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Ep272. Choose Your Destiny: Start Playing Offense. · The Inner Wealth Podcast

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  SPEAKER_00: Yesterday, I recorded and published a new free video course that I'm making available.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's called Choose Your Destiny.
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  SPEAKER_00: Start playing offense.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's a series of seven videos, which include an introduction, playing defense, and describes playing defense, why we play defense, kind of like the science of success, what it means to play offense, how to go on offense by creating a vision for your life and the visualization and body embodiment work that's going to ultimately help you step into those new circumstances and an introduction into my work, into working with me one-on-one, into the mastermind, into my workshops.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, and and the power of it, it talks about the power of community.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what I was going to do is just publish it and then record a new podcast episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: But that did that doesn't make a whole lot of sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: What feels right is for me to take that video course, to compile it, to put it on my YouTube platform, on podcast platforms, whether it be YouTube and video form, uh my podcast platforms in audio form, and give you kind of like the entire course, which is long, it's like 49 minutes long, but give you the whole course uh in you know in one consumable bite, and then invite you, if you want the workbook that comes along with it, that is gonna help take step by step working through the process.
• 1:31
  SPEAKER_00: And if you want the meditation, the installing future you meditation, I'm gonna put the link in the show notes and make those available to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: But this podcast episode or this video that you're getting ready to watch, it's all about the Choose Your Destiny uh Start Playing Offense course.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's now available on my website, interwealthglobal.com, but you can also go to the show notes and connect to it.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I hope you enjoy it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I really had a good time making it, especially the workbook.
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  SPEAKER_00: The workbook is powerful.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we have an upcoming Choose Your Destiny uh virtual workshop, intensive workshops.
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  SPEAKER_00: Four-week workshops going to start in November.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm also gonna put the link to that as well.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're interested in doing this work with me in that virtual setting, that's awesome.
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  SPEAKER_00: Go go explore that link.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if you just want the uh the video course, then you can also have that.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hope you enjoy.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know if you do all this work, when you do all this work, you will get results and you will move the needle.
• 2:34
  SPEAKER_00: Do you ever wake up feeling like there's something missing in your life?
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  SPEAKER_00: Do you ever feel the need to escape your business?
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  SPEAKER_00: Are you running your life or is your life running you?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm like Kipco and I'll help you design and putting a life so authentic and aligned with who you really are.
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  SPEAKER_00: You'll feel excited just to wake up.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll help you putting real wealth and helping freedom from the inside out.
• 2:53
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Inner Wealth Podcast, where we learn and choose to live inspired each and every day.
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  SPEAKER_00: My name is Mike Kitko, and I wake up with a dream every single day.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that dream is for other people all around me to wake up excited about who they are, about the life that they're living, and about creating more in whatever authentic way they are meant and intended to create.
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  SPEAKER_00: I call this going on offense.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what it means is not settling in any area of your life, in designing a life so powerful that it energizes you, it inspires you, that you can't you can't not lean into it, you can't not take forward steps into it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the reason that I'm so passionate about this work is because for four the first 43 years of my life, I didn't do that.
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  SPEAKER_00: I I worked in jobs that I hated.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was in a in a marriage that was full of chaos and and pain.
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  SPEAKER_00: I let my health completely get away from me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I wrote a book called The Imposter in Charge.
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  SPEAKER_00: That was my first book.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it talked about how much of a fraud, how much of an imposter I felt in my life, in every aspect of my life, in every area.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in that moment, the first 43 years, there was nothing good about my life.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what I did is I sat down.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when I was making a transition, I got fired from my second corporate position in in about 20 months.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I almost, well, I did file for divorce, and we almost pursued divorce.
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  SPEAKER_00: But what I did is I sat down with a piece of paper when I was making this transition and starting to clean up stuff in my life, and I got clear about what I wanted in every area of my life and what I wanted my health to be, and in my wealth, in the work that I do in the world, and what I wanted my relationships to look like and feel like in that moment.
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  SPEAKER_00: And at that point, when I sat down and I got clear about all of that, nothing in my life looked like what I had on paper.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what I was encouraged to do by folks that had done this exercise before is I was encouraged to not to worry about how, not to worry about when.
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  SPEAKER_00: Don't assign a timeline and don't try to figure out how it was going to happen.
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  SPEAKER_00: But literally just on a piece of paper, design your dream life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Talk about what time you wanted to get up, if you wanted to, you know, if you wanted time freedom, if you wanted financial freedom, if you wanted to make choices for yourself, if you wanted a career or in corporate, if you wanted a business, like dream bigger than you ever have before and design a life so inspiring that it it actually causes you like to move forward into that possibility, the realization and the reality of creating that life.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that thing that I put on paper at that moment felt absolutely impossible.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I can say with 100% absolute honesty and certainty, it's the exact life that I'm living right now.
• 6:12
  SPEAKER_00: Put my health back together.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've built a personal development business called Inner Wealth Global.
• 6:18
  SPEAKER_00: My wife and I put our marriage back together, and we've healed every aspect of our relationship, and I continue to strengthen every relationship that I have in my life that's intended to exist in any meaningful way.
• 6:34
  SPEAKER_00: The work that I do today is the work that I love.
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  SPEAKER_00: The only thing I ever loved in corporate was developing people and developing teams.
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  SPEAKER_00: And today that's the only thing I do.
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  SPEAKER_00: I have coaching clients, I have a mastermind, I do leadership development, and it's all about development, personal development, growth, and expansion, stepping into new possibilities, stepping into new levels of potential, stepping into new levels of growth.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm so inspired to do this work because of the pain that I felt in those first 43 years.
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  SPEAKER_00: And now I've been doing this work for about nine years, and I get to see people's lives radically change.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it keeps lighting me up and it keeps inspiring me to do more.
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  SPEAKER_00: I created this video course as a way of just getting some basics into your in into your world.
• 7:24
  SPEAKER_00: Uh, about seven videos that right now that as I'm recording the introduction, I see seven videos and they're each gonna be probably target somewhere around five minutes.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna keep them short, I'm gonna keep them impactful.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if at any point you you love the work that I'm sharing with you and you want more, I'm always open to a conversation and I'm always open to explore how we can work together to help create, first of all, first your vision, and second of all, the life that you describe in your vision.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: My hope is that this course changes your life and changes what you see as possible.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if it even moves a little bit of energy in your life, then it was successful.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's get started.
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  SPEAKER_00: The first step, first thing we're gonna talk about is why what playing defense in life really is.
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  SPEAKER_00: In 2016, I was 300 pounds, I was suicidal, I was drinking at toxic levels, I had just gotten fired from my second executive level position in about 20 months.
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  SPEAKER_00: My marriage was in complete chaos and distress.
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  SPEAKER_00: My wife was in pharmaceutical addiction.
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  SPEAKER_00: She was taking four to 500 pills a month.
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  SPEAKER_00: There was no peace at home, there was no joy at work, there was no love, feeling of love or state of love in my family.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was just there was there was no place to hide.
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  SPEAKER_00: Everywhere I went, it was just absolute chaos.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's because I was playing defense in life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, in this video, I want to describe what playing defense, what it looks like, and and what it what it actually is.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: What I've learned over the last 10 years since since that time, and me making a pivot and you know, a transformation from that, what what I learned is playing defense is all about one thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's avoiding circumstances we don't want to experience.
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  SPEAKER_00: Playing just like sports, playing defense is about trying to avoid something, where playing offense is about trying to create something, trying to do something.
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  SPEAKER_00: Playing defense is about trying to avoid something.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what I was doing in my career, since I hated my positions and I hated the work I did, all I was trying to avoid is feeling like a failure.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was trying to avoid feeling like or not having income.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was trying to avoid going broke.
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  SPEAKER_00: I kept reaching and climbing a ladder because I didn't want to feel like judged for not being driven or for being ambitious, for not being ambitious.
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  SPEAKER_00: My wife would guilt and shame me into making more money or getting a bigger job because she was in active addiction.
• 10:15
  SPEAKER_00: So she would commonly use like threats and just guilt and shame to I guess the word inspire to try to inspire me to make more money, to create more material wealth in our life.
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  SPEAKER_00: And every time I reached for another rung, it was just to avoid something.
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  SPEAKER_00: It wasn't to actually experience the next rung, it was to avoid something.
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  SPEAKER_00: Every time when I held on to a marriage that was absolutely physically, mentally, and emotionally abusive, it was just because I was trying to avoid divorce.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was because I was trying to avoid, you know, having to split up all the assets or be lonely.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was I was just playing avoidance.
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  SPEAKER_00: When I would drink at toxic levels, it was to avoid emotion.
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  SPEAKER_00: Everything I did in my life, everything I did was to avoid a circumstance and avoid something that I didn't want to experience.
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  SPEAKER_00: And over time, I experienced less and less of what I wanted to experience.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it took me a long time to understand like why I was playing defense and why a human being plays defense.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if you look around, if you really, really inspect life, most people are playing defense.
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  SPEAKER_00: Go to a grocery store and go to the checkout cashier.
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  SPEAKER_00: And hey, how's your day?
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  SPEAKER_00: It'll be a lot better in an hour.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's always because they'd rather not be there.
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  SPEAKER_00: They'd rather be somewhere else.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's people that say yes when they want to say no, people that want to say no when they say yes, when they when they will say say no when they want to say yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's people that stay in abusive relationships or bounce from abusive relationship to abusive relationship, people that can't stand being alone, people that can't stand themselves.
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  SPEAKER_00: These are all avoidance techniques.
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  SPEAKER_00: We distract ourselves, we endlessly scroll because we're we're trying to avoid something.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're playing defense in life.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're not living an inspired life, we're not creating in our life, we're just trying to avoid something.
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  SPEAKER_00: And oftentimes we're trying to avoid some sort of insecurity or inadequacy or thoughts and feelings of insignificance.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're trying to avoid something, not experience something.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that really is the difference between playing defense and offense.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we'll get into more of what offense is.
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  SPEAKER_00: But most people on this planet are playing defense.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can see the the wealthy and successful people that are that are playing a bigger game, that are taking up more space.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're not playing defense in life, they're looking to experience more of life.
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  SPEAKER_00: My wife and I went went skydiving a couple years ago.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's that's an adventure to to experience more life.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's not playing defense.
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  SPEAKER_00: But when you're just making decisions and just keeping things in your life and just doubling down on what you already know, take a look at it.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's probably because you're playing defense in life.
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  SPEAKER_00: And there's a there's a reason, and some of it is scientific in nature.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's a reason that most people are playing defense.
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  SPEAKER_00: But in order to make the shift, we first have to understand why we play defense and what's literally happening in our mind and body that causes us to continue to make those same choices and hoping for different results.
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  SPEAKER_00: In this next video, we're gonna explain why somebody plays defense in life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes I give a presentation called The Science of Success.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this video about why we play defense, it's gonna be a lot about the science of success.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we're gonna get a little scientific.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, I am not a doctor, I am not a licensed medical caregiver, I am not a psychologist, degreed psychologist, I am none of those things.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've just for 10 years, I've worked with lots of people, well in excess of a thousand people.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've I've explored and I've studied human behavior, and I've watched both myself and watched other people and observed why some people move forward and become successful, and why some people tend to stay stuck or even retreat.
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  SPEAKER_00: This video is going to be about what I've observed and what I've seen.
• 14:44
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is this is the way I see it and I observe it and I explain it.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 14:51
  SPEAKER_00: Your nervous system, we each have a nervous system, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: The the the brain is part of the nervous system, the spine, we have we have neuro neurons and receptors and all these things are part of the nervous system, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And the nervous system has one job.
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  SPEAKER_00: From my understanding, the nervous system has one job and one job only, and it's to keep you alive.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it looks to keep you alive by trying to keep you in familiar circumstances.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it tries to keep you in familiar circumstances because it knows how to keep you alive there, because up to this point, it's kept you alive.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's proven.
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  SPEAKER_00: If we just keep doing the same thing over and over, I'll be able to keep you alive.
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  SPEAKER_00: But anything that's unfamiliar feels like a threat to your existence, according to the nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_00: So anytime we start to move into something that's new, that's unfamiliar, that's uncertain, that we haven't navigated before, your nervous system starts to trigger and it starts to starts to send off flares of discomfort, fear, anxiety, panic, right, whatever, all this internal tension, stress.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's all in an attempt to get us to back up into familiar circumstances.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because the nervous system has one job and one job only, and it's to keep us alive.
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  SPEAKER_00: It tries to keep us alive by keeping us in familiar circumstances, and it tries to keep us in familiar circumstances because it knows how to keep us alive there.
• 16:23
  SPEAKER_00: Please, if there's only one thing you learn in this video course, please have it be that.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if we ever do work together, you're gonna hear that from me a million bazillion times.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the reason that we play defense in life is to avoid something that's unfamiliar because something that's unfamiliar feels uncomfortable.
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  SPEAKER_00: And your body almost fights you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Our nervous system is not an ally in trying to create wealth, success, love, impact.
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  SPEAKER_00: Our nervous system is not an ally, but it works, it works solely to try to keep us in familiar circumstances.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's really important to understand.
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  SPEAKER_00: And also, when you were a child, and as you grew up, you experienced things.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, let's say you're growing up, I'll I'll use a real life example.
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  SPEAKER_00: In fourth grade, I almost failed out.
• 17:22
  SPEAKER_00: I was in a gifted and talented class, and I almost failed out of fourth grade because my teacher taught in ways and youth strategies that just didn't connect.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was all memorization.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I am not a memorization guy, and I've never been in my life.
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  SPEAKER_00: So little Mike in fourth grade struggled to memorize all the things, and little Mike almost failed out of fourth grade.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I got put with the average kids, let's say.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I finished out fourth grade with the average kids.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the next year I went to fifth grade, and I was, there was no gifted and talented class in fifth grade.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the first report, oh, by the way, and when I almost failed out of fourth grade, I got punished for the summer.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's important.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's important to understand.
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  SPEAKER_00: Guilt, shame, threats, anger, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You're gonna fail, you're gonna be a failure, you didn't work hard enough, blah, blah, blah.
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  SPEAKER_00: All these things came flying at me from people that love me.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in fifth grade, the first report card I brought home, all A's in one B.
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  SPEAKER_00: And my father looked at the report card and he pointed to a B and he said, What happened?
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  SPEAKER_00: And in that moment, I learned that if you almost fail, or if you fail, you're gonna be punished.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you're not perfect, it's not good enough.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I've always tried to avoid failure at all costs.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, up to my awareness of this, avoid failure at all costs.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's got to be perfect to be okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that was the reason that the first book that I ever wrote was called The Imposter in Charge, because no matter how much I gave, no matter how much I achieved, no matter how much I accomplished, I was always looking at what was undone and what was imperfect instead of what was accomplished, what was achieved, and what we were able to produce or perform.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it created the imposter syndrome in me, the fraud effect.
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  SPEAKER_00: No matter how talented I was, no matter how much impact I had, no matter how much the needle moved, it was never good enough.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if they just, if they knew that I wasn't that good, then they'd fire me.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's all the reason I played defense.
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  SPEAKER_00: I didn't want to be alone.
• 19:35
  SPEAKER_00: I I couldn't feel uh I couldn't be in a room by myself for very long without needing to distract myself.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's the reason I stayed in an abusive marriage for a long time.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was all avoidance.
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  SPEAKER_00: And over time, when you're a child, you accumulate and during our conditioning in our formative years, we're experiencing these things that are painful in our life, life.
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  SPEAKER_00: It could be, it could be kids laughing at you, it could be, it could be punishment from failing, it could be all these things, getting guilted and getting shamed, getting judged.
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  SPEAKER_00: It could be all these things, whatever, whatever we experience as some state of suffering or some state of some state of discomfort or disease or maybe embarrassment.
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  SPEAKER_00: It gets lodged in our nervous system as something to avoid.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I like to call these apps, adaptive protective programs.
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  SPEAKER_00: Adaptive protective programs, apps.
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  SPEAKER_00: So then I like to label them, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: There's the failure app.
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  SPEAKER_00: Can't fail.
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  SPEAKER_00: Failure apps running.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's the perfection app.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, gotta be perfect in order to be okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's the there's the lazy app, gotta keep moving, gotta keep doing stuff in order to not be not be lazy.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's the avoid judgment app, which keeps us small.
• 20:56
  SPEAKER_00: There's the people pleaser app that makes sure everybody else is happy, gives up at our own expense, and makes sure everybody else is okay, even if even if it comes at from a place of self-sacrifice.
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  SPEAKER_00: All these apps, and you can name them whatever you want.
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  SPEAKER_00: In my workshops, we do name them.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, what app is running right now?
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  SPEAKER_00: What app is living that area of life?
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  SPEAKER_00: What app are you running that's got you holding on to a job that you hate?
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  SPEAKER_00: What app are you running that's keeping you in a marriage that's not fruitful or not beneficial or not fulfilling?
• 21:27
  SPEAKER_00: What app are you running that's keeping you running at 100 and per 110% freaking velocity, even at your own expense?
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  SPEAKER_00: What app are you running?
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  SPEAKER_00: And when we start to understand these apps and start to let go, become aware of them, name them, become aware of them, and start to let them go and stop having like some sense of ownership of our life or not making decisions from these apps, then we can finally move into some sense of offense.
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  SPEAKER_00: But The interesting part of going on offense is because all of our apps are going to be bumped into and it's going to create this comfort that your nervous system is trying to protect you from.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you've ever heard the adage comfort or growth, you can't have both.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's because your apps are being bumped into when you take action that's unfamiliar.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your apps are being bumped into, and your nervous system is trying to get you back into something that's more familiar.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is why people that maybe they're embarrassed or they're afraid of being judged.
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  SPEAKER_00: So public speaking is like a death knell to them because it's going to bump into that app that says I can't be judged.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if I'm seen, I'm going to be judged.
• 22:44
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Some people are running apps that they just pretend they don't have any wants or needs.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's an app.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're creators.
• 22:54
  SPEAKER_00: We're we we create.
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  SPEAKER_00: We can live conscious lives of conscious creation where we expand our circumstances and we expand our quality of life.
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  SPEAKER_00: But we have to be willing to move into what's unfamiliar.
• 23:06
  SPEAKER_00: We have to be able to move into, be willing to move into what's uncomfortable.
• 23:10
  SPEAKER_00: And that's why I jumped out of a plane and skydiving, did skydiving, went skydiving.
• 23:15
  SPEAKER_00: That's why I went to Marine Corps boot camp.
• 23:18
  SPEAKER_00: And that's why I was able to be successful in Marine Corps boot camp.
• 23:22
  SPEAKER_00: That shit was scary.
• 23:24
  SPEAKER_00: But over the course of time, you reprogram your nervous system into a new state of what's familiar.
• 23:30
  SPEAKER_00: But the next after you get familiar and comfortable in another state, then the next level of growth is going to require more discomfort.
• 23:39
  SPEAKER_00: And your nervous system is not going to be your ally in growth.
• 23:43
  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't care if you're wealthy, it doesn't care if you're successful, it doesn't care if you're happy, it doesn't care if you're loved.
• 23:48
  SPEAKER_00: It just cares that you're alive because it has one job and one job only that's to keep you alive.
• 23:53
  SPEAKER_00: And it keeps you alive by keeping you in familiar circumstances.
• 23:57
  SPEAKER_00: Please remember that.
• 23:59
  SPEAKER_00: But by being aware of that, we can start the process of going on offense.
• 24:03
  SPEAKER_00: And that's what we're going to cover in the next video.
• 24:07
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 24:08
  SPEAKER_00: Whereas playing defense is avoiding negative circumstances.
• 24:13
  SPEAKER_00: It's in avoiding things in your life.
• 24:16
  SPEAKER_00: Defense is all about avoiding judgment, avoiding loss, avoiding uh being alone, whatever.
• 24:23
  SPEAKER_00: Whatever it is, avoiding criticism, uh, avoiding being seen a certain way.
• 24:28
  SPEAKER_00: That's playing defense.
• 24:30
  SPEAKER_00: Offense is about experiencing something different.
• 24:34
  SPEAKER_00: Offense is about understanding that we are powerful and conscious creators.
• 24:40
  SPEAKER_00: And we are here to expand who we are and how we identify ourselves and how we we perceive ourselves and our self-concept.
• 24:48
  SPEAKER_00: We're here to expand our circumstances, we're here to expand our quality of life.
• 24:53
  SPEAKER_00: We're here to expand our enjoyment of the material plane.
• 24:57
  SPEAKER_00: We're here to expand all of those things.
• 25:00
  SPEAKER_00: But but in order to expand those things, you must be different.
• 25:05
  SPEAKER_00: You must do different.
• 25:07
  SPEAKER_00: You must choose different.
• 25:09
  SPEAKER_00: You must think and feel different.
• 25:12
  SPEAKER_00: It takes expanded circumstances, takes becoming a completely different human being.
• 25:18
  SPEAKER_00: Now remember, does your nervous system want to be different?
• 25:22
  SPEAKER_00: No.
• 25:23
  SPEAKER_00: So your nervous system isn't going to be your ally in this journey.
• 25:28
  SPEAKER_00: But we get to overcome it.
• 25:30
  SPEAKER_00: We get to we get to experience, we get to see, oh, wow, there's fear.
• 25:33
  SPEAKER_00: There's I'm running this app.
• 25:35
  SPEAKER_00: And we get to work through the discomfort and go into and through the discomfort of the new circumstance.
• 25:45
  SPEAKER_00: Going on offense means not allowing internal discomfort to control us, to manipulate us, to stop us, to prevent us from doing the thing, from being the person, from having the thing.
• 26:01
  SPEAKER_00: Going on offense means moving forward in life and experiencing more and expanding everything that we are here to expand.
• 26:11
  SPEAKER_00: And listen, I am 100%, 100% a believer that every single one of us has a dream.
• 26:22
  SPEAKER_00: Every single one of us has a destiny inside of us that we came here and we put on this meat suit.
• 26:29
  SPEAKER_00: Every one of us has something inside of us that's trying to, that's a dream that we're we're here to experience in this human experience.
• 26:39
  SPEAKER_00: And we are just the consciousness that's inside of us.
• 26:43
  SPEAKER_00: Wearing a meat suit that has a nervous system that is the animalistic part of ourselves that's just trying to keep us in familiar circumstances.
• 26:52
  SPEAKER_00: But when we identify as the conscious creator and realize it's just this discomfort, it's just internal energy that's surfacing, that's moving, emotion, energy in motion.
• 27:05
  SPEAKER_00: It's just emotion in us, and that's just a survival mechanism that your nervous system uses.
• 27:12
  SPEAKER_00: So we're gonna recognize when that app, when we're bumping into that app, we're gonna recognize what we're feeling and we're gonna continue to move into and through that emotion.
• 27:23
  SPEAKER_00: And that's going on offense.
• 27:26
  SPEAKER_00: And it requires doing things that you wouldn't normally do.
• 27:30
  SPEAKER_00: It requires saying things that you wouldn't normally say, it requires being someone different than you've been up to this point.
• 27:40
  SPEAKER_00: It requires choosing different and deciding different.
• 27:44
  SPEAKER_00: And we don't let, when we're fully on offense, we don't let others determine what direction we go.
• 27:54
  SPEAKER_00: We don't let fear stop us.
• 27:57
  SPEAKER_00: We don't let we don't let discomfort become our master.
• 28:01
  SPEAKER_00: And we we especially don't allow our body to become our master.
• 28:05
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 28:06
  SPEAKER_00: Going on offense requires moving into and through anything internally that comes up anxiety, uncertainty, fear, doubt, anything that threatens moving forward and expanding our circumstance.
• 28:25
  SPEAKER_00: We don't allow it to master us.
• 28:28
  SPEAKER_00: We master it.
• 28:29
  SPEAKER_00: We name it, we sit with it, we realize it, but we move forward.
• 28:34
  SPEAKER_00: And that's going on offense means that you're always moving into and through what's unfamiliar.
• 28:43
  SPEAKER_00: And that's how we expand.
• 28:46
  SPEAKER_00: Going on defense, going from defense to going on offense requires something that most people don't have in this world, and that is clarity.
• 28:57
  SPEAKER_00: Clarity is required to make the discomfort intentional and to make the discomfort and the unease that you're going to experience to make it purposeful.
• 29:07
  SPEAKER_00: Because without purpose and meaning, without purpose and meaning in the discomfort, then why would we ever choose to be uncomfortable inside and allow that discomfort and lead into the discomfort of something that's unfamiliar?
• 29:26
  SPEAKER_00: When we are clear about exactly what it is we're looking to create, we give meaning and purpose to that discomfort.
• 29:34
  SPEAKER_00: And that, with that meaning and purpose, that's when we can fully go on to offense.
• 29:39
  SPEAKER_00: And that requires clarity and a powerful vision for your life.
• 29:44
  SPEAKER_00: And that's what I'm going to talk about in the next video.
• 29:48
  SPEAKER_00: The meaning and the power and the purpose and the intention of a well-defined, hyper-focused, clear, and aligned vision with what you intend to create.
• 30:02
  SPEAKER_00: In March of 2016, after I got terminated and ejected from corporate, and my wife and I were almost, you know, we were on the brink of divorce.
• 30:12
  SPEAKER_00: I went to a workshop and it was about creating a vision for your life.
• 30:16
  SPEAKER_00: And it was a powerful few days.
• 30:19
  SPEAKER_00: And all we did for two days, two or three days, was get clear about the life that we were looking to create, that we wanted to experience.
• 30:29
  SPEAKER_00: That was it.
• 30:30
  SPEAKER_00: That's all we did.
• 30:31
  SPEAKER_00: That was the focus of these two or three days, whatever it was.
• 30:35
  SPEAKER_00: And in this workshop, we would share what we wanted to experience.
• 30:41
  SPEAKER_00: And the workshop over time, when as the as the days were going on, it focused more on feelings of what we were looking to feel, to experience inside.
• 30:55
  SPEAKER_00: And it we didn't lose sight of.
• 31:02
  SPEAKER_00: And we wanted to own nice things and we wanted a beautiful environment, you know, in our home.
• 31:09
  SPEAKER_00: And we didn't stop experiencing that or wanting that.
• 31:13
  SPEAKER_00: But we did start to focus more and more about what do we want our internal quality of consciousness to be?
• 31:20
  SPEAKER_00: So over time, over the course of the workshop, we started, I started to see that there was this balance of experiencing an awesome material life, but also experiencing an awesome internal state, quality of life.
• 31:40
  SPEAKER_00: So that's what that's what we were there for, right?
• 31:42
  SPEAKER_00: That's what I truly wanted.
• 31:44
  SPEAKER_00: An awesome internal quality of life and an awesome external quality of life.
• 31:49
  SPEAKER_00: So what I did is I started getting clear.
• 31:52
  SPEAKER_00: What did I want my health?
• 31:53
  SPEAKER_00: I was, you know, I was still really, really heavy and three close to 300 pounds, but I started losing weight at that point.
• 32:00
  SPEAKER_00: But I started getting clear.
• 32:01
  SPEAKER_00: What do I want to feel in my body?
• 32:03
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to feel energized.
• 32:05
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to feel, I wanted to feel useful, I wanted to feel valuable.
• 32:09
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to feel worthy.
• 32:10
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to feel energized.
• 32:12
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to feel lean and fit and strong.
• 32:15
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to, I wanted the energy in my body to be magnetic and for people to be able to feel me when I'm in the environment, for my passion to come through.
• 32:28
  SPEAKER_00: In my wealth, I wanted to create, I wanted to create financial freedom for me and my family.
• 32:33
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to, I wanted money coming in, and I didn't want money to be an issue.
• 32:39
  SPEAKER_00: And I got clear about the level of income that I was looking for at that time, which wasn't very big because I didn't have any income.
• 32:47
  SPEAKER_00: And and I got clear and I started writing it down, and it didn't exist.
• 32:51
  SPEAKER_00: That level of health and that level of wealth and income, they didn't exist.
• 32:56
  SPEAKER_00: They were so far from where I was at that moment, it felt like almost it was impossible.
• 33:02
  SPEAKER_00: But that was the that was the exercise, that was the goal.
• 33:06
  SPEAKER_00: Not to assign if something was possible or not, but to to just get really clear about what it is we wanted.
• 33:13
  SPEAKER_00: In in impact in my business, it was what what did I want my business?
• 33:19
  SPEAKER_00: My business didn't even exist.
• 33:20
  SPEAKER_00: But I I kind of knew at this point that I just want to focus on developing people and developing teams.
• 33:25
  SPEAKER_00: But what did I want my business to look like?
• 33:27
  SPEAKER_00: How many clients did I want?
• 33:28
  SPEAKER_00: Did I want employees?
• 33:30
  SPEAKER_00: And I got to get clear in this vision.
• 33:32
  SPEAKER_00: And I got to, I got to to to create that on paper, that vision, the level of impact and the work that I wanted to do with people.
• 33:43
  SPEAKER_00: I got to design the business and the impact that I was going to make in the world.
• 33:47
  SPEAKER_00: And ultimately, excuse me, at the end, I got I got clear about the relationship that I wanted to have.
• 33:53
  SPEAKER_00: And there wasn't a lot of peace and harmony in my relationship, but that's what I assigned.
• 33:58
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted a peaceful, loving relationship that was based on friendship, connection, mutual inspiration, encouragement that didn't exist at that time.
• 34:09
  SPEAKER_00: So when I looked at that vision, the health that I was looking to experience, the wealth that I was looking to experience, the impact, the relationship, none of it existed.
• 34:19
  SPEAKER_00: And what I've learned since then is the reason the facilitator encouraged us to do that is because we are 100% responsible for the what.
• 34:31
  SPEAKER_00: But the when and the how are none of our business.
• 34:35
  SPEAKER_00: Early on in my business, I just wanted 10 clients,$10,000 a month of recurring revenue.
• 34:42
  SPEAKER_00: And by putting it on paper and getting clear and reviewing that vision every single day over time without me fully understanding how it even happened, it happened.
• 34:56
  SPEAKER_00: And I remember looking back, my my coach at that point, my mentor, said, write all your clients down on your on your whiteboard.
• 35:03
  SPEAKER_00: And I wrote it down.
• 35:04
  SPEAKER_00: It was 16 clients and I had close to 20K in recurring revenue.
• 35:08
  SPEAKER_00: And I completely believe that it's because I wrote down on paper what that was, what my vision was.
• 35:17
  SPEAKER_00: I revisited that thing every single day.
• 35:21
  SPEAKER_00: I sat with it internally, in my mind and in my body, every single day.
• 35:28
  SPEAKER_00: And over time I made choices in alignment with it.
• 35:32
  SPEAKER_00: Now there's this part of us called the reticular activating system.
• 35:37
  SPEAKER_00: And it's the part that it's the part of us that chooses what we see in this world.
• 35:44
  SPEAKER_00: And this is why you drive a new car off of a off of a sales dealership lot, and then you start to see that everywhere because you've just retuned your reticular activating system.
• 35:58
  SPEAKER_00: And now you see that new thing that you're choosing to see, you see it everywhere where you didn't see it before.
• 36:05
  SPEAKER_00: That make and model, maybe it was invisible to you.
• 36:07
  SPEAKER_00: You just didn't see it on the road, but now you see it everywhere.
• 36:10
  SPEAKER_00: That's because by getting clear about what it is you want to experience, by sitting with it, by reminding yourself and refreshing yourself, and by visualizing and by embodying and feeling it every single day, you begin to experience it in your external world, just like you're experiencing it in your internal world.
• 36:32
  SPEAKER_00: Since then, I've created things, I've experienced things, I've witnessed, I've drawn things into my life that I just can't explain.
• 36:40
  SPEAKER_00: All I can tell you is that I wanted it, I put it on paper, and I, when I opened the door inside of me for it to happen, the door outside of me opened up and I just had to step through it.
• 36:54
  SPEAKER_00: That to me, that is the power power of a clear vision.
• 37:00
  SPEAKER_00: But again, I'm gonna encourage you the what of your vision is your responsibility.
• 37:05
  SPEAKER_00: The how and the when are not.
• 37:07
  SPEAKER_00: Don't get trapped in the how and the when when you're creating your vision.
• 37:11
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 37:11
  SPEAKER_00: But that is a part.
• 37:13
  SPEAKER_00: Now, I've created a workbook and it's part of this uh course that's gonna help you get clear about what it is that you want and help you create a vision for your life.
• 37:25
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 37:26
  SPEAKER_00: When you review that vision every single day, the next part is to sit as that person, visualize that vision, and embody that vision every day and feel that vision so that we start to retune our nervous system and we start to make our nervous system familiar because our nervous system doesn't know what's real.
• 37:49
  SPEAKER_00: All it knows is what's in our mind and what's in our body.
• 37:52
  SPEAKER_00: And over time, when we when we sit as and we visualize that vision and we sit as it emotionally, over time, our nervous system starts to become familiar with it.
• 38:04
  SPEAKER_00: So it no longer fights us when we start to move in that direction.
• 38:08
  SPEAKER_00: And that's what we're gonna talk about in the next video when we talk about the visualization and the embodiment and installing future you.
• 38:19
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna get a little woo.
• 38:21
  SPEAKER_00: All right, I'm gonna get a little woo.
• 38:23
  SPEAKER_00: Whatever's true inside of you becomes true outside of you.
• 38:29
  SPEAKER_00: Whatever you feel inside and whatever you feel is real inside becomes real outside.
• 38:37
  SPEAKER_00: Whatever you believe becomes your reality.
• 38:42
  SPEAKER_00: Whatever is in your mind and body as true becomes true in the world.
• 38:51
  SPEAKER_00: I've seen this play out over and over and over.
• 38:54
  SPEAKER_00: The the external world is literally just a reflection of what's happening inside of our mind and body.
• 39:01
  SPEAKER_00: And oftentimes when somebody's life is a mess and chaotic outside, they're like, but I know what I exactly what I want.
• 39:09
  SPEAKER_00: We're talking subconsciously, we're talking about what's what's programmed and what's buried below the level of consciousness.
• 39:16
  SPEAKER_00: And that's where those apps are, the adaptive protective programs.
• 39:20
  SPEAKER_00: They're below the level of consciousness, they're in there.
• 39:23
  SPEAKER_00: So when your apps are buried in your nervous system, then you're going to create circumstances that reflect the apps.
• 39:32
  SPEAKER_00: And when we change what's happening inside of us, in our mind, in our body, we ultimately see a new reflection of what is real outside of us.
• 39:45
  SPEAKER_00: Now, listen, I've seen this enough to believe it and to experience it and to absolutely trust in that process.
• 39:55
  SPEAKER_00: And I've seen it happen too many times in people's lives.
• 39:58
  SPEAKER_00: I've had people come on my mastermind call and say, what I really want is X, Y, Z, and blah, blah, blah.
• 40:04
  SPEAKER_00: They write it down in their vision, they visualize it, they embody it, and before long, they get a call of something inviting them into that exact scenario.
• 40:12
  SPEAKER_00: I've seen it over and over and over.
• 40:14
  SPEAKER_00: I've seen it in my own life.
• 40:15
  SPEAKER_00: It happened with me, 10 clients, 10K.
• 40:18
  SPEAKER_00: I've watched it, I've witnessed it.
• 40:20
  SPEAKER_00: And hopefully, if you can look back at your life and and realize whatever you got clear about and whatever you made true inside of you became your your your true, your truth and your reality outside of you.
• 40:33
  SPEAKER_00: And this is real.
• 40:35
  SPEAKER_00: It sounds woo, but there's too many teachers in the world teaching this exact same thing.
• 40:41
  SPEAKER_00: There's there's T.
• 40:43
  SPEAKER_00: Har Vecker, one of my favorites.
• 40:44
  SPEAKER_00: There's there's Neville Goddard, there's uh there's Dr.
• 40:47
  SPEAKER_00: Joe Dispenza.
• 40:49
  SPEAKER_00: There's so many teachers that that understand the truth that whatever is true and whatever you you feel and believe and be inside of you becomes a reality that you experience outside of you.
• 41:03
  SPEAKER_00: And what this requires is a the death of who you used to be and how you used to be wired, and the rebirth and the reinvention of who you're becoming.
• 41:17
  SPEAKER_00: This is a process of visualization and embodiment.
• 41:21
  SPEAKER_00: What I mean by that is you've got this vision now.
• 41:23
  SPEAKER_00: In the last module, we created the vision.
• 41:26
  SPEAKER_00: You know exactly what you want in your life.
• 41:29
  SPEAKER_00: You sit with your eyes closed and visualize and see the truth in it.
• 41:34
  SPEAKER_00: See yourself in those circumstances.
• 41:36
  SPEAKER_00: Put yourself in the mental picture, in a mental story, the mental video of and rehearse that future that you're creating, that vision that's on that paper.
• 41:47
  SPEAKER_00: Mentally and visually see it as true.
• 41:51
  SPEAKER_00: And then after you see that for a while, drop into your body and start to feel that it's already complete.
• 41:59
  SPEAKER_00: Feel that it already exists and sit like that as long as you possibly can.
• 42:04
  SPEAKER_00: Sit like that as frequently as you can.
• 42:08
  SPEAKER_00: And over time, the emotional signature, the truth that's inside of you, the beliefs that's inside of you, the unconscious, the subconscious part of you begins to bring those experiences into your life.
• 42:23
  SPEAKER_00: Remember the last module we talked about the reticular activating system, the RAS, that your subconscious, it it processes around 20 million bits of data per second.
• 42:36
  SPEAKER_00: Your conscious mind it processes around 2,000 bits of data per second.
• 42:40
  SPEAKER_00: This is out of straight out of Dr.
• 42:42
  SPEAKER_00: Joe Dispenses' book.
• 42:44
  SPEAKER_00: And the 2,000 bits of data that process that your conscious mind, that's that's what you have immediate access to.
• 42:52
  SPEAKER_00: That's what you think, that's what you, that's what you experience as what's happening in your mind.
• 42:57
  SPEAKER_00: And those 2,000 bits of data that you see are the 2,000 bits of data that you're choosing to see.
• 43:05
  SPEAKER_00: And when you continue to choose to see the same thing over and over, you'll continue to see the same thing over and over.
• 43:13
  SPEAKER_00: But by visualizing something completely different, this future, by feeling the presence and the absolute activation and the receiving and the receptivity of that future that you're looking to experience, our body and mind will start to look for evidence of that already being true.
• 43:32
  SPEAKER_00: And trust me, you will find it.
• 43:35
  SPEAKER_00: And when you have that clear vision, and when you couple it with visualization and embodiment, and sitting as that new version, sitting as that the creator that's already that's already created it, when you sit at as the body and as the as the receiver that's already received it, that's experienced.
• 44:00
  SPEAKER_00: It right now, then your mind and body becomes a magnet for what it is.
• 44:07
  SPEAKER_00: The woo-y way to think about this is the mind is the prayer, the thought is the prayer, and the emotions are the magnet.
• 44:16
  SPEAKER_00: And by seeing the visualization of this thing as real, and by feeling the presence of it as already true, we become the magnet for these new circumstances.
• 44:27
  SPEAKER_00: Guys, if you haven't seen this in action, if you haven't already proven this in action, do it with something small and watch the impact it has.
• 44:38
  SPEAKER_00: I've seen it too often to understand or to doubt that it's true.
• 44:43
  SPEAKER_00: I see it play out every single day.
• 44:46
  SPEAKER_00: I've in this video course, I've installed an uh offering, I guess, uh a meditation, a 15-minute meditation called Installing Future You.
• 44:58
  SPEAKER_00: And in this meditation, I invite you in a guided way to sit in the visualization of your new vision and to embody the receiving of that new vision now.
• 45:12
  SPEAKER_00: And that's like a powerful way.
• 45:14
  SPEAKER_00: If you take that vision and you create that the clarity of the vision, and if you couple it with installing future you over time, and as you practice this daily, over time you will change without even knowing that you're changing.
• 45:27
  SPEAKER_00: But your circumstances will continue to evolve in in some cases without even feel like you're doing anything to bring it about, because you'll begin choosing differently, you'll begin deciding differently, you'll begin acting differently, you'll begin saying different things, you'll begin being different, breathing different.
• 45:47
  SPEAKER_00: And that'll bring about radical change in your life, transformative change in your life.
• 45:52
  SPEAKER_00: I've witnessed this in my life.
• 45:54
  SPEAKER_00: I hope you get to witness it in yours, and you'll you'll witness it in yours if you actually do the work.
• 45:59
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 46:01
  SPEAKER_00: In the next video, I am going to invite you into a deeper relationship with me.
• 46:08
  SPEAKER_00: And what that means is having the accountability and having the person in your life, having a person in your life to continue to always redirect you into what you want instead of what you don't want, to remind you to play offense instead of defense, to keep you focused off of your problems exclusively and onto the vision, to not center your life and build and orient your life around your problems, but by to center and orient your life around your vision.
• 46:42
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to invite you into that deeper relationship and I'm going to tell you all the ways that we can make that happen.
• 46:48
  SPEAKER_00: I hope that this video course has inspired you to do something different in your life and to approach life somewhat differently, to shift from being on defense and avoiding negative circumstances and negative consequences to stepping into offense and a life of offense and expansion and what's not familiar, but it's going to take being becoming really comfortable being uncomfortable, right?
• 47:16
  SPEAKER_00: Because growth requires us to be to get comfortable being uncomfortable because you can only have growth or comfort.
• 47:24
  SPEAKER_00: You can't have both at the same time.
• 47:26
  SPEAKER_00: The nervous system is not your ally in creating more wealth and more success and more happiness and more love in your life.
• 47:32
  SPEAKER_00: Your nervous system is trying to keep you alive and it tries to keep you alive by keeping you in familiar circumstances.
• 47:39
  SPEAKER_00: And it tries to keep you alive and or tries to keep you in familiar circumstances because it has proven to be effective in keeping you alive in those circumstances.
• 47:48
  SPEAKER_00: So it is not going to be an ally.
• 47:51
  SPEAKER_00: And don't wait for it to be your ally.
• 47:54
  SPEAKER_00: Now, to shift from defense to offense, at this point, you've already heard to get hyper clear about exactly what it is that you want in your life.
• 48:06
  SPEAKER_00: Get super clear, regardless of what your life looks like right now.
• 48:11
  SPEAKER_00: Design a life on paper that you would get super excited to wake up to every single day.
• 48:18
  SPEAKER_00: And then every day, before you do anything in your day, I would invite you to sit down with Installing Future You and do that visualization and that embodiment work that I invite you into in Installing Future You.
• 48:29
  SPEAKER_00: And then throughout your day, take inspired action.
• 48:33
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 48:34
  SPEAKER_00: And what I mean by that is you're going to start letting go of things and circumstances in your life that don't align, that no longer align, or maybe that have expired and aren't in alignment and agreement with your clarity, with your vision, but you're also going to start moving into and making choices that'll help point you and guide you into the object of your clarity and your vision.
• 49:02
  SPEAKER_00: When you put all of those together, it's not an if, it's a when you experience the power of that vision.
• 49:10
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 49:11
  SPEAKER_00: I hope that you experience the power of this work, and I hope you experience the power of expanding circumstances.
• 49:20
  SPEAKER_00: But look, someone can help you get really, really clear.
• 49:24
  SPEAKER_00: Someone can help you understand and listen for when you're moving back on defense.
• 49:30
  SPEAKER_00: And someone can help you understand and encourage you and inspire you into motion, into offense.
• 49:40
  SPEAKER_00: And if you are looking for that in your life, I would love to be that.
• 49:45
  SPEAKER_00: I have private clients that I work with one-on-one.
• 49:49
  SPEAKER_00: I have a mastermind full of people that are vision driven, that are orienting their life around their vision, and not orienting their life around their problems.
• 50:00
  SPEAKER_00: And I also do workshops and I also do in-person events.
• 50:06
  SPEAKER_00: I also host retreats where we focus on this same exact work.
• 50:11
  SPEAKER_00: You can find all of your options on www.innerwealthglobal.com.
• 50:17
  SPEAKER_00: And on there, it has all the different ways that you can work with us.
• 50:22
  SPEAKER_00: But also on that website, it has a contact us or contact me page.
• 50:29
  SPEAKER_00: And if you just drop me a note and you invite me into a discussion, put time on my calendar.
• 50:35
  SPEAKER_00: I'd be happy to discuss this with you because I want the things in your life to expand.
• 50:41
  SPEAKER_00: That lights me up.
• 50:43
  SPEAKER_00: That's to me, that's playing offense, is I get to celebrate your success just as much as I get to celebrate my success.
• 50:51
  SPEAKER_00: So, guys, gals, if you are open to support, we can help you get clear.
• 50:59
  SPEAKER_00: We can help you avoid or move from defense to offense.
• 51:04
  SPEAKER_00: You've got to do the work.
• 51:06
  SPEAKER_00: But if you had that accountability and you had that community, in the mastermind, we have a community of people, you have the accountability in the community.
• 51:13
  SPEAKER_00: You're more likely to continue to move forward into your in playing offense and into creating the vision, that the thing that you know you came here to experience.
• 51:25
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 51:25
  SPEAKER_00: This has been fun.
• 51:26
  SPEAKER_00: I hope it's been fulfilling, rewarding for you.
• 51:29
  SPEAKER_00: Come back every once in a while and revisit this video course.
• 51:33
  SPEAKER_00: You've already been through it, but you can go through whenever you want and refresh and polish.
• 51:38
  SPEAKER_00: Use the workshop or use the workbook that I provided, use the meditation I provided, get clear, visualize, and embody.
• 51:46
  SPEAKER_00: Most of all, move into through the discomfort and create whatever it is you want in your life.com for more tools and resources.