You're Not Caring For Him. You're Controlling Your Fear
In this episode I'm unpacking what's really going on when you can't stop managing your partner, organizing his words, bracing before he speaks, running the whole emotional operation and calling it love. You care deeply, you work harder than anyone in the room, and you tell yourself you're just being supportive. But if the managing never actually stops, it might not be devotion doing the driving. It might be something older and scarier underneath. We talk about where the urge to control comes from and why it feels like love, how the shadow need for control keeps you from ever meeting the real…
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