you don't trust them. you're bracing for them. | episode no. 39
emotional safety is the reason most people stop opening up long before they ever say it out loud — this episode breaks down why, and what it actually takes to trust someone with the parts of you that can be used against you.
episode overview
two musings this week. the first opens a new series — [the architecture of intimacy] — and lays out why closeness was never random, it was always a floor plan you never got to name. the second is the first room in that plan: safety. why the closer someone gets, the more precisely they can hurt you, and why safety was never about them not knowing your…
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