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Off To The Races! (Farmer Wants A Wife S4 E3) · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: Almost famous to OG's and we're a little bit famous.
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  Speaker 2: As we recap another episode of Farmer Wants a Wife,
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  Speaker 2: I am your host, Bob Guiney, of course, joined by
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  Speaker 2: the beautiful and talented producer and star Heather Monday.
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  Speaker 3: Hi, Heather, Dad, the talent that I get to work with.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all really gass me up, make me out like I'm
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  Speaker 1: not just some random person here with a microphone that
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  Speaker 1: nobody asked for.
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  Speaker 3: But thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate being here. I really do. I'm definitely not
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  Speaker 1: even a little bit famous.
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  Speaker 2: Oh and I digret I think that that is completely untrue.
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  Speaker 2: Depends on which circles you're talking about, because in our
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  Speaker 2: circle you're very famous.
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  Speaker 3: Oh thank you, Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Bob. All right, So it's Farmer Wants a Wife, Episode three,
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  Speaker 2: and this is a pretty good one. I mean, this
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  Speaker 2: was there was some some moments in here we needed
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  Speaker 2: to see happen. I think, you know, some some interesting
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  Speaker 2: moments we got to see everybody sort of stirn it
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  Speaker 2: up a little bit with one another on the On
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  Speaker 2: the I guess they're not really technically hometown dates, but
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  Speaker 2: they are farm dates.
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  Speaker 4: They're at the farmer's farms.
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  Speaker 2: And they go on a horse race, which I thought
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  Speaker 2: was very timely.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we should talk about that because you're fresh back
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  Speaker 1: when we're recording this from the Kentucky Derby.
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  Speaker 4: I am, and I.
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  Speaker 1: Talked about this with Ashley on you know, a Headlines
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  Speaker 1: episode yesterday. But Ashley was also at the derby. But
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  Speaker 1: I heard you two did not crosspads.
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  Speaker 2: We did not cross paths, However, Ashley, I, I would
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  Speaker 2: have totally cross paths if I heard from you personally.
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  Speaker 4: However, I had a rando, a nice rando.
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  Speaker 2: This woman who I know I've taken a picture with
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  Speaker 2: her every year for the last five years of the derby.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know her personally. I don't know her name,
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  Speaker 2: but I know that we take this picture every year.
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  Speaker 2: And she brought her friends over and it was very
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  Speaker 2: very sweet and very nice that she remembers to do that.
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  Speaker 2: And she goes, I'm going to take a picture with
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  Speaker 2: you here. Let's just do a selfie. At first I
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  Speaker 2: took away with her and all her friends, but then
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  Speaker 2: we did a selfie. She goes, I'm going to see Ashley.
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  Speaker 2: I I said, oh, no way, where is she? And
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  Speaker 2: she goes, I think she's down to the paddock or
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  Speaker 2: I'm not sure, you know, but we're gonna go see her.
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  Speaker 2: You should come with us. I just want to say,
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  Speaker 2: for the record, when you're at the Kentucky Derby.
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  Speaker 4: Now I have tried.
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  Speaker 2: This is my twenty second Derby, by the way, twenty
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  Speaker 2: two years I have tried to go visit friends when
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  Speaker 2: they have arrived. And what I found is it's easier
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  Speaker 2: for me to have people come to me than for
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  Speaker 2: me to go from where I'm at to anywhere, because
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  Speaker 2: I have the most wonderful hookup ever through the Unbridled
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  Speaker 2: Eve Charity Gala, and I go in, I sing a
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  Speaker 2: couple of songs, I host a little bit here and there,
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  Speaker 2: and then they bring me in. They've done it for
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  Speaker 2: twenty two years. We raise a bunch of money for
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  Speaker 2: blessings in a backpack and a bunch of other charities,
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  Speaker 2: and then I get to sit essentially on Millionaire's Row
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  Speaker 2: fourth wor sky Terrace, right at the finish line, greatest
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  Speaker 2: seats ever. And it's like when I leave that area,
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  Speaker 2: I have to like have all these credentials to get into.
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  Speaker 4: Other areas, and so for me to make it back.
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  Speaker 2: Plus, I'm there with my wife, I'm there with some
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  Speaker 2: of my very best friends, and it's like, okay, I'm
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  Speaker 2: not I don't I don't know one hundred percent that
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  Speaker 2: this person knows where Ashley Ie is.
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  Speaker 4: I haven't heard from Ashley Ie.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm not really going to just take off on
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  Speaker 2: a walk about exactly twenty minutes before the Derby race
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  Speaker 2: with this person to maybe see Ashley eye. So I said,
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  Speaker 2: I'll tell you what tell Ashley? I said, Hi, take
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  Speaker 2: this picture of us, and if you run into her
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  Speaker 2: and tell her I said hi. And so apparently that
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  Speaker 2: got back to Ashley that the lady was like, would
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  Speaker 2: you like to go see ashleyye? And I said no,
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  Speaker 2: not even remotely true.
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  Speaker 4: I would never say that. I would have loved to
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  Speaker 4: have seen Ashley.
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  Speaker 1: I felt so honored over the weekend that I knew
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  Speaker 1: Bob was so busy at the Derby, and I'm blowing
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  Speaker 1: him up, being like, what time do you want to record?
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  Speaker 1: What time? What time? Thinking you know he'll get back
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  Speaker 1: to me, you know, when he's back home on Monday,
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  Speaker 1: and no, he sends me a beautiful picture of him
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  Speaker 1: and Canyon on the carpet.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Saturday ten thirty am my time.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I would woke it up. We had even left yet.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys look so good.
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  Speaker 2: Oh the Oaks I think, right? Was that from the Oaks?
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  Speaker 2: Which which carpet is that?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: That? Oh no, that's Derby Day.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys look amazing.
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  Speaker 1: And Kenyon's dress her fascinator. Hey maybe as somebody who's
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  Speaker 1: been to the Derby so many times, you know this.
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  Speaker 1: I was seeing a fascinator hat in conversation. But then
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  Speaker 1: I was like, am I just supposed to say fascinator?
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  Speaker 1: Because a fascinator is a hat.
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  Speaker 4: Saying hat hat, you're basically saying hat hat.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, fascinator is a style that'd be like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I got a great fedora hat.
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  Speaker 4: Exactly, a great cowboy hat hat.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, y.
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  Speaker 4: Fascinator it is. But yeah, thank you. That was.
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  Speaker 2: We had a wonderful time twenty second year in a row,
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  Speaker 2: same group of people every year that we go with.
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  Speaker 3: And how many mint juelips did you have?
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  Speaker 4: Zero?
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  Speaker 2: I don't drink mint julips. Oh my goodness, I did
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  Speaker 2: have a sip of one.
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  Speaker 4: I should not. I should not lie. I did have
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  Speaker 4: a sip of one.
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  Speaker 2: As I always do on Derby Day, but man, it
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  Speaker 2: was just not it was not vibing with me.
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  Speaker 4: So I was like, eh, I love the lilies.
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  Speaker 2: The lilies are the drinks on Oaks Day, which day
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  Speaker 2: is a Friday. It's it's vodka, some cranberry juice and
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  Speaker 2: a splash I believe of either soda, water or sprite
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  Speaker 2: or something, and it's it's in a pink glass and
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  Speaker 2: it's you know, it's it's in a it's just it's
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  Speaker 2: all for breast cancer awareness. So I believe they created
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  Speaker 2: the drink in like nineteen ninety or something, maybe maybe
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  Speaker 2: a little bit after that, and it's been the drink
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  Speaker 2: of the Oaks ever since. And it's I love that drink.
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  Speaker 2: It's a little sweet for me. It might be a
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  Speaker 2: little grenadine in there. I don't know, but it's pretty good.
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  Speaker 3: So it sounds like a very fun weekend.
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  Speaker 1: I was pleasantly surprised when I was watching Farmer Once
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  Speaker 1: a Wife that I was like horse races, Kentucky Derby,
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  Speaker 1: like it's all happening, a lot of scenery, very timely,
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  Speaker 1: and so I can't wait to talk and dive into
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  Speaker 1: this episode because some of the girlies showed up in fascinators,
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  Speaker 1: which I thought was really cute. I've been to horse races,
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  Speaker 1: just at Santa Anita.
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  Speaker 4: That's still a great place to see a race. I
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  Speaker 4: love Santa Anita too.
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  Speaker 1: I can't recall ever seeing a fascinator on like a
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  Speaker 1: Rando Tuesday or a Saturday or whenever I've been there before.
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  Speaker 1: Not a big horse race person, just because mostly that's
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  Speaker 1: not really near where I live, and also just not
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  Speaker 1: I'm really not good at like betting actually is like.
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  Speaker 3: Not something else.
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  Speaker 4: This past weekend I was not either.
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  Speaker 3: I don't find it fun and I don't win.
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  Speaker 1: But let's dive in to the episode, because we kick
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  Speaker 1: off basically exactly where we left off in the last episode,
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  Speaker 1: which is Farmer Braden pulling Lauren for a chat. So
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  Speaker 1: they had gotten a letter in the previous episode that
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  Speaker 1: they were to start eliminations. Both Farmer Brett and Farmer
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  Speaker 1: Sean told their women that they would not be making eliminations,
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  Speaker 1: and so it was kind of inevitable that when Brayden
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  Speaker 1: pulled Lauren for their second chat of the day that
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  Speaker 1: it was not going to go well for her, and
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  Speaker 1: so I think that we kind of saw this coming
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  Speaker 1: I can't remember though, of the time frame if she
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  Speaker 1: actually spent the night at the farm. She did, right,
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  Speaker 1: because she did have to spend the night, because then
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  Speaker 1: they did the corn shucking the next day.
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  Speaker 3: That wasn't the same day she arrived.
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  Speaker 4: I don't believe it was.
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  Speaker 2: I'm last maybe it was, I don't know, but yeah,
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  Speaker 2: this was I'm guessing she stayed the night and then
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  Speaker 2: the next night, unless wait, was this after This may
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  Speaker 2: have been after corn shucking, right, this could have been
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  Speaker 2: post cornshuck.
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  Speaker 1: But I think she stayed one night. It's like, basically,
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  Speaker 1: what I was getting at is that she did probably
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  Speaker 1: have time to unpack her bags for maybe one night,
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  Speaker 1: is what.
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  Speaker 3: I think was getting to.
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  Speaker 4: But I see.
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  Speaker 1: But anyways, she I mean, she didn't seem all that
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  Speaker 1: torn up about it when he gracefully had her exit.
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  Speaker 2: A couple of things she said in that and that thing,
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  Speaker 2: She's like, I'll be fine. I mean, she said, you know,
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  Speaker 2: she said a few things where it was like, you know, look, man,
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  Speaker 2: I get it right. It's like, if you're not feeling
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  Speaker 2: the greatest connection or whatever, you know, you're kind of like,
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  Speaker 2: trust me, bro, I don't need you're not because I know,
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  Speaker 2: I know, I've told you this a million times. I
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  Speaker 2: have a completely different take on all dating shows than
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  Speaker 2: somebody who's a former bachelor I would probably have. Like
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  Speaker 2: I knew, I knew it wasn't all about me, right
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  Speaker 2: in my mind, it was actually about women. And it
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  Speaker 2: was like almost like a social science experiment to watch
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  Speaker 2: how women would behave in the wild, you know, if
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  Speaker 2: they were basically pitted against another woman.
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  Speaker 4: Essentially, that's what it's really about.
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  Speaker 2: And so in my mind, you know, at least at
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  Speaker 2: this stage in the game, I think that's what it's about.
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  Speaker 2: And so she's sitting there and she realizes right away
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  Speaker 2: that she's going to be going home. I mean, the
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  Speaker 2: whole tone and everything was kind of like, how are you?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, are you you know? I notice that you
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  Speaker 2: know you're not really you know, uh.
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  Speaker 1: Well, they read the elimination cards out loud to their women,
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  Speaker 1: so they knew the women knew somebody was going home.
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  Speaker 4: Somebody was going home. Yeah, and so yeah, and she's
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  Speaker 4: like I'll be fine, thank you. But he was a gentleman.
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  Speaker 4: He cared, you know, he's he's I think the.
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  Speaker 2: Way he said it was really nice, like he was like, look,
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  Speaker 2: I I think you're an amazing woman. She goes, I am,
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  Speaker 2: I think you're going to find someone who's perfect for you.
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  Speaker 2: I will, and it's just not me, and so I.
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  Speaker 4: Think it's time that you should go. I'll be fine.
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  Speaker 3: It's like, okay, I think that.
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  Speaker 1: These guys and I'm sure you can attest I think
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  Speaker 1: you've said before, like the elimination part for the gentleman
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  Speaker 1: is a very difficult aspect to do, especially on camera.
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  Speaker 1: Nobody likes to break up with anybody, and nobody for
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  Speaker 1: sure wants to do it in front of millions of
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  Speaker 1: people that they know are going to see it and
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  Speaker 1: scrutinize it. So to me, this breakup felt the context
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  Speaker 1: of how he was saying things and the way he
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  Speaker 1: was going about it felt a little like someone had
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  Speaker 1: maybe helped coach him on some of the best things
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  Speaker 1: to say, because it felt very well rounded, a nice,
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  Speaker 1: well rounded exit. But anyways, the next day, we're still
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  Speaker 1: at farmer Braden's farm, and he starts by having the
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  Speaker 1: women clean.
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  Speaker 3: His tractor, uh, his rig, and.
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  Speaker 1: You know, he admits that he is feeling you know,
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  Speaker 1: in his interview he says he's really feeling it for
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  Speaker 1: Carson and he's like flirting with her and showing her
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  Speaker 1: how to powerwash. And this is when it all starts
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  Speaker 1: to come to the surface. The find out that the
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  Speaker 1: other women are saying that Carson is one way to
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  Speaker 1: Farmer Braiden to his face, but she's another way at
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  Speaker 1: the house when cameras are down and they go as
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  Speaker 1: hard to say that she has said not so flattering
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  Speaker 1: about Farmer Brayden and that they are questioning her motives
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  Speaker 1: and intentions for being there.
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  Speaker 2: And to be fair, it wasn't just one person, because
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  Speaker 2: actually a couple of people starts.
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  Speaker 1: With one and then by you know, the end of
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  Speaker 1: the episode, we are getting more than one of them
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  Speaker 1: even personally addressing it with him.
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  Speaker 2: Ye.
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  Speaker 1: My perspective as a dating show watcher is that the
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  Speaker 1: one who addresses the negativity in the house is never
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  Speaker 1: chosen by said bachelor or said lead.
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  Speaker 3: Now, every show there's a reason for that.
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  Speaker 1: Well, every show needs one of these people, and I
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  Speaker 1: think that producers helped to single said person out and
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  Speaker 1: give a little camera time. But yeah, the person usually
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  Speaker 1: that's involved in the drama is never chosen by the lead,
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  Speaker 1: unless you're Courtney Robertson. Literally a legendary one in a million,
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  Speaker 1: right there, folks, she if you've ever watched Courtney season
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  Speaker 1: of The Bachelor, please go back and watch Ben Flannagan. However,
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: you say next season, I have never ever forgotten Courtney
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  Speaker 1: Robertson and it has been years since that aired.
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  Speaker 4: Oh she was brilliant though, But I'll tell you the
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  Speaker 4: size behind why on. That's right.
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  Speaker 2: So you know from a producer perspective, I can tell
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  Speaker 2: you from the lead perspective. So when first of all,
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  Speaker 2: even when I was on trist this season, I remember
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  Speaker 2: a couple of the guys wanted to go talk to
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  Speaker 2: Trista about Russ who was I mean, this is back
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  Speaker 2: to season one of The Bachelorette, And I remember saying
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  Speaker 2: to them, I'm like, guys, don't do that, and they're like, well,
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  Speaker 2: they she needs to know that, you know, and you
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  Speaker 2: might recognize from my accent who that person may have been.
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  Speaker 2: And he's like she and nieds to know that. I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to go up there and talk to him. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, trust me, bro, this is not going
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  Speaker 2: to work out well for you. And here's why She's
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  Speaker 2: got her own relationship with these people.
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  Speaker 4: So at the end of the day. And I mean,
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  Speaker 4: this is.
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  Speaker 2: I was, this was a long time ago. I hadn't
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  Speaker 2: even watched The Bachelor previously. I didn't even know what
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  Speaker 2: the hell I was doing. But I did say, I
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  Speaker 2: just don't think that it will work out well because
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  Speaker 2: at the end of the day, she has her own
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  Speaker 2: relationship with each of us, and that's what you got
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  Speaker 2: to focus on, right, don't worry about that. It all
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  Speaker 2: come out in the wash. Now, I will tell you
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  Speaker 2: when you're on the opposite side. So when I was
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  Speaker 2: sitting in Trista's seat and now I have girls coming
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  Speaker 2: up to me talking to me about a different girl
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  Speaker 2: that I feel like I have a nice connection with,
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I had to like, you know, And
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  Speaker 2: again I'm sure producers were in my ear at the
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  Speaker 2: time too. Well is that accurate or are they just
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  Speaker 2: jealous of the connection you have with her?
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  Speaker 4: You know?
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  Speaker 2: And so it creates this feeling of uncertainty that now
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  Speaker 2: you're like everything that starts happening everywhere, you start questioning it, right,
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  Speaker 2: So like you get almost jaded in the process, not
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  Speaker 2: just with that one individual, but with the people that
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  Speaker 2: told you.
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  Speaker 4: So you're like, Okay, are they just feeling jealous.
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  Speaker 2: Because I'm feeling a connection with this girl and that
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  Speaker 2: girl isn't caring you know, or you know, and so
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  Speaker 2: it does it makes you question everything.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can imagine that that is difficult from a leed's.
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  Speaker 3: Perspective, and I can just walking this earth for.
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  Speaker 1: As many years as I have and knowing as many
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  Speaker 1: men as I've known, I can't imagine any man being
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  Speaker 1: interested in drama, like attracted to somebody tattling and being like,
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  Speaker 1: that's my girl, the one who tattled on that girl
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  Speaker 1: over there, Like, I just think that men don't like that,
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  Speaker 1: and I think that that.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sure some men do, but.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure that they love the idea of women fighting
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  Speaker 1: over them. I'm sure they love that, but I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if they necessarily are like that girl that tattled
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  Speaker 1: over there, that's my girl.
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  Speaker 3: Like I just I just don't think that any.
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  Speaker 2: Any woman that doesn't like other women, that's my No
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  Speaker 2: one says that, Yeah, yeah, no, I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Always very obvious when you watch seasons of The Bachelor
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  Speaker 1: back that the ones who are not in the drama.
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  Speaker 1: And again again, I guess like there's there's there's moments
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  Speaker 1: right because now I'm thinking to Grant season and Juliana
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  Speaker 1: getting involved in some of the drama later on, and
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  Speaker 1: then she ended up being the pick. I would just
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  Speaker 1: say there's always exceptions to the rule, but for the
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  Speaker 1: most part, the ones that get picked are the ones
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  Speaker 1: who make it to the end. They usually are trying
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  Speaker 1: to frame them as well for the audience as not
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  Speaker 1: like that. Let's say, so even say if they had
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  Speaker 1: a little bit of a tiff or something, you might
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  Speaker 1: not see it on the show because it goes against
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  Speaker 1: exactly because it goes against what they're trying to portray.
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  Speaker 1: But anyway, so that's where we get kind of the
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: first little inkling of things. And it's Britney who starts
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: to say this in interview, and then we quickly go
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: over to Farmer Seawan's farm and I just noted he
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: takes the women to shovel el paka poop.
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: Well, it's a labor in this episode.
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: It's a labor intensive episode.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: It should be called Farmer Wants a farm hand because
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know if he wants a wife.
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: I think he wants just somebody to help him with.
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: His Farmer wants free help.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: Farmer wants free labor.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: And if she's cute, even better, I think is really
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: what they're going for. Over on Brett's farm, he has
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: the women feeding cows, and Brett says in interview he's
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: stoic at first, but when you get to know him,
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: he opens up, which I laugh at when I was
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: writing this last night. But then we really do kind
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: of start to see the glimmers of personality coming out
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: later on in the episode, so he really is starting
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: to warm up now. I will say, we just had
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: her on the podcast last week with Ben and Ashley.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: If you haven't caught that episode of Heather Martin, definitely
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: go listen to it.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: I was a little concerned again watching this episode.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: I know, silent, silent again, no conversation with Heather Martin.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: No you think so, because listen there is a clip
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: on the Fox Reality instagram of her and Farmer Brett talking.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: I have no idea what episode this is from, if
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: it was cut, if it is from an upcoming episode,
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: but it is them discussing their faith and how important
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: that is to them. And it's like it's a full
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: clip of just Heather and Farmer Brett talking. Interesting, and
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: I was under the assumption it would be in this
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: episode that we saw tonight.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: So I'm sitting there waiting. I'm waiting. I'm waiting.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: We get to the end the horse races and I'm like,
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: that conversation still hasn't happened, So where are we? And
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like I didn't even see her
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: in this episode.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: I saw one brief climpse of her. What I was
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: looking for her this time, and I was like, oh,
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: there she is. Okay, she's still alive, you know, yeah.
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really I don't know, you say, bearing the lead.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: I think it's a not so great sign because I
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: feel like at this point now in episode three, they're
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: really feeding us who the.
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: Front runners are.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: And I don't think we're going to have like this
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: dark horse come in in the end. I think that
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: like we're already starting to get really invested, right And
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: for farm Threat, I'm feelings it's Quinn and it's I
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: think he really liked this new girl. Well, so let's
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: get into it. They go to.
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: The the twist.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: Yes, well, the farmers tell the women they're all going
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: to go travel to go to a horse race.
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: Now.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: Once they get there, host Kimberly says that she's invited
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: all of the farmers and the remaining women to the race,
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: but what they don't know is she's also invited three
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: new women to crash their party. And the guys are
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: all kind of chit chatting with each other, telling each
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: other what's been like on their individual farms since they
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: last saw each other, and Sean he's opening up that
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: he's the only one who's kissed anybody.
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: Uh, which is so funny.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: And they talk about, you know that after this race date,
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: they are going to have to make a big decision
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: again as to who is going to get their next
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: solo date. So they're all kind of thinking about that.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: The women are chatting, you know, on their own and
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: again they're talking about Carson and you know, we haven't
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: told you know, Farmer Branden yet about this.
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: Then we get this funny moment from me.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: See, I don't know if you caught this, And she's
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: from Farmer Shawn's group, and she says she needs a
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: lot of attention, she's co dependent, needs a lot of validation,
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: and admits she's been in toxic relationships.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: Anyone who is talking like that has had a lot
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: of therapy already and has been basically told you got
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: to work.
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: On these things.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: Bob. You think so she's like twenty one, you think she's.
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: Had a lot of bonkers.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: I guarantee she's been in like ten horrible relationships already,
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: and she's like went to somebody and was like, I
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: need help.
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: They're like your toxic.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: We see her majorly crash out in this episode. Poor
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: thing goes from like zero to one hundred, and it's
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: like it's it's it's hard to watch because I'm like,
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: she's so cute and she's just I could never be
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: in these situations, right because I would be way too
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: in my head. I am not a competitive person. And
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: the idea of like competing for a man's attention in
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: the real world in like a enclosed situation like this
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: with cameras rolling actually sounds like my worst nightmare.
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: Like, yeah, I could see it being really hard for
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: a lot of people.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: I would mean, they really be thinking about this guy's
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: gonna send me home. I am gonna cry. What if
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: I'm sent home first? What if this girl you know
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: tells this guy to send me home. It's just like
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: it would be awful. Now, I would say if I
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: were to be in a situation like this, I would
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: never be in the drama, and I would never be.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: The source of drama. That's not right, that's not how
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: her style, not how I roll.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: But I would be probably the one making weird faces
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: in the corner, like they've cut to you.
• 22:27
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, reacting to everything.
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. I would be the weird reactor.
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: But this is when we get that plot twist, and
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: Kimberly reveals that she's asked the farmer's family and friends
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: to choose one more woman for each of them to meet.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: Which I gotta be honest, I was kind of shocked
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: when Kimberly says this in front of all the women,
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: that this is someone that their friends and family have chosen.
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: So it makes you wonder, like because they don't really
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: explain it, it makes you wonder as they're walking out.
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: Like where do they choose her?
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: You know, I from the pool of remaining women is
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: obviously where they chose her from. But then I'm thinking like,
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: could this be an ex girlfriend? Could this be someone
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: that mom was in love with and he broke up
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: with and she's bringing her back.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: That would have been an exceptional twist, which you just suggested.
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: I think that's actually amazing.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: I'm going to call a flag on the play and
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: I'm going to say the family friend is stuff mentioned
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: is total BS. Yeah, and these were women that were
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: chosen by the network and the casting department because I'm sorry,
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: that is who gets final say on all of this.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: It doesn't doesn't matter what Grandma says, right right, it
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: doesn't get the final say.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: So I think that that's all BS.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: And I think that what they usually do in these
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: situations is you you pick your your contenders who you want,
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: and then as producers, you you decide who's strong enough
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: to be a late comer in this group, who could
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: really own it and walk into the room. Because what
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: you saw from these three women, nobody's shy. These girls
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: went in they knew. And that's the same strategy that
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: you go with on Love Island when you're picking bombshells.
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: It's you have to pick people that.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Are not I mean, nobody's shy on Love Island, but
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: like you have to pick those ones that can really
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: stand on their own.
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: And have a shrinking violet coming in late. You've got
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: to have someone coming in like absolutely not.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: And you know, I think the one that was really
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: there to play ball was Rihanna, who was there for
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: farmer Sean.
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: That girl came in.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: That girl was holding his hand on her thigh. She
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: was dead locked eye contact like she was in it
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: to win it. Yeah, and then we have farmer Brett
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: get Sophia and farmer Branden get Skyler Skyler, and they
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: have to decide by tonight if they are going to
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: invite these women back to the farm.
• 25:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: I think it's so interesting when they come out, too,
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: because I'm like watching them come out, and I'm like
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: watching the girl's reactions, and literally at first, I was
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: kind of like, Okay, this is going to be interesting.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: I'll be interested to see how the how the guys react,
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: because I would think the pressure in that situation will
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: be I can't act like I'm super into this chick
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: in front of all these other.
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: Ladies because they will be pissed.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: Right, So you almost have to be welcoming because this
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: could be someone that you might like, but not too welcoming, Right,
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: You've almost got to have this like happy medium where
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: you're like, why, what.
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: Pleasure to meet you too? Yeah? Whatever.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: But I felt like some of the guys were like Hey, Rihanna,
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: you know or whatever.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: Sean was not being a good poker. Pace that guy.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: That guy, Sean, You're adorable. He can flip on a
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: dime this way.
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah he does in this episode, like.
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: He sure does.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: But going back, because he has such a strong connection
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: with Olivia, who I think you and I both really
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: like your little fit and look at this horse race
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: was absolutely adorable. She had on the fascinator with a
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: matching dress with a matching lipstick. I was like, Olivia,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: your adorabs horrible. She looked great. So each one of
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: the guys then gets, you know, someone on one time
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: with these new women and farmer Branden and Skuyler talk
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: and she tells him she's a flower farmer and she
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: brought him.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: Tulip bud bulbs, tulip bulbs bulbs.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: And you know, he's his favorite thing is you know,
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: do you want to move to the farm because I
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: can't move like he's everybody everybody that And he's like, yeah,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: I can grow flower hours anywhere, which I thought was
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: sweet because.
• 27:02
  Speaker 4: It's the truth.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: So she was cute, and then Brett and Sophia. Sophia
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: says she's had a lot of dating experience, but nothing
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: is work. She feels like she was called to be
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: here in this experience and that she's been single for
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: two years. And this is like when I'm saying, in
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: this episode, I'm starting to see Farmer Brett open up
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: and like have a bit of a personality because the
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: guy has been real flat and I feel like that
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: guy's probably been called stoic to his face his entire life.
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: But we're starting to see him smile more later in.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: This episode, which I really enjoyed. And then Farmer Sean, uh,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: you know, is really like, you know, when he meets Rihanna,
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: he is like, you know, like.
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: He's set in his ways, right.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: He thinks like, I'm not really going to pay much
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: attention to this girl. And she says, you know, she's
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: looking for her life partner. She wants to be a mother,
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: she wants to be a wife. I mean, just it's
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: crazy to me and a surgeon, she's about to go
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: into medical school, but it's crazy to me to sit down,
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: shake hands and say I'm ready to be a wife,
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: I'm ready to be a mother.
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: Did it? Like? It just it all?
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: Who says, but she knows I only have this amount
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: of time before. You know, if I don't I don't
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: lay it out there, this guy is not going to
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: bring me back to the farm.
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: So it's just so funny.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: It's like they have to just go into turbo mode
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: about like dating.
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: It's like your elevator pitch.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: It's crazy though, because even in speed dating, you wouldn't
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: be like, I'm ready to be a wife. I'm ready
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: to be what's your social Security number? Like credit score?
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: Like it's basically on that level. And then we see
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: all the guys kind of chatting with some of their
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: women that are already there, and that's when Breden and
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Brittany go for a chat and she's telling him, you know,
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: she feels a strong connection for him, and he reassures her,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: you know that he's happy that she's in the process.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: And then he says, like the most produced thing ever?
• 29:28
  Speaker 4: What else could you want to talk about? Like is
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: there anything to watch out for?
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: He literally goes, what else do you want to talk about?
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Do you have any concerns?
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: Anything going on in the house?
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: I should know about, like any like so unnatural?
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: Like yeah, it no, I would say that so produced.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they need to get better at getting these guys
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: to like, you know, it's sort of like for the
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: twenty five years in a row that everyone would say
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: amazing for ten million things on the Bachelor. We got
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: to come up with some new ways to talk these
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: guys into sand what we wanted to say, right, so
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: they should be like and then maybe why don't you
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: open it up and say, well, you know, I mean
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: you hear all about me all the time, let me
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: hear about you, like, you know, are you having fun?
• 30:07
  Speaker 4: Is this a fun process for you?
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: Or who's the messiest in the house? What's going on?
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: What goes on in the house by the way, when I'm.
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: Not there, what's it like in that bathroom? I mean,
• 30:14
  Speaker 4: there's only one bathroom for five girls. That's going to
• 30:16
  Speaker 4: be crazy.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: But you know why, this conversation that you and I
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: are having, uh would have been better if he'd had
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: it with more than one girl, and maybe not a.
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: Girl that's super shy.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: That's the other thing that feels so forced because it's
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: with a girl that we've not seen him talk to.
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but first I did like that he was saying
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: you're safe though, like, you know, hey, you're good, you
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: have nothing to worry about.
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: You know, I think that gave her.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: The confidence to probably say what she said about Carson.
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: But I think I don't know that she's safe.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: I think that after saying something like that, you know, yeah,
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: clearly I'm excited to talk about the rebuttal to this.
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: So so let's let's oh.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah. So then Sewn and me see chat.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: She's already starting to lose it until he tells her
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to be bringing home Rihanna. That's just
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: not happening. Yeah, and then she almost looks like so comforted.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: Literally like oh great, great, it's like one girl not
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: coming back is really like, that's all the validation you needed. Was.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: By the way, we didn't say anybody's getting eliminated, so
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: what if one other girl comes back to the farm?
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: Who cares?
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: We didn't say anybody's going home. But this goes back
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: to what I said before. When they don't send somebody home,
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: it's because eventually in a later episode, they're going to
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: do a double elimination.
• 31:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and.
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: That's that's coming.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: But then we go to the square dance after party
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: after the race, and this is where I loved it.
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: Farmer Brett is twirling around that tearing up.
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: He's tearing it up.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: I was shocked stoic guy. And then he's spinning and
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: he's doing all sorts of things, and I'm like, oh.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: Okay, that's where guys like that come out of the
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: shell though, right, Like, that's where he's probably spent years
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: in front of the mirror, just dancing around, had no
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: one to talk to.
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: But that is.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: Actually what's surprising me the most, because when I think
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: of people like you, Bob, I'm like, Bob probably hits
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: the dance floor all the time, and it's just like
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: having the best time ever.
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: Whether you dance good or not, I don't know.
• 32:25
  Speaker 4: Love the dance.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: I can see that, right, This guy actually spinning girls around,
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: and we see him doing it multiple times throughout this episode.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: It's not like he just dances with one girl. He's
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: out there dancing with a handful of them, where I'm like, wow,
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: like it's so cute. It actually made me think about
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: did you ever have to learn how to square dance
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: when you were growing up?
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: Well, I used my mom, and my mom used to
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: teach my sister and I what we called the living
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: room dance, which was basically a version of square dancing okay,
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: and she would always teach it to us, and so
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: we would do it. My mom just loved dance and
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: saying when we were growing up, and so my mom
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: would pull me on it anywhere and we would see
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: the living room dance, we'd do it, at weddings, we'd
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: do it.
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: But yeah, that it was our version of square dancing.
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: That's sweet. I told you, I grew up in Orange County.
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: There's no nothing.
• 33:16
  Speaker 4: Western or something square dance in there.
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: Why did I have to learn how to square dance?
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: And not just once?
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: There were years of square dance lessons like not not
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: like not like we just learned how to square dance
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: for like months at a time. But it was like sixth,
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: seventh and eighth grade I had. There were periods of
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: time where we had to learn how to square dance
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: and I remember it being and I remember it being
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: really stressful.
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: Wait, like at a dance studio or something like they.
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: Made us do this out on the on the asphalt
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: out during pe. This was part of physical education. I
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: need people to come in the comments if they also
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: had to learn how to square dance. And I'm not
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: born in like the nineteen seventies people. That's also what's
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: like hilarious about this is like.
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: I'm almost in the South.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: And I didn't grow up in the South, and I
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: had to take square dancing. And I'll tell you why
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: this was so stressful, because you have to hold hands
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: with your partner, and there's multiple dances where you have
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: to be holding hands the.
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: Entire changing partners, changing partners.
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: There's parts, there's parts of square dancing where you shake hands.
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: It's part of the dance.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: The anxiety that lived all up in my brain when
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: I was eleven, twelve, thirteen, fourteen about holding a boy's
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: hand was so crazy that when I see these people
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: line dancing and square dancing on this episode, those were
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: the memories that came.
• 34:55
  Speaker 4: Flashing back, flashing.
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: I was like, I was like, oh my gosh.
• 35:01
  Speaker 4: Meanwhile, I'm sitting over here ing ing go ding ding ding.
• 35:03
  Speaker 4: I was all excited.
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: You know that song bad bad Leroy Brown, of.
• 35:07
  Speaker 4: Course, baddest man in the whole damn town.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: Exactly had to square dance to that. That's how I
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: know that song. That is so anyway, somebody else please
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: come in the comments, because I can't have been the
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: only one who learned how to square dance in junior high.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: Never really never went to a hoedown, never went to
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: a country bar, have literally never used any of that
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: knowledge ever, and but still whole.
• 35:33
  Speaker 4: So did you guys ever have the dance?
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: Did you ever have the dance at your school where
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: the girl had to invite the boy wear the plaid
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: shirt Sadie Hawkins, I was Lil Abner.
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: I don't know what little Abner is?
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: Is that, like, I have a Daisy May and little
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: Abner Daisy May would be the the Sadie Hawkins queen,
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: and Lil Abner was a Sadie Hawkins king.
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: Is this from Little House on the Prairie? Where are they?
• 35:56
  Speaker 4: No idea? Oh, I don't know.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: I had on a flannel shirt, I had a straw hat,
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: I had a basket full of goods, and I was
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: my date.
• 36:07
  Speaker 4: Wanted to like fight Daisy May because I got crowned
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: a little outdre and I'm like, no, it's not her fault.
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: But I had dated Daisy May previously, and so I
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: think there was some jealousy there.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: I don't know, didn't have Sadie Hawkins in junior high.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: And I'm really having a hard time remembering if we
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: did have it in high school. I only I went
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: to very minimal dances in high school. I went to
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: prom my senior year, but I didn't go to any
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: other formal dances. My sister was probably more on your level, Bob,
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: of popularity, where she not only went to our school dances,
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: but then she knew boys at other schools.
• 36:50
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I went to a couple other proms and stuff.
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: Too, also invited her as dates. And so I remember
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: watching my sister go to formal dances before me and
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: being like, all this teenage angs dance stuff is really
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: starting to bring up some memories and some feelings Right now, Bob,
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: I don't.
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: Like nextra contail little White Wine to get through the
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: rest of this night a little bit.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: Well, okay, so back into it, Braiden and Casey Casey.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: Casey tells Braiden there are things that Carson has said
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: in the house. She says that she would feel guilty
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: not telling Braiden. So now here again we're getting another confirmation.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: If I'm farm with Braiden, I'm just I'm I'm hook
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: line and sinker. Now that's how I would feel if
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: it was like one off I'd be like, Okay, it's
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: a one off, but if a second girl comes forward
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: to me, I'm like, Okay, there's obviously some truth to this.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: But you know, Braiden says that, uh, Casey caught his
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: eye day one, and then he says, I'm in big
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: trouble because he sees something with her and says, you.
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: Know, this is the one.
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: I like, I had to look her up to make
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: sure it's the one I was thinking of. I think
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: this is a horrible mistake for her telling Braden this.
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: I think she got roped in because I think she's
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: super cute.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: They're all super cute. I just I was a little
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: surprised by the I'm in trouble comment that he made
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: because I was like.
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: I haven't seen you talk to this girl.
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think I told you she's my sleeper
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: pick I said that since our first conversation.
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: This comment.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: I think you're right because this comment to me, I'm
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: in trouble makes me think she's going to get the
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: next solo date.
• 38:36
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think she will.
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: And I feel like she's not as intense about Carson
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: in the conversation as Brittany was, and so hopefully this
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: doesn't reflect negatively on her, because Casey's been my sleeper
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: pick since day one.
• 38:53
  Speaker 4: But I think you're right.
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: I think that this could definitely be a good thing
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: for her in the next round, that he's feeling this
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: way about her. But man, it's a slippery slope, and
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: I don't think. I don't think you want to tangle
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: with Carson either, Like I think, you know, at the
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: end of the day, you don't want to be the
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: person who Carson finds out is saying things behind her
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: back because she we see some some.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: I saw the personality switch in this episode. We saw
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: we saw a little bit of that well Brett and Quinn,
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: which I have a feeling.
• 39:26
  Speaker 3: About these two.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she admits, you know, this Sophia girl coming in
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: is making her a little intimidated, and Brett says she's got.
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: Nothing to worry about.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And Quinn says that she's cold, and Brett immediately
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: jumps up and takes off his jacket.
• 39:45
  Speaker 4: As a gentleman would hot.
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: Points right there. Hot points, but.
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: One better is when she tries to give it back
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: to him and he goes, nah, you keep it for.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: A while, You keep it for a while, and he
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: pulls her in for a hug. We haven't seen Farmer
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: Brett something like that yet. I was like, you know,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: we've now seen him be physical with her, and she's
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: the one who's made him like bust a gut laughing.
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: So I think this.
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: Is a very good sign that she is gonna be
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: a top contender. I would say she'll be top two.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: That's my feeling on Quinn, she will be top two. Now,
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: this is where the editing can trick even me, is
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: when they give you so much and then she ends
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: up being the one who loses, and then you get
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: emotionally invested in that loss because you've seen so much
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: of this. They could be doing that to me, and
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: I fall for that every time. I actually the editing
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: aspect of shows, as many as I've watched and worked on,
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: can still get me. But then we have Rihanna in
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: Farmer Sean. She pulls him for another chat.
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: You know, since Sean has told uh Casey.
• 41:07
  Speaker 4: Well, I mean he told it looked like he told
• 41:09
  Speaker 4: several of them.
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: So he told Casey, don't worry, this girl's not going
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: back to the farm. And he tells another girl, don't worry,
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: she's not going back.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: It's not fair to the other girls at the farm.
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't do that to y'all.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: Then they'll start telling each other, don't worry, don't worry,
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: he's not bringing her back to the farm. Don't worry,
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: don't stress, don't stress. I didn't see actually this coming.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: I didn't think, oh, she's going to pull him for
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: another chat. I thought this girl is going to hear
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: these other girls saying, oh, he's not bringing me back
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: to the farm, and she's gonna be like, peace out, bye,
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: I leave by myself. Yeah, that's what I was anticipating.
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: But no, she pulls him for another chat and tells
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: him he has to be open to someone who lights
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: up his soul.
• 41:53
  Speaker 4: This whoa this big, big call.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: The words that this man grasps onto I use man
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: in some air quotes because he's still growing. Just a
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: bammer sean, you are a man, but you are a
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: new man in a lot of words. And it is
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: so sweet. But he literally flips on a dime. That
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: guy is literally shocked by this comment and again the
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: intense eye contact. She's also holding his hand at this
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: exact same time.
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: She's she's a master at this, like she is in
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: his head.
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: He's also probably had a couple of beers tonight.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean. This guy is like, whoa soul?
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: Light up my soul? Like that is that speaks to me?
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: Because that is kind of how farmer Sean talks. Right.
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: He's expressed previously that he's really looking for somebody that
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: is adventurous.
• 42:56
  Speaker 4: He wants a spiritual, deep connection with them.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: He is a man of faith, and he, you know again,
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: brought up something about having children, which I'm just like, well, well,
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: when people are talking hello, nice, let's talk about having children,
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh, that's so much. My handyman came
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: over this weekend and somehow asked me about having children.
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: I'm not kidding when I say.
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: This handy man wants a wife.
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: I'm not kidding.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: We were talking about our pets, and then he said
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: something about this being like training.
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: He probably is watching you going.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: He said, oh, yeah, the puppy like is like training
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: for like having a baby or and I was like, no,
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: not for me, and he was like, oh, no, you
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: don't want children, And I was like thinking, now when
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking about it, I'm like, why was I talking
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: to my handyman about having children.
• 43:58
  Speaker 4: Hey, he was so moves in mysterious ways.
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: Okay, And if that guy is able to fix your fridge,
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: he can fix your heart.
• 44:07
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna say that.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: Actually, this is the second time you've been to my
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: place this week to put put stuff together.
• 44:15
  Speaker 4: A little bit of a connection there, ladies, jentlemen, you
• 44:18
  Speaker 4: heard it here first.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: If you start dating your handyman, I must know, because
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: I'm I'm calling.
• 44:23
  Speaker 4: That now too.
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: That's not happening.
• 44:25
  Speaker 4: Is he handsome?
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: We had a conversation about how he gets told that
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: he looks like Chris Evans and also like.
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: Tom Holland, And would you say he resembles either of those?
• 44:39
  Speaker 4: Gentlemen? Okay, I could borrow.
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: Please make the note right now that I am calling this,
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: that you are going to hook up with your handyman.
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, I can't remember if he said girlfriend
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: or well, he's an ex girlfriend.
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: At one point we were talking it's an it's no.
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: He's back to help you put together something else in
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: the next two weeks. I bet you he's gonna say,
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: you know, we broke up. Yeah, we're done. You know,
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: it's just we're looking for different things.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: You have to add onto this of Ukrainian accent.
• 45:19
  Speaker 4: I can't. I don't even want to murder this accent.
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: But I will tell you this, Every accent to me
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: sounds I like this, So I'm sure he's not.
• 45:27
  Speaker 3: He's not Papa John Pizza Gain.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: You like me to fix it your closet, That's what's happening.
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: Nobody cares about this anyways. So they have this intense moment,
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: and that is literally when farmer Sean pulls producers and says, oh,
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: that conversation just flipped it for me. I gotta I
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: gotta thinking this girl back to the farm. What might No,
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: He's literally like, I don't want the other women to
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: like be upset by this, and the producer there, okay, perfect, perfect,
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: exactly what I would have said too. In this situation,
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: you gotta follow your.
• 46:05
  Speaker 4: Gut, trust your instincts.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: B trust your instincts. This is or I would have
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: thrown in there. This is your journey.
• 46:11
  Speaker 4: Aren't you here to find a wife?
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: Aren't you? This is called farmer wants a wife.
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: You're the farmer, not farmer wants five friends that he's
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: not dating and marrying.
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: This I would have said so many of those things
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: if I were in this situation and this is not
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: manipulative and it's not lying, it's the truth. And you
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: do have to remind them of that, that that it's
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: about their journey. It's not about the women are there
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: too for their own journey, but we are seeing this
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: journey through the farmer's perspective. They are the leads, and
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: so as a producer, you are there to remind them
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: of that because they're not there for friends. They are
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: there to see if they're making a love connection. And
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: you know, this opportunity has presented itself to him, so
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: he should take it, which he does it he does.
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: But this is where it gets spicy because farmer Braden
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: and Carson have a conversation because Braden pulls Carson and
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: he basically brings up, you know, how things are going
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: in the house, and her response is terrifying.
• 47:13
  Speaker 4: Her response is terrifying, terrifying.
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: If films are going wrong in the house, he doesn't
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: need to know that.
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: I'm like, what, it's his house. Yeah, if something's going
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: wrong in the house, that's no concern to you. It's like,
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: you know what it reminded me of in Star Wars
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: when they go these are not the droids you're looking for,
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: And you're like, these are not the droids we're looking for.
• 47:36
  Speaker 4: Move on.
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: It's like, is she like Jedi mind tricking him and
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: saying like you don't need to know anything that's going
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: on in the house, And he'll all of a sudden go,
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: I don't need to know anything that's going on in
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: the house, and like walk away like a robot.
• 47:48
  Speaker 4: That's how it feels.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: It was so weird because it was also it was
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: also like women talk like it's girl talk, like you
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: don't need to know about that. Well, he does need
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: to know about that. He's looking for somebody to be
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: in a relationship with him, like he should know if
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: things are being said behind his back or if he
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: can help, you know, diffuse anything maybe that is happening
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: or there's misconceptions, but you know, obviously he can't help
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: with personalities just clashing, which is bound to happen in
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: tight quarters. And when you cast a bunch of alpha females.
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: As Bob has mentioned before, this is this is what happens.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: We don't cast people like normal people for television shows.
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: We not to say everybody's crazy. We don't always look
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: for crazy.
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: There's a little bit of crazy that it doesn't hurt, right,
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: I mean.
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: Healthy crazy, you know, But we don't put people on that.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: My my thing is, it doesn't matter what show I'm
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: working on, whether it's a game show, whether it's a
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: home renovation show, dating show, whatever. What I'm always looking
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: for is somebody that is able to verbally articulate how
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: they are thinking and feeling in a given moment. If
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: you can't verbally articulate things, and you are the kind
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: of person who likes to sit in their feelings, think
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: things through, come back to a conversation twenty four hours later,
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: five days later, reality TV is not for you. And
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that you're a bad person, and it
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: doesn't mean that the way you address conflict is bad.
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: It's the fact that it's bad for television, right.
• 49:34
  Speaker 4: This is not the right vehicle for you, exactly.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: And that's because audiences can't read minds. We need to
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: know how you're thinking and feeling. Otherwise we don't know
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: what's happening because we're not there with you in the moment.
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: So, you know, people who tend to be.
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: Reserved other than the farmers, tend to not get on TV,
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: because if you're hard to.
• 50:01
  Speaker 3: Read, uh, you don't connect with an audience.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: And we have to feel some sort of connection and
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: understanding or we don't get invested in characters.
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: And I say characters, but I mean people on the show.
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: It's just right what we say.
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: And a perfect example of that would be like mel
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: Owens from right right from Golden Bachelor, Like we were
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: not invested as viewers.
• 50:30
  Speaker 4: Given because he was.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: A closed book and I and I mean, you have
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: to open up at some part in this process. And
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: that's why I love seeing that we're seeing Farmer Brett
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: pulling down those walls a little bit, because by the
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: end of this journey, if we don't feel a strong connection,
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: we're not invested, and people can we don't care.
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: We don't care.
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: People can come for me all they want and say, oh,
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: I love Memel's journey, I.
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: Love peg blah blah blah blah. The ratings speak for themselves. People.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: They were down because he was not a good lead,
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: and you can come for me all you want for that.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: But anyways, so she says, Carson says, you know, he
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: doesn't need to know what's happening in the house, and
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: then she proceeds to say that there's a target on
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: her back and basically is saying that you know they're
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: jealous because she got that like one on one.
• 51:25
  Speaker 4: Time, perfect response, perfect responts.
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: I mean, it's it's valid, but I'm not gonna lie.
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: When I saw the personality switch in this conversation was terrifying.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: It made me think of what you said when she
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: put the photos on the fridge. I said, innocuous, it
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: was manipulative. You said manipulative and I said, oh, she
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: probably just put them up there.
• 51:50
  Speaker 3: And then producers were like, girls, look.
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: Around, really look around when you walk in there, and
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: you said, no, manipulative and you.
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: And I thought she was setting setting, she wanted the
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: women to come in and basically she that she she
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: peed all over that territory, you know what I mean.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: And that's how I felt in the moment. Oh you know,
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: it's a farm and uh yeah. So now when she
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: when her tone changed, I was like, holy shit, yeah,
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: because I realized in that moment I was right.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: The eyes that was the shift for me. It was
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: like smiling.
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: But even still the smile was almost like you know
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: when they when the single weight female moment, right or
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: or fatal attraction moment where the boil and the bunny.
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: It's like, what the actual f is going on here?
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: Like it was psychotic, it was it was a little
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: bit much for me, and I think she's think she's hot,
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: but it's like the hot crazy factor. It hits a
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: number and you're like, Okay, I think we're tipping the
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: scale into the crazy side.
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: It also makes me wonder when they're when the women
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: are saying that she has even said negative things about
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: farmer Breiden, what do you speculate those things could be?
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: I have one, I have one.
• 53:06
  Speaker 3: Guess.
• 53:08
  Speaker 4: Okay, I have something too, So you tell me what
• 53:10
  Speaker 4: you think.
• 53:11
  Speaker 3: Mine's mean spirited?
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: Go ahead, because I think that former Braden is a
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: very nice guy and I like his energy, and I
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: like his robe. A little bit of a hat gate happening, and.
• 53:22
  Speaker 4: Okay, we're on the same page. We're on the same page. Okay.
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: Because when I spent the day with them, hats were
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: on all day. So I saw the hairline reveal when
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: the hat came off, and that's when I was like.
• 53:35
  Speaker 4: Oh, do you remember.
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: I don't know if it was the first episode or
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: the second episode where they were talking that he looked
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: like Bradley Cooper as a cowboy, right. Somebody said that, right,
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: and I was like, I don't see that. But my
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: thought process was with the hat on.
• 53:52
  Speaker 4: Maybe he does.
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: But the second he took his hat off, I was like,
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: I'll bet you when this popped up, that that change
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: ranged women's opinions of him because he didn't have the
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: Bradley Cooper hairline, right, and most of us don't.
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: Bradley Cooper probably didn't have that hairline by the.
• 54:10
  Speaker 2: Way people look at me, and oh, you know, he's
• 54:11
  Speaker 2: got a Will Ferrell thing going on. Well I can
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: I can say I'm probably doing better than that, right, So,
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: but I think he's funnier than me. But it's still like,
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: if that were to say that to me, I could go, oh, well,
• 54:22
  Speaker 2: that's all right, because I think I'm.
• 54:23
  Speaker 4: A little better. Okay, yeah, we look a lot alike
• 54:25
  Speaker 4: though we probably have a lot of similarities, but he's funnier.
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: But I think that when you get that comparison, you're
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: set up to fail. And so my mindset went straight
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: to that. I was thinking, I bet she's probably saying
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: he's a lot better looking at his hat on or something.
• 54:40
  Speaker 3: Something She was in a safe place.
• 54:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah, she thought she was in a safe place.
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: Or she said it so that someone else would laugh
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: or say something, so she could be like, this person
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: said this about you, because I think she might be
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: this check.
• 54:53
  Speaker 3: Well, that's really calculated, Bob, that.
• 54:55
  Speaker 4: Is I'm telling you, I've seen it so fine.
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: If this comes up, I'll bet you she saw she'll
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: throw someone else under the bus.
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: Well, I think she will throw somebody else under the
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: bus because she's gonna now the antennas are up, and
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: she is going to look for any sort of situation
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: to back herself out.
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: Well, and she even says, I think we see this
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: kind of teaser in the next episode.
• 55:19
  Speaker 4: Who's talking about me? Is basically what she.
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: Says A hundred and she's being extremely confrontational about it.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: Is there anything else that they could possibly be saying
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: negatively about him?
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: Because he seems so nice and so mellow.
• 55:37
  Speaker 2: I mean, you know who knows. I mean, I feel
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: like you can say anything.
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: Really feels like he is out in the middle of nowhere.
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: I mean, you could say something negative about she was
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: she's pretty flabbergasted about driving thirty minutes to the grocery store.
• 55:51
  Speaker 3: If she lived there. What do you do if you
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: don't have butter? You know, she really lost it over.
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: That she could make some type of comment about that
• 55:58
  Speaker 2: type of thing, right, like, oh, well you are about it?
• 56:00
  Speaker 3: About what's about him?
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: They specifically both women said that she's made negative comments
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: about him, right. I guess we'll have to hopefully find
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: out in the next episode. And you know, just to say,
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: I don't think that there's anything wrong with Farmer Braiden's hairline.
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: Bob doesn't think that there's anything wrong with Farmer Braiden's hairline.
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: We're just speculating if we have to, I mean literally
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: splitting hairs for lack of a better term. But that's
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: actually not the only drama that this episode ends on.
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: We see Farmer Sean decides to invite Rihanna back to
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: the farm and he invites her.
• 56:51
  Speaker 3: She's so thrilled.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: She literally runs to all the girls and she's like,
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: Farmer Sean just invited me back to the farm. And
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: to my surprise, eyes the women literally look at her
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: like she's a leper, and they say, I.
• 57:05
  Speaker 4: Mean, that's weird.
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: He told all of us he's not inviting you back.
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: Why would you say that to this girl's face. Why
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: would you say that. I was just gonna be under
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: the assumption that they say nothing and they go back
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: by him.
• 57:21
  Speaker 4: But they they basically throw him under the bus.
• 57:24
  Speaker 3: Hard, hard, and he's nowhere to be found.
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: I mean, no, he just literally walked away after he
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: invites her back to the farm.
• 57:33
  Speaker 4: He had to know he was going to get some
• 57:34
  Speaker 4: major grief over this.
• 57:35
  Speaker 3: He totally did. Especially, you know, he has to.
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: He's going to have to eat some humble pie and
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: that's the next episode when he apologizes. But I mean, what,
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: how horrible is this girl going to feel now that
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: she's like, you know, wasn't going to be invited, but
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: now she is invited. It's just it's it's gonna be
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: weird vibes between them.
• 57:51
  Speaker 2: Why, Yeah, I think I think obviously it creates weirdness
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: between the women that are still.
• 57:55
  Speaker 4: There, that had been there previously.
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, But even in the moment when he invites her back,
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: he's like, are you sure is this really?
• 58:01
  Speaker 4: This is amazing? Oh my gosh.
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: Now she's gonna be like, wait, you were talking about
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: me beforehand that.
• 58:05
  Speaker 3: You exactly exactly, very strange.
• 58:08
  Speaker 2: There's a way out for him, of course, he could
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: just be like, well, then, when you pulled me aside
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: and you said those things, you just connected to my
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: heart and I realized in that moment that this could
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: be my dream and my destiny coming to me.
• 58:19
  Speaker 4: Right now.
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: We see Macy distraught over the poor thing is really
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: losing it. She starts crying.
• 58:31
  Speaker 4: The show's shrink is gonna putting in so much overtime
• 58:32
  Speaker 4: after this.
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: I'm sure more than one shrink on this show. There's
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: no way that there's only one working on this. There's
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: got to be more. But this is where the episode ends,
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: and we see a preview for the next week. The
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: women are upset over Farmer Shawn's decision, and we see
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: like Bob was hinting at Carson confronting the women back
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: at the farm, wanting to know who told Bradon things
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: weren't good in the house.
• 58:57
  Speaker 2: They better sleep with one eye open on that that night,
• 59:00
  Speaker 2: because I'm telling you, Carson, you do not want her
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: coming for you.
• 59:03
  Speaker 4: I mean, honest to god.
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: Twist that girl looked angry in that episode. And then
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: we see the farmers going on some solo dates and
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: there is some kissing.
• 59:14
  Speaker 4: Here we go America.
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: We don't know who was kissing because they put a
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: cowboy hat over their face. But I am going to
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: guess it's Farmer Braden. I think Farmer Breden is doing
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: some kissing.
• 59:27
  Speaker 3: It could be Sean, though that guy likes to kiss.
• 59:30
  Speaker 4: I think it's going to be Sean. In the new check.
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: Oh, but he was so adamant about wanting to limit
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: how many he kisses.
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: I think he's limited, and he's limited in his experience
• 59:43
  Speaker 2: with the ladies, admittedly, And I think he's got a
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: lot of people showing him a lot of attention.
• 59:49
  Speaker 4: Sure does, and I think he's leaning into it. That's
• 59:52
  Speaker 4: what I think.
• 59:53
  Speaker 3: I think it's him kid in a candy store. Yeah,
• 59:56
  Speaker 3: for sure. People get mad that I speak in idioms
• 59:59
  Speaker 3: on this.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 4: I love speaking to idioms.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: I really didn't realize it until I got an angry
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: comment about it that I speak too much in idioms
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: and that I get them wrong.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 3: Well, people tell us, if.
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: You are watching Farmer Wants a Wife, where do you
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: think Heather Martin is going to be? Well, we see
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: Heather Martin again, we don't see her in the preview
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: for the next episode.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 4: Does she make it through this episode?
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: I have to believe two people are going to go
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: home like you had said, yeah, either they're okay. It's
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 2: my it's my guess that they're burying the lead because
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: they haven't brought up her past.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 4: They haven't, So I gotta believe we're getting to that.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 4: I gotta believe we are.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: Ben and Ashley brought that up in their interview with
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: her about did Farmer Brett know that she was on
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: The Bachelor, and she said that she made a comment
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: in passing to him, but it wasn't like a big deal,
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: and she said that the other women knew about it.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: But again, like she kept it very like low key
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: with how she addressed it. So I think it's not
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: going to be a topic of conversation.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 3: On the show.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 4: If I see her again.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 3: Talking, I know. I'm with you.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's low hanging fruit for
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: producers to be like, that girl has been on TV before,
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: that girl is being strategic, or that girl knows what
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: she's doing, but she's not doing any strategy as far
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: as what we're seeing.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: If she were in the same group of girls as Carson,
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: this would have already come up. I guarantee you Carson
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: would have used it as Ammo, and she would have
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: been like, well, who is it. Oh, it's probably that Heather,
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: because I mean she's been on thirty five reality shows.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, I mean, because there's nobody really kind
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: of like that in Brett's group. We've had Lauren on
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: Farmer Braiden, but he's asked her. Now we're gonna have
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: Macy and Rihanna get into it on Farmer Shawn's group,
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: and we already have Carson on now on Braden's for
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: more drama. We really don't have any source of drama
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: on Farmer Breads now.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: I like to think that that maybe starts at the top, right,
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 2: He's so that that whole he's just so drama free.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 3: You don't think Farmer Braiden is drama free?
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 2: Not.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 4: Apparently not, he's.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 3: I think he is.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: And Okay, so here, let's give our final thoughts on
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: who our front runners are and then we'll say bye bye.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: For Farmer Sean, I still think it's Olivia. I think
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: he's got hard eyes for Olivia, and I think now Rihanna,
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: I think Olivia and Rihanna for Farmer Sean. For Farmer Brayden,
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: I think the new girl, Skyler. I think Skyler because
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: she's a farmer. I think that's gonna get some major
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: brownie points. And I don't know who else. I don't
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: think Carson is a top runner anymore. I think, like,
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: I think that's a turn off to him to hear
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: negative stuff, and I think it's going to actually come
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: to light. It's actually going to get set on camera
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: what she said about him, and I think that's going
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: to be the nail in the coffin for him.
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 3: I think Farmer Brett.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: It's Quinn and it is I think the other one
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: is the girl from the first episode that gave him
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: the wishing Star, the one that he immediately broke the
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: rules and was like, do you want to come back
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: to the farm?
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 3: I think it's those two.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 4: What about Racer Girl. I think it's Racer Girls.
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 3: No, I don't think it's her.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: The body language was so tight, and now that we've
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: seen him take off the jacket, share the jacket, go
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: in for the hug, I know that he's capable of
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: because I would think if he was awkward again with Quinn,
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, Oh, he's actually incapable of like doing.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 3: That kind of stuff. On camera. But now since I've
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 3: seen it, I'm like, Nope.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: Racer girl, Cassie Casey, it wasn't her because the body
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: language was so tight.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 3: Hands in the jacket pocket, yeah, whole time.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: No. I love the Brett Quinn jacket thing. I think
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 2: that's huge. I think he's huge.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 3: Huge.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: And then I think Brayden might keep Carson around a
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 2: little bit longer because I think that he's probably likes
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: her kind of standing back up to him and being like, well,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 2: that does not concern you, We'll handle that.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 4: I see. I'm taking the.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: Opposite tactic you on this one, because I think he's
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: going to be wowed by her for a little bit
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: longer because he's so enamored with her looks. And then
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: but I do think he's going to finally see what's
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: going on and he's gonna dump her.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 3: Somebody's gonna tell him what she said. It's gonna be.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 4: It's gonna be too much. It's gonna be too much.
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 4: It's gonna gets Sean. I think Sean is.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 2: I think Rihanna might move to the front of the
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 2: to the front of the thing with Sean.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 3: We're on the same page about that that.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: I mean he was real enamored by that conversation. And yes,
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: Olivia and him had a very adult conversation too, and
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: so I think that.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 4: He she's still in there.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think she's definitely in there.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: It's really going to be a choice of does he
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: want to blond or does he want a brunette because
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: both girls are adorable.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 3: And very well rounded. I mean, remember.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: Olivia's got two businesses, one being a woodworking business, right
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: and Rihanna, I will say going into med school is
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: a huge challenge and feet and you know, launching a
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: new relationship at that exact same time could be a
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: lot for anybody.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 3: Doesn't mean it's impossible.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 2: Well, and she's going to have to go to where
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 2: she gets into med school too, right, So if she
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: gets into med school and cago, I mean.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: You know, and let's not forget residency after that and
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: all these other things that make make you move.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 3: It's a huge commitment.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 4: So you know, Bobby slapping pigs, I can tell you
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 4: that much.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 3: She's not going to be picking up I'll pack a poop,
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 3: that's for sure.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: But anyways, guys, are you guys watching Farmer wants a wife?
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: Please tell us if you're watching us now, let us
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: know we're really enjoying watching.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 4: It because we're watching it.
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 3: Until next week.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: I've been Heather, Hey, I'm still bob Bye,