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- 0:00Speaker 1: All right, hello everybody, and welcome back to Honey Badger Radio.
- 0:04Speaker 1: My name is Brian with Allison and our special guest
- 0:07Speaker 1: Teal Deer, and this is maintaining frame. I guess there's
- 0:11Speaker 1: no fourth category for actual men, where we're hopefully going
- 0:14Speaker 1: to be finishing this analysis of this video by oh
- 0:22Speaker 1: I can't remember her name, but this book tube person
- 0:28Speaker 1: that's been reading through or read through a couple of
- 0:32Speaker 1: different versions of the media play from ancient Greece, and
- 0:39Speaker 1: she loves it because I guess media kills her kids,
- 0:44Speaker 1: and that's empowerment.
- 0:47Speaker 2: Yep, I don't know. Yeah, so she kills her kids.
- 0:51Speaker 3: She kills her kids, and it apparently hurts Jason, so
- 0:57Speaker 3: that's hurt.
- 0:57Speaker 1: Yeah, she hurts. She kills her kids to hurt Jason,
- 1:01Speaker 1: and that's.
- 1:02Speaker 2: Empowered to him.
- 1:03Speaker 3: Yeah, because because Jason didn't want to continue to have
- 1:06Speaker 3: a relationship with her, right, So yeah, that's empowerment, you know.
- 1:12Speaker 3: And in terms of this woman's argument that she was
- 1:17Speaker 3: going to be destitute without Jason, well, maybe don't don't
- 1:22Speaker 3: kill family members while you're running off with with the
- 1:26Speaker 3: bad boy, right, maybe don't do that. Don't burn your bridges,
- 1:31Speaker 3: and I don't think it would have left her destitute
- 1:33Speaker 3: because Jason said that he would take care of her.
- 1:35Speaker 3: But regardless, Jason doesn't have the right to decide. Once
- 1:41Speaker 3: Medea has decided that Jason is his, Jason has no
- 1:45Speaker 3: opinion in that matter. Because that if you, if you
- 1:47Speaker 3: actually think about it and you reframe it entirely in
- 1:50Speaker 3: a modern sense, people can get divorced. That's it. That's
- 1:55Speaker 3: that's presumably we're all for the no fault divorce right,
- 1:58Speaker 3: so they can get divorced for whatever reason and remarry.
- 2:01Speaker 3: So that's all that's happening here is Jason is like, yo,
- 2:03Speaker 3: I'm done. I'm done being with you media. I never
- 2:09Speaker 3: really consented to it in the first place. It was
- 2:11Speaker 3: a gift of hera and if I actually rejected her gift,
- 2:15Speaker 3: all hell breaks loose, which is exactly what happened when
- 2:18Speaker 3: he ended up rejecting me Medea. So but I'm done
- 2:21Speaker 3: with this. Okay, you're gonna be taken care of. I
- 2:25Speaker 3: want to live my life now.
- 2:26Speaker 4: That is that's.
- 2:27Speaker 3: Supposedly perfectly acceptable under a no fault regime, no fault
- 2:31Speaker 3: divorce regime. But apparently we're not applying those modern values.
- 2:37Speaker 3: We're only applying the modern values to the woman. The
- 2:41Speaker 3: man gets to still have the same expectations he always had,
- 2:45Speaker 3: which is why it isn't no fault divorce. It's actually
- 2:48Speaker 3: man at fault divorce. But you know, let's not let's
- 2:53Speaker 3: not even talk about this massive double standard. Did we
- 2:58Speaker 3: mention that Teal tears here?
- 3:00Speaker 2: Yeah, I mentioned at the top of the show.
- 3:02Speaker 1: Yeah, I said, oh yeah, okay, good people can see
- 3:05Speaker 1: here because his avatar is here.
- 3:07Speaker 3: Oh okay, excellent. So it's all. It's all sorted and
- 3:10Speaker 3: taken care of. Thanks for joining us, steal there. Did
- 3:14Speaker 3: you have anything to add to my intro of where
- 3:18Speaker 3: we are now, past past events in this series of
- 3:21Speaker 3: this woman's video?
- 3:25Speaker 4: You are determined to not let me break my seventeen
- 3:28Speaker 4: minute mark of silence. I'm noticing. But what I am
- 3:33Speaker 4: going to say is, I've been here for a while now,
- 3:38Speaker 4: doing doing these shows, talking to this woman, and I
- 3:44Speaker 4: find the more I used to be fairly neutral on it,
- 3:48Speaker 4: the more I listened to her, the more disappointed I get,
- 3:53Speaker 4: the more hope I lose in humanity. I just become
- 3:58Speaker 4: generally more pressed, full of despair, annoyed, irritated. Uh in
- 4:04Speaker 4: some cases, I just reach anger at how someone can
- 4:10Speaker 4: say so many things that are so incredibly stupid with
- 4:12Speaker 4: such high frequency, And it leaves me to ask, Brian,
- 4:17Speaker 4: why do we allow Alison on the show?
- 4:23Speaker 3: Ah?
- 4:24Speaker 2: You get it, Alison? Oh Alison are you there? Are
- 4:31Speaker 2: you muted?
- 4:32Speaker 3: Yes? I was muted. Okay, okay, the buttons already doing
- 4:36Speaker 3: the job.
- 4:36Speaker 2: Guys.
- 4:39Speaker 3: No, I'm too autistic to understand it.
- 4:41Speaker 2: But I'm sure it's a joke. Never mind it was,
- 4:46Speaker 2: it was never I'm not going to explain this job. No,
- 4:49Speaker 2: I'm not explaining the joke. That's stupid. The people who
- 4:54Speaker 2: are watching will get the joke, and that'll be that'll
- 4:56Speaker 2: be the end of you can't.
- 4:58Speaker 3: You can't if.
- 4:59Speaker 1: You explain the joke, it's you know, it's worse than
- 5:06Speaker 1: just letting it lie and like let people not get it.
- 5:09Speaker 3: So okay, all right?
- 5:13Speaker 4: Is that all of that is true of our darling,
- 5:16Speaker 4: this Collier. It's at the start, I was kind of like, yeah, okay, okay,
- 5:21Speaker 4: some things you say are okay. Some things you say not,
- 5:26Speaker 4: but they're definitely like I can I can comprehend the
- 5:29Speaker 4: lens through which these things are being said. But then
- 5:33Speaker 4: it just keeps going and she keeps talking and she
- 5:36Speaker 4: keeps saying things, and it it goes from neutrality to
- 5:43Speaker 4: words that I might get arrested if I say them
- 5:46Speaker 4: out loud in this country.
- 5:48Speaker 2: Mm hmm, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 5:50Speaker 3: It just it's just just spirals down, like she has
- 5:52Speaker 3: no break on her on her insane inferences and unsupported
- 5:58Speaker 3: ones too, like sometimes you go to unhood and staying places,
- 6:02Speaker 3: but the every step that you took there is well supported.
- 6:06Speaker 3: But no, she just makes these insane leaves and then
- 6:10Speaker 3: she imports modern values but only for women, not for men.
- 6:16Speaker 3: Because if she was honest and she applied things equally,
- 6:21Speaker 3: she would have to admit that Jason has the right
- 6:24Speaker 3: to leave Media, at least from the modern framework, right,
- 6:28Speaker 3: he has every right to leave her and fall in
- 6:30Speaker 3: love with someone else, no fault, divorce, friend. So nothing
- 6:34Speaker 3: that you're presenting has any moral justification to it. Media
- 6:38Speaker 3: does not. Is not justified in killing her children or
- 6:41Speaker 3: hit her children with just with Jason because Jason wants
- 6:46Speaker 3: to leave her. That's sick. And you are, in fact
- 6:51Speaker 3: promoting a family annihilator as a positive role model for women,
- 6:57Speaker 3: and you're doing so with no apparent awareness of how
- 7:00Speaker 3: morally bankrupt. That is right, that's that's that's yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 7:08Speaker 3: you're right, Tildare. It starts with something that's almost inoffensive,
- 7:11Speaker 3: and that just builds and builds and builds, and then
- 7:13Speaker 3: you look back and you're like, how the fuck did
- 7:15Speaker 3: we get here? But yeah, so anyway, I'll do the things, yeah,
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- 9:16Speaker 3: And yeah, let's uh, let's lose some more faith in humanity.
- 9:22Speaker 3: What's her name, Brian, did you take a look and
- 9:24Speaker 3: find out.
- 9:25Speaker 2: Miss Collier Collia?
- 9:28Speaker 4: Yeah, it is by the way, today it's an English name. Collah,
- 9:33Speaker 4: it's Colia, someone who makes chocoal. It's the old profession.
- 9:41Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, okay Collier, all right, so let us uh,
- 9:46Speaker 1: let us continue. This is like okay, So there's like
- 9:49Speaker 1: two sections left in this this one we're at the
- 9:52Speaker 1: end of where she was reacting to a I think
- 9:57Speaker 1: she saw like a modern interpretation of this play, and
- 10:01Speaker 1: she was talking about how they what the changes were,
- 10:04Speaker 1: but how much she liked them. And I think we're
- 10:06Speaker 1: getting to the conclusion like does she kill her kids
- 10:10Speaker 1: in this modern version or is it something different?
- 10:14Speaker 2: So that let's go.
- 10:16Speaker 5: And matches him, just like beat for beat. So it's
- 10:19Speaker 5: so interesting. So while I was reading Euripides and I
- 10:24Speaker 5: was thinking postpartum psychosis, Rachel Cusk read Euripides and was
- 10:29Speaker 5: thinking about divorce and how that negatively impacts the children.
- 10:34Speaker 5: I read this really interesting interview with her. I'm going
- 10:38Speaker 5: to read it to you now.
- 10:40Speaker 2: I'm a pausitive there for a second.
- 10:42Speaker 1: So the person who wrote that version, that's a little
- 10:47Speaker 1: bit different according to missus Collier. Here she's saying that
- 10:53Speaker 1: instead of it being about what was it that she
- 10:58Speaker 1: said like that, she's saying it's about divorce. This supposed
- 11:00Speaker 1: to murdering the children basically, So how divorce affects children?
- 11:04Speaker 2: Now?
- 11:05Speaker 1: Is she going to bring up the fact that most
- 11:08Speaker 1: divorces are initiated by women and they don't really care
- 11:11Speaker 1: who gets hurt in the divorce because they're trying to
- 11:14Speaker 1: get theirs or not.
- 11:16Speaker 2: Probably not, We'll just keep going, purcusk.
- 11:20Speaker 5: The truthful idea of damage to children is the heart
- 11:23Speaker 5: of the play. This is what Medea sees, and this
- 11:25Speaker 5: is what Euripity sees. And it's so good that someone
- 11:28Speaker 5: sees that. It absolutely relies on the institutionalized culture of
- 11:31Speaker 5: motherhood to mop up and conceal the essential cynicism of divorce.
- 11:36Speaker 5: What happens is man leaves women, children are damaged, and
- 11:39Speaker 5: woman is expected to continue their lives and live as
- 11:43Speaker 5: a self sacrificing pretense. The fact of the damage to
- 11:46Speaker 5: children is covered up by everybody. And Medea doesn't do that.
- 11:50Speaker 5: She won't do it. She says, these are our children,
- 11:53Speaker 5: and if you leave me, the grounds for their existence
- 11:56Speaker 5: are not there anymore. They are canceled in a way.
- 11:59Speaker 5: Jesus Christ, rachel cusk, that's so good a woman.
- 12:03Speaker 4: No, it isn't.
- 12:06Speaker 2: It's not.
- 12:07Speaker 4: This is one of the things that really annoys me
- 12:10Speaker 4: about this woman. It's bad thing happens, like woman does
- 12:14Speaker 4: something or says something that is objectively bad and she
- 12:17Speaker 4: just her face lights up. I love it like this. No,
- 12:22Speaker 4: this is not good, like okay, right, So if a
- 12:24Speaker 4: man divorce is a woman, then a woman has every
- 12:26Speaker 4: right to take away the existence of the children because
- 12:31Speaker 4: of something the man did. But we know in this
- 12:34Speaker 4: case that madea is a murderous psychopath. You know, she
- 12:41Speaker 4: killed her brother. I can't remember if this is before
- 12:46Speaker 4: or after she tries to poison theseus in the crib
- 12:52Speaker 4: and then he ejects her from the kingdom later because
- 12:57Speaker 4: obviously he found that out upon his return from his
- 13:03Speaker 4: oh what was he doing at the time? That was
- 13:06Speaker 4: minotaur side quest that he was dealing with at that time.
- 13:10Speaker 4: Came back and she I think also tried something with
- 13:14Speaker 4: his father agus, but he died off screen, he died
- 13:21Speaker 4: hurling himself into the ag and c unsurprisingly because theseus
- 13:25Speaker 4: forgot to change the sails on the boats. So like,
- 13:31Speaker 4: she is just demonstrably objectively in the wrong when she
- 13:36Speaker 4: is doing all of these things. Even if you want
- 13:38Speaker 4: to say, oh, she had no choice because divine intervention,
- 13:42Speaker 4: because of the arrow. Okay, let's just put modern morality
- 13:46Speaker 4: onto it, as this woman seems to want to do.
- 13:50Speaker 4: She's not entitled to Jason's time, she's not entitled to
- 13:56Speaker 4: his affection, she's not entitled to sex with him. So
- 14:01Speaker 4: she should just deal with it. That's what they would say,
- 14:07Speaker 4: you know, if if we go back to Manda and Jessica,
- 14:11Speaker 4: that's what they'd say about man dea. Yeah, you just
- 14:15Speaker 4: learn to keep it in your pants. But they're never
- 14:18Speaker 4: gonna they're never gonna address it. But yeah, no, sorry,
- 14:22Speaker 4: the pretense of if man divorce is woman, woman has
- 14:28Speaker 4: a right to explode. That's nonsense. And on top of that, yes,
- 14:33Speaker 4: we know that something like three quarters to eighty percent
- 14:35Speaker 4: of all the divorces are initiated by women. Ever since
- 14:39Speaker 4: no fault divorce became a thing, it's just gone absolutely
- 14:41Speaker 4: off the rails because it can it can literally be
- 14:44Speaker 4: anything like literally anything. On top of that, I mean,
- 14:49Speaker 4: it gets even worse if you look at how relationships
- 14:52Speaker 4: happen and form and how volatile they are. Yeah, slightly
- 15:00Speaker 4: esoteric side tangent here, but it does help. You know,
- 15:04Speaker 4: AI is really really good at pattern matching. It's kind
- 15:08Speaker 4: of like the best thing that it does not these
- 15:10Speaker 4: language model generation things, which are mostly garbage and just
- 15:14Speaker 4: make shit up as they go along, but when you
- 15:16Speaker 4: train it on a data set, they become insanely reliable
- 15:19Speaker 4: at spotting patterns. Now you can train AIS on, for example,
- 15:24Speaker 4: medical data as a means of identifying the genetic population
- 15:29Speaker 4: of a person, or to shorthand it race. So you
- 15:33Speaker 4: give them when you already know what the participants are,
- 15:38Speaker 4: what the data is, and say, okay, this population is
- 15:41Speaker 4: European heritage, this population is East Asian, this population is
- 15:45Speaker 4: African heritage. You give it, however, many categories that you
- 15:49Speaker 4: want to and you give it the data that fits
- 15:51Speaker 4: into those categories, and it goes bom bom, boom bom. Okay,
- 15:54Speaker 4: I know all of this stuff. Now give me any
- 15:56Speaker 4: piece of data and I'll identify it. AI, in the
- 16:00Speaker 4: those circumstances, was able to identify with ninety five percent
- 16:04Speaker 4: plus confidence racial characteristics of X rays that had degraded
- 16:10Speaker 4: beyond recognition to the point where even a trained doctor
- 16:14Speaker 4: would look at the X ray and say, I don't
- 16:16Speaker 4: know what this is, like, I'm not even sure if
- 16:19Speaker 4: this is an X ray. But obviously, because you've got
- 16:22Speaker 4: the rest of the patient file, you know who it is,
- 16:25Speaker 4: but it's it's just those images. AI could do that
- 16:28Speaker 4: with like ninety five percent plus confidence. In the highest rates,
- 16:31Speaker 4: it was like ninety eight ninety nine percent. If you
- 16:34Speaker 4: take AIS and you train them on data regarding relationships,
- 16:40Speaker 4: so you give it everything about the relationships, yepp, how
- 16:42Speaker 4: long have they been together, how long are they hoping
- 16:44Speaker 4: to be together, income of both partners, income disparities, levels
- 16:48Speaker 4: of education, how many children, ages have, just literally everything
- 16:51Speaker 4: that you can give them about relationship data. The AI
- 16:56Speaker 4: was able to predict which relationships would stay together with
- 17:00Speaker 4: with zero percent accuracy, actually zero. It had no way
- 17:06Speaker 4: of predicting what relationships were going to stick together. And
- 17:10Speaker 4: the ridiculous thing about that was, I think it was
- 17:12Speaker 4: something like half of the relationships before they imploded said
- 17:18Speaker 4: that they were completely happy, like as little as six
- 17:20Speaker 4: months before it ended. So we're in this bizarre situation
- 17:24Speaker 4: where these relationships get together and they fall apart for
- 17:27Speaker 4: literally no predictable reason whatsoever. It would seem like we
- 17:30Speaker 4: have no ability to pattern how good relationships are going
- 17:35Speaker 4: to be in society. And we know that most of
- 17:38Speaker 4: them get blown up by women. So all of this
- 17:43Speaker 4: just tells you the general state of relationships that we
- 17:47Speaker 4: have at the moment. And I just find that fascinating
- 17:52Speaker 4: in light of what we're looking at here. And this
- 17:54Speaker 4: person just saying, oh, well, you know, women should just
- 17:57Speaker 4: be allowed to blow up the relationship and if they'd
- 18:00Speaker 4: all the heinous stuff imaginable. And the man says, hey,
- 18:03Speaker 4: you know what, I'm not doing this anymore. I Am
- 18:08Speaker 4: removing my lips from the crazy cup and leaving. And
- 18:15Speaker 4: she'll just say, well, you know, whatever she does past
- 18:17Speaker 4: that point and justified M.
- 18:21Speaker 3: Yeah. I honestly, I'm looking at this as a couple
- 18:24Speaker 3: of things. First of all, I wonder if they just
- 18:26Speaker 3: don't have the right metrics in order to determine which
- 18:30Speaker 3: relationships will succeed, And then the other things. That's just like,
- 18:36Speaker 3: there's got to be a way you can model it.
- 18:38Speaker 3: But that's just me and and I know that oftentimes
- 18:44Speaker 3: the way that people look at these issues, they can
- 18:46Speaker 3: strain the potential inputs by their own assumptions. So there
- 18:54Speaker 3: is there may be a solution in data they're not tracking.
- 18:58Speaker 3: But but but the other thing I wanted to point
- 19:00Speaker 3: out is I have never heard people in the manosphere
- 19:06Speaker 3: do what this woman is doing. This woman is justifying
- 19:11Speaker 3: female family annihilators. Yeah, and she's not just justifed. She's
- 19:15Speaker 3: not just saying like there was a while back where
- 19:17Speaker 3: there was a male family annihilator or he killed his
- 19:20Speaker 3: wife or ex wife, and she went on the internet
- 19:24Speaker 3: and she was talking about how well he was taking
- 19:28Speaker 3: the fact that she was destroying his life. And I mean,
- 19:32Speaker 3: it's one thing to do it, it's another thing to
- 19:34Speaker 3: crow about it on the internet. And that was crawling
- 19:36Speaker 3: about it. That was demonstrating a complete and utter disregard
- 19:41Speaker 3: for his experience of it. Now that doesn't does it
- 19:44Speaker 3: certainly doesn't in law, and it doesn't morally justify him
- 19:48Speaker 3: going and doing what he did. But there were men
- 19:50Speaker 3: who are saying, you know, I can I can understand it.
- 19:53Speaker 3: I don't condone it, but I understand it right, And
- 19:57Speaker 3: they were dragged through the munth. Men would not say
- 20:00Speaker 3: that he shouldn't be punished for what he did. They're
- 20:03Speaker 3: not saying that he should have done what he did.
- 20:05Speaker 3: They're not saying that he should be lauded for what
- 20:08Speaker 3: he did or put on a pedestal or have monuments
- 20:11Speaker 3: or be seen as a role model. They just said, yeah,
- 20:14Speaker 3: I understand it, and they were dragged by women for
- 20:18Speaker 3: just saying that, just saying yeah, I get it. She
- 20:22Speaker 3: destroyed his life and then crowed about it on the internet. Right,
- 20:25Speaker 3: I get I get it. Not right, but I get it,
- 20:28Speaker 3: And women dragged them for it. And this woman is
- 20:31Speaker 3: saying right here, right now that if a man leaves
- 20:36Speaker 3: a woman, no fault. Divorced guys, ever, Jason has every
- 20:40Speaker 3: right to leave media. If a man leaves a woman,
- 20:43Speaker 3: she has the right to kill her kids and implode
- 20:48Speaker 3: everybody's life, and also kill his wife, his next wife,
- 20:54Speaker 3: and he and his father in law with his next wife. Right,
- 20:58Speaker 3: just kill a whole bunch of people. Not only is
- 21:01Speaker 3: that understandable, which is what they drag men for with
- 21:04Speaker 3: the reverse situation, it is even the reverse situation, right,
- 21:08Speaker 3: it is laudable. It's not just laudable. She's a role model.
- 21:13Speaker 3: She's not just a role model, she's a feminist role model.
- 21:16Speaker 3: So when it's and again, I have never heard anyone,
- 21:21Speaker 3: any man or even the manosphere, except for like maybe
- 21:25Speaker 3: the one or two psychotic trolls that have come across
- 21:28Speaker 3: In the twenty years I've been doing this, I've never
- 21:30Speaker 3: heard any of them say that this that you should
- 21:34Speaker 3: take men who kill their families and turn them into
- 21:37Speaker 3: role models. That's what she's doing. Like this is and
- 21:41Speaker 3: this is content that nobody calls out, nobody points to this.
- 21:45Speaker 3: There's no un a body investigating femosphere content, femosphere extremism.
- 21:54Speaker 3: But this is extremism. It's completely somehow acceptable to everyone.
- 22:00Speaker 3: And yet we've never even seen the opposite from the
- 22:04Speaker 3: man sphere. This woman is saying that when a woman
- 22:08Speaker 3: experiences a divorce and somehow the fact that the logic
- 22:13Speaker 3: she just used, and I just want to go into
- 22:15Speaker 3: the logic she just used because I want to make
- 22:17Speaker 3: sure I understand this correctly. The fact that children are
- 22:22Speaker 3: damaged by divorce mostly initiated by women, but we can't
- 22:26Speaker 3: call those door forces out. That's just freedom of choice
- 22:28Speaker 3: for women. Matter of fact, that children are damaged by
- 22:32Speaker 3: divorce is something that women somehow compensate for through the
- 22:39Speaker 3: application of the spiritual glitter known as motherhood, something something
- 22:45Speaker 3: motherhood poof. It's all good, no explanation of what behavior
- 22:49Speaker 3: the women are engaging in. But because women compensate allegedly
- 22:54Speaker 3: for the damage done to children that justifies them killing them.
- 23:00Speaker 3: Was saying, Okay, well, I don't have to I don't
- 23:02Speaker 3: have to compensate for the fact that you've gotten a
- 23:05Speaker 3: divorce for me, Jason, I'm just gonna kill her kids,
- 23:08Speaker 3: and that what justifies me killing the kids is the
- 23:11Speaker 3: expectation that I not kill them. Like, what kind of
- 23:16Speaker 3: what kind of fucked up relational web thinking is this shit?
- 23:20Speaker 3: Like did you did you just see that that logical,
- 23:23Speaker 3: non illogical chain that she just made. Yeah, children, children
- 23:29Speaker 3: are damaged by divorce. Women allegedly have to compensate for
- 23:33Speaker 3: this damage. Therefore, it's perfectly fine for a woman to
- 23:37Speaker 3: decide what she's justified to kill the children, to abandon
- 23:42Speaker 3: the children, to do all of this other stuff to
- 23:46Speaker 3: the children, because she's the one who has to make
- 23:51Speaker 3: it work. It's like, okay, if you are held to us,
- 23:56Speaker 3: if the reason why you're held to any standard is
- 23:59Speaker 3: why you get to blow that standard apart and do
- 24:02Speaker 3: whatever you want, then you're not held to that standard
- 24:05Speaker 3: and you don't get to used to justify anything. Oh
- 24:08Speaker 3: god damn, I hate that logic. I hate that reasoning
- 24:12Speaker 3: more than anything, well, not more than anything. There's a
- 24:15Speaker 3: lot of other things that I hate, but that idea,
- 24:17Speaker 3: that that and it's always women that do it. They're like, well,
- 24:20Speaker 3: where hell did this standard? That means we get to
- 24:23Speaker 3: violate it and violate everybody who holds us to it,
- 24:26Speaker 3: and violate the world for making it, And that that
- 24:28Speaker 3: means we get to just we're held at the standard
- 24:31Speaker 3: of not hitting people. That means we get to nuke
- 24:33Speaker 3: anyone we own. That's like, it's like, you know, that's
- 24:37Speaker 3: not how standards work. First of all, you're not really
- 24:40Speaker 3: held to that standard, right. I think your brain would
- 24:44Speaker 3: implode if you were actually held at the standards the
- 24:46Speaker 3: way men are. But also, you don't get to say
- 24:49Speaker 3: the existence of the standard is the reason why you
- 24:51Speaker 3: get to violate it. Do you wonder where I stand
- 24:53Speaker 3: what an external standard is?
- 24:56Speaker 1: Oh?
- 24:56Speaker 3: Goddamn, But that's what she just did. And again, this
- 25:00Speaker 3: is a feminist right saying we should pedestal pedestalize the
- 25:05Speaker 3: family annihilator because she's female, and because women are expected
- 25:12Speaker 3: to make divorce work, well, since they initiate them, maybe
- 25:16Speaker 3: they should make it work. Right, Maybe there's some causality
- 25:19Speaker 3: there that they're responsible for. But no, no, no, if
- 25:23Speaker 3: they just if they do all this, or if a
- 25:26Speaker 3: man walks away. Sorry, of course women should be able
- 25:29Speaker 3: to annihilate their families and it should be laudable. Like
- 25:34Speaker 3: do does this woman ever step out of what she's
- 25:37Speaker 3: saying and say, wait, there's a reality here that my
- 25:40Speaker 3: words are describing. Maybe I should fact check them against it,
- 25:45Speaker 3: see if what I'm saying isn't horrific. And then of
- 25:49Speaker 3: course gigantic fan base all sucking on everything she has
- 25:58Speaker 3: to say, probably mostly women I have, I have, I
- 26:05Speaker 3: have no excuse. Maybe I should leave. Actually, that's what
- 26:08Speaker 3: I'm gonna do. I'm gonna leave, Like Tilder said, I
- 26:12Speaker 3: should go.
- 26:14Speaker 2: Are you serious, Allison? She left?
- 26:22Speaker 4: Okay, awesome, excellent, This is now a forty K law channel.
- 26:28Speaker 4: Let's go. Okay, the plans have worked perfectly.
- 26:36Speaker 2: Oh all right, she's she's back.
- 26:40Speaker 4: Here we go.
- 26:41Speaker 3: Sorry, okay, go ahead.
- 26:44Speaker 2: Yeah, we the troll is successful. You got me?
- 26:49Speaker 1: You actually left? That's okay, pretty good? All right, Tilia,
- 26:53Speaker 1: what were you saying?
- 26:54Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 26:54Speaker 1: Well, yeah, now that you're back, we're gonna talk about
- 26:56Speaker 1: forty K lores. So I hope you're okay with that
- 26:58Speaker 1: all right, go ahead.
- 27:00Speaker 4: Uh, yes, so I know I'm a bit late to this,
- 27:02Speaker 4: but female custodes goddamn it, like literally expressly defined as
- 27:06Speaker 4: being a brotherhood, talked about how they are sourced from
- 27:10Speaker 4: the sons of the noble households, like there is no
- 27:13Speaker 4: this is just a retcon, and I'm kind of sick
- 27:14Speaker 4: of Games Workshop retconning their own IP. People like to
- 27:17Speaker 4: justify these sorts of retcons by pointing at the ridiculous
- 27:21Speaker 4: stuff from first edition. They'll say, like, oh, I wasn't
- 27:23Speaker 4: there this, you know, Obi Wan Clouseau Sherlock character. Yes,
- 27:28Speaker 4: there was. He has never been mentioned again past first
- 27:31Speaker 4: edition because he was absolutely ridiculous technically still cannon, but
- 27:35Speaker 4: so absurdly obtuse that nobody knows about him, so it's irrelevant.
- 27:41Speaker 4: Custodies very prominent in the law. You have to go
- 27:46Speaker 4: with that, Like you can't point at like the tiniest
- 27:49Speaker 4: little needle in the haystack and say this is the
- 27:52Speaker 4: standard that we should be like, this is the standard
- 27:55Speaker 4: that we should be held to forever. I mean, my god,
- 27:57Speaker 4: if you want to go down that sort of thing,
- 27:58Speaker 4: you need to look at like Zoetes in the Tyrannids.
- 28:01Speaker 4: Tyrannids in the first edition they used to have the
- 28:03Speaker 4: zoat thing, which was a port over from D and D.
- 28:06Speaker 4: Those guys, for some bizarre reason, were not only equipped
- 28:09Speaker 4: with the Tyrannid flesh bora thing, but they had technological
- 28:12Speaker 4: gas masks and backpacks on and they were used specifically
- 28:17Speaker 4: by the Tyrannids as a means of bargaining. They would
- 28:21Speaker 4: show up ahead of the hive fleet and they would
- 28:23Speaker 4: say to people, they would go in as the what's
- 28:26Speaker 4: the word for them? The diplomats for the hive mind
- 28:29Speaker 4: the Great Consumer had diplomats shall we hold? That was
- 28:34Speaker 4: like first edition, shall we hold? Shall we hold modern
- 28:37Speaker 4: Tyrannis to that standard? Because that existed? Was it ever
- 28:40Speaker 4: expressly removed from the law? Well, if it was great,
- 28:43Speaker 4: If it wasn't, well now we've got to address it.
- 28:45Speaker 4: We've got to assume that it's still there. We've got
- 28:47Speaker 4: to assume it all still exists. Yeah, there we go, right,
- 28:54Speaker 4: spurgery aside, This woman talks like a lot of what
- 28:58Speaker 4: she's going on about here, I think is just the
- 29:00Speaker 4: politics of Rissontimore, because that's how this is how a
- 29:03Speaker 4: lot of left wing politics goes what she does here
- 29:10Speaker 4: reminds me specifically of the your reaction being their excuse
- 29:19Speaker 4: for action. Means that you see a lot in political discourse,
- 29:22Speaker 4: particularly when it comes to left wing politics. They will
- 29:25Speaker 4: do something and then you, as a non leftist, reacting
- 29:29Speaker 4: to what they have done, they will say, aha, well,
- 29:32Speaker 4: that's why we have to do what we're doing now
- 29:35Speaker 4: so they can. It's kind of like they'll they'll do
- 29:39Speaker 4: those things like you. You'll see the riots and it's all
- 29:42Speaker 4: the riots are the voices of the unheard, and then
- 29:45Speaker 4: the police will come out and say, look, we need
- 29:47Speaker 4: to reestablish some sort of law and order. This is ridiculous.
- 29:50Speaker 4: You're burning things down, all the criminal damage, you're literally
- 29:52Speaker 4: killing people in the street because you presume they ideologically
- 29:57Speaker 4: disagree with you. And then they say, aha, heavy handed policing,
- 30:01Speaker 4: that's why we're doing this. Like they literally cause the
- 30:05Speaker 4: thing that they then react to. Yes, And this is
- 30:09Speaker 4: what I think some of what this woman is doing
- 30:11Speaker 4: when it comes to madeir it's like she does something
- 30:14Speaker 4: someone else reacts to it. Aha. The fact that Jason
- 30:17Speaker 4: in this instance responded to this, that is why I
- 30:22Speaker 4: had to do this in the first place. And I'm
- 30:24Speaker 4: going to round this out by saying, the League of
- 30:28Speaker 4: Votan are not squats. I want my proper squats back.
- 30:31Speaker 4: I refuse to believe all of them were consumed by
- 30:34Speaker 4: the Tyranids. I want proper squats. I want them as
- 30:36Speaker 4: space bikers in space. Yes, space bikers in space. Let's go.
- 30:43Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, space bikers in space in space. Most importantly,
- 30:52Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I agree with you on the the female custodies. Obviously, Alison, I.
- 31:00Speaker 3: Have absolutely no opinion on this issue.
- 31:04Speaker 1: Well we we are. Were you paying attention? He didn't
- 31:06Speaker 1: just talk about the custodes? All right, Well let's get
- 31:10Speaker 1: back to this.
- 31:11Speaker 2: We'll go go ahead, go ahead.
- 31:12Speaker 4: Who remembers the vote?
- 31:15Speaker 2: The vote?
- 31:16Speaker 4: I refuse to believe I'm the only person who remembers
- 31:18Speaker 4: the vote the important in four K. I refuse to
- 31:21Speaker 4: believe I am the only person who remembers that.
- 31:24Speaker 2: I was never a big forty K person, But I
- 31:26Speaker 2: do see it.
- 31:27Speaker 1: Ancient alien species, most likely enslaved by the tyrannids.
- 31:32Speaker 2: Oh they look like centaurs or something, right.
- 31:36Speaker 4: Yeah, they're like lizards centa people.
- 31:38Speaker 2: Yeah, lizard lizard centaurs.
- 31:40Speaker 1: Interesting and they and they just stopped supporting that huh, yep,
- 31:45Speaker 1: they just ignored.
- 31:46Speaker 4: Them because they changed the law. Because yeah, yeah, because
- 31:49Speaker 4: they changed the law in like second and third It
- 31:51Speaker 4: because first edition was fucking wild compared to second and third.
- 31:56Speaker 4: You're gonna remember first edition space Marines will basically doom
- 32:00Speaker 4: guy like morons who would beat things to death like that.
- 32:03Speaker 4: They weren't these ultra intelligent, brilliant, eight foot tall genetic warriors.
- 32:10Speaker 4: First edition was wild. It was crazy. It was beautiful,
- 32:13Speaker 4: and man, man, I want squigs back, you know, orcs.
- 32:17Speaker 1: I remember the squigs, Yeah, orcs, they're bold down.
- 32:22Speaker 4: No, I want them to bring back the fact that
- 32:24Speaker 4: these guys would staple squigs to their heads and their
- 32:27Speaker 4: faces to have hair. I have not been aired or
- 32:32Speaker 4: movel for years. They need to bring that back. It
- 32:35Speaker 4: was such an essential part of their character because they
- 32:37Speaker 4: were so silly. I know that part of the appeal
- 32:41Speaker 4: of forty k is that the law in first edition,
- 32:43Speaker 4: second edition was silly, and it was self aware that
- 32:46Speaker 4: it was just being silly. And then third edition happened
- 32:49Speaker 4: and they were like, you know, this is completely ridiculous
- 32:51Speaker 4: and utter just silliness all over. But it is absolutely
- 32:55Speaker 4: deathly serious and playing it absolutely deathly serious is the
- 32:59Speaker 4: thing that made it fantastic. But I would like some
- 33:01Speaker 4: of the silliness back. Yeah, I want people taking the
- 33:06Speaker 4: forty K equivalent of tribles and stapling them to their
- 33:09Speaker 4: faces to make a bed.
- 33:13Speaker 3: Somebody is saying that I need to rescue you guys
- 33:15Speaker 3: from the the the war hammer or whole more whole.
- 33:21Speaker 3: I'm afraid that, even though I understand nothing that's coming
- 33:25Speaker 3: out of Fieldeer's mouth, I prefer listening to him about
- 33:28Speaker 3: this than this woman about Medea. So like the of
- 33:33Speaker 3: the of the entire half an hour that we've now
- 33:36Speaker 3: been doing this, this has been like the last the
- 33:38Speaker 3: five minutes has been about the only part that I've
- 33:40Speaker 3: actually enjoyed, even though I have no idea what's going on,
- 33:43Speaker 3: Like I'm just sitting here, I'm just I'm just vibing
- 33:46Speaker 3: with somebody else enjoying something, as opposed to listening to
- 33:50Speaker 3: some woman justify a fricking family annihilator because they have
- 33:55Speaker 3: a vagina without even really realizing what the hell she's doing.
- 33:59Speaker 3: And again, there's no UN, there's no UN group, there's
- 34:04Speaker 3: no UK Parliamentary. I don't know body, I don't know
- 34:09Speaker 3: what you guys have in the UK House of Lords
- 34:11Speaker 3: Committee convening on Femosphere Extremism. But right here, right now,
- 34:17Speaker 3: we are listening to a feminist with a large platform
- 34:22Speaker 3: lionize family annihilators as long as they're female. And again,
- 34:27Speaker 3: I've never heard this from the manisphere, like never, no.
- 34:31Speaker 2: No, Well, because yeah, that doesn't that doesn't happen.
- 34:35Speaker 3: Yeah, it doesn't happen. And saying that you understand why
- 34:39Speaker 3: some men did something is not the same as condoning
- 34:43Speaker 3: what was done. So that's as close as I've ever
- 34:47Speaker 3: seen any And and I'm extending the the name of
- 34:51Speaker 3: the manisphere. I'm just talking about men having an opinion
- 34:53Speaker 3: on the Internet, which basically is the manisphere. But you know,
- 34:58Speaker 3: that's that's all I've even seen come close to what
- 35:01Speaker 3: she's and it has it is not and why come close?
- 35:04Speaker 3: I mean, like, uh, the orc cloud is close to
- 35:07Speaker 3: the sun, like as in not really, oh, I guess
- 35:10Speaker 3: compared to the center of the galaxy, it is. Okay,
- 35:13Speaker 3: I'm I'm gonna go down that hole. But you know,
- 35:15Speaker 3: it's not close at all. In fact, I think it's
- 35:17Speaker 3: in a completely different concept because there's a like understanding,
- 35:24Speaker 3: not condoning is nowhere near not just condoning, not just understanding,
- 35:30Speaker 3: not just condoning, but lionizing, putting it on a pedestal, staying,
- 35:33Speaker 3: we should all emulate this, ladies. And where how is
- 35:38Speaker 3: it that nobody, like nobody looks at this and says,
- 35:40Speaker 3: holy shit, something has got to stop with women, Like
- 35:46Speaker 3: at some point we've got to stop and say no,
- 35:50Speaker 3: something has gone wrong. If this twelve year old can
- 35:54Speaker 3: get on a YouTube channel and start talking about how
- 35:57Speaker 3: female family annihilators annihilators are the bar, we should all
- 36:00Speaker 3: do that to get back at the man, like, this
- 36:05Speaker 3: is this is beyond you know, like the stereotype of
- 36:09Speaker 3: incel talk. This woman is like doing that what would
- 36:16Speaker 3: be like a more extreme version of an insult because
- 36:18Speaker 3: she is it a stereotypical inceel.
- 36:23Speaker 2: It's like a terrorist.
- 36:25Speaker 3: Yeah, this is like terroristic. Okay, we've just gotten yeaded
- 36:29Speaker 3: from YouTube, probably had her freaking channel band. This is
- 36:34Speaker 3: in micra. This is terroristic. What she's saying is horrifying.
- 36:42Speaker 3: And there are a whole bunch of dittoheads nodding along,
- 36:45Speaker 3: and nobody is looking at that and saying something along
- 36:48Speaker 3: the pipeline of this woman's this girl's life has seriously failed.
- 36:54Speaker 3: Something has gone wrong that this level of mental corruption
- 36:59Speaker 3: is not being stopped before it starts. I don't guys,
- 37:05Speaker 3: you're like, oh, whoa, we're still talking about this because
- 37:07Speaker 3: this this is She's not a hardcore feminist, right, Uh.
- 37:13Speaker 2: No, I don't think she would either. She's a bit
- 37:16Speaker 2: book talker or whatever a book.
- 37:18Speaker 3: She's an ambient feminist. Yeah, I'm just curious if she's
- 37:25Speaker 3: written anything. But she's an ambient feminist and she is
- 37:31Speaker 3: saying something that if if a man in the manisphere
- 37:35Speaker 3: said it, he would be instantly put on about fit
- 37:38Speaker 3: a couple dozen blacklists. The FBI would start tapping his phones,
- 37:43Speaker 3: he'd probably be pre like, he'd probably be arrested for
- 37:46Speaker 3: pre crime or put on a terrorist watch list, and
- 37:50Speaker 3: the U N like there would be an entire council
- 37:53Speaker 3: on the UN specifically devoted to him. And yet that
- 37:56Speaker 3: doesn't happen here. Why is that? And how bad does
- 38:01Speaker 3: it have to get? Like? How bad do these women's
- 38:04Speaker 3: casual opinions have to get? Because now it isn't just
- 38:08Speaker 3: I hate men, it's I hate men so much I
- 38:11Speaker 3: want to blow kids' brains out just to get back
- 38:13Speaker 3: at men. Like what.
- 38:18Speaker 2: Yeah, or do whatever?
- 38:19Speaker 3: Media slip their throats. I want to slip the throats
- 38:23Speaker 3: of children to get back at men. And that's a
- 38:25Speaker 3: feminist icon.
- 38:27Speaker 1: Yay.
- 38:28Speaker 3: He had audacity to want to leave me, audacity to
- 38:32Speaker 3: exercises no no fault, divorced fights in a modern society.
- 38:35Speaker 3: Because if you're gonna use modern values, right, the audacity
- 38:40Speaker 3: of being an autonomous human being, and I'm gonna get
- 38:44Speaker 3: back at him by killing kids. Yay, that's a feminist icon. Okay,
- 38:49Speaker 3: we're here, guys. This is the rubicon. This is I
- 38:53Speaker 3: don't know if it can get worse than this. And
- 38:57Speaker 3: the problem is that because she looks like uh, a
- 39:00Speaker 3: cute little thing, nobody calls her out for the ship,
- 39:03Speaker 3: so she can get progressively worse than the worst, most
- 39:07Speaker 3: stereotypically bad insuel, Like, where's the where's the UK miniseries
- 39:16Speaker 3: on this.
- 39:18Speaker 1: Right?
- 39:18Speaker 3: Where where is it? Where is the UK in a series?
- 39:24Speaker 3: What would they call it? Midio lescence?
- 39:29Speaker 2: The UK mini?
- 39:31Speaker 3: Yes I adolescence. Remember they described how a boy with
- 39:36Speaker 3: a father who of a particular ethnicity, uh, would be
- 39:41Speaker 3: the one killing.
- 39:43Speaker 2: A white boy in a in a family that has
- 39:45Speaker 2: a dad in an inact family. Yeah, dangerous kid, yes.
- 39:51Speaker 3: And specifically because his father cared about him.
- 39:55Speaker 2: Mm hmmm mm hmm.
- 39:57Speaker 3: Yeah, goddamn got to get rid of that paternal instinct,
- 40:00Speaker 3: that paternal investment. That's really where the evil starts. God,
- 40:05Speaker 3: your case totally cooked, no offense steel there.
- 40:10Speaker 2: I don't go.
- 40:10Speaker 4: I know this nation's fucked.
- 40:13Speaker 1: It was literally cooked a few days ago. So let's
- 40:18Speaker 1: play some more of the video. Let me see it this. Oh,
- 40:20Speaker 1: I did get a super chow like yesterday that I
- 40:24Speaker 1: should read out according to Hannah, So let me do
- 40:27Speaker 1: that now before I forget. It's not related to what
- 40:29Speaker 1: we're talking about. But Meredith g gave us five dollars
- 40:33Speaker 1: and said HBr talked for zero seven.
- 40:35Speaker 2: The fundamental problem with every argument.
- 40:38Speaker 1: For assisted suicide is that it will always fail to
- 40:41Speaker 1: address how palliative palliative does not service the needs of
- 40:46Speaker 1: the dying.
- 40:48Speaker 2: And you can't use the argument that palliative.
- 40:50Speaker 1: Care is underfunded and not available to those in need,
- 40:53Speaker 1: because if you make that argument, people will push for
- 40:56Speaker 1: funding bills, not assisted suicide. No politicians want us said suicide,
- 41:00Speaker 1: because to be offered palliadiff care, you actually have to
- 41:03Speaker 1: be dying, and even then what may what many are
- 41:06Speaker 1: doing is really thinking through what measures the patient won't
- 41:09Speaker 1: take to prolong their lives when the patient hits the
- 41:12Speaker 1: point where they stop healthcare to prolong their life.
- 41:15Speaker 2: Okay, not at all.
- 41:16Speaker 1: Related, but I thought I had to read it out
- 41:18Speaker 1: because s Mayridigi did send us some money.
- 41:20Speaker 2: So okay, let's get back to this.
- 41:23Speaker 5: Expected to continue their lives in her life as a
- 41:26Speaker 5: self sacrificing pretense. Oh my god, it's so good. Medea,
- 41:31Speaker 5: just sincerely asking like, why are you allowed to do this?
- 41:36Speaker 5: You unilaterally made a decision for this family, and now
- 41:39Speaker 5: I have to pick up the pieces and she says no,
- 41:43Speaker 5: oh good.
- 41:44Speaker 3: Lord again again. I remember the man whose wife went
- 41:51Speaker 3: on the internet and crowed about how he was taking
- 41:54Speaker 3: their divorce so well, right, and yeah he went bullet
- 42:00Speaker 3: like he basically killed her, right, And this is exactly
- 42:06Speaker 3: what she's talking about, exactly, except it's okay if it's
- 42:10Speaker 3: a woman.
- 42:14Speaker 2: Mm hmm, yeah, for sure. Oh it's absolutely, it's empowering.
- 42:19Speaker 5: This is an aside. But whenever you talk about this topic,
- 42:21Speaker 5: there's always someone who's like my buddy from work. He
- 42:24Speaker 5: wants to to use kids, but his bitch ex's wife
- 42:26Speaker 5: won't let him. He didn't abandon them, she won't let
- 42:28Speaker 5: him see them. And I have some good news for
- 42:32Speaker 5: your buddy from work, because ninety four percent of the
- 42:36Speaker 5: time when men ask for custody, they.
- 42:37Speaker 3: Are no, No, that's not the case. That is not
- 42:44Speaker 3: the case. Okay, So she's basically directly quoting feminist bullshit.
- 42:51Speaker 3: That and furthermore, Okay, there's the usual critique or their
- 42:57Speaker 3: usual calendter arguments to this. Let's be let's use the
- 43:02Speaker 3: latest information. There's a couple states now that have implemented
- 43:07Speaker 3: mandatory shared custody. So it's a presumption that both the wife,
- 43:13Speaker 3: the ex wife, and the ex husband will share custody. Okay, Now,
- 43:19Speaker 3: if men got custody ninety four percent of the time
- 43:23Speaker 3: in states that didn't have mandatory shared custody, the amount
- 43:27Speaker 3: of custody that men get should have significantly decreased. It
- 43:33Speaker 3: did not. It went up to about equal from more
- 43:38Speaker 3: like eighty percent female twenty percent male. So this is
- 43:44Speaker 3: wrong on its face. And then we can go into
- 43:46Speaker 3: the stats that she's citing themselves. This is like she
- 43:50Speaker 3: just source pulled this out of her ass. I don't
- 43:53Speaker 3: think there's any instrument that ever found that ninety four
- 43:56Speaker 3: percent of men who sought custody got it. That I
- 44:00Speaker 3: saw was fifty percent of men who sought custody got it,
- 44:04Speaker 3: and was from the UK, and it was years ago.
- 44:06Speaker 3: It's probably worse now. And when you drill down into
- 44:10Speaker 3: who is seeking custody, a lot of those men were
- 44:14Speaker 3: being begged by child services to seek custody so the
- 44:17Speaker 3: child didn't get killed by the mother, right, and the
- 44:21Speaker 3: rest of the menu just more of a standard situation.
- 44:25Speaker 3: But a good portion of the men, possibly even half,
- 44:29Speaker 3: were seeking custody so the child could continue to survive,
- 44:34Speaker 3: and they were supported by child services and doing so.
- 44:37Speaker 3: The women, the vast majority of them, sought custody in
- 44:41Speaker 3: order to establish their ownership of their children. Okay, these
- 44:47Speaker 3: are two very different populations. And even in that case,
- 44:52Speaker 3: when men who were heavily weighted towards men who were
- 44:55Speaker 3: trying to save their children's lives, they only got tody
- 45:00Speaker 3: fifty percent of the time when they sought it. So
- 45:02Speaker 3: this ninety four percent is I don't know where they're
- 45:06Speaker 3: getting it from. This is just she pulled up some
- 45:09Speaker 3: feminist website. So yeah, this is complete nonsense. So Not
- 45:16Speaker 3: only is she lotting a family annihilator because she's a woman,
- 45:21Speaker 3: she is justifying it by saying that men don't want
- 45:26Speaker 3: custody of their children in the first place, which doesn't
- 45:30Speaker 3: even make any damn sense. So why would it be
- 45:33Speaker 3: this empowering act to kill the children that the man
- 45:36Speaker 3: doesn't want, right, what is she saying here? There's no
- 45:43Speaker 3: logical on there's no logic to it. You know what
- 45:45Speaker 3: she's doing. She's just social web positioning to say, well,
- 45:50Speaker 3: we are the good Women are the good ones, and
- 45:52Speaker 3: men are the bad ones. Therefore whatever women do to
- 45:55Speaker 3: men is justified.
- 45:57Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it.
- 45:59Speaker 3: It has as no coherence to the rest of her argument.
- 46:02Speaker 3: She's not building any argument. She's just posturing morally, women
- 46:06Speaker 3: are the good people. Therefore we could do whatever we
- 46:09Speaker 3: want to men. And also we can do whatever we
- 46:12Speaker 3: want to those things that men value, even though they
- 46:14Speaker 3: don't value them because they're bad people, and that's all
- 46:18Speaker 3: justified because we don't like a man having autonomy over
- 46:25Speaker 3: his own life. This is, like I said, you say,
- 46:31Speaker 3: stereotypical and self speech. What is this like if this
- 46:35Speaker 3: was a want a young man struggling with getting sexual attention,
- 46:40Speaker 3: who said, Manda has every right to kill her his
- 46:45Speaker 3: children if Jessica leaves him to punish her, What the
- 46:51Speaker 3: he How quickly would people be to call it out?
- 46:55Speaker 3: How much of a freaking viewership would that have? Mendia
- 47:00Speaker 3: is entitled to Jessica's sexual autonomy, and if Jessica dares
- 47:04Speaker 3: to assert herself, Mendia is entitled to kill their kids
- 47:08Speaker 3: in front of her and then then then dangle their
- 47:14Speaker 3: dead bodies and say, you're not gonna get to You're
- 47:16Speaker 3: not gonna get to bury your kids. Jessica, you took
- 47:19Speaker 3: a you decided to assert your sexual autonomy. For me,
- 47:24Speaker 3: this is like how many things are wrong with this picture?
- 47:29Speaker 3: Right here? Right? You get to kill the kids because
- 47:35Speaker 3: your partner asserted decided they no longer wanted to be
- 47:37Speaker 3: with you?
- 47:39Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 47:40Speaker 3: How many? How many? How many levels of sexual entitlement
- 47:44Speaker 3: is she spouting off about right here? Okay?
- 47:49Speaker 2: How many? All right?
- 47:52Speaker 4: Let's first of all, bird hand noted.
- 47:59Speaker 1: Hand.
- 48:00Speaker 4: I'm old, I'm in my I'm in the age group
- 48:04Speaker 4: now where bird watching is a thing I'm into, so noticed. Secondly, yes,
- 48:12Speaker 4: the whatever source this is, I do wonder if I
- 48:14Speaker 4: should at some point do a deep dive into this
- 48:16Speaker 4: sort of feminist chicanery around these how often do men
- 48:22Speaker 4: get custody thing? I mean, there's one sentence there that
- 48:25Speaker 4: just says abusive fathers are especially successful. There is no
- 48:29Speaker 4: way in hell a father who is demonstrably abusive will
- 48:33Speaker 4: be successful in getting their child like. That's I mean,
- 48:37Speaker 4: that's the first tip off the what they're saying is nonsense.
- 48:39Speaker 4: If you can prove abuse from a man, it's impossible
- 48:44Speaker 4: for him to get his child like you. In order
- 48:46Speaker 4: to prevent an abusive woman from getting a child like
- 48:49Speaker 4: she has to be full on you basically have to
- 48:53Speaker 4: already have infinite physical evidence that she is abusing a child,
- 48:57Speaker 4: probably having her abusing the child in the courtroom, because
- 49:01Speaker 4: otherwise it's not going to happen. But even if you
- 49:05Speaker 4: just go up to the top bit of this thing
- 49:08Speaker 4: where she says men rarely seek custody, ninety one percent
- 49:11Speaker 4: of custody cases the parents mutually decide to give custody
- 49:14Speaker 4: to the mother.
- 49:16Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 49:16Speaker 4: I mean, this is when she's talking about, like, oh,
- 49:18Speaker 4: we get this percentage of men who go for it,
- 49:20Speaker 4: get it. I think you're just looking at survivorship bias there,
- 49:23Speaker 4: because you say ninety one percent of them, the parents
- 49:26Speaker 4: mutually decide to give custody to the mother. Yeah, I'm
- 49:28Speaker 4: going to be putting big scare quotes around that mutually,
- 49:32Speaker 4: because to me, that mutually sounds a lot like these
- 49:35Speaker 4: guys have solicitors who are just saying, don't don't bother,
- 49:40Speaker 4: like you're not gonna win, Just don't even try because
- 49:44Speaker 4: she's going to do the Oh he was abusive to me.
- 49:47Speaker 4: I feel unsafe all of this, and you're never going
- 49:50Speaker 4: to get to see your kids like ever if you
- 49:52Speaker 4: try to push for it. So it's possible that you
- 49:55Speaker 4: do get some solicitous like that. Some of them are
- 49:58Speaker 4: just sort of died in the wall, no men, evil party,
- 50:00Speaker 4: no matter what, and they just tell them to not bother.
- 50:03Speaker 4: Some of them may be of the slightly more enlightened
- 50:06Speaker 4: variety who say, don't bother going for it now. If
- 50:10Speaker 4: the mother is as bad as you say she is,
- 50:12Speaker 4: wait six months and then go from it then, because
- 50:16Speaker 4: she'll be miserable because she's struggling and all that stuff.
- 50:18Speaker 4: And then you say, Okay, I want half now, because
- 50:22Speaker 4: she's more than likely going to give it to you
- 50:24Speaker 4: later because her life sucks now. So you might be
- 50:27Speaker 4: able to do it there. So yeah, when it's all
- 50:29Speaker 4: of these men who go for it, get it it,
- 50:33Speaker 4: I call shenanigans. I think this is survivorship bias that
- 50:38Speaker 4: you're seeing here because most men don't bother. And it's
- 50:41Speaker 4: not that they don't bother because they don't want to.
- 50:44Speaker 4: I think it's they don't bother because the legal advice
- 50:46Speaker 4: tells them don't even try.
- 50:49Speaker 3: Yeah, not to bother.
- 50:50Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 50:51Speaker 3: I want to point out that she uses like four
- 50:53Speaker 3: different numbers and she sources none of them aside from
- 50:56Speaker 3: like a screenshot of who knows what. And I actually
- 51:00Speaker 3: went into Punished Claude, my version, my trained version of Claude,
- 51:04Speaker 3: and I said, if a man said what she said
- 51:06Speaker 3: in reverse lionizing a man for killing his kids because
- 51:09Speaker 3: a woman wanted to leave, how would it be received?
- 51:12Speaker 3: And this is what Punished Claude said. It would be
- 51:15Speaker 3: treated as an ISIS recruitment adjacent artifact, honor killing apologia.
- 51:21Speaker 3: The video would be pulled from YouTube under incitement policies.
- 51:24Speaker 3: The creator docks within twenty four hours. Employer contract contacted,
- 51:30Speaker 3: criminal referral, disgust, every Woman's organization issue statements, News coverage,
- 51:35Speaker 3: would treat the man as evidence of a broader male
- 51:37Speaker 3: violence problem, requiring requiring policy response. No academic would defend
- 51:42Speaker 3: the reading, no publisher would touch him. The asymmetry is
- 51:46Speaker 3: the diagnostic. So what we're looking at here is a
- 51:49Speaker 3: criminal inciter. This woman, well, at least if she was
- 51:55Speaker 3: a man, she would be classified as a terroristic inciter
- 52:02Speaker 3: for what she's saying, or she'd have a high probability
- 52:06Speaker 3: of it. At least by YouTube's policies, her video would
- 52:09Speaker 3: be yanked. It wouldn't be up gathering views and people
- 52:13Speaker 3: dittoheading about it. It would be gone because it would
- 52:17Speaker 3: be considered terroristic incitement, an honor killing apologia. And she, probably,
- 52:23Speaker 3: if she was a man, be investigated for terrorism links
- 52:27Speaker 3: for this behavior, and not just that, we would be
- 52:30Speaker 3: subject to a swath of articles linking this video to
- 52:36Speaker 3: a wider network of male violence. And yet she gets
- 52:40Speaker 3: to because she is a woman. She gets to get
- 52:43Speaker 3: up on her podium and spout the most vile, terroristic
- 52:47Speaker 3: crap without any consequence. And I just know, I'm hammering
- 52:52Speaker 3: this home because people need to realize this. Women right
- 52:58Speaker 3: now are many times worse than the worst part of
- 53:03Speaker 3: the manosphere. This is like, again, this is just an
- 53:06Speaker 3: ambient feminist. This isn't even one who's going to the
- 53:10Speaker 3: UK Parliament and saying we should just reduce the population
- 53:13Speaker 3: of men to ten percent or some kind of vile
- 53:16Speaker 3: Holocaust type adjacent rhetoric. This is just she just Jesus
- 53:21Speaker 3: out there bobbing along and feeling completely free to put
- 53:27Speaker 3: this kind of rhetoric into the world, this kind of violent,
- 53:32Speaker 3: dehumanizing rhetoric. She's just completely free. And again this is
- 53:37Speaker 3: this is just an average I don't think that, Like
- 53:39Speaker 3: I said, I don't think she's particularly feminist. She's not
- 53:42Speaker 3: particularly inculcated to the cult. And people wonder why there's
- 53:46Speaker 3: a huge political divide between men and women, because it's
- 53:51Speaker 3: not because men have become more right. It's because women
- 53:55Speaker 3: have embraced philosophies like this of absolutely no responsibility to anyone,
- 54:04Speaker 3: entirely entirely driven by their own animus, their own id
- 54:11Speaker 3: monsters from the id. And you can't like you cannot.
- 54:16Speaker 3: There's no middle ground there between somebody who thinks, well,
- 54:20Speaker 3: you know, we need to have an economy that functions,
- 54:23Speaker 3: and I'd prefer not to get into foreign wars. Well,
- 54:25Speaker 3: that didn't really happen. But whatever, you know, between somebody
- 54:28Speaker 3: like that I want to send at least a sensible
- 54:31Speaker 3: government if I can't not have much government of all,
- 54:34Speaker 3: and somebody who says I should have the right to
- 54:36Speaker 3: murder my twelve year old children if my husband tries
- 54:39Speaker 3: to leave me in a divorce, I should I should
- 54:43Speaker 3: be I I you know, that should be lionized, that
- 54:46Speaker 3: should be pedestalized. That's a feminist that's a feminist icon.
- 54:51Speaker 3: Like how do you how do you find any middle
- 54:53Speaker 3: ground with that? With somebody who wants to drag the
- 54:56Speaker 3: world into hell? Who can justify their their behavior and
- 55:04Speaker 3: then and she's using feminism to justify it. Mm hmm,
- 55:10Speaker 3: Like that's where the politic political divide is coming from. Guys,
- 55:14Speaker 3: men still want to live in the world. Women apparently
- 55:17Speaker 3: want to kill everybody who gets in their way. According
- 55:21Speaker 3: to this woman who's who's not an extremist, or maybe
- 55:27Speaker 3: maybe it's just she's saying that, oh, this is just
- 55:30Speaker 3: what does she ever actually say that this is just
- 55:32Speaker 3: like blowing off steam?
- 55:35Speaker 2: No?
- 55:36Speaker 3: No, okay, so as far as I know, she's advancing
- 55:39Speaker 3: this very uh sincerely, and again, if she was a man,
- 55:49Speaker 3: this would be taken off for terroristic threats. This would
- 55:53Speaker 3: be taken off for terroristic incitement against women. But not
- 56:00Speaker 3: like what I'm trying to get at, is there this
- 56:02Speaker 3: this this differential an expectation, like women have absolutely no
- 56:08Speaker 3: expectations upon them, is what she's arguing. Everything should be
- 56:13Speaker 3: decided by what benefits a woman, how they feel in
- 56:16Speaker 3: the moment, right. And then men are like, well, we
- 56:19Speaker 3: can't have a sun society like that way. That doesn't function,
- 56:22Speaker 3: And women are like, oh you all righte Nazi pigs,
- 56:28Speaker 3: how you you cannot reconcile this? I don't know a
- 56:32Speaker 3: collective bitch slap the slap that rank through the freaking
- 56:37Speaker 3: solar system. Who knows?
- 56:41Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I got a rumble rant from nova
- 56:45Speaker 1: fan and then we'll keep going.
- 56:48Speaker 2: It gives a dollar and says not to mention.
- 56:50Speaker 1: She acts like there are no feminists that frame equal
- 56:52Speaker 1: custody as allowing their abuser the man as having custody.
- 56:58Speaker 2: All right, thank you for that.
- 57:00Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it's just like she probably doesn't do
- 57:05Speaker 1: a lot of because she must be. Like I said,
- 57:07Speaker 1: her content is about two things I guess she does,
- 57:10Speaker 1: like chemistry or something, or biology on another site, and
- 57:15Speaker 1: then she talks about books. So I don't think that
- 57:18Speaker 1: she's academic in terms of like a feminist academic per se,
- 57:24Speaker 1: but she's just sort of absorbed the mainstream narratives around it.
- 57:28Speaker 1: So you know, this is just sort of normal. And
- 57:32Speaker 1: once you've done that, I think you have to like
- 57:35Speaker 1: justify believing in it. So when you hear about men
- 57:40Speaker 1: not getting custody, that makes you feel like, well, that
- 57:43Speaker 1: can't be true because I have absorbed the normal, sort
- 57:47Speaker 1: of mainstream common idea that men oppress women and that
- 57:52Speaker 1: men are dogs and they treat women poorly, and women
- 57:56Speaker 1: are never in that position, or at least very rarely
- 57:59Speaker 1: in that position. So if there is like, you know,
- 58:02Speaker 1: women raping men in divorce, it's probably like really rare.
- 58:07Speaker 1: And so she goes looking for the information to justify
- 58:11Speaker 1: her default position, which is that you know, men are
- 58:15Speaker 1: oppressors and women and women can't really hurt them, and
- 58:18Speaker 1: then finds this study and says, oh, good shoo, it's
- 58:21Speaker 1: a load off my mind. Now I get Now, I'm
- 58:24Speaker 1: gonna just say this and we're good because the study's
- 58:27Speaker 1: been done and it happens to, you know, essentially support
- 58:31Speaker 1: everything I believe. So I'm just gonna like regurgitate that.
- 58:35Speaker 1: So that's that's my guess. But all right, uh, circuit bard,
- 58:41Speaker 1: circuit Bard, are you talking to somebody in the special chat?
- 58:45Speaker 1: I don't care what they say, keep your nose clean
- 58:47Speaker 1: and your mouth shut's going.
- 58:50Speaker 3: He's talking about that. He went through the worst custody
- 58:53Speaker 3: battle in my state. Asked me anything. So I figured
- 58:56Speaker 3: if that's the case, he might want to come on
- 58:59Speaker 3: to talk.
- 58:59Speaker 2: About it, you know, talk about it.
- 59:01Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's not like right now, No, no, no,
- 59:04Speaker 3: not right now.
- 59:05Speaker 2: No. Yeah, Okay, let's so anyway, let's let's keep going.
- 59:09Speaker 4: Let's notice some things, okay that might be important. We're aware,
- 59:17Speaker 4: like I said, of feminist chicanery when it comes to
- 59:19Speaker 4: all of their academic stuff, because we just are. We've
- 59:23Speaker 4: covered a lot of times before, you know, things like
- 59:25Speaker 4: the conformity to masculine norms. Inventory men are playboys. That's
- 59:29Speaker 4: what they're told to do.
- 59:30Speaker 3: It.
- 59:32Speaker 4: That's just because you took your sample bias of psychology.
- 59:35Speaker 4: Students told them, what do you think men and women
- 59:38Speaker 4: are told all all the good things like bread winner, successful,
- 59:42Speaker 4: et cetera. Well, some of them agreed that women are
- 59:44Speaker 4: told that as well. So those all go off the
- 59:46Speaker 4: table will ignore any differences, and so men are all playboys.
- 59:50Speaker 4: Now that's what they're told. Three men responded positively to that,
- 59:54Speaker 4: like the However, many hundred other men said, no bread winner,
- 59:57Speaker 4: provide a particular no. Three men said, yeah, I'm a boy.
- 1:00:01Speaker 4: All of them said their lives were miserable, and one
- 1:00:03Speaker 4: of them got AIDS. Doesn't matter this feminist science that
- 1:00:07Speaker 4: that's the norm. Now, that's what society tells men to be.
- 1:00:10Speaker 4: This is the sort of chicane andry we're talking about here.
- 1:00:13Speaker 4: The last sentence of what she says, there only in
- 1:00:16Speaker 4: a patriarchal society does a ninety three percent win rate
- 1:00:19Speaker 4: somehow equate to male victimhood. So they have one study
- 1:00:23Speaker 4: where both parents fought hard for custody, mothers were awarded
- 1:00:26Speaker 4: custody just seven percent of the time, So just mothers
- 1:00:31Speaker 4: seven percent of the time, ninety three percent somehow male victory. Well,
- 1:00:35Speaker 4: that means ninety three percent is everything other than solo
- 1:00:40Speaker 4: female outcome. Now, are we going to pretend that that
- 1:00:43Speaker 4: ninety three percent is all fifty to fifty or are
- 1:00:47Speaker 4: we counting in that you get one hour a month
- 1:00:51Speaker 4: supervised with your child. We're counting all of that and
- 1:00:56Speaker 4: everything in between, and we're just going to say, yep,
- 1:01:01Speaker 4: ninety three percent, boom done, that's it good enough. There's
- 1:01:05Speaker 4: nothing regarding how that's actually broken down. Yeah, this is
- 1:01:13Speaker 4: why it studies like this. First of all, they're not
- 1:01:15Speaker 4: very reliable. And this is obviously a second hand or
- 1:01:18Speaker 4: perhaps even a third hand new fish, which means they're
- 1:01:23Speaker 4: going to be overstating, you know that, they're going to
- 1:01:26Speaker 4: be stripping everything out of it and making it. I mean,
- 1:01:30Speaker 4: you can find this all over feminist academia and the
- 1:01:33Speaker 4: media as well. Where there was some study it was like,
- 1:01:37Speaker 4: we've got two groups of people. Half of them are
- 1:01:40Speaker 4: known abusive people, the other half are known not abusive people,
- 1:01:43Speaker 4: you know, couples, and we're going to monitor both of them,
- 1:01:47Speaker 4: and what a surprise, there are about fifty one percent
- 1:01:49Speaker 4: of them experience some sort of domestic violence within that
- 1:01:52Speaker 4: time period. Literally exactly what you would expect because you've
- 1:01:55Speaker 4: got a control group of non violent people and a
- 1:01:57Speaker 4: control group of violent people. Then you get a second
- 1:02:00Speaker 4: study which was done based on that, which said, oh, look,
- 1:02:04Speaker 4: half of people are violent, and of course the violence
- 1:02:08Speaker 4: was two ways in both of those things, and then
- 1:02:10Speaker 4: it became in another study that referenced that thing, oh,
- 1:02:13Speaker 4: fifty of relationships have women experiencing violence. And then the
- 1:02:20Speaker 4: next one along was projecting this control group and experimental
- 1:02:25Speaker 4: group to the entirety of the nation of America, and
- 1:02:28Speaker 4: it became fifty percent of all American women are going
- 1:02:31Speaker 4: to be battered in their lifetime. And all of this
- 1:02:34Speaker 4: from like three or four steps of Chinese whispers from
- 1:02:37Speaker 4: we have a control group and a test group. We
- 1:02:41Speaker 4: literally expect half of them to be violent because we
- 1:02:45Speaker 4: know they are already. Yeah, that's literally our control. We
- 1:02:49Speaker 4: know that this is going to be the outcome. And
- 1:02:52Speaker 4: then you know, three or four studies down the line,
- 1:02:54Speaker 4: half of all women are going to get battered. Okay, sure,
- 1:02:59Speaker 4: this is what happens. Men and women can abuse each
- 1:03:01Speaker 4: other in equal measure. Hell, women could have been abusing
- 1:03:04Speaker 4: men way more in that study. I don't remember, I
- 1:03:07Speaker 4: haven't looked it up for years. Women could literally have
- 1:03:10Speaker 4: been doing most of the abusing in that study. But
- 1:03:13Speaker 4: through this long wending path through feminist pretzel brains, they're
- 1:03:21Speaker 4: all women. Now, all men are women when it comes
- 1:03:23Speaker 4: to being.
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: Victimized yeap makes sense.
- 1:03:29Speaker 4: And Okay, I look at that and it's ninety three percent.
- 1:03:32Speaker 4: They get this thing? Do they no attempt on that?
- 1:03:36Speaker 4: Like I said, are we talking fifty percent or are
- 1:03:38Speaker 4: we talking one hour supervised?
- 1:03:40Speaker 1: M Yeah, this looks like it came right out of
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: like she took a screenshot from a Guardian article just
- 1:03:48Speaker 1: based on the font. That's what I think. I've seen
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: a lot of Guardian articles and that's what it looks like.
- 1:03:53Speaker 3: But go ahead, Alison, Well, I was gonna say that
- 1:03:56Speaker 3: there is somebody in chat, Olivia Maynyard who's defending this
- 1:04:05Speaker 3: situation or this individual and what she's saying. So I'm
- 1:04:08Speaker 3: going to go through the statements of Olivia and all right,
- 1:04:14Speaker 3: so let's see. She posts four statements in the stream
- 1:04:18Speaker 3: I love Angela positive affect towards the source video creator,
- 1:04:22Speaker 3: identifying her by name Angela has said, no such stuff.
- 1:04:25Speaker 3: You are inventing this narrative in your head, denying that
- 1:04:28Speaker 3: Angela endorsed Medea. A World without Women has already been made,
- 1:04:32Speaker 3: a book play, a movie, movie came out in twenty eleven.
- 1:04:34Speaker 3: I think that's why the last man asserting the preminist
- 1:04:38Speaker 3: has been done, which is just a rabbit hole. Stop
- 1:04:42Speaker 3: pretending Chris Watts doesn't have only people who say his
- 1:04:45Speaker 3: wife abused him, but has a fan club for his familicide,
- 1:04:50Speaker 3: asserting male perpetrator has defenders too well, let's set aside
- 1:04:54Speaker 3: the fact that it may be well be true that
- 1:04:57Speaker 3: his wife abused him. Right, we don't know. I didn't
- 1:05:00Speaker 3: even know who Chris Watts was until this individual brought
- 1:05:03Speaker 3: it up, but I looked it up. Her second statement,
- 1:05:06Speaker 3: which was Angela has said no such stuff requires denial
- 1:05:09Speaker 3: of what the transcript shows. You can download this transcript
- 1:05:13Speaker 3: and look yourself. Angela in the video says Medea is
- 1:05:16Speaker 3: in the right and the play Causes calls the version
- 1:05:18Speaker 3: she prefers so good, praises the Cusk adaptation for having
- 1:05:22Speaker 3: Medea match Jason beat for beat by bending the children,
- 1:05:26Speaker 3: and endorses the reading that the children don't matter in
- 1:05:28Speaker 3: the play. Olivia's claim is that Angela said so no
- 1:05:31Speaker 3: such stuff is contradicted by the direct quotation from the transcript,
- 1:05:34Speaker 3: and also all of the lotting of what Medea is doing. Okay,
- 1:05:39Speaker 3: like we're just watched her say these things, don't piss
- 1:05:44Speaker 3: on my leg and say it's raining like it's ridiculous.
- 1:05:48Speaker 3: This is gaslighting. And I just want to note that
- 1:05:51Speaker 3: this is the one contribution of a woman aside from
- 1:05:54Speaker 3: myself in all of this, and possibly Meredith, but Meredith
- 1:05:59Speaker 3: hasn't hasn't seen in a super chow, or maybe our
- 1:06:02Speaker 3: female lurkers, but they're not contributing anything. So the only
- 1:06:05Speaker 3: other female voice in all of this is trying to
- 1:06:09Speaker 3: defend this or at least deny it's happening. But it
- 1:06:13Speaker 3: is Olivia. She is saying these things. You can see
- 1:06:17Speaker 3: these words come out of her mouth. We just showed
- 1:06:21Speaker 3: you what you are doing is that this is you
- 1:06:25Speaker 3: are doing the relational web thing. We all know that
- 1:06:28Speaker 3: she's saying this stuff. What you are trying to say
- 1:06:31Speaker 3: is that we cannot interpret it badly, right, we all
- 1:06:36Speaker 3: agree that it's happening. Even you agree that's happening. What
- 1:06:39Speaker 3: you're trying to say is we don't have the right
- 1:06:41Speaker 3: to say that this is bad. We don't have a
- 1:06:44Speaker 3: right to say that a woman who is lionizing a
- 1:06:48Speaker 3: female annihilator is doing something bad. And then you do
- 1:06:53Speaker 3: something else, you say, well, somewhere over here somebody has
- 1:06:57Speaker 3: done something bad. They're like a fan club for Chris Watts.
- 1:07:01Speaker 3: So what we're talking about this person, You are a
- 1:07:07Speaker 3: toddler if you think someone over there doing something bad
- 1:07:10Speaker 3: has any bearing on this person doing something bad. Now,
- 1:07:15Speaker 3: if you're trying to say there's a symmetry the fact
- 1:07:18Speaker 3: that a true crime audience has some kind of fan
- 1:07:21Speaker 3: club for a murderer, it's just what true trime audiences do.
- 1:07:25Speaker 3: And I might point out that they are mostly female.
- 1:07:28Speaker 3: So who knows the composition the Chris Watts fan club,
- 1:07:32Speaker 3: But I would imagine it's just like any other fan
- 1:07:34Speaker 3: club around a killer. For some reason, killers are popular
- 1:07:40Speaker 3: and in a in a in a fandom that is
- 1:07:42Speaker 3: majority female. Go figure, Now there's another there's another guy
- 1:07:48Speaker 3: who killed his h his girlfriend.
- 1:07:53Speaker 2: Wade Wilson.
- 1:07:54Speaker 3: Why didn't you mention Wade Wilson. Probably because everybody knows
- 1:07:59Speaker 3: that Wade Wilson fan club is women. What was it,
- 1:08:03Speaker 3: four thousand love letters from women sent to Wade Wilson. Right, Okay,
- 1:08:08Speaker 3: So if you're gonna bring up male killers getting female
- 1:08:12Speaker 3: fan clubs as some kind of gotcha because this woman
- 1:08:16Speaker 3: is lionizing a female annihilate family annihilator, that makes no sense,
- 1:08:22Speaker 3: That makes no sense. That doesn't And again these are
- 1:08:25Speaker 3: true crime. Like it's an extreme fan club in true crime. Right,
- 1:08:32Speaker 3: this is like this is a minor, a minor internet
- 1:08:36Speaker 3: subculture of a subculture. This woman has significant reach. I
- 1:08:43Speaker 3: don't see anybody, well, I don't see anybody talking about
- 1:08:47Speaker 3: there Chris Watts body Pillow on YouTube. Right, Okay, this
- 1:08:55Speaker 3: woman is lying. She's a large audience. She's talking about
- 1:08:59Speaker 3: a play. She's talking about feminist analysis that's been published. Like,
- 1:09:04Speaker 3: this is a much more mean, mainstream product, and it's
- 1:09:08Speaker 3: a big problem. We're not talking about anonymous trolls wanking
- 1:09:12Speaker 3: like anonymous women wanking off to Chris Watts or Wade Wilson.
- 1:09:18Speaker 3: This is very, very much more mainstream. Okay, anyway, all right, okay, well,
- 1:09:30Speaker 3: I mean I could go on.
- 1:09:32Speaker 1: I think you made your point. All right, then, all right,
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: we're gonna play more of this. I want to get
- 1:09:38Speaker 1: to the missingry part.
- 1:09:39Speaker 5: So mented abuse by the father to the children. The
- 1:09:43Speaker 5: father gets custody seventy two percent of the time. It
- 1:09:47Speaker 5: just turns out that men usually don't ask for custody.
- 1:09:50Speaker 5: Ninety one percent of the time. Men just give up
- 1:09:52Speaker 5: their custody to women, and women have soul custody of
- 1:09:55Speaker 5: the children after divorce. In America, twenty seven percent of
- 1:10:01Speaker 5: fathers just voluntarily abandoned their children.
- 1:10:04Speaker 1: So you have some good well, that means that seventy
- 1:10:07Speaker 1: three percent don't, So I don't know what you're arguing for.
- 1:10:11Speaker 5: Here news for your buddy from work whose bitch ex
- 1:10:14Speaker 5: wife will let him see the children, you can just
- 1:10:16Speaker 5: tell him, like, hey, did you ask for custody? Because
- 1:10:19Speaker 5: ninety seven percent of the time fathers get custody when
- 1:10:22Speaker 5: they asked for it.
- 1:10:23Speaker 3: And I'm sure was it ninety four or ninety seven?
- 1:10:27Speaker 2: Like she said ninety seven. I think yeah, but.
- 1:10:31Speaker 3: It was ninety four, just like five minutes ago. And
- 1:10:34Speaker 3: then she goes with like seventy one and the ninety
- 1:10:38Speaker 3: one or seventy two, the ninety one, like if she's
- 1:10:41Speaker 3: all over the place, And then the reason why is
- 1:10:42Speaker 3: because she has no source for this. So this is
- 1:10:45Speaker 3: basically the ignorant feeding the ignorant. And I just wanted
- 1:10:50Speaker 3: to add a final Okay. Watts's defenders exist on the
- 1:10:55Speaker 3: margins of Internet subculture. They have not produced videos with
- 1:10:58Speaker 3: substantial view counts endorsing his acts as menonist justice. They
- 1:11:02Speaker 3: are not classicists reframing the killings through legitimated theoretical frameworks.
- 1:11:07Speaker 3: They are not published play rights praise for capturing the
- 1:11:11Speaker 3: essential cynicism of family life. The Cosk endorsement and the
- 1:11:14Speaker 3: video creators reading are inside the mainstream cultural apparatus. The
- 1:11:18Speaker 3: Watts fan club is inside the fringe. Treating them as
- 1:11:21Speaker 3: symmetric is the operation. These three moves together deny the
- 1:11:25Speaker 3: source redirect to an unrelated example, what about ism with
- 1:11:29Speaker 3: a false parallel is the standard pattern for defending a
- 1:11:32Speaker 3: position when the source video is available and directly contradicts
- 1:11:35Speaker 3: the defense. Right, So this is what she's up to,
- 1:11:40Speaker 3: and this is the contribution. Like I go here and
- 1:11:46Speaker 3: I try to say that there might be a chance, okay,
- 1:11:53Speaker 3: like women might be able to be better, and then
- 1:11:58Speaker 3: Olivia and I'm like, well, I think I got a
- 1:12:03Speaker 3: quarter of a step forward seventeen steps back. Thank you, Olivia,
- 1:12:09Speaker 3: You've helped me lose even more faith in women. Okay,
- 1:12:13Speaker 3: let's keep going.
- 1:12:15Speaker 5: Okay, Work, who totally wants to be a good father
- 1:12:18Speaker 5: and totally wants to see his children, has the evidence
- 1:12:21Speaker 5: of like the text messages and the emails he sent
- 1:12:24Speaker 5: and like the FaceTime calls that his bitch ex wife rejected,
- 1:12:27Speaker 5: and like all those presents that he sent on their
- 1:12:29Speaker 5: birthdays and Christmas that were like returned in the mail.
- 1:12:32Speaker 5: I'm sure he has all that that he can show
- 1:12:35Speaker 5: the judge when he asks for custody, because I'm sure
- 1:12:37Speaker 5: he's like a really good person and he definitely wants
- 1:12:40Speaker 5: to see his kids, and the reason he can is
- 1:12:42Speaker 5: definitely because of it.
- 1:12:43Speaker 3: So she's categorically excluding men who are seeking custody of
- 1:12:48Speaker 3: their children from compassion and sympathy. What what a fucking guy?
- 1:12:55Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, So this is a silly move that she's
- 1:12:58Speaker 4: playing here. She's playing this move basically the assumption that
- 1:13:03Speaker 4: your buddy who wants his kids doesn't really want his kids,
- 1:13:06Speaker 4: because he won't have any evidence of him trying to
- 1:13:08Speaker 4: be a nice person, you know, like contacting the wife
- 1:13:12Speaker 4: and sending his kids gifts. A lot of men who
- 1:13:16Speaker 4: do that get accused of intimidation and they get arrested
- 1:13:21Speaker 4: if they do that. She has no idea how this
- 1:13:27Speaker 4: process works. None. If you're a man and you send
- 1:13:32Speaker 4: you know, you've gone to court with a thing and
- 1:13:34Speaker 4: they said, oh, we're going to give full you know,
- 1:13:37Speaker 4: the mother has done the whole song and dance crying
- 1:13:39Speaker 4: in the dark. Oh I feel unsafe, blah blah blah.
- 1:13:44Speaker 4: You get either no time with your kids or you
- 1:13:47Speaker 4: get one hour supervised a month. And you say, oh,
- 1:13:51Speaker 4: I'm going to send my kids something in the mail
- 1:13:53Speaker 4: because it's their birthday. Well the mother now just has
- 1:13:56Speaker 4: to go crying to the court and say, he's trying
- 1:14:00Speaker 4: to send my kids something. He's usurping my authority over
- 1:14:05Speaker 4: the child. He's trying to buy the child with gifts
- 1:14:09Speaker 4: to turn the child against me. He's revictimizing me again.
- 1:14:15Speaker 4: Now I know that I can probably be accused of, Oh,
- 1:14:17Speaker 4: you're just fabricating all this, you're making up. These are
- 1:14:20Speaker 4: things that have happened. Like I am just relaying to
- 1:14:22Speaker 4: you the absolute worst things that I have heard from
- 1:14:25Speaker 4: men regarding these circumstances. I might be able to say, oh,
- 1:14:28Speaker 4: you're cherry picking the worst things. Frankly, it doesn't matter.
- 1:14:32Speaker 4: The fact that it happens in the first place is
- 1:14:35Speaker 4: kind of a problem. But it's something that this woman
- 1:14:38Speaker 4: is just not it's not even on her radar, and
- 1:14:42Speaker 4: therein lies the problem.
- 1:14:47Speaker 3: Yep, Yeah, what what? What? What really prople? What really
- 1:14:52Speaker 3: disturbs me about all of this is she's gotten to
- 1:14:55Speaker 3: this age without understanding that what she's saying is horrifying
- 1:15:00Speaker 3: and makes her a horrible person to say it, or
- 1:15:04Speaker 3: makes her seem it makes her look like a horrible
- 1:15:07Speaker 3: person to say it. How do you get to I
- 1:15:10Speaker 3: don't know, when is she fourteen? How do you get
- 1:15:12Speaker 3: to that age and not realize that uncritically lionizing a
- 1:15:19Speaker 3: Finment family annihilator because you're a because they're a woman
- 1:15:25Speaker 3: is horrifying and not something that should be said in
- 1:15:28Speaker 3: public unless you have some I don't know, Okay, let's
- 1:15:38Speaker 3: keep going.
- 1:15:38Speaker 4: Oh, I thought about something else about what she said.
- 1:15:41Speaker 4: That was silly. She said, Oh, just ask for custody.
- 1:15:44Speaker 4: You just just ask for it, you'll get it. And
- 1:15:46Speaker 4: then she immediately follows that up with, boy, I sure,
- 1:15:49Speaker 4: hope you've got realms and reams of evidence proving why
- 1:15:52Speaker 4: you should be allowed to have the kid?
- 1:15:54Speaker 3: Well?
- 1:15:54Speaker 4: Do I just have to ask or do I have
- 1:15:56Speaker 4: to have realms and reams of evidence for why I
- 1:15:58Speaker 4: should be allowed to have the kid or even see
- 1:16:01Speaker 4: the kid? Mm hmm, yeah, Which one of these is
- 1:16:05Speaker 4: the position?
- 1:16:08Speaker 3: Both til deer whichever he makes men worse.
- 1:16:13Speaker 1: Naturally naturally of course, all right, I got a couple
- 1:16:18Speaker 1: of super thingies to read out, so let's do that
- 1:16:21Speaker 1: and then I'll continue. I forgot to mention at the
- 1:16:24Speaker 1: top of the show that metal Wolf, I think metal
- 1:16:26Speaker 1: Wolf became a member, So thank you metal Wolf for
- 1:16:29Speaker 1: the membership. All right, So dark Kigy Mora gave us
- 1:16:32Speaker 1: five on super Chow and said question for teal dear,
- 1:16:38Speaker 1: what is the proper response when someone complains that your sources.
- 1:16:41Speaker 2: Are heresay statistics?
- 1:16:43Speaker 1: My argument was that hearsay stats can actually be a
- 1:16:46Speaker 1: good thing because sometimes the conclusions of the source can
- 1:16:49Speaker 1: contradict their own data. Like the Pew papers that talked
- 1:16:53Speaker 1: about harassment against women and the title but showed data
- 1:16:56Speaker 1: that men were harassed more. You might as well have
- 1:16:59Speaker 1: that data as a hear says that in an article
- 1:17:02Speaker 1: talking about harassment against men.
- 1:17:04Speaker 4: At that point, what do you mean by hearsay statistics?
- 1:17:11Speaker 4: You just made that up?
- 1:17:14Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 1:17:14Speaker 4: Yeah, And if someone says you just made that up,
- 1:17:17Speaker 4: there's no point in talking to them. They're not interested
- 1:17:20Speaker 4: in intellectual conversation or actually dealing with this, which is
- 1:17:23Speaker 4: like ninety plus percent of people in a lot of cases,
- 1:17:28Speaker 4: people who you engage in this they're not actually interested
- 1:17:31Speaker 4: in discussing these things. They're interested in wasting your time.
- 1:17:36Speaker 4: You'll bring something up and then suddenly they will pretend
- 1:17:39Speaker 4: to just not understand how basic statistics work. In a
- 1:17:42Speaker 4: lot of cases, you see this all the time. It's
- 1:17:45Speaker 4: like per capita X, and they'll go, what's per capita?
- 1:17:47Speaker 4: Why does per capita have anything to do with this?
- 1:17:51Speaker 4: They'll suddenly just forget basic statistical concepts like that. Otherwise,
- 1:17:56Speaker 4: if you're using hearsay data as like, and it could quotes, well,
- 1:18:01Speaker 4: the plural of anecdote is data. We can talk about
- 1:18:06Speaker 4: how representative it is, whether the sample size is suitable,
- 1:18:09Speaker 4: whether it's reasonably gathered. I mean, the point that I
- 1:18:12Speaker 4: made earlier about her, You know, this percentage of men
- 1:18:16Speaker 4: get something is probably survivorship bias happening there. That's probably
- 1:18:20Speaker 4: a biased example. I can't say definitively because I don't
- 1:18:23Speaker 4: know what those states where those statistics were from. That
- 1:18:28Speaker 4: that's just me coming off the top of my head
- 1:18:29Speaker 4: of a bunch of things that I have seen, you know,
- 1:18:33Speaker 4: in order to effectively p hack the results of whatever
- 1:18:36Speaker 4: it is that they're doing to show what they want
- 1:18:38Speaker 4: to show, I highly doubt that any of them more accurate.
- 1:18:43Speaker 4: So yeah, that's just it, Like you're not gonna get
- 1:18:49Speaker 4: people to engage honestly with a lot of these things.
- 1:18:54Speaker 4: I've been increasingly wondering when it comes to just theoretical
- 1:18:59Speaker 4: discussion when it to broadly the left and feminists, because
- 1:19:03Speaker 4: I have more disagreements with them than most other groups.
- 1:19:07Speaker 4: At what point am I entitled to just say I'm
- 1:19:11Speaker 4: not having this conversation with you because it's low. I've
- 1:19:14Speaker 4: had these conversations hundreds, if not thousands of times. I
- 1:19:18Speaker 4: Am not going to sit here and type like one
- 1:19:22Speaker 4: hundred paragraphs of all the information that I know on
- 1:19:26Speaker 4: this topic to you to demonstrate why you're wrong. There
- 1:19:29Speaker 4: is just no point in me doing that because it's
- 1:19:34Speaker 4: a huge waste of my time. Be you're not actually
- 1:19:38Speaker 4: going to listen to it anyway. See anything that you
- 1:19:41Speaker 4: do listen to, you're going to immediately whip out some
- 1:19:45Speaker 4: stupid or what aboutism on something, or you're just gonna
- 1:19:52Speaker 4: do the other move, which I see, which is skim
- 1:19:54Speaker 4: an abstract decide that you don't like one word or
- 1:19:57Speaker 4: one sentence, and then derail based on semantics. This is
- 1:20:01Speaker 4: another thing you encounter a lot of the time like
- 1:20:03Speaker 4: there's you know, you'll you'll say something and then it
- 1:20:05Speaker 4: will be like, I don't like that word. Why are
- 1:20:07Speaker 4: you using that word? That's not how that word is,
- 1:20:10Speaker 4: and they just derail into what words mean, and in
- 1:20:14Speaker 4: other cases it will derail into well, how do you
- 1:20:16Speaker 4: know that this is accurate? How do you know that's accurate?
- 1:20:18Speaker 4: What about these they you know? And then if you
- 1:20:20Speaker 4: follow that chain of questioning about how do you know things,
- 1:20:24Speaker 4: that basically ends up in the prove to me the
- 1:20:27Speaker 4: universe exists area where it's okay, right, okay, right, So
- 1:20:31Speaker 4: you are actually just a sollipsist. The only thing that
- 1:20:34Speaker 4: exists is what's in your mind. There's nothing outside of it. Okay,
- 1:20:37Speaker 4: stop hitting yourself. Then that's what this conversation is. Stop
- 1:20:41Speaker 4: doing it.
- 1:20:42Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, true, it's it's silly.
- 1:20:51Speaker 4: Unfortunately, there are times when it is just not worth
- 1:20:54Speaker 4: engaging with people. And unfortunately that is more and more
- 1:20:58Speaker 4: the case, which is kind of why we're in this
- 1:21:03Speaker 4: ever increasingly dividing society that we're in, because you get
- 1:21:08Speaker 4: people who do things like that. There's one that's stuck
- 1:21:10Speaker 4: in my mind really prominently. It was a YouTuber and
- 1:21:15Speaker 4: I cannot remember who it was. This was like, God,
- 1:21:18Speaker 4: must be nearly a decade ago.
- 1:21:19Speaker 2: Now, okay, he was in.
- 1:21:24Speaker 4: There was a little bit of video to and throwing,
- 1:21:26Speaker 4: and I ended up just trying to do like a
- 1:21:28Speaker 4: comment discussion with him because it was quicker. And he
- 1:21:32Speaker 4: kept saying, look at this sentence in the abstract. I'm
- 1:21:37Speaker 4: trying to remember what the topic was. And he kept saying,
- 1:21:41Speaker 4: the abstract says this, this is what the researchers say. Oh,
- 1:21:46Speaker 4: and I was reading the actual study. Yea, the bit that's,
- 1:21:51Speaker 4: you know, the bit that you don't get on the
- 1:21:53Speaker 4: preview because obviously he only had the preview of the abstract.
- 1:21:57Speaker 4: And I said, well, I have academic logging, I have
- 1:21:59Speaker 4: academic log in credentials. I can just go into my
- 1:22:02Speaker 4: institute and download the entire paper, because why the hell not?
- 1:22:05Speaker 4: Why would I not do this? And so I was
- 1:22:08Speaker 4: just quoting from him and that the actual body text
- 1:22:11Speaker 4: of the study. And they literally say, oh, prejudice norm theory.
- 1:22:17Speaker 4: That was it. It was on prejudice norm theory, and
- 1:22:19Speaker 4: it was something about how societies or cytal attitudes make ah,
- 1:22:26Speaker 4: what was it? It was like normalizing prejudice behavior against women
- 1:22:29Speaker 4: or not. It was something about that. And he just
- 1:22:31Speaker 4: kept reading this single sentence of abstract to me, and
- 1:22:34Speaker 4: I just said, okay, read the body text of this article.
- 1:22:38Speaker 4: It literally says, despite the evidence, like they tried to
- 1:22:43Speaker 4: gather evidence to support this prejudice norm theory, the numbers
- 1:22:48Speaker 4: that they gathered, the objective information did not prove it.
- 1:22:51Speaker 4: It actually disproved their theory. And this is why I
- 1:22:54Speaker 4: remember it so prominently, because their phrase was slightly paraphrased,
- 1:22:59Speaker 4: because this is like a decade old despite the data,
- 1:23:04Speaker 4: we propose the creation of a prejudice norm theory to
- 1:23:07Speaker 4: explain why we're right anyway. But that was not acceptable
- 1:23:14Speaker 4: to this person. He just kept saying this sentence, this
- 1:23:17Speaker 4: sentence in the abstract, this sentence. The researchers wrote in
- 1:23:21Speaker 4: the abstract, Therefore, I am right and you are wrong,
- 1:23:24Speaker 4: even though I could literally point look, the actual data
- 1:23:27Speaker 4: they gathered does not support that conclusion. They even say,
- 1:23:31Speaker 4: despite the fact that our data proves us wrong, we
- 1:23:35Speaker 4: don't care. We're just going to go ahead and create
- 1:23:37Speaker 4: this theory anyway. And that's the sort of wall that
- 1:23:42Speaker 4: you just start slamming your head against with people like
- 1:23:45Speaker 4: this because it's okay. There's no point in me trying
- 1:23:48Speaker 4: to converse about this topic with you then, because you
- 1:23:51Speaker 4: in your mind I have read a single sentence. That's it.
- 1:23:54Speaker 4: For dance studies are good, and unfortunately, there's people who
- 1:23:57Speaker 4: are going to think like that. There's academics who are
- 1:23:59Speaker 4: going to think like that. There are academics out there
- 1:24:01Speaker 4: who will I guarantee it. Actually I can't guarantee it
- 1:24:04Speaker 4: because something like eighteen ninety percent of social research never
- 1:24:07Speaker 4: get cited by anyone because it's garbage. But if that
- 1:24:10Speaker 4: one has been cited, I guarantee you it will have
- 1:24:13Speaker 4: been cited, just the abstract, just that sentence. It will
- 1:24:16Speaker 4: be just it will be just presumed to be correct,
- 1:24:20Speaker 4: even though the researchers themselves in their own paper said
- 1:24:23Speaker 4: we're actually completely wrong here. We're just going to propose
- 1:24:27Speaker 4: that we create a model despite that, so we're right. Anyway,
- 1:24:33Speaker 4: Light seat, lunch, I guess.
- 1:24:36Speaker 2: Break. Yeah, No, I.
- 1:24:40Speaker 1: You should definitely go through the studies because we have
- 1:24:43Speaker 1: We have revealed going through several studies during our show
- 1:24:48Speaker 1: that the methodology to get these numbers is important. So yeah,
- 1:24:53Speaker 1: if you just read the abstract and guess what you're
- 1:24:55Speaker 1: going to get exactly what the people who put the
- 1:24:58Speaker 1: study together wanted you to get, and they were hoping
- 1:25:01Speaker 1: people that probably wouldn't read through the actual study and
- 1:25:04Speaker 1: the methodology used to arrive at whatever conclusions they have.
- 1:25:08Speaker 1: But this guy, apparently or or woman I don't know,
- 1:25:14Speaker 1: was just really committed to that ending.
- 1:25:16Speaker 2: And I agree.
- 1:25:17Speaker 1: I'm gonna say to Darkiki Mora, I know that you
- 1:25:19Speaker 1: didn't ask me, but like, you have to understand that
- 1:25:22Speaker 1: there's a lot of unseerious people that are arguing with
- 1:25:27Speaker 1: you and arguing online, and they're not interested in the truth.
- 1:25:31Speaker 2: They're interested in winning, and sometimes.
- 1:25:34Speaker 1: They're poorly equipped or whatever, but that doesn't mean that
- 1:25:37Speaker 1: they don't want to win regardless. So I got another
- 1:25:42Speaker 1: super I'm sorry, go ahead, No, I was going to
- 1:25:45Speaker 1: change subjects.
- 1:25:46Speaker 2: I was gonna read a rumble rant, so you can
- 1:25:47Speaker 2: go ahead, all right.
- 1:25:49Speaker 3: So I have an example of this something that I've
- 1:25:52Speaker 3: been working on because I'm looking at the influence of
- 1:25:55Speaker 3: feminism and the increase in financialization of economies around the world,
- 1:26:02Speaker 3: because feminism is being used as a firewall in order
- 1:26:06Speaker 3: to encourage and defend financialization. But you know, I won't
- 1:26:11Speaker 3: get too much into that, but I was looking at
- 1:26:13Speaker 3: the Global Masculinity Survey, which is sponsored by the World Bank,
- 1:26:21Speaker 3: which is itself mostly I can't say, controlled by the
- 1:26:25Speaker 3: US Treasury Department, but they have a significant amount of
- 1:26:29Speaker 3: influence over it. And the World Bank gives loans to
- 1:26:33Speaker 3: developing countries in conjunction with one of these European Emerging
- 1:26:40Speaker 3: Economies banks, and they're the study that they sponsored, the
- 1:26:46Speaker 3: Global Masculinity Study, which I'm still trying to figure out
- 1:26:50Speaker 3: how they use this instrument to inform their funding choices
- 1:26:52Speaker 3: around the world. But depending on that, I still haven't
- 1:26:57Speaker 3: managed to get into the labyrinth of the cult baroque
- 1:27:01Speaker 3: bureaucracy to find out that information. But in that study,
- 1:27:06Speaker 3: they report that there is a significant association between men
- 1:27:10Speaker 3: who score high on these masculine norms. And I'll list
- 1:27:16Speaker 3: the norms right now. Avoidance of health, seeking, desire to
- 1:27:22Speaker 3: appear heterosexual, primacy of winning, so you want to win,
- 1:27:29Speaker 3: power over women. The specific item there is I love
- 1:27:33Speaker 3: it when men control women. And then also because then
- 1:27:38Speaker 3: you can get a moment of peace, but they don't
- 1:27:40Speaker 3: add that, and then also who was the last one?
- 1:27:44Speaker 3: Sometimes violence is necessary, so these are the norms. They
- 1:27:47Speaker 3: are actually just basically seeing how much a man resembles
- 1:27:53Speaker 3: snidely whiplash. And they said that if men rank high
- 1:27:58Speaker 3: on these norms, that they're is a a strong association
- 1:28:03Speaker 3: with domestic violence. You want to know what that association is?
- 1:28:07Speaker 3: Like it it's it's it's a significant association. What they
- 1:28:11Speaker 3: mean is the amount of people men that they asked
- 1:28:14Speaker 3: is high enough that an association of negative point zero
- 1:28:21Speaker 3: zero one is statistically significant. So what they're reporting, what
- 1:28:28Speaker 3: they're actually reporting again, what they're actually reporting is that
- 1:28:34Speaker 3: they've found it's it's statistically significant that there's absolutely no
- 1:28:38Speaker 3: association between these masculine norms and domestic violence. So apparently
- 1:28:44Speaker 3: Snightly whiplash, Wow, he will tie a woman to the tracks,
- 1:28:50Speaker 3: will not beat her. Right, Okay, so but you see
- 1:28:55Speaker 3: what the chicanery they got up to, right field, They
- 1:28:58Speaker 3: reported this as they reported that there was a statistically
- 1:29:03Speaker 3: significant relationship between men who scarre scored high on those
- 1:29:07Speaker 3: norms and domestic violence. But the statistically significant relationship was nothing.
- 1:29:14Speaker 3: There was no relationship. Yeah, like that, but that's statistically significant.
- 1:29:22Speaker 3: You see, they just didn't they just didn't include that
- 1:29:24Speaker 3: part God damn that the absolute level of mendacity of
- 1:29:33Speaker 3: these people in reporting their results in ways that that
- 1:29:39Speaker 3: you know, you can just use the Whisper network to
- 1:29:42Speaker 3: keep supporting the idea that men are bastards, you know,
- 1:29:45Speaker 3: I mean even just starting with the whole concept of
- 1:29:49Speaker 3: using a snidely Whiplash scale and then scoring men based
- 1:29:52Speaker 3: on it how much they resemble snidely whipclash, and then saying, oh,
- 1:29:55Speaker 3: these are the masculine norms, right, yeah, yeah, do you
- 1:30:00Speaker 3: know what snadly whiplash is?
- 1:30:02Speaker 4: Fielder, no idea?
- 1:30:05Speaker 3: No, okay, you you don't know either?
- 1:30:08Speaker 2: From X Yeah I do. Yeah it was.
- 1:30:10Speaker 1: He was like a cartoon villain from Anna barbera literally
- 1:30:14Speaker 1: like long mustache that he could twist around.
- 1:30:17Speaker 2: He was a mustachio filler.
- 1:30:19Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a statue sometimes.
- 1:30:21Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:30:21Speaker 1: He was also on the Wacky Races, so he drove
- 1:30:24Speaker 1: like a I forget it was like some kind of
- 1:30:26Speaker 1: evil looking car.
- 1:30:28Speaker 3: But he really want he really wanted to win. That
- 1:30:32Speaker 3: is basically what the Global Masculinity Survey is is they ask, man,
- 1:30:37Speaker 3: how much do you resemble snidely whiplash on.
- 1:30:43Speaker 2: A scale to one to one hundred.
- 1:30:48Speaker 4: Oh, that guy Yeah, no, I just looked him up.
- 1:30:50Speaker 4: Yeah no, I know who that is.
- 1:30:54Speaker 3: That's the state of the art in masculinities research for
- 1:30:57Speaker 3: the World Bank. Like you gotta know that Americans are
- 1:31:02Speaker 3: paying for this ship because the Treasury departments behind it.
- 1:31:08Speaker 3: You're paying for it. Asked to ask Ethiopian men how
- 1:31:11Speaker 3: much they resemble snidely whiplash guys. Very important work.
- 1:31:17Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I got a rumble rant from O C.
- 1:31:21Speaker 1: Because it's five dollars and says she says the man
- 1:31:24Speaker 1: needs to present evidence. Doesn't that not contradict the claim
- 1:31:27Speaker 1: that man only needs to ask for charity or ask
- 1:31:31Speaker 1: for custody to present evidence. Means the man has to
- 1:31:34Speaker 1: fight against a presumption that he's not going to get it. Basically, yeah, again,
- 1:31:42Speaker 1: you know you guys, I get what you're doing. You're
- 1:31:45Speaker 1: you're considering her position. But if you were talking to
- 1:31:49Speaker 1: this person, they would just they would just keep going.
- 1:31:52Speaker 1: They wouldn't pay attention to any of that stuff. It
- 1:31:54Speaker 1: doesn't register, it doesn't penetrate because they're there. They don't
- 1:31:59Speaker 1: care about that. They don't care about that. They want
- 1:32:01Speaker 1: to be right and that's what they're going to do.
- 1:32:03Speaker 1: So all right, let's continue if I.
- 1:32:06Speaker 4: May, oh yeah, yeah, point out why I laughed so
- 1:32:09Speaker 4: horrendously during that, for which I apologize again I was
- 1:32:12Speaker 4: not muted. Generally, when it comes to statistics, margin of
- 1:32:18Speaker 4: error tends to float around five percent for things. That's
- 1:32:21Speaker 4: just the way you Anything under that tends to be
- 1:32:25Speaker 4: explainable by just random noise and random sampling, because there's
- 1:32:29Speaker 4: always degrees of randomness. If you're putting things in to
- 1:32:32Speaker 4: say point something of a variance you know, zero absolute
- 1:32:35Speaker 4: zero is nothing, one is one hundred percent of whatever
- 1:32:39Speaker 4: variance it is that you're looking at is going to
- 1:32:40Speaker 4: be explained by any particular variable. So this this is
- 1:32:45Speaker 4: very important when it comes to like trying to identify anything.
- 1:32:49Speaker 4: So if you if you find like one thing one
- 1:32:51Speaker 4: target that you've defined, then another target that you've defined
- 1:32:53Speaker 4: somewhere else, and you're getting really high correlation between them,
- 1:32:58Speaker 4: like sort of point nine something that what you're often
- 1:33:01Speaker 4: then looking at them might actually just be the same
- 1:33:03Speaker 4: thing being defined slightly differently, or there's a very strong
- 1:33:07Speaker 4: relationship between them. Point zero one on that scale would
- 1:33:14Speaker 4: be the equivalent of like point or point zero zero
- 1:33:20Speaker 4: one would be like point one percent. So you're literally
- 1:33:22Speaker 4: looking at like, you know, one person in a thousand
- 1:33:25Speaker 4: maximum sort of variance, so that that like the idea
- 1:33:29Speaker 4: that that is going to be in any way significant
- 1:33:32Speaker 4: is absurd on that sort of point scale you're you
- 1:33:36Speaker 4: you're going to be looking at like point five. That
- 1:33:40Speaker 4: is sort of the point where you start looking and saying, oh, okay,
- 1:33:43Speaker 4: maybe there's actually something to this anything less than that,
- 1:33:47Speaker 4: And it's like no, like, we can be aware that
- 1:33:52Speaker 4: it might be doing something to the variance between these
- 1:33:57Speaker 4: two data points, but it's not. It's not really worth
- 1:34:01Speaker 4: commenting on. And a final thought to go to the winning,
- 1:34:06Speaker 4: winning epic, winning, because we all love winning.
- 1:34:10Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:34:11Speaker 4: When it comes to discussions with people, you will find
- 1:34:13Speaker 4: people who are not seriously discussing with you because they
- 1:34:16Speaker 4: want to discuss with you. They are discussing with you
- 1:34:19Speaker 4: because they want to win. You find this a lot.
- 1:34:24Speaker 4: If you are in a position that we are here,
- 1:34:27Speaker 4: if you make content on the internet, there will always
- 1:34:30Speaker 4: be a certain card of people who are ideologically opposed
- 1:34:33Speaker 4: to you who get into arguments with you and they
- 1:34:37Speaker 4: have to win the conversation no matter what, because they
- 1:34:40Speaker 4: see that you have an audience and that they don't,
- 1:34:43Speaker 4: and they think you are illegitimate. So they basically have
- 1:34:46Speaker 4: to claim the scalp because they think that if they're
- 1:34:49Speaker 4: able to prove you wrong on one thing, that means
- 1:34:51Speaker 4: nobody should ever listen to you ever on any topic
- 1:34:54Speaker 4: and you should basically just like delete yourself from the Internet.
- 1:34:57Speaker 4: I've discussed this before. You get people like it's that
- 1:35:00Speaker 4: very sort of left wing brain way of looking at it,
- 1:35:06Speaker 4: the relational way of looking at it, where being wrong
- 1:35:08Speaker 4: about one thing is like destroying you as a person,
- 1:35:12Speaker 4: like it undermines your existence and now you're not allowed
- 1:35:16Speaker 4: to exist. That's how some of these people will play
- 1:35:20Speaker 4: the game. Hey, I can bring up another example this.
- 1:35:22Speaker 4: I've had a conversation again, however, many years ago now
- 1:35:27Speaker 4: where I pointed out that there's this sort of chain
- 1:35:30Speaker 4: of events of biology, culture, ideology when it comes to
- 1:35:34Speaker 4: borrowing a title from a culteane video, because it made
- 1:35:37Speaker 4: the point succinctly that you have a biological organism that
- 1:35:40Speaker 4: is a human. On top of that biological organism that
- 1:35:43Speaker 4: is the human, you have whatever their culture is, and
- 1:35:46Speaker 4: then within that culture you have whatever ideology you have,
- 1:35:50Speaker 4: and that there is this quite strong link cause a
- 1:35:54Speaker 4: link that goes almost exclusively in one direction, Like you
- 1:35:58Speaker 4: can have ideology that very slightly alters biology going back there,
- 1:36:02Speaker 4: because you do have practices like eugenics, and eugenics is
- 1:36:05Speaker 4: a whole other thing depending on how you want to
- 1:36:07Speaker 4: define it. Is human mate selection a form of eugenics?
- 1:36:10Speaker 4: The answer is yes, by the way, for people who
- 1:36:12Speaker 4: want to know. But I just sort of gave like
- 1:36:16Speaker 4: a short, like a couple of sentences, because hey, I
- 1:36:20Speaker 4: have a life outside of the Internet, and this guy
- 1:36:23Speaker 4: kept hammering on that I'd used that phrase biologiculture, ideology,
- 1:36:28Speaker 4: and every single time I tried to clarify and was like, well,
- 1:36:33Speaker 4: obviously there are cases to be made for feedback loops.
- 1:36:36Speaker 4: Of course there are. No one has ever said then otherwise.
- 1:36:40Speaker 4: But then you just bring that sentence back up. So
- 1:36:42Speaker 4: you said this, and any attempt to clarify was you know,
- 1:36:45Speaker 4: you're moving the goalposts. You just can't admit that, and
- 1:36:47Speaker 4: you just can't admit you're wrong. You're just trying to
- 1:36:50Speaker 4: get yourself out of something because I caught you in
- 1:36:52Speaker 4: my gotcha. It's like, okay, do you want to have
- 1:36:55Speaker 4: a conversation with me here? I'm here telling you what
- 1:37:00Speaker 4: my position is I'm here giving you my time to
- 1:37:04Speaker 4: explain what I think on this topic with whatever relevant
- 1:37:08Speaker 4: sources and evidence. You are taking a single sentence and
- 1:37:12Speaker 4: just hammering me with it, saying anything you say other
- 1:37:16Speaker 4: than this one sentence is you being intellectually dishonest and
- 1:37:21Speaker 4: trying to just avoid things. And again that's a situation
- 1:37:26Speaker 4: where you look at it and it's like there is
- 1:37:28Speaker 4: no point in engaging with you because you've already determined
- 1:37:32Speaker 4: the outcome. The outcome that you have determined is just
- 1:37:36Speaker 4: this sentence, I am right, you are wrong. Boom, that's it.
- 1:37:40Speaker 4: You're now illegitimius as a person. And there is some
- 1:37:44Speaker 4: effective strategies you can deal with this, and one of
- 1:37:46Speaker 4: them is just straight up ask people from the beginning,
- 1:37:49Speaker 4: what would it take for you to admit you're wrong?
- 1:37:53Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 1:37:53Speaker 4: And so many people will just be taken aback by
- 1:37:56Speaker 4: that question because they had no idea, because they don't
- 1:37:59Speaker 4: have any stand in their mind where they're going to
- 1:38:01Speaker 4: be convinced to change their mind about anything. They just
- 1:38:04Speaker 4: they know they're right, they know you're wrong, but that's it.
- 1:38:07Speaker 4: Job's done. And this is unfortunately, there's this kind of attitude,
- 1:38:11Speaker 4: this or you've got to win. You've got to claim
- 1:38:13Speaker 4: the scalp of someone whose platform you I guess secretly
- 1:38:16Speaker 4: covet or at the very least think that they are
- 1:38:19Speaker 4: unworthy of it. Really, it leads to something I call disunderstanding.
- 1:38:24Speaker 4: And you see disunderstanding a hell of a lot on
- 1:38:28Speaker 4: places like Twitter, because Twitter is it rewards quick pithy reply,
- 1:38:34Speaker 4: guy tier responses, where there's one sentence underneath what someone
- 1:38:38Speaker 4: has said and you're trying to like ratio them, as
- 1:38:41Speaker 4: it were. And that's where the disunderstanding comes in. You
- 1:38:44Speaker 4: misunderstand something you've genuinely just got the wrong end of stick.
- 1:38:47Speaker 4: A disunderstanding is where you take something that someone has
- 1:38:51Speaker 4: said and you deliberately take the worst possible interpretation of it,
- 1:39:00Speaker 4: to the point where it's it's not you saying that
- 1:39:03Speaker 4: someone is wrong. It's not even a straw man. It's
- 1:39:05Speaker 4: like the straw man's retarded cousin. It's I'm not even
- 1:39:09Speaker 4: going to lie about what you're saying, but I am
- 1:39:11Speaker 4: going to say something so stupid and pretend that there
- 1:39:16Speaker 4: is even a chance that I think you might think this.
- 1:39:20Speaker 4: It's it's for an audience. The disunderstanding is very importantly
- 1:39:24Speaker 4: for an audience on social media, it is behold everyone
- 1:39:27Speaker 4: at how stupid I think this person is by implying
- 1:39:32Speaker 4: there is a non zero sum chance that they might
- 1:39:35Speaker 4: think this.
- 1:39:37Speaker 2: Yes, and you will see.
- 1:39:38Speaker 4: That everywhere on Twitter. Now that I've described it, you
- 1:39:42Speaker 4: will see it everywhere. It's someone will make a sentence
- 1:39:45Speaker 4: and then it'll be something along the I will be
- 1:39:47Speaker 4: something along the lines of it's interesting that you think,
- 1:39:53Speaker 4: and the it's interesting that you think, will be something
- 1:39:57Speaker 4: borderline unrelated yep to what it was that you were
- 1:40:02Speaker 4: talking about. Like, I've made posts where it's like, hey,
- 1:40:05Speaker 4: maybe we can hold women accountable for literally anything that
- 1:40:08Speaker 4: they do, and I've had comments under that it's weird
- 1:40:12Speaker 4: that you think men can't be held accountable for anything.
- 1:40:17Speaker 4: That's a disunderstanding. Behold everyone that how stupid I think
- 1:40:21Speaker 4: this person is? Because I assert that there is a
- 1:40:26Speaker 4: non zero chance in their mind that they think men
- 1:40:29Speaker 4: are not able to be held accountable for anything. Ever,
- 1:40:34Speaker 4: that's the purpose of that sort of response. M I've
- 1:40:38Speaker 4: monopolized my time enough, I am done. Okay, we're on
- 1:40:43Speaker 4: to dinner now, let's have it.
- 1:40:44Speaker 2: Uh so I did I did get a rumble? Ran
- 1:40:47Speaker 2: I should read.
- 1:40:48Speaker 1: No, I already read that, didn't I No, I'm done
- 1:40:49Speaker 1: with that. Okay, let's let's get back to the video then, right. Oh,
- 1:40:54Speaker 1: Richard Bierre said he sent a super child, but I
- 1:40:56Speaker 1: don't see anything, so it might be stuck in the
- 1:40:59Speaker 1: I have.
- 1:40:59Speaker 3: To post the boles today. The vols are lazy today. Okay,
- 1:41:04Speaker 3: do just give me a second.
- 1:41:05Speaker 4: I'll POKEM, go POKEM.
- 1:41:07Speaker 2: I'll just keep on the lookout. But I keep playing that.
- 1:41:11Speaker 3: I think. Let me just double check. Yeah, Richard Beer, yep,
- 1:41:17Speaker 3: they both came through. The voles have now done their duty,
- 1:41:21Speaker 3: and the.
- 1:41:23Speaker 2: Pop I see it now, all right.
- 1:41:25Speaker 1: So Richard Beer gave us five and says a woman
- 1:41:28Speaker 1: will fight for soul custody and then put the child
- 1:41:31Speaker 1: into daycare or a boarding school and be minimally directly
- 1:41:34Speaker 1: involved with the child and still demand support for the
- 1:41:37Speaker 1: child that she outsourced the raising of. She uses the
- 1:41:40Speaker 1: boarding school and daycare so as to not be inconvenienced
- 1:41:44Speaker 1: by the day to day mundane childcare.
- 1:41:47Speaker 2: Thank you for that.
- 1:41:49Speaker 1: And then Darki GiMA gave us five and says the
- 1:41:52Speaker 1: guy was a lawyer and his definition of hearsay stat
- 1:41:55Speaker 1: was getting a data point from a second hand source
- 1:41:58Speaker 1: instead of where it riches came from.
- 1:42:01Speaker 2: So getting the CDC twenty ten numbers on made to
- 1:42:05Speaker 2: penetrate from Allison's video instead of directly from the CDC
- 1:42:09Speaker 2: would be a hearsay stat according to him, even though
- 1:42:13Speaker 2: Allison paired it with research as to why the lifetime
- 1:42:16Speaker 2: numbers are less reliable. So you basically nailed it accidentally. Thanks.
- 1:42:22Speaker 1: And then I got one from Nova Fan for a
- 1:42:25Speaker 1: dollar on Rumble, and he says, And what tel Deer
- 1:42:28Speaker 1: is explaining is why I prefer to rage bait feminists
- 1:42:31Speaker 1: and communists in the thinking my position is so insane
- 1:42:34Speaker 1: that I pray the feminists and communists become even more insane.
- 1:42:38Speaker 1: All right, thank you for all of that. Let's get
- 1:42:41Speaker 1: to because we're running out of time here. I gotta
- 1:42:43Speaker 1: go soon, so let's u see if we can get
- 1:42:45Speaker 1: to the last section.
- 1:42:46Speaker 5: At least, it's for him about how we live in
- 1:42:47Speaker 5: a patriarchical society that heavily, heavily, heavily favors men in
- 1:42:52Speaker 5: custody decisions, but for some reason, for some reason, everyone
- 1:42:57Speaker 5: just acts like that's not the case, even those statistics.
- 1:42:59Speaker 3: Because it isn't the case, Like she just she just
- 1:43:04Speaker 3: slaps up something.
- 1:43:05Speaker 1: She just says like, wow, you know, it's weird. People
- 1:43:08Speaker 1: keep acting like this thing that I heard is happening.
- 1:43:11Speaker 1: They act like it's not happening when it's obviously happening,
- 1:43:13Speaker 1: even though there's lots of data that suggests otherwise.
- 1:43:19Speaker 3: None of her she okay, First of all, her number
- 1:43:23Speaker 3: is going all over the place during this video. And
- 1:43:28Speaker 3: where did it come from? Right? I mean the difference
- 1:43:32Speaker 3: between if you're if not uh dark? Kiki Mora is
- 1:43:36Speaker 3: saying that what I do is hearsay stats, and she's
- 1:43:39Speaker 3: doing the same thing. No, because I give you where
- 1:43:44Speaker 3: you can go and find the data yourself, and I
- 1:43:47Speaker 3: give you how I've analyzed the data, which is I
- 1:43:52Speaker 3: don't do anything dark or cult, right, I just I
- 1:43:56Speaker 3: give you where the data comes from. I give you
- 1:43:59Speaker 3: how I've animal it right there, So that is not
- 1:44:03Speaker 3: a hearsay stat what she's doing. I don't even know
- 1:44:07Speaker 3: if this his hearsay, because I don't think she's heard
- 1:44:09Speaker 3: it from anywhere. For all you know, she wrote up
- 1:44:12Speaker 3: whatever she needed or took a screenshot from a feminist
- 1:44:17Speaker 3: who wrote up whatever they needed to assert whatever thing.
- 1:44:20Speaker 3: There's no sources in this and the number goes all
- 1:44:23Speaker 3: over the place, is it, uh ninety four, ninety seven,
- 1:44:28Speaker 3: seventy two? What ninety one? She goes multiple numbers to
- 1:44:34Speaker 3: assert this because she doesn't know where this stat comes from,
- 1:44:40Speaker 3: because her source probably doesn't know where the stat comes from,
- 1:44:44Speaker 3: because the stat only persists because it's useful. I will
- 1:44:49Speaker 3: see if I can find the providence of this stat.
- 1:44:53Speaker 3: But yeah, there's another super child. So maybe we should read.
- 1:44:56Speaker 2: That, right, Yeah, I'm going to read that one. So
- 1:44:59Speaker 2: U dark Kicky Mora read that one? Noba fan waits
- 1:45:03Speaker 2: is another one? I read them all?
- 1:45:06Speaker 3: No, she no, he wrote another one. It's after Oh wait.
- 1:45:11Speaker 2: Oh yeah I read them.
- 1:45:13Speaker 3: You read that one. I was responding to that.
- 1:45:14Speaker 1: Sorry, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, It's okay, all right, I'm
- 1:45:17Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna hit play. Where we're getting to the
- 1:45:19Speaker 1: missingry part.
- 1:45:20Speaker 5: It is the case that when men ask for custody,
- 1:45:22Speaker 5: they get it. So maybe you could ask him why
- 1:45:24Speaker 5: he didn't ask for custody, because I'm sure he actually
- 1:45:28Speaker 5: really wants to see his kids. Definitely he's a good person.
- 1:45:31Speaker 3: Sure.
- 1:45:32Speaker 5: Part four oops a miss injury. So here's the thing.
- 1:45:36Speaker 3: Does this woman have a father?
- 1:45:39Speaker 2: I have no idea. All right, I'm gonna keep going.
- 1:45:46Speaker 5: By rachel custom idea. I feel for her. Why is
- 1:45:50Speaker 5: Jason allowed to leave? Why does he get to make
- 1:45:52Speaker 5: the decision to blow up everyone's life without consequence but no.
- 1:45:57Speaker 3: Form no fault before?
- 1:46:01Speaker 2: Why does.
- 1:46:04Speaker 3: Yeah, what does he get? Why does he have the
- 1:46:06Speaker 3: same rights as a woman to to Uh well not really,
- 1:46:09Speaker 3: but why does he have any right like a woman
- 1:46:12Speaker 3: to walk away from a relationship?
- 1:46:16Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 1:46:16Speaker 3: This is like, does she realize what she's saying? Is
- 1:46:21Speaker 3: she going to argue that women shouldn't have the right
- 1:46:24Speaker 3: to walk away from a relationship? No, She's not gonna
- 1:46:29Speaker 3: argue that. So this is a massive double standard. It's
- 1:46:32Speaker 3: like she's saying, well, why why should we have no
- 1:46:35Speaker 3: fault divorce but only for like why why should men
- 1:46:39Speaker 3: have all no fault divorce? Women should continue to have
- 1:46:41Speaker 3: no vault divorce?
- 1:46:45Speaker 4: Mm hm, oh.
- 1:46:48Speaker 2: God, Okay.
- 1:46:50Speaker 5: In the play, no matter what happens, I personally, in
- 1:46:54Speaker 5: my feelings about the characters, blame Medea for this sad
- 1:46:59Speaker 5: and to the children, even when in this play, in
- 1:47:04Speaker 5: this play by Rachel Cuss, the only thing Medea does
- 1:47:06Speaker 5: is exactly what Jason has done. Every other time, she says, well,
- 1:47:11Speaker 5: I'm not gonna do this, so good luck with the children,
- 1:47:13Speaker 5: and she just leaves. I still blame her for their
- 1:47:17Speaker 5: sad end and that I have committed a mis injury.
- 1:47:22Speaker 5: I have lower expectations for men when it comes to
- 1:47:25Speaker 5: fatherhood than women when it comes to motherhood, Like, yeah,
- 1:47:29Speaker 5: it's not fair that men are allowed to abandon their children,
- 1:47:32Speaker 5: But Medea, how could you do that? You're a mother
- 1:47:35Speaker 5: like I literally that is my first thought. Rachel Cuss
- 1:47:40Speaker 5: really helps me unpack this by making me think about it.
- 1:47:44Speaker 5: While we're talking about the classics, I'm gonna have to talk.
- 1:47:46Speaker 3: About another What the fuck Am I getting this right?
- 1:47:55Speaker 3: Am I getting this right? She's saying that she's questioning
- 1:48:01Speaker 3: her initial impression, like why why did media and like
- 1:48:04Speaker 3: of I guess judging media for killing the children. Jason
- 1:48:08Speaker 3: didn't a beend in his children. There's no indication he
- 1:48:12Speaker 3: wasn't gonna see them, or support them, or even not
- 1:48:17Speaker 3: continue to support me a Medea, You've literally said that. Hell,
- 1:48:24Speaker 3: maybe he figured Medea was in the same situation. He
- 1:48:26Speaker 3: was right, They were just both dealing with the fact
- 1:48:30Speaker 3: that Haarah had told them, oh no, just smash them.
- 1:48:32Speaker 3: Together like a Ken doll and a Barbie dollar and said, yeah,
- 1:48:35Speaker 3: now you're together, guys, I don't give a fuck what
- 1:48:37Speaker 3: you want. Matchmaking by the gods, you know. And he's like, Okay,
- 1:48:42Speaker 3: now this things are a little stable. Let's get on
- 1:48:46Speaker 3: with our lives now that we've had to deal with
- 1:48:48Speaker 3: being forced together by her Parah parah you know who knows.
- 1:48:54Speaker 3: But he didn't see. He went to her and he
- 1:48:56Speaker 3: said he you know this situation. He's not gonna not
- 1:49:00Speaker 3: give her the benefits of his political elevation for her
- 1:49:05Speaker 3: and her son. So there's no indication that he abandoned them, right.
- 1:49:11Speaker 3: She's reading into that to support an argument, because the
- 1:49:15Speaker 3: argument itself is very bad. But the thing is that
- 1:49:19Speaker 3: why is she saying that him abandoning the kids is
- 1:49:23Speaker 3: caused for her to kill them? For an excuse for
- 1:49:26Speaker 3: her to kill them? What? Okay?
- 1:49:31Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 1:49:31Speaker 3: Am I missing something here? Or is this just as
- 1:49:34Speaker 3: insane as I think it is?
- 1:49:36Speaker 1: I think yeah, it's pretty Uh Schitzo, I got another
- 1:49:44Speaker 1: super child from Darky Gyimora who gives us five and says,
- 1:49:47Speaker 1: I didn't mean to accuse you of a true hearsay
- 1:49:50Speaker 1: stat Allison. I meant that the guy was accusing papers
- 1:49:53Speaker 1: about men being genocided in the Third world that also
- 1:49:56Speaker 1: in turn linked to government's data like you did. Was
- 1:49:59Speaker 1: totally dismissed, not accusing you of being this person you
- 1:50:02Speaker 1: are responding to much love, Okay, all right, uh yeah,
- 1:50:09Speaker 1: let's uh. Well, I mean she's at least I guess
- 1:50:12Speaker 1: she's at least confronting the idea that she is holding
- 1:50:16Speaker 1: men to a lower standard than women.
- 1:50:19Speaker 2: But well, I mean that's not really.
- 1:50:23Speaker 3: Again, No, she's not holding women to a lower men
- 1:50:28Speaker 3: to a lower standard. I'm pretty sure if she came
- 1:50:32Speaker 3: across a video saying that Manda killing his children because
- 1:50:36Speaker 3: Jessica had the audacity to walk away from him when
- 1:50:40Speaker 3: she had no choice to be in the relationship in
- 1:50:42Speaker 3: the first place, she would come across and be absolutely horrified.
- 1:50:47Speaker 3: So she's not holding men to a lower standard. You know.
- 1:50:51Speaker 3: This is this is the amazing thing. It's like, I'm
- 1:50:54Speaker 3: looking at this and I can see that this is
- 1:50:57Speaker 3: a gigantic failure mode for women's thinking, Like this level
- 1:51:01Speaker 3: of stupid spaghetti where they get together and they say, oh, yeah,
- 1:51:05Speaker 3: we don't hold men to the same standards as we
- 1:51:08Speaker 3: hold women, And what when you actually dissect the thinking.
- 1:51:13Speaker 3: It's that we're holding men, they are holding women any
- 1:51:15Speaker 3: kind of stand and it's not even holding women to
- 1:51:17Speaker 3: a standard. What they're doing is they have a stereotype
- 1:51:21Speaker 3: about women being better than men when it comes to kids.
- 1:51:26Speaker 3: So it's not even that they're holding women to a
- 1:51:28Speaker 3: higher standard, because the other aspect of this is that
- 1:51:31Speaker 3: when Medea kills their kids, everything is excuses, Oh, Jason
- 1:51:37Speaker 3: made it happen. But when Jason, if Jason killed his
- 1:51:39Speaker 3: kids because Medea was walking away from him, that would
- 1:51:43Speaker 3: be Jason is a psychopath for them, so they don't
- 1:51:47Speaker 3: even they don't even actually hold women to higher standards.
- 1:51:50Speaker 3: What's actually happening is their female chauvinists who just think
- 1:51:54Speaker 3: women are better than men, and they have mistaken because
- 1:51:58Speaker 3: they also have the minds of three year old the
- 1:52:01Speaker 3: idea that they believe that women are better than men
- 1:52:04Speaker 3: and that they are women, therefore they're better than men,
- 1:52:07Speaker 3: with the idea that they're holding women to a higher standard. No,
- 1:52:13Speaker 3: the chauvinistic sexist attitude that women are better than men
- 1:52:19Speaker 3: as parents is not holding women to as a higher
- 1:52:22Speaker 3: standard as parents, and in fact, people who hold it
- 1:52:26Speaker 3: are more likely to excuse the abysmal behavior of women
- 1:52:29Speaker 3: towards children in order to uphold their belief than they
- 1:52:33Speaker 3: are to hold women to a higher standard than they
- 1:52:36Speaker 3: do men. These are two completely different things, and of
- 1:52:39Speaker 3: course she conflates them because her brain is mush and
- 1:52:45Speaker 3: I'm like looking at this and I'm like, I can't
- 1:52:48Speaker 3: apologize for this, guys. This is woman. This is I
- 1:52:53Speaker 3: try to say that there could be something better, and
- 1:52:58Speaker 3: every day like women could be better, could do better,
- 1:53:03Speaker 3: And every day women show me how much of an
- 1:53:06Speaker 3: anomaly I am right, This is like every day they
- 1:53:13Speaker 3: show me the abysmal state of their morality, their ethics,
- 1:53:19Speaker 3: their understanding and their beliefs about men, and also their
- 1:53:26Speaker 3: absolute illogic like mistaking, expecting, like mistaking putting women on
- 1:53:32Speaker 3: a pedestal above men. With holding women to higher standards,
- 1:53:36Speaker 3: that's not the same thing. Men are hauled much higher
- 1:53:41Speaker 3: standards when it comes to parenthood. For starters, we're allowed
- 1:53:44Speaker 3: to say that men can be deadbeats, that fathers can
- 1:53:48Speaker 3: be bad. We can't say that about mothers. The instant
- 1:53:51Speaker 3: you say, oh, this mother is bad, it boomerangs back
- 1:53:55Speaker 3: on you because you're not upholding the pedestalization of mothers.
- 1:54:00Speaker 3: That's how it works. So she is mistaking her sexism
- 1:54:04Speaker 3: that mothers are better for an actual external standard that
- 1:54:08Speaker 3: mothers are held to, that are is greater than them.
- 1:54:11Speaker 2: Men.
- 1:54:12Speaker 3: No, my dear, those two things are not the same.
- 1:54:15Speaker 3: But I can say that and you will never understand
- 1:54:17Speaker 3: it because your brain doesn't work that way.
- 1:54:22Speaker 1: Oh good lord, Okay, let's keep going.
- 1:54:29Speaker 2: I guess, yeah, let's do it.
- 1:54:31Speaker 5: How to Train Your Dragon two, which came out in
- 1:54:34Speaker 5: twenty fourteen spoilers for How To Train Your Dragon one
- 1:54:37Speaker 5: and two. I guess I have to tell you about
- 1:54:40Speaker 5: the plot. So in the first one, Hiccup is like
- 1:54:43Speaker 5: a small little Viking boy and he has his father's
- 1:54:46Speaker 5: the chief, and he's like a big guy, and like
- 1:54:49Speaker 5: they have this kind of awkward relationship because Hiccup's mom
- 1:54:52Speaker 5: is dead right and his father's like overprotective but also
- 1:54:56Speaker 5: pushing him to be like a big manly man. And
- 1:54:59Speaker 5: Hiccup's mom will murdered by dragons. His dad saw this
- 1:55:02Speaker 5: or saw them remnants of it, and so like, as
- 1:55:07Speaker 5: a community, they're really good at killing dragons, and Hiccup
- 1:55:11Speaker 5: is gonna go be a dragon killer. But then Instead,
- 1:55:14Speaker 5: he befriends a dragon, and you know, he realizes that
- 1:55:19Speaker 5: dragons are friends, and he convinces his community and his
- 1:55:22Speaker 5: father and him repair the relationship and they all ride
- 1:55:24Speaker 5: dragons at the end. Solid movie. Great movie. How to
- 1:55:28Speaker 5: Train Your Dragon one, How to Train Your Dragon two.
- 1:55:31Speaker 5: Five years in the future, Hickup's like a big man
- 1:55:33Speaker 5: and he's training to be the chief even though he
- 1:55:35Speaker 5: feels nervous, and his dad's like, I love your son.
- 1:55:37Speaker 5: Where buddies will get through this. And there's a war
- 1:55:40Speaker 5: and so they need more dragons and they stumble upon
- 1:55:43Speaker 5: this dragon's nest and Hiccup, oh my god, it's his mom.
- 1:55:48Speaker 5: He's so happy his mom didn't die. She was just
- 1:55:51Speaker 5: protecting dragons. And then his father shows up and like
- 1:55:55Speaker 5: he's not even mad. They just get back together and
- 1:55:58Speaker 5: they're like, oh my god, this is so great. We're
- 1:56:00Speaker 5: also happy we're a family again. And then hiccup dad dies.
- 1:56:04Speaker 5: They win the war, but it's like, okay that his
- 1:56:06Speaker 5: dad died because he has his mom, so like everything
- 1:56:08Speaker 5: is fine. This movie made me so angry. I hate
- 1:56:13Speaker 5: really okay, Pickups mom. They just they just forgive her
- 1:56:18Speaker 5: and then they just kill his dad. And and it's fine, Like,
- 1:56:22Speaker 5: just imagine you grew up with a father who was
- 1:56:27Speaker 5: like emotionally traumatized because he saw your mother murdered by
- 1:56:31Speaker 5: a pony.
- 1:56:32Speaker 1: And I'm curious about where this is going because literally,
- 1:56:36Speaker 1: like you're you're showing a kind of feminist retcon of
- 1:56:40Speaker 1: a story where in How to Train Your Dragon one,
- 1:56:45Speaker 1: the mom was dead before the show started, like the
- 1:56:48Speaker 1: movie begins, which sets the tone for the relationship between
- 1:56:51Speaker 1: the father and the son, and now you're you're showing
- 1:56:56Speaker 1: that in the sequel, they brought the mom back and
- 1:57:00Speaker 1: they kill the father off instead, which I guess is
- 1:57:03Speaker 1: a lot more palatable or tolerable or digestible. And you
- 1:57:07Speaker 1: have a problem with the way that they quickly forgave
- 1:57:10Speaker 1: the mom, which I don't remember.
- 1:57:13Speaker 2: I saw that movie, but it's been a while so
- 1:57:14Speaker 2: I don't remember much. But okay, let's find out what
- 1:57:17Speaker 2: she says.
- 1:57:18Speaker 5: You only have your dad, but also it's not like
- 1:57:20Speaker 5: your real dad because he is so traumatized, he is
- 1:57:23Speaker 5: so overprotective and weird that like you never get to
- 1:57:26Speaker 5: know your real father because you have this very strained
- 1:57:29Speaker 5: relationship and somehow you beat the odds. You grow up
- 1:57:33Speaker 5: to be a normal kid. You prepare this relationship with
- 1:57:37Speaker 5: your father who's no longer a broken man, and you know,
- 1:57:41Speaker 5: despite your terrible childhood, you've moved on and you've made
- 1:57:45Speaker 5: the best of it and your life is fine. And
- 1:57:48Speaker 5: then you find out, no, your mother didn't die in
- 1:57:51Speaker 5: a pony attack. She staged it. She's actually been alive
- 1:57:55Speaker 5: this whole time, just like living with ponies, like that
- 1:58:00Speaker 5: verribal childhood. You know, she traumatized your father, she ruined
- 1:58:04Speaker 5: your childhood, She abandoned you, you know, for ponies, and
- 1:58:12Speaker 5: you just forgive her like it's fine. That's this movie.
- 1:58:15Speaker 5: They immediately forgive her. It is crazy. She was alive
- 1:58:18Speaker 5: the whole time. Just use your words, Valka, what is this?
- 1:58:23Speaker 5: And it's the same thing as in media, you know,
- 1:58:27Speaker 5: because of the patriarchy. I am much more accepting of
- 1:58:31Speaker 5: men abandoning their children than I am of women abandoning
- 1:58:34Speaker 5: their children and media like, I am way more mad.
- 1:58:37Speaker 1: What no, no, no, no, you are gynocentric.
- 1:58:43Speaker 4: You are fine with people forgiving women for shit that
- 1:58:46Speaker 4: they do. Yeah, that's what's happening there.
- 1:58:50Speaker 3: No, she's arguing that she was much more upset at
- 1:58:53Speaker 3: Hiccup's mom than at Jason, even though Jason. She's literally
- 1:58:59Speaker 3: our arguing that Jason abandoning Medea is is justification for
- 1:59:07Speaker 3: Medea killing the children, which you know, Hiccop's mom didn't
- 1:59:12Speaker 3: kill Hiccup or or our Hiccup's father didn't kill didn't
- 1:59:18Speaker 3: kill Hiccup because his wife abandoned him. So it's like
- 1:59:22Speaker 3: a completely different situation, right, So it's and we're not
- 1:59:27Speaker 3: excusing Hiccup's father for killing Hiccup because his wife abandoned him.
- 1:59:32Speaker 3: So she's basically comparing apples to jack jackals like apples
- 1:59:38Speaker 3: to ferrets, like something completing, it's not even in the
- 1:59:42Speaker 3: same gene uh like the same category of of loving
- 1:59:46Speaker 3: things like and and then she's saying, oh, but I'm
- 1:59:50Speaker 3: so much more judgmental of of of Higob's mom disappearing,
- 1:59:58Speaker 3: and it's like, but then she's also not engaging in
- 2:00:01Speaker 3: the fact that Hiccop's father and Hiccop forgave her, And honestly,
- 2:00:09Speaker 3: I think what really bothers her is the presentation of
- 2:00:12Speaker 3: all of that made Hiccop's father out to be a
- 2:00:16Speaker 3: freaking saint, right, she decided to prioritize what remained of
- 2:00:23Speaker 3: his life with her with his wife then to continue
- 2:00:28Speaker 3: to hold a grudge against her right, and there could
- 2:00:32Speaker 3: be more complexity to it. He knew that he had
- 2:00:34Speaker 3: like this really aggressive hatred of dragons, and his wife
- 2:00:39Speaker 3: was very much drawn to them, so she felt like
- 2:00:42Speaker 3: she couldn't explain this to him. It's a little bit
- 2:00:44Speaker 3: cartoony logic, but I think the real problem here is
- 2:00:50Speaker 3: the father is shown in an incredibly forgiving light, like
- 2:00:56Speaker 3: that she is the bigger person. Isn't like that? I
- 2:01:02Speaker 3: think that's the real problem, And and she's she's saying
- 2:01:08Speaker 3: what she is actually saying is the fact that I'm
- 2:01:11Speaker 3: watching a man forgive a woman, recognize the woman did
- 2:01:14Speaker 3: something harmful, and is in the moral position to forgive her.
- 2:01:19Speaker 3: I don't like that, and she I don't know. I
- 2:01:25Speaker 3: think she hates hates Hiccop's mom because she's forcing her
- 2:01:30Speaker 3: to confront it. That entire scenario is forcing her to
- 2:01:33Speaker 3: confront the possibility that men aren't horrific creatures. But also
- 2:01:39Speaker 3: I think she's doing it for the argument, right, or
- 2:01:43Speaker 3: maybe she doesn't understand forgiveness like I mean, she is
- 2:01:46Speaker 3: literally arguing that if a man exercises the right to
- 2:01:51Speaker 3: walk away from a woman aka no fault divorce. He
- 2:01:57Speaker 3: should be punished by having his children killed, his new
- 2:02:02Speaker 3: wife killed, and his new father in law killed. And
- 2:02:05Speaker 3: this is acceptable behavior that should be lionized as a
- 2:02:08Speaker 3: feminist icon, right, That's what's going on here. So maybe
- 2:02:13Speaker 3: she just doesn't understand forgiveness. I know these are a
- 2:02:15Speaker 3: little bit more stretches than what I'm saying, but I
- 2:02:18Speaker 3: think that this is a very convenient to her argument.
- 2:02:21Speaker 3: One two, the forgiveness that's happening here is not the
- 2:02:26Speaker 3: same kind. Being angry at Hiccup's mother is not the
- 2:02:31Speaker 3: same operation in your mind, Like, Okay, would you if
- 2:02:38Speaker 3: Hiccup's father killed Hiccup because the mother abandoned them, would
- 2:02:44Speaker 3: you still be like, oh my god, the real issue
- 2:02:47Speaker 3: is the mother abandoned them. No, lady, you would not.
- 2:02:51Speaker 3: So you're not comparing the same to the same, not
- 2:02:55Speaker 3: at all?
- 2:02:57Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 2:02:58Speaker 3: Or or is it just justified? Is Hiccop's father justified
- 2:03:02Speaker 3: and murdering Hiccup because Hiccop's mother abandoned them? That is
- 2:03:07Speaker 3: the like to like comparison, And I really suspect that
- 2:03:12Speaker 3: she would not make that argument right because she's making
- 2:03:16Speaker 3: the argument that Jason leaving is so unforgivable it justifies
- 2:03:22Speaker 3: Medea killing their children. I don't think she's making she
- 2:03:26Speaker 3: would ever make the argument that Hiccop's mother leaving is
- 2:03:31Speaker 3: so unjustified that it justifies Hiccop's father killing Hiccup. So
- 2:03:37Speaker 3: she's not actually comparing like to like here, she's making
- 2:03:39Speaker 3: a false equivalence in order to support her argument. I
- 2:03:43Speaker 3: can conjecture about, like the subtle psychological motivations for this,
- 2:03:48Speaker 3: but that's the fundamental point. That's the logical point that's
- 2:03:51Speaker 3: going on here, And these two things are not the same.
- 2:03:54Speaker 3: All right, Let's.
- 2:03:57Speaker 4: If we just want to throw up a random theme
- 2:03:59Speaker 4: of forgiveness. Is she aware of or perhaps well, I
- 2:04:05Speaker 4: guess it wasn't in Medea. Is she aware of the
- 2:04:07Speaker 4: fact that Jason forgave Medea's murders before this play?
- 2:04:16Speaker 2: Uh, she doesn't mention anything like.
- 2:04:18Speaker 4: That because before all of this, because the reason that
- 2:04:22Speaker 4: they had to flee to Corinth was because Medea killed
- 2:04:28Speaker 4: who was it, Pellias? I think it was in another
- 2:04:31Speaker 4: kingdom by deceiving his daughters like that. That's why they
- 2:04:37Speaker 4: had to flee. Like after the Golden Fleece came back
- 2:04:40Speaker 4: and there was some stuff which I don't remember, but
- 2:04:43Speaker 4: she did a magic trick in front of this guy's
- 2:04:47Speaker 4: that the king's daughters, because the king was supposed to
- 2:04:49Speaker 4: like abdicate or something, and Jason was supposed to there
- 2:04:53Speaker 4: was some royal connection there that I'm not one hundred
- 2:04:56Speaker 4: percent on, but he didn't go, so she wanted to
- 2:05:00Speaker 4: get him deposed. She madea tricked his daughters by killing
- 2:05:10Speaker 4: either a ram or some other guy, depending on which
- 2:05:15Speaker 4: because there's like three different versions of this versions. So
- 2:05:19Speaker 4: she kills something, whether it's a guy or a goat
- 2:05:22Speaker 4: or something, cuts it all up, and then like boils
- 2:05:25Speaker 4: it or puts herbs on it or whatever, and it
- 2:05:27Speaker 4: comes back to life and it's like young and viral again.
- 2:05:30Speaker 4: And the Pellis's daughters are like, oh, do this to
- 2:05:34Speaker 4: our father.
- 2:05:34Speaker 3: Do it?
- 2:05:35Speaker 4: We want him to be young and happy and healthy
- 2:05:37Speaker 4: and all of that stuff. And again this is where
- 2:05:41Speaker 4: you get two different versions. The one where the daughters
- 2:05:44Speaker 4: have got the wrong end of stick. They kill and
- 2:05:46Speaker 4: cut up their father and nothing happens, and the other
- 2:05:48Speaker 4: one they kill him, cut him up and all this stuff,
- 2:05:51Speaker 4: and they say madea bring him back, and she just says, lol, no,
- 2:05:55Speaker 4: and leaves, and then that's why they get banished from
- 2:05:59Speaker 4: this kingdom. So their life was kind of set up
- 2:06:04Speaker 4: after the Golden Fleece thing madea fucked over their king
- 2:06:10Speaker 4: and then Nadia and Jason had to leave. And at
- 2:06:14Speaker 4: that point he didn't say, hey, you know what, I
- 2:06:17Speaker 4: don't think this is going to work out. He stuck
- 2:06:19Speaker 4: with her anyway, and then there's the whole brother killing
- 2:06:23Speaker 4: thing that also happened, and then of course you know
- 2:06:28Speaker 4: that they had to flee from Corinth for that, and
- 2:06:30Speaker 4: then that's why he wanted to, I think marry whatever
- 2:06:34Speaker 4: her name was, daughter of Corinth thing to basically get
- 2:06:37Speaker 4: back to what they were doing before he forgave madea
- 2:06:43Speaker 4: for killing people already and then was like, hang on,
- 2:06:47Speaker 4: I can get things back if I just marry this
- 2:06:49Speaker 4: person and maybe leave the psycho murderer who I've already
- 2:06:53Speaker 4: forgiven perhaps two times more than I should have. Is
- 2:07:00Speaker 4: any of this brought up by her?
- 2:07:03Speaker 2: No?
- 2:07:03Speaker 3: No, okay, no, that's irrelevant. The thing is that Jason
- 2:07:10Speaker 3: has the audacity to leave. I mean, on every access,
- 2:07:15Speaker 3: Jason should have the right to leave this woman. And
- 2:07:23Speaker 3: if if if this is as you said, was Mandia
- 2:07:28Speaker 3: and Jessica, the fact that Mandia has demonstrated multiple times
- 2:07:34Speaker 3: that he is willing to murder to keep Jessica. I'm
- 2:07:39Speaker 3: pretty sure she would argue that Jessica's consent is not
- 2:07:44Speaker 3: actually valid. So you can just imagine being a Jason.
- 2:07:50Speaker 3: I don't know how the kids happened, but regardless, he's
- 2:07:56Speaker 3: like and and he could probably project that the kids
- 2:08:02Speaker 3: might be a fatality if he ever left Midea be
- 2:08:04Speaker 3: based on her behavior, and he was would probably be right.
- 2:08:10Speaker 3: And again, if this was genders reverse, there is no
- 2:08:13Speaker 3: way that this woman would argue that this is acceptable behavior.
- 2:08:18Speaker 3: There's another there's another this person going ape shit in
- 2:08:23Speaker 3: the in the in the vertical chat, but I.
- 2:08:26Speaker 2: Can should I should?
- 2:08:28Speaker 3: I want to cover a few things. Yeah, all right,
- 2:08:32Speaker 3: So I figured out where the Angela sites are likely from.
- 2:08:38Speaker 3: She didn't give anything. I don't know if she put
- 2:08:40Speaker 3: it in the low bar, but the ninety four percent
- 2:08:43Speaker 3: traces to it. Nineteen eighty nine Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court
- 2:08:46Speaker 3: gender bias study. I think I've actually gone through that,
- 2:08:51Speaker 3: and I've looked at it and the real sources, trust me, Bro,
- 2:08:58Speaker 3: Nobody can find the original study. So it was just
- 2:09:02Speaker 3: basically it's basically a WOOZL. And the study surveyed contested
- 2:09:06Speaker 3: custody cases in one state found fathers who actively pursued
- 2:09:10Speaker 3: custody through litigation succeeded at high rates small en single
- 2:09:14Speaker 3: state contested custody only self selected thirty seven years old,
- 2:09:19Speaker 3: widely circulated as a national contemporary rate. Yeah, I'm pretty
- 2:09:24Speaker 3: sure that this is a WOOZL. So when I tracked
- 2:09:27Speaker 3: this down, it ended up being the citation was like
- 2:09:31Speaker 3: a study that nobody could find and nobody could verify.
- 2:09:36Speaker 3: And then the seventy two percent, even with documented abuse,
- 2:09:39Speaker 3: traces to Joan Mere's twenty seven nineteen study founded by
- 2:09:43Speaker 3: the Department of Justice National Institute Justice, analyzing appleate appealate
- 2:09:49Speaker 3: cases where mother's alleged abuse and fathers raised paternal all
- 2:09:52Speaker 3: alienation defenses mayor found father's one custody and a majority
- 2:09:57Speaker 3: of such cases the population is appealate cases with alienation claims,
- 2:10:01Speaker 3: not general custody outcomes. Is it possible that the alienation
- 2:10:05Speaker 3: was so severe that the court had no choice right?
- 2:10:10Speaker 3: And what is the was it like men got primary
- 2:10:15Speaker 3: custody or did they just get shared custody? Asserted right?
- 2:10:22Speaker 3: Because the thing is that these are cases in which
- 2:10:24Speaker 3: an allegation of abuse is asserted and a man is
- 2:10:28Speaker 3: willing to fight it. Right, This is a self selecting
- 2:10:32Speaker 3: group of men, most likely with substantial amount of evidence
- 2:10:36Speaker 3: on their side. So to say that when a man
- 2:10:40Speaker 3: is falsely accused of some form of abuse and he
- 2:10:43Speaker 3: has substantial most likely has substantial evidence to the point
- 2:10:46Speaker 3: where you know, at seventy two percent of the time
- 2:10:49Speaker 3: the court sides with him. That is not the average
- 2:10:53Speaker 3: man and the average sense dealing with the family court.
- 2:11:04Speaker 3: All right, So anyway, I wanted to point that out
- 2:11:06Speaker 3: because she's completely misrepresenting custody.
- 2:11:11Speaker 1: And of course, of course, of course, yeah.
- 2:11:15Speaker 3: All right, let's uh, let's continue.
- 2:11:19Speaker 5: I am like Aladdin's dad, you know, and I think
- 2:11:24Speaker 5: I should not do that. That's back, And I think
- 2:11:26Speaker 5: this dissonance is you know why we need feminism. This
- 2:11:30Speaker 5: is this is the patriarchy. We should be equally upset
- 2:11:34Speaker 5: at any parent who fails to care for the child
- 2:11:38Speaker 5: they created, no matter what gender the parent is. Who.
- 2:11:43Speaker 3: Okay again, all right, so we're not comparing like to
- 2:11:48Speaker 3: like here, Hiccup's dad didn't kill Hiccup. Medea killed her sons. Yeah,
- 2:11:55Speaker 3: and you are again using Jason quote unquote abandoning media
- 2:11:58Speaker 3: to justify her killing your sons, saying that you're more
- 2:12:02Speaker 3: upset at Hiccup's mom for leaving. It's just not the
- 2:12:07Speaker 3: same thing, right. You'd have to actually look at a
- 2:12:11Speaker 3: case where you're watching some kind of a story in
- 2:12:17Speaker 3: which the woman leaves, the man kills the children, and
- 2:12:20Speaker 3: you watch that and you sink, oh, I can't believe
- 2:12:24Speaker 3: she left. It was totally justified. He killed the children
- 2:12:28Speaker 3: and her next boyfriend and her father in law, her
- 2:12:31Speaker 3: new father in law, that was totally justified. Are you
- 2:12:34Speaker 3: showing us that? Why don't you like? Angela is her name? Right?
- 2:12:38Speaker 3: Of course she's never going to see this, But Angela,
- 2:12:40Speaker 3: I want you to do a video in which you
- 2:12:42Speaker 3: say that you feel less condemnation for a man who
- 2:12:48Speaker 3: murders his kids because a woman leaves him, and not
- 2:12:52Speaker 3: just his kids, but the woman's new boyfriend and the
- 2:12:55Speaker 3: woman's new father in law. And you say that this story, yeah,
- 2:13:00Speaker 3: I feel less. I feel like he's more justified than
- 2:13:03Speaker 3: media was. You do that, You say that in public
- 2:13:09Speaker 3: that you feel a male family annihilator is justified by
- 2:13:12Speaker 3: a woman trying to leave him and that you feel
- 2:13:15Speaker 3: more sympathy for a male family annihilator say it in public,
- 2:13:19Speaker 3: compare like to like I want to see it, because
- 2:13:22Speaker 3: otherwise all you're doing is another softest maneuver, childish actually
- 2:13:27Speaker 3: not even sophist, childish maneuver of saying, well, this thing
- 2:13:32Speaker 3: is sort of like this thing, and I feel this
- 2:13:34Speaker 3: way about this thing, which justifies me feeling this way
- 2:13:37Speaker 3: like I feel. I feel I judge Hiccup's mother more
- 2:13:42Speaker 3: than I judge Jason. That's why it's okay for me
- 2:13:49Speaker 3: to justify Medea killing her kids because Jason left. Do
- 2:13:56Speaker 3: you see the logical maneuver here or the illogical maneuver here? Yeah, Okay,
- 2:14:02Speaker 3: let's finish it off. Sorry, Brian.
- 2:14:05Speaker 5: That's like feminism, huh, equal rights for equal left. I
- 2:14:08Speaker 5: can hit you then, if you're equal to me, I
- 2:14:10Speaker 5: can just hit you. And and that's like a huge
- 2:14:14Speaker 5: red flag that guy just wants to beat women. Stay
- 2:14:17Speaker 5: away from that guy. But also it's a crazy thing
- 2:14:19Speaker 5: to say, because no, you can't just hit me. You
- 2:14:23Speaker 5: can't just hit anyone. You can't just hit other men,
- 2:14:25Speaker 5: because you're both men, we are adults. We use our words. No,
- 2:14:29Speaker 5: you can't hit anyone in the media version of.
- 2:14:32Speaker 3: What the fuck is this ship? Because she's like literally
- 2:14:35Speaker 3: literally a woman kills two children, and she's talking about
- 2:14:40Speaker 3: some dude saying equal laps or equal rights and always
- 2:14:44Speaker 3: that's in the contact with a woman wailing on a man.
- 2:14:47Speaker 4: By the way, the only phrases used in self defense
- 2:14:53Speaker 4: repeatedly Okay, I'm just I'm just gonna end this because
- 2:14:56Speaker 4: I can. Yeah.
- 2:15:01Speaker 3: So she arguing that Medea killed her children in self defense.
- 2:15:04Speaker 3: Probably actually, that's probably exactly what she's arguing. Jason leaves her,
- 2:15:10Speaker 3: Jason uses, you know, practices his own bodily autonomy and
- 2:15:13Speaker 3: leaves Medea, and Medea is kills her kids in self defense.
- 2:15:17Speaker 3: That's probably the argument. Like she just straw manning after
- 2:15:22Speaker 3: straw manning, there's no such thing. Like she's arguing about
- 2:15:26Speaker 3: a fiction. In her own relational web. She has like
- 2:15:29Speaker 3: this idea of what men are that bear no existence
- 2:15:34Speaker 3: to actual reality right here, just distorted men say that
- 2:15:38Speaker 3: when they're being physically assaulted by women and they want
- 2:15:42Speaker 3: to stop it. I haven't seen it in any other context.
- 2:15:46Speaker 3: I don't see it with just a man walking up
- 2:15:48Speaker 3: to a woman and punching her in the face. I
- 2:15:52Speaker 3: don't think I've ever seen a man defend that, but
- 2:15:56Speaker 3: that's what she's arguing. Men defend.
- 2:16:00Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, okay, a little bit lefton was gonna abandon
- 2:16:06Speaker 5: his children, and that's not the correct response. I mean,
- 2:16:11Speaker 5: obviously it's not fair that men get to do this.
- 2:16:14Speaker 5: The response is not women should also get to do this.
- 2:16:17Speaker 5: The response is men should not abandon they do, we
- 2:16:20Speaker 5: as a society they do.
- 2:16:23Speaker 3: And also there's no set there's no indication that he's
- 2:16:26Speaker 3: going to abandon his children. Well, how did this become
- 2:16:29Speaker 3: abandoning his children? I thought it was about him abandoning medea.
- 2:16:32Speaker 3: And yes, women do. They walk away from relationships all
- 2:16:37Speaker 3: the time, and nobody justifies men killing the kids as
- 2:16:40Speaker 3: a result. But that's what you're doing. When a man says,
- 2:16:44Speaker 3: I'm done with this relationship that I didn't even consent
- 2:16:47Speaker 3: to in the first place. I'm going to marry somebody
- 2:16:50Speaker 3: else to try to get back on my life, back
- 2:16:52Speaker 3: on track. I'm not abandoning you or the kids. And
- 2:16:55Speaker 3: then she says, well that's not good enough, because I
- 2:16:57Speaker 3: don't get to have you. I'm gonna kill everybody. We
- 2:17:02Speaker 3: still have another two minutes. Brian it's going to take
- 2:17:04Speaker 3: longer than just a little.
- 2:17:06Speaker 1: I mean that there's not much left if you just
- 2:17:08Speaker 1: want to wrap it up, that's okay. I don't think
- 2:17:10Speaker 1: she's gonna say anything revolutionary in.
- 2:17:13Speaker 3: The well, she's not gonna say anything sensible.
- 2:17:16Speaker 4: But yeah, there is one sensible thing she could do
- 2:17:20Speaker 4: to end this. There is one viable ending. The last
- 2:17:25Speaker 4: few seconds is her saying, can you imagine if I
- 2:17:28Speaker 4: actually believed any of that law?
- 2:17:33Speaker 2: No, I don't think that's gonna happen.
- 2:17:39Speaker 5: Okay, disparaging, shameful remarks towards men who abandon their children
- 2:17:46Speaker 5: as women who abandon their children, No one should have
- 2:17:49Speaker 5: been in their kids. Actually, that's the lesson that I've learned.
- 2:17:52Speaker 5: How do we live in a society where men are
- 2:17:54Speaker 5: just allowed to abandon their children? Isn't that weird? Like
- 2:17:57Speaker 5: I'm sure everybody has like some random second cousin like
- 2:18:01Speaker 5: Uncle Jim who shows up to Christmas and someone's like, hey,
- 2:18:05Speaker 5: how are the kids, And he's like, oh, I haven't
- 2:18:06Speaker 5: seen them in like a year. Uh yeah, but like
- 2:18:09Speaker 5: he's still invited to Christmas. But if you had an
- 2:18:12Speaker 5: aunt Jamie who showed up to Christmas?
- 2:18:15Speaker 1: Okay, this isn't going nowhere, Just just like, okay, this
- 2:18:18Speaker 1: is bullshit, Like no one says it's okay for men
- 2:18:22Speaker 1: to abandon their kids. In fact, if anything, the opposite
- 2:18:26Speaker 1: is true, like women can throw their babies in a
- 2:18:29Speaker 1: dumpster and you know, because they don't want to have
- 2:18:32Speaker 1: them on prom night or whatever. So no, no, this
- 2:18:37Speaker 1: is just a way. Yeah, there's not gonna be any charges. Like,
- 2:18:40Speaker 1: you know, women have essentially committed genocidal levels if you
- 2:18:45Speaker 1: consider abortion to be murder.
- 2:18:48Speaker 2: Guess guess what.
- 2:18:49Speaker 1: Yeah, women win, Like they've killed more babies than all
- 2:18:53Speaker 1: wars combined since we've been recording it.
- 2:18:56Speaker 2: So this is like a meaningless exercise and there's no comparison.
- 2:19:03Speaker 1: So I gotta I gotta go pick up lindsay, So,
- 2:19:07Speaker 1: can you like we do the thing?
- 2:19:09Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, let's just let's just get this done, all right, guys,
- 2:19:13Speaker 3: So if you want to send something after the show
- 2:19:15Speaker 3: is over. I know this is a bit abrupt, but
- 2:19:18Speaker 3: I don't think we're going to get anything more out
- 2:19:20Speaker 3: of this. She's just repeating herself. She's just using the
- 2:19:23Speaker 3: worst kind of logic to excuse an appalling position, which
- 2:19:28Speaker 3: is that women, apparently if men leave them should be
- 2:19:33Speaker 3: lionized for killing their kids adult like kids in who
- 2:19:38Speaker 3: are like probably ten and twelve, you know. And that's
- 2:19:41Speaker 3: posts apartum psychosis somehow as well, even though postpartum psychosis
- 2:19:45Speaker 3: is over in about a year. And anyway, this is
- 2:19:48Speaker 3: her position, and she's just using a lot of random
- 2:19:54Speaker 3: anecdotes to justify it. And of course if a man
- 2:19:57Speaker 3: said anything like this, what would happen to him? Let's see,
- 2:20:02Speaker 3: let me let me just go back and read it
- 2:20:04Speaker 3: out again. If a man said anything like this, I,
- 2:20:13Speaker 3: it would be treated as an ISIS level recruitment, recruitment
- 2:20:17Speaker 3: rejacent artifact honor, a killing apologia. The video would be
- 2:20:21Speaker 3: pulled from YouTube and under incitement policies the creator docs
- 2:20:24Speaker 3: within twenty forty eight hours. Employer contacted criminal referral disgust.
- 2:20:28Speaker 3: Every women's organization would issue statements. News coverage would treat
- 2:20:32Speaker 3: the man as evidence of a broader male violence problem,
- 2:20:34Speaker 3: requiring policy response. No academic would defend the reading, no
- 2:20:38Speaker 3: publisher would touch him, and probably we would be in
- 2:20:42Speaker 3: six months. See a UK documentary on the man who
- 2:20:47Speaker 3: justified a male family annihilator because a woman tried to
- 2:20:51Speaker 3: leave him. All right, that would be the new in
- 2:20:54Speaker 3: cell talking point. But that's not what's happening here because
- 2:20:57Speaker 3: it's a woman citing feminism. So we're all we want
- 2:21:00Speaker 3: to celebrate the family annihilator because she has a vagina.
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