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- 0:00Well, hello there and welcome to Create The Best Me, the show dedicated to empowering and inspiring you on your journey to a healthier and more vibrant self.
- 0:21I am your host, Carmen Hecox, and today's episode, we'll delve into a topic that resonates with many of us.
- 0:28Skin changes during premenopause, menopause, and postmenopause.
- 0:34We are incredibly fortunate to have with us Dr.
- 0:38Mary Alice Mina, a Harvard trained, double board certified dermatologist and dermatologic surgeon.
- 0:46Dr.
- 0:47Mina is not only a leading expert in skin and healthcare, but also a passionate advocate for holistic and preventative approach to skin aesthetics.
- 0:59With over 15 years of clinical experience, she co-owns Balcom and Mina Derma Surgery in Atlanta, Georgia, and the host of the Skin Real podcast, offering real skin guidance by a true skin expert.
- 1:17In our conversation today, Dr.
- 1:18Mina shares her profound insights on the intricate ways our face and skin changes during the stage of premenopause, menopause, and postmenopause.
- 1:30We'll explore the underlying causes of these changes and discuss practical, effective strategies for aging gracefully.
- 1:39Dr.
- 1:39Mina emphasizes the importance of tailored skincare and lifestyle choices that not only enhance our outer appearance, but also nurture our overall well-being.
- 1:51So whether you're approaching these life stages, currently experienced them, or simply interested in understanding the journey of skin health better, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom and guidance.
- 2:05Now, let's dive into the enlightening conversation with Dr.
- 2:09Mary Alice Mina.
- 2:11Dr.
- 2:12Mary Alice Mina, welcome to Create The Best Me.
- 2:17Thank you so much.
- 2:17I'm thrilled to be here.
- 2:19So for some of the people that do not know who you are, could you please tell the viewers a little bit about yourself and your podcast?
- 2:29Yeah, absolutely.
- 2:31So I am a double board certified dermatologist, and I also am a dermatologic surgeon, which is a mouthful to say, but it means that I do a lot of surgery and procedures and one of the surgeries that I do a lot of is skin cancer removal with mohs surgery.
- 2:48And I've been in practice about a little over eleven years at this point and I love seeing patients.
- 2:55I love what I do.
- 2:56But what I realize is that there's a lot of confusion out there in regards to skin care and how to take care of your skin.
- 3:04And I'm also in my mid 40s.
- 3:06And so I'm noticing a lot of my friends as well as myself, we're noticing changes in our skin.
- 3:13And a lot of people are coming up to me saying, What's going on?
- 3:16Am I going crazy?
- 3:18Is this real?
- 3:19What's happening?
- 3:20And I just have really taken an interest in delving into what is going on with our skin.
- 3:27And I figured that if I've got questions, I know people have questions out there.
- 3:31So I created a podcast where I answer a lot of questions that my patients, my friends, that I have myself for a larger audience, because I realized my time in the clinic is limited and I can reach a much wider audience through my podcast.
- 3:48And thank you so much for doing that because I know that a lot of times I find cause my skin is changing like it seems every day.
- 3:56And I find that I'm searching through blog posts and stuff, trying to find answers, and you're going to get all kinds of answers, but I love that you're an expert.
- 4:06And so the information that you are providing is based on medical information.
- 4:12Yeah, absolutely.
- 4:14That's the whole point.
- 4:15So the podcast is called The Skin Real and I always laugh because people ask me how to spell real and it's just because this day and age right with so many reels, R E L, but it's real as in real information.
- 4:28R E A L.
- 4:29And that's really my goal.
- 4:31I really want to just put really good information out there.
- 4:34Like you have a dermatologist best friend who is telling you, hey, don't worry about that.
- 4:40That's a waste of money.
- 4:41You don't need this or try this or you should be doing that or this is helpful.
- 4:46This is bogus cause there's so much out there.
- 4:49It's overwhelming.
- 4:50It's hard to know what's true, what's not, what works, what doesn't.
- 4:54And you can really go down this rabbit hole.
- 4:57And I think you can also start to feel really bad about yourself when you're not getting the results.
- 5:03You spend a lot of money.
- 5:04It's frustrating and so hopefully my podcast just gives people some good solid information.
- 5:11And of course, it's not going to be a complete substitute for medical care, but I would encourage you to use it to help educate yourself.
- 5:19That way when you do go see someone or you are looking at a procedure or aesthetics or seeing a dermatologist, you have that background education.
- 5:29Great.
- 5:30Can you explain the typical skin changes that start to happen for women who are pre-menopause, menopause, and post-menopause?
- 5:39Yeah.
- 5:39So this is huge.
- 5:42And I love that we're finally talking about this.
- 5:44I don't think I had any education on this in my residency training.
- 5:49And I know even my friends who are OBGYNs, There's so much focus on, earlier in our lives, our reproductive lives.
- 5:57And then it's nothing afterwards.
- 5:59But I'm so glad to see that changing because as women in your mid forties, fifties, sixties, seventies, and beyond, we are going to be spending a lot of time in this perimenopausal and postmenopausal state.
- 6:14And so we need to understand our skin, what's going on.
- 6:17It's not good enough just to say, live with it.
- 6:20It's natural.
- 6:21It's nature.
- 6:22Just deal with it.
- 6:23I think we're finally saying, no, that's not acceptable.
- 6:26I'm not willing to live a third of my life, a fifth of my life suffering or having these symptoms.
- 6:32So a lot of things happen as some of your listeners might know firsthand during menopause and your skin is no exception, right?
- 6:41So your skin is going to see the effects of that estrogen depletion, that progesterone depletion, and there's also an imbalance between your testosterone and your estrogen.
- 6:54And so you get skin changes like acne with that.
- 6:58So I would say the most common thing that women notice probably starting in their mid forties, fifties, and certainly once menopause hits you will notice a drastic drop in your collagen.
- 7:10And how this will make you feel is that you will wake up and think, my face is falling, I am melting.
- 7:17What happened?
- 7:18And you're not going crazy because it really can be that drastic.
- 7:22You can lose 30 percent of your collagen the first five years after menopause.
- 7:27So that's huge.
- 7:28And you're losing it incrementally before that as well.
- 7:33So collagen loss, that's a big one, right?
- 7:35You feel like your skin is sagging.
- 7:38It's really dry.
- 7:40It's no longer plump and vibrant.
- 7:43You don't have the light, reflecting off of it.
- 7:45It just seems dull.
- 7:47And that's because your skin is also dehydrated.
- 7:49It's hard to hold on to fluid.
- 7:52Your hyaluronic acid is not as plump and that's one of the big things that helps us hold on to moisture.
- 7:58So those are kind of the big things that people notice.
- 8:02You also have things like bone resorption.
- 8:04So our jaw actually starts to recede and so you may notice that you used to have a nice jaw line or a chin and now you don't.
- 8:13Now you have jowls.
- 8:15And, in dermatology, we talk about this sort of triangle of the face where when we're younger, and if you look at younger people, you'll see this, or kids, they're wider across their cheeks, and then it points down to their chin.
- 8:28However, as we age, that triangle gets reversed.
- 8:32So now we've got the wider part down at our chin and the point higher up.
- 8:37And so that's why we feel like we've got that heaviness around our lower face.
- 8:41So you're not crazy if you're feeling this, if you're seeing these changes, they're real and, it's happening.
- 8:48But the good news is there are things that can be done.
- 8:51And I think the first step is just acknowledging it and acknowledging that this is what happens.
- 8:57You're not alone.
- 8:57This is pretty universal.
- 9:00So tell me, what can we do to slow down the depletion of collagen?
- 9:05Yeah.
- 9:06So that's the question, right?
- 9:08And there's not necessarily like one thing you do this, you're never going to lose your collagen.
- 9:13Cause again, this is nature.
- 9:15It is natural.
- 9:16And I always joke, like it's hard to fight mother nature.
- 9:20She is incredibly powerful.
- 9:22But I would say we should try to reframe aging as not trying to fight it, not trying to completely necessarily reverse it.
- 9:30Although I guess that may be in the pike, right?
- 9:33But how can we be the healthiest we can be for as long as possible?
- 9:39So how can we keep our skin as healthy as possible?
- 9:42And I really think little things along the way are going to make the most impactful difference.
- 9:48So if you're listening and you're in your twenties, that is great, but not all is lost.
- 9:54If you're listening in your fifties and you're thinking, I haven't done any of these things, but I would say number one is to take care of your body.
- 10:02Make sure that you are eating a balanced diet.
- 10:06I find a lot of women really restrict their diet or they yo yo, with their weight and that can really cause havoc, not only with your skin tightness, but also your hair.
- 10:17So being healthy from within, and we can, do a whole episode on that.
- 10:21But I know you're probably like, give me some skin wrecks, right?
- 10:26One of my favorite, and I would say it's simple doesn't mean it's easy, but sun damage is such an accelerator of aging.
- 10:36I look at people or I look at, societies and countries where some protection is really valued.
- 10:43And if I see a patient from there, I noticed their skin is beautiful.
- 10:48They have protected it from the sun.
- 10:50It's just what their community does.
- 10:52It's not looked at as weird or obsessive or anything like that.
- 10:57They wear sunscreen, they use umbrellas, they seek shade and their skin shows, it really does.
- 11:03So sun protection I can't emphasize it enough.
- 11:08And I would say you can even see it on your own body.
- 11:11I can see the tops of my hands have not been as sun protected as my face.
- 11:16I can see that, my arms have not been as sun protected as my face.
- 11:21A lot of times people can see their stomach.
- 11:23How does the skin on your stomach look compared to the rest of your face?
- 11:27If it's, kind of wrinkle free and thicker than the rest of your skin.
- 11:31It's probably because it's been protected from the sun more than other parts of your body.
- 11:35So that's a huge one.
- 11:37And, smoking is another big one.
- 11:39So this is cigarettes, e-cigarettes, marijuana, all of that can really restrict your blood vessels and cause a lot of damage.
- 11:47It's really hard to have nice skin when you do smoke.
- 11:52So those are two big things that if you can just, knock those out and if that's all you do, you can have beautiful skin as you age.
- 12:01So those are two big ones.
- 12:03We can go through a whole different things on like topicals and devices and stuff like that.
- 12:08I don't know how far you want me to take it.
- 12:11I've always heard that, for example, you were talking about, consumption.
- 12:14I've also heard that alcohol can also impact your skin.
- 12:18Yes.
- 12:19So I think there is multifactorial.
- 12:21And again, if we look at aging as not something to be fought or reversed, we're not trying to remove every line possible.
- 12:29We're not trying to necessarily look like we did at 20.
- 12:32We're trying to take the best care of our body so that we, look, as good as we feel and that we feel good.
- 12:39So you are so right.
- 12:40Alcohol by drinking a lot excessively, it also impacts your sleep.
- 12:45And that's another big factor in people who actually they even showed studies like higher mortality and people who do more night shift jobs because it does wreak such havoc on your body when your sleep cycle is out of whack.
- 12:59And I know that's one of the unfortunately one of the problems.
- 13:03with menopause is that it's hard to get a good night's sleep It's hard to get a lot of rest, but If you can limit your alcohol now there's mediterranean diet that I actually think is a great diet.
- 13:15They do recommend a glass of red wine a night is actually not harmful.
- 13:20So I think again, in moderation, if you enjoy a glass of wine, have a glass of wine, but don't have three, don't have five, and don't do that consistently because, it is going to affect your skin.
- 13:33It's going to affect your sleep and it's going to affect more than your skin, right?
- 13:37It's going to affect your whole body.
- 13:38So that's a great point.
- 13:39What can we, other than consumption and practicing being healthy, exercising and stuff like that.
- 13:46What type of topicals can we use to, just slowly get older.
- 13:51Yeah, no, absolutely.
- 13:52I'm right there with you.
- 13:54I think universally loved is a vitamin A cream called Tretinoin is the prescription.
- 14:00Or, retinoid.
- 14:02I was going to say retinal.
- 14:03A retinol or a retinoid.
- 14:05Retinoid is the prescription strength one so it's a stronger vitamin A cream.
- 14:09A retinol are the over the counter products.
- 14:12If you can start this and you can start it early, it will be, I say it's the biggest bang for your buck because it's relatively affordable.
- 14:21You don't need a lot of it.
- 14:23If you start putting that on your skin, your neck, top of your hands, if you start doing that consistently, especially early on or before even menopause, if you can, you are going to see those changes.
- 14:35It is such a powerful collagen booster.
- 14:39The problem is it's slow to work and it's slow to see the benefits and it can be irritating.
- 14:45It can be drying.
- 14:47So a lot of times people will quit before they really see the benefits.
- 14:51So, starting on one of those is a great way to really boost your collagen.
- 14:56You will see the difference, but I say it's like weight loss you have to do it consistently.
- 15:01And you're not going to notice the results overnight.
- 15:04It's going to take about six months before you see those changes.
- 15:07But I think getting on board with one of those is a great way to boost your collagen.
- 15:13I think doing a vitamin C serum in the morning is a great way to also brighten your skin to fight some of the, free radicals from sun damage.
- 15:23So that's in my regimen as well.
- 15:26Along with sunscreen and a moisturizer, because I am noticing as I'm in my forties now, my skin is drier.
- 15:33I used to have very oily skin and I kind of joke.
- 15:36I had the what is it glazed donut skin before it was popular.
- 15:40And I just called it acne.
- 15:42But, doing those, the vitamin C serum, sunscreen and a moisturizer, and then at night doing your vitamin A cream that really can be, it if you want.
- 15:53And that's actually my routine exactly, but those are super powerful, but it's playing the long game.
- 16:00It's slow changes, but you will see the benefits.
- 16:03Do you find that as women get older that we need to change our moisturizer because our moisturizer is just not doing it anymore?
- 16:11Yep, absolutely.
- 16:13So as you hit menopause and beyond, your skin does not retain moisture as well.
- 16:18You may also find that you're just dehydrated more in general.
- 16:22So making sure you're getting about two liters of water even a day is really recommended, especially more if you're sweating, exercising a lot.
- 16:30But staying hydrated, and then you probably are going to need to adjust your moisturizer.
- 16:36So just like you might in the winter months when it's colder, you might get a thicker, heavier moisturizer.
- 16:42You will want to do that as well if your skin is drier.
- 16:45So instead of a thin lotion, you may, want to look for something that's a little thicker, a little creamier, that will hold on to the moisture that you do have.
- 16:55What about, I know you say that, put sunscreen on, and I know I always put sunscreen on before I put my makeup on, but then there's sometimes where I'm like, oh, I'm, the sunscreen said that it was only good for two hours.
- 17:07I need to reapply, but I have makeup on.
- 17:09Yeah.
- 17:09What do you do in that situation?
- 17:11Cause I have seen some of my girlfriends have this powder.
- 17:13It's almost like a translucent powder type of sunscreen.
- 17:17Well, unfortunately that I think is okay on top of sunscreen, but yes, this is a quandary for people.
- 17:25And what I would say is my goal as a dermatologist would be to get your skin looking amazing so that you don't have to wear foundation.
- 17:32But I know for a lot of people, they're like, I want it.
- 17:35I like it.
- 17:36But I have that same issue too, right?
- 17:37I wear my sunscreen in the morning, I'm in an office, I'm not by windows, and then in the summertime I go home and it's still sunny out and I may go outside for a little bit.
- 17:46So, you really do need to reapply if you're going to be outside.
- 17:49I will put it on my arms, my hands.
- 17:52I love a hat because I'm like you, I don't necessarily want to smear my face with makeup or smear it with sunscreen, at the end of a day or if I'm sweaty and hot.
- 18:02And so I think if you really don't want to do that, get a hat.
- 18:05And I love hats.
- 18:07I don't care what I look like in it because it works so well.
- 18:11I don't have to put sunscreen on top of my makeup.
- 18:15I don't have to worry about not rubbing it in certain locations.
- 18:18So if you do know you're going to be outside, you're going on a walk, you're at a game, whatever.
- 18:23Wear a hat, otherwise you do have to reapply because the powder unfortunately is not enough.
- 18:28I know that sometimes, for example, we go to Hawaii a lot.
- 18:31We go to Hawaii like maybe four times a year, and I am under this monster umbrella, and I am under a monster hat, and I go back into my room, and my face is burned, and my husband makes fun of me.
- 18:43He's you put sunscreen on, you were under all this, and you're still burning.
- 18:47Why?
- 18:47Well, I would make sure your hat is totally opaque nothing is coming through.
- 18:53Make sure it's a hat that has like a UPF, which is the sunscreen rating for clothing.
- 18:58So a UPF of 50 or higher will block out 99 percent of the rays, water reflects back.
- 19:05So if you're on a raft or kayaking or whatever, the water is going to reflect it back.
- 19:10Make sure you reapply.
- 19:11And I don't know if you really are burned.
- 19:13You say you are, or maybe you're red or flushed.
- 19:16It's hard to say, but if you are using like a SPF 30 or higher, you're reapplying every two hours and you have a UPF hat on or, a umbrella with a shade that we know has a UPF factor, then you shouldn't be burning.
- 19:29But I would wonder, maybe is that shade not really blocking that much?
- 19:34Is it really, protecting you from the sun?
- 19:37Because clothing will do a little bit, but it's not a hundred percent unless it has that like UPF rating.
- 19:44I always tell my husband, I'm like, I don't know, maybe it's because I'm past menopause.
- 19:47And my skin is getting thinner.
- 19:49So I'm like a baby I'm like sensitive to light.
- 19:52So I'm catching glares from everywhere.
- 19:55Yeah, your skin is getting thinner, but I don't know if that's the reason, but I would say maybe just try to reapply, maybe use a zinc or, mineral based sunscreen.
- 20:05Cause you might be getting more UVA rays than you realize and regular sunscreen, I shouldn't say regular chemical sunscreens do a great job blocking UVB, but not always the longer wavelength, which can go through windows and it penetrates further.
- 20:21So maybe switch it up and use like a physical blocker, like zinc or titanium.
- 20:26And you talked about using like a Retin-A type of product, which I'm assuming is something that you would get at the drugstore.
- 20:34Yeah, so a retinol is the one you get at a drugstore yeah.
- 20:37Is there a particular one that might be better than the other?
- 20:40So the one I really love is the one you get from your doctor's office.
- 20:44I think they're also like online pharmacies that do it just because I feel like if you're going to do it, just do it.
- 20:50And get the prescription strength.
- 20:52You can start low, you can start slow.
- 20:54But if you really can't tolerate it or you have really sensitive skin, then try an over the counter one.
- 21:00It's not going to be as strong, but, most of the popular, dermatology companies, Neutrogena, Roc, I think La Roche Posay, they all have some variant of a retinol and I don't think one is necessarily better than the other.
- 21:14But I would say if you can get the strong one, get the prescription strength for the maximum benefit.
- 21:20And when you start using it, cause I know I have used the over the counter one and it says to use it, I think it's every other day.
- 21:28And when I've tried it, I noticed that like here, I start to see these ugly patches where, I'm dry.
- 21:35How do you get over that?
- 21:36Yeah.
- 21:37So I like to reframe it as, oh, it's working.
- 21:40It's working.
- 21:42But, joking aside, I still get dry too.
- 21:45I get dry more around my mouth, around the eyes that eyelid skin is really delicate.
- 21:50So there are a couple of ways to get around that.
- 21:52If you know you are getting dry there, first of all, just know that it's working.
- 21:56It's normal.
- 21:57Think of it like an exfoliation.
- 21:59What I would do is just skip the next time you're going to use it, whether it's the next day, take a night off or skip two nights.
- 22:06The other thing you can do is put a really thick moisturizer on the areas, you get dry.
- 22:11So you could put a little Vaseline or Aquaphor around your eyes or a very thick moisturizer.
- 22:18You can also dilute your retinol with a moisturizer.
- 22:21So some people, I think on TikTok, they call it the sandwich technique.
- 22:25You put your moisturizer on, then you put your retinol, then you follow up with more moisturizer.
- 22:30So that's a way to, still get the benefit, but dilute it a little bit.
- 22:35And I actually like that technique a lot for the neck because the neck also has very thin skin and it's definitely going to peel and get dry.
- 22:44But I tolerate a little bit of that because I'm like, you know what?
- 22:47It's working Cause I keep telling myself, cause I've tried it a couple of times.
- 22:51And when you and I first met a couple of weeks ago, I thought, you know what, I'm going to try it again.
- 22:55and I had to wear Aquaphor on my face day and night for several days to try to recover.
- 23:01In fact, my face still looks dry in certain areas because, and that was the over the counter.
- 23:06Wow.
- 23:06Make sure you're using just a tiny pea, like very tiny.
- 23:11I think sometimes people use too much as well.
- 23:13So just a tiny bit, even if you can only do it one night a week.
- 23:17Wintertime can be hard cause the weather's already a little more dry, but I would just encourage you to stick with it.
- 23:23Because your body will get used to it and you will see the benefits.
- 23:26But yeah, that's the biggest hurdle for people is the dryness.
- 23:30It's annoying, but, I would just encourage you to stick with it, maximize your moisturizer and use a tiny bit.
- 23:37What about microneedling?
- 23:38I've heard that microneedling can help promote collagen.
- 23:42Yep.
- 23:43So a lot of devices can stimulate collagen.
- 23:47And the thought is that by creating micro injuries in the skin that don't lead to scarring, it actually stimulates growth factors, wound healing, and collagen formation.
- 23:57So microneedling is one of those that can do it.
- 24:01Sometimes people will layer on PRP on top of that to really boost it.
- 24:06Devices like lasers, so whether you're doing, IPL is not a laser, but that can, or things like a fractionated laser that's going deeper into the skin can stimulate collagen.
- 24:17So, really all of them are great options.
- 24:20I like microneedling for people with more, for more preventative or very early signs of, sun damage or aging.
- 24:28And then more of a fractionated device, something a little more intense or a chemical peel for someone with a more mature, lady or person who has more maybe sun damage, more wrinkles, more laxity.
- 24:41So those are great options and I'll say one of my favorite and I'm not sponsored, but I just love this is Sculptra, or Radiesse.
- 24:49If people have heard of those are things called biostimulants.
- 24:53And what I love about Sculptra is these PLLA particles get dissolved in water.
- 24:59We inject it into the skin and it stimulates your own collagen.
- 25:04So it gives a really natural result.
- 25:07And if you can even start this before you've had a lot of that volume loss, you really can stave it off and never feel like you're having that drop or you're making that big plummet of your 30 percent collagen.
- 25:21It's lessened because you've been stimulating your own collagen all along.
- 25:25And I find it gives a really natural result.
- 25:28I think a lot of people are leery of fillers because we've overblown people over the last five, ten years.
- 25:36People look really unnatural.
- 25:38They look really fake.
- 25:39And sculpture is nice because it's your own collagen.
- 25:42So I'm a big fan of that and even, of course, you can do it whenever, but even starting it early as sort of maintenance can be very helpful as well.
- 25:52So make it look like, Sandra Bullock or, who's the other, What's her name?
- 25:56Jennifer Aniston Or like Madonna.
- 25:58I don't know about Madonna nowadays.
- 25:59I don't know.
- 26:00Oh, I thought you were talking about, yeah, the filler where you're overdone.
- 26:03But no, it helped.
- 26:03I just saw a picture of Jennifer Aniston.
- 26:05I don't know how old it was, but comparing her now to when she was in her twenties and she looks great.
- 26:09She looks so natural.
- 26:10You can tell she's older, but she looks beautiful.
- 26:13And that's really the goal.
- 26:14I'm not trying to necessarily erase every line, erase everything, but I think if we can give people even complexion, if their skin can radiate, it's okay to have a few lines or a little bit of loose skin, right?
- 26:28So I thought that comparison was great, but yeah, you don't want to look done.
- 26:32You just want to look, radiant.
- 26:34You want to look good, but you don't want to look done.
- 26:36So that's why I love Sculptra.
- 26:37And, I know a lot of people are really into collagen supplements.
- 26:40So I don't know if you have questions on that.
- 26:43But what I like about the Sculptra is that there's debate on whether they actually work for the skin and not.
- 26:49And some studies show that there is some improvement in hydration and wrinkles, fine lines.
- 26:54But what I like about the Sculpture is I know where I'm giving you the collagen because I'm placing it actually in the skin where I know it needs to go.
- 27:03So that's why I like the Sculptra or the Radiesse cause I'm actually stimulating the collagen directly into the skin where I know it needs to be.
- 27:13So, I'm not totally against collagen supplements.
- 27:16I think, more studies need to come out.
- 27:18They're expensive.
- 27:19We don't really know the dose that people should be taking.
- 27:23And, we've got some data saying that it can be helpful, but, I wouldn't hang your hat on, I'm just going to take collagen supplements and I'll be good.
- 27:31Yeah I've been taking collagen supplements for oh my goodness I want to say about three or four years.
- 27:36And I look at my legs or my arms I'm like, okay, this stuff is supposed to not only restore collagen, but it's also supposed to make your skin look healthy.
- 27:45And I'm like, I'm still dry.
- 27:47So is this stuff working?
- 27:48Yeah.
- 27:49I know, right?
- 27:50It's, I don't know if we can, it's not like we can target it.
- 27:53Okay, I want you to go to my elbow.
- 27:55I want you to go to my face.
- 27:56But, we actually even do, Sculpture off the face and other parts of the body like elbows, forearms, hands, neck, knees, areas where you can get that creeping skin just to it's like a balloon that's starting to deflate.
- 28:10Just fill it back up with that healthy collagen.
- 28:13And if it's your own collagen, even better.
- 28:16I've also heard that, stress and lifestyle factors can have a significant impact on your skin.
- 28:24Absolutely.
- 28:25So yeah, if you can just eliminate all the stress, you'll have amazing skin.
- 28:29It's that simple.
- 28:31I'm just kidding.
- 28:32But yes, stress and lifestyle for sure.
- 28:34I haven't actually read the book or watch the Netflix show about the Blue Zones, but I think that sort of shows that longevity, a lot of things affect longevity more than just going to the gym or working out.
- 28:49Well, it's sort of like a culmination of all of these things.
- 28:53Having a purpose in life, managing your stress.
- 28:56All of those things impact aging.
- 28:59And if you are not taking care of your body, you're not eating well, you're eating processed foods.
- 29:06That's another thing I didn't mention, but actually eating processed foods, refined sugars, they actually bind to your collagen and make your collagen more brittle, friable.
- 29:16And so again, trying to eat whole foods, fruits and vegetables.
- 29:21I like sweets, so I can't say I can't eliminate sweets, but having them in moderation, can really be impactful.
- 29:28And yes, stress, when we're stressed out, our cortisol levels go up.
- 29:32We have inflammation, which that raises inflammation in our bodies.
- 29:37And when our bodies are inflamed and cortisol levels are high, it's hard for us to fight infections.
- 29:43And it's hard for our body is in this fight or flight state.
- 29:47And so it's not a good place to be in, perpetually for years and years, right?
- 29:52It's something just for emergencies.
- 29:55And then, learning how to manage that stress, manage your mind.
- 29:58That's something that I've really kind of diving deep into now in my forties.
- 30:04It so much is mindset and mental.
- 30:06And I'm not saying these changes that we're seeing are all in your head, they're not.
- 30:11But how you reframe it.
- 30:13How you look at aging, all of that is going to change how you feel about yourself in your life.
- 30:20So that's super critical.
- 30:21Absolutely.
- 30:22I think another thing is like being happy, being grateful, being happy.
- 30:27Because sometimes I look at certain people, I've watched TV and they show this person, they say, oh, this person's 70 or 80 years old.
- 30:34And I look and I'm like, they don't look that age.
- 30:36And they're showcasing them because they're happy or because they're doing something that is engaging or they're giving back.
- 30:44And I just noticed that they've just seen younger looking.
- 30:48Right, yeah, focusing externally, not so much on yourself.
- 30:52Cause if you are constantly focus on yourself, picking yourself apart.
- 30:56You're going to be really miserable.
- 30:57We can all find a hundred flaws, like we could list them off right now without missing a beat.
- 31:04But can you list off all your good qualities and can you focus on the positive?
- 31:08Because, that's going to lead to a more rewarding life.
- 31:11If you're always thinking about your flaws and the negative, you're going to be pretty miserable.
- 31:15And, you're never going to be happy with even the most amazing things that I can offer you is never going to reach your expectations that you want.
- 31:24And so there's going to be that mismatch and you're constantly going to be on the search for the next thing.
- 31:29The next thing that's going to fix your life.
- 31:31And these things that we can do as dermatologists these procedures these topicals and things like that they can augment it, but they can't totally fix it, right?
- 31:41That work has to come from within and I'm just making it look pretty on the outside.
- 31:46So tell me cause I know that, there's a lot of spas that, provide, laser therapy, microneedling, even Botox.
- 31:54But I also know that dermatologists as yourself, some of them do provide these services in their facilities.
- 32:01What's the difference about getting them done through a doctor like yourself versus someone who was trained a couple of hours to do this?
- 32:10Right, well you have to think about this.
- 32:12This is a completely elective or if you're getting a cosmetic procedure, right?
- 32:15This is completely elective.
- 32:17You don't have to do it.
- 32:18It's not necessary.
- 32:19There are risks with everything that we do in life, medical procedures, right?
- 32:24Why are you going to take that risk for something totally elective?
- 32:27And a lot of times your face or how you look.
- 32:30And unfortunately, there's not a lot of regulations, every state is different.
- 32:36So there are some states like Texas where you can have absolutely zero medical knowledge and you can go watch a YouTube video and do injections.
- 32:45And the scary thing is, everyone can have complications, even the best person.
- 32:50The best, most skilled dermatologist, plastic surgeon can have complications.
- 32:54But the question is, do you know how to manage that complication?
- 32:57And I frequently in my office and throughout my training, we would see the complications because the people at these med spas and these other places, they don't know what to do when it's not cookie cutter.
- 33:10And there is an issue.
- 33:12And you can scar yourself.
- 33:14There are people who have gone blind with filler.
- 33:16There are people who just have to deal with a droopy eyebrow and eyelid for three months, which is not particularly fun or a crooked smile.
- 33:24So it can range.
- 33:25And I'm not saying those bad complications are going to happen if you go to those places.
- 33:30But it always baffles me why we search reviews on Amazon for the best towel or the best vacuum cleaner, but yet we won't necessarily do that due diligence for an elective cosmetic procedure on ourselves that could really alter the way we look and have long term side effects.
- 33:51So I think if you want the best results, you should seek the person who has the best training in that area, whatever you're looking for.
- 34:00And I know Botox sounds, so simple, right?
- 34:03Like how hard a monkey could do it.
- 34:05You just, follow the pattern that they teach you at this weekend course.
- 34:08But there are nuances to it.
- 34:10And, I just think you should go to someone who is really trained and also knows how to handle the complications.
- 34:16The other reason, I think, to see a dermatologist for your skin care needs is that this is what we do.
- 34:22We train not just on the skin, but your hair.
- 34:24We didn't even talk about how hair thins during menopause and beyond as well as your nails.
- 34:31And I find when you see a dermatologist, I don't make my money by selling products or things like that.
- 34:37Like I'm going to tell you, here's how I think you can have really healthy skin, or here's what you should be doing.
- 34:44This is going to be the most impactful.
- 34:46And I think that can save you a lot of trial and error.
- 34:49It can save you a lot of money buying stuff you don't need.
- 34:53Buying expensive things just because it looks pretty or your friend got it.
- 34:57And another thing is at this age, in life for a lot of people, skin cancers pop up.
- 35:03And so you might think that brown spot on your face is a sunspot that needs to be lasered off.
- 35:10But I have seen a woman on this middle of her face had a melanoma lasered for multiple times.
- 35:18which just allowed it to grow under the skin.
- 35:21And I just wish if she had come to see a dermatologist, we would have biopsied it and diagnosed her a lot sooner.
- 35:28So, getting in to have your skin scan, make sure you don't have anything worrisome for a skin cancer is also important as we hit our fifties or sixties, seventies and beyond.
- 35:39So I do think training matters.
- 35:41You are going to get the best results.
- 35:43And I think if you're going to research the heck out of that, Roomba vacuum cleaner, you should also research the heck out of the person who's going to be doing something to alter the way you look.
- 35:54I've been getting Botox for almost 20 years because I had suffered chronic migraines.
- 35:59I've always gone to a neurologist and they give me my Botox.
- 36:02And I remember joking with my neurologist once and I said, hey, if you have a little extra, feel free to shoot the eyes.
- 36:09And he looked at me and he says, Carmen, I don't know if you've ever looked at yourself this close, but you have a lot of little veins near your eyes.
- 36:17I'm a doctor, I'm a neurologist, I'm a surgeon.
- 36:20And he says, and I don't feel comfortable even getting near that area because I could blind you.
- 36:25And when he said that, that just scared me.
- 36:27And I thought about all these people that go to these spas that maybe they're being injected by a RN or maybe they're being injected by an esthetician or whatever, someone who took a YouTube course.
- 36:41Yeah.
- 36:41And there's not to say there's not a role for estheticians and facials or things like that make you feel good.
- 36:47But I think when we're going into the realm of injectables, devices with heat that can lead to scarring then training really does matter and another you brought up a great point.
- 36:59Don't be afraid to go to someone who tells you no.
- 37:03And a lot of these places they're out to sell you things.
- 37:06They're not going to tell you no but, you actually should thank someone who says, no, I'm not going to do that to you.
- 37:12You don't need that.
- 37:13That's not going to look right.
- 37:14That's someone who actually has your best interest at heart because they know I'm not the right person or you're not the right candidate for this.
- 37:21And, so actually if someone does tell, you might be disappointed at first, but really, I think you should thank them because they are looking out for your best interest and not just trying to sell you something.
- 37:33I feel comfortable going to see you because you're pretty and you look natural.
- 37:37So I think that if I came and I saw you, if you did any work to me, I'm probably going to come out looking like you, natural.
- 37:44Yeah, and that's another great point.
- 37:46I would say find someone you jive with, right?
- 37:48Not every dermatologist is into cosmetics either.
- 37:51And there's some that are more into surgery or into lasers and everything.
- 37:56So everyone's got their sort of area of expertise.
- 37:59But I would say, look at the person injecting you if they look overdone, they are probably also do that look to you.
- 38:07And so you want to go to someone who matches and maybe that's the look you're going for, right?
- 38:12I mean, depending on where you live and all that, there's different looks that people go for.
- 38:16But, if you're going for a very natural look, then I would seek out someone who can provide that.
- 38:23And if they look natural, chances are they're going to have that same mentality.
- 38:28And I also inject myself, I do all the things, you know, people will say, you don't look like you've had filler or Botox.
- 38:34And I was like, absolutely.
- 38:36But that's the point.
- 38:36I don't want to look like I've had it done.
- 38:38I just want to look refreshed.
- 38:40And a lot of times they feel, they're shocked like you just did, right?
- 38:43But they feel relieved, oh, okay, if you did that to you and you still look normal, then I feel better about doing it.
- 38:50But that's a great point.
- 38:51Yeah, if the person treating you doesn't have the aesthetic look you're going for, you may want to think twice about that.
- 38:58And I heard, one, dermatologist on YouTube say that steer away from microneedling that has radiofrequency when you're older because it will melt away the fat in your face and in essence, you're going to look older.
- 39:13Is that correct?
- 39:14Yeah.
- 39:15I've heard mixed things about that, too, and I don't really know what the right answer is.
- 39:19I find with some of these tightening devices, it is very user dependent.
- 39:24And so there are people who will get it done and they notice no changes whatsoever.
- 39:29And then there are people who rave about it and love it.
- 39:32So I think it depends on who is doing your treatment, how again, they're training, how many have they done?
- 39:37What's their experience level?
- 39:39But I have heard reports that when you are heating the skin, like the radio frequency microneedling, if you do it all the time and then have a facelift or a neck lift, that the heat has caused a lot more scarring and fibrosis under the skin, making it a more difficult procedure for the surgeon.
- 39:59So, that's what I've heard.
- 40:01I haven't actually seen a lot of literature or data on it, but I think because they're not totally new, but I think in the next five - ten years, we'll probably be learning a lot more about the long term effects of these.
- 40:13So again, I wouldn't be doing these devices all the time.
- 40:16Save them to when you really need them, because we don't really know what the long term side effects are going to be for heating up that skin consistently over time.
- 40:26But yeah, I have heard those and I've just heard it's makes it more difficult for, you get more scarring, harder to do surgical procedures later.
- 40:33I had this esthetician once tell me that getting injectables, fillers causes scarring under the skin layer, making it difficult if you later decide to get, a facelift, there's a lot of scar tissue under there.
- 40:47And so you're not going to have a successful facelift.
- 40:50No, not with fillers.
- 40:52I, do lower neck or necklace and lower facelifts.
- 40:55And, sometimes, or also even when I'm doing my mohs surgery, we can sometimes see the filler.
- 41:00But regular filler, no, I now maybe threads that people put under the skin could do that because you're actually leaving material in the skin.
- 41:09But, I've had patients get necklaces and they've had one in the past and so they've got scarring so it's not impossible.
- 41:16It does make it a little bit more difficult surgically to break up that scar tissue.
- 41:21But fillers, no, I don't think you need to worry about forming scar tissue with fillers.
- 41:26The main issue with fillers is that as you age too, sometimes the filler gets displaced or it can sometimes, bulge up a little bit under the eye by blocking some of your lymphatics there, and it just can leave sometimes a more stiff, unnatural look if you use too many.
- 41:45Which is why I'm really, I think the pendulum is swinging from being so overfilled, that Miss Piggy look to a more natural look.
- 41:53And that's why I really love these things like biostimulants that can just, very naturally restore your collagen without actually filling you with hyaluronic acid.
- 42:04How difficult is it to get an appointment to see a dermatologist such as yourself?
- 42:09Because I do know that you guys are far and few.
- 42:12Yeah, and unfortunately, there's not a lot of us and the number of training spots is limited And so they're I think they're about twelve thousand dermatologists in the U.
- 42:22S.
- 42:23So I know it's hard to see a dermatologist I know it's hard to get in.
- 42:26What I would advise you or listeners is just try to establish an appointment with the dermatologist even before you need one.
- 42:34Because once you're in it's a lot easier.
- 42:38It's much harder to get a new patient visit than to do a follow up.
- 42:42At least in my practice, we do everything we can to see our patients in a timely manner.
- 42:48Sometimes our schedules are pretty busy and it can be a full day.
- 42:52But I would say try to establish a relationship with a dermatologist before you think you even need one, just to have that relationship.
- 43:00Make sure you jive with them.
- 43:02What are your goals?
- 43:02Maybe you just want someone to do your skin checks?
- 43:05Or maybe you have psoriasis and you just need someone to help manage that.
- 43:09Or maybe you are wanting to think about aesthetics and pro aging or, what you can be doing now.
- 43:16Well, I can say also, if you want to find a board certified dermatologist, because there are a lot of people who imply that they're dermatologists who are not really dermatologists, but the American Academy of Dermatology has a website it's A A D dot org.
- 43:29I believe it's forward slash find hyphen, A hyphen DERM.
- 43:34You can just go to the A A D website and typing your zip code and you can find dermatologists in your area.
- 43:41But, I know it's hard.
- 43:43And again, that's why I'm doing this podcast because I know it's hard to get this kind of information.
- 43:48At least now, hopefully it's given people some information that, they don't necessarily have to go see the dermatologist to, to hear all that exactly, or it helps guide them on what they need or what they don't need.
- 43:59But, it can be hard, but, stick with it.
- 44:02Try to find someone you connect with, who understands your goals and what you're looking for.
- 44:07And, I think if you can have a relationship with your dermatologist, like your hairdresser or whoever, your massage therapist, whoever you go to, your manicurist, it will, I think just really save you in the long run, a lot of trial and error, headaches, frustration and kind of wasted time and money.
- 44:25And, we women, we get mammograms at, age 40.
- 44:29When should we start considering seeing a dermatologist to check our skin?
- 44:33Yeah, so that's a great question.
- 44:35There's not a set age like there is for breast cancer or colon screenings right at 45.
- 44:41What I would say is if you have a lot of moles, a ton of those, moles all over your body or a family history of melanoma, or a lot of sunburns, the earlier, the better.
- 44:53So even in your thirties, it's probably a good idea to see a dermatologist.
- 44:58Sometimes I'll see people and I'll say, you're good.
- 45:01I don't need to see you for another two to five years, unless something comes up.
- 45:06By the time you're in your forties, unless you've been very good about sun protection, probably a good idea to just go in, get a once over.
- 45:14If you don't have anything worrisome, a lot of times we'll say you're good for a couple of years.
- 45:20But, that's a great way to also establish that rapport, establish that relationship, help, develop some healthy skin habits.
- 45:28And, then if something does pop up, you can call them up and say, hey, this concerning spot just appeared, when can you fit me in?
- 45:35So, it really just depends on several factors, but I think by age 40, if you've never seen a dermatologist, it's probably a good time to go in and see one.
- 45:43Because I know a lot of women, they say, oh, it's just an age spot.
- 45:46I have age spots.
- 45:47I'm getting age spots.
- 45:48And so I would want to make sure that, you don't ignore it.
- 45:51Or get a second opinion, let an expert look at it.
- 45:53Yeah, absolutely.
- 45:54I'd much rather reassure you that, hey, that's totally normal.
- 45:58But actually what oftentimes happens is the spot that someone comes in concerned about is nothing, but we find something else.
- 46:05And even if the spot you're worried about is nothing, I usually will look you over anyways, cause you're there.
- 46:11And, I don't want to say all the time, but it's not uncommon to then, identify something that you hadn't even noticed that's concerning.
- 46:19So that's another reason to get seen.
- 46:21Don't worry about, what if it's nothing?
- 46:23I'm going to feel stupid.
- 46:25We would much rather reassure you.
- 46:26Those are great appointments when we can tell you everything's great and I'll see you in a couple of years.
- 46:31So when does your podcast air so that people know, hey, this is where I'm going to get my information.
- 46:37Yeah, so the Skin Reel airs every Monday.
- 46:40It's a weekly, recording that comes out and I do a mix of solo episodes and then I also have a lot of my dermatology colleagues on which is a lot of fun to, chat with them about different topics.
- 46:52And, you can go to my website The Skin Real dot.
- 46:55com, where you can find my blog, the podcast.
- 46:58And of course it's on things like Apple and Spotify and all of that.
- 47:01And, I'm also on social media at Dr.
- 47:03Mina Skin, TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, all of those.
- 47:08Great.
- 47:08Dr.
- 47:09Mina, thank you so much for coming on and sharing your insights, your expertise, and educating the women on what they can do now to just, age gracefully.
- 47:20Yeah, absolutely.
- 47:21Don't be afraid of it.
- 47:23And, I love it.
- 47:24I love your podcast and it's been a pleasure being on here, Carmen thank you.
- 47:27Alright, thank you.
- 47:28And that brings us to the end of another enriching episode of Create the Best Me.
- 47:34A heartfelt thank you to Dr.
- 47:36Mary Alice Mina for joining us today and sharing her invaluable expertise on skin care changes.
- 47:43during premenopause, menopause, and postmenopause.
- 47:48Her insights and advice are truly a guide for all of us looking to embrace this phase of life with confidence and grace.
- 47:57To our listeners, we hope this conversation has illuminated the path to understanding and caring for your skin better during these transformative years.
- 48:07Remember, aging is a natural process and embracing it with the right skincare and attitude can make all the difference.
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- 48:25Mina's information and along with today's transcript can be found at createthebestme.com.
- 48:31I am Carmen Hecox and it has been a pleasure to guide you on this journey.
- 48:36Stay tuned for our next episode, where we'll continue to explore new ways to create the best version of ourselves.
- 48:44Until then, keep dreaming big, take care of yourself, and remember, you are beautiful, strong, and capable of creating the best version of yourself.
- 48:54Thank you for watching.
- 48:56Catch you next week.
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