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75: energetic partnership · Soul Salon with Ayandastood

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  Hello Divine Soul. Let's talk about energetic partnership. I want to just tell you about this idea
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  that actually came to me when I was writing a newsletter. It was channeled through me,
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  spirit, source, the infinite, said, here you go, do with it what you may, and when I don't do
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  something, the universe is like, girl, you're here to amplify these ideas. We just keep giving you
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  idea, idea, idea. And so that's also why if you listen to the Soul Station choose connection
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  over perfection, or my word also babes. Can we just talk about the fact that I have a mic
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  stand? I have a mic stand now not to be consumerist or anything because we are not what we consume
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  and your craft is not about the tools that you use in the pursuit of it, although of course
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  the tools you use in your craft will affect the craft. So if you write an essay and you handwrite
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  it, that's going to create a different experience than if you type it. If you voice note an essay to
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  yourself and you are more inclined to the voice to the throat chakra is very open, then the essay
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  you channel through, the writing you channel through will be different than if you started writing
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  it. So we are always co-creating with all of life. We are co-creating with the universe,
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  we're co-creating with our younger selves, our older selves, we're co-creating with our families,
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  our lineages, we're co-creating with society and culture, we're co-creating with the craft and
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  the rules that were given to us by the craft subconsciously or consciously. We are co-creating with
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  ideas themselves, like the idea came from, where did it come from? If not the infinite. So we're
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  always co-creating with all of life and I'm going to remember exactly what I was going to say next
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  because spirit never lets me forget for too long what I need to remember. Oh yes, so we are not
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  what we consume. Also we're always co-creating with our tools and something that I like to co-create
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  with as a speaker on my hands. Like my hands are part of the vibe, like it's been studied,
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  it's been known, it's been shown. But also intuitively we all know what it is to be captivated by
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  someone who is speaking with through and with their hands. It's a very pleasurable experience.
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  And so this mic stand represents to me this ability to just talk with my hands while also having
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  enough space to truly use my hands because if I'm sitting at a desk I have a shorter mic stand
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  that came with the microphone but I feel more constrained. Right now I'm feeling very free
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  and you're going to feel that vibration. Now let me just say this. That is what we're talking about
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  in today's sole session. We are talking about energetic partnership babes and if you are trying
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  to shift timelines, if you are between timelines, if you're trying to core in a reality that you're
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  not yet fully experiencing but has been whispering to you babes at this point it's been screaming.
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  You've gotten these sole whispers of your sole purpose coming to fruition or your sole friendship.
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  Like how you want to relate and who you want to relate to. You've been receiving the signs,
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  you've been doing the work, you've been shifting vibrations, right? Something that in that path
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  is going to support you so much is this notion of energetic partnership. We have really been miseducated
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  about relationship. There is an Indian philosopher Jay Krishna Murthy who wrote and I'll never forget
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  I was standing in a bookstore and I opened this book and in it he said relationship is life.
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  All of life is relationship and if you really sit with that thought, you will feel it's truth pulsating
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  through you. It's also what I feel like Titnan Han has said around like okay so in the piece of paper
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  is all of the universe is the water is the tree is the humans who created that paper is their ancestors
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  and their ancestors all of life is the beginning of life is the beginning of the universe like everything
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  is in everything everything is one life is relationship and that relates to what we were just saying
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  about all creation is co-creation we are co-creating at all times so with life as relationship
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  something that I want to tell you and spread please don't let me forget just give me the invitation
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  to remember okay yes so we are relating at any given moment to all of life but of course we are
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  mostly doing that subconsciously and in our relationships with life we have been undereducated as to
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  how abundant the relationships with life we get to have really are we haven't even really been
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  taught that we're in relationship with this energy called life itself so what we can do and this
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  is how the infinite has chosen to channel this message through me what we can do is use our
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  understanding of romantic relationships which we have been conditioned to understand and to
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  analyze again within a limited imagination what the infinite has said to me is that if we use
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  this relational understanding of romantic relationships and we apply that to energetic relationships
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  something fruitful is going to be born listen to this so you know how in romantic relationships
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  we're all working on self-love and elevating our self-worth so that we attract someone who can
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  love us in our power right we're not having to minimize ourselves we're not having to
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  silence the parts of us that we've been told are too much or unlovable we're really meeting someone
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  in our fullest expression and also we're meeting someone who allows us to blossom into even more of
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  what we are and what we are seeking to be so if we love learning we're trying to like blossom into
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  that fullest expression by being with someone who we find really like deeply fascinating and we
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  learn so much from whatever that means so we know that there's the saying in romantic love that
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  says you accept the love you think you deserve so if you think you deserve a partner who's always
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  deceiving you or neglecting you because of childhood conditioning and trauma we will try to replicate
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  the patterns that we are most familiar with okay so if we are used to a parent who did not meet our
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  emotional needs or who was unkind to us we will seek to subconsciously recreate that dynamic because
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  it feels familiar and safe so I'm sure you've heard of this now what I also want to say is this
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  happens at an energetic level as well if you are used to feeling tension you will seek out the
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  places that allow you to refine that familiar energy of tension if you are used to feeling
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  lack or constriction you will seek out experiences that recreate or reproduce that energetic
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  experience of lack or of constriction and so what I think is really fascinating is that if we've
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  become so energetically partnered with a certain frequency then we're so familiar with it that we
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  don't even see the other possibilities the other energies that are actually inviting us to partner
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  let me give you an example of myself so I used to work in the corporate world and when I had
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  like presentations and things like that I would get so stressed and it would feel very tense to
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  me it would feel like I was being judged that was in a very white environment I felt like I had no
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  room to make mistakes as a black woman but then I also felt like just a sense of not fitting in and
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  not even wanting to be there right not wanting to work in that system so that was my experience and
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  then when I started working for myself I assumed that was gone that was over but then when I created
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  my own experiences what I found within my body was I was so used to experiencing meetings or
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  gatherings with this idea that they are tense they are stressful that I was bringing that same
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  internal experience of stress and tension to to the preparation of these meetings I was trying to
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  get everything perfect I was over preparing I was spending so long like stressing that it wouldn't
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  go well and I was like I feel like I'm exactly in the same job that I was before and yet everything
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  externally has shifted so it reminded me that I'm so used to energetically partnering with it has
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  to be hard it has to be hard to make money it has to you have to work hard you have to push you have
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  to like accomplish something really great that I was carrying that frequency and vibration so what
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  I needed to then invite was pleasure and play and even with videos you know sometimes I feel like
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  after I make the video then I get to feel relieved and after mind myself at all moments of time
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  pleasure is trying to find me at all moments of time play is trying to find me so at all moments of
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  time the frequencies you are calling in are always seeking to partner with you so if you are calling
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  in a life where you just feel spaciousness know that in this moment space is trying to collaborate
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  with you space is trying to partner with you the silence which is a womb through which some of
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  our most profound creative emergence can take place the silence is always trying to partner with you
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  at any given moment you can tap into any vibration of your choosing
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  you can speak from the leaves you can speak from the roots
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  and so if you're trying to experience more play more sensuality more pleasure
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  please know that it is trying to experience you and we have all had the feeling of seeking someone's
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  presence who wasn't offering it to us we sit across from someone and we're so excited to tell
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  them something about our day or about something we learned or read recently and we're expecting or
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  hoping them to ask us certain questions that demonstrate that they're fully engaged that they
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  want to know us they want to witness our full self and then what happens something that we say
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  is ignored or dismissed sometimes or they're distracted their phone is on the table representing
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  the sense of I'm available to be interrupted and we all feel these moments of disconnection that
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  can happen when we don't feel fully attended to and since life is relationship all of life is
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  relationship and since what we were saying earlier that we are in a relationship with life what if
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  life feels just the same what if life is trying to offer itself to you at any given moment offer
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  itself through you and instead of looking at life and being present with it being present with
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  what is seeking to emerge being present with the birth and death the inhale and exhale of every
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  single moment we are distractedly looking away we are saying life should be something else
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  it shouldn't be this way I shouldn't feel this way you shouldn't have reacted this way
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  and with the law of correspondence as within so without as above so below by radically accepting
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  this life energy we will more easily tap into radical acceptance of ourselves
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  so when we've been accustomed to a certain frequency and we've been rewarded for that frequency
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  it can be really challenging to feel worthy of even trying another one
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  and these energies will send you signs that they are trying to court you to woo you to invite
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  you into their field you'll get an invitation and you might think it's about the activity
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  but what if it is about the energy that that activity would give you access to
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  so for example I kept getting invitations from the universe signs people mentioning it on podcasts
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  about improv improvisational theater and I kept getting these pings from the universe
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  and I tried improv and I'm absolutely loving it it's like changing my world
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  and do we think it is only about improv or is it about we want her to play
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  we want her to play and recently I was doing this journaling exercise
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  and it was about making up a story and usually I would not do that because I don't give myself
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  a lot of room to be in the world of fiction even though I enjoy receiving fiction I have deep
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  admiration and affection and awe and wonder at fiction I don't allow myself a lot of space to create it
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  and so that invitation and that journal exercise was again the universe saying
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  we want her to play
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  these energies are sending you invitations it might come through a person who comes into your field
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  it might come through an event you get invited to and for some reason maybe the old
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  you or a previous version of your timeline would have thought why would I go to an event like that
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  and now suddenly there's an openness there's a receptivity to it
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  I feel like a big energy that had been inviting me was this energy of self acceptance
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  and the biggest manifestation that it came through the biggest emergence that happened on myself
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  acceptance journey was when I got the pings I got the calls that I needed to stop drinking alcohol
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  and what that was about was that I often drank in the moments where I couldn't accept myself
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  as I was so if I felt awkward at a party or I felt like people may judge the way that I don't
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  so move or occupy space or judge my awkwardness or judge who I am oh let's go to the bar let's get
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  another drink and then as I was going through the spiritual awakening I couldn't look away from
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  the fact that I was essentially trying to drown out myself I couldn't accept myself then the book
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  radical acceptance also came into my field I don't know if it was before or after but around
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  that time and I thought wow what an alchemical idea to accept ourselves to not always be thinking
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  that there's something wrong with what we're experiencing for example if you're in conversation
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  with someone and something is awkward there's a desire to reject that right like oh gosh it was so
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  awkward but in this there is all of life so I now just surrendered to the feeling it's awkward
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  awkward isn't it so funny that we get to feel all these shades of experience and sometimes now
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  when I'm out it's not like I no longer ever feel awkward or self-conscious it's that I'm able to
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  ride the wave of the emotion and trust it's here and impermanently it will pass and this has
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  happened to me so many times where I'm out do I feel a certain way and I know how I would have
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  responded before just have a drink in your hand and like nervously drink it and I totally hold
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  so much love for this and I still exhibit behaviors like this in other areas of my life where you have
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  a habit that you lean on to escape so I'm able to radically accept the unfolding and that was an
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  energy that said hey I'm available to you like babes energetically every single shade of experience
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  is available to you authentically not faking until you make it truly tapping in and saying what
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  has the universe invited me to feel in the last 24 hours in the last week and where do I love being
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  invited to what are the frequencies you notice like oh when I feel that I'm in heaven
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  for me when I feel the sense of soulfulness the sense of sensitivity and safety with someone
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  when I feel a sense of deep kindness from someone like kindness of spirit that's very rare
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  you know a moment where someone is so kind and so gracious so it's often grace
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  so what frequencies do you feel truly at home within
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  what frequencies do you notice you just gravitate to but you can actually invite yourself to make
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  a different choice and we saw that evolving in this sole session as a content creator I started
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  on TikTok and TikTok the energy of TikTok for me the energy that I felt my TikTok journey was
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  channeled through was a very quick and intense energy because you only have 30 to 60 seconds so
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  you're trying to like really give you all and in that more energy of so one thing I was thinking
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  about you know like it's a very intense energy and I can speak from that place I can
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  but what I'm inviting myself to see is that I can make other choices
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  I can collaborate with slowness
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  I can change the world with a pause
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  I can tap into self love I can tap into self forgiveness
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  and a moment or challenge that arises my soul could have chosen that very challenge because of
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  the energy that I might get to experience through it so today this morning I was feeling really
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  mad at myself for something for something that I avoided doing and then the consequences of that
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  avoidance emerged as they tend to and I was feeling like oh could you have done this like I was
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  seeing all the worlds in which I didn't do it that way and I made a different choice
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  and then I realized that I was being invited into self forgiveness
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  this is a portal not to you staying in this place where you feel like you should have done
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  different or otherwise but a portal to forgiving yourself a portal to accepting yourself a portal to
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  accepting that the past is the past and anything can change in a moment's time
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  and sometimes the people that we attract into our field are also energetic invitations
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  my best friends I feel like all give me a frequency that the universe was trying to unlock within me
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  like I know the universe really my soul has come here to listen
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  and my soul has come here to be heard and it's a beautiful dance that happens
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  and I've been gifted these soul friends and soul family who I love listening to
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  so fascinated by their tiniest thoughts and feelings and who I feel truly hear me and that is my
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  definition of a dream friendship that's part of my definition so my darlings my loves my angels we
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  can become so habituated to thinking life has to feel a certain way and when this happens or when
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  that happens I will get to feel these other ways so for me something that I've always wanted to
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  grow this project into is in person interviews and when I see people who have interview based
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  podcasts I have this feeling of like wow imagine how that feels and then as we know as we're studying
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  what manifestation is and can be that we can understand how what we're calling in would
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  feel how we think it will feel and we can invite more of that energy in right now so if it feels
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  like it would feel so expansive I would feel so in awe I would feel so delighted so present
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  then how can I bring those frequencies into my current experience and I even think this microphone
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  stand has that same frequency you know of the desire and so what are you putting a distance between
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  you and the worthiness to feel we've been conditioned so you might think if I went to graduate school
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  if I got a PhD if I did my honors if I did my masters and I love all those things babes I love
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  all those things if you love them and also then I would feel successful then I would feel so smart
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  then I would feel worthy of speaking on this topic and what that means is we're approaching this
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  next step from a place of lack I'm not enough what I know is not enough who I am is not enough but
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  when I'm in a studio when I have that degree when I win that award when I've written this many songs
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  then I'll be worthy of this step that I feel cool to take or this title so it's not to say we shouldn't
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  pursue those things we're pursuing but can we pursue them from a place of abundance this is what
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  something that I've been really working on with this podcast is I don't want to start that next
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  chapter of the podcast from a place of lack I'm not enough speaking on my own so therefore I need to
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  go interview people in a beautiful place and then it will be enough then I can be proud of myself
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  I want to be proud of myself right now and I want you to be proud of yourself right now
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  so yes you may want to go and do those things but can you approach these things you are calling in
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  not from a place of lack like yes we can dream of performing on a stage as a dancer but that doesn't
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  make us less worthy dancers as we are right now we can dream of interviewing this incredible guest
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  right but what about the space that you held last week at a coffee with someone was that not just so
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  profound so abundant so juicy what about all the ripple effects of just that because when you
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  embody the craft you're always embodying it so maybe that was the whole point and the dream is
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  just here to invite you to nourish and to accept and claim that within yourself so babes all the
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  energies are available to you what is the energy that you want to invite yourself to create
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  a relationship with like you want to date this energy I want to feel what it's like to not
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  dread creating videos but actually look forward to it I want to feel what it's like to accept myself
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  I want to feel what it's like to feel like I'm already living my dream life that's something
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  my best friend Alex is I'm already living my dream life and even just saying that
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  our particular activating system that looks for evidence of what we already believe just affirming
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  those things will help create them in our realities so the energy that I am seeking to experience
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  is just play levity lightness fun like I want to be giving from my heart and soul but in a way
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  that feels really giving to me as well because so often we've been conditioned to believe that our
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  giving is supposed to feel like martyrdom we're supposed to feel like we're suffering artists we're
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  suffering creators and then when it's done it's like I worked so hard you know that is glorified in
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  this paradigm so ease slowness spaciousness
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  wonder all what frequency would you like to cultivate most in this next chapter and what is
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  source the universe spirit showing you that it's trying to invite you into experiencing
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  what are the signs you are receiving about energies maybe you notice something in your algorithm
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  maybe you notice something in your field of awareness and you're like wow I'm being invited
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  into that frequency of trust that is something on my word I have such a gift for you my
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  darlings my loves my angels you're gonna love this so something that I have really been playing
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  as an energy that I'm trying to invite and make feel really at home with me it's like when you
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  have a baby or when you date someone you create space whether that's physical emotional for them
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  to be received when people are going to have a child they have to change things in their home
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  to make it safe for a child to live within so what space are we being invited to shift or clear
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  so that that energy feels really at home with us really safe with us like it's not going to stumble
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  over some dangerous object because we've done what we needed to do to clear that space and so
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  something that I've really been trying to feel like is welcome in my life is trust this energy
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  of trust because so often we're not trusting the unfolding it should have been this way even this
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  morning when I was like how could I I wasn't trusting I was like oh my word babes you're being
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  invited to self forgiveness and also what if you're being invited into trust trusting this unfolding
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  trusting everything is happening exactly as it was meant to so there's a song by beautiful
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  chorus who I love I adore beautiful chorus they've changed my life they've changed my understanding
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  of what singing is what music is like what frequency we can receive through music and also we've
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  all listened to very sexist songs we've listened to very demeaning songs in our subconscious mind
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  since we were so young internalizing these messages also of consumerism and of sexism so
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  what I love about their music is your nervous system is just so safe with them you will leave
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  nourished you will leave feeling more full you will leave with beliefs that are expansive and that's
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  also why in the soulful visibility guide I have a playlist with soulful frequencies heavily
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  featuring beautiful chorus so I absolutely love they are a musical choir group and I just I
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  love them they've changed my world so what I want to give to you to close off this sole session
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  is the song trusting the process by beautiful chorus I've been listening to it unrepeat and it's
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  been really inviting me into the energetic frequency of trust which so many of us have been alienated
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  from we don't trust and I love this feeling of surrender it makes me feel like I'm in the hands of
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  the divine of love of just a higher power unfolding for me and through me and whenever we're trying
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  to call something in and we feel like it's not happening fast enough or the way it was supposed to
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  I just think this song can be so nourishing and helpful to you as you take your next step whatever
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  that may be as you are in this moment of this step and as you invite different energetic partners
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  so who are you breaking up with who are you starting to relate to what does this energy
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  ask of you to really feel like this was a great first date second date third date
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  and know that we get to just play and energies are a way of like you know how color brings more
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  life to life you know having lots of colors and reds and greens and purples and yellows brings
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  more color to life when we really see just how broad of a spectrum energies are and we try to see
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  vibrationally what energies could I collaborate with in this life love is the most powerful energy
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  and we can always tap into a sense of love how I do that is ask myself what would love do next
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  what would the version of me who loves herself do next what would courage do next
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  what would self forgiveness be next do next give next receive next
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  so what are the frequencies you're just feeling really cold to what are frequencies you might
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  feel cold to let go of and what are the signs you're receiving towards or away from certain energies
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  actually let's focus on towards I love you so much my darlings my loves my angels I hope this serves
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  your deepest consciousness it's been such a gift to be with you thank you to this microphone
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  stand it is making me feel some things and I just have to admit that so I'm so grateful to you you are
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  divine you are precious you are sacred and I'm so grateful that we have found each other something
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  I'm so conscious of is what energy I am bringing and yet also trusting the unfolding like
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  trusting that this entire soul session unfolded exactly as I was supposed to when we're understanding
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  ourselves can we do that without judgment that's what I loved about radical acceptance it's like
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  instead of saying I said the most embarrassing thing yesterday oh how dare I and I'm so you're
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  just like I felt so embarrassed last night when I said you just let that be you felt embarrassed you
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  claim the experience you just let it be you accepted as it is and what she says which we don't
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  have time to get into in this association but that acceptance is actually how we then shift how
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  we change so we're not saying the whole world is fine there's just accept everything of course
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  not there is deep trauma happening on every scale of society and also what she says is only by
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  acknowledging and accepting that can we then shift and change it so that's a whole other topic
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  but I think that is important to say that we're not just saying accept everything as it is and it's
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  all fine we're saying that acceptance unlocks the possibility of whatever's supposed to unfold next
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  and be freed next and be experienced next I love you so so much my darlings I will see you on
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  the next soul session you are divine you are precious you are sacred and I love you so much this
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  such a gift to be with you if you haven't already the soulful visibility guide is available to you
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  and through you and I hope the frequency and the wisdom that it offers is something that you've
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  been calling in or that's been calling you in I'm sending you so so so much love and I will see you
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  on the next soul session I love you bye my darling my love my soul sibling thank you for stepping
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  into the soul salon if you are still hearing or watching this we are soul siblings we are
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  resonating on the same frequency and so something you may struggle with that I struggle with
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  is the fear of being seen you know that visibility is involved in you living your creative
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  purpose and being in your power serving the collective through your gifts through your magic through
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  your medicine in order to do that you know you need to be more seen than you are allowing yourself
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  to be right now I have a gift just for you heart made for us on this frequency and it is a free
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  ebook called the soulful visibility guide that is soulful visibility like we don't just want to be
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  seen we want to be felt we want to be heard we want to move and be moved so I do have a free gift
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  for you and all you need to do is go to my website iunderstood.com and there you will be able to
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  input your email address and receive this directly to your inbox this is such a juicy and delicious
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  guide and I change the free offering every few months so you know get it while you can all the
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  links are in the show notes so thank you so much I love you and I will see you on the next sole session
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  okay I love you bye