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3 Nervous System Upgrades To Get Everything You Desire This Year · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to Beyond Limits, the podcast designed to unlock your highest potential with powerful strategies, energetic frequencies, and mindset shifts to create a limitless life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Make 2026 the year that you go out of this world.
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  SPEAKER_00: Where you make more money than you ever thought possible, where you feel more alive, more free, where your whole body just exhales.
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  SPEAKER_00: 2026 is going to be out of this world.
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  SPEAKER_00: I see some people joining us.
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  SPEAKER_00: Say hello, hello, Trisha.
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  SPEAKER_00: And as you're joining, like I said, say hi.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're watching this after New Year's, happy 2026.
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  SPEAKER_00: Today I want to be breaking down the three nervous system upgrades, if you will, in order to make 2026 out of this world.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right now, when I'm recording this, it's the 30th, it's the 30th.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's that liminal space in between Christmas and New Year's where you don't quite know what day it is, you don't really know what's going on.
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  SPEAKER_00: But one thing you are doing is reflecting.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You're thinking about how 2025 went, you're thinking about what you desire for 2026, how you desire to experience your life, how you desire to experience your business and money in 2026.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: These are all the things that we're thinking about this week as we go into the new year.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is important because you can create the goals, the new year's resolutions, you can make the vision boards, you can go on Pinterest.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like I love Pinterest, I love going and finding aesthetic photos, like it's all very beautiful to me.
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  SPEAKER_00: But none of that matters if your nervous system is not on board.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because the nervous system always wins.
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  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't matter how hard you work, it doesn't matter how much effort you put in, it doesn't matter how good you are at what you do, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And that can be the very frustrating part.
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  SPEAKER_00: That can be the very like disheartening.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like I'm amazing at what I do, like I'm being consistent, I'm doing all the things.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, it doesn't matter if you have the perfect funnels from the top so-and-so people, or the current frameworks you're supposed to use for hooks, or like what they're saying the algorithm is liking in 2026.
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  SPEAKER_00: None of that matters if your nervous system is not on board.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because your nervous system becomes the house that you live in.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is literally the house, it is the thing that makes up what you experience, what you allow into your life, what you allow into your business, your experience of it, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Whether it has to come with pressure and overwhelm and overthinking, or whether there gets to be ease and aliveness and freedom and expansion and miracles and over and over and over again, and things just keep growing and compounding, and you're like, live, is this real life?
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  SPEAKER_00: And I will tell you, yep, this is how life is supposed to be, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: The version one versus the other is your nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_00: And because it's this primal thing, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Is this primal thing that dictates how we experience, it overrides it all.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it overrides how hard you work, it overrides how incredible you are at what you do, it overrides how much you want to impact the world and serve people and help people, it overrides someone else's framework, it overrides the funnels, it overrides the algorithm and the ads and the whatever it is that you're doing.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if your focus is not on your nervous system and the three things I'm about to explain, then you're gonna be doing all this stuff and you're not gonna be able to receive the level in 2026 that you actually desire.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna come with more pressure, more out overwhelm, over-efforting, frustration, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Even like that kind of like that sadness and grief.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because right now, like I said, in that in-between time, you might be feeling a bit sad about what did or did not happen.
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  SPEAKER_00: You might be feeling like deflated.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so that's your signal of like, oh, this is pointing to me precisely where I need to do these three things with my nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm gonna break them down.
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  SPEAKER_00: The third one is probably the biggest one, so make sure you stay and you you listen to this at the end, because the third one just makes everything else lock into place.
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  SPEAKER_00: So number one, hi Lisa, thanks joining us.
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  SPEAKER_00: Number one is internal safety that creates certainty.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: If we think about the nervous system, is the house that you live in, this is the foundation, this is the whatever your whole other house is built on, is that sense of internal safety.
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  SPEAKER_00: But what I see are so many women are placing their safety in something outside of them.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're placing their safety in money, they're placing their safety in what clients are doing, they're placing their safety in the approval of others, they're placing their safety in how a launch is going, they're placing their safety on, you know, who's liking or who's validating or who's doing something else.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And when your safety is placed outside of you, it is very hard to feel certain, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because when your safety is outside of you, you can't control it.
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  SPEAKER_00: What you'll do is you'll try to micromanage and you'll try to control the things outside you to give you that illusion of safety.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've also seen this where people put their safety in outdated business models, outdated ways of doing things, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: They've placed their safety in outdated identities.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm thinking right now of a one-on-one client who's holding one identity for 10 years.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so she had this big, you know, revelation, and she was crying with me on telegram.
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  SPEAKER_00: She's like, oh my god, your voice note made me realize this.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the identity I've been holding on to for 10 years, and I'm scared to let go of that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Your safety is placed in identity.
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  SPEAKER_00: Someone has seen you as this person up until this point.
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  SPEAKER_00: I remember when people saw me as the healthy recipe person.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, Liv makes healthy recipes, she's gluten-free, you know, she makes all these healthy versions of things, she does all this.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: A lot of safety gets placed into the naturopath, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: I was a naturopath.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, the live who went to med school, the live who did this.
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  SPEAKER_00: So ask yourself where your safety is getting placed externally to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because when that happens, you're not going to be able to go out of this world.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're not going to be able to expand through what's possible because your safety is always outside of you.
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  SPEAKER_00: When your safety is internal, you thrive.
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  SPEAKER_00: You don't lose momentum.
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  SPEAKER_00: You don't go up and then down with money because you're not separate from money.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your safety is not outside.
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  SPEAKER_00: So what happens when you have that internal safety?
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  SPEAKER_00: Your growth looks like this.
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  SPEAKER_00: And sure, there are challenges, so it's like more like this, but it's always up.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're someone who is always growing, always evolving, always going on to the next thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you don't need anything outside of you to confirm it.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you find yourself still looking for proof or still looking for something outside to give you permission that you can go for it, or to give you permission that you can now go do the thing, or to them, like, oh, now you've made this amount of money, now I can feel safe.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you can feel that in your nervous system too, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Where you're bracing, you're like, all right, so once I become a millionaire, then I'll be safe.
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  SPEAKER_00: Once I hit you know 100k a month, then I'll be safe.
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  SPEAKER_00: Once I do 500k a month, then I'll be safe.
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  SPEAKER_00: When I do this, then you have this if this then mentality that shows external safety.
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  SPEAKER_00: How the hell are you gonna grow and evolve and expand at a rapid rate if your safety is always placed in something outside of you?
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You build that internal safety and then you feel certain.
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  SPEAKER_00: Certainty collapses time.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's one of the famous sayings in my world.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've been saying it for years.
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  SPEAKER_00: Certainty is the frequency that collapses time because when you are certain, reality responds to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you are certain because it is known within you, because your system is regulated, even if things happen, even if the proof is showing you the complete opposite, you're like, No, I know better.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so that's number one.
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  SPEAKER_00: Number two is unconditional personal power.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is the second, if you want to call it, pillar in our house of the nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_00: We have safety, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: That internal safety that creates certainty, and then our second one is unconditional personal power.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is one of the major things I work on people with because their power is only conditional on the things outside of them.
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  SPEAKER_00: You feel in your power when it's your highest month ever.
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  SPEAKER_00: You feel in your power when everyone is saying, I'm in, everyone's inquiring, you just had a 50k day, a 100k weekend, you know, million, multi-million dollar years, then you feel in your power.
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  SPEAKER_00: When people are liking or validating, they're saying this is amazing, good job, we got all this, then you feel good.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if you're not getting that external feedback, all of a sudden your power wobbles.
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  SPEAKER_00: All of a sudden you're unsure.
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  SPEAKER_00: Then you start questioning, is it working?
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  SPEAKER_00: Am I enough?
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  SPEAKER_00: What do I need to tweak, refine, blah?
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  SPEAKER_00: It because you've given away your power.
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  SPEAKER_00: You give it away to an algorithm, you give it away to Sally who wanted to pay you 50k and you sent her the link and then she ghosted, and where did she go?
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  SPEAKER_00: Or you give your power away to an algorithm.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, there's something, there's an algorithm on Instagram that dictates how much money I make, that dictates my success.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, the power is within you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when you build that unconditional personal power in your nervous system, nothing throws you off.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do you know what happens when you become the woman where nothing can throw you off?
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: There's a famous saying in my world the woman who doesn't need validation is the one the world rushes to validate because she doesn't need anything outside of her.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the most powerful woman in the room.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the one who makes exponential more money, exponential more bliss, because she doesn't need anything outside to give her power.
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  SPEAKER_00: She's self-resourced.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not like, oh, now I made money, now I feel good, now I can show up.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's this is who I am.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you build that unperson that unshakable personal power, your results start accelerating like wildfire.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because you can feel, right, every time your power dips, your energy dips.
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  SPEAKER_00: You give your power away to people, to algorithms, to things, to whatever frameworks.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then if those don't go the way you want them to at the speed you want, then you feel I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_00: Versus when you're locked in and nothing can shake you, you become the one.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I have a lot of clients who come to me, they're like, How do I be magnetic lib?
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  SPEAKER_00: How can I become the one building personal power that does not waver depending on what's going on around you?
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the one who moves mountains with her presence.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the one who welcomes money and sales and who flooded and people start chasing her.
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  SPEAKER_00: Alright, so that's number two.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then number three is one of the biggest ones, and that is expanding your capacity for wealth, for impact, and for visibility.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like we said in the beginning of this, your nervous system always wins.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if your capacity has not expanded to hold the level that you were calling in, you are always gonna sabotage and you were always gonna be brought down to the level that was normalized.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You might have a high cash month and then it dips, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So you can't sustain it and you can't compound and multiply it.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You have a good launch and then you back out.
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  SPEAKER_00: You get momentum going and then it goes back because your capacity has not expanded.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want you to think about it like you're at Starbucks and you're going from a tall to a venti, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: When your nervous system is the size of a tall cup, you can only fit in, what is it, the 12 ounces.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you expand it to a venti, well then you have more room.
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  SPEAKER_00: You have 20 ounces.
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  SPEAKER_00: So what can flow in?
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  SPEAKER_00: More money, more opportunities, more aligned clients.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you cannot hold it, you're always gonna get rid of it.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's why you always see those lottery winners who make all this money and then they end up bankrupt or worse off from when they started.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's all to do with nervousness and capacity.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when it comes to capacity, you want to actually do this preemptively.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like skincare.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: When we apply our skincare, we're not just doing it to resolve something, we're doing it to prevent, you know, aging, or to prevent wrinkles, or to prevent fine lines, or to prevent these things.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you expand your capacity first, you get to go out of this world so much faster because your nervous system is like, oh, we have all this room to welcome in the love and the abundance and the joy and the money and all the things that you want, whatever it is that you want.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: But in order to expand your capacity, you also first need that internal safety that creates certainty and that unconditional personal power, and then we expand your nervous system to hold it all.
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  SPEAKER_00: Those three things are all that you need, all that you need to create everything in this world.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's all that you need to go out of this world in 2026 to receive everything on your list, everything you want for your health, your relationships, your money, your business, all of the things.
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  SPEAKER_00: It comes down to these three.
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  SPEAKER_00: So as you are reflecting right now on this week on what you want for 2026, and no matter if you're watching this later on, you can do this anytime, but especially in this pivotal time where we're coming into the new year, you get to draw a line in the sand and decide how you want 2026 to go.
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  SPEAKER_00: You get to decide to put your nervous system on board, you get to decide to build that internal safety, that uncircumstantial personal power, and expand your capacity to actually receive all the things that you want, to stop resisting it, to stop self-sabotaging, stop putting on the brakes, and allow yourself to be all that you can be.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm excited for you to go out of this world this year.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm excited for all of you inside of House of Her.
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  SPEAKER_00: All of you joining me inside of Liftoff, which is today.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you haven't joined us inside of Liftoff, just send me the word lift off and I'll send you the link to access.
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  SPEAKER_00: 2026 is going to be the most magical year.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is your year if you decide to let it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love you and I will see you soon.