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- 0:03Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
- 0:07Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
- 0:10Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey
- 0:13Speaker 1: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and
- 0:17Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode, we recap reality television from the
- 0:23Speaker 1: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in
- 0:27Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
- 0:31Speaker 1: scripted as well. Maria Dustin doctor Wendy posted on Instagram
- 0:42Speaker 1: last night right before another episode of Potomac premiered, and
- 0:48Speaker 1: I want to read to you guys what she said,
- 0:51Speaker 1: ed what her husband Eddie said now rain drops. Doctor
- 0:54Speaker 1: Wendy and her husband Eddie has been accused of insurance fraud.
- 0:58Speaker 1: They were arrested, bailed out on fifty thousand dollars each
- 1:03Speaker 1: and on top of.
- 1:04Speaker 2: That, Eddie is facing I believe a counts.
- 1:08Speaker 1: Doctor Wendy is facing seven accounts and they have their
- 1:13Speaker 1: representative release a statement the day and the day the
- 1:18Speaker 1: news broke out. It has been I feel like it's
- 1:21Speaker 1: been forever, but I want to say Dustin, well, two.
- 1:24Speaker 3: Weeks one right, one a week. It's been one week.
- 1:29Speaker 1: M It's been one week since we were informed about
- 1:34Speaker 1: their rent. Doctor Wendy has to said anything. Eddie has
- 1:37Speaker 1: not said anything until now. So doctor Wendy posted this
- 1:43Speaker 1: gorgeous picture of herself.
- 1:45Speaker 3: Cool.
- 1:47Speaker 1: If you watched last night's episode of Potomac, I know
- 1:51Speaker 1: Rain Josh looks amazed, you will know that this is
- 1:54Speaker 1: the office she wore in the episode. So the caption
- 1:59Speaker 1: read and through it all, God remains faithful.
- 2:05Speaker 2: Thank you for the outpouring.
- 2:06Speaker 1: Of love, support and prayers for myself and most importantly,
- 2:12Speaker 1: my family during this time.
- 2:14Speaker 2: We are forever grateful.
- 2:17Speaker 1: Tune intom Bravo tonight for all new episodes of The
- 2:20Speaker 1: Real Housewife of Potomac. Now, before I get your thoughts
- 2:24Speaker 1: on that, I want to read to you guys what
- 2:26Speaker 1: her husband Eddie has said as well.
- 2:30Speaker 2: Eddie still has aspire and fire. For post who wanted
- 2:33Speaker 2: to know, Eddie posted a picture of himself in the family. Beautiful,
- 2:38Speaker 2: beautiful family.
- 2:40Speaker 1: Eddie said, trust in the Lord with all your heart,
- 2:45Speaker 1: and lean not on your own understanding in all your.
- 2:48Speaker 2: Ways, and not in all your ways.
- 2:52Speaker 1: Acknowledge him, and he would make your path straight Proverbs
- 2:56Speaker 1: three five six. Whoever exhale like Whitney Houston on the soundtrack,
- 3:03Speaker 1: Please go first.
- 3:05Speaker 2: As I was reading.
- 3:07Speaker 3: Five six, this working real quick?
- 3:10Speaker 4: Is this working?
- 3:11Speaker 2: Yes's working?
- 3:13Speaker 4: Who's gonna go first? You want to go?
- 3:15Speaker 5: You want you want to listen. I'm gonna say what
- 3:17Speaker 5: I gotta say. You know what I mean, because my
- 3:19Speaker 5: thought is locked in.
- 3:20Speaker 3: So if you would like to go first, you know,
- 3:23Speaker 3: is yours?
- 3:23Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not locked in because I'm sick. I'm taking mess.
- 3:25Speaker 7: I don't feel good whenever they use the the God
- 3:29Speaker 7: and the Lord and all this stuff.
- 3:30Speaker 6: I just feel like it's overkilled and it's a distraction.
- 3:33Speaker 7: When I lived in Atlanta, the biggest horse were always
- 3:36Speaker 7: quote in the Bible talking about Jesus fix and stuff
- 3:39Speaker 7: and and and and then just like God the Lord
- 3:42Speaker 7: has my back.
- 3:43Speaker 6: I'm like you just because you like you, you only
- 3:45Speaker 6: have been a mess.
- 3:46Speaker 3: Right.
- 3:46Speaker 7: And then you think, because you can accurately quote the
- 3:49Speaker 7: Bible here and there, that like takes away it like
- 3:51Speaker 7: neutralizes all the bad days. Now this is not an
- 3:55Speaker 7: indictment on them, we don't know, but from what it's
- 3:57Speaker 7: not looking good. I think from what I heard from
- 4:01Speaker 7: some little birdies. Now this is speculation it's a theory
- 4:06Speaker 7: that it's not just them. I would not be surprised
- 4:09Speaker 7: if this is not part of a bigger situation.
- 4:12Speaker 4: Here is what I think.
- 4:14Speaker 7: What with the streets Waite streets, Wait.
- 4:18Speaker 6: Hold on streets? You said, Well, now, maybe others involved. Okay,
- 4:24Speaker 6: I don't know.
- 4:24Speaker 7: I'm not going to confirm anything that I can't give
- 4:26Speaker 7: you evidence on. But I just think this is such
- 4:28Speaker 7: a I hope we're wrong for doctor Wendy's sake, and
- 4:33Speaker 7: her husbands and her families and a beautiful chocolate black family, Like,
- 4:37Speaker 7: we don't want to see this, and we don't want
- 4:39Speaker 7: to like celebrate your downfall.
- 4:41Speaker 6: We don't if you did.
- 4:43Speaker 7: It's the stupidest thing ever with the high profile you
- 4:46Speaker 7: both have. It's the stupidest thing ever with the profile.
- 4:51Speaker 6: But when folks.
- 4:52Speaker 7: Lean into the Lord and God and all this kind
- 4:55Speaker 7: of stuff and take your head on, no it's not true.
- 4:58Speaker 7: Oh yes we made a mistake. But I feel like
- 5:00Speaker 7: it's to throw people off. It's manipulative when you overly
- 5:05Speaker 7: use the Lord after a huge felony is committed, and
- 5:08Speaker 7: it's it's to me, it's it's plain in our faces.
- 5:11Speaker 6: A little bit. I'd almost like I'm more straightforward.
- 5:14Speaker 7: Listen, you know, our lawyers would get to the bottom
- 5:16Speaker 7: of this and we will be vindicated in the end.
- 5:19Speaker 6: I would like that, you know, But I.
- 5:21Speaker 7: Feel like when you do that, you almost make it
- 5:23Speaker 7: where like believers in Christ or religious folks almost feel
- 5:27Speaker 7: guilty to question you because now we're going up against
- 5:30Speaker 7: the Lord, perhaps in a way. And I think church
- 5:34Speaker 7: folks are very some some are very good at doing that,
- 5:39Speaker 7: and that is a distraction technique.
- 5:41Speaker 6: It really is, in my opinion. I know I'm gonna
- 5:43Speaker 6: get dragged. Listen. I know I'm gonna get dragged for this,
- 5:46Speaker 6: but I see it all the time.
- 5:47Speaker 7: And if you really think about it, being honest people
- 5:49Speaker 7: in the chat right now, think about people in your
- 5:51Speaker 7: life that have done this to you, it almost it
- 5:54Speaker 7: shuts you up right, Like look at the Republican Party
- 5:56Speaker 7: right now.
- 5:56Speaker 6: They don't god it. You can't, you can't, you can't,
- 5:58Speaker 6: can't question it.
- 6:00Speaker 7: I just think it's that we're checking for more of
- 6:04Speaker 7: a solid answer, not something so abstract.
- 6:08Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it felt tone deaf.
- 6:11Speaker 5: I think it landed completely wrong with the intended audience.
- 6:15Speaker 5: You post a Glamour shot of you in full glam
- 6:19Speaker 5: done up. You know what I'm saying, Eddie, you post
- 6:21Speaker 5: a picture of your family, you, your wife, and your
- 6:23Speaker 5: small children, your minor children, y'all both quote some God
- 6:28Speaker 5: shit at the beginning of your post because we all
- 6:30Speaker 5: know that, you know, anything faith based is an impenetrable
- 6:34Speaker 5: defense for people who are into the Lord and God
- 6:37Speaker 5: of anything. Anytime you bring up anything faith based, religion focused,
- 6:42Speaker 5: anything about the Lord or God, people feel like that
- 6:44Speaker 5: it's a silencer and it is something that everybody agrees
- 6:49Speaker 5: you're not gonna fuck with, and you can't go challenge
- 6:51Speaker 5: and go up against, you know what I mean. And
- 6:54Speaker 5: that couple with being accused of the things that they're
- 6:56Speaker 5: accused of, it's a misalignment there.
- 7:00Speaker 3: I ain't saying.
- 7:01Speaker 5: Wendy gotta live under a rock, Eddie gotta live under
- 7:03Speaker 5: a rod. They can continue to live their lives. They
- 7:06Speaker 5: do have a Wendy, I should say, has a television
- 7:08Speaker 5: show to promote.
- 7:09Speaker 3: It's part of her responsibility to get eyes on the show.
- 7:12Speaker 5: She's still on that show and this is a legal
- 7:15Speaker 5: issue that she's going through. So I don't think they
- 7:17Speaker 5: need to be living under the radar or not living
- 7:21Speaker 5: their lives, you know, you can post on your Instagram,
- 7:24Speaker 5: But when you post that instead of saying, hey, we're
- 7:27Speaker 5: going through a lot of shit over here.
- 7:29Speaker 3: It's tough right now.
- 7:30Speaker 5: But thank you for all your thoughts and prayers. Thank
- 7:32Speaker 5: you for being concerned for us. If you want to
- 7:35Speaker 5: put the religion in and say please continue to pray
- 7:37Speaker 5: for me and my family, but not that through it
- 7:40Speaker 5: all God and all capital letters.
- 7:42Speaker 3: It's faithful.
- 7:43Speaker 5: What does that even fucking mean connected to this case
- 7:46Speaker 5: that you got going on and these charges that you
- 7:48Speaker 5: and your husband up against.
- 7:49Speaker 3: What's the court help me understand the correlation.
- 7:52Speaker 7: Away with God when you want to file for three
- 7:54Speaker 7: insurance policies on one item?
- 7:56Speaker 3: Right, you didn't hear the boys then, dude only.
- 8:04Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like so so miss me
- 8:07Speaker 5: with the fake shit, And that's why I be sleeping
- 8:09Speaker 5: in on Sundays. You know what I'm saying. I love
- 8:11Speaker 5: God as much as the next person. I know the Bible.
- 8:15Speaker 5: I studied the Bible growing up. I grew up in
- 8:17Speaker 5: a very structured religious environment. But I'm not getting out
- 8:21Speaker 5: the bed unless I'm going to brunch because I don't
- 8:24Speaker 5: want to deal with the grand standard. I don't want
- 8:26Speaker 5: to deal with the fake shit. I don't want to
- 8:28Speaker 5: deal with this people using I'm so glad you used
- 8:32Speaker 5: the word manipulation when you were talking about this club,
- 8:35Speaker 5: because it does feel manipulative for people to bring up God.
- 8:39Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying anytime they want you to
- 8:41Speaker 5: shut the fuck up.
- 8:42Speaker 3: I don't like that.
- 8:43Speaker 5: I don't think it's fair, and I think that it
- 8:46Speaker 5: did not land well with her audience. And again, I'm
- 8:48Speaker 5: not nobody that's gonna call it what you want. I'm
- 8:51Speaker 5: not finn to bash Windy and them. I'm just not.
- 8:53Speaker 5: They made a dumb decision and they will have to
- 8:57Speaker 5: make that right and pay their debt to society that works.
- 9:01Speaker 5: But I'm not finna get up here and just tear
- 9:02Speaker 5: them up like that. And when it's a lot of
- 9:05Speaker 5: other people in that space that have been a lot
- 9:08Speaker 5: worse and are doing a lot worse, I'm just not
- 9:11Speaker 5: gonna do it.
- 9:11Speaker 7: So but don't make it worse with the OVERLYA yeah, yeah, like,
- 9:16Speaker 7: And I know I know we're gonna get I know
- 9:18Speaker 7: we're gonna catch out from some of the Christians in
- 9:19Speaker 7: the comments because you might not.
- 9:20Speaker 6: Be hearing what we're saying. It's not a bashing of work.
- 9:25Speaker 3: It's not.
- 9:27Speaker 7: It's not a bashing of religion or people who believe
- 9:29Speaker 7: or believe it because we are right.
- 9:31Speaker 8: But I I if anything, we're motivated for our commentary
- 9:36Speaker 8: through a respect for religion and a respect for for
- 9:40Speaker 8: the Word and for God and for whatever you of
- 9:42Speaker 8: your faith is, we respect it.
- 9:44Speaker 5: So when it's weaponized and used in this way, it's
- 9:47Speaker 5: offensive to people like us. If anything, we realer than
- 9:50Speaker 5: anybody that will have a complain about anything that we said.
- 9:53Speaker 5: I literally said, I love the Lord. Yeah, I as
- 9:57Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. I don't care.
- 10:00Speaker 6: I've said it before.
- 10:01Speaker 7: Where a lot of times people that are not going
- 10:03Speaker 7: around thumping their Bibles or whatever books that they subscribe
- 10:06Speaker 7: to or read. A lot of times, if you just
- 10:10Speaker 7: live your life the way it's supposed to, you don't
- 10:12Speaker 7: have to advertise that, you don't have to carry a
- 10:14Speaker 7: flag for it, you don't have to do any of
- 10:15Speaker 7: that because you can quietly be a live in a
- 10:19Speaker 7: very positive, righteous Christian way or whatever your religion is.
- 10:23Speaker 7: And when you like overly trying to shove it down
- 10:25Speaker 7: folks through and manipulate.
- 10:28Speaker 6: And you know, we had a.
- 10:29Speaker 7: Conversation about this destined about something else. But I just
- 10:32Speaker 7: it breaks my heart to see how people will use
- 10:36Speaker 7: religion too. And this is going a little off track
- 10:40Speaker 7: from when the religion from to manipulate and to control
- 10:43Speaker 7: the narrative about how you should think of them. And
- 10:46Speaker 7: that's something that we got to be very careful. There's
- 10:48Speaker 7: a difference. I just want to this is very nuanced conversation.
- 10:50Speaker 7: I don't want people in the comments to think that
- 10:52Speaker 7: we're bashing their faith.
- 10:53Speaker 6: It's not that.
- 10:54Speaker 7: But you know, yeah, if it only comes into play
- 10:59Speaker 7: in your life when you're in the frying and under fire,
- 11:02Speaker 7: and then all of a sudden, we want to hear,
- 11:04Speaker 7: you know, when you're about to go to court, it's
- 11:05Speaker 7: about God. We don't hear about it when you get
- 11:07Speaker 7: played like in your everyday life, but then all of
- 11:09Speaker 7: a sudden, it's all about that.
- 11:10Speaker 3: I'm like, let me tell you something.
- 11:12Speaker 5: This is Hebrews eleven, twenty four and twenty five tattooed
- 11:15Speaker 5: on my forearm right here.
- 11:17Speaker 3: Okay, so don't play with me about the Bible.
- 11:19Speaker 5: I grew up, like I said, in a very structured
- 11:21Speaker 5: religious environment.
- 11:23Speaker 3: I learned the thing about the religion.
- 11:25Speaker 5: I grew up in is based on instruction and knowledge
- 11:28Speaker 5: of the actual Bible. So I learned the book, I
- 11:31Speaker 5: know the Bible. I understand religion on that level, and
- 11:34Speaker 5: that's why I respect it enough to do my thing
- 11:37Speaker 5: otherwise okay, and not engaged with that stuff. So anybody
- 11:41Speaker 5: that you know, I don't play to what the comment
- 11:43Speaker 5: is gonna say anyway, I can give a fuck with
- 11:45Speaker 5: somebody has to say negative about this well intentioned, very
- 11:49Speaker 5: nuanced conversation that we're having right now.
- 11:52Speaker 3: But since we're talking about.
- 11:54Speaker 5: It, I know what I'm talking about when it comes
- 11:56Speaker 5: to the damn Bible. So watch your mouth and let
- 11:59Speaker 5: us have this opportunity to share our commentary, which is
- 12:02Speaker 5: literally the function of us being present on the screen
- 12:05Speaker 5: right now.
- 12:06Speaker 3: So you can't really get me. Let's continue.
- 12:10Speaker 7: Let the church say amen, how about that?
- 12:14Speaker 2: Okay, Well I will say this.
- 12:18Speaker 7: I was like, hey, we be stressing Colors out. You
- 12:21Speaker 7: can tell him we be stressing him out. Colls like,
- 12:24Speaker 7: I gotta clean this up.
- 12:25Speaker 5: After my two records. He is the head the crown,
- 12:29Speaker 5: a kingdom, reign entertainment, entertainment, He's damn a niggas.
- 12:43Speaker 6: Don't give a rent.
- 12:47Speaker 2: So That's why I love you, guys. Listen. I love
- 12:50Speaker 2: you guys. You know that, and listen.
- 12:53Speaker 1: The beauty of the show is the fact that we
- 12:55Speaker 1: all have buried opinions, and I love that about this show.
- 12:58Speaker 2: What I will say is.
- 12:59Speaker 9: This, I was happy to see that they said something
- 13:03Speaker 9: right because I think so much time has passed to
- 13:07Speaker 9: where their fans wanted to see something be said.
- 13:12Speaker 2: Now.
- 13:13Speaker 1: Granted, when it comes to the post about God, the
- 13:19Speaker 1: only thing I'll offer up is this, I think, regardless
- 13:23Speaker 1: of whether they're innocent or guilty, and as of now,
- 13:26Speaker 1: they're innocent until proven guilty, I do believe that for
- 13:30Speaker 1: those who do believe in God, we are all human,
- 13:34Speaker 1: we all make mistakes. And might be saying that I'm
- 13:36Speaker 1: not saying that they did anything.
- 13:39Speaker 2: I'm not.
- 13:39Speaker 1: I'm not talking about them at this point is and
- 13:42Speaker 1: I know all of us are speaking in generalities. I
- 13:45Speaker 1: wasn't taken aback by the spiritual aspect of it, because
- 13:50Speaker 1: I do believe that if you are somebody who did
- 13:53Speaker 1: something you weren't supposed to you're supposed to do, you
- 13:56Speaker 1: do repent, and once you repent, you're able to sort of,
- 13:59Speaker 1: like you know, move on and figure out like dustin
- 14:02Speaker 1: saying it what you said, whatever fate lies for.
- 14:05Speaker 2: You at the hands of your repentance.
- 14:08Speaker 3: Right.
- 14:09Speaker 1: On the other hand, if it is something to where
- 14:12Speaker 1: you feel like you've been targeted and things are being misconstrued, listen,
- 14:20Speaker 1: just freeze up for you too.
- 14:22Speaker 7: Yeah he did so the Lord stopped him.
- 14:32Speaker 10: Rely happened, right. The Lord will stop y'all, but he
- 14:41Speaker 10: stopped me. What I will say is that it's funny.
- 14:45Speaker 10: I forgot my train of thought.
- 14:48Speaker 6: The Lord shut it down. He said, Nain.
- 14:51Speaker 2: Defends and bullet.
- 14:54Speaker 11: On this one.
- 14:58Speaker 6: That the devil working right there.
- 15:00Speaker 3: That's the devil.
- 15:03Speaker 6: What I was going to say is you were saying.
- 15:05Speaker 7: You were saying, in terms of the religion stuff, that
- 15:09Speaker 7: you can repent after you've made a mistake, you can repent.
- 15:12Speaker 6: And if you feel like even.
- 15:13Speaker 7: Targeted, well, I was paying attention, even target that's a
- 15:17Speaker 7: big deal for me. I had to take brain post.
- 15:19Speaker 7: I have ADHD and A, concussions and all kinds of.
- 15:26Speaker 4: Brain lunch.
- 15:28Speaker 7: I think you're about to make a point about redemption
- 15:29Speaker 7: and if they feel targeted that they can.
- 15:33Speaker 3: Liftic.
- 15:34Speaker 1: The things that we are finding also far is look,
- 15:39Speaker 1: some dreams are replicated.
- 15:48Speaker 5: I'm sorry because I know you dead as serious. Come on,
- 15:55Speaker 5: and this is why I love you, bro, This is
- 15:57Speaker 5: why I love you, because you got a good heart.
- 15:59Speaker 3: Carlos.
- 16:00Speaker 7: I mean, people believe in the best, and people here like,
- 16:03Speaker 7: you know, maybe they didn't really maybe yeah, maybe maybe
- 16:08Speaker 7: she didn't sleep with the husband.
- 16:10Speaker 6: Maybe you know, the divorce was about to go find on.
- 16:12Speaker 7: The last bit of paperwork was Carlos will make find
- 16:15Speaker 7: a pathway redemption for people he likes.
- 16:20Speaker 6: Oh, you are so sleep and we'd be like they lied, and.
- 16:25Speaker 12: He's like, I like to give an alternative view, alternative back,
- 16:38Speaker 12: alternative ring is bananas.
- 16:42Speaker 6: Yo, I like that all.
- 16:45Speaker 7: Remember when Gilbert Arenas was married to Laura Govan from
- 16:48Speaker 7: Basketball List and when she when they got a divorced.
- 16:51Speaker 4: I think that I'm sorry.
- 16:55Speaker 6: She had a million dollar ring and it was oh
- 16:57Speaker 6: he got frozen again.
- 16:58Speaker 7: The Lord wants us to talk about this us and
- 17:00Speaker 7: without him. It was a it was a it was
- 17:04Speaker 7: a replica of a ring. It was a million dollars,
- 17:06Speaker 7: but it was a fake replica. Okay, sorry, Carlos.
- 17:09Speaker 5: I wonder how she found out, but I hope she
- 17:13Speaker 5: didn't like find out when she went to get a
- 17:15Speaker 5: praise or somewher when she went to expect some sort
- 17:18Speaker 5: of you know, money from it. I hope they didn't
- 17:21Speaker 5: like Gooper like, oh girl, I hate to tell you,
- 17:25Speaker 5: you know what I mean.
- 17:27Speaker 6: That happened to me one time with a bracelet.
- 17:29Speaker 2: Mm hm, did you drive a praise? And it wasn't
- 17:33Speaker 2: what the value said.
- 17:35Speaker 7: The gold is real, not the diamonds.
- 17:43Speaker 3: Wasn't from a former love, but face from imagine.
- 17:48Speaker 7: I was in college. I was like twenty three stockbroke.
- 17:50Speaker 7: I was dating in New York and he he had
- 17:52Speaker 7: he driving a brand of BMW was nineteen ninety four
- 17:55Speaker 7: and then the car was nineteen ninety four. He did
- 17:57Speaker 7: all the other things right, send me to the bird
- 17:59Speaker 7: drop with the credit card, but then he gave me
- 18:02Speaker 7: a tennis bracelet and the I was young, so at
- 18:05Speaker 7: first I didn't catch the box wasn't one of the
- 18:07Speaker 7: velvet boxes.
- 18:08Speaker 6: When it was one of the boxes was a cotton
- 18:10Speaker 6: in it, so.
- 18:11Speaker 3: I shouldn't see the rectangular piece of cos.
- 18:17Speaker 2: Yeah it was, and.
- 18:19Speaker 4: I was like, well maybe I went.
- 18:26Speaker 7: I was like, fuck him, I'm gonna South East breaklet
- 18:31Speaker 7: synthetic as the diamond ls they was putting the sensor
- 18:36Speaker 7: on it and they was looking at me and they
- 18:37Speaker 7: felt so bad.
- 18:38Speaker 4: They was like.
- 18:43Speaker 6: It was dumb. It was it was just good.
- 18:51Speaker 2: Make sure you get the praise before the breakups. Top
- 18:54Speaker 2: there you are dealing with.
- 18:55Speaker 1: Okay, that's a lesson all this, But listen, I'll think this.
- 19:01Speaker 2: Go out to this Sephal family.
- 19:04Speaker 6: That's the one time I did a white boy too.
- 19:05Speaker 7: By the way, I'm traumatized.
- 19:12Speaker 6: All right, I'm sorry, I know.
- 19:15Speaker 2: So listen.
- 19:16Speaker 1: We'll get into the recap of Potomac, but first we
- 19:20Speaker 1: have to get into the latest episode of Bell Collective.
- 19:24Speaker 1: So before I bring on the guest Selena Dustin, let
- 19:31Speaker 1: me get into it because we we have to. And
- 19:34Speaker 1: then we'll bring Selena on to get her thoughtful and
- 19:36Speaker 1: talk about her and Mike Claudia. Are you caught up
- 19:38Speaker 1: on what happened with Latitia? Who told you til we
- 19:43Speaker 1: used to build that Glenn was healthy? So rain drops
- 19:46Speaker 1: to catch everyone up. In the premiere episode, it was
- 19:51Speaker 1: revealed that allegedly Glenn was in Lateresa's friend Amanda's d MS. Okay,
- 19:59Speaker 1: they saw all the trees and Tamboura react to it.
- 20:04Speaker 2: The trees had a party at her house. Amanda was there.
- 20:08Speaker 1: They're playing a game about were you ever attracted to
- 20:12Speaker 1: anybody in.
- 20:13Speaker 7: The group, which was very bold, Like I was like,
- 20:16Speaker 7: whoa if you knew that and you asked that question.
- 20:20Speaker 1: So let's just get right into a Claudia Jordan, what
- 20:23Speaker 1: were your thoughts? Deahing is shaking his head. Claudia, talk
- 20:26Speaker 1: to me about your thoughts pertaining to what was going
- 20:30Speaker 1: on the party to where Amanda revealed in front of
- 20:35Speaker 1: Glenn that you were never attracted to me, and then
- 20:38Speaker 1: things went haywire.
- 20:41Speaker 7: Smoke was wanting to be had that day like this,
- 20:45Speaker 7: It was like it felt a little coordinated. It felt
- 20:48Speaker 7: a little like like why would you bring that question
- 20:52Speaker 7: up when you know there's a loaded gun right there?
- 20:54Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
- 20:55Speaker 6: Like Glenn should have got up and went to the
- 21:01Speaker 6: bathroom at that point.
- 21:04Speaker 5: If I was Glenn, I would have got up and
- 21:06Speaker 5: went and put my back against that wall. I would
- 21:08Speaker 5: have just got up and went right.
- 21:09Speaker 3: To that wall, like what do you mean, just just.
- 21:14Speaker 5: To defend myself because I would have already known what
- 21:17Speaker 5: was coming. When you've done things that you're trying to
- 21:19Speaker 5: keep a secret, when you've done dirty shit and you
- 21:22Speaker 5: know your ass was wrong, and you know you're playing
- 21:25Speaker 5: with fire in that moment.
- 21:27Speaker 3: You need to have your defenses up.
- 21:28Speaker 5: Man, Glenn should have, like you said, went to the bathroom,
- 21:32Speaker 5: went to the side. Look, my mama just called me.
- 21:35Speaker 5: She is having a baby. I don't care how old
- 21:37Speaker 5: this mama is.
- 21:38Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I got to go that.
- 21:40Speaker 5: That should have been the vibes when you saw this
- 21:42Speaker 5: young lady who you obviously have some sort of.
- 21:47Speaker 6: There was some communication, there was some kind there was something.
- 21:51Speaker 5: Yeah, and my thing is I'm sorry, go ahead and
- 21:54Speaker 5: do your thing.
- 21:55Speaker 7: No, I'm just I'm you. We have a conversation about it.
- 21:57Speaker 7: It was like what you waiting on? Like I would
- 22:01Speaker 7: have probably if if well, well hold on, you know,
- 22:04Speaker 7: that's a lot just something. But he just sat there.
- 22:06Speaker 4: But maybe he thought.
- 22:07Speaker 7: You know, a lot of times when men do that,
- 22:10Speaker 7: they think the other woman's gonna cover for them. A
- 22:12Speaker 7: lot of times they think that, and that's the problem.
- 22:15Speaker 7: They just assume that you're gonna go along with it.
- 22:19Speaker 1: This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.
- 22:22Speaker 1: Let's get back into the show.
- 22:25Speaker 3: Okay, So a couple of things here, right.
- 22:28Speaker 5: Number one, I hate the fact that LaTrece did not
- 22:32Speaker 5: have a one on one with Letitia after she had
- 22:35Speaker 5: that conversation with Amanda on camera at the salon.
- 22:39Speaker 3: They made it very clear in the scene that a man.
- 22:41Speaker 4: Well.
- 22:41Speaker 5: Amanda made it very clear in the scene in her
- 22:43Speaker 5: salon when she first revealed to Latrese and Tambre that
- 22:48Speaker 5: Glenn had been dming her.
- 22:49Speaker 3: She said, very plainly.
- 22:51Speaker 5: I did not tell you this, LaTrece, because I did
- 22:53Speaker 5: not want you to be in a comfortable, uncomfortable position,
- 22:56Speaker 5: right You telling her on camera puts her in an
- 23:00Speaker 5: uncomfortable position. So now that we're in this position, LaTrece,
- 23:04Speaker 5: who is one of my favorite bills on the show
- 23:07Speaker 5: and who had some really tough conversations last season with
- 23:11Speaker 5: Letitia to get to the bottom of things in their
- 23:13Speaker 5: friendship and kind of reboot and reset their connection, for
- 23:17Speaker 5: her to now be doing what appears conspiratorial behavior with
- 23:23Speaker 5: Amanda about something as serious as her husband's fidelity, it's
- 23:28Speaker 5: just not a good look on Latrese, and I hate
- 23:30Speaker 5: that she is essentially handing over this free pass to
- 23:35Speaker 5: kind of get at her by being complicent in that way.
- 23:39Speaker 5: I don't think she necessarily wanted to appear that way,
- 23:42Speaker 5: I believe Amanda when she said on camera that she
- 23:44Speaker 5: hadn't said anything to Latrice about it. However, when LaTrece
- 23:49Speaker 5: has now laughed and joked in this conversation.
- 23:54Speaker 3: Not told the truth.
- 23:55Speaker 5: Even in that moment when whoever, I don't remember forgiving
- 23:58Speaker 5: me who was it that asked a question? Who was
- 24:00Speaker 5: it that said have you been attracted to anybody in
- 24:03Speaker 5: this room?
- 24:04Speaker 3: A party? Yeah, one that I recognize when the question
- 24:07Speaker 3: was asked.
- 24:07Speaker 5: That was another You have opportunities before something comes out,
- 24:11Speaker 5: you have opportunities to tell the truth about it.
- 24:14Speaker 3: LaTrece could have been.
- 24:15Speaker 5: Like, you know, Letitia come here and pulled her out
- 24:18Speaker 5: the room right then and been like, yo, it seemed
- 24:20Speaker 5: like this shit is about to hit the fan. I
- 24:22Speaker 5: want you to know this. This is my friend of
- 24:24Speaker 5: over twenty years. Obviously there's loyalty there. I don't want
- 24:28Speaker 5: to betray her. But at the same time, I'm not
- 24:30Speaker 5: going to betray you about something as serious as your
- 24:32Speaker 5: husband possibly cheating on you. There were moments there where
- 24:36Speaker 5: people could have showed themselves formidable, you know what I'm saying,
- 24:41Speaker 5: showed themselves as having integrity, and this makes for a
- 24:45Speaker 5: great TV show.
- 24:47Speaker 4: Is.
- 24:47Speaker 3: It is polarizing. It is.
- 24:50Speaker 5: It is so interesting to watch, but we're talking about
- 24:52Speaker 5: something serious.
- 24:53Speaker 3: We're talking about whether.
- 24:54Speaker 5: Or not Latsa's husband, Glenn, who we've grown a love
- 24:57Speaker 5: over watching them on these seasons of the show, is
- 25:00Speaker 5: doing something as stupid as having in appropriate conversations with
- 25:04Speaker 5: Amanda via DM.
- 25:05Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, That shit had really hurt Latissa's.
- 25:08Speaker 5: Feelings and it's just a way to handle that, and
- 25:11Speaker 5: I wish it had been handled differently.
- 25:14Speaker 3: I don't know. That's just where I'm I have.
- 25:15Speaker 6: A question to y'all.
- 25:16Speaker 7: Do y'all think the party goer right that that was
- 25:19Speaker 7: Mike that felt up?
- 25:22Speaker 4: They were, Oh, I can't ask you, pal.
- 25:24Speaker 3: Was a set up. It was a setup to get
- 25:26Speaker 3: the conversation to that point.
- 25:28Speaker 6: Yeah, because like, is anyone to hear about attracting anybody?
- 25:33Speaker 1: Who are you?
- 25:34Speaker 4: Like?
- 25:34Speaker 5: Well, you asking who got you feeling the kind of way?
- 25:37Speaker 5: And yo, you know who got you feeling like that?
- 25:39Speaker 3: Up in here? I to put it right on her and.
- 25:41Speaker 6: It's good producing.
- 25:42Speaker 7: But like I was like, okay, that was she was
- 25:44Speaker 7: there to drop the bomb and get it, get it,
- 25:47Speaker 7: get it popping right, because you know, Mike extras.
- 25:53Speaker 4: Right, colors, listen, I all all.
- 25:58Speaker 2: The only thing I will say.
- 26:00Speaker 1: Is all of be revealed as she continue watching and
- 26:04Speaker 1: the reunion, So now listen, this is your opportunity to
- 26:08Speaker 1: talk about it. So I one thing that I did
- 26:12Speaker 1: want to talk to you guys about is this, and
- 26:14Speaker 1: Dustin did bring it up.
- 26:16Speaker 2: Do y'all think LaTrece.
- 26:20Speaker 1: Was in a rock and a hard place because LaTrece
- 26:24Speaker 1: is saying, Amanda is my best friend that I've known
- 26:28Speaker 1: since I believe middle school, high school, and that Latitia
- 26:34Speaker 1: is somebody who she does consider her big sister.
- 26:36Speaker 2: And yes they've had their ups and.
- 26:38Speaker 1: Downs, but as of right now, during you know, during
- 26:41Speaker 1: the filming of the show, they were at they were there,
- 26:44Speaker 1: they were back being friends. If Claudia you being a
- 26:49Speaker 1: girl's girl. If if Annie told you, let's say, somebody
- 26:56Speaker 1: knows symhe Bailey. If Annie told you, girl, Cynthia Belly's
- 27:01Speaker 1: man is in my DMS. Annie is your best best
- 27:05Speaker 1: best friend. But you and Cynthia are cool, have no issue,
- 27:09Speaker 1: and you're around Cynthia. Would you tell Cynthia something about
- 27:14Speaker 1: her man that her best friend Annie told you?
- 27:18Speaker 3: Yep, sure would.
- 27:20Speaker 7: And I've actually had a situation like that, similar, Uh, yes,
- 27:26Speaker 7: because as far as as long as my friend wasn't like, Okay,
- 27:29Speaker 7: you're with your best friend no matter what, you're right
- 27:31Speaker 7: or die right, and you would hope that you're not
- 27:33Speaker 7: best friends with someone that would take that bait and
- 27:35Speaker 7: go with that.
- 27:36Speaker 4: Obviously, if he's.
- 27:36Speaker 7: In your DMS and you're not fucking with him, you're
- 27:40Speaker 7: not in the wrong, right, So it's okay, Like, okay,
- 27:44Speaker 7: if would you say who's in who's what scenario do
- 27:48Speaker 7: you use?
- 27:49Speaker 1: Okay, So, so Cynthia's man is in Annie's DMS?
- 27:53Speaker 6: Yeah, and he.
- 27:53Speaker 1: Told you, would you then tell Cynthia, look, my best
- 27:57Speaker 1: friend Annie told me your man is in her DMS.
- 28:00Speaker 6: Yeah, because I have to look out.
- 28:02Speaker 7: That's being a girl's girl sometimes saying hey, man, now,
- 28:06Speaker 7: if my friend went along with it and she was
- 28:08Speaker 7: considering messing with him, I'd have to have a talk
- 28:10Speaker 7: with her too, because my friends know about me. I
- 28:12Speaker 7: am not with that mistress.
- 28:14Speaker 4: Bullshit.
- 28:15Speaker 7: I'm not with that other woman bullshit, even if you
- 28:17Speaker 7: are my friend and my friends it's very clear, to
- 28:20Speaker 7: the point that some of my friends won't tell me
- 28:22Speaker 7: their situations now because they know they're gonna hear it
- 28:25Speaker 7: from me. So yeah, I mean the two girls ain't
- 28:28Speaker 7: the problem. It's it's the married man that's the problem.
- 28:31Speaker 7: So yes, I'm telling I have to tell, and I
- 28:33Speaker 7: would tell my friend. Hey, I'm gonna let her know
- 28:36Speaker 7: that he's hollowing us. She might feel uncomfortable with. She
- 28:38Speaker 7: told me listen, I would do it for you as well.
- 28:41Speaker 7: I make it very clear you would want to know.
- 28:43Speaker 7: So I can't sit on that information and have one
- 28:46Speaker 7: of them look as stupid. So absolutely, I'm telling. I'm
- 28:49Speaker 7: telling you have nothing to worry about. If your girl
- 28:51Speaker 7: ain't considering fucking with them, now, if she's considered messing
- 28:53Speaker 7: with them, then you have a different kind of situation
- 28:56Speaker 7: on your hand. Then you're showing your friend disloyalty. But
- 28:58Speaker 7: if the man is just in your and you're not
- 29:00Speaker 7: entertaining it, what did you really do wrong?
- 29:02Speaker 6: Yes, I'm telling you.
- 29:04Speaker 1: Well, let's not forget Amana did say right justin know
- 29:08Speaker 1: I like him. He's attractive, he ugly, he black, he's
- 29:10Speaker 1: my time.
- 29:12Speaker 6: Well, okay, I forgot that part.
- 29:13Speaker 3: I'm sorry. And she said that they have been like engaging.
- 29:17Speaker 5: They have been sitting in a car having private conversations
- 29:20Speaker 5: they have been discussing, and she was very elusive and
- 29:23Speaker 5: vague when they When Tambor flat out asked her at
- 29:26Speaker 5: the salon if her and Glenn had been engaging, you
- 29:30Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. She was vague and elusive in
- 29:32Speaker 5: her response, which alluded to the fact that they had
- 29:36Speaker 5: hung out privately. Right, So that's a different perspective. Shout
- 29:41Speaker 5: out to Amanda for being honest. Some can say to
- 29:44Speaker 5: a fault, but she's being honest and she brought that
- 29:46Speaker 5: to the show.
- 29:47Speaker 3: This is making for a hell of a season.
- 29:48Speaker 5: I'm pissed because I've been watching this show since fucking
- 29:51Speaker 5: season one, episode one. We didn't seen Letitia and Glenn
- 29:55Speaker 5: go through so much shit, right, the whole situation with
- 29:59Speaker 5: the possible ability of him having a child outside of
- 30:02Speaker 5: their marriage.
- 30:03Speaker 3: We went through all of that, got the clarity we needed.
- 30:06Speaker 5: Watch them start working on their problems, go through all
- 30:09Speaker 5: of these things. Watch them at the same time, they'll
- 30:11Speaker 5: be great parents to their son, right, see their son thriving. Finally,
- 30:16Speaker 5: see them finally see Latitia and Glenn on the same page,
- 30:19Speaker 5: to the point where she's setting up massage tables and
- 30:22Speaker 5: wearing silk Robes on the show and catering to him.
- 30:25Speaker 3: Baby, this is your day.
- 30:27Speaker 5: Okay, now that she's doing that, we get this information,
- 30:32Speaker 5: I'm fucking pissed. I really have been rooting for them
- 30:35Speaker 5: for six seasons and for this to happen now, it's
- 30:39Speaker 5: so disappointing. I actually really like Glenn's personality. I like
- 30:42Speaker 5: him and Latitia together. I think they make a physically
- 30:45Speaker 5: attractive couple. I wish that they could have success in
- 30:48Speaker 5: their marriage. And I hate that Glenn is going out
- 30:51Speaker 5: like this.
- 30:52Speaker 3: I hate that shit. I hate it.
- 30:54Speaker 7: And soon as you know better of being on a
- 30:55Speaker 7: reality show, this loan and having private issues like I
- 30:59Speaker 7: remember when Mike cal and Cynthia got together. I remember
- 31:02Speaker 7: having a talk with Mike was like my big brother
- 31:04Speaker 7: at the time. We did a podcast. I said, look,
- 31:06Speaker 7: you better be on your p's and q's because this
- 31:08Speaker 7: type of audience is way different than what you've ever experienced.
- 31:11Speaker 7: He's like, no, No, I know, I've been on TV
- 31:14Speaker 7: for years. I said yes, as a sportscaster, the sportscaster world,
- 31:18Speaker 7: the sports fan is I don't care about your personal life.
- 31:21Speaker 6: That's celebrity.
- 31:22Speaker 7: Real celebrity is when people care about your personal life.
- 31:25Speaker 7: And I told him, and he'll tell you the stories.
- 31:27Speaker 7: I'm not spilling tee. He was like, when it should
- 31:31Speaker 7: hit the fan, he didn't realize how on it reality
- 31:35Speaker 7: fans are. They will conduct their own investigations. They will
- 31:38Speaker 7: look into things. They will they will see who's following who,
- 31:41Speaker 7: and who's on who's liking comments, who's They will see
- 31:44Speaker 7: you at restaurants, they will sneak pictures. It's a different level.
- 31:48Speaker 7: So when you go into reality show, you better everything
- 31:50Speaker 7: better be tight. And with him, with Glenn and having
- 31:52Speaker 7: passed you know, fuck ups okay, and and and being
- 31:57Speaker 7: caught up and stuff.
- 31:58Speaker 6: I mean, it's just the air.
- 32:00Speaker 7: It's it's so it's so arrogant, and it's so kind
- 32:03Speaker 7: of cruel to your wife when you know the situation
- 32:07Speaker 7: that you're in, Like it's like almost like, well, I
- 32:09Speaker 7: don't care if I get caught, maybe because I keep
- 32:11Speaker 7: getting away with it or or I don't know, but
- 32:13Speaker 7: the arrogance level of keep doing it. When you're on
- 32:16Speaker 7: a TV show, it's one thing when you cheat. It's
- 32:19Speaker 7: another thing when you cheat or try to how someone.
- 32:21Speaker 7: When you're on television, you embarrass the hell you humiliate
- 32:25Speaker 7: your partner.
- 32:26Speaker 6: It's humiliation.
- 32:29Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's and that's what latis. She wrote on
- 32:35Speaker 1: her Instagram over the weekend. I'm not gonna read everything
- 32:39Speaker 1: she wrote, well feel free Raindrops to look at it,
- 32:42Speaker 1: but pretty much she's echoing what Claudia saying. You know,
- 32:45Speaker 1: the humiliation, how she feels about what Glenn did, well
- 32:51Speaker 1: LaTrece did. She she blames all parties involved for what
- 32:56Speaker 1: she's going through. And look, we'll see what happens now
- 33:00Speaker 1: next week when it comes to when it comes to
- 33:04Speaker 1: light exactly what the conversations are, because you will see
- 33:08Speaker 1: Glenn and may have to talk about it. You will
- 33:10Speaker 1: see Latrees and I'm may have to talk about it.
- 33:15Speaker 1: You'll see how La Ticia felt with it, and you'll
- 33:18Speaker 1: see how La Ticia and Glenn deal with it.
- 33:19Speaker 2: So all of that is happening next week.
- 33:21Speaker 1: I want to bring in Selena because i want to
- 33:24Speaker 1: get her point of view because she was there and
- 33:28Speaker 1: I'm curious to know how she felt when.
- 33:31Speaker 13: All with doubt.
- 33:32Speaker 1: So rain Drops get a warm welcome for Bell Collective
- 33:36Speaker 1: Star Selena.
- 33:39Speaker 11: Yeah, hello, Selena, are you wearing Are you wearing the
- 33:52Speaker 11: ear rings that you're making now that those are custom.
- 33:55Speaker 13: And they are custom made. I'm wearing my ear rings
- 33:58Speaker 13: from Selena. Just come very very cute.
- 34:03Speaker 1: Yes, Alena, let's just jump right into it before we
- 34:07Speaker 1: get to your business, child.
- 34:09Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna have Dust and Claude ask you questions.
- 34:12Speaker 2: But look, you were there Lateresa's party.
- 34:16Speaker 1: Without giving too much away because obviously we're continuing this
- 34:20Speaker 1: this Friday, what was going through your mind when, to
- 34:25Speaker 1: Claude's point, the question was asked whether or not anybody
- 34:30Speaker 1: in the group have been attracted to each other.
- 34:32Speaker 14: Well, to be honest, when that question was asked, I
- 34:36Speaker 14: thought it was directed towards me.
- 34:39Speaker 13: You know, ask well, That's how I thought. I'm like,
- 34:42Speaker 13: they trying to be funny because you.
- 34:43Speaker 14: Know, Cliff and I over two decades ago. So this
- 34:48Speaker 14: was the first thing that popped in my mind because
- 34:50Speaker 14: I knew nothing about Glenn and the d MS or
- 34:54Speaker 14: anything like that. So, you know, I don't have my
- 34:57Speaker 14: drinks and I'm like, shit, might here, what the hell?
- 34:59Speaker 14: Even though he already know about this, let me say this.
- 35:02Speaker 14: It was not two weeks after my after I got married, okay,
- 35:05Speaker 14: and some things had went you know.
- 35:09Speaker 2: The rain drop.
- 35:10Speaker 1: So Selena half admitted that her and Laterrecea's husband Cliff,
- 35:16Speaker 1: that they dated.
- 35:17Speaker 2: But this was before Cliff and LaTrece were even.
- 35:21Speaker 14: Married, way before, and it was after I had my
- 35:25Speaker 14: after I had son Jay, so it was years within
- 35:29Speaker 14: that doesn't count.
- 35:30Speaker 5: Then everybody has moved on. So yeah, yeah.
- 35:37Speaker 7: So when when you heard okay, so when that questions asked,
- 35:39Speaker 7: you're thinking it's you. How relieve were you that it
- 35:42Speaker 7: was someone else? And were you like, were like.
- 35:44Speaker 13: Who I was like? But then I was like, what
- 35:49Speaker 13: the hell are you talking about with Glenn?
- 35:51Speaker 14: Now, Glen, don't be entertaining nobody, especially when you're on
- 35:55Speaker 14: the platform like this and nobody inside the circle.
- 36:00Speaker 3: That's so no, No, did you know Amanda? Selena? Had you?
- 36:03Speaker 3: Were you familiar with Amanda?
- 36:04Speaker 15: Yes, I've been knowing Amanda for years and she like, okay,
- 36:09Speaker 15: we all have the friend that we wouldn't leave around
- 36:11Speaker 15: our man right where We're like, she cool, but I'm
- 36:15Speaker 15: not leaving the room.
- 36:16Speaker 6: Is she that girl?
- 36:17Speaker 13: See?
- 36:18Speaker 14: I don't know, because Amanda was into women, so now
- 36:21Speaker 14: it's like it's men and women, you know.
- 36:25Speaker 5: But but her personality though, right, Selena? First like her
- 36:31Speaker 5: personality and what you've known of her character? Like, up
- 36:34Speaker 5: until now, were you surprised to hear that she had
- 36:36Speaker 5: been engaging in conversation with Glenn like that.
- 36:39Speaker 13: I was definitely surprised, you was.
- 36:42Speaker 4: I was, so did she seem like a girl?
- 36:44Speaker 6: Is she a girl's girl? I'm like, she is a
- 36:46Speaker 6: girl's girl.
- 36:46Speaker 7: Well, she was a girls girl, but like a girl's
- 36:48Speaker 7: girl that other way?
- 36:54Speaker 4: You know?
- 36:54Speaker 6: You know what I mean, y'all? Hey man, I didn't
- 36:56Speaker 6: take my brain pills today.
- 36:57Speaker 4: You know what I mean.
- 36:58Speaker 6: I'm saying like girl girl code.
- 37:02Speaker 14: See, I can't girl that d because I only be
- 37:05Speaker 14: around Amanda with Latrees. But I actually I think I
- 37:09Speaker 14: knew Amanda before I knew Latrees. But it was like
- 37:12Speaker 14: on some business height stuff like hair, the hair of stylist.
- 37:18Speaker 7: But how would you fail up when you found out
- 37:21Speaker 7: someone that you're you know, in the group or proximity,
- 37:25Speaker 7: uh knows your relationship you know, with your man and
- 37:28Speaker 7: he slid into the DMS And she wasn't offended like
- 37:31Speaker 7: when someone with a boyfriend, I'm sorry, with a girlfriend,
- 37:33Speaker 7: well and a boyfriend a wife hits me up. I'm like,
- 37:38Speaker 7: why did you even think that I was with it?
- 37:41Speaker 13: Right?
- 37:44Speaker 3: You muted Claudia.
- 37:46Speaker 13: Looks with Mike.
- 37:48Speaker 1: You muted, Mike went down, Claudia, that's okay, Yeah, I'm
- 37:52Speaker 1: looking back in now you muted it, I'm I'm mute.
- 37:54Speaker 5: Well, while we'll get waiting on Claudia to get that together.
- 37:57Speaker 5: I would like to know because you are friends with
- 38:00Speaker 5: with Latrese. We saw you all have a great and
- 38:02Speaker 5: shout out to you and LaTrece for having that conversation
- 38:04Speaker 5: on camera about the gap in your communication. That was
- 38:07Speaker 5: really mature and I think it was a great example
- 38:10Speaker 5: for people to see of how you can resolve.
- 38:12Speaker 3: Simple issues with communication. Right.
- 38:16Speaker 5: But after watching that, we were just speaking previously before
- 38:19Speaker 5: you came on, and I was telling them how I
- 38:21Speaker 5: felt like Latrese was in a pretty tough spot because
- 38:24Speaker 5: she's been friends with Amanda for over two decades, right,
- 38:28Speaker 5: she was working on her relationship with Leticia. We saw
- 38:32Speaker 5: that on camera last year, and so now she's in
- 38:35Speaker 5: this position where she knows this information that could possibly
- 38:38Speaker 5: be hurtful to Laticia, but she also has loyalty to Amanda.
- 38:43Speaker 5: What do you think you would have done if you
- 38:45Speaker 5: were in Lateresa's shoes with a decision like that on
- 38:48Speaker 5: the table, and how do you think Latrese could have
- 38:50Speaker 5: handled it.
- 38:52Speaker 3: How do you feel about the way it was handled?
- 38:55Speaker 14: Okay, Well, if I was in that position, in that's
- 38:59Speaker 14: qua I.
- 39:00Speaker 13: Would be torn.
- 39:02Speaker 14: I would probably, to be honest, I would be upset
- 39:05Speaker 14: with Latrese. I'll be upset with my husband. I would
- 39:08Speaker 14: be upset with Amanda. You know, y'all got me sitting
- 39:11Speaker 14: here looking the food in front of you know, my counterparts,
- 39:14Speaker 14: all my friends, and that's just that's not right. But
- 39:19Speaker 14: I know LaTrece was, you know, stuck in a hard place. Yeah,
- 39:24Speaker 14: because she is friends with Amanda and then she's rekindling
- 39:29Speaker 14: her relationship with Latitia.
- 39:34Speaker 13: I probably would have just stayed out of it.
- 39:36Speaker 14: Yeah, but I knew something was gonna probably potentially go down.
- 39:41Speaker 13: I probably would have went to Latitia and been like, girl.
- 39:44Speaker 4: Yes, because your friend to prepare her.
- 39:47Speaker 14: You know what I'm saying. Because I'm friend. I'm friends
- 39:49Speaker 14: with both of them, even though I'm more a lawyer
- 39:51Speaker 14: too that I've been with for like over two decades.
- 39:57Speaker 7: But I would be mad at my friend that that
- 40:00Speaker 7: knows I'm in this group, knows I have to manage scenes.
- 40:04Speaker 7: I got to manage relationships in this and you overhere
- 40:07Speaker 7: doing this because you're putting in a position. Now, yes,
- 40:09Speaker 7: it's not about me, but like, can you pick somebody
- 40:13Speaker 7: else's husband please? Like I would be mad about that
- 40:15Speaker 7: because now, if have you ever been in a position
- 40:18Speaker 7: where you've seen, like maybe your friend's man out there
- 40:21Speaker 7: doing something and you're like, should I? And if you
- 40:23Speaker 7: don't tell, your friend's gonna be mad at you that
- 40:25Speaker 7: you knew information and you did not tell. And if
- 40:28Speaker 7: you do tell, sometimes you lose a friend because they
- 40:30Speaker 7: don't want to hear nothing about their man.
- 40:32Speaker 4: Their man, their man. But like that's true. It is topic.
- 40:37Speaker 14: I have been in a situation like that before, and
- 40:39Speaker 14: I'm like not but I don't want to be the
- 40:42Speaker 14: cause of somebody's getting a divorce.
- 40:44Speaker 3: I don't want that.
- 40:46Speaker 14: And everything reveals themselves at the end of the day,
- 40:50Speaker 14: everything's gonna come to the light. So sometimes I would
- 40:53Speaker 14: just be like, I'm just gonna step back. It's gonna
- 40:55Speaker 14: come out sooner or later.
- 40:57Speaker 7: How would you feel, though, if if it was you
- 41:00Speaker 7: like say, yeah, you know what I mean, Like, how
- 41:02Speaker 7: would you feel if your own girl didn't tell you
- 41:06Speaker 7: that her friend was getting damned by your man?
- 41:10Speaker 1: So so so if Latreth. If if Latreth heard that
- 41:15Speaker 1: Mike was doing something similarly right DMS with with let's
- 41:21Speaker 1: say Amanda just to say her name. Yeah, yeah, you
- 41:24Speaker 1: if you take out Glenn and you put Mike, how
- 41:30Speaker 1: would you feel on some real ship?
- 41:33Speaker 14: I would be upset, I'll be pissed. I'll feel betrayed.
- 41:37Speaker 14: I'd be like you should have came to me.
- 41:40Speaker 2: Uh.
- 41:40Speaker 14: If you knew this information and see I'm the type
- 41:43Speaker 14: of person I can hold onto information for a long time,
- 41:46Speaker 14: you would never know that I know that you done
- 41:48Speaker 14: did this, You're gonna say something about me. I'm not
- 41:51Speaker 14: the type that it's gonna just blow up like that.
- 41:54Speaker 14: So I'm gonna do my research. I'm gonna be a
- 41:57Speaker 14: detective behind the scenes and get our you know, just
- 42:02Speaker 14: all the facts and then bring it to the person.
- 42:05Speaker 4: Would if they.
- 42:06Speaker 7: Didn't tell you, how would you look at that front
- 42:09Speaker 7: afterwards that you were just trying to rebuild your relationship
- 42:11Speaker 7: with which it would would like reconciliation be off the table.
- 42:15Speaker 7: Would you be like, now I can't trust it because
- 42:17Speaker 7: you knew this and you sat on it. I get
- 42:18Speaker 7: that's your friend, but let me don't have me out
- 42:20Speaker 7: here with the how would you feel like would you?
- 42:24Speaker 14: Yeah, in the beginning, I would feel like my friend
- 42:28Speaker 14: betrayed me, But then I feel like we should be
- 42:31Speaker 14: able to work it out, to talk it out, like
- 42:34Speaker 14: then you tell me why in this set, and if
- 42:38Speaker 14: you knew she could possibly bring that.
- 42:40Speaker 13: Up, I would be I would just be upset.
- 42:44Speaker 14: And it would take a minute for us to build
- 42:46Speaker 14: our relationship back up.
- 42:47Speaker 4: That tru it is tough. I do get it, and.
- 42:51Speaker 14: Then call LaTrece like I said, I wouldn't want to
- 42:53Speaker 14: be involved anybody's marriage, you know, you know, in a
- 42:59Speaker 14: tough position because she has two friends right here, one
- 43:03Speaker 14: on this side or Lowyer two, and then it's like
- 43:05Speaker 14: I don't want to get in that relationship. And then
- 43:08Speaker 14: also with LaTrece, she's probably thinking if I tell Latitia
- 43:13Speaker 14: she's not gonna leave Glenn, they're gonna probably still be together.
- 43:17Speaker 14: Then Glenn will be mad at me, then Latitia'll be
- 43:20Speaker 14: mad at me. So it's just like I don't really
- 43:23Speaker 14: have no relationship with either one.
- 43:27Speaker 13: It's just it's over.
- 43:29Speaker 7: If you see couples go through it before and they
- 43:30Speaker 7: didn't break up all the way, you're like, man, they
- 43:32Speaker 7: ain't gonna separate anyways, I get that.
- 43:36Speaker 1: Spotty whitey look rain drops.
- 43:45Speaker 2: Let us know the comments.
- 43:46Speaker 1: Let us know on Twitter hashtag Reality of the King
- 43:51Speaker 1: if you were in Lateresa's shoes, would you tell your
- 43:56Speaker 1: married friend that her man is a DMS or would
- 44:00Speaker 1: you keep it to yourself because you do not want
- 44:03Speaker 1: to be caught in the middle. Let us know in
- 44:05Speaker 1: the comments now and we'll read it after the show. So, Selena,
- 44:09Speaker 1: speaking of your mans, one thing that we are diving
- 44:12Speaker 1: into this season is your relationship with your fiancee Mike
- 44:16Speaker 1: and his lack of communication. What we did see this
- 44:21Speaker 1: episode was the fact that Glenna Letitia took effort into
- 44:27Speaker 1: really being there for the two of you in regards
- 44:30Speaker 1: to how you feel like your fiance does not know
- 44:35Speaker 1: how to communicate and how it is impacting you. Can
- 44:39Speaker 1: you shed some light on what was going on with
- 44:41Speaker 1: you and him at that time that you felt the
- 44:44Speaker 1: need to address something that.
- 44:45Speaker 2: Was bothering you.
- 44:47Speaker 14: Yeah, so I want Mike to understand where I'm coming from.
- 44:51Speaker 14: Like I let mat Mike go out and hang out
- 44:54Speaker 14: with his voice and everything, but he had to realize
- 44:57Speaker 14: my past and when we first met, I have just
- 45:00Speaker 14: lost my son. So if Mike don't communicate with me,
- 45:05Speaker 14: if Mike don't answer their phone, it triggers me, and
- 45:08Speaker 14: it triggers me bad. And it's because, you know, because
- 45:11Speaker 14: I did lose my son, and it puts me back
- 45:13Speaker 14: into the space where I.
- 45:15Speaker 13: Was trying to call my son. My daughters were trying
- 45:17Speaker 13: to call my son. There was no answer.
- 45:19Speaker 14: So I automatically think the worst and I can't help that.
- 45:24Speaker 14: And so when he don't answer the phone, you know,
- 45:27Speaker 14: it's just triggering and I don't like that feeling at all.
- 45:31Speaker 14: And so Mike, he will say a couple of words,
- 45:33Speaker 14: you know, and expect me to understand it. And communication
- 45:38Speaker 14: is just key in any relationship. It can be with
- 45:42Speaker 14: friendship relationships, mother and daughter, you have to communicate.
- 45:46Speaker 7: That seems like a very reasonable thing to ask for
- 45:50Speaker 7: considering what you have been through. And he's aware of
- 45:52Speaker 7: your trauma, right, so it seems like a very very
- 45:56Speaker 7: small thing to ask when you've experienced such laws and
- 46:00Speaker 7: that doesn't just go away overnight.
- 46:03Speaker 13: It doesn't.
- 46:04Speaker 14: And going to Letitia, I know a lot of people's like,
- 46:08Speaker 14: why are y'all why did you go to the Pearisons,
- 46:11Speaker 14: because I know they don't been through so much together. Right, Oh,
- 46:15Speaker 14: I'm automatically going to go to some somebody who has
- 46:18Speaker 14: been through what I'm going through presently. So I'm not
- 46:23Speaker 14: going to ask somebody who's never been through anything or
- 46:25Speaker 14: air life their relationship is perfect. I want to go
- 46:28Speaker 14: to a person that I know has been there. So
- 46:31Speaker 14: that's why Letitia and Glenn were the perfect couple to
- 46:36Speaker 14: you know, go to.
- 46:37Speaker 5: That made perfect sense to me because we have seen
- 46:40Speaker 5: them on their journey and so seeing you use them
- 46:43Speaker 5: as a resource in that way, I thought was great
- 46:46Speaker 5: something people can learn from. I also think that you
- 46:49Speaker 5: have done an incredible job communicating your needs to like,
- 46:53Speaker 5: at least in the conversations that we've been privy to
- 46:55Speaker 5: on camera. You know, you weren't be rating him or
- 46:59Speaker 5: attacking him, were confronting him in that way. You just
- 47:02Speaker 5: simply laid out very plainly and very explicitly, these are
- 47:06Speaker 5: the needs you told them why, just like you just
- 47:08Speaker 5: shared with us. Obviously that sensitive information for you. It's
- 47:12Speaker 5: a sensitive topic. So I just want to give you
- 47:14Speaker 5: kudos for that because people can learn. Again, these reality
- 47:17Speaker 5: shows sometimes serves as almost like research for people right
- 47:21Speaker 5: on how to behave sometimes in different situations that can
- 47:24Speaker 5: be awkward or uncomfortable. So I just wanted to give
- 47:26Speaker 5: you your props because I felt like you did a
- 47:28Speaker 5: really good job communicating to Mike, like hey, in order
- 47:32Speaker 5: for us to succeed on in our relationship. This is
- 47:34Speaker 5: what I need. Even seeing you talk to your daughters.
- 47:37Speaker 5: When you went to visit your daughters prior to your
- 47:40Speaker 5: daughter having her baby, you were talking to them about
- 47:43Speaker 5: your relationship with Mike. I thought they were so well adjusted,
- 47:47Speaker 5: and so they were expressing their feelings to you their
- 47:50Speaker 5: mother in just a way that I thought was really
- 47:53Speaker 5: dope to see. So I think that even though you're
- 47:55Speaker 5: having communication issues with Mike, I want you to know
- 47:58Speaker 5: you're doing a good job facilitating the communication that you
- 48:01Speaker 5: are responsible for Selena.
- 48:05Speaker 13: Thank you.
- 48:07Speaker 14: Yeah, I mean that's that's all I want, is understanding.
- 48:11Speaker 14: I just want him to receive you know where I'm
- 48:15Speaker 14: coming from.
- 48:19Speaker 4: Do you think now? Do you feel a different? Valdosa
- 48:22Speaker 4: made that clear.
- 48:23Speaker 13: He's doing a lot better, He's putting forth the effort.
- 48:29Speaker 3: That's good.
- 48:30Speaker 5: Yes, No more eighteen purchases.
- 48:39Speaker 4: Because how do you yes? A lot?
- 48:43Speaker 13: That is?
- 48:44Speaker 14: Yet it is it is, And we're talking about getting
- 48:48Speaker 14: married and moving in together and you know, purchasing a
- 48:51Speaker 14: new home and everything. Somebody just talk to me, that's
- 48:56Speaker 14: all I He just.
- 48:58Speaker 7: Used to moving on his own without someone to hold
- 49:01Speaker 7: him accountable, check in, like, not used to check in.
- 49:05Speaker 13: That's what it seems like to me. I'm a different breed.
- 49:09Speaker 14: I have been through a lot of things, and so
- 49:13Speaker 14: I don't want to go through it again.
- 49:15Speaker 7: Because sometimes it's not like they're just being disrespectful to you.
- 49:18Speaker 7: It's just they're used to just moving on there, like
- 49:20Speaker 7: if they're moving around without checking in, like before you,
- 49:25Speaker 7: was there at the space between the relationship we have
- 49:28Speaker 7: before you?
- 49:28Speaker 4: Was it a long space?
- 49:31Speaker 14: So like when I said it was, we met a
- 49:35Speaker 14: little before my son passed, and so I just let
- 49:39Speaker 14: my just do him. But after my son passed, things changed.
- 49:43Speaker 14: I still let him go out with his friends. I
- 49:45Speaker 14: still let my you know, enjoy his life. But when
- 49:49Speaker 14: I call.
- 49:50Speaker 13: You, you need to answer the phone for sure.
- 49:53Speaker 14: That's how I because it was a situation, a situation
- 49:57Speaker 14: a couple of weeks ago where my daughter son Jay,
- 50:01Speaker 14: and it was something out of the norm. She was
- 50:04Speaker 14: not answering her phone. Me and my other two daughters
- 50:08Speaker 14: between us, we're freaking out. We're going crazy, like texting.
- 50:12Speaker 14: Then we take a boyfriend, we's like, just what's going on,
- 50:16Speaker 14: and it just puts us back in their space with
- 50:20Speaker 14: my son. And so that's how I feel with Mike,
- 50:23Speaker 14: like if you don't answer the phone, I'm gonna automatically
- 50:25Speaker 14: think the worst. But Sunday was like, y'all, don't blew
- 50:28Speaker 14: me up. I was just sleep trying to get some risk.
- 50:30Speaker 14: But we was like, don't do this to us.
- 50:33Speaker 7: I don't know if men and I know I'm gonna
- 50:35Speaker 7: stop talking so much about it.
- 50:36Speaker 4: I don't know if men realize how much patterns mean
- 50:39Speaker 4: to women.
- 50:40Speaker 7: Like that is everything to us, especially if you had
- 50:43Speaker 7: some abandonment in your life, death, tragedy.
- 50:47Speaker 4: A lot of us are you have our issues with daddy's.
- 50:49Speaker 7: Not being around or what have you, But patterns like
- 50:52Speaker 7: that's usually how we can tell something's wrong with you.
- 50:54Speaker 7: If you're not doing what you used to do, that's
- 50:56Speaker 7: gonna throw our nervous system into like a tailspin. I
- 51:00Speaker 7: tell the men that I'm like patterns, like when you
- 51:02Speaker 7: switch off what you usually do, and you know that's
- 51:05Speaker 7: a trigger for me. Of course, it's gonna be chaos
- 51:08Speaker 7: for you like it's they're like living their best life,
- 51:11Speaker 7: drinking a drink not.
- 51:11Speaker 4: Even thinking about like what it's doing to you.
- 51:13Speaker 7: And I don't even know if it's on purpose, but
- 51:15Speaker 7: I just want men that are watching this right now
- 51:17Speaker 7: to know that when y'all get off your patterns and
- 51:19Speaker 7: you know that's something that's important to.
- 51:21Speaker 4: Us, it really does a number on us.
- 51:23Speaker 7: And we're not nagging you, but it's probably kicking up
- 51:26Speaker 7: a lot of old feelings exactly.
- 51:31Speaker 5: One of the things that has been really great about
- 51:34Speaker 5: getting to know you on Bail Collective, Selena right, has
- 51:37Speaker 5: been like your your willingness to be so forthcoming with
- 51:40Speaker 5: your personal story right your family. This is your second
- 51:44Speaker 5: season as a full time Bail and we're seeing a
- 51:47Speaker 5: different side of your personal story this season right, much
- 51:50Speaker 5: more focused on like your relationship and what's going on
- 51:53Speaker 5: in your home. Previously we saw like your relationship with
- 51:57Speaker 5: your children's father and what that looked like for you.
- 52:00Speaker 5: What has you the difference been like in your experience
- 52:03Speaker 5: filming this current season season six versus the previous season
- 52:08Speaker 5: when it comes to like sharing your personal story, how
- 52:12Speaker 5: have you felt any difference like filming this season versus
- 52:15Speaker 5: filming last season and if so, how.
- 52:19Speaker 14: Last season the previous seasons, I was strictly focused on
- 52:25Speaker 14: mending my family. I don't like to see my girls hurt,
- 52:30Speaker 14: like I carried their pain. They loved their father, and
- 52:35Speaker 14: I just wanted them to me and that relationship. I
- 52:38Speaker 14: always wanted to be cordial with their step mother. That's
- 52:42Speaker 14: all I ever wanted. But even before the show, so,
- 52:46Speaker 14: I just wanted us to be able to be in
- 52:48Speaker 14: each other's space and get alone, and we still continue
- 52:53Speaker 14: to co parent. Be there because we're going to be
- 52:55Speaker 14: in the same setting. We just said a couple of
- 52:58Speaker 14: weeks ago, my grandson like christening, So we're.
- 53:02Speaker 13: Gonna be there. I know a lot of people are
- 53:04Speaker 13: like where they're older.
- 53:05Speaker 14: Now, we still got birthdays, we got still going to
- 53:09Speaker 14: be able to We're still gonna be in the same setting.
- 53:12Speaker 13: Regardless.
- 53:13Speaker 1: I love your ex husband and his wife.
- 53:20Speaker 2: Since the show.
- 53:23Speaker 1: Has wrapped, and the last time he y'all were together,
- 53:26Speaker 1: it was very contentious, So what is the status of
- 53:29Speaker 1: your relationship together.
- 53:31Speaker 14: Look, I was raised by old woman. My grandma raised me.
- 53:35Speaker 14: She's like, you know, just continue to still be nice.
- 53:40Speaker 14: I always be treat people the way you want to
- 53:43Speaker 14: be treated regardless of what they're gonna do it to you.
- 53:46Speaker 14: Their karma is going, it has no expiration. So it
- 53:50Speaker 14: doesn't bother me at all being around them, because that's
- 53:54Speaker 14: all I wanted, was just for us to just be
- 53:56Speaker 14: a family that can coexist. And so when I see them,
- 54:01Speaker 14: I embrace them, you know, I hug them or whatever,
- 54:04Speaker 14: you know, because we have children together, grandkids, and the
- 54:08Speaker 14: family is steady growing. So you don't make it feel
- 54:12Speaker 14: any type of way.
- 54:13Speaker 7: That has been our Reality television made it better for
- 54:18Speaker 7: you to communicate or worse, because I do think that
- 54:22Speaker 7: it forces you to have a conversation because you got
- 54:24Speaker 7: to put a button on situation for work, right, right, So.
- 54:29Speaker 4: Maybe you'll talk to us on that in real life.
- 54:31Speaker 4: Make me f them.
- 54:32Speaker 7: I'm done with them, I'm off them, But you have
- 54:34Speaker 7: to finish, you gotta, you gotta like button up storylines.
- 54:38Speaker 7: Has it been helpful for you like being on reality
- 54:41Speaker 7: television with their family in real life? For you?
- 54:43Speaker 4: Has it helped you in real life?
- 54:44Speaker 1: Well?
- 54:45Speaker 13: Yes, in real life.
- 54:46Speaker 14: I am so thankful for this show because I feel
- 54:49Speaker 14: like everything happens for a reason, and in the direct
- 54:53Speaker 14: order it's happening, So I feel like if they were
- 54:57Speaker 14: never on this show, we probably still wouldn't be where
- 55:01Speaker 14: we are today.
- 55:03Speaker 13: So we're in a better space. So thank you so much, Carlos.
- 55:08Speaker 13: I appreciate it. Thank you. That's a positive thing.
- 55:17Speaker 14: So all I want thank you, well, well.
- 55:25Speaker 2: Thank you Selena. It's what Claudie said.
- 55:27Speaker 1: Look, reality TV is tough, but one thing it does
- 55:30Speaker 1: do it forces you to have these conversations that you
- 55:34Speaker 1: sometimes avoid, and look, at the end of the day,
- 55:38Speaker 1: what we always wanted was for you guys to be
- 55:41Speaker 1: a united front as a family, and I'm happy that
- 55:44Speaker 1: you guys are able to do that.
- 55:47Speaker 2: As Selena, and I'm so happy that.
- 55:49Speaker 1: You are about Thank you so much for everything you're
- 55:52Speaker 1: bringing the season. Shout out to you for being so
- 55:55Speaker 1: open about your personal life, Mike, your son, the passing Man.
- 56:00Speaker 1: There's more episodes to go to where you get to
- 56:03Speaker 1: see Selena on this journey of trying to heal from
- 56:07Speaker 1: her son's passing, but you also get to see Selena
- 56:11Speaker 1: in a place with the Bells where she's also trying
- 56:14Speaker 1: to get the girls back together. So rain Drops, make
- 56:17Speaker 1: sure y'all stay tuned to Bell Collective every Friday eight
- 56:20Speaker 1: o'clock seven Central on the open within your network, Selena,
- 56:24Speaker 1: where can the rain drops find you?
- 56:25Speaker 2: Follow you?
- 56:26Speaker 1: Support you on social media in addition to purchasing your
- 56:30Speaker 1: ear rings and jewelry.
- 56:32Speaker 14: Well, look Collins, I've been doing some women's events, a
- 56:38Speaker 14: lot of pop ups, and I'll be selling out. They
- 56:41Speaker 14: like rings, farrito, So I'm getting my website together.
- 56:46Speaker 13: I've been doing a lot of.
- 56:49Speaker 14: Like in person, right, but my website is it is up,
- 56:54Speaker 14: but you can't purchase nothing on it yet.
- 56:56Speaker 13: But by the end of the week.
- 56:58Speaker 1: If I go with Selena, you know whattok.
- 57:05Speaker 4: You have a TikTok is a great place TikTok shopping.
- 57:09Speaker 13: I need there.
- 57:10Speaker 14: You have nantcy than my website. But like I said,
- 57:14Speaker 14: because I do like this my hands like this's not
- 57:18Speaker 14: have a whole crew behind me or anything. I make
- 57:21Speaker 14: each one with love and I love them are different,
- 57:25Speaker 14: so I don't really make two pair alike and may
- 57:30Speaker 14: have a different ball or different lens or it's something
- 57:33Speaker 14: different about it.
- 57:34Speaker 5: So go get your ear rings, get your earrings, and
- 57:37Speaker 5: stake Selena's comments so she could get that website up
- 57:40Speaker 5: to rolling y'all can purchase some earrings, That's right.
- 57:44Speaker 4: You have a very nice demeanor about you.
- 57:47Speaker 7: Very It's like feels good talking to you, like you
- 57:51Speaker 7: seem like a very soothing, peaceful human being. I just
- 57:55Speaker 7: want to say, your energy is very very nice.
- 58:00Speaker 4: It's like you have good aura, you know, so.
- 58:02Speaker 13: I appreciate that.
- 58:05Speaker 4: Of course.
- 58:06Speaker 2: No, and we thank you Selena.
- 58:07Speaker 1: Thanks about hopping on month in a live My love
- 58:09Speaker 1: and I'll see you soon.
- 58:10Speaker 3: Boo by take care Selena.
- 58:15Speaker 4: Oh she's so nice. Carlos's hard.
- 58:18Speaker 2: No, she's sweet.
- 58:19Speaker 4: She's very sweet, Like I can't be for her, she's
- 58:22Speaker 4: too nice.
- 58:24Speaker 2: Yeah, No, she's she's she's a sweetheart.
- 58:26Speaker 1: And I love the fact that the audience is getting
- 58:28Speaker 1: a chance to like really see her outside of what
- 58:31Speaker 1: she was going through last season that Dusta mentioned with
- 58:34Speaker 1: her ex husband and his wife and and how that
- 58:37Speaker 1: affected the family and the kids. So we get to
- 58:40Speaker 1: open up selena story this season. So guys be collective.
- 58:43Speaker 1: Every Friday, eight o'clock seve is Central Own, and this
- 58:46Speaker 1: Friday you get to see the continuation of what happens
- 58:49Speaker 1: at La Teresa's party when it comes to Amanda and Latitia.
- 58:53Speaker 1: You do not want to miss that.
- 58:56Speaker 5: My nerves so bad, man, My nerves had to see
- 59:01Speaker 5: hens and needles.
- 59:02Speaker 3: I'm telling you, man.
- 59:04Speaker 1: I can tell you like what is happening, but you
- 59:08Speaker 1: know what else is going on? That's pins a needle
- 59:11Speaker 1: ish the latest episode of the Reyal House Washing of Potomac,
- 59:16Speaker 1: that what's happening?
- 59:18Speaker 3: Frozen Dustin?
- 59:20Speaker 4: Is he far far away? If he a land far far.
- 59:22Speaker 3: Away, far away? You frozen boy.
- 59:27Speaker 4: Dustin? On the scale of one of ten.
- 59:29Speaker 7: How much you think we'd be stressing colors out when
- 59:31Speaker 7: we're be going on our.
- 59:32Speaker 3: Little rants twenty three?
- 59:35Speaker 4: Isn't it fun?
- 59:36Speaker 9: Though?
- 59:36Speaker 7: I think it makes it more fun to watch the
- 59:37Speaker 7: space like when we be going like we're we're almost
- 59:40Speaker 7: at legal note time.
- 59:42Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you can see it, and you can see
- 59:45Speaker 5: the meter rising every time, right, you can see it
- 59:48Speaker 5: turning from rid to orange.
- 59:50Speaker 3: So you can see it, man, Yeah yeah, raindrops.
- 59:54Speaker 6: Can y'all see are y'all here for?
- 59:56Speaker 7: When colors like he sees this two aries rams is
- 59:59Speaker 7: getting hello, reckless and just popping off.
- 1:00:01Speaker 5: We can't help ourselves, man, It's something to be said.
- 1:00:04Speaker 5: We're gonna say it. God damn it, We're gonna say it. Claudia.
- 1:00:07Speaker 3: You know, I think we've.
- 1:00:08Speaker 5: Been doing a good job though. This ain't no messy show.
- 1:00:11Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. We just have a little fun.
- 1:00:13Speaker 5: But like we I think we keep things at a
- 1:00:15Speaker 5: certain place. And I'm proud of that because you know
- 1:00:18Speaker 5: what I'm saying, we.
- 1:00:20Speaker 7: Give them the tip and not necessarily shafts. Right, we
- 1:00:24Speaker 7: put the tip in or we like insinuate other then
- 1:00:26Speaker 7: back up off it.
- 1:00:29Speaker 4: Your method, you back.
- 1:00:29Speaker 6: Up off it.
- 1:00:30Speaker 5: That's right, that's right. There's a way. You know what
- 1:00:34Speaker 5: I'm saying is there's a way to do this. So
- 1:00:36Speaker 5: we just need y'all into it. Yeah, e skill, you
- 1:00:41Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. You gotta be steady, patience and
- 1:00:46Speaker 5: he's back.
- 1:00:47Speaker 4: Yes, Calos, you are messed well.
- 1:00:50Speaker 2: Listen, I heard everything you guys said. Man, listen, it's
- 1:00:53Speaker 2: the stresses you guys do, not just out. I love it.
- 1:00:57Speaker 2: I love it, my bad y'all. Sorry, I'm gonna do
- 1:01:00Speaker 2: the location.
- 1:01:02Speaker 13: Where are you?
- 1:01:04Speaker 2: I don't know?
- 1:01:05Speaker 4: Is there any different?
- 1:01:09Speaker 6: There is a hint.
- 1:01:10Speaker 4: I'm not going to say thing, but there's a huge.
- 1:01:11Speaker 3: Hint, huge like right, like huge like come on.
- 1:01:21Speaker 4: You It was premeditated too, right, and he's trying.
- 1:01:24Speaker 3: I believe so because I know how he travels. You
- 1:01:27Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, how he plans.
- 1:01:29Speaker 2: About certain things.
- 1:01:30Speaker 3: That was for that, You know what I mean?
- 1:01:33Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I know there's even more to the story.
- 1:01:39Speaker 5: Part of the story, there's more to more elements that
- 1:01:42Speaker 5: make it total.
- 1:01:43Speaker 3: But yes, who so why do.
- 1:01:50Speaker 2: We get into? Okay?
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: Now, the episode opened up, we saw within they A
- 1:01:58Speaker 1: K K have a out. Wendy showed up in her
- 1:02:02Speaker 1: purple rain honey by the way, great outfit of the
- 1:02:05Speaker 1: glasses and the hot pans shorts and the blazer. They're
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: sitting on a bench. They're conversing and in this scene,
- 1:02:13Speaker 1: KK is pretty much telling Wendy that you are a
- 1:02:17Speaker 1: different person on camera that you are off camera.
- 1:02:21Speaker 2: That's the argument, in.
- 1:02:23Speaker 1: Case you guys want to know, the argument is on camera,
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: you act like we're friends, but off camera you treat
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: me very differently. KK is coming in hot the fact
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: that Wendy Listen, I know that you guys have a
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: strong feeling about not YouTube. I know a lot of
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: people have strong feelings about Wendy based on what's going
- 1:02:45Speaker 1: on in her life right now.
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: But what I will say is based on.
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: The scene, Wendy is keeping it cool, calm, collected, and
- 1:02:54Speaker 1: KK is the one who I feel.
- 1:02:58Speaker 2: Like it's a baiting switch to me.
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: I think Wendy is being calm so that KK can
- 1:03:04Speaker 1: be seen as the aggressor when is doing a great
- 1:03:08Speaker 1: job being the person that seems to be unhinged, not
- 1:03:13Speaker 1: saying that's a personality. I've never seen KK act that
- 1:03:16Speaker 1: way until now. But Wendy was very smart to make
- 1:03:21Speaker 1: sure that she spoke calmly. I'll have Dustin mock Wendy.
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: He does a better job than me. But I thought
- 1:03:27Speaker 1: it was smart that she remained calm in order for Wendy,
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: I'm sorry, in order for KK to act unhinged that
- 1:03:35Speaker 1: when she laughed at her, I was like, whoa, this
- 1:03:40Speaker 1: is everything.
- 1:03:41Speaker 2: I thought I was gonna be.
- 1:03:42Speaker 7: Anyone that's ever not saying Whndy's a narcissist, but anyone
- 1:03:45Speaker 7: who's ever dated a narcissists have experienced this level of
- 1:03:48Speaker 7: frustration when you have a legitimate, reasonable, you know, concern,
- 1:03:53Speaker 7: like hey, I feel that you do this, and they're like, oh.
- 1:03:59Speaker 4: Exactly what mean?
- 1:04:00Speaker 6: You're overreacting?
- 1:04:01Speaker 4: And explain to me how.
- 1:04:04Speaker 7: A feeling is a feeling? If someone's feelings can't really
- 1:04:06Speaker 7: be wrong because it's how they feel. And if someone's feeling,
- 1:04:09Speaker 7: you should probably open up and listen to what they
- 1:04:10Speaker 7: have to say. And this is where KK loses the
- 1:04:13Speaker 7: argument because when he's able to control her emotions and
- 1:04:17Speaker 7: who I've said it before, whoever controls her emotions and
- 1:04:19Speaker 7: a scene wins. But until Wendy showed herself when she
- 1:04:25Speaker 7: laughed like that, when she gave that laugh, it gave
- 1:04:27Speaker 7: me wicked. It gave me I know exactly what I'm doing.
- 1:04:30Speaker 7: I'm playing the ship out of you in the scene.
- 1:04:33Speaker 7: I'm owning you in the scene. I'm doing it on purpose.
- 1:04:36Speaker 7: And if you look at the footage the scene, a
- 1:04:38Speaker 7: seal even jumped out of the water at one point.
- 1:04:45Speaker 4: I thought.
- 1:04:49Speaker 7: She's getting you and KK didn't catch it, but it
- 1:04:52Speaker 7: was right behind kj's right shoulder. I saw the seal
- 1:04:55Speaker 7: in the bay and it got up in the water
- 1:04:57Speaker 7: and it was because it saw that Wendy. No matter
- 1:05:01Speaker 7: what I do, think that KK probably has I don't
- 1:05:04Speaker 7: know that these people business like that, but I think
- 1:05:06Speaker 7: KK had a legitimate concern. Hey, I feel like it's different. Okay,
- 1:05:10Speaker 7: that's her feeling, and Wendy wouldn't even entertain it. Wendy
- 1:05:13Speaker 7: and when she gave that laugh, Wendy told you everything he.
- 1:05:16Speaker 2: Needs to know.
- 1:05:17Speaker 4: She was enjoying the crash out.
- 1:05:19Speaker 7: It looked to me, in my opinion, she was like, oh,
- 1:05:22Speaker 7: I don't want the scene, because there's people that go
- 1:05:24Speaker 7: into the scene to actually do a scene and get
- 1:05:26Speaker 7: a resolved and there's people that go into a scene
- 1:05:29Speaker 7: going in there to control a scene and to make
- 1:05:31Speaker 7: you look stupid and to flip.
- 1:05:33Speaker 6: It on you.
- 1:05:33Speaker 7: And I think that's what happened here in KK. You
- 1:05:35Speaker 7: lost it because you you well, you were being I
- 1:05:38Speaker 7: think she was being authentic in her emotions. But Wendy
- 1:05:40Speaker 7: kept cool and she was she knew what she was doing.
- 1:05:42Speaker 4: And then it gave a middle finger like all that.
- 1:05:45Speaker 7: Yo, Wendy, when that's an experienced reality storry right there,
- 1:05:49Speaker 7: that that was an experienced reality starry move.
- 1:05:51Speaker 5: In my opinion, well, yes, also right, I think that
- 1:05:57Speaker 5: Wendy didn't like being challenged. Yes, Out on camera, Wendy
- 1:06:02Speaker 5: appeared to be assuming this position of a tenured housewife.
- 1:06:07Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, who is entertaining the small
- 1:06:11Speaker 5: concerns of someone who you know, one of her subordinates.
- 1:06:14Speaker 5: That was very much the energy when they sat down
- 1:06:16Speaker 5: on that bench. But Wendy can't hold her poker face
- 1:06:19Speaker 5: too long when it comes to confrontations and situations like that,
- 1:06:23Speaker 5: because as they continue to talk, you could tell Wendy's
- 1:06:26Speaker 5: responses when she started going off script. I'll just put
- 1:06:29Speaker 5: it like that, when Wendy started going.
- 1:06:31Speaker 2: Off script, are you rehearsed?
- 1:06:36Speaker 5: So when Wendy started going off script after she recited
- 1:06:39Speaker 5: the story that she chose to best represent her being
- 1:06:43Speaker 5: a good friend to Keana, and she recited the story
- 1:06:45Speaker 5: about Keana being accused of using drug dealer money by Ashley,
- 1:06:50Speaker 5: and she so conveniently highlighted that one scene where the
- 1:06:54Speaker 5: camera was focused on her coming to the defense of
- 1:06:57Speaker 5: or personal aid of her friend. After she finish that,
- 1:07:00Speaker 5: and Keanna was just appearing to get frustrated but move on,
- 1:07:04Speaker 5: Wendy's true colors came out, especially when the middle finger
- 1:07:07Speaker 5: was exchanged. That's because Wendy really was upset in that scene. Okay,
- 1:07:12Speaker 5: she did not like being chin checked by Keana.
- 1:07:16Speaker 3: In any way.
- 1:07:17Speaker 5: She don't want to be questioned. She don't want to
- 1:07:20Speaker 5: be questioned. She don't want Keana. How I think that
- 1:07:23Speaker 5: she it feels to me when I watch the show
- 1:07:25Speaker 5: that Wendy's rationale is kind of how dare you, bitch,
- 1:07:28Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, how dare you ask me
- 1:07:30Speaker 5: about this? Or how dare you decide to make an
- 1:07:33Speaker 5: issue with me? And now this season we're gonna go
- 1:07:36Speaker 5: at it. You don't deserve that. And I think a
- 1:07:39Speaker 5: lot of the housewives on the cast kind of view
- 1:07:41Speaker 5: Keana through that lens of her being a subordinate, a
- 1:07:43Speaker 5: pity housewife, only being granted her position because of the
- 1:07:48Speaker 5: physical When Ashley's friend came to the show across all
- 1:07:53Speaker 5: that drama and mess and they got in that physical fight,
- 1:07:56Speaker 5: the ladies on the show have decided that that's a
- 1:07:58Speaker 5: good way to insult Keiana by insinuating that her position
- 1:08:01Speaker 5: on the show as a housewife is due to that
- 1:08:04Speaker 5: or some sort of you know, consolation of sorts, right,
- 1:08:08Speaker 5: consolation prize of sorts.
- 1:08:09Speaker 3: And I think that's getting old.
- 1:08:11Speaker 5: And that's why we're seeing Keanu get closer and closer
- 1:08:13Speaker 5: to just snapping off. And I think that's why she's
- 1:08:16Speaker 5: being way more honest this season. I think it's her
- 1:08:19Speaker 5: second season and so she understands that, hey, I need
- 1:08:22Speaker 5: to kind of take up the space that I occupy
- 1:08:24Speaker 5: on this cast, and so she's being more vocal. It's
- 1:08:27Speaker 5: not landing with a lot of the viewers, it may
- 1:08:29Speaker 5: not even be landing with any of her cast mates,
- 1:08:31Speaker 5: but she's there, and so she's going to have something
- 1:08:34Speaker 5: to say. And I think that that notion in and
- 1:08:36Speaker 5: of itself offends Wendy. I think that Wendy did not
- 1:08:39Speaker 5: appreciate it, and she played her game as long as
- 1:08:42Speaker 5: she could, but once emotions started running a little bit high,
- 1:08:46Speaker 5: no pun intended, I think that she, you know, kind
- 1:08:49Speaker 5: of cracked the foundation kind of cracked.
- 1:08:52Speaker 3: And so it just was Wendy being Wendy to me.
- 1:08:55Speaker 5: The nonchalant attitude in the confessionals, that whole tone, and
- 1:09:00Speaker 5: the very stiff posture that won't move, the very like
- 1:09:05Speaker 5: the calculated glances over your shoulder to suggest that something
- 1:09:09Speaker 5: is you know, okay, I guess you know. When she
- 1:09:12Speaker 5: does all of that stuff, it's intentional quadia. You know
- 1:09:14Speaker 5: what those kind of dgs mean. And so I wish
- 1:09:18Speaker 5: Keanna would just go to it, like you know what,
- 1:09:20Speaker 5: I feel like, you're only teaming up with me when
- 1:09:22Speaker 5: it's time to film, to have some sort of camaraderie
- 1:09:25Speaker 5: amongst these women and I don't appreciate that. Stop playing
- 1:09:28Speaker 5: in my face acting like we're friends. That's really the
- 1:09:31Speaker 5: phrase she was looking for the whole time, playing in
- 1:09:33Speaker 5: my face. Stop playing in my face acting like we're
- 1:09:36Speaker 5: friends and we're not. Say that instead of saying, well
- 1:09:39Speaker 5: you asked me did I do my own makeup?
- 1:09:41Speaker 3: Or well you didn't weigh from the stage.
- 1:09:43Speaker 5: Stop signing these examples that are not making progress with
- 1:09:47Speaker 5: getting people to understand what you're trying to say, and
- 1:09:50Speaker 5: just go to the definition of what your feelings are
- 1:09:53Speaker 5: regarding Wendy.
- 1:09:54Speaker 3: That's what Keana needs to do. Wendy looked great in
- 1:09:57Speaker 3: her purple.
- 1:09:59Speaker 2: She looked good at well. And I will say I
- 1:10:00Speaker 2: agree with you, Dustin.
- 1:10:01Speaker 1: And when you say that, it would have been better
- 1:10:05Speaker 1: if Kak would have said, look, I just think off
- 1:10:09Speaker 1: camera you treat me differently on camera.
- 1:10:12Speaker 2: Now.
- 1:10:12Speaker 1: I will say this though in K's defense, and this
- 1:10:16Speaker 1: is me being being a producer to it is it
- 1:10:20Speaker 1: is sometimes requested production to not break the fourth wall
- 1:10:28Speaker 1: so much, right it.
- 1:10:29Speaker 2: Is because it does take you out of it.
- 1:10:32Speaker 1: I grew up in the world where you would never
- 1:10:36Speaker 1: break the fourth wall. Do y'all remember when Nimi and
- 1:10:40Speaker 1: Chariy had that infamous scene at they were sitting there
- 1:10:46Speaker 1: trying to have wine. It was at this this Atlantic station. Yes,
- 1:10:49Speaker 1: season four, a great thank you season four, and it
- 1:10:54Speaker 1: was about it was about Tyrone and how Tomrone was
- 1:10:57Speaker 1: a promoter and he wanted me so long story short,
- 1:11:02Speaker 1: that a tire beef between Nina and Charae had to
- 1:11:06Speaker 1: do with a promoter wanted to book Charay and asked
- 1:11:13Speaker 1: if Charae could also.
- 1:11:15Speaker 2: Add Nimi and or Kim to the building of the book.
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: And because back then, Claudia, right, you would get booked
- 1:11:21Speaker 1: by these nightclubs to show up for an hour and
- 1:11:24Speaker 1: get paid one thousand dollars in cash half of front
- 1:11:28Speaker 1: half when you leave you out in the park a.
- 1:11:29Speaker 2: Lot, right, see three thousand thank you.
- 1:11:34Speaker 1: So look, so that attire beef, that whole like fix
- 1:11:39Speaker 1: your teeth, yeah, whatever, that was about promoting.
- 1:11:44Speaker 2: They called them being celebrities.
- 1:11:46Speaker 1: We could not say to my point in saying that, y'all,
- 1:11:49Speaker 1: we could not say that. We have to say, well,
- 1:11:52Speaker 1: your friend called my phone and whatever. Now KK is
- 1:11:58Speaker 1: starting to bring up more of that, and I see
- 1:12:00Speaker 1: that the music and more. But I think KK had
- 1:12:02Speaker 1: a struggle because Dustin, You're right, the shit is weak
- 1:12:07Speaker 1: that KK is mad with Wendy about and when I
- 1:12:10Speaker 1: say it's weak, it's weak for the audience to understand
- 1:12:14Speaker 1: it and to care. But if KK would have articulated
- 1:12:18Speaker 1: the way it doesn't said, I feel like you're playing
- 1:12:20Speaker 1: in my face. I feel like off camera me and you, baby,
- 1:12:25Speaker 1: you don't you don't see it for me. But on camera,
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: I feel like I'm part of your alliance because you
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: need somebody to be team Wendy and not of mind
- 1:12:32Speaker 1: being team Wendy.
- 1:12:33Speaker 2: But but chick, you gotta be team KK. We will
- 1:12:36Speaker 2: not feel me and that probably would have been more digestible.
- 1:12:39Speaker 7: That's how like when again, being new to reality TV, right,
- 1:12:44Speaker 7: you like you harp on an example, but an established
- 1:12:48Speaker 7: reality star will make you look stupid, like how a
- 1:12:50Speaker 7: lawyer would in court. But what do you mean that's
- 1:12:52Speaker 7: I mean that sounds like that's not a consequence, that's
- 1:12:54Speaker 7: not a big.
- 1:12:55Speaker 4: Deal, and then you over here look like you crashing out.
- 1:12:57Speaker 4: You gotta paint the bigger picture.
- 1:12:58Speaker 7: It's not these little micro aggression because I think I've
- 1:13:00Speaker 7: mentioned before with female relationships a lot of times, it's
- 1:13:04Speaker 7: very subtle and it's very nuanced, like things that Ben
- 1:13:07Speaker 7: would not even notice and would like, you know, roll
- 1:13:09Speaker 7: off your back, like if you know, if if you
- 1:13:12Speaker 7: walk in a room and then you know, Wendy went,
- 1:13:16Speaker 7: that's nothing to y'all, But.
- 1:13:17Speaker 4: We're like, why she look me up and down like that?
- 1:13:19Speaker 3: Right?
- 1:13:19Speaker 7: And we do it on purpose? Like someone does that
- 1:13:21Speaker 7: on purpose and women clock it. But when you explain
- 1:13:24Speaker 7: that to two men or to the world, to you
- 1:13:27Speaker 7: explain it, you sound like you're tripping. You sound like
- 1:13:29Speaker 7: you're crazy, or you're you're bugging you it's not. But
- 1:13:33Speaker 7: you know, you know when someone's playing your face like
- 1:13:36Speaker 7: Dusn't said, and you said, Carlos, it's better to just
- 1:13:39Speaker 7: paint a broader picture.
- 1:13:41Speaker 4: You know what you're doing.
- 1:13:41Speaker 7: I'm not gonna sit there and play the games and
- 1:13:43Speaker 7: give you specific examples. You know it, I know it,
- 1:13:46Speaker 7: we all see it. But when you give a little examples,
- 1:13:48Speaker 7: you actually give them an opportunity to chip away your
- 1:13:51Speaker 7: argument and make you look crazy. And that's exactly what
- 1:13:53Speaker 7: Wendy did. Like you know, you could always be like, well,
- 1:13:56Speaker 7: what do you mean, They'll.
- 1:13:57Speaker 4: Guess like you're right. I mean, I asked you because
- 1:13:59Speaker 4: I just wanted to know it looked.
- 1:14:00Speaker 7: Different than before, but we all know that it was
- 1:14:03Speaker 7: a shady common Okay, better off to not get into
- 1:14:06Speaker 7: the weeds with the exact examples and paint that brought
- 1:14:09Speaker 7: a picture, because then we can rock with you on that.
- 1:14:15Speaker 1: How did y'all feel though, when y'all saw them leave
- 1:14:18Speaker 1: the scene together laughing and.
- 1:14:22Speaker 2: Yes, yes, so I want to get your thoughts.
- 1:14:25Speaker 1: So then when I saw it, I thought as well,
- 1:14:27Speaker 1: all three of us are saying that Wendy is a
- 1:14:31Speaker 1: professional reality star. She stepped on the newbies toes like,
- 1:14:36Speaker 1: what you're not gonna do is use your second season
- 1:14:42Speaker 1: as a champagne flute holder coming for me, And I'm
- 1:14:46Speaker 1: laughing at you because I know that you're doing this
- 1:14:48Speaker 1: for a storyline. I feel like Wendy was patronizing her, like, girl,
- 1:14:52Speaker 1: you're doing the storyline. You're trying to, you know, run
- 1:14:56Speaker 1: this scene and run me. And I felt like, no,
- 1:15:00Speaker 1: Shaye KK also knew, Okay, I'm a little bit more
- 1:15:03Speaker 1: hype then then I normally would be, because this is
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: a scene and I felt like it was two girls
- 1:15:10Speaker 1: or the same show, like we see each other and
- 1:15:13Speaker 1: and and and real life.
- 1:15:15Speaker 2: We're not that mad.
- 1:15:17Speaker 1: I get what you have to do once again, not
- 1:15:19Speaker 1: to break up Season four eleven of Housewives. It's when
- 1:15:23Speaker 1: Dustin and Africa, when Charae and Marlow have their If
- 1:15:29Speaker 1: y'all watched that scene, Charae Claudia is this fight, this
- 1:15:34Speaker 1: this verbal fight between her and Marlow. She goes, and
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: I was there and I knew what Charay meant. She goes, Oh,
- 1:15:41Speaker 1: I see what you're doing. We're good, good, good now
- 1:15:47Speaker 1: saying you are a friend of you want to peach
- 1:15:52Speaker 1: you need an argument with me? I got it and
- 1:15:55Speaker 1: they and they were able to like move past it.
- 1:15:57Speaker 1: I think that's what Wendy and KK doing.
- 1:16:00Speaker 7: It seemed like two girls work like that, just got
- 1:16:02Speaker 7: off work after all that argument.
- 1:16:06Speaker 2: It didn't good.
- 1:16:09Speaker 4: Yeah, it was too Sorry it wasn't as sharp on
- 1:16:12Speaker 4: Bell today.
- 1:16:12Speaker 6: But I will say that you actually you actually were.
- 1:16:17Speaker 4: I tried.
- 1:16:18Speaker 7: I was like, yeah, okay, it looked like two girls.
- 1:16:22Speaker 7: I got off work because you took us through all that.
- 1:16:25Speaker 7: Even the seal came up out of the water to
- 1:16:27Speaker 7: clap and the like, I'm telling you go back and
- 1:16:29Speaker 7: watch to walk off like that arm in arm Because
- 1:16:31Speaker 7: if I'm.
- 1:16:32Speaker 4: That mad at someone and a girl just laughed in
- 1:16:34Speaker 4: my face.
- 1:16:34Speaker 7: We ain't walking off like it look like two girls
- 1:16:36Speaker 7: that just they got off work that Oh and they might.
- 1:16:39Speaker 6: And then when I.
- 1:16:40Speaker 7: Walked off like that, I was thinking things happens got
- 1:16:43Speaker 7: us all emotional.
- 1:16:43Speaker 4: They might be going to get a drink right now.
- 1:16:46Speaker 4: And Kk's argument.
- 1:16:51Speaker 5: As soon as Wendy sat down on that bench, I'd
- 1:16:53Speaker 5: have been like, did you do your own makeup?
- 1:16:58Speaker 3: She said, down on that bench?
- 1:16:59Speaker 2: That's good?
- 1:17:01Speaker 3: But yes, you know what I'm saying, Like I ultimately,
- 1:17:04Speaker 3: they both pretty, they both dressed cute.
- 1:17:07Speaker 5: I like seeing them on the show in scenes, whether
- 1:17:09Speaker 5: they argueing and getting along. I'm just happy I'm looking
- 1:17:12Speaker 5: at these two beautiful black women on my TV and
- 1:17:16Speaker 5: I think that, you know, unpopular opinion here, but I
- 1:17:19Speaker 5: think that Keana is giving a whole lot of substance
- 1:17:22Speaker 5: to this season of dro Housewives of Potomac. I think
- 1:17:26Speaker 5: that the addition of her friend Angel and everything that's
- 1:17:29Speaker 5: going on with her, which we'll get to that, but
- 1:17:32Speaker 5: I think with the addition of her friend Angel, it
- 1:17:34Speaker 5: just shows like Keana has something to contribute to this
- 1:17:37Speaker 5: French disfranchise, and I'm excited to see her Cherry blossom bloom.
- 1:17:43Speaker 6: So I think you need to kea because.
- 1:17:47Speaker 7: After the years on the reality shows, everyone starts to
- 1:17:50Speaker 7: be like a Wendy, you know what I mean, like
- 1:17:53Speaker 7: meaning and that's not a shade Winny, but more controlled more.
- 1:17:57Speaker 7: I am doing this for the scene like kk's I
- 1:17:59Speaker 7: come off more passionate, had but that's more Actually that's green.
- 1:18:07Speaker 7: But that's actually what real life is. It's not so
- 1:18:10Speaker 7: control like I'm just doing this forst scene laughing. In
- 1:18:13Speaker 7: real life, a bitch laughs in my face like that,
- 1:18:17Speaker 7: what's good?
- 1:18:18Speaker 4: Oh you laugh? What's funny? I'm a comedian. I'm not
- 1:18:21Speaker 4: here to entertain you, you know what I mean?
- 1:18:25Speaker 3: She laughing in your face? Next thing you had her
- 1:18:27Speaker 3: in real life was that splash of her going in
- 1:18:29Speaker 3: that water. That's the difference. That's real life.
- 1:18:36Speaker 7: KK brings us like, gives us like unpolished, raw emotion,
- 1:18:42Speaker 7: but it is what it is and not so in
- 1:18:44Speaker 7: my head and the scene she's more in a hearts
- 1:18:46Speaker 7: more in the scene, KK is more in a heart.
- 1:18:49Speaker 7: So there's a difference, and it looks like outclassed.
- 1:18:52Speaker 4: Huh.
- 1:18:53Speaker 5: Her mama is too. Did you see how her mama
- 1:18:55Speaker 5: was watching that conversation?
- 1:18:57Speaker 3: From the town.
- 1:18:59Speaker 5: Her mama had to get up and go stand up
- 1:19:01Speaker 5: and lean on it. Was it a mantle or something
- 1:19:03Speaker 5: that her mom went and leaned up on it.
- 1:19:04Speaker 7: She looked like, Mama's already like, Okay.
- 1:19:08Speaker 5: That's still my child that y'all are talking to, and
- 1:19:11Speaker 5: I am fin it's taking everything I got not to
- 1:19:14Speaker 5: jump in these ropes right now.
- 1:19:16Speaker 3: That's what you can see in her face, So I
- 1:19:18Speaker 3: know there's more there. Carlos, you're a producer. I know
- 1:19:20Speaker 3: you see this.
- 1:19:21Speaker 4: And though that'll be used against they'll try to demonize
- 1:19:27Speaker 4: that and.
- 1:19:27Speaker 7: Make it like she's ghetto or she's a hot head,
- 1:19:29Speaker 7: but that's actually how they don't react in that circumstance
- 1:19:33Speaker 7: when someone laughs in your face or tries you, and
- 1:19:36Speaker 7: real life people forget, like real life, what would you
- 1:19:38Speaker 7: really do if someone laugh in your face like that
- 1:19:41Speaker 7: full badly laugh like with that mouth, like.
- 1:19:44Speaker 4: When you do that.
- 1:19:46Speaker 3: Now, one thing I do.
- 1:19:47Speaker 5: One point that I do want to make regarding Keana
- 1:19:51Speaker 5: and and her history and stuff like that. I thought
- 1:19:56Speaker 5: it was rich that Ashley and them thought that Stacey
- 1:19:59Speaker 5: went too far are when alluding to a reference in
- 1:20:03Speaker 5: Keana's situation with that girl that was Astley's friend and
- 1:20:06Speaker 5: she had the physical altercation with when Stacey brought that
- 1:20:09Speaker 5: up lightly and then in a verbal art argument right
- 1:20:14Speaker 5: actually in them jumped right to all that you went too.
- 1:20:17Speaker 3: Far and oh my god, like that's too far.
- 1:20:19Speaker 5: But y'all can say her breath sinks, y'all can say
- 1:20:22Speaker 5: she's lying about being divorced, y'all can call her every
- 1:20:26Speaker 5: b word and hole in the world and shit and
- 1:20:29Speaker 5: literally go all over this show saying her breath stinks.
- 1:20:33Speaker 5: But it's too far for her to make a you know,
- 1:20:37Speaker 5: take a slight dig regarding that situation. I just thought
- 1:20:40Speaker 5: that was rich personally.
- 1:20:42Speaker 1: No, And it goes to so you sort of like
- 1:20:45Speaker 1: what we've all seen on these shows, the contradiction in
- 1:20:49Speaker 1: terms of how one woman gets away with something that
- 1:20:54Speaker 1: the other doesn't, and it kind of get her most
- 1:20:57Speaker 1: alliance that they have, Right. So I do agree with
- 1:21:00Speaker 1: you with that, and I agree with you too about KK.
- 1:21:03Speaker 1: I think KK is great. I like her a whole lot.
- 1:21:08Speaker 1: I like Angel, who she on the show. I think
- 1:21:11Speaker 1: Angel is great. I do want to get into now
- 1:21:14Speaker 1: what I love this.
- 1:21:18Speaker 3: Do you trust Angel on this cast? Shit?
- 1:21:21Speaker 2: Do? I? I think it's too for me to call.
- 1:21:24Speaker 1: What I will say is Angel has what Claudia said
- 1:21:27Speaker 1: KK has, which is this naivete of being new to
- 1:21:31Speaker 1: the show. And I think when it comes to Angel,
- 1:21:35Speaker 1: I think Angel.
- 1:21:36Speaker 2: Is trying to find her place.
- 1:21:38Speaker 1: Let me remind that he's trying to find her footing
- 1:21:41Speaker 1: with this cast, because the elephant in the room is.
- 1:21:45Speaker 2: She has watched the show.
- 1:21:47Speaker 3: Duh.
- 1:21:48Speaker 1: She has watched it, in my opinion, since season one,
- 1:21:52Speaker 1: and she she already now.
- 1:21:55Speaker 2: Her now her fault.
- 1:21:57Speaker 1: She's come in with preconceived notions about these girls, and
- 1:22:01Speaker 1: you kind of see that. And I think I think
- 1:22:04Speaker 1: Angel is trying so hard to not be chin checked
- 1:22:10Speaker 1: that when Gizelle did her job at stirring the pot,
- 1:22:16Speaker 1: when Gizelle is making Gagelle is making sure that these
- 1:22:22Speaker 1: ladies get into it, Let's just call it what it is, right,
- 1:22:25Speaker 1: It's obvious, like okay, we all okay.
- 1:22:27Speaker 7: Now, I'm like Gazelle, like she's always like she's ready
- 1:22:30Speaker 7: to get it, pop in at all times and make it.
- 1:22:32Speaker 4: She's not. She's making sure they earn that money.
- 1:22:34Speaker 3: Always stir the pot. She must have that.
- 1:22:36Speaker 5: Now, y'all are a certain a certain time, certain age.
- 1:22:39Speaker 5: We all people of a certain age. Y'all remember them
- 1:22:42Speaker 5: big ass fork and spoons that people used to have
- 1:22:44Speaker 5: on the wall and they kitchen back in the day,
- 1:22:47Speaker 5: a huge like fork and spoon and wool with. That's
- 1:22:50Speaker 5: what Gazelle be stirring at pot with. Okay, I'm surprised
- 1:22:53Speaker 5: we ain't seen that in her on the Wall and
- 1:22:55Speaker 5: Hotel Gazelle, because she is constantly she she flat out
- 1:22:59Speaker 5: told them. I literally busted out laughing when I was
- 1:23:02Speaker 5: watching the show and she said to them, okay, because
- 1:23:05Speaker 5: we're gonna talk about that next time we see each other.
- 1:23:09Speaker 3: I screamed when.
- 1:23:10Speaker 5: She said that, because I'm like, she don't reckon, she
- 1:23:14Speaker 5: don't give a damn no more.
- 1:23:15Speaker 3: This season in Gazel, it's like, I.
- 1:23:18Speaker 5: Know why I'm here and Karen ain't here right now,
- 1:23:21Speaker 5: so let me go on and fully slip into this role.
- 1:23:23Speaker 4: I kind of like it.
- 1:23:24Speaker 3: I like it, loved it. But I busted.
- 1:23:26Speaker 1: Out, I see that being you if if if, if
- 1:23:33Speaker 1: you are on another reality show ensemble, I see you
- 1:23:37Speaker 1: being Giselle. I see you being somebody who's like, no,
- 1:23:41Speaker 1: you said that, Well, like that's it said, Well, the
- 1:23:43Speaker 1: next time we see each other, I'm going to bring
- 1:23:45Speaker 1: it up to me, was what was the indicator of
- 1:23:48Speaker 1: I'm going to bring it up on camera, which is
- 1:23:50Speaker 1: why Angel made sure to have the off camera conversation
- 1:23:55Speaker 1: with KK because she she she let's be clear. Angel
- 1:23:59Speaker 1: told KK after that seeing Gazelle is doubling down on you,
- 1:24:03Speaker 1: saying you chint check me, and Kak was like, I
- 1:24:06Speaker 1: must have said it. I believe this is my opinion.
- 1:24:09Speaker 1: I believe Giselle really spoke to the producers and said
- 1:24:14Speaker 1: I'm not tripping. She said chin check right because she
- 1:24:19Speaker 1: is sure she said it, and KK isn't. Angel messed up?
- 1:24:24Speaker 1: And Angel, this is when you are new and you
- 1:24:29Speaker 1: don't realize when you're being sunned. Okay, because Gazelle is mother.
- 1:24:34Speaker 1: When you said to Giselle, tiya and Wendy look, because
- 1:24:41Speaker 1: let's be clear, anybody checking me, especially based on what
- 1:24:44Speaker 1: she went.
- 1:24:44Speaker 2: Through last year, And I was like, if they caught it, Wendy,
- 1:24:50Speaker 2: Wendy smart, are you referring doesn't do her voice? Please?
- 1:24:57Speaker 3: So are you referring to incident that took Oh? Okay?
- 1:25:04Speaker 3: Oh oh what? Oh? So you yeah?
- 1:25:08Speaker 5: It was very much like a siren like on a
- 1:25:12Speaker 5: level that was just just direct enough.
- 1:25:15Speaker 3: So she would hit it.
- 1:25:16Speaker 5: And what Angel did again just like great illustration you
- 1:25:19Speaker 5: made Carlos juvenile novice, move right naivete when you say
- 1:25:25Speaker 5: to them, oh, yeah, cause she ain't gonna do this.
- 1:25:28Speaker 5: Anytime you make a statement like that about somebody that's
- 1:25:31Speaker 5: not in the room, your ass is getting held to that.
- 1:25:33Speaker 4: The next time, y'all are in the flashback scene and
- 1:25:36Speaker 4: make you dumb.
- 1:25:37Speaker 5: Yeah, and we ain't even got to hide it, said
- 1:25:40Speaker 5: fut like, oh yes, they love.
- 1:25:44Speaker 4: A flashback, make you lick dumb, saying exactly thing you said.
- 1:25:48Speaker 7: I ain't never said that.
- 1:25:52Speaker 5: I feel like Angel is calculated. I feel like she's
- 1:25:55Speaker 5: very calculated, very strategic, and I feel like she's playing
- 1:25:59Speaker 5: a game with her friendship with Kana that Keana is
- 1:26:02Speaker 5: not playing with hers. And oh, I don't know how
- 1:26:07Speaker 5: I feel about that.
- 1:26:09Speaker 7: She does watch the show, because she did put some
- 1:26:13Speaker 7: post something about what she does for a living, explained it,
- 1:26:15Speaker 7: and they had something like a clip of us.
- 1:26:18Speaker 3: Oh that's what's up. I'm glad she cleared that up
- 1:26:20Speaker 3: and thank you for watching.
- 1:26:22Speaker 5: But I feel like, you know what I'm saying, I
- 1:26:24Speaker 5: just feel like there's some strategy there, you know what
- 1:26:27Speaker 5: I'm saying, I feel like there's some strategy there, and
- 1:26:30Speaker 5: I feel like I y'all know how I am about
- 1:26:35Speaker 5: friendship and loyalty relationships. I don't like nobody playing with
- 1:26:40Speaker 5: a friendship for the sake of whatever the fuck she's doing.
- 1:26:44Speaker 5: And I know I wouldn't have handled my friend the
- 1:26:47Speaker 5: way that she handled Kana so far on the show,
- 1:26:50Speaker 5: and between the two of them, I've seen Kiana exercise
- 1:26:53Speaker 5: a little bit more care with their relationship, and it
- 1:26:57Speaker 5: seems like Angel has been willing to kind of put
- 1:26:59Speaker 5: it out there and again that it's fair because they're
- 1:27:02Speaker 5: on this cast together. You know, we got to follow
- 1:27:04Speaker 5: the journey, the ups and downs. It's just a way
- 1:27:06Speaker 5: you move. And even though we're only three episodes in
- 1:27:09Speaker 5: or two three, we're three episodes in, right, I it's
- 1:27:13Speaker 5: still early, so I'm not gonna call it just yet,
- 1:27:16Speaker 5: but I'm seeing signs of her being willing to cross
- 1:27:19Speaker 5: a certain line with that friendship that makes me uncomfortable.
- 1:27:23Speaker 3: So we'll see.
- 1:27:24Speaker 7: You know, it seems like when people go on shows,
- 1:27:27Speaker 7: right and they make a pack before like Okay, look,
- 1:27:31Speaker 7: we ain't gonna do that to each other, blah blah,
- 1:27:33Speaker 7: But then you get in the scene and your friends
- 1:27:35Speaker 7: like wild'n out. You're like, hold up, are we still
- 1:27:37Speaker 7: sick about the pack? Or are you just doing this
- 1:27:39Speaker 7: with the camera. I don't really know right now, And
- 1:27:41Speaker 7: it seemed like like one still going by the old rules.
- 1:27:44Speaker 4: That's what happened to me and Almrosa.
- 1:27:45Speaker 7: We were on the show and we made that pack,
- 1:27:47Speaker 7: like Okay, we're gonna not drag each other a celebrity apprentice,
- 1:27:51Speaker 7: gonna we're gonna wait till like that we get each
- 1:27:53Speaker 7: other until like the top five or whatever, and then
- 1:27:55Speaker 7: it's all systems go, but let's not do it in
- 1:27:58Speaker 7: the beginning, and early on her little snake ass of
- 1:28:00Speaker 7: course immediately went to her default settings, which is evil
- 1:28:04Speaker 7: and you.
- 1:28:04Speaker 4: Know, violated.
- 1:28:05Speaker 7: But I'm still thinking, wait, are we still going by
- 1:28:07Speaker 7: the old thing? And you're just like you didn't give
- 1:28:10Speaker 7: me the update, so I don't know. We'll we'll find out,
- 1:28:12Speaker 7: you know. But usually you do that with a friend,
- 1:28:15Speaker 7: if you're both or you know the person like, hey,
- 1:28:17Speaker 7: let's be the newbies. Let's let's not do that to
- 1:28:19Speaker 7: each other, and then one violates and you like, do
- 1:28:21Speaker 7: I go with that?
- 1:28:22Speaker 5: Or if you got to have a conversation like that,
- 1:28:24Speaker 5: that ain't your friend. Sorry, anybody, your friend is not
- 1:28:27Speaker 5: even going to consider putting you in a real, actual, uncomfortable,
- 1:28:32Speaker 5: disrespectful ass situation.
- 1:28:34Speaker 3: A real friend is never going to do that to you.
- 1:28:36Speaker 5: So if you even have to set those kind of
- 1:28:39Speaker 5: terms with the motherfucker, like, oh, well, you know we
- 1:28:41Speaker 5: can't disrespect each other. What that's not your friend? You
- 1:28:45Speaker 5: know you should like that. That's that is not a
- 1:28:48Speaker 5: friend to me. And I would have known off rip
- 1:28:51Speaker 5: when she stepped to me with that as we were
- 1:28:53Speaker 5: approaching that celebrity Apprentice show. The minute she stepped to
- 1:28:56Speaker 5: me with that sort of like okay, let's have a
- 1:28:58Speaker 5: conversation about I'd be like, oh, okay, this ain't my friend.
- 1:29:01Speaker 4: Well she was never like one of my a Hollywood friend.
- 1:29:05Speaker 2: Like yeah, but I do agree that I think.
- 1:29:13Speaker 1: The jury is still out on Angel in terms of
- 1:29:15Speaker 1: her loyalty to KK. But what I will say is
- 1:29:20Speaker 1: I I if I saw my friend who I got
- 1:29:24Speaker 1: on the show, because let's be clear, Angels on the
- 1:29:27Speaker 1: show because KK preferred her.
- 1:29:29Speaker 2: They've been princey years.
- 1:29:31Speaker 1: If I saw my friend who I referred to on
- 1:29:33Speaker 1: the show, have what Dustin said, like this s like
- 1:29:37Speaker 1: bravadoness right like, because let's be clear, I would feel
- 1:29:42Speaker 1: some kind of way. And what was interesting to me
- 1:29:45Speaker 1: is Gizilla and Wendy knew she just gave us something
- 1:29:48Speaker 1: another run with. And that's exactly what happened at kk's
- 1:29:53Speaker 1: house where you know, she's hosting this pre pre game
- 1:29:56Speaker 1: event and they're trying to once again break up this
- 1:30:00Speaker 1: issue with Wendy and KK and Whty's pain get once
- 1:30:03Speaker 1: again and flipped it and was like, but Angel, you're
- 1:30:06Speaker 1: the one who brought up the friend Astley's friend who
- 1:30:12Speaker 1: assaulted her. And Giselle is like, well, KK, you're telling
- 1:30:17Speaker 1: her out in say chin check, so you're pretty much
- 1:30:19Speaker 1: calling me a liar and they're now doing what they did.
- 1:30:23Speaker 1: Giselle's job, which he successfully did, was to bring it
- 1:30:28Speaker 1: back to the two of you, Angel and KK having issues.
- 1:30:32Speaker 1: And it was evident to me when KK apologized again
- 1:30:36Speaker 1: that Angel called her after the scene and told it
- 1:30:39Speaker 1: what happened. I will say that most reality stars doing
- 1:30:42Speaker 1: their new I'm not gonna say who did a child,
- 1:30:49Speaker 1: there are reality stars who after every scene they call
- 1:30:57Speaker 1: somebody and they tell them exactly actly what happened. And
- 1:31:02Speaker 1: there's two reality star friends who aren't friends till this
- 1:31:06Speaker 1: day because one of them felt that you should have
- 1:31:12Speaker 1: called me to tell what was going on, and that
- 1:31:15Speaker 1: woman did it and their friendship was never the same
- 1:31:19Speaker 1: after that.
- 1:31:20Speaker 2: I'm telling you hot work. I have a short memories.
- 1:31:25Speaker 4: Which franchise I'm not gonna tell you. Even if I
- 1:31:29Speaker 4: tell you the franchise Atlanta, I don't know.
- 1:31:32Speaker 2: It could have been Rhode Island, I don't remember.
- 1:31:35Speaker 3: Which.
- 1:31:36Speaker 5: I'm excited about low key me to so Shane and Mocha.
- 1:31:41Speaker 7: Should be on there too. Former Missy would say that
- 1:31:43Speaker 7: was Mary Tras Barker.
- 1:31:45Speaker 3: I love her, by the way.
- 1:31:47Speaker 7: Yeah, she's a badass. You know she punched Paris Hills
- 1:31:51Speaker 7: in the face. You know that, right, mm hmm at
- 1:31:56Speaker 7: the High Nightclub.
- 1:31:57Speaker 3: You were there, Claudia know.
- 1:32:07Speaker 4: She she she's a little SHA's little gangster like. She's
- 1:32:10Speaker 4: not a punk.
- 1:32:11Speaker 2: She looked like I loved her Hollywood excess. Yep, she's
- 1:32:14Speaker 2: not that great.
- 1:32:16Speaker 4: She's not about that bullshit.
- 1:32:17Speaker 7: You will not sleep with a man and smile on
- 1:32:18Speaker 7: her face like they do in Hollywood.
- 1:32:20Speaker 4: Girl. No, it's no, no.
- 1:32:23Speaker 1: No, Well happen up a topic now, But do y'all
- 1:32:30Speaker 1: think that Angel and Kk's friendship will last because just
- 1:32:37Speaker 1: that it's like you said, it's only three episodes, and
- 1:32:41Speaker 1: I don't.
- 1:32:42Speaker 2: See a twit of your friendship.
- 1:32:43Speaker 7: No shade, no, Remember I said before when she corrected her,
- 1:32:47Speaker 7: she said, what have you reached out to her son
- 1:32:50Speaker 7: about the kisses?
- 1:32:52Speaker 1: That?
- 1:32:52Speaker 7: To me, that was a sign of a crack. That
- 1:32:55Speaker 7: was because for you to do that calle frontal like that.
- 1:32:59Speaker 7: At first, I was like, Okay, maybe she because she's
- 1:33:00Speaker 7: coming from a place for mother. But the Marny's aught
- 1:33:02Speaker 7: about it, she's been wanting to get something off her chest.
- 1:33:07Speaker 7: Right if the passive aggress like she's been having started
- 1:33:09Speaker 7: to having, they I bet you there with some other
- 1:33:11Speaker 7: stuff that happened that wasn't addressed. So when you get
- 1:33:14Speaker 7: a chance to call your friend out you, that's what
- 1:33:16Speaker 7: they that's the people do that are not really quite
- 1:33:18Speaker 7: there to confront you but what the real issue is.
- 1:33:20Speaker 4: But they'll start with little things like hmm, well that's
- 1:33:23Speaker 4: not what you said yesterday.
- 1:33:24Speaker 7: Remember I told you women friendships, female friendships subtle little
- 1:33:28Speaker 7: things mean a lot. They speak volumes. Because your girl
- 1:33:32Speaker 7: would not do that. Your girl would be like you
- 1:33:34Speaker 7: always right, even when you're wrong. But when you do
- 1:33:36Speaker 7: that in front of a group of new people, there's
- 1:33:40Speaker 7: something that she's not telling her. There's unresolved. There's something
- 1:33:42Speaker 7: bigger she's mad at her about or has an issue with.
- 1:33:45Speaker 7: Maybe she's like trust not trust her like she used to.
- 1:33:48Speaker 7: There's something there and it will come out. If we're
- 1:33:51Speaker 7: three episodes in and we're all seeing it. By episode seven,
- 1:33:54Speaker 7: it's gonna be World War three.
- 1:33:55Speaker 5: And y'all can miss me with that conversation of all,
- 1:33:59Speaker 5: don't nobody on this people play along?
- 1:34:01Speaker 3: The show will be boring if they get along. Robin
- 1:34:03Speaker 3: and Gzell was on.
- 1:34:04Speaker 5: That show for eight seasons together and never had not
- 1:34:07Speaker 5: one argument, and nobody ever accused their friendship of being boring.
- 1:34:11Speaker 5: There's a way to really be friends with a person
- 1:34:14Speaker 5: on an ensemble cast reality show without your performance falling flat.
- 1:34:20Speaker 3: And So I just am a person who don't believe
- 1:34:23Speaker 3: in I just don't believe in.
- 1:34:25Speaker 5: Going again, betraying my friends and shit, I just don't know.
- 1:34:29Speaker 3: I'm just that way.
- 1:34:30Speaker 5: Everybody know that, y'all know how I give it up
- 1:34:32Speaker 5: on this shot when it comes.
- 1:34:34Speaker 3: I don't believe in that.
- 1:34:36Speaker 5: So I did not like what I saw from Angel,
- 1:34:39Speaker 5: because that's who it belongs to. I saw Angel exhibiting
- 1:34:43Speaker 5: characteristics that reflected a lack of respect for their friendship.
- 1:34:47Speaker 5: And I just don't like what I'm seeing. I hope
- 1:34:51Speaker 5: she proves me wrong because I love seeing her family.
- 1:34:55Speaker 5: I love the fact that we'll get to see them
- 1:34:57Speaker 5: purchase a home on the show at some point, like
- 1:35:00Speaker 5: all the things that are exciting about watching rich people
- 1:35:03Speaker 5: on TV. And you know what I'm saying. I love
- 1:35:05Speaker 5: the fact that she's got a family that's willing to film,
- 1:35:07Speaker 5: an extended family that's willing to film, a husband that's
- 1:35:10Speaker 5: willing to participate.
- 1:35:12Speaker 3: All the bones are there.
- 1:35:14Speaker 5: I just see red flags when it comes to the
- 1:35:16Speaker 5: way she's handling her twenty year friendship with Kana.
- 1:35:20Speaker 3: I just see red flags. That's just me.
- 1:35:23Speaker 7: Yeah, And don't choose this reality show to finally get
- 1:35:26Speaker 7: you find your voice like we've seen other friendships like
- 1:35:28Speaker 7: I'm Basketball wives, you know, like Jennifer and and Evelyn,
- 1:35:31Speaker 7: where you know, you feel like you getting run over
- 1:35:33Speaker 7: all the time, and you were, but then all of
- 1:35:34Speaker 7: a sudden you want to pop off because now we're
- 1:35:36Speaker 7: like wait, whoa whoa, Like you've been wanting to say
- 1:35:38Speaker 7: this shit, you know, but they and then do it
- 1:35:40Speaker 7: for the cameras. That makes it worse, Like pull me
- 1:35:42Speaker 7: aside and be like, yo, well tomorrow, I'm mad at
- 1:35:46Speaker 7: you about this. I haven't been telling you, but if
- 1:35:47Speaker 7: I don't tell you now, I'm probably gonna be fucking
- 1:35:49Speaker 7: mouthing off to you on the show, and probably I'm
- 1:35:51Speaker 7: gonna be shady to you, and I don't want that,
- 1:35:54Speaker 7: you know. But people don't like to confront each other
- 1:35:56Speaker 7: and role life. They just do it when the cameras
- 1:35:58Speaker 7: are on and doing it for the gram. Do it
- 1:36:00Speaker 7: in real life where you have Sometimes the ship got
- 1:36:02Speaker 7: to be uncomfortable. I had to call someone last week
- 1:36:05Speaker 7: and it broke my heart to do it, but I
- 1:36:07Speaker 7: had to do it because I've not all the stuff
- 1:36:09Speaker 7: I preach about would be bullshit, and it's not fun
- 1:36:12Speaker 7: to have to confront a friend. It is not, it's horrible,
- 1:36:15Speaker 7: but if you truly care about them and you care
- 1:36:17Speaker 7: about salvaging anything growing, you have to do it and
- 1:36:21Speaker 7: not win cameras on because now that the camerason, I'm
- 1:36:23Speaker 7: gonna resent you because I feel like you're trying to
- 1:36:25Speaker 7: play me and embarrass me and you could have done
- 1:36:27Speaker 7: the ship at your house while we're sitting there eating
- 1:36:29Speaker 7: or drinking, and we could have been you know, we
- 1:36:31Speaker 7: needed to be a witness our bullshit.
- 1:36:33Speaker 5: And my thing is, we ain't even got to fuck
- 1:36:35Speaker 5: with each other, So like we get, let's just fall out.
- 1:36:38Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. Don't play in my face.
- 1:36:39Speaker 5: Don't pretend like you like me and then take these
- 1:36:42Speaker 5: subtle jabs if anything, Just standing in it doesn't fuck you.
- 1:36:45Speaker 5: I hate your guts, and we can fall out and
- 1:36:47Speaker 5: then at least we know where we stand. You know
- 1:36:49Speaker 5: what I'm saying exactly.
- 1:36:51Speaker 7: Don't putting subliminals on Instagram stories?
- 1:36:56Speaker 4: Is that to me?
- 1:36:58Speaker 5: I love my friends, are expect my friends. I like
- 1:37:01Speaker 5: to be a safe space for my friends. I think
- 1:37:03Speaker 5: that's what it's all about. It's all about finding unique
- 1:37:06Speaker 5: people in life that you can trust, and y'all can
- 1:37:10Speaker 5: lean on each other and be vulnerable and really be yourself.
- 1:37:12Speaker 5: That's the whole point of being friends. Why fake that?
- 1:37:15Speaker 5: If you're not happy and I'm not happy and we
- 1:37:18Speaker 5: don't want to be friends, let's just not fuck with
- 1:37:19Speaker 5: each other. But that's not being each other's space. Harboring resentment,
- 1:37:23Speaker 5: being fake, not being honest, like, that's to me, that's
- 1:37:27Speaker 5: the worst kind of betrayal ever.
- 1:37:29Speaker 7: Like and also just because you are uncomfortable and you're
- 1:37:34Speaker 7: in a season of things feeling off, that doesn't mean
- 1:37:38Speaker 7: throw the whole thing up, because guess what, in real friendships,
- 1:37:41Speaker 7: you may sometimes have a thing where you I wasn't
- 1:37:44Speaker 7: fucking with you.
- 1:37:44Speaker 4: For whatever, so I didn't like with you how you moved.
- 1:37:47Speaker 7: And you should appreciate the people in your life that
- 1:37:50Speaker 7: are willing to confront you and say someuth to you
- 1:37:52Speaker 7: that are that makes that's uncomfortable, because.
- 1:37:55Speaker 4: That's probably who really cares about you the most.
- 1:37:57Speaker 7: The people that are willing to do that, the people
- 1:37:59Speaker 7: that don't say shit to her, Fuck it, it's not
- 1:38:02Speaker 7: that serious.
- 1:38:02Speaker 4: That deep.
- 1:38:04Speaker 7: What it's deep for you and you confront and you
- 1:38:06Speaker 7: tell them about themselves. That may not be your enemy.
- 1:38:09Speaker 7: Sometimes the enemy is the person blown that smoke up
- 1:38:12Speaker 7: your ass, saying all the proper things, the fun things,
- 1:38:16Speaker 7: get building your ego up, telling you you right about everything,
- 1:38:19Speaker 7: you're never wrong.
- 1:38:20Speaker 4: That be your biggest enemy and the biggest lover.
- 1:38:22Speaker 7: Be the one that confronts you about something and calls
- 1:38:25Speaker 7: you out about when you're fucking up lovingly.
- 1:38:27Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, you know there's a way to do it.
- 1:38:30Speaker 5: There's a way to do it when you care about
- 1:38:31Speaker 5: a person, because ultimately, you want to see your friends
- 1:38:33Speaker 5: be their best selves, right, You want to see them
- 1:38:36Speaker 5: operating at a high functioning level that really represents who
- 1:38:40Speaker 5: you know them to be. And sometimes they need a
- 1:38:43Speaker 5: reminder that there's nothing wrong with Hey, I feel this way,
- 1:38:46Speaker 5: you feel that way. Let's talk it out and come
- 1:38:48Speaker 5: come back to where we belong in this friendship. It's
- 1:38:51Speaker 5: okay to have disagreements, but that's different than being a
- 1:38:55Speaker 5: dirty fucking snake and trying to do shit behind my
- 1:38:58Speaker 5: back or throw daggers and funky but you know, just
- 1:39:00Speaker 5: being nasty and mean, that's what I'm talking about.
- 1:39:04Speaker 3: Stay away from that real So yeah, no.
- 1:39:08Speaker 2: That's the thing. So, I mean, let'sen confronted.
- 1:39:10Speaker 1: The way that Tia confronted Gazelle about her fashions and said,
- 1:39:14Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take selfies from you.
- 1:39:16Speaker 2: I thought, like.
- 1:39:22Speaker 3: One hundred percent.
- 1:39:26Speaker 6: Trying.
- 1:39:27Speaker 5: And she's smart because that happened in the moment. That
- 1:39:29Speaker 5: was quick, right, there was no delay, there was no
- 1:39:32Speaker 5: words in between. She said, oh well, fashion fresh for
- 1:39:34Speaker 5: you like, she went real quick straight to it, and
- 1:39:37Speaker 5: I was like, okay, then Tia, okay.
- 1:39:44Speaker 2: No, I like Toya a lot like I like Angel.
- 1:39:47Speaker 1: My my spidy sisters does tell me something's gonna happen
- 1:39:50Speaker 1: between Angel and KK two. I agree with you, that's
- 1:39:53Speaker 1: the Claudia. But Tia was great this episode. And it's
- 1:39:58Speaker 1: funny because Tia is like how Stacy was last season.
- 1:40:01Speaker 1: She's a slow burn like Tea is a slow burn.
- 1:40:05Speaker 1: But I think we're all going to be really surprised
- 1:40:07Speaker 1: to her. But look, another great episode of Potomac. Yes,
- 1:40:11Speaker 1: Potomac is really really good this season, and I'm really
- 1:40:14Speaker 1: happy about the direction the show is going in so far.
- 1:40:18Speaker 2: So ray Jof let us know the comments what you think.
- 1:40:24Speaker 1: Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King,
- 1:40:29Speaker 1: produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership.
- 1:40:32Speaker 2: With The Lack Effect Network.
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