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Is He Coming in Hot for You? · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  All right, ladies, let's talk about separating the men from
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  the boys. Or, as I like to also say, is he
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  coming in hot for you? OK, so if you're on the dating
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  apps and you're on Bumble or Hinge today, I'm going to tell
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  you my expectation of how men should be showing up for you in
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  order to know if they're seriously interested or not.
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  Hang on. OK, so first of all, likes and
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  matches mean nothing. I have women tell me all the
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  time. Oh, I do so great on the dating
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  apps. My profile is so great.
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  I get so many likes, so many matches.
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  But then I'm going to ask you this question.
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  Are you going out on dates with the men you really, really want
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  to meet? Because that's how you know, if
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  your profile is working on the dating apps, if you're actually,
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  if it's translating to real dates with men putting in an
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  effort that you really want to meet.
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  All right. So when it comes to them putting
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  in effort, here's what you got to look for #1 unbumble.
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  These guys must be extending the time.
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  And this is how I'm training my ladies.
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  When they work with me through my mentorship program for six
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  weeks, they work with me one-on-one.
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  OK, I also talk about it in my book, The Great Manhunt.
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  So separating the men from the boys means separating these guys
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  that are just not even paying attention to your profile.
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  They're just swiping on every woman.
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  They're matching their liking, and they don't even know who
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  they're liking or matching, or they don't even know what
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  they're doing. They're not even paying
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  attention to you. OK?
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  Has nothing to do with you. They're just using it as a game
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  and they're just fooling around. But if you want to know if a
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  guy's really interested on Bumble, and if he's really
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  interested on Bumble, then usually your profile's standing
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  out enough. If your profile's not, you're
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  not going to get a lot of extends.
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  But if you have levelled up your profile, these guys are going to
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  be coming in hot, which means they're going to extend the
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  time. Which means hold up, lady.
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  Don't go away. I know there's a 24 hour clock
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  on you to write to me, but I'm going to give you more time.
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  That's the extending them. Extending.
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  Hey, hey, lady. I like you.
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  OK, That's raising his hand. That's how I expect all men to
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  show up for my ladies that I'm helping on the dating apps.
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  OK, They need to come in hot. They need to extend the time.
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  Now on Hinge, it's got to be more than a like you should not
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  be liking their photos. Trust me, if your if your
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  profile is good enough, you don't need to like theirs.
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  You don't need to make a comment on their stuff.
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  Hell no. They're going to be coming in
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  hot. They're not even just going to
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  be giving you a low level like, no, no, no, They are going to be
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  saying words on your photo like, Oh my God, you're so beautiful.
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  I would love to talk to you more.
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  I see that you love to go to art events.
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  You know they're going to be making effort.
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  It's all about effort, ladies. OK, So if you get tired of these
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  guys limping along with low level effort, it begins and ends
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  with how they come in out of the gate.
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  And how they come into the gate on Bumble is do they extend the
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  time that's coming in hot? And are they talking to you or
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  making comments on your photo on Hinge?
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  And less than that is a no go. You deserve more than a low
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  level. Like, don't you think you if a
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  man can't muster 3 words or three sentences for you on
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  Hinge, he's not good enough for you?
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  And that's how I feel about it. OK, if you want my help, if you
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  want this kind of help in every way, leveling up your photos
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  because that's what makes a difference in whether they're
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  coming in hot and making effort, believe me.
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  OK, so if you want this help and you want me to teach you how to
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  pre qualify and do everything right, then you better get on it
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  now because I am raising the price substantially.
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  I mean substantially in the next few days.
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  OK, It's overdue. I meant to do it sooner.
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  I just haven't. But now it's happening.
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  So if you want to work with me six weeks one-on-one, a unique
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  opportunity, you need to do it now, lady, before the price goes
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  way up. OK, so DM me with the word love
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  on IG and my link to my IG is in the bio above.
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  Hope it else.