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376: Creating Your Next Level Breakthrough · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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  Nicole Laino: Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated
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  to helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
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  flow without sacrificing results.
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  Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
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  according to your human design.
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  I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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  Hello and welcome to Unshakeable With Human Design, everybody.
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  I'm your host, Nicole Leno, and today I want to talk about creating
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  your next level breakthrough.
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  I think that most of us are looking for that.
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  We want to improve ourselves.
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  If you're listening to a show like this one, you probably want
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  to improve your life in some way.
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  You want to discover yourself in some way.
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  And you probably have methods that you've used so far to get you where you are,
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  but most of us we're striving for more.
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  Right.
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  And right now we're in the middle of the Authority Accelerator Masterclass.
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  That is my five day free masterclass that I do.
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  Every so often, and we are right in the middle of it now.
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  In fact, if you're listening to this on the day that the episode drops, we are
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  wrapping up on Wednesday of this week.
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  There is still time though.
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  If you're listening to this on the Monday that this episode releases, there is
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  still time for you to get in on that.
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  If you'd like to go on that little journey with us, you can catch up on the replays.
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  All you have to do is go to nicole leno.com/masterclass or DM me the
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  word masterclass on Instagram.
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  I'm at Nicole Leno official.
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  And we will register you right there and send you the replay link
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  so you can get in and jump on.
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  We also opened doors to my Business by design program, which is super
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  exciting and I'm so excited to be welcoming new members into that program.
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  I. Where we do this work of elevating you to your next level self, but
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  something that has been coming up with members of, we have a telegram chat
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  for the masterclass, so seeing all of the feedback that people are giving us
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  inside that telegram chat, and there's a slide that I take everybody through
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  on the first day of the masterclass where I show them masculine and feminine
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  energy and how success is achieved.
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  And this was really interesting because I do that chart.
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  I did it in the last launch and I did it in this one.
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  People really reacted well to it, so I did it again.
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  And now I'm noticing these last few days, I've seen so many comments
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  come up from people inside business by design who are in there already.
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  And then members in the Telegram group and of people who have been
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  attending the masterclass have been talking about this theme about.
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  What method do we use to achieve our next level growth?
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  This came up with a client on our hot seat call where she's a spiritual master.
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  She is absolutely, you know, she's a psychic.
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  She does all sorts of healing work.
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  She does really, really deep, deep work and you know, she came to our call
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  with her own kind of, you know, they come to our calls to get help, right.
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  She's wondering why she's not excelling at, so she's not moving
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  forward with something and her go-to is to shift to the spiritual work.
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  It's like, oh, well what do I have to clear?
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  What do I have to do?
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  What can human design tell me?
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  And I noticed this with other people.
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  There's people that are doing readings with me right now.
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  I've had a lot of people who are very masculine, energy focused.
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  They are, what do I have to do?
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  What's the strategy that I need?
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  What do I need to focus on?
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  Tell me what I need to get done.
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  We have our tendencies.
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  We have our conditioning in a lot of ways where we are conditioned to kind
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  of hit one pedal versus the other.
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  And in the slide that I show in the masterclass, I show like an axis and I
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  show you how if you are high in strategy or low in strategy, and whether you
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  are high in spiritual feminine work, or low in the spiritual feminine work.
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  It divides into four quadrants, basically, whether you are high spiritual,
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  low strategy, high spiritual, high strategy, low spiritual, low strategy,
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  and low spiritual, high strategy.
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  So people who lean toward, and usually people were going into, most people
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  said they either fell into one of the extreme quadrants, so they fell
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  into high spiritual and low strategy.
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  A few people fell into that high strategy where everything that
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  they do, they're thinking like, okay, well what's the next thing?
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  What's the next tactic I need to employ?
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  What's the strategic move I need to make?
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  So which one are you?
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  When you think about reaching, I want you to think about where
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  you are now, and I want you to think about where you want to go.
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  What are the goals that you have and what is it that you have done
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  so far to get you where you are?
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  What has been the thing that has paid off?
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  Is it more strategy or is it more energy focused?
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  What have you done more of, I should say, and what has, and has it worked?
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  How has that served you?
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  Now, for a long time I was very high strategy and everything was strategic.
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  Everything was like, okay, tell me how to launch this.
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  Tell me how to write content.
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  Everything that I bought had a how to in the front of it.
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  How to write content, how to write content that sells how to.
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  Do a branding kit, but how to master launching, how to do a video launch,
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  how to do an email launch, how to write emails that people wanna write.
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  I had all of the how to programs, right?
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  And I became kind of obsessed with that.
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  And then I got opened up to the spiritual work and then I did a big shift and it
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  was like, okay, now it's all spiritual.
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  Now I was just clearing and unblocking and, and I got kind of stuck over there.
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  I'm reading a book with my son and there's a part in the book where
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  these kids go into a casino in Las Vegas and it's like time stops and
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  they're all just in there kind of not knowing that years are going by.
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  It's like this time warp.
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  And I feel like that's what can happen when you're in like a healing cocoon
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  is sometimes it's just like, oh, I just gotta go back and heal that thing, unblock
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  that thing, get through that thing.
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  So I hope you're doing that.
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  I hope you're checking in with yourself.
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  Where do you fall on that scale?
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  Do you fall more strategy or do you fall, like maybe more in that healing cocoon?
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  Do you look to things like human design and stuff like that?
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  For all of the answers?
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  Because this kind of been coming up a lot lately where I'm just seeing
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  people that fall into one of these quadrants and very few are falling
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  into the high strategy, high spiritual, and that's really where the magic is.
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  You need integration.
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  You have to be able to do things that will make you money.
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  And then you also need to be able to.
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  Observe yourself so that you are not on autopilot.
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  Maybe following along with some limiting beliefs or limiting patterns
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  that have kept you where you are.
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  Because when we wanna reach our next level, we have to be so
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  self-aware of our patterns, of our things, of our shortcomings,
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  of the tendencies that we have to fall into old ways of doing things.
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  If we're in alignment with old ways, then we're going to get old results.
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  We're not really breaking through.
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  And if we're faced with challenge where a strategy doesn't work or where we go
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  to show up and it doesn't go our way, we don't get the result that we thought
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  we would get or that we hoped we would get or that we wanted, do we fall apart?
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  What do we do with that scenario?
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  This is an integration of masculine and feminine principles
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  to be able to employ strategies.
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  To be able to do the work because the advice that I had to give to
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  my client today was I was like, you are such a master healer and you've
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  done all of this work with yourself, and you have done it with other
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  practitioners and you've gone deep.
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  I think maybe you just have to look at where you just have to do the thing.
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  You have to choose the strategy, and you have to just kind of make yourself do
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  it, because if you're hiding from it.
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  And this happened with another client in our group, healing and going to
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  their chart and healing can be a crutch.
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  So can strategy.
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  But I think healing starts to feel good.
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  And if we're into kind of like exploring ourselves and we're into this
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  metaphysical stuff and understanding what our gifts are, we can think that
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  kind of diving into these gifts that we maybe can't really wrap our vocabulary
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  around that finding them is somehow gonna answer all of our questions
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  and make all of our problems go away.
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  It's part of it.
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  It's why I teach.
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  Healing and doing at the same time.
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  That's why we integrate human design into your business so you don't build a
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  business that is purely strategic based on what other people told you would work.
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  I have another client who came to me where she basically, like a coach, kind
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  of gave her brand and her direction and her message, and she said,
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  okay, because it's what would sell.
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  But then she was completely disconnected from that message.
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  She hated it.
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  She really had something on her heart that she wanted to do.
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  It was hard for her to trust it, but she did, and now she's
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  moving in another direction now.
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  It took a lot of courage, but that came, and then she did a reading
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  with me, and I'm giving her a lot of validation on why that direction felt
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  so good for her and how she can be even more integrated and feel more
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  courageous in stepping in that direction.
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  Go that way even more boldly than she already is.
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  This is why the answers are in us and we have to start to trust that.
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  And sometimes our way of not trusting that is thinking that we have to find
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  more answers within us, that we have to dig deeper rather than just allowing
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  ourselves to be there and to, I find that the best way or the most effective
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  way to grow and reach your next level is to do the thing, employ the strategy,
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  work the system that you put together.
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  Hopefully it's one that works.
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  And then see where you hit a wall and when something doesn't work, to
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  be so grounded and so expanded that when it doesn't work, it doesn't
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  freak you out, that you can look at it and you can say, oh, interesting.
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  I've hit a new wall.
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  This is what expansion looks like.
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  This is what it means to be able to grow and hold more.
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  You show up in different energy to the work when everything isn't do or die.
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  That is a survival aspect of your nervous system.
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  If you're scared to take a move in a strategic direction, then there
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  might be some nervous system work that you need to do, and then you
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  need to go do the thing again.
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  And then sometimes you just need to plow through that wall that you've built it up
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  so much strategically that you have made it so do or die, that you're so scared to
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  make a move that you do nothing, and then you go and hide in a healing cocoon again.
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  I see this over and over again, and I see it on both sides.
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  They tend to get a lot of people in the spiritual realm because
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  they're interested in human design.
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  They're interested.
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  They're like, oh, I, I think human design will have the answers for me.
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  What I have found is that these two, wherever you lean, the hardest and the
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  most often, so when you answered that question, which one do you lean on more?
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  The healing or the masculine, the strategy or the energy?
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  Wherever you lean most naturally.
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  The answer is probably the other one for you.
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  You probably need more in the other direction.
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  But again, it's not about only going in that other direction.
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  It's about finding balance.
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  It's about integrating these two things.
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  I think that human design offers a really interesting perspective
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  on this as well, and astrology.
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  'cause this is coming from like an astrological aspect, but the nodes,
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  the south node and the north node.
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  These are polar opposites.
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  The North node tells us what our growth path will be.
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  We start out coming into this world in the south node theme, knowing certain
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  things that we've always known, the stuff that's natural to us, and the
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  north node themes are the things that we need to get over, the things
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  that we need to learn to do, learn to embrace, learn to let go of whatever
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  they are for your particular sign.
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  You need to learn these lessons in order to have the growth that you seek.
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  This is what is so amazing about doing the spiritual work
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  alongside the strategic work.
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  First of all, I think it makes it a whole lot more fun.
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  Makes it a whole lot more interesting, and you build a business that feels like such
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  a reflection of yourself that you just can't help but become obsessed with it.
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  But it also, it guarantees almost that next level growth.
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  Because if you're looking inward and you're looking outside, you are playing
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  the 3D and the five D world, you are harnessing the power of the universe.
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  You are using every tool at your disposal as opposed to being blind to one while
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  being hyper-focused on the other.
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  This is where I just see a lot of struggle.
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  Once people come into this.
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  So I find people, when you have one thing that's already in place, I have another
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  client, Melissa, she just did a, an interview inside the Authority Accelerator
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  Masterclass with us, and we were talking about her experience in the program.
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  She just joined, you know, maybe two months ago, is all it's been.
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  She joined two months ago ago and she's already had these amazing results and she
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  said, she's like, it's an energetic shift.
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  My energy shifted and suddenly.
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  She's a projector, so she's definitely going to get that.
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  She's going to get that real bang for her buck when she learns to expand projectors.
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  When you lean back and you actually learn to prioritize your health and your
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  wellbeing and space and your energy, then suddenly invitations start coming and
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  success just becomes your way of life.
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  Honestly, usually you're just making it harder on yourselves,
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  and part of that is because you're believing it has to be hard.
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  You're believing that it has to be somebody else's way.
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  So if we just take a purely strategic point of view to a business like
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  this on paper, Melissa had the business that made a lot of sense.
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  It was making money.
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  She's launching, she's doing all the things that other
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  people are doing, but it wasn't.
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  Going as well as it used to.
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  It started to decline and she started to feel not good.
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  She was burning out, not in love with her business anymore,
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  starting to question things.
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  But now you bring in the spiritual approach.
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  We're not throwing out the strategy and being like, you're just gonna
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  lay in bed all day and do nothing.
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  No, but we are bringing in this spiritual aspect where her even just learning
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  about herself through her design, started to get those voices telling her that
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  it had to be the other way to shut up.
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  When they shut up, she was actually able to expand her energy.
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  Then she invited six new clients in without being in the
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  launch, which was kind of crazy.
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  She said that that was just crazy results for her, and that's the energetic shift.
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  But that energetic shift worked because she had strategy in place.
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  I'm not saying that energetic shifts can't happen.
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  They absolutely do.
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  Hers was just an extreme.
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  Example, and I wanted to make sure that I'm being transparent in the
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  fact that it wasn't, she got into the energy of what she wanted
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  and money just fell into her lap.
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  No, she built the strategy already.
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  She had mechanisms.
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  She had a program to put people in, and she had a way for people
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  to book calls with her, and she started sending emails and reaching
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  out, and she got some referrals.
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  But for a projector, it doesn't have to be hard.
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  We have another client who really started to get into her energy.
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  She's another projector.
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  Got really relaxed in her energy, did a lot of deconditioning work, and
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  then the invitation started coming.
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  I believe she's giving her keynote today.
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  That is the power of energy.
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  You're leaving so much on the table and really if you're going all strategy, the
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  belief that you probably have is that it has to be hard if you're not working hard.
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  Then it can't happen for you, or there's only so much success that you
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  can achieve, well then you have to work on that and you have to start proving
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  to yourself that that is not true.
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  'cause that is a belief and it's not true.
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  This is why just strategy doesn't work and just energy doesn't work.
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  You can't just sit on a meditation pillow and wait for money to show up.
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  You can, I just haven't seen terrible amounts of success with that.
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  So embracing these two, and I'd love to see more programs
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  that truly integrate them.
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  I don't, unfortunately, I see them masquerading as that, but I don't
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  necessarily see them implementing that and really having a business and energetic
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  program that has both sides built out, but pursue the side, pursue this integrated
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  approach in whatever way that you can.
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  Pursue this.
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  And if you wanna know more about it, you can join the Authority
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  Accelerator Masterclass.
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  Just go to nicole o.com/masterclass and you can join there, watch the
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  replays, and you can see how we do it, and you'll learn a lot from it.
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  People are saying they've already got more out of this free class
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  than they do out of paid things, um, that they paid for in the past.
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  So check that out, see what speaks to you.
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  See where you lean.
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  Do you lean more feminine than it might be time for you to,
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  to look at the masculine stuff.
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  If the strategic work hasn't worked for you before, maybe you need to look
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  at the way that you've approached it.
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  Does it need to be from a more integrated perspective?
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  Do you have a message that really feels like a reflection of you?
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  You may need to blend these things.
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  Otherwise, maybe if you've done so much spiritual work, you're able to
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  pick up a strategy you couldn't before.
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  Have you tried?
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  A lot of us are on autopilot and we're doing things just because we always have.
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  Notice what you've always done and ask yourself if it's working.
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  If it's not, take a look at the other side and say, have I tried that too?
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  What's been my experience with this?
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  Reflect, that's my invitation to you.
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  So thank you so much for being here.
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  I hope you found value in this episode as I hope that you
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  do with all of our episodes.
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  I thank you for making it all the way to the end with me.
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  I appreciate you.
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  Remember, in order to have an unshakeable business, you must
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  first become an unshakeable human.
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  So thanks for letting us help you become unshakeable with human design, everyone.
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  We'll see you next time.
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