Latest / Wine & Audacity / 97: Wrapper's Delight - 2024
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- 0:00Speaker 1: M hm.
- 0:26Speaker 2: The dramatic, the dramatic. But I think the thing what
- 0:32Speaker 2: you were saying, Aaron, is like some people trauma bonds
- 0:35Speaker 2: are real people.
- 0:36Speaker 3: Some people you.
- 0:37Speaker 2: Can't see their worth beyond or can't see what beyond
- 0:41Speaker 2: what's in front of them at the.
- 0:42Speaker 3: Moment, or you don't want to hear, you don't want
- 0:44Speaker 3: to hear what everybody else is telling you. And they said,
- 0:47Speaker 3: and I think so.
- 0:48Speaker 4: Much as you gotta learn from only so many times
- 0:51Speaker 4: that you can tell somebody you're worth, that you deserve better,
- 0:56Speaker 4: you deserve more, And if they don't, no matter how
- 1:00Speaker 4: you say it, if they don't think it, it's nothing
- 1:02Speaker 4: that you can say to them to make them think otherwise.
- 1:05Speaker 4: We've had these issues with friends and family and all
- 1:07Speaker 4: of that before where people don't see that self worth
- 1:10Speaker 4: and stuff, and it takes something very dramatic to happen
- 1:12Speaker 4: for them to finally see.
- 1:15Speaker 2: I feel like, in a lot of ways, record myself
- 1:19Speaker 2: shut up, nigga. I feel like, in a lot of ways,
- 1:22Speaker 2: you are what you attract.
- 1:24Speaker 3: And if you feel like what I'm saying.
- 1:27Speaker 2: If you feel like you're not worth, if you don't
- 1:29Speaker 2: have that self love or that that that like the
- 1:33Speaker 2: sense of self to know that you deserve more or
- 1:35Speaker 2: deserve better than what some whatever a person decides to
- 1:39Speaker 2: bring to you. You'll accept whatever somebody shows up with
- 1:43Speaker 2: or and on the flip side of that, if you
- 1:45Speaker 2: if you meet somebody who seemingly has this shit together
- 1:49Speaker 2: and comes to you quote unquote correctly, it may be
- 1:52Speaker 2: a thing of you just self sabotaging and pushing them
- 1:54Speaker 2: away because you feel like you don't you don't deserve it.
- 1:56Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, Yeah, rock with meal U. So we having
- 2:00Speaker 3: a conversation and we're talking. We're talking about like spiritually
- 2:04Speaker 3: like spiritually cleansing and like everything. So you know, but
- 2:10Speaker 3: you feel me like for a while, you know, man,
- 2:11Speaker 3: Keta like me and Keta that dabbled into like and
- 2:14Speaker 3: of course in the crystals and you know, trying to
- 2:16Speaker 3: like just trying to clean like cleanse our like cleanse
- 2:19Speaker 3: ourselves or whatever. So she comes to like she wants
- 2:21Speaker 3: to do that, like she wants to take she wants
- 2:23Speaker 3: to take a cleansing bath, which is like you know,
- 2:25Speaker 3: you got you get herbs, you know, get some some fruits,
- 2:29Speaker 3: some some fits, some herbs and crystals, and you know
- 2:32Speaker 3: that's when you you know, your bathe these tuf and
- 2:34Speaker 3: you cleanse like you cleanse yourself of the negative energy. However,
- 2:38Speaker 3: before you do that, you also got to do work
- 2:40Speaker 3: on yourself and realize what it is that you gotta like,
- 2:42Speaker 3: what it is that you have to have to take
- 2:45Speaker 3: out or have to take out your life. Now, she says,
- 2:48Speaker 3: she want to do the ship because you know, you
- 2:50Speaker 3: got doing like full modes and all that other ship, right,
- 2:52Speaker 3: but you're still dealing with.
- 2:54Speaker 2: I did some full move man infestations last night because
- 2:56Speaker 2: that was super moon. It was hell, yes, the last
- 3:02Speaker 2: supermoon of the year. It's some good trains that's happened,
- 3:06Speaker 2: and we need to have key on Fron the strategy episode.
- 3:08Speaker 2: But it was some good trendses. I did some manifestations and.
- 3:11Speaker 3: The night Man, it's like it's it's meditations, meditations, it's
- 3:16Speaker 3: here for the it's here, I think this week, just
- 3:18Speaker 3: this whole weekend mm hmm. But she wants to do it,
- 3:23Speaker 3: but then at the same time, she doesn't want to
- 3:24Speaker 3: do she doesn't want to do the outside work beforehand,
- 3:28Speaker 3: and we're like, yo, if you don't work on yourself
- 3:30Speaker 3: before all of this show, everything that you're doing is
- 3:32Speaker 3: moved like it's not gonna work. And my issue, I
- 3:37Speaker 3: think the issue is just like watching you like watching
- 3:41Speaker 3: like watching the person still deal with the same ship,
- 3:44Speaker 3: like Brandon said, Like Brandon said about like you all
- 3:46Speaker 3: with your tract.
- 3:47Speaker 2: I think the larger thing is a lot for a
- 3:50Speaker 2: lot of people, and it's not everybody. Some people do
- 3:52Speaker 2: do the work the quote unquote the work to like
- 3:56Speaker 2: get out of their family situations with to not repeat
- 3:58Speaker 2: those same patterns. But in my opinion, a lot of
- 4:01Speaker 2: people basically repeat the patterns that they were born into.
- 4:05Speaker 2: Whether you had like teenage parents, we all know people
- 4:08Speaker 2: who had teenage had like teenage parents and they became
- 4:10Speaker 2: teenage parents. Me and Aaron, but but we Aaran, Yeah,
- 4:14Speaker 2: me and Aaron had teenage parents.
- 4:16Speaker 3: Yeah, no parent, But Aaron didn't have a baby. Was
- 4:18Speaker 3: in it's like thirties, I'm saying.
- 4:19Speaker 2: On the other hand, I made it twenty one well
- 4:22Speaker 2: before I heard.
- 4:23Speaker 4: My mother had me at sixteen one on seventeen, I believe,
- 4:26Speaker 4: and then turned my brother was a yeah, in a
- 4:27Speaker 4: couple months behind me, So eighteen, my mother had two
- 4:30Speaker 4: children already, her mother had her at sixteen.
- 4:32Speaker 2: My mother had my older brother's sister, she was seventeen
- 4:34Speaker 2: and eight. Yeah, she had her at sixteen, and then
- 4:37Speaker 2: my grandmother I think Gary was nineteen where my niece
- 4:40Speaker 2: was born.
- 4:40Speaker 3: Yeah, grandmother had my grandmother had my uncle at fifteen fifteen,
- 4:45Speaker 3: and then my great grandmother had my grandmother at around
- 4:49Speaker 3: like thirteen fifteen. Shit, I don't know about like, I
- 4:52Speaker 3: don't know about I don't know about my my great
- 4:55Speaker 3: great grandmother. But it was like, so my grandma great
- 4:59Speaker 3: grandm mother thirteen like between thirteen fifteen.
- 5:02Speaker 2: Before you finished, I thought, do you think? Welcome to
- 5:05Speaker 2: this week's episode of Wine and Audacity, the podcast. We're
- 5:08Speaker 2: doing the intro super late this week.
- 5:09Speaker 3: My band.
- 5:11Speaker 2: I am your host, Brain is a card, and I'm
- 5:13Speaker 2: joined by two of my favorite people in the world.
- 5:14Speaker 2: How you're feeling this week?
- 5:16Speaker 3: I'm cool and I'm chilling. I'm straight.
- 5:17Speaker 2: How are you feeling, brother?
- 5:19Speaker 3: I'm cool, I push hey, freshly wall skin, listening as
- 5:25Speaker 3: Correan fried chicken and I had last night Korean fried chicken.
- 5:29Speaker 1: Uh, it's called Jung jungk cap It's on.
- 5:32Speaker 3: It's on you.
- 5:33Speaker 4: Eating cats and dogs now, Jesus Christ, that's what that's
- 5:44Speaker 4: what they are President say.
- 5:46Speaker 3: It's a missus spot miss spot on on twentieth. It's
- 5:51Speaker 3: it's right across the right, across tree from the Uh.
- 5:53Speaker 3: I want to say their little apartments or whatever, but hm,
- 5:59Speaker 3: the apartments that shit?
- 6:01Speaker 1: Was that heard though? Like I was like, dang, but yeah,
- 6:06Speaker 1: I'm cool though.
- 6:07Speaker 2: That's good. That's good. That's good. So back to the
- 6:09Speaker 2: conversation we were having before I.
- 6:13Speaker 3: Was saying, you know, I was saying that. I was
- 6:16Speaker 3: saying that my great grandmother had my grandmother when she
- 6:19Speaker 3: was between thirteen fifteen. My grandmother had my uncle between
- 6:23Speaker 3: when she was fifteen, and then my uncle doesn't have
- 6:26Speaker 3: any kids. My mother had me at seventeen, and then
- 6:31Speaker 3: you got me and my brothers, like we made it
- 6:33Speaker 3: out of high school. Like we made it out of
- 6:35Speaker 3: high school before before grandkids came.
- 6:37Speaker 2: Me and my brother did too.
- 6:39Speaker 3: So it's like I think, you know, uh, you know,
- 6:41Speaker 3: we take pride in that. I mean, I don't want
- 6:43Speaker 3: to say we take pride in it, but we not
- 6:46Speaker 3: like the other family, you know, not like the other
- 6:48Speaker 3: family members that you know that was out there. But
- 6:51Speaker 3: I think that's because my mother had us, had me young.
- 6:55Speaker 3: So it's like she was on top of a nigga like, hey,
- 6:58Speaker 3: we're not doing that. We ain't doing that. We're not
- 7:02Speaker 3: doing that.
- 7:02Speaker 4: It's about breaking cycles, and some of you know in
- 7:06Speaker 4: some cases that it takes several generations to break set cycles.
- 7:11Speaker 4: I nelready told my child, you make me a grandmother
- 7:13Speaker 4: my thirties, I'm punching and you through it.
- 7:15Speaker 3: But my mother was a grandmother at thirty seven. I
- 7:18Speaker 3: think mom was.
- 7:19Speaker 4: To no, I think my sister was because my niece
- 7:23Speaker 4: is eighteen and my mom is fifty five.
- 7:25Speaker 2: So my sister was nineteen when she had ebo. My
- 7:29Speaker 2: mother was thirty thirty seven. So you know, it's like
- 7:33Speaker 2: I said, people, how can I phrase this? We a
- 7:38Speaker 2: lot of us have familial patterns and things that we
- 7:42Speaker 2: are basically going to repeat, you know, despite our best efforts.
- 7:46Speaker 3: Absolutely, but also.
- 7:47Speaker 2: In a lot of ways, it's up to us to
- 7:49Speaker 2: do the work to try to get out of as
- 7:51Speaker 2: many of those patterns as possible, because you think, like
- 7:54Speaker 2: you said, we all come from families with different structures.
- 7:58Speaker 2: People had babies super early.
- 7:59Speaker 3: Yeah, uh, and.
- 8:03Speaker 2: A lot of that ways, it just breeds a lot
- 8:05Speaker 2: or not breeds, but it causes a lot of the
- 8:07Speaker 2: same issues that happen.
- 8:08Speaker 3: Generation after generation and generation.
- 8:10Speaker 2: But you have to do the work and do the
- 8:15Speaker 2: make the effort to try to change, to improve, to
- 8:17Speaker 2: get yourself out of those things. And I think one
- 8:19Speaker 2: thing I can say about us is like black millennials,
- 8:22Speaker 2: a lot of us are And I think we've talked
- 8:24Speaker 2: about this on like the pre episode we have about
- 8:26Speaker 2: like mental health. We are self aware enough to realize
- 8:31Speaker 2: in a lot of ways that there is trauma, there
- 8:32Speaker 2: is things, There are things that we need to heal,
- 8:35Speaker 2: and we do the work to not pass that on
- 8:36Speaker 2: to our kids or until I need news, And unfortunately
- 8:41Speaker 2: you have to because I don't want to. Man shit,
- 8:43Speaker 2: I don't have kids yet, you know well well and
- 8:45Speaker 2: I will one day. But even using using you as
- 8:48Speaker 2: a prime example, and you know how you get don't
- 8:51Speaker 2: get emotional. I see the amount of work you do
- 8:55Speaker 2: when it comes to Trey. I see the fact that you,
- 8:58Speaker 2: even though you do get frustrated, you take your time
- 9:02Speaker 2: to sit and talk to him. You listen to him
- 9:05Speaker 2: when he what he brings concerns to you. And the
- 9:09Speaker 2: fact that he can cuts in front of you is
- 9:11Speaker 2: a huge thing because you know.
- 9:12Speaker 4: To an extent, if he was expressing himself but sometimes
- 9:15Speaker 4: you know my son heart the way you do. I
- 9:19Speaker 4: let him say one custo word and the niggas say
- 9:20Speaker 4: seventy seven of them.
- 9:21Speaker 2: But yeah, but we could have never done that in
- 9:23Speaker 2: front of our parents age absolutely.
- 9:25Speaker 3: Not even still, I slipped up one day and my.
- 9:30Speaker 2: Mother swung on meta.
- 9:32Speaker 3: Talk to you, but what I'm saying, but that's honestly,
- 9:36Speaker 3: I really, I really feel like that's because we I mean,
- 9:38Speaker 3: that's because we've grown up.
- 9:40Speaker 1: We grew up with it.
- 9:41Speaker 3: And then it's like, yo, we we also talk about
- 9:43Speaker 3: certain ship that we're not gonna we're not gonna do
- 9:45Speaker 3: out at our parents.
- 9:46Speaker 4: My goal was always to sorry, Ian, to cut you off,
- 9:50Speaker 4: but but my goal was always to give my son
- 9:56Speaker 4: the freedom to express himself in a respectful way, in
- 10:00Speaker 4: a way that I felt like I didn't get like
- 10:02Speaker 4: with my father. Me and my father's relationship was a
- 10:04Speaker 4: little different. So I got away with certain saying certain
- 10:07Speaker 4: things in front of him. Like if I ever get
- 10:09Speaker 4: my on here, which is my bonus mind, she'd tell
- 10:11Speaker 4: you that my father used to I used to get
- 10:15Speaker 4: away with certain saying certain shit in front of my
- 10:17Speaker 4: father because my father was trying to be the cool dad,
- 10:20Speaker 4: you know, so she I remember him saying something to
- 10:23Speaker 4: me one day about me having a filthy, fucking mouth.
- 10:25Speaker 4: I think I spoke about this before, and I think
- 10:28Speaker 4: my stomach looked at him like and I looked at
- 10:31Speaker 4: him and I said, roll, I wonder.
- 10:32Speaker 3: Where I got it from. You know he did, Yeah,
- 10:36Speaker 3: she said. She would look at my father like, mo,
- 10:38Speaker 3: you won't let her.
- 10:41Speaker 4: And it became a habit. Honestly because I grew up
- 10:44Speaker 4: around crustles. Ooh, but he became a habit. And sometimes
- 10:48Speaker 4: I didn't realize that I was saying it. So I
- 10:50Speaker 4: had to learn to be more cognizant about who I
- 10:52Speaker 4: was around, who I was in front of. I still less.
- 10:55Speaker 4: Stuff slips sometimes in front of my aunt to them and
- 10:56Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm sorry, y'all my bad.
- 10:57Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's you know, because as I got older,
- 10:59Speaker 2: I I was my mother and I had the relationship
- 11:02Speaker 2: to where I think in my early to mid twenties,
- 11:04Speaker 2: I started cussing around her. And like you said, as
- 11:06Speaker 2: long as it's like when you're expressing yourself or explaining
- 11:09Speaker 2: the situation, I didn't cuss my mother. I cussed around
- 11:12Speaker 2: my mother. Yeah, And that was the difference, and she
- 11:14Speaker 2: she welcomed the type of conversation, and I'm grateful that's
- 11:17Speaker 2: the type of relationship we had. But conversely to this day,
- 11:20Speaker 2: I refused to cuss around my mother's sisters. Hell I
- 11:23Speaker 2: let it slip a few times on Helen, and they
- 11:27Speaker 2: know me.
- 11:27Speaker 4: They know I don't mean no disrespect, or I would say,
- 11:29Speaker 4: excuse my language, I'm sorry, y'all.
- 11:31Speaker 3: When I realized, I tide it possibly my great grandmother
- 11:35Speaker 3: because I'm in the room with my mother and my grandmother.
- 11:37Speaker 3: But other than that, the rest of the family, I
- 11:41Speaker 3: can't because and it's just ain't I'm not going.
- 11:45Speaker 4: The only time I cussed around like my grandparents, like
- 11:48Speaker 4: I really to watch it, especially when my grandfather watched
- 11:50Speaker 4: my mother.
- 11:50Speaker 2: It was just a certain level of respect. Not that
- 11:52Speaker 2: I don't respect like my because my mother and my
- 11:55Speaker 2: other aunts and stuff, but with my grandparents, he was
- 11:59Speaker 2: and and.
- 12:02Speaker 4: The first time I've ever heard my grandfather say anything
- 12:04Speaker 4: remotely close to a derogatory word was the word nigga.
- 12:07Speaker 2: He was describing something and he said nigga, and I
- 12:09Speaker 2: looked at him.
- 12:10Speaker 3: Like po pop, because that's not you.
- 12:12Speaker 4: Know, what I'm used to with my grandmother. She'd let
- 12:14Speaker 4: him slip every now and again to be funny. So like,
- 12:16Speaker 4: if I'm relaying a story or something to her, I'll
- 12:19Speaker 4: excuse my language, grandmad, I'll say it.
- 12:21Speaker 2: And that's different.
- 12:23Speaker 4: But I'm not just going to be sitting there like yeah,
- 12:25Speaker 4: because this motherfucker, I'm not going to do that.
- 12:28Speaker 2: And I don't cuss around my father's siblings. Hell no,
- 12:30Speaker 2: I didn't, you know, cussing me out in creole.
- 12:33Speaker 3: Not creole cussing a different level.
- 12:38Speaker 2: I don't know what you're saying, but I know you're
- 12:39Speaker 2: tressing me.
- 12:39Speaker 4: In Yeah, I don't know what you're saying, but that
- 12:41Speaker 4: sounds a little bad, And that sounds bad.
- 12:43Speaker 3: That's to what I was saying.
- 12:44Speaker 2: And initially, I appreciate the fact that you are cognizant
- 12:49Speaker 2: of a lot of your patterns and your frustrations and things,
- 12:51Speaker 2: and it did, But you facilitate open dialogue with Trey
- 12:55Speaker 2: to where he feels comfortable talking to you about things.
- 12:59Speaker 2: And I'm proud of you for making space for him
- 13:02Speaker 2: to be himself, the nerdy kid that he is. We
- 13:06Speaker 2: joke about him a lot when he's when he's here,
- 13:08Speaker 2: but Tray's a good kid.
- 13:09Speaker 3: He is, I'm grateful for that day.
- 13:11Speaker 2: He has interests that that will take him far should
- 13:14Speaker 2: he choose to pursue.
- 13:14Speaker 3: Them, agreed.
- 13:15Speaker 2: Whereas maybe back when we were kids, our parents didn't
- 13:18Speaker 2: know how to nurture our interests.
- 13:20Speaker 4: Yeah, I always wanted to do that, because I know
- 13:23Speaker 4: I don't even remember a lot of my interests from
- 13:25Speaker 4: when I was younger. But I always explained to Trade
- 13:28Speaker 4: that you don't have to be what everybody else is.
- 13:30Speaker 4: So like I used to tell his fault, like his
- 13:31Speaker 4: father wanted him to play basketball, You wanted them to
- 13:33Speaker 4: play football.
- 13:34Speaker 2: You try to get into boxing. That's stuff that you
- 13:36Speaker 2: wanted to do.
- 13:37Speaker 4: So as parents, we have to give them that room
- 13:40Speaker 4: to express us with interest them because I'd rather my
- 13:42Speaker 4: child be in something to interest him, because when it's
- 13:45Speaker 4: an interest.
- 13:46Speaker 2: It's somewhere to make money out of their fucking interest.
- 13:48Speaker 1: Of course.
- 13:48Speaker 4: So if my son, you know, trade, likes to dance, trade,
- 13:51Speaker 4: does art, trade, you know, stuff like that. If by
- 13:53Speaker 4: something coming to me and tell me you want to
- 13:55Speaker 4: pay murals for a living, and somebody who might pay
- 13:57Speaker 4: him to pay them murals.
- 13:58Speaker 3: If he come and tell me on an audition with.
- 14:01Speaker 2: A him being an architect but he's mentioned before, and
- 14:03Speaker 2: that's why, Like I when when when I hung out
- 14:05Speaker 2: with him today we went to the bookstore, I steered him. Yeah,
- 14:08Speaker 2: we went to the manga section and anime section. Of course,
- 14:10Speaker 2: go fucking crazy and nigga blew out my damn credit card.
- 14:14Speaker 2: But I steered his ask let's go me in look
- 14:16Speaker 2: at this these architecture books. And we sat and we
- 14:18Speaker 2: had we had a quick conversation about, well, this is
- 14:19Speaker 2: what the type of building is trade. This is my
- 14:21Speaker 2: favorite type of architecture. He was like, oh, because I
- 14:23Speaker 2: like the lines and I see how you know, if
- 14:25Speaker 2: the windows like this, the light can come in and
- 14:27Speaker 2: you can see more stuff. And I wanted to engage
- 14:29Speaker 2: him at the level of his interest because that type
- 14:31Speaker 2: of nurturing at that age could take somebody so fucking hard. Again,
- 14:35Speaker 2: that's why didn't have it.
- 14:37Speaker 1: He didn't have download the simms on you.
- 14:42Speaker 3: Gotta get a new laptop because amercaphone I don't downloaded.
- 14:47Speaker 3: He could download on the PlayStation on the PS five
- 14:50Speaker 3: he got four. Oh ship my bad on his four.
- 14:53Speaker 2: But I'm gonna have to try to buy five before
- 14:55Speaker 2: these fucking terror supposedly get grant the fatal six. That's
- 14:58Speaker 2: the one bright spot about twenty twenty.
- 15:02Speaker 4: But yeah, like I do things that way because I
- 15:05Speaker 4: remember I had a conversation with somebody with another man
- 15:09Speaker 4: who's you know, a teacher or whatever, coach and all
- 15:13Speaker 4: of the other stuff, a friend of mine's spouse, and
- 15:16Speaker 4: he said to me, Seanna, you're gonna have to sit
- 15:18Speaker 4: down and say to Trey, do you feel like I
- 15:21Speaker 4: provide you a safe space and having that conversation with him,
- 15:25Speaker 4: You're gonna have to be prepared for what he may say.
- 15:28Speaker 4: And I had the conversation with him and he told
- 15:30Speaker 4: me no. When I asked him why, and he said,
- 15:32Speaker 4: because sometimes I'm afraid of how you're going to react
- 15:34Speaker 4: to something. That shit hit me in my heart. That's
- 15:36Speaker 4: what made me change up the ways that I chose
- 15:39Speaker 4: to deal with him. Yes, you can come to me
- 15:41Speaker 4: and talk to me about anything. I had a guy.
- 15:44Speaker 4: I was a happy alb when we got on the
- 15:45Speaker 4: subject about kids and stuff. And I told him how
- 15:47Speaker 4: Trey first came to me telling me about that he
- 15:49Speaker 4: had watched porn for the first time. And he was like,
- 15:52Speaker 4: your son had that conversation with you, And I was.
- 15:54Speaker 2: Like, yeah, because I said, I'd rather him come to
- 15:59Speaker 2: me and ask me question then for him to go
- 16:00Speaker 2: out in the streets she's trying to find out for
- 16:02Speaker 2: me should give him the right information or were even
- 16:04Speaker 2: worse him falling into that whole fucking red pill rabbit hole.
- 16:08Speaker 2: All these male podcasts talking about women, ain't shoulding you
- 16:11Speaker 2: need to treat your woman this way. And I'm an
- 16:12Speaker 2: alpha male and I no, I ain't. That's not the
- 16:15Speaker 2: sun I raised.
- 16:16Speaker 4: I raised my son to be respectful, but I also
- 16:19Speaker 4: raise him not to let nobody walk over top of you.
- 16:21Speaker 2: So don't think because.
- 16:22Speaker 4: My son is cool, laid back, and he an introverted,
- 16:25Speaker 4: and he a nerd, We're just not. A nerd is
- 16:28Speaker 4: not a curse word. Nerd is not a derogatory term.
- 16:30Speaker 4: I told my son name because he said somebody called him.
- 16:32Speaker 3: A nerd one day, el saying nerds make money. Hello.
- 16:35Speaker 2: Look, you may not see it, you may not see it,
- 16:38Speaker 2: but this is fucking sweet bing. Yes. The people who
- 16:42Speaker 2: are on top and runner ship in high school, that's
- 16:44Speaker 2: where they fucking peak a lot of them. That's where
- 16:46Speaker 2: they peak at baby, baby. We've been seeing it firsthand.
- 16:49Speaker 2: We've seen it firsthand, going to the twenty years.
- 16:55Speaker 3: Like a message from a class.
- 16:57Speaker 4: Ask me where I'm going. No, he's trying to. He
- 17:00Speaker 4: convinced me to go. It's gonna be like your happy hour. Okay,
- 17:02Speaker 4: well I'm gonna go to fucking happy hour where I
- 17:04Speaker 4: get free drinks and shit because I know I.
- 17:06Speaker 2: Like them people.
- 17:07Speaker 1: No, I'm not going away.
- 17:08Speaker 4: I tell you, shout out to the people who are
- 17:09Speaker 4: still fucking with from high school. But I'm not about
- 17:11Speaker 4: to pay one hundred and some dollars that come to
- 17:12Speaker 4: the around a bunch of people who I really don't
- 17:14Speaker 4: care for it, and a lot of y'all still ain't
- 17:15Speaker 4: changed your ways.
- 17:16Speaker 2: And I think the beauty of like social media and
- 17:19Speaker 2: Facebook to where we keep up with who we want
- 17:21Speaker 2: to keep up with. You maintain relationships with who you
- 17:23Speaker 2: want to maintain relationships with premise, not premise, but the
- 17:25Speaker 2: whole thing of like the high school reunion our eldest had,
- 17:29Speaker 2: is growing obsolete in a lot of ways because you
- 17:30Speaker 2: don't want to. You don't, especially when our graduating class
- 17:34Speaker 2: was almost with five hundred people. By the way, and
- 17:37Speaker 2: this this might come out that pause was on purpose.
- 17:40Speaker 2: I know if I want to put a cut in
- 17:41Speaker 2: I Can Yesterday was the twentieth anniversary of a twentieth
- 17:49Speaker 2: released anniversary of Destiny's Child's Destiny Ful phil Wow twenty years,
- 17:56Speaker 2: twenty years. It came out November fifteen, two thousand and four.
- 17:59Speaker 1: Yo, I'm leaving. I was.
- 18:02Speaker 2: I was at home like.
- 18:09Speaker 4: Yol and oh that was such a good album, lady.
- 18:19Speaker 3: Love.
- 18:22Speaker 1: That's when they actually gave Michelle like a decent like decent,
- 18:26Speaker 1: a good look.
- 18:27Speaker 2: At you, said, you're singing the bridges, all of them.
- 18:31Speaker 3: She was like, Okay, he's gotta going through your head.
- 18:35Speaker 3: You know what's bad?
- 18:37Speaker 2: Baby, Baby. I didn't have nobody to cater to you,
- 18:40Speaker 2: but I appreciate it.
- 18:42Speaker 1: What's up?
- 18:43Speaker 4: Brother, Ain't not gonna never top that fucking performance at
- 18:46Speaker 4: the BT Awards cater you that year.
- 18:47Speaker 2: She almost gave mother fucking hard to take ters. I
- 18:56Speaker 2: said that nigga was sitting there like mine, nigga.
- 19:01Speaker 3: Now your niggas, aid clown Michelle, Like it was like yo,
- 19:04Speaker 3: for real, of all the people out there, you picked,
- 19:06Speaker 3: you picked.
- 19:07Speaker 2: Magic john Magic mother fucking Johnson. He was there with
- 19:13Speaker 2: Times Howard Kelly, up there with Natalie. You picked Magic Irvin,
- 19:20Speaker 2: Magic Mother fucking John.
- 19:23Speaker 1: Baby, she probably bad.
- 19:28Speaker 2: Bobby Jones, I'm sure he was under goddamn.
- 19:32Speaker 3: Did you see the episode what was that BET Awards
- 19:34Speaker 3: that year with Sexy.
- 19:35Speaker 2: Was performing and they cut to him in the audience
- 19:36Speaker 2: and he was like.
- 19:38Speaker 4: Yes, yes, because they was all in the audience talk
- 19:40Speaker 4: and he said, I said, baby, he.
- 19:43Speaker 3: Is about to up.
- 19:44Speaker 2: Well, you know, Grace Jones is his sister. You're lying,
- 19:48Speaker 2: Grace Jones is Bobby Jones system. Yeah, he used to, but.
- 19:54Speaker 3: Bitch at seventy five baby, the thing he ain't want, No,
- 19:59Speaker 3: he didn't want them to catch him on camera rocking
- 20:01Speaker 3: and singing the words and ship nigga.
- 20:02Speaker 2: He like, maybe his sister is strange.
- 20:05Speaker 3: Okay, you know even still, I'm pretty sure if they
- 20:08Speaker 3: paid to the.
- 20:09Speaker 2: Clock idea, I would Karen Karrent, boy, you should make
- 20:21Speaker 2: a remake of this.
- 20:25Speaker 3: Jesus talk about.
- 20:26Speaker 2: Jess Pop like and like, uh damn, Kirk Franklin, be
- 20:29Speaker 2: at them.
- 20:29Speaker 3: Concer, that might be a jumper that ain't tapped. Bro
- 20:34Speaker 3: track gospel music not.
- 20:35Speaker 1: Working for Jesus.
- 20:36Speaker 4: You know what, take commercial break because I'm tired, absolutely not.
- 20:42Speaker 2: You will not fast forward me to help. That glow
- 20:44Speaker 2: really did drop that that that once Gloriala's album is
- 20:49Speaker 2: one of my five Gospel one of my favorite Gloria
- 20:55Speaker 2: They can never make me hate yet, you know it's
- 20:57Speaker 2: something when the aunties on face we're talking about some girl.
- 21:00Speaker 2: I don't listen to this new rab but that Glrilla album.
- 21:03Speaker 1: I love that.
- 21:04Speaker 2: I love you, Yeah, Gloom listen Yo, I love her.
- 21:11Speaker 2: I will fanger over her little tiny beat she saw
- 21:14Speaker 2: a door, write me down sample? Well her, I y'all know,
- 21:18Speaker 2: I despise sexy Red. I don't know what it is
- 21:21Speaker 2: about her.
- 21:21Speaker 3: She makes my ass.
- 21:22Speaker 2: I don't know what it is, but that's that song.
- 21:25Speaker 2: Even when I realized she was on it, I did
- 21:27Speaker 2: not skip that.
- 21:28Speaker 3: Album was no skin, no skip, no skip.
- 21:30Speaker 2: Wells, speaking of that, since we've been talking the trim
- 21:33Speaker 2: a lot of this damn pause, What are some of
- 21:37Speaker 2: your favorite albums from this year?
- 21:42Speaker 3: I like that E. P. L. A.
- 21:43Speaker 2: Mayor just put out.
- 21:44Speaker 4: Okay, I like there's only three songs, but I like
- 21:46Speaker 4: it because she did that sample where you want me
- 21:48Speaker 4: to go ships the Bot. Of course, Glow Glow is
- 21:52Speaker 4: my number one for the year. The Cowboy Call come
- 21:55Speaker 4: out this year. Yes, Okay, I think.
- 21:59Speaker 2: I like Cowboy called it.
- 22:01Speaker 4: There are I have some favorites. Spaghetti is my favorite
- 22:04Speaker 4: on the album His Bodyguard, that's all I like. Bodyguard
- 22:06Speaker 4: to Spaghetti is my favorite. I like sixteen Characters.
- 22:10Speaker 3: I liked it when they.
- 22:10Speaker 1: First released it.
- 22:11Speaker 3: Yeah, while everybody else told him, I like text hold him.
- 22:16Speaker 2: But it had to grow on me.
- 22:17Speaker 4: I automatically like sixteen Carriages. I don't know, it's just
- 22:19Speaker 4: had a Beyonce to me, so she shines, I love
- 22:23Speaker 4: be you, I'm remember to be High happened. I'm a
- 22:26Speaker 4: member of DC four. Get on the Bus High their
- 22:28Speaker 4: second single and all the Loves tail track.
- 22:31Speaker 2: That was my intro. Hell yeah, that was my intro
- 22:34Speaker 2: to Destiny's Child that but that came out ninety eight.
- 22:37Speaker 2: But songs like and of course I love pretty much
- 22:39Speaker 2: a lot of pretty much most of them. Okay, all
- 22:41Speaker 2: of what Beyonce does.
- 22:42Speaker 3: I can't even gonna hold you raging homosexual here.
- 22:45Speaker 1: Really not raging nigga.
- 22:52Speaker 3: But for me, I feel like I was.
- 22:55Speaker 2: She released texas hold them in sixteen Carriages. Her vocals
- 22:59Speaker 2: fits sixteen carriacteres so well and the build and the
- 23:03Speaker 2: crack like that. For me, I feel like that has
- 23:06Speaker 2: a chance to win Song of the Year or at
- 23:07Speaker 2: least Country Song of the Year. But I really enjoyed.
- 23:11Speaker 4: Uh, Like I said, spaghetti is my favorite, and I like, yeah, yeah, ya, yes,
- 23:15Speaker 4: I love you. It gives you a Austin Powers sixties
- 23:20Speaker 4: Quincy Jones type of vibe.
- 23:23Speaker 3: Hold on, what's the same sample these boots for walking?
- 23:27Speaker 3: That's what it is.
- 23:27Speaker 2: That's the same. I couldn't remember that she came on.
- 23:29Speaker 3: I was like that we walking through okay?
- 23:33Speaker 2: And I said, it shows if she ever releases the visuals,
- 23:38Speaker 2: the petty virgo that she is, she loves to troll us.
- 23:42Speaker 2: Yon say, if you ever hear this sis we need
- 23:46Speaker 2: the visuals?
- 23:47Speaker 3: Should we never get visuals from Renaissance?
- 23:49Speaker 2: To what I think she's gonna do is she's going
- 23:51Speaker 2: to release the visuals for all three projects when the
- 23:53Speaker 2: when the final Act three comes out first, Ain't nobody
- 23:57Speaker 2: say nothing in your theory? And what I think is
- 23:59Speaker 2: going to happen is, so what do you think the
- 24:01Speaker 2: next genre going to be?
- 24:02Speaker 3: The rock? It's gonna be?
- 24:03Speaker 2: Remember a few episodes back when I played, y'all a
- 24:06Speaker 2: of a lot of miles of black velvet. I think
- 24:10Speaker 2: because she she's for Halloween this year, she posted a
- 24:12Speaker 2: picture of her as just up as Betty Davis. So
- 24:15Speaker 2: I think it's gonna be that type of like Betty
- 24:17Speaker 2: Davis Prince esque type of type of rock music. She
- 24:24Speaker 2: kind of has been alluding to it with her posts,
- 24:27Speaker 2: and you know, yeah, but what was I about to say? Yeah?
- 24:32Speaker 2: I think what she's gonna do as far as the
- 24:33Speaker 2: visuals go is she's going to release the visuals all
- 24:36Speaker 2: at once for all three projects. It's gonna be like
- 24:38Speaker 2: a film, and I think the visuals are actually gonna
- 24:42Speaker 2: go backwards. So because if you ever listen to if
- 24:44Speaker 2: you have played like American Requiem or the outro to
- 24:49Speaker 2: the Cowboy Carter and you synk it up with the
- 24:52Speaker 2: first track on Renaissance, they feed perfectly right into each other.
- 24:56Speaker 2: So I think it's going to start with Act three,
- 24:59Speaker 2: the visuals, and then the story basically going through time
- 25:01Speaker 2: Act three to Act two to Act one, and but
- 25:03Speaker 2: you need the first part otherwise the visuals aren't going
- 25:06Speaker 2: to make sense. So that's I think that's why I
- 25:07Speaker 2: personally she hasn't released as like, I work at Parkwood.
- 25:11Speaker 2: She's smart. I could work at park With if you want.
- 25:13Speaker 3: Me, to be on some like be on some real ship,
- 25:17Speaker 3: like some of the best albums that I thought dropped
- 25:20Speaker 3: This Ship and Cool j Ship.
- 25:23Speaker 2: He dropped the whole album or just the song, because
- 25:25Speaker 2: I only have the song with him. Eminem it was
- 25:26Speaker 2: a I think it was.
- 25:28Speaker 1: It might have been an EP.
- 25:31Speaker 3: On me look that up because you.
- 25:32Speaker 2: Know I love me some latest love Cool Giants, so
- 25:36Speaker 2: go ahead, go ahead as well.
- 25:38Speaker 1: It wasn't really an album.
- 25:39Speaker 3: It wasn't really an album, but like for like one
- 25:42Speaker 3: week we got some great ass music from Kendrick, from
- 25:46Speaker 3: Kenjick and Drake.
- 25:49Speaker 2: Well, No, it was the whole album that it's called
- 25:51Speaker 2: The Force that came out in September.
- 25:55Speaker 3: And it's not.
- 25:55Speaker 2: So I'm guessing he's not. He's not signed to death
- 25:57Speaker 2: Jam anymore. I think he's been left Jam.
- 25:59Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 26:00Speaker 2: His last album and yeah, his last album and thirteen
- 26:02Speaker 2: wasn't on death Champ. I think his last album for
- 26:03Speaker 2: Deaf Jam was two thousand and seven. Yeah, but he
- 26:06Speaker 2: was on Death Chair for twenty his whole career almost
- 26:10Speaker 2: yeah up until Yeah, every album.
- 26:12Speaker 3: Up until restructured Death Jam.
- 26:13Speaker 2: I think that's why he left. They chased a lot
- 26:16Speaker 2: of stuff.
- 26:16Speaker 1: And that he left once jay Z became the owner.
- 26:20Speaker 2: Oh no, but jay Z became president of Death Jaman
- 26:23Speaker 2: like oh so three or who four?
- 26:25Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of them.
- 26:27Speaker 4: But he may have been on the contract had won album.
- 26:30Speaker 4: The last album came out seven years jam.
- 26:33Speaker 2: Yeah, he may have been on the contract for another album.
- 26:35Speaker 3: He fulfilled his contract and ain't go back just like
- 26:38Speaker 3: the next day, the same thing.
- 26:39Speaker 2: But I'm sorry, Aaron, we've been cutting you off. What
- 26:41Speaker 2: is what are your favorite favorite songs or albums that
- 26:44Speaker 2: that came out this year?
- 26:45Speaker 3: Like I said, but like I said, for that for
- 26:47Speaker 3: that week, all of us in the goddamn groove chat
- 26:50Speaker 3: like this nigga just dropped another one.
- 26:51Speaker 2: Oh kendrack, this nigga dropped. I think he's going to sup.
- 26:56Speaker 2: I think he's gonna win super He's gonna win Song
- 26:58Speaker 2: of the Year now.
- 26:59Speaker 3: I think the fact that he got disrespect pocked nigga,
- 27:03Speaker 3: the fact that he got he got nominated for like
- 27:06Speaker 3: multiple Grammys, just off a day night like us, and.
- 27:09Speaker 2: Then on snucking everywhere.
- 27:11Speaker 3: Then then not, let's not forget with the ship that
- 27:14Speaker 3: started it. Uh, Like that was like come on, y'all,
- 27:18Speaker 3: it was like damn.
- 27:19Speaker 2: But I want to say, for the record, Drakes started
- 27:21Speaker 2: there first no ship but something but somebody started and
- 27:25Speaker 2: then he sucked around and found out and I mean
- 27:28Speaker 2: even Jake Cole. I for have to listen to J
- 27:31Speaker 2: Cole's album and he dropped early. Sh I'm a Jake
- 27:32Speaker 2: Cole fan, and I just I just keep Honestly, I
- 27:35Speaker 2: haven't listened.
- 27:35Speaker 3: Either one, the one that he the one that he
- 27:38Speaker 3: put out then like when he just when he just
- 27:40Speaker 3: he just went straight went off.
- 27:43Speaker 2: So that was he put an album after that actually,
- 27:45Speaker 2: I think in July, but he put that I think
- 27:47Speaker 2: was that the song. Was it a full album that
- 27:49Speaker 2: he put out in response to like the Drake's death.
- 27:53Speaker 3: I don't know was that a full album I don't
- 27:55Speaker 3: get no yeah, or was it just a single no
- 27:58Speaker 3: Mike delete later it was a full Oh it's still
- 28:00Speaker 3: it's still. I saw just there's still on Spotify. Yeah, it's.
- 28:04Speaker 2: It was.
- 28:05Speaker 3: But it was like right after he put that out
- 28:07Speaker 3: and then it was like you realize, like who J Cole?
- 28:10Speaker 1: You know J Cole is J Cole.
- 28:12Speaker 3: But then he came out he was like look he
- 28:14Speaker 3: did that because you know, niggas was in his head
- 28:17Speaker 3: like yo, what you're.
- 28:17Speaker 1: Gonna do Cole what you're going to say? Cold music? Yeah,
- 28:21Speaker 1: but yeah, that was that was a good album. That
- 28:23Speaker 1: was a good one. That that was good from from start.
- 28:27Speaker 2: I listened to it. I have yeah, I mean but
- 28:29Speaker 2: I'm still up in twenty fourteen for hill Dry twenty
- 28:32Speaker 2: eight that song sing my tracks to this day and
- 28:36Speaker 2: that song came out Aldam came out ten years ago.
- 28:38Speaker 3: No, I fuck but no, I fuck with it. But
- 28:41Speaker 3: I mean but that that that shows you. I mean that,
- 28:43Speaker 3: that's how that's how good of an artist he is.
- 28:45Speaker 3: And my you know in my Painton, that's how good
- 28:47Speaker 3: of artist is. Like, yo, you still like you can
- 28:49Speaker 3: still rock the old ship? Yeah?
- 28:51Speaker 2: Absolutely, Yeah, you can bump a lot of his old stuff.
- 28:54Speaker 2: I like even Kendrick, like Pemple, Butterfly is still good.
- 28:59Speaker 3: That's my fast. It ain't free.
- 29:04Speaker 4: Why are we talking about music? We need to take
- 29:05Speaker 4: the time to before that. Can I get to my
- 29:08Speaker 4: I'm so sorry, I'm so thank you so much.
- 29:12Speaker 3: I forgot you and do yours. Yeah, I'll bad.
- 29:14Speaker 2: Yeah, sure.
- 29:18Speaker 1: You can do it.
- 29:20Speaker 3: Out of dramatics thumb sir, Yeah, yeah, Brandon such an
- 29:25Speaker 3: a cut it down, Yeah, a little more turn it down,
- 29:29Speaker 3: some more down, some more down, a little bit more.
- 29:37Speaker 3: I love it?
- 29:38Speaker 2: Okay, Oh should I turn myself down to too that much? Anyway?
- 29:42Speaker 2: So on my Instagram page, I post my favorite like fourteen,
- 29:46Speaker 2: twelve to fifteen albums every year, right because I'm extra
- 29:51Speaker 2: I so my favorite Well, no, it actually won't be
- 29:56Speaker 2: out well shit, anyway. If you see what you said,
- 29:59Speaker 2: you're gonna hear first on podcast. If you follow him Instagram,
- 30:01Speaker 2: you'll see these same albums posted at the end of
- 30:04Speaker 2: the year and in a few weeks because this is
- 30:06Speaker 2: gonna come out the first Wednesday in December. It's December. Goddamn,
- 30:10Speaker 2: it's December anyway. So my favorite albums of the year
- 30:14Speaker 2: will start on the list of Flying Lotus. His album,
- 30:17Speaker 2: his EP he dropped called spirit Box a few like
- 30:20Speaker 2: a month or two ago. It was really good. That's
- 30:22Speaker 2: one of my favorites that's been on repeat. Surr's album
- 30:25Speaker 2: Heavy came out earlier this year, is one of my favorites.
- 30:27Speaker 3: I need to go listen to that. I haven't listened
- 30:29Speaker 3: to that yet.
- 30:29Speaker 2: It's Sirr's album Let's Only Perfect. I'm not perfect, It's
- 30:37Speaker 2: only Human. This is probably my favorite song on that
- 30:39Speaker 2: whole album.
- 30:41Speaker 1: I saw it.
- 30:41Speaker 2: That's my second time seeing him live, and I'm mad
- 30:44Speaker 2: that I did not buy merch. I literally because usually
- 30:47Speaker 2: when I go to concerts, I buy merch when I
- 30:50Speaker 2: first walk in and just hold it so that when
- 30:52Speaker 2: it shows over, I can leave. But my thing was like, well,
- 30:55Speaker 2: I just stuff off his website, but they had stuff
- 30:57Speaker 2: that was specific to just the tour, and I'm mad
- 30:59Speaker 2: that I didn't. When I left it be Tims. After
- 31:01Speaker 2: I left, I was like, I should have bought a
- 31:02Speaker 2: T shirt or like a hoodie or something because it
- 31:05Speaker 2: was the tour stuff. But anyway, Sirr's album is one
- 31:08Speaker 2: of my favorites of the year. Beyonce's Cowboy Carter of course,
- 31:13Speaker 2: not my favorite album of the year, but it's it's
- 31:15Speaker 2: up there. It's a lot of good songs. Gavin Trek
- 31:20Speaker 2: diva of the people. She does like pop, disco pop
- 31:25Speaker 2: type of deal. I've loved her music for years. Shaneade Hartnett,
- 31:28Speaker 2: who is She's Thai and Irish?
- 31:31Speaker 3: I think you sent me one of her songs before
- 31:33Speaker 3: she I.
- 31:33Speaker 2: Saw her live back in September or October.
- 31:38Speaker 1: You said tie in Irish.
- 31:39Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I'm just saying something it's like, Yo,
- 31:42Speaker 3: she got a song and said something like bi Pogey
- 31:44Speaker 3: or some shit like that. I find it.
- 31:49Speaker 2: Her album Boundaries came out a few months ago. That
- 31:52Speaker 2: album was on my Favorites of the year. Crew Ang Been.
- 31:56Speaker 2: Their music is kind of like I described their music
- 31:58Speaker 2: as like if it feels like you're inside of a
- 32:01Speaker 2: lava lamp. Mm hmm, it's I'll send it to y'all.
- 32:04Speaker 2: It's real, chill. It's down tempo, like you can sit
- 32:08Speaker 2: down and just like a little bit of wine. You
- 32:13Speaker 2: watch Judge Mathews in the car. But it's good. It's good.
- 32:18Speaker 2: It's good to get in the car and just listen
- 32:20Speaker 2: to it because it's it's real. It's literally like you
- 32:23Speaker 2: feel like you're inside of a talking out.
- 32:24Speaker 3: Why you had to put that all there, Like it
- 32:30Speaker 3: could have been like, like you know, you could take it,
- 32:34Speaker 3: you could take a break from Greg.
- 32:39Speaker 2: So yeah. Kuwane beIN's album Ala Salah was dropped early
- 32:42Speaker 2: this year. It is one of my favorites. It's such
- 32:46Speaker 2: a good album, so chill. It's it's like it's a
- 32:48Speaker 2: lot of it. It's mostly instrumental, but there's a couple
- 32:51Speaker 2: couple of songs on it have vocals in it. Jerome
- 32:54Speaker 2: Thomas' album Submerged. He's black British guy tractor. I'm a
- 33:00Speaker 2: bird to assume me, but he sings really really well.
- 33:03Speaker 2: His Jerome Like I said, Joram Thomas submerged Lucky Day
- 33:07Speaker 2: Algorithm that dropped earlier this year. I listened to Lucky Day,
- 33:10Speaker 2: I heard the album. It was good. I saw Lucky
- 33:12Speaker 2: Lucky Day live for the first time this year and
- 33:14Speaker 2: that was an amazing concert. Glorrilla glorious of course. Kimbra,
- 33:20Speaker 2: Idols and Vices. No Worries this I think Anderson Park's
- 33:25Speaker 2: first supergroup No Worries albums called Wylad came out early
- 33:30Speaker 2: this year. Oh yeah, they dropped album.
- 33:34Speaker 3: It's because Yes, Load was my ship.
- 33:36Speaker 2: Yes Willow, that is a new album. You don't you
- 33:38Speaker 2: don't collect records because so I actually, accidentally, because I
- 33:43Speaker 2: was dumb ass, I bought two of them. So if
- 33:44Speaker 2: you want one, I can give you a copy of them. Okay,
- 33:48Speaker 2: that's that's your first record. Because I bought two of
- 33:50Speaker 2: them by accident, and I was like, I was like,
- 33:52Speaker 2: oh ship. I owed it off the website and then
- 33:54Speaker 2: I went somewhere and was like, oh wow, I was like,
- 33:56Speaker 2: I was like, wait, I already got this, yes, love, Yeah,
- 33:59Speaker 2: it's my favorite. So Raven Lynnae's Bird's Eye, Isaiah Huron's
- 34:04Speaker 2: I finished the lyrics later. Rachel CHINNERI, She's.
- 34:08Speaker 1: The dopest album title, but I finished the lyrics.
- 34:12Speaker 2: Yeah, I finished lyrics later. He's A he's A he's
- 34:15Speaker 2: super indie. I think he has like maybe one hundred
- 34:18Speaker 2: thousand followers or listeners on Spotify monthly. But his I've
- 34:21Speaker 2: loved his music for the past like five or so years.
- 34:25Speaker 2: A lot of the stuff I found out because of year. Yeah,
- 34:27Speaker 2: like when I get to call Brandon, Brandon puts on
- 34:29Speaker 2: stuff and I listened to a lot of a lot
- 34:32Speaker 2: of like indie alternative R and B. That's basically ninety
- 34:35Speaker 2: percent of what I listened to, and it's stuff that
- 34:38Speaker 2: you wouldn't think of. Like I mentioned, like we had
- 34:41Speaker 2: smoked Simot's Pool playing that at the top of the
- 34:44Speaker 2: episode that dropped back in November. His album More. I
- 34:49Speaker 2: didn't know his album came out until this year, and
- 34:51Speaker 2: they came out to twenty three and the album is
- 34:52Speaker 2: has no skips. But Rachel Chinner, she does like kind
- 34:56Speaker 2: of like rock pop. She's a black British girl she's
- 34:59Speaker 2: from And then her album What a Devastating turn of
- 35:02Speaker 2: events came out. Yeah that's good. And then but my
- 35:08Speaker 2: number one album. I've been bumping it since it came
- 35:12Speaker 2: out in February. WHOA Lost a Little Bit sound? Ali
- 35:18Speaker 2: X Girl with No Face. I saw her live for
- 35:20Speaker 2: the first time back in early November, and again that's like,
- 35:27Speaker 2: so ali X is like synth pop kind of sort
- 35:30Speaker 2: of she's Canadian. But this album Girl with No Face
- 35:33Speaker 2: was like, you feel like you're watching the episode of
- 35:36Speaker 2: Miami Vice. It's that like eighties like synth pop. Yeah,
- 35:40Speaker 2: that's again. I love all types of music. So yeah,
- 35:43Speaker 2: that's my That was my number one album for the year.
- 35:45Speaker 2: I've listened to the album probably the most out of
- 35:48Speaker 2: like and of course I love Paramore and Little Dragon
- 35:51Speaker 2: and you know, a whole bunch of other stuff. But yeah,
- 35:54Speaker 2: you took it back to Paramore, bro Bro, I have
- 35:57Speaker 2: all the Paramore's albums on else was like the first
- 36:00Speaker 2: person who introduced me to Paramore. I love Paramore. I
- 36:03Speaker 2: saw them live in twenty twenty two, twenty three.
- 36:06Speaker 1: I got us my friend d.
- 36:09Speaker 2: Right, so we're gonna take our first commercial break y'all
- 36:11Speaker 2: while we keep working the rest of this ship, and
- 36:13Speaker 2: we will be right back and we're back, hey, y'all.
- 36:18Speaker 2: So I'm pretty sure again, could we record this in
- 36:22Speaker 2: events and it's December when y'all hear this. We now
- 36:26Speaker 2: have a blue Sky account for wonder Pod.
- 36:29Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you know.
- 36:32Speaker 2: Twitter is in the midst of a mass exodus after
- 36:35Speaker 2: its updated terms of service. It's tutored last month. Yeah,
- 36:38Speaker 2: I just say, I just say.
- 36:39Speaker 3: Gabriell Young is a tweet screenshot of her tweet and
- 36:42Speaker 3: how she was like, I'm out.
- 36:44Speaker 2: Yeah, So I created a blue Sky account for wonder Pod.
- 36:52Speaker 2: So we are basically at Wanda Pod. Just search for
- 36:55Speaker 2: us wanting audacity the podcast on blue Sky. We will
- 36:58Speaker 2: start sharing our things that. But again, I don't I
- 37:01Speaker 2: don't foresee myself closing my Twitter account because I've had it.
- 37:04Speaker 3: For sixteen years at this point, sixteen years.
- 37:08Speaker 2: I've been I started my Twitter account May of two
- 37:09Speaker 2: thousand and eight, and I'd rather just let it sit
- 37:12Speaker 2: unused so I can go back to it. I don't
- 37:14Speaker 2: see myself because I feel like there's a chance that
- 37:17Speaker 2: Elon may end up selling Twitter or getting rid of
- 37:19Speaker 2: Twitter or doing something that's not the now that the
- 37:21Speaker 2: fucking election is over. So yeah, I'm keeping my Twitter account.
- 37:26Speaker 2: I may just transition over to using blue Sky primarily
- 37:29Speaker 2: and just let that sit so if he gets rid
- 37:30Speaker 2: of it, I can always jump back to it and say, hey, niggas,
- 37:35Speaker 2: So yeah, so yeah, Seanna, you should. I would recommend
- 37:39Speaker 2: you if, even if you don't plan to use it,
- 37:41Speaker 2: start a blue Sky account, like to say you're using name,
- 37:44Speaker 2: then just keep it so if you choose to use
- 37:46Speaker 2: it's there. But if not, you still have the same
- 37:48Speaker 2: user name across all your accounts. And somebody I know
- 37:50Speaker 2: recommended that idea for just like it just in general,
- 37:53Speaker 2: for any social account that you have. Whenever a new
- 37:56Speaker 2: service starts up, even if you don't plan on using
- 37:58Speaker 2: the account, start an account. Bookmark the username you used
- 38:03Speaker 2: for consistency across everything, so that way you have in
- 38:07Speaker 2: case you choose to use it, it's there. Nobody can
- 38:09Speaker 2: take your name. And I did that for my main account,
- 38:12Speaker 2: my card photo account, and for Wonder Parts. So we
- 38:16Speaker 2: have a Wonder pup blue Sky, and I have a
- 38:17Speaker 2: CCAR photo thing. You know, should I choose to update
- 38:20Speaker 2: on there? As well. So back to what we were saying, music, Yeah,
- 38:27Speaker 2: love music. Clearly, it's been a lot of good releases
- 38:30Speaker 2: this year. I've done gone to a lot of concerts
- 38:33Speaker 2: this year, you have. I think I've done twelve, twelve
- 38:36Speaker 2: or thirteen concerts this year.
- 38:38Speaker 3: I think the only concert I wanted to was in
- 38:41Speaker 3: my loan, was in my living room.
- 38:43Speaker 1: Concerts.
- 38:47Speaker 2: What have I been to this year?
- 38:48Speaker 3: Have I been any concerts? Was that this year?
- 38:52Speaker 2: Trying to figure out I've been?
- 38:53Speaker 1: Just went to R and B only she did bitches.
- 38:57Speaker 3: It was cool though, it was okay, yeah, okay, okay,
- 39:02Speaker 3: I'll say this.
- 39:03Speaker 2: I'll say this. I did get to see Anthony, Anthony
- 39:06Speaker 2: Hampton and Avery Sunshine back in November.
- 39:09Speaker 3: Yes, and did go see them, and I went to
- 39:11Speaker 3: something remember the was It'll come to me in.
- 39:13Speaker 2: A minute, Okay, So who did I see this show?
- 39:19Speaker 2: The R and B concert The nineties are the latest
- 39:22Speaker 2: night R and B vill genuine, I mean the R
- 39:25Speaker 2: and B. I turn to review Nigga and so this
- 39:33Speaker 2: year I saw Blile in February. I saw Kenyon Dixon
- 39:39Speaker 2: in July. That took it was a huge gap. You
- 39:42Speaker 2: sent me his album's album? Did that come up this
- 39:46Speaker 2: year because if so, thank you for reminding me, because
- 39:49Speaker 2: if so, I need to add that to my list.
- 39:51Speaker 2: I think Kenyon Dixon dropped his album in twenty three.
- 39:55Speaker 2: Oh yeah, So he dropped the R and B You
- 39:58Speaker 2: Love for the nine nine of two thousands, and it
- 40:00Speaker 2: was a it's a it's an EP. Yeah, I need,
- 40:03Speaker 2: I need to listen to it. So it was like
- 40:05Speaker 2: a part two in any event. So I saw Blaud
- 40:09Speaker 2: in February, I saw Kenyon Dixon in July. The following day,
- 40:16Speaker 2: I saw Sir at film with Silver Spring Lucky Day.
- 40:19Speaker 2: On August third, it said shitts and gigs back En.
- 40:22Speaker 2: I mean, I'm counting them because I was at a
- 40:23Speaker 2: damn venue, so shittsing gigs on August seventh.
- 40:27Speaker 3: I sure.
- 40:27Speaker 2: On August twenty third, Jordan ricay on, he did drop
- 40:33Speaker 2: an album this year? Didn't he at the Lincoln Theater
- 40:36Speaker 2: November first? He did drop? Jordan to drop an album
- 40:39Speaker 2: this year because one of my favorite songs of his
- 40:43Speaker 2: Freedom was on that album came out at the end
- 40:46Speaker 2: of the loop. Got to add it to my lists.
- 40:48Speaker 2: It's so many damn albums that came up this year.
- 40:50Speaker 2: I'm just forgetting every damn thing. Okay, but yeah, Jordan
- 40:54Speaker 2: McKay dropped The Loop this year favorite album, and I
- 40:59Speaker 2: saw him live on the first of November. And then
- 41:02Speaker 2: I saw Ali X on whatever day that was. It
- 41:09Speaker 2: was also in November, I don't remember, it's November six.
- 41:14Speaker 2: And then I saw Tenariel, the six foot tall, bodied,
- 41:21Speaker 2: beautifully brown skinned woman.
- 41:24Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she's very pretty on.
- 41:27Speaker 2: November eighteen. That was the first time I think she
- 41:29Speaker 2: just dropped her debut album and it was Oh, it
- 41:32Speaker 2: was so good and she put on such an amazing shown,
- 41:35Speaker 2: such an amazing So what.
- 41:36Speaker 4: I was about to say is, because we're talking about music,
- 41:40Speaker 4: we cannot talk about music without mentioning the legendary, legendary,
- 41:45Speaker 4: legendary Quincy Jones.
- 41:47Speaker 2: And peace to that my overall favorite musician of all time.
- 41:53Speaker 4: That man, that man is, That man was magical. He
- 41:59Speaker 4: has given us so many hits. So my question becomes,
- 42:05Speaker 4: what is your favorite Quincy Jones produced hit?
- 42:09Speaker 2: Do you have one secret Secret Garden?
- 42:13Speaker 3: I love Secret Garden. I listen.
- 42:15Speaker 2: I mean I know you can pick you can literally
- 42:17Speaker 2: pick one Quincy Jones, Jones everything that you know.
- 42:21Speaker 3: What I'm saying is, I know out of everything, like
- 42:24Speaker 3: everything that he produced, at everything he produced, I like,
- 42:27Speaker 3: I love it, but you know, it's like your depth
- 42:29Speaker 3: that will always be like that will always be like
- 42:31Speaker 3: at the top of the list. Like anybody say your favorite,
- 42:34Speaker 3: any one of your favorite I love it. Don't get
- 42:37Speaker 3: me wrong, no, no, but I'm saying it's like yo,
- 42:38Speaker 3: because but I think, I like, I think I just
- 42:41Speaker 3: like the any any any song that was is compilation
- 42:44Speaker 3: of artists because I I know his ear and I
- 42:49Speaker 3: mean you know his ear and the fact that you
- 42:51Speaker 3: he didn't like he didn't already put you know, he'd
- 42:53Speaker 3: already like picked the voices that he wanted, the voices
- 42:56Speaker 3: that he wanted, and how he wanted everything to go.
- 42:58Speaker 3: And then on top of that, how much work he
- 43:00Speaker 3: put into all of it. And then he makes that.
- 43:01Speaker 1: Ship look so effortless.
- 43:03Speaker 3: Damn sure does does, Like even even the overture from
- 43:08Speaker 3: even the overture from Hway on the Wids, Like, damn man,
- 43:13Speaker 3: you I love it because it's just that's for me,
- 43:16Speaker 3: that's the original mashup of every song that's gonna like
- 43:20Speaker 3: every song that's going to play, like every song that's
- 43:22Speaker 3: going to play each like the melody, the melody from
- 43:24Speaker 3: each song that played in that it's somewhere in that
- 43:26Speaker 3: open and like when they met, when they met the Hookers,
- 43:31Speaker 3: that was my ship too.
- 43:32Speaker 2: The yo I did not realize. I watched him the
- 43:35Speaker 2: first time I watched The Whiz as an adult, I
- 43:37Speaker 2: think in my late twenties, and I was sitting there
- 43:40Speaker 2: watching They got off the watching the movie and then
- 43:42Speaker 2: got off the subway station and they went to the
- 43:44Speaker 2: cab stand.
- 43:45Speaker 3: And I was like, the Hookers.
- 43:53Speaker 2: I literally this stopped me in my tracks and I
- 43:55Speaker 2: was confused.
- 43:55Speaker 3: I was like, they.
- 43:58Speaker 2: Prostitutes, Yep, what the hell?
- 44:01Speaker 3: And I'm like, but nah, but like on some like
- 44:06Speaker 3: on real ship, it's like any anytime. Like the first
- 44:08Speaker 3: thing that that that dude kind of mind is a
- 44:11Speaker 3: Secret Garden. And then I hated it. I hated that
- 44:15Speaker 3: he let JD make a remix to.
- 44:17Speaker 2: It the Secret when he did did he he did
- 44:20Speaker 2: a remix or remake. It was a remake of Secret
- 44:23Speaker 2: Garden with Cisco and Ship.
- 44:26Speaker 3: The one I heard it was T Paint. It was
- 44:28Speaker 3: T Paint, T Paint. I think Robbin Thick, I look cool.
- 44:31Speaker 3: J Tyers, I think I never heard that. The one
- 44:33Speaker 3: I heard had Cisco and some other folks that I
- 44:35Speaker 3: didn't and I can't.
- 44:36Speaker 4: Remember who it was exactly, but I was like, Okay,
- 44:39Speaker 4: now we're gonna go back to James Ingram And then that's.
- 44:41Speaker 3: What I grew up on. Wow, cleaning up my classroom,
- 44:45Speaker 3: I found the Thriller album. You found it?
- 44:50Speaker 2: Yeah, the copy of it?
- 44:51Speaker 3: Yeah. Like I found the actual Thriller CD in my
- 44:54Speaker 3: in my classroom and I'm sitting here like these kids,
- 44:58Speaker 3: And then I played it doing Halloween. I played on Halloween, yo,
- 45:01Speaker 3: my kid. My classes number is rock is y'all to everything?
- 45:05Speaker 3: I'm like, oh shot, I just said.
- 45:11Speaker 2: They don't put the miss The misconnection section on Craigslist
- 45:14Speaker 2: has so many gems it does. And I love Philadelphia
- 45:18Speaker 2: so oh so much. Never never changed, Philly.
- 45:20Speaker 3: Hey. Sean.
- 45:22Speaker 2: Shout out to one of our favorite listeners, Sean, thank you,
- 45:25Speaker 2: thank you for listening to us this whole time and
- 45:28Speaker 2: dealing with our foolishness. Appreciate you, Sewan so much. And
- 45:33Speaker 2: Nick shout out to Nick as well, one of our
- 45:36Speaker 2: other favorite listeners. We gotta do something for maybe when
- 45:40Speaker 2: we finally blow up and get start making special content.
- 45:44Speaker 4: And my mom, hey, min my bonus mine, we'll do
- 45:50Speaker 4: some special content file like a one day one Now
- 45:52Speaker 4: my cousin diego with.
- 45:53Speaker 2: His so would you listen? That was your favorite overall
- 45:57Speaker 2: Uzzy Jones song? Okay, what about you? Because I got
- 46:01Speaker 2: a list and I can, I can go through my
- 46:02Speaker 2: first so a lot of songs.
- 46:03Speaker 4: I didn't realize word Quincy Jones songs my favorite ish.
- 46:11Speaker 2: If I have to list a favorite, I'm gonna do
- 46:14Speaker 2: a whole list. I'm gonna do a whole list.
- 46:15Speaker 4: But if I have to put something at number one,
- 46:17Speaker 4: it's going to be a tie between Lady of my
- 46:19Speaker 4: Life and you put a move on my Heart?
- 46:23Speaker 3: You put it my Heart is one.
- 46:24Speaker 2: Of my actually, to this day, one of my absolute
- 46:27Speaker 2: favorite songs period. Baby to Mia sang that thing down?
- 46:30Speaker 1: Did you hear me?
- 46:32Speaker 2: And she still sound good and she still looked good.
- 46:34Speaker 3: I love it to me.
- 46:37Speaker 1: Lady in my Life laid back.
- 46:40Speaker 4: Hey, that's that's a night you won't forget. Don't do Michael,
- 46:46Speaker 4: don't do mine. I didn't realize that he produced a lot,
- 46:53Speaker 4: if not the whole thing, the soundtrack for Color Purple,
- 46:57Speaker 4: I did. He did songs on Color Purple. He sister
- 46:59Speaker 4: Misceli blues apparently with Quincy Jones. Yeah and now yeah,
- 47:05Speaker 4: it's something else on that soundtrack and its song.
- 47:08Speaker 2: Maybe God is trying to tell you something.
- 47:09Speaker 3: That's it, That is that any of the songs that
- 47:15Speaker 3: you liked and loved Quincy did it. Yeah, Yeah, any
- 47:18Speaker 3: of the songs that you liked to love Prince did it.
- 47:21Speaker 2: And it's so interesting. And that's one of the things
- 47:24Speaker 2: I love about music and like being a fan of music.
- 47:28Speaker 2: So many producers have their hands in so many different
- 47:31Speaker 2: pots to where you you won't discover it until years
- 47:34Speaker 2: later that that they produced or wrote or had a.
- 47:37Speaker 4: Hand because their names wasn't at the beginning of the
- 47:39Speaker 4: damn songs like now you hear Mike Will made it?
- 47:43Speaker 2: Made you knew what you made?
- 47:46Speaker 3: Did hear?
- 47:47Speaker 2: The producer calls kids? Back in the olden times, the
- 47:51Speaker 2: old the olden days, producer drops at the top of
- 47:55Speaker 2: records weren't a thing.
- 47:56Speaker 3: They weren't at all. You had to go read the.
- 48:00Speaker 4: Record out out of the CD, out of the front
- 48:02Speaker 4: of the ceaty you slide it out and you had
- 48:03Speaker 4: to open it to see who produced this. But some
- 48:06Speaker 4: people you can identify by beats like most people can
- 48:09Speaker 4: identify a Faral beat or a Swiss Beats beat or
- 48:13Speaker 4: a Timbland beat like most people can.
- 48:16Speaker 2: Id because they had consistent output and a lot of
- 48:19Speaker 2: their songs had the same. I guess DNA to where
- 48:21Speaker 2: the beat may be different. But you can hear a
- 48:23Speaker 2: Neptune's beat and though it was made by the Neptunes,
- 48:26Speaker 2: you can hear a Swiss Beats Yep. You can hear
- 48:28Speaker 2: something Swiss Beats made and know it Swiss Beats made
- 48:32Speaker 2: without a drop, even timbling and timbling.
- 48:35Speaker 3: He he.
- 48:37Speaker 2: I love the fact that he pulled stuff from soundtracks
- 48:40Speaker 2: and from commercials, and he made samples. He sampled so
- 48:43Speaker 2: much stuff and made beats out of stuff that you
- 48:45Speaker 2: would never think to use. You could tell most of
- 48:48Speaker 2: the time that Timberland had a handle, Timbland and or
- 48:51Speaker 2: Missy Elliott had a hand in producing something because they
- 48:54Speaker 2: have a like a DNA that's appearing. That's why I
- 48:57Speaker 2: love that Lame used that sample or where you want
- 49:00Speaker 2: me to go. But the reason why Quincy Jones is
- 49:09Speaker 2: one of my favorite musicians is because he started I
- 49:11Speaker 2: think he started conducting orchestras in the finteen forties and
- 49:15Speaker 2: he made music. I think up until a few years ago,
- 49:21Speaker 2: like and almost he says something on Harry Styles album. Yeah,
- 49:25Speaker 2: I think he produced music up until like in Twincy
- 49:29Speaker 2: Jones was when he passed, was like ninety three or
- 49:32Speaker 2: ninety four. I think so he he he produced music
- 49:36Speaker 2: basically seventy seventy five years.
- 49:40Speaker 3: Yeah, some man was a musical genius. Musical genius. He
- 49:45Speaker 3: is so responsible for a lot of this feel good
- 49:48Speaker 3: music that he grew up listening to you.
- 49:50Speaker 2: And I love the fact that Quincy Jones, especially for
- 49:55Speaker 2: terms of black music. And correct me if I'm wrong
- 49:57Speaker 2: music people, if you hear this, but I love the
- 50:00Speaker 2: fact that Quincy Jones. He did this in the wiz
- 50:03Speaker 2: eron he he used live orchestra and a lot of
- 50:07Speaker 2: his production record a lot of his music, even though
- 50:10Speaker 2: it may some of it may have been tinged R
- 50:12Speaker 2: and B, or may have leaned towards R and B
- 50:15Speaker 2: or darkin Tipperary music, but we consider darkin Temporary Now.
- 50:18Speaker 2: He used orchestration and a lot of things that may
- 50:21Speaker 2: not have traditionally been in R and B music or
- 50:25Speaker 2: more recent r B music, because a lot of the
- 50:27Speaker 2: funk and shit from the seventies disco into funk. A
- 50:31Speaker 2: lot of that, like early eighties, mid eighties R and
- 50:33Speaker 2: B had live bands and live instrumentation, live orchestras in it. Absolutely,
- 50:40Speaker 2: and that's why a lot of that stuff is timeless
- 50:42Speaker 2: to this day. So I'm an name. I'm gonna name
- 50:45Speaker 2: a whole bunch of my favorite quin Quincy songs. So
- 50:47Speaker 2: Just Once. I think James Ingram saying that that was
- 50:51Speaker 2: doing That was on Quincy Jones's album to Do Just Once,
- 50:54Speaker 2: on that same album, I Know Kreta, which is probably
- 50:57Speaker 2: one of my favorite, easily top five Quincy Jones songs
- 50:59Speaker 2: of all time he produced. Someone start naming just songs
- 51:02Speaker 2: that he produced that are my favorites. Stomp by the
- 51:05Speaker 2: Brothers Johnson, Don't Stop Till You Get Enough Yes by
- 51:09Speaker 2: Michael Jackson, of course, give Me the Night by George Benson,
- 51:13Speaker 2: Give Me to Night? Do you do you Love what
- 51:16Speaker 2: you Feel? A boy? Rufus and Chaka Khan didn't know
- 51:18Speaker 2: that was That's one of my favorite Chaka so I
- 51:21Speaker 2: didn't know that was sold by so Nova of course,
- 51:24Speaker 2: which a lot of people know as the theme song
- 51:26Speaker 2: to the Austin movie Austin Powers Movies. Sold by so
- 51:29Speaker 2: Nova was produced by Quincy Jones. Okay, that can't he
- 51:34Speaker 2: put that out? That came on the early sixties, but
- 51:36Speaker 2: they used it years later as the theme to the
- 51:39Speaker 2: Austin Powers movies.
- 51:41Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all gives me that that feel and she yeah.
- 51:44Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right. I mentioned I know Carrita the Secret Garden.
- 51:47Speaker 2: Of course, I'll be good to you by the Brothers
- 51:50Speaker 2: Johnson working day and night. By Michael Jackson.
- 51:52Speaker 3: I'll be good. That's that.
- 51:55Speaker 2: No, that's I'll be good. That's is that?
- 51:59Speaker 3: Oh my god? Who is that?
- 52:01Speaker 2: Angela wib Yes, that's Angela. But no, I'll be good
- 52:05Speaker 2: by the brother I'll be good to you by the
- 52:07Speaker 2: Brothers Johnson'll be good to you, good to good to you. Yeah, yeah,
- 52:14Speaker 2: that's my ship. Let's see what else. It's a lot
- 52:17Speaker 2: of Michael Jackson stuff on here. A lot of Michael
- 52:20Speaker 2: Jackson stuff.
- 52:21Speaker 3: Let me go down. I like that.
- 52:25Speaker 2: A lot of Michael Jackson on here, a lot. Oh,
- 52:27Speaker 2: and I'm gonna of course it's me. I'm gonna go
- 52:29Speaker 2: far left. You don't own me. By Leslie Gore. He
- 52:31Speaker 2: produced that. It's My Party by Leslie Gore. He produced that.
- 52:36Speaker 2: There's some of my favorite songs by Quincy Jones. I'm
- 52:38Speaker 2: going down to listen, just picking stuff that I either
- 52:41Speaker 2: he he produced. I didn't notice he produced the theme
- 52:45Speaker 2: the same for his son. Didn't know that. I didn't
- 52:49Speaker 2: did not know that.
- 52:49Speaker 3: Bern uh.
- 52:57Speaker 2: Let's see what else he produce most of the soundtrack
- 53:01Speaker 2: for The Whiz and pretty much all of them. They
- 53:03Speaker 2: added every song we Year, Oh Tomorrow featuring Tavin Campbell,
- 53:08Speaker 2: one of my favorite songs. I love that song. Yes,
- 53:10Speaker 2: that was when we first got introduced to Tavin. Yeah,
- 53:13Speaker 2: young Tavin Campbell.
- 53:14Speaker 3: Yes.
- 53:15Speaker 2: And because like like Aaron said to me, as you
- 53:17Speaker 2: put a move on my heart, like quickman, shout out
- 53:21Speaker 2: to him, shout out to a life well lived. Yes,
- 53:24Speaker 2: shout out to job well done, job well done. Take
- 53:26Speaker 2: your turn to rush you deserve it, and shout out.
- 53:29Speaker 2: I appreciate a man that speaks his mind, that says
- 53:31Speaker 2: what the fuck he wants to say. Once again, baby,
- 53:33Speaker 2: it was fucking If you have not he mentioned it,
- 53:39Speaker 2: I think it was about Marlon Brando allegedly back in
- 53:42Speaker 2: the day. Anyway, if you have not seen it yet,
- 53:45Speaker 2: I would recommend going to Netflix, and I mentioned this
- 53:47Speaker 2: a few episodes ago. Go to Netflix watch the Quincy
- 53:50Speaker 2: Jones documentary that came out think of twenty seventeen or
- 53:53Speaker 2: twenty eighteen. It's a damn good history of him in
- 53:56Speaker 2: his career and like how he produced stuff. And yeah,
- 54:01Speaker 2: like I said, rest in peace to Quincy Jones. He's
- 54:03Speaker 2: one of my favorite. He is my favorite overall musician
- 54:06Speaker 2: of all time. You know, shout out to his kids,
- 54:10Speaker 2: Noki Data, Rashida, Quincy QT three.
- 54:14Speaker 3: I think the rest of his kids kids like eighty
- 54:17Speaker 3: million a piece.
- 54:18Speaker 2: A they said there was he had. He had an
- 54:23Speaker 2: estate worth five hundred million dollars and they split it
- 54:25Speaker 2: between all his kids and they walked away I think
- 54:27Speaker 2: with eighty almost eighty million apiece. But I mean, shout
- 54:31Speaker 2: out to him, a life well lived. And like I
- 54:34Speaker 2: said before, y'all, if if you get the chance to
- 54:36Speaker 2: go see a lot of our legends, a lot of
- 54:37Speaker 2: our black legends, while they're still out, while they're still
- 54:40Speaker 2: making music, while they're still toring, or they still performing
- 54:42Speaker 2: on Broadway, go see them. Go support them, especially the
- 54:46Speaker 2: ones that we grew up watching and seeing on TV
- 54:48Speaker 2: and listening to that music. But I was about to
- 54:51Speaker 2: jump ahead, fucking ADHD go see them, Go see these
- 54:54Speaker 2: performers live. I'm still mad. Hopefully Stevie Wonder does another
- 54:59Speaker 2: tour because I would love to go see Stevie Wonder.
- 55:01Speaker 1: He tore to.
- 55:03Speaker 2: The job, gave them tickets and I was like, you
- 55:05Speaker 2: didn't call me.
- 55:06Speaker 3: She's like, it was a taco the tacos ws I
- 55:10Speaker 3: go said, She said, my feet was hurting. We ain't
- 55:13Speaker 3: sitting on the whole night. I said, baby, how bad?
- 55:16Speaker 3: I want on top of And then Barack and Michelle
- 55:20Speaker 3: escorted him on do you know.
- 55:22Speaker 2: How bad showing d C at the show here in Baltimore?
- 55:25Speaker 2: They escorted him on stage, Barrock and Michelle, I have
- 55:28Speaker 2: lost my mind?
- 55:30Speaker 3: Do you hear me?
- 55:31Speaker 1: Mind?
- 55:32Speaker 5: You all know how I feel about rocking? Michelle Sneavey
- 55:35Speaker 5: don't need no escorting. He could see that he could
- 55:37Speaker 5: see that. Let long, that's that's that's one there. I
- 55:45Speaker 5: think got some legs too. I think that man can
- 55:47Speaker 5: see he might be some cameras go off. He'd be like,
- 55:51Speaker 5: all right.
- 55:51Speaker 3: Next the words the.
- 55:53Speaker 1: Brown cot and the tweeted said.
- 55:58Speaker 3: Stevie told him he he loved seeing him.
- 56:04Speaker 2: I would have been like, but you can I don't
- 56:06Speaker 2: like you know what I appreciate that, sir. Thanks, thanks,
- 56:08Speaker 2: thanks for thanks for listening, watching listening, watching, listen it.
- 56:11Speaker 3: Okay, appreciate you.
- 56:13Speaker 1: Sorry, but yeah, go.
- 56:15Speaker 2: See these legends. Go go see go support our people,
- 56:19Speaker 2: the Patties, the the Dion's. Go see Stevie while while
- 56:23Speaker 2: you still can. I think Stevie actually was the last person,
- 56:27Speaker 2: the last og that was still signed to Motown up
- 56:30Speaker 2: until he chose to leave, maybe five or ten years ago.
- 56:34Speaker 2: But he was like from like Motown's golden eraus Barry
- 56:38Speaker 2: Gordy sold Motown I think, but in like the late
- 56:40Speaker 2: eighties or early nineties too, I think Universal Music Universal
- 56:43Speaker 2: was now UMG Universal Music Group. Stevie was the one
- 56:47Speaker 2: person that stayed on Motown's roster up until I think,
- 56:51Speaker 2: like I said, maybe twenty ten, twenty twelve or so
- 56:53Speaker 2: before he went.
- 56:55Speaker 1: And dropped.
- 56:58Speaker 2: Because he has to put out an album in years,
- 57:00Speaker 2: But no, I think did he re sign back to
- 57:04Speaker 2: let Me See a Time of Love was his last
- 57:08Speaker 2: like full length album, and that came out in two
- 57:10Speaker 2: thousand and five, and that was on Motown and then
- 57:13Speaker 2: the Wonder of Stevie. Oh, this is music from the
- 57:16Speaker 2: Audible Original podcast and that was that's yeah, Universal music
- 57:20Speaker 2: you MG, so that's that was released and on September
- 57:24Speaker 2: of this year and that's that was released through motown
- 57:27Speaker 2: or u MG. So yeah, I need to see Stevie live.
- 57:31Speaker 2: We've seen Patty. I want to go see Diana Ross.
- 57:36Speaker 2: It's Gladys Knight Autumn, dam Fast Autumn in here is
- 57:43Speaker 2: Gladys Knights to performing.
- 57:45Speaker 3: I don't think so.
- 57:46Speaker 2: I haven't seen Gladys performed in years.
- 57:48Speaker 3: Lazy.
- 57:49Speaker 2: I remember glad it's being almost mass singer, but.
- 57:52Speaker 4: She hasn't done like shows, not to not to my knowledge,
- 57:54Speaker 4: but I will Glad want to hear Midnight Train to
- 57:57Speaker 4: Georgia live.
- 57:58Speaker 2: And if I were your one, I want to love Overboard.
- 58:01Speaker 2: It's my ship.
- 58:01Speaker 3: Oh that's my baby. I was watching an episode of
- 58:03Speaker 3: Different World.
- 58:08Speaker 2: I was in this mission. I wouldn't want to I
- 58:13Speaker 2: wouldn't want to go see Smoky yet.
- 58:15Speaker 3: I said that to me. I said that the Brian. Yes,
- 58:17Speaker 3: I said, he will not be.
- 58:18Speaker 4: Grinded in front of me, not Uncle Smoky. And I
- 58:22Speaker 4: don't want no gad not from you Uncle Smoky.
- 58:25Speaker 2: Yes.
- 58:28Speaker 3: Now, once you do tracks some my tears, I'm leaving.
- 58:31Speaker 3: That's my ship.
- 58:32Speaker 2: Just do tracks to my tears. And and and and
- 58:35Speaker 2: what's the other one?
- 58:36Speaker 1: Are you bullshitting? Are you bullshitting?
- 58:39Speaker 3: Bro?
- 58:40Speaker 1: Like I want to see I do?
- 58:42Speaker 2: And it was the Tears of a Clown Just do
- 58:44Speaker 2: them too and I can go. But my song, my
- 58:46Speaker 2: favorite song was Smokey Robinson and the Miracles is Oo
- 58:48Speaker 2: baby Baby, Yes, I did you.
- 58:55Speaker 3: I was like, you did, I'm crying. I said, let's
- 59:01Speaker 3: talk about smoking. Did a lot of crying. Tracks of
- 59:04Speaker 3: my tears.
- 59:04Speaker 2: Tears of a clown.
- 59:07Speaker 3: Cheat allegedly, allegedly he cheated. It wasn't even allowed to it.
- 59:13Speaker 3: We wasn't allowed allegedly.
- 59:14Speaker 2: Sparkle sprinkle, sprinkles sprinkle, that's what we heard.
- 59:23Speaker 3: I mean, my man, uh my mad Reggie Reggie Coose
- 59:27Speaker 3: posts that like he said, RN B or R and
- 59:29Speaker 3: B songs ain't had no chill y'all. It's like, look,
- 59:31Speaker 3: I know, I know. I thought I told you was
- 59:33Speaker 3: gonna leave you, you was gonna leave your husband the
- 59:35Speaker 3: first time, and then you came back with me.
- 59:37Speaker 2: It's like, nigga much If loving you is wrong, I
- 59:42Speaker 2: don't want to be right.
- 59:43Speaker 3: That's what they said. If this, they tell me, it's
- 59:47Speaker 3: no future in love and the man if I can't
- 59:52Speaker 3: see you one.
- 59:53Speaker 2: I won't I see you wearing that kid.
- 59:57Speaker 3: That's what they said, nigga, if you are that type lover,
- 1:00:01Speaker 3: but love keeping you tied to one nothing, that's the
- 1:00:05Speaker 3: way it goes on. You don't need no you don't
- 1:00:09Speaker 3: need no ticket to ride. I told you that. What what? What?
- 1:00:18Speaker 2: Earth one of the five songs about one night stand?
- 1:00:20Speaker 3: Reasons?
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: Yeah, it was reasons.
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: It was reasons. Boy.
- 1:00:24Speaker 2: You know we all know that the Ozzie Brother's infamous line, girl,
- 1:00:27Speaker 2: I love the way you receive me.
- 1:00:29Speaker 4: I mean, so, me and Brian had this conversation by
- 1:00:34Speaker 4: but my first child. We had this conversation and he
- 1:00:38Speaker 4: said he was saying he was at work and one
- 1:00:42Speaker 4: of his one of the guys cleaning guys or something,
- 1:00:45Speaker 4: was cleaning up and he had this little speaker and
- 1:00:48Speaker 4: he was playing Lionel Richie. He was playing all night long,
- 1:00:53Speaker 4: and Brian said, he came up off to it's like
- 1:00:56Speaker 4: we're going to party, and he said he looked at
- 1:00:59Speaker 4: Brian like, you know, said, man, you know who the
- 1:01:01Speaker 4: household we grew up in.
- 1:01:03Speaker 2: I said, baby, they could put line up on you anywhere.
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: That's that's funny.
- 1:01:07Speaker 3: I mean, it's funny because when Gladys Knight dead, Matt
- 1:01:10Speaker 3: saying Keenan was like, that's gladst Night and Nick was like,
- 1:01:13Speaker 3: it could be in he's that's glass. See.
- 1:01:15Speaker 4: I started watching a few seasons after Gladdys, like I
- 1:01:18Speaker 4: didn't watch the season with Gladys or.
- 1:01:20Speaker 2: When Candy won with t Paint one with while we
- 1:01:22Speaker 2: was on there.
- 1:01:22Speaker 4: I started watching little but a lot of people, certain people,
- 1:01:26Speaker 4: especially with us being black, like right now this season
- 1:01:29Speaker 4: currently the what is he?
- 1:01:32Speaker 2: He's a kind of bug something. It's Mario, I know
- 1:01:35Speaker 2: for a fact certain when Patty was on there, but
- 1:01:37Speaker 2: you heard her saying the first time we know, we
- 1:01:40Speaker 2: know Gladys is but we knew we knew Candy's woice.
- 1:01:43Speaker 3: Toom face he was like and Nick was like, it
- 1:01:48Speaker 3: could be he's that's Gladys.
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: I cleaned.
- 1:01:50Speaker 3: I cleaned my house every Saturday listening listening to this voice.
- 1:01:55Speaker 4: The one person who I did not get and I
- 1:01:57Speaker 4: still don't know to this day, how the funk I
- 1:01:58Speaker 4: did not guess him was genuine?
- 1:02:01Speaker 3: How did I not get him? I was sitting there
- 1:02:02Speaker 3: when he took the mask. I said, I know you're
- 1:02:04Speaker 3: lying to me.
- 1:02:06Speaker 4: Well, you know Cisco got Cisco right away. She started
- 1:02:09Speaker 4: singing but totally random. Basketball was saying the second my
- 1:02:12Speaker 4: favorite commodore song is Zoom. But I feel like, like
- 1:02:22Speaker 4: a lot of those people, we can realize, and I
- 1:02:25Speaker 4: mean say to be honest with with genuine i'n call
- 1:02:28Speaker 4: him because he up there, he's officially on status. Now
- 1:02:31Speaker 4: he's falling over on stage and ship, I mean he
- 1:02:34Speaker 4: old head.
- 1:02:34Speaker 3: Now stop talking to me.
- 1:02:36Speaker 2: He's talking about he is not the bachelor anymore. He
- 1:02:39Speaker 2: is the uncle.
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: M hm, this ain't the life.
- 1:02:46Speaker 2: Remember what we did last night? You put me on
- 1:02:49Speaker 2: my knees?
- 1:02:49Speaker 3: Do you remember?
- 1:02:51Speaker 2: Remember?
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: But you remember?
- 1:02:57Speaker 3: And my knee when you.
- 1:03:01Speaker 1: But no shout?
- 1:03:04Speaker 2: We love Algae. Pony is about that four fifty man,
- 1:03:07Speaker 2: you know, when he just got this in the dry donkey.
- 1:03:09Speaker 2: Now my pony just sit in the driveway.
- 1:03:14Speaker 3: I'm just a bachelor.
- 1:03:16Speaker 2: Hey, looking for the car seat. It's kinda take my
- 1:03:20Speaker 2: grandbaby to the moo and buy him some shoes.
- 1:03:25Speaker 3: My daughter kills some dungle.
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: You know what. We need to listen Algae.
- 1:03:35Speaker 3: On my oldest singers that that was out when we
- 1:03:37Speaker 3: grew up.
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: Yo, we need that.
- 1:03:39Speaker 3: I don't realize when I went to that nineties concert.
- 1:03:42Speaker 3: I was like, no, braindon that that them new lines
- 1:03:46Speaker 3: and brainda just the realistic grandpa lines. Nigga.
- 1:03:50Speaker 1: We listen Andre Andre if you heard what's so different?
- 1:03:57Speaker 3: Nigga?
- 1:03:59Speaker 2: Know I'm watching watching my TV about to go pull
- 1:04:03Speaker 2: these weeds, changing me step my side the nervous act.
- 1:04:10Speaker 2: But you don't know that that.
- 1:04:15Speaker 1: I ain't.
- 1:04:17Speaker 2: Even though apologized about she used to say.
- 1:04:21Speaker 4: All the bits was messing up and all that stuff,
- 1:04:23Speaker 4: and I'm like, girl, it's always something with you. Now
- 1:04:25Speaker 4: when it's about to ring, my fucking need get the aching,
- 1:04:27Speaker 4: and I called her like, girl, I'm sorry, I apologize,
- 1:04:30Speaker 4: you was right.
- 1:04:31Speaker 1: But I'm still the same, rubbing.
- 1:04:36Speaker 2: My knee real g now here Paul Park.
- 1:04:40Speaker 1: Shout out to man.
- 1:04:43Speaker 3: Sexual saws and ship and then out of nowhere, this
- 1:04:46Speaker 3: nigga do a dance, break it. What's so different? I
- 1:04:50Speaker 3: won't get them no more.
- 1:04:51Speaker 2: Man, you can't break his heap.
- 1:04:56Speaker 4: He might throw something out away because all right, and
- 1:04:58Speaker 4: look pretty and the same hell and let that great
- 1:05:01Speaker 4: head come back.
- 1:05:02Speaker 2: Collapsed over stage.
- 1:05:03Speaker 4: Like oh shit, no when he fell off the stage
- 1:05:06Speaker 4: that movie. But but eld and if you hear us,
- 1:05:10Speaker 4: let that great head grow back, baby because we was
- 1:05:12Speaker 4: feeling that great bait.
- 1:05:13Speaker 3: Me and Ki appreciated.
- 1:05:16Speaker 2: And I'm also grateful that I'm grateful that a lot
- 1:05:18Speaker 2: of our artists that we came up listening to in
- 1:05:20Speaker 2: the nineties now half second wins in their careers where
- 1:05:22Speaker 2: they get they can come together on tours and tour
- 1:05:25Speaker 2: and you have all these I turn I'm gonna call
- 1:05:26Speaker 2: them I Turner reviews of so many artists. I don't
- 1:05:30Speaker 2: care all these that group these artists do tours together
- 1:05:35Speaker 2: Motown review. Yeah, you got sixty five artists on one
- 1:05:37Speaker 2: tour having that R and B shit due to two
- 1:05:40Speaker 2: songs and then sat swapping long enough. When we went
- 1:05:44Speaker 2: to the ninetyes show, was like nine people in this show, like.
- 1:05:46Speaker 1: So give us yes.
- 1:05:49Speaker 2: One it up and we talked about music. What else
- 1:05:51Speaker 2: do we want to talk about about this year? About
- 1:05:53Speaker 2: twenty twenty four, the year of the year that was
- 1:05:56Speaker 2: twenty twenty four.
- 1:05:57Speaker 4: That's I would like to discuss, yes, the era that
- 1:06:01Speaker 4: has been fun around and find out on TikTok.
- 1:06:05Speaker 3: Since this.
- 1:06:07Speaker 4: Thing that they called an election back in early November,
- 1:06:10Speaker 4: we have not spoken about it because.
- 1:06:13Speaker 3: We are still be fucking fuddled.
- 1:06:14Speaker 2: Boy, it was that in the fact that this is
- 1:06:16Speaker 2: the first episode record we're recorded after the elections. Everything
- 1:06:19Speaker 2: I heard recorded pre elections.
- 1:06:21Speaker 3: In surprise, you know, I fuck, I fucking love that
- 1:06:30Speaker 3: that that one part, right, that surprise niggas surprising. We've
- 1:06:34Speaker 3: been telling you this ship. We will tell you this
- 1:06:36Speaker 3: is uh season one August.
- 1:06:39Speaker 2: Until we get to a point where we can record
- 1:06:40Speaker 2: episodes a weekly. Baby, we got a batter record sixteen
- 1:06:45Speaker 2: one day bill. We got to day but hopefully you know,
- 1:06:49Speaker 2: one day, I don't know. Hopefully in the not too
- 1:06:51Speaker 2: distant future we can switch to recording fresh episodes every week.
- 1:06:54Speaker 2: That will give us more topics to talk.
- 1:06:56Speaker 3: About facts and you can change that like sharing this ship.
- 1:07:03Speaker 2: Yes, yes, helping out, helping helping, help help some niggas
- 1:07:07Speaker 2: out two and a half niggas you feel.
- 1:07:12Speaker 3: Half. Oh I was about to say, nigga, I'm only
- 1:07:16Speaker 3: a quarter on.
- 1:07:17Speaker 2: Oh well, this this this this strong suits and find
- 1:07:23Speaker 2: out a has been beautiful, I will say, and very entertaining.
- 1:07:28Speaker 2: I will be very honest and say that I went
- 1:07:32Speaker 2: down the rabbit hole. I did two friends. I think
- 1:07:36Speaker 2: some fishy ship went on with this election.
- 1:07:38Speaker 3: Ain't gonna lie it did. Ladies and gentlemen, we are
- 1:07:41Speaker 3: about to put our ten four hats on.
- 1:07:43Speaker 2: So Aaron, Aaron Key Keta, Aaron's wife, and Sean. I
- 1:07:47Speaker 2: could tell you that I've had Mama's while I've put
- 1:07:49Speaker 2: I've slid my tent full had on and just went on,
- 1:07:51Speaker 2: not die tried. But I was sharing links and saying, well,
- 1:07:53Speaker 2: this don't make sense, and this don't make sense in
- 1:07:55Speaker 2: our group chat, and I keep saying, I'm like, so
- 1:07:58Speaker 2: you mean to tell me all the ship don't add up?
- 1:08:01Speaker 2: All this ship? When they let a convicted felon run
- 1:08:05Speaker 2: for president, we it makes absolutely not no.
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: But I told you it's no, it's no rules. Saying
- 1:08:12Speaker 1: that it's no rules, saying that it can't is not.
- 1:08:14Speaker 2: It's it's president. Convicted Valans can't vote. Yeah, I can't vote.
- 1:08:20Speaker 2: And it's two different things. But is that a state rule?
- 1:08:24Speaker 2: Is that a federal rule? Because I think Trump voted
- 1:08:26Speaker 2: for himself in Florida. They can states can change. He
- 1:08:28Speaker 2: didn't vote for himself.
- 1:08:29Speaker 4: With what I'm saying is so as I know, yeah,
- 1:08:33Speaker 4: that's a fatial thing that convicted fellons cannot vote.
- 1:08:36Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah they can.
- 1:08:37Speaker 2: I don't think that's federal. I think that's on a
- 1:08:38Speaker 2: state by state basis, because federal goverment doesn't make doesn't
- 1:08:42Speaker 2: make election rules. The states do.
- 1:08:43Speaker 3: Yeah, because convicts. The convicts can listen to army either,
- 1:08:46Speaker 3: so that's what they should let him do. Ship. What
- 1:08:52Speaker 3: is it telling them you're gonna get out if you can't?
- 1:08:56Speaker 2: Y'all say that, But it's the jokes about slave labor
- 1:08:59Speaker 2: and stuff, and that leads to people possibly being arrested.
- 1:09:02Speaker 2: And then that's how I mean no wrong, I just
- 1:09:08Speaker 2: I will say that. So you want telling ourselves again.
- 1:09:13Speaker 2: We're recording this well in advance the release date. This
- 1:09:18Speaker 2: is going to come out on the second Wednesday in November.
- 1:09:21Speaker 2: Ship November. Huh, this is gonna come out the second Wednesday.
- 1:09:24Speaker 2: That was so dropped already, Brandon. This is going to
- 1:09:28Speaker 2: come out the second Wednesday in December.
- 1:09:31Speaker 1: Surprise niggas.
- 1:09:32Speaker 2: Surprise niggas. But we're recording this on I'm being honest,
- 1:09:35Speaker 2: I'll tell y'all. We're recording this on November sixteenth. It's
- 1:09:38Speaker 2: a shirt need surprise Niggs Nick the book from for
- 1:09:42Speaker 2: our Future Merchant Drive instead of Idea. Yeah, we're recording
- 1:09:45Speaker 2: this on November sixteenth, So who the fuck news. What's
- 1:09:48Speaker 2: gonna happen between today when we're recording and the ship
- 1:09:51Speaker 2: actually releases facts. Because the way shit's been slowly but
- 1:09:54Speaker 2: surely leaking out day by day, this person getting arrested
- 1:09:56Speaker 2: day investigating this, just getting recount. I will just say,
- 1:10:01Speaker 2: and I shared this earlier on on on my personal
- 1:10:05Speaker 2: scott Net that Scotty theme is that blue sky count.
- 1:10:11Speaker 3: The Internet.
- 1:10:14Speaker 4: That's not like the free disc used to get the
- 1:10:15Speaker 4: mail bag in and that not AOL five hundred free
- 1:10:18Speaker 4: hours and I burnt through all five hundred, damn straight,
- 1:10:24Speaker 4: damn straight.
- 1:10:25Speaker 2: I think that us, being in the age of the
- 1:10:29Speaker 2: low information voter, us so many people not understanding how
- 1:10:34Speaker 2: civics work, how each branch of government functions, and their roles.
- 1:10:39Speaker 2: The roles are people in government and people. Not to
- 1:10:44Speaker 2: discount how people fel because people are entitled to feel
- 1:10:46Speaker 2: the way they feel, right, But I think people don't
- 1:10:49Speaker 2: fundamentally understand the role of president, vice president, Congress, Senator,
- 1:10:57Speaker 2: the Supreme Court, the judiciary, how all of these agencies
- 1:11:00Speaker 2: and jobs work to make up the federal government. Yeah,
- 1:11:03Speaker 2: we spoke about that on a political episode we did
- 1:11:06Speaker 2: the election. The fact that the government don't we don't
- 1:11:10Speaker 2: live in the communist country where the government sets prices.
- 1:11:14Speaker 2: We live in a capitalistic society. And for so many
- 1:11:17Speaker 2: people to complain to say, well, the price of milk
- 1:11:19Speaker 2: is this, and the price of eggs is so fucking high,
- 1:11:21Speaker 2: and over the past two years, my grocery bill has
- 1:11:23Speaker 2: gone up.
- 1:11:24Speaker 3: Yeah it has.
- 1:11:24Speaker 2: What the president doesn't set grocery prices are going to
- 1:11:27Speaker 2: do with it. The reason I mean, I'd like to
- 1:11:30Speaker 2: think that our listeners, all for the y'all, hey for hey, y'all,
- 1:11:34Speaker 2: hey are are intelligent enough to understand or have a
- 1:11:38Speaker 2: basic understanding of economics. And the fact that the like
- 1:11:41Speaker 2: I said, the government does not set grocery prices, corporate
- 1:11:45Speaker 2: corporations do. It was proven, and it's been mentioned several
- 1:11:50Speaker 2: times in trusted media that the reason why inflation was
- 1:11:54Speaker 2: what it was over the past few years was because
- 1:11:56Speaker 2: of COVID and the fact that a lot of these
- 1:11:58Speaker 2: companies were price goalleging.
- 1:12:00Speaker 3: Mm hmm. They all enjoyed Kamala wanted to count down.
- 1:12:03Speaker 2: They all wanted to They all were enjoying years over
- 1:12:06Speaker 2: years over years of record profits because they they increased
- 1:12:09Speaker 2: the price of every fucking thing. I've said it before.
- 1:12:12Speaker 2: And this is the example I go back to. I'm sorry,
- 1:12:14Speaker 2: the big bag of Doritos that the store shouldn't cost
- 1:12:17Speaker 2: seven dollars or a box of served I shouldn't have
- 1:12:21Speaker 2: to go if I want to buy a party sized
- 1:12:23Speaker 2: bag for my fucking self. Of the that's his business.
- 1:12:26Speaker 2: It is like a fucking business. The sweet the purple
- 1:12:28Speaker 2: bag of Doritos. I shouldn't be spending damn eight dollars
- 1:12:31Speaker 2: for that biggest bag of Doritos. Agreed.
- 1:12:33Speaker 4: My son loved Hounting nutterials. I was in the regular
- 1:12:36Speaker 4: market box hundred ceials. I'm say, I almost say Dallas,
- 1:12:38Speaker 4: the family size box. The cheapest place I found them
- 1:12:41Speaker 4: is Walmart they like less than five dollars, and Walmart
- 1:12:43Speaker 4: for the big box.
- 1:12:44Speaker 2: You know, I shot at Costco every other week to
- 1:12:46Speaker 2: get like my my chicken and stuff that I can,
- 1:12:49Speaker 2: you know, stretch out for two weeks because I ate
- 1:12:51Speaker 2: a lot clearly big.
- 1:12:54Speaker 1: Big.
- 1:12:56Speaker 3: We know you do.
- 1:12:56Speaker 2: That's why you're married.
- 1:13:00Speaker 3: You hear me.
- 1:13:02Speaker 2: Where is Keita? I thought she was coming today.
- 1:13:04Speaker 3: Nah, she's chilling.
- 1:13:06Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I talked to her yesterday when I called
- 1:13:08Speaker 2: her about the formation that she was coming. But anyway,
- 1:13:10Speaker 2: damn Hey says, shopping at Costco, I used to be
- 1:13:16Speaker 2: able to buy like a pack of chicken breast for
- 1:13:18Speaker 2: I think like two nineteen a pound pre pandemic. It's
- 1:13:21Speaker 2: two ninety nine pound now for chicken bread, black.
- 1:13:26Speaker 3: Wings was like two something a pair on the other
- 1:13:29Speaker 3: day chicken wing.
- 1:13:30Speaker 1: And it's like, let you know, it's not too to
- 1:13:32Speaker 1: something pound the dark meat.
- 1:13:35Speaker 2: No, No, I mean that's like two. It's literally like
- 1:13:38Speaker 2: I think at Costco the big pack of chicken thighs,
- 1:13:40Speaker 2: because I buy chicken thighs. I go between chicken, chicken
- 1:13:43Speaker 2: thighs and chicken breasts. I think that's like two two
- 1:13:46Speaker 2: dollars a pound or two of nine or two nineteen
- 1:13:47Speaker 2: a pounds, whereas it was like like a dollar ninety
- 1:13:49Speaker 2: eight or a dollar ninety nine pre pandemic. Everything's gone
- 1:13:52Speaker 2: up in price, everything but the products. The president doesn't
- 1:13:56Speaker 2: set pricing for things and people. People voted against their
- 1:14:01Speaker 2: own self interests by electing a person who wants to
- 1:14:04Speaker 2: do away with regulation and do away with all these
- 1:14:07Speaker 2: fucking federal agencies, and who wants to give corporations the
- 1:14:11Speaker 2: right to charge whatever they want, and wants to run
- 1:14:14Speaker 2: a dictatorship. Basically he said he would on day one.
- 1:14:18Speaker 2: And the fact that so many people now are discovering
- 1:14:21Speaker 2: on the back end or what you mean he wants
- 1:14:23Speaker 2: to get rid of the Department of Education. But my
- 1:14:25Speaker 2: son has a IEP or my son has my child
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: has a fible for mind does And if they do
- 1:14:32Speaker 2: away with the Department of Education that oversees special education
- 1:14:35Speaker 2: payments to all these states and local school districts, what
- 1:14:38Speaker 2: happens to all these ie P plans? What happens to
- 1:14:41Speaker 2: education where you know, you have laws that prohibit discrimination
- 1:14:48Speaker 2: at the federal level for students in schools and at universities,
- 1:14:51Speaker 2: all these you know, Title nine laws and funding, all
- 1:14:55Speaker 2: these funds, this funding that schools get. People don't understand
- 1:14:58Speaker 2: how what the function of the the US Department of Education.
- 1:15:00Speaker 4: And now they are pushing your child through grades and
- 1:15:03Speaker 4: they're in the ninth grade thing and their favorite color.
- 1:15:05Speaker 2: Is full Yeah, I told you, But that's a that's
- 1:15:07Speaker 2: a local We in the United States have decentralized education.
- 1:15:13Speaker 2: Education plannet curriculums and testing programs are decided at the
- 1:15:20Speaker 2: state level. These kids need help, Let them get that help.
- 1:15:24Speaker 2: And now it's in danger of them not being able
- 1:15:26Speaker 2: to get the help, and then the parents they want
- 1:15:29Speaker 2: to be in a classroom for custod A lot of
- 1:15:31Speaker 2: those people didn't realize that and voted for Trump and
- 1:15:34Speaker 2: not not understanding his policies and what the role of
- 1:15:36Speaker 2: the fact the US Department of Education was. They voted
- 1:15:39Speaker 2: against their own interests because they didn't know that, oh,
- 1:15:42Speaker 2: the five or four Plan or you know, i EPs
- 1:15:45Speaker 2: were a function of the US Department of Education and
- 1:15:48Speaker 2: funded for that. Their biased outweigh their common sense. Of course,
- 1:15:53Speaker 2: the same way a lot of people are somehow, for
- 1:15:56Speaker 2: whatever reason, they're realizing that the Affordable character is Obamacare.
- 1:15:59Speaker 3: Baby.
- 1:16:01Speaker 2: So we started this about speaking we went down this
- 1:16:04Speaker 2: redit hole because we were speaking about these fuck around
- 1:16:07Speaker 2: and find out moments. Right, you didn't know that, one
- 1:16:14Speaker 2: of my favorite add out, You didn't know that that
- 1:16:17Speaker 2: Obamacare was the affordable kid. You have pre existing health conditions,
- 1:16:23Speaker 2: You take care of a six spouse, and you said
- 1:16:26Speaker 2: they can get rid of a sick family member, and
- 1:16:31Speaker 2: you want to get rid of Obamacare, but you're glad
- 1:16:34Speaker 2: you have insurance through the Affordable Character. Let me let
- 1:16:38Speaker 2: me put my hand on your hand top of him,
- 1:16:40Speaker 2: and I say this, sweets. Let me talk to you
- 1:16:42Speaker 2: for my sweet summer child. You're not about to hand
- 1:16:45Speaker 2: no health insurance. No, you know you didn't fucked up right?
- 1:16:52Speaker 2: You know you fucked up right?
- 1:16:54Speaker 3: Well what you mean?
- 1:16:55Speaker 2: I just wanted to get rid of Obamacare for why? Baby?
- 1:16:59Speaker 2: That's that's the affordable.
- 1:17:00Speaker 4: Cats, same thing, you racists, some of them, bitch, it's
- 1:17:04Speaker 4: the same thing. Some of my favorite that's that was
- 1:17:06Speaker 4: one of my favorite fucking around and find out moments.
- 1:17:08Speaker 3: I saw.
- 1:17:12Speaker 2: You should have thought about that before you voted for
- 1:17:14Speaker 2: a mango Mussolini. I call them mingo and chained personally.
- 1:17:19Speaker 2: I like that one need too.
- 1:17:21Speaker 4: You voted for the fans are fascist? So now what
- 1:17:26Speaker 4: Some of my my my favorite fucking around and find
- 1:17:28Speaker 4: out moments also have been the one where the Latino
- 1:17:34Speaker 4: man voted for Trump.
- 1:17:38Speaker 3: And he says.
- 1:17:41Speaker 2: That he sent his children on Gross Street to play
- 1:17:43Speaker 2: with the neighbor.
- 1:17:44Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Caucasian, and uh, the neighbor came outside and
- 1:17:50Speaker 4: shot his gun in the egg and told them to
- 1:17:52Speaker 4: get the fuck off his lawn and they were not
- 1:17:54Speaker 4: wanted here. And you were surprised, mister, why you thought
- 1:18:01Speaker 4: y'all were going to be compriudrets. He didn't like you
- 1:18:04Speaker 4: before you voted for Trump, he still.
- 1:18:06Speaker 3: Don't like now.
- 1:18:07Speaker 2: He is emboldened to tell you how he feels exactly
- 1:18:10Speaker 2: because and dare you to say something about it. I
- 1:18:12Speaker 2: need this to be a learning message for y'all. Listen
- 1:18:15Speaker 2: to me, clearly. Don't let y'all president get y'all fucked up.
- 1:18:21Speaker 3: Kay, don't let them get you'll.
- 1:18:25Speaker 2: It's so sad that people in there, a lot of
- 1:18:28Speaker 2: people having meltdowns or not meltdowns with their crown on TikTok,
- 1:18:30Speaker 2: saying their families disown them because they voted for Trump.
- 1:18:34Speaker 2: The one girl said her grandmother told her, told her,
- 1:18:36Speaker 2: don't bring and they don't understand. They don't understand that.
- 1:18:42Speaker 2: You know, it's well when Joe Biden went, I didn't
- 1:18:47Speaker 2: disown y'all, and they don't understand that. There's a difference
- 1:18:51Speaker 2: between voting against a person who's policies policies you don't
- 1:18:55Speaker 2: agree with, and voting for a person who wants to
- 1:18:57Speaker 2: dehumanize and take rights to away from people.
- 1:19:02Speaker 3: Mm hm hmm.
- 1:19:04Speaker 2: It's difference.
- 1:19:04Speaker 3: I've seen several of those videos.
- 1:19:06Speaker 4: One of my other favorite ones was this, this, this,
- 1:19:08Speaker 4: this I'm going to call her a young lady, but
- 1:19:11Speaker 4: that's not what I've been calling her for the last
- 1:19:12Speaker 4: few months.
- 1:19:13Speaker 3: Simple bitch, bitch.
- 1:19:17Speaker 4: Old dumb ass, bitch, old lady, bitch. She decided to
- 1:19:21Speaker 4: get online. Her name is Kay something. I cannot remember
- 1:19:24Speaker 4: her name at this very moment.
- 1:19:26Speaker 2: Y'all know I got d it is and she decided
- 1:19:31Speaker 2: that it was a good idea to get online and
- 1:19:32Speaker 2: make a video.
- 1:19:33Speaker 3: In her wiffle house uniform.
- 1:19:35Speaker 2: I saw that one and a response to it.
- 1:19:38Speaker 4: She says, if Trump wins and slavery comes back, who
- 1:19:43Speaker 4: wants to be my slave? I will be a good master.
- 1:19:46Speaker 4: She thought it was funny. She took her ass back
- 1:19:49Speaker 4: to work, then her wiffle house uniform. They beat her ass.
- 1:19:54Speaker 3: She got on the line with up. They died of
- 1:19:58Speaker 3: both of them, bitches.
- 1:20:00Speaker 1: Question so she couldn't fight, apparently not.
- 1:20:04Speaker 3: It was apologize.
- 1:20:05Speaker 4: She was apologizing, and it was meant to be a joke,
- 1:20:08Speaker 4: and she's not racist, and she was sorry and for
- 1:20:11Speaker 4: anyone who was offended by what she said, that was
- 1:20:14Speaker 4: not her intention. And then got back on their crying
- 1:20:17Speaker 4: a few days later.
- 1:20:19Speaker 3: Not trying to be funny, but how she gets how
- 1:20:20Speaker 3: she get hired at the house a few days later.
- 1:20:23Speaker 4: Yeah, that should be a requirement, right, Like old girl
- 1:20:25Speaker 4: who quit that chair when they throw it, she was like,
- 1:20:27Speaker 4: and throw it back.
- 1:20:28Speaker 3: I like her. She was my.
- 1:20:30Speaker 2: Super hero, but that's because Wiffle House then turned around
- 1:20:36Speaker 2: and fired her. Of course she got fired.
- 1:20:39Speaker 3: And I can't believe you guys call gonna do this
- 1:20:41Speaker 3: is how to take care of my children.
- 1:20:42Speaker 4: You should have thought about that before you got your
- 1:20:44Speaker 4: stupid ass on and say what you say so Shauna
- 1:20:47Speaker 4: being Shauna, because Shauna is going to Shauna. I put
- 1:20:51Speaker 4: in the comments and said, oh damn, she got some
- 1:20:53Speaker 4: other than COVID mother, And that's what I said, and
- 1:20:59Speaker 4: I meant it.
- 1:21:00Speaker 2: And then the other lady came behind me and was like, yeah, scattered.
- 1:21:04Speaker 2: And then the other lady told me I made her
- 1:21:06Speaker 2: throw her phone.
- 1:21:07Speaker 4: My bad says sorry, sorry, but it's the truth. She's like,
- 1:21:11Speaker 4: she's like, oh my god, why would you say that
- 1:21:13Speaker 4: I threw my phone?
- 1:21:15Speaker 3: Well it's the truth.
- 1:21:17Speaker 2: Shout off to aunc cookie on on on TikTok is
- 1:21:20Speaker 2: that's why I first wrought a story.
- 1:21:21Speaker 4: Eighth Yeah, yeah, so you sucked around and found out.
- 1:21:27Speaker 2: But also the sad part. And I hate, I hate
- 1:21:31Speaker 2: to have to say this, but a lot of quote
- 1:21:35Speaker 2: unquote activists online, we're telling people for weeks and months
- 1:21:40Speaker 2: to not vote for Kamala Harris because of the ongoing
- 1:21:43Speaker 2: genocide in Palestine. People again, are titled to their opinions.
- 1:21:50Speaker 2: You can believe what you want, right, you can support
- 1:21:53Speaker 2: who you want. But going online and telling people to
- 1:21:57Speaker 2: not vote for Kamala because of the ongoing support and
- 1:22:01Speaker 2: in uh US, the United States is ongoing support for
- 1:22:05Speaker 2: Israel in the in the genocide in Palestine, which it is,
- 1:22:08Speaker 2: let's call a thing a thing. We on this over here,
- 1:22:12Speaker 2: I don't I guess they thought that their voting protest
- 1:22:16Speaker 2: was going to get was going to cause her to
- 1:22:19Speaker 2: do something about it, or they thought maybe not voting
- 1:22:22Speaker 2: or voting for Jill Stein or voting for Trump would
- 1:22:25Speaker 2: I'm not sure what the intended effect was, but a
- 1:22:28Speaker 2: lot of those people are now realizing. On the back end,
- 1:22:31Speaker 2: both of y'all are.
- 1:22:32Speaker 3: On your phones right now, I'm listening.
- 1:22:36Speaker 2: Had to call y'all out. It always does.
- 1:22:42Speaker 1: Anyway.
- 1:22:42Speaker 3: On the back end.
- 1:22:43Speaker 2: On the back end, somebody was at.
- 1:22:48Speaker 3: Some colors, it's awful, go ahead.
- 1:22:50Speaker 2: Somebody they were at the Capitol and they stopped Marco Rubio,
- 1:22:54Speaker 2: who was tapped as Trump's I guess whatever cabinet position.
- 1:22:59Speaker 3: And we can get getting too that man's cabinet picks
- 1:23:02Speaker 3: so far, that's to tell you it's something wrong with him.
- 1:23:06Speaker 2: But we'll get into that. They are real, so we'll
- 1:23:12Speaker 2: get into that. Somebody had a camera Marco Rubio's face,
- 1:23:14Speaker 2: who was tapped for whatever role, and they asked Marco
- 1:23:17Speaker 2: Rubio if Trump was going to call for a ceasefire,
- 1:23:21Speaker 2: and Marco Rubio got in the camera and said, no,
- 1:23:24Speaker 2: We're gonna let Israel flatten Gaza and multiple things to that,
- 1:23:28Speaker 2: to that turn into a parking lot, and that's we
- 1:23:30Speaker 2: want Israel to finish the job. And my thought process
- 1:23:34Speaker 2: about that whole situation was, what did you think Trump
- 1:23:38Speaker 2: was going to do? What did you think in your
- 1:23:41Speaker 2: in your effort or your cause for not voting for
- 1:23:44Speaker 2: Kamala Trump getting into office, what did you think was
- 1:23:49Speaker 2: gonna happen to glum at least with Kamala She she
- 1:23:53Speaker 2: did call for a ceasefire, a two stay solution in
- 1:23:57Speaker 2: the ceasefire, but what did you think Trump was going
- 1:24:00Speaker 2: what to do? And now that you see that Trump
- 1:24:03Speaker 2: is basically going to let them finish the job like
- 1:24:06Speaker 2: he cleaned.
- 1:24:09Speaker 3: What did job?
- 1:24:10Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 1:24:11Speaker 3: The same God, the same motherfuckers as walking down does
- 1:24:13Speaker 3: walk does walking all down light street with your signs
- 1:24:17Speaker 3: and the lights and bikes saying free, uh free, free,
- 1:24:21Speaker 3: guys of free and I'm.
- 1:24:23Speaker 2: Shul on board. Free Palestine from the rivers to the sea.
- 1:24:26Speaker 2: Palestine shall be free. They should not lose their native
- 1:24:29Speaker 2: homeland because of people who became Israeli deciding they wanted
- 1:24:35Speaker 2: to move and annex that whole country that existed before
- 1:24:38Speaker 2: Israel did.
- 1:24:39Speaker 3: That's funny.
- 1:24:40Speaker 2: This whole situation started in nineteen forty eight with the NAPA.
- 1:24:44Speaker 2: Let's it's not just about October seventh. It goes back
- 1:24:47Speaker 2: to nineteen forty eight, but the realization that y'all voted
- 1:24:53Speaker 2: against your own self interests and now the situation is
- 1:24:57Speaker 2: going to continue to decline if not. Basically in with
- 1:25:01Speaker 2: Gaza in the West Bank becoming parts of Israel, what
- 1:25:04Speaker 2: did you think was gonna happen? Agreed? We tried people online,
- 1:25:10Speaker 2: black creators, black scholars, tried to.
- 1:25:13Speaker 3: Warn people and that's why they around the found.
- 1:25:16Speaker 2: Out I said, and people I literally typed in a
- 1:25:18Speaker 2: comment once I said, yo, your if your choices are
- 1:25:22Speaker 2: between the woman that can at least attempt to broker
- 1:25:25Speaker 2: a cease fire or the man who said he was
- 1:25:28Speaker 2: going to let Israel do what they do and institute
- 1:25:31Speaker 2: another Muslim band because people seem to have short term
- 1:25:34Speaker 2: memory laws for for whatever reason, you're gonna pick the
- 1:25:38Speaker 2: person that had the Muslim band in effect to as
- 1:25:42Speaker 2: a gotcha or to stick it to Kamala and and
- 1:25:45Speaker 2: and and Biden, the Biden administration's lack of support for Palestine.
- 1:25:51Speaker 2: You look stupid, okay, but don't be. And a lot
- 1:25:55Speaker 2: of them now are like, oh, but this isn't what
- 1:25:57Speaker 2: I wanted.
- 1:25:58Speaker 3: I didn't mean.
- 1:25:58Speaker 1: I didn't know this was gonna have the decisions have consequences.
- 1:26:02Speaker 1: But it's like I mean, but it's like we said,
- 1:26:04Speaker 1: do people.
- 1:26:04Speaker 2: Tried to warn y'all. And now and I'm seeing a
- 1:26:07Speaker 2: lot of a lot of woman creators talking about abortion,
- 1:26:10Speaker 2: a lot of black creators saying this is your fight
- 1:26:13Speaker 2: and this is your lesson that you have to learn.
- 1:26:15Speaker 2: We tried to warn y'all. We wanted y'all to come
- 1:26:18Speaker 2: in and support us for voting for the at least
- 1:26:22Speaker 2: the party that will make sure that we have rights
- 1:26:25Speaker 2: and we have privileges, and that you can protest and
- 1:26:27Speaker 2: say we want to cease fire deal, we want these things,
- 1:26:31Speaker 2: and a party that whatever at least been open to
- 1:26:33Speaker 2: hearing you. But now that you voted in people a
- 1:26:37Speaker 2: felon who's gonna have felons in his cabinet and said
- 1:26:40Speaker 2: he was gonna be a dictator on day one, we
- 1:26:42Speaker 2: can't help you. I guess we're gonna burn. You're gonna
- 1:26:45Speaker 2: burn right along with us. Oh, I mean, hey, let's
- 1:26:49Speaker 2: go so sorry for you. Well, I mean, but.
- 1:26:52Speaker 3: Yeah, like like I told, like I told y'all the
- 1:26:54Speaker 3: other day, it's like, yo, the river, this river flowing
- 1:26:57Speaker 3: soon or later soon, it's lovely about to break.
- 1:27:01Speaker 1: And when the levee break, it's going like yo, it's.
- 1:27:05Speaker 3: It's gonna be like ooh, it's gonna be like writing
- 1:27:08Speaker 3: for the days, for the nights, walking around fucking around
- 1:27:10Speaker 3: with this this whole virgin And.
- 1:27:12Speaker 2: All you can say is I told you so.
- 1:27:15Speaker 3: All could have been avoided if you just got you
- 1:27:18Speaker 3: just got got from beside yourself. Bitch.
- 1:27:21Speaker 2: I'm not an advocate of kicking people when they're down,
- 1:27:24Speaker 2: but shrug well, That's all I got is well, well,
- 1:27:32Speaker 2: all we can hope for, Like I said the last
- 1:27:34Speaker 2: time when Trump won in twenty sixteen, all we can
- 1:27:38Speaker 2: hope for is infighting in gridlock. That's all we can
- 1:27:42Speaker 2: hope for at this point, unless Kamala pulls a Hail
- 1:27:45Speaker 2: Mary and discovers voter fraud, which I'm hoping she does,
- 1:27:48Speaker 2: or something happens to where there's proof that Trump actually
- 1:27:52Speaker 2: and that man from South Africa did in fact a
- 1:27:57Speaker 2: swedy election in Trump's favor. Tempole had On, I think
- 1:28:02Speaker 2: he did, temfol had Off.
- 1:28:03Speaker 3: I said what I said, Sorry, not sorry.
- 1:28:08Speaker 2: The best we can hope for is for organizations like
- 1:28:11Speaker 2: the American Civil Liberties Union, special interest groups that support
- 1:28:15Speaker 2: people and not corporations, the NAACP and other organizations like them,
- 1:28:20Speaker 2: filing lawsuit after lawsuit they stop stuff from happening, and
- 1:28:24Speaker 2: hoping that Republicans and cars because again they have they
- 1:28:27Speaker 2: have such small majorities that all it takes is for
- 1:28:31Speaker 2: one or two people to feel like that the issues
- 1:28:33Speaker 2: are getting hurt and then it tanks everything from happening. Right,
- 1:28:38Speaker 2: All we can hope is political gridlock and hope that
- 1:28:41Speaker 2: people show up at midterm elections to sway it back
- 1:28:45Speaker 2: to the Democrats. If we have elections in two and
- 1:28:47Speaker 2: four years.
- 1:28:48Speaker 3: Oh shit, but no, I know what you just said
- 1:28:51Speaker 3: is like if we have it, if we have elections
- 1:28:54Speaker 3: in two or four years.
- 1:28:54Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, a public service announcement. But black women,
- 1:29:01Speaker 2: my women of color, black women, Yeah, they don't like
- 1:29:04Speaker 2: some of them like to be called women of color
- 1:29:05Speaker 2: now because because yeah, black women tried to warn you
- 1:29:10Speaker 2: we are minding all business for the next four years.
- 1:29:13Speaker 2: It ain't got nothing to do with us. We did
- 1:29:17Speaker 2: all jobs, Okay, We did our job like that until
- 1:29:23Speaker 2: our sister Kamala, my Mamma black as job well done,
- 1:29:27Speaker 2: says you fought the good fight. You sure didn't. I
- 1:29:30Speaker 2: still stay with Kamala. I still stay with ten months
- 1:29:33Speaker 2: and I'm hoping that very very proud of the job
- 1:29:36Speaker 2: that you did, especially with only having ninety days.
- 1:29:38Speaker 3: To do it.
- 1:29:39Speaker 2: We did not win, but it's okay, yeah, because in
- 1:29:41Speaker 2: the en we still win.
- 1:29:43Speaker 3: Okay, okays.
- 1:29:44Speaker 4: It's so you may not hear this, but somebody else
- 1:29:47Speaker 4: might head and somebody else my head, and they might
- 1:29:49Speaker 4: pass it along.
- 1:29:49Speaker 3: Baby. I'm still with her.
- 1:29:52Speaker 2: I'm still with Kamala too, Okay, freedom, And it's always
- 1:29:56Speaker 2: good to be on the right side of history.
- 1:29:58Speaker 3: It always is good to be honest.
- 1:29:59Speaker 2: I feel like it in the first and at the time.
- 1:30:01Speaker 2: But I'd rather be on the right side of history
- 1:30:04Speaker 2: than two.
- 1:30:06Speaker 3: Yeah, And.
- 1:30:09Speaker 4: I am still proud to be a beautifully melanated black woman.
- 1:30:16Speaker 3: Okay, all right, sick And to all of y'all who said, oh, com.
- 1:30:22Speaker 2: Was not black, she's only black back convenans.
- 1:30:24Speaker 3: Maybe daddy is a black it's a black Jamaican man.
- 1:30:31Speaker 3: The difference between them and us was an island stop.
- 1:30:36Speaker 2: Okay, they got off the bus two stops before we
- 1:30:40Speaker 2: did it next Toup Miami. That's the only difference.
- 1:30:47Speaker 3: That's it.
- 1:30:47Speaker 2: If you're offended about what I just said, I honestly
- 1:30:49Speaker 2: gonna give a fuck. But but there was so much mistake,
- 1:30:52Speaker 2: so much misinformation, and like, like I think Aaron said
- 1:30:55Speaker 2: it earlier, so many people did not vote for Connla
- 1:30:58Speaker 2: because she was black and because she was a woman. Yep,
- 1:31:01Speaker 2: so many people chose And this goes back to the
- 1:31:04Speaker 2: point I mean earlier about low information voters. People don't
- 1:31:08Speaker 2: have the media literacy skills to understand what is misinformation
- 1:31:12Speaker 2: or what is in misinformation.
- 1:31:14Speaker 4: Have you got it from the shaved room misinformation? If
- 1:31:17Speaker 4: you got it from a blog is misinformation to me,
- 1:31:19Speaker 4: to be very.
- 1:31:20Speaker 2: Honest, I don't trust most of what is posted on
- 1:31:22Speaker 2: the internet. I don't follow the shaved rum. And no,
- 1:31:25Speaker 2: if you follow the shaved room, good for you. But
- 1:31:27Speaker 2: I don't follow those types of blogs because that I
- 1:31:30Speaker 2: don't need that type of information.
- 1:31:33Speaker 1: Message.
- 1:31:35Speaker 2: It's too much shit happen, especially in those comments sections.
- 1:31:37Speaker 2: It's too much shit happening. I don't need that ignorance.
- 1:31:42Speaker 2: People who said that kom d didn't have policies didn't
- 1:31:46Speaker 2: go to website because they were all listed day and
- 1:31:47Speaker 2: she didn't have plans for black people. She didn't an
- 1:31:49Speaker 2: attempt to address the black community. She had plans on
- 1:31:53Speaker 2: her website therehere they are because she had gone control.
- 1:31:57Speaker 4: Y'all were intentionally dense. And that's what I told the
- 1:32:01Speaker 4: whole classmates. She didn't try to connect with black people.
- 1:32:04Speaker 2: Yeah, she puts on chicken and thought it's a kid bit.
- 1:32:08Speaker 3: Since we did hot.
- 1:32:08Speaker 2: Sauce become a black thing, I am so confusion. First
- 1:32:11Speaker 2: of all, I mean we did, but that ain't the point.
- 1:32:16Speaker 4: Like y'all were intentionally dense, you were being intentionally ignorant.
- 1:32:24Speaker 4: You weren't and it was frustrating and I had to
- 1:32:27Speaker 4: pull away. I had to delete people. I had to
- 1:32:29Speaker 4: walk away. Y'all better thank missus Howard, because the old
- 1:32:32Speaker 4: me would argue back and forth with your dumbass you
- 1:32:34Speaker 4: you know you mean, it's like, you know what, Yeah,
- 1:32:36Speaker 4: I'm not gonna I responded once to the classmate, and
- 1:32:39Speaker 4: then I responded to him again, and I.
- 1:32:41Speaker 2: Was like, you know what, what are you doing?
- 1:32:42Speaker 4: I don't respond what are you doing? And I had
- 1:32:44Speaker 4: to tell myself, you used to beat him up when
- 1:32:46Speaker 4: we was kids, like to let him and that's what
- 1:32:48Speaker 4: I did.
- 1:32:48Speaker 2: My thought process is, it is not my job as
- 1:32:51Speaker 2: an adult to teach another adult, some random person I
- 1:32:55Speaker 2: don't know and would not interact with if we weren't
- 1:32:57Speaker 2: on the social media spot at the same place and
- 1:32:59Speaker 2: time at the same time. If people are entitled to
- 1:33:03Speaker 2: their opinions, their views or whatever. But people are going
- 1:33:07Speaker 2: to people. People are going to believe what they want
- 1:33:09Speaker 2: regardless of what you say to them. And they can
- 1:33:13Speaker 2: have all the evidence in the world and still believe misinformation.
- 1:33:16Speaker 2: And if you can't see how voting for something or
- 1:33:21Speaker 2: someone will harm you and the people around you. There's
- 1:33:27Speaker 2: nothing else I could say. And I refuse to waste
- 1:33:29Speaker 2: my precious energy A little bit I do have when
- 1:33:31Speaker 2: I can actually focus, thanks adult Adhding. I refuse to
- 1:33:34Speaker 2: waste my energy trying to teach people I'm wrong. I
- 1:33:37Speaker 2: can say like this election has me energized. It awakens
- 1:33:43Speaker 2: something in me that makes me want to start building community.
- 1:33:48Speaker 2: I want to start finding ways to organize and to
- 1:33:52Speaker 2: basically just to help any way I can. I don't
- 1:33:56Speaker 2: know how to how to help.
- 1:33:57Speaker 1: You do it with your sister.
- 1:34:01Speaker 3: On some stuff.
- 1:34:02Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll talk about again. We'll talk about that offline.
- 1:34:06Speaker 2: But I just I want to affect change in a
- 1:34:08Speaker 2: positive way. And until we do that, we're gonna lose
- 1:34:12Speaker 2: gen Z and Jen Alpha, because, like I said, there's
- 1:34:15Speaker 2: this real odd pipeline to take that takes a lot
- 1:34:20Speaker 2: of these younger guys that are the fifteen sixteen, seventeen
- 1:34:23Speaker 2: eighteen right to the Joe Rogans and the uh What's
- 1:34:27Speaker 2: the What's the Ball? And the Andrew Tates and all
- 1:34:30Speaker 2: these red Pill Fresh and fucking Fresh and Fit and
- 1:34:33Speaker 2: all of these podcasts that teach them all this misogynistic
- 1:34:36Speaker 2: shit and they can relate to it because they feel like,
- 1:34:40Speaker 2: oh well, I can't get a girlfriend, I don't have
- 1:34:42Speaker 2: a job, I can't do this. And there's no way
- 1:34:47Speaker 2: the Democratic Party or the Left is not combating that
- 1:34:52Speaker 2: in any way, at least from not from what I've seen.
- 1:34:55Speaker 3: I feel like, mmm, uh so we suffered loss.
- 1:35:04Speaker 1: We grew up with loss. You know what I'm saying, Like.
- 1:35:10Speaker 3: I didn't ask you ship, no, no, So I feel
- 1:35:16Speaker 3: like that we grew up with lots like we we
- 1:35:17Speaker 3: grew up with loss. We we we know what it's
- 1:35:20Speaker 3: like to go without. And now all these now because
- 1:35:26Speaker 3: we did like that, we were like that. A lot
- 1:35:29Speaker 3: of these a lot of like gen like jen Oufen
- 1:35:32Speaker 3: and uh, you know, moving forward, they're you know, they
- 1:35:36Speaker 3: they got the parents that that's working hard, that's working hard,
- 1:35:38Speaker 3: and they looking for how to make make them more
- 1:35:39Speaker 3: money so they don't have to go through that same
- 1:35:41Speaker 3: ship that we went through as we went through as kids.
- 1:35:44Speaker 3: So it's like, yo, they don't know, they don't they
- 1:35:46Speaker 3: looking at it like like like Brandon said, you know,
- 1:35:50Speaker 3: the most of most of they suffer is I.
- 1:35:52Speaker 1: Can't get a girlfriend, I don't got a job right now,
- 1:35:54Speaker 1: because they don't know, right, they don't. They don't know.
- 1:35:57Speaker 3: They they didn't grow up. They didn't grow up without it,
- 1:36:00Speaker 3: like without it like we did. Or they didn't have
- 1:36:02Speaker 3: to work for it like we did.
- 1:36:05Speaker 2: They just they they came into existence when we everything
- 1:36:08Speaker 2: was set in place, and they see it from their
- 1:36:10Speaker 2: reference point forward.
- 1:36:11Speaker 3: Yep, Because like I said, I mean, like like were
- 1:36:14Speaker 3: talking kind of like a sense of entitlement to me,
- 1:36:17Speaker 3: you think it's a sense of enticement.
- 1:36:19Speaker 4: Why it's like because they don't have to work for anything,
- 1:36:22Speaker 4: so they don't understand the struggle.
- 1:36:24Speaker 2: They don't understand what it's.
- 1:36:26Speaker 3: Like to you say that they don't have to that
- 1:36:28Speaker 3: they don't know how to work for anything. Don't they
- 1:36:31Speaker 3: know how to?
- 1:36:32Speaker 2: I think this new generation is spoiling.
- 1:36:34Speaker 1: It's both they don't know how to do it.
- 1:36:35Speaker 2: They spoil Like I talked my son that all the time,
- 1:36:38Speaker 2: Like sir, I had a job at fourteen.
- 1:36:40Speaker 1: Real quick, just just just dating, Like I don't have
- 1:36:45Speaker 1: a girl. I don't have a girlfriend. Yo.
- 1:36:47Speaker 3: We had to go to the mall. We had to
- 1:36:48Speaker 3: go to school, like we had to go to school.
- 1:36:50Speaker 3: We had to talk to them and talk to them.
- 1:36:52Speaker 2: In third place, third places but.
- 1:36:54Speaker 3: You have to go. Yeah, I'm talking like yo, you
- 1:36:56Speaker 3: had to put in work before you even got the
- 1:37:00Speaker 3: phone number. And then when you got her phone number,
- 1:37:03Speaker 3: you still had to put in work. You still have
- 1:37:05Speaker 3: to call every you got a call every day, pass
- 1:37:07Speaker 3: little notes on, pass little notes back and forth when
- 1:37:09Speaker 3: you when you see each other in the hallway before
- 1:37:12Speaker 3: you can even and then set up a date, set
- 1:37:14Speaker 3: up a date and time where you come over and
- 1:37:16Speaker 3: meet the fam, meet her family before you can be like, hey,
- 1:37:20Speaker 3: can we go to the movies?
- 1:37:22Speaker 1: And then even with the movies, you know, you had
- 1:37:25Speaker 1: to you had to do. You had to work.
- 1:37:26Speaker 3: You had to work for an allowance, then save up
- 1:37:28Speaker 3: the money to you know, save up the money so
- 1:37:30Speaker 3: you can buy movie tickets. I mean grantedate was like
- 1:37:32Speaker 3: ten dollars and they was.
- 1:37:33Speaker 2: Like like sha for the prime time movie, not twenty.
- 1:37:37Speaker 3: Five five extra. But we like we we got taught
- 1:37:42Speaker 3: that if you wanted something, you gotta work for and
- 1:37:45Speaker 3: you actually you can't.
- 1:37:46Speaker 2: The internet was not a thing when we were growing
- 1:37:49Speaker 2: up to where you could spend your entire life in
- 1:37:50Speaker 2: front of a screen and make community on the screen.
- 1:37:52Speaker 3: You had to leave your house to go to the
- 1:37:54Speaker 3: fuck outside.
- 1:37:55Speaker 2: But it was also a thing of back then we
- 1:37:57Speaker 2: had the places and a lot of places nowadays, a
- 1:37:59Speaker 2: lot of things nowadays that we had it just don't exist.
- 1:38:02Speaker 2: Malls are banded teenagers after a certain hour, but they're
- 1:38:06Speaker 2: banding teenagers. The community centers are closing. People don't. The
- 1:38:10Speaker 2: kids nowadays don't. They don't have a lot of the places.
- 1:38:13Speaker 2: We had to go to fine community.
- 1:38:17Speaker 1: Niggas just to hang out at the library, power centers.
- 1:38:20Speaker 3: I was a reader, so I love the library, you
- 1:38:23Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, Going to the like going just
- 1:38:25Speaker 3: going though, going to them all without no money and
- 1:38:28Speaker 3: just you know, just just hanging out like nobody. And
- 1:38:31Speaker 3: I think, but like I said, it's like we we
- 1:38:35Speaker 3: we suffer that social you know, we suffer that social loss.
- 1:38:38Speaker 1: We suffered that like.
- 1:38:39Speaker 3: You know, getting fired, like getting fired from the job
- 1:38:42Speaker 3: or working so like working so hard, like working so hard,
- 1:38:45Speaker 3: and then it's like, yo, you just needed that one
- 1:38:48Speaker 3: little bit, and you know, we was devastated and we
- 1:38:52Speaker 3: had to deal with that. And it's like nowadays, I
- 1:38:55Speaker 3: think because a lot of a lot of people grew
- 1:38:57Speaker 3: up like that, they make sure that their kids don't
- 1:38:59Speaker 3: got to go to that shit. They make sure they
- 1:39:01Speaker 3: do everything for their child so their child don't have
- 1:39:04Speaker 3: to experience that kind of like experience that kind of
- 1:39:07Speaker 3: loss or that experience that kind of I don't want
- 1:39:10Speaker 3: to say social, I mean social def like social emotional deficit, the.
- 1:39:16Speaker 2: Lack of social social skills, so the lack of in
- 1:39:19Speaker 2: person social skills, the understanding.
- 1:39:22Speaker 3: And they had to go through.
- 1:39:25Speaker 4: Being homeschool during the pandemic and some of them had
- 1:39:29Speaker 4: just like my godson, he that was the year he
- 1:39:32Speaker 4: started high school. He was just going really going to
- 1:39:36Speaker 4: high school then, and he did high school online, so
- 1:39:42Speaker 4: he didn't really get to and at that level because
- 1:39:48Speaker 4: he was home, it wasn't no in person stuff going on.
- 1:39:50Speaker 4: The same thing with trade traders in middle school when
- 1:39:52Speaker 4: it was going on.
- 1:39:53Speaker 3: So my former GM at that time, at the time
- 1:39:57Speaker 3: he was like twenty two, he acquit. He he stopped
- 1:40:00Speaker 3: going to school and as as we're working. As we're working.
- 1:40:05Speaker 3: To mind you, I've been a manager before, so it's
- 1:40:07Speaker 3: like I know, you know I have insight, but you don't.
- 1:40:10Speaker 3: But he doesn't really he didn't really know how to
- 1:40:12Speaker 3: talk to people. And I was like, yo, you quit school,
- 1:40:16Speaker 3: you quit, you quit, you quit school in the tenth
- 1:40:19Speaker 3: like the tenth grade and between. I mean, I'm sorry,
- 1:40:22Speaker 3: like like, yeah, somewhere somewhere between that. But you stopped
- 1:40:25Speaker 3: going to school after a while. And there's certain things
- 1:40:28Speaker 3: that high school teaches you before you come out, before
- 1:40:32Speaker 3: you come out here in the quote unquote real world.
- 1:40:35Speaker 3: And he was like he looked at me. I was like, Yo,
- 1:40:37Speaker 3: you don't know how to talk to people. You don't
- 1:40:39Speaker 3: know how to accept accept criticism, like and he was
- 1:40:42Speaker 3: looking at I was like, Yo, you're looking at me
- 1:40:44Speaker 3: right now, like you like you like you're pissed off
- 1:40:46Speaker 3: right now because I'm telling you about yourself. You don't
- 1:40:48Speaker 3: know how to accept criticism. You don't.
- 1:40:50Speaker 1: You never, you never.
- 1:40:51Speaker 3: You didn't stay in school long enough to learn that.
- 1:40:53Speaker 1: You don't know. You don't you don't understand rejection.
- 1:40:57Speaker 3: And at this time, he was just coming like he
- 1:40:59Speaker 3: came out and he was trying to date and the
- 1:41:02Speaker 3: people that he was the guy he was trying to date,
- 1:41:06Speaker 3: I'm sorry, he was on tender and he was getting
- 1:41:08Speaker 3: rejected and he didn't like it and he didn't understand
- 1:41:10Speaker 3: it and he didn't like it. I'm like, Yo, you didn't,
- 1:41:12Speaker 3: you didn't stay in school long enough to learn that.
- 1:41:15Speaker 2: But I think it's not just that. I think a
- 1:41:18Speaker 2: lot of kids and we said like old people saying
- 1:41:21Speaker 2: this generation, but a lot of kids don't understand or
- 1:41:26Speaker 2: have not learned that ejection. Rejection is a part of
- 1:41:29Speaker 2: the process. They hit rejection and it's like, oh God,
- 1:41:33Speaker 2: I don't know what to do, and they run. But
- 1:41:36Speaker 2: they don't know that you have to learn to work
- 1:41:38Speaker 2: through rejection, to work around it, or even in the
- 1:41:41Speaker 2: instance of talking to women. And I say that as
- 1:41:43Speaker 2: a person who was horrified of the social interaction in general.
- 1:41:46Speaker 2: It's a teenager, but rejection. You weren't going to get
- 1:41:51Speaker 2: the number of every girl you spoke to.
- 1:41:52Speaker 1: Facts fucking right.
- 1:41:54Speaker 2: And it was in a lot of ways to hate
- 1:41:55Speaker 2: to reduce it to this, but it was a numbers game.
- 1:41:57Speaker 2: You would go to see how many girls can I
- 1:41:59Speaker 2: talk to? What type of conversations can I have with
- 1:42:02Speaker 2: these girls? So you learn to basically, for lack of
- 1:42:05Speaker 2: for lack of a better term, to be a salesman
- 1:42:07Speaker 2: for yourself, to sell yourself to somebody, to garner enough
- 1:42:11Speaker 2: interest to give them your number. You work on hit
- 1:42:13Speaker 2: sometimes sometimes you would hit. Sometimes you ally and hope
- 1:42:17Speaker 2: it will go in the basket. Sometimes you surprise yourself,
- 1:42:20Speaker 2: like damn, I pull shorty.
- 1:42:22Speaker 3: I mean sometimes projection was the name of the game,
- 1:42:24Speaker 3: and they sometimes you need to help.
- 1:42:25Speaker 4: Yeah, and sometimes grown up with a fair of rejection,
- 1:42:27Speaker 4: so I know wines that feels like. So that plays
- 1:42:31Speaker 4: a lot of the reason as to how I developed
- 1:42:34Speaker 4: the personality where I like to crack jokes and all
- 1:42:36Speaker 4: that stuff like that, because I'm like, that's usually how
- 1:42:38Speaker 4: people end up talking to me and then it goes now,
- 1:42:40Speaker 4: But I've never been the one to try to approach
- 1:42:42Speaker 4: a guy or anything like that nine times ten alcohol
- 1:42:45Speaker 4: is involved or I'm cracking the damn joke or a
- 1:42:47Speaker 4: combination of me with nineteen hits. I still traumatized from that, sir,
- 1:42:57Speaker 4: like I was fit to change my name. Nigga, you first,
- 1:43:00Speaker 4: don't even breathe over here.
- 1:43:01Speaker 3: Like no offense to like no offense like no offense
- 1:43:03Speaker 3: to like no offense to you. But yo, y'all, y'all
- 1:43:05Speaker 3: really your women, y'all, y'all don't y'all y'all already got
- 1:43:09Speaker 3: it as hard as like the niggas do because y'all,
- 1:43:12Speaker 3: like yo, you can't come in frumpy, like you go
- 1:43:15Speaker 3: with frumpy and it's still it's still a nigga.
- 1:43:17Speaker 1: Hey, hey, put a lady, how you doing today?
- 1:43:20Speaker 3: Can you know?
- 1:43:20Speaker 1: Can I get Can I get you? Can I get
- 1:43:22Speaker 1: you a coffee?
- 1:43:23Speaker 3: Like you know I'm saying, I'm saying in general, like
- 1:43:25Speaker 3: I mean, but see how you're looking around? How you
- 1:43:28Speaker 3: looking around? He's like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yea, I'm talking
- 1:43:30Speaker 3: to you, pretty lady. What the fuck you talking? Sorry?
- 1:43:33Speaker 3: My head is home on the pool on the dresser.
- 1:43:37Speaker 3: Nigga will still ye, nigga will still go out.
- 1:43:40Speaker 2: Ship stays on the bed. Bright God, these niggas. I
- 1:43:45Speaker 2: put it on late.
- 1:43:45Speaker 1: I got ship to do you feel me?
- 1:43:47Speaker 3: A man, I mean, but a man will go out
- 1:43:50Speaker 3: his way just to say, hey, pretty lady. But you
- 1:43:54Speaker 3: know most of us, you know, most of us over here,
- 1:43:56Speaker 3: you know, most of us men over here on the
- 1:43:57Speaker 3: other side of the ginger pool.
- 1:43:58Speaker 1: We don't even get that win to get that.
- 1:44:00Speaker 2: But also this also, and I'm glad I thought of
- 1:44:03Speaker 2: this just now. This also is a symptom of the
- 1:44:08Speaker 2: fact that women have been have been surpassing us for decades.
- 1:44:14Speaker 2: Women out number especially and I can speak on as
- 1:44:16Speaker 2: far as HBCUs go. Black women outnumber men on college
- 1:44:20Speaker 2: campuses in some instances six to one, seven to one,
- 1:44:23Speaker 2: eight to one. Black women or women in general, are
- 1:44:26Speaker 2: educated at faster rates. Black women have earlier access or
- 1:44:32Speaker 2: they have an earlier understanding of emotional intelligence, emotional stability,
- 1:44:36Speaker 2: a lot of things that they were brought up with
- 1:44:39Speaker 2: that we as men, unfortunately, and a lot of instances,
- 1:44:42Speaker 2: have to learn in our twenties and thirties and forties.
- 1:44:44Speaker 2: After we've a lot of us have gotten married and
- 1:44:46Speaker 2: you have kids, and you don't know why your wife
- 1:44:49Speaker 2: is pissed off at you because she's saying she needs
- 1:44:51Speaker 2: you to be more emotionally. President said, well, bitch, I'm
- 1:44:53Speaker 2: sitting here, what else you want me to do? Like
- 1:44:55Speaker 2: women and women they go into the workforce and they
- 1:45:00Speaker 2: they go up the corporate ladder at faster rates than
- 1:45:04Speaker 2: we as black men do. They go way further than
- 1:45:08Speaker 2: we do. And when you have like, it boils back
- 1:45:11Speaker 2: into the whole point I said earlier, of this whole
- 1:45:14Speaker 2: like not knowing how to understand rejection. Of course, if
- 1:45:17Speaker 2: I'm an eighteen year old black man or nineteen year
- 1:45:20Speaker 2: old black man who didn't go to college, I'm working
- 1:45:22Speaker 2: a dead end job, or I don't work. I graduate
- 1:45:24Speaker 2: from school and I'm sitting in at my mom's house
- 1:45:26Speaker 2: in the basement gaming all day, streaming on Twitch. If
- 1:45:30Speaker 2: I'm an eighteen nineteen year old man who was nerdy
- 1:45:33Speaker 2: as hell growing up, I didn't ever gain the skills
- 1:45:36Speaker 2: to approach women in public because I was too afraid to,
- 1:45:39Speaker 2: or I've spent so much time gaming and in front
- 1:45:41Speaker 2: of screens talking to people online and not having those
- 1:45:45Speaker 2: social skills. And then after I go from high school,
- 1:45:48Speaker 2: I don't go to college, and I'm not in places
- 1:45:50Speaker 2: where I have to interact with people in person to
- 1:45:52Speaker 2: learn those soft skills. And all I've ever known is
- 1:45:55Speaker 2: my computer. I know Twitch, I know gaming, I know this,
- 1:45:57Speaker 2: I know that, and the people that are on those
- 1:46:00Speaker 2: platforms who are most likely in a lot of cases,
- 1:46:02Speaker 2: I'm not sure that the exact demographic breakground, but I'm
- 1:46:04Speaker 2: sure most of them are other men and teenage boys
- 1:46:08Speaker 2: around my age. I would feel some type of way that, oh,
- 1:46:10Speaker 2: I can't get a girlfriend. I don't know what the
- 1:46:12Speaker 2: fuck I'm doing, because why would a girl who's in
- 1:46:15Speaker 2: college knowing that she wants to go to law school
- 1:46:17Speaker 2: or go to medical school or wants to have a career.
- 1:46:20Speaker 2: Why would she settle for this nineteen year old or
- 1:46:23Speaker 2: the guy who's her age, who's not in school, who
- 1:46:25Speaker 2: doesn't work, who doesn't do anything.
- 1:46:26Speaker 3: Right in as friends.
- 1:46:29Speaker 4: Yeah, But sad thing about it is a lot of
- 1:46:31Speaker 4: them do fall for Some of them like that, some
- 1:46:34Speaker 4: of them their downfall.
- 1:46:35Speaker 3: Some of them do.
- 1:46:37Speaker 2: But and it's not necessarily to say that men are
- 1:46:39Speaker 2: the problem, because there are some guys who get caught
- 1:46:41Speaker 2: up with women who don't have much going for themselves,
- 1:46:43Speaker 2: and they end up fault getting trapped by women in
- 1:46:46Speaker 2: the same way women get trapped by men. It's not
- 1:46:48Speaker 2: a specific thing. But as far as talking about the
- 1:46:51Speaker 2: guys who can't fall victim to like red pill ideology,
- 1:46:55Speaker 2: if you feel like you have a system of titlement
- 1:46:57Speaker 2: to it, you feel like you're old, old, that you're old,
- 1:47:00Speaker 2: romantic connection, you're old, the job, you're old, all these things.
- 1:47:03Speaker 2: And I see this for lack of a better turn,
- 1:47:06Speaker 2: not lack of a better term. But I see this
- 1:47:09Speaker 2: bitch over here who is in college and she's going
- 1:47:11Speaker 2: to law school, and I'm twenty three, And then my
- 1:47:13Speaker 2: mama's house in the basement. I can't do nothing. This
- 1:47:16Speaker 2: lucky bitch, she don't want me. Now it's fuck women,
- 1:47:18Speaker 2: and I don't like this. And I'm listening to Cobrata
- 1:47:21Speaker 2: because i want to be an alpha man because what
- 1:47:23Speaker 2: I'm a man and what I say goes. And this
- 1:47:25Speaker 2: woman looking at you like bitch, I make you don't work.
- 1:47:27Speaker 2: I make two hundred fifty K. Yeah, bitch, get out
- 1:47:29Speaker 2: my face.
- 1:47:31Speaker 4: But that's why appointment with a therapist. Man book an
- 1:47:35Speaker 4: appointment with therapy.
- 1:47:37Speaker 2: A lot of these got, these red pill guys, since
- 1:47:40Speaker 2: that there's a pandemic of loneliness, they latch onto that
- 1:47:45Speaker 2: and use that to further their agendas. Beyonce said it,
- 1:47:49Speaker 2: I think in her documentary Years of her Life is
- 1:47:51Speaker 2: but a dream. Sometimes you could put the most effort
- 1:47:55Speaker 2: into it. You could work for something, you can kill
- 1:47:57Speaker 2: yourself for it and still fail at it.
- 1:48:00Speaker 3: Yep.
- 1:48:00Speaker 2: Until you learn to pick yourself from up from that
- 1:48:03Speaker 2: failure and keep going, you'll never grow from it. So
- 1:48:09Speaker 2: anything else.
- 1:48:12Speaker 4: We've been a very spirited conversation for the last episode
- 1:48:16Speaker 4: of twenty twenty Folk.
- 1:48:18Speaker 2: Yes we have season two spiritual best, Yes, but I
- 1:48:24Speaker 2: mean yeah, as we go, as we go, into the
- 1:48:26Speaker 2: holiday season. Y'all do you love when your people build
- 1:48:30Speaker 2: your communities? Invest I would say, start volunteering. If you
- 1:48:34Speaker 2: have some free time, go volunteer your local food bank,
- 1:48:37Speaker 2: find ways to get involved, because we have to start
- 1:48:40Speaker 2: looking out for each other. And until something changes, we
- 1:48:45Speaker 2: all we got until something changes.
- 1:48:47Speaker 3: Agree. But I mean even if even if there's something
- 1:48:49Speaker 3: doesn't change, I mean, even if something doesn't change, we
- 1:48:53Speaker 3: really do.
- 1:48:54Speaker 1: I mean we really do.
- 1:48:55Speaker 3: Y'tta start sticking the life, starts sticking together a little
- 1:48:59Speaker 3: bit more and start trying to take care of everything
- 1:49:02Speaker 3: like you know, like it was when now when our
- 1:49:04Speaker 3: grandparents grew up, like like a sense of community.
- 1:49:08Speaker 1: I just seen something with David.
- 1:49:10Speaker 3: David Banner was talking about like you know, if you had,
- 1:49:13Speaker 3: if you had you know, he was saying, like the
- 1:49:15Speaker 3: black cops, and like the cops and neighborhoods, and it's like,
- 1:49:19Speaker 3: you know, if you have a cop that live in
- 1:49:24Speaker 3: that neighborhood, in that in that in that police car,
- 1:49:27Speaker 3: with with the with you know, with this partner, you know,
- 1:49:31Speaker 3: the chrome will go down because like crime break will
- 1:49:33Speaker 3: probably go down because I know this motherfucker. You know
- 1:49:36Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like you like you know the cop,
- 1:49:38Speaker 3: like you know the cop, like you know they know
- 1:49:40Speaker 3: the cop.
- 1:49:41Speaker 1: The cop knows everybody in the neighborhood, like everybody in neighborhoods.
- 1:49:43Speaker 3: But that goes back to when police actually.
- 1:49:47Speaker 4: Walk the beat and they knew people and they knew
- 1:49:50Speaker 4: nig I know your grandmother. Uh you shure you want
- 1:49:52Speaker 4: to do that there right now?
- 1:49:56Speaker 3: And I believe that, you know, we kind of we
- 1:49:59Speaker 3: kind of need this their back to like stay back
- 1:50:01Speaker 3: to that, like Brandon said, the sense of community, a
- 1:50:03Speaker 3: sense of helping and being you know, being there for
- 1:50:06Speaker 3: being there for everybody. Like I'm waiting for that day,
- 1:50:09Speaker 3: you know, for this boy to start going to school
- 1:50:11Speaker 3: and it's like, oh, all right, I'm gonna be and
- 1:50:12Speaker 3: I'm gonna be pta.
- 1:50:14Speaker 2: You gotta get involved and it starts you start that
- 1:50:18Speaker 2: community based especially you know with kids, you have to
- 1:50:22Speaker 2: start that young. Show them that they have people that
- 1:50:25Speaker 2: love them, they have a community of people who care
- 1:50:27Speaker 2: about them and who are invested in their success, and
- 1:50:31Speaker 2: that it serves it serves to just help them grow
- 1:50:34Speaker 2: and broadens their horizons about about you know, there's other
- 1:50:38Speaker 2: things that they can do.
- 1:50:39Speaker 4: You have them find different interests you don't have to
- 1:50:42Speaker 4: because you're coming from the hood.
- 1:50:43Speaker 3: You don't have to be a rapper football player.
- 1:50:47Speaker 2: Just because you've seen just because you see one thing
- 1:50:51Speaker 2: in life doesn't mean that that's all there is. And
- 1:50:54Speaker 2: it's all about exposure. It's all about exposing kids in
- 1:50:57Speaker 2: your Community's two different things. That's why I say get involved.
- 1:51:00Speaker 2: If you can mentor, if you if you're built for mentoring,
- 1:51:03Speaker 2: find somebody you can mentor and spend time with and
- 1:51:05Speaker 2: talk to. Like it all starts. We have to work
- 1:51:07Speaker 2: on improving community based efforts mutual A.
- 1:51:11Speaker 3: You have to.
- 1:51:11Speaker 2: We have to work on expanding care of us in
- 1:51:14Speaker 2: our communities because things gonna be done for a while, right, Sorry, no,
- 1:51:20Speaker 2: all good? So any we wrapped up that. What's the
- 1:51:25Speaker 2: next segment? We're doing Q and A this episode we're
- 1:51:27Speaker 2: doing we are.
- 1:51:28Speaker 4: We're going to do our final QB and A questions
- 1:51:31Speaker 4: for twenty four as well as birthday questions for the
- 1:51:34Speaker 4: birthday boy Brandon his birth his birthday is on the sixteenth.
- 1:51:40Speaker 4: While shouting out Brandon, we also want to shout out
- 1:51:43Speaker 4: our nephew Dante, whose birthday is seventeen the day after
- 1:51:46Speaker 4: mind yeah, and our sister kid whose birthday is the
- 1:51:48Speaker 4: twenty first have the birthday kid. And our cousin Shay.
- 1:51:51Speaker 4: My cousin Shay who was on the show earlier in
- 1:51:54Speaker 4: the year. Shaye's birthday is actually Christmas Eve, Christmas Eve.
- 1:51:59Speaker 4: And our brother who will probably be on the show
- 1:52:01Speaker 4: in season three, whose birthday is New Year's.
- 1:52:04Speaker 2: Eve, oh Ma, and my puppy dog my baby birthday
- 1:52:10Speaker 2: New Year's Evening.
- 1:52:13Speaker 3: My son's godmothers one is, but their birthdays is the
- 1:52:18Speaker 3: twentieth and twenty second.
- 1:52:20Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, the twentieth and the twenty second.
- 1:52:22Speaker 2: Oh, we don't acknowledge know what the godmother's around here
- 1:52:24Speaker 2: but me and keep it.
- 1:52:25Speaker 1: I apologize, you know.
- 1:52:26Speaker 2: Hey, all right, y'all. Well, we're gonna take another commercial break.
- 1:52:31Speaker 2: We'll be right back. He'll be back three years back.
- 1:52:37Speaker 2: Go ahead, Sean, what we're doing a.
- 1:52:39Speaker 3: H right, y'all.
- 1:52:40Speaker 2: So twenty twenty four, we have come to an end. Baby,
- 1:52:44Speaker 2: it has been a year. It has been a year
- 1:52:46Speaker 2: of buckle downs, lessons learned and whatnot. And we would
- 1:52:51Speaker 2: not be wanting all.
- 1:52:51Speaker 4: Daisy to Paul because if we didn't have fuckery. So
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- 1:55:03Speaker 3: All right.
- 1:55:05Speaker 4: Vaughn served me divorce papers while I was in the
- 1:55:08Speaker 4: hospital alone and giving birth to our first child. I
- 1:55:12Speaker 4: worked extra jobs to feed out family while he was
- 1:55:14Speaker 4: in medical school. Vaughn became a dentist and cheated on
- 1:55:17Speaker 4: me throughout our six year marriage. I told him that
- 1:55:20Speaker 4: I refused to sign the papers until he came to
- 1:55:22Speaker 4: the hospital and met our new boys son. Vaughn arrived
- 1:55:25Speaker 4: with his twenty three year old mistress with him. She
- 1:55:28Speaker 4: was balking about me interrupting dinner, so I refused to
- 1:55:31Speaker 4: sign the papers.
- 1:55:32Speaker 2: I was a mess.
- 1:55:34Speaker 4: I cried so hard. I howled into my young Filipino nurse, Sonny.
- 1:55:41Speaker 4: I told her everything, and she had security put Vonn
- 1:55:43Speaker 4: in his girlfriend out. I was drugged and depressed. Sonny
- 1:55:46Speaker 4: bought another Filipino nurse into my room, and then a
- 1:55:49Speaker 4: black nurse, Tasiana.
- 1:55:51Speaker 3: I was so ashamed.
- 1:55:53Speaker 4: The next afternoon, I was preparing to be discharged when
- 1:55:56Speaker 4: police interrupted my room. They told me Vamas in a
- 1:55:59Speaker 4: serious hit and run accident and he didn't make it.
- 1:56:02Speaker 4: Fifteen minutes after leaving my room, a black jeep brand
- 1:56:05Speaker 4: vond over. They didn't mention his girlfriend. I'm not sure
- 1:56:08Speaker 4: if she was there or if they didn't want me
- 1:56:11Speaker 4: to know that he had cheated on me. Tatiana told
- 1:56:15Speaker 4: me the doctor wanted me to stay an additional day
- 1:56:17Speaker 4: for observation. I told her Vonn died. Tatiana responded, yeah,
- 1:56:23Speaker 4: we prayed hard over you last night. Vaughn's untimely death
- 1:56:26Speaker 4: made me feel like the universe had my back.
- 1:56:29Speaker 3: Here's a question.
- 1:56:31Speaker 4: Vaughn's family and friends pressured me to have a funeral
- 1:56:34Speaker 4: with a viewing, etc. To celebrate his life.
- 1:56:39Speaker 3: I create.
- 1:56:39Speaker 4: I cremated him and sent his mom his ashes, because
- 1:56:45Speaker 4: fuck him.
- 1:56:47Speaker 2: Basically she was heartbroken. Will I get calmer for this?
- 1:56:52Speaker 3: Ps?
- 1:56:53Speaker 4: I named my son George Michael because fuck Vonnsagel.
- 1:57:01Speaker 2: I think that that's a song for episode chim mm hmmm,
- 1:57:16Speaker 2: you're not.
- 1:57:17Speaker 1: Karma is not gonna get you because oh my god.
- 1:57:23Speaker 3: Now, and it was.
- 1:57:25Speaker 2: It was. It was covered in part to I feel
- 1:57:28Speaker 2: like them run flats them.
- 1:57:30Speaker 3: To Filipinia.
- 1:57:33Speaker 2: And got coma brought to you by fire stone.
- 1:57:39Speaker 4: She said, they prayed hard over you, baby. They they
- 1:57:45Speaker 4: may know who was involved, but shout out to them.
- 1:57:51Speaker 2: You did nothing wrong.
- 1:57:52Speaker 4: As his wife and his Mexican, you had to write
- 1:57:54Speaker 4: the decide what you wanted to do when it came
- 1:57:56Speaker 4: to celebrating his life.
- 1:57:57Speaker 2: At least you sent to the ashes back. You didn't
- 1:57:59Speaker 2: throw them over the side a bridge.
- 1:58:00Speaker 3: And it wasn't ship and it wasn't shipp in writing
- 1:58:03Speaker 3: that you couldn't do with that exactly.
- 1:58:05Speaker 4: You were his wife legally and you had a right
- 1:58:09Speaker 4: to do what you saw fit because how did his
- 1:58:11Speaker 4: mama know that he didn't want to be cremated.
- 1:58:16Speaker 2: But it doesn't matter because as the Mexican, being the wife,
- 1:58:19Speaker 2: it would be decision to make.
- 1:58:21Speaker 3: She got his.
- 1:58:21Speaker 4: Asses, telling him something in him and form him into
- 1:58:24Speaker 4: something for her and his mama, his mama, fuck wrong.
- 1:58:27Speaker 2: Shout out to you, says I'm glad you had a
- 1:58:29Speaker 2: healthy baby. Hey, George, Michael T T Shawn and said, hey,
- 1:58:32Speaker 2: how you doing.
- 1:58:33Speaker 3: Okay? You weren't wrong, You weren't wrong. I would have left.
- 1:58:39Speaker 2: I would have donated his body the science.
- 1:58:44Speaker 1: He always wanted.
- 1:58:45Speaker 2: I would have left them claimed more personally.
- 1:58:48Speaker 3: But always wanted to be he always wanted to be
- 1:58:50Speaker 3: an organ.
- 1:58:50Speaker 2: Donna says, you you you didn't do anything wrong.
- 1:58:53Speaker 3: You do what you saw.
- 1:58:55Speaker 4: You do what you thought it was right, what you
- 1:58:58Speaker 4: saw fit. Came and shout out to your nurses who
- 1:59:01Speaker 4: confided you and made you feel good. Okay, shout out
- 1:59:06Speaker 4: and Sonny and the other lady who named you didn't
- 1:59:07Speaker 4: give us. Shout out to them, good nurses, some good woman.
- 1:59:14Speaker 1: All I heard was what was your love?
- 1:59:18Speaker 2: That is just propositive that you don't funck nobody over
- 1:59:23Speaker 2: like that. If all your ducks in in the bro
- 1:59:27Speaker 2: they will always get the last laugh.
- 1:59:31Speaker 3: That's bad that they that they had to go down
- 1:59:33Speaker 3: like that. Well, but.
- 1:59:38Speaker 2: Hey, well it's good for the goose, is good for
- 1:59:41Speaker 2: the nigga.
- 1:59:42Speaker 1: The whole time she read.
- 1:59:43Speaker 3: The whole time she reading, y'all. He got turned to
- 1:59:46Speaker 3: a speed bump said, was looking at me like, nigga,
- 1:59:50Speaker 3: what the hell is wrong with you? Bro?
- 1:59:51Speaker 1: The whole time yo, she's reading. I'm laughing, my.
- 1:59:56Speaker 3: Because that's just how that's just how the universe works.
- 1:59:59Speaker 3: Well mmmmm, you give out what you you give out,
- 2:00:05Speaker 3: you get what you put on what you give. That's crazy,
- 2:00:11Speaker 3: ship my, nigga. Oh, because you should have just went
- 2:00:16Speaker 3: through see your son.
- 2:00:17Speaker 2: I hope who ever hit him with the what the
- 2:00:19Speaker 2: jeep was listening to a chamelionaire at the time, so
- 2:00:30Speaker 2: I walked right into that next question. Mm hmmm. Alright,
- 2:00:37Speaker 2: we're gonna finish this year out with six round ticks.
- 2:00:40Speaker 4: I'm just gonna stay on this thread, just gonna stay
- 2:00:42Speaker 4: here because it's just some real jewels on here today.
- 2:00:46Speaker 3: My attractive neighbors, a real light.
- 2:00:48Speaker 2: Barbie and Kin couple have been flirting and feeding me
- 2:00:52Speaker 2: and my husband for a year. Clearly they're more interested
- 2:00:56Speaker 2: in me. I've been married for two years, no children. Unfortunately,
- 2:01:00Speaker 2: my husband no longer satisfied me. Maybe because I'm attracted
- 2:01:04Speaker 2: to the couple.
- 2:01:05Speaker 4: Barbie invited me to join their family to be a
- 2:01:08Speaker 4: lover to the both of them. We live in the
- 2:01:10Speaker 4: same sprawling condo, building on different floors. I left my
- 2:01:14Speaker 4: husband and moved out of our condo. My husband was devastated.
- 2:01:19Speaker 4: The first two weeks with Ken and Barbie were amazing.
- 2:01:22Speaker 4: I enjoyed myself with them. The third week, Ken's double
- 2:01:26Speaker 4: am poutee for the movements. He lost both his feet
- 2:01:29Speaker 4: to diabetes.
- 2:01:31Speaker 3: Not the sugar, the shelter, the sugar.
- 2:01:34Speaker 4: The sexy time stopped immediately. Canon Barbie went on dinner
- 2:01:38Speaker 4: dates without me. I was left behind to take care
- 2:01:40Speaker 4: of their dead. I was the one cooking, cleaning, and wiping.
- 2:01:44Speaker 4: Canon Barbie didn't want me. They wanted free home health
- 2:01:47Speaker 4: care for their dad. A few weeks later, I went
- 2:01:49Speaker 4: back to my husband. He changed the locks. As I
- 2:01:53Speaker 4: fumbled with my kid, the door opened. It was his
- 2:01:55Speaker 4: female coworker, wearing nothing but a T shirt. I want
- 2:01:59Speaker 4: my husband back, but he he's not willing to discuss
- 2:02:01Speaker 4: this advice.
- 2:02:03Speaker 2: Ma'am, you made permanent decision over over being fucking horny,
- 2:02:08Speaker 2: and you get what the fuck you deserve. They played
- 2:02:11Speaker 2: your ass like a Victroller record player, not a victrola
- 2:02:15Speaker 2: victroller bitch, they played atari. They had to wind that
- 2:02:20Speaker 2: ship up to get it to start running. That's your fault, and.
- 2:02:25Speaker 3: Bitch, you should have know. You should have known it
- 2:02:26Speaker 3: was a set up. Come on, sugar, like the minutes
- 2:02:31Speaker 3: you go, like the minutes you're going there all of
- 2:02:33Speaker 3: a sudden, all of a sudden, it's like her double
- 2:02:36Speaker 3: amputee father because he had dire leaders. It's yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 2:02:43Speaker 3: now yo, it ain't worth it, ma'am. You have entered
- 2:02:46Speaker 3: the phase A funk around and she and she firmly
- 2:02:51Speaker 3: found out phase. She sucked around, left the husband. Baby,
- 2:02:54Speaker 3: she's strictly finding out now and.
- 2:02:56Speaker 2: Now you shook. You probably should move back in and
- 2:03:01Speaker 2: can continue to take care the fall. But you need
- 2:03:04Speaker 2: to start charging ass. That's what you should do. They
- 2:03:07Speaker 2: probably gonna put your ass out and finding somebody else.
- 2:03:10Speaker 2: But I don't blame your husband, but I have some
- 2:03:13Speaker 2: I have some advice for your shift.
- 2:03:18Speaker 4: Yeah, wear comfortable shoes. Cross is comfortable on your feet.
- 2:03:24Speaker 4: Go buy some scrubs. They be having them on sale
- 2:03:26Speaker 4: at Aldo. They be they they be two for twenty five,
- 2:03:31Speaker 4: that's what I heard.
- 2:03:32Speaker 3: You got them dibrators gonna go to form and mill.
- 2:03:36Speaker 4: They be om Mal or the thrist Store, because you
- 2:03:40Speaker 4: know they do donate some good stuff to the Drist store.
- 2:03:42Speaker 4: Go to one in the white neighborhoods though, maybe some
- 2:03:44Speaker 4: good ship. Well yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. The last question,
- 2:03:50Speaker 4: that is the last question before we move into birthday
- 2:03:52Speaker 4: questions for the birthday. One time for the birthday, two
- 2:03:58Speaker 4: times for the birthday, three time for the birthday.
- 2:04:02Speaker 3: Beat your birthday, beat the right.
- 2:04:05Speaker 2: Sure if you Laing's suthing like a commercial break, y'all,
- 2:04:08Speaker 2: Well yeah, no, one second thought, let's just going to
- 2:04:15Speaker 2: the birthday question. Aaron, you first hold on trump. So
- 2:04:21Speaker 2: every time one of the hosts has a birthday on
- 2:04:24Speaker 2: the show, we do birthday questions, and today it's time
- 2:04:28Speaker 2: four birthday questions.
- 2:04:32Speaker 3: Now that's my turn, So niggas five way an, I
- 2:04:38Speaker 3: got you go. If you know you got something in
- 2:04:41Speaker 3: the bag, go ahead. I gotta figure something about I
- 2:04:45Speaker 3: ain't got nothing in the bad.
- 2:04:46Speaker 4: Of course, it's gonna be my question every year, in
- 2:04:50Speaker 4: addition to something raunch that I'm come up with later,
- 2:04:52Speaker 4: But this is going to be my question every year.
- 2:04:56Speaker 3: What was your biggest lesson of twenty and twenty four?
- 2:05:01Speaker 2: My biggest lesson of twenty twenty four. One of the lessons,
- 2:05:05Speaker 2: the big life lessons I've learned this year is to
- 2:05:07Speaker 2: slow the fuck down, Yes.
- 2:05:10Speaker 3: And.
- 2:05:12Speaker 2: Coming to the realization that I've actually been grieving and
- 2:05:15Speaker 2: lost my mother this entire time. It took me until
- 2:05:18Speaker 2: about maybe sometime early this summer, three and a half
- 2:05:21Speaker 2: years after she passed, to realize, like, Damn, I've been
- 2:05:23Speaker 2: in grief this whole time. I've I lost interest in
- 2:05:25Speaker 2: stuff that I love doing. I would just sit and
- 2:05:27Speaker 2: just sit and just go through the motions of life.
- 2:05:31Speaker 2: And it took for me to go back to like,
- 2:05:33Speaker 2: I think watching John Wick. No not before watching John,
- 2:05:37Speaker 2: but watching watching sitting down and watching movies, something I
- 2:05:40Speaker 2: haven't done in years. Something I used to I used
- 2:05:41Speaker 2: to be able to sit and watch movies all day,
- 2:05:43Speaker 2: multiple movies back to back. And I did that for
- 2:05:46Speaker 2: the first time over the summer in years, and I
- 2:05:48Speaker 2: was like, damn, Like I really enjoyed doing this. And
- 2:05:51Speaker 2: I was like, why the hell haven't I been doing this?
- 2:05:54Speaker 3: Why?
- 2:05:55Speaker 2: And I went through the whole started the whole process
- 2:05:57Speaker 2: of like unpacking things and being like, damn, interesting in
- 2:06:00Speaker 2: a lot of the shit that I love doing. Of course,
- 2:06:02Speaker 2: pandemic played a part in that. But I think that
- 2:06:06Speaker 2: being in grief and trying to work navigate that, you know,
- 2:06:11Speaker 2: it kind of forced me to just sit and not
- 2:06:15Speaker 2: really do anything. And I came to a point where
- 2:06:19Speaker 2: I've realized that while I am still grief is a
- 2:06:21Speaker 2: lifelong process. You'll never not grieve the loss of people
- 2:06:25Speaker 2: your parents', family members' friends. But learning how to navigate
- 2:06:29Speaker 2: that and still live your life and experience life in
- 2:06:33Speaker 2: spite of grief is the lesson that I'm working through
- 2:06:37Speaker 2: right now, giving myself grace to just feel and to
- 2:06:43Speaker 2: just exist and not feel like I have to be
- 2:06:46Speaker 2: on and do fifty billion things.
- 2:06:48Speaker 1: All the time.
- 2:06:49Speaker 2: Sometimes you got to sit down and decompress. Knows I
- 2:06:52Speaker 2: don't sit down. I'm always doing fucking something. As I
- 2:06:53Speaker 2: sat up last night, I shaved my head, I was
- 2:06:55Speaker 2: doing laundry. Two o'clock in the morning, I clean my
- 2:06:57Speaker 2: bedroom and I was like, nigga, it's and I went
- 2:07:00Speaker 2: in the kitchen and empty the dishwah. I was like,
- 2:07:02Speaker 2: take your black ass to sleep. It's almost three o'clock
- 2:07:03Speaker 2: in the morning.
- 2:07:04Speaker 3: But I'm proud of you, thank you, very proud. I'm
- 2:07:07Speaker 3: proud of you. But because this ship you started taking naps.
- 2:07:11Speaker 2: I took a dap.
- 2:07:13Speaker 3: It's start.
- 2:07:14Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you're right, it's progress, you know, Grove Crow.
- 2:07:21Speaker 3: But I like, yeah, I'm I'm proud of you for
- 2:07:24Speaker 3: that because you know, I mean just taking just taking
- 2:07:27Speaker 3: that is taking time, you know, taking time to yourself too,
- 2:07:30Speaker 3: slow down and recharge. You slow down and recharge, and
- 2:07:33Speaker 3: you know, just to not you know, just to not
- 2:07:35Speaker 3: do nothing and feel okay not doing nothing.
- 2:07:38Speaker 2: Yeah, that's yeah. I feel like I always have to move,
- 2:07:41Speaker 2: just an adult ADHD symptom, but I always feel like
- 2:07:44Speaker 2: I have to do something. I have to always be
- 2:07:45Speaker 2: productive and just giving myself time to just sit and
- 2:07:48Speaker 2: just watch a movie, sit and go out and get
- 2:07:51Speaker 2: some air, go for.
- 2:07:51Speaker 3: A walk.
- 2:07:54Speaker 2: Again your body. You need your brain to break. And
- 2:07:56Speaker 2: even reading. I got back into reading books this year.
- 2:07:59Speaker 2: I think I've read thirteen books this year. I ain't
- 2:08:03Speaker 2: read to me damn books. And since i was like
- 2:08:05Speaker 2: in my early twenties and I'm almost done with Connie
- 2:08:08Speaker 2: Chunk's memoir, I'm like three I read. I had the
- 2:08:11Speaker 2: day off work for Veterans Day last month, and I
- 2:08:14Speaker 2: read the first three quarters of the book while I
- 2:08:16Speaker 2: was leading for my carnegiffiics and I have to go
- 2:08:18Speaker 2: back and read that the last maybe the last quarter
- 2:08:21Speaker 2: of it. But that'll be done before I'm off a
- 2:08:23Speaker 2: vacation for sure. I started a number.
- 2:08:25Speaker 3: Yeah, reading like I've been like, I mean, I've been
- 2:08:30Speaker 3: listening to like the audio books, and I love the
- 2:08:34Speaker 3: audio book.
- 2:08:34Speaker 2: I used to listen to them all the time I
- 2:08:36Speaker 2: used to work night shift.
- 2:08:37Speaker 3: I listened to I listened to the wrestler Becky Lyncher's book,
- 2:08:42Speaker 3: which navigated her throughout her pregnant I mean, talked about
- 2:08:46Speaker 3: her career, but then also like navigated like like a pregnancy,
- 2:08:52Speaker 3: you know, and also the day Ambrose another wrestler and
- 2:08:56Speaker 3: his career, and start my question for you. It's sort
- 2:09:01Speaker 3: of like a two part question. Yeah, I would say, uh,
- 2:09:06Speaker 3: what are what are you most proud of this year?
- 2:09:10Speaker 3: And I mean, yeah, what are you most proud of
- 2:09:14Speaker 3: this year? And you know the last year, you know,
- 2:09:18Speaker 3: and what are you looking forward to in the year
- 2:09:20Speaker 3: to come.
- 2:09:22Speaker 2: Well, I think I answered the question I'm most proud of,
- 2:09:24Speaker 2: like I said, giving myself grace and and you know,
- 2:09:26Speaker 2: you know, learning learning to still live in spite of grief.
- 2:09:31Speaker 2: I'm proud of the fact that you know, I'm making
- 2:09:35Speaker 2: efforts to expand outside of my comfort zone, which is
- 2:09:39Speaker 2: the hardest fucking thing for me, because I like to
- 2:09:41Speaker 2: be in my house at all times, but for myself
- 2:09:44Speaker 2: to say, braind and go out, get some mare and
- 2:09:45Speaker 2: go out. Go try a new restaurant that you said
- 2:09:47Speaker 2: you wanted to try. Go to the movies by and
- 2:09:49Speaker 2: I've always gone to the movies by myself. Go to
- 2:09:51Speaker 2: the movies by yourself. Go enjoy life, and don't wait
- 2:09:53Speaker 2: for somebody to show up or be there with you
- 2:09:55Speaker 2: to do these things, because I'll sit there, You'll wait,
- 2:09:58Speaker 2: sit and wait forever for somebody to show up when
- 2:10:00Speaker 2: you could just explore and live and do things on
- 2:10:04Speaker 2: your own. What was the second part of that question, what.
- 2:10:07Speaker 1: Are you looking forward to and net to come?
- 2:10:11Speaker 2: I'm looking forward to just continuing to do that, continuing
- 2:10:14Speaker 2: to improve, getting back, being consistent with going to the gym.
- 2:10:18Speaker 2: Because daddy didn't got a little big bro during the midsection.
- 2:10:22Speaker 2: Sounded like my damn.
- 2:10:23Speaker 3: Daddy, y'all saying that picture. I was like, I was like,
- 2:10:31Speaker 3: all right, birthday, baby, birthday.
- 2:10:38Speaker 2: Off try he would happy. I've seen that man in
- 2:10:45Speaker 2: action he would have got your ass.
- 2:10:46Speaker 3: I believe it.
- 2:10:47Speaker 2: Probably baby put a fold of my clothes with me,
- 2:10:49Speaker 2: and Jesus Christ would have I've seen him doing my
- 2:10:52Speaker 2: whole life, but.
- 2:10:54Speaker 3: Especially says, look if I turned that turn that TV down, bitch.
- 2:11:01Speaker 2: Why are you being in my house? My homes the fun?
- 2:11:12Speaker 3: No.
- 2:11:12Speaker 2: But next year I hope to continue to just grow,
- 2:11:15Speaker 2: expand outside of my comfort zone, get back to being
- 2:11:18Speaker 2: consistent with working out, get back or not get back to,
- 2:11:22Speaker 2: but continue to be consistent with get enough sleep at night.
- 2:11:26Speaker 2: That's something I have to I have to actively work
- 2:11:28Speaker 2: on and continuing to work on this podcast. I want
- 2:11:32Speaker 2: us to go far. I want this podcast to be
- 2:11:33Speaker 2: able to retire us as I want us to be
- 2:11:37Speaker 2: able to do this full time and make a damn
- 2:11:41Speaker 2: good living and we each can live off of it
- 2:11:43Speaker 2: and grow and the experience a lot of the world
- 2:11:46Speaker 2: off of just don't talking to each other for an
- 2:11:48Speaker 2: hour or two, you know, once a week. I want
- 2:11:51Speaker 2: us to do.
- 2:11:52Speaker 3: I'm sorry, y'all, I don't think. I don't think eron
- 2:11:53Speaker 3: never going to retire. I gotta do something. It's gonna
- 2:11:58Speaker 3: be some active ship, y'all.
- 2:11:59Speaker 2: Y'all involved nigga we're talking about retirement from working jobs
- 2:12:03Speaker 2: that we don't want to work. Oh John, that y'all
- 2:12:05Speaker 2: don't want to work. I like my job all right,
- 2:12:07Speaker 2: but I mean I can make triple what I just
- 2:12:10Speaker 2: Sydney talking to y'all for an hour week.
- 2:12:12Speaker 3: Hell yeah, I do it. Fact, I'm just saying I'm
- 2:12:15Speaker 3: gonna do.
- 2:12:17Speaker 2: Will give you a honey do list you want to
- 2:12:19Speaker 2: worry about that. Ke Din will find something you do
- 2:12:22Speaker 2: this nigga building shades and all kind of ship and.
- 2:12:27Speaker 3: Can you.
- 2:12:29Speaker 2: Go to the store right, Y'a'm at the I'm at
- 2:12:32Speaker 2: the point where you need some evaporated milk for this recipe.
- 2:12:35Speaker 2: I want to try, but it has to be evaporated milk.
- 2:12:38Speaker 2: Some of my Cambodian immigrants.
- 2:12:42Speaker 1: I'm trying.
- 2:12:42Speaker 3: I told you I'm at I'm at that space where
- 2:12:44Speaker 3: she sent me an Instagram video.
- 2:12:45Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm gonna find it.
- 2:12:48Speaker 2: Between raising a possibly having more kids, you ain't never
- 2:12:51Speaker 2: gonna not have.
- 2:12:53Speaker 1: Immigrants from Cambodi.
- 2:12:55Speaker 2: Shout out to Dave Spelle. It's creamy, that's what he said. Uh,
- 2:13:05Speaker 2: but yeah, I want this podcast to do great things.
- 2:13:09Speaker 2: I want us to go and be able to do
- 2:13:12Speaker 2: this full time. I want us. I want us to
- 2:13:14Speaker 2: go on tour. I want us to be able to
- 2:13:16Speaker 2: have an audience that loves what we do and can
- 2:13:19Speaker 2: and can connect with us and and what we say.
- 2:13:23Speaker 2: And you know, I want us to be able to
- 2:13:25Speaker 2: open up, have other podcasts under our you know, our network,
- 2:13:29Speaker 2: and just just expand expand and grow and be able
- 2:13:33Speaker 2: to That's why I'm saying it, because you got to
- 2:13:35Speaker 2: write it down to make it happen. But you're also
- 2:13:38Speaker 2: speaking into existence, you know. I also want, like I said,
- 2:13:40Speaker 2: continue to work on myself, improve my damn finances, improve
- 2:13:45Speaker 2: you know, health, you know, and just continue to grow
- 2:13:47Speaker 2: and learn. And if I meet somebody's nap headed son
- 2:13:51Speaker 2: and want to get on my nurse rest of my life,
- 2:13:52Speaker 2: I'm open to that too.
- 2:13:53Speaker 3: Facts come and let's play together. But this Nick's trying
- 2:14:02Speaker 3: to go to, Yeah, good night, Joe, I'm done. So
- 2:14:09Speaker 3: is that it? I'm done?
- 2:14:11Speaker 2: That is it, ladies and gentlemen. That is that.
- 2:14:14Speaker 3: This is the last show for twenty twenty twenty twenty four.
- 2:14:18Speaker 2: Last episode of twenty twenty four. Baby, very well, well, y'all,
- 2:14:24Speaker 2: Like Seanna said, this is the last show for twenty
- 2:14:26Speaker 2: twenty four thank y'all for listening to austin Inigans all
- 2:14:31Speaker 2: fucking year. Oh yeah, thank you for you know, just
- 2:14:35Speaker 2: being along with us on this journey. As we wrap
- 2:14:37Speaker 2: season two of this podcast. My god, Aaron, thank you again.
- 2:14:41Speaker 2: I've said it before, but I'll say it again. Brother,
- 2:14:43Speaker 2: thank you for coming in and taking keyspot and excelling
- 2:14:48Speaker 2: in this role having something to say.
- 2:14:51Speaker 1: This is done therapy for me.
- 2:14:53Speaker 3: We all need it and.
- 2:14:55Speaker 2: We're building a community right here as we sit here
- 2:14:57Speaker 2: and talk about I've learned so much about your niggas
- 2:14:59Speaker 2: over the past year. Ship. I didn't want to know,
- 2:15:03Speaker 2: but you know, I appreciate both of y'all for just
- 2:15:06Speaker 2: going along this journey with me and hopefully appreciate you
- 2:15:09Speaker 2: for this on this journey, riding right into the wheels.
- 2:15:12Speaker 2: It was all a dream. Yes, we used to reword
- 2:15:16Speaker 2: up magazine, Salt and Pepper and heavy deep in hanging
- 2:15:18Speaker 2: pictures on the wall every Saturday, Grab attack mister, mister
- 2:15:24Speaker 2: Molly mom.
- 2:15:25Speaker 3: Yeah you look to the tape, pop promise stop were drinking?
- 2:15:35Speaker 2: May do we want not at all? So, like I said,
- 2:15:41Speaker 2: you know, we had a new, a new Uh God
- 2:15:44Speaker 2: forbid if Comba don't pull an alley, which I'm still
- 2:15:46Speaker 2: hoping she does. I said it early, I'm gonna say
- 2:15:48Speaker 2: it again. We have a new administration coming in and
- 2:15:51Speaker 2: and and you know in about a month. Continue to
- 2:15:55Speaker 2: build community, continue to invest in yourself, in your communities.
- 2:15:58Speaker 2: Do what you need to do for self care. If
- 2:15:59Speaker 2: you need to disconnect and get away from the news cycle,
- 2:16:03Speaker 2: go get involved, go oss I, get some air, go
- 2:16:05Speaker 2: for a walk, go to the gym, workout, do what
- 2:16:06Speaker 2: you need to do for yourself. Take care of yourself. Yeah,
- 2:16:10Speaker 2: and will in the words of Kendrick Lamar, we're gonna
- 2:16:13Speaker 2: be all right. Yeah, we've made it through stuff. We
- 2:16:16Speaker 2: will make it through this. Hopefully we don't have to
- 2:16:18Speaker 2: die try and doing so, but we will make it through.
- 2:16:20Speaker 1: And then.
- 2:16:23Speaker 2: Tell me you're not listening. But I'll tell them you
- 2:16:26Speaker 2: not listening. I said, hopefully we won't have to.
- 2:16:29Speaker 3: Then I heard that, and I heard you say hopefully
- 2:16:31Speaker 3: you're gonna have to.
- 2:16:31Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is, don't put that shit out there.
- 2:16:34Speaker 2: Okay, Kendrick, thank you so much. This actually is going
- 2:16:39Speaker 2: to wrap up season two of Wine and Audacity the podcast. Again,
- 2:16:42Speaker 2: thank y'all for listening. We will be back for the
- 2:16:45Speaker 2: first episode of season three on Wednesday, January fifteenth, twenty
- 2:16:51Speaker 2: twenty five, with more Wine and more Audacitygas ain't got
- 2:16:56Speaker 2: none else. They got the mother fucking all damn City.
- 2:17:01Speaker 2: So for my final outro that I will more than
- 2:17:04Speaker 2: likely forget when we start recording again in a few
- 2:17:06Speaker 2: weeks like I did this year. If you have any questions,
- 2:17:10Speaker 2: any commentary, any feedback, topic ideas, anything you want to
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- 2:17:41Speaker 2: No underscore because Lou Scott don't let you put underscores
- 2:17:43Speaker 2: and you use the name. Trust me, y'all, I try it,
- 2:17:45Speaker 2: no doubt. Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas, Happy consa if you
- 2:17:52Speaker 2: still celebrated, Happy Honukah to all my Jewish people like
- 2:17:56Speaker 2: the kind. I think that's how they say the kind.
- 2:18:01Speaker 3: Like you said, I don't.
- 2:18:05Speaker 2: He said, you don't do that. I do, but we
- 2:18:13Speaker 2: will be around.
- 2:18:14Speaker 3: Go back and listen to some of the episodes we've had.
- 2:18:16Speaker 2: I would say, if you want to laugh while you
- 2:18:19Speaker 2: out on holiday break, go back and listen to Buenos
- 2:18:22Speaker 2: Tempos that I think that was the first episode we
- 2:18:24Speaker 2: dropped in twenty twenty four, and we laughed our asses
- 2:18:27Speaker 2: off during the episode. Mister Earls, but they.
- 2:18:35Speaker 3: All the way back to say, is one of Callos
- 2:18:37Speaker 3: didn't help me?
- 2:18:38Speaker 2: Oh lord, Carlos still ain't helping nobody. Like I said, y'all,
- 2:18:44Speaker 2: happy holidays, enjoy time of if you get it, try
- 2:18:47Speaker 2: to take some time for yourself to just decompress and
- 2:18:49Speaker 2: enjoy time with your family, your friends, and your network.
- 2:18:51Speaker 3: We'll we'll be but oh yeah, and if you and
- 2:18:54Speaker 3: if you uh, you know, if you need help, call
- 2:18:57Speaker 3: them hot hot.
- 2:18:59Speaker 2: Talk spaces there. If you need help, you need support,
- 2:19:01Speaker 2: don't reach out. You are not alone in this. You
- 2:19:04Speaker 2: have a network. If you need somebody to talk to,
- 2:19:07Speaker 2: shoot us a message on social media. Me, Sean or
- 2:19:10Speaker 2: Aaron will see it and we will respond. We're here
- 2:19:12Speaker 2: for y'all, not just for last but for support. We all,
- 2:19:15Speaker 2: We got y'all, and we're here to help in any
- 2:19:17Speaker 2: way we can. Like I said, Merry Christmas, Happy kwanza Uh,
- 2:19:23Speaker 2: Happy Honkah, Happy New Year, and we will be back
- 2:19:27Speaker 2: on Jane Ray fifteenth, twenty twenty five with an all
- 2:19:30Speaker 2: new episode. Be Easy, be safe, Happy Holidays, Happy New Year,
- 2:19:34Speaker 2: and we'll see y'all.
- 2:19:35Speaker 3: Inn Bye y'all. Bye boobies festive boobies coming intens covering intensi.
- 2:19:50Speaker 1: Bubbles.
- 2:19:52Speaker 2: What about Christmas?
- 2:20:00Speaker 3: This time plot? Poplication to this time, polition, this time
- 2:20:09Speaker 3: to time