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Upgrade Your Operating System: Female Biology Is the Business Strategy with Alexandria Kenyon · Becoming Flame: Where Sensuality, Sovereignty, and Sacred Power Ignite

• Kait Tregenza: Hello. Welcome to another episode of Becoming Flame. I have to say. doing these podcast interviews, understanding how it's really feeding into my personal design, my, whether it's my human design, my gene keys, my astrology, how these transmissions, how these interviews, how these conversations have fed me in a way that is having so much positive impact in my entire life is So challenging to explain because a lot of it happens firstly in the energetics. A lot of it firstly happens in the subtle realm where you can't point specifically to I started podcasting, therefore I made or therefore this happened, but it's that felt experience. It's that way in which I'm living and existing in the world that is so massively changed. And I guess what I'm talking about right now is not everybody go out and do a podcast because it's, that's what we need to shift away from in this like one size fits all kind of advice system where We don't know what we in our own personal designs need and therefore we try to replicate that, which is working for another person like in our own lives. So I think the purpose of saying this is if you have an ability to, and everybody does because they have access to AI or the internet. ⁓ So really find out. welcome, welcome, welcome to the podcast. ⁓ Alexandria: Thank you for having me. Kait Tregenza: Yeah, perfect. One of the things I love most about you is that you're so raw, like in terms of standing in front of the camera, in your underwear and not in like a like click baits, you know, come to my OnlyFans account. It's like, obviously just for anyone who doesn't know Alexandria, that's not what I was referring to. Alexandria: Mmm. Kait Tregenza: What is your human design? What is your astrology? What are your gene keys? Your eye-ching, any of these other systems that work for you. And really start to understand what is the shadow side of that? What is the empowered side of that? What would I be doing ideally if my chart was fully realized, fully empowered, fully on fire and I was living it? How would that, how would those activities work? And then experiment. ⁓ But it's really around, you know, sort of like your weight, the way that it moves through the cycle, but also your weight loss journey, all of these kinds of things. Like, I'm so curious, like, is this part of your personality or was that a stretch for you of just doing something really like, okay, this is outside of my comfort zone and I'm going to negate any hate that I get. Like it's going to be my catalyst or like how did it come to be? I guess if that's part of your design or iterate. And so really start to use your intuition in a different way of like, how would I, with such delicacy, such intention, such precision, such beauty, such me-ness, design my life to be living out my personal energetic blueprint. What would that look like? Alexandria: Thank you so much for this question. I will say that I have always felt really comfortable in front of a camera. Like, I remember, you know how they say, when you're a little girl, what did you like to do? I would have my mom, like humongous old VHS camera, and I'd make my brother film me, and I would pretend that I was the interviewer, and I'd be like, I'm a celebrity. It's always come really, Kait Tregenza: And I think that's a really interesting like prelude into today's episode because I think women are hitting a point where they cannot keep living from disconnection. They cannot be disconnected from themselves anymore. We've done the hustle. We've done the hyper independence. We've done building lives that look good while feeling numb inside. That's, know, we've done that tick and we're moving away from that. Now we've got. Alexandria: natural to me, but it also, this amount of visibility and comfort in myself comes from that inner self work. And there are days that it's harder. I mean, my first career was in boudoir photography, so I had to post myself naked on the internet and be, learn how to find comfort in that. And ⁓ yeah, so I think I've always felt Kait Tregenza: countless women around the world saying, I did everything that they told me I should do and no thanks. I'm going to go and do it myself elsewhere. And so there's this deeper craving happening now. Yes, women want success. They want money. They want beauty. They want leadership, impact, visibility, all of those things, but not at the cost of their body, not at the cost of their peace and not at the cost of abandoning themselves just to be Alexandria: There's edges for sure, but I think less edges than maybe most people experience because I'm like, people need to know. They need, and I want my Instagrams to feel like a place that you can come and you're like, oh, I know what's up with her. I know what's happening. Like there's no bullshit. It's just, it's just honest over there. Even when it's messy because you know, I think what's Kait Tregenza: Love chosen, successful, or enough under somebody else's definition, viewpoint, perspective, definition, right? And so I think that's why conversations around femininity, softness, receiving, and self-trust are exploding right now. And as you guys know, if you've listened to me for a while, I do not subscribe to femininity is soft passive receiving my feminine Alexandria: What's really missing in social media is like, nobody wants to own that it's messy. ⁓ it's messy. Life, your body, your house, going through any level of growth, it is the most messy. I don't know if I'm ever clean. I've never used cleanliness the way that I think it's portrayed online. Kait Tregenza: life. Yeah. expression is extremely fierce, rebellious, Kali-like. I love the underworld. It's where I get my information. My, my feminine is destruction and rebuilding. Like I am not here for soft life, right? And a lot of you aren't, but a lot of you are. And the point here is not that there's one definition of femininity or there's one expression of femininity. So we need to stop Mm-hmm So one of the things I kind of noticed as well about, mean, I'm studied you just to the extent that I'm like, want to honor you in this conversation, like a little bit less than your average stalker would, would investigate you like just a little bit less, ⁓ performing femininity. We need to stop performing the aesthetic version of femininity. We need to come into the real thing. We need to come into who we actually are and our specific design and our specific expression and have the courage and conviction and also knowledge of how to live that incoherence incongruence in truth because that's all that matters. But you, I, what I've found with your profile compared to a lot of the other guests that are coming in. again, it's no shade. It's just that you're so different is I feel like you're not worried about the aesthetic. You're not worried about the lighting. You're not worried about your hair. You're not worried about like the background. It feels like you pull out your phone and say the thing that needs to be said. And then you put it away and. This is the age of truth. This is the age of coherence. This is the age of congruence. And so today's conversation is really about what it means to build a beautiful life. That's that. do you do these live or do you record them a little bit and then like look at it and then post it? Or like, what's your actual process? Alexandria: ⁓ my gosh, you're gonna love this. I literally wake up in the morning, I get a download, I put it into my edits app, I speak it into edits, and then I post it. I don't edit anything. Social media used to be such an agony for me because I was like, ⁓ I have to make all this precious content. And I run two businesses. I was like, that is never, ever, ever gonna be sustainable for me, ever. Kait Tregenza: not only without losing yourself in it, but how do you even design it? How do you even open up your biotechnology, the feminine system of biotechnology that is your clairvoyance is your class sentience is your clear knowing cognizance. You know, how do you work in the energetics of you so that your internal system creates your external life? Alexandria: And so I was like, what is your genius, Alexandria? What do you love to do? And I'm like, I love to yap. I love to talk. And when I'm talking, I really can hear myself. So I know other people are going to be able to recognize themselves in that. And so I quite literally stopped giving a fuck and just started recording myself. Kait Tregenza: And honestly, I think that's what most women are craving for is that they actually just live a truthful existence, a truthful, coherent, congruent existence. ⁓ So let's have that conversation today. To have it with me, I have invited Alexandria Kenyon ⁓ onto the podcast. Alexandria works in these energetic Alexandria: speaking now behind the scenes of that is is years and years and years of self work and clairvoyant training and and finding my own you know expertise in what i'm speaking to but letting it riff is like all i care about i'm like ⁓ well and then you know some days i'll post something and i'm like ⁓ i don't agree with that two days later like oops Kait Tregenza: world. She's a clairvoyant. She's all about femininity, self-worth, leadership, receiving, and the way women relate to power, success, visibility. She's so raw. She's so vulnerable. She absolutely does not subscribe to any of these systems of a body is beautiful if it's like this, a life is beautiful if it's like this. She's not interested in any of that. She's really about self-trust. Why? I think that's the challenge, right? Cause then instead of taking down the first video, I've heard you. Recorrect yourself. And one of the things that I think is really appropriate for your audience specifically is we know that what you said two days ago was exactly what the energy was. And now two days later, it's not that anymore. She's around no woman ever forcing themselves through life again. If you're on your bleed, you shouldn't be moving furniture. If you're showing up at 60%, know that your 60 % is still so much. building a business and building a life around the sustainability that you can have at any point in your cycle to hold it. You go through a really, really tough personal time, which And part of what's happening is that as when we, as we, the channels start to give so many less fucks, so many less, we're breaking out of that conditioning that didn't allow us to be those, free channels prior to this moment in time. So there's so many things going on, right? The earth has changed. The frequency of the earth has changed. The frequency of the collective is changing. Each of our own selves are. Most of us who are doing this work will. Can you still show up to your business? Is it too taxing for you? Or can you actually show up and be like, I'm a 50 % today, but 50 % of where I'm at is still enough to serve. And so I think that's this really interesting. now going, ⁓ it's a lot safer than it's ever been to be me. And we feel it right. And it's not because all of a sudden our families became enlightened and we're like, ⁓ I see you now. No, that's not happening. We've all given up on that happening, but it's like, we can feel our collective spaces becoming safer, which is such a weird thing to say in the context of what's actually happening in the 3d reality of the world. design around sustainability, around coherence and around longevity that a lot of women when they're designing their businesses are not necessarily still programmed into thinking, can I take care of children? Can I take care of myself? Can I take care of my menstrual cycle, my energy, my clients, the household, like all of these things that we manage anyway, can it fit with this business? And so I think so many women right now are trying to figure out But when you are living in the energetics of the world, you're like, thank the Lord for Trump, the savior of our people, the most obscure person that we ever thought. Like, why is Trump back in power? Like are people not paying attention? Yeah, because he's aligned with the energy of this time. He's aligned to what needs to be so ridiculous to be so obscure, to be so weird, to be so like, are you? how to still desire more, whether that's more money, more impact, more beauty, more life, whatever it is, without becoming hard to get there. Because if the process of getting those more things changes who you are, first of all, you won't be able to ever get them. And secondly, you won't hold them. So this conversation is really aligned. It felt really aligned for me and for the audience for where women are collectively right now. Alexandria: Hmm. Kait Tregenza: actually for real right now. That all of a sudden there's more and more and more people coming online. And it's like, for us who have been here for a while, like, oh my God, can everybody feel how safe we feel right now? Like there's more frequency availability for us to all like lean back into. And all of a sudden that's translated into, I'm just going to pick up my phone and say the thing that needs to be said. And as more of us are doing that, So without further ado, let us welcome Alexandria to the podcast. I can really feel that that frequency is strengthening. So what happened two days ago that was true has already shifted. Like we're already changing the future in these small ways. So it's not that you were wrong. It's that we are changing the timeline in real time. Alexandria: Mm-hmm. Yeah, when we're shifting in energy, the only thing that matters is present time. So I find that sometimes when I speak something and I get it out of me, it's perfect for that time. Yeah, it's like, hey, this is what people need to hear. This is what people are going through. And then like two days later, I clear that energy from my system and I'm like, don't agree with that anymore. Okay, moving on. So I think really what you're speaking to is permission. Kait Tregenza: Yeah. Yeah. Mm. Alexandria: And the energetics of permission, you you spoke to our families, they're not gonna give it to us, of course not. You can't expect something that wants to keep you contained in a past limiting moment to give you the permissions to leave. ⁓ I think everybody is mirroring us things within ourselves that are, you know, sometimes easy and fun to look at and sometimes really challenging and painful. And I think we're in this really big collective growth around trying to understand authority and attempting to reestablish our own internal authority and start outsourcing it to other people. There's a difference between wanting to liking what someone says and wanting to kind of sample the vibe. We're all kind of sampling each other's vibes. And then there's a, the other reality is I give my power away. This person knows more than. me, whether that's the president, whether that's the principal, whether that's your dad, your mom, you know, your bully from high school, whatever that is. I think it's really important to turn inward and realize we all have these different expressions of self living within us and we are the ones in charge of all of that. Kait Tregenza: Yeah. And what's that's bringing up for me is that my reframe around shadow work recently, and especially since I started this podcast, because it's so much of my own personal human design is to be the transmitter. Maybe I need to graduate into like picking out my phone and just transmitting like you. ⁓ That's like maybe my next level. So like I accept this invitation that wasn't issued to me. ⁓ by you, ⁓ but the, the shadow work aspect that I've really come to understand is that there's this belief around shadow workers. like, you've got to pick out your traumas and your difficult, like your blocks and your limiting factors and everything. But for me, what I've naturally come into is so much of my innate gift is. in the shadow as opposed to out being lived. And I think what I was most attracted to you was that's really something that you speak to in a really casual, easy to access way. Like you don't use language that's like, wait, what's she talking about? You know what I mean? Like it's just this really easy conversational, yeah, yap of like, I feel like I get to know you so deeply and easily because you wake up in the morning and you start talking what's top of mind, top of heart, right? And it's like, yeah, I also think that. I also know that. I'm also living that. And so I think what we get, especially in your field, is this opportunity to come deeper into residence with the actual gifts that we're here to be living. I'd love to talk. to you more deeply about that. Alexandria: ⁓ my gosh, let's go. Thank you for that. I appreciate that. And I'm happy to, I'm happy that my Instagram space, which I have worked on energetically for many, many years, ⁓ is coming through clearly. Kait Tregenza: How do you work on your Instagram space energetically? Alexandria: Well, I mean, it involves psychic tools and being able to see energy and realizing that like Instagram does not have power over us. It is just quite literally something we can ground, set, reclaim and make space for ourselves as is every part of this planet. All we're looking for really is space. Does that make sense? Kait Tregenza: I'm pausing because I'm really understanding that I am somebody. until about, I'm not even joking. One month ago, I had never made a post on Instagram. It was a place that I never felt I needed to go. know. I mean, I Facebook marketplace as the extent of my social media. And I was very, very happy in my hermit hermitage in my cave. You know, I'm like, I don't need, I don't need to say anything. And this is part of understanding that your life is not only yours. It's when you're, when you're here to be in greater service and that's the platform of projection in this, in this time. you get asked to do things that are not comfortable for you that you don't necessarily want to do. And so I, like I literally was just like, if you need me to be able to do this, then you need to flip whatever switches in me. Cause I don't know what they are. I don't know how to get to the point where I'm comfortable on Instagram and almost like one day to the next. It was like, I can do this now. But then I realized I literally didn't know how to make a reel. So I was like, ⁓ my God, am I supposed to go up to some strange teen teenager and just like, excuse me, young sir, could you tell me how to post a video on Instagram? Alexandria: Yeah. I mean, honestly, we had an amazing human being who was happens to be Jen Alpha or Gen Z, who did our social media for like three months, we learned so much from her. Right before my Instagram really kind of popped off, like we she really just kind of would like, she'd be like, none of that makes sense back to the drawing board. So I really got like a good, good taste of like Kait Tregenza: Okay. Alexandria: how to make things more clear for people. So definitely don't be happy when you do. Kait Tregenza: That's useful. That's really useful. So anyone who needs the internship to come and educate you, just ask for it. Alexandria: It's like, be open to people teaching you things. I think that's the key to my success always is, you know, be open to people having gifts. And that's guess is seeing people's gifts. Be open to people teaching you and admitting where you feel you don't have the skill because that was one of the hardest things for me to admit. did a marketing mentorship a few years ago and I remember my Kait Tregenza: Mmm. Alexandria: my mentor, I like was about to quit. I was like really annoyed. And she was just like trying to teach me this framework and I just wasn't hitting for me and it still doesn't. But she goes, you don't have the skill. And I was like, you're right, but you're not going to teach it to me. I'm going to teach it to me. And so eventually, you know, I learned my own rhythm of storytelling and sharing and it had nothing to do with that stuff. Yeah. Kait Tregenza: her process. Alexandria: And that's okay. Sometimes we don't hire mentors to give us something concrete. We hire them to take a step in our authority. We hire them to get clear on what's not working within us. There's so many gifts that we get in working with people, whether they are above you, behind you, in front of you. Like there's just, there's a gift. I'm very grateful for our, ⁓ our Gen Z intern. No, she was like our advisor. We called her our advisor and I'm telling you, she cooked us. She's like, what are you saying? I was like, I don't know. So thank you to her. Kait Tregenza: HAH! I love that because I, first of all, I have a three year, three and a half year old mentor who she's not necessarily yet at the age where she's like, what are you saying? Like this doesn't make sense because she still listens with her heart. She still listens with her signal, right? So she thinks that everything that people say, she's only listening to what they're emitting, not what they're saying, right? So she's not at that level where she's like, okay, I need to listen with my ears. Um, but I think what I'm learning is that these children, alpha Z's, whoever they are, they, it's not about saying, Oh my God, they don't want to work. They're so entitled. They, you know, have no worth work ethic. I think the reframe is they're showing us the future and they're already coded. to it's not appropriate for me to work, you know, like a boomer or like, you know, whatever, because there's going to be AI, there's going to be this, that, and the other. But most importantly, humans are not going to remain in their slavery unless everyone continues to comply with it. And so as they show up and like, you don't own me, it's very uncomfortable for all the generations. Alexandria: Hehehe. Kait Tregenza: who have given their lives to corporations or to some false God. And these younger people are like, no, I just, I exist as myself and get paid for it. And they've come in with that coding. And so you see that translated into YouTube, Instagram, TikTokers, all of these kinds of things. And so what I'm hearing from you is this, it's just really dropped in for me of like, create the space that you need your online space to be. That's a tune to you because you are so much more powerful than this artificial technology. Your innate technology is the signal that will override everything. Alexandria: Absolutely. And I'm pretty like openly pro AI in some ways for a while. I took it out of all of my stuff and I experiment. I'm pro curiosity. A lot of people aren't. They get very black and white about we're going to die with AI or we're going to be here. I'm pro curiosity. Is it working? And then I look at the energy. It's the best part about being clairvoyant. Plug it in. Does it work or does it create something funky? Is there something weird happening in the business? And so I'm very pro Kait Tregenza: Mm-hmm. Alexandria: curiosity. I think that is why I'm so successful because I'm like, okay, what about Claude? know, Chachi BD didn't do it. So maybe Claude will do it. I think that the kids who are coming in now are so much more emotionally aware, attuned, have such better boundaries. And what's really interesting and I think in my generation, I'm assuming your generation too is like a millennial is like, we're kind of at transitional generation between these two kind of, well, at least right now, because I'm 32. I just noticed that. We're having a lot more acceptance for things being able to change. I know for me, when I think about my teachers who taught me clairvoyance, there's kind of this tone of like, this is secret, don't share it with anyone. Like you're never allowed to teach this. Like you need to like have years and years and years of experience. And I'm over here like I've been teaching this like quite literally my entire life. I finally just have the words. So. Kait Tregenza: Mm. Alexandria: I think that when we, things are moving so much quicker now. And it's not to say that we don't need to refine our skills, our craft, do the reps sometimes. Like I think a lot of people want to have the label without the exploration. Yeah. And I don't even like to call it work. It's just like the, presence, like, you know, it does take your presence and devotion to develop something. You don't just like, Kait Tregenza: work. Alexandria: have a cake, have to bake it. And so I think for me, when I look at like my students learning these psychic tools and they get them faster than me and they're just so good. I'm like, good, good. Hell yeah. Like finally, because you know, when I did my first clairvoyant training, I was kind of in a group of a lot of people who were in their, their fifties, forties. And I was the baby. I think it was like the youngest student in that. Kait Tregenza: Right. Mm-hmm. Alexandria: container and I was like, why is there such heaviness? Why is it so hard? And now sometimes I'll train with like the younger students and they just move it so much quicker. And I'm like, yes, this is the whole point. Vibrationally, we're getting lighter. And I think that's so cool. Like, ⁓ like it should be lighter for the next generation. That's the whole point of transmutation is like we pass down this inheritance of of lightness and permission to do it their way. I anyone who wants their kid to be exactly like them is missing the whole point. Kait Tregenza: And it, really does take some level of personal development to know that your children are designed to graduate beyond your life. Like my, my sense of it and what I've been told over and over and over again, and in all of the information that I've personally received is there are no more patterns. Like it ended with millennials going forward. because the millennials really did show up to do their work. There might be something left for like some, ⁓ Gen Z, but it's really like, especially from going forward from alpha, it's like, what do these kids exist in when they're not inheriting this old stuff to do when they've just like line in the sand, they go forward and they're creators and they're creating this world as exactly what they want to do. And, ⁓ and using these online spaces or using technology. And I've always been intrigued, like, does the technology and the speed and the lightness of the technology mirror the consciousness or does the consciousness mirror the technology? And it has to be intertwined at some level, but like, could boomers have used AI in their level of consciousness? No, because they believed in hard work and they believed in long hours and they believed in all of those things. And so it's For me, it's no surprise that AI has come at a time where the consciousness of the young children don't even believe in ever having a job. And so therefore what's the purpose of the schooling system if it's about being yourself, right? If your entire reality is now about being yourself, why do you need to go to the indoctrination building? then like in your work, for example, you sit and you sit with people to undo all the indoctrination, right? Alexandria: Quite literally. My work is really centered around programming. And I think for me, like I went to a traditional public school, there's programming in that. I was raised by this kind of archetypal expression of woman and this kind of father, and there's programming in that. And then we have Disney movie programming and we have all of these things that influenced us. And what I teach to and speak to and strive for is a level of neutrality. For a long time, I was in a lot of resistance to those things. Like, ew, ruined my life. And I'm like, ah, know, like victimhood and resistance. And I'm like, oh my God, did I ever pick the perfect parents, the perfect line, the through line, and the perfect training ground to be able to really have what I have and to be able to shift energy the way I shift energy. I mean, Kait Tregenza: Boom. course. Alexandria: I think about my younger self a lot and I love her and I spend a lot of time with her. And I'm like, if you knew who we are, you wouldn't like, how could you even explain it? And I imagine our future self 20 years from now, we're like, if you knew who we are, like how, how can you even explain the feeling or the sensation of the peace that we have now? I mean, in some days aren't peaceful. mean, if I'm being transparent, when you're an energy healer, Kait Tregenza: Yeah. Alexandria: There's a lot less peace than I thought. was telling my business partner, who's also a fellow clairvoyant and we have for our school, I was like, Christy, I thought that I was just gonna have it perfect. I thought after all these years, this is such boomer programming too, all these years of service to the craft, that I was just gonna get it one day. And actually, no, the idea is when you gather, the self-awareness, you actually need to apply it to reality. So it doesn't mean that life just ends up, there's no hardship, there's nothing. Like you're fine, your relationships are beautiful. And that's what I try to portray on Instagram as much as I can within my own boundaries of privacy. It's like, ⁓ I have bad days. I have really hard days and I go through friendship breakups and I go through all these things. I also have a whole... a school of students going through their own growth. And I'm honored. It's literally the best thing I've ever done. I'm like, ⁓ my God, how is this even a thing? But I think it's so important to deprogram the perfection around what it looks like to even be spiritual, to be in tune, to be a psychic. mean, that's really what I'm speaking to on my Instagram is just this deprogramming. deprogramming around, what does it mean to be a woman? That's my ultimate question. These are my questions is like, and I answer them in myself, like every single day. Like, what does it mean to be in a female body? What kind of gifts do we have choosing female bodies? Because there's some special ones. I don't know what it's like to be in a male body. So I don't know what gifts they have. Like if they want to chime in, let me know, but I'm not going to do that. Kait Tregenza: Hmm Alexandria: evaluation work they can call me and let me know. And then like, how do we give ourselves permission to do what we already know is right for us? That would just feel like shame around doing like for me, I think the biggest way to find ourselves is like, what were you made fun of for as a kid? Number one for me, my dad called me Jabberjaw. Like he's like, you're always talking. I don't want to hear you. I'm like, exactly. Kait Tregenza: Yes. Alexandria: Gift number one, people said I talk too much and I'm like, ⁓ my God, I made a career out of it. Thank you. Like what, what are these things that you did that were just so natural that were shut down in you? Like that's always where I'm like, that's where your sweet sauce is. That's where the gifts are. And like, let them out and you're going to have to go through the process of de-shaming, un unraveling the shame around it. you know, those little, we call them in, we call it psychonies, which is really clairvoyant language, these little, little wax, these little tears in your aura. Like what's torn in your aura? For me, it's like, your body's too big. You'll never be able to be accepted. I'm like, watch me. Who's to say I want to be accepted, but accepted by myself and still successful. Because I think the idea of ⁓ visibility is that we all actually, maybe we don't want to be famous, but we all generally need to have some sense of recognition if we're here to teach something. So the avoidance of social media, and I see it from everyone, everyone, social media, I'm like, do you think your higher self would complain if they were like, this is where I need you to be right. Like, do you think that like, like what, what is that's just resistance? Instagram does not have to be this like capitalistic meta monster unless you create that story about it. I reframed my whole Instagram. I'm like, Instagram is not a place where I have friendship, but it's a place where I have my business front and center, glowing gold, living its best life. And when I did that, when I reorganized my Instagram reset the energy, I don't really get hate comments. I thought I would. I really did. I was bracing. My body was bracing. I was like, OK, here we go. It's the witch wound all over again. They're going to drag me. They're going to know I'm psychic. was like, no, ⁓ none of that actually happened. I've actually had so much sport. And for the few people who comment, I'm just kind of like, well, you're blocked. Kait Tregenza: that you can't touch me. Alexandria: If it's not constructive, and some of it is, I've had some people DM me and I'm open to a constructive conversation. If you buy a product of mine or we're in a relationship, absolutely. But if you're a fan, that's what I teach in my framework. Kait Tregenza: or an anti-fan. Alexandria: there are boundaries in access. If you are a fan and an observer, you don't get to have access to programming me, trying to control me, trying to criticize me, attempting to seed into my field. Like you don't get to have that. And nobody does, but like ultimately when you get to the core circle, it's in the shape of an eye. When you get to the core of it, the people who are in your inner circle are going to have influence over you. Like not over you, with you. Kait Tregenza: Mm. Alexandria: And so that's something that we have to consciously agree to. Like, okay, you're in my life. There's going to be influence. It's just how it is. Kait Tregenza: And you therefore curate the kinds of influence that you want. Alexandria: Yes. Kait Tregenza: And so where do your family members sit in your life now? Alexandria: Give me one second of pause so can into this. Mmm. The Core Access Group is a very small group of three people. One of those people is a family member. And, you know, outside of that, there are people that I collaborate with, love, respect, but they don't necessarily have influence over me. You know, I don't typically ask advice or feedback from people unless I see them embodying the life I'm interested in saying. It doesn't mean that I keep a bunch of yes people, trust me. My best friend is like, you could do better. I'm like, yeah. I know she really holds me accountable. Kait Tregenza: And you have that reaction because you know she's right, right? Alexandria: And I love that for her. I do. I hate it a lot because I'm like, but you shouldn't have just a bunch of yes people. You should have people who love you. But I would say my friends are my family and I don't know a lot. There's a lot of transition between the inner circle and then the next layer. So it's like, oh, OK. There's a lot of transition there. There's definitely layers, but I would say that I love my family. ⁓ I have gained a lot more neutrality through doing this work to be in relationship with them and not to ⁓ judge them or go into resistance or try to heal them or fix them or change them. That's something that I think is a very advanced skill. And I, as I've cleared my own resistance to family members, ⁓ the medicine of the relationship can land a little bit better. Does that mean I talk to everyone in my family? Absolutely not. have very strong boundaries. just, I don't talk to people who harm me or are actively, Correct. And you know, neutrality and loving someone from a distance is a beautiful thing. Kait Tregenza: Yeah. And I think that's the difference between coming into neutrality doesn't mean now we go to brunch every Saturday. Alexandria: And sometimes we do, when we're doing this work, need the space from family to self-actualize. That's quite literally one of the biggest steps that I think we miss as a society is none of us have really actually, you know, cleared the cords between our mothers and our fathers so we can actually take a step in our own energy body. And so that is usually a natural process, but I don't know, our world has gotten very... Kait Tregenza: Right. Alexandria: a meshed in a sense where, you know, mothers and fathers live out their dreams through their children. They ground through their children. We were just talking about that the other day of like, a lot of women tend to have children and I've been looking at this energy all week around women thinking that children ground them. It's very interesting program around like, Kait Tregenza: via the children. Yeah, it's really weird. Alexandria: Oh, if I just my life feels chaotic right now. So I'll just have a baby so I can like at least have an identity or do something or ground or or be more human. And and it's not to say that's wrong. It's just saying like there is other ways to ground. And that pressure, you know, usually comes from my family or ancestors. Like you just have a baby or a little bit. You're a little bit chaotic. I'm like, you think the baby is running a bunch of like life force energy is gonna make it grounded? Like, no! Definitely. Yeah. Yeah. Kait Tregenza: least grounded time of my life because I have always grounded in me and being a mother there's a very specific contract where it's not about you and I I didn't have a baby in a very typical way so I should say that and premise that like I met my daughter in 2016 and it wasn't until 2021 at the end of 2021. The date of conception was 21, 12, 21. And she told me that in 2016. And I didn't believe it until like that time. And she literally walked into my room and she was like, I'm here. Oh, okay. I guess I'll go to the bedroom. It was like, it was literally like that. But she gave me so many realization points, like choice points. She was like, I just want you to know you can do whatever it is that you want to do in your life. I am not an obligation for you, but based on your choices and whether or not you're going to align to my energy is whether I come to you or not. And her coming to me and she didn't tell me what that the right choice was, it was just more like, if you're living your highest expression of truth, I will choose to come to you. And that was so, for me at least, I think my pathway was like, that's like, that's no pressure situation. And there was a time limit for her and then it would be like, okay, well, I'm not available any longer and I'll just, you know, do work elsewhere. But having, this mentor, and this is why I introduce her as my mentor, because the eight years before, six years before I birthed her and was taking care of her in, you know, as a baby, she was taking care of me as a sovereign being. And how did the, and that informs my parenting style of, and she's a manifesto, so it's a very different, she doesn't need Alexandria: haha Kait Tregenza: me in any way. But if I was a mother who needed a child to complete me, we would be in conflict every single day because she literally doesn't need me. fact, she'll like, you know, this child, this baby didn't have any babyness. was crawling at four months. She was walking at eight months. She was speaking full sentences by the time she had her first birthday. And you know, she's just taught it all to herself. Alexandria: Thank Kait Tregenza: She'll watch a kid do something like, for example, she didn't know how to swim. She was about 18 months old. She watched these kids in this public pool swimming. She was just like intently staring at them. She didn't have any floaties on or anything like that because I was sitting right next to her. She just got up, dove in the pool and swam to the other side at 18 months old, never having had a swimming lesson. And I was like, holy crap, what am I in for? And it's just, it's these new kids, like they know how to download information and just get it done. Alexandria: Yes. Oh my gosh, they're gonna like, I'm so excited for just the future. Like, I'm excited for now because you know, we're able to say, I was gonna say the word pussy on the internet, you know, like I'm so excited, but like, I'm excited for how quick the energy can shift and just how much less energetic baggage these spirits are coming in with. And I think for me, like, I don't have children yet. I'm not quite sure if I'm gonna make that agreement in this life. We'll see. ⁓ My spirit kids are laughing at me just as I said that. They're like, ⁓ yeah, I'm like, we'll see. ⁓ Spirit kids are hilarious. ⁓ See, I lost my train of thought because they're distracting me now. Kait Tregenza: Yes. We'll see. Yeah. Alexandria: But, you know, essentially I'm excited for the reason I think that these vibrations can come in, these little like ascended masters, I call them, because it's just fun. It's like these little light beings can come in is because we did the work. Like when I look at my line, I think about, and I'm so grateful for my mother. And my great, like, I'm so grateful she started it. I picked it up when she passed. Like, I'm so grateful because I know my little vibration self. Like, you know, my mother always said, you know, I don't know how you came. Like I was on birth control. was like, I love that I snuck in on a misbirth control pill. said, hell yeah, I'm coming. ⁓ Because there's a. part of me, honestly all of me and then some days doesn't feel quite exciting, but I love earth. is, it's really fun if you can shift the way you experience it or view it. ⁓ There's a lot of beauty. I enjoy growth. I enjoy curiosity. I enjoy pleasure. I enjoy all these things being in the body. ⁓ And I'm so happy that your daughter is able to just download things and not have to go through, like, think about like the encyclopedia and like figure something out because I don't know if our brains were meant to do that. Like, and I think that when I think about the AI conversations, people are people are losing their brains and like, no, I think there's just space being created for more creative energy. Like for humans to shift their purpose into making art and creation and play and ease. And I think it's funny that we're all upset. I know. And if I don't think anyone listening to this podcast, either way you are entitled to your experience. like, you know, I don't think humans are meant to be doing administration tasks. That is quite literally what is set up by like very old systems to keep things organized. And it is the most annoying thing. And you know, we incarnated into these bodies and into the places we live and we have agreements and society and that's good and fresh. We want to make sure we're like in relationship to that, how we want to be in relationship. But ⁓ I'm not going to spend my life stressed out about an admin task. I'm going to create something really cool. Kait Tregenza: So let's shift into like really talking about your business because you really talk about how. Women specifically, and we both have feminine technology. So we can only really talk about that in this lived experience because so much of the world is changing ⁓ and you have to work within your technological structure, your biological structure. And so we can't really project. And that's part of the issue that we've had up until now, right? There's this one system that works for this one style of body, for this one style of biology. and the technology that's encoded into that biology system. That's not our biology system. That's not our, that's not our innate operating mandate, right? So let's, for anyone who's going to come at me about gender, that's what I'm talking about. ⁓ You have double X chromosomes. You have a specific biological wiring, whether you believe it or not. So. Alexandria: You Whether you choose to identify it as or not, I think about it like this, We've all been operating on like Windows 98 and everybody who has really bought into Windows 98, which is like typically male bodies. I don't know why it harms them to Windows 98. It's like effort restrict, save everything, like extort people. know, it's like the, it's like the the shittiest Oregon Trail, I don't know if you played that game system where we're like literally just operating this insanity and people are so gripping to it. And I'm over here like, when that system comes to me, I'm like. Windows 98 is that you? Like, what are you here doing again? Like, stop this. This again? You're not doing enough Alexandria. I'm like, Windows 98. You just can't handle it. That's why, like, that system can't handle what your higher self wants you to have. you know, I don't like to even, like, go as far as to, like, get into gender conflict because Kait Tregenza: Yeah. Yeah. You Alexandria: I'm not here to tell somebody what to do with their body. If there's anything about me, I believe in sovereignty for every human being possible. At the fundamental, I don't care if we have different beliefs. You are a person and you are entitled to create how you wanna create, period. I don't care, do it, whatever. Now, my work is centered around the female body because so many female bodies are operating on Kait Tregenza: Is it distraction for you? Yeah. Alexandria: male Windows 98. And they're like, I have an autoimmune disorder. And I'm like, you're operating on Windows 98, babe. And it's a shame based system. And it's passed down through our mothers and our mothers. And it's encoded in all this nervous system safety. It's insane. And we all incarnated to deprogram that together. We're like, I want to be a millennial. They're going to be doing deprogramming of the female body. And I have all these female past lives where I've been burned at the stake. I'd like to go do that during that time. I am like the kinkiest spirit. like, I would love to do the deprogram of the female body. ⁓ I want to be in the body doing it. I'm like, girl, are you sure? ⁓ Kait Tregenza: Yes! Yeah. Yeah. Anyone who says, I don't want to be here. It's like, trust me, the steps that you have taken to be here at this time, you so desperately want to be here. Don't get me wrong. It sucks. It's the worst time ever, but you want to be here for it. You are getting off on this. Find the turn on into that. Alexandria: Yeah, it's easy to get caught up into the collective what we call apocalypse. That's not true. Maybe in some reality and timeline, the apocalypse. But notice how all media wants you to believe there's an apocalypse all the time to keep you in the death, to keep you in the death. No one wants you to be alive. Aliveness is a threat to systems of oppression. So I'm like, Kait Tregenza: Cause it is. Alexandria: Be more alive, be more annoying. I hope you're all yapping on the internet like me talking shit. I want everyone to just feel that aliveness for one second and it's literally the antidote to everything. I look at my grandparents' generation and even my parents and I'm like, why are you all trying to get away from aliveness? Aliveness isn't feeling the sensations. Kait Tregenza: Mm. Alexandria: It's in experiences and it's in relationship. It's in rupture, like aliveness, like touching things like what? We can touch it. OK, anyway, that's my side. Kait Tregenza: Just like thinking about like every single aspect of the silent generation, the boomer generation, what were we taught by them? Speak when you're spoken to, don't touch when you go into stall, know, diminish and dim and numb and never feel and never express and never use your voice. I mean, like you, I was told that you have two ears and one mouth and use them in proportion. You know, it's like, actually, I don't have anything, any interest in what you're talking about. In fact, I'm going to, I'm going to use them in the inverse. I'm going to talk all day and listen to nothing that you say. But I think what's so fascinating is about how my work shifted into eros, into life force, into vitality. It's got nothing to do with sex and that stuff. Like the hijacking of Eros and the hijacking of sexuality, sensuality, pleasure, all of these kinds of things into something, shameful, dirty, unaccept, know, inaccessible, these kinds of things that are not for, you know, not for good girls. Well, first of all, what is the purpose of a good girl to be compliant, to, to do what she's told to not rock the boat, to not change the system, to listen and to not speak. And so if you are identifying with your good girl and not with your erotic life force, alive self, you are going to be a very valuable asset, but you didn't come here to be an asset. You came here to destroy what isn't true and just replace it with you. So like what I'm hearing from you as well, it's like, you don't need to take down meta. You need to reframe it where you can actually use that system. for your aliveness to be broadcast and for that signal, that frequency to be felt heard and known by those who are supposed to feel that and to be activated by that. And so you can really use the infrastructure. It's not about going and building another social media. It's about realizing that you are so much more powerful than their agenda. Alexandria: We're so sorry. 110%. You couldn't have said it better. Do not waste your energy being distracted, trying to take something down, infiltrate it, and shift the energy. Know your power. So when it comes to Facebook, I'm like, I just, don't care. Like, oh, this is interesting. When it comes to even the concept of patriarchy, I'm like, huh. You know. Part of the rules of society, the game society plays, still is influenced by these old, patriarchal Windows 98. I don't even like to call it the patriarchy, because I don't think that that's appropriate to blame it all on men. Because I actually think that women enforce these Windows 98. a lot harder than male bodies. Kait Tregenza: Yeah, I think patriarchy is a system, not a collection of men. Alexandria: So like assigning anything to a particular, like it's just, it's so messy. The ultimate, in my opinion, use of energy is building relationships, being people. So I don't need to go and like, unless you're like the next generation spiritual Mark Zuckerberg, maybe that is your sole purpose. I don't have time to build a whole new system. Kait Tregenza: Okay. Alexandria: on a place where my people aren't even plugging into it. I can be neutral to the matrix. I can be unsubscribed from the agreements to the matrix and still have a foot in the matrix. And I think that's where a lot of people go wrong is like your clients are in the matrix, obviously. So why are you trying to like you can take your friends and you can download signal and you can go do the thing like that's totally fine. But like Kait Tregenza: Yeah, yeah, Kuh-huh. Alexandria: If you're not being visible, it's likely because you're afraid of the matrix. You're afraid of some of the things that patriarchy enforces, right? Like the witch wound, or you're afraid of, you know, being hurt or dragged or whatever it is. Everyone has their own unique flavor of fear. That's what the patriarchy wants to believe. Around that, if we go around that, it's all a mess. There's no control in it. And you can create your own sanctuary within that so your people can find you. And that's it. Like, that's it. Like, it's not more serious than that. And it wants you to believe it's serious. It's so serious. Windows 98 is so serious, y'all. It's gray. It's like, ⁓ my god. You know, what did they, if you've ever been on Windows 98, there was like the paperclip little motion on that. It's like, do you need my help? Kait Tregenza: I love that refrain. Mm-hmm. And he used to tell you how to get help. Alexandria: Do you need my help? This is really serious. Are you taking this seriously? Spell check, spell check. And it's like. I'm on earth in a human body with the highest level of intelligence I've ever been able to have, with access to my psychic abilities. Kait Tregenza: So no paperclip, I don't need your motherfucking help. Alexandria: ⁓ It's like thank you paperclip for your suggestion that I ⁓ lose 10 pounds and dye my hair blonde and like you know brush my hair in the morning before I post my reel. That's an interesting suggestion. ⁓ What if I didn't? Kait Tregenza: I'm so curious, like how did you become this person? it, were you always this ⁓ defiant? Were you always this free? Alexandria: Literally self-defiant. Yes. I would say like from being a kid, I had such a high level of authority and intelligence in myself. I think that's a lot of what I'm kind of working out in this lifetime is like power and authority and like, so I yeah, like I think I was like my mother's mother as a kid, like I was just always, that's wrong, the justice police as a kid. I was like, that's wrong, Lori, my mom. Kait Tregenza: Yeah. Yeah. Yes, so many of us, right? Totally, totally connects with you on that. Alexandria: I'm like, probably don't do that. You know, I'm like, I think I'm an old soul. like coming into the world, I was like, wow, that's going to end poorly. You know, so I think I've always been this way, but having a mom who, you know, single mom, you know, really like poverty level, like upbringing, but living in this contrast of living in one of the most expensive cities in the entire world. And like, I just, I have always known how to work a system. So I've been through like, you know, in America, like our food camp system, I've been the welfare, I've been through the hospital systems, I've been, I've been through all these systems. I'm like always just like moving around them. I'm like, Oh, wow, interesting. Um, so I think I've always been that way. I I started my first business at 22. I was like, let's go. I was like, I And it was because I was being defiant. I left a job and someone called my boss called me a little bitch or something. And I was like, uh, I'm not. think at the time I was making like $10 an hour selling jewelry and I was like, Oh hell no. And then, you know, created this photography business. And, and so, um, yeah, I don't have, I have an insane level of patience. Kait Tregenza: Bye. Alexandria: for people to grow and learn, but I also equally have no tolerance. It's a fun type. I'm like, you know. Kait Tregenza: Oh my God, trying to explain that is so hard, right? I feel like everyone listening to this podcast right now is like, me too. Like I will push me so far, like beyond what normal people will be pushed, but equally I have zero tolerance for idiocy, for stupidity, for like, it's like once I break, you're dead to me. I gave you more chances than you ever deserved and we're done now. Alexandria: That, It's the threshold, but yeah, I am an incredibly, I think that's just the psychic teacher in me and watching people grow and being like, oh, that's not even my growth period, like that's you. So I'm incredibly patient, sometimes maybe even to a fault, like where I'm like, oh, you're a human in a body, enjoy your experience. But yeah, sometimes I do experience all the things that earth has to offer disrespect, like, you know, all the things I'm like, like, what even is that energy? Then I'm like, what's that energy? So curious. And yeah, I think it took me a long time to get here to where I'm confident in myself. I'll chalk that up to a few things. Number one, your thirties are fucking amazing. Anyone who's in their twenties, love ya. When you get here, you're going to be like, ⁓ shit. And I know everyone in their 40s is like, just wait. Like, where is this level of like, should I care about this anymore? Like I was talking to someone the other day and I was like, do you know how many years of my life I focused my energy on my stomach? I just made it real about this. Focus my life force, creative energy to try to lose 10 pounds in my stomach. Can you imagine my higher self? Kait Tregenza: I know, right? Alexandria: Alexandria, that is a lot of energy to be focused on a stomach. What an interesting choice of an incarnation. I know I'm going to maybe regret that one when I'm out of body. Like, wow, I spent a lot of time focusing on having a flat stomach. Like, like, truly no one cares. Not any lover I have ever been with. They're like, oh, my God. I'm like, what? I'm like confused. I'm like the patriarchy. Windows 98 has infiltrated me and told me I need to be very thin. I'm confused. And they're like, no, we love it. I'm like, you're not even against me. They're like, no, I'm like, shit. No, it's me. ⁓ it's so good. So I'm constantly being shown these ways in which I'm just. Kait Tregenza: Up for a rewrite, up for a reprogram there. Alexandria: using my energy and effectively. I'm like, what a fun, anyway, I love my 30s. great. ⁓ Have I always been psychic? No, not really. I mean, I think I've always been, I think we're all psychic naturally. I think it sort of shifts as we enter society in a way that it's like, if you don't exercise, you don't gain muscle. So if you don't. Kait Tregenza: Yeah. Alexandria: if you're not validated in seeing energy and you're almost invalidated, well you are in our world, then of course you're gonna atrophy it, you're not gonna develop it. So what I teach is like, how do you un-atrophy the third eye and start to validate yourself because when you're vibrating in self-validation, people are magnetizing to you because you're like, ⁓ I accept myself, I love myself, I choose myself. And that's more than just a mantra, like that's quite literally. having your energy in your body. Kait Tregenza: I've always been psychic. I've never not known. I've never not known all the things in the room. So for me, I didn't grow up thinking, first of all, I didn't know that everybody didn't know what I knew. So that was like, I had to discover that. And then there was an active period of my life where I was like, this is not serving me. Alexandria: ⁓ cool. Tell me more about that. Kait Tregenza: Because of course, if nobody knows why you are what you are and why you know what you know, you get really, really punished for being a snitch, for saying the thing that everybody's tiptoeing around, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. Alexandria: Mm. Kait Tregenza: Yeah, it's also ⁓ when you don't know how to hold that much energy into your body ⁓ and nobody's like supporting you in that and helping you to hold that, that's why so many psychic children or like these crystal kind of indigo children, ⁓ they frazzle, they get, whether it's drug addictions or whatever, whatever, right? That's why so many of us grow up and having like seeking out ways to numb. I'm really lucky that I didn't have addiction because I was strong enough to shut my gifts down as opposed to need to numb them. But that can only work for like, can only like dam a flowing river for so long until it bursts. And then it's just like, it has to come out, right? So for me now, it's just, it's, goes into everything that I do. And it's just, it's, I can actively not see people's energy, like, because I think that that's too much. Like you can't like just live in the world, like knowing everybody's stuff. But like, for example, I was talking to a guy yesterday or a couple of days ago, and he was really, really eager. Like he was in his. ⁓ I would say maybe sixties, like, like approaching seventies. And he was becoming really fascinated with astral travel. And I was like, why? Cause from my perspective, it's like, the work is staying in the body. ⁓ Like I've lived my entire childhood outside of my body. And guess what? Nothing changes. You've got to come in the body. You've got to like, you've got to be here. You've got to be grounded. And for me. Alexandria: Yeah. in the hospital. Kait Tregenza: Astral, like if somebody's saying like, I'm an astral traveler, it's like, I also know what trauma is, but let's deal with it enough to come back inside the body. And so when somebody's saying like, want to leave my body, it's like, you will, it's called death. We call it death collectively. That's what we know it as. And you have your time, but for now this is where you are. And it was this really interesting reframe for me of understanding. And again, he was in a male biology and I've only ever met men who are like desperate to do astral travel or like, ⁓ you know, ⁓ distant viewing or any of those kinds of things. And I'm like, this Alexandria: the time. Kait Tregenza: is our innate technology as women, but only from the body, only from when it's grounded in the body in safety. You cannot be safe outside of the body, like truly safe. Alexandria: Correct. Kait Tregenza: And so like, yes, use your, use your remote viewing or your, or your knowing, or your seeing or whatever to like, instead of bringing seven different restaurants, ring the one, you know, has availability for that night and make a table booking. Or be like, we don't even need to make a booking. Let's just go there. They'll have something opening at seven 30 or whatever it may be. That's useful, but shattering yourself and disembodying yourself and fracturing yourself into. I don't want to be here. I don't feel safe here. It's like, if you continue to spend time outside of the body, outside of your pleasure, outside of your joy, you actually won't have any power. You won't have any capacity, you know? And I think that's, even, even though my gifts have been open since I'm a child, you still have the same journey of understanding that they're gifts as somebody who comes online in a later point in time. Alexandria: There was so much you said there. I'm like so excited to just like get into something you said too that I really find resonant is like. Kait Tregenza: Go for it. Alexandria: I didn't know that I had psychic abilities because they were so normal to me until I was around other psychics. And I said, ⁓ that's what that means. Because I was always receiving information. And really that's what it means to have abilities is to receive information that is not physical. So to answer that, yes, I've been psychic since I was a kid, but not in the way that like... Kait Tregenza: Yeah. Alexandria: people would believe me to be like seeing spirits. ⁓ hell no. I was like experiencing way too much trauma and being out of body. And for me, I don't think I really came into my body until I was late twenties. I like touched my toe during clairvoyant training because my training is all about seeing energy, but from inside of your body. A lot of programs will teach you, come out here and see and jump into people's energy fields. And that's why there's so much like, Kait Tregenza: It has to be. It's an XY system. It's an XY system because XX systems need the feminine ⁓ grounding to not only be sustainable in that, but to understand what you're seeing. Alexandria: I'm sorry. 100%. It's very much like what you spoke to about male bodies is there is this programming around actualization from the lower chakras rising up and out of the body. Women are down. And I think about this often, I speak to this a lot. I'm like, men don't bleed. They don't know death. They don't understand death. That's why they're obsessed with war. Kait Tregenza: and women are going down. Alexandria: They just like, they can't understand what it's like to lose. Like they just, they're trying so hard. It's fine. ⁓ some do not saying all, but, yeah, I have had a lot of experiences with men who are so obsessed and even my teachers around getting out and exploring the cosmos. I'm like, I'm here to touch my root chakra. Like I want to be here feeling, experiencing, connecting. You know, women are cyclical. We are really more attuned to those cycles of nature. Not to say male bodies aren't, but we we can source our power from that. ⁓ I was taught by male teachers, so I think when I started my psychic school, I was like, how do I adapt this? Not to be a hater, but kind of am. How do I adapt this? Thank God for my teachers. I have so much respect for them now that I'm a teacher because I'm like. ⁓ my God, I was being such a brat to you, like as a student, like, ⁓ and they're like neutral and awesome. So now I like have my students and I'm like. Kait Tregenza: There's always something that you can take from anyone, like the neutrality, the zen, all of that. But you had to be a brat because you're like, nothing you're saying makes sense. Alexandria: Yeah. No good. Yeah, like I had to like quite literally recreate the language to be for the female body. And that's what I had to study for so long. That's why I studied female somatics. I'm like, OK, I got this. I sat in the training for a year or two, like honestly, three years. I took the female training. None of it's like I'm like, how do we adapt this? And my business partner and I, we've been working on it for a year. We have to adapt this to be. for the female body because you cannot learn psychic tools without that level of somatic embodiment, without that level of experiencing. And so we've really developed this amazing like curriculum and we're like, whoa, this is so different and new. But yeah, I respect my male teachers. I'm super grateful. At the entry point where I entered clairvoyant training, I was running so much male energy that I was the perfect match. I was like, yeah, let me get taught by men so I can clear all my energy. And I did. And I was like, so grateful for that experience. If you want to do shadow work, go to Clearpoint Training. That's the program. You're going to look at yourself over and over again. But it's not the kind of shadow work that... ⁓ is, well, I guess it could be, but part of, think, where shadow work is weird now is that it's really started to become this competition with how deep and dark can go? As if we have to prove that we aren't already living the shadowed experience. We don't need to prove we can get there. Kait Tregenza: Yeah. Alexandria: more like Kait Tregenza: That's why I think my shadowing work now is like, where are my abundant gifts of meanness that I can bring out into, like, where am I suppressing my power? Because I've misunderstood power because of these Windows 98 systems. Alexandria: This is great. It's a great, I'm just like seeing the picture of me like getting onto AOL as a kid and like, like this, that's like a reflection of our parents generation. Like that's the operating system. Some of that generation has, everyone gets to choose their operating system. That's called free will. Y'all. Kait Tregenza: Waiting for Yeah. Such a good takeaway. Yeah. You don't know what free will is. It's like your operating system that you're living your life on. Which one are you choosing? Alexandria: Yeah, you get to always update, amend, make a choice. If there's something in your life you don't like, the first step is always owning it. I think that people don't understand that. They wanna make it everyone else's fault. And I did that for a long time. Like someone else is in my energy field. Now you gotta own it. You gotta be like, why is this here? Okay, that's the shadow work. And... ⁓ Kait Tregenza: That's the only definition of shadow work that you need is like any problem in your life is yours to fix as soon as you admit that it's your problem. Alexandria: And then guess what? If it becomes a problem, do you know what we can do? We can heal it because anything that's a problem, our female body is going to go, ha ha ha ha But we're also distracted healing other people that were like, we can't heal our own problems. And then everyone else, you know, we're inundated. um, yeah, I just, want women to know. You are allowed to change. That's quite literally your biological nature. You're shifting throughout your cycle. We are literally here because we decided the female body gives us the most permission to change. It does. That's why I chose the female body. I was like, I want to be able to move some energy. The female body gets us a period every month to cleanse. ⁓ my God. Thank God. It's like you need to rest and let go. mean, biologically we get to release monthly. It's amazing. ⁓ Kait Tregenza: It is not just that you get to release monthly. It's that your create your creation. Or again, like the organ, the portal to the creative infinity is cleaned out monthly. Alexandria: It's so great. Kait Tregenza: And I heard another creator talking about, and I actually have memories of this myself. That's part of my gift, right? Is that I have really accessible memories and they don't have to be necessarily from mine. People call this the Akashic Records. call it, doesn't matter. Like it doesn't matter the name. Like if you can access knowing wisdom, truth, and then you remember it as if it happened to you or you like see it as a movie playing out, then you know, like, there was a time. where women didn't bleed monthly. They bled on a multi-yearly cycle. And that was primarily because they didn't have the energetics on the planet to be able to hold that. ⁓ They had different nutrition. had all these different things. But most importantly, they didn't need upgrades in the way that we do now. And Alexandria: Bye. Kait Tregenza: That is something that's really important for you to understand if you're a menstruator and you're not doing anything about your menstruation. And by that, I mean you're taking pills to block it. You're even if you're not, you're just letting it happen. And it's not part of your ritualistic cleansing program. Knowing that your bleed is helping the hygienic cleansing of our biological technology system that is upgrading the planet is really important to know. It doesn't matter that centuries ago women bled less and it doesn't matter that in the future they might bleed less again. Because when we come into a different frequency, when this axis of the earth shifts from where we are now, into a new frequency and we all are tuned to that and we're in a different resonance. Yeah, we might not bleed as much and that's okay. It's not about whether it's healthy or not healthy. It's about what is the attunement to the creation that we need. And right now we need a lot of creation. Alexandria: Why block the organic flow? I mean, ultimately... When I think about something being a part of my body, like bleeding, I'm like, why would I block? Why would I change me? that doesn't seem appropriate. Like, I mean, like, why would I change something that has, like, changed me? That's kind of how the world puts a lot of pressure on female bodies. You change and adapt you to fit in here. And I think what we're being tasked with now is I'm not gonna change me. And by holding that, the world is forced to change. And that's the power. Kait Tregenza: And how does that come into your business then? Because you are so unapologetically about your own business. You love money. You, you love rest. You love relaxation. Like I think this is such a refreshing, this is like what we were supposed to have the whole conversation about, but like you're so interesting. get sidetracked. Alexandria: I love my- I'm like, I feel like we laid it out Windows 98 everyone's like ⁓ Okay, ⁓ I love money quite literally Kait Tregenza: Okay, so make it super crystal clear. Alexandria: I love money the same way love my period. Money is the force that drives my ability to create. It does. If I don't have money, I can't trade for my basic human needs and even my like pleasure human needs that I need in order to create. So I have a contract with money that says I need to receive it. Period. And we all have that from birth. You will receive Kait Tregenza: Mm-hmm. Alexandria: Money, period. Now, how much you receive, how you receive it, et cetera, et cetera, has a lot to do with your programming, you know, your family, yada yada, like that stuff that we can deprogram from the field, your past lives. Can you like what can you have? Right. We call this havingness. I have a podcast called High Havingness I might bring back out, but it's it's like how much havingness can you have to receive what's already yours? It's ironic because it's like, how much happiness do I have to receive me in my body? Money is just you anyway. How does this apply to my business? ⁓ Well, it started with being really rageful when I would have to work on my period. And it started with me realizing that I am if I'm forcing myself to do that. my relationships suffer and I'm very relationally focused including like anyone who works with me and for me. ⁓ I was just like, God, I'm just like, if I'm having to like create for anyone else during that time, it just, it's so counterproductive to me. So in our business, ⁓ I have a business partner now, thank God. And my other business I don't, but I take day one and day two off my period for the most part. Sometimes that shifts though. Like I give myself permission not to have like this structured framework, but for the most part, there will be at least 24 hours while I'm bleeding that I'm just with myself. And I'm so grateful for that privilege that I created for myself. Other than that, my business is completely cyclical. I don't think about money monthly anymore. Everyone is obsessed with a monthly structure of money. It's weird to me. Like 10K months. My business doesn't work like that. I'll make $12,000 in one week and then I'll make like 300 the next week. It doesn't work like that. So I think of it seasonally and there are some seasons and maybe people call this like quarters, right? Like sure, if you want to get into that. But like I think about it in the season, my spring season might have a little bit higher output because spring is spring, right? So for me, I already made my spring quota. so I could chill. But then, know, Windows 98 comes back in and Windows 98 is like, fucking multiply this. I'm like, Windows 98, you need to go down. So. I don't really like plug into the time grid the way that I think a lot of coaches do where they're like, let's make consistent 10K months. That has never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever aborted for me with my first business, multi six figure business. There would be every January the same recurring pattern. I'd make like $3,000. I'd crash out about it. I'd like, this year is going to suck. The next month I'd make 20. So it's like, starting to realize that like life is not about consistency and your business is never going to be consistent period. Like you're not, you're not. So stop this. And I think the reason we want consistent 10 K months is because our system is based on being billed monthly, right? Like our payments to things are monthly, which is so dumb to me. I'm going to be started. That is changing. And I'm starting to see that actually shift. ⁓ Kait Tregenza: because you're not. So like a question on that, like when you make a higher month, would you go and put X, like would you go and pay your electricity bill for the year and just like prepay that out? Just as a curiosity, when you said like my bills are paid monthly and that's so dumb, like would you then be like, okay, I made 20,000 this month, let's just put like 5K into electricity and now it's done. Alexandria: Please put everything into a high yield savings account. Yeah, like I have never like, and I preach this on the internet, like I do not live by a budget. I don't, I did it. It's dumb. I think there's a framework for things, but I know what my needs are and I'm aware of my bank account. know what's going in and out. That's where I like people like she like, no, no, no. You need to have your eyes on your money because there can be weird leaks. Kait Tregenza: Got it, got it. And then pay when you need to. Alexandria: But I don't have a budget. just have a do I actually need this right now or not. So everything will flow into like a high yield savings account and then I'll just. Kait Tregenza: Mm-hmm. Alexandria: resource it from there like a well. ⁓ I've always been naturally really good at putting the exact amount of money away that I need. I don't know. It's just an intuitive thing. don't need every time I hear the freaking Kait Tregenza: intuitively. Alexandria: Windows 98 come in and say, you should be allocating this much for this. And I'm like, I would rather throw up. Like I don't wanna hear you tell me what to do with the flow of this money. And the less grip I have on it, the more it comes, actually. Kait Tregenza: ⁓ So what is money? What is money in your in your vision? What do you see money as? Alexandria: a resource. like period. Like I don't think it needs to be bigger than that. It's just quite literally energy. Kait Tregenza: How is your period a resource to you? Alexandria: It's an invitation to feel. It's an invitation to come back into. our womb and be present with that and receive information and disconnect from distraction. My period blood is amazing. I mean, I could go into an hour of just being like, this is the coolest thing that's ever happened to me. Any level of pain. The takeaway I think from it is like, it is the deepest reflection of your month. You don't need anyone else to tell you how you're doing, because your parents gonna tell you this is where you're at. Kait Tregenza: highlight of it. What's the takeaway? Alexandria: So yeah, I mean, I love that. The biggest resource is like, hi, ⁓ your periods like this. OK, great. If the period in the nervous system are sisters and so with your period, if your period is off, there's likely a place where you've had some nervous system dysregulation. We all do ⁓ during the month. But if you have dysregulation during your period, it's actually going to wave through the whole month. So I think that. Kait Tregenza: Mm-hmm. Alexandria: It is a very clear indicator of like, if you want to have a little progress report of like. Here's how I'm loving myself. And it's humbling. Because some months my period is like, fuck you. Kait Tregenza: as in pain, in clotting, as in flow, all of those things. Alexandria: Yeah. And I think to even go deeper because I think a lot of women don't have the interceptive tools maybe that I have. Sometimes I'm working a big energy in a month. Like I'm working in ancestral pain where like women died and I'm having clots and I'm like, I love being clairvoyant because I'm like, ⁓ this isn't even about me. Like this is what's moving out. So ⁓ and just Kait Tregenza: Got it. To get a little bit personal, and maybe you don't have to answer this if it's too much, but how are you collecting your blood then that you can investigate it? Because I think that's another thing that maybe women could start thinking, is this the correct vessel for collection if I'm to start really working with my period? Alexandria: Woo. ⁓ my God, I'm obsessed with this question. Thank you for asking me. There's never a TMI about period. I will say that one time when I was first starting to talk about periods on the Internet, I posted a video of me putting my blood towards the earth. This was like years ago, twenty twenty one maybe. And I was like scared ⁓ and someone was like, that is a biohazard. Like everyone roasted the shit out of me online. I was like, I'll never come back to Instagram. Now I'm like, I'll put I have so many photos of period wall all over my face. Like it's fine. Anyway. So a couple things, if you're new to experiencing your period in a different way, you want a new operating system on your period. I will not use a tampon. I don't think that, no. They are so constrictive. Your muscles are tensing around them. You're creating so much pelvic floor tension. You cannot really center. It's like the most counter to everything. And once I stop. Yeah, it's. Kait Tregenza: Yeah. So for you, it's like, it's even beyond just like the toxics, like, you know, like it's just like your body can't flow. Alexandria: Your body is like, what the fuck are you obstructing me? Like again, it's that same energy signature. Now, if you have to go to a pool or something like maybe, but like I don't use tampons and I don't really have that much cramping because I don't use tampons. The reason that a lot of us are cramping is because your pelvic floor is trying to grip around a tampon and release at the same time. Makes no sense intuitively. Okay. Anyway, so I use period panties. I use thinks, I know they're controversial. They had some shit go down, it's fine. I like them. I don't wanna change. I've tried other brands and I don't love it and I like what works. what I would, okay great. ⁓ yeah, I've had Monty Body too but their sizing was weird for me. Kait Tregenza: That's what I use too, but I use Modibodi. I think that happened in the beginning and that they have more sizes in Australia, but I don't know how well they're doing in the States, but yeah, they have shifted the sizing. Alexandria: And they think. Okay, so ⁓ what I will do is I will take a mason jar and I will just run the period blood through the period panties into a mason jar and I will collect it. I'll dilute it a bit. If I'm gonna give it back to the earth, diluting it is great. If you're gonna give it to a plant, you wanna dilute it as well. So I tend to dilute it, but I'll look at my blood. I'm what's happening here? But I would say working with your period is... Kait Tregenza: diluted or you'll just ring it out. Alexandria: your period blood is, more of a feeling, you know? Like, so that's how I do it physically. I mean, there's stem cells in there, put it on your scars, I don't know. Do whatever you want with it. I'm sure you could Google all the fun ways to do it. But the first thing is to look at it, maybe for the first time in your life and not feel disgust. Kait Tregenza: Yeah, yeah. Yeah, cups are really good for that, right? You can actually see what it is as it comes out. It's just an inconvenient way to move throughout the day if you're not at home. Alexandria: I wonder if I used a cup? I'm not a- Kait Tregenza: Because I traveled a lot when I was using a cup and I remember being in this dirty kitchen in India with my cup and just being like, I'm just, I just know this is not what I'm doing today. And, ⁓ whereas the pants are so convenient, but again, you don't see exactly like the amount, the consistency, the color, the, the cloudy, all of that. Alexandria: I can't. Kait Tregenza: Like you have less visibility into it, but it's much more convenient in life. Alexandria: Yeah, and like, can like just kind of wipe the toilet paper and kind of notice if a clot or something like, know when a clot's coming, but I'm not really super focused on what's releasing and more about like the emotional feeling that I'm feeling like when it's happening. I think that's the information we're looking for. mean, Kait Tregenza: Got it. Do you have any rituals for that or do you just feel into it? Alexandria: why I was gonna say I have anti-ritual, because I'm not at all. I literally do so many rituals. But I think for me, what's coming up is like, when I first started this work, I worked with an embodiment teacher and she taught me how to orgasm and then she's like, okay, put the red sheets on your bed when you bleed and wear red and like, oh my God, I did the whole performative bullshit. And I'll tell you, here's what my ritual. I literally just. give myself like an hour to just be with my body. Like, I think we can over perform it and like me, my heating pad, some good crackers and like what the fuck's happening here? Like that's what I'm like, what's going on? ⁓ Maybe an Oracle card or two, but I just, I'm not anti ritual. I'm anti performative ritual. Cause I'm like tired. Kait Tregenza: Got it. Alexandria: I'm bleeding. I don't want to do anything else. I'm like, I'm like maybe a little tea. ⁓ I do have a period ritual. You all are going to think I'm wild. Kait Tregenza: You're like in conclusion to not having a ritual, I have a ritual. Alexandria: It's very simple. Whatever man I'm dating prepares me a steak. That's it. That's it. Kait Tregenza: funny. What if you're single? You don't need it. Alexandria: No, I do. like, I'm usually not without. I will make a steak for myself or I'll order a burger for sure. Yeah. But like, I'm always like the masculine's in my life. The masculine is always like, is it steak night? I'm like, I get a filet if you want to know. And I want it medium rare. If you're interested. Kait Tregenza: You just have to do it yourself. Okay, so I want to connect this back into your business and your money. you have, you you take your time off, you eat your steak, you look at your blood, you spend it out with your body. And then how does that translate into money for you? How does that translate into your business? Alexandria: You ⁓ I I received the most downloads I've ever received in my entire life. Bleeding. There's no obstruction between you and the divine. So like, I remember one bleed in the middle of winter, which is like double crone season. She was like, you're going to be learning to forgive men this year. I was like, what? Just the downloads I receive and then creating curriculum and content around that so that because we're creating our learning when you get a download, then it's like, OK. now all my clients are going to be vibrating in that energy because I'm learning that and then realizing all your readings. Then it's like creating content about relationships and relating the men and Windows 98, you know. So when I give myself that time not to respond, when I give myself that space, everything kind of reorganizes around me. People take more responsibility. And like I can intend to like get into like leadership Alexandria where I'm like, okay, well, I'll just I can do it faster. So maybe I'll do it when I give myself the space to not be available and not be capable people rise up in their own leadership. It's amazing. Including partners I've had. Like it's like I'm out. Figure it out. And it gives people like the freaking space to figure it out. And I love it. I'm like, yes, you got this. Kait Tregenza: Mm-hmm. So what about for women who are deeply feeling, deeply psychic, who have been working with their periods for years, but I call them the kinds of women who are like in too much water. Like they're so emotional, they're so psychic, they're so knowing it all. They have the water there. And by water, I mean like the flow, the movement, but they... couldn't ever rely on their businesses to reliably take care of them. Have you an answer for why some women who can take the time and do all the things that you're sort of talking about, but it's not translating into the money or the success? Cause I think this is very common. Alexandria: Yeah, yeah. I have the strongest intermasculine I've ever met. we have kind of demonized running masculine energy in our bodies, but really what we have been deprogramming is the false masculine or like Windows 98. But it's been coupled with the idea that we can never have male, like these attributes of male energy, which is like consistency showing up using our mental body. ⁓ The key to my entire life in my incarnation has been told to me. It's balance. And so for me, I didn't start making money until I started showing up consistently at the gym. It's a very interesting. Yes, it's a very interesting. I started to gain muscle. Kait Tregenza: Jim. Alexandria: and strength and a backbone. And so when I think about any entrepreneur who is in their feminine or has more of the water, we can just say like more of the water, I need you to meet your fire. And then we're gonna ground that with earth. So it's like, there needs to be elemental balance. For me, And I do want to start talking about more of this on Instagram because I think it looks really cool that I'm like have access to my feminine, but the backbone of it is my masculine. It's true. I mean, the backbone is my masculine showing up when I don't want to do shit. ⁓ And knowing where the line is, like if it's day one of my period, I can opt out. But like my feminine doesn't get to opt out all the time. I don't let. Kait Tregenza: Mm-hmm. Alexandria: children run my business. That's my inner children. You're like, maybe not, but like I find that if my inner teenager is present or my inner child or aspects of myself, like I'm just like, I have a really strong inner father and masculine energy. and it took a long time to, Kait Tregenza: Meaning. in general, that's a good idea, but what do you mean? Alexandria: deprogram my resistance to authority. Kait Tregenza: Got it in your own authority. Alexandria: in my own authority because authority had hurt me so much, especially male energy. Like I told you, my my period told me I was going to be healing male and lineage energy. I said, no. And then it was the best year of my life. Like I was like, ⁓ wow. OK. So when I did that over a year and deprogrammed male energy, yeah, my business really started to flourish because. You can't have you need both, you need flow and structure. It's a very interesting thing. The river needs the banks. And so for me, I can preach it all the time. I make money from bed, but would I make money from bed if I didn't have my systems? I wouldn't. And I did that for a long time. I said, ⁓ the divine's bringing it to me. I'm abundant. And then I was like, why isn't it working? It's like, cause you didn't spend the time to lay out the automation. Kait Tregenza: Yeah. Yeah. Alexandria: So really, think the key to business for female bodies and being able to take the breaks and do the things is having one core signature offer, automating the fuck out of it and talking about it. It's way more simple than I think we even allow it to be. And I think with women who are really, really brilliant and ⁓ multidimensional, you're getting so much information. It's really hard to be like, what is the thing? right? Because you're shifting so much. So for me and my mastermind, I mean, we're literally just distilling that and being like, what is the focus point and the through line for all of this? And then how do I create the automation so I can check out? Because like for me, I've been checked out for a couple of weeks. I've been doing personal shadow work and I'm moving and I can't show up to my business the way y'all don't see that. Because guess what? I posted Instagram every day. Y'all don't see there. Kait Tregenza: Those are pre-recorded and then you post them or you're showing up daily. Alexandria: Sometimes, sometimes they're prerecorded. I have a literal arsenal of just yap yaps. And I'll just post one, but like most of the time they go straight to Instagram, but there are times I'll batch them. But ⁓ again, things are seasonal. They're not monthly. I'm not like, I have this monthly metric. I'm holding myself to this standard. It's like we as women are or we need to be able to move with energy. And sometimes that energy kind of knocks us out for a second. So I need my business to be automated so that I don't need to be. Kait Tregenza: Always on. Alexandria: Because I can't, it's, it's, and this is what I mean by like the 80%, the 60 % is like, I'm not showing up in a business pantsuit every day to like sit and do my to-do list. I really, I don't even know. I just look at the energy and I'm like, this is what I need to do. This is what I'm resistant about. Name that. Do the thing I'm resistant to first. Move the energy. And then I take a step and it's all about. present time taking a step. My business is successful because it's just what needs to shift right now. That's it. And then take that step. So I don't know if I answered your question. Kait Tregenza: I think you did. think I maybe want to ground one more thing. When you were talking about your, you have a contract with money, like how much of what you just talked about is in this, maybe, maybe the first question is, because I think sometimes people have different definitions of contracts. What is your definition of a contract? Alexandria: Well, it's just it's an agreement. Kait Tregenza: Like, did you write it down? Do you just have this like etheric conversation? Like how did it happen for you? I don't know. Like there's so many people have different definitions and this is like the most common question that I get from people over the last decade. What is a contract? Alexandria: Ooh. That's interesting. A contract is simply two energies creating something together. It's just an agreement. It's a relational agreement. Kait Tregenza: What did you just see because something really shifted in my solar plexus, whatever you just did. Alexandria: I just looked at the energy of contracts. was like, ⁓ Kait Tregenza: Very funny, very interesting because, what I was seeing when you were looking at that was everyone has a contract. It's just, are aware of it and some, so it's like, if you're not creating consciously what this relationship, it's like, if you have a relationship with anyone and you haven't intentionally set out the style of relationship that you want with this person, that you don't have any boundaries, you don't have any. requirements. don't have any standards. You're to get a relationship that reflects that. Alexandria: 100%. Well, think anything and I don't want to get into the space of like everything is conscious because there are times I'm incredibly unconscious and I like it. ⁓ But yes, everything we're agreeing all of the time. so seeing energy is the process of being like, I got to unagree. And we're shifting that a lot. So if you were looking at your contract, like let's call an agreement because that's what I call it. Kait Tregenza: Yeah. Alexandria: If you're looking at your agreement with money, let's say there's one cord that comes into your aura and that is a line of energy coming between you and source through the vibration of abundance. And that energy comes into your body and your agreement of money is kind of in a certain tone in your aura. And that agreement of money maybe says, I'm not worthy. So anytime source is like, here's a million dollars, you're like, no, don't give it to me. And a lot of you are gonna be like, no, I desperate for it, right? Yeah, your energy, the energy of desperation is source telling you it's right there. And you're like, I can't touch it because that agreement and that contract, whether it's influenced by, like everything is influenced by something. If you're not owning your creation, If you're not owning, I created this agreement with money six past lifetimes ago. know, and it's not fair because a lot of us can't see our past lives. I can, but like sometimes I can't. Sometimes I have to have someone else see it for me. It's like, ⁓ okay, this is something I've created and it's not in present time. And I can't understand why the money can't come in. And then you blow that contract. You clear the charge on it. You clear the past lives. You integrate the karma. Money's like, here we go. Money is just flow. It's water. It can't get in if you have obstructions, and those obstructions tend to be our agreements with things like our family members. You know, I don't want to be richer than the richest man in my family. That was a fun one I played out for a while. I can't be single and have money. Another fun one I also played out. I'm sorry, I'm to my personal pictures. so I would say that an agreement is really, ⁓ in the tone we're speaking it to is, is something we set unconsciously. ⁓ it's a, it's a belief in a lot of ways that is happening between two energies. Kait Tregenza: Mm. What a strong note to end on. Alexandria, you are just so refreshing, so lovely to talk to you. Thank you for the work that you do, not only on Instagram, but for all of the work that you do in clearing these contracts. You're clearing everything at your individual level, at the collective level. You are upgrading Windows 98. I absolutely bow and honor to you. You are incredible. Help us to know how we can connect with you, how we can like enjoy your fun TikTok and Instagram videos and how we can find you and connect to you. Alexandria: I'm not on TikTok. I'm only on Instagram. My Instagram is alexandria.kenyon. You can take a look at my offerings at www.alexandriakenyon.com or if you're interested in developing your psychic abilities and really getting a framework for being psychic in a female body, you can go to www.psychic. I'm sorry, www.psychic-school.com. That's where my business partner and I have our psychic certification program. Kait Tregenza: I'm so I'm I'm taking so much away from this conversation. Principally it is you can set the tone for whatever space online, digital, physical that you show up into and that you are so much more powerful than any program running outside in artificial constructs because you are. Alexandria: Absolutely, Kait Tregenza: It has been a true joy. Thank you so much. Alexandria: Thank you for having me. I appreciate you.