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Wearing an Ex's Wedding Ring & Getting on All Fours · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to.
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  Speaker 2: On Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
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  Speaker 3: One of two point seven Kiss FM. Good Morning, Ran Seacrest, Hairs,
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  Speaker 3: Sisty and Tanya. I'm trying to you know, I use
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  Speaker 3: my iPad to follow along with what is coming up
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  Speaker 3: on the show tubs?
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  Speaker 4: Are you here yet?
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  Speaker 2: Yeahs yep, right.
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  Speaker 3: My iPad because you're the engineer my iPad. Every time
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  Speaker 3: I open it closes right away, like within a minute
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  Speaker 3: or thirty seconds.
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  Speaker 1: Is it charged? It's fully charged?
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  Speaker 5: Is it?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's got the charger in it right now.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's in your settings where it's auto going
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  Speaker 3: to sleep, So you're just gonna have to turn that off.
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  Speaker 1: Well, how do I get to that ground?
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  Speaker 2: I feel like we've done this.
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  Speaker 3: I know we have done this multiple time the tape No,
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  Speaker 3: what are you calling for?
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  Speaker 1: The tape tubs?
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  Speaker 3: My iPad reverts back into bad habits sometimes, So why
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  Speaker 3: do I get I'm in I'm in weddings?
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  Speaker 1: Then what that's okay?
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  Speaker 3: I forgot the steps and then come back okay, because
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  Speaker 3: we're going to get into today. Anaheim Union High School
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  Speaker 3: District is entering their last day of school today.
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  Speaker 1: What is exciting.
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  Speaker 2: We've come to the end.
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  Speaker 3: Chafeet Joint Unified High School District, last day, Chino Valley,
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  Speaker 3: last day, Hacienda la Pente Unified, last day of school, Alfonso.
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  Speaker 1: Did you go there? Is that where you went?
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  Speaker 4: You know?
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  Speaker 1: Actually no, because I cheer them.
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  Speaker 4: I live there now, so my my my siblings are
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  Speaker 4: in that system.
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  Speaker 1: But that's awesome.
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  Speaker 6: But no, Ma, I went to I PAULI, So technically
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  Speaker 6: it's district free.
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  Speaker 1: It's like outside of like the.
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  Speaker 3: Con is that where the teacher gave you a failing
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  Speaker 3: great for doing a report on this show?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, and now look at you a job here on
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  Speaker 1: this show. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So so you.
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  Speaker 3: Know what teacher that gave him an f he wants
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  Speaker 3: to come back and get an A plus.
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  Speaker 1: Did you do that? I thought you did that.
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  Speaker 4: I did already And I met up with her and
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  Speaker 4: she was just like, I didn't realize that I failed you.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, well you did and starved you
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  Speaker 1: for life.
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  Speaker 4: No, it only motivated me to get to where I
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  Speaker 4: am now.
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  Speaker 1: So that's okay. So you thanked her. I did, and
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  Speaker 1: actually she was super sweet. She was I had the
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  Speaker 1: same thing happened to me.
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  Speaker 3: I had someone that when I was in Atlanta working
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  Speaker 3: that told me I will never keep a job in
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  Speaker 3: this business. Oh never, And I think they said, and
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  Speaker 3: I'll make sure of it. They're really upset with me.
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  Speaker 2: For where are they now?
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  Speaker 3: I think they're not living. Oh wow, return, I mean it.
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  Speaker 2: Was my fault na say that coming.
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  Speaker 1: It was a long time ago and the person was
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  Speaker 1: older at the time. Okay, this show is fun. I
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  Speaker 1: look forward to it every morning every morning. You're on
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  Speaker 1: Kiss FM. Thank you for being here.
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  Speaker 3: Let's get to the caller here on the line in Whittier,
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  Speaker 3: naughdy A good morning.
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  Speaker 6: How are you morning, I'm good. How are you?
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  Speaker 1: We're doing well.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: So you have a wedding. This is a very familiar
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  Speaker 3: category for us.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I do.
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  Speaker 3: I don't remember last time somebody called it had a
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  Speaker 3: good story about their wedding. It's always a wedding dilemma. Well,
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  Speaker 3: there's a lot.
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  Speaker 7: First of all, there are a lot of decisions that
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  Speaker 7: go into planning a wedding.
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  Speaker 1: It's a lot of work.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, and people recommend to not do it in some places.
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  Speaker 3: Now yes, do to me people some places people some
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  Speaker 3: people tell me just don't do it.
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  Speaker 2: No way. Celebrating love is the best.
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  Speaker 1: Celebrating love is different.
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  Speaker 3: I can celebrate love. I don't know if I need
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  Speaker 3: this ceremony to celebrate love, but not Eve.
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  Speaker 1: What's your issue? What happened?
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  Speaker 6: So my friends and I were going to a wedding
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  Speaker 6: up in Riverside, and well, I mean the four of
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  Speaker 6: us we decided to go together, and three of us
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  Speaker 6: love and wittiers and one lives in Diamond Bar. So
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  Speaker 6: my friend who lives in Diamond Bar, I mean, she
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  Speaker 6: doesn't drink or anything, so she offered to drive us
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  Speaker 6: to the wedding from her house, which is really super
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  Speaker 6: super nice. However, I mean she did say like we
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  Speaker 6: would have to drive to her house and then she
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  Speaker 6: would take us from there to Riverside, which I mean,
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  Speaker 6: that makes absolute sense, and she was just really nice
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  Speaker 6: about driving us there in the first place. But that
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  Speaker 6: also means that none of us really get to drink either, because.
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  Speaker 1: You have to drive your car to her place. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: but what's the dilemma her? Yeah, but what's the dilema?
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  Speaker 3: She's trying to do you a favor, So just cut
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  Speaker 3: out the favor and figure out another way to get
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  Speaker 3: to and from the wedding.
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  Speaker 6: Well, I mean my other friends. They're saying that I
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  Speaker 6: should suggest that, like she just come before the wedding,
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  Speaker 6: like pick us up from our house and then drive
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  Speaker 6: us all the way to Riverside to the wedding.
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  Speaker 1: So, I mean, I don't think that's fair.
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  Speaker 3: It's like, first of all, she doesn't drink, so she's
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  Speaker 3: probably always being asked to drive, and that's fine, but
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  Speaker 3: she's I could come pick everybody up and then car
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  Speaker 3: pull you out to the wedding and back. I think
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  Speaker 3: it's totally reasonable for her to ask you to drive it.
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  Speaker 3: Why don't you just take a taxi or have someone
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  Speaker 3: drop you off at her house.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't have a car that'll cut down the time,
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  Speaker 8: take a.
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  Speaker 1: Lift or something.
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  Speaker 6: It's like an hour a little over an hour.
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  Speaker 1: To drive away, and that's why she's not coming to
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  Speaker 1: pick you up.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, this is not a wedding dilemma, Nadi, This is
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  Speaker 3: like a selfish friend dilemma.
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  Speaker 8: Oh, do you can split the ride share?
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  Speaker 2: Split the ride share with the friends that are coming
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  Speaker 2: from with you.
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  Speaker 3: That's reasonable for you to go to this friend's house
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  Speaker 3: for her to drive you to the wedding since she's
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  Speaker 3: not drinking.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I mean she was really nice about it,
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  Speaker 6: like to let us, like you know, drive us from
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  Speaker 6: her house. But like then none of like none yet.
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  Speaker 5: This is not a real problem and has nothing to
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  Speaker 5: do with the wedding or ask to spend the night.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe you can spend the night in den.
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  Speaker 3: There are several solutions to this, and we all right,
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  Speaker 3: not even good luck and yes, please realize your friend
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  Speaker 3: is doing something generous and kind. Have a good day,
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  Speaker 3: all right, goodbye. So do you have a friend that
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  Speaker 3: doesn't drink and are always getting stuck driving? I have
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  Speaker 3: a friend like that. I also have gotten into restaurants.
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  Speaker 3: I know it's very popular to have non alcoholic beverages
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  Speaker 3: on the menus, but I find that sometimes I'll go
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  Speaker 3: into the restaurant and they are like, we have non
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  Speaker 3: alcoholic beverages.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't want that. I don't. Is it
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  Speaker 1: bad for me to say I don't want that?
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  Speaker 3: Though they're so excited to show you the non alcoholic
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  Speaker 3: beverage list, I'm not as excited to see it as
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  Speaker 3: there to show me.
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  Speaker 2: You want the real deal.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, if you're if you're.
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  Speaker 3: Gonna have one, have one for me. I don't want
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  Speaker 3: to have the calories of the non alcoholic one.
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  Speaker 2: Right, what's the point.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's the problem. I think. Then we need a point. Yeah, right,
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  Speaker 1: there is an issue.
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  Speaker 3: If you need a point, that there's no issue. But
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  Speaker 3: I'm saying I like to have a point to have.
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  Speaker 1: The drink to write.
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  Speaker 2: You gotta tell me twice.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just telling you. I almost feel guilty thinking I
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  Speaker 1: don't want.
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  Speaker 3: To waste the calories. I have a point over here. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: and my sober friend is driving.
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  Speaker 2: So bottom zone, so enjoy.
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  Speaker 3: I mentioned the last day of school for anah, I'm Chafeye,
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  Speaker 1: Now that's early for when I got out.
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  Speaker 3: I got out like it was probably it was the
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  Speaker 3: middle of June until we got out of school, but
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  Speaker 8: That just went out the window because, like I did
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  Speaker 8: Granted I live in the valley, so getting to the
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  Speaker 8: beach just seems like so much work.
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  Speaker 8: beach to go watch the sunset.
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  Speaker 3: you know what.
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  Speaker 8: Like it's summer, the kids are going to be out
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  Speaker 8: of school. Maybe we do it on a Thursday. You know,
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  Speaker 8: I leave here and we get there, and I have
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  Speaker 8: to just make the effort, is my point.
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  Speaker 3: I once was on a hike and we were getting
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  Speaker 3: to the top and the sun was starting to be
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  Speaker 3: in the position where he's going to set, and I
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  Speaker 3: remember saying, let's go now. If we leave now, we'll
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  Speaker 3: make it for the sunset that at the beach. And
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  Speaker 3: we did, and it was a moment. It was a moment.
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  Speaker 2: It really is.
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  Speaker 3: A sunset really makes me happy. I love her, I
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  Speaker 3: still love her. Do you have any summer?
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  Speaker 2: Girls?
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  Speaker 7: Tell you no, but I always make a summer bucket list,
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  Speaker 7: which actually need to make before this weekend.
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  Speaker 3: You have too many projects between the manifestation project the
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  Speaker 3: bucket list, too much. I guess I should start thinking
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  Speaker 3: about his summer goal one.
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  Speaker 8: A bucket list is too overwhelming because it's like you're
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  Speaker 8: never going to get to all of it.
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  Speaker 2: You know, it's not I do want every summer and
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  Speaker 2: it's cute.
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  Speaker 1: How does your husband deal with all these things all
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  Speaker 1: the time? I just guy never because it keeps you
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  Speaker 1: occupied for some of the time.
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  Speaker 5: He doesn't with me, Yes, honey, right between that and golf,
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  Speaker 5: I'll never see you.
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  Speaker 2: He doesn't golf actually.
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  Speaker 1: Not yet, all right.
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  Speaker 2: Now I don't think I say that anymore. No, I
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  Speaker 2: don't say sick anymore.
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  Speaker 3: I I know people that are older than I that
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  Speaker 3: will use uh like kill it, and I feel like
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  Speaker 3: they're trying hard kill it today.
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  Speaker 1: You crushed it?
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  Speaker 2: Oh we can't say that crush it.
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  Speaker 2: That's on this list. Well you're just adding those?
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  Speaker 9: Is?
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  Speaker 1: What do you else say? Who's the youngest over there?
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  Speaker 2: I love saying you crushed it? I always say that
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  Speaker 2: what are.
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  Speaker 3: Instead of crushed it?
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  Speaker 2: I do say you killed it or you get it?
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  Speaker 1: So it's still fine.
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  Speaker 2: That's that one's fine.
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  Speaker 1: We the Fonzie.
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  Speaker 4: I see.
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  Speaker 1: The thing is so I use all of those still, okay.
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  Speaker 3: I even say sick like all right, so sick as fine.
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  Speaker 3: This is the outdated slang words they just put out. Gnarly,
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  Speaker 3: stoked sick peace instead of goodbye.
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  Speaker 2: I can't say stoked.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's overused now.
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  Speaker 2: Stoked is like a little aren't you stoked about that?
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  Speaker 3: I do type it in text sometimes because I can't
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  Speaker 3: spell psyched. So I spelled stoked stoked because I'm like psyched.
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  Speaker 3: It's like itinerary. I can never spell that word. I
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  Speaker 3: can't get it close.
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  Speaker 2: Itinerary is not that bad for me.
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  Speaker 1: Here's new slang words that are in eight.
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  Speaker 2: Yes you did something good right?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, curve curve, I'm gonna curve you. Rude, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 3: curve you. It's to reject for romantic gestures.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, fine, curve away.
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  Speaker 3: Were not drip like in the fashion sent drip drips good,
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  Speaker 3: drips good?
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  Speaker 1: Have you heard mog.
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  Speaker 2: What is it in a sentence?
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  Speaker 1: Like you outshined? You mogged them? You mogged them in
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  Speaker 1: that audition?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean these do sound a lot cooler you.
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  Speaker 1: We should just post them right here in the studio wall.
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  Speaker 3: to do a Ryan's roses. Also, there's something that's dividing
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  Speaker 3: people on the internet this morning. Uh, it's the ex
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  Speaker 3: husband's ring. So tell me where you stand on this?
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  Speaker 3: Thisnean Tanya, there's a thirty year old groom. Okay, groom
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  Speaker 3: is thirty years old. He posted this on Ready. He
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  Speaker 3: says he's got an issue with his fiance over one
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  Speaker 3: detail of her wedding day outfit. She wants to wear
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  Speaker 3: her deceased husband's wedding ring on a chain around her.
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  Speaker 1: And he doesn't love that. What do you think any more? Context?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 4: All right?
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  Speaker 3: So the bride's name is Emily, and she married this
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  Speaker 3: guy very young, and of courtunately died in a tragic accident.
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  Speaker 3: Years later, she met her now fiance who's helped her
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  Speaker 3: through her grief and get through anniversaries and things like that.
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  Speaker 3: And Emily says she wouldn't be where she is now
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: without having gone through that loss. So carrying the ring
• 15:29
  Speaker 3: is part of who she is. But the fiance they
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: helped her get through all of that, doesn't love it. Like,
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: where do you stand on that?
• 15:36
  Speaker 8: I think he's wrong If he's already been there helping
• 15:39
  Speaker 8: her throughout the grief and all that.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: What is it to him if he wants she wants to.
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: I feel bad on both sides of this because I
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: feel bad I'd always feel bad, but maybe.
• 15:51
  Speaker 7: She can remember him in some other way, because I
• 15:53
  Speaker 7: just feel like a ring on a wedding day should
• 15:55
  Speaker 7: be your husband, the ring that you get from your husband,
• 15:58
  Speaker 7: not like rings of didn't divorce.
• 16:00
  Speaker 8: This guy, I know, but like he died, and if
• 16:04
  Speaker 8: he wouldn't have died, she wouldn't be marrying this new guy.
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: I think this is a very touchy one.
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: But why the ring?
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: What would let a candle or something?
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Like maybe?
• 16:15
  Speaker 7: Or are you gonna have a chair set up like
• 16:16
  Speaker 7: I've seen people do, like people who have been.
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: Like you put a chair in the memory.
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: Of the city.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: That's good for like grandma and grandpa or whatever.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: You don't put a chair of your ex do.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: Whatever is better than a ring on your wedding day.
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: No, a chair stranger for me?
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: If I almost looking at the chair, yes, can't never
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: what if somebody comes over and they sit on your.
• 16:35
  Speaker 8: I think the ring is just it's more hidden, like
• 16:38
  Speaker 8: some guests might not even know that she's wearing it
• 16:41
  Speaker 8: round your wedding, on your wedding dress. It's gonna be
• 16:44
  Speaker 8: tucked into her dress.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: Who knows.
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: I don't think I can take a stand on this.
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: One because either way, I feel bad. You won't do
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: Ryan's roses?
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: Just move on?
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I can do that. Sometimes there is no end
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: to his story. It's kissed.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: We'll do that next. It's time for Ryan's roses? Are
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: you ready?
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: Here we go, Dear Ryan, Systey and Tanya. I just
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: found out that my husband as me and his phone
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: as Kyle, So I think he's hiding.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: Me from someone else. You put a different name and
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: a contact.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: Yes, oh.
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, people have done that. Why have you done it?
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: Tanya?
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: Um?
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: Why have I done that?
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: In case the rings?
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: No, I've never done.
• 17:32
  Speaker 7: It, like in a weird, shady way, but like sometimes
• 17:34
  Speaker 7: I got somebody's number that I didn't know who it was,
• 17:37
  Speaker 7: Like I didn't know their name, but I should have
• 17:39
  Speaker 7: known their name.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: Blue shirt guy from the bar? Yeah yeah, yeah.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Did you ever learn the name.
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: Depends on the person. It happened many.
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: Times, Michelle, tell me what you think is going on.
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: Who do you think your husband is seeing? Why is
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: he hiding you from this person?
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: Do you know they are?
• 17:57
  Speaker 9: I genuinely don't know. I've looked, but I haven't found anything.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: So you think your husband has a like another relationship.
• 18:06
  Speaker 9: I think so yeah, I'm pretty sure it's the only
• 18:10
  Speaker 9: logical explanation.
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: Is it.
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: I mean, if he puts your name your the wife
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: here as a code, I mean he's really seen must
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: be seen the other person a lot. But I don't know.
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: Is that the most likely reason for it? Have you
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: asked him about it?
• 18:26
  Speaker 10: Yes?
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: I have.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: What did your husband say?
• 18:30
  Speaker 4: So?
• 18:30
  Speaker 9: Basically he's like, you don't remember? You and I had
• 18:35
  Speaker 9: our first day and the waiter kept calling you Kyle,
• 18:39
  Speaker 9: and and that's why I called you Kyle on my phone.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: Basically, did you call your husband the wrong name at first?
• 18:50
  Speaker 9: No, it's the waiter that called me Kyle. Supposedly you
• 18:54
  Speaker 9: heard my name wrong and he called me Kyle, which
• 18:57
  Speaker 9: never happened, but he says to happen. So that's why
• 18:59
  Speaker 9: since day, according to him, that's how he put me
• 19:02
  Speaker 9: on it.
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: I have put people into my phone when I first
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: met them as nicknames, and the names are still in there.
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: Right, So I don't I don't know.
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: Let's call your husband and find out if he's got
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: somebody else on his mind when we offer him some roses.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: How long have you been married?
• 19:18
  Speaker 9: About four years? But together we've been like seven years.
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: All right, you think he's in another relationship. Hang on
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: one second, Ryan's roses will make the call to her husband.
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: Then kiss FM. We're about to call Michelle's husband. So
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: here's why we're in Ryan's roses. And Michelle thinks that
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: he's got another relationship with another woman because in his
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: phone and his contacts, his wife Michelle is under the
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: name Kyle.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: And when she asked her husband about.
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: He said, oh, that's because that's what a waiter called
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: you when we first went out. They called you Kyle
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: by mistake, and he put that name in at the
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: beginning as a nickname. And you doubt that. You don't
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: think it's a nickname. You really think he's hiding you
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: from someone else. You sound very sure. Let's call your
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: husband now and find out. Be very quiet until we
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: get them on the line. I need you to say, Ryan,
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: you have my permission to call, and then your husband's name.
• 20:09
  Speaker 9: Go ahead, you have permission to call my husband.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: We're gonna do that right now. Be very quiet. Let's
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: see what we can find out.
• 20:18
  Speaker 11: Okay, okay, Hello, Hi, is this David?
• 20:35
  Speaker 4: This is David. Hey? Is this Gabby?
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: No? No, my name is Becky.
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: Oh.
• 20:43
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• 20:47
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• 20:50
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• 20:52
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• 20:54
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• 20:57
  Speaker 4: Oh, a dozen free roses.
• 21:00
  Speaker 8: Yeah, they're free. I don't need anything from you. I
• 21:03
  Speaker 8: don't need cash or credit card info or anything like that.
• 21:07
  Speaker 8: We're just trying to promote our business. We do ask
• 21:09
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• 21:11
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• 21:17
  Speaker 4: Okay, I see, So that's that's all you What do
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: you need from me?
• 21:21
  Speaker 8: We can send them to whoever you want, So just
• 21:23
  Speaker 8: the name of the person and you can write a note.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: Maybe Gabby, no that.
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: Would be appropriate, but you can send them to my
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: wife Michelle.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: Michelle, okay, And what would you like to put on
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: the card?
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: Well, just put this to my first, my last, my everything,
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: love David.
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: David, your voice is being broadcast in the radio, and
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: we have your wife Michelle on the line. It's a
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: very sweet card or gilty card. I can't decide.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: Is there something card?
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: Okay? I thought this sounded kind of shady but okay.
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So Michelle has reached out to us to ask
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: you about something going on in your life. She thinks
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: that you're hiding her from someone else because your contacts
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: have her name as Kyle in your phone. You also
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: mentioned the name Gabby here. I think Michelle and I
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: would like to know who is Gabby. You said it
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: wouldn't be appropriate to send her flowers, so tell us
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: about Gabby, David.
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: Okay, wow, this is this is okay? Well, first of all,
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: Gabby she works as the Honda place I'll get in
• 22:45
  Speaker 4: my car serviced, and I thought she was calling me
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: to tell me my car was ready.
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: And you were gonna send Gabby at the car service
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: place flowers.
• 22:55
  Speaker 4: I thought Gabby was calling me.
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: Okay, why is Why is your wife's name under Kyle
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: in your contacts and not Michelle?
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: All right, look, my wife and I have already been
• 23:11
  Speaker 4: through this already. H I believe this is coming back up.
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: This is a wild because reason like okay, okay, So
• 23:21
  Speaker 4: when we first started dating in like I don't know,
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: twenty eighteen, we were out for brunch like some outdoor place,
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: and the waiter misunderstood me or something, and he kept
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: calling her Kyle, and it was like hilarious. We were
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: joking about it, and I just changed her name to
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: Kyle on my phone and it's been that way ever since.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: That's a lie, though, Yeah, she would know that.
• 23:43
  Speaker 9: I've seen my name on your phone before. Fine, this time,
• 23:46
  Speaker 9: I'm Kyle, babe.
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: No, it's it's been Kyle since that day. Like I look,
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: I changed your actual name that night when you noticed it.
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: But it's it's not funny if you don't remember it.
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: So why is this such a big deal.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: I don't know what's happening right now.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: Because she thinks you're cheating exactly.
• 24:04
  Speaker 9: I think you're hiding me from some woman that you're
• 24:06
  Speaker 9: having an affair with.
• 24:08
  Speaker 4: Oh my god. Look, I'm not cheating on you, I swear.
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: And you have to admit you you never remember anything, babe,
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: that's not true.
• 24:15
  Speaker 9: Though.
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: Okay, did you get the reference that I mentioned on
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: the card?
• 24:21
  Speaker 9: What card? Uh?
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: The card? Exactly?
• 24:28
  Speaker 9: I have no idea what that means.
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: See, it's a very white song and we danced to it.
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: It's Abrena's wedding up in Tahoe. It was the first
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: time we even danced together.
• 24:40
  Speaker 5: Michelle, I don't like your husband in this Why are
• 24:44
  Speaker 5: you so convinced he's having an affair?
• 24:47
  Speaker 9: I think he's gaslighting me.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: David, Are you can't be gaslighting? Are you No?
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: I'm not gaslighting her? Why would I do that? I
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: love you?
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: Are you? Guys? Intimate ron regularly?
• 25:03
  Speaker 4: All right down.
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: Here's the deal, David, we're calling. We're calling you because
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: your wife thinks, she very strongly thinks you're having an affair.
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: So something that you're doing has opened the door to
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: this thought in this narrative. You need to fix that, Michelle.
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: I don't know that there's anything else to find here,
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: but good luck. Okay, thank you for reaching out. David's
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: telling the truth.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: I like the guy.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: I kind of do too.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: I mean, my first one last week, everything from a
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: song they first danced to.
• 25:35
  Speaker 7: He remembers everything like he's like this, like memorable man.
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: I am an unmemorable man. I don't remember things like that.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Well, you should start.
• 25:45
  Speaker 8: It's there with Ryan Seacrest's.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: Ben Thursday, the day before the day before the three
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: day weekend exactly, and I'd say to me, the best
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: part of the three day weekend. We'll be tomorrow five
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: thirty because that whole evening is ahead of you, in
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: front of a three day weekend.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: Nice tomorrow at eleven am.
• 26:10
  Speaker 12: When.
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: No, I can't get into the weekend until it's later
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: in the day. Really, it's a mental thing. Yeah, I
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: can catch you certain things in the daylight.
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: Well, let's go get some lunch or something. That'll start
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: feeling like a little vacation weekend.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: I don't hate that. See, and you missed the lunch
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: last time we went.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: Well, then let's do it.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Let's do it again.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: All right, that was so long ago. Okay, why did
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: you say it?
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: Like, why are you so angry about it?
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: Why did you say it like a three year old?
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that was so long ago we had that lunch.
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: Let's do it again. With a little glass of soft blanc,
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: littlepano in there. That's like the drink of summer.
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: Apparently you can't have sobbing your blank with a lapino
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: in it. That's the that's the sort a wine with
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: this pepper in it.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what they're saying.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: That's what they're saying with like icy so offensive to
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: the wine.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: I don't know, am I just apperol sprits it and
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: just be.
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: Saying, well, let's just make the plan. The reason I
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: bring on this up is I'm excited about tomorrow. So
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: we've had a Ryan's Roses call a second ago and
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: Michelle reached out about her husband, David, and she thinks
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: that David has her name in his contacts as a
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: different name because he's hiding her from this other woman
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: in this other relationship. Now we got David on the line,
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: and David might have been one of the most thoughtful
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: men we've ever had on a Ryan's Roses. He remembered
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: everything about when they first met. He actually sent the
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: card to her and said to my first, my last,
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: my everything.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: Loved David.
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: And then when we got him on the phone, I
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: don't think he's cheating. He said to her, you don't
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: remember anything like the name Kyle was in his phone
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: because when they went out on the first date, the
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: wait or the server kept calling her Kyle, and he
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: thought that was fun. Then he said, do you remember
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: to my first, to my last, to my Everything? So
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: that was a song the lyrics to a song that
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: we danced to at their friend's wedding in Tahoe, and
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: I thought, wow, I have a romantically inadequate memory, like
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: do your men your guys have great detailed memory like
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: that of first and Whens in your relationships, isn't it?
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: No?
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: But he's romantic in other ways.
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: I have to put notes in my phone and to
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: go back and look at the notes in order to
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: be really specific.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: I just can't. I can't be like that guy. He
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: was really good.
• 28:37
  Speaker 7: Yeah, I have our first thirty dates documented in my
• 28:40
  Speaker 7: notes page.
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: That doesn't surprise. And what do you do with like
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: number twenty six? That's the point.
• 28:47
  Speaker 7: No, the point was so that I don't I didn't
• 28:50
  Speaker 7: want to forget all.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: The things that we did in journal.
• 28:53
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 28:53
  Speaker 7: I just didn't want to forget all those things that
• 28:55
  Speaker 7: are you know, like you forget over time, and I
• 28:56
  Speaker 7: just didn't want to forget.
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: You do forget, like remember the first day, what they ordered,
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: what's their favorite dessert, what they want for their birthday?
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: Hey, those things.
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: I don't think it's shameful to make notes of that
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: enough to go back and look at your notes. You
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: don't admit to notes right to the person, like I like.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: Put it like his favorite apple in there, like.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: What kind of apple?
• 29:14
  Speaker 4: Is it?
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: Green? Or red?
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: I mean, oh my god, that's our apple.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my gosh, I don't have a favorite apple.
• 29:21
  Speaker 7: Well you should get one, because then the girl that
• 29:24
  Speaker 7: you manifest can have it at her place.
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: Whenever you are coming over.
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: Celeste is on the phone. I'm going to take her call.
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: I just think sometimes the romantic male memory.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: Isn't good.
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: It's just not good. I'm surprised at how much other
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: people can remember in a relationship. It's amazing to me
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: and celestiare in Anaheim. This guy who had the most
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: incredible elephant memory about the stuff that they did in
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: the relationship. I don't think his name was David. I
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: don't think he's cheating. Did you hear it? I did?
• 29:58
  Speaker 10: I did, And honestly, like he's truly he's either the
• 30:02
  Speaker 10: most honest person on the planet or he's the best
• 30:04
  Speaker 10: gas lighter of all time. And but I will say, like,
• 30:08
  Speaker 10: I'm in a marriage and I truly remember nothing, and
• 30:12
  Speaker 10: my husband remembers absolutely everything. And so in some ways,
• 30:16
  Speaker 10: like my gut's telling me, I actually really do believe him.
• 30:19
  Speaker 4: I think he's telling the truth.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: I agree.
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: I mean, you can't, you can't be that masterful of
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: a gas ladder.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: It's just why.
• 30:27
  Speaker 8: The wife thinks that though I literally say he's gaslight,
• 30:29
  Speaker 8: Why he's gas.
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: But why is she convinced that he's having this affair?
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: There's something off. Yeah, he seems great, but there's there's
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: an atohole.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: We must not have a whole story.
• 30:40
  Speaker 7: But narcissists tend to come off very charming and great.
• 30:43
  Speaker 7: So maybe there's something that we're.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: Not a level that was another level of memory.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: I'm not mind it so least.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: I don't believe he's cheating. Thank you for listening.
• 30:53
  Speaker 9: You're welcome.
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: Thank you, And we do the Ryans Roses calls every
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: Monday and Thursday. We could do him every day. We
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: have enough emails every day, but let's just do on Thursdays.
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: So why does sour post look.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Too much if we did that every month? Too much?
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: Too much pain, too.
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: Much sorrow and too much negativity?
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: And kid one of two point seven kiss FM Serena Northridge.
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: How you doing?
• 31:18
  Speaker 9: Hi?
• 31:19
  Speaker 6: How are you?
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: I'm good.
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: This is gonna be a tough conversation, I think, because
• 31:24
  Speaker 3: what we understand is that your significant other is a musician,
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: and you you are asking us how to tell him
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  Speaker 3: to give it up and get a real job.
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  Speaker 1: Is that right?
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  Speaker 13: Yes, it is.
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  Speaker 1: Why do you want him to do that?
• 31:36
  Speaker 13: Because you know he's pay three now, and he has
• 31:42
  Speaker 13: been at this since he was nineteen and nothing is
• 31:46
  Speaker 13: happening with his music, like nothing he has done as
• 31:50
  Speaker 13: a musician or with his van has moved a needle.
• 31:53
  Speaker 13: You know, he barely is grapes by every month. So
• 31:58
  Speaker 13: I don't know, I think it's time for him to
• 32:01
  Speaker 13: move on.
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  Speaker 2: Do you guys live together?
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  Speaker 8: Yes, I think it's very just a matter of fact,
• 32:08
  Speaker 8: he does need to give it up, per se. But
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  Speaker 8: you need to say, hey, we need to make ends meet,
• 32:14
  Speaker 8: or I need you to pick up the slack a
• 32:16
  Speaker 8: little bit more, right, and then that I'll just hopefully
• 32:20
  Speaker 8: kind of push him to get a job that pays
• 32:23
  Speaker 8: him well, and then he can do this as a
• 32:24
  Speaker 8: hobby as a still follow his dreams exactly.
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  Speaker 13: Yes, But I fear that if I say that, he
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  Speaker 13: will forever resent me for getting him to give up
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  Speaker 13: his dreams, because well, he thinks that I'm not supported enough.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 3: That's why you really need to think through your delivery,
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: your choice of words, and the way that you say
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  Speaker 3: and when that's.
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: Everything, how and when you say it, the.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: Tone and when the tone and when?
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: Because the other thing you got to do here, Serena,
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: is you got to start the conversation by.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: Saying I love you, I'm with you.
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: We have each other, which is great, and that's so
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: rare to find what we have. But we got to
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: put everything on the table. We gotta put everything on
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: the table. And when you put everything on the table,
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: you say, the reality is just this, This is the reality. Right,
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: we got to make things happen, but you shouldn't have
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: to give up what you love. But for a moment
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: we got I mean, this is the reality. So how
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: can we figure this out together? Because I got you,
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: I'm with you, and that's it. That's the conversation.
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: Do you want me to cry?
• 33:40
  Speaker 9: Great?
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  Speaker 12: Actually no, no.
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: I think that's kind of calm, easy don't do when
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: someone's tired. I generally like these conversations over coffee.
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  Speaker 7: And you can even say, like you admire the fact
• 33:54
  Speaker 7: that he is so passionate about something and that he
• 33:56
  Speaker 7: pursues it and that you love that about him and
• 33:59
  Speaker 7: you don't want.
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  Speaker 2: Him to give that up.
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  Speaker 7: No, you can still do you need you need help
• 34:02
  Speaker 7: and he needs to supplement in some ways.
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: So let's figure it out together. Union union union union
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: union union union.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean he think I get a job, period.
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  Speaker 1: So I wouldn't say it like that though.
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  Speaker 2: It's time to get a job.
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: Enough with this, all right, Well, Serena, good luck keep
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: us posting. I appreciate you just reaching out to us
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: and trusting us with that conversation. It is, as we
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: learn in life, it's not the what always, it's the
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: hell in the end.
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yep.
• 34:34
  Speaker 8: And the resentment thing is true because cut to twenty
• 34:37
  Speaker 8: years from now and if nothing ever did happen with
• 34:39
  Speaker 8: his music career or whatever, then he would always look
• 34:41
  Speaker 8: back on her and be like, you did this, but
• 34:44
  Speaker 8: really she didn't.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Right, you don't want that. You don't want the resentment?
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: What a two points out? Kidscept them?
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: Tommy?
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: Are you using that new deodorant that I recommend it
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: for you to use?
• 34:54
  Speaker 7: So it's funny that you ask hilarious?
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: Hold on, how funny is it? Ruby?
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: Is it funny?
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: Sistney?
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: How funny is it? Okay, you're right, it is funny.
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: What's up?
• 35:13
  Speaker 7: Because I just tested it last week. I've been obsessed
• 35:16
  Speaker 7: with the Yucca app, you know, the thing that you
• 35:17
  Speaker 7: scan the barcodes and it tells you. Like, So I
• 35:21
  Speaker 7: scanned the deodant that I use and it was like
• 35:23
  Speaker 7: a ten, which is horrible. And I scanned the one
• 35:26
  Speaker 7: that's yours that I used time to time, not all
• 35:28
  Speaker 7: every day, and it was like a hundred. It was
• 35:31
  Speaker 7: like the excellent, excellent. And so now I've been using
• 35:34
  Speaker 7: yours every day.
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: Well, why you so surprise? You asked me for an
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: organic theodorant and I recommended the one I use.
• 35:39
  Speaker 7: I didn't realize that yours was so good and my
• 35:41
  Speaker 7: organic one was so bad.
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: Well here we are.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: So I threw mine now and now I'm using yours
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: every day.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: So mine's great.
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the name it ursa major I.
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: Think I put it on. Do you know when you're
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: rushing and you jam your roller up into your pit
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: and do it really hard and really fast, it creates
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: a rash. Yeah, I've got itchy rash pit. Now do
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: you know what I should put on that? Like, I
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: can't stop scratching my pit. It's a little bit red
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: under there.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: You need to put like an ointment or something.
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: Don't show us just redness.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: You can't handle redness all these years?
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: No, I can handle it. But I mean, you have
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: a collared shirt on.
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: So yeah, it's gonna be difficult.
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: Well, so I don't know, I need to put something
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: for burn, like a burn. Well, it's red, it's like
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: it feels like poison ivy at it's because I think
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: I rushed and did it too fast and hard.
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: I can tell you.
• 36:33
  Speaker 8: I can add this like crazy prubing cream that like
• 36:36
  Speaker 8: I don't even know the name.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: I would love that.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, put that on. That clears it right up.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: All right, Well, thanks, Red Rover.
• 36:43
  Speaker 7: I want me to send you the score of your
• 36:44
  Speaker 7: deodorant and my I know, but don't you want to
• 36:48
  Speaker 7: see it?
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: Desperately?
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: Send it? Okay, I can't wait till later. Wow, what
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: are you gonna do tonight? I'm gonna have toasted almonds
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: and look at the score of my deodorant.
• 37:01
  Speaker 7: They get you, Yeah, because I really enjoy looking at
• 37:06
  Speaker 7: all this stuff.
• 37:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 37:07
  Speaker 8: I recently told Tanya that she can do a lot
• 37:10
  Speaker 8: of her makeup and cosmetic stuff on the yuckap.
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: She didn't realize that she could, and it's a whole journey.
• 37:17
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: All right, let's talk about the primal movement exercise. This
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: is very interesting new trend in movement and good body work.
• 37:25
  Speaker 8: Yeah, because when you think about it, I guess treadmills
• 37:27
  Speaker 8: and ellipticals they kind of target your cardio health, lifting weights,
• 37:31
  Speaker 8: they target your muscle groups. But none of those things
• 37:34
  Speaker 8: really developed functional fitness and so primal movement. This is
• 37:40
  Speaker 8: kind of catching on, and it's like this new trend.
• 37:43
  Speaker 8: A lot of fitness classes and big major gyms are
• 37:47
  Speaker 8: catching onto this as well. It's getting on all fours
• 37:51
  Speaker 8: essentially on the ground, crawling, rolling, squatting, kneeling to promote
• 37:57
  Speaker 8: flexibility and balance as if you were some sort of
• 38:02
  Speaker 8: an animal.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: So there is nothing new.
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: Hopping like a bunny for example, or walking.
• 38:08
  Speaker 8: Like a crab like we doesn't look like you see
• 38:10
  Speaker 8: like football players whatever they call it.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: There's a only football players also those of us who
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: work here.
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you like the bear crass be one.
• 38:19
  Speaker 8: You know, it's nothing new, but now it's really starting
• 38:21
  Speaker 8: to pick up as far as like.
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: Actual here's what they've done. They've now curated all of
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: these and put them into one class.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: I used to just do a crab. The next day,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: do a crawl exactly right, They do a hop right
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: now the crawl all together in one class. I have
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: to tell you it works.
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: The results clamshell, clamshell, yes, not one works.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: I have that thing that put between my inner thighs.
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: So I think this is great and you can do this,
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: no gym required. All these primal animal movements, I think
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: it's cool. I like that they're putting them all into
• 38:57
  Speaker 3: like a fun class. I wonder we're kind of music
• 38:59
  Speaker 3: they play, right, you should play like cartoony music for
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: each animated thing.
• 39:05
  Speaker 7: Once told me that we should do a down dog,
• 39:07
  Speaker 7: a few down dogs every single day. Every single person
• 39:10
  Speaker 7: should do a couple every day just for like flexibility.
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's stretching.
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: Really, every day you should do that.
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: Don't talk like every night and every morning when you
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: wake up, you al.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: Should do a happy baby.
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  Speaker 4: All right.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: There you have primal movements.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacrest. This hour our Kiss FM.
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  Speaker 3: We're paying your bills also a lot of kiss music.
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  Speaker 3: Kendrick Sabrina, Billie Eilish. Yvonne is on the line here,
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  Speaker 3: yvon good morning. It's Ryan, Sis and Tanya. How are
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: you hi?
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  Speaker 9: How are you?
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  Speaker 1: We are great?
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  Speaker 9: Good? Good good?
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: So am I I like your spirit?
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  Speaker 12: I won the morning of the pay your bill.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: Are you great, what bill did we pay?
• 40:03
  Speaker 12: My medical bill? Wanted my medical bill and my club
• 40:06
  Speaker 12: name it?
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: Where were you when you heard your name called? I'm
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: always curious of like, what you know, what is.
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  Speaker 12: Doing at home? I was at home eating moltile meal,
• 40:17
  Speaker 12: eating one multile meal.
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: What's that?
• 40:22
  Speaker 12: It's like it's like a breakfast cereal, a hot breakfast cereal.
• 40:28
  Speaker 12: And I was sitting in my kitchen eating that, and
• 40:32
  Speaker 12: I had my ten month old great niece. I was
• 40:36
  Speaker 12: actually babysitting her.
• 40:37
  Speaker 9: Oh, and then.
• 40:40
  Speaker 12: I got this text from my niece. I just heard
• 40:42
  Speaker 12: your name on the radio. Call call call, and so
• 40:47
  Speaker 12: I called and I was like, oh my gosh, I'm
• 40:51
  Speaker 12: so excited.
• 40:52
  Speaker 9: This is so cool.
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: Well, one thousand dollars talt with your medical bill and
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  Speaker 3: all you're supposed to be doing is listening.
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  Speaker 1: But thank you to your niece for listening to us.
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  Speaker 12: That's right, yes, yes, yes, so everybody listens to you.
• 41:05
  Speaker 12: We just love kiss, We love you.
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: And I'm going to try multi meal. I've never had multimeal.
• 41:15
  Speaker 4: Meal.
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  Speaker 12: Just put your little brown sugar in it and it'll
• 41:18
  Speaker 12: be great. It'll wake you up and you'll be.
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  Speaker 3: Yes cool.
• 41:26
  Speaker 12: Thank you.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: You have a great day. Thank you for listening. Is
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: it like an oatmeal time?
• 41:34
  Speaker 7: I feel like it's like grits, like gritsy, Yeah, gritsy.
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: People get very turned off by grits and cilantro. It's
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: very surprising how annoyed people can get with cilential and
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: grits separately. But like, I grew up in the South,
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: where you eat grits growing up. But if I ever
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: order grits with people here, very annoyed with me.
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: Interesting you eat grits.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: It's just corn, isn't it?
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: Actually don't?
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  Speaker 10: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: All right, listen, So Yvonne was there.
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: Basically what she did is what could happen to you next?
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: Go to do it for us? Friends.
• 42:09
  Speaker 3: Thanks for a fund morning. We're gonna roll out tomorrow.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: We're back. It's Friday. It's the Friday of a.
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  Speaker 3: Three day party time, Friday of a three day weekend.
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  Speaker 3: If you get Monday off and we will give away
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  Speaker 3: gas tomorrow, tu, he's a free gas Friday back room
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• 42:34
  Speaker 1: To see tomorrow. Kiss. Thanks for listening to On Air
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  Speaker 1: to you again tomorrow