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Are You Pushing Money Away Without Realizing It? | Money Manifestation Chapter 2 · Rock My Finances

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  Speaker 2: Welcome back.
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  Speaker 4: We are in an amazing series Money Manifestation series, and
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  Speaker 4: we are on chapter two right now.
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  Speaker 2: Glad you're here.
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  Speaker 4: So are you pushing money away without even realizing it?
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  Speaker 4: A lot of people do. We don't even realize it.
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  Speaker 4: We are controlling it and we are making that happen.
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  Speaker 4: So when we are in stress, worry, or scarcity thinking,
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  Speaker 4: it might feel really normal because we've been in this
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  Speaker 4: for maybe years, right. I mean I raised my kids
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  Speaker 4: as a single mom, so I was in stress and
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  Speaker 4: overwhelm around money a lot. If I was on that
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  Speaker 4: wonderful roller coaster going up and down, just you know,
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  Speaker 4: not knowing what was going to happen. You know, bills
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  Speaker 4: come in, everything gets paid, great fat commission check comes in,
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  Speaker 4: Everything gets paid, you know, up and down, up and down,
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  Speaker 4: up and down. So what we're going to be talking
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  Speaker 4: about today is how to change this? Where's it coming from?
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  Speaker 4: And then how we change it. If you've ever felt
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  Speaker 4: anxious about finances or you're stuck in a cycle of
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  Speaker 4: just not enough or constantly thinking about money problems, this
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  Speaker 4: is the great episode for you.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know about you, but do you have that.
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  Speaker 4: Monkey mind when you're going to bed and like, my
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  Speaker 4: pillow is my favorite thing?
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  Speaker 2: I love to go to bed.
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  Speaker 4: I feel so comfy and cozy, and I got a
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  Speaker 4: white bedspread, I got a white pillowcase, white sheets. Everything's
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  Speaker 4: just white like a cloud, like I'm laying down on
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  Speaker 4: a cloud. My head just feels so relaxed. And then
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  Speaker 4: all of a sudden, I close my eyes and my
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  Speaker 4: monkey brain starts, Did I finish that? Did I do that?
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  Speaker 4: Did I get that?
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  Speaker 1: You know?
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  Speaker 2: All these? Did I pay that? Do I have enough
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  Speaker 2: for that?
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  Speaker 1: You know?
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  Speaker 4: And then it starts going into the future work. It
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  Speaker 4: goes totally crazy. I'm sure you can relate. So what
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  Speaker 4: most people don't understand is that our emotions directly impact
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  Speaker 4: our money decisions. So the way we're feeling at night
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  Speaker 4: when we're going to bed actually is going to impact
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  Speaker 4: how we make our decisions the next day. So let
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  Speaker 4: me say that again. Your emotion are directly impacting your
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  Speaker 4: money decisions. So when we feel pressure around money, when
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  Speaker 4: we feel like I don't have enough, or I need
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  Speaker 4: to fix this, or I'm behind, our body goes into
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  Speaker 4: a stress mode. And when we're in that state, we
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  Speaker 4: don't make the best financial decisions. I just cover that
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  Speaker 4: in chapter one of Money Manifesting, and we react, and
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  Speaker 4: sometimes we avoid. Do you know any of those ostrich
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  Speaker 4: friends or even yourself that you just bury your head
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  Speaker 4: and you're not gonna look at your bills, You're not
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  Speaker 4: gonna look at the future. You don't even know what
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  Speaker 4: a financial advisor is. You don't have a financial plan,
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  Speaker 4: and you know when they say if you don't plan,
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  Speaker 4: then you fail to plan. You always have a plan
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  Speaker 4: no matter what. So we tighten up our money, we
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  Speaker 4: spend less. We might even start snapping at our friends
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  Speaker 4: and family because we're not feeling really good about ourselves.
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  Speaker 4: We might restrict everything, might even be everything about ourselves
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  Speaker 4: as well. Right, we might not be eating right, we
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  Speaker 4: might be buying the cheapest thing which is not the
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  Speaker 4: most healthiest thing at the grocery store. Right, So we
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  Speaker 4: want to make sure that we know the state that
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  Speaker 4: we're in before we start making a financial decision. Pressure
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  Speaker 4: does not create growth. We all want money, right, we
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  Speaker 4: all want more money. We want more joy, more love
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  Speaker 4: and more sex, more music, more all that great and stuff.
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  Speaker 4: But when we're coming from stress and overwhelmed, we cannot grow.
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  Speaker 4: We cannot create joy from there, even even though we
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  Speaker 4: might feel like we need to dig deeper to learn more,
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  Speaker 4: and you know, the United States, we tend to these days.
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  Speaker 2: Work harder, work more.
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  Speaker 4: And so when we're feeling that stricter feeling, we feel
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  Speaker 4: like we have to do more, and I want to
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  Speaker 4: change that. We need to see who we're being inside
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  Speaker 4: this day, inside the stress. Who are we being, not
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  Speaker 4: what we need to do, because it's not about doing,
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  Speaker 4: if we think about it. We know a lot of
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  Speaker 4: people that have worked two, three four jobs and if
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  Speaker 4: it was about doing, they would be extremely wealthy. It's
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  Speaker 4: not about doing. It's literally about how we feel and
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  Speaker 4: what we think. So what happens over time is a
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  Speaker 4: cycle starts to form when we start getting in that
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  Speaker 4: pattern and in that cycle of stress, overwhelm, relax, breathe, create, grow,
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  Speaker 4: spend it all, stress, overwhelm. Like we it just doesn't
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  Speaker 4: move us forward. We just keep going around in the
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  Speaker 4: same circle. So we even feel more stress. Right, it
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  Speaker 4: reinforces the belief that something's wrong, we are wrong, we
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  Speaker 4: screwed up, we did not do something right, We're not
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  Speaker 4: doing enough. Money is just hard. It's only for the
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  Speaker 4: rich people. It's not for me. I'm never going to
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  Speaker 4: get there. All these terrible things. I don't deserve it. Wow,
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  Speaker 4: that's a that's a rough one, right. I feel like
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  Speaker 4: I don't you know, I'm not smart enough, I'm not
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  Speaker 4: good enough, I'm not educating enough.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not nice enough.
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  Speaker 4: How about that one. I know a lot of women
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  Speaker 4: think that I'm not nice enough. But if you think
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  Speaker 4: about the nicest person you know, most of the time,
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  Speaker 4: they're not the wealthiest person you know. So again, it's
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  Speaker 4: not about being nice.
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  Speaker 2: Here is the truth.
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  Speaker 4: It's not that you might be pushing money away with
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  Speaker 4: what you're doing or what you know. It might be
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  Speaker 4: that you're pushing money away because of the energy and
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  Speaker 4: your emotions, which is where our thoughts come. So thoughts
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  Speaker 4: create and words manifest. So look at what you've been
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  Speaker 4: thinking about money lately today in a stressful situation like
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  Speaker 4: right now, what are you thinking about money? Here's another homework,
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  Speaker 4: y'all get homework on all of these episodes. If money
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  Speaker 4: walked into the door right now, what would you say
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  Speaker 4: if money walked in the door right now, what would
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  Speaker 4: you say to it? Would you be mad at it?
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  Speaker 4: Would you be happy to see it? Would you really say?
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  Speaker 4: Where have you been? And why aren't you here when
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  Speaker 4: I need you? Why are you so important? Why have
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  Speaker 4: you ruined my Why did my parents get a divorce
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  Speaker 4: over you? Why did I get a divorce over you?
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  Speaker 4: Why don't I have enough of you? Are you saying, hey,
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  Speaker 4: come on in, bring all your friends. Hey, money, I
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  Speaker 4: love you. It's a good you have a good time.
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  Speaker 4: I have a good time with you when I have you?
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  Speaker 3: Like?
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  Speaker 4: What's your thought around money when money walks into the door.
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  Speaker 4: Because money isn't just numbers, it's an experience. It's how
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  Speaker 4: we relate to it. Every day we all touch money,
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  Speaker 4: think about money, do something with money at least ten
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  Speaker 4: times a day. And if we do not have a
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  Speaker 4: good relationship with money, then every time we have to
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  Speaker 4: do something with money, it's going to bring up tension, fear,
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  Speaker 4: constant pressure, stress, It's not gonna feel good. And we're
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  Speaker 4: going to be climbing up that mountain every fricking day, right.
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  Speaker 4: We don't want to do that and falling in a
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  Speaker 4: hole every day, no matter how you look at it.
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  Speaker 2: So I want to be really clear here.
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  Speaker 4: It's not about pretending everything is really good and everything's fine,
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  Speaker 4: or ignoring your financial health or your financial reality. It's
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  Speaker 4: not about that. This is not about being unrealistic or
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  Speaker 4: just thinking positive.
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  Speaker 2: It's not about that.
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  Speaker 4: This is about awareness of how you feel, so we
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  Speaker 4: can shift how you feel. We need to shift your feelings.
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  Speaker 4: That's what everything's about. That is what manifestation about your
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  Speaker 4: money is going to be about. Everything really is about
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  Speaker 4: shifting your feelings. So what do we got to know
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  Speaker 4: how we feel? That's the first thing we have to do.
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  Speaker 4: Let's talk about what this really looks like in actual
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  Speaker 4: real life. Pushing money away can consistently checking your accounts
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  Speaker 4: from a really bad place, from an anxiety place or
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  Speaker 4: a stressful place. It could be always looking at your
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  Speaker 4: money every single day. It can look like avoiding it completely,
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  Speaker 4: not even looking at your bills. Maybe even get your
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  Speaker 4: lights turned off because you've forgot to pay that bill.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe going to.
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  Speaker 4: The grocery store and the credit card gets denied, or
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  Speaker 4: going to dinner and the credit card gets denied because
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  Speaker 4: you've completely avoided it. It can look like telling with
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  Speaker 4: yourself on money do you with it?
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  Speaker 1: Later?
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  Speaker 4: It can look like making really quick decisions and then
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  Speaker 4: feeling really crappy about them later and feeling really bad
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  Speaker 4: about yourself and why did I do that?
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  Speaker 2: Why did I buy that? Why did I go there?
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  Speaker 2: Why did I spend that.
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  Speaker 4: All those Why did I? I should have what it
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  Speaker 4: could is right? It can even look like overworking. I
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  Speaker 4: need I need overtime. I need to work on the weekends.
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  Speaker 4: If you're in a sales position, you never take time off.
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  Speaker 4: You work, you know, ten, twelve, fourteen, sixteen hours a day,
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  Speaker 4: seven days a week. You're never home for your friends
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  Speaker 4: and family. You never take time off. You're just consistently
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  Speaker 4: controlling your time with doing something which, in itself, right there,
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  Speaker 4: does not allow you to stop and breathe and see
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  Speaker 4: what you feel and how you feel. I don't know
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  Speaker 4: about you all, but I'm also in recovery from perfectionism.
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  Speaker 4: So being a virgo and raising an alcoholic home, I
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  Speaker 4: had to be perfect because I did not want to
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  Speaker 4: create any type of drama or chaos or anger in
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  Speaker 4: my household. So I learned how to be perfect. If not,
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  Speaker 4: I faked it. Everything is happy, everything's great until the
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  Speaker 4: hormone's hitt and I was a teenager, and then all
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  Speaker 4: hell broke loose.
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  Speaker 2: That's where my mouth started to get me into trouble. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: maybe you could relate.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know, so it's not about all of these
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  Speaker 4: things that we think all of those things or forms
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  Speaker 4: are resistance, which means that's pushing money away when we're
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  Speaker 4: stressed about it, when we're overwhelmed about it, when we're
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  Speaker 4: trying to be perfect, when we're trying to stay really
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  Speaker 4: really busy and work harder and work more, and I
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  Speaker 4: really should do this, and I really should meditate that,
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  Speaker 4: Like strops forgets the whole purpose of meditating right when
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  Speaker 4: we should. We got to set out an alarm. I
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  Speaker 4: know I'm talking to all you type a's out there.
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  Speaker 4: I'm also one in recovery as well, like when we
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  Speaker 4: feel better. I literally just met with a group of
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  Speaker 4: gals and one of them was like, I have to
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  Speaker 4: do my dishes every time right before. And she just
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  Speaker 4: looked so constricted, and I'm like, is that making you happy?
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  Speaker 4: Does it feel good to check something off your list?
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  Speaker 3: Well?
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  Speaker 2: No, I just have to. Why do you have to?
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  Speaker 4: Well, uh, I don't know. She looked back and it was,
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  Speaker 4: you know, from her first husband really wanted the dishes
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  Speaker 4: done because he put he gave her a comment one time,
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  Speaker 4: and that was it.
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  Speaker 2: So all it took.
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  Speaker 4: She took it and ran ran with it, and she
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  Speaker 4: had to do her dishes, so of course my homework
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  Speaker 4: to her is, don't do your dishes, go to bed
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  Speaker 4: without your dishes being done. How does it feel you
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  Speaker 4: have control over all these things?
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  Speaker 2: Right?
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  Speaker 4: So when there's friction and things are not flowing easily,
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  Speaker 4: the question becomes always shift out of that, because your
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  Speaker 4: financial life will only feel as good as the emotional
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  Speaker 4: state that you bring into it. So when we sit
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  Speaker 4: down or do our money, we're only going to get
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  Speaker 4: out of it what we put into it. Are we
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  Speaker 4: putting in love and joy? She's like dating. I want
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  Speaker 4: you to date your money. I want you to fall
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  Speaker 4: in love with your money. I want you to have
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  Speaker 4: a great relationship with your money. If you were to
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  Speaker 4: go out on a date and you were really down
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  Speaker 4: and out and feeling bad about yourself and stressed and overwhelmed,
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  Speaker 4: how are you going to come off to that person?
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  Speaker 4: How's that relationship going to go when you are in
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  Speaker 4: that negative zone? Same way with your relationship with money.
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  Speaker 4: When you're dating your money, are you feeling bad? So
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  Speaker 4: we want to look at how we feel instead of
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  Speaker 4: saying what do I need to fix? How can I
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  Speaker 4: fix this? How can I get more money, make more money,
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  Speaker 4: do more. Instead of asking any of that, I want
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  Speaker 4: you to approach it to how do I feel about it?
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  Speaker 4: How do I feel right now? Am I coming from pressure?
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  Speaker 4: Or am I coming from clarity? Am I coming from love?
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  Speaker 4: Or am I coming from fear? This is my belief.
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  Speaker 4: You're either in fear or love period. Anything else is
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  Speaker 4: just from that perspective, in different temperatures of each, either
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  Speaker 4: fear or love. You need to know where you're coming from.
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  Speaker 4: So you got to get to know yourself. Yes, get
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  Speaker 4: to know yourself and fall in love with yourself for sure.
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  Speaker 4: Am I trying to just control everything? Or am I
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  Speaker 4: allowing myself to feel every step?
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  Speaker 2: My f word? You got to feel it.
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  Speaker 4: That awareness alone, ding ding ding ding ding will change everything.
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  Speaker 4: I promise you, because when you slow down, even for
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  Speaker 4: just a moment, you interrupt the pattern. Breathe, We're going
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  Speaker 4: to breathe. We're going to breathe the diamond reset. We
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  Speaker 4: are literally going to breathe. We're going to stop, We're
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  Speaker 4: going to breathe. We're going to pause, and then we
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  Speaker 4: can reset where we're at. We're gonna not do the
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  Speaker 4: automatic reaction. I want us to intentionally feel our decision
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  Speaker 4: making is where all your power is to notice where
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  Speaker 4: you are at, what is your intention behind every decision. Now,
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  Speaker 4: let's make this practicle the next time you sit down
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  Speaker 4: and look at your money. I don't want you to
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  Speaker 4: jump straight into fixing anything or doing anything. I want
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  Speaker 4: you to pause first, okay, because we need to know
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  Speaker 4: where you're at. This is my belief, scientifically backed, but
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  Speaker 4: my belief. Thoughts create our feelings. Our feelings create emotions,
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  Speaker 4: which creates our state inside of our body. Are we tense?
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  Speaker 4: Are we under pressure? This is going to create our
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  Speaker 4: behaviors and our actions which will create our results. So
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  Speaker 4: we have to back it all the way up to
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  Speaker 4: understand and know our thoughts thoughts to feelings, to body state,
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  Speaker 4: to behaviors to results. Okay, so we're going to try
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  Speaker 4: a little distraction technique. First of all, we're going to
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  Speaker 4: intentionally ignore the subject that's bringing up the trauma, like
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  Speaker 4: financial stress. We're going to ignore that right now. We're
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  Speaker 4: going to focus on something completely different. So I want
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  Speaker 4: you all to look up the emotional scale. You can
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  Speaker 4: look it up on your on the internet. There's lots
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  Speaker 4: of different there's lots of different pictures of it. Scales
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  Speaker 4: of it everything. I have an emotional scale episode as
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  Speaker 4: well that you can look up. I want you to
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  Speaker 4: check out the emotional scale. I want you to see
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  Speaker 4: where you're at on an emotional scale. I want you
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  Speaker 4: to put that on the refrigerator, put it on your desk,
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  Speaker 4: put it in your phone as a screen saver. I
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  Speaker 4: want you to see how we're all the way down
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  Speaker 4: to despair, all the way up to love it joy.
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  Speaker 4: So we have lots of different feelings in between there.
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  Speaker 4: We can't jump from despair to joy. It's not gonna happen.
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  Speaker 1: We have to.
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  Speaker 4: Slowly move up the scale. It's called the Diamond life method.
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  Speaker 4: But we'll get to that in a little bit. So
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  Speaker 4: we have to look at that scale, notice it, and
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  Speaker 4: see where we're at and in order to move ourselves
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  Speaker 4: up the emotional scare scale. Here is step one. We're
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  Speaker 4: going to do the appreciation rampage. I got this from
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  Speaker 4: Abraham Hicks. I love their their are youtubes. I want
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  Speaker 4: you to actively look for things that you appreciate. Looking
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  Speaker 4: around me right now, I appreciate my microphone that lets
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  Speaker 4: you hear me. I appreciate my phone case. I love
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  Speaker 4: it as sparkly. I really appreciate this water. I even
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  Speaker 4: have electrolytes in here. I love this. I appreciate that
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  Speaker 4: you could be in a hotel room right now. Look
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  Speaker 4: around you. I appreciate the hotel room. Actively look for
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  Speaker 4: things that you appreciate. I want you to become an
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  Speaker 4: appreciation creator. This is what we're going to do every day.
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  Speaker 4: If you do nothing, I want you to just do
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  Speaker 4: this for a week and see how much your life changes.
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  Speaker 4: And then I want you to do it for thirty days,
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  Speaker 4: forty five days, sixty days. I want you to become
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  Speaker 4: an appreciation creator. I promise you it will absolutely change
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  Speaker 4: the way you think. It's so powerful, and it's constant,
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  Speaker 4: and it's instant.
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  Speaker 2: Right now.
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  Speaker 4: This is going to help us connect to our source,
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  Speaker 4: whatever your belief is, your God, your inner knowing, your source,
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  Speaker 4: your energy, inside your heart, whatever it is. It's going
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  Speaker 4: to open the floodgates for great love, joyous feelings.
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  Speaker 2: Appreciate.
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  Speaker 4: I love it. Okay, now that's one technique. Then we're
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  Speaker 4: going to do the virtual reality game from Abraham Hicks.
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  Speaker 4: We're going to do a little mental exercise where you
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  Speaker 4: actually imagine a lovely scenario just for the sake of
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  Speaker 4: feeling good. I want you to train your mind to
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  Speaker 4: whole a better thought, better feeling, which will create a
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  Speaker 4: higher vibration for yourself and we'll create more love and
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  Speaker 4: joy in your life. So we're going to just imagine
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  Speaker 4: a lovely scenario. So I imagine myself on a beach.
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  Speaker 4: That's I love it, right, I love warm, I love
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  Speaker 4: the ocean. I love In fact, I just did this
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  Speaker 4: in Kenkun with my friend Sherry. We went and sat
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  Speaker 4: down on the beach and we sat down and we
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  Speaker 4: let the ocean roll up on us because the tide
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  Speaker 4: was really high, so we didn't want to go out
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  Speaker 4: too deep, but we still wanted to feel like we
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  Speaker 4: were in the ocean.
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  Speaker 2: So we sat there.
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  Speaker 4: And rolled around in the waves. Oh my gosh, it
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  Speaker 4: was so fun. That is an amazing Now do you
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  Speaker 4: see me, You see me smiling? You hear my smile.
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  Speaker 4: I'm smiling. I'm listening to that. I'm almost feeling tingling
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  Speaker 4: because we had so much fun. We were laughing, hysterical.
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  Speaker 4: It was a total blast. There's my scenario. Now, I
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  Speaker 4: just opened up my bank accounts and I just saw
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  Speaker 4: my bank accounts, and I could be stressed around that,
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  Speaker 4: But then I create this virtual reality game. I'm there
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  Speaker 4: at the ocean rolling around with Sherry having a total bloe.
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  Speaker 4: Last it was so fun. Now that's the feeling that
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  Speaker 4: I want to bring into my money. That's the feeling
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  Speaker 4: that I want to bring into the solving of the problem,
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  Speaker 4: whatever it might be. I don't want to be in
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  Speaker 4: the bottom of the whole despair, bottom half of the
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  Speaker 4: emotional scale. I want to be into the higher half
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  Speaker 4: of the emotional scale. That's going to even even if
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  Speaker 4: I'm neutral, right, like, I'm just satisfied because I had
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  Speaker 4: a good meal, just content. That's even better than being
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  Speaker 4: anything negative. So those two tools appreciation rampage. I totally
• 18:33
  Speaker 4: appreciate my microphone, my water, my phone case. I love this.
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: I appreciate my producer doing this podcast. I appreciate all
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: my stuff that I've done and it's here and I
• 18:47
  Speaker 4: have so many things to say. I just appreciate this
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  Speaker 4: warmth of sunshine, the clouds. I'm in an appreciation state now.
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  Speaker 4: I do want to talk about the difference between appreciation
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  Speaker 4: and gratitude. I'm going to do that in more detail
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  Speaker 4: on another episode, but I want you to know that
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  Speaker 4: when I appreciate something I feel like I own that
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  Speaker 4: I deserve it, and it's a value to me. When
• 19:10
  Speaker 4: I'm grateful for something that's very different, that means I'm
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: kind of lucky and it just kind of happened. So
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  Speaker 4: I love gratitude and I am grateful for a lot
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  Speaker 4: of things. And I want you to switch that to
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  Speaker 4: I appreciate because you do deserve it. You absolutely deserve wealth.
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  Speaker 4: You deserve wealth, you deserve health, and you deserve wisdom.
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  Speaker 4: You deserve all of that just because you were born.
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  Speaker 4: You don't have to do anything. You deserve it because
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: you're a bad ass. As you're born and you're here
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: and you're listening to this podcast, you're open to new ideas,
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: you're open to feeling better. Like that's why we are
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  Speaker 4: going to attract more money, create our own reality, and
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: become appreciators every day. We're going to do that. Does
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  Speaker 4: that make sense? I hope that all makes sense with y'all.
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  Speaker 4: So are you pushing money away without real life? Are
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  Speaker 4: you in the emotional scale? Can you tell how you
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: feel every day? Are we coming out of that emotional
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  Speaker 4: depletion and coming into filling ourselves up? That's where I
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  Speaker 4: want I want us to fill ourselves up every day.
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  Speaker 4: So I hope that makes sense, and I want you
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  Speaker 4: to listen to more. There's several other episodes inside this
• 20:21
  Speaker 4: Money Manifestation and remember, thoughts create words, manifest Thoughts create
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: our feelings. Feelings create our emotions. Emotions create feelings in
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: our body. That creates our decisions and our actions, and
• 20:36
  Speaker 4: our actions create our results. So we have to back
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  Speaker 4: it all the way up to thoughts. I know it's
• 20:41
  Speaker 4: kind of a pain, but that's what we got to do.
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  Speaker 4: We've got to practice these tools every single day to
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: become the actual wealthy abundance attractor that you want to
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: be because you deserve it in your life for sure.
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  Speaker 4: All right, listen to all the other episodes because I've
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  Speaker 4: got so many good tools for you to use. I
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: want you all to be able to walk away from
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: this series, the Money Manifesting Series, and say I Rock
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  Speaker 4: my Finances.
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