Latest / The Inspired Stories Podcast / Sean Riley on People-First Culture: Delivering Popsicles, Protecting Values, and Positively Impacting Lives
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- 0:04Welcome to another edition of the Inspired Stories podcast
- 0:08where leaders share their experiences so we can learn from
- 0:11their successes and be inspired by how they've overcome
- 0:14adversity. My name is Anthony Kotaspodi and
- 0:18today's guest is Sean Riley, CEO of Main Course Hospitality
- 0:23Group, A partnership based hotel management company with a people
- 0:27first culture. Founded in 1986, MCHG delivers
- 0:33strong financial returns for owners while supporting teams
- 0:36who bring hospitality to life. Now.
- 0:39Over the years, the company has grown from one property to more
- 0:42than two dozen hotels across the US.
- 0:46Under Sean's leadership, they have expanded their footprint
- 0:49and embraced a culture rooted in integrity, respect, family, and
- 0:54fun. Now, Sean began his journey with
- 0:56MCHG in 1992 as a General Manager.
- 1:01With more than 4 decades of hotel management experience, he
- 1:04is known for reaching out personally to associates,
- 1:07handwriting notes of appreciation, and engaging with
- 1:10employees during holidays. Now before we get into all that
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- 1:55AD back benefits.com. All right, back to our guest
- 1:58today, the CEO of Main Course Hospitality Group, Sean Riley.
- 2:02Thanks for making the time to Share your story today.
- 2:04Well, thanks Anthony. This is great to be be chatting
- 2:08with a professional. I mean, you're good and you look
- 2:11good, you act good and I love it.
- 2:12But you know, we got a lot of fun stuff.
- 2:14We can talk about it. You know, we chatted a little
- 2:16bit before and I'm just ready to jump in.
- 2:17Let's do. It let's do it, you know, and
- 2:19actually I'm going to go a little bit out of order here
- 2:21because before we started, you were talking about something
- 2:24that really caught my attention. We're recording this on December
- 2:2818th, 2025 S right heading into the holidays, and I was asking
- 2:32you what your plans were for Christmas and what you answered
- 2:38really surprised me. What is it you're going to be
- 2:40doing on Christmas? Well, I do this every Christmas
- 2:44and it's one of the probably one of the biggest pleasures I have.
- 2:47We have over 700 associates in our company, over 28 hotels, 8
- 2:51States and they're all working. There's people working on
- 2:54Christmas and that's a, that's a commitment on their part.
- 2:57Now we pay them extra for it and you know, there's, there's
- 3:00benefits for that, but they're working for on Christmas.
- 3:03So I call every hotel every shift on Christmas.
- 3:07Now we have 28 hotels, 27 hotels and three shifts, midnight
- 3:12shift, day shift, night shift and just say Merry Christmas and
- 3:17thank you for working today. I know it's a holiday, but I
- 3:19really appreciate it. And the fun thing is, you know,
- 3:22people, some of these people said, you know, Sean, this is
- 3:24the 15th year we we've talked, you know, that's good for a
- 3:27night audit. You don't want to lose night
- 3:28audits because I don't want to do that shift, but you know that
- 3:31those are the fun things that to me, I get so much pleasure out
- 3:33of an enjoyment and and it's just exciting.
- 3:36And so we do that and then then I, you know, it's like I'm an
- 3:38overachiever. I said, OK, well, Mike bought a
- 3:41Santa suit for my when I might go visit my grandkids when they
- 3:44were younger. And so I started doing that and
- 3:46I'd go out and visit six or seven hotels within a couple
- 3:48hours of us early. Again, I'm an early morning guy.
- 3:50So I'd go in and go ho, ho, ho. Sean, I was wondering if you're
- 3:54going to show up this year Santa.
- 3:56So, but it goes back to this. These people are working on
- 3:59Christmas. That's all I do this, I make the
- 4:01calls on Thanksgiving as well, but I don't visit the hotels and
- 4:05they deserve it. And they just, they come to
- 4:07expect it. And I guess that's an OK thing.
- 4:10And the first time I did it was when we had one hotel and I
- 4:12called 3 shifts. When we get 27 it takes a bit
- 4:15more time, but it's it's one of the biggest joys I have over the
- 4:19Christmas. So what are you just like up all
- 4:20night? No, no, it's 330I mean, I get up
- 4:23at 3:30 anyway, so, so I just call him up and I'll say, you
- 4:27know, and I'll make some of the calls in my car if I'm dressed
- 4:29as Santa. So I, I did.
- 4:31I did get pulled over once and the guy put a police officer and
- 4:35I'm in a Santa suit and he said what are you doing?
- 4:39And I'm thinking what the heck do you think I'm doing?
- 4:40What? I got a Santa suit on but so I
- 4:43didn't get arrested though he was OK and I did oh, he asked
- 4:45him, I said, wait, can I do a selfie?
- 4:46I thought that would be so cool for social media and he said no,
- 4:48no, I can't. He got a little upset when I
- 4:50asked him to do a selfie with me but.
- 4:52Well, I have a feeling we're going to talk a lot more about
- 4:55company culture as we get into this conversation just based on
- 4:58that little bit that we covered there.
- 5:00But before we get to that point, I want to understand kind of
- 5:03your entry into the industry because you actually started
- 5:06out, I believe as a teacher. Is that right?
- 5:09And how did how did that experience kind of influence the
- 5:13way that you mentor and develop talent today?
- 5:16Well, you know that it's a great point because you have to think
- 5:20about your career and what you did.
- 5:21And then all of a sudden you start, you know, I've had my,
- 5:23I've been doing this for many years.
- 5:25I've graduated, you know, I graduated from the same school I
- 5:27went and taught to taught at. So I taught kids with special
- 5:30needs, but bright, bright kids just had little quirky things
- 5:34going on with them. And I learned from that those
- 5:37years that you take someone from where they're at, you know, if
- 5:40this, if this kid could only do math and they've couldn't do
- 5:45math, you let me just calculate it.
- 5:46It's the concept of what you get now.
- 5:48Or if it couldn't read, there's ways to work around that.
- 5:51And you take that student from this point and go to another
- 5:53point and they learn. So when I look back at that, how
- 5:57did it help me? So when I, we have housekeeping
- 6:01teams that I need to, we need to take from where they're at.
- 6:04They may have a language bearer, they may have personal issues,
- 6:06they may have life issues. And so you take them from where
- 6:09they're at and no two people are alike.
- 6:11But then you take it up a level, you go to assistant managers,
- 6:13it's the same thing. General managers, same thing.
- 6:15We got a general manager who'd be so good at the numbers,
- 6:17someone else was so good at loving the people.
- 6:20So it's the same thing. It's the same thing.
- 6:21And even when you get to the senior corporate people, the
- 6:25same thing. They're all operate given, they
- 6:26have their strengths and weaknesses, just got to take
- 6:28them from where they're at. And how do you maybe this is the
- 6:33wrong way to ask the question, and I think you'll let me know
- 6:35if it is. How do you understand where
- 6:37somebody's ceiling is so you can get an idea of where they are
- 6:41now and where they can get to? I don't think we can determine
- 6:45that right away. I think you have to do.
- 6:47It's the Peter Principle. I mean, I shouldn't, probably
- 6:49shouldn't be in the role I'm in. I rose to my level of
- 6:51incompetence a few jobs ago. But I think what I have is the
- 6:54ability to read people and look at it.
- 6:56But in to me at my job, I can't read everybody we have on a
- 6:59company because that's we're too large.
- 7:01But it's reading the people in between and helping them
- 7:03understand. I think they, I'm real fortunate
- 7:06to be surrounded by people that are really good at that.
- 7:08And when it goes back to what our what our values are, is the
- 7:11positive purposes to positively impact lives.
- 7:14If we keep that as our focus, we're going to look for ways to
- 7:17take them to where they want to go.
- 7:18Now, some people are very happy just doing what they did and
- 7:20they've done the job for 20 years and that's great.
- 7:24But we want to make sure that we ask that question, you know,
- 7:26when they're doing their reviews, are you happy with what
- 7:28you're doing? Do you want to do more?
- 7:30Then that's part of the way we get people out of that.
- 7:33And there are other people that are raising their hand all the
- 7:35time. And that's, you know, those are
- 7:36the ones that are easy to pick out, But it's the other ones
- 7:38kind of the sleepers. And it's like, jeez, we should
- 7:39have said something to them years ago.
- 7:40Or we, we have pushed people into a role that they probably
- 7:43weren't ready for. That's the other thing.
- 7:45So that's why you have to be really cautious because you
- 7:46don't want to set them up for failure.
- 7:48Yeah. So whether they're raising their
- 7:50hand or you're kind of identifying them as folks that
- 7:53you know could use some advancement, could use some help
- 7:55in getting from here to there, what is that then mentoring or
- 7:59that coaching or that teaching process look like at main
- 8:02course? I I think it's, it's give taking
- 8:06a step by step, you know, and some people raise the hand they
- 8:09might not be ready and that's OK.
- 8:11And that's where the coaching comes in as well.
- 8:13And you know, when I was AGM, our front office manager, I was
- 8:17doing those things on a daily basis and sitting by side.
- 8:19But I think a lot of our senior leaders are doing the same
- 8:21thing. They're sitting down there
- 8:22coaching and they talk about that and they write it down.
- 8:24What do you want to do? And then you kind of map out a
- 8:26plan how, you know, we're not going to say you're going to
- 8:28your housekeeper today or front desk person.
- 8:30We're going to give you a map to your a general manager and
- 8:33corporate entity. We're not we're going to say
- 8:35you're going to be let's let's get you.
- 8:37Are you, are you helping the people you're working with?
- 8:40You know, I mean, a lot of this doesn't mean a job change.
- 8:42It just means if you're assisting your Co workers, if
- 8:46all of a sudden you earn the respect to your Co workers, then
- 8:48it's like you're kind of get doing the job without getting
- 8:51anything about it. And all of a sudden you're
- 8:52proving himself. And that's one of the things I
- 8:54think most of the senior leaders in that company, including me, I
- 8:57was doing the job, whatever level I was at before I got the
- 9:03title, before I really had the job.
- 9:05And that's when it's like, you've got a safety net there.
- 9:07Now, if someone's raising their hand, they're doing the job and
- 9:10they're already doing it, that's easy.
- 9:11Then people say, well, it's about time.
- 9:12You should have had that job, you know, and that's what they
- 9:15say to me. And it's OK, well, he should
- 9:16have had that title, whatever it is.
- 9:18But there's a lot of people who have done that.
- 9:20And then what you do is you're not afraid of, oh, what happens
- 9:24if they don't make it? Now you got to cut them back and
- 9:25put them in a different role. So you just, you're kind of
- 9:28giving them that, letting them get their feet wet and they may
- 9:30find out they don't like it and that's OK too, because then they
- 9:33can do what they always wanted, what they always did.
- 9:35I mean, life is as much about figuring out which hats don't
- 9:39fit as which hats do fit, right? So let's talk about your own
- 9:44path. How did you get from being a
- 9:46teacher into the hospitality space?
- 9:48Well, teachers need summer jobs. And I had a gentleman we talked
- 9:53to, he would go to our church and he said, you know, I'm going
- 9:56to, I'm thinking of buying this little motel And the name, we'll
- 9:59just tell you about when it was in the, in the hierarchy of
- 10:02hotels, it was called Slumberland.
- 10:05It had a, a seahorse on the side.
- 10:07There was 19 rooms. And my wife and I was, were
- 10:10teachers and she'd, we just, we're just going to have a
- 10:12child. So I left teaching.
- 10:14I mean, she left teaching and was going to live it, stay at
- 10:16home with the kids. And we, we ran a motel and it
- 10:19was only open summers and weekends through the fall.
- 10:22And so we did everything there. We had like 1 housekeeper would
- 10:24help us and we did everything else.
- 10:25And we had one night a week off. We got, we were, we were wealthy
- 10:29at that point. I mean, we were getting $4000 a
- 10:31year for two of us to run that motel.
- 10:35But you know, it, it taught us the things.
- 10:37I mean, I did the plumbing, my wife did the accounting, she did
- 10:39the housekeeping. We did, you know, we both did
- 10:41these things and we learned a lot from the ground.
- 10:43And, and then we had one employee.
- 10:45So that was how we learned how to deal with employees.
- 10:47But that was, that was the start.
- 10:49And then each time we moved on to a little larger hotel, a
- 10:51little larger hotel, we'd get more of the, you know, the
- 10:54interaction with associates. And you know, I, I, I, I wrote
- 10:59something somewhere recently. I was on a blog, I think.
- 11:01And it, we, we, the things we did when we had one employee and
- 11:05the way those employees reacted, it's no different than 7700.
- 11:09It's just there's more often, you know, and, and so it was
- 11:13they want the same thing. They need the same thing.
- 11:15And if you treat it as if you're talking, if you're a one person
- 11:19hotel company, that's the way they want to be treated.
- 11:22Even though there's 707 hundred of them, how can you make them
- 11:26feel like this company's revolving around them?
- 11:28Now, I don't have all the answers.
- 11:30You can't. I can't do that with 700.
- 11:31But if that message comes across and we're always talking about
- 11:34that and impacting the lives of our associates, then maybe 600
- 11:39of them are going to feel impacted and positive.
- 11:42That's really cool. So how did the opportunity to
- 11:45join Main Course Hospitality Group come about?
- 11:47Well, so I was moving that career and I finally gave up
- 11:51teaching, gave my notice and actually his leave of absence to
- 11:54make sure it's what I wanted to do Yep, I liked it.
- 11:57And then as soon as I gave my my final notice, the placement on
- 12:00the market, I had to find something else.
- 12:02We had to move my family. And that was what probably one
- 12:04of those down times, you know, people when, when you're in a
- 12:06position like mine, it's, you know, all this guy's done this,
- 12:08he's done well and he's done all this.
- 12:10And he just got there easily. And that was a tough thing.
- 12:12I had to move my family. I didn't know what we're going
- 12:14to do. And I've stepped to the bigs,
- 12:1640% cut in pay, move to a different area.
- 12:19And, and when I got there, I said, OK, I found my place.
- 12:23This is going to be it. A little bit later.
- 12:25The guy ended up having financial problems.
- 12:27The guy that I moved to had financial problems and he turned
- 12:31the turn the hotel over to the bank and do a foreclosure.
- 12:33That was during the saving, savings and loan crisis.
- 12:36And then, so then we worked for a bank for two years and then
- 12:41these two guys. So the place stayed open and was
- 12:43just under control of the bank, OK.
- 12:45Yeah, and it it did very well. I mean, this was this that was
- 12:47one of his the crazy things, the savings and loans crisis, people
- 12:50just calling, you know, loans and this place always did well.
- 12:53But so then like these two guys who are young bachelors, the
- 12:58older bachelors and just having a blast.
- 13:00And they were restaurant guys and they say, hey, let's buy
- 13:02this, let's buy this hotel. And they bought it.
- 13:05And that was the introduction to Maine course.
- 13:06That was the Freeport. And it was back in 80, around
- 13:1090, I guess, somewhere in the 90s, early 90s.
- 13:12And they, they all of a sudden they said, you know what, We're
- 13:16making more money in this hotel than we are in any one of our
- 13:18restaurants. And then we did 2 hotels and
- 13:20they said, geez, these two hotels are making more money
- 13:23than all our restaurants. And we're losing money in some
- 13:25of the restaurants. So they said, let's stop moving
- 13:27down that path. And so that's how we kind of get
- 13:29going. And over time, we divested of
- 13:31the restaurants and just focused on hotels.
- 13:33It was a, it was a business decision.
- 13:35We love the rest. I love the restaurant because
- 13:36it's exciting, but it's a lot of hard work.
- 13:38We go home smelling whatever food we were serving that night.
- 13:41And and when you sell a restaurant, you know, it's
- 13:45different than when you sell a hotel hotel, you have an asset.
- 13:48When you sell a restaurant, you're selling the business in
- 13:49the name. So it does, it isn't necessarily
- 13:51as you don't get a good exit strategy.
- 13:54So that grew and we said did our first, first Marriott in O4 and
- 13:59our first Hilton in O 6. And then we kind of focus mostly
- 14:03in those ranges with Hilton and marit franchising.
- 14:05And so that's kind of how we get into that.
- 14:07And then the main course was something I had a boss.
- 14:10He was the president of the company and he was great mentor,
- 14:13great man and I and when I when I had when I had what he chose
- 14:16to leave and I took over, I was scared to death.
- 14:19I mean, he was a he was the most positive guy and the
- 14:22inspirational guy. And it's like I wear big shoes
- 14:24to fill. But you know, we did and we
- 14:27talked about it a lot as a group and, and we did OK.
- 14:30You know, we became a hotel company.
- 14:32So when I want to back up first to the time where you were sort
- 14:38of in limbo, right in between, you had entered the hospitality
- 14:42space, tried it out for a year, then put in your full notice.
- 14:44Great, this is what I'm going to do.
- 14:46And then all of a sudden you're without a job.
- 14:49And you know, we kind of glossed over it.
- 14:51You touched on it a little bit, but like that loss of
- 14:56employment, loss of income, loss of identity, that's a real
- 14:59struggle to get through, especially, you know, you've got
- 15:02a young family at that point. Yeah, exactly.
- 15:05And I think I guess what what you you do is you look back and
- 15:09you say, OK, we didn't do anything wrong.
- 15:13It was the situation we're in. And I mean, there were two of
- 15:15those back-to-back because I, the first one I lost, I mean, I
- 15:18left the job because it was going to be sold.
- 15:20And the second one I went into, you know, it wasn't bankruptcy,
- 15:23but in the foreclosure. And we ended up each one of
- 15:27those things. Yeah.
- 15:28We just kind of had to take it day by day.
- 15:30And I'd be gut wrenching. I'm thinking, what am I going to
- 15:32do with my family? What's going to happen?
- 15:34And you know, my kids, they were kind of young and I take them to
- 15:37school and drop them off. And I had a little Ford Escort
- 15:39wagon and it had a backup beeper and it was a sick sounding
- 15:42thing. And I'd pull up the school and
- 15:44go, my kids dad don't get any way into the building.
- 15:47But we had nothing. And we, we were afraid of losing
- 15:51what at what little we did have. And it just really took us, my
- 15:54wife and I did, we worked together and it, we just, it was
- 15:57really hard to say we've got to get through this and we're going
- 16:00to be fine no matter what we do. The worst case, we know we can
- 16:03get a job. We just don't know where or what
- 16:06it's going to be. And I think we just had to
- 16:09believe in ourselves and we had to believe that this is was
- 16:12going to be OK. And during what's I think a by
- 16:16product of this is when we buy a hotel now or a hotel is for sale
- 16:20and we're looking at it and we're going to buy a hotel,
- 16:22which we do, you know, at least once a year.
- 16:25I can relate to those people and what they're going through
- 16:29because I went through that without not knowing if I was
- 16:31going to have a job any day someone came through for a tour
- 16:33and I didn't know what to say to them.
- 16:34I don't want to make it sound too good because they might, you
- 16:36know, I don't make it too sound too bad.
- 16:37And it was really, really gut wrenching to go through that.
- 16:40And our associates did too. And so I can relate.
- 16:44And when we're talking to the teams and I said, I know what
- 16:46you're going through And it's not because I'm trying to say
- 16:48I'm a pathetic or anything. I went through that.
- 16:50I know what you're going through and I got through it OK and we
- 16:53did fine and I think you will too.
- 16:55And I promise you, we're going to earn you respect over this
- 16:57time, you know this time, because that's what's going to
- 17:00make a difference in you joining our family, the main course
- 17:02family. And so are you owning all of the
- 17:05hotels that you're also operating or do you operate,
- 17:09operate as a manager management company for some other folks
- 17:12that own the hotel properties? We do both.
- 17:14We do both. So when we began was two guys he
- 17:18involved. I mean they're crazy.
- 17:19I mean, the corporate name was Dogs R Us and then they had a
- 17:23separate one that's dogs unlimited and then Twinkie maker
- 17:25and I mean, they just they were crazy bachelors had fun.
- 17:27And you know, as we started to get a little more size and
- 17:30business. I mean, if you go and pay, pay a
- 17:32credit card at a restaurant, you have to give them the whole
- 17:34story about the restaurant. Dogs are us.
- 17:36So go to insurance. Here comes dogs unlimited.
- 17:39But so I I lost the question of the what was the question?
- 17:44I I just get going on that. I I lost it too.
- 17:47I don't know you. You took me down with you.
- 17:50Dogs. Oh, are you a management company
- 17:52or do you, Oh yeah, yeah, your own properties?
- 17:54Yeah. So when we started, that was
- 17:55just the two guys and everything was 5050.
- 17:58And then we started saying, OK, one of the guys bought 1 and
- 18:01then he bought another. And so we started a management
- 18:04company. I mean, we're all kind of, we're
- 18:06all dogs, but we started a management company.
- 18:08It was a little bit that was main course hospitality group,
- 18:10just the entity. And so then we then we had
- 18:14somebody asked us if we manage fall and we said sure.
- 18:18So we right now I think we have 8 managed properties that we
- 18:22have sliver equity and we put equity in everyone because we're
- 18:24showing that we want skin in the game.
- 18:26But the the other ones, we have majority interest between, you
- 18:29know, multiple partners, myself or the other two partners are
- 18:31CFO and we've actually opened it up to other leaders in the
- 18:35company too, if they'd like to be in the acquisitions.
- 18:38And so we so we manage for those people.
- 18:41We manage as if we own it. I think that's what kind of
- 18:43separates us in some cases. A lot of times management
- 18:45companies are purely management companies, but we know what it's
- 18:47like to have to pay the mortgage.
- 18:49We know what it's like when things go awry, there's a
- 18:51hurricane, you got to deal with things.
- 18:53It's not a big corporate thing. We we know that we operate
- 18:55hotels. And so that I think is a benefit
- 18:58and I think that's appreciated by our third party partners.
- 19:00And what's nice is that most of our partners, they had one hotel
- 19:04when they started with us. Now they have two or they have
- 19:06three or they have 4. And that's a nice thing.
- 19:08And actually few of them are buying into the hotels that we
- 19:12have and they're buying in. So it didn't start out that way.
- 19:16It started out we were a management company.
- 19:17We get, you know, a percentage of, you know, the percentage we
- 19:20charge them and we have a contract.
- 19:22Some of the contracts we have now we just, you know, it's like
- 19:24there's no outs, we don't need it.
- 19:25They want to get rid of us. They do, but they don't and we
- 19:27don't go. And so it's just a great, it
- 19:29goes back to that the culture we have.
- 19:31And I think they believe in what we believe in.
- 19:33And that's a nice thing to have. When you choose partners, you
- 19:35want to choose people who are going to be no one like you and
- 19:38you no one like them. And you don't have to worry
- 19:40about, I mean, I just want to shake your hand, say let's go,
- 19:42let's go get it, Let's go start a business.
- 19:43But you got to get legal. So, yeah.
- 19:46But so I'd say the majority, but we we operate them.
- 19:49You wouldn't know none of our people, probably some of our
- 19:51people don't even know that it's third party just because you
- 19:53know within our company. Yeah, interesting.
- 19:57So what are some of the personality traits that you're
- 19:59looking for in a business partnership?
- 20:04You know, when people call and say, Hey, I want to talk to you
- 20:06about manage that place. And they said, well, how much do
- 20:08you charge? And they said, well, I don't
- 20:09know. I said, I said, let's let's get
- 20:12together and talk. I said, well, I just want to
- 20:14know what you charge. And I said, what's going to
- 20:15depend on what you you're going to find out if you like us.
- 20:17It makes no sense to talk about money if you don't like us or
- 20:20vice versa. And I think we try to look for
- 20:23people who have the same way they want to treat associates.
- 20:27I mean, I mean, obviously it's a big deal.
- 20:29We want to, we want to make more money by having more revenues,
- 20:33but not if not, if it's not going to work.
- 20:35We had one recently that this, I probably shouldn't get too deep
- 20:38into the story, but the guy was quite outgoing.
- 20:41And you know, Jonathan and I had the guy that was, we're not
- 20:44drinkers. And he kept wanting us to drink
- 20:46with him. And we say, well, this is truth
- 20:48serum. And I said, well, we tell the
- 20:50truth either way. But at the end of the day, this
- 20:53was 6, 4 hours at the dinner, which was, you know, we were
- 20:57drinking, but someone else was. But when we left, Jonathan was
- 21:00new to us and he said, Sean, what do you think?
- 21:01He said there could be some money there.
- 21:02I said, yeah, I know. But do we want our people to be
- 21:06when you go to one of our galas or with our leaders and to be,
- 21:09have somebody feel uncomfortable with a partner who doesn't fit
- 21:12our, who we are and what we believe in.
- 21:14And then we he said that's the healthiest thing.
- 21:16It's like, yeah, so we lost couple $100,000 a year.
- 21:18It didn't matter to us because it didn't infect the people we
- 21:22really love, you know, on our team.
- 21:25That's powerful. Yeah.
- 21:27I mean, OK, if this guy wants to have a drink with dinner, but
- 21:30for him to be pushing it on you, he wants the truth serum.
- 21:35He wants the truth to come out. That's.
- 21:39It wasn't even a way. It wasn't a wondering, you know,
- 21:42by the way, I'll get offline and tell you the rest of it, OK?
- 21:44But it was. But, you know, it taught us
- 21:46something about we stand for our principles.
- 21:49We stand with our people and if we do that all the time, then
- 21:53they can count on us that we're not going to bring out.
- 21:55We can make mistakes too. I'm sure we could partner with
- 21:58someone who's not, and we've had partners who've done that, but
- 22:00not in this part of our company. So I, I think just stand true to
- 22:04our principles, who we stand for.
- 22:05And then it's kind of give back to that said, you know, do is
- 22:09this going to help our culture to join with this team?
- 22:12Yeah. And if it isn't, we don't want
- 22:13it. Well, I mean part of your
- 22:15mission statement includes positively impacting lives.
- 22:20Can you wrap that in like a real life story that helps to
- 22:24illustrate that? Yeah, couple.
- 22:29So I, we, we acquired a hotel and we had it about five years
- 22:34and I, I write birthday cards for all our associates and that,
- 22:37you know. All 700 of them.
- 22:39Well, 700 that worked for us and 300 who left the job and came
- 22:42back or that kind of thing. So it's about 1000 a year and
- 22:45someone else pulls them together for me.
- 22:46I don't do the mailing and all that, but you know, when you
- 22:48come in your desk and get 70 birthday cards and I don't just
- 22:51say Sean, I don't stamp it. I mean, I say, hey, Anthony,
- 22:55happy birthday. Hope it's a great one.
- 22:57It was great talking the other day.
- 22:58Or sometimes it's it's pretty generic because I might not even
- 23:01know who they are with 800 people, 700 people.
- 23:03But so I do it every year and, and I went to this, I went to
- 23:08this one hotel and the housekeeper, the laundry lady
- 23:11comes in and she's been there for 20 years or something.
- 23:13And she comes, I need to show you something.
- 23:15I'm like, oh God, she's going to come.
- 23:16She needs a new washer. She's not happy with the table
- 23:18or something like that. And I go and she goes, look at
- 23:20that, look at that. She's tapping on the wall.
- 23:22And I went around and I look it up closely and it was the
- 23:25birthday cards for the last five years.
- 23:27And then a couple notes that she received from my Mia, the
- 23:29general manager, something she goes, that's why I love this
- 23:32here. And it just, you know, as I'm
- 23:35doing that 770 birthday cards, I walk in, I'm like, shoot, look
- 23:38at all those things. But in reality, look what that
- 23:42did. She's saving those on a wall.
- 23:43This is a 65 year old woman that's proud of getting a note
- 23:50from the CEO. Yeah.
- 23:52So that, that was one thing. The other one relatives, the
- 23:54birthday cards too, is that I, I had a like I said, I do those
- 23:58things on a regular basis and I went out and visited a hotel and
- 24:01a lot of times they'll say, Hey, thanks Sean, for they'll see me.
- 24:03Hey, thanks for sending me a birthday card.
- 24:05Someone else will say they'll send me a text.
- 24:06Hey, I really appreciate the birthday wishes.
- 24:08Well, I went to this one hotel and the guy said, hey, Sean, I
- 24:12just want to thank you for the birthday card.
- 24:14They all do that. I said, well, that's great.
- 24:16I'm really glad. I'm I'm, I'm glad you, you know,
- 24:19you meant something to her. No, no, Sean, I want to tell you
- 24:21it really was important. I said, well, good, I'm glad of
- 24:24that. You know, it makes me feel good.
- 24:26He said, Sean, I mean, I really mean it because I come home
- 24:29every every day on my birthday, every time I have a birthday, I
- 24:32come home and I go to the mailbox and my mother's always
- 24:34got a card event for me and she didn't have one this year.
- 24:38And you know, so then I'm getting, Oh my God.
- 24:41And he and he said the only thing in that mailbox was your
- 24:44card. And you know, and I, I still get
- 24:47choked up talking about it. You know, it's such a, that guy
- 24:51needed that. And then he said, and
- 24:53furthermore, my girlfriend just broke up with me and I came home
- 24:56and the only thing that was in there was your birthday card.
- 24:59So as much as I think, OK, there's two hours of my life
- 25:01every every once a month on a Saturday sign a birthday cards,
- 25:05those are the kinds of things that matter.
- 25:06And that's where the positively impacting lives.
- 25:08We don't know at my level or any level how we're impacting lives
- 25:13when we do something, whether it be a note or card or a call or a
- 25:17text, you know, to someone who's sick or someone's in the
- 25:19hospital or something like that. And that those two stories
- 25:22really remind me of how important what we do every day
- 25:25for our team and for our family, make a difference.
- 25:30So I have to assume that a big part of what makes all of this
- 25:35work, this people engine, is that you're leading by example.
- 25:41And your leaders, the folks that report to you, they're seeing
- 25:46this, they're following your example.
- 25:48But how else does this get communicated down through the
- 25:53ranks that hey, this is the way that we run Main course
- 25:57hospitality group, this is the way that we treat people.
- 26:02You know, it's not, it's not 100% success rate.
- 26:06I mean, it doesn't get all the way through the organization.
- 26:08Not everybody does that. We have leadership meetings and
- 26:11that's always on the sculpture. Now when I go to visit hotels,
- 26:14it's always the conversation with the GMs and it's and if I
- 26:18run into the housekeepers, if I run into the assistant managers,
- 26:22I will I talk culture, I talk our values and somehow I'm going
- 26:25to mention the Word family because that's one of our
- 26:26values. And my, my, my behavior shows
- 26:31the fun. I always do crazy stuff.
- 26:34And you know that the integrity and respect is, you know, you go
- 26:37in there and ask for it. When we buy a H1 of the first
- 26:40things I say is my job now is to just earn your respect.
- 26:43You don't have to give me respect.
- 26:44I want to earn it. And I think yes, it does get
- 26:47passed down to people pick up on that.
- 26:49And I think when we're all in the same boat, we're all
- 26:53believing the same thing and we all talk about it and we believe
- 26:55in it, it just oozes out of not just me.
- 26:58I mean, I'm part of it. I'm just no question, I'm part
- 27:00of it. But I'm not the only guy.
- 27:01And I've said for years, if I get hit by a bus with this
- 27:04culture live on, and I'm positive it will.
- 27:09And we do social media within, you know, in in team social
- 27:12media, you know, our main course, Facebook main course
- 27:14website, we do so we have a gala which has all our leaders with
- 27:19this spouses of significant others, vendors.
- 27:22And it's a great event. We have like 200 people there
- 27:25and we always do some we do fun stuff.
- 27:27And I think what tells people about that kind of thing oozes
- 27:33our culture and what we stand for.
- 27:36I have a tendency to have fun and we do a videos.
- 27:40I probably send you one, I'll send you one of those.
- 27:41But the videos are really, you know, just down to earth.
- 27:45Here's the CEO acting like a geek.
- 27:46I was Bruno Mars one year. I was Justin Timberlake another
- 27:50year. This year was probably our best
- 27:51production because we used some some people, some students from
- 27:54a college, and they helped put us through the recording.
- 27:57But I was cool in the gang. We were cool in the gang and I
- 28:00was cool. And it was just, but you know
- 28:02what? It goes back to saying when I go
- 28:04out and we go recording some of these videos at hotels, I'm
- 28:07standing in side by side with people.
- 28:09We're having a blast. We're laughing and we're
- 28:10giggling and we're watching someone dance silly.
- 28:13So it goes. So yes, I do that, but so do
- 28:15others. Yeah, we have a thing that
- 28:17started you talk about when we first started with the first
- 28:19hotel, we, I was AGI was a front office manager and it'd be a hot
- 28:23day in the summer. And I said I'm going to bring
- 28:25popsicles. I'm going to go out and get
- 28:26popsicles and go around and give it to each housekeeper and each
- 28:29front desk person. And you'd think that you'd given
- 28:31them gold and it's just a popsicle.
- 28:35So you do 1H2 hotels, 10 hotels and started getting out of way
- 28:39for me to be able to do that, get to 15 hotels.
- 28:42So now we start our people that report to me that the OPS
- 28:45leaders and then they would do it.
- 28:47Now when we do it, someone said one time they can, but you're
- 28:50going out and say here's a popsicle.
- 28:51I know today's a really a hot day, but you know, thank you for
- 28:55what you're doing. So one person told me one time
- 28:58and I'll never forget she said it.
- 28:59She said, Sean, you're so cheap. It's a popsicle.
- 29:01It's like $0.29. And then I started feeling bad.
- 29:05I'm like, wow, am I meeting cheap?
- 29:06And then I went back and I said no.
- 29:08And I and I wrote a blog about it.
- 29:09I said it's not about the pop, you know, it's about the CEO or
- 29:13the corporate operations person going out and saying thank you
- 29:16for what you're doing. And it's just, it's crazy.
- 29:19So then we build a construction hotel right next to where we
- 29:22operate. I went and gave it to the
- 29:23contractors. They almost started crying.
- 29:26They said thank you so much. That.
- 29:27And these are contractors, you know, they're up there spitting
- 29:28and swearing and everything, and they're just getting excited
- 29:31about a popsicle. But it goes back to that same
- 29:33thing. You don't know.
- 29:34Yeah. Thank you for what you're doing
- 29:36today. I know it's hot and you know
- 29:38it's a, it's a gratitude thing. It's a human moment.
- 29:41It's it's an opportunity for connection, expressing your
- 29:45gratitude. I see you.
- 29:47I recognize what you're doing and I appreciate it.
- 29:50Yeah, it's authenticity. I think it's, it's like
- 29:53authentic. I mean, what CEO or what
- 29:55corporate person is going to hand out you a popsicle?
- 29:57And if you told someone that you'd think how nutty we were.
- 30:00But it's, it's amazing the reaction you get, whether it be
- 30:03a popsicle, a birthday card or a, or a call, you know, at
- 30:05midnight and it's, it just goes back to that.
- 30:09You do things like that for your family.
- 30:12You give your kids popsicles, you write them birthday notes,
- 30:15you do that thing. And we just a bigger family than
- 30:17than most. We got 700 in our family.
- 30:20And that, that Word family is, you know, we've got a family
- 30:22within. We all have our personal
- 30:24families and we value that. We try to make sure we people
- 30:26take care of their families. But we have a housekeeping
- 30:29family at this hotel. We have one at this hotel.
- 30:31We have a whole company family and we've got a corporate
- 30:34family. So that's a big deal for us.
- 30:37I love this. I want to pause just for a
- 30:39second to draw even more attention to what we're talking
- 30:43about here. Because you know, whether
- 30:45you're, you know, you're in a position of leadership like you
- 30:48are, and you're doing this for your company and your employees,
- 30:51or you're just doing it for folks around you and your
- 30:53community. I mean, hearing your stories
- 30:56about how positively affected, how emotional some people get
- 31:01because of a popsicle, right? It's not the popsicle.
- 31:04It's not the $0.29 that you spent at Target.
- 31:07It's the human gesture. It's being recognized, having
- 31:11that authentic human moment. What a beautiful thing if we all
- 31:16did just pause for a second in our day and showed that kind of
- 31:21recognition to somebody around us with a popsicle, with a card,
- 31:25with a kind comment or a word, right?
- 31:28Absolutely. I think.
- 31:29And, you know, I, I look at my next career, my next part of my
- 31:32life, I'm, I'm kind of mature now.
- 31:35But you know, how can I do that? Maybe in some other way, some
- 31:39other vehicle, some way that we all can make the world better.
- 31:44I mean, that sounds pretty grandiose, but it only takes one
- 31:47person. It only takes that housekeeper
- 31:49who got five birthday cards on the wall or that guy whose
- 31:52mother didn't send him a birthday card in all those
- 31:55things. One person is really, and I'm
- 31:57probably going to be OK for the rest of my life by just impact
- 31:59one person a day. But add up to I said we, I use
- 32:02this example, add up 700 people in our company and they all
- 32:06impact one person a day times 700 * 365 days a year.
- 32:11There's a lot of people impacted and it you don't know if it's
- 32:13that person you impacted or the person's child or the person's
- 32:16your mother, or you don't know if that was just a funeral and
- 32:19you did something like that. So those things that it just
- 32:21takes a gesture and an effort. And, you know, I know that's my
- 32:25job's pretty busy too. You know, I'm not, you know, I
- 32:28mean, people say, well, I'm really busy and it's OK.
- 32:30But what's it take when I'm driving to my car to call up and
- 32:32just say hi to AGM? Or someone who just had a gal on
- 32:35our team that just had search for surgery for cancer.
- 32:39Just call her up, tell her I'm thinking I'm gonna say a prayer
- 32:41for her. And she wasn't there and I hung
- 32:42up. But you don't know.
- 32:44You don't know what that's going to do.
- 32:45Is that going to help her or is she just going to go, wow, I
- 32:48needed that today? You don't know.
- 32:50You reference the next chapter in your life.
- 32:54Are you thinking about future steps here?
- 32:57I am, yeah. I, you know, I'm, like I said,
- 33:01I'm mature. And if this is a video one,
- 33:03right? So you can see my Gray hair and
- 33:04the wrinkles and all that. We see how good looking you are.
- 33:07There's no hiding. Yeah, I think I, I think I've,
- 33:13we've started a succession planning.
- 33:15We have someone that could, could step into this role and
- 33:17what we're trying to do is make sure it's right because it's so
- 33:20critical for us to take care of people, the rest of the family.
- 33:24It's not just Sean moving on to something different or moving on
- 33:26to a different role within the company or whatever it might be.
- 33:29So, but we'll get, we want to do it right.
- 33:32We don't want people to be afraid that Sean's going to
- 33:34leave a hole. And so I, I prefaced previous
- 33:40conversation. I talked about, I walked out of
- 33:42the Camino to Santiago. It's a trail and I spent a lot
- 33:44of time reflecting and thinking about it and everyday I kept
- 33:48going, OK, I put my hands up, I said, OK, is it is where there's
- 33:51the epiphany. And it wasn't the next day, then
- 33:53the next day, no epiphany. But I think when I came out of
- 33:55it was saying maybe I need to talk with the people within our
- 33:57teams and all that company that really value who we are and what
- 34:00we stand for and say, what are you afraid of?
- 34:03Not that anybody can't handle the job.
- 34:05We can get anybody to handle the job.
- 34:06We've got a great person who can handle the job.
- 34:08But what might make it a little easier for people to deal with
- 34:11that kind of transition? So we did and I got 10 people
- 34:14that all gave me their real heartfelt information.
- 34:17And I think, you know, there's certain areas that they don't
- 34:20want anything to slip by. And one is the culture.
- 34:24And 1 is that we are a management company that they
- 34:27want came to join because of who we are and how we do things.
- 34:32I'm some of the people that have longevity is crazy and it's like
- 34:3420 years for a lot of our GM's and, and, and those are the ones
- 34:38who say we don't want to mess this up.
- 34:40We got here because of who we are.
- 34:42Now we get a change. We have to evolve, we have to
- 34:44use technology, we have to do things differently and the world
- 34:46is changing, but we still don't want to lose that.
- 34:49And so how do we make sure that we don't embrace that piece of
- 34:52our company, the culture, the, you know what we stand for?
- 34:56And that's it was really rewarding for me feeling like
- 34:59that meant that much to those people.
- 35:01It wasn't Sean. They were saying they don't want
- 35:03there to be a whole. And so I, I think over the next
- 35:05six months or I'm going to spend a lot of time working on filling
- 35:09the gaps or filling the holes and then embracing the people
- 35:11around it into a deeper part of our organization.
- 35:14So it's not just Sean, yes, someone has to lead it and be
- 35:18embrace it. And I, Jonathan will be able to
- 35:20do that. But it's got to go deeper than
- 35:22that. And it's got to go to the OPS
- 35:23leaders, but then it's got to go to the GMs and then get those
- 35:25GMs general managers in that language it.
- 35:28So the general managers have so much they can do for their teams
- 35:33and a lot of them embrace it and are great at it, but we just
- 35:36want to make sure more of us are so that when Sean steps away, I
- 35:39can just step away cuz this is my identity.
- 35:41I've been here 37 years. This is my identity.
- 35:43When someone talks main course, they talk Sean and people
- 35:47recognize me as main course. Now it, it isn't me, it's all of
- 35:51us, but it's still something I've got to get over.
- 35:54And the best way I can do that is to embrace the fact that
- 35:58maybe I can make it better when I do step away and make it
- 36:01better for them and so they can take the culture to the next
- 36:04level. It could go much further I'm
- 36:06sure, but then with 10/20/50 people embracing culture.
- 36:10So you're trying to set them up for future success.
- 36:13Once you step on to whatever the next thing is, what do you think
- 36:17the next thing might be for you? Positively impacting lives in
- 36:21another way. And I don't know what that is.
- 36:23You know, I think I have to, I have to prepare myself for my
- 36:26future. I read a book called Strength to
- 36:29Strength by like he lost his name, but strength to strength.
- 36:33And it talks about different parts of your career.
- 36:35And the first part, you know, you're striving, you're getting
- 36:37faster and you're doing a lot of stuff.
- 36:39You're, you're articulate, you're fast, you're equipped
- 36:41with a memory, you're quick with everything you do, you're
- 36:43creative. And that that's goes on to your
- 36:4520s and 30s and then you get into your 40s and it let kind of
- 36:47levels off and then 50s and slows down.
- 36:49But at that same point, there's another curve that's coming up.
- 36:52And that's the things, the, the, the EQ, the emotional IQ, the
- 36:56ability to inspire, the ability to see visionary think, think a
- 37:02little differently. And so it's a different mindset
- 37:03because I, I can't remember, you know, I, I probably say your
- 37:06name wrong three times in this thing before it's over.
- 37:09But what I can do is impact you maybe and try to help you in
- 37:11some way or help help your listeners.
- 37:13And I think those are the areas that I probably have strength,
- 37:15that I do have strengths in that I've kind of been over it.
- 37:17I'm not moving the boxes. I used to work side by side with
- 37:20all the housekeepers and the maintenance guys and I'd boost
- 37:22up and I'd snow blow outside. I'm not doing it anymore.
- 37:25My body's not ready for it. And, and I can't remember much,
- 37:29but I can use those new skills that I have and utilize them
- 37:33better for the betterment of our company.
- 37:35And so I, I think part of it's going to be for the benefit of
- 37:37our benefit of our company and our legacy as a company, but
- 37:41also for maybe there's something further than that, you know, and
- 37:44I and I, I don't know what that is, but I think right now I'm
- 37:47really exploring what I can do best for our people. 700 people,
- 37:50what will be 800 people by the other year, 900 people by
- 37:53another. And how can I set that up?
- 37:55And maybe that's still part of it is like if we're going to now
- 37:58instead of 700 people impacting lives, maybe we have 800 where I
- 38:02am still somehow impacting people through that legacy.
- 38:06You know, you mentioned people don't want things to change,
- 38:10right? They love the culture that's
- 38:12there. Obviously, in your words, you
- 38:14have to continue to evolve as times change.
- 38:17What are some of the big changes that are occurring now in your
- 38:21industry? In the industry, I think
- 38:24technology, I think there's a fear of technology.
- 38:27I'm not, I mean everybody embraces it.
- 38:29I mean, you got to, I mean, you got to do that.
- 38:30But I think some of the fears of technology, they're always going
- 38:33to take away jobs and we're just going to be a bunch of, we're
- 38:36going to go up and check in at a, you know, at a kiosk or
- 38:39something. I think what in our industry, I
- 38:42mean, we're in hospitality. You know, there's a difference
- 38:45of service and hospitality services.
- 38:47You, you bring a coffee cup to a guy and you a person and you
- 38:51pour the coffee. Hospitality is recognizing that
- 38:53they're left-handed and they turn the cup to the from six O
- 38:57clock to 8 O clock so they can just grab it.
- 38:59That's that extra bit of hospitality.
- 39:01So if I'm spending my time, someone checking in and going
- 39:04through 12 steps to get them just to find out where their
- 39:06reservation is, another 12 steps to get them checked in and then
- 39:09go over and make their key. Now, if you could have
- 39:11technology utilized there when you check in, I can say thank
- 39:16you for joining us. I'm really glad you're here
- 39:19today, Anthony. And see, I forgot your name
- 39:20already when I was doing that. Thank you, Anthony, for checking
- 39:23in. I I know you were here last week
- 39:25and I really appreciate that. How's your, how's your kids?
- 39:27I know you talked about that. One of them had a soccer game.
- 39:30That's what hospitality's about. And so if we can embrace
- 39:33technology enough so that. Yeah, yeah, you're still going
- 39:35to. I mean, I am mature and I always
- 39:37say that you don't get old as long as you're relevant.
- 39:41So I have to stay relevant in this technology stuff.
- 39:43But I think if people can, we can take away those soft spots
- 39:49that take time that people don't want.
- 39:51They just don't want it make it easier for them, then they're
- 39:53going to come back. So what restaurant would you go
- 39:55to, Sean, or what, where would I go?
- 39:57What's the best place to go for a walk?
- 39:58Where can I go for a jog? What's a good I got to get my
- 40:01flat tire fix? Where do I go?
- 40:02That's what we can do to the hospitality.
- 40:04And so it gives it, I think it creates.
- 40:06But the fear is that first of all, it's the cost.
- 40:08And there's a fear of people losing their jobs with AII mean
- 40:11I use AI and. It does so much for me and by
- 40:14using AI it frees me up to do other things so I can make those
- 40:17calls, well, make. Those calls, write those
- 40:20birthday cards. Yeah, yeah.
- 40:21Have that personal connection. And you know, I and I, I, I do
- 40:25believe in there is a, a segment.
- 40:28I mean, yes, you can use AI, you can use technology, you can do
- 40:29all that stuff and send out birthday cards.
- 40:31And if we all go out, the difference is I think when you
- 40:33make it personalized, so you just choose your weapons, you
- 40:36know, AI and technology is amazing and you need to use it.
- 40:40We do it in our accounting. You know you what used to take
- 40:4310 steps now takes 2. And that's great.
- 40:45And then nobody's lost a job. Now they can just double check
- 40:49things or they can be better, or they can go next door and talk
- 40:51to the person next to them because there's a little more
- 40:52time. You know, and that's where I
- 40:55hear a lot of business leaders who are very people centric talk
- 40:59about AI not as a tool to be able to replace people, but a
- 41:05tool to be able to support their people, to allow them to
- 41:08accomplish more and to focus on the parts of their job that
- 41:12really require that human interaction.
- 41:15Whether it's just the human interaction in terms of being
- 41:19able to critically assess something or that human to human
- 41:23interaction, you know, like a lot of your front desk workers
- 41:26would have. That's the kind of human to
- 41:28human touch that you don't want to lose.
- 41:30Yeah, absolutely. And I I talk about AI.
- 41:33So back to my, my transformation into a new person in a bit of
- 41:38time. So I, I had the 10 people and I
- 41:41had taken notes and I put it up on a Word document.
- 41:43I said, how am I going to get through this and try to figure
- 41:46out what each one of these men and how it happened and said,
- 41:48well, let me try it. So I went on the copilot, copied
- 41:50it and said, I told him the AI, what I was doing, what I had
- 41:54planned to do, how I did it. And then what, how do I now what
- 41:58do I do? And then I click go or whatever.
- 42:01And it came back and it gave me the top key areas that are
- 42:05between 10 people, what things that were causing angst, what
- 42:09things that people would like, what people don't want to lose
- 42:11and what they do want to get and how they want to be better.
- 42:14And then it said, now these are some steps you can go through
- 42:17and this is what you can do, Sean, to do this.
- 42:19And I'm like, whoa, that was cool.
- 42:22But, and it's so I, it basically it was all the people side of
- 42:24things. It was one-on-one and I cried.
- 42:26They cried. I mean, because some of these,
- 42:28you know, we worked together for 20 years.
- 42:30So there was a lot of emotion in those conversations and that
- 42:32didn't come through in that thing, but I knew that it, but
- 42:35the things that they said and then it really zeroed in on the
- 42:39things that are important to me. And I, that was what really made
- 42:42me feel good is that they took all those things.
- 42:45It was the culture, it was the values, it was the the taking
- 42:48care of ain't guardrails. How can we have guardrails for
- 42:50the company so they don't get away from what's gotten us to
- 42:54where we are now? We've done OK.
- 42:57You know, we went from one hotel and $2,000,000 to $125 million,
- 43:01twenty $5,000,000 and and we're OK.
- 43:04But we can still get better. Doesn't mean we're going to get,
- 43:06we don't care about development for this.
- 43:08I think it was a question about growth strategy.
- 43:10We don't really have a strategy for growth.
- 43:12We have a way if growth happens. I think our first step was, and
- 43:15I'm getting off track of what you were saying, but but I think
- 43:18the, the strategy that we we have is we want to choose things
- 43:21that are going to not impact negatively our culture.
- 43:25So, you know, buy a 10 pack of hotels.
- 43:27We've got some investors that we could do that, but is that going
- 43:30to throw a real wrench into who we are?
- 43:31And then we're not taking care of our 700 original people.
- 43:35So we try to make sure that that's not going to impact us
- 43:36negatively and then make sure our investors get a return.
- 43:39And it doesn't mean we're going to cut prices or take advantage
- 43:42of people or anything like that. We're just going to say, we know
- 43:44where we stand and what we'll do.
- 43:46And then the part of it is embracing those people that we
- 43:48just brought into our family. We just bought a hotel in
- 43:51Saratoga, NY a month ago and we we talked about it.
- 43:55We said, you know, we want to welcome you to our family and
- 43:57we're going to earn your respect.
- 43:58But we're going to take some time.
- 43:59We're going to get to know you and we want we want to embrace
- 44:01it. And it's OK to be nervous.
- 44:03And Sean was nervous because I was in the same boat.
- 44:06And then we're going to get them into our family and make and
- 44:08then some of our people that we've bought into our company
- 44:11have gone risen in the rolls and we only bought them three years
- 44:15ago. So it and those are great
- 44:17examples to share with the people.
- 44:19It's interesting how you talk about your growth strategy.
- 44:22It it what I think I heard there was can we get a return for our
- 44:27investors, but can we do it in a way that's not going to mess up
- 44:29our culture? It's sort of like 1A and 1B.
- 44:33Those are the questions that you ask.
- 44:34Absolutely. And I think the reason being is
- 44:37we know what got us here and we we don't want to waver on that
- 44:42and we don't really want to waver in giving an investment
- 44:44because these investors are going to put money in and they
- 44:46want a certain return. And if we screw it up, there
- 44:49goes our growth strategy. So those two things are just so
- 44:52critical. And then it so that's affecting
- 44:54our associates and affecting our investors and ownership.
- 44:58And if we take care of both of those, and Mr. Merritt said it
- 45:00well, if you take care of the associates, the associates will
- 45:03take care of the guests and the guests will keep coming back.
- 45:07If that happens, we'll all make more money, including our
- 45:10investors. But we have to go back to taking
- 45:12care of our associates in the right way.
- 45:16Shawn, in my experience, some of our biggest growth opportunities
- 45:18come from overcoming our biggest challenges.
- 45:23What is a big challenge that you've had to overcome and what
- 45:29did you learn going through that process?
- 45:32Well, this is about a bunch. I mean, because I've, I've been
- 45:35doing this for a number of years and some of them seemed big
- 45:39before and as big now, you know, that job I didn't have or that
- 45:43chance that someone is going to buy us.
- 45:44And it was scary, but then it was scary then, but it, it's not
- 45:48quite as scary now. I think, you know, I would 911
- 45:52was a big scare, you know, that really impacted the industry.
- 45:56We didn't know how much I mean that those days that it
- 45:58happened, it was just horrific. But then the, the same is a lot.
- 46:00I mean, the, the, the Great Recession, that was, that was
- 46:06scary because we said, OK, we're going to, you know, I took cut
- 46:08and pay and we, we froze wages and did all that stuff.
- 46:11And, you know, the banks were just going to come at you and it
- 46:14was just pretty scary. But we got through it.
- 46:17But then COVID hit and COVID was a, a scary thing because we, no
- 46:22one had a clue. And what is it going to impact
- 46:26our business? What's going to happen?
- 46:27I was at a meeting in Memphis with the Hilton and they came on
- 46:33this shit, this is what we're going to have to do.
- 46:35These are the things we're going to, you don't know whether you
- 46:36handshake, hug, put, put sanitizer on or there were no
- 46:41masks or anything. And it was just no one knew it
- 46:44was scan. I flew home.
- 46:45There was nobody in the airport when I got home.
- 46:47It was just impactful. But so then we started saying,
- 46:50what do we have to do? And we said, how do we take care
- 46:52of our people but still keep our business?
- 46:56And so we came up with, and this was a team of us.
- 46:58And I remember sitting in a hotel because we were ready to
- 46:59open a hotel during this time. We had a hotel already.
- 47:02The staff was there, we were training when they coming in, we
- 47:04say, OK, no more handshakes. We'll just no fist bump and
- 47:06we'll do elbow bumps. And, and we still had a couple
- 47:08meetings during this time, but it got worse and worse.
- 47:11And we saw it was, and, and then what happened, It was the, the,
- 47:14the municipalities and the cities and the states were
- 47:18hunkering down and not letting us operate.
- 47:21So we had to shut down, you know, some of them.
- 47:24So we probably said we, I think we probably had the time maybe
- 47:27set 18 hotels, maybe 20 hotels and we shut down like 14 of
- 47:31them. But we found a way to be able to
- 47:35take care of people. Now that was the, our frontline
- 47:37associates were getting the, the premium unemployment thing.
- 47:40And they were all whole, even our leaders, though we, we tried
- 47:43to make, we made them whole by making sure that they got
- 47:45insurance and they, and if they were ever, they were not down.
- 47:48So we covered. So they were whole, they had
- 47:50insurance and they had, and we kept the hotels there.
- 47:54We had, we weren't operating, we kept them there, but I remember
- 47:58sitting there trying to make these decisions.
- 48:00How do you take care of the people but still maintain your
- 48:02business? And then once we get going, I
- 48:04think what I found, we started, you know, lightening it up a
- 48:07little bit. I found it really inspirational.
- 48:12We started working with the brands, Hilton and Merritt,
- 48:15serving on committees. What are we all going to do?
- 48:17It wasn't what if franchisees going to do it, What's Hilton
- 48:20going to do? It's what are we going to do?
- 48:22We got to get out of this together.
- 48:23What can we do to help the guests but make sure that we're
- 48:26not losing a shirt and we're going to go out of business
- 48:28because they were scared. I mean, Marriott went from 90 to
- 48:3010% of what they had, you know, it was unbelievable.
- 48:34So they would work together. There was a lot of synergies
- 48:37between Marriott and us because we have Marriott and Hilton and
- 48:40us and I probably, you know, you know, that's when Teams and Zoom
- 48:43really came, came to be is during that time and and it was
- 48:48resilient. The ideas that people had.
- 48:49What can we do? How can we do things different?
- 48:51How do we do the rules? What are we doing?
- 48:52We've had our people working on. We had some, we kind of had our
- 48:56COVID Tsar, one of the guys on our team and, and he was looking
- 48:59for safety and security and all that.
- 49:01But, and every time I go home, I wouldn't know what to do.
- 49:03So part of my role during that time was I want to, I want to
- 49:06keep people in life feeling like we're going to be OK.
- 49:11And I mean, and I was, I'd have my crying sessions.
- 49:14Don't quit. I mean, it was crazy.
- 49:15And, and I, I would do what I would consider somewhat
- 49:19inspirational little snippets, you know, a 2 minute something
- 49:23from Sean, whether it be a song or, you know, a song and some
- 49:27words or something. And just trying to say, well,
- 49:29this is what we're doing. This is we're trying to
- 49:30communicate what we're doing, how we're doing it and how much
- 49:32I could understand what they're going through because I feel the
- 49:34same way. So, and I'll kick off to this
- 49:37other thing is that during that time, Marni Sorensen, who was
- 49:40the CEO of Marriott, was a wonderful, wonderful leader.
- 49:43Everybody respected around the world.
- 49:46He, he found out he had cancer just before that and he was
- 49:49pretty sick. And then, you know, he ended up
- 49:53COVID hit and so he was no one's in the office anymore.
- 49:56He wasn't in the office anymore. And he had, he was shit, he had
- 49:59his head shaved because he lost his hair through treatments.
- 50:01And I remember I when he had, when he found out he had cancer,
- 50:05I just heard Sean's notes. I would send him notes, you
- 50:08know, once every two or three weeks, I'd send him a note just
- 50:11saying, hey, I'm thinking of you now.
- 50:12We'd met a couple times, but we weren't like buddies or friends.
- 50:16And he tried. I wondered if he ever knew who I
- 50:17was. But he would write back to me in
- 50:19an e-mail. I'd send a thing within a week.
- 50:22And I'm saying that's just his, you know, his admin sending it.
- 50:24But then I realized it wasn't, it was him.
- 50:26And he was appreciative. And he'd always say something
- 50:29with wisdom. And it's almost like he was, I'm
- 50:31here. I'm trying to help this guy
- 50:32who's got a death sentence, whose company's falling apart,
- 50:36and he's inspiring me. And it was it the resiliency of
- 50:40people. And it was one of those examples
- 50:42that just said, you know, doesn't matter what you got, you
- 50:44can change something. He impacted my life
- 50:46tremendously. And we we would joke around and
- 50:49we he talked about it. He says, yeah, he talked about
- 50:52my grandkids and I talked about his kids and he said we're home.
- 50:55And a funny story, right before Christmas, it was Christmas Eve.
- 50:58I sent him a thing and he'd answer me.
- 50:59And if I sent him something at 5:00 Christmas morning, he sent
- 51:01me something at 7:00 in the morning once.
- 51:03We're all doing emails. And he said, Sean, he said thank
- 51:07you for the notes and you know, thank you for your friendship.
- 51:09Now, again, I didn't know the guy.
- 51:11We were pen pals and that's what I'd signed and most of that in
- 51:13my pen. Your pen pal.
- 51:15And he told me, he said, Sean, don't tell anybody this and it's
- 51:18OK now because he's passed away. But he said my wife and I, I, I
- 51:21told him about a song. It was on this white Christmas,
- 51:23the movie that we watch Christmas Eve.
- 51:25And he said we, we sang that song, me and my sister and my
- 51:29wife and I get wigs on. I put wig on and we, we dance
- 51:32that with my kids. And I'm thinking this is the CEO
- 51:35of Marriott who's trying to make my life better.
- 51:39And, and, and then he passed away 3 weeks later.
- 51:43But that's what this that's what really makes the difference.
- 51:47So that COVID, that hurt all of us gave me a belief in our
- 51:52society. You know, we were all hurting,
- 51:55but we ended up doing OK and we found ways to get around all
- 51:59these things and we pulled together.
- 52:00Now there was some negativity about whether COVID vaccination
- 52:03or that, but in general, our country and our world pulled
- 52:06together. So you know, that, that two,
- 52:09that two years that I might not have had a job, this was minimal
- 52:13compared to that kind of thing. And, and we were able to come
- 52:17out whole. We, you know, I, I took a 50%
- 52:20cut in pay and my wife had just switched jobs within our company
- 52:23and I, I laid her off. She was the first one.
- 52:25So at least set an example. But we all made it through and
- 52:29we kept going back and talking about our culture.
- 52:32So you're leading a, a group of hundreds of employees during
- 52:38easily one of the most difficult times in, in human history.
- 52:42And a lot of people are looking to you for strength, for
- 52:44guidance for the, you know, hey, let us know that this is going
- 52:49to be OK. But Sean, here you are kind of
- 52:52flying by the seat of your pants.
- 52:53You don't really know if it's going to be OK.
- 52:55You're just as uncertain as the rest of us.
- 52:58What, where, where are you pulling support from?
- 53:01Where are you kind of pulling this confidence from to be able
- 53:06to lead your team? Well, yeah, during that time, we
- 53:09had some people. We were, we were so close, the
- 53:12senior leaders of our organization at that point, we
- 53:14were so close that I think we did that for each other.
- 53:18Each one of us would crash at one point or another.
- 53:20You know, I'm I'm an Irish standard, you know, quiet blue
- 53:23light special that came out, you know, so but so I was, but I
- 53:26would, you know, the emotional side of things.
- 53:28I guess what I drew from this was that this is what I got to
- 53:31do. This is our people.
- 53:33And they're hurting and sucking up Sean.
- 53:36And, you know, I cry at night. My wife and I would talk and I
- 53:40mean, I had a friend and stuff I could talk to, but you know, it
- 53:42was it suck it up. We got to get this done.
- 53:44Someone's got to. And I'm not going to solve the
- 53:47world and solve COVID, but I can just maybe give a little light
- 53:51to someone who's really hurt. And I call the GM, they were
- 53:54working. Every GM got hurt from me on a
- 53:56regular basis because they would, they basically they, they
- 53:59were still on full time and they were protecting their hotels,
- 54:02you know, flushing the toilets every day, running the water
- 54:03every day and, you know, walking around.
- 54:06So, you know, I, it was, it was crazy.
- 54:10And, and I, you know, I had my moments where I wasn't, but it
- 54:14was mostly private moments And, and that was, and I think that's
- 54:18OK. You know, I mean, you can only
- 54:21go on for so long. And, and I'm an optimistic guy
- 54:23too. And I keep saying it's going to
- 54:24get better, It's going to get better.
- 54:25So, you know, when I wasn't getting better, I'm like, oh
- 54:27man. But so we and, and I kept going
- 54:32back to the resilience of the people that we're working with,
- 54:34whether it be the brands or whether it be our leaders or
- 54:36their associates. And, and then when we started
- 54:38opening up again, I mean, we, it's still, we open up.
- 54:41But if no one's going to travel, what are you going to do?
- 54:43And you know, we, we basically said we can get down to 10%
- 54:46occupancy. And then at that point we have
- 54:48to shut down. We're going to be eating up.
- 54:50We can, we can cover it down to 10% occupancy.
- 54:53I mean, we're going to cut back, but not.
- 54:56So we set a set point of where we knew that we could or
- 54:58couldn't. And then it was just eating up
- 55:00money. You know, we're, we're not
- 55:02fortunately. And the other, the other nice
- 55:03thing about this was we, it goes back to the relationships that
- 55:07we've formed. And I don't think I've talked
- 55:08about relationships, but that's where I am.
- 55:10If you want to know how I get to where I'm, it's relationships.
- 55:13I was able to, I care about people and I build
- 55:17relationships. And so let's talk our bankers.
- 55:20He said, we don't know what to do.
- 55:21And they said, what do you need? And they give us interest only
- 55:25or they'd say, we'll talk in six months, we won't pay anything.
- 55:29We'll put it on the other end of the loan.
- 55:32We had people that gave us partial release.
- 55:34We had vendors who said, what do you need?
- 55:36Well, we'll not charge you for this.
- 55:38We're going to give you half of this.
- 55:39We know we have a regular fee, but we won't charge you for
- 55:41that. And so it, it kind of also said
- 55:46that we, we and maybe everybody had that, I don't know.
- 55:49But we realized that the vendors and the people we work with, our
- 55:52partners, our bankers, our owners, all of us really kid and
- 55:57they helped us through it. So I think it it this to me, it
- 56:00was the silver lining is I learned so many positive things
- 56:03about our company and our relationships with people.
- 56:07And it was just, it was amazing. So yes, it was tough, but what I
- 56:10take out of it is like, wow, could have been a lot tougher if
- 56:13we didn't have great relationships.
- 56:16How do you think about developing those relationships?
- 56:20Well, that's, that's one of my plans and my, my, this thing
- 56:24Sean always does. And my transition is like, I got
- 56:27to figure that one out to me. I think people go in to relate.
- 56:31A lot of people go into relationships, say, what am I
- 56:33going to get out of this? I'm going to go in there and
- 56:35serve on the Marriott board. I'm on two boards with Marriott
- 56:37and two with Hilton. I'm not there to because I want
- 56:40to get something. You know, I'm there because I
- 56:42want to contribute. I think we have a message that
- 56:44can assist Hilton or Marriott get better for everybody.
- 56:49And then in turn, we're going to get something because they're
- 56:51going to get better for everybody.
- 56:53And yes, I formed their friendships and relationships.
- 56:55But if you keep going back and you keep treat treating people
- 56:58correctly and caring about the people, you know, the fact that
- 57:02Lauren, my buddy from Mario and his wife and his and his kids
- 57:05and he just, I just saw on Facebook his kid get, you know,
- 57:08just graduated from college. And those are the kinds of
- 57:10things that people want to hear that.
- 57:12And that's the friendships in the relationship you get.
- 57:14So then when you call and say, look, I'm kind of in a mess
- 57:17here. I don't know how to deal with
- 57:18this. And they say, what do you need?
- 57:19It's the same thing, but you got to invest in that.
- 57:22You've got to invest in that. You know, it's like an, an
- 57:24emotional bank account. You got to invest in the people
- 57:28and you keep investing and keep investing.
- 57:29And sometime it's going to come back.
- 57:30Sometimes it won't. And that's OK.
- 57:32But you feel good about making someone feel good.
- 57:35And I, I do and, and sometimes that pays off.
- 57:38You know, you got someone you can call when you, and it's not
- 57:40like I'm calling for favors. Sometimes I feel guilty calling
- 57:42for favors because they're my friends.
- 57:44But I'm saying, hey, we're in a situation, what do you think we
- 57:46should do? And they'll come up with an
- 57:48answer that may be helpful to us.
- 57:50But it was, it was the investment we made for 20 years
- 57:53as a company into these brands, into the friendships and into
- 57:56the, you know, the meetings we had in COVID.
- 57:58I mean, shoot, I was on 2/2 Hilton and two Marriott meetings
- 58:01a day. That was an investment in our
- 58:04relationship and it was appreciated.
- 58:07But you didn't go into it with what it can I extract from this.
- 58:11You went into it with what can I add to this and how can I
- 58:15connect with this person on a human level?
- 58:17Yeah, I guess I do get stuff out of it, but it's a new friend.
- 58:21I get a new friend and I get a new relationship and I get the
- 58:25joy of knowing that maybe I've done something that's helped
- 58:28someone And I that's probably sounds all, you know, touchy
- 58:31feely and all that stuff. But I truly do.
- 58:33I get it. I really get excited about that
- 58:35stuff when I, I can, I can call up somebody that you know, that
- 58:40they're hurt and I can call up and say something to it and you
- 58:43know, I can't, I don't say that I'm doing it for me, but it's as
- 58:46much for me as it is for them. You know, that that I can give
- 58:49to them and then all of a sudden they just, it really matters to
- 58:51them. Then I feel good about myself.
- 58:53So it's it, it wasn't done because I want to feel good
- 58:55about myself. It was done because I care about
- 58:56them. But when it comes back to me,
- 58:58it's like, wow, that's pretty cool.
- 59:00That's a nice return on investment there, isn't it?
- 59:02Yeah. Sean, I've just got one more
- 59:04question for you today. But before I ask it, I want to
- 59:06do 3 quick things. First of all, anybody who wants
- 59:08to get in touch with Main Course Hospitality Group, their
- 59:12websites really easy, just 4 letters, mchg.com, Main Course
- 59:17Hospitality Group. So mchg.com and their phone
- 59:21number. Is 207-865-6105.
- 59:27All right, give it to us one more.
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- 59:42out to us at adbackbenefits.com. Finally, if you will take just a
- 59:46moment to leave us a comment or a review on your favorite
- 59:49podcast app, you'll hold a special place in my heart
- 59:51forever. Thank you so much.
- 59:53OK, so last question for you now, Sean, a year from now, you
- 59:57are celebrating something big. What's that big thing you hope
- 1:00:00to be celebrating one year from today?
- 1:00:03You know, for me and that that's a good timing for me and my role
- 1:00:06and where I'm doing. You know, I want to come back
- 1:00:09and I want to celebrate how we've infused and we infused
- 1:00:12culture deeper in our organization and that we're
- 1:00:17inspiring our culture to be deeper and not, not just Sean
- 1:00:20and not just our senior leaders with this transition that I'm
- 1:00:24going through. That to me is very, very
- 1:00:26important because this is my legacy.
- 1:00:28So the celebration for me would be, I'm going to, I'm going to
- 1:00:32sit back and watch and watch it grow and watch how it's taken
- 1:00:35off to the next level. I'm not that.
- 1:00:37I'm not the driver of this. I'm a part of it.
- 1:00:39And it'd be really exciting for me to celebrate them when the
- 1:00:43culture gets even better. Sean Riley from Main Course
- 1:00:48Hospitality Group, I want to be the first to thank you for
- 1:00:50sharing both your time and your story with us today.
- 1:00:53I really appreciate it. Thank you.
- 1:00:55And you know, thank you for sending this kind of message.
- 1:00:57I think, you know, we need these kind of things in the world.
- 1:01:00It doesn't matter what I mean, the things I said, it happens to
- 1:01:02be a hotel, but it could be widgets, it could be
- 1:01:04restaurants, it could be anything.
- 1:01:05And so when people like you do a podcast and sends goods
- 1:01:10messages, you're helping, you're helping the country.
- 1:01:13You're you're positively impacting lives.
- 1:01:15And thank you. I appreciate those kind words,
- 1:01:17Sean. Folks, that's a wrap on another
- 1:01:19episode of the Inspired Stories podcast.
- 1:01:21Thanks for learning with us today.