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For Late Diagnosed Autistic Adults Here's Everything · Aspergers & Autism Podcast [The Aspie World] AuDHD

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  You're exhausted from masking, you've been pretending to be
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  neurotypical for way too long, and you don't even know who you
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  are sometimes anymore. Hey, it's Dan.
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  If you're watching this, then you're maybe burnt out or you're
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  stuck in the wrong job. Maybe you misunderstood by
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  everybody around you. And on top of that, you're
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  emotionally exhausted. I'm going to work with you
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  personally for 90 days to fix all of that.
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  And this is not another course, not another group coaching.
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  This is just you and me. Unlimited access, daily support,
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  and as many calls as you need. Stick with me for the next few
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  minutes and I'll explain exactly how this works.
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  Now here's why I can help you with this.
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  I was diagnosed with autism at the age of 26.
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  Now before that I spent 26 years like burning out, constantly
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  being in the wrong jobs, trying failed relationships, meltdowns
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  constantly. I couldn't even control almost
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  any of my emotions and nobody understood me.
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  It was one of the most difficult periods of my life.
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  I tried everything. I tried self-care books, self
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  help, self help courses, you know, setting boundaries.
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  Rest. None of this worked.
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  So I spent years trying to figure out what actually works
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  for autistic brains. Not adapted neurotypical advice
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  because that doesn't work. Obviously these are systems
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  built from scratch for how we actually function because
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  autistic individuals need help from autistic individuals.
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  Now I've helped way over 200 late diagnosed autistic adults
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  to help them stop being misunderstood, escape at the
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  underemployment issue, and eliminate burnout across the
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  board. Taking people from like basic to
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  no incomes and helping them navigating them to now making
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  way over 60 grand a year and doing what they love doing and
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  what they can actually do really well.
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  Now people who are hitting themselves during meltdowns who
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  haven't had a a month where they haven't had a meltdown, I can
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  get rid of all that stuff. Relationships that were ending
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  and now thriving for people. And I know what works and I know
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  what doesn't work. And This is why I can help you
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  and this is what's very important.
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  Let me be direct about what you actually struggle with.
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  You're misunderstood. People don't believe you're
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  autistic or your family may dismiss it.
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  Your partner doesn't fully understand.
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  You understand why you want to be alone or have quiet time.
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  You know when you try to explain yourself, you're told all the
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  time you're making excuses. You need to do more, you need to
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  buck up. Maybe you're underemployed,
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  right? You have skills, intelligence,
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  intellect. Maybe you have degrees.
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  But you're stuck in the wrong place then the wrong role.
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  Maybe not even earning what you should be earning and your worth
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  is under appreciated and undervalued.
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  They make you do what you hate instead of doing what you're
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  brilliant at, right? And this is something really
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  interesting. You're emotionally overwhelmed,
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  you hit yourself during meltdowns, your shutdowns are
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  happening and getting more intense.
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  You can't even regulate your emotions and you feel everything
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  or nothing all at once. You're exhausted from masking.
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  You've been pretending to be neurotypical for way too long
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  and you don't even know who you are sometimes anymore.
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  And when you unmask, people think there's something wrong
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  with you. And this is something I felt a
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  lot. Your relationships a difficult,
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  hard, or maybe falling apart. You're too blunt, you have no
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  affection, you have no emotion. You're too honest, you're
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  brutally honest. Sound familiar?
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  And this is exactly what I can help you and help fix those
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  issues that present themselves to you in daily life.
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  And I don't just give you information, I work with you
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  until it's actually fixed, solved, or we have a work
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  around. And here's how it works. 90
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  days. Just you, me, and unlimited
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  support. You get daily access to me on
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  WhatsApp. You send me questions, videos,
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  voice notes. I'll respond every day with
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  video answers. You never get stuck wondering,
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  you know, what do I do next? Because I'm there to be your
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  accountability as well. You get as many one-on-one calls
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  as you need. Most people need about 8 to 12
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  calls over the 90 days. Some need a little bit more and
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  maybe some need a little bit less.
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  And that's OK. We'll figure out what works for
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  you. I'll personally build your
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  system with you. Communication strategies,
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  specific relationship guides, career positioning for your
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  specific skills, emotional regulation tools, stuff to help
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  your brain stay motivated, strategic and masking plans, and
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  all customized to you and your daily life.
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  You also get a partner support call.
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  I will talk to your partner or your parent or your close friend
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  and I'll explain autism from the inside.
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  Teach them about how support you need works instead of making it
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  harder, as maybe some of them do before important events,
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  interviews, difficult conversations, presentations, or
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  anything like that. I'll coach you through it.
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  You get pregame support so you can show up confident, ready to
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  kick some butt. Plus, you get lifetime access to
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  the Bulletproof Brain program, the VIP community, and a monthly
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  group Q&A calls just as part of this.
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  And here's the most important part.
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  I work with you until you transform.
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  Very simple. And that's the promise.
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  Not for 90 days and then you're on your own.
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  If you do the work and you're still struggling after the 90
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  days, I'll keep working with you until we get it right.
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  Because this is about making a change.
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  The investment is 1500 U.S. dollars in total.
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  Or you can pay 3 installments of $550.
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  That's one every month for three months.
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  Now, I know what you're thinking, right?
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  Can I afford this? But let me ask you a question or
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  let me ask you this. How much is staying burnt out,
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  emotionally drained, exhausted and masking costing you right
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  now? Think about it like the job
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  that's underpaying you, the relationship that is just ended
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  or about to end, the meltdowns that you keep having constantly,
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  the opportunities you're missing out on because you're exhausted
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  or you can't cope. You have no confidence, you're
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  melting down. You don't even have the
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  self-confidence to just say OK I'll go try it.
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  This is stacking up. You're staying stuck.
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  And this isn't free. It's costing you every single
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  day, every second. You're missing out.
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  So what, $1500 to fix? That is pretty cheap if you ask
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  me. But what if I don't follow
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  through? That's exactly why you get daily
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  accountability from me. You can't not follow through
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  when someone is checking in on you to make sure that you're
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  doing the thing every single day that I'm telling you to do.
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  And what if it doesn't work for you?
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  Well, I work with you until it does.
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  That's the guarantee. If you show up, do the work, and
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  you're still struggling after the 90 day period, I'll just
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  keep working with you for free until we get it right.
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  I'm not interested in taking your money if it doesn't help
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  you. Now let me be clear, this is for
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  you. If you are done being stuck,
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  drained, masked constantly, and just completely at a loss, if
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  you're ready to stop just surviving and start thriving, if
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  you're willing to do the work, this is for you.
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  Now. This is not for you.
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  If you want someone to fix you without you doing anything, or
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  if you're not willing to unmask, or if you're not wanting to know
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  more information and instead of actually doing any change you
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  just want something to do it for you, this is definitely not for
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  you. I only work with people who take
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  this seriously and who are wanting to commit to that
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  change. Now.
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  If that's you, here's what you need to do next, Fill out the
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  application form below. It takes about a minute.
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  If you are qualified for this, you will be able to book a call
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  with me. We'll talk about your situation.
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  I'll tell you if I think this will work for you personally and
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  if it's a good fit. We'll get started right away.
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  The alication is right below this video.
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  Let's fix it.