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Rest, Rejuvenate, Recharge · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeart
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  Speaker 1: radio podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Did it start? I can't don't make your.
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  Speaker 3: Phone, you know, everybody we are scrubbing in grub I
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  Speaker 3: took my headphones out on the plane to like watch
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  Speaker 3: a movie, you know, because they have the original jack.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, what do they call it? A quarter inch? Eighth in?
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  Speaker 4: Eight inch?
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  Speaker 2: I got the eight inch, but I left in my
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  Speaker 2: travel tote.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm I'm about found raw dogging.
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  Speaker 4: We have.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, he's free.
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  Speaker 5: It does.
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  Speaker 6: It's exciting to be in solidarity.
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  Speaker 2: It's up to you.
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  Speaker 7: Go ahead and the east and I can whisper about
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  Speaker 7: both of you. You know, have no idea what we're saying.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, we're in the same room.
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  Speaker 4: Hear this.
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  Speaker 6: Maybe I'll just keep on. And so you do have
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  Speaker 6: a mask on?
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  Speaker 2: Why do you have a mask on?
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  Speaker 7: Because Tany is very sensitive right now and we spend
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  Speaker 7: a lot of time in the studio together. Yesterday I
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  Speaker 7: had a bit of a runny nose, stuffy, this little
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  Speaker 7: stuffy I came to work.
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  Speaker 4: You know, it was no big deal.
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  Speaker 7: She took very much offense at that and it was
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  Speaker 7: kind of freaking out as well as Michael and some
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  Speaker 7: other members of the staff, so.
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  Speaker 6: There was multiples. It wasn't Mark likes to do this.
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  Speaker 4: It was mostly it was mostly time.
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  Speaker 6: No, no, we just sit closest.
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  Speaker 4: That's true.
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  Speaker 7: So today I brought a mask so that nobody has
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  Speaker 7: to freak out by just being near me, because it
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  Speaker 7: got a lot of that yesterday.
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  Speaker 4: No, no, don't come near me.
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  Speaker 1: To be fair, it was Ryan, no, no, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't even notice it until Ryan said something and
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  Speaker 1: then I started seeing the cough drops going in his mouth,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, I had a.
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  Speaker 4: Little cough too. I got it from my daughter.
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  Speaker 8: Anyway, the thermometer sticking out of his mouth.
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  Speaker 7: I'm wearing a mask today out of respect for my
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  Speaker 7: co workers. But I feel great. I'm not sick.
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  Speaker 4: I'm fine.
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  Speaker 6: It's very mindful, very trying to.
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  Speaker 4: Be demure and mindful, very demure.
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  Speaker 2: I'm over that already, by the way.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, moving on, not your sickness that from day I know.
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  Speaker 3: It happened so fast and every caption had it, and
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  Speaker 3: I was like, okay.
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  Speaker 6: I don't want to be mindful, yeah demure.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I can just be. Don't need to tell
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  Speaker 3: anyone about it. Let people see it actions.
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  Speaker 7: It's demure mindful, Like I feel like that's not quite
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  Speaker 7: the definition of demure. It's cutesie, it's it's it's reserved,
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  Speaker 7: it's modest, it's shy.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, mindful.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I'm very happy for the creator who like, what
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  Speaker 3: a life changing words.
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  Speaker 6: YEAHR very happy for.
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  Speaker 4: Me, Brad. Summer is over. We need to be in there,
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  Speaker 4: demure fault.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but well I saw a lot of people like
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  Speaker 3: I'm I'm trying to be brat summer. But now y'all
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  Speaker 3: switch to mindful DEMURR.
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  Speaker 2: Can I just ha, you.
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  Speaker 6: Can't keep up, You really can't.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta be on your toes in the pop culture industry.
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  Speaker 3: You can never stop scrolling or else you will miss out.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah on the newest thing in two seconds.
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  Speaker 3: Which leads me to get into why we're doing a
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  Speaker 3: podcast on a Tuesday and not a Monday. And that's
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  Speaker 3: because the Love Island reunion was last.
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  Speaker 2: Night, which was Monday.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe Love.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so happy I don't have my headphones on.
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  Speaker 3: It was good enough, just like this, and so you know,
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  Speaker 3: I was like, Tanya, I know you've just been waiting
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  Speaker 3: for this and crazy that we do a full week
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  Speaker 3: of podcasts Monday and Thursday episode and we can't discuss
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  Speaker 3: the reunion.
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  Speaker 2: This is a special edition Tuesday episode.
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  Speaker 6: I was surprised that that was your idea.
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  Speaker 2: Can I be honest?
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  Speaker 3: I did not feel like on the podcast yesterday and
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  Speaker 3: I felt how can I get this Tuesday?
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  Speaker 6: Wow?
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  Speaker 2: And I knew what my ticket was.
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  Speaker 6: You know what's so funny that you say that?
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  Speaker 1: Because so Becca brings it up? Should we do the
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  Speaker 1: podcast tomorrow because of the Love islandaion? And I'm like yeah,
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  Speaker 1: great and then say I'm later on like six hours later,
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  Speaker 1: asks are you guys both going to watch the reunion back?
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  Speaker 3: It's like, ah my, like I might tonight like live
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  Speaker 3: id I was gonna watch it.
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  Speaker 6: Because I was like, wait, I'm so confused by.
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  Speaker 3: The sacrifice was okay, you can stay home on this Monday,
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  Speaker 3: but you are going to have to watch the Love
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  Speaker 3: Island reunion if this.
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  Speaker 6: Is where you come in on Tuesday.
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  Speaker 3: I had to make some sacrifices here and there, but
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  Speaker 3: all got accomplished.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and Easton's here. You weren't going to be here yet.
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  Speaker 9: I was not here yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: I just wanted the gang back together.
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  Speaker 6: You know, it felt right.
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  Speaker 2: It felt right.
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  Speaker 6: It feels good.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I wasn't my gut. So we will get into that.
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  Speaker 6: But a little bit, a little bit later, because you
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  Speaker 6: just came back from a trip.
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  Speaker 2: Haley and I went to Hawaii. This is my favorite place.
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  Speaker 5: I really like.
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  Speaker 6: I've gone to some married in Hawaii.
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  Speaker 2: I love to get married in Hawaii to be an option.
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  Speaker 2: I just love it.
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  Speaker 3: Like every time I go on vacation, there's always that
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  Speaker 3: feeling of like, oh, I'm excited to be Like I
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  Speaker 3: can kind of trick myself into being excited to be
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  Speaker 3: home and in bed, but when I'm in Hawaii, I
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  Speaker 3: don't want to leave.
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  Speaker 6: That's so nice.
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  Speaker 2: I know, I love it. It's just the people.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, very.
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  Speaker 2: Chill girl, slow island time.
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  Speaker 6: Have you only you surfed it?
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  Speaker 3: Like we At one point there was so the resort
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  Speaker 3: we stayed at there was this like a floating mat
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  Speaker 3: out in the no like it was a it looks
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  Speaker 3: like a mattress.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was quite large.
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  Speaker 3: And so the sun had basically set like it wasn't
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  Speaker 3: like right outside, but it had that like orange strip
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  Speaker 3: in the sky. And Haley was like, let's go just
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  Speaker 3: swim and watch the rest of the sunset. On the
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  Speaker 3: mat and I was like, it's dark, Like I'm gonna
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  Speaker 3: have to get in the water.
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  Speaker 2: That's my biggest fear. So I got out to the.
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  Speaker 3: Mat and then I was like okay, like I could
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  Speaker 3: still kind of see a little bit. And then we
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  Speaker 3: when we went to get off the mat, my I
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  Speaker 3: literally was like, I'm about to be Joss.
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  Speaker 2: It's gonna be Joss. I could hear the music.
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  Speaker 3: Hailey's like it by the way, that far yeah, and
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  Speaker 3: it's shallow, like your waist is deep.
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  Speaker 6: Basically, oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 3: That can happen, by the way, And Haley's trying to
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  Speaker 3: talk to me, and she's like laughing because I'm genuinely scared.
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  Speaker 2: But she's like I'm right here, and I'm like, that
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  Speaker 2: doesn't matter what it comes from this direction. She and
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  Speaker 2: so her one of her favorite memories recapping the trip
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  Speaker 2: was watching the sunset on the mat and I'm like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I don't have that.
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  Speaker 3: I don't have that memory. But it was so nice.
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  Speaker 3: We had such a relaxing time. I was barely on
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  Speaker 3: my phone, just was on it when I wanted to
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  Speaker 3: be on it.
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  Speaker 2: It was just I feel.
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  Speaker 6: Really appreciated that.
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  Speaker 2: Really I did it meant it made me feel so
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  Speaker 2: seen and loved.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that makes me emotional because I was
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  Speaker 1: actually mindful.
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  Speaker 2: You were very mindful.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't at it, very very demure about it, no,
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  Speaker 1: because the only time I feel like I bothered you
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  Speaker 1: was to send some like wedding dress.
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  Speaker 2: But didn't bother me at all. But that's like really,
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  Speaker 2: I was like, and that was important. That was like
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  Speaker 2: there was purpose with that.
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  Speaker 6: It was purpose.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, which, Wow, it's stunning Tanye is going
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  Speaker 3: to be in I mean, we knew she's gonna be
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  Speaker 3: a beautiful bride, but singer in a wedding dress.
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  Speaker 2: Two wedding dresses?
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  Speaker 6: Wow, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: You might need to get both of those.
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  Speaker 6: We'll get into that. Okay, we'll get into that.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, we had a really, really wonderful trip. It
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  Speaker 3: was so funny because I do have a theory about
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  Speaker 3: like traveling when you have a traveling just with another person,
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  Speaker 3: whether it's a significant other or like a friend, where
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  Speaker 3: there's a person who plans and a person who is
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  Speaker 3: just there to chill and go along with the plan. Right,
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  Speaker 3: Hayley's the planner. Obviously I am chiller and go along
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  Speaker 3: with the plan. But I was thinking about you and Robbie.
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  Speaker 6: It's interesting you wouldn't suspect, but what do you guess?
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  Speaker 2: I find you both to be equally planners.
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  Speaker 6: But you've been on vacation with me, and what do
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  Speaker 6: I like to do?
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  Speaker 5: Chill?
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  Speaker 3: I think that's shocking to everybody, that is because the
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  Speaker 3: control thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you let go.
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  Speaker 6: So uh.
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  Speaker 1: It's like more of a little dance that we do
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  Speaker 1: when we go on vacation because he likes to plan.
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  Speaker 1: He likes to have the things and the adventures, the adventures,
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  Speaker 1: and I like to. I'm like, I want to. I
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  Speaker 1: want to have time to just like chill. So it
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  Speaker 1: depends on where the vacation is. But I feel like
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  Speaker 1: he does all the planning and then all say I
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  Speaker 1: need a day here, or like this is too much
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  Speaker 1: in one day.
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  Speaker 2: So I kind of like manage the plan.
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  Speaker 6: I groom the plan.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So if you and I went on a trip.
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  Speaker 6: You we would do nothing.
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  Speaker 2: Who I would love that.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like you'd be trying to like make me
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  Speaker 3: get up and work out and stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well that's in there, okay. But I can
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  Speaker 1: also work out on my own, like I can swim
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  Speaker 1: in the ocean. That to me is a workout. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: so you can lay and do nothing and I'll go
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  Speaker 1: swim in the ocean.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Haley would be like, all right, I'm really hot
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  Speaker 3: and I'm like all.
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  Speaker 2: Right, go get in the water. And she's like, but
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  Speaker 2: it's so much.
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  Speaker 6: Oh no, that would stress me out.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, we had a lot. It was. It was
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  Speaker 2: just like the perfect vacation.
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  Speaker 3: Although you know, we got into the only arguments that
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  Speaker 3: got into was her trying to take photos for me,
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  Speaker 3: which they're bad.
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  Speaker 6: They're bad.
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  Speaker 3: It's not her, it's not the photographer, it's me. It's like,
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  Speaker 3: I don't like the way I look, But there's nothing
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  Speaker 3: that Like if I'm taking a photo in a bikini,
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  Speaker 3: there's no, there's not really anything that can change that.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, there is.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, like an angle.
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  Speaker 1: Do you remember the contortions you used to do for
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  Speaker 1: me when I was posting up my thirst track to
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  Speaker 1: Forget the Wai Trip.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, we were doing some tricks.
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  Speaker 6: I was basically doing like acrobatics on the tree.
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  Speaker 2: Move your lip, lift your arms.
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  Speaker 6: Put your hand there.
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  Speaker 2: No, but it is hard when you have someone who
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  Speaker 2: like Haley.
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  Speaker 3: I will say, she makes me feel so beautiful that
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  Speaker 3: when I do see a bad foot, because she's like
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  Speaker 3: HIPing me up like crazy. She's like, babe, you're not
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  Speaker 3: gonna believe this. You look and say, but I'm like
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  Speaker 3: I'm done taking photos trip and she's like what.
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  Speaker 2: She's like, you need to go to a mental institution.
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  Speaker 6: Too, like take up it. Oh my god, you know
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  Speaker 6: you look so beautiful it, now take a do it.
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  Speaker 1: In portrait mode. I'm like, wow, I better look a man.
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  Speaker 1: I got to look so amazing right now. I'll show
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  Speaker 1: me the photo and I'm like, oh, that's what.
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  Speaker 7: We've had this discussion before. Shouldn't the opinion of the
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  Speaker 7: outsider be more valid than your opinion because you're all
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  Speaker 7: too hard on yourself and have a very very specific
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  Speaker 7: way you think you look good. But we the people
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  Speaker 7: who love you. Like I said to my wife the
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  Speaker 7: other morning, she was wearing something I thought like hot.
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  Speaker 7: It wasn't anything she was. She like rolled her eyes
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  Speaker 7: at me, like you're insane that you think this is hot.
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  Speaker 7: She was on like a pajama top that was kind
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  Speaker 7: off of her shoulder, and I was like, that's really hot.
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  Speaker 4: And we got to like mask.
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  Speaker 7: Well had a reason for the mask anyway that I
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  Speaker 7: feel like that's the more valid opinion. If the person
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  Speaker 7: observing you beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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  Speaker 2: I hear you, I hear you.
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  Speaker 6: I want to you never.
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  Speaker 4: Will, but you should. You should trust that I should.
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  Speaker 6: But I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: So, yeah, that was tough. She was like, we were
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  Speaker 2: out on that map at one point.
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  Speaker 3: This is day so broad, daylight, vulnerable lighting, straight down.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know the kind not Golden hour.
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  Speaker 1: Gold That Golden hour could make Cyclops look like Cleopatra.
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  Speaker 6: I tell you that magic hour, Golden Hour.
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  Speaker 9: Someone read the Cleopatrick book recently?
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  Speaker 1: Did I tell you that Robbie bought it for me
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  Speaker 1: for oka returned it. Oh, but she's fresh on my mind.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she left him back small one.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, Golden hour is magic, yeah, but overhead sun tragic.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And so she was like, got the shot, took a ton.
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  Speaker 3: I have never deleted so fast, not only deleted, recently deleted.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, those need to go.
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  Speaker 6: So I see one of those. They're gone, all the
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  Speaker 6: way gone.
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  Speaker 2: No one left, not a single one, not from that session. Anyways,
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  Speaker 2: she did get some.
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  Speaker 3: Gorgeous silhouette where you can't really see do you just
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  Speaker 3: see the back of me.
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  Speaker 6: Nice, so we'll keep those.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, we had such a absolute lovely time, and
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  Speaker 3: I'm so happy she's home. We got home immediately. Then
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  Speaker 3: stay started organizing, and because you went to the same home,
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  Speaker 3: we went to the same home as your home.
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  Speaker 2: She's like, I don't know where any of my stuff is.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know where it goes. She was panicking, and
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, when have we had time? You got home,
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  Speaker 3: we had stuff going on, then we went on a trip,
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  Speaker 3: so let's do it today. So we organize it. And
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  Speaker 3: all of a sudden, she's like, I feel so much better.
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  Speaker 6: All right, great, I still can't believe you guys live together.
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  Speaker 2: It's official.
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  Speaker 6: It's official.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's so far, so good. So it's been
• 13:27
  Speaker 3: what day do we get? Three days?
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  Speaker 6: Nice?
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  Speaker 2: Thank you so much?
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  Speaker 6: Feel solid?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? Strong?
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  Speaker 1: You can make you know what they say, if you
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  Speaker 1: make it three days, you can make it three thousand
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  Speaker 1: million days.
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  Speaker 3: She was wearing her G necklace, which a lot of
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  Speaker 3: people were like, cause that was really fresh off the
• 13:43
  Speaker 3: comments about me saying I got the matching rings, but
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  Speaker 3: she won't wear the B.
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  Speaker 2: And the G is for girls like girls. But everyone
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  Speaker 2: was like, so she'll wear a G but.
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  Speaker 5: Not a V.
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  Speaker 3: But you know, so she likes letters, obviously interesting letters.
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  Speaker 2: She's like, babe, why are you starting drama.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I just was talking about it and then
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  Speaker 3: you came home with a g's.
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  Speaker 2: I can't help it.
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  Speaker 6: It was like subterranean or what's the word. I don't know, subconscious.
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  Speaker 3: It was just manifested, you know, whatever you want to
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  Speaker 3: call it. But anyways, it was it was really really
• 14:20
  Speaker 3: fun when ziplining for the first time.
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  Speaker 9: What island did you go to?
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  Speaker 2: Went to Kona, which the big Island? Yeah, the Big
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  Speaker 2: Island which we went before last when.
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  Speaker 3: Was that like January? And we that was our first
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  Speaker 3: time there. We went right before COVID shutdown for BRIT's birthday.
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  Speaker 2: Tacona.
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  Speaker 3: Thought I was gonna be stuck there for the two
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  Speaker 3: weeks that I felt that.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, we could do this for two.
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  Speaker 3: Weeks and then so we went back and had the
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  Speaker 3: best time. But I think it's the island where like
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  Speaker 3: if you want to just go and like be in
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  Speaker 3: lay and swim in the ocean at the resort, it's great,
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  Speaker 3: but it's not like a ton of adventuring.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like, not a lot of activities.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, like I feel like Kawai, there's like waterfalls. Maybe
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  Speaker 3: there was a waterfall. We zips lined over one cruise
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: right over it. So yeah, it was really fun. We
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: had a great time. Thanks for asking.
• 15:12
  Speaker 6: Do you feel recharge, rejuvenated, refreshed.
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but like my life's pretty recharged and rejuvenated and
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: refreshed mostly.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: I read this article that said eight days is like
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: the ideal time for a vacation. Like eight days is
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: like the sweet spot.
• 15:30
  Speaker 9: What happens after the eight days? Are you too recharged?
• 15:32
  Speaker 6: It's like too much?
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that you start to maybe it becomes a habit
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: and you can't get into that habit of like vacation,
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: you know.
• 15:39
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that makes sense. I agree with that eight days.
• 15:42
  Speaker 7: We always do two weeks in Wisconsin for the summer
• 15:44
  Speaker 7: and at Christmas, and that second week it's not the
• 15:47
  Speaker 7: same feeling as that first week.
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: Really, that's so interesting.
• 15:50
  Speaker 4: Because I've already got the scaries. We're going back.
• 15:53
  Speaker 7: I'm cutting off four more days though, three more days.
• 15:54
  Speaker 7: I gotta go back to work, right, But also it's
• 15:57
  Speaker 7: just this seems like left to do. It seems like
• 16:00
  Speaker 7: you've seen these people you're seeing them now for the
• 16:02
  Speaker 7: fifth time, sixth time. It's just it's too long. I
• 16:05
  Speaker 7: think it's too long. Yeah, eight days, eight days, stick
• 16:08
  Speaker 7: with me, kid, Okay.
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: It was interesting because we went on a Sunday and
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: we came back on a Saturday, and I loved that
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: we still had the Sunday Oh that is.
• 16:16
  Speaker 6: There are two types of people in this world.
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: Tell me about that.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: There are the people who scrimp every last minute of
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: their vacation, so if they have to go back to
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: work on Monday, they will fly in Sunday night at
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: nine pm or whatever, go to bed and go to
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: work next day. And then there are those people who
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: need the day to like go to the grocery store,
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: do laundry, et cetera, et cetera.
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: I am the latter, shockingly me too, which you would
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: think I'd be the scrimper.
• 16:40
  Speaker 6: Yeah, scrimping, Yeah, just scrimping away for every minute. No no, no.
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: Wow, Yeah that was nice. Do you all call with
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: Wisconsin the cheese state? Because I kept referring to as
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: a cheese state.
• 16:51
  Speaker 7: We get that America's dairy Land is the official oh
• 16:53
  Speaker 7: wow name or the Badger state.
• 16:55
  Speaker 4: But yes we are.
• 16:57
  Speaker 7: We are known for our cheese and we wear wedges
• 16:59
  Speaker 7: of cheese on our head. We were it for the
• 17:00
  Speaker 7: Green Bit packers.
• 17:01
  Speaker 6: Yes, how was your trip?
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: Oh lovely, Thank you very much. Boy. The Scrubbers came
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: out in forced Where's Mark? Where's Mark?
• 17:06
  Speaker 7: That's very very nice because I don't feel like I'm
• 17:08
  Speaker 7: a key component.
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: Of this program.
• 17:11
  Speaker 7: I think it'd go on just fine in my absence,
• 17:13
  Speaker 7: but it's very nice for them to check in.
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: I feel like y'all like, well an here, people were like,
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: where's marketing.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: It's also a long time because I think that we
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: pre recorded some so it was only two weeks, but
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: it felt I think it was like a month.
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: It was at least three weeks.
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: I felt that it was for multiple episodes because we
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: did we do two a week.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, so.
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: Thank you for carry everybody. That's very sweet.
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: Was its rejuvenated again?
• 17:40
  Speaker 7: Hung out with Vanessa the scrubber in Milwaukee. Took me
• 17:42
  Speaker 7: down in the field for the Brewers game, which is
• 17:44
  Speaker 7: always a dream come true. So I was really really
• 17:46
  Speaker 7: a nice time.
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: Thank you, like you're just like you just go on
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: the field of brew like.
• 17:52
  Speaker 7: Incredible thing that's ever happened to me, honestly is insane
• 17:56
  Speaker 7: and people. And I go to the Taylor Swift concert
• 17:58
  Speaker 7: with my kids, like Mark, I, I was scrubber my
• 18:01
  Speaker 7: kids like that, what's going on.
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: It's the craziest thing that's ever happened. This podcast.
• 18:06
  Speaker 6: I love it.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know makes me happy because you'll work on
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: a lot of podcasts, so it's nice that the scrubbers
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: are the stars special place.
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Oh wait oh and you know what I wanted to
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: tell you about? What So I ran into a scrubber.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Robbie and I had a date night Pacha, yes, Patcha,
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: and she came over to the table and she was like, hey,
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: my name's Jenna, a huge scrubber. But ball I was like,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, Hey, I was a little drunk, so h,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: pardon the fuzzy and I'm sober curious. It was actually
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: it was accidental drunk. It wasn't like I was only
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: yes because I was drinking wine. But I hadn't eaten
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: that day because I was going dress shopping and so
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: I was I didn't realize how long I was going
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: to be at this dress store for so long, so
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: basically like had barely eaten, and so I drank and
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: it just hit me a lot harder.
• 18:57
  Speaker 6: Anyways, that's not the story.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: Sorry.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: As Jenna came up to me and she's a huge
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: scrubber and it turns out she works on Wheel of Fortune.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yes, And she was like, I was
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: just telling Ryan that I'm a huge scrubber and I'm.
• 19:12
  Speaker 6: Like, oh my gosh, I love that.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: And so she came and she sat on my side
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: of the table and she's like, I have to on
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: the same side as you, obviously because.
• 19:22
  Speaker 6: I'm you know.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: Actually she didn't say if she was a Tanya Rebecca,
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: but she sat on the same side of the table
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: as me, and we just had like a jolly good
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: time and we loved her. And I want to ask
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: her if, if you are interested, if.
• 19:34
  Speaker 6: We could go like watch one of the.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: Right I've never been.
• 19:39
  Speaker 6: I've never been to her. She's so cute.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Jenna, Yeah, We're ready.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: She spells it differently than Jenna, so it throws me.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Throws me off because I'm not visually seeing the name,
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: but it's Jenna.
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: Thank you for remember how could you spell.
• 19:56
  Speaker 6: It's the g like g E n A.
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: I think like gender Rolands.
• 20:02
  Speaker 7: That's Gina though the gender Rowlands The actress who passed
• 20:05
  Speaker 7: recently was Jenna but g E n A.
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: Rowlands.
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, the one from uh le get their own no
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: no no from the notebook, Yes, from the.
• 20:15
  Speaker 6: Notebos who is said person?
• 20:18
  Speaker 7: She's an actress from the the old the old version
• 20:23
  Speaker 7: in the notebook, right.
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she was the older Ally Hamilton. That's the one
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: Megan Fox was on our flight to Hawaii. Who next
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: to Haley?
• 20:31
  Speaker 6: Who did you talk?
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: Would?
• 20:38
  Speaker 6: She had headphones in next?
• 20:40
  Speaker 7: Yeah?
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: Okay, hold on, So I see her checking in. I
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: see this girl checking in and she has like plaid
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: like pajama pants on.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: I'm like, dang, this girl is cozy for her flight.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: But I didn't really see her face or anything.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: And I splurge and got us first class for the
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: way there because they had laydown seats. And I was
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: like that sounds nice. You know, hey, Alee's back, celebrate.
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: And so we get on the plane and we sit
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: down and the girl in the pajama pants is like
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: next to Haley, and I like, look over, and I'm like,
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: I sit back and look at Haley and I'm like.
• 21:14
  Speaker 5: She's like yeah.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: I was like, are you sure?
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: And so she she had like finger tattoos. So Haley
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: like looked up and it was hers. She's like the
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: whole time, I was so impressed, like never woke up.
• 21:23
  Speaker 6: So she sat like across the hall from you.
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: Like, so the it was two to two on the plane.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like two.
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: Lay downs, two lay downs in the center and then
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: two lay downs, and there were.
• 21:33
  Speaker 6: Aisles like in between between.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and so Haley and her had like an isle
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: in between them.
• 21:38
  Speaker 6: But like, no chit chat.
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: No, no, she both of like we all kind of
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: like slept and watch movies the whole time. But then
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: after I would for sure have engaged you say that
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: I don't know what I would say to my like
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: you're so beautiful.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: I don't know what I would say.
• 21:51
  Speaker 6: I was so beautiful that I feel like it'd.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: Be weird if become such a fan of you, because
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: I don't know that.
• 21:56
  Speaker 6: I'm like, but you just engage in you just engage
• 21:59
  Speaker 6: in conversation.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: But she did not give a vibe that she wanted
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: to chat. And I like to be mindful and to.
• 22:05
  Speaker 6: Be you could be mindful and demure and say is
• 22:08
  Speaker 6: this your bag right here? Trying if I move it
• 22:10
  Speaker 6: to the last second slidemen. Then she's like, yeah, sure,
• 22:11
  Speaker 6: no problem. You're like, oh hey girl.
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: You know, I think if I would have like made
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: eye contact, I would have been like like kind of
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: like oh my god, you know, like hi, you know,
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: something like that. But it just never happened, and I
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: didn't want to force it. And something that I noted,
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: she brought her pillow with her on the plane.
• 22:31
  Speaker 6: Huh.
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: That's probably how she slept the whole time. She was
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: probably so comfy in her pajama bands.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: I cannot believe you didn't engage in conversation or text me, Hey,
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting next to Megan Box.
• 22:40
  Speaker 6: How can I engage in conversation?
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: Well, I don't know that you'd be the person I
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: asked for advice about.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: One time Robby sat next to Oh gosh, I want
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: to say Slash Wow wow.
• 22:52
  Speaker 6: Curly hair. Yeah, yes, that's him. Uh he sat next to.
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: Slash on any for those of us who may not
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: know who slashes, can you give some back marks?
• 23:00
  Speaker 7: The guitar player for Guns N' Roses there was a
• 23:02
  Speaker 7: big top hat his face.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: So he wasn't because he was not wearing the top hat.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: And so he's like, I think it's Slash, I don't know,
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: And so I googled it the same thing and found
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: a tattoo and I said, look on the arm, is
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: there the thing? He said, Yep, it's him. So I
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: was like, you got to talk to him, and so
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: he did nice.
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: And confirmed it with Slash and they had a nice
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: little chat.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but like it was like more about like the
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: food or something. It was not like about like him
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: being Slash, you know.
• 23:29
  Speaker 7: But did he acknowledge that he knew who he was
• 23:32
  Speaker 7: or could have just been any two guys on a plane.
• 23:34
  Speaker 6: That is a great question.
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: That's that's the.
• 23:36
  Speaker 7: Question because I think if I'm in that situation with
• 23:39
  Speaker 7: a celebrity next to me, I'm going to try to
• 23:40
  Speaker 7: have a conversation with them that doesn't acknowledge that, oh
• 23:43
  Speaker 7: my guy.
• 23:45
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: I just think like she also Slash.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: I think both of them are so big that like
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: it's almost like you can't ignore the fact of I
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: don't know.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: I don't think that next to Slash, I wouldn't know
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: who Slash was. I would engage, right.
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: And I think Slash would appreciate that the like, oh
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: this is nice.
• 24:00
  Speaker 7: I can engage with this person on a human level,
• 24:02
  Speaker 7: not on a fan celebrity level.
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: You feel that people know like know you though there's
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: you just kind of want it to like it's like
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: the elephant.
• 24:10
  Speaker 6: I don't know, but she said, no, he didn't acknowledge
• 24:13
  Speaker 6: that it was Slash.
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: That's that's the cool way to play it.
• 24:15
  Speaker 9: That's so cool.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: She is stunning.
• 24:18
  Speaker 9: Was she wearing an imasked to sleep or she just
• 24:21
  Speaker 9: conked out?
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: I think she did wear eye mass okay, just like
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: probably like I saw her get up at one point
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: and just to go to the bathroom. And when she
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: walked back, you know, you would normally look disheveled, just perfect.
• 24:33
  Speaker 7: Really she and mg K are like taking a break
• 24:36
  Speaker 7: right now, right, Oh, I don't know.
• 24:37
  Speaker 4: I think they're taking some time.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: Maybe she went to.
• 24:42
  Speaker 6: She to rejuvenate, recharge.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: And I said, I go, when you said next to Slash,
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: did you acknowledge it was him? He said to him, No,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: of course not. I said, oh, you just had a conversation.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: Robbie goes, yeah, he's a dear, dear friend.
• 24:55
  Speaker 9: Did he introduce himself as Saul his real name?
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 24:58
  Speaker 6: Maybe I think even exchanged names. I think it was
• 25:01
  Speaker 6: like just about like yeah, yeah, ye, your shoes untied,
• 25:07
  Speaker 6: you know that type of stuff.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, it's it's pretty cool.
• 25:11
  Speaker 6: Well that's a big one. You see where she like
• 25:13
  Speaker 6: did she check a.
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: Bag like so Haley said her bags came out like
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: it was like they came out separate. So she you know,
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: they took care of her, but it was weird like
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: walking through, you know, getting off the plane and walking
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: the baggage claim.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: No one stopped her. And she's a big celebrity.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: Okay, again this is I might be a little ignorant
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: in this or naive, but like, doesn't Megan Fox fly private? Like,
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: don't all these celebrities are that gying.
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: My flight to Lava Polue, which shocked me.
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: Here's the thing though, flying private is so expensive, and
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: I think if you're conscious of the environment and you're
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: like wanting to be part of that, then I think
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: these people are like I'll hop on the Hawaiian airlines.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: Like when I saw j Lo was on a commercial flight, Like,
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: I'm like, can't Jame's weird?
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: So Meredith Gray on my flight Ellen Pompeo, I.
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: Feel like Ellen Pompeo would fly first class.
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: Would Yes, there's a tier of like yeah, but that's
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: not a tear of celebrity as much as it's a
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: tier of personality or image.
• 26:15
  Speaker 7: I think, yes, but also a tier of just wealth.
• 26:19
  Speaker 7: Like I'm sure Ellen has plenty of money, but Jalo
• 26:22
  Speaker 7: has a.
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: Lot money, Yeah, like more than you to spend.
• 26:28
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: I want to talk about something relating to Jael, which
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: is there's been some comments about Blake Lively being compared
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: to Jaylo.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: But we can talk about that when we come back.
• 26:40
  Speaker 5: That was actually right, all right, we're.
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: Back, Okay, I know I was actually overdue.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: We we were chit chatting, but it was.
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: A break.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: So you we did.
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: The podcast last, our last podcast, we did it before
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: it ends with us came out.
• 27:17
  Speaker 6: Yes, we were raving about Blake Lively.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: I still I love Blake Lively.
• 27:21
  Speaker 6: None of this has made you turn an eye.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: I just kind of am confused.
• 27:25
  Speaker 6: Tell me about your confusion.
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: Because I can't tell if there's like this really dry
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: sarcasm that people are getting really like taking. Really, I
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: think the way she promoted the movie is strange because
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: I saw the movie and I'm like, there was no
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: part of that that was grab.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: Your girlfriends and put on your floor off.
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and then there's like a photo off at the theater,
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: and I'm like, this is strange because like this is
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: a heavy movie all the way through, Like it is
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: a heavy content. There should have been a warning at
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: the beginning of trigger warning. It's I thought it was
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: really well done, Like I really enjoyed the movie, but
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: it's definitely not like what they made seem Yeah, right,
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: I guess I'm just confused by her pr team because
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: me too.
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: It seems like she was steered into some sort of
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: direction to like whatever this was.
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I just felt like it was the wrong movie
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: to do all this, Like it's like promoting the hair
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: Caroline promoting.
• 28:20
  Speaker 6: Floorals and the buzzy Betty Yeah yeah.
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: And it's like there's a time and a place, and
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: I just don't know if this movie was.
• 28:28
  Speaker 10: That.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: So I saw all of that scuttle about, like choose
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: so for the backstory, and I was kind of giving
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: her a little bit of grace with that because I'm like,
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: when you're promoting so like when I was promoting my book, right,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: the publishing company will pay for certain things when you're
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: doing your book tour or whatever, like hair, makeup, flights, whatever.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: Other things don't pay like, you know what I'm saying,
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: So I feel like if she's trying to do it
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: all at once, I was like, I understand maybe why
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: she's doing promo at the same time, because then maybe
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: they can split the costs and she can get you
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: Oh, get more for the Yeah.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: But then when I realized what the I didn't realize
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: what the movie was about either until all of this
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: started coming out, and then I was like, so that's
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: when I was like, that definitely feels like this is
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: the wrong time and place to be double dipping in
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: these things.
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: I saw a recent interview though, of her on a
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: red Car, but I, I don't know what this is for,
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: and she answered it in a very like way, more
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: like mindful, you know, addressed you know, the question about
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: what do you want women who are victims of domestic
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: violence to get out of this? And it was a
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: much more It was an answer where I was like, Oh,
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: she's she's listening. Because I think the confusion is that
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: Justin Baldoni's been so focused on making sure the message
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: about the movie is out there and then hers. Because
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: he's doing that, it makes everyone else's promotion of it
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: come across.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: So strilly, so silly, see like two talks where they
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: like do splits like one answer, one answer, one answer her,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: and it's like mind blowing.
• 30:01
  Speaker 6: Yeah, it's so bizarre.
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I And like I said, I.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: Know, I'm so invested in this, like I'm not even joking.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: I haven't been on TikTok like actually like in TikTok
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: for a minute, and I spent a full fifty five
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: minutes who just watching tiktoks about this specific thing fewd
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: whatever you call it debacle, but they made a if
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: they made like a what's it called, like a docu
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: series about all the drama bts put on Netflix six
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: episodes special I would watch everybody.
• 30:31
  Speaker 8: Did you hear about how she hired the like Deadpool
• 30:34
  Speaker 8: editor to make a separate cut of the movie.
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: Did you hear about this? Yeah?
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: Well I heard that there was two cuts of the movie, Yes,
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: and the.
• 30:40
  Speaker 8: One we saw is just a Maldoni's but like she yeah,
• 30:43
  Speaker 8: she went behind his back and made like a different
• 30:45
  Speaker 8: cut and like finance it herself, and I want to
• 30:48
  Speaker 8: see that version so badly.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Okay, so here's my this is like the Big Kerpluckle
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: or whatever, it is in my head.
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah, let's go that.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: You watch all this and you're like, Okay, you side
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: with Justin Baldoni because you're kind of like, Okay, he's
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: getting the message across. This is a very heavy movie.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: Obviously he cares deeply about it because tons of people
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: were bidding Colleen Hoover for this people wanted and she
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: gave it to him, obviously intentionally because she believed in
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: his vision, in him and so I'm like, okay, so
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: I see his perspective, and then I'm looking at all
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: the stuff that Blake's saying and I'm like, this feels
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: so weird. But then I'm like, what's up with the
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: rest of the cast, Like why is all.
• 31:29
  Speaker 6: Of the casts not doing stuff with Justin?
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: And like yeah, like avoiding questions, exiling him from the
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: whole thing.
• 31:37
  Speaker 6: So that's where I'm starting to be like, what the
• 31:40
  Speaker 6: qua I.
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: Did the same, because I'm like, it's one thing if
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: she if they butted heads, right, they were like, we
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: did not get along, we don't want to do press together,
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: we don't want to answer questions about each other.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: But the whole cast feels wheels turn in me too.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: But then I'm like, are they just wanting to side
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: with Blake because they like her more?
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: I just can't see that being the reason, the sole
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: reason of it.
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: But I don't know.
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: It's Hayley's so tired of me talking about this.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: I'm happy to have this outlet.
• 32:09
  Speaker 6: Honestly too. Robbie's like he doesn't even know Justin.
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: He's like this guy that Justin's a good guy, and
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't.
• 32:19
  Speaker 6: He actually gives me like not good guy energy.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: Interesting.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like and again that's like not nice to say,
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: but I do like I feel like he has this
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: kind of like what's the name of his podcast, man Enough?
• 32:32
  Speaker 6: I think it's called man Enough.
• 32:34
  Speaker 4: I'll find out.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: I feels like it too.
• 32:38
  Speaker 4: But his book is My Masculinity.
• 32:42
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know, there's something like he's so I
• 32:44
  Speaker 6: don't know.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: There was something that was kind of giving me the
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: ick about him, but then I started watching all these
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: tiktoks and it got removed because I was like, ah, man,
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: now I'm like on his side a little bit. So
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: now I don't even know what to think, Like, I
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: feel like a thinkless tank.
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well, we don't really know any thing because no
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: one's really said anything about it, so we just we're
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: all we're doing is speculator.
• 33:03
  Speaker 6: Then you're reading that.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: I was reading some of the obviously, this is all alleged,
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: so we should probably put throw a disclaimer.
• 33:08
  Speaker 6: This is all alleged. Spoiler, this is all alleged.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: But then I was reading that he was like making
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: comments about her weight.
• 33:17
  Speaker 6: Did you see that? I saw that he asked her
• 33:20
  Speaker 6: how she waited to train for.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: It or he had it, yeah, and like lift her
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: and so he wanted to.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: Which I understand if if okay, if he needs to
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: lift her for something and he needs to train for it,
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: I get it.
• 33:30
  Speaker 6: But also can't you like ballpark it, Like why do
• 33:32
  Speaker 6: you need to ask the woman.
• 33:33
  Speaker 5: What she weighs? Like?
• 33:35
  Speaker 4: Also what all is she?
• 33:36
  Speaker 10: Like?
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: Google for whatever skeleton or something for a fifteen pound
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: range gave.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: A twenty pound like make sure you can go up
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: a little, you know, Like I don't know. It just
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: felt like a really weird question to ask someone. Like
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: I get the logic, like obviously, if he needs to
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: lift her, he needs to know, but like I don't know,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: I would just doing Google Chat GPT, you know, like.
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: Part of me because people are like is this just
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: marketing to get people to talk about it, because it's
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: all people are talking about. And it's like, is it
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: driving people to the theater? I don't know, but we
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: are all talking about it. No, because remember this happened
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: with anyone but you.
• 34:15
  Speaker 6: No, is it anyone?
• 34:16
  Speaker 8: But you don't worry, darling, don't worry darling.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And like there was all that like scuttle butt
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: around like Olivia and Florence and like all that stuff.
• 34:27
  Speaker 6: And I feel like, I don't know if it did
• 34:29
  Speaker 6: well for the movie.
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: I didn't go see it in theaters.
• 34:32
  Speaker 9: We saw it ends with its opening night because of this, right, yeah,
• 34:35
  Speaker 9: because of it. Right, it got us in there.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: And here's I did you like the movie?
• 34:39
  Speaker 9: I did.
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: It's weird to say you like like that because it
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: is such heavy.
• 34:43
  Speaker 9: Like it's a very powerful story. But I did like it.
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: I thought it was great and I thought it was
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: really well done. And I think that there should have
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: been a warning for people because it was promoted so
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: weird and made it seem like it was going to
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: be a rom com grab girl like The Notebook.
• 34:59
  Speaker 8: No, our theater is full of like high school girls, yeah,
• 35:03
  Speaker 8: right for real?
• 35:04
  Speaker 9: And they they're like, oh God, where did we walk into?
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean yeah, whether but I'm thinking, especially for
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: victims of domestic like to go and thinking it's gonna
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: be the Notebook, right, which I also think there's you know,
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: you kind of look up to see what a movie's
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: about if you've I read the book forever ago, so
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: I knew the content.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: But can you back up for just a quick second,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: because you were saying that people are comparing Blake to
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: j Loo. I didn't see that.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: People are just saying, like in her interviews that it's
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: like she's talking a lot about herself, you know, like
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: that was all about like when Jaylo is.
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: Promoting her stuff. I don't like that slander. I don't
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: like it. I'm a Blake fan, and I'm a Blake.
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: Fan too, I hate I just never thought i'd see
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: the day where there was even.
• 35:43
  Speaker 6: So much hate towards her. I know, I'm shook by
• 35:45
  Speaker 6: it all.
• 35:46
  Speaker 9: But yeah, couple, And there's this part of.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: Me because people are like hating on them because they're
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: like this power couple and they think that they can
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: do all and I'm like, but they are, and like,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: of course, like he wants to be involved in her
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: movies and she wants to be involved in his. And
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: I loved thinking that, Like she was one of the
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: Deadpoolers in the that scene, you know what I mean, Like,
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: I love that stuff. So it's like, yeah, don't take
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: the player at the game.
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: I think when you're at a level of celebrity like that,
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: there's just always going to be hate. And I think
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: when you get to a certain point, I think that
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: there's always going to be critics and people have an opinion,
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: especially a TikTok. Now, like you can just go on
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: and have a put your opinion out there and it can.
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: Go TikTok does not like Blake Lively. Yeah, I didn't
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: see one pro Blake TikTok on my feed.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: I gotta change the algorithm up. I've got a nice
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: healthy balance.
• 36:41
  Speaker 6: So interesting. Yeah, I gotta give somed me one of those.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: Direct your algorithm. Yeah, so yeah, it was, it was.
• 36:50
  Speaker 6: I see it. I do want to see it.
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was good.
• 36:53
  Speaker 9: Did you see Colleen Hoover's cameo?
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: The only reason I even noticed this because I saw
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: people making tiktoks about about it.
• 37:01
  Speaker 8: So I was I shrieked in the theater when it
• 37:03
  Speaker 8: happened and no one else reacted, and I was like,
• 37:05
  Speaker 8: I'm the only one that saw her.
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: Wow, a true fan.
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I do hope they make like a Verity a
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: Verity movie.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: That was crazy.
• 37:14
  Speaker 8: I think that I read that that's happening someone. There's
• 37:18
  Speaker 8: film rights that have been sold.
• 37:19
  Speaker 6: Wow. Something to say, well, not to change gears, but like.
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: I can't even love.
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but before we get into that, a break no no,
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: no no, because just so quick, I need a quick
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: segment of this absolutely okay, because we brought up Don't
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: Worry Darling, which stars Harry Styles, and there was a
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: fan fiction video created by Chris Crystal that needs an
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: auscar Worthy and.
• 37:54
  Speaker 6: So Crystal hits me up and she's like, hey, I
• 37:57
  Speaker 6: made this fan at it. But I also have like
• 38:00
  Speaker 6: the video.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: Of you guys talking about on the podcast because I
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: want to be respectful and mindful and demure Robbie, and
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: I was.
• 38:06
  Speaker 6: Like the fan video, of course, it's so good. You
• 38:10
  Speaker 6: have to post that. So I respect Crystal for being demure.
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: She's very good about that. Yeah, we love Crystal.
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: But Robbie said, you know, it's fine, everything's good.
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: Let me read the direct quote.
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: He said, so awesome and amazing, totally great and find
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: such a great guy in situation for everybody happy for
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: you both. What did he have to say about it?
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: Is it so all fun and games? Is there a
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: sensitivity there? You know?
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: Because he was really focused on like because everybody kept
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: saying like this is their fan fiction, and like he
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: was just like, isn't fan fiction fake? Like this is
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: real life? This really happened to you. And I was like,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: I know, it's like I'm like the real life fan
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: like coming to life, right.
• 38:53
  Speaker 6: So like that that I think.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: Well, the fan fiction.
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: Fan fiction comes from the idea of seeing something like
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: a potential and then creating a full storyline of y'all
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: falling in love, right, like, so you experienced the beginning
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: stages of what could.
• 39:10
  Speaker 6: Have been right And I told him, I said, thank
• 39:12
  Speaker 6: god you locked me up about.
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: Because had you not asked me to be your girlfriend?
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: And I went and did this and I was just
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: a free agent.
• 39:22
  Speaker 6: Who knows? Who knows what.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: Would you have played it as cool? Though? Would you
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: have been as wrizzler as you?
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: I think you've had some wrizzler energy because you were
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: fresh off the market.
• 39:32
  Speaker 6: I was fresh off the market.
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: I was like, I was giving, I don't I'm not
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: flirting with you energy, right, I'm not.
• 39:38
  Speaker 6: I'm a good girlfriend, Like, don't even try.
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: Even Harry Styles can't have me correct, Like, no, nothing.
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: I think your wrizzler came out and I think it
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: it got Harry's.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: Some good advice to all the single gals listening to
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: the podcast.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: What's the advice of this. This is not gonna happen
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: to anybody.
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: Pretend you have a boyfriend and then go out to
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: the bars because you're gonna oosee the riz.
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: The riz comes when you don't care well, you know, like,
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: I think that's nothing men want more than a woman
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: who is just absolutely unavailable. Yeah.
• 40:16
  Speaker 6: I was like, this girl, she's got a boyfriend.
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a good time. I enjoyed that.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: I felt for Robbie. I really really yeah kind of really.
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: Hairstyles is like everything, So it's the worst.
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: Like, the only one I can think of that would
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: be worse about happening to would be like Chris Hemsworth
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: saying something like, you know, having his hand on your
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: butt or something like that.
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 40:42
  Speaker 6: But Robbie's fine. He's very good. Yeah he's good.
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, good.
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: And on that note, we will be talking about Love Island.
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: But first we're gonna take a break. All right, the
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: time has arrived for the Love Island reunion chat.
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: I cam here for love.
• 41:19
  Speaker 6: That's the only line I know apparently.
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: Okay, So, first of all, the reunion was about an
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: hour and twenty minutes.
• 41:28
  Speaker 6: Too short, way too short.
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: Immediate disagree that it was too long? There what did
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: they even? Half of it was in us listening to
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: the fireside chat. Oh my gosh, the reunion. You were
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: like thrilled. You have no notes?
• 41:45
  Speaker 6: So no, no, I have lots of notes.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: Okay, Arianna starting the thing off of being like you
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: look cute? Who dressed you today? Cut the crap. Let's
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: get to the good stuff, you know what I mean? Like,
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: can I get it too? I don't remember exactly what
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: she said, but it was something like there was like
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: a good fives to seven minutes in the beginning of
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: the reunion that was all just fluff of like you
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: look cute.
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, she's British.
• 42:10
  Speaker 6: But I was like, missus Putts, let's get to the
• 42:12
  Speaker 6: good stuff. We only have an hour twenty minutes here.
• 42:14
  Speaker 6: I don't care who dressed them or you know what
• 42:16
  Speaker 6: I mean?
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: Like, yeah, you said no intro needed.
• 42:19
  Speaker 6: Noufed, I didn't need the warm up, you know what
• 42:22
  Speaker 6: I mean? Okay, So no one too much fluff, too
• 42:26
  Speaker 6: much fluff?
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: Hey?
• 42:27
  Speaker 6: Note two?
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: Can I say something about the intro?
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: Yes, her having to do those slow moo walks in
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: New York City was like my biggest nightmare. She's she's
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: such a legend for making that look like chic chic. Yeah, okay,
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: note two.
• 42:44
  Speaker 6: Note two.
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: They played favorites interesting who.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: I felt like there was a lot that they didn't
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: cover that I wish they would have covered because they
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: think that they can see that like fans of the
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: show love Leah Jenney and Serena and so I felt like,
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I just felt like they were kind
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: of taking off the hot seat in a weird way.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: What did you want them to address with me?
• 43:13
  Speaker 5: Three of them?
• 43:14
  Speaker 6: So many things like there was just like so many things.
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: I just I need details because I don't I don't.
• 43:21
  Speaker 6: Well, okay, you but you hold on.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: Maybe the notes are what I appreciate that they talked about, Okay, okay.
• 43:28
  Speaker 6: I like that they got into the Nicole and Kendall stuff.
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, what are your thoughts on that? Because that
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: was a divide.
• 43:36
  Speaker 6: I I hate not siding with the girl.
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: It's okay, girls, I love I'm such We're all girls,
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: girls girls.
• 43:47
  Speaker 4: WLW.
• 43:49
  Speaker 5: Yes, I am a.
• 43:49
  Speaker 6: Woman that loves women.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: Howeverally platonically, However, I felt like Nicole was like dying
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: on this hill of like he lied to me when
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: I'm like, this guy's dong is all over the internet
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: more than adult, yes, and his world is upside down
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: and he's embarrassed. He's ashamed and humiliated of course, Like
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: and I don't excuse it. Lying is lying, and I
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: never think I never want to justify lying. But like
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: he apologized profusely. He basically what happened was he told
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: this this girl that he's dating, for those of you
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: that don't watch, that he had sent this video of
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: himself to like an ex girlfriend, a trusted ex girlfriend
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: from years years years ago. When it turns out it
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: was he sent it to someone that he had just
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: met on a dating app, like days before he went
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: into the villa.
• 44:37
  Speaker 6: Right, So it's not a great lie.
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: But like I I did weirdly sympathize with Kendall because
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: I'm like, how embarrassing, Like how do you react?
• 44:48
  Speaker 6: Of course he should.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: Have told her the truth, but he eventually did you
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like he eventually got there. I've
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: made mistakes in my relationship. I've said things, I've lied
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: at times that like and so, but it's it's it's
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: the extent of it. It's like he obviously he did
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: come clean, and it was just like he was in
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: an emotional state.
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: I also it's like he wasn't with her yet it
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: was before the show, so like whether it was an
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: ex right before the show or a hookup right before
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: the show or a trusted ex girlfriend, Like, it's just
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: humiliating him and like, yeah, it's a lie, and I
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: don't like I don't like liars at all, And so
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: would it have been better if he was like, Hey,
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: I hooked up with the girl in a dating apt
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: before I went on the show, and she screwed me, right,
• 45:28
  Speaker 3: But I'm so humiliated, And I'm like, like you said,
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: my world just turn upside down. But I was just
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: kind of like I felt for him, I felt for him,
• 45:38
  Speaker 3: I felt for her too, but I also am like cold.
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: Then everybody like came at her like it felt very
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: like bully mentality, do you.
• 45:46
  Speaker 5: Know what I mean?
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: Felt bully me.
• 45:47
  Speaker 6: It was like Janey came in and was like, well,
• 45:49
  Speaker 6: what would you want him to do when Leah's like no, no, no, no,
• 45:52
  Speaker 6: like blah.
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: Blah blah, like they are all had Kendall's back, and
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: it just felt very like attacky to me, which I
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: did not like because I'm like, this is if that
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: is the hill she wants to stand on and she wants,
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: then she should just break up with him.
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: Well, Serena was kind of like, yeah, like liars and
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: she was like, if she wants to stay with him,
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: I back her on that, And if she can't handle
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: the lie then I support that too. So I like, like,
• 46:16
  Speaker 3: Serena is probably my favorite person on the season.
• 46:18
  Speaker 6: Yeah, Serena definitely.
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: I feel like she knows who she is. I don't
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: feel like she tries to get involved in drama. I
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: feel like she was confident in her choices. I never
• 46:26
  Speaker 3: felt like she was like a bully. I think she
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: just focused on her relationship. So I'm a Serena fan. Yeah,
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: I really don't.
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: Know that I can say about anyone else.
• 46:35
  Speaker 6: I know you know what.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: So obviously everybody's obsessed with Leah. Leah was like the
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: standout of this season.
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: She was a star.
• 46:43
  Speaker 6: She was the star. But I saw Aaron Do you
• 46:46
  Speaker 6: follow Aaron Foster on Instagram?
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: I do, but I don't see her stuff.
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: She posted something that was like gen Z being obsessed
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: with Leah is like so whack.
• 46:55
  Speaker 10: Like they were like she is so toxic. Yeah, yeah,
• 46:59
  Speaker 10: they everyone really loves her. I also feel like they
• 47:02
  Speaker 10: were pretty like the Andrea thing was weird to me.
• 47:06
  Speaker 10: Why did they focus so much on.
• 47:07
  Speaker 6: That so much?
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: I'm like that happened so early on in the season.
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: I I'm sorry. The fireside chat.
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: Was way too long and boring.
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: It's like my other so, my biggest issue with the
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: reunion is how far after the show ended they aired it,
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: because to me, it's like they're trying to make these
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: things huge, right, and it's like everyone's moved.
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: On, Like they did wait too long, Like the reunion
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: should have been three weeks ago, yeah, two weeks after
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: it ended.
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So, and like I don't know the Kayler thing
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: on air and I'm like, why did you do this?
• 47:37
  Speaker 5: Now?
• 47:38
  Speaker 6: Something was not right with that. I'm sorry you have.
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: Seven weeks between the show and the reunion, and you're
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: gonna go on the television and say I put my
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: hands down her pants publicly before you tell the girl
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: that you were dating for the.
• 47:54
  Speaker 6: Whole summer, Like something seems so weird about that to me.
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: But also he's been vocal about how how his mental
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: health has suffered, and I imagine he's told her that.
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: You know, he's probably told her that.
• 48:05
  Speaker 3: And so I just the way she went after him,
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: like why didn't you do this weeks ago?
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: Because I feel like they wanted to give Kaylor this
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: moment of like not in a revenge moment.
• 48:16
  Speaker 6: I don't know it, So I don't know. And then
• 48:19
  Speaker 6: I kept thinking like Aaron.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: Could have been the star, like had he not cheated,
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: had he not strayed from Kaylor, like they would have been,
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: they probably would have won.
• 48:30
  Speaker 6: Yeah, and you.
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: Know what I mean, like everybody was obsessed with them,
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: and then it took a dark turn and he just
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: went downhill after that, And I just.
• 48:39
  Speaker 3: The show is about being like like hooking up with people,
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: Like the whole show is about like making out aggressively
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: and like meeting new people and being like a horny
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: young guy and that's what he did and he has
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: just gotten devoured and he didn't handle.
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: I have to stand up for my show here. It's
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: called Love Island. The show is about finding love. That's
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: the root in the heart of the show.
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: Point of the show is to bring people in to
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: try and tempt them to cheat.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: No no, no no no no no no no no
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: no no no no no. It's to give you the
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: strongest connection so that you find your strongest connection, had.
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: A strong connection that was strong enough to This.
• 49:17
  Speaker 6: Wasn't a great season for you to really understand what
• 49:20
  Speaker 6: the show is about.
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: Unfortunately it doesn't even last for the best of them
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: because Molly May and Tommy.
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: Now, that is a saga that I need some answers to.
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: But before we move on from the union, there is
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: one thing that they didn't answer that I need, Like
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: I have gone on Instagram to ask people to please
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: let me know. There are rumors that there were two
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: Islanders that were hooking up the whole season, apparently off camera.
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: There's like one bathroom in one shower that don't have
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: cameras and they were like hooking up there all season
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: and nobody is telling me who it was. And apparently
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: allegedly it is the same sex couple.
• 49:56
  Speaker 6: Who so that's why they don't want to out them
• 49:58
  Speaker 6: in case they're not out or like, I don't know.
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: Who even started the like did this room? Okay? Well
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: I have.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: I have a suspicion too, but I guess we will wait.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: I guess if anybody's listening that works at DUMIN or
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: Dumi herself listens, please hit us up.
• 50:21
  Speaker 6: HMU.
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: So you're out of ten? What would you rate the reunion?
• 50:27
  Speaker 6: I'd give it an N A needs improvement.
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: Words, Yeah, needs improvement. But I was I was I
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: like that they showed the fireside chat, Like I was
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: happy with a lot of the things that they did address,
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: but there was a lot that was missing in my opinion.
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I felt like they there could have been other
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: I could have they could have done without the whole
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: cast being there.
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And I'm like, I didn't even recognize some of
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: these people. I'm like, if you would have gotten like
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: six of those people to be honest and Jane bringing
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: the actual receipts and like reading off things people said,
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: I was like, that was pretty badass, honestly, Bully, is
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: it Bully for you?
• 51:11
  Speaker 6: Bully, giving bully.
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: All of it felt very bully to me. I didn't
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: feel like it felt a lot of it felt like mean,
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: mean spirited.
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: But in that I.
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: Think that they don't talk about like that. They don't
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: want to admit that they're famous. Like I'm like, why
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: do they not want to admit that they're famous? When
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: Arianna was like, Kayler, are you the most famous person
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: out of your town now? And she's like no, I'm like, yes,
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: you are.
• 51:33
  Speaker 7: You are.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: Well, it's weird. I don't know.
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: It's like you go on a reality show and you
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: just are like, go on and you're your you're yourself,
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: and so then you like, I don't know. I was thinking,
• 51:46
  Speaker 3: I think I'm sensitive to the reunion stuff because I
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: think going on a reality like having done that and
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: even receiving like the minimal hate that you can get
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: on like I was so lucky in that sense, but
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: even the little bit is so damaging.
• 52:03
  Speaker 6: Dang, and they probably know how and especially.
• 52:05
  Speaker 3: With TikTok now and people just making opinions and like
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: literally about how you look, how you speak, everything, it's
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: like it's literally soul crushing for these people. So I
• 52:15
  Speaker 3: just hated that it like gave them a platform to
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: add more to it.
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: But in the weird they were also trying to diffuse
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: it in like a very weird way.
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: It felt very actory though.
• 52:25
  Speaker 6: Yeah, like they were like, Oh, you love me and
• 52:27
  Speaker 6: you support me.
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: Why are you reposting all these toxic tiktoks that people
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: are sharing.
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: I'm glad you're on the same page as that with
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: me on them.
• 52:37
  Speaker 6: All right, where were we gonna talk?
• 52:40
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 52:40
  Speaker 6: What we were going to go somewhere else?
• 52:42
  Speaker 4: You're going to go to time?
• 52:44
  Speaker 6: No, of like.
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: Well back on Thursday, but you mentioned something I said
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: before we move on to the from the reunion. You
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: were saying something anybody told me? And uh, oh my gosh,
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: if anybody listening, look me in the eye. If anybody
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: out there knows anything about this breakup, please d m me.
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: I have been scouring. Well, it feels irresponsible to share.
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: But allegedly these are the things that he is only
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: alleged this is only a lleged spoiler alert. But the
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: stuff I saw on TikTok was that because there had
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: been rumors that he was cheating a while ago, like years, like,
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: this is not like a new thing. But it felt
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: very abrupt like it felt like something like she just
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: learned something and that was like the straw that broke
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: the camel's back. So people are saying that he got
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: somebody else pregnant.
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: That's a big alleged, big alleged rumors.
• 53:48
  Speaker 6: But I'm allowed to say that if I'm saying it's alleged.
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: Right, you read it, You read it somewhere, You read
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: it somewhere. We have no idea it's true.
• 53:55
  Speaker 6: There's no proof or truth, no proof or truth.
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: Here's say, well, that's what TikTok is.
• 54:01
  Speaker 6: I mean, how do you know what any of this
• 54:02
  Speaker 6: stuff is?
• 54:02
  Speaker 9: Real?
• 54:03
  Speaker 5: It is?
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: It is, there's we'll come back.
• 54:08
  Speaker 6: We'll come back on Thursday.
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: Talk back on Thursday.
• 54:11
  Speaker 3: But we're so we'll be back Thursday with the Dear Bania.
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: But also we're going to Palm Springs this weekend.
• 54:17
  Speaker 6: Yeah, we'll talk about on Thursday.
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, we're going to Palm Springs this weekend.
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: Truth or Drink all the things.
• 54:27
  Speaker 3: Multiple episodes in our Element where some of us shine
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: and some of us.
• 54:32
  Speaker 2: Grind, throw up and drink too much. But anyways, we'll
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: be back Thursday. We'll tell you more about that. We
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: love you someone love you by