Latest / The Baller Alert Show / Episode 263 "Bambi aka The BAM"
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- 0:03Speaker 1: Bird with me here, you know, BT, it was so
- 0:05Speaker 1: low shout of O c T no what we see?
- 0:08Speaker 1: Whole game read the butler something. Oh, you can't stand
- 0:10Speaker 1: on their own se I already know you can't bother
- 0:13Speaker 1: with me because with the squad of me, they get
- 0:15Speaker 1: a little They called me.
- 0:18Speaker 2: He love Bather Alert. Welcome to the Butther Alert Show
- 0:25Speaker 2: on c T.
- 0:26Speaker 3: What up you know, BT?
- 0:28Speaker 2: We got a special guess in the buildings.
- 0:30Speaker 4: We do yo, this bawn baby in the building?
- 0:33Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all do listen. I came in here, I out.
- 0:42Speaker 5: You don't even look like you got how many kids?
- 0:43Speaker 3: You got?
- 0:44Speaker 6: Three girls day, three whole children?
- 0:47Speaker 7: You were good though, wow, shining and everything. Let's get
- 0:51Speaker 7: into it. We're gonna we got a segment on our
- 0:53Speaker 7: show called in case you missed it, and in case
- 0:58Speaker 7: everybody missed it, I'm sure they did and know the
- 1:00Speaker 7: Montgomery broad went down.
- 1:02Speaker 5: Did y'all see it?
- 1:03Speaker 6: I mean, if you missed that, then where the hell
- 1:05Speaker 6: you been? Yeah?
- 1:06Speaker 4: If you missed that, you weren't on the internet. I
- 1:09Speaker 4: was out of the country and I was on the beach,
- 1:11Speaker 4: and I think I was like the first person to
- 1:14Speaker 4: see it, because I don't know for whatever reason I had.
- 1:18Speaker 4: I had took a shot. I was on the beach,
- 1:20Speaker 4: and then I just went on my Instagram because I
- 1:22Speaker 4: was like, man, I've been on Instagram, like you know,
- 1:24Speaker 4: in like a date, and.
- 1:25Speaker 3: It's like five minutes.
- 1:26Speaker 4: I seen a blog site posted this and I was like, Na,
- 1:29Speaker 4: this can't be real. This cannot be real.
- 1:32Speaker 6: It was real.
- 1:33Speaker 3: Did you see the old the security gonna throw his
- 1:34Speaker 3: hat up?
- 1:35Speaker 6: Yo, I want to wait to get in an altercation
- 1:39Speaker 6: with somebody, so throw your hat at. I can't wait.
- 1:43Speaker 5: You bring the hood out.
- 1:44Speaker 6: I'm throwing my hat up. And when I throw my
- 1:46Speaker 6: hat up, you already know what time it is.
- 1:47Speaker 4: No, but you gotta hope because I think that he
- 1:49Speaker 4: threw his hat up because he wants them to be distracted.
- 1:52Speaker 6: Well, I thought he was calling for help.
- 1:54Speaker 8: Yeah.
- 1:55Speaker 6: Hell, that was like a bird car. It's like you know,
- 1:57Speaker 6: where the gang at.
- 2:00Speaker 3: I thought he was like trying to strac because he
- 2:02Speaker 3: threw the hat up and he looked at the hat
- 2:03Speaker 3: like it was a magic. I thought he thought the
- 2:06Speaker 3: guy was gonna look up at the.
- 2:08Speaker 6: I'm doing it whatever it means.
- 2:10Speaker 5: What was your initial thought when you saw it?
- 2:12Speaker 6: I mean to be honest, I can't stand fighting like
- 2:15Speaker 6: videos right, Like it makes me cranch all the time.
- 2:18Speaker 6: But that one I was like, I was so into it.
- 2:22Speaker 6: It made me feel I mean, it was like one
- 2:24Speaker 6: of them fights that'd be fun.
- 2:25Speaker 7: I didn't watch it at first because I was afraid,
- 2:27Speaker 7: Like I don't like stuff like that either.
- 2:29Speaker 5: It's like, man, I don't want to see no more
- 2:30Speaker 5: racist stuff.
- 2:31Speaker 7: But then when I heard that some black people came
- 2:35Speaker 7: to his rescue.
- 2:35Speaker 5: I was like, well, let me see.
- 2:37Speaker 3: He was just about to get his ass whooped. I'm
- 2:38Speaker 3: not gonna lie.
- 2:39Speaker 6: I seen it was looking a little it was looking bad.
- 2:43Speaker 4: Right, and then I kept swiping. And then I seen, like,
- 2:46Speaker 4: you know, seven other brothers come running to the rescue.
- 2:49Speaker 5: And I said, him swimming to the rescue.
- 2:52Speaker 6: It was the swim. For me, it was the swimmer,
- 2:54Speaker 6: and then the trainer. Up it was the chair.
- 2:57Speaker 3: Yeah, now you know, man, listen, he was whooping. Every
- 3:00Speaker 3: everybody asked with that chair.
- 3:01Speaker 6: He went crazy with the chair.
- 3:03Speaker 3: I was. I was kind of scared for it was
- 3:05Speaker 3: just like everybody.
- 3:08Speaker 6: And then a little poor little ladies, Oh my god, well.
- 3:13Speaker 4: We can't say poor little ladies because they the ladies
- 3:15Speaker 4: was jumping on the security guard.
- 3:17Speaker 5: To me, listen, all of them was drunk. They had
- 3:19Speaker 5: to be.
- 3:20Speaker 4: They had to be on something, because I just wonder
- 3:22Speaker 4: what made them be like, Yo, we're all.
- 3:24Speaker 3: About to jump this security guard right.
- 3:26Speaker 5: Down, this privileged man.
- 3:27Speaker 7: You know, it all started because somebody told them they
- 3:30Speaker 7: couldn't do something.
- 3:31Speaker 6: Yep, you know, we ain't supposed to tell him they
- 3:34Speaker 6: can't do nothing.
- 3:35Speaker 4: Yeah, and that man got that man got a job
- 3:38Speaker 4: to do.
- 3:38Speaker 6: Man.
- 3:39Speaker 3: It's like, you know people, but I mean, you know.
- 3:41Speaker 6: Like she said, privilege a black man telling you you
- 3:44Speaker 6: can't park your boat right here, like you ain't gonna
- 3:47Speaker 6: have that.
- 3:47Speaker 3: When they got they ass whooped.
- 3:49Speaker 4: I tell you that because one of the guys I
- 3:51Speaker 4: believe was on TikTok and did y'all see his face.
- 3:56Speaker 3: His face on the screen.
- 3:57Speaker 4: I was like, damn, look like you got your ass
- 4:01Speaker 4: his nose.
- 4:01Speaker 6: Yeah, he said he said that man could fight.
- 4:04Speaker 4: You know a lot of people on the internet where
- 4:06Speaker 4: we love so much about it, is like you really
- 4:07Speaker 4: don't see black people stick together like that, you know
- 4:10Speaker 4: what I mean, Like it's stuff like that happens. You
- 4:12Speaker 4: normally see people just kind of be like, oh, I'm
- 4:14Speaker 4: just gonna record this and stuff like that.
- 4:16Speaker 6: But nah, it was an absolute, like moment, you know
- 4:20Speaker 6: what I'm saying, something that we needed. And right after
- 4:23Speaker 6: it was over with, though, it went back to black
- 4:26Speaker 6: people trashing each other on social media, Like you know
- 4:29Speaker 6: what I'm saying. It wasn't even a whole day later
- 4:32Speaker 6: that went by it and people was back on their bullshit.
- 4:34Speaker 6: But it definitely was a moment like we needed that,
- 4:38Speaker 6: we needed to see each other come together and whip
- 4:40Speaker 6: some What was.
- 4:41Speaker 5: Your favorite meme?
- 4:43Speaker 6: The crocs? Oh my with the crocodiles and so the
- 4:49Speaker 6: crock was all up his legs and it was so
- 4:51Speaker 6: funny because I'm probably like the last person in the
- 4:54Speaker 6: world to get a pair of crocs, right, And so
- 4:56Speaker 6: I posted a picture with my crocs on maybe like
- 4:59Speaker 6: three weeks ago, and then the people was coluning to me.
- 5:02Speaker 6: They was like, damn bam, why you got them in
- 5:04Speaker 6: sports mode? And I didn't even know what the hell
- 5:06Speaker 6: that meant. So I had like the little strap on
- 5:08Speaker 6: the back, and so I was like, see, this is
- 5:10Speaker 6: why I keep my shit in sport mode. You know
- 5:13Speaker 6: that we got CROs he had they were like shin
- 5:16Speaker 6: guards at that point. You know what I'm saying. They
- 5:19Speaker 6: was like, man.
- 5:21Speaker 3: Yeah that was that was a brawl.
- 5:22Speaker 4: I think my favorite moment was, I mean, well, the
- 5:26Speaker 4: favorite meme where they said, I'm going to tell my
- 5:28Speaker 4: kids this was a civil rights movement.
- 5:30Speaker 6: No, no, no, it was another one soldier boy when
- 5:33Speaker 6: he was doing Oh yeah, that's how I'm gonna be.
- 5:39Speaker 3: Telling that story.
- 5:40Speaker 6: Yeah, this is what I'm how I'm gonna be when
- 5:42Speaker 6: I tell my kids what happened?
- 5:44Speaker 3: What about yours?
- 5:45Speaker 4: Oh?
- 5:45Speaker 5: Mine was?
- 5:46Speaker 7: They made a whole playlist called the Montgomery Bral on Spotify,
- 5:52Speaker 7: so I could imagine.
- 5:53Speaker 4: Did you see the people of Some people went back
- 5:56Speaker 4: and they found the chair.
- 5:57Speaker 3: No, you just see people.
- 5:59Speaker 5: Take somebody got a tattoo of the chair.
- 6:01Speaker 6: I've seen the tattoo.
- 6:03Speaker 5: That's o D.
- 6:04Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 6:05Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, y'all check that video out. Go fund
- 6:08Speaker 7: me all the people you know, free us forever. Also,
- 6:13Speaker 7: congratulations to see her and Russell. She uh revealed that
- 6:16Speaker 7: she's pregnant again.
- 6:18Speaker 6: Oh wait, I thought a girl. I'm thinking Carly Russell.
- 6:21Speaker 6: I was like, wait see her or Russell? Okay, okay, yes,
- 6:25Speaker 6: trying to wrestle.
- 6:26Speaker 2: Man was just here to throw a party, though it
- 6:28Speaker 2: search a rescue party.
- 6:29Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, but yeah, like you said, you know, Atlanta
- 6:34Speaker 6: will book anybody for anything.
- 6:36Speaker 3: We'll book a giraffe, period giraffe.
- 6:39Speaker 6: Yeah, man.
- 6:40Speaker 7: But another thing, in case you missed it, Bam is
- 6:43Speaker 7: here in the building.
- 6:44Speaker 5: We're gonna talk to a little bit.
- 6:45Speaker 8: We'll be right back with more of a boler Alert Show.
- 6:51Speaker 8: You're listening to a special edition of the Baller Alert Show.
- 6:54Speaker 6: What's a good job. It's the Bam and you're now
- 6:56Speaker 6: tuned in to The.
- 6:57Speaker 7: Baller Alert Show for more of the Butler Show. Bambi
- 7:01Speaker 7: is definitely in the building. In case you missed it,
- 7:04Speaker 7: y'all all in the blogs.
- 7:05Speaker 6: Man, are not all in the blood is doing their job.
- 7:09Speaker 3: They love you.
- 7:10Speaker 5: They eating it up.
- 7:12Speaker 6: I ain't even been saying nothing. That's a crazy thing.
- 7:15Speaker 3: You can say whatever you want to say here.
- 7:17Speaker 7: Hey, listen first first, we can't, you know, assume everybody
- 7:20Speaker 7: know who Bam is.
- 7:21Speaker 5: So before we get started, let everybody know. You know
- 7:24Speaker 5: a little bit about yourself, who you are? You know,
- 7:27Speaker 5: I know you came from the West Coast.
- 7:29Speaker 6: Yeah for sure. I'm definitely from Compton.
- 7:32Speaker 3: You from Compton, I Am.
- 7:33Speaker 6: You didn't know that.
- 7:34Speaker 3: I never knew that. Where'd you think I was from Atlanta?
- 7:36Speaker 6: No?
- 7:37Speaker 3: Really love hip hop Atlanta.
- 7:40Speaker 5: You didn't start there though.
- 7:41Speaker 4: No.
- 7:41Speaker 6: I was on Basketball Wives l A. That was like
- 7:44Speaker 6: the first show that I did. Gotcha, you know love
- 7:47Speaker 6: and hip hop?
- 7:48Speaker 5: Yeah?
- 7:49Speaker 7: Let you initially get into TV? Was it your you
- 7:52Speaker 7: said your cousin.
- 7:53Speaker 6: No. So I went to college and LA. So my
- 7:59Speaker 6: last year I had to pick up a minor. I
- 8:02Speaker 6: tried to find something that was super duper easy. So
- 8:04Speaker 6: I was like, let me minor in theater. So just
- 8:07Speaker 6: so one of my theater teachers he was on a
- 8:10Speaker 6: popular TV show at the time, and then he was like,
- 8:13Speaker 6: you can get some credit if you go do some
- 8:14Speaker 6: background and I said, oh shit for show. Like so
- 8:18Speaker 6: I started doing like a little background work and then
- 8:21Speaker 6: I ended up really getting into it and you know,
- 8:25Speaker 6: becoming a member of SEG and I started doing independent films.
- 8:27Speaker 6: I was doing like music videos, modeling all kind of
- 8:31Speaker 6: stuff when I was living in LA and then I
- 8:34Speaker 6: moved out to Atlanta and then really started like pursuing
- 8:38Speaker 6: the music very heavily. And at that time, one of
- 8:42Speaker 6: my best friends she was on Basketball Wives. So I
- 8:46Speaker 6: went on the show as her friend, but as an
- 8:48Speaker 6: artist still Malaysia. Yeah, we grew up together, so that's
- 8:54Speaker 6: like family.
- 8:55Speaker 3: How was that first introduction in a TV? Like, was
- 8:57Speaker 3: you nervous?
- 8:58Speaker 6: You know what? It was so crazy because reality TV
- 9:03Speaker 6: at that time was like getting real real popular and
- 9:07Speaker 6: that show was really big. And I didn't understand like
- 9:10Speaker 6: the whole concept of reality TV. I thought it was
- 9:13Speaker 6: just like real real shit, like all day, every day.
- 9:17Speaker 6: And I didn't understand that it was like organized real life.
- 9:22Speaker 6: So I was kind of like a loose cannon, you know.
- 9:26Speaker 6: I was just like, what do you mean organized? So
- 9:29Speaker 6: it's just like you know, you come in, you gotta
- 9:31Speaker 6: sit down, you gotta wait, you can't talk yet, you
- 9:34Speaker 6: gotta you know, talk about certain things, and so it's
- 9:38Speaker 6: just like.
- 9:39Speaker 5: A production, a production.
- 9:41Speaker 6: And I didn't understand that, and I went into it
- 9:44Speaker 6: like very blind.
- 9:45Speaker 3: And they probably was like yes, got her.
- 9:48Speaker 6: They were were at the same time.
- 9:51Speaker 7: You had a lot of time though, ye you was.
- 9:54Speaker 7: You had a crazy rock.
- 9:55Speaker 6: And I think that's why because I was so like
- 9:59Speaker 6: blind to like there really was. I just went in like, yeah,
- 10:01Speaker 6: what's up, Like, bitch, my friend don't like you, so
- 10:03Speaker 6: I don't like your ass, Like, so it was it
- 10:05Speaker 6: was crazy. It was a real one on. Yeah. I
- 10:08Speaker 6: was like, yeah, no, that's not how this work.
- 10:12Speaker 3: You like you like you a little bit seasoned now.
- 10:14Speaker 6: Yeah, so now I'm a lot more like reserved, and
- 10:17Speaker 6: I understand you know what it is, like, it's it's
- 10:21Speaker 6: very real elements of your life, but just in like
- 10:25Speaker 6: a more produced way.
- 10:26Speaker 4: Do you think like back then when you started doing
- 10:28Speaker 4: reality TV, like that was kind of like the golden
- 10:31Speaker 4: age of reality TV versus now it's so many different platforms.
- 10:36Speaker 6: No, what I really felt like was the golden moment
- 10:40Speaker 6: in reality TV was like stuff like The Hills and that,
- 10:44Speaker 6: Like no, well that too, But to be honest, I
- 10:48Speaker 6: ain't even really watch it like that. I was looking
- 10:50Speaker 6: at more like like The Hills, right, did you guys
- 10:52Speaker 6: ever watch that?
- 10:53Speaker 8: Yeah?
- 10:53Speaker 6: Like people were making like millions.
- 10:57Speaker 5: Of dollars, but they came for millions, right.
- 11:00Speaker 6: So for me, that was like the Golden California too.
- 11:04Speaker 4: So you like, you like the type of money that
- 11:07Speaker 4: they're making, you know.
- 11:08Speaker 6: And then you know, we get all these black people
- 11:11Speaker 6: together to act the damn.
- 11:12Speaker 3: Fool and yeah, and then next thing you know, it's.
- 11:15Speaker 7: Like people, Yeah, to your point at reality back then,
- 11:18Speaker 7: you had like the Jessica Simpson and Nick show.
- 11:22Speaker 5: You had Laguna Beach, the Hills and.
- 11:27Speaker 7: H oh yeah that was doing but I think and
- 11:30Speaker 7: then on the Black Side you did have Baldwin Hills.
- 11:33Speaker 6: I watched that too, Yeah, I watched. They weren't making
- 11:36Speaker 6: millions though, but they were in a better light than
- 11:39Speaker 6: a flavor flav Yeah was yeah for sure. Yeah, what made.
- 11:44Speaker 7: The transition for you to you know, be on Basketball
- 11:47Speaker 7: Wise and then come in and join another reality show
- 11:51Speaker 7: in Atlanta?
- 11:52Speaker 6: So I was actually living in Atlanta and then doing
- 11:57Speaker 6: like the music stuff, and then my friends started doing
- 11:59Speaker 6: basketba and so I went home to film Basketball Wives.
- 12:02Speaker 6: I was actually living here already, and then when that
- 12:05Speaker 6: was over, I came back to Atlanta and still like
- 12:09Speaker 6: doing my music stuff, and then I started like going
- 12:11Speaker 6: out with Scrap and so it just seemed like the
- 12:15Speaker 6: natural kind of segue, like Okay, well this show is
- 12:19Speaker 6: more about like the music, and now I'm dating him,
- 12:22Speaker 6: So you know, it seemed like.
- 12:25Speaker 3: The the right thing to do.
- 12:28Speaker 6: Seemed like the thing that made the most sense.
- 12:29Speaker 7: You know, did they ask you to be a part
- 12:31Speaker 7: of it or is that something was that like playing.
- 12:34Speaker 6: Well, I had met like some of the producers just
- 12:37Speaker 6: kind of like out and about and it was a thought,
- 12:41Speaker 6: like I thought about it. I'm like, well maybe I
- 12:43Speaker 6: should do this, and then yeah, like just start talking
- 12:47Speaker 6: to the people. Once me and him started actually like really.
- 12:49Speaker 3: Dating, how was it like on your first day on set?
- 12:53Speaker 6: It was it was light because it was just like
- 12:54Speaker 6: me and him, we were playing basketball or something.
- 12:56Speaker 3: Okay, so they was warming you up pretty much.
- 12:59Speaker 6: Yeah, definitely.
- 13:02Speaker 7: So you guys, you know, have your relationship on TV
- 13:06Speaker 7: or whatever, you end up getting married and having kids
- 13:09Speaker 7: and having the family.
- 13:10Speaker 5: What turned everything? Was it the show?
- 13:12Speaker 6: That just I don't think it was a show. You
- 13:14Speaker 6: can't really blame the show. It's just kind of life,
- 13:17Speaker 6: you know, like just growing and different directions at like
- 13:22Speaker 6: a different pace because obviously, you know people grow, like
- 13:27Speaker 6: that's what we do. But you know, just kind of
- 13:30Speaker 6: like growing at a different pace is like the key,
- 13:36Speaker 6: you know, because you could be growing one moment I
- 13:38Speaker 6: came and then you know it's just like a whole
- 13:40Speaker 6: bunch of ups and downs, and then the downs just
- 13:43Speaker 6: started to be the It was a lot of downs.
- 13:50Speaker 7: Wow. Yeah, for those who don't know you and Scrappy,
- 13:53Speaker 7: you know, are get or are you divorced?
- 13:55Speaker 6: That we're officially divorced?
- 13:57Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, so what was the moment though?
- 14:00Speaker 7: That was just like this is just over cause y'all
- 14:02Speaker 7: were going back and forth for a second on the show.
- 14:05Speaker 6: Yes we were. For me, like the ultimate deal breaker
- 14:09Speaker 6: is cheating, just I can't do it.
- 14:11Speaker 4: So you don't believe in any more chance, you don't
- 14:14Speaker 4: believe in like second chances.
- 14:16Speaker 6: I mean, I don't disagree with that for some people
- 14:19Speaker 6: in these situations, but for my situation, it just didn't
- 14:22Speaker 6: like deserve a second chance because we already had some
- 14:25Speaker 6: other shit going on. And then that was just kind
- 14:27Speaker 6: of like all right, so.
- 14:28Speaker 4: Yeah, nah, he was like, that's that was kind of
- 14:32Speaker 4: the last strong Yeah, you don't think y'all.
- 14:33Speaker 3: Ever get back together. We're divorced, me, you can't get remarried.
- 14:38Speaker 6: Yeah, no, I don't think. Well that's not I don't think,
- 14:41Speaker 6: but no, we're that's not gonna happen.
- 14:43Speaker 5: How did you guys break the news to your children?
- 14:46Speaker 6: Well, my oldest is four, and so it wasn't really
- 14:50Speaker 6: something I had to sit him down for. He just
- 14:54Speaker 6: kinda I don't know, it just was like a natural
- 14:57Speaker 6: kind of thing. I tried to keep things as normal
- 15:02Speaker 6: as possible for as long as we could. And then
- 15:05Speaker 6: now he just you know, he goes to his dad's
- 15:08Speaker 6: house and then he comes back home. So it wasn't
- 15:12Speaker 6: really like a thank god, you know, he was so young. Still,
- 15:17Speaker 6: I feel like had he been like six seven, eight,
- 15:21Speaker 6: we would have had a lot of explaining to do.
- 15:23Speaker 2: But how old are your younger children?
- 15:26Speaker 6: They just turned two and three, So have a two
- 15:28Speaker 6: year old, a three year old and a four year old.
- 15:30Speaker 5: How's that as a single mom.
- 15:32Speaker 6: I wouldn't necessarily say single mom because I don't want
- 15:35Speaker 6: to offend the women who only who is just them,
- 15:39Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. So we share the responsibility
- 15:42Speaker 6: of our children, and you know, they go with their
- 15:44Speaker 6: dad for a couple days and then they come home.
- 15:48Speaker 6: And of course even when you got your kids for
- 15:51Speaker 6: five days, like it gets it's a lot. But I
- 15:55Speaker 6: mean I have a great balance, you know, Like my
- 15:57Speaker 6: kids are at a real energetic age, so we do
- 16:02Speaker 6: a lot of shit, like during the day, you know,
- 16:06Speaker 6: it's like NonStop when when I'm with them. And then yeah,
- 16:11Speaker 6: so I mean we've been we've been working it out.
- 16:14Speaker 6: It's been going well for us like, I'm good. They're good,
- 16:18Speaker 6: they're happy, healthy, and they they weren't like shocked into
- 16:23Speaker 6: a situation. It wasn't traumatic for them.
- 16:26Speaker 5: So yeah, how does the co parenting work? Do you
- 16:30Speaker 5: still contact him?
- 16:31Speaker 6: Or I don't a medium. I'm a different type of person,
- 16:34Speaker 6: like I don't really like confrontation. I don't like a
- 16:37Speaker 6: lot of extra shit. And our kids they are two,
- 16:41Speaker 6: three and four, so they're out of age where when
- 16:45Speaker 6: it's time for him to come pick them up, I
- 16:47Speaker 6: just let up the garage and they run on out,
- 16:50Speaker 6: or you know, a family member is probably there.
- 16:54Speaker 3: So y'all don't really communicate.
- 16:56Speaker 6: We don't really have to.
- 16:57Speaker 4: Does the media bother you? Because I know you don't
- 17:00Speaker 4: really say too much on the media in the Internet.
- 17:04Speaker 6: I don't want to say it bothers me because it
- 17:05Speaker 6: comes with the territory. But I will say that it's
- 17:10Speaker 6: starting to get really really out of hand, like with
- 17:14Speaker 6: certain like blogs in the way that they were things
- 17:17Speaker 6: And I had to reach out to a blog maybe
- 17:22Speaker 6: a couple of weeks ago, and they posted something they
- 17:25Speaker 6: reposted something that I posted, and they tried to make
- 17:28Speaker 6: it relate to something that Scrap's mom had posted and
- 17:34Speaker 6: I just asked them, like very respectfully. I was like,
- 17:39Speaker 6: how did you even pair the two? Like I'm not
- 17:44Speaker 6: even talking about them, like this has nothing to do
- 17:47Speaker 6: with it something. Yeah, And I was just like, you know,
- 17:51Speaker 6: like y'all kind of setting me up to be bullied
- 17:53Speaker 6: because it looks like I'm feeding into whatever they got
- 17:57Speaker 6: going on, and I wasn't at all. So sometimes it
- 18:00Speaker 6: just gets annoying because I can't even post like a
- 18:02Speaker 6: thought or a feeling or a quote or anything without
- 18:06Speaker 6: people assuming that it's about that situation.
- 18:10Speaker 4: Now with the media, like a lot of people on
- 18:13Speaker 4: the internet, they feel like when all of these things,
- 18:16Speaker 4: when it's a lot of back and forth, you know,
- 18:18Speaker 4: with reality TV stars, people feel like that you guys
- 18:22Speaker 4: are doing this because of a storyline.
- 18:24Speaker 6: I know a lot of people feel like that, and
- 18:27Speaker 6: some people do that though some people actually you know,
- 18:31Speaker 6: go online and do things and say things because it
- 18:34Speaker 6: does help them, like with a storyline, because now they
- 18:37Speaker 6: have something to film about or talk about. So I
- 18:40Speaker 6: understand why people can assume that that will be the case,
- 18:43Speaker 6: but it's never been a case for me because you know,
- 18:48Speaker 6: like obviously, like I don't even have to do anything
- 18:52Speaker 6: to have a fucking storyline, like I don't have to
- 18:55Speaker 6: do nothing.
- 18:56Speaker 3: Like people just they did. They take the posts down.
- 18:58Speaker 6: They did, and I was really surprised that they took
- 19:02Speaker 6: it down. They didn't like clap back and try to
- 19:06Speaker 6: say nothing weird or nothing. They just they just took
- 19:08Speaker 6: it down.
- 19:09Speaker 3: I think it's because it's because it came directly from you.
- 19:11Speaker 3: I think it was like from me.
- 19:13Speaker 6: Yeah, but I respected that though, because you know, and
- 19:17Speaker 6: I came at them very very respectfully, like I was
- 19:20Speaker 6: just like, hey, like, I'm absolutely not referring to them,
- 19:25Speaker 6: and if I do, like you will know because it's
- 19:27Speaker 6: gonna be a lot more direct. And so right now
- 19:31Speaker 6: I feel like y'all set me up to be bullied
- 19:33Speaker 6: and so they just removed the post.
- 19:35Speaker 3: Do you feel the need to respond?
- 19:36Speaker 6: Sometimes I do, but right now no, it's because I
- 19:39Speaker 6: know that people are looking for a response. So at
- 19:42Speaker 6: this point, I'm just like, it's not even worth it.
- 19:45Speaker 6: And then you find yourself trying to defend yourself about everything,
- 19:50Speaker 6: and you just go down this sucking rabbit hole because
- 19:53Speaker 6: if you defend yourself about one thing, they'll be like,
- 19:55Speaker 6: well what about this? But then you said this? But
- 19:57Speaker 6: then you did that, and I'm just like, su leave
- 20:00Speaker 6: me all lot home please? They on you heavy.
- 20:03Speaker 8: Yeah.
- 20:04Speaker 7: And well his side, like his mother and his first
- 20:07Speaker 7: baby mom and their child is like definitely coming at
- 20:11Speaker 7: you head.
- 20:11Speaker 6: Yeah. You know what's crazy about that? I'm like, imagine
- 20:21Speaker 6: divorcing somebody because they cheated and then now their family
- 20:25Speaker 6: is attacking you. So he did you wrong and and
- 20:30Speaker 6: they're attacking I'm like, make it make please, make it
- 20:33Speaker 6: make sense, but it you know.
- 20:34Speaker 5: How do you feel about that? Though?
- 20:36Speaker 6: I don't. I just feel like she's crazy and she weird,
- 20:40Speaker 6: and you know, like just anything that I say in response,
- 20:47Speaker 6: like it just gives her some extra fuel to just
- 20:49Speaker 6: keep going and going, and I'm just like, you're tired. Yeah,
- 20:54Speaker 6: it's annoying. It's annoying, but it's also like who cares?
- 20:58Speaker 6: Like I don't think anybody even like pays her that
- 21:02Speaker 6: much attention or even if they do, like they're being
- 21:05Speaker 6: entertained by it. And I don't think that people. She's
- 21:08Speaker 6: not a credible like source, you know what I'm saying.
- 21:11Speaker 7: So you know when the when Erica goes on line
- 21:15Speaker 7: or on love and hip hop and say says stuff
- 21:17Speaker 7: like you didn't feed her child and things like that, Like,
- 21:20Speaker 7: how do you respond to that?
- 21:22Speaker 6: I don't because the other day I was just asking myself,
- 21:26Speaker 6: I was like, should I try to even defend myself
- 21:32Speaker 6: and show the entire threat because when it kind of
- 21:35Speaker 6: like Manni Mani's relationship, Our whole relationship was based off
- 21:39Speaker 6: of like me kind of coddling her, you know, doing
- 21:43Speaker 6: things for her and taking care of her. I love that,
- 21:45Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. That was like before I
- 21:47Speaker 6: even had kids. I consider her like my kid. So
- 21:51Speaker 6: when I hear her mom says say those types of things,
- 21:53Speaker 6: I'm just like, for one, like, where are you even
- 21:56Speaker 6: getting this from? Because I know, like I just I
- 22:01Speaker 6: don't want to believe that e Money had ever like
- 22:04Speaker 6: said some shit like that to her mom. And then I,
- 22:06Speaker 6: like I said, I looked at my whole thread of
- 22:08Speaker 6: text messages and I'm like the whole thing is like hey, bam,
- 22:11Speaker 6: can you order me some food? Or I'm like hey
- 22:13Speaker 6: I cooked to send the microwave or you know whatever.
- 22:16Speaker 6: So it just doesn't really prompt me to want to
- 22:21Speaker 6: like defend myself or to just be like, no, this
- 22:24Speaker 6: is all bullshit. I'm just like whatever if that's yeah.
- 22:28Speaker 7: I think people get confused too, because y'all, you any
- 22:30Speaker 7: money had like a back and forth.
- 22:32Speaker 6: We absolutely did not have a back and forth, And
- 22:35Speaker 6: the fact that people say that is insane to me.
- 22:38Speaker 6: It wasn't a back and forth. It was she had
- 22:42Speaker 6: referred to me as that lady, and then people were
- 22:45Speaker 6: in my comments saying that lady, that lady, and I
- 22:48Speaker 6: was like, what the fuck are they talking about? So
- 22:49Speaker 6: my next post I used to caption that lady because
- 22:54Speaker 6: I had obviously saw the video of her saying, you know,
- 22:56Speaker 6: calling me that lady, So I used the caption. I said,
- 22:59Speaker 6: it's that lady. So for me, that wasn't going back
- 23:03Speaker 6: and forth with her. That was me posting a caption.
- 23:05Speaker 6: And then her mom started talking, and then she started talking.
- 23:08Speaker 6: But when I started going back, it was to her mom.
- 23:12Speaker 6: It was never to her.
- 23:13Speaker 3: Oh okay, yeah, does that make you not trust people?
- 23:15Speaker 6: It does. But you know, I've always been a lot
- 23:20Speaker 6: like guarded and a little reserved even in my marriage,
- 23:25Speaker 6: because I don't know, I didn't fully like just trust
- 23:31Speaker 6: so him. Well, it wasn't necessarily him, it was just
- 23:35Speaker 6: like the people around like I wouldn't like disclose too
- 23:38Speaker 6: much of my personal life because I didn't really trust
- 23:43Speaker 6: the people around him. Okay, but you disclosed it to him,
- 23:46Speaker 6: not to everybody else, you says, nah, because I mean
- 23:50Speaker 6: certain things I would just not tell him, like and nothing.
- 23:56Speaker 6: I don't think anything too like serious, but certainly things
- 24:00Speaker 6: I just wouldn't because I know that he likes to
- 24:03Speaker 6: share a lot of information.
- 24:05Speaker 5: So are you still You're still love and hip hop?
- 24:08Speaker 6: Right? I am?
- 24:08Speaker 7: When people say, like, you know, what's your storyline going
- 24:11Speaker 7: to be? You know, and how she gonna remain on here?
- 24:14Speaker 7: What do you say to those people?
- 24:15Speaker 6: Obviously I've been doing this before. If they're insane waiting
- 24:19Speaker 6: that just because you know I'm not with him anymore.
- 24:23Speaker 6: I mean, maybe it will be the show, maybe it won't.
- 24:25Speaker 6: But as long as they you know what I'm saying,
- 24:27Speaker 6: writing them checks and want me around, I'll be around.
- 24:30Speaker 3: Hello. Have they called?
- 24:31Speaker 6: They? Have they?
- 24:35Speaker 3: Have they called?
- 24:35Speaker 2: Have you?
- 24:36Speaker 3: Have you been speaking with them about?
- 24:37Speaker 6: I mean we're still filming, We're in the the second
- 24:40Speaker 6: half of the season, and I'm divorced, so obviously my
- 24:43Speaker 6: storyline has nothing to do with him, you know.
- 24:48Speaker 7: So with your music, you said you getting back to
- 24:50Speaker 7: what do you have like projects you're working on, like
- 24:52Speaker 7: his album come in. I don't know about an album
- 24:55Speaker 7: just yet, but I definitely have been recording and you know,
- 24:59Speaker 7: I got singles that I've been dropping, and this year
- 25:02Speaker 7: on the show, like they have absolutely been highlighting me,
- 25:06Speaker 7: like as an artist, like just kind of getting back
- 25:08Speaker 7: in and it's been really cathartic, you know what I'm saying,
- 25:11Speaker 7: just to be in the studio and kind of releasing
- 25:14Speaker 7: and that's been my release.
- 25:16Speaker 3: And that's good that they're able to like highlight more
- 25:18Speaker 3: of like your music.
- 25:19Speaker 6: Yeah, I absolutely love that because for as long as
- 25:22Speaker 6: I've been on this show, that has not been the case.
- 25:26Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure that somebody on your team probably made
- 25:29Speaker 3: a call.
- 25:30Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm sure.
- 25:32Speaker 3: This is what we want to focus on some.
- 25:36Speaker 6: Yeah, but yeah, so, but in general, I feel like
- 25:41Speaker 6: this season they've been kind of like showcasing their artists
- 25:46Speaker 6: a lot more than they have in the past, which
- 25:49Speaker 6: is great. You know, it's a good look. It's on
- 25:51Speaker 6: MTV now. I feel like it's a lot of talented
- 25:55Speaker 6: artists on this show and it kind of always get
- 25:59Speaker 6: overshadowed by rama. The drama, yeah, and that's what people watch,
- 26:04Speaker 6: you know. Yeah, they want to see the drama. But
- 26:06Speaker 6: then they tell us like, well, why y'all on TV
- 26:09Speaker 6: doing this? And I can ratchet and I'm just like, well,
- 26:11Speaker 6: how do you know because you're watching right well.
- 26:15Speaker 4: And it's like when people say things like that, and
- 26:18Speaker 4: I'm like, if y'all want these things to not be
- 26:21Speaker 4: on your TV, don't watch.
- 26:22Speaker 6: That's what I'm saying. I just feel like people have
- 26:25Speaker 6: this selective outrage, you know what I'm saying, Like they
- 26:28Speaker 6: get so so angry about certain things, and then they
- 26:32Speaker 6: want to cancel people. And people can't have opinions, but
- 26:36Speaker 6: they can. Everybody on the internet can drag you, they
- 26:40Speaker 6: can bully you, they can say whatever they want to
- 26:42Speaker 6: say about you. But then if I say one comment
- 26:47Speaker 6: and response to something that somebody said to me, then
- 26:51Speaker 6: you know they're gonna cancel me, they gonna drag me,
- 26:55Speaker 6: they gonna do all this shit. But they can they
- 26:57Speaker 6: can do this all day collectively as like a group
- 27:00Speaker 6: a community.
- 27:01Speaker 4: Does that make you kind of like be like, you know,
- 27:04Speaker 4: on the internet, like I don't really like you know,
- 27:07Speaker 4: does it kind of make you like nervous being on
- 27:09Speaker 4: the internet?
- 27:09Speaker 3: Now?
- 27:10Speaker 6: I don't want to say nervous, but I save a
- 27:13Speaker 6: lot of things for the people who actually give a fuck,
- 27:16Speaker 6: if that makes sense. So you know, I have a
- 27:21Speaker 6: group of friends who I talk to if I want
- 27:23Speaker 6: to discuss something that's a topic that I feel is
- 27:26Speaker 6: personal or deep or you know whatever. I'd rather have
- 27:29Speaker 6: those discussions with people privately, Yeah, privately, and people who
- 27:33Speaker 6: can have healthy discussions. And now people that just are
- 27:38Speaker 6: going to try to drag you if you disagree with them.
- 27:41Speaker 3: They trying to counsel Jamie Fox, I'm like the man
- 27:44Speaker 3: almost died.
- 27:45Speaker 6: Yeah, and everybody was so just distraught and sending prayers
- 27:51Speaker 6: and he says one thing against what they believe in
- 27:56Speaker 6: or whatever the case. I don't even know what the
- 27:58Speaker 6: situation is. But now I just see everybody.
- 28:00Speaker 4: Well, he made a statement when he h he was
- 28:02Speaker 4: talking about a fake friend that was I guess that
- 28:05Speaker 4: was around him recently, and he said, uh, what do
- 28:09Speaker 4: you post?
- 28:09Speaker 3: He said, if they hated it on Jesus, what you
- 28:13Speaker 3: think they'll do to you?
- 28:14Speaker 4: And I think the word they is what kind of
- 28:18Speaker 4: like you know, said certain community off, I'm exhausted.
- 28:25Speaker 2: Their energy is like real chill, you're very unbothered.
- 28:28Speaker 6: Yeah, And I mean, and you know that has been sad,
- 28:33Speaker 6: Like that's.
- 28:34Speaker 3: The energy that you give me respected because I'm unbothered.
- 28:38Speaker 6: Yes, Like I don't. I don't really. I just be like,
- 28:41Speaker 6: what you what you want to do about it? Like
- 28:42Speaker 6: I'm very solution based, that's my thing.
- 28:45Speaker 7: I'm like, yeah, did your family get upset or oh
- 28:49Speaker 7: they be ready to go crazy?
- 28:52Speaker 6: But my family, See, that's that's the thing. When your
- 28:55Speaker 6: family is like respectful, they respect me. Like so my
- 28:59Speaker 6: mom respects me. My cousins, my brothers, they respect me.
- 29:02Speaker 6: So if I say pump y'all breaks, they gonna do that.
- 29:06Speaker 6: So your family like unleashing and the people around you
- 29:10Speaker 6: just like being unruly. That's a sign of them not
- 29:13Speaker 6: having no respect for you. So my people they all
- 29:15Speaker 6: got respect for me. If I tell them pipe down,
- 29:17Speaker 6: they piped down.
- 29:19Speaker 7: Okay, would you I know you're newly divorced and all that,
- 29:23Speaker 7: but would you, Uh, when do you think you'll be
- 29:24Speaker 7: able to open to dating again?
- 29:26Speaker 6: I mean I've been on some dates.
- 29:28Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, did you like any of the guys?
- 29:37Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 29:37Speaker 6: I think they cool, but like, oh, I actually like
- 29:41Speaker 6: enjoy like dating or like being courted. You know what
- 29:44Speaker 6: I'm saying not on like no kind of like I
- 29:48Speaker 6: don't know. I just like when a guy be like, hey,
- 29:50Speaker 6: you know we're gonna go through a B and C cool,
- 29:53Speaker 6: like let's go see what's going on. We have these
- 29:56Speaker 6: nice conversations and we have dinner and then you know
- 30:00Speaker 6: like maybe we'll talk again, maybe we won't. But I
- 30:04Speaker 6: think ladies need to kind of like be on that
- 30:08Speaker 6: type of vibe opposed to you know, oh no, I
- 30:12Speaker 6: ain't never been the girl that's just like oh yeah,
- 30:15Speaker 6: I'm wanna fuck with him or I want to like I.
- 30:17Speaker 5: Just be lill type of vibees you mean they need
- 30:20Speaker 5: to be on just enjoy.
- 30:23Speaker 6: Yeah, that too, like when your options, but just enjoy
- 30:26Speaker 6: like the mono, meeting people, seeing if y'all got anything
- 30:30Speaker 6: in common, like just everything ain't a race. And even
- 30:36Speaker 6: some of these dates I've been on, it's so crazy
- 30:39Speaker 6: because two times, like I've tried to like offer to
- 30:43Speaker 6: even like pay like half because I knew it wasn't
- 30:46Speaker 6: really Benna go nowhere after that's you know, cannot wait.
- 30:50Speaker 3: So is that is that the signal that that.
- 30:56Speaker 6: Well, I mean yeah, I like I'll grab I'll grab
- 31:03Speaker 6: the dinner, like don't even worry about it. I don't
- 31:06Speaker 6: be one to offend nobody, but yeah, I'm finna go
- 31:09Speaker 6: to the house.
- 31:11Speaker 5: What do you look for? What's your type?
- 31:14Speaker 6: I don't really have a type, to be honest, Like,
- 31:17Speaker 6: I like, that's why I like to go out with
- 31:20Speaker 6: somebody and kind of see what type of personality they got.
- 31:24Speaker 6: If you don't really seem like thirsty and you just
- 31:27Speaker 6: chill and we can have good conversation, that's my type.
- 31:32Speaker 6: So I just like being able to vibe with somebody
- 31:34Speaker 6: that ain't super thirsty and extra.
- 31:37Speaker 7: Have you vibed with any Africans? Because you know, we
- 31:39Speaker 7: just had Jesse Will on the show. She said there's
- 31:41Speaker 7: like three main Africans one in Atlanta.
- 31:43Speaker 6: No, I know, I haven't.
- 31:45Speaker 4: No.
- 31:46Speaker 6: Well, actually I think one of the guys said he
- 31:49Speaker 6: was nah, I don't know.
- 31:52Speaker 1: Yah.
- 31:53Speaker 4: So so when you when you go on these days,
- 31:57Speaker 4: could you tell like when somebody's into you because they
- 31:59Speaker 4: like your personality or because of who you are?
- 32:02Speaker 6: No, I think it got to be the personality because
- 32:05Speaker 6: most of the guys I've gone out with are well
- 32:09Speaker 6: established and not like that. But you know they already,
- 32:15Speaker 6: So yeah, I don't think it be. But you never
- 32:18Speaker 6: know because a lot of famous people, they they'll look
- 32:22Speaker 6: at somebody on TV and be like, ooh, I like
- 32:24Speaker 6: her because you.
- 32:26Speaker 3: Know, or be a lot of guys that are established
- 32:29Speaker 3: and you know they want to be famous.
- 32:32Speaker 6: That's true too. Yeah, I haven't caught that vibe, and
- 32:35Speaker 6: hopefully I don't because I really, you know, would love
- 32:39Speaker 6: a private relationship going forward.
- 32:43Speaker 5: Yeah, how do guys approach you? Do they or people
- 32:45Speaker 5: approach you?
- 32:45Speaker 6: Do they be in your DM or so It's a
- 32:48Speaker 6: lot of d ms, but I really don't. I just
- 32:52Speaker 6: started like going on the other side, like checking those
- 32:55Speaker 6: and I'm.
- 32:55Speaker 3: Like, oh, okay, any surprises.
- 33:00Speaker 6: Yeah, but but for the for me, like I like
- 33:04Speaker 6: like the intro, like my friend one of my friends
- 33:08Speaker 6: would be like, hey like such and such, Like I
- 33:10Speaker 6: don't know, it just seems a little.
- 33:12Speaker 7: More Can somebody introduce you to somebody versus you finding
- 33:16Speaker 7: it a little bit more safe?
- 33:17Speaker 6: Yeah, because like the Instagram, it just feel weird, Like
- 33:20Speaker 6: I'd be even scared to like write back like they
- 33:23Speaker 6: finished screenshot this ship or I don't know, it just
- 33:26Speaker 6: be weird. I'd be like, nah, let me just if somebody,
- 33:30Speaker 6: you know, make a nice little introduction, then that's like,
- 33:34Speaker 6: like you said, it feels safer.
- 33:36Speaker 7: So so if you find somebody you know, do you
- 33:38Speaker 7: want more kids? Are your tubes tied?
- 33:41Speaker 6: No, my tubes are not tired. They are wide open.
- 33:43Speaker 5: Okay kids, I think so.
- 33:47Speaker 6: But no, I didn't tie my tubes, burn them or
- 33:49Speaker 6: do nothing like that. So I'm definitely, you know, open
- 33:55Speaker 6: to more, open to more children. Why not? I got
- 33:58Speaker 6: hella already.
- 34:00Speaker 4: So if you date somebody and you actually like them,
- 34:03Speaker 4: do you see them coming on the show with you?
- 34:05Speaker 3: No, No, You're gonna be like, hell no, you can't.
- 34:11Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 34:12Speaker 5: No, So where are you at now? You know what's
- 34:14Speaker 5: next for you?
- 34:16Speaker 6: Well, I mean I'm always always, always working and doing
- 34:21Speaker 6: new things and just rediscovering myself. Of course, I still
- 34:25Speaker 6: have my salon here house a Shimmer, so it's a
- 34:28Speaker 6: salon and a boutique, and I'm expanding that, like I
- 34:32Speaker 6: always have new products my kids, Shimer Babies, like it's
- 34:37Speaker 6: a new hair product like for kids. And I also
- 34:41Speaker 6: have a children's book that I'm releasing soon and it
- 34:44Speaker 6: kind of talks about the space that my kids are
- 34:47Speaker 6: in right now, having the transition having two homes. So
- 34:52Speaker 6: it's a good way for parents to kind of like
- 34:56Speaker 6: introduce that new life to like a small kid, the Todller.
- 35:01Speaker 6: So that's what this new book is about. And you know,
- 35:04Speaker 6: of course like still doing the music, just everything.
- 35:09Speaker 8: We'll be right back. Stay tuned with more of The
- 35:11Speaker 8: Baller Alert Show. You're listening to a special edition of
- 35:22Speaker 8: The Baller Alert Show.
- 35:23Speaker 6: What's a good job? It's Thebam and you're now tuned
- 35:25Speaker 6: in to the Baller Alert Show.
- 35:27Speaker 8: That's it.
- 35:28Speaker 4: Dear ball Alert, My homeboys getting married and asks me
- 35:30Speaker 4: and a few mutual friends to be his grooming one
- 35:33Speaker 4: in particular friend that I know for a fact tried
- 35:36Speaker 4: to holler.
- 35:36Speaker 3: At his fiance in the past. Do I say something
- 35:39Speaker 3: or do I lead that drama alone?
- 35:41Speaker 6: You know what it's to lose. Lose because if you
- 35:46Speaker 6: say something, then you're potentially gonna ruin the vibe of everything.
- 35:51Speaker 6: You don't know what the friend is gonna how he's
- 35:55Speaker 6: gonna feel, you don't know how the fiance is gonna feel.
- 35:57Speaker 6: You don't know, like you're gonna fuck that whole situation.
- 36:00Speaker 6: The wedding might even be called off right if you
- 36:03Speaker 6: kind of disclose this information, because the dude's probably gonna
- 36:06Speaker 6: be like, why you didn't tell me. He's gonna be
- 36:08Speaker 6: asking his girl like why you didn't say nothing or whatever.
- 36:11Speaker 6: But if you keep it to yourself and then later
- 36:16Speaker 6: on after they're married they find out, then you're gonna
- 36:21Speaker 6: be fucked up again. So just be quiet. I would
- 36:29Speaker 6: just be quiet.
- 36:32Speaker 4: I think I'm agree with you on this. I think
- 36:34Speaker 4: that you don't need to say nothing. First of all,
- 36:37Speaker 4: it's not like y'all has sex. Right, he tried to
- 36:40Speaker 4: holler that dude girl and ended up anything I'll say,
- 36:44Speaker 4: and getting married, And to me, that's not a big deal.
- 36:48Speaker 3: She obviously is attractive.
- 36:50Speaker 6: Right. Oh, I got a better one. Maybe he should
- 36:52Speaker 6: tell the guy who tried to holler at the girl
- 36:56Speaker 6: that he needs to set this one out, so they
- 36:58Speaker 6: need to have a private conversation. And you just need
- 37:00Speaker 6: to go tell boy like, hey, you tried to holler
- 37:02Speaker 6: at her. Is making me uncomfortable?
- 37:04Speaker 3: Oh, Like, you probably don't need to be a groom
- 37:06Speaker 3: You don't.
- 37:06Speaker 6: Need to be a groomsman. Just go sit this one
- 37:08Speaker 6: out and tell him you you can't make it.
- 37:10Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that would be kind of weird too,
- 37:12Speaker 4: if I tried to holler at somebody's you know, potential
- 37:16Speaker 4: wife and I'm his groomsman. I kind of be like, uh,
- 37:20Speaker 4: you know, I gotta be in Cowboy or something Union
- 37:23Speaker 4: or something. Yeah, like, yeah, you probably need to sit
- 37:26Speaker 4: that one out. And you know, I don't think you
- 37:28Speaker 4: need to say anything because something like that when somebody's
- 37:31Speaker 4: get about to get married and it's like man as
- 37:34Speaker 4: a man, it's like you don't want you like, bro,
- 37:36Speaker 4: you're supposed to be my home. But it's like an
- 37:38Speaker 4: episode of you know, what's the what's the movie called
- 37:41Speaker 4: the Woods?
- 37:41Speaker 6: Yeah?
- 37:42Speaker 5: Yeah, the Wood?
- 37:43Speaker 3: Yeah, the Woods? Like yeah, man, just yeah, I agree
- 37:47Speaker 3: with you. Sit this one out.
- 37:49Speaker 2: What you think? No, I agree, I agree.
- 37:53Speaker 5: Just you need to excuse yourself, yep, because this.
- 37:56Speaker 6: Is that private conversation with your boy and be like
- 37:59Speaker 6: just don't even don't even worry about it.
- 38:01Speaker 5: Yeah for sure.
- 38:02Speaker 7: Not Well, Bamby, Like I said, we appreciate you for
- 38:05Speaker 7: stopping by the Ball Alert Show. You are open to
- 38:07Speaker 7: come anytime you want to rote whatever you want to.
- 38:10Speaker 7: Before we get out of here, we got.
- 38:11Speaker 5: A pep talk with Bambi.
- 38:13Speaker 6: Hey guys, this is the bam And my advice to
- 38:18Speaker 6: everybody out there is just to be silent and a
- 38:23Speaker 6: season where it feels like you're being attacked. Okay, sometimes
- 38:26Speaker 6: it's okay to just be quiet. You don't have to respond.
- 38:29Speaker 6: You can just kind of be in a safe, quiet
- 38:33Speaker 6: space by yourself and just really try to process everything
- 38:37Speaker 6: that's going on around you before you start speaking.
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