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Battle of the Doctors ( Dr. Steve Perry) · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: This is your week of Halla. Woke up Breakfast Club
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  Speaker 1: Good morning angela Ye, good Morning's damby Cholo Migne. The
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  Speaker 1: guy peace through the planet is Thursday. It was happening.
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  Speaker 1: Yes it's Thursday. Good morning. Yeah, it's definitely Thursday. Man.
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  Speaker 1: I want to tell you this is this is how
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  Speaker 1: you figure that you're getting getting old, right, and I
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  Speaker 1: hate having these conversations. You're putting gorilla blue on it.
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  Speaker 1: You're putting shoe polace. Shout the Kalid shout to callis
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  Speaker 1: and hard shout the rip rod shout the debty. But anyway,
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  Speaker 1: so you know, this is one of the if you're
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  Speaker 1: in a relationship, right and you get a text like this,
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  Speaker 1: your heart starts, it almost drops. So I wake up
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  Speaker 1: this morning, I get this text. It is twelve thirty
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  Speaker 1: two am, and I just felt the need to text you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh boy, you you're laying next to me
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  Speaker 1: in bed. So when you get this text, you like,
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  Speaker 1: oh boy, right me, I'm clean. I mean I'm clean too,
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  Speaker 1: but you just never know. Yes, right, So she says, uh,
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  Speaker 1: I feel the need I need to text you because
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to wake you up. I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: let you know that you are absolutely lightening the room
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  Speaker 1: up with your button odor that I'm suffering through. It's
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  Speaker 1: almost impossible to bear. My daughter cook last night and
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  Speaker 1: she cooked vegetables and keenwa and everything healthy. And you
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  Speaker 1: know when you eat that sometimes you little Gussie a
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  Speaker 1: lot of fiber. Yeah, so I guess last night I
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  Speaker 1: told him bed room up and my wife couldn't sleep.
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  Speaker 1: Anything else you'd like to share this morning? Any any
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  Speaker 1: any other oversharing you want to. You know, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: in this fine Thursday morning, and no I'm not flirting
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  Speaker 1: with you. I'm just telling you that the question. You're
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  Speaker 1: not flirting with me because you didn't fart around me.
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  Speaker 1: You always say that, And when a man farts around
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  Speaker 1: another man, you know what I mean, it's flirting because
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  Speaker 1: why would you want me? Why would you want why
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  Speaker 1: would you want me to know how your butch mouths?
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  Speaker 1: You know? But you know clearly you was letting those
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  Speaker 1: pheromones off for your wife last night, trying to make
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  Speaker 1: another one. Huh, yeah, she did just kind of him mane.
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  Speaker 1: She didn't appreciate it. She didn't appreciate said getting farted
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  Speaker 1: on either, because you under the covers. That's that Dutch
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  Speaker 1: oven farting't got nowhere to go. You act like I
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  Speaker 1: know I was sleeping. Your wife got fart all over
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  Speaker 1: her skin this morning because of she gonna wake up.
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  Speaker 1: One of the kid is gonna smell something funny and
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  Speaker 1: not want to be around mom. And it's all Daddy's
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  Speaker 1: fau pretty much. Jesus christ Man, Good morn morning, Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: everybody show you're a little gassy. I'm glad to go today.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't have any issues dramas you
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  Speaker 1: little gassy anything. I'm feeling all right? All right, okay,
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  Speaker 1: just put it out there. You know, you guys not
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  Speaker 1: the only ones that are a little gassy when you
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  Speaker 1: go to sleep. I am too. Who are you talking to? Right?
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  Speaker 1: Who are you? Just? Whoo's you guys? You guys? You
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  Speaker 1: r you guys. Sounds like you need a more steady
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  Speaker 1: diet of fiber. Who show today? That is a good question.
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  Speaker 1: Who's on the show? I think the doctor stopped the doctor. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Steve Perry. Stry to Steve Perry, Doctor Steve Perry, now Monday,
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  Speaker 1: Oh what's going on? We're done? Usually get a run down.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't get a run down this morning. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if you guys did, but yeah, doctors Perry will
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  Speaker 1: be joining us. A couple days ago, a doctor call
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  Speaker 1: Hart was on the program. And doctor Carl Hart is
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  Speaker 1: he is, I don't want to go. He's not an addict,
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  Speaker 1: but he talks about drug use and how he uses drugs.
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  Speaker 1: You you said he was an addict when I spoke
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  Speaker 1: to you, But anyway, he talks about how he uses
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  Speaker 1: drug use. He's a professor at Columbia Universe American Neuroscientists. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: professor at Columbia University who researched his drugs Professor neuroscience
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  Speaker 1: and psychology, by the way, so he researched his drug
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  Speaker 1: abuse and drug addiction. Right, So he actually uses the
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  Speaker 1: drugs to proclaimed Harry when used it to be able
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  Speaker 1: to write about it and talk about it and speak
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  Speaker 1: about it. So he used it helps his work life balance.
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  Speaker 1: It makes him happy, he says. He says, okay, yes, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So we had a conversation with him earlier in the weekend.
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  Speaker 1: A couple of doctors wanted to talk about it, and
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  Speaker 1: doctor Steve Perry's one of the doctors that called up.
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  Speaker 1: He's been on the Breakfast Club before and wanted to
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  Speaker 1: talk about some of the things he heard during that interview.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people have mixed emotions. Some people were
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  Speaker 1: very upset that we had the doctor on, and some
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  Speaker 1: people said that Charlemagne and I we're very close minded
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  Speaker 1: when it came to that interview. Well, I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: don't think there's one right answer, but we've talked to
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  Speaker 1: doctor Steve Perry's warning correct and let's get the show
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  Speaker 1: cracking front page news. What we're talking about, Well, everybody
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  Speaker 1: wants to know where their stimulus texts are. We'll give
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  Speaker 1: you an update on one that next round of fourteen
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  Speaker 1: because now there's a new proposal and some people are
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  Speaker 1: getting cut out. About seven million fewer families will get
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  Speaker 1: that partial payment. All right, we'll get into that next.
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  Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the breakfast club. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this? Good morning? And the man good morning and King. Yeah, man,
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  Speaker 1: I parked my car, went out with Whitey on Saturday
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  Speaker 1: night and early Sunday morning, somebody crashed into my car
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  Speaker 1: and told it to bro. While it was a part,
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  Speaker 1: that's horrible, yeah bro, And now I'm it's a car.
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm personal. I've tried to lose different endeavors in there.
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  Speaker 1: It was a car was drinking out for uber or whatever.
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  Speaker 1: So now my loose source has been coming is gone
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  Speaker 1: and I got to go back to my nine to
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  Speaker 1: five ground. But the crazy thing about it is I
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  Speaker 1: asked my neighbor to let me see the cameras and
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  Speaker 1: he told me no. And the camera's appointed like right
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  Speaker 1: towards my car, and he said his camera's are not
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  Speaker 1: for for everybody to set my hand about that. I
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  Speaker 1: don't think he hit me. He's a cop actually, and
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  Speaker 1: he's a college is set up like support you. He
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  Speaker 1: got like seven cameras outside of his house and I
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  Speaker 1: asked him, I say, yo, I know your cameras are
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  Speaker 1: pointing towards for my college. Box cannot see the cameras,
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  Speaker 1: he said, no, he same cameras is not for the community.
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  Speaker 1: Cameras is just for him. I'm a business. Yeah, damn it,
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  Speaker 1: it's exactly right. I don't know how to feel about that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty good. That's something pretty. That is very But
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  Speaker 1: oh he's protecting himself and protecting a friend. To hit
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  Speaker 1: your car, it's probably that's probably what it is. He's
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  Speaker 1: probably protecting a friend. Think so what happened ground look
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  Speaker 1: like they dragged race a lot. A lot of the
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  Speaker 1: kids be doing crazy stuff at night. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: that's going on. So yeah, but he would have gave
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  Speaker 1: that up to you know what I mean, if you
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  Speaker 1: want to help a neighbor, you'd be like, oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I help you, bro. But if they had something to
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  Speaker 1: do with him, he ain't helping. If the cameras, he's
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  Speaker 1: cameras the rail He got like seven cameras outside his house.
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  Speaker 1: He's just being sofy. When I ring the fowl, he's like,
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  Speaker 1: what do you want? Like an old dunky, old man,
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  Speaker 1: He's like, what do you want? Oh, yeah, he gonna
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  Speaker 1: I ain't gon front. That's how old people do. How
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  Speaker 1: old is he? He's pretty old? Yah, so that's how
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  Speaker 1: old people do too, Like, that's that's something my dad
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  Speaker 1: would do. I can see my dad. Hey, but what
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  Speaker 1: do you want? And like y'all want to use your camera?
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  Speaker 1: Go get your own, like I can see my dad
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  Speaker 1: doing that at this age. Yeah, he didn't even come
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  Speaker 1: to the door. He talked to me through the ring camera.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, what do you want? I'm like, man, so
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  Speaker 1: is he white and black? I need to help black?
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  Speaker 1: I live, I live on the floor. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what that is. Yeah, that is you know what's all right?
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  Speaker 1: I'm a going brother luck? All right? Hello? Who is
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  Speaker 1: this yo? Danny man? Danny Man? What up? Make it
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  Speaker 1: off at chair? So I found out there my homeboy,
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  Speaker 1: which is my room man? Right? He had a faithful
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  Speaker 1: in the course with it came end though, So I
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  Speaker 1: don't know how I feel him going back home? What
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  Speaker 1: I got to do with you? Yeah? Why does that
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  Speaker 1: affect you? Unless you'all date then? Which is that? Like?
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  Speaker 1: What did he thought to? Like? Pull it? Move on?
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  Speaker 1: We got clearly he don't want you, sir, You're not
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  Speaker 1: a transgender woman, So why would he want you? Why
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  Speaker 1: would he be attracted to you? Sir? I man ain't
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  Speaker 1: that kind of don't damn it on that mean? Keep day? No?
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  Speaker 1: First of all, does every woman right who has heterosexual?
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  Speaker 1: Won't you right? So just somebody's why are you worried
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  Speaker 1: about that? Bro't want you to have to do it anything?
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  Speaker 1: he's probably not even attracted to you. He has he
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  Speaker 1: or something, but like the crazy so you don't he
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  Speaker 1: mind your goddamn business. Sound like you would be upset?
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  Speaker 1: Would you be upset if you didn't know? How? Let
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  Speaker 1: you that's what It sounds like a little jealous maybe yep,
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  Speaker 1: not really hey, like real business man jealous? Okay, let
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  Speaker 1: that man live all right. I appreciate the man. I
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  Speaker 1: love I love you too, King, But damn that man
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  Speaker 1: don't be because he das trans women either he wants you?
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  Speaker 1: What does he have to do it anything? It was
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  Speaker 1: just kind of weird. Wanted to get that out keep
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  Speaker 1: probably finding where when you bring chicks back. Never, I
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  Speaker 1: ain't never asked you about none of the chicks you
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  Speaker 1: bring to the room because you ain't got none. You
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  Speaker 1: call no. Are we just talking the truth? Man? You
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  Speaker 1: I love y'all. I love you too, brother, all right,
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  Speaker 1: get it off your chest. Eight hundred five, ain't five
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  Speaker 1: one o five one. We got roomors on the way. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: And I'm excited about this Janet Jackson documentary in the works.
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  Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Why's this? It is the
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  Speaker 1: rumor report with Angela Yee on the Breakfast Club. Well,
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  Speaker 1: Janet Jackson is getting a two night documentary event and
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  Speaker 1: that is going to be on Lifetime in A and E.
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  Speaker 1: That should be really, really dope. I can't wait to
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  Speaker 1: see that. They said. This filming on Janet has been
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  Speaker 1: underway for three years. It's going to follow Janet as
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  Speaker 1: her family is going through the laws of her father,
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  Speaker 1: who was the patriarch of the Jackson dynasty. He passed
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  Speaker 1: in twenty eighteen. She got she gave the producer's exclusive
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  Speaker 1: access to archival footage and never before seeing home videos.
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  Speaker 1: I know Lifetime in and under the same umbrella, but
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  Speaker 1: I just feel like Janet Janet Jackson doc seemed like
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  Speaker 1: it should be bigger than that. Yeah, I think so too,
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  Speaker 1: well to two night, four hour documentary events. So I'm
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  Speaker 1: excited to see it two night for our documentary. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, listen, I'm here for that. I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like it should be bigger, but whatever, I'm
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  Speaker 1: my watch, all right. In addition to that, Janet, let's
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  Speaker 1: talk about Janet that was on The Fresh Prince of
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  Speaker 1: bel Air Now. She recently did an interview with Chris
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  Speaker 1: Witherspoon's Pop Viewers, and she shared that she consider taking
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  Speaker 1: her life after exiting from The Fresh Prince of bel Air.
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  Speaker 1: Here's what she had to say. So, I not only
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  Speaker 1: had a house, a mortgage, a husband who wasn't working
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  Speaker 1: at the time, but I also had a business and
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  Speaker 1: a baby, an indifant who needed me desperately. He saved
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  Speaker 1: me my son because I knew I had to take
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  Speaker 1: care of that little boy, and fresh Prince had not
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  Speaker 1: gone into syndication. Yet. It was hard. There were moments
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  Speaker 1: where I felt so broken. There were moments where I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to die. He never complayed suicide. Absolutely, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I saw that yesterday, and I saw folks in the
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  Speaker 1: comments telling her to move on, telling her to get
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  Speaker 1: over it. That's not how trauma works, people, all right.
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: Healing is healing is not a linear process. You could
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: be fine in some cases and then something triggers you,
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: you know, years down the line, months down the line,
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: and you have to let it go all over again.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: So let that woman vent. Man. Plus, I felt like
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: for so long nobody was even bothering to listen. That's
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: very true. And just recently even Will Smith had to
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: sit down with her. So I'm sure that brought her
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: some type of okay for the moment, and yeah, for
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: the moment, but I'm sure that also renewed people being like, Okay,
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: maybe this is something we should pay attention to now
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: because they really weren't before. Yeah, all right now, Tiger Woods,
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: the search warrant of his car is based on possible
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: evidence of reckless driving. They did get a search warrant
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: to get the black box it's in the vehicle. A
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: judge believed there is probable cause that a crime may
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: have been committed, and they said the possible offense is
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: misdemeanor reckless driving. There's a black boxing cause too. I
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: guess they knew a cause my dad. I asked my
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: dad that yesterday. I didn't know that, but he was like,
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: getting certain cause. Did he tell you how aggressive you drive,
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: if you aggressively you know, accelerate aggressively, break, or how
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: fast it you're going you know, if you Yeah, I
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: do remember hearing something like that. Something they can tell,
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: like if you get into an accident and you was texting,
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: they can tell if you was texting beforehand. I thought
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: they were just looking at your phone and see that
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: you let a tweet fire. Now, I don't think they
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: can see if you're texting, but I'm sure they got
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: to look on your phone to see if the accident
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: happened the same time you were texting it. Your call
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: can't tell you, hey, he's texting right now unless you,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: you know, connected the bluetooth. So all no, bro, the'm
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: new calls different. Remember how night Rider used to seem
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: so advanced now, Kits seemed like a goddamn gold cart.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: Turbo boots can't happen right now. Yes you could turbo
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: boos right now. You could jump over things. You can't
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: jump over things, but you could think got caused with
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: all types of turbot with it, all types of trying
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: to tell you, I don't know, bro, They do have
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: cards to dry themselves like Kit used to do all
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: right now. Mariah Carey's brother is now to wing her
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: for defamation. That's over claims that were made in her memoir.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: He says that his reputation was damaged when Mariah wrote
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: up an alleged fight that he had with his father
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: and that she hinted that he was violent towards their mother,
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: and he also highlighted a passage in the book that says,
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: it took twelve cops to pull my brother and father apart.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: The big bodies of men all entangled like a swirling hurricane,
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: crashed loudly into the living room. I was a little
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: girl with very few memories of a big brother who
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: protected me. More often I felt I had to protect
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: myself from him, and sometimes I would find myself protecting
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: my mother from him too. Yeah. I don't know if
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: your reputation was damage, sir, but if it makes you
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: feel any better, I don't even know Mariah Carey had
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: a brother until just now. Yeah, me, neither. Didn't even
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: hear about this, But I'm hearing so many of brothers
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: and sisters suing their brother, suing their parents. I can.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: I could never imagine mabe because I'm an only child,
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: But I couldn't sue my brother. Well, you guys got
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: brothers and sisters. You did get brother will sue you,
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: A sister will sue you. Yeah, especially if you ain't
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: if you ain't never gating him nothing, if you ain't
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: never kicked no money out to them, or if you
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: did kick out some money and they don't feel like
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: it was enough, but they see you out here bawling,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: of course they would. Well, according to Maria's a strange brother, Morgan,
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: he says that that made him sound like a violent person.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: He said he never fought with his dad when Mariah
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: was a kid, and there's no way a dozen cops
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: will be handling a domestic violent situation anyway. In addition
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: for damages for defamation, he's also suing for intentional infliction
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: of emotional distress. Now you know her sisters also suing her. Yeah,
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: Alice Mariah Thine like the only job I got to
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: read this book. So now her sister and this happened,
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: you know, a couple of months ago. But she's seeking
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: one point two five million in damages for the infliction
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: of immense emotional distress caused by defendant's heartless, vicious, vindictive, despicable,
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: and totally unnecessary public humiliation of a defendants already profoundly
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: damaged older sister. You can sue for defamation. I'm suing
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: Charlemagne because he does all that that you said in
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: that whole little sentence he does to me. According to
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Mariah Carey, in her book, she said that her sister
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: drugged her, put her in vulnerable situations with older men,
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: and threw boiling hot tea on her when she was
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: only twelve years old. Jesus. She did accuse her of
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: attempted sex trafficking as well, and her sister, Alison is
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: eight years older than her. Neok, m h, I'm gonna
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: read this book. I think, all right, well that is
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: your rumor report. I did not know she had sibling.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: You can't even right, I don't act like the only job. Yeah,
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: I mean she does well, she's a strange from them,
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: so I don't think she's very close with them. Clearly
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I was a Debbie down a damn all right, I
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: get it. Well you're gonna get the book. Yeah, just
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: because your family. Don't mean that your family, you know
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, like, it's not always about blood,
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: like sometimes it's about principles and energy and spirit. And
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: you know if your principles, an energy and spirit don't
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: aligne with a person, even if that's your blood. Hey man,
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: it is what it is. Your family. They always you
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: That's a fact. All right. Well, we got front page
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: news when we come back, when we're talking about now
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: York Governor Andrew Cuomo says he is not planning to resign,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: even though some people are calling for him to resign,
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: and he has answered these allegations from women who are
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: accusing him of sexual harassment. All Right, we'll get to
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: that next. It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: is sej Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we are
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: to breakfast club's getting some front page news where we're
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: starting easy well. Governor Andrew Cuomo in New York has
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: said that he did not know that he was making
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: women uncomfortable, and he's explaining himself after at least three
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: women so far have come forward with allegations of sexual harassment.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: I now understand that I acted in a way that
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: made people feel uncomfortable. It was unintentional, and I truly
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: and deeply apologize for it. I never touched anyone inappropriately.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: I never knew at the time that I was making
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: anyone feel uncomfortable, and I certainly never ever meant to
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: offend anyone or cause anyone any pain. Now, as far
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: as whether or not he plans to step down, as
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: some people are calling for, here's what he had to say.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to resign. I work for the people
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: in a state of New York. They elected me, and
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: I'm going to serve the people of the state of
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: New York. And by the way, we have a full plate.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: We have COVID, we have rebuilding, we have to do vaccines.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: So no, I'm going to do the job the people
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: of the state elected me to do. Yeah, I really
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: want to know how they decide who they want to
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: resign and not, Like it's very hard to call for
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: Andrew Cuomo to resign if you voted and supported Joe Biden,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: like I voted for Joe Biden. You know, President Biden
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: had more serious accusations leveled against him in Cuomo. When
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: it was people telling Joe Biden to drop out of
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: the race, he didn't. He apologized, and he pledged to
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: respect women's personal space. He denied the rape allegations, and
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: he kept in movements. I just want to know what's
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: the difference with Cuomo, Like why is Cuomo being after
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: resign And it's interesting that right now there's a mayor
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: or race going on in New York City, and so
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: some mayors have aligned themselves with the governor and now
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: they're having to kind of step back and not do
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: that at this time. So that play about the nursing
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: home story with Cuomo, that just went away. It's like
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: in the media forgot about those old people to wake
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: Cuomo did. Oh yeah, And that's something that's still under
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: investigation too. They're doing an independent investigation on that as well.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: It's just not being talked about as much right now. Now,
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: as far as the woman that there was the picture
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: of him like grabbing her face, and she says that
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: he kissed her on the cheek and he made an
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: unwanted advance toward her, Anna Rutch. That was in twenty
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: nineteen at a wedding. Cuomo did say that it's a
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: customary way of greeting for him, you know, where you
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: kiss people on the cheek, and he did apologize for
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: that as well, but he said he's not ashamed of
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: anything he's done in public life. He said, you can
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: find hundreds of pictures of me making the same gesture
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: with hundreds of people and women, men and children, etc.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: So we'll see how this all plays out. That is
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: h Yeah, I mean, you know, some people do do that,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: like they kiss you on both cheeks. And I felt like,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: you know Italians. Yeah, so I don't know, I don't
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: but it could be awkward. So now I'm sure I'm
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: moving forward. People got to think twice about doing things
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: like that, all right. Now, let's talk about the Toronto Raptors.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: They had to face the Detroit Pistons last night and
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: unfortunately for them, they had a skeleton of roster. Apparently
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: there was a COVID nineteen outbreak, and they said that
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: was caused by the coaches bad mask etiquette. So apparently
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: some of them, some of the positive tests of the
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: last week, they said it was an internal spread of
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: the virus and that's from inconsistent mask wearing from the
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: coaching staff members. And he couldn't find anybody to feel
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: th roster spots. Drake didn't want to suit up. Ran
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: a couple minutes with the Raptors. Beeple plays a little basketball.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah don't yeah, I don't think people stings in Toronto though.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: All right, well a lot of those people who were
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: sideline yesterday will not be expected back for the next
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: game against the Boston Celtics. And that is your front
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: page news. All right, thank you, miss ye. Now, earlier
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: this week we had doctor Carhart. Last week last it
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: was last week we had the call hard On and
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: doctor call hard What what is his profession? I know
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: he's a doctor, he's a professor at Columbia University, but
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: a neuroscientist. He is UM he's a neuroscientist and psychologist
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: and he studies the behavior uh in neuro pharmaological effects
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: of psychoactive drugs and humans that's correct. So he's there
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: at Columbia University. Yeah, Now he just doesn't talk about it.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: He actually uses the drugs, I guess to be thorough
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: with his investigations and thorough with his reports. He's a
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: research scientist. So, but he also said he does it
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: for his work life balance. He said, right, there's nothing
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: he enjoys more than sitting by the fireplace and doing
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: a line of heroin. That's right. Well, doctor Steve Perry
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: will be joining us this morning. He heard that interview
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: and uh has some things to say about it, all right,
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: So we're gonna talk to him when we come back,
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: So don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, The
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club back the world's most dangerous morning show. Morning.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: Everybody is t j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomine the guy.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: on the line this morning. Yes, indeed, the brother, doctor
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: Steve Perry. Welcome, Hey blood, how y'all been We're doing
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: pretty good? Man? How you been bro having time in
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: my life? Hey, doctor Steve. For anybody who you know
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: may not know who you are, tell them who you
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: are for real quick. Well, I think What's most important
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: is that I'm the cat who runs schools, starts schools
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: in the hood, been doing that for twenty years. Many
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: of them know me quite frankly because of the interview
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: I did on Breakfast Club, but buff who we start
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: schools together now in New York and most specifically in
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: Harlem and the Bronx. We just opened up a new
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: school in co Op City and the Bronx super excited
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: about that. Absolutely. You know, I wanted to talk to you, Steve,
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: because we spoke last week, you know, after doctor Carhart
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: was up here to good brother, doctor Carl Hart, and
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: you had a perspective. You wanted to share another another side,
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: so to speak. And you know, for those of us,
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: but those of you who don't know who Carhart is.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: He's a doctor who wants to decriminalize drugs, as we
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: all do, because people shouldn't go to jail for addiction.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: And he's also a person who chooses to do heroin
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: recreationally and says that we all can do that too,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: if done safely. What do you think about that, Doctor Perry?
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: So context is everything right? First of all, the interview
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: that you guys did was breathtaking, like much respect to you.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: That was just so compelling. That's really why Charlotte and
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: I ever spoke. I just just dropped him lines said
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: that was amazing. He's clearly deeply credentialed and much respected
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: in this field. He talks about how he grew up
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: in Miami and the liking that's cool, true, and growing
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: up poor and being black seems like they go together
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: like ham and eggs. So that all is there. But
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: the context that he operates it is a overwomanly, wealthy, white,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: highly educated environment. For me, I work and live in
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: the hood. I run schools, our start schools. You don't
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: go to the career Resource center to start schools in
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: the hood. To run schools in the hood. And then
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: our context, what he's saying simply doesn't it doesn't equate
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: to reality. We have a school in Bridgeport and elementary
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: school in Bridgeport. A hundred yards away from our school
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: is a meth clinic one hundred yards one hundred yards
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: to every single morning, like right now, acause I'm in
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: Bridgeport today, I can see the line forming in freezing
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: cold outside for people trying to deal with their addiction.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: When he speaks of moralistic impressions of drugs. I get
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: where he's trying to go, and again, much respect to
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: him for having a perspective, but he's speaking to a
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: different audience. He's speaking to a wealthy, upper middle class,
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: white and other group of people who have access to healthcare,
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: mental health care supports, as well as a family structure,
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: unlike many of the children and families that I work
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: with who don't get to try heroin, who don't get
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: to do it in a controlled environment. It's not just
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: a moralistic difference that he and I see, it's a
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: functional difference. They're parts of the conversation that are left
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: out when he's talking about the difference between the way
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: we look at drugs and the way we look at
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: illegal drugs. For instance, in order for a child to
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: be put on any sort of riddling and the like,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: there's an entire evaluation process that begins at the school level,
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: with observing the child's behavior, having meetings with the parents,
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: having meeting with social working psychiatrist, psychologyist, and then the physician,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: and then after that it's monitored and then that drug
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: that he uses has been created in a laboratory under
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: the most controlled conditions that we know under the greatest
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: umbrella of science that we're aware of. It's not creating
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: a crack account by high school dropout who didn't do
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: well in chemistry, who's put anything that she or he
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: can into this drug to make more money, to make
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: it more addictive. So to compare the two is to
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: me contextually off and therefore doesn't make sense in its
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: real application. And so I want to say this because
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: I was trying to have an open mind, and I
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: have seen him on the documentary on Netflix, Crack, and
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: then I also read a lot of his book. I
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: don't think he's saying, yes, he use drugs, it's good
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: for you. I think what he's saying is that people
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: are using drugs. It's thirty million people in this world
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: that use drugs. As much as we've done this, drugs
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: are bad. We know that we've heard that so much. Right,
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: people are still doing it. So how do you make
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: sure that they're not embarrassed to come out and say, yes,
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: this is what I'm doing and I need to seek
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: help if they need to seek help for that, That's
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: how some of the message that I was getting from
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: him was. And I don't hear him saying use drugs,
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: and quite frankly, I don't think anybody has that kind
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: of juice that they can get on a radio and
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: tell people to do something. They just all start changing
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: their life to do it. That's not what I'm talking about.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: What I'm saying is drugs aren't bad. And one of
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: the reasons why we work so hard to control these
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: substances is because we understand the implications of them when
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: they are uncontrolled. We understand how they run. They ravage
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: not just the body of a person, but the body
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: of a community. And when you do what I do,
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: which is worked among some of the poor children in
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: the country, you don't have the time to talk about
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: the intricacies of the nuances of if you just use
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: shrooms versus using some other form of stukey. I mean,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: this is all we have when I'm talking to to
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: my kids. I'm when I'm in the BRONX. If I
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: would standing in front of my parents and say, okay,
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: I want to talk to y'all about how you can
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: use drugs effectively, they conduct you. They look at me
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: like I lost. They also compared to like prohibition right
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: when liquor was illegal, and how harmful that was because
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: then it was toxic. The people are bootleggers or making anything,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: and people were actually dying from drinking liquors. So they
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: ended up having to regulate it because people were drinking
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: and liquors not good for you either. You know, that's
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: a joke. I think what he's talking about is regulating
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: things so that less people are dying from toxic sebstances,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: because most people are over because they've taken something that
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: they don't know what it is. The majority of people
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: or it's also a combination, right, they've taken these drugs
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: and mix them with other said it is now doctor
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: all true. Let me ask you a question, doctor. You
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: heard the interview. I believe you heard the interview in full.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: He didn't say do drugs. He didn't say I want
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: you to go out there and do drugs. My problem
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: was he was comparing it and making it seem like
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: the drug use was okay. You know, he compared it
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: to having an orgasm, right, which which is wild. Then
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: he compared it to how do you put it? Oh, yeah, No,
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: I know a lot of people that use heroin his
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: recreation or you know, every once in a while. But
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: my whole purpose is yeah, even though you're not saying
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: go use drugs, but in my opinion, you're making it
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: seem like it's okay. Again, this is not a nuanced conversation.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: It's a context conversation. He can have a conversation at
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: Columbia University with wealthy white and Asian kids from all
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: over the world about how they should or think could
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: think about rug use, and he can have that conversation there.
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: I spent the lion share of my career, with the
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: exception ten months that I did at Ye's College, working
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: in the Paris communities and so most specifically running a
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: homeless shelter, and I see firsthand what happens when we
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: do allow drugs to be used. And one of the
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: things that's super important is there's a certain laziness if
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: we're going to be really frank about going to drugs
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: instead of going to counseling, instead of going to create
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: an opportunity for yourself. And I say laziness not as
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: an indictment, but as an honest expression of there are
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: other ways for us to address some of the issues
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: that the underpinnings that we're having. I'm not going to
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: give him that much credit or power to say that
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: he can make people get on or off drugs. But
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: what I can say, and I can also say that
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: the argument, for instance, around prohibition that because it was prohibited,
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: more people we'll use it. I don't know if that's true,
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: but I do know this how people die, not that
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: more people are using. More people died. And one could
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: argue that again, I don't know. I don't know that,
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: but what I do know is this, there are more
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: people die of alcoholism then opior addiction. I do know that,
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: and alcohol is legal. And I can go one step
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: further that during COVID, when everything was shut down, the
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: package stores were open because it was seen as an
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: essential service. So I am not going to sit here
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: and suggest that there is not something to be said
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: about the way in which we treat substances. I well,
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: don't move. We got more with doctor Steve Perry. When
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: we come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning to
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: shoot Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: guy we are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: with doctor Steve Perry. Yee. Suggestion wise right, because people
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: are still using drugs that are illegal how do you
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: prevent that from happening, and how do you prevent people
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: from dying from that? And how do you prevent people
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: from buying drugs off the street? Very big question. I
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: think you know, one of the many reasons why I'm
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: a huge fan of work that you guys do. There's
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: no simple answers to that. No one person knows that,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: including me, what I do, So can I just answer
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: what I do? What I do is create academic experiences
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: that respect Black and Latin people in our communities and
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: show them that they're beautiful and powerful and they don't
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: need to go that route. I show them that there's
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: a future for them beyond these circumstances and they don't
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: have to allow the unearned disadvantages that they have to
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: be compounded by adding additional disadvantages of drugs to their life.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: I show them that there's something more powerful in their
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: brain that they can develop then putting something in their
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: body to take them to an altered state. That's what
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: That's my contribution to the conversation. In additions that we
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: create schools within which we understand that mental health is
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: not something that is separate and apart, but embedded in
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: the academic experience that we understand that growing up black
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: and poor is the most traumatic social experience that we
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: have in the United States of America. That is only
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: worsened by other traumas, but at its base is itself
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: a trauma. So what we do is that other people.
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: When I was running the homeless shelter, what I might
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: have said is that I want mental health support in
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: context where people can gain access to it earlier and cheaper.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: If I were working in another setting, if I were
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: working in a hospital setting, I might want to put
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: in place some sort of detox opportunity. So depending upon
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: what someone does in my lane, in my context, what
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: I do, it means putting myself out there in our
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: community with our team of mainly black and Latin people,
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: to start our own schools, to start the revolution that
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: needs to happen, the power that needs to happen, because
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: at the root of every revolution is education. For me,
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: what do you think, doctor Perry, What do you think
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: about doctor car Hearts comments that we have exaggerated the
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: impact of hard drugs in America. I think he's wrong,
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: and its fundament mentally think he's wrong. I don't you
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: don't need one hundred percent of your hood to be slinging.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: In order for your entire community to be jacked up,
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: you just need like five or six dudes on one
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: block terrorizing the entirety of the community as they try
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: to run the block. You don't need everybody to be
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: in that space. The threat that they offer in their
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: attempt to address whatever it is that they're dealing with
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: is actual. It's real. And so again, at Columbia University,
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: maybe it's not that big a deal. Maybe it's not.
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: But in Harlem, where I work, he works at Columbia,
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: I work at Harlem. They're in the same place, but
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: they might as well be on different planets. But I work,
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: drugs are really a big deal, and they're the reason why,
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: in so many cases, some of my teachers can't walk
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: to their cars without somebody following them. It's the reason
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: why some of my kids are afraid. I can't tell
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: you how many kids we're supposed to have as a
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: New York as a public school in New York, charter
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: schools in public schools, as a podle school in New York,
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: was supposed to have zero taling. So if the kid
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: brings a knife into the school, I'm bringing some other
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: weapon into the school. I'm supposed to expel them, like,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: just straight up. It's just the whole story. I can't
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: tell you how many times I have to work through
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: that in my own conscious when I when I have
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: a child who I know has a weapon on them.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: They're not bringing it to school to cause harm to
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: the school. They're just trying to get to school. And
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: I have to ask myself when I carried a weapon,
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: was I carrying it to hurt somebody in school? Was
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: I just carrying just get from my house to my school?
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: So what student in between me and my school were
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: not poppy seeds? It was crack. When he's talking about that,
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: the crack epidemic was overblown, Come on, bro over by
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: who like? What's over over them? What? Like? What does
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: that mean? I don't know how what he saw. Again,
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: I can't speak to what he saw in his context.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: I can only talk about what I saw when I
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: was in Philadelphia, when I was working out in Philadelphia,
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: in North Philly, and when I was in the Bottoms
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: in Philly called the Bottoms, and what it looked like.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: And I can tell them what it was this morning
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: when I went to visit our elementary school, and it
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: looks like zombies walking by. I don't know what he
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: sees where he goes to his job. I just know
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: what I see when I go to my job. And
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: I don't want people using drugs call me a square.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: I'll be a square all day. I'm cool with that.
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: I'll be your square. Just to talk about how he
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: explained it, though, I think what doctor Carhart was saying
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: was that the issue it is deeper than drugs, right.
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: It is the community is the people that are underemployed
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: or unemployed. People are dealing with anxiety and with depression,
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: and then they're buying drugs off the street to try
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: to treat that, not knowing what's in these drugs. Also,
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: and then also I think a difference and how people
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: look at white people who use drugs and how they
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: look at black people who use drugs, because white people
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: use drugs too, right, And people who are the true
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: and wealthy use drugs also, but they're not looked at
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: the same way as criminals and as addicts the way
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: that black people are all true and there is nothing
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: that black people do other than make music and play
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: on play games. Where when we do it, people think
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: we're cooler at it. Like, let's just call that what
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: it is, right, let's just name that for what it is.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: But that's okay with me. I don't. I'm cool with
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: the fact that I don't want African Americans and Latin
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: people to be elevated in our drug use. I'm okay
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: with that. Like, I'm okay that that's not a thing.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: Every issue that we face is compounded by drug use.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: Every issue. If racism is an issue, add drugs to it.
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: It is possible to say both are true, meaning that
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: there is racism and we should not be doing anything
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: to in any way just by drug use. I mean,
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: I'm not a fan of Nancy Reagan either or her husband.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: Let's just call it what it is. During when I
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: was growing up, he said the ketch up was a vegetable, right,
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: So I'm not okay with that, And I actually impacted
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: me because I was one of those poor I was
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: one of those poor kids whose lunches got diminished because
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: I had free lunch. So my lunch, my vegetable, was
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: a packet of ketchup. I got that. I'm all there
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: for that, But what I also want to make it
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: clear is that I'm not going to draw false equivalence.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: And Charlomagne made this point, you can't keep drawing these
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: false equivalents, like it's not the same, it is different.
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: Here's one of the many places that he and I
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: can completely violently agree. It's different to be black, even
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: light skin with curly hair black, it's different. I well,
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: don't move. We got moved with doctor Steve Perry. When
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: we come back, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, DJ
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: Envy Angela yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are the Breakfast Club,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: was still kicking it with doctor Steve Perry. For somebody
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: who's seeing close, up close and personal, somebody who has
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: odd and died. You know, two people in my family
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: when I go to these homes and I purchased these
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: these fed up cribs, and I see heroin addicts in
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: the house and strung out, and I have these conversations
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: because you got to ask them to leave, you know,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: And I asked them, you know how, And and like
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: you said, a lot of them come from wealthy families
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: and they can't kick it. And they tried it one
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: time and they're stuck. And it's not like okay, I
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: can give up. No, it's they need that hit. And
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: when he was talking about the orgasm is the same,
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I ain't never seen nobody pulling a TV
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: for some sex, you know what I mean. I've never
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: seen nobody, you know, rob their grandmama's purse for for
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: some sex, or hurt somebody for some some some vagina.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: I never, But I've seen it all the time for
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: heroin and crack and coke and all a lot of
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: other these things that people are strung off of. So
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: I just think they want to say that it's okay
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: and that you can do it recreational like that is
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: just crazy to me. I just think that conversation is
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: interesting because a lot of things we've tried to haven't worked,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: and so I'm open minded to because he's done like
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: twenty five years of research on this right and has
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: changed his own viewpoint based on the research that he's
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: done and not saying yes, it's okay to do drugs,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: but like, for instance, and this is for adults, not
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: for kids, by the way, and he always stresses that
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: he's not saying that kids can make these determinations, but
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: he's saying that responsible adults who are you know, take
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: care of all their responsibilities. Know, like for instance, if
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: I do shrooms, I'm not going to do a huge
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: bag of shrooms, I know, just take a little bit.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: Or if you do edibles, you know, I'm not going
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: to eat twenty edibles. Think you're going to have a
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: little bit. So what he's saying is people can make
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: that because he did the micro dosing or whatever. He
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: and listen, I'm never trying her. I can tell you that,
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: like that's not going right, and he has and he
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: has tried it. But what he's saying is there's more
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: people that don't get addicted than do, which is not true.
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: But I'm just I'm just telling you what what his
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: argument is because I I don't know, I haven't studied
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: it to have my own firsthand information and just because
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: I was reading it. So I try to look at
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: it from both sides. Right, it hasn't worked to say
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: just say no to drugs. It hasn't worked to say well,
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: you need to go to rehab and you need to
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: get treatment. So he wants to make sure that people
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: will still be alive if that's the choice that they're
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: making to do it. How do you do it in
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: a more responsible way so you don't die, just like
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: people have the needle exchange program where they trade in
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: their dirty needles to get clean ones. I don't know.
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: I don't know what the real answer is, but I'm
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: just looking at it like a lot of things haven't worked.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: I agree with all that, but you know I would
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: push back and say, we haven't tried hard enough. You
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: know what I mean, because we still send people with
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: addiction the prison instead of getting them rehabilitation. So so
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: I would ask you, doctor Parry, do you think we'll
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: ever get to that point in this country where we'll
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: move the complete rehabilitation instead of prison when it comes
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: to non violent drug offenses as long as the offenders
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: are black and Latin and poor. Now, this short answer
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: to that is the people who generationally have enslaved us
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: are likely not going to change their wicked ways if
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: we're just going to be frank about that. But that
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: doesn't mean that we can't do something. I go back
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: to what MB was just saying. If you've never visited
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: a house that is a crack den, that is a
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: place where people are living as squatters. If you've never
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: walked into experience that stench, and it is a stench.
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: It's a vomit inducing stench. If you've never seen that,
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: then I can completely understand why you might be able
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: to have an esoteric conversation about it, like you might
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: be able to talk about changing things around the edges.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: I get that. I completely get that. But once you
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: have done that, and you've gone in there and seeing
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: not just stray dogs in there, but children who are
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: being treated no differently than a stray dog, then you
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: start to see, you know what, this this thing that
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: we thought was a victimless crime is actually not a
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: victimless crime. Actually, people really are dying from this in
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: a real way. So what that means to me? Charlemagne
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: and I go back to when he asked me the question,
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: I think, it's a fantastic question. What do I think?
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: I think from my place, we have to create avenues
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: where we are, So you, through your meetings, through your means,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: and me through mine, we have to create our own
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: I'm not asking anybody to come in and solve the
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: problems in my community. I just want everybody to be
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: really crystal clear on that. Unless you hear anything other
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: coming out of my mouth, I'm saying, as a black
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: man in my community, I'm not asking anybody to come
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: in and solve this problem for me. I'm not doing that.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: What I want to do is I want to put
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: as many buzz and sisters together and allies to believe
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: in what we believe, to come in and get the
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: work done. Even though we didn't get here by ourselves,
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: we ain't gonna get out by asking somebody to come
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: in and undig this ditch. Should they put us in,
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: That's not gonna happen. I agree with you, and I
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: agree with doctor Carl Hard when he says we should
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: decriminalize drugs because I refuse to accept the fact that
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: people should go to prison for addiction. But I just
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: I just can't encourage people to do cracking heroin recreationally.
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: I don't think the black black people are in any
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: position to allow that type of rhetoric to go and
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: and I don't think we should attempt to create safe
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: spaces for folks to do hard drugs. To your point,
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: let's get them help. Let's provide them with jobs and opportunities,
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: Let's get let's provide them with better mental health resources.
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: You know, let's teach them with trade so they can
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: be more productive citizens. Because a lot of people, man,
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: they turned to drugs because they're trying to escape their trauma.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah literally, I mean they'll tell you. Just just ask.
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: I'm sure envy when you're in those houses and you say, man,
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: how did you get here? I'll tell you really quick story.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: There was a cat who at the shelter that I
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: was at, that was working at and you know, regular
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: looking white guy right like you know, like you just
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: see like regular looking white guy like whatever, not that
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: anyone not losing hadn't lost ant. He lost everything because
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: of drugs, And so I asked him, how did you
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: lose everything like it? He said, well, you know, it
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: just became a thing over time. I worked to get high,
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: like I worked to get high, and I add a
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: small business. What have you? As I said to him,
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: if I took you to Alaska and dropped you off
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: away from everybody, would that be what you need? He
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: said no, he said, I'd find a way to cole.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: He lost his kids, he lost his business, he lost
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: his spouse, he lost his house. That doesn't happen to
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: your point earlier, Charlemagne, because you're trying to take some tale.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: Ain't nobody losing everything because they're trying to get you.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't you ain't getting just because you're trying to get
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  Speaker 1: some behind you. Ain't losing everything behind that mess. I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think we can deny that drugs are really
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  Speaker 1: harmful and for a lot of people. But do you
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  Speaker 1: think there are people who use drugs that can still
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  Speaker 1: function in society and work and be responsible. Absolutely, there
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: are people who do things. I mean, look, Willie Nelson
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: has been high since we were kids, right, we right,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: So let's just stay there. But he's functioning on age
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: to the question of just a basic question, can you
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: be yet? Absolutely? But the question becomes what is the
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: quality of life when that substance is controlling your movement? Right?
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: It's fantastically different when you do something and it is recreational, right,
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: and you do it and you leave it and you're
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: going back to it, that's fine. But for me, I
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: watched the Tiger King and I watched them playing with
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: those big cats, and then I watched the one person
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: lose her arm. That's one arm for one person too
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: many for me. That's good enough for me too. Yeah,
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: Lets say I think so if there. Can you do something?
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: Can you do judgs recreationally without being addicted? I can't
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: because I've had substance I've had substance abuse in my family.
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: I'm not that guy. I'm not testing faith. I don't
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: agree with him when he suggests that substance abuse doesn't
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: run in the family. There's too much research that actually
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: counter his point. And again, he is highly credential, highly respected.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: I'm not questioning his credentials or his opinion, but I
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: also have an opinion as someone who works in this
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  Speaker 1: space on the other side, and on the other side,
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  Speaker 1: it is often the case, whether it's whether it's nature
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: or nurture, I can't make the distinction. And honestly, I
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  Speaker 1: don't care. I don't care if the reason why this
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: child is trying drugs because drugs are in his house,
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: or if he's trying drugs because that's somehow it's predispositioned
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  Speaker 1: to do. So for me, it doesn't it doesn't matter
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: at all. And the thing that's crazy, like you mentioned,
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: like he said, I'm a functioning attict, right, but then
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: he said he's not addicted, So what is the definition
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: of an addict? According to what I know? And working
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: in the field. An attic is someone who needs this,
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: who needs this thing. That doesn't mean that they miss activities.
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  Speaker 1: be dropping her children off in the volvo at school
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  Speaker 1: every day. She may do that every day, and soon
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  Speaker 1: she gets home, she goes and she uses a pill,
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  Speaker 1: or she uses this struggle, she ships to alcohol. Once
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: it's part of your life and it's part of your coping,
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: then it's an addiction. Not every person has to lose
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  Speaker 1: their teeth, Not every person has to lose their job,
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: not every person has to lose their family, but you
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: do lose your freedom, and that's an attic. An attic
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: loses their freedom to determine whether or not they're going
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: to use that substance or going to engage in that behavior.
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: That's when you're addicted. Doctor Steve Perry, where can they
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• 53:40
  Speaker 1: on Naomi Campbell's web series No Filter with Naomi and
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: he shared with her that she was kind of the
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  Speaker 1: inspiration of this song by Gwen Stefani halleback girl around
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  Speaker 1: that text stopping because there ain't no I ain't all right.
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  Speaker 1: That song was produced by the Neptunes and it was
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  Speaker 1: a number one song. And here's what he said happened.
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  Speaker 1: Gwen and I had a song called hollow Back, and
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  Speaker 1: that chorus came from a conversation you were telling. You
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• 54:15
  Speaker 1: of the song that we had with Fabulous at the
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  Speaker 1: time called hollow Back. You told somebody somebody was like
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  Speaker 1: trying to speak to you whatever. He was like, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: I have a name, like I'm not no hollow back girl,
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: and I thought that was so amazing. Okay, So he
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: took Naomi's response to somebody and combined fabulous fabulous, is
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: uh halleback? Yep, yeah, because Nammy got that from the Yeah. Wow,
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: No you're not if you right, at some point, you
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: do hollow back, right, she might not ever at some
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: come on, now, at some point somebody made it seem
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: like that dude was a peasant, because I know hollow
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  Speaker 1: back curl a little peasant. But I'm saying, at some
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  Speaker 1: point some man hollid and she did hollow back. So
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: when you do hollow back, does that make you a
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  Speaker 1: holliback girl? Are you just not a holliback girl in
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  Speaker 1: the moment? Are you just not a holliback girl? Period?
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: Which one The more I feel like Halliback is like
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: when you won the street and somebody high at you,
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: it's not necessarily the most respectful way. Oh well, that's
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: different all right. Now. Kim Kardashian, they're saying, we'll reportedly
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: get that Hidden Hills and mansion when her and Kanye
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: West are divorced and she has that house. She's been
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: living there with their four children. You know, he's been
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: in Wyoming, so I'm sure even though Kanye designed the mansion,
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: other than that, he's not really that super connected to it.
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: And most of her family members live less than a
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: block away in the same neighborhood, so makes sense, right
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: as they try to figure out these things, they have
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: a lot of things to split up, but they both
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: have a lot of money, so I'm sure financially it'll
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: be okay, all right. Megan Nastallion, she's in a new
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: Calvin Clyde ad campaign. She looks amazing by the way,
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: and she posted a hottie and my Calvin's the hot
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: girl for Calvin Kleine Spring twenty twenty one. Mario Sorrenti
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  Speaker 1: she captured the post like that, did y'all see it? Yeah?
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: I did. It's amazing, I said Partisan, Ye, she looks good,
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: Partisan wrote Partisan wrote luckiest man alive under the picture
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  Speaker 1: dropping a clue Martha Parties and Fontaine. I'm proud of you,
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  Speaker 1: both of them. I'm glad they're happy. Man. Well, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: they're a very good looking couple. I'm proud of you. Partisan.
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: In addition to that, Magna Stallion also just was featured
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: on a My Room five song. They just put that
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: out and the song is called Beautiful Mistakes because I
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: let you Usually I like my situal worships, Ben Official,
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• 56:42
  Speaker 1: way I'm coming back to do was me dreaming. Lucy.
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: Who's more? Room five? They do the Room five? As
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: you stop it. They've did a big deal, right, Yes,
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: they're a big deal. Did a song with who Wait,
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: no it wasn't. Was it the party that Chris Markin?
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: She did? Chris Martin is the lead sing Room five? Right,
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: I rock with you? Yeah, I will say yeah yeah
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: Chris Martin. Yeah, yeah, I heard it him. Chris Martin,
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: he's the guy he runs the Room five. Yeah, okay, yeah, yeah,
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: yeah it's Chris Martin. All right. Now, now let's talk
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: about Page Kennedy He's been on The Breakfast Club before.
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: He has a new album out called Page and he's
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: also on the Netflix series The Meg in an upcoming
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: series called The Upshaws with Mike Epps. And he was
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: on lip Service recently. And I didn't know that you
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: can get an STD without even having sex. Here's what
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: he said happened to him. But the first time I
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: got hurt, I didn't even have sex. I literally was
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: just basically draw humping his girls. She had her panties on,
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: she will let me I have my draws on, And
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: I guess her secretion through her panties and through my
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: draws is what caused it. And the sad thing about
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: it is that's not even the only time that that happened. Um,
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: I don't want to everybody be said fout there. I'm
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: not gonna call him a liar. I'm not gonna call
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: him a liar. But you are a liar and always
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: said a liar. Why don't you believe you call him
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: a liar? I'm gonna say I'm not the highest grade
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: of weed in the dispensary. I'm not the strong, strongest avenger.
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: If any doctor strangers are out there, I would like
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: to comment on my page and let me know if
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: this guy is telling the true. Can you actually catch
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: your STD without having sex? Bro, please inform me. He
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: said it twice? He said he called it twice. He
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: just said it's not the only time. I don't know
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: how many I thought sexually transmitted diseases had to be
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: transmitted through sex. If there's some crancretions, if there's some secretions. Right,
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: listening to ya, y'all not doctors, you can still if
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: her secretions hole you guys have sound like he's just
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: making content for the podcast. I'm not listening to y'all.
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: I need to talk to the doctor. Doctor, doctor, paging doctors,
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: I need to talk to you. Let me sounds crazy
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: if that's true. I just want to know. Be careful.
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: Everybody out there drive up and thinking they're doing something
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: nothing really it could maybe happen. I don't know. All right,
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: Well that is a report, all right, almost bet money
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: nobody's ever gotten to STD from dry house he did.
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: All right, No way, I'm gonna tell all that. I'm
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: gonna tell ye Bridge in Brooklyn soon. Bro, watch give
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: me a minute. Will you give it a doggy? Too bad?
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: Four after the hour. We need Greg McDermott, the head
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: coach for the Creighton University. UM, I don't know what
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: their basket is. We need them to come to the
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: front of the congregation. We'd like to have a word
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: with him. It's a teachable moment for white people. All right,
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: we'll get to that. Next is to Breakfast Club. Go morning.
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: Let's don't be a dust because right now you want
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: some real It's time for Donkey of the day. So
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: if we ever feel I need to be a dog
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: man with the heat, did she get get the name? Please?
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: I had become Donkey of the Dead the Breakfast Club bitches. Yeah,
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: Donkey today for Thursday, March fourth gold. God damn it,
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: it's much already. It's March fourth, Floord, have mercy. Donkey
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: today for Thursday, March fourth Gold to Greg McDermott. Now,
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: who is Greg McDermott. He is the head basketball coach
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: at Creighton University. He's coached there for eleven years and
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: if I'm not mistaken, he's the reigning Big East Culture
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: of the Year. Now, for the past few years, we've
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: been in a reckoning in this country. Okay, the always
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: of this world don't serve us anymore. I mean, they
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: never did, but the power structure was such that none
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: of this stuff was truly challenged. Therefore it was never changed. Okay.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: Women are holding men accountable for, you know, their sexism
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: and misogyny. And LGBT community is holding people accountable for,
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: you know, their homophobia and transphobia. And black people are
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: holding America accountable for white supremacy. Beautiful things, okay, and listen,
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: things have been one way for so long that a
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: lot of our behaviors come from our unconscious mind. Unconscious mind,
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: as far as I know, stem from Sigmund Freud's psychoanalytic
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: theory of personality, and the unconscious mind is defined as
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: a reservoir feelings, okay, thoughts, urges, and memories that are
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: outside of conscious awareness. Okay. Sigmund Freud believed that the
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: unconscious continues to influence behavior even though people are unaware
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: of their underlying influences. So America has been one way
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: for so long, and we've been influenced by this, whether
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: we know it or not. To our language of behavior,
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: it's usually a reflection of the systems that we have
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: been a part of. And if you're honest with yourself, man,
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: old man, have we been taught wrong? Okay? So we
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: have all had to unlearn certain things, and that's great.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: It's great. We all make mistakes. It's how you respond
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: to the correction that shows the level of your character.
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  Speaker 1: There is a reason why you do what you do,
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: and it's an important day in your life experience when
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: you discover that reason. I'm bringing all this up because
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  Speaker 1: Greg McDermott made a mistake, a mistake made because of
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: years of conditioning. He's fifty six years old, fifty six
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  Speaker 1: year old white man coaching an NC Double A Division
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: one basketball team with about seven seven black basketball players. Okay,
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: one black assistant head coach. Might even be more black
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: players on the team. A lot of them look real
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: miscellaneous in the face. So I don't know. I'm not
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: throwing him any bail at all, because he should absolutely
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: know better. But I believe his unconscious mind told him
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: to save this. Let's go to Keyshawn, Jay Will and
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  Speaker 1: zub and show on e FBN for the report Police
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  Speaker 1: Credon's head coach Greg mcdermot's fielding some questions about some
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: comments that he made following a loss to Xavier last Saturday,
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: this is McDermott telling the team quote, guys, we got
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: to stick together. We need both feed in. I need
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: everybody to stay on the plantation. I can't have anybody
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: leave the plantation. McDermott did say he quote immediately after
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: saying those words, immediately recognized my egregious mistake and quickly
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: addressed my use of such insensitive words with my team.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: The university put out a statement saying that their basketball
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: coach used a term that was quote deplorable and if
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: you're wondering for one member of the team, Terrence Rencher,
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: who was a black assistant coach, said he was quote
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: deeply hurt by McDermott's words. Do we have homo? We
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: don't have homer when you need now, if dad, the
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: top three things not to say to black people one
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: being the N word, okay, three anything negative about beyond stay.
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  Speaker 1: Then two got to be any reference to slavery. Okay,
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: the plantation. You be in our mathet. I shouldn't even
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: have to explain to you the generational trauma attached the
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: plantation references. But what I like even more about this situation.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: But what I like about this situation is that it
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: is a teachable moment. Okay, the teachable moment for all
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: white people. Of course, you know not to say this now,
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: or maybe you don't, but remember what I said earlier
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: about how we all make mistakes and how you respond
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: to correction. That shows the level of your character. Listen
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: to Greg McDermott apologize. I made an awful mistake. And
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: when you make a mistake sometimes you're not only disappointed
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: in yourself, but the pain that I caused our players
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: who look to me as a mentor and as a leader,
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: the pain that I saw in their eyes was I meant,
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: that's where my disappointment is in myself. Is that what
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: I've done to some young people that I love very much.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: So that's a cross that I'm going to have to bear.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: I'm going to come out of this a better person
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: because of it, but it's it's going to be a process.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: Have some more conversations which we need to have so
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: that I can help them and they can help me. Now,
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: you know, you know what that's real because he isn't
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: being threatened. He didn't lose anything. There's no threat of
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: losing anything. Okay, he apologized, all right, now, I'm sure
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: they asked him to apologize, but that seems very sincere.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: And self correction is important. Okay, see self correction. Some
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: of y'all white people fighting the changes. Okay, y'all still
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: trying to hold onto the old way of doing things.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: Greig didn't make any excuses. He didn't start that silly
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: white victimhood nonsense. He didn't say white people are being targeted.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: He acknowledged he did something wrong and he corrected himself.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: That is how you make the world a better place.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: Michael Joseph Jackson said, if you want to make the
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: world a better place, take a look at yourself and
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: make that change. So when someone calls you on your behavior,
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: tells you that something you are doing isn't right, don't
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: fight it. Just make that damn change. Okay. Self correction
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: is the biggest sou social service. Also, this man, Greg
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: McDermott offered to resign. Okay, he offered to resign, and
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: his players say, no, we don't want him to resign.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: He made a mistake. I don't don't think he should
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: resign either. He just made a mistake. He should be
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: held accountable and he should change, and he should use
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: his privilege moving forward to correct other Caucasians. I want
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: someone of his character being the master of other white folks.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: And he has a great lesson to teach his players.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: Now See, everybody thinks mistakes are the first steps to success,
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: but the real fact is the correction of mistakes is
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: the first steps to success. Learn that you will manifest
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: a better life for yourself and others. Please give Greg
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: McDermott the sweet side of the Hamiltones. Oh no, you
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: are doge of the day, the Doge oh the day. Ye.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, well, thank you for that dunkey today. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: man up next ask ye eight hundred five eight five
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  Speaker 1: Good morning the breakfast club. These relationship advice, need personal advice,
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  Speaker 1: it's two of y'all on the line right now. This
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  Speaker 1: is for asking you. Guys have similar problems. So Ye's
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  Speaker 1: gonna try to bust it both down for both of
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  Speaker 1: y'all life. Okay, Okay, so who's going first? I guess
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: I'll go first. Let's have a conversation. Okay, So this
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  Speaker 1: is where I'm at me and my boyfriend. We've been together.
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  Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight, um, and we've been together since I
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  Speaker 1: was thirteen years old. We have three children together. Um.
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  Speaker 1: But he has a drinking problem. And this drinking problem
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  Speaker 1: has developed, you know, maybe about seven years ago. And
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  Speaker 1: at that time, you know our son. You know, he
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  Speaker 1: was injured in a car accident due to and he
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  Speaker 1: has chromatic brain injury, and of course those type of
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  Speaker 1: won't take a long time to heal. I'm still dealing
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  Speaker 1: with it myself, and you know, for the most part,
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: you know, he's been It was bad, then it got good,
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: then it got bad again, and now it's like really
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: bad again. So my question is, you know, at this point,
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: you know, and it got so bad to the point, well,
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: let me back up and say, it got so bad
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  Speaker 1: to the point that he wrote me in to become
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  Speaker 1: an alcoholic as well. But last year I took it
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  Speaker 1: upon myself to change my life. I don't drink anymore,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I don't. I used to smoke cigarettes, nasty habit,
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  Speaker 1: you know, but I don't been a year since I
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  Speaker 1: smoked cigarette. The years since I've drank liquor or whatever.
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  Speaker 1: And I realized you know that we were going down
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  Speaker 1: a dark path. So now I've been trying to leave
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: you by example, you know, So basically, what now that
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: I've changed and he doesn't want to change, I'm at
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: this place where I'm like, do I leave him? You know,
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  Speaker 1: to um so he's not taking me back or you know,
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  Speaker 1: because I've always been, you know, a hustler. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I am the read winner of the family, you know,
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  Speaker 1: and I never let him know that or anything like that,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, I feel like with him, you know,
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  Speaker 1: having this problem, he's dragging me down. Yeah, that's well,
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: my situation is pretty much the same either. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: not a drinker myself, but my husband, he's been drinking
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  Speaker 1: in and out the hospital for pancreatis for like three
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: or four times. Different doctors over like maybe five different
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: doctors sell him to stop drinking, but he'll stop drinking
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: when he lives a hospital, but he'll eventually start back drinking.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, you know, you don't supposed to be
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: drinking or having that, and he's like, I'm gonna be okay,
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: but it scares me. And when he drinks, he's like
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: a whole different, dreadsive person. He's not drinking. He's like
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: super sweet, so charming, so, you know, just a great
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  Speaker 1: person overall. But I'm just in the process of now
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  Speaker 1: it's like he's kind of wearing me down because I'm
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: kind of getting overwhelmed with it and I'm like really
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: ready to leave me and my kids, you know, ready
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  Speaker 1: to go because it's like I'm just every day come
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: home for a drink, beer in his hand, drink and drink, drinking. Done. Stop.
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  Speaker 1: So and ladies, first of all, I want to say,
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  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry to hear that both of y'all have
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: to go through this, And I commend our first caller
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  Speaker 1: for actually getting the help that she needed and being
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: cleaned for a year. That's a huge accomplishment. You know,
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: alcoholism is a disease too, so that is an addiction
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: that somebody has to want to get help. And like
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: you guys have both stated, it doesn't seem like these
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: men are trying to seek the help that they so
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: desperately need. Have I that one of you ever tried
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: to do an intervention? Yes, I actually go to my counseling. Um,
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: my counselor referred me to someone who I can actually
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: have him to go see our schedule the appointment or
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: the day of the appointment. It's like, Oh, I don't
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: need counseling it. I don't need to go to rehab.
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  Speaker 1: I'm good. I can do it on my own. I
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: could software. He just speaks like he's not an alcoholic basically,
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: but all alcoholics seem they're not alcoholics, right. The first
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: step is admitting it, exactly. That's exactly how I feel.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: You know, I've come to him and I told him,
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: you know that, you know you're an alcoholic. You know
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  Speaker 1: you need help. You know, look what you're doing to
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: me and the kids, you know, and I'm here. It's
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: the same thing, you know, where he's like, you know,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: very nice, he's himself when he's sober, But when he's
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: an alcoholic, you shift. It's so different. And I would
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: highly recommend getting an expert that can actually help you
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: set up a real intervention right where you have family
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: members close people that can actually sit down in the
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: room and help be supportive, but also talk to this person,
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: talk to him your husband about how this is tearing
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: in the family apart. Because again, they have to know
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: that they have a problem, and they have to want
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: to seek help. And again, it is a disease. So
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: while you do have to be supportive, you also can't
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: cover up his problems for him. Do you guys still
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: have liquor in the house. No, I don't think if
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: I don't carry any of that in my home. But
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: he'll go back for all day to about the way
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: he wants. Yeah, and it's to the point that he
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: will get on the bike. I don't because he don't
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: even have a car, no mode, because he got a
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: duf and he'll get on the bike and I you're
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: not dropping my car. And if he's to ask him
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: to some of the all right, well listen. I want
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: to direct you guys to American Addiction Center Centers dot
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: org and they'll actually have a lot of resources on there.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: You can even chat online with somebody that is confidential
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: so that they can help you figure out what type
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: of help you guys specifically need. But I do think,
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: you know, maybe set up an intervention not just with
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: the pastor, but with family members. Maybe the pastor also
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: can come in a therapist, somebody that can actually leave
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: this conversation an expert. Like I said, it's not easy,
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: and this is a disease and it's something that they
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: have to want to say, Okay, I'm gonna take and
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: you know it could happen at anytime. That's why you
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: have to be optimistic and have to keep on and
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: greening this message into someone's head until they finally hear it,
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: because it could end someone's life, you know. And again
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: for yourself, I don't want you guys, this is a
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: heavy burden on you as well, and I don't want
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: to tell you. I can't tell you to leave somebody
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: or what not to do because I think the guilt
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: that you might feel if you did. But again you cannot,
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: you know, make excuses for him. But I do feel
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: like you need to get that professional help. You can
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: call eight eight eight nine nine eight two six oh five.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: You can go online to American Addiction Centers dot org
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: again get that treatment that you need and figure out
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: what it is that you can do, some actionable steps
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: that you can take. Because it is a disease, so
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: help is available. You can speak to somebody for free
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: and then find out what you need to do, and
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: it's all confidential and they have public health agencies that
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: deal with this. Also. You can also call one eight
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: hundred and six six two four three five seven, and
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: you can get some substant abuse treatment. But this is
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: a serious issue. So that's why I want you to
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: talk to somebody that's an expert in dealing with this. Yes, Meta,
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: while I appreciate your advice there, you know, to the
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: other bluddy just prying getting there, you know, I'm here
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: with you experience, definitely, thank you, Thank you Angela here,
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Thank you, ladies. I'm praying for them.
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: I ask ye eight hundred five eight five one oh
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  Speaker 1: five one if you need relationship advices to breakfast club,
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  Speaker 1: good morning. I'm keep for some real advice, ask ye.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: Wanting everybody's dj envy Angela yee. Charlomine the guy we
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: are the breakfast club with in the middle of asking ye, Hello,
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: who's this Astley Askeley, what's your question for ye? I've
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  Speaker 1: been with someone for years and my children have known
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: him also for years, and they was like three and
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: time they're older now and they're to the point where
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: they're calling him dad, and their father, who just got
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: in their life because of court purposes, feel as though
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: they shouldn't be calling him dad now and that they
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: should shop stop. How are your children now? Um? Nine?
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: How old are yours? That's the bigger problem. Sure, that's yours. Yes, Lord,
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  Speaker 1: I'd be doing the same thing though, but I'm a dad.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: Dad can do that. I don't think mother should be
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: allowed to do that. One of us got to know
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  Speaker 1: how the goddamn well, we know, we talked to charity numbers, birthdays,
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: all the stuff. The numbers are flying all over to place. Yeah,
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: so it's like sixty years. You've been with this man
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: for six years? Yeah, okay, And so the children are
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: comfortable calling him dad, and they've done that on their own, Yes,
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: on their own. We sat down and talk with them,
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: see how they're feeling. But me and him both talked
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: by ourselves when my daughter first started calling him dad,
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: and then he said, well, we're gonna wait and see
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: if she's gonna continue to do it, and then we
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: just want to see how it's gonna go from there.
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: And then we just you know, sat it down and
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: started talking with her and then she felt it though,
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: it's okay, and we kind of start and said of
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: some boundaries in our house because he also has children,
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: and we bring our children together so that no one
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: feel like a black sheet, because that's a big generational
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: thing that seems to be in family. So we don't
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: want none of our children feeling uncomfortable. But they don't,
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: thank God, because we're bringing them together. And I will say,
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: just based on other families I know that are blended families,
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: you kind of have to let the kids lead the
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: way and they feel most comfortable in these situations if
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: that's what they're comfortable doing, and you guys are okay
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: with it, But I do think it's important that they
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: know what the relationship is, right. They do know they
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: have a father, a biological dad, but he's been raising
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: them as he should if he's with you, like they're
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: his children too, because when you're with somebody that has kids,
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: that's like those are your kids too, and you never
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: want them to feel different than his biological children, right.
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: And this is the thing that just really bothered me
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: is that their biological dad, when I go to him
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: for things for the children, he feelings though that my
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: fiance ought to be doing it because he's the one
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: that's there, but he doesn't want them now to be
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: calling him dead. And I'm just like, well, how you
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: don't want them to call him dad? But you don't
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: want to do nothing for him. Yeah, Unfortunately, it's not
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: even up to him at this point. You know, this
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: man has been doing a great job and the kids
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: feel comfortable calling him dad, and he's planning, I assume
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: to be in their life, right. You guys are planning
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: to be together for the long haul, yes, and so
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: that's what they're comfortable with. And unfortunately for him, he
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: hasn't been there and he still can be their father. Also,
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: he is their father, and he should still act appointingly anything.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: I'm we're adults and everybody have been married before and
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: dealt the this time thing and as a as parents
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: and co parents and everybody should respect each other's wishes
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: and boundaries and everything and don't discredit the other parents.
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: It's just a lot with him, and we try to
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: make sure everything is mature, but it's always Yea, it
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: sounds like you guys might need to do some he
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: might need some individual counseling, and then maybe there's some
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: type of parenting counseling that you guys can do together
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: so that y'all can function when we want to court.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: The judge seems what was going on and seeing how
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: he was reacting and he sent us to cool parents
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: and classes right to help and no not on his end,
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: no right, So well, listen, I would say this, it
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: would probably be hurtful to the children if you try
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: to go to them and say, oh, you can't call
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: the person who you look at as a father figure
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: dad anymore, especially if he's okay with it, you're okay
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: with it. And at some point you know their biological
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: father is gonna have to step up and he's there's
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: nothing he could really do about it, and he should
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: be grateful that somebody has done a great job and
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: that you're with somebody that treats these children so well. Absolutely,
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: and I feel the same way, and I just I
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: always try to let him know that no one discredits
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: him on no one takes who he is from our children.
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: And it did something more denoccause I just wanted to
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: make sure as a woman that I was doing the
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: right thing. And I just sometimes as a female, we
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: don't we don't see a man's side or understand his feelings.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: So it's okay. I feel as though it's okay for
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: females who act another female or a guy. Just make
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: sure that you're not out of line. Now you've done
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: everything that you can do, and you're respectful to him
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: as a dad. You're not denying him any of the
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: privileges that he has as their biological father. But whatever
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: it is best for the kids is what should be
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: best in this situation. It's not about how he feels
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: and hit and we take that into consideration, but it's
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: bigger than him. It's about the kids. Yeah. Absolutely, I
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: appreciate y'all. I just want to let y'all know me
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: and my kids listen to y'all every morning all our
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: way to school, the words, so do you call your
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: man daddy? Do you call your man daddy? Y'all? Soo
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: do not? Just wondering the only reason you're letting these
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: kids listen to this adult programming because you don't know
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: how old he is. My kids are very pure for
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: their age, and it's so weird, but they my daughter,
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: he loves the guests. What race it is? That's funny
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: me stuff that goes on to school and she goes, mom,
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: that's what happened to school today? And let's see. I
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• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: Ask eight hundred five eight five one five one. We
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: got rumors on the way. Vanessa Brian, she is talking
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: about finding strength after Kobe and Gianna's tragic deaths. Will
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  Speaker 1: tell you what she had to say and this exclusive
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  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club? Good morning the Breakfast Club. This is
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  Speaker 1: the rumor report with Angela and Lord. Drake has confirmed
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: some new music coming and that music will be coming out.
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  Speaker 1: What's the day, the fourth, the fifth, tomorrow? Tomorrow? Yes,
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: he put Friday Midnight and he shared some artwork for
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  Speaker 1: Scary Hours too, Certified Lover Boys coming soon. Feeling like
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 1: I do. Like when Aubreya says Scary Hours, why I
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  Speaker 1: just do. That's when he puts out his best work.
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: That's that's when somebody's pissed him off. All right, I
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 1: can't wait to have some new Drake music. All right. Well,
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: Vanessa Brian is on the cover of People magazine. She's
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: featured on the magazines Women Changing the World cover, and
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 1: she talks about how her daughters have helped her cope
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: with the family tragedy. They've gone through a lot together
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: and she said the pain is unimaginable. You have to
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: get up and push forward. Lying in bed crying isn't
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: going to change the fact that my family will never
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: be the same again. But getting out of bed and
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: pushing forward is going to make the day better for
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: my girls and for me. So that's what I do. Okay,
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: always send them prayers and love to Vanessa. That has
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: to be one of them. I couldn't even imagine that
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: type of pain, her daughter, her husband, but she does
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 1: have her girls that give her the strength that she needs.
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: So make sure you pick up that People magazine all right. Now,
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 1: Square has acquired a majority steak in jay Z's Title
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• 1:21:11
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• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: he'll also join squares board of directors as part of
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: the deal. So through this deal, jay Z and Titles
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 1: are the shareholders, which include Beyonce, Madonna, Rihanna. Are you know,
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: a lot of different artists will continue to own their
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: piece of the business, but that business will operate as
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: an independent division within Square. Yeah. I mean, it's a
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 1: lot of different things that are impressive about this deal.
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: But you know the fact that the artists who were
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: now would title from the beginning are the second largest
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: you know shareholders of this deal. Man drove on a
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: clues bombs, big ball teams, you know, hold had a
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: good couple of weeks and where is by the way,
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: they have cash app there, you know, so for that
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: type of money services. And it seems like this has
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: been some years in the making. He's been jay Z
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: Jack Dorsey had been talking for quite some time. It's
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: actually started a few months ago, and those talks progressed
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: after they discovered the shared purpose between them that was
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 1: to build things and empowered others to be more successful
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 1: in their own work. So going to what's next for
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 1: Hope though, like because you know, he always thinks five
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: steps ahead, Like see, that's what's wrong with y'all needs.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just curious. I love the way his mind thinks.
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: I'm just curious, Like what how he thinks? Can we
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: can we stay here for a second? Can we stay
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: with the title in the spoi space? And it's great,
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: the Champagne less you know, that's great, But I'm just
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: curious to what's next, Like what's on his agenda? Like
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: is it to what's next? I just love the way
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 1: he thinks. So he always told us stay low and
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: keep firing. And he hasn't looked back since that's his model,
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: stay low and keep firing. It's really only two ways
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: to do business right, good and bad. And Hope historically
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: does does good business. And he's sitting on the board
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: of Square now, so he's like, over cash app, what
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: else Square, guy, I'm only got cash happing something else? Well, oh,
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: since you on the board. There's a lot of people
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 1: that's been DM and me. They send people wrong people
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 1: a cash app and they how to get their money back,
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: and they say, there's no number for cash app. Can
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 1: you get a number of for you? Send that money
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 1: out on cash app? You can't get it back? Yeah,
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: can you fix that hole? You send it to the
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 1: wrong person. Yeah, you know what I was thinking about
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: this morning too, And this is so random. I was thinking.
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: I was thinking about the last deal with LVM MAT
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: and I was thinking about how George Clooney gave all
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 1: his close friends a million dollars. I'm like, I wonder
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 1: if Jay does stuff like that. Probably does that all
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: the time. This, here's a million for you, Emory, here's
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: a million for you, TA for you. Be high. But
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: those are not just his friends they worked also, Yeah,
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: and they also work with him. George Clooneys was just
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: like his boys from school, you know, but those are
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 1: boys from school. He gave his boys from school jobs
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: and they didn't go to school. But I'm just saying
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 1: they also work with him, so they're kind of went
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: to the school. A hard knock shot. Yeah, they didn't
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 1: go to school. Come on all right, now, the real
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: house is Atlanta. According to the Jasmine Brand is looking
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: to cast a female comedian in Atlanta, so they've been
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: putting out some fillers to see who might potentially be
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 1: a good fit. They haven't made a decision yet about
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 1: who's returning for the upcoming scene. But I also saw
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: that my girl Jasmine Brand didn't exclusive with Kenya Moore
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: about whether or not she broke girl code for accusing
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 1: one of the women to have hooked up with a
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 1: male stripper at Cynthia Billy's bachelorette party. We sell the
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: video footage now and here's what she said. Do you
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: think you broke girl colde? No, I don't think I
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 1: broke girl code because that implies that I am somehow
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 1: snaching on my friends and we already know who the
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 1: people are involved, and Portrait clearly said I'm not her friend.
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 1: So a girl called if I'm not your girl? No,
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 1: she broke girl code. Vy was so into this, That's
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 1: why I was like, So, if you don't know what happened,
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 1: it was a stripper party. They turned the cameras off,
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: they made production leave, they covered the cameras. Whatever happened
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 1: after that is whatever happens after that. You're not supposed
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 1: to tell that the same thing as god code. We
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 1: all go to a strip club, right and everybody in
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: the cameras leave and everything, and your man does something crazy,
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 1: you tell them, girl go come on. It sounds like
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 1: dumb coode and I break dumb code. It's stupid enough
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 1: to go to a bachelor party knowing you getting married
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: and you do something and somebody tells and you do
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 1: something in front of all these people, but the person
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 1: getting married and do anything. Cynthia didn't do anything. It
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 1: was just somebody else. Yeah, not Cynthia. I thought you
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 1: said about your boys going out. But if your boys
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 1: go to the club, I mean, Charloman and you've been
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 1: to the strip club with one of your peoples, did
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 1: something stupid you just laugh about it. You keep it
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 1: in your group chatting. That's it. You don't go tell
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 1: the world. I don't know nothing. I don't know what
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: you're talking about. Spluf I. The cameras were rolling. Nah,
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 1: they turn the cameras off. I saw some video footage.
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 1: Now they turned the cameras off. And it was supposed
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 1: to be just the girls, girls, girls, Relax, it's not
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 1: that serious. Sorry, I'm sorry, don't know what. There's definitely
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 1: some footage out there. Nay, they turned the cameras off.
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 1: You don't let that bitch talk to you like that.
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 1: You what you just call them? Now? Listen, listen. You
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 1: know more about the Bachelor, sir. But if you look
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 1: on the jazz band, you can see video footage of
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 1: and you know you're in a placement this. Can you
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 1: have mics on? Come on? They cut the cameras off.
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 1: The cameras supposed to be cut off. Supposed to be
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 1: chatty horn. Ralph Lauren has launched a new clothing rental service,
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 1: and that's for Lauren Ralph Lauren. So it's kind of
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 1: like rent the Runaway where you pay a monthly membership
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 1: and then you can get unlimited swaps and complimentary shipping.
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 1: So if you want to just rent some clothes, you
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 1: have this monthly membership fee and then you can just
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 1: pick whatever you want from these six hundred different pieces
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 1: and then send it back get something new. And then
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 1: once you use something like a few times, they retire
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 1: it and they actually donate them to Delivering Good, which
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 1: is a nonprofit benefiting at risk families and children. I
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 1: mean it's smart because you know, he know the screechs
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 1: about to open back up this summer. You know, people,
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 1: people money, a little lord, he might need to rent
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 1: a little outfit to be out here in these streets
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 1: for the summer. All right, Well that is your rumor report.
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 1: All right, well let's get to the mix Revolt. We'll
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 1: see you tomorrow. Everybody else, let's go. I saw some
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 1: video footage now they turned the cameras off and it
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 1: was supposed to be rebody is j Envy, Angela Yee
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 1: Charlowe the guy we all to Breakfast? Club is Women's
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 1: History Month. With what we doing you? Well, today we
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 1: are celebrating Clarissa Shields. You know she has an MMA
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 1: fight coming up this summer, but tomorrow she will be fighting.
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 1: She's been trying to get a fight for a while.
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 1: Like I said, she's ten and oh and she is
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 1: the fastest boxer in history to win titles in three
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 1: weight divisions. But for some reason, people weren't trying to
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: show her fight. Well, now she's headlining in all women's
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 1: pay per view on Fight TV and that's going to
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: be tomorrow. It's called Superwoman because she was tired of
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 1: waiting for people who are the powers that be in
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 1: boxing to come around to her way of thinking. Here
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 1: is Clarissa Shields. Girls. It's Women's History Month, and we're
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 1: celebrating the most influential women in his check out this
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 1: phenomenal woman. When we're talking about the minute around, women
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 1: boxing didn't put those rules down for us to fight
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 1: two minutes. The men did that so and I feel
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 1: like they did that to keep us at our pay
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 1: wages to where we don't make as much of them
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 1: because we don't fight the same time. So what I'm
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 1: saying is not that we're not worth the same thing,
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 1: but we are willing to fight three minute rounds for
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 1: twelve for twelve rounds to even the playing field to
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 1: where when we say we want equal pay for also
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 1: putting in an equal work. I just don't think that
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 1: two minutes is enough. And that's where they look at
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 1: the lack of women's boxing and say, oh yeah, like
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 1: y're they're boxing, but they're not as great as than men,
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 1: and we are as great as than men. I know
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 1: for a fact that I am. Women's boxing is on
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 1: the forefront, you know, like we're not in the shadows anymore.
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 1: We need to have our faith out there to where
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 1: people can, like, like the young girls can see like
• 1:28:30
  Speaker 1: we have things coming up. And that was another phenomenal
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 1: woman in history. All right, but let's make sure we
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 1: all purchased that pay per view tomorrow night and show
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 1: some love and support for Clarissa Shields. At just twenty
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 1: five years old, she is already legendary. All right. Shout
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 1: out to Clarissa Shields. Now when we come back, we
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 1: got the positive notes. Don't move. It's to Breakfast Club.
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: Good morning. I'm wanting everybody is Stej and v Angela, yee,
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club now, um,
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 1: shout to everybody that's heading out to Atlanta this weekend.
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be out there for all stars. I'm gonna
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 1: be all over the place. Shout out to my family
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 1: at b QE, which is probably one of my favorite
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 1: restaurants out there. Um also shout to Monticello. Shouting to
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 1: Sweet and Slush Louns. I'm gonna be all over the
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 1: city and Rose Bar, so hopefully I get to see
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 1: some of you guys socially distancing of course, I said, yeah,
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 1: boy opened a restaurant toast on Lennox. Oh, Chef Harper, Yeah,
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 1: shout to Chef Harper. He's probably one of the most
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 1: amazing chefs that I've I've ever you know, any restaurant
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 1: that I've ever ate at. He started b Que, then
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 1: he started Rock Coop Cuisines, and now he's doing his
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 1: own restaurant. He's just a dope chef. He puts together
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 1: amazing menu. So shout to us Chef Harper, and flew
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 1: to my guy Kobe Man. Kobe gonna be hosting like
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 1: every single party in atlanted this weekend. Yeah, Kobe, Kobe,
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 1: Young Kobe, he gonna be at every single event. You
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. He's only nineteen, so he can't drink,
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 1: but you know he's gonna be up in there with
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 1: your or you know, they said that the Super Bowl
• 1:30:01
  Speaker 1: wasn't a super spreader like everybody said it was going
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 1: to be. It wasn't a super spreader at all. So
• 1:30:06
  Speaker 1: hopefully this would be the same in Atlanta. Kobe was there.
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 1: Hopefully Kobe was in the Super Bowl too. Kobe be
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 1: all over the place. Don't don't, don't get it twisted.
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 1: The only nineteen, but his mind is old. Okay, well
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 1: I just have to along those lines. I also let
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 1: you guys know, the Black Coalition Against COVID nineteen is
• 1:30:21
  Speaker 1: hosting another making a Plaintown Hall tonight that's a seven Eastern,
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 1: So they're gonna have expert panel discussions on protecting the
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 1: lives of our Black community elders from COVID because, as
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 1: you know, our elders are the pillars of our communities
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 1: and protecting them is our priorities. So they'll be panelists
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 1: like doctor Lestean McIvor from the Centers from from Medicare
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 1: and Medicaid Services, and doctor Amanda Cone from the CDC.
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 1: So tonight's event is dedicated to people working in aging services.
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• 1:30:54
  Speaker 1: All right, now you got a positive note. I do
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 1: man the positive note. During Donkey today, I was talking
• 1:31:00
  Speaker 1: self correction. Just know that self correction makes you check
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 1: the rules of your life against the yardstick of your
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 1: inner voice. Okay, when you acknowledge when you don't measure up.
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 1: Self correction is an ongoing process. If done often enough,
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 1: it can stop yourself from screen off your path. Breakfast club,
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 1: y'all finish or y'all done.