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Become the Best Version of Yourself: Unlock Your Potential with These Motivational Secrets · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: We talk ourselves into a lot. I'm tired. I'm so tired.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so tired. You keep saying that you're going to
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  Speaker 1: live a tired life. You don't want to be married
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  Speaker 1: to that person. You don't want to be a friends
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  Speaker 1: with that person, you don't want to be led by
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  Speaker 1: that person who's constantly tired. So actually, the people we
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  Speaker 1: really admire are not tired people. They're actually energize people
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  Speaker 1: who love and have energy to give and value to give.
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  Speaker 1: If you're not living it, don't shout it from the rooftop.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone does not have to believe what I believe. But
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  Speaker 1: I want everyone to feel like they matter, they have purpose,
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  Speaker 1: they have someone who loves them, will listen to them,
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  Speaker 1: care for them. Before you know it, you know, we
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  Speaker 1: could have a lot less lonely people in the world,
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  Speaker 1: and that would be pretty awesome. Share with people what's
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  Speaker 1: really changed your life and what you're really living out,
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  Speaker 1: and your words will have a lot more power. I
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  Speaker 1: actually think we're suffering from a lack of love on
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  Speaker 1: a grand scale, on an epic scale, it might be
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  Speaker 1: the greatest epidemic in the world. Maybe it always has been.
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  Speaker 1: I think things horrific, things like racism, are symptomatic of
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  Speaker 1: the fact we don't feel loved, we don't feel like
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  Speaker 1: we matter, we don't feel like we're valued, and so
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  Speaker 1: we devalue each other and we fight and we war.
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  Speaker 1: Most people don't say what they want in life, where
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  Speaker 1: they want to go, who they want to be. They
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  Speaker 1: take it as it comes, which is really disturbing and sad,
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  Speaker 1: but it's true, Like, for instance, we take friendships as
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  Speaker 1: they come. We're just like, well, I guess we kind
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  Speaker 1: of met, and you like juice boxes and I like
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  Speaker 1: juice boxes, so let's just hang out and like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: talk about Capri son or whatever. And I think we
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  Speaker 1: ought to be more intentional and be honest. What do
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  Speaker 1: I want? What kind of friends do I want? What
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  Speaker 1: kind of life do I want? And then I think
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  Speaker 1: speak that out first of all, like declare that be honest.
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  Speaker 1: Recently I did an exercise again back to our team,
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  Speaker 1: and they said, why do we exist?
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  Speaker 2: You exist?
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  Speaker 1: Why do we exist? Not the answer you think you're
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  Speaker 1: supposed to give, but the answer like the truth of
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  Speaker 1: what you want and why you exist and creating a
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  Speaker 1: safe space with the people that you intentionally have chosen
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  Speaker 1: your life to go all right, we're gonna like, we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna get bare bones. Honest here, this is actually what
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  Speaker 1: I want in life, This is actually why I exist.
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  Speaker 1: And then and then we've got to like hold each
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  Speaker 1: other accountable to that. Like, bro, you can't wake up
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  Speaker 1: at eleven pm every day if that's what you want.
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  Speaker 1: And I think there's a That's why I'm a big
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  Speaker 1: proponent of community. I don't think people can be who
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  Speaker 1: they're supposed to be without community. And community doesn't have
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  Speaker 1: to be ten thousand people. It can be five, it
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  Speaker 1: can be three. It can be the right people, not
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  Speaker 1: just a bunch of people, but the right people. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's been said, show man, your friends, I'll show you
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  Speaker 1: your future. It's real. I can tell you where you're
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  Speaker 1: going right now by the people you're hanging out with
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  Speaker 1: on a consistent basis.
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  Speaker 3: We are, you know, so long of on our own
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  Speaker 3: worst enemies, right we we keep ourselves you know, off
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  Speaker 3: the stage, you know, for fear of bad reviews, and
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  Speaker 3: don't even realize that, you know, in the process, we're
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  Speaker 3: you know, forgetting how to dance and losing to join
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  Speaker 3: in right, And it's just such a shame. We're all
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  Speaker 3: masters of our own universes right alone, in our own worlds.
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  Speaker 3: And I certainly think everybody you know should should figure
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  Speaker 3: it out. You should figure it out for yourself, because
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  Speaker 3: time is going to go buy either way. And you know,
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  Speaker 3: you could live a life of happenstance of reaction, uh,
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  Speaker 3: you know, or you can take some time to figure
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  Speaker 3: out how you want to spend your time, who you
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  Speaker 3: want to be, who you want to be at work,
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  Speaker 3: you know, who you want to be as a parent,
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  Speaker 3: who you want to be as a spouse, and on
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  Speaker 3: and on and on and and you know you can
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  Speaker 3: you can try to be that person, you can try
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  Speaker 3: to live that life. So that's what I have in
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  Speaker 3: mind when I say, you know, you you really should
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  Speaker 3: define your success, your purpose and labor towards it. Everything
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  Speaker 3: is a choice. Every moment of your life is a choice.
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  Speaker 3: How do you want to spend that moment? Who you
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  Speaker 3: want to be? It is not the circumstances we confront
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  Speaker 3: that dictate the lives we experience. It just cannot be.
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  Speaker 3: There are counterexamples all over the place. Choose to be happy,
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  Speaker 3: literally in every moment. And again I'm not saying it's easy. Again,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm not you know, I'm not saying it's always
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  Speaker 3: easy for me, but it's certainly a worthwhile endeavor. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: you know, you spill on yourself, or you knock something over,
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  Speaker 3: or you know you're late for a meeting, or you know,
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  Speaker 3: it can derail you. It can be, you know, something
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  Speaker 3: quote unquote awful. You know, meanwhile, most of the world
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  Speaker 3: is worried about you know, health care and food and clothing.
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  Speaker 3: But you know, or you can choose to laugh about it,
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  Speaker 3: and you can choose to have fun with it. You
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  Speaker 3: can choose to let it go. And again, every I think,
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  Speaker 3: every moment is you know, an amalgam of precisely those choices,
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  Speaker 3: and I think it behooves us to spend some time
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  Speaker 3: thinking about our answers. You know, you're the master of
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  Speaker 3: your reality. And you know, once you buy that, once
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  Speaker 3: you're willing to take responsibility for the fact that you
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  Speaker 3: are literally creating the life you are experiencing reality. You know,
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  Speaker 3: your reality is your creation. And not enough time on
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  Speaker 3: this moment right now? What is my best next step?
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  Speaker 3: What can I do right now to make progress? And
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  Speaker 3: you know the truth of the matter is the world changes,
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  Speaker 3: you know a million times a day. You're gonna change
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  Speaker 3: a million times a day. Who knows what's gonna happen
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  Speaker 3: on the journey from you know, from A to Z.
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  Speaker 3: Just focus on getting from A to B and you
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  Speaker 3: get that done and we'll worry about C to Z later.
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  Speaker 3: Every single you know, human being, every human faces their
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  Speaker 3: own discreete constellation of challenge as part of the human condition.
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  Speaker 3: There's nothing special or unique in facing these uh uh,
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  Speaker 3: these big challenges or obstacles. But how we handle it
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  Speaker 3: and how we choose to look at them that makes
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  Speaker 3: all the difference in the world. Life is choice. And
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  Speaker 3: I said, if you keep if you tell yourself you're
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  Speaker 3: gonna live this small and remarkable, pathetic life and you're
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  Speaker 3: you know, not gonna love or respect yourself, and you
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  Speaker 3: know you're not gonna find a mate. No, you can
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  Speaker 3: make that happen for yourself, or you can choose to
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  Speaker 3: have a different life.
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  Speaker 2: There's one way you should see life. Life is an opportunity.
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  Speaker 2: You have this opportunity for reason. That reason is to succeed.
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  Speaker 2: Succeed far past fears, past doubts, pass your insecurities, empowering
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  Speaker 2: yourself toward the finish line. Now is the time to
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  Speaker 2: make this opportunity. Your opportunity is more than this, it's
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  Speaker 2: your potential to succeed. Use your potential, Use it as
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  Speaker 2: your superpower, because that's what it is. Power, power to succeed,
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  Speaker 2: to achieve. How badly do you want something? How much
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  Speaker 2: do you want it? There's only one way to get it.
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  Speaker 2: It's to work hard. Motivate your life toward a future
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  Speaker 2: where you can succeed, where you can achieve. How much
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  Speaker 2: do you appreciate this opportunity? How much do you want this?
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  Speaker 2: So respect the path you're on, Take the journey, become
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  Speaker 2: the path, Make this define you. Your future relies on this.
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  Speaker 2: So be this opportunity. Take the risk and become the
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  Speaker 2: person you want to be. You're there, you're present, so
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  Speaker 2: act like it. Be prepared to struggle, but more importantly,
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  Speaker 2: be prepared to succeed. Today will not be the day
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  Speaker 2: you fail. Today is an opening, the opening to make it.
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  Speaker 2: Take the path you're on the path. All you have
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  Speaker 2: to do is take a step, close your eyes and
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  Speaker 2: imagine to reality. Reality but with everything you've ever wanted,
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  Speaker 2: surrounded by everything you've ever wanted to achieve, believing that
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  Speaker 2: you have it, knowing that you have all this. This
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  Speaker 2: is how your mindset should always be. To know that
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  Speaker 2: you have this potential within you, that this picture isn't
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  Speaker 2: so far from reality, that this picture can be executed.
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  Speaker 2: Your potential is your power, and this power can strengthen
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  Speaker 2: your progress, the progress you need to achieve. You have this,
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  Speaker 2: so use this, Grasp this opportunity. Take this now to
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  Speaker 2: make it past your imagination and make this your reality.
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  Speaker 2: Work harder than you ever have. Nothing nothing comes easy.
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  Speaker 2: So what are you going to do? How are you
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  Speaker 2: going to change? Your life? Can be so much more
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  Speaker 2: than what you think it is right now. Time is power.
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  Speaker 2: You have more, so much more than this. Use this
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  Speaker 2: you have this, grow and strengthen your potential. Strengthen your power.
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  Speaker 2: Think about your success like you have it, you will
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  Speaker 2: have it. Believe you have it. Then you'll have the chance.
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  Speaker 2: You will have the opportunity. What have you done today?
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  Speaker 2: What did you do yesterday? And what are you going
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  Speaker 2: to do tomorrow? Life is fueled by progress. Fuel your
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  Speaker 2: life to the next level. Think about your life. It's
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  Speaker 2: a place you live and will always live. So why
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  Speaker 2: now are you sabotaging your future? You need to make
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  Speaker 2: your life something, something better than just somewhere you live.
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  Speaker 2: So what are you going to do today? You can
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  Speaker 2: make a change, little switches, actions that can make you
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  Speaker 2: define you. Wake up an hour earlier, replace your sandwich
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  Speaker 2: with a salad. These changes will become habits, habits that
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  Speaker 2: can transform your life forever. You will become a better person.
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  Speaker 2: You are the better person. All you have to do
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  Speaker 2: is stand up to that role, stand up for yourself,
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  Speaker 2: and start living your life for what it is. An opportunity,
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  Speaker 2: an opportunity to succeed, to be a leader, to have
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  Speaker 2: power and control over the decisions you make. You have
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  Speaker 2: the potential. All you have to do is use it.
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  Speaker 2: Spark your potential, drive your motivation, be creative and design
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  Speaker 2: a life where you see yourself succeeding, a life where
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  Speaker 2: you can respect and have the confidence in the choices
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  Speaker 2: that you make. Mmmmmm. So work hard, be strong, have courage,
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  Speaker 2: start the journey and succeed.
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