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WHAT ACTIONS MAKE YOU NOT TRUST A GUY? · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on relatable? What actions make you not trust
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  Speaker 1: the guy? I really like this fun when he.
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  Speaker 2: Vapes, Yes, that's honestly gross.
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  Speaker 3: Ye, rogusting.
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  Speaker 2: We don't know what they do to your body. Not
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  Speaker 2: care about his lungs? No, not at all. He doesn't
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  Speaker 2: care about you. That's doing nothing for his stamina in
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  Speaker 2: the bedroom.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, think about the long term. If you guys date
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  Speaker 1: for a long period of time, he's going to die earlier.
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  Speaker 1: He hasn't been thinking about you.
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  Speaker 2: He doesn't care about your children, He doesn't care about
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  Speaker 2: you your future, doesn't care about your future. No, he's
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  Speaker 2: just he wants out of here early.
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  Speaker 1: He's's puffing away, not thinking about anything.
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  Speaker 2: Thomas the tankings just going pup pup, running trains through
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  Speaker 2: the town. Yeah, to be cheating on you as well.
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  Speaker 2: If he vapes, he cheats, I don't even care.
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  Speaker 1: Honestly relatable, lad of This podcast is hosted by myself
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  Speaker 1: Whatddy Clark aka Mummy and my partner in crime, mister
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  Speaker 1: Jake Craig aka Daddy and mister Daddy.
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  Speaker 2: What what Shoes?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, man's a bit of a bargain too. Guess how
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  Speaker 1: much how much these solomons cost? One hundred eighty from
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  Speaker 1: Culture Kings. They were one from one to eighty. Oh wow,
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  Speaker 1: pretty good.
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  Speaker 2: Eh. I saw him and I was like, I don't
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  Speaker 2: really need a new pair of.
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  Speaker 1: Shoes, but it's so hard to pass up a bargain
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  Speaker 1: when you love the shoe. They were like, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know what percentage off, like forty percent off, and then
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  Speaker 1: you had like a discount code at checkout and I
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  Speaker 1: got like free shipping and another ten percent.
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  Speaker 2: Off and I was like, mate, just take my money. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's too Did they make money on that in the end?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know why.
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  Speaker 1: I assume this is a style that they needed to
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  Speaker 1: get rid of. It's old or something like that.
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  Speaker 2: So they're just like they're like, we just want to
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  Speaker 2: make our money back. Yeah exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, these probably costs, like I don't know, ten dollars
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  Speaker 1: to make in a little factory overseas.
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  Speaker 2: Probably who knows what's Solomon like, they're pretty good to
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  Speaker 2: be fair in terms of ethics, because what I want
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  Speaker 2: to I did, because what I want to know is
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  Speaker 2: would you prefer do you reckon? You would get so
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  Speaker 2: you got you got got right? They got you with
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  Speaker 2: the discount. I got good. They got you good and
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  Speaker 2: then you went through you bought it. Would you still
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  Speaker 2: get got if they were to say instead of plus
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  Speaker 2: an extra ten at checkout, if they were to say
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  Speaker 2: selling for stock price. Oh, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like the do reckon the at checkout. Actually
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  Speaker 1: ten percent off is to get you to go to
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  Speaker 1: check out, and then once you're already there you buy it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because I think the conversion rate once you get from
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  Speaker 1: your cart to actual checkout.
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  Speaker 2: Gets like the science gone there. I'm not big on
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  Speaker 2: the whole, not big on that. They don't have like
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  Speaker 2: a website where we sell things. So I got got
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  Speaker 2: that I'm going to I get got all the time
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  Speaker 2: when you say a good deal, Yeah, yeah, you get got.
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  Speaker 2: You get got on weird things use my.
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  Speaker 1: Ah but Jake, today, I wanted to start the episode
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  Speaker 1: a bit lighthearted. Okay, so we would say we're quite
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  Speaker 1: good friends, right sure, and going broad spectrum, let's make
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  Speaker 1: it relatable. A very key characteristic of a friendship is
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  Speaker 1: sharing clothes.
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  Speaker 2: You would say, whoa for girls? Maybe?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, forget I can guys share T shirts and sht
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  Speaker 1: on like a night out, like before you go out
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  Speaker 1: for that? Yes, yeah, what do you think I was
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  Speaker 1: talking about.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I just feel like maybe I just
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  Speaker 2: haven't been out for so long since, kind.
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  Speaker 1: Of slipping mind fair, fair, fair. You don't have many friends.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a big fan of wearing my friends clothes
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  Speaker 1: because we're kind of sun all right, negative Nancy, but
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  Speaker 1: definitely in girls groups, they share clothes all the time,
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  Speaker 1: and we don't do it too often, but occasionally we'll go,
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  Speaker 1: he's a shirt pants?
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  Speaker 2: Do you recall the item of clothing? Yeah, where's my shorts?
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  Speaker 2: You fuck up? So I wanted to know if this
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  Speaker 2: is better than giving the shorts back.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so no, I just want them. No, No, let
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  Speaker 1: me land, let me land. So I don't know, probably
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  Speaker 1: how no longer it's been.
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  Speaker 2: I actually don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe like four months, I would say, no longer, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: let's go six months, Jake, Yeah, probably it's been there
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  Speaker 1: a while. I've been ages six months ago. Jake lent
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  Speaker 1: me a pair of five by Flinn pants shorts or something, Yeah, shorts,
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  Speaker 1: just because I need some shorts on a hot day
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  Speaker 1: and they were too big and they're too big for
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  Speaker 1: you too.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I need to wear a belt with them. Well, well,
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  Speaker 2: they're not too big lengthwise.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm going to show you this video and I
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  Speaker 1: want you to, like tell me if this is better
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  Speaker 1: than giving him back, all right, give it here.
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  Speaker 2: So it's that one that's thirty three seconds, everybody, Jake
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  Speaker 2: gave me these pants to borrow. Quite not third pants
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  Speaker 2: five by flint. I keep him here alright, safe, keep
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  Speaker 2: them safe right here. My door still closes sort of.
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  Speaker 2: And then when I'm going to sleep, I do all
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  Speaker 2: do this. So thank you, Jake.
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  Speaker 1: This goes right in there.
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  Speaker 2: Man, it's good. You are fucked. My pants are being
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  Speaker 2: held a hostage and just this is like a ransom.
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  Speaker 2: What do I need to do to get them back?
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  Speaker 1: So the other day I had the mental debate because actually,
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  Speaker 1: it's good for you. Every time I go to bed,
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  Speaker 1: I think of you.
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  Speaker 2: You own so many clothes, and I know you owned
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  Speaker 2: so many clothes, and I know you don't throw your
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  Speaker 2: clothes out, and if you do, it's once every ten years,
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  Speaker 2: and it's been five.
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  Speaker 1: So you still have all your clothes, switch them out.
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  Speaker 1: But your pants do such a good job of being
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  Speaker 1: a doorstop that.
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  Speaker 2: Also do a good job of being my pants.
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  Speaker 1: But what I was gonna say, is is it better
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  Speaker 1: for you, because every time I put that like my door,
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  Speaker 1: I think of you.
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  Speaker 2: It's not better for me because I know you think
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  Speaker 2: of me on the daily when you see the clip
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  Speaker 2: that we fucking post. I wouldn't, but I don't think
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  Speaker 2: of you. I don't think about you at night when
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  Speaker 2: I go to sleep. That's once a day's enough. Once
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  Speaker 2: today is plenty. I don't mean twice a day. So
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  Speaker 2: why I recorded that video. I was actually gonna pick.
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  Speaker 1: Him up and record him and wash him and give
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  Speaker 1: them back to you on the pod and get your
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  Speaker 1: live reaction and you'll be stoked.
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  Speaker 2: And then and then I thought about it.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I'll tell you what's funnier is instead
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  Speaker 1: of me doing that, I tell him how his pants
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  Speaker 1: are being being used.
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  Speaker 2: So there you go, mate, Oh my god, you're not
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  Speaker 2: getting a back, motherfucker. Oh you're lucky they were free.
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  Speaker 2: I'll put out there to everyone that he's not as
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  Speaker 2: bad because they were a gifted item. Yeah, but there's
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  Speaker 2: still my pants. Technically, does that mean technically I own
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  Speaker 2: half of them? No?
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 2: Because we got sent stuff. I remember the day it
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  Speaker 2: got sent to you. I remember you send it photos
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  Speaker 2: going this is the stuff we got sent if it's
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  Speaker 2: all right, I want to choose these items, right, And
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  Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, cool, I'll just take whatever's left over. Yea,
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  Speaker 2: A right, which is nice of me. And then you
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  Speaker 2: fucking use my pants once. And now they're just getting
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  Speaker 2: using their doors from everybody collecting dust. They were quite dusty. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's a hard job to do when they do a
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  Speaker 2: good job at it, mate, I might have to. I
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  Speaker 2: may suffer defeat here. I have to take the last.
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  Speaker 2: So I don't know. And what's the bet that because
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  Speaker 2: I don't go to your house often? What's the bet that?
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  Speaker 2: Or I got a plan? Thanks guys for listening. Just
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  Speaker 2: gonna end the episode, just moving one. I actually have
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  Speaker 2: a question for you away today. What actions make you
• 8:01
  Speaker 2: not trust a guy or a girl? Okay, so not
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  Speaker 2: trust anyone? What's an action?
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  Speaker 1: I feel like, probably I don't trust people who talk
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  Speaker 1: themselves up too much. Yeah, who like will say all
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  Speaker 1: their accolades or everything they've achieved.
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  Speaker 2: Ye like, yeah, just do it. I don't want to
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  Speaker 2: hear about it, just do it. And I don't really
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  Speaker 2: trust them. I don't trust people that just started a business.
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  Speaker 2: Let's say they're pro Oh oh no, I got a
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  Speaker 2: better I got a better one. I got I got
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  Speaker 2: a better one.
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  Speaker 1: I don't trust an only fan model that says she's
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  Speaker 1: zero points zero zero, zero point one top percent.
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  Speaker 2: Of the world because they all are. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Fact, I always see that on like stories or share
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  Speaker 1: or whatever, and I'm just like, how is every single
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  Speaker 1: one zero point zero zero one top percent?
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  Speaker 2: Why are those stories are even say that you're looking at?
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  Speaker 2: I just know you mean they just pop up everywhere?
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  Speaker 3: Know what you mean?
• 9:04
  Speaker 2: I don't trust Addie fucking Clark. Give I thought we
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  Speaker 2: left that in the last segment. But ig question this week,
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  Speaker 2: Ottie is what actions make you not trust a guy?
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  Speaker 2: Got some good answers, Mate, You could say anything, I will.
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  Speaker 2: I will start and I will start off with what
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  Speaker 2: actions make you not trust a guy? This one says,
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  Speaker 2: I always say never trust a man with legs or arms.
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  Speaker 2: We're the same person.
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  Speaker 1: What actions make you not trust the guy being a guy?
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  Speaker 1: The fact that he is a having nuts and ballsack? Hey,
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  Speaker 1: I say, fuck, I second that. Yeah, say mate, what
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  Speaker 1: actions make you not trust a guy when he's.
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  Speaker 2: Mean to his mom? That's the worst thing to see
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  Speaker 2: as a friend or a partner or anything like that.
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  Speaker 2: No respect for the person that's like the most important
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  Speaker 2: in your life, the person that do you facts. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: carried you for nine months. Yeah, you gave her a
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  Speaker 2: stretch mark, your chubby little one more in more than
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  Speaker 2: one place. Yeah, when you're deeper like that, it's so
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  Speaker 2: disrespect How can you be disrespectful to the one whose
• 10:15
  Speaker 2: boobs you sucked?
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  Speaker 1: Well, if you go down that avenue exactly technically, well,
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  Speaker 1: you obviously shouldn't be disrespectful to your partner, but that
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  Speaker 1: they're in that category two.
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  Speaker 4: I would assume that the booms have also been Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: coming from what speaking from experience, you've been mommy, give
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  Speaker 4: me some meal.
• 10:42
  Speaker 2: We've been getting better at dirty talk to even do
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  Speaker 2: some dirty talk stuff you and me on the pod.
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  Speaker 2: We were doing it. You women getting good?
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  Speaker 1: Man, What actions make you not trust the guy? Hair
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  Speaker 1: tie in the car? Of course a different one then
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  Speaker 1: I wear damn that one's Actually that's probably the best
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  Speaker 1: response I saw.
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  Speaker 2: That is so fair.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, I hope she doesn't confuse my I sometimes
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  Speaker 1: I've been getting sushi a little bit recently, and I
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: put the elastic band. It comes on an elastic band.
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  Speaker 1: I put it over my manual thing you've been getting
• 11:19
  Speaker 1: sushi just like the chicken one occasionally, do you not
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  Speaker 1: mind it? I don't mind the chicken one, that's about it,
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  Speaker 1: because it's quick and easy. I don't have to wait
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  Speaker 1: and then like I'll just get one.
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  Speaker 2: What about the seaweed, I don't. I don't think you
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  Speaker 2: just you just it's something to put down.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well it's rice chicken like it's it's still semi good. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's not like overly processed.
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  Speaker 2: Proud man. You could go to sushi with Cassie now, yeah,
• 11:39
  Speaker 2: but just get a simple role and she can get
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  Speaker 2: You don't have to get the fancy like Nigeri and stuff. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even know that. I don't even know what
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  Speaker 2: that means, like raw fish but no facts. A fuck,
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  Speaker 2: that's so true. I saw a funny thing and it
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  Speaker 2: was a guy with like have you seen the trend
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  Speaker 2: of the goblin and the goblin sound on TikTok. It's
• 12:01
  Speaker 2: kind of just like a mischievous sound and like a
• 12:03
  Speaker 2: mischievous looking goblin. And it's like me when I throw
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  Speaker 2: like a random scrunchy that I bought into my friend's
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  Speaker 2: car three weeks before the lad's holidays. I was like,
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  Speaker 2: come on, oh, that's a stitch a babe.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, thinking about it, you should do that to your mate, Say,
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  Speaker 1: any boys listening, just a couple of hair.
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  Speaker 2: Tyes something you could do if you need them to
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  Speaker 2: break up.
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  Speaker 1: No, I meant like your friend doesn't have a girlfriend,
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  Speaker 1: and like just to pretend like he's got Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And then like you go to get in you've chucked
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  Speaker 2: the haird time and you go what's this way?
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  Speaker 3: What's this?
• 12:41
  Speaker 2: And he's like what do you mean? And then you're like,
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: who's been in here? And then yeah, and they're gonna
• 12:47
  Speaker 2: be like genuinely no one, Yeah, I'm telling you, And
• 12:50
  Speaker 2: they're like, hey, don't you don't.
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  Speaker 3: Have to lie to what?
• 12:52
  Speaker 2: You can fuck with it? Literally? Holy shit? What's something
• 12:56
  Speaker 2: of a guy that could be left in a girl's car?
• 12:58
  Speaker 2: When do we hold socks? I was thinking socks too? Maybe,
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  Speaker 2: like I do know some lint pockets. I feel like
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  Speaker 2: I always have lint in my pocket. Some spare change,
• 13:08
  Speaker 2: get a receipt from like Autobar or something, put it in.
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  Speaker 1: No, go buy something, go full depth, go to mobile,
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  Speaker 1: you can do that. Yeah, go to like some like
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: manly shop at fishing shop, like Freddie's Fishing World or
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: like an adventure shop, and then sign up for the program.
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  Speaker 1: So on the receipt it says a guy's name. Yes,
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: so it will say Jake, And then get the receipt
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  Speaker 1: and put it in your girlfriend's color single that is
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  Speaker 1: so good, and then stitch her up with the girls?
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: What are we talking about that? It's pretty funny if
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  Speaker 2: she singles like don't stitch up? Yeah, okay ship? What
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: actions make you not trust a guy when he calls
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  Speaker 2: every girl from his past crazy? Yeah? Common, that's a
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  Speaker 2: red flag. Red flag, just like you don't need to
• 13:59
  Speaker 2: like save face of what it was. No, just so
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: if you made a mistake in the past relationship own it.
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  Speaker 1: Just be nice too, Like they don't know your ex.
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  Speaker 1: Just be like, oh yeah it didn't work it Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Simple as that. But she's a fucking bitch. She's a
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  Speaker 2: crazy bitch, insane.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I reckon that many dudes. To be fair, equally,
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: I think male and female would talk shit about their
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: previous previous true.
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  Speaker 2: I always I kind of try and steer clear. I
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  Speaker 2: think I don't like talking about him in general.
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  Speaker 3: No, me neither.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I actually I had I actually had a really
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  Speaker 2: crazy x so it is unfortunate for people that do
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: have that. True if you were to bring it up,
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: like what's your past, like yours is justified, mine's just
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: fighting ways. But it's also kind of like what if you.
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: Say, like she was crazy and then one of the
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: actions she did, I.
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: Could definitely yeah, he's actually he's the thing. It's like
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: I could say, oh, I had this one crazy accent.
• 14:49
  Speaker 2: If they were to go or would you do? I
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: could be like, oh, have you got time? Yeah? I
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: could list stuff off if they can't list stuff off. Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: True.
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  Speaker 2: If it's like she didn't really go out with the bulls,
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: I don't think.
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  Speaker 1: That's a valid Yeah, poor Jake, what actions make you
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: not trust a guy? Him being nonchalant?
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: Again? What fuck? We have said this before. Don't be nonchalant,
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: be shaloon. Most people naturally aren't nonchalant. No, people, if
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: you are naturally nonchalant, first off, you're kind of cool,
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: envious of you. But also I have a quarrying question
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  Speaker 2: for you. Is chalon is that word? Friends? Chalo? I
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: feel like no, yeah, there's no way that stuff. I
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: tell you what this works with? Upper up? Wait, maybe
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: that's where Schalan upper land. We have that debate on Patreon.
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you use the word after I
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: used the word upper chulant to describe something that was good, AND's.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: Like what that might name like stop sucking some big ways.
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: And the other day on the phone even you've finished
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: in practicing, we were we had a phone call the
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: other day and you were like, I said something, you go,
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: they probably mitigates what I'm about to say. I was driving,
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: so I couldn't say anything I like, and it did
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  Speaker 2: that the right de is that like what is mitigate? Me?
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: Like disregarded what I was about to say? Right, okay, okay,
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  Speaker 2: fair because you said like first said something yeah, and
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: then you're basically means, oh, I was going to ask this,
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: but I don't even need to ask it. Yeah, you answer,
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: you asked me, You answered my question for it, Okay, mitigate.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a genius man.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: Occasionally I'll get the word right. Yeah, I'm just throwing throwing.
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: Things at the wall. You're like a guy that messages
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: like ten girls a day and every now and then
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: I don't like none of them replies.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: I like the analogy of throwing something at the wall,
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: and like I reckon, like six out of ten hitting yeah, okay,
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: like sometimes it's sticks.
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: The other day I called a.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: Pregnancy doctor an orthodontist. That one didn't stick. No, that's
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: just that's so far wrong. Okay, you gotta try, but
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: to be fair, the attempts are noble. Yeah, noble attempts.
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: What actions make you not trust a guy? Snapchat is
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: his main form of communication?
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, facts, unless you're like eighteen still, yeah I can.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: The only good thing about Snapchat is like group chat
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: for the boys, like sharing videos and the girls sharing
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: videos our main form. No, no, no, Like if I
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: was talking to a girl, I wouldn't be like, let's
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: go on Snapchat? Yeah no unless like, yeah, I feel
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: like it's icky fair, very ikey.
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: I have another Snapchat one, I'll go again. What actions
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: make you not trust a guy when his snap score
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: is over one million? How's that possible? Like? I want
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: to find we've had Snapchat since? When did it come out? Mate?
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: I have had Snapchat since year seven at least. I
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: remember people had a meal when we were in high school. No, yeah,
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: how do I check my snapschoore? I have four hundred
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: and eighteen thousand? I have two hundred and seventy two thousand,
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: nearly two hundred and seventy three.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: To be fair, you have notifications turned off for Snapchat. Yeah,
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: so you don't even go on that sorely go on it.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: The only reason I like use it is me and
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend have a five hundred and twenty seven days streak.
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: Oh shit, there you go, and we got it the
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: first day where to sleep ever, Well, there you go.
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: See it's kind of a good reason to have it.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: You wasn't your main form of communication before her. We
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: don't even talk on that. We literally just send a.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: She will send me like videos of like her day
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: that she sends all the girls, And I'm like, don't
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: send me there, Like you.
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: Think I have time to watch it? Just call me? Yeah,
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: Like I want individual ones. You're gonna do hear tr
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah make me feel space?
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: So she says all these references that like if they
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: were for me, I would know them, but she's saying
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: it in broad spectrum for all the girls groups.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I know this about you, like, yeah, things
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: need Yeah, there's things she doesn't need to say because
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: you would know it, yeah, exactly, And she doesn't notice
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: the haircut. Yeah.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: In my bad books lately, in my bad books, what
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: actions make you not trust? A guy takes his phone
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: everywhere with him and when he's with me lays the
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: screen down.
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: Facts.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: I had one that was what actually makes you not
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: trust a guy when he has the privacy screen protector?
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: Or that's where you like when you can't see it
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: from the side, like why was that invented? Like what
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: are you looking at? Because people want to cheat, like
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: what are you looking at? But like at work, you're
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: just like, oh, yeah, that's what's important. You've got your
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: screen protector onto the bodies, Like yeah, just do it
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: to work mate. You know what's funny is I have
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: nothing bad on my phone right neither. I have nothing
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: bad on my phone. Probably some memes that shouldn't be seen,
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: yeah's true. Probably have some memes that like my sister
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: has sent me the shouldn't be looking at Instagram algorithm bad.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: But I and and SO say I'm in the car
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: I'm driving, and Beth, I don't know once you go
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: change the song. Yeah, I have nothing on my phone.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: I could give her my phone for two weeks, I
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: don't care. She'd go through it.
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: She did.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: She never does, she never has, she probably never will. Yeah,
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: but but that's trust, that's trust.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: But still when she goes on my phone, I'm kind
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: of like, what does she like? What if I accidentally
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: did something?
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: What if I To be fair, I'm kind of like,
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: oh shit, what if I Actually I'm kind of scared. Still,
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: there's something in your gut. To be fair, I don't
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: know every single photo in my photo, Like there's swimming,
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: there's like ten thousand photos there, and I'm like, I don't.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: Know what's in there. Yeah, I mean, to be fair,
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty I think it's risk free for me because
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: I've never never done the nudes thing or No, I
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: don't have any nudes from people that are going to
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: be an unexpected pop up in a memory or anything. No, never, neither.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: But I think it's more for like in that talking
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: stage when people will like have something on their phone
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: that they probably shouldn't from a past relationship.
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: They haven't done the clean out or anything like that.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't even be worried if I forgot to delete
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: a photo of a past girlfriend, because it's part of
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: your life. I think that's something you love about it
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: if I saw it I'd be like, oh yeah, to
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: get that one. Yeah.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: I have a problem with the taking phone everywhere and
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: screen down. I do that unconsciously sometimes, like I put
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: my screen down so I don't get disturbed. Yeah, because
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't want anyone to message me. And
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: if I put on my phone down, it's like maybe
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: that's what toxic people say there. I don't want to
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: get disturbed. I don't have nothing to hide because our
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: job all is like twenty four to seven. On this phone,
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: something's always going on, So I'm just like, phone down.
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: Do not disturb. I try to shut off.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Sometimes this is your girlfriend always do this too, Like
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: you're on the couch or something and you're like in
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: a position that like you're facing the opposite when you're
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: on your phone, like yeah, and she's like, what are
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: you hiding? I'm like, what do you I'm looking at
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: fucking car parks. I yeah, no, I'm trying to think
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty. It's definitely annoying.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: I saw one that said when he takes his phone
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: to the bathroom, and I was like, first of all,
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: if he's shitting, obviously he's taking his phone to the bathroom. Yeah,
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: And second of all, I'm not gonna lie. My brain's
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: so rotten that i'll scroll TikTok one pisson. Oh, I'll
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: risk it. I'll risk that shit and just let it go,
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: and I'll scroll TikTok one pisson my own house or
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: a public place.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: They're going to a toilet one hundred percent. Yea, I've
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: told you about the time. This isn't bad at all.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: But when I was single, when I went out and
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: I had porn on my phone, when he went to
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: look something up, yea, because you didn't delete it, Like, yeah,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: we're having like a debate and we're like, let's look
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: it up. I think it was even me And then
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: I went to pull up Safari and then there was
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: a straight porn on that and we were like we
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: laughed about it. I was like, I was like everyone
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: does it?
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: Is it? Yeah? Okay? What actions make you not trust
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: a guy? Guys who want to compare hand size instantly?
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: Oh really? I kind of thought that was like a cute,
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: little flirty thing. Yeah.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: I thought that was like a flirty thing to like
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: get you touching early. Yeah, does he know what he's
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: doing too much?
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: Well? Yeah, we do it for a reason. Yeah, But
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: does he know too much? Like when he's like too confident,
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: I don't trust him. The thing it's like a classically
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: you go hand size and then you just got the interlock.
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah I can see that. Yeah, he knows too much.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can see the Like why that makes sense?
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: What actions make you not trust the guy saying sorry
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: but not changing facts?
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: Common? By the way, Yeah, the word sorry means nothing
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: unless there's actually like something behind it. I tell you
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: a good one.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: Actually, What actions make you not trust the guy flowers
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: when they've done something wrong?
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, Like I don't think that should be the
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: reason why you feel obliged to buy our girl flowers?
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: True change, Yeah, you should change, be sorry and change
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: what you did. You don't have to be proving that
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: you're sorry straight away. You need to prove it over time. Yes,
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: buy flowers because you want to buy flowers because you
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: want to get out of the bad books exactly? And
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: like does that work? Surely not? I don't know. Maybe
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: mentally it's kind of like, well, you're gonna be flowers,
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: maybe like an expensive back by true ye blabe b yeah,
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: something that that would get true if you're gonna do it,
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: if you're going to buy something as a sorry, it
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: needs to hurt the bank. Yeah, fifty dollars of flowers. Nah,
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: can't be flowers because I reckon twenty dollars flowers randomly
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: mean more than one hundred dollars flowers as a sorry.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: Yes, the surprise and like doing it on good terms
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: is what's valuable one hundred percent.
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: They would appreciate that way more. What actions make you
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: not trust a guy saying quote, she's just my friend, Ah,
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: I have one.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: What actions make you not trust the guy having a
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: girl best friend period facts? Yeah, that's when you ghost.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, run girl, she's just my girl best friend. Yeah,
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: no red flag we had sex. You just don't know
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: about it.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're never going to tell you. Yeah, I don't
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: want to lose their friend. That's the rebound. That the minimum.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: We've hooked up, Yeah, all the time. Hook up for
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: some people mean sex and we need to clarify it's
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: just like make out tongue on tongue action. Yeah. Yeah,
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: as Jake would say, what do you say, no the
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: tontal hockey? Yeah hockey, yeah, ton hockey mate? What actions
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: make you not trust a guy? His Instagram following, Oh,
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: like what's it all girls school? Looks like he went
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: to an old girl school.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: I had following Instagram models. Yeah, what actions make you
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: not trust the guy? I really like this funt when he.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: Vapes, Yes, that's honestly gross. Yeah, disgusting. We don't know
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: what they do to your body. Not care about his lungs, No,
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: not at all. He doesn't care about you. That's doing
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: nothing for his stamina in the bedroom.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, think about the long term. If you guys date
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: for a long period of time, he's going to die earlier.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: Fair. He hasn't been thinking about you. He doesn't care
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: about your children, He doesn't care about you your future,
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: doesn't care about your future. No, he's just he wants
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: out of here early. She's puffing away, not thinking about anything.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: Thomas the tank engine, just going puff puff, running trains
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: through the town. Yeah, to be cheating on you as well.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: If he vapes, he cheats, I don't even care.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: Honestly, we have a friend. I'm pretty sure who has
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: puffed on a vape mid sex.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, stop it. I'm pretty sure he told me he did.
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: You know what, I think I actually remember this day,
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: and I think I remember being just as shock.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: Imagine that, Like, imagine being in the bedroom and being like, like,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: I've got a surprise that do you think of, Like, oh,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: maybe like a sexty, like a dildo or like a
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: vibraider or something.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: She's like, yeah, freaky loop, I don't know. And then
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: he goes blows it in her face and it would
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: be hot if I blew it into your mouth and
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: you sucked it up.
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: Does that work?
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: No, you can do it. You can do like you
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: can hit the vape and then blow it off, and
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: they go, what about if.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: He'd been practicing, like he's an avid vapor and he goes,
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: I've got something to show up, pulls out the vape,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: puffs it in a perfect circle.
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: Over his doodle. Okay, okay, I'd be.
• 26:59
  Speaker 5: In if Yeah, that would actually be impressive. It's like
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: that ring toss game actually true. He's like, yeah, you
• 27:11
  Speaker 5: try it, because you try it. If you can get
• 27:15
  Speaker 5: it on there, it's like, I just got to stay hard.
• 27:18
  Speaker 5: That's the only part of the game. He's just gonna
• 27:20
  Speaker 5: stay make me stay hard.
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: Who stop? Okay? What actions make you not trust a
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: guy when his name starts with a j ah? Facts
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: that's common. Everyone says that, yeah, they don't trust jays. Yeah,
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: never do I or you need to.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: You're taking a risk if I'm always watching my back.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: What actions make you not trust a guy when he
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: always has his phone on?
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: Do not disturb? Oh okay, no fair.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: So I know people would do this just because they're
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: like business minded, Yeah, and they want to stay locked in. Yeah,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: but I'm like, E, like, just look at it and
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: then don't have the like restrictions not to do it,
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: the restraints not to do it.
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, but what if they got a bunch of
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: phone calls? Would it be annoying? Is it kind of
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: like it's doing it stove for a good reason, But
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: why would justifying their actions? That's a good point. I
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: have one that says, not answering calls when you're there
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: sometimes it's kind of rude to it be constantly answering
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: the phone. I saw one that said, picks up the
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: phone and leaves the room to talk, which is you
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: to a t I always leave them, which is what
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: you do because I but I think it's rude. I
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: trust you. I think it's rude to have the conversation.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: Like so if I'm having a conversation with you, and
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: then I get a phone call. I'm sorry, I got
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: to take this. I don't want to just be having
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: another conversation in front of the person. I just that
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: I just interrupted, So I feel like it's better to
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: just walk out. More excuses. I want to hear and
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: know you're not doing any bad things. Start businesses with
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: other people, and make sure he's not cheating. Okay, I
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: think I have two more. I got what actions make
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: you not trust a guy sitting down while peeing. I
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: could never be a girl and walk in on my
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: boy just taking a piss nah and sitting down. Yeah.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: She imagine if you walk in and you're oh sorry,
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: because you're gonna be like thinking he's taking a ship. Yeah,
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: oh sorry, and he goes. I don't worry. I'm just
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: being should be saying, that's even what to be fair.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Thinking about some of our friends, I reckon that'd sit
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: down because they're lazy. Yeah, get tired of stand it up?
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: TikTok bait. Yeah, you're my last one. What actions make
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: you not trust a guy? Four head kisses without commitments.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: I saw one and it said fore head kisses. Early on.
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: I feel like men are out here he's going all
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: over the place after having sex once. That is actually crazy.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: They're trying to Wow, that's crazy. I hope I haven't
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: done that. I not remember.
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: I just I hate forehead kisses.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: Before I like fell in love with my girlfriend, I
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: think four head kisses are intimate. Yeah, and I'd never
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: felt such a connection before. I didn't feel the need
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: to forehead kiss a girl I've just slept.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: With, weaving like I'm leaving a mark. Yeah. My lips
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: are there forever for real breath Yeah, the oils, Yeah,
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: they're gonna ingrain my dry lips, my butthole lips.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: Oh shit, I've ever tried like kissing intimately in the
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: morning and then you got no saliva.
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: Oh, I hate. I don't even like pecking in the morning.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: First thing, I need to brush my teeth. Yeah. And
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: it's not even because I think Beth has bad breath.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: Usually because your mouth's closed, you can't smell it. But
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I can taste my morning breath. Everything's just congested.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: You know, you can't. It's not sexy. Yeah, it is
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: not sexy, but every now and then you kind of
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: just have like white ship. Yeah, And I'm like excuse
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: me in the shower. I feel like terrible. My gums bleed.
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: It can't be attractive. It's a bigger issue. Yeah, okay,
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: what actions make you not trust a guy using a
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: reverse camera to reverse park?
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: Oh that's a really, really good one. I've been relying
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: on it too much, have you? Yeah, you can't fucking
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: say anything, mate, your car you can reverse that anywhere.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: That's like the size of half a car.
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: So I've got a mental debate at the moment because
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: I want a dog box or it cannot be in
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: the back of my car. But one reason I don't
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: want it is because I have to only use the
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: reverse camera. If I get that, I mean, if you
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: have it, just use it. Yeah, but then no one's
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: gonna be trusting me.
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: Who cares.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: But looking other end of the spectrum, wouldn't have a
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: reverse camera be good because it means he's boogie.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: A little bit? Yeah, bank balance looking good? Or is
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: like most people got that these days? I think most
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: cars actually do have a reverse camera these days. Yeah,
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: in the minority. I'm just a man. Yeah right, you
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: can't be you can't be trusted, Jake, You start with ja,
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: I know, Yeah, what is with the whole, like if
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: his name starts with the J, I stand by it.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: What I've seen a specific one one time on TikTok
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: and it's just said if his name starts with the
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: J and ends with a knee, And I was thinking,
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: is there any other name then Jake that starts with
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: jane ends with a knee. That's very pacific. You did that.
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: That's crazy that I saw the cogs turning as you
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: said specific.
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: That's crazy, Adie.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: I have something that I would like to bring up.
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: Please be pacific in uh to make your pacific. I
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: stood up for myself, stood up for yourself. Ye quite often.
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't do that. I would. I'm a big on
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: the high road. Yeah, okay, ship, let me tell you
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: so as so I guess. Yeah. A couple weeks ago,
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: Beth and I moved into a new place, and so
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: she had to organize getting her old place cleaned properly
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: because of getting bonded back and everything right, and so
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: the real estate she was with that's crazy to me.
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: I think the owner should do that. They've been being
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: robbed for fucking yeah, we've been giving you money every
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: week for two years. So Beth was, and now I'm
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: going to clean the place your house. I was paying
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: your mortgage. Facts weird thing. Have you got to leave it?
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: How you left it? Five hundred bucks to get it cleaned? Okay? Basically,
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: the real estate she was with had they have a
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: kind of a list of cleaner is that they trust,
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: and they recommend using them because if you use someone
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: else that's cheaper, the real estate could then say this
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: isn't good enough, and then you have to pay a
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: bit more. So it's kind of just like you may
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: as well go with them because they kind of guarantee
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: they won't say this isn't good enough. Yeah, and so
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: Beth she got two quotes and there were very similar prices,
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: short with a cheaper one, right, and so there was
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: On the day that they were supposed to be coming,
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: Beth and I went to her whole place and we
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: were supposed to meet the cleaner there at two pm.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: She died to clean this whole house. She was like,
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: I'll have this done today. She got she was going
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: to get at two pm. Right. We were there for
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: thirty minutes and she doesn't get there, and she messages
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: us and says, oh, something's happened. At another job, I
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: won't get there till three. Yeah, so like, okay, cool
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: didn't really phase me at this point. Left came back
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: at three, letter in and then let her in. At
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: three she was on her own. She said she had
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: two other people coming and then and a couple hours later.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: I wasn't until like six thirty seven pm that night,
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: so she's been cleaning for hours. Yeah. She sends Beth
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: a message and says, after I've already give her, given
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: her a quote and then everything. She says, I'm gonna
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: have to charge you another one hundred and twenty dollars
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: because the bathrooms need a really good scrub. And Beth
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: came in and she read me the message and I
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: was kind of like, it is what it is, you know,
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: And she was a bit upset about it, and I
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: did say, I said, like it is bullshit. You know.
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: She can't because Beth was like, she's quoted it. How
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: can she go back on a quote? And I was like, chare.
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: She was like she could have come and looked at it. Anything,
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: She's seen photos, she knows how big it was. All
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: this stuff. Quote can't change. And I was like, like,
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: depending on the job, fair, but I mean she quoted
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: it and she was like, yeah, this is how much
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: is going to cost for that job. You should be
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: pretty accurate. Yeah, but a quote came to hard. I mean,
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: a quote can change, but yeah, it shouldn't. It's like
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: a ballpark, that's what a quote is.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: But she she should say in like fine print after
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: it's done, like give or take two hundred bucks or something.
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think quotes are supposed to
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: change a Yeah, there are. That's what a quote is.
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: It's just like ballpark. That's a legitlary.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: Like I'm not even being like trying to start an argument. Really,
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: if you quote a job like you should give or
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: take about a couple hundred bucks for that job, maybe
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: fifty dollars either side.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: Wait, so if you I thought that, that's not how
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: quotes worked. I thought a quote was like I'm gonna
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: price a job to build you a wall or something.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: So it's like, okay, I know how big it is.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: I know I know how big the wall is going
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: to be, so I know how much the price is
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: going to cost, and this is how long it will
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: take me. So when you do a quote, if it's
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: going to take me two days longer. I don't think
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: you get to charge for two days more labor. I
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: don't think that's how it works. No, you're not that
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: type thing.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: It's like if you dig the whole and then you
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: for some reason discovered there's a pipe there, right, then
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: you charge more where she quoted you, and then discovered
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: how dirty.
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: Well you're not supposed to. You can't know if there's
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: a pipe.
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, But then the same thing happened with your bathroom.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: She realized after going in there and digging in the
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: drain that it's disgusting that she charged needed another hour
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: to clean it or something like that.
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: But for the cleaning one, it's like all you have
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: to do is come ask for photos that it should
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: be pretty look, should be pretty accurate for that. Yeah.
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: So basically she continued, charge one hundred and twenty more.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: And so I said to Beth, and so what But
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: what it did was it kind of gave you like
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: she was she was hours into it, right, it gave
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: you a bad taste in your mouth. Well, she was
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: hours into it. And then with the one twenty, you
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: can't really say no no, because you can't then organize
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: another cleaner because there's two days left on the lease,
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: and this is you know we've organized it for this day, right, Yeah,
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: And so I just said, look, it is just we're
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: just gonna have to pay it whatever. Yea cool. And
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: then the next way, are you paying it? No, I'm
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: just for the sake of the conversation, like, ye I'm
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: just gonna have to pay it. It is what it is.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: And then the next day Beth had a message from her,
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: and then the message was, oh, I had to like
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: I didn't leave until two thirty am, that the cleaner
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: didn't leave till two thirty am. She said, I didn't
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: get everything finished. I had to send the other two
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: workers home at eight and so I need to come back.
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: What a weird business model? And so I was like
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: what and then she said and so Beth was like, okay,
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: well there's the guy's coming to clean the carpets today.
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: You can be there at the same time. It's sweet.
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: And she goes, oh, I'm busy with other jobs today.
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: This is on Friday. How much is this quote? It
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: was originally like six point fifty. Yeah, so with the
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: extra one twenty it's gone up to like seven ninety
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: or whatever. Who wants to work it, and so Rea
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: til two am. So then she goes, Okay, I'm busy today.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: I can't go back today, but I would like to
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: go back at six am on Saturday morning. And so
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: we have to go give her the keys, yeah, and
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: let her in, right, And so I said to Beth,
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I'll go. I was like, I'll
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: just wake up early and go and then I'm going
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: to go to the coast that day. So maybe I'll
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: just go to the coast earlier. Who knows. We'll see
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: what happens, right, Yeah, So I set my alarm like
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: five forty five because it's close. Luckily, still, she was
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: l five forty five on a Saturday morning. Yeah, I
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: get up, I check a shirt on, I'm still in
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: my pajamas because I was just going to go let
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: her in quickly and go back and try and fall
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: back asleep. Yeah. And so I get there, I'm just
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: like waiting. I got there like at five fifty seven, okay,
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: and I was like, look, i'll give her obviously, it's
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: like she'll be here at six o five. Yeah. I
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: was like, I'm expecting to wait a couple of minutes.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: Gets a six o five and I'm just kind of
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: still standing there. And then it gets to six' ten
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: AND i find something to sit on AND i was
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: just it's, like, fuck where is? She and THEN i was,
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: like where CAN i leave THE i can't even leave
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: the fucking. KEYS i was, like irresponsible to leave the keys.
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: OUT i was, like what CAN i? Do SO i
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: got to six twenty six, Thirty so it's six. THIRTY
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: i Called, beth, yeah AND i woke her up AND i,
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: said do you, Mind just Because beth had her, NUMBER i,
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: said do you mind just texting this lady to see
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: where she. Is she's she's thirty minutes. Late she texted.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: Her she gets a, reply she, said, Oh i'm so.
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: SORRY i slept through my. Alarm oh my, God i'll
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: be there at. Seven SO i was like. FUCK i was, like,
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: Okay i'm kind of LIKE i wasn't EVEN i wasn't
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: upset until this. Point i'd be so off THIS i.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: WAS i, WAS i was off this by. Now it's
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: very very off this by, now, right BECAUSE i understand
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: a quote can, change right if you're digging a hole
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: and you find something that makes it. Worse but for,
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: this all she had to do was come look at
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: it and she could have quoted it very. Accurate oh
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: by now like this quote can't. CHANGE i don't like.
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: Her and so, NO i don't like her at. All
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: SO i go back And i've been up for fuck
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: forty five minutes not. Gone actually, Yeah SO i get.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: Home Even beth she said THAT i don't. KNOW i
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: think she woke up Because henry had a coffin fit
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: or some. Shit so she just like stayed. Away she was,
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: Like i'm. Awake so we were awake AND i was
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: talking to her about, it AND i, said this is.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: Fucked LIKE i THINK i THINK i would never normally say,
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: something BUT i THINK i need to say, something Oh.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: Jake and Then beth is, going but.
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: Will you do?
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: It AND i was, like AND i, said that's a fair, question,
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: yeah Because i'm pretty good at saying it's in the.
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: Past it is what it. Is and so she was, saying,
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: well do you want me to go BECAUSE i will say?
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: Something AND i said, NO i REALLY i THINK i
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: need to do. THIS i need to more confrontation in.
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: It and SO i was thinking about WHAT i need to,
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: say and then so she said she'd be there at
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: seven by the, way the quarter past, Seven, well get
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: a message that she's five minutes. Away. Again god a
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: little bit, Later, yeah whatever it, is what? Is and
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: SO i guess she's. There and when she Said i'm
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: five minutes, AWAY i waited ten to. Leave. Ye so
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: WHEN i was, there she was. There AND i didn't
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: know her name at this. Point but WHEN i went,
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: OVER i was walking over with the, keys and she
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: was already like, apologizing and SO i, SAID i haven't
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: caught your. Name she gave me her name AND i,
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: Said I'm. JAKE i shook her, hand AND i, said,
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: LOOK i need to tell you this has been a bad.
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: Experience you, know it's the first. Day you were an hour.
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: Late you had a, reason all. RIGHT i didn't SAY i.
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: UNDERSTAND i was, like you had a, reason AND i
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: left it, there, yeah just to let her know THAT
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: i wasn't happy about, that all. Right and THEN i,
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: said and then you changed your quote another one hundred
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: and twenty. Dollars people have. BUDGETS i left it at
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: that as, well and THEN i was, like and THEN
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: i was On saturday. MORNING i was waiting here for
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: thirty minutes outside on A saturday, morning and she just
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: basically all she was doing was just, apologizing, apologizing and
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: SO i kind of just ended it with a disappointing,
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: look gave her the. KEYS i, said let us know
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: when you're. Done, yeah leave the keys in, there AND
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: i went. Back and SO i was thinking about it
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: WHEN i was, done AND i was like fucking proud
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: of myself for actually doing. It good. Job, Yeah AND
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: i was thinking about, it and WHEN i was driving,
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: AWAY i was THINKING i could have said, more But
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: i'm Actually I'M i Think i'm happy with HOW i
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: fully went because so she owns a. Business, yeah it
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: is what it, is she's quoted under, quoted she needed
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: she took her long and needed more. Money. Fair, OKAY
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: i was fully kind of like fair up until that.
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: Point then the six am thing pissed. Me and so
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: BASICALLY i was THINKING i could have gone further into,
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: it but she probably already feels guilty about, it you,
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: Know AND i was THINKING i don't need to make
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: her feel more. Guilty but she owns a. Business we're a.
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: Customer she knows that we're not a happy. Customer that's
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: all she needs to. Know so, YEAH i was just
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: kind of, like, NO i think that's a very. MICH
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: i would do a wad to handle things very. Normally
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: just let it, go very, normally just let it. Go
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: did she still charge you the extra one? Twenty?
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: YEAH i thought the happy ending was going to be, like,
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: oh she, said she felt bad she didn't charge your.
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: One what happened Was beth paid the one twenty the
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: day that she the day, prior or two days prior
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: the day she. Said and in, hindsight maybe she should have,
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: Said i'll give you the one twenty when it's all.
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: Done it would be something like, that or LIKE i don't,
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: know i'll clean something that your. House, yeah but it
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: is what it. Is she was honestly a nice. Lady
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: she just mid. Forties oh really, yeah, YEAH i was
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: thinking she might be really, young and, like yeah she.
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: Was she was mid. FORTIES i just was, thinking come, on,
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: yeah and BUT i JUST i just wanted to say
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: it BECAUSE i would never ever good, job every say
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: something and you didn't Even, beth and do. It she
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: will use. It you did it in a good way.
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: Too it was like. Mature didn't make her feel. Bad
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: it was just telling her the experience you've. Had, Yeah
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: AND i was anxious and my heart was.
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: Beating.
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: BRO i was, like holy, fuck AM i going to do?
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: It and you didn't like bring her down because a
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: lot of people when they have, confrontation they go you.
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: YEAH i just was, thinking you ruined my. Saturday, yeah
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: fucking you didn't do a good job cleaning your charges too,
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: much whereas you were more calm, composed told her what
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: it is and hopefully she can improve for the next.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: Person Because i've been on the receiving end of confrontation
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: plenty of times working at a. Restaurant, yeah and, dude
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: people aren't afraid of. Confrontation oh, YEAH i hate. IT
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: i had it. TOO i hate. IT i hate talking to.
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: Me, YEAH i.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: WENT i walked back inside after doing, it AND i
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: said To, BETHEL i did. It she, Goes i'm. Proudy,
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: YEAH i, SAID i THINK i need, it just a
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: little bit more confrontation in my. Life before you were
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: going to SAY i needed like a sweet. Tree, yeah
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: well it was only seven. THIRTY i DIDN'T i hadn't
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: even had breakfast yet. Started there was a minia yeah,
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: ship BUT i would just. REMEMBER i said to. HER
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: i was, LIKE i THINK i just need a little
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: more confrontation in my. Life, yeah you do me. Wrong,
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: YEAH i need to stop letting it.
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: Go bring it.
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: Up good, job, man good.
• 45:47
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• 45:56
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• 45:59
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• 46:05
  Speaker 1: to start, off just want to let you know how
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: MUCH i love the. Pod i'll try to make this
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: as short as. POSSIBLE i moved out at eighteen Move
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: states FOR, uni And i'm now twenty three and have
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: recently moved back to my hometown and have moved back
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: in with my. MUM i have been single for a
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: bit over three years, now and after my ex AND
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: i broke, UP i had a friends with benefit at
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: my hometown WHO i would see a couple times every
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: TIME i went to visit my family and he lives
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: in a. SHAREHOUSE i have known him since we were
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: fourteen and we have always been on good. Terms now
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: That i'm back in my, HOMETOWN i have no restrictions
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: on seeing him and we have been chatting here and
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: there about, it but haven't made any plans so to the.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: DILEMMA i haven't so much as kissed someone in two,
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: years even THOUGH i know the chemistry is there with this,
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: GUY i haven't had sex in. AGES i know it sounds,
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: dumb But i'm scared That i've forgotten what to. Do
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: i'm worried that because of my serious dry, spell that
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: it will be really bad or even.
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: Awkward how DO i approach this with?
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: Him SHOULD i mention THAT i haven't been with anyone
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: for a, while or just leave it and hope it goes.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Unnoticed thanks, again, boys your advice is always. GREAT i
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: love to see the difference you're making by being yourself
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: and spreading.
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: Love thank you very. Much depending on what age you
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: lost your, Virginity i'm going to say, seventeen, seventeen, eighteen
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: go you did eighteen? Years, yeah but you're not thinking about.
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: It you did eighteen. Years you can do. Too you were, Questioned,
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: okay what's your longest dry spell from starting so from losing? Virginity, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: okay lost? It then sixteen, ooh we play and then
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: it was with it was. GIRLFRIEND i was with that,
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: girlfriend broke up a couple months, later got with. Someone
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: bodycounts two already might have been my next. Girlfriend, actually
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: here we go tracking now it might have been back
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: tracking and then after me and that girlfriend broke. Up,
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: god it's gotta be a year long. Time, like, yeah easier.
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: Year everyone has dry. Spells yeah that's. Relatable oh, yeah easier.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: Year AND i didn't stress about not knowing what to.
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: DO i just was stressing about you know.
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: What, yeah we stressed about different things, Though so you
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: were stressing about not lasting, long AND i was stressing
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: about like knowing what to. Do, yeah to be fair
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: to daunting thing when you. HAVEN'T i was done the tangle.
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: And correct you WHAT i was stressing about lasting too.
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: Long that's why you can't be. Trusted, no who's to
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: say this guy has has.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: Been GOING i am you, know there's probably easy to.
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: Do he probably hasn't had sex since. You, YEAH i
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: reckon one hundred. Percent don't tell him that you've had two.
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: Years when it comes to sex at the, START i
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: reckon faking it till you make it is really. Good,
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: yeah like when you're, comfortable you can joke about, it
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: like you don't haven't had sex for like two?
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: Years you can if you want, to by all, means
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: but like because you've done it and you like you
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: know what goes, where you know exactly how it, works and,
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: you like you, said the chemistry is. There it's all
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: good to be anxious one. Percent you're nervous. Anxious it's LIKE.
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: I feel like sex is like natural instinct. Too once
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: you get into the, action your body just takes. Over it, Does,
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: yeah for, real it does like something like along our
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: biology takes over because we've done it for millions of
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: years and you're just, Like i'm ready to.
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: GO i, think how do we reassure, yeah it's drinking
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: baby steps are good or just go bas deep literally, yeah,
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: AH i think, THIS i.
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: Reckon the reassurance you need is so you're scared that's
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: going to be awkward or you're gonna make a fool.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: Yourself the reassurance is that he wants, it or the
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: reassurance is that he wants. It BUT i was even
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: going to say that if you make a, mistake lean into.
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: It. Laugh. Yeah i've had. Plenty i've made.
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: Mistakes girls have made, mistakes and you just laugh about
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: it and keep going and it's.
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: Fun. Yeah, yeah don't be like hella awkward about. It
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: just lean into.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: It oh, shit, yeah let's keep going like everyone makes.
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: Mistakes that's so. Relatable and then also he doesn't give a.
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: Fuck he wants to have. Sex he does not. Care so,
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: fun he's probably only ever had sex with you when
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: you come back FROM, uni probably knowing most.
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: Guys Probably, YEAH i. Reckon, yeah so have some.
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: Fun lean into being, awkward and it's going to be
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: fun no matter. What who knows you might fall in?
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: Love, okay my turn dilemma? Title AM i? Nitpicking i've
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: been dating this guy for three months and it's slowly
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: progressing towards a. Relationship it's. Great we really like each.
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: Other it's been some time Since i've been in a,
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: relationship AND i think he's in the same. Situation we
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: have been on the same page about the fact that
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: we don't like. TEXTING i do hear from him every,
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: day but it's not like we're texting every second of
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: the day about what we're. Doing it's mainly to plan
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: the next time we see each. OTHER i think this
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: is really. Healthy, HOWEVER i realized that SOMETIMES i don't
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: know what he's been up, to simply BECAUSE i didn't
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: ask or he didn't tell. Me SHOULD i bring this.
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: Up it's not out of toxicity THAT i want to.
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: Know i'm just curious about what he's up to BECAUSE
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: i care about. Him for, example he went out recently
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: AND i didn't, know BUT i would have loved to
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: know that he got home safe and. Everything IF i
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: do bring this, up how DO i bring it up
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: without making it seem Like i'm crazy and need to
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: know everything he's? Doing or AM i? Nitpicking AND i
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: shouldn't need to know or bring this up nitpicking in
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: the sense that there is no issue or dilemma. Here
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: SO i don't love the. Pod you guys absolutely. Slay
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: ooh kind of, interesting very interesting seeing how she thinks
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: to be. Fair an easy answer is just start asking
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: what he was doing. TODAY i was going to do
• 52:07
  Speaker 2: to you.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: TONIGHT i think she's just overthinking what she's. Doing and
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: you have a right to, know not a, right but like,
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: you asking what he's doing isn't going to be bad at.
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: All he's not going to think anything.
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: Of, it and so you're not. Nitpicking, yeah you're not,
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: nitpicking and you send me have a right to, know
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: JUST i, reckon you don't even you don't need to
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: bring it up with him EVEN i don't think say
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: anything about being, like OH i felt weird not. Knowing
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: just just start saying how is your? Day, yeah and
• 52:37
  Speaker 2: start texting him of a, morning what are.
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: You up to?
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: Today it's a nice. Action if he leaves out things
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: and you, think, oh he's purpose living out, things then
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: you can talk about. It, yeah because it's like you've
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: been talking for three, months it's getting a bit more.
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: Serious it's you, know but it's a good time to
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: up the communication.
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: Skills, YEAH i think you somewhat have a right to,
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: know like what he's doing it, Definitely, yeah and just
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: like start doing little baby steps like before and just
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: get into it, Slowly hey how are you? Going and
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: see if he reciprocates and go from. There but, yeah
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: you're not doing anything. Wrong classic overthinking thing like every
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: run overthinks the hoist. Relationship, yeah you're.
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: Just like they're fully dating or just LIKE i think she,
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: Said i've been seeing this. Guy i've been dating this
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: guy for three. Months if they're, dating she has a
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: right to, Know, well, yeah you boyfriend and. Girlfriend if they're, boyfriend,
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: government you have a right to. KNOW i thought they
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: were like talking talking like just like if you guys
• 53:26
  Speaker 2: are just in a talking. Stage, yeah but you're calling it,
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: dating which is. Fair, yeah you still ever right to.
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: Know you have a right to. Know, yeah but if
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: your boyfriend and girlfriend and you had no idea that
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: he went, Out, yeah start asking questions the question.
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: AND i think it's like find the line of where
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: you you both were, comfortable because obviously he might be
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: comfortable now but you're. Not so start like treading that
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: line a little bit further so you get comfortable because
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: obviously you need a little bit more of reassurance than he.
• 53:54
  Speaker 2: Does, yeah which is. Fine, ah thank you everybody for. Listening,
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: jake you know WHAT i? Did? What, yes we're all
• 54:09
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• 54:56
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• 55:37
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• 55:44
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• 55:58
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• 56:01
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• 56:09
  Speaker 2: that THING i left out for forty five days that
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: you finally put? Away exactly where it? Goes why are
• 56:13
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• 56:14
  Speaker 3: Stuff?
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: Oh, LITERALLY i SWEAR i leave something somewhere for, ages
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: and it's always, there and as soon AS i want,
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: it my parents have moved.
• 56:22
  Speaker 2: IT i, know and you're, like what the. Fuck also
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: another thing that pisses me off right is IF i
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: finally get fed up with my own mess AND i
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: clean everything up AND i put stuff in random places
• 56:33
  Speaker 2: Because i'm, LIKE i just want it off the, counter
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: and then the next DAY i need the thing WHERE
• 56:36
  Speaker 2: i knew where where it, is and NOW i can't find.
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: IT i love kindness unless it's a person at a
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: four way stop or a chicane waving for me to
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: go when it's obviously why what is with? That like
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: road rules, exist my, MAN i know you were there.
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: First it kills.
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: Me it's like you're both in a walkway and neither
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: of you were, Going, like, honestly it's just. AWKWARD i
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: fucking hate, it AND i. Reckon one worst thing is
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: when like you let them go and then they don't wave,
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: You like how bad is your day that you don't
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: have to wave?
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: Me IF i would to not get away, Someone i'm,
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: like fuck, off you fuck it in my. CAR i
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: think it actually ruins my. Day oh it does. Too
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: the rest of my. Drive i'm pissed me being invited to.
• 57:18
  Speaker 2: Nothing i'm ever so, lonely and nobody cares about me at,
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: All me being invited to one. Thing oh my, god
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: it never stops with these. People, YEAH i GUESS i
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: missed the popular what's the cheapest thing you've ever? Done one?
• 57:32
  Speaker 2: TIME i went and got a rental car of my
• 57:34
  Speaker 2: exact making, model manually swapped all four tires from my
• 57:38
  Speaker 2: car to the rental, car then took it, back had
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: a whole new set of tires for seventy five. Dollars,
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: oh that's, genius kind of. Genius there's no way they're
• 57:47
  Speaker 2: picking up on.
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: That the guy getting paid thirty dollars an hour to
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: check it when you come, back he's no way is
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: checking the tread of the. TIRE i, know do you
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: reckon like tire companies like illegally obliged to not do,
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: that or they don't give a fuck with this money he.
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: Did, himself did, himself so he doesn't give a. Shit.
• 58:02
  Speaker 2: Fuck get a, job.
• 58:05
  Speaker 3: He had a.
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: Job you could afford to get new. Tire it takes
• 58:08
  Speaker 2: time to do four tires without you're not changing in the,
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: wheels you're changing everything.
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah with that one of those machines that picks the
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: whole car up like that takes some. Time i've never
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: changed a, tire AND i HOPE i never have.
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: To i've only had to do it. Once millennials quit.
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: WHINING i paid off one hundred and fifty thousand dollars
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: student loan AND i own a four hundred thousand dollar
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: home BECAUSE i. Save it's not that. HARD i make
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: coffee at home bus instead Of Uber shop all the.
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: Sales had my parents pay off my loans and buy
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: me a house Because i'm daddy special little, boy AND
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: i Got hulu with. ADS i was about to, SAY
• 58:46
  Speaker 2: i just want to be rich enough THAT i don't
• 58:48
  Speaker 2: have to WATCH diy videos on YouTube every time something
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: in my house. Breaks oh you know, What.
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of looking forward, to like having my own
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: house and doing it. Myself really, Yeah LIKE i don't
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: want to be one of those guys like my dad
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: is one of those people who just pays someone to do.
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: Everything that's gonna be me like other than, so my
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: dad's really good in the, garden but as soon as
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: it comes with like the actual, house he's, Like i'll
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: just pay for someone someone to do. IT i want
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: to be that guy like fucking has a. Crack yeah,
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: yeah it's your, house it's my little.
• 59:11
  Speaker 2: BABY i have the skills to have a, crack AND
• 59:13
  Speaker 2: i don't want to do. IT i actually want to
• 59:15
  Speaker 2: because my grandpa built his.
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: House dad built our house while he was the owner,
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: builder but like he paid someone to do it and
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: designed it and. SHIP i want to build like my
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: own house and, shit oh you want to actually like
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: go to like get a builder to do, it but be. Involved,
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: yeah but like go to an architecture, place pick out
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: bigger on the rooms and ship and like.
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah that's. THAT i want to do that, too
• 59:32
  Speaker 2: do all that. Stuff. YEAH i want to go like
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: with a general idea and then they send something back and,
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: safweak and.
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: THEN i want to do something like, crazy like have
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: some six shiity of a little slide in, it like
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: something sick like, That like why?
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: Not why don't people do that more? Often does it
• 59:44
  Speaker 2: cost more money