labor
- 1:11:34Speaker 2: of love. It's like a darkly comedic drama takes place
- 1:11:40Speaker 2: in Pittsburgh. This dude, his father dies and these mob
- 1:11:44Speaker 2: dudes is looking for him and the Joe. He don't
- 1:11:47Speaker 2: know what's going on, but his father left some money
- 1:11:50Speaker 2: trying to figure out what's going on, and he had
- 1:11:52Speaker 2: to make these decisions between like you know, family and money.
- 1:11:56Speaker 2: But yeah, it's it's funny, but it's it's dark. I
- 1:12:00Speaker 2: can say, like we was leaving set miserable just from.
- 1:12:05Speaker 1: Being like a comic. You gotta you know, you you
- 1:12:07Speaker 1: can be good to do comedy, but.
- 1:12:10Speaker 2: Every day just to leave murdering, lying and de seaful
- 1:12:15Speaker 2: and heartache and losing people and every day leave you know.
- 1:12:20Speaker 2: That was the first time I started realizing I understand
- 1:12:23Speaker 2: how like people kind of break when they when they
- 1:12:25Speaker 2: do movies and stuff. That was the very first time
- 1:12:28Speaker 2: I used to be like, he ain't that deep into characters.
- 1:12:31Speaker 2: But nah, Like if you keep doing that and you
- 1:12:35Speaker 2: have to constantly be that person, do that like you
- 1:12:38Speaker 2: used to like, that's where on you. I used to
- 1:12:40Speaker 2: always think like like with Parc, they always say Park
- 1:12:43Speaker 2: became like yeah, he became Bishop from Juice or whatever. Anyway,
- 1:12:49Speaker 2: that's how that show was. Man, we was down there,
- 1:12:51Speaker 2: we were shooting in the lineup. Boy, it was like
- 1:12:53Speaker 2: we was doing like sixteen hours sometimes twenty hours, you know,
- 1:12:56Speaker 2: shooting up. But we got a nice piece of work,
- 1:13:00Speaker 2: and man, it's it's gonna be something if y'all like
- 1:13:03Speaker 2: Murder and Mayhem. Absolutely yeah, yeah, you're gonna you're gonna
- 1:13:07Speaker 2: love this.
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: Your lead crazy the first time Crazy.
- 1:13:15Speaker 3: She's looking at you, talk about this amazing because even
- 1:13:17Speaker 3: as comics, we we can still we can play any part.
- 1:13:21Speaker 3: We can do anything. You always think of Robin Williams,
- 1:13:24Speaker 3: you know, the comics, especially going from comedy to Drive
- 1:13:27Speaker 3: and Jim Carrey and you know, even like what you
- 1:13:30Speaker 3: just say, like how you sixteen hours? You got a
- 1:13:33Speaker 3: status person and you got it. It's like you used
- 1:13:36Speaker 3: to being, you know, but no, it's different. But the
- 1:13:38Speaker 3: fact that you can do it.
- 1:13:40Speaker 2: Yeah, But it's like I remember when I when they
- 1:13:42Speaker 2: when when they when I took the job. Because usually
- 1:13:45Speaker 2: I'm I'm a type of cat. I go play my
- 1:13:47Speaker 2: part and I go get my drop top and we rolling.
- 1:13:50Speaker 1: You know what I mean.
- 1:13:51Speaker 2: Like, that's what I did on Blackets for eight years.
- 1:13:53Speaker 1: I did my part, that was out.
- 1:13:55Speaker 2: I was gone when I signed on to do this,
- 1:13:58Speaker 2: And seem like six he paid scripts and I'm in
- 1:14:02Speaker 2: like ninety percent of it. I'm looking right like I
- 1:14:05Speaker 2: got a real job. I'm like, I can't leave. They like, man,
- 1:14:12Speaker 2: the first one hair last to leave. You Like what
- 1:14:16Speaker 2: it was an adjustment because I still had other things
- 1:14:19Speaker 2: going on and other businesses and other projects and trying
- 1:14:23Speaker 2: to write that and do that and trying to do this.
- 1:14:26Speaker 2: I had to learn to I had to cut all
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: that out and just focus dead on this and get
- 1:14:32Speaker 2: it done. But yeah, being you got to watch what
- 1:14:34Speaker 2: you pray for. You gotta know how to pray. You
- 1:14:36Speaker 2: know a lot of people don't know how to pray.
- 1:14:39Speaker 2: And you know, that was one of the things that
- 1:14:41Speaker 2: I learned. You know, a person to ask, man, Lord,
- 1:14:44Speaker 2: can I have a man? Can I have a woman?
- 1:14:46Speaker 2: And they'll get you one and they won't have a job.
- 1:14:50Speaker 1: They won't have a job.
- 1:14:54Speaker 2: I forgot to ask for a job with that person.
- 1:14:56Speaker 1: When it comes to comedy and drama, right, they always say,
- 1:14:58Speaker 1: it's a thin line. That's what the whole tears of
- 1:15:00Speaker 1: a clown can come from. Toether comic, you don't lean
- 1:15:02Speaker 1: into trauma.
- 1:15:03Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, that's that's exactly what I did, you know
- 1:15:06Speaker 2: what I mean. But it wasn't like that at first.
- 1:15:09Speaker 2: Like another another turning point, when we was doing the
- 1:15:13Speaker 2: Hearder They Fall, I was like I walked on set
- 1:15:15Speaker 2: and was like, Yeah.
- 1:15:17Speaker 3: What's going on, Hey, what's going on on?
- 1:15:19Speaker 2: Funny and comedian comedian? I remember Jonathan Majors and all them.
- 1:15:23Speaker 2: They was just all sitting back and doorl Roy Lindo.
- 1:15:25Speaker 2: They was all just quiet and just chilling, and I
- 1:15:28Speaker 2: was like, Hey, what's going on? And beyond Hey, so
- 1:15:29Speaker 2: we're going knock the South and we're gonna they was
- 1:15:32Speaker 2: just like And then when we werehearsed, they was just
- 1:15:35Speaker 2: like so like and like it was so real, and
- 1:15:39Speaker 2: so it just was like, man, I remember Jonathan told me,
- 1:15:42Speaker 2: he was like, man, you shouldn't acting is the worst
- 1:15:46Speaker 2: title for this job. This is what you should not
- 1:15:49Speaker 2: be doing. You should not be acting. You should become
- 1:15:54Speaker 2: you should become that person instead of acting. And so
- 1:15:57Speaker 2: it made me be like oh really, So then I
- 1:16:00Speaker 2: went back changed my whole demean up man, just from
- 1:16:03Speaker 2: that conversation and came back and was like, all right,
- 1:16:06Speaker 2: we gotta we gotta just be calmness person. And I
- 1:16:10Speaker 2: remember that all the time, just becoming you know.
- 1:16:14Speaker 1: And so when we come back, we got more with
- 1:16:16Speaker 1: Dion Cole, it is the World's Most Dangerous Mornings for
- 1:16:18Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, The Breakfast Club. Welcome back to the
- 1:16:24Speaker 1: world Most Dangerous Morning. Sh to Breakfast Club, CHARLAMAGNEA God,
- 1:16:26Speaker 1: just hilarious, Dion Cole, what about when you're not in
- 1:16:29Speaker 1: the mind state? The joke all work like like like
- 1:16:33Speaker 1: did you give yourself time to grieve after your mother path?
- 1:16:36Speaker 2: So I am like still dealing with that, Like that's
- 1:16:41Speaker 2: like really with me still, and I'm trying because I
- 1:16:45Speaker 2: was the only child, no father, Yeah, no, thank you man,
- 1:16:50Speaker 2: And I'm still like That's why I try to stay
- 1:16:53Speaker 2: as busy as possible because anytime I like have downtime
- 1:16:57Speaker 2: or anything good happened, like that's with me because I'd
- 1:17:01Speaker 2: be wishing she was here, that she can like be
- 1:17:03Speaker 2: here and be a part of that. And people out
- 1:17:05Speaker 2: there that that's going through the state, they know what
- 1:17:08Speaker 2: I'm talking about, Like anything good happen to you. You
- 1:17:11Speaker 2: just it's like a bit of sweet moment, you know,
- 1:17:14Speaker 2: like even with the color purple coming out, I'm not
- 1:17:17Speaker 2: like in it like that, but I just wish my
- 1:17:20Speaker 2: mama would have been there to see that. And you know,
- 1:17:23Speaker 2: it's things like that, even average Joe being the lead,
- 1:17:26Speaker 2: it's like, I wish my mama was here so she
- 1:17:29Speaker 2: could like see that and feel that because there's stuff
- 1:17:32Speaker 2: we talked about, even getting my doctorate, for her to
- 1:17:35Speaker 2: know that her son was now like doc having a
- 1:17:38Speaker 2: degree like that. It's just I would have like center,
- 1:17:42Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So anytime these situations happen,
- 1:17:45Speaker 2: it's like it's nice. But I also just getting to
- 1:17:48Speaker 2: like and people don't and people always be like you
- 1:17:51Speaker 2: need to go talk to somebody and something, and it's like, yeah,
- 1:17:54Speaker 2: you can do that, but this just happened to me.
- 1:17:57Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean.
- 1:17:58Speaker 2: It's like, I don't know nobody who has something like
- 1:18:01Speaker 2: this can just happen to you and you go talk
- 1:18:03Speaker 2: to somebody and you all good. If anybody's like that,
- 1:18:06Speaker 2: they weird to me, like you should be able to agree,
- 1:18:10Speaker 2: like you said, and you should be able to have
- 1:18:12Speaker 2: these moments. And you don't rush people in these situations,
- 1:18:17Speaker 2: you know, just just be there for them, you know.
- 1:18:19Speaker 2: And I had a lot of people leave me, Like
- 1:18:22Speaker 2: a lot of people leave me because I wasn't who
- 1:18:25Speaker 2: they wanted me to be when I was good. Your
- 1:18:29Speaker 2: mom just passed, come on, I know, but everybody left
- 1:18:32Speaker 2: and it was weird. And people out there that's dealing
- 1:18:36Speaker 2: with death and they know what I'm talking about, Like,
- 1:18:40Speaker 2: people leave you because you shain't And now I'm not
- 1:18:43Speaker 2: the person out out that that I was when they
- 1:18:45Speaker 2: met me. And I understand that. But if you're a
- 1:18:48Speaker 2: good friend and you really there, you're gonna you're gonna
- 1:18:51Speaker 2: understand the severity of this, and you're gonna understand that,
- 1:18:55Speaker 2: you know, being the only child, not having nobody else
- 1:18:58Speaker 2: and no mother, no father, nothing thing like that, and
- 1:19:01Speaker 2: that's gonna wail on you. You basically in the world alone,
- 1:19:05Speaker 2: you know what I mean, You really don't have nobody else.
- 1:19:07Speaker 2: I mean I got family, cousins and stuff like that.
- 1:19:10Speaker 2: But media, it's it's hard.
- 1:19:13Speaker 7: Man.
- 1:19:13Speaker 2: I go through it every day and I try to
- 1:19:16Speaker 2: try to be better, and you know, I try to advocate.
- 1:19:20Speaker 2: Tell everybody, Man, if you got your mother, your father,
- 1:19:23Speaker 2: any of that. Man, take pictures of them, video them,
- 1:19:27Speaker 2: talk to them. Even if you don't get along with them,
- 1:19:30Speaker 2: just be around them, man, because you just never know.
- 1:19:33Speaker 2: Because my mom died suddenly, was nothing wrong with just
- 1:19:37Speaker 2: I came from audition calling her and they was like,
- 1:19:40Speaker 2: she didn't make it, and thinking that she was going
- 1:19:43Speaker 2: to an appointment. I was like an appointment.
- 1:19:45Speaker 1: It's like, nah, she ain't make it.
- 1:19:46Speaker 2: And I'm like make what You could.
- 1:19:48Speaker 1: Not understand that, Like, what do you mean she make it?
- 1:19:50Speaker 2: They told me that. I just like, I was like,
- 1:19:53Speaker 2: I just talked to her, What are you talking about?
- 1:19:56Speaker 2: I ain't even want to, Like even with my Netflix special,
- 1:19:59Speaker 2: I didn't even want to do that. That wasn't even
- 1:20:01Speaker 2: something I was planning to do. But I got cornered
- 1:20:05Speaker 2: into shooting that special on that day, you know, like
- 1:20:08Speaker 2: the day that my mom died, September tenth, and I
- 1:20:12Speaker 2: was looking for a spot. Usually when you tour, if
- 1:20:15Speaker 2: you're about to shoot a special, you won't perform in
- 1:20:18Speaker 2: that city. So I was gonna do Philly. Philly was
- 1:20:21Speaker 2: city I was gonna shoot my special win, but we
- 1:20:24Speaker 2: were taking too long with the deal and I ended
- 1:20:26Speaker 2: up doing Philly right, and now I had nowhere else
- 1:20:28Speaker 2: to go, and I wanted to shoot. I thought about
- 1:20:31Speaker 2: New York, but I just was like, you got to
- 1:20:33Speaker 2: be from New York in order to do New York,
- 1:20:36Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like it's New York is
- 1:20:38Speaker 2: just different, you know, It's like you got to be
- 1:20:40Speaker 2: from there. But when it came around to me shooting special,
- 1:20:44Speaker 2: Netflix is like, you got shooting September, and I was like,
- 1:20:46Speaker 2: make sure it's at the end of September because I
- 1:20:48Speaker 2: know I couldn't shoot around a year later from the
- 1:20:51Speaker 2: day my mom passed. They came back not even knowing.
- 1:20:54Speaker 2: They was like this, yeah, we got the venue. I'm like, man,
- 1:20:57Speaker 2: let's do it. I was like what day They was
- 1:20:58Speaker 2: like September tenth. I was like, I said nah. I
- 1:21:01Speaker 2: was like, I was like, I ain't gonna do it.
- 1:21:04Speaker 2: Then about the days later, my mom was like, you
- 1:21:06Speaker 2: know what, don't even mourn like that, like celebrate her.
- 1:21:09Speaker 2: Shoot on that day, dedicate this to her and celebrate her,
- 1:21:15Speaker 2: because when people pass man, you have to like make
- 1:21:19Speaker 2: them live through you. Of course, even if it's a password,
- 1:21:22Speaker 2: you know what I mean, if you get it, if
- 1:21:24Speaker 2: you set a password and you put their name in
- 1:21:27Speaker 2: every day you that's that's day. They stay with you
- 1:21:31Speaker 2: every day, you know what I mean. And so I
- 1:21:32Speaker 2: was like, you didn't password, No, I did not.
- 1:21:35Speaker 1: I didn't know, but y'all.
- 1:21:41Speaker 2: And I just was like, man, I'm gonna shoot it,
- 1:21:43Speaker 2: and I shot it like on that day. But I
- 1:21:45Speaker 2: also was trying to show people and teach people that
- 1:21:48Speaker 2: with comedians and entertain us, even y'all, people don't understand
- 1:21:53Speaker 2: we we got problems and when we perform and you
- 1:21:57Speaker 2: never know what that comic is going through. So that
- 1:22:00Speaker 2: was a whole deal with my Netflix special. It was
- 1:22:03Speaker 2: that I wanted to perform without telling nobody what was
- 1:22:06Speaker 2: going on, and then at the end of the special
- 1:22:09Speaker 2: let them know I was up here rocking with y'all.
- 1:22:12Speaker 2: You're not even knowing what I was going through. I
- 1:22:15Speaker 2: just cried right before I walked out on stage. I
- 1:22:18Speaker 2: was backstage wiping my eyes, took a deep breath, and
- 1:22:21Speaker 2: walked out there, performed the whole special with them not
- 1:22:25Speaker 2: even knowing that this was like the one year anniversary
- 1:22:29Speaker 2: of my mom's death, and I wanted tend to see
- 1:22:32Speaker 2: that us performers, we had to put aside whatever.
- 1:22:36Speaker 1: We're going through you said something powerful that I would
- 1:22:39Speaker 1: like for you to talk about, just because that's something
- 1:22:41Speaker 1: I struggle with. How do you show up as a
- 1:22:44Speaker 1: friend when somebody had somebody that they lose that's close
- 1:22:48Speaker 1: to them, like a parent or significant other. Would you
- 1:22:51Speaker 1: have wanted your friends to do in that moment.
- 1:22:54Speaker 2: So if I'm now different, and we ain't buying bottles
- 1:22:58Speaker 2: and kicking it, and I ain't none club, and I'm
- 1:23:00Speaker 2: now I'm in the club with you, but I'm but
- 1:23:02Speaker 2: I'm daydreaming and I'm zoned out, and I ain't helping
- 1:23:07Speaker 2: you pull all the women in the club and all
- 1:23:09Speaker 2: that or whatever. Now I'm boring to you. I'm not
- 1:23:13Speaker 2: what you was. If you're a friend, you're gonna be like, man,
- 1:23:17Speaker 2: let's get out this club. Let's go ahead, let's go chill,
- 1:23:20Speaker 2: let's go get you together, Let's go chill. If you're
- 1:23:23Speaker 2: any way different, even if I'm snappy, even if I'm
- 1:23:26Speaker 2: not understanding, if I don't hear you correctly at any
- 1:23:29Speaker 2: of that, understand that I wasn't normally like this. So
- 1:23:34Speaker 2: therefore you have to know that there's some kind of
- 1:23:36Speaker 2: issue going on with me, right, So therefore you have
- 1:23:39Speaker 2: to channel that and understand that and get to know
- 1:23:43Speaker 2: who I am now or who I'm about to be,
- 1:23:46Speaker 2: because now I'm embarking on.
- 1:23:48Speaker 1: A new normal.
- 1:23:49Speaker 2: And that's what everybody has to do. It out there
- 1:23:51Speaker 2: and embark on a new normal for absolutely. And once
- 1:23:56Speaker 2: a true friend understand that, yo, he's he's embarking on
- 1:23:59Speaker 2: the new normal. And I have to be here to
- 1:24:01Speaker 2: learn that new normal in order to be there, to
- 1:24:03Speaker 2: be there for that, you know what I mean. So
- 1:24:06Speaker 2: once a person understands that, and they'll be there, they
- 1:24:10Speaker 2: won't leave you, and they gonna be there and they
- 1:24:12Speaker 2: gonna and they're gonna help you out and they not
- 1:24:14Speaker 2: gonna leave because all of a sudden you don't understand
- 1:24:17Speaker 2: them and all of that, and it's like it's it's
- 1:24:20Speaker 2: so whack or whatever. And I lost not only I
- 1:24:23Speaker 2: lose my mother, I lost like other family members and
- 1:24:26Speaker 2: friends and so it was very and I'm still in
- 1:24:30Speaker 2: that kind of lonely spot right now, you know, but
- 1:24:33Speaker 2: it's a lot better because I'm working and I got
- 1:24:35Speaker 2: all these other projects coming out and about the pop
- 1:24:38Speaker 2: and bubble and all that, and so it's taking up
- 1:24:40Speaker 2: my mind frame and you know, me working on a
- 1:24:43Speaker 2: whole New Hour, the tour with and all of that.
- 1:24:46Speaker 2: So you know, I'm not feeling as left out and
- 1:24:50Speaker 2: lonely no more, because you know, I got a lot
- 1:24:53Speaker 2: going on. But as a friend, that's what a friend does.
- 1:24:56Speaker 2: A friend understands that you changed, and they gonna change
- 1:25:00Speaker 2: with you, and they're gonna be there for you, and
- 1:25:02Speaker 2: they gonna find out how are you now, find out
- 1:25:05Speaker 2: what makes you happy?
- 1:25:06Speaker 1: Now?
- 1:25:06Speaker 2: What makes you sad? Now you know, and they're gonna
- 1:25:08Speaker 2: be that for you, you know what I mean. But
- 1:25:11Speaker 2: falling back and and it's a selfish move, a lot
- 1:25:14Speaker 2: of people go because they go, oh, you're not making
- 1:25:17Speaker 2: me feel comfortable around you or and now it's about them, yeah,
- 1:25:22Speaker 2: you and not you, you know what I mean. So yeah,
- 1:25:25Speaker 2: it's it's a it's a trip that situation. And I'm
- 1:25:28Speaker 2: still learning, you know what I mean. And uh, and
- 1:25:32Speaker 2: the friends that I do have, Man, we've been rocking
- 1:25:35Speaker 2: and you know, we having a ball and we're gonna
- 1:25:37Speaker 2: keep it moving.
- 1:25:38Speaker 10: We appreciate you, brother, and we love you brother.
- 1:25:40Speaker 2: I love y'all man, and I thank y'all man for
- 1:25:43Speaker 2: this platform. I hate that it got serious.
- 1:25:45Speaker 1: Like always give the best conversations and I love it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 1:25:53Speaker 2: I appreciate y'all, man, and y'all keep doing, y'all doing
- 1:25:56Speaker 2: y'all very I just want to say, y'all, y'all very powerful,
- 1:26:01Speaker 2: more powerful than what y'all even probably thinking though, and
- 1:26:05Speaker 2: I want you all to understand that and keep doing
- 1:26:08Speaker 2: good with with with the positions y'all.
- 1:26:12Speaker 11: Average Joe premiere June twenty fifth on B E T
- 1:26:14Speaker 11: Plus and thank you brother for joining us.
- 1:26:16Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Man.
- 1:26:17Speaker 2: Y'all check it out.
- 1:26:19Speaker 1: Cole. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 1:26:23Speaker 1: Your mornings will never be the same.