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Coach TJ Barnes on Patience, Failure and Raising Resilient Kids Through Youth Sports

Coach TJ Barnes has spent over a decade building the athletic program at St. Joseph Catholic School from the ground up — 12 sports, 25 conference championships and thousands of kids along the way. But the lessons he shares in this episode go far beyond wins and losses.

TJ and I talk about patience in a world of instant gratification, how to sit with your child's disappointment instead of rushing to fix it, and what he learned coaching his own kids versus everyone else's. Plus, why he educates kids about drugs before high school, rather than waiting until they're already there. A must-listen…

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