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90 Day Fiancé Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 21 Tell All Part 2 · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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  Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, Welcome back to Vanity Farah. My name is
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  Speaker 1: Chris Farah, and I'm super excited to talk to you
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  Speaker 1: about Ninety Day Fiance's Before the ninety Days. This was
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  Speaker 1: season eight. It is the Tell All Part two, which
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  Speaker 1: means it's the last episode of season eight of this
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  Speaker 1: Before the ninety Days. Oh my god. But don't you
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  Speaker 1: worry my loves, Oh my god. If you're like, what
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  Speaker 1: am I going to do with my entire life? They
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  Speaker 1: have a brand new season of Ninety Day Fiance regular
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  Speaker 1: old Og coming on back, honey, And then they released
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  Speaker 1: a teaser trailer for the new season of Last Resort,
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  Speaker 1: which takes place in a castle and looks exactly like
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  Speaker 1: Traders kind of. So I don't even know where to begin. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I guess I have to talk about, of course, the
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  Speaker 1: Tell All Part two. But if you're listening to this
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  Speaker 1: on a Monday, I will be going live on my
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  Speaker 1: YouTube like I usually do, to talk the entire multiverse
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  Speaker 1: as well as some other things as well, Monday night,
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  Speaker 1: six pm Pacific Standard time on my YouTube. My name
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  Speaker 1: is Chris Farah. But at the same time, if you're
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  Speaker 1: listening podcast format RSS on Apple or Spotify or whatnot.
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  Speaker 1: Please give me five stars and a helpful review. It's
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  Speaker 1: so nice. You know, it's really helping my mental health
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  Speaker 1: to hear some love. But at the same time, I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to give you love. I'm going to give you
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  Speaker 1: as long as I can to talk about this show.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening, and I'm excited to,
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  Speaker 1: you know, spill all the deats as well as get
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  Speaker 1: into this tell all. It's chaotic, to say the least,
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  Speaker 1: and then you know, put a pin in her and
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  Speaker 1: then you know she's done. Not me. This season, you guys,
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  Speaker 1: this tell All was wild. I mean it's it was crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I mean the peat the things that people said were
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  Speaker 1: just like, oh my god. And then some people still
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  Speaker 1: being together or like still talking is crazy to me.
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  Speaker 1: And my only thought process is that trying to leave
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  Speaker 1: a door open to get on regular old ninety day
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  Speaker 1: fiance the OG. I just can't even tell you it's
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  Speaker 1: I would. It's hard because sometimes I feel like things
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  Speaker 1: are soups fake, right, like super fake, Like I cannot
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  Speaker 1: imagine a world in which, like, for instance, Trish and
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  Speaker 1: Rick would still be talking. But at the same time,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I think that people make decisions and I
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  Speaker 1: am not always privy to the inner monologues behind them.
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  Speaker 1: So my inner monologue is this podcast. Hi. I have
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  Speaker 1: no co hosts. You know what I'm saying. If you're
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  Speaker 1: watching on my YouTube Hi or on Patreon, Patreon gets
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  Speaker 1: everything soups first, plus their own special lives in all
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  Speaker 1: of the deats. I am finally in what will be
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  Speaker 1: my podcast room, and I'm super excited to set up
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  Speaker 1: this studio. I keep saying super excited. I got to
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  Speaker 1: think of something else to say. I'm thrilled. I'm thrilled
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  Speaker 1: to give you different visuals. I'm thrilled to have a
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  Speaker 1: space where I can make my own and sit comfortably
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  Speaker 1: on some couch that I think is the exact same
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  Speaker 1: couch I'm sitting on that like Kimberlee has in Single Life.
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  Speaker 1: It's a different color. I got mine. It's a little smaller,
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  Speaker 1: a love seat. It's a Stearns and Foster from Costco,
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  Speaker 1: and there's a built in bed and that way I
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  Speaker 1: can just literally take a nap during this podcast. No
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  Speaker 1: I'm kidding, but it's cozy af and it has that
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  Speaker 1: minky fabric and so I am dripping in comfort unlike
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  Speaker 1: other people, Unlike let's just, for instance, start with Lisa
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  Speaker 1: Daniel in faith. Lisa has not been dripping in comfort,
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  Speaker 1: so obviously she had started off being like, well, first
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  Speaker 1: of all, hear these eyes. They're crazy. I don't have
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  Speaker 1: the wig. We're like great. She told us that the
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  Speaker 1: cleansing ritual that had happened that she saw was in
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  Speaker 1: fact a secret marriage ceremony that she didn't know was
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  Speaker 1: an actual marriage ceremony, and now they're married. And not
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  Speaker 1: only that, there was like a black magic curse addendum,
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  Speaker 1: which was like, now you're married. By the way, also,
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  Speaker 1: if you leave each other, if you cheat, or if
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  Speaker 1: you want to step out, you're going to be cursed
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  Speaker 1: for the rest of your life. And Daniel's like, yep,
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  Speaker 1: that's what it was only to happen to say, yep,
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  Speaker 1: I am interested why. There was no question to Daniel like, hey, Daniel,
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  Speaker 1: did you know that Lisa didn't know this was a
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  Speaker 1: wedding ceremony? Also, was it your plan to trap her
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  Speaker 1: into a weird fake marriage? Was that what was happening?
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  Speaker 1: Because I mean, that's like illegal, right. Here's the other
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  Speaker 1: thing again, I said this, like, unless I know I'm
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  Speaker 1: getting married, I'm not married, especially if I didn't sign anything,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not married. If I didn't sign away something. And
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  Speaker 1: then also, you know, I'm if you just said a
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  Speaker 1: bunch of like words to me that I didn't understand,
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  Speaker 1: then I'm not married. Because the truth is, it feels
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  Speaker 1: like what has power if you don't believe in it,
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  Speaker 1: Like people's reputations, people's power, you know, people's power over you.
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  Speaker 1: Anyone's power over you is like how much you believe
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  Speaker 1: in it. Now, certain things I guess are true, like nature.
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  Speaker 1: You could be like I don't believe in the rain,
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  Speaker 1: and yet if it's raining, I don't know what you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna do. You might get wet. You can sit there
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  Speaker 1: the whole time and be like, I don't believe in
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  Speaker 1: you rain, And if it's hitting your face, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: you know you're gonna have to like change your clothes.
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  Speaker 1: And if, certainly, if you have something biological happening to you,
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  Speaker 1: then that is what's happening to you in the moment.
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  Speaker 1: If you, for instance, are told that you have a
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  Speaker 1: certain disease, I want you to be in the best
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  Speaker 1: place possible mentally to deal with it. But I think
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  Speaker 1: that you sort of have to deal with the reality
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  Speaker 1: of it, But there are so many other concepts like love, religion, spirituality,
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  Speaker 1: that if you don't believe in them, you kind of
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  Speaker 1: take their power away for you. Now, people that are
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  Speaker 1: like I believe in God, and if someone doesn't believe
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  Speaker 1: in God, you know, God's still there and God can
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  Speaker 1: smite them. If they don't believe in God. God will
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  Speaker 1: smite them, I hear you, but they won't ever think
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  Speaker 1: it's God because life smites you sometimes smote you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I believe in God. But if someone
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  Speaker 1: doesn't believe in God, and let's just say their name
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  Speaker 1: is job, and you know, like they lose their whole
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  Speaker 1: family and they lose their job for a better word,
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  Speaker 1: you know, that person can blame whatever. They can blame
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  Speaker 1: their shitty personality, they can blame the world, they can
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  Speaker 1: blame you know, people not understanding them. They can blame
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  Speaker 1: you know, other things that they have going on if
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  Speaker 1: they're like in the thralls of an addiction or a
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  Speaker 1: personality disorder, a mental situations. But the truth is, if
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  Speaker 1: you feel like you're not married and no legal jurisdiction
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  Speaker 1: that you live and holds that over you, you're not married.
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  Speaker 1: So it's almost like a moot point. But to me,
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  Speaker 1: the bigger point is, did daniel did you mean to
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  Speaker 1: fraud her? But at the same time, Faith's there, and
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  Speaker 1: so we have to, you know, believe that Faith is
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  Speaker 1: the smarter of these to women, and so we're hanging
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  Speaker 1: our hat on her opinion. Now, then Lisa's like, here's
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  Speaker 1: another bomb. I got pregnant with Daniel's baby. And we
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  Speaker 1: all look at Lisa and we're like, she's what sixty something,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know her exact age, but you know, God bless.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, I hadn't eat a topic pregnancy even though
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  Speaker 1: I had a partial hysterectomy. And then Sean had to
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  Speaker 1: do a voice over later where she's like, in a topic,
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  Speaker 1: pregnancy happens outside of the uterus, which you know happens
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  Speaker 1: to many people, many women all the time. You can
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  Speaker 1: have a fertilized eggs start to try and grow in
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  Speaker 1: a fallopian tube, which happened to my mom or other things.
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  Speaker 1: So she had that happen and then this was the
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  Speaker 1: thing that she almost died from that. Danielle was like,
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  Speaker 1: don't tell Faith, and then she was like, I guess
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  Speaker 1: thinking about not telling her daughter which to me and
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  Speaker 1: herself is like, well, that's a bad choice on you, Lisa.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, this man is in a different fucking country,
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  Speaker 1: so whatever he says happens in a different country, and
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  Speaker 1: you can do whatever you want here in America, because
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  Speaker 1: if you don't believe you're married, then what's the problem.
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  Speaker 1: Faith is the one that's been there the whole time.
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  Speaker 1: Faith's the one I'm assuming, you know, making sure those
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  Speaker 1: rent checks are paid. I can't imagine I'm putting all
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  Speaker 1: of this on Lisa to dude, you know, all the
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  Speaker 1: work in her life. At the same time, I have
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  Speaker 1: been and wasn't impressed with Lisa's styling throughout the season,
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  Speaker 1: So I give her grace for that, and have been
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  Speaker 1: the whole time. At this point, she's very much over Daniel.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, he ruined the love I had for him,
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  Speaker 1: and Daniel just like gets defensive and just doesn't want
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  Speaker 1: to take that as being true. He very much wants
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  Speaker 1: to pretend they're still married. Which no, now we never
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  Speaker 1: get to find out who the wife is in the
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  Speaker 1: phone call, and we never get to even hear if
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  Speaker 1: that person would come on the show, which is annoying
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  Speaker 1: to me. However, we do get a zoom by Lisa's
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  Speaker 1: new man who guess what she met on social media
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  Speaker 1: and lives in Nigeria. Have you heard of such a thing?
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  Speaker 1: My god, I have never heard of such a thing.
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  Speaker 1: His name is Tai. That country Nigeria on ninety day fiance.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, what a new realm we're in. So Daniel
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  Speaker 1: had accused her of cheating, and she's like, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: When I met Tye, he just was leaving really helpful
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  Speaker 1: comments on my ig and then we started talking and
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  Speaker 1: I told him about all of the problems I was
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  Speaker 1: having with Daniel, and ty took Daniel's side, So I
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  Speaker 1: knew he was legit because why wouldn't he just take
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  Speaker 1: my side if he, you know, didn't care. And we're
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  Speaker 1: just trying to get me to feel or think some way,
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  Speaker 1: and we're like, oh my god, we meet Tye. Uh.
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  Speaker 1: Now Laura sees tie and she's like, I'm sorry, is
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  Speaker 1: they're a little bit of an age gap here. I
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  Speaker 1: just I'm no hate ty He just does he see younger?
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  Speaker 1: And it's like, yeah, he's twenty one years younger. Ty
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  Speaker 1: sees seems very nice. And the other weird thing is
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  Speaker 1: that faith is seventy five percent into tie for her mom.
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  Speaker 1: That part is confusing because I wish Faith would just
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  Speaker 1: be like, hey, Mom, stop fucking dating. You're not stable,
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  Speaker 1: get yourself together. Also, you are impulsive, which everyone agrees,
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  Speaker 1: and you don't make good decisions, and it's probably not
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  Speaker 1: a great idea to date someone in a different country
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  Speaker 1: at this time who we like, don't have any sort
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  Speaker 1: of ways of checking in on or I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: just as reminiscent of your past relationships. Because I have
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  Speaker 1: been having faith in Faith this entire time, and when
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  Speaker 1: Faith co signs this, I'm like, why unless it's to
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  Speaker 1: be on another season of None of a Fiance. That
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  Speaker 1: is my only theory that like can ring true. And
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  Speaker 1: so at this point, if everyone is just doing whatever
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  Speaker 1: to remain on this show, then what is this show?
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  Speaker 1: It's just fame whores who will do whatever it takes
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  Speaker 1: to be on this show. I mean, it's people that
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  Speaker 1: will put out put out their fake business and fake
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  Speaker 1: drama just to be on this show. People who have
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  Speaker 1: decided they don't want to work anymore except to be
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  Speaker 1: on the show and enjoy I guess their love lives
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  Speaker 1: season after season being perused by the public, and why
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  Speaker 1: that's difficult is, as a longtime viewer, the best couples
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  Speaker 1: are people who are normal people who are going through
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  Speaker 1: a process of being in love with someone of a
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  Speaker 1: different culture and then having to deal with that. And
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  Speaker 1: what makes the show unfun is a we're using same
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  Speaker 1: people over and over again and also be things that
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  Speaker 1: feel contrived, fake, weird, not authentic. I almost wish they
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  Speaker 1: would do, like, if they're going to continue on, I
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  Speaker 1: wish they would do a season called ninety Day Fiance,
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  Speaker 1: Authentic and Sincere Couples, So I could just watch that anyway.
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  Speaker 1: But let's get in. So obviously Ty having come on,
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  Speaker 1: you know, is really happy to be on camera, and
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  Speaker 1: Sean brings up emotional cheating, and Daniel like agrees, so hard,
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  Speaker 1: so happy to have like anyone on his side, and
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  Speaker 1: He's like, yes, she emotionally cheated, but not just that.
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  Speaker 2: He this guy saw your nakedness, and we're like, well
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  Speaker 2: now they're together, yeah okay, and also just on FaceTime okay,
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  Speaker 2: God bless And then he says, can you serve two masters.
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  Speaker 1: At a time? And I think the whole point is
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  Speaker 1: Daniel like, no, I mean, I guess in your mind no,
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  Speaker 1: she's not gonna be with two men at one time.
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  Speaker 1: She's very much giving you up. I didn't quite understand
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  Speaker 1: why Daniel didn't know that he was done. Now maybe
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  Speaker 1: he's not done. Maybe Lisa's putting on a front and
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  Speaker 1: being like, Daniel, I still like you, and you just
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  Speaker 1: promise me that if you come over, you'll go down
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  Speaker 1: on me real, real good, and I'll still pick you.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not quite sure, but I also would
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  Speaker 1: like of like a little more evidence that this pregnancy happened,
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  Speaker 1: because everything that added Lisa's mouth has the same sort
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  Speaker 1: of dire circumstances for like five seconds, and then it
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  Speaker 1: leaves her like she has a huge emotional reaction and
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  Speaker 1: like a you know, jarring, harsh, scratchy voice that certainly
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  Speaker 1: gets heated and certainly gets emotional in the moment, and
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  Speaker 1: then it feels like it leaves her immediately like a
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  Speaker 1: cloud in the sky, and then we're on to new pastures.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't know, I can't read her. She's actually yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she's hard to read. She's, you know, because her behavior
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  Speaker 1: is so unhinged. So when Daniel says the master thing,
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  Speaker 1: you know, no one's into that. And faith really stands
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  Speaker 1: up for her mom, even though she does say that
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  Speaker 1: her mom is impulsive. And Daniel's like, well, here's the thing,
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  Speaker 1: we had a tree additional marriage and we're like, no,
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  Speaker 1: you didn't, and when one in one way because I
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  Speaker 1: don't think there was a dowry involved and I don't
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  Speaker 1: think that he gave her anything, and I don't think
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  Speaker 1: that anything was signed, and it just really feels like
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  Speaker 1: he is trying to hold on to a meal ticket
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  Speaker 1: that like put different contacts on and you know, one
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  Speaker 1: to a different man. She can see through those blue
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  Speaker 1: contacts more than she has before and now you know,
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  Speaker 1: sees the air of her ways. And even though Daniel
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  Speaker 1: to me is more physically attractive, his personality sucks so
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  Speaker 1: hard that she is like on to tie time must
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  Speaker 1: feel like a breath of fresh air because ty probably
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  Speaker 1: says yes to everything and isn't like super mean to
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  Speaker 1: her and strict. She's like, ty knows about my past,
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  Speaker 1: all of it and accepts me. So I kind of
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  Speaker 1: wish that like there was a follow up question to
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  Speaker 1: Tye like okay, so are you igbo? And if so,
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  Speaker 1: how do you get over the homosexuality thing in her past?
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  Speaker 1: Like is that just is that like only conservative igboo
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  Speaker 1: men like Daniel deals with that, but like you're more
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  Speaker 1: progressive or are you not? Igu? I would love more
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  Speaker 1: information about that now, are we gonna get it? No? Here,
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  Speaker 1: So we also get the fact that Lisa wants to
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  Speaker 1: move to Nigeria. She says, and well, yeah, I think
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  Speaker 1: that's good. Faiths like I'll pack your bags. Maybe that's
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  Speaker 1: why Faith's like, I like TI seventy five percent into Tie.
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  Speaker 1: Now do you think Tai is going to truly be
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  Speaker 1: okay with Lisa coming to Nigeria and then not coming
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  Speaker 1: to America because Daniel surely wasn't Danielle wanted to get
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  Speaker 1: to America. After their segment, Alise tells Aviva that she
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  Speaker 1: felt bad for Daniel when Tie came. I feel bad,
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  Speaker 1: I guess for Faith the entire time. I definitely don't
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  Speaker 1: feel bad for Daniel. I mean, Alice really wants to
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  Speaker 1: hang her hat on, like the emotional cheating being so
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  Speaker 1: detrimental to like Daniel's heart and disposition when we all
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  Speaker 1: know Daniel doesn't care about that truly, not like even
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  Speaker 1: that part. I'm like, okay, so that's an insane assumption.
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  Speaker 1: No one looks at Daniel and is like, Wow, what
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  Speaker 1: a man that truly loves and is fighting for his wife,
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  Speaker 1: his true traditional wife married in the normal way that
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  Speaker 1: everyone would believe in. Like, that's not real either. We're
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  Speaker 1: just so far into bananas land that because I guess,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I'm a rational person, I can't just sit
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  Speaker 1: here on this podcast Mike and be like, yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: mean she did. So Daniel has a point or Daniel,
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  Speaker 1: I bet he cries every night, like, no, I'm a
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  Speaker 1: normal person talking to you. That's not real. That's not
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  Speaker 1: that is not real. If Daniel's crying, it's because he's
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  Speaker 1: not gonna come to America. Truly, Daniel does not love Lisa.
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  Speaker 1: And if I'm supposed to believe that Elise thinks so,
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  Speaker 1: then I don't believe Elise. You know what is real?
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  Speaker 1: You tell me, You tell me what is real and
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  Speaker 1: what's not. I mean, you know, I need to put
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  Speaker 1: my feet on God's green earth and like have some
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: semblance of reality. And I feel like you guys do too.
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  Speaker 1: So let's move on. Forrest and Sheena is up next. Now,
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: as we know, Forrest got a job. He's a farm
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: tech not fa r M, but PHA r M and
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  Speaker 1: he makes seven hundred and eighty one dollars a week.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: Now we know he works forty hours a week plus
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: him over time, and it's stressing the f out of
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: his body. Now I kind of wish I knew a
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: little more about what pharmacy tech people do, because to me,
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: they're counting pills and they're putting them in a bottle
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: and then they're like closing the bottle and then maybe
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: they're putting them in a plastic or sorry, a paper bag.
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  Speaker 3: And.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Unless he has to truly just carry boxes and huge
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: heavy boxes of just so much pills, so much metaform,
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: and so much I don't know where do you get
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: what's golp of zempic, so many adderall prescriptions. I just
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: how hard is it on your body? Is it that
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: you don't get to sit down? Do not get to
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: take breaks? Do you need better shoes? Do you need
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: more comfortable shoes? There are many people that have worked
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: forty hours a week for a long time, so it
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: truly probably feels like when he says this, I almost
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: could hear a groan over America. Now, I don't work
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: forty hours a week on my feet, and definitely some
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: people work forty hours a week, say down, you know,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: at a desk. So here's the thing. It does take
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: a little adjustment period when you've gone from not working
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: at all and sort of just being on FaceTime with
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: her girlfriend, you know, for like twenty four fucking hours
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: at a time until like the time in which your
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: mom calls to talk to you about your sex life. Like,
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: that's probably a transition. But I think it's good for Forrest.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I think that Forest could use a little discomfort, and
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: truly myself too. So this is just coming from a
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: place of love because the discomfort and the working towards
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: a goal and having a better understanding of like what
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: actually happens in this world makes you grow up. It
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: makes you have a maturity about yourself, and it brings wisdom,
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: right because it's nuanced, it's experience, its perception. You see
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: a different perspective of like the many ways in which
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: this world works and the toughness of it. And I
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: do think that probably Molly, you know, sheltered him from
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: certain things, and also getting money from the government, you know,
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: takes the edge off, right, and it can you know,
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: surely keep someone in the same place. And it's not
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: a place of growth and evolution. And you know what's
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: also interesting about that. I would say the same for release.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: We're going to get into a lease when we do,
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: but at least takes money from her dad. And this
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: part I can truly understand. So no shade. But when
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: you accept financial help from someone or something or some
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: organization or whatnot for a long time and you have
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: and you get to sort of rest on your laurels,
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: why that happens. It makes you stuck your behooved. No,
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: that's not the word. You're you are tied to the
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: demands and requirements of the person and organization. So for instance,
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: if you get help from the government, you can't you know,
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: use that money too, as I said, pretend that you
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: have an income and get your beloved Sina in from
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: a different land. So as much as the money gives
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: you freedom to get basic needs, like if your basic
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: need is to be loved and you need to help
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: this person come in, it sort of jails you and
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: robs you of that. And we'll get into like Shina,
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, we'll get into at least more about that.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: And I guess me, So Forrest is complaining again that
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: he is so tired from this job that he can't
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: do the FaceTime hour long requirements that Sina requires and
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: wants and needs, and also that he can't really talk
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: to Molly that much. Laura's quick, very quick, but like
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: might be a good thing. Now. What's also weird about
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: this is that Laura has been really really on social
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: media being like, Michael and I aren't friends anymore, And
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: then of course the tell all happens and she's like,
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: Michael and I aren't friends, but we're also supposed to
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: believe from the streets that Molly and Michael have become friends,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: but that is not really talked about how or why
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: or what they do together. So anyway, like I would
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: want to know, like how they met and why are
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: they friends? Does she play pickleball? Are they laying on
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: couches together? Does dev walk in being like don't kiss her?
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: You know? And those are three words he's gonna say
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: for like the entire spring season. I'm not quite sure,
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: but I really would love to know. Forrest also says
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: something a little banana ramas. He's like, someone asks him, like, so,
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: how is the visa process coming along? He's like, well,
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know what to do because I need to
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: print out some things, and therein lies the rub. Now.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: Printers are annoying, truly, but they exist. There's like a
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: whole storefront called FedEx Kinkos that it's pretty much for
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: people who need to print out something every once in
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: a while. Maybe use a three whole punch, Maybe cut
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: the paper with one of those big cutters, you know
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: what I mean, big knife cutters. I know words, I
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: know them, honey, don't even I know those words. Everyone
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: is like, we'll help you, will help you. For ust
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: I want to be like, buddy, don't they have a
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: printer at that job you have? Also, like Molly is
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: not a printer. Also, like you can't just go print something.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: Doesn't staples have printers? I mean, truly just go to
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: FedEx Kinko's and print it out. That was a little weird. Also, Yeah,
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: that he said it out loud and thought it was
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: a proper excuse. Not like I don't have the money
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: yet or I've been so getting acclimated to my job
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: and i just went through the prohibit you know, sorry,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: the training period. You know, I just haven't been able
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: to do it yet. But like he's like yeah, I
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: just no printer. Laura's like, we live super close, I
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: can print it out for you, and Rick's like, I
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: can help you, buddy. You know, there's one thing about
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: this tell all, besides the fact that it's Banana Ramas,
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: is that there is not a lot of fighting in
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: between the castmates, because at this point, Zayed says absolutely
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: nothing for the tell all part too, Zayed, who like
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: went to town on everyone. Basically, I don't know if
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: they just took a picture of him and he had
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: left for the second part of the tell all and
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: made us projected the picture. He says, nothing, absolutely nothing,
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: you know, but people are quick to like each other
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: on this except for we'll get into the Elise Ms situation.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know if Emma walked in thinking that she
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: was going to charm the entire cast and make everyone
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: her best friend. But Emma also leaves this tell all
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: looking crazy kind of the only person that looks semi
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: normal is a lease out of this. But even that
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: where like, you're frauding us, because she really wants to
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: pretend that her and Josh like have a great future
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: and a lease to me and to you. It's obvious
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: that she is someone who wants like a rich man,
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: kind of like how Courtney wants a rich man, like
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: we can tell we can. I mean, Courtney has said
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: before that she wanted rich men, and at least there's
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: just not a There's no way in which I think
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: that she thinks she can be with a broke man.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: She presents as someone who wants to be fancy, and
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: she's already told us like her dad, you know, hates
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: that she dates broke losers. So why do all the
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: things at Lease does visually for herself unless her goal
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: is to get what she wants, which is like a
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: rich somewhat good looking man to give her money. That's
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: why I don't believe this. You just don't fill your
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: lips up that much for love. I don't, and that's true,
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: Like you don't prioritize all of the instagrammy beauty treatments
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: and like all of the body shots, like you don't
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: make that work. You don't put that out there unless
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: you want the return of like having someone that's going
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: to upkeep it with you. It makes no sense, Like
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: if you really want love in your life, you would
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: I'm assuming be leading with a more heartfelt, vulnerable real
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: version of yourself. But here we are so so basically,
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: when everyone's like, yeah, we'll help you out, you know
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: that's what's gonna happen. Molly comes out his mom. Now,
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: Molly comes out in a green dress and absolutely freshly
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: dyed hair, and it looks really really good. Molly's hair
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: is like brown, It's like a really chestnut brown. It
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: looks really beautiful. And they basically are like Molly after
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: playing a montage of her asking all the sex questions,
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: or like, do you think that you did too much?
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: Do you think that you go too far? And She's
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: like Forest and I have a very special relationship. We
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: have a very unique relationship, and we know say it
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: how it is. And in this moment, Forrest is like, yeah, uh,
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: you know, I think my mom just wants to help out.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: This is where no one says to me the real thing. Yeah, Mollie,
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: you can have any conversation you want, I guess with Forest,
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: but you can't pretend that Sheena owes you really delicate
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: private information about her sex life. Fine, we're gonna be
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: like Molly is best friends with her son and her
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: son she feels like needs some womanly guidance and they
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: go to a sex shop and she gives him condoms
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: and lubes. By the way, any parent giving their child
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: condoms is not a fucking big deal. Like to me,
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: that's good sex at I mean, at some point you
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: have to assume that if you have children, they might
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: have sex someday, and if you want them to have
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: protected sex, you would give them a condom.
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: Sometimes this happens at younger ages, And truthfully, I think
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: having the kind of open communication with your child where
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: you feel like you want to make sure they can
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: come to you, that you want to be straight about facts,
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: you want to make sure they understand how the human
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: body works, like all of those things is to be commended.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: At the same time, crossing the line and then asking
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: your child's partner in front of them how their first
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: sexual experience was together. No, obviously no, And it's disrespectful
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: to the other person, meaning your child's lover. You're disgusting.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: That's a disgusting phrase, your child's lover. Gross. But at
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: the same time, Sheina didn't want to talk about their
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: sex with Forrest, and Forrest could kind of pick up
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: on Sheena's vibe, and so there is the boundary. I
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: don't know why people don't like tell that to Mollie. Yeah, Mollie,
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: it's great, great, great that you, you know, make sure
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: that Forrest understood how sex works. At the same time,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: she didn't ask for that. She didn't ask you to
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: ask her about the sex. Now, maybe Molly's like I
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: didn't ask them about the sex. I asked them how
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: the nooki nuki was. We're like, bitch, we know what
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: nooki nuki means. Fred Durst knows what nooki nuki means.
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: That's an old reference. That's why Forest went, you know,
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: the Philippines. He did a doll for the nookie so
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: he could get that cookie. Listen, I'm mad I did
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: it too. I'm mad I sang it too. I didn't
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: really sang it. I said it like Henry Higgins or
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: something and my fair lady. But you know, I'm saying
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: I'm mad. I wish I could stop with my nineties references.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: They age me so much. At some point we're in
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: twenty twenty six, the kids are gonna be like super
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: obsessed with like the twenty tens, because you know, we
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: got into the nineties, then we got into like the
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: two thousands. At some point everyone's gonna be like, remember
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: the twenty tens, and I'll be like seventy years old
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: and be like, oh, I mean, thankfully I do. But anyway,
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: so as we said, Molly says that she's not sorry
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: for this, and Laura's like, well, everyone looked uncomfortable. Laura
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: obviously has it out for Molly more than anyone else
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: on the stage, and I wish that they would kind
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: of explain that more or allow that Molly will have
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: Molly pretty much does not go after Laura, like never
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: says anything about her, Like even when Laura is like
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: saying things to Mollie like almost trying to engage or
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: debay with her, Molly's like.
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: M.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: And I almost wanted Molly then to like go to
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: the confessional and have someone be like, Molly, what are
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: your thoughts on Laura coming for you at every turn?
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: And Molly being like, well, that dumb bitch knows I
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: have her best friend now if that's to be true.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: So at this point, Daniel's like, I love Molly a
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: white lady that will talk about sex. Now Daniel doesn't
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: know because we really don't talk about dev that Molly's
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: already married to dev because I feel like Daniel is like, Mollie, hi,
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: would you like to be trapped in a traditional marriage
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: with me? I will not go down on you, but
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: I don't think you're gay, so you know my uncle
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: will be into it. Mollie's also like, you know, I
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: do love Shena and I know that she's good for force,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: but I find her to this day deceptive and manipulative. Now,
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: even though Daniel thinks that he loves Molly, and Alyn's like,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Molly is a bully and that's true. Molly has like
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: very bullying behavior and she feels like she is protecting
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: her son. So we're going to get into this. Mollie
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: says that Sina is still lying the line of this day,
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: and she's lying about giving her family money. Now, then
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: we go to Sheena and she's like, we're like, Sheena,
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: are you still giving your family money? And She's like nope, nope.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: They don't even ask for it. And so they're like, well, Molly,
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: who the fuck's lying now? How'd you hear that she
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: is still giving money? And Molly just is like says
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: nothing like that emoji with just like a closed mouth,
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: and the answer, of course is Michael not just kidding
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: ha ha ha would be Forest. And so Forrest, Forrest
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: is always kind of in the middle of his mother
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: and his girlfriend, and he doesn't say the thing he
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: needs to say to anyone. Truly. Molly is I guess,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: the only person that is direct. And maybe that's a
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: part of Molly that she's like no one says the
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: truthful thing, Like Sheena didn't tell Forrest that she expects
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: for him to make money and that relying on her
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: and all of her money to get herself to America
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: is not only stupid, it's not attractive to her. Also
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: it belies the culture that she is raised in and
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: that a children give money to their parents. And also
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: b females are not expected to be breadwinners. They're just
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: not not every culture, and not every Asian culture. I'm
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: not saying every one of the Philippines, but on the whole,
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: for more traditional cultures, females are not expected to be
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: the sole breadwinner. So that met the male and this
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: of course is in a heterosexual relationship can't bank on
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: the woman giving all the money to them, and also
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: shouldn't be counting their money there's kind of like the
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: thought of like, if a woman makes money, of course
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: she'll give some to her household, but she's also free
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: to do what she wants with it, because the money
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: for the household should be coming from the man. Sheina
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: was like very hard pressed to be, Like, Forrest, get
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: a fucking job. Get a job that you can do,
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: and don't allow Molly or your mind to tell you
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: that you can't. For whatever reason, people get jobs. I
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: have autism too. This is not what Sheina said, but
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: this is what I feel, like her soul screamed throughout
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: the entire season. I have autism too. I got a job.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: I knew what I was good at. It's animals. I
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: hate people. I love animals. I hate talking to people.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: I love animals. They don't talk, they just look at me.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: They're cute. That's why I work with animals. I found
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: what I'm good at. Like, that's kind of like Sheena's vibe.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: I don't mean to try and mind read her. But
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: don't you guys agree with me anyway? She wouldn't say that. Now,
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: Forrest isn't saying the truth. And to Sheena, which is
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: you lie or you are weird about telling me about
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: whether you're giving money to your family, And Sheena then
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: goes to say again that her family doesn't ask and
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: she doesn't give them money, and Molly's like, yeah, your
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: family asks, and when you give them money, they actually
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: gave all of that money to your brother. And we're like,
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: her brother, First of all, where is he? Why don't
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: we meet him? Also? Why is the family giving money
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: to the brother? What is happening with the brother? Is
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: the brother in a state where he needs money? What
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: is what like? But that's not That's never revealed because
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: even to get Sheena to like admit to that is
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: fucking impossible. She won't. She's like, no, my parents don't know.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: My parents did ask for money once and then I
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: said no, so I don't give them anymore. We're like,
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: oh my god. Force tries to get Sheena to agree
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: to give him a screenshot of her bake account without
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: him asking every month, and she doesn't want. So even here,
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: I like, I wish that Sean or someone be like
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: this is what it feels like is happening. It feels
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: like Sheena does not want to have to answer to
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: you about all of her finances. It feels like Sheena
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: wishes that Forest could get his act together more so
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: that he wasn't reliant on her money. It feels like
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: Sheena wants to have control to do what she wants
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: with the money that she's making. Is that true? Because
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: I also my other question is, is Sheena getting a
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: screenshot of forces money all the time? Is that why
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: Forest comes in hot with I made seven hundred and
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: eighty one dollars this week, Like it is Forrest hoping
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: that his like transparency with his money is what Shina does.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: But the same time, to me, Sheena's been making money
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: this entire time and you haven't. So yeah, it doesn't
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like they get anywhere. They don't come
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: to a sense of understanding with this. So again, Shina
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: is like hard pressed to like really avoid that answer
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: and dodges it every way. And because of that, everyone
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: sort of is like, maybe Molly does have a point.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: Laura and Elise are like we see Sheena as the problem.
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: Molly is like, I worry that she won't even come
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: to America because of her family duty. She's already expressed
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: that she would wish that he would go there. I
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: wonder if that's going to be a moment of contention.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: I wonder if ninety day fiance the other way is
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: going to happen with a lease going to Australia again,
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: and or maybe that's like their point, like he'll Josh
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: Wall either come to America or she'll go to Australia,
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: and or whether he Forrest would bring would go to
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: the Philippines for Shina. I cannot imagine that Forrest is
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: really going to get his act together in order to
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: bring Shena over, or that it would happen in any
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: sort of timely manner. Let's move on to Aviva and Stig.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: So Stig isn't shit, and I really hate the way
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: he tries to defend himself, but let's get in they
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: the dias is like, well, you know, obviously the onus
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: and having a baby is on the woman. So Aviva,
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: why are you so quick to have a baby with Stig?
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: And they're like, he didn't even say I love you,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: And she has to be like, well, we we had talked,
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: and you know, I got really complimented by the whole
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: breeding conversation. And I'm young and sometimes I just feel
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: like I just want to like have fun and like
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: a babies are so cute. Like she She's like, you
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: know what, I was irresponsible, she says it, And the
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: fact that she takes accountability for being irresponsible here is
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: something that she's going to really hang her hat on now.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: Forrest is like, I'll tell you one thing. I know
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: men and Stig was not faithful. So they replayed their
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: pole at the Mayan Ruins and you know, she cries
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: and Stig has to watch her, and then Emma and
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: Laura Laura give Aviva support. Emma's like, I met Aviva
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: one month ago and now we're best friends, which is
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: all like, no, Emma, You're not Emma. Emma's vibe, which
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: is that she has reached out obviously to all the
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: cast members and she expects all of them to be
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: her best friends, is weird af And then it also
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: kind of goes to Emma's like, well's Aya said he
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: wanted to marry me and a DM before he met me,
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: and when I got to Morocco he didn't. It's like, well, yeah,
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: I mean four relationships. In my opinion, to have an
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: air of authenticity, you sort of need multiple interactions offline
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: and for time to pass. You can't just call someone
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: you know, like your very good friend that you like,
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: don't really know that well, who probably has like best
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: friends from high school that like is the people that
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: she calls her best friends. Saviva does not think Emma
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: is her best friend. Ah. Anyway, this is where I
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: think stig sucks. So basically, after she starts crying, she
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: says that things are great, and of course they go
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: to America and the reason why they broke up is
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: because there were trust issues and he was mean to her,
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: and he's quick to be like, was I mean? You
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: will tell them why I was triggered you cheated? Now
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: therein lies the rod. If you are mean to someone,
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: if your behavior sucks, it does not make a difference
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: what they did to you. You are in control of
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: your reaction period. Like blaming her and saying that she
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: triggered abusive behavior from him is a fucking red flag.
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: Like that's not also called out, no one, no, not
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: Sean and Anyone's like, I'm sorry. What you think you
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: can be mean to someone and call them names just
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: because you you're having an issue inside your mind, like
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: unless of Eva had gone and like spit on your
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: mom's fucking face. What are you talking about I can't
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: stand it. So he's like she cheated, when it's like, bitch,
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: you know that Stig is fucking every single person and
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: believes that he can get his hands on literally his
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: manager told us that, like that's I wish we had
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: phoned in his manager, being like, hey, remember that time
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: the manager had warned you that this is his you know,
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: modus OPERENDI like anyway, so godless. So then there's this
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: like crazy ass story that while in Beloe, she had
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: responded to a text much like Rick from an ex,
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: and the ex had said, you know, Stick won't love
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: you like I love you, and she's like, I know,
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: which in itself is telling she knew enough in that moment,
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: as much as she wanted to be with Stick, that
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: he didn't love her the way that she either is
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: used to being love or enough for her or what
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: real love is. I wish we had found out more
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: information about that. So instead she's like, it is my
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: fault for answering him and belieze, Well, okay. She says
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: that they would argue all the time and that he
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: would go out, he would do shows, he wouldn't text
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: her back. She would see like pictures, you know, of
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: him parting with women, and he would just be like, oh,
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: they're just fans. And then one time she was like,
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: I'm going to go to Cabo and I'm just gonna
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: like relax. But what had happen and was he probably
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: follows her friends or something, and he saw that like
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: one of her friends or she's with, posted that they
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: were drinking at like a pool party, which makes sense,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: and that he got really upset and when he called her,
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: she hung up on him. Now, first of all, no
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: one goes to Cobo to relax. I mean, I Cobo's
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: just not a RelA like. I mean, it's a beautiful,
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: definitely a beautiful city and it's gorgeous. It's just there
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: are a couple of those cities, and Cabo is not
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: the one you go to to relax. No one goes
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: to Las Vegas to relax. Miami is not a place
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: you go to relax. They're you know, Las Vegas isn't beautiful,
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: but Miami is also tropical, gorgeous. You know, Cobo's gorgeous.
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: But at the same time, there is an inherent culture
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: to go out. Also, obviously Aviva looks like that she's
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: not going to just go on some retreat somewhere. She's
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: not going to Bali, you know what I'm saying. She's
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: not going to Hawaii places that are truly like a
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: you know, a respite from the world. She's going. She's
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: gonna go out to like squid Row. We all know
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: she's gonna get those shots that happen like in a vial.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: She's gonna go to Senior Frogs. You know what happens.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: We all know what happens there. So I also think
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: that she low Kei was trying to make him jealous,
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: which in itself is emotional immaturity. But she is immature.
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: She's young as fuck, so it makes sense. But she
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: it feels like she was trying to make him jealous
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: and to give him a taste of his own medicine,
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: if you will. This is where Emma really comes into
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: a defendive even It's like we're best friends and she
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: told me everything that you did and you suck, and
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: it's like, moot point, I'm a zaiaed like again, frozen
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: in time. So then we bring out Spring and Corinth
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: to come out and then Krint's like, yeah, he has
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: multiple girls pregnant more than one, and it's like, well,
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: then we know what we would need to see them.
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: You need to like talk to them because now this andover,
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: he said. She said, because we already had this where
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: Chris was like, oh, you're fucking my friend and things
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: like no, I'm not. And then we're like, oh, good,
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: no answer to this. If Corinth has these friends, honey,
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: then bring them out, bring them out, bring them out,
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: Like let's get to the bottom of something, Like let's
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: get to a truth. That's like the thing about this,
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: tell all, it just feels like crazy accusation after crazy accusation.
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: There's no there is no like getting the bottom of
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: something or like finding the truth to it. Like it's
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: just argued upon and then on to the next. It's
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: not satisfying, So let's move on to Elise and Joshua.
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: So they also re reconciled because he bit the bullet
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: and reached out. And then she said that he made
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: a concerted effort to change, and that change means he
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: got a real job, not just the jolly pirate job,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: and that now he shares his location always and he
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: it was by himself, and he moved away from Sydney,
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: stopped partying, although we never talked about what kind of
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: partying it is, but we know. And he lives closer
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: to his son, and he had come to Miami and
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: they had said I love you, and during the Miami
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: trip they got matching tattoos with each other's names on them.
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: Now he shows his elase tattoo, and then she shows
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: her tattoo that says Joshua on a shoulder where we
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: can see that there were also multiple tattoos that she
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: has gotten lasered off. I'm like, how many booze have
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: you gotten on this shoulder? How many names? Is this
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: your thing? Where he's like, dear, they let me get
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: a tattoo, and then she has to go and like
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: laser off the tattoo of a guy before her. I mean,
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: what was that tattoo? Okay, So we also get you know,
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: Chris and nat both are gonna come on and talk.
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: You know. We find out that josh really is trying
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: to do his you know, due diligence, and so he
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: is wanting to be considered someone who is financially stable
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: and can make not only enough money for him but
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: also for release. And Elise is only too happy to
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: like show off any amount of money he has paid
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: for her because it's not that much, and she knows
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: it to her heart that she also knows that he
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: feels bad about that and it makes him feel shitty.
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: So she is trying to like lift up his ego
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: in such a way and it backfires. So she's like, yeah,
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: Josh bought me a one way ticket to Sydney. And
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: then Chris is like what does that mean. She's like,
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: I'm moving to Sydney's like that what that means. She's like, well,
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: it's a one way. Take it, Josh. We're like, we're
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: okay at lease? Are you selling all of your purses?
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: Are you bringing them all? Are you getting rid of
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: that apartment? Also, have you facetimed his son? Have you
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: still no answer about that? Never talked about such a
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: big deal. We don't talk about it. So he's like, well,
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: you know, I wish I could come visit. I wish
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: I could bring a girl to come visit you. And
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: then Emma's like me me, I'm here, I'm a girl.
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: I'm right here. Chris fuck Morocco, I like Australian man.
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: Trisia's like me too, you know. So Chris is like
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: who said that? And then Emma's like me and he's
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: like oh, okay, all right and barrowsing. Emma's gotta go.
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: Has got to find like a place inside herself that
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: isn't waiting on baited breath for some dude to claim her.
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: I mean, that's the vibe. And it's such a ru vibe.
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: So Chris is like, great, buy her a ticket too,
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: because a he doesn't want to obviously buy im a
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: ticket and also be he can't, which I think is funny.
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: Why like Josh feels, you know, obviously such a need
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: to like be like I can pay for things, Chris
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: doesn't have that need. So then we have yet Nat
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: come on, you know, and they're like, Nat, you know,
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: do you think that Josh misled Elise in any way
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: when she said that when he said that he didn't
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: live with you, And she's like no, and then you
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: play alast going crazy and NAT's still like, yeah, she's
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: fucking bananas. We find out that Elise does get money
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: from her dad, and she says that she mixed a
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: withdrawal from her trust fund every month and that it
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: comes with consequences that she has to live under the
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: rule of her dad, but that's how she lives and
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: she's a trust fund baby. And Laura hears this and
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: she's like, oh my god, well then you're too good
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: for Josh, which is interesting because what a shitty thing
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: to judge people on whether you're better than someone or
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: not based upon how much money you can get from
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: your parents per month. That like, it is a shitty perspective.
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: I surely says a lot about Laura. But no one's
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: better than anyone else because of the money they have.
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: I'd like to say no one's better than anyone else.
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: But I think that some people are better than other
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: people by the openness they have in their hearts, by
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: their curiosity, by the means in which they've tried to evolve,
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: by their love and passion for the things that they pursue.
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: I think that there are like different kinds of intelligence
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: in this world. I think that's someone who's better than
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: someone else. And this is my opinion, has a certain
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: has an intelligence to them. It can be like a wisdom,
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: it can be just like the way you see the world,
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: maybe because I don't because not, of course, every scholarly
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: person is better than someone else. But I think that
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: pursuing education, pursuing experiences builds a wealth inside yourself that
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I think that. I think that
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: the way that truly the way that you are better
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: than someone else is the way that you treat other
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: people and the way you know, yeah, that's it. The
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: way you treat other people, the way you treat yourself
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: is the way I think people are better than other people.
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: So like do I think, Emma, is you know, better
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: than other people? Obviously not. Elise is not better than
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: Josh because her dad made a bunch of money before
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: Elise was born and put it into an account. If
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: we're to believe that, I have a confession to make. Yeah,
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: my dad makes more money than me and helps me financially.
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: And I have always known that, and I have spent
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: a lot of my life being embarrassed by it and
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: not wanting to tell people about it because I don't
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: want people to judge me, because I feel almost the
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: opposite way. I think that, Like I said that, the
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: fact that I do come from a certain amount of
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: financial privilege makes makes people look at me like negatively
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: and also can keep me and has kept me like
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: in a little bit of a regressed state. I am
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: obsessed with theater and have been my entire life and comedy.
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: So I have relentlessly pursued the education of it, the
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: training of it, and the job itself, and I thankfully
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: have made like accomplishments in that field that feed me
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: as a person. So I don't feel like I, you know,
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: don't live in this world without any purpose. And I
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: also help my dad in a lot of way that
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: I know other children don't do for their parents. So
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: there's you know, I understand my relationship with it. But
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: it's so funny to me when Laura said that because
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: I've for so long thought that my dad's money made
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: me worse than other people. That's the truth, Like you
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: can hear it in my voice, like I could cry
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: about it. I mean, I try and like get into
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: that privilege looks differently. People have, you know, different kinds
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: of privilege, Like people have different kinds of intelligence. Right,
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: I have like a shitty relationship with my mom, And
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: you know, my dad had primary custody in my whole life,
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: so I didn't have a two parent household. I think
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: there's a certain privilege in that, but I'll never know anyway,
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: And that's why I think that I'm a little like, well,
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: if I have to take money for my dad sometimes, fine,
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: we all are doing what we have to do. But yeah,
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: like it was just a fucked up comment by Laura,
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: but I think fucked up so.
• 58:01
  Speaker 3: Anyway, swallowing, swallowing that so I can move on, taking
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: this up the water, in fact, putting myself on mute
• 58:10
  Speaker 3: just to like swallow that pain.
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: Wait one second and I'm back. So basically, Sean asks
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: Elise that it if it came down to her picking
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: her trust fund and her money and what her dad
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: wishes for her over Josh, what would she do? And
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: Elise goes, I love you, Josh, and then it cuts
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: to a break, which we obviously know is not a break,
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: and Elise is like, oh my god, he texted me
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: and he's mad at me for not picking him, and
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: I'm mad at him for not defending me against Nate
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: and Nat because Nat said I was crazy and he
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: didn't say anything. And he says that I made him
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: feel small by not picking him, even though I told
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: him I loved him. I thought that was enough. I
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: thought that everyone was going to think that I picked
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: Josh when I didn't have to say that because she wouldn't,
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: Because she wouldn't. She would not pick Josh over that money.
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: The money is the only thing she's known that is
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: her stability. Why would she pick Josh? Oh? Yeah, I
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: mean that's the truth. I wish that she I mean,
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't wish anything about her. I
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: guess maybe how could you How would you be able
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: to answer that question truthfully without making that mad man mad?
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: What an interesting question, Sean. I haven't thought about it,
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: and that would be very difficult for me, just getting
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: over my own dependence on that financial security. And it
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: could be that I would need to examine whether I
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: can choose anyone over the security I have known. Maybe
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know. H she did the best she could
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: in the moment. Okay, let's move on Trisha and Rick. Okay,
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: So finally we find out that, of course the daddy
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: isn't Rick. The daddy of Trisha's baby that she's pregnant
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: with is not her ex boyfriend, but someone she met
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: two months after Rick, and that person is Australian. She
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: met him on a work trip and they are not
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: dating anymore. And we're like, what what what? What? What?
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: Work trip. Also, you're a doula, babe. Last we checked,
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: you are a doula, which is fine. I mean yeah,
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: like you birth, you help babies get birthed. Is there
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: like a doula convention that you went to? Is it
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: in Australia? Like, I like a billion more questions? Right?
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: What is this? Is this person? Is this baby daddy
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: gonna send you money? Now? Is he accepting of this
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: day they're gonna raise his baby together? Did none of
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: day fiance reach out to this person to see if
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: they would FaceTime in? Does Josh or Chris know this person?
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: Is it Chris? Chris is like not mine? I mean,
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: you know, like one million questions, never even thought of
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: to ask. Okay, so help. We also find out, well
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: we knew this that Rick has been, of course sleeping
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: around and dating other people, of course, and you know,
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  Speaker 1: wasted no time. Rick's like, yeah, she broke up with me,
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  Speaker 1: and then the next day while I'm Madagascar, remember this
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: is she broke up with him. Then like two days
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  Speaker 1: later he left. So the weird gift she had gotten
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  Speaker 1: him at the airport is the after of the night
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  Speaker 1: in which he goes to a bar and then sees
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: some hot young girl eating chicken and he's like, can
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  Speaker 1: I have a piece? And the answer was yes. So
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  Speaker 1: then he goes to the airport and then Tricia's like
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  Speaker 1: gives him that you know, Formula one shirt or whatever
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  Speaker 1: the fuck it was, and he's like, well, I really
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  Speaker 1: hope I can make it work, and she's like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: maybe maybe not. She was really trying to, like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: hanging over his had like, if you are good enough
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  Speaker 1: and if we talk and if I can believe and
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  Speaker 1: trust you, then maybe, But we knew that wasn't gonna happen.
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  Speaker 1: And we're also like, Trisha, how did you even get
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  Speaker 1: to that airport? That's you had really put your foot
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  Speaker 1: down in it, And we don't know if we can
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  Speaker 1: believe in your emotional maturity now, but god bless she's young,
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  Speaker 1: but still we want someone to have, like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: a love of themselves, to be like this is not
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  Speaker 1: worth it, This is worth it. So we also find
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: out that he took the new lady to Hong Kong
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  Speaker 1: on a trip that he maybe had already paid for,
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  Speaker 1: but he certainly had planned for him and Trish to
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: go there for her birthday. And he's like, you can't
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  Speaker 1: hold it against me. I have a fear of being alone.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: And we're like this is almost like yeah, this is
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: get into like Lisa territory where I'm like, so no
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: people over the age of fifty on this show has
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: like took lock stock and barrel of their choices and
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: their behaviors and patterns and at all tried to stop
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: because like, if we're gonna call Lisa impulsive bitch, Rick
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: is fucking impulsive too. Like that's crazy. Also crazy to
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: know that Trisha and Rick are still talking. I hate that.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: I hate it. I can't. I mean, I guess is
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: her and now in her mind is she like, well,
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: Rick will help me take care of this baby? I don't.
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  Speaker 1: This is so messy. It's like again so Banana's Land
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  Speaker 1: that I'm like, where the f am I what's real?
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  Speaker 1: Like I feel like this tail all is me falling
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  Speaker 1: off a cliff and then every time I'm falling, I
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: like try and hold on to a rock, and I'm
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: like is that rock stable? And the rock just like
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: you know, disintegrates in my hand and I fall far
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: farther and I try and hold on to a branch
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: and the branch breaks and I'm like, well, I'm I
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  Speaker 1: gonna at least am I gonna at least hit rock Bottom?
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  Speaker 1: Will there be earth? Am I gonna? But no, I'm
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: like falling into a black hole where I'm just always falling.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: It's very owls in Wonderland. Okay, So Elise is like Trish,
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  Speaker 1: if I were you, I would not ever take Rick back,
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  Speaker 1: And Emma's like I would I would. He's trying, he
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: knows he's made mistakes. But then why don't you try
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: and flirt with Rick behind stage instead of forest? He
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: said your wig smelled good. I already said this in
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: the tell All part one. The man has a whole
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: business selling fake hair. Emma, you should be like the
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: first to fucking sign up. Emma's like desperation is stronger
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: than baccarat rouge. It's a very strong perfume. It is
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: just lafting. I can like I can barely breathe it,
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: Like what does it do? It triggers me for like
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: in my sisterhood for femininity, I'm like, I want like
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: to bring back Iszy and be like Isy, why why
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: is she like this? Is she always been like this?
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: Are you? Are you? Have you ever tried talking to her,
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: have you ever been like, go to therapy you hate yourself?
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I would you know truly? Because is
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: he feels like she has like some semblance of reality.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: You know, she could be like no, Emma's just trying
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: to be on reality television. So she's saying, whatever the
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: fuck it is, like okay, well, then at least at
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: least something is real, at least like okay, good who.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: So after this, we and the tell all and Sean's
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: like another one done, give me my check, and Alise
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: and Emma finally talk about their situation, which is Emma
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: had reached out to Elise and tell and told Elise
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: that she was now dating Rob, that they had started dating.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: But then what happened was there was like another meetup
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: or something, and then Elise and Rob like had seen
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: each other and Alise was like, come back to my
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: hotel room or whatever. And then Rob had supposedly told
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: Emma that this had happened, that Elise was trying to
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: fuck him, and then Emma like is now mad at
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: Elise because she's like, you are my good best friend girlfriend,
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: and I told you how much I was in love
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  Speaker 1: with Rob and that like you would behind my back,
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: and Alise says a couple of things. She's like, no,
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: I didn't, and also, you're not dating him, and when Emma, sorry,
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: when Elise was like, you're not even boyfriend and girlfriend
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: with him, Get real. I want to be like, Alise,
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: you did do that. Then Alise has a bunch of things.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: Also Elise is like, I'm not trying to be with
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: a short man, which is hilarious because Alise, you did
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: try to be with a short man. That's what happened
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: on Hunt for Love. So at this time they're literally
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: fighting after the tell all and I can I almost
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: feel like I can hear the pas like screaming like
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: go home. If Sean gets to clock out, honey, can
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: we we are getting paid significantly less. None of us
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: are union. Please, we all want to go out. We're
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: in New York. Leave, go back, go back to the
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: hotel you're all staying at. You can all do this
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: fight in the bar. Why I know this because it
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: would happened to the holiday party. I like to know,
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: and this is true, you know my insular knowledge. Ninety
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: Fiance does have like publicity parties and different parties for
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: the cast members. Not all the cast, not the entire
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: multivers is invited to everyone, but they seem to have
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: social gatherings where they invite whoever is going to be
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: coming up on any season, and you know, that's what happened.
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: That's why I knew what happened at the holiday party.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: That's why I was there. But there are other parties,
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: like I just saw one where it was very obvious.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: It felt like single life people and people that were
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: going to be on the new Last Resort meet up
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: and of course Diaries is happening, and so so a
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: I wonder if they're doing it on purpose. They're doing it,
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: I think for these cast members to get social media
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: fodder and be able to like post it throw parties.
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: But I also wonder if it's a way for them
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: to have them socialized so they can have this drama
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: that happens on the outside and then reference it of
• 1:08:19
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• 1:08:24
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• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: Regular nine and a Fiance is about to premiere. Plus
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: they have the new season of Last Resort, which I
• 1:08:31
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  Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for watching, for listening, for
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: spending time with me, for hearing my dumb thoughts about
• 1:10:21
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• 1:10:26
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• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: also make fun jokes. Right anyway, I'm super thankful for
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: you guys. So two breaths so that we can like
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: kind of end this chapter together and then move on
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: with our lives. That was one. Do one more with me,
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• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: breath work does. You know what making sure that you
• 1:11:07
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• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: sure that you aren't reactive or highly impulsive in your behavior.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: If you can connect with your mind and body and soul,
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: you can have like a different, wiser perspective where you
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: can see what's happening. The longer you practice it, the
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: longer that you sit in this so that you don't
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: make stupid decisions and then you don't repeat them over
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: and over again. I'm talking to you, Lisa, I'm talking
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: to you Rick and more again. Thank you guys so much.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: Take care of yourselves and one another, stand up for
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  Speaker 1: what you believe, and make art. I love you and
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: i'll talk to you later, all right, my