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Reddit Is Unbelievable: The Craziest Stories That Left Everyone Speechless · The conspiracy

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  Speaker 1: Is it John Mayer? What song is that? Slow Dancing
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  Speaker 1: in a Burning Room. Okay, sing it.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. Oops.
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  Speaker 1: It's beautiful. It's not a silly little moment. Wow. Best
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  Speaker 1: intro since I've been here. And I'm in Texas now.
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  Speaker 1: I'm in Texas. And he's forced to live with me now.
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  Speaker 1: This is weird in a new spot. This is weird.
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  Speaker 3: It's odd.
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  Speaker 1: It's weird for me. Oh, I'm sure it's gotta be
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  Speaker 1: really strange.
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  Speaker 3: It's extremely weird.
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  Speaker 1: It's already ten times better.
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  Speaker 3: Is it? She told me how she recorded her videos before.
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  Speaker 3: I literally cannot believe it. She's made so much money
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  Speaker 3: off of the cheapest imaginable.
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  Speaker 1: It's crazy. I might as well have been recording all
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  Speaker 1: my videos on my iPhone, basically. Pretty much, yeah. It
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  Speaker 1: just goes to show you don't need all the fancy equipment. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's beautiful.
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  Speaker 4: But it is nice he has helped me get set
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  Speaker 4: up with nicer stuff.
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  Speaker 3: Which is easier.
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  Speaker 1: It's easier. It's more convenient.
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  Speaker 4: And it'll be like higher quality, which will probably be
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  Speaker 4: better for you guys to watch. So just expect better
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  Speaker 4: quality videos now that I'm here.
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  Speaker 1: Watch this one suck. It's not going to suck. It's
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  Speaker 1: got you in it anyway. Oh yeah. Oh yeah. Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And I got to give him a compliment. That's what
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  Speaker 1: I do. That's my thing. Your hair's looking longer today
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  Speaker 1: and I like it. That's it. Good compliment. That's good.
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  Speaker 1: That's good. Here's my compliment. Okay. That's where his farts
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  Speaker 1: smell like, or smell like, sound like. Don't my farts
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  Speaker 1: smell like sounds? They sound like this. And then he
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  Speaker 1: stares at the camera like this. Exactly, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Today, we are giving you relationship advice because we're in
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  Speaker 4: an extremely healthy relationship and we are, have extremely professional opinions,
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  Speaker 4: licensed opinions on this stuff. We did one on his channel,
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  Speaker 4: go check it out, it's this video. And we're gonna
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  Speaker 4: do it today. My girlfriend, 22 female, kissed another dude
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  Speaker 4: when we went on a break, 24 male. He's 24 male.
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  Speaker 1: 24 year old male.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 4: I know that to some, this is nothing, but to me,
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  Speaker 4: it really broke me. We have been dating this girl.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, what?
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  Speaker 1: We have been dating this girl? Like both of them?
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  Speaker 1: I haven't read these. Does that make sense?
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  Speaker 4: We have been dating this girl for seven years. And
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  Speaker 4: in all honesty, we have had breakups before, but never
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  Speaker 4: in those previous breakups. Have this girl shown any signs
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  Speaker 4: of cheating?
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  Speaker 1: Are you understanding this? I think there's a little grammatical
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  Speaker 1: issue here. Okay. Probably I have been dating this girl?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not sure.
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  Speaker 4: Whenever something was wrong, I would ask her, what's wrong?
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  Speaker 4: And the response I would get was nothing, with mood swings.
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  Speaker 4: I would ask her many times. Then, one time, I
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  Speaker 4: really got worried and decided to go through her phone
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  Speaker 4: and found texts with her cousin, 23 female. She confused
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  Speaker 4: that she kissed another guy.
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  Speaker 1: Confessed? Confessed.
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  Speaker 3: Confused.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think this person probably is English isn't their
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  Speaker 1: first language. A little dyslexic. This broke me.
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  Speaker 4: I asked her and her reason was that she was
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  Speaker 4: afraid of telling me because she knew that it would
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  Speaker 4: break me.
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  Speaker 1: Clearly it did. Our relationship was based on loyalty, honesty.
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  Speaker 4: I told her that if she had told me about this,
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  Speaker 4: this outcome would have been different because I respect someone
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  Speaker 4: with who is honest with me. Right now, I'm in
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  Speaker 4: a state of confusion. What would be the best way
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  Speaker 4: to go about this kind of situation?
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  Speaker 1: Break up. Go to school. Yeah, go to grammar school,
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  Speaker 1: for one. Go to GAML school. Yeah. Spend less time
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  Speaker 1: on WET-IT. Easy fix. I think so. I think it's
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  Speaker 1: just a simple, she cheated on you. Yeah, I think
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  Speaker 1: it's a breakup moment. Yeah, or at least I may
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  Speaker 1: talk to her.
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  Speaker 4: Mom was just saying that he's asked her a lot
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  Speaker 4: of times what's wrong and she says nothing, which is
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  Speaker 4: called classic woman thing to do.
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  Speaker 1: We do that. We say nothing and then we do this.
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  Speaker 3: And then you write on the wall specifically what is
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  Speaker 3: on your mind and pretend. Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. You, yeah, you.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly, exactly. It's very... You do it sometimes. Not to
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  Speaker 1: the level that you do it, for sure. You say nothing?
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  Speaker 3: Usually whenever I say it, it's because it's something that
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  Speaker 3: I can absolutely 100% deal with and rationalize.
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  Speaker 1: And then he walks around like this. I don't do that.
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  Speaker 1: She's lying.
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  Speaker 3: Usually whenever I say there's nothing wrong, it's because there
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  Speaker 3: is nothing wrong. Usually I'm trying to settle my own
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  Speaker 3: internal emotions.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. You're pretty good at telling me when
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  Speaker 1: there's something to be fixed. Yeah, there's something actually wrong. True,
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  Speaker 1: but yeah, I think you got yourself an unloyal... and
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  Speaker 1: it's probably not going to work out. Give her the
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  Speaker 1: information that you know, see what she says, but it's
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  Speaker 1: probably not going to work out. I wouldn't even tell her.
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  Speaker 1: I'd just stop talking to her. Would you? Yeah, for sure.
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  Speaker 1: That's fair. Oh, for seven years? Oh, yeah, seven.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I mean, seven years. Nah, I'd still not
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  Speaker 3: just go through it. Just ghost her. It's easier to
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  Speaker 3: do it that way.
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  Speaker 1: Just ghost her. She's not worth his time. Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: not fair. She's cheating on him, yeah. That's not fair
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  Speaker 1: in any circumstance. I'd rather be ghosted than cheated on,
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  Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah. Absolutely. Both are terrible. Both are very bad.
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  Speaker 1: I'd rather die. You'd rather pass away? Yeah. That makes sense.
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  Speaker 1: Like just a corpse. Be your best corpse. That's pretty good. Here,
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  Speaker 1: open your mouth up and then J, edit flies flying
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  Speaker 1: in and out. There you go. That's pretty good.
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  Speaker 3: Am I 27 female in the wrong for setting limits
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  Speaker 3: as to when my boyfriend, 28 male, can fart?
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  Speaker 1: I only read the title. Setting limits to farting.
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  Speaker 3: That's communist nonsense is what that is.
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  Speaker 1: You need to read this. Shut up.
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  Speaker 3: We've been dating for about a year in the beginning.
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  Speaker 3: He didn't fart much I feel like the first time
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  Speaker 3: you came over. I farted really loud.
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  Speaker 1: I went You didn't hold it in.
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  Speaker 4: It was probably like a month in and then you
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  Speaker 4: just did it all the time Oh yeah, I just
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  Speaker 4: you know when I do it when I.
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  Speaker 1: Have to fart But it makes me laugh when I have.
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  Speaker 3: To fart and just so happens you're around more so
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  Speaker 3: I don't fart when you're not around Really?
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  Speaker 1: Are you saving for me? Yeah see you make me
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  Speaker 1: full of shit But you make it really funny every
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  Speaker 1: time because he goes like this he goes like Ouch
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  Speaker 1: Where I jump in the air. It's like he's a
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  Speaker 1: cartoon character every time he farts. So it's not like
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  Speaker 1: it's disrespectful. It's like he's thinking of me. It's like
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  Speaker 1: you're thinking of me. Yeah, it's entertainment.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I got my clown hat. And they don't smell. Luckily, anyways.
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  Speaker 1: They don't smell. Yours, though. Holy shit. What are you
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  Speaker 1: talking about? I've never farted in my life.
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  Speaker 3: Multiple times an hour and loud and forced. Sorry, too
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  Speaker 3: much information. They don't smell, so it doesn't bother me
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  Speaker 3: too much, but I hate it when he farts in
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  Speaker 3: the bed or while he's cuddling me. He made loud, wet, sounding,
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  Speaker 3: long farts. I finally said to him, it's fine to fart,
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  Speaker 3: but please not while we're cuddling. Or during sex and
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  Speaker 3: lift up the sheets in the opposite way if you
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  Speaker 3: needed to do it in the bed. He agreed, but
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  Speaker 3: then farted while cuddling me a couple days later, and
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  Speaker 3: he laughed and said, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I can
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  Speaker 3: tell by the way he tenses his body with these
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  Speaker 3: farts every time.
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  Speaker 1: He pushes out. Well, you gotta make them pop. He
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  Speaker 1: goes like this. Well, yeah, of course. Of course, it's
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  Speaker 1: like an instrument. It's just really funny reading it. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta give it your all.
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  Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 1: Really?
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  Speaker 3: I told him I don't want his stomach to hurt,
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  Speaker 3: and he can fart if he needs to, even in
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  Speaker 3: the same room as me, but not when he's touching me.
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  Speaker 3: Now I feel like he's disrespecting me when he does
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  Speaker 3: it because I asked him not to. This morning, he
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  Speaker 3: did it again while cuddling me. I'm asking, am I
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  Speaker 3: asking too much? I feel like, hey, bud, you are
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  Speaker 3: a girl. Girls fart and shit, and you're pretending like
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  Speaker 3: your shit don't stink, and you quite literally are being unreasonable,
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  Speaker 3: and that makes no sense.
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  Speaker 1: You're pretending to not be a human being. Find someone else. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's a lot. Yeah, break up, find someone else. I'm...
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  Speaker 1: Find someone who doesn't fart.
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  Speaker 4: I think her asking for him not to on purpose
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  Speaker 4: fart on her is reasonable.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but the implication that he is disrespecting her and
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  Speaker 3: her even thinking that is insane.
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  Speaker 1: That's crazy. And he said, I'm sorry. So I'm sure like.
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  Speaker 1: He just thinks it's funny. So clearly.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody farts, by the way. It's not a deal breaker.
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  Speaker 1: It's air coming out your ass, man. Yeah, it's air.
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  Speaker 1: Ass air. It's ass air.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, your stomach will hurt if you don't. If you
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  Speaker 3: are embarrassed by it, then you should consider doing it
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  Speaker 3: more and getting over your fear is what you should do.
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  Speaker 1: Because literally everybody farts. Should I start just ripping ass
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  Speaker 1: in front of you? Sure, I don't care. That's advice. Yeah, yeah. No,
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  Speaker 1: usually more like this.
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  Speaker 3: Or.
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  Speaker 1: Good sustain.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly. Or maybe one of these. They just go.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, here.
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  Speaker 1: Here we go. They'll go up. That's what they sound like. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: But anyway, yeah, you are asking for too much, I think.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I think you need to loosen up a little bit
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  Speaker 1: like your boyfriend's asshole.
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  Speaker 4: let's get back to it. How do I, 34 female,
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  Speaker 4: confront my husband, 37 male, about some questionable things I read?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so my husband and I run a business.
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  Speaker 4: We over the summer employed a girl who we will
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  Speaker 4: call L, female 22. Diligent about what? I read that
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  Speaker 4: conversation and he's just like.
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  Speaker 1: I miss you.
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  Speaker 4: I can't wait till you come back out here. You
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  Speaker 4: inspire me, et cetera. Also some really kinky talk. Extreme kinks.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't even know he had. They'd write little kinky
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  Speaker 4: erotica and talk back and forth, but never explicitly said
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  Speaker 4: they were talking about each other.
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  Speaker 1: This sounds bad. That's awesome. This is terrible. I like this.
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  Speaker 1: Keep going. Keep going. I love him. I birthed nine
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  Speaker 1: kids for this man. That's exactly what I'm waiting for. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I don't understand why he would do this when that
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  Speaker 4: girl is literally everything he is against. Tattoos, colored hair, piercings,
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  Speaker 4: non-religious volunteer work. I don't have any of those things
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  Speaker 4: in my body remained untouched by anyone but him.
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  Speaker 1: What should I say to him?
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  Speaker 4: And what's everyone else's opinion on the subject?
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  Speaker 1: Whoa, that's terrible. Well, yeah, no, no.
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  Speaker 4: That's a lot of red flags. Talking daily about the
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  Speaker 4: things that they're talking about. And I miss you and
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  Speaker 4: I can't wait to come back out.
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  Speaker 1: This is all really bad. If you're still employed and
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  Speaker 1: talking daily, that makes sense.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. But if you're someone you employed and you're trying
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  Speaker 3: to keep them around, that's bizarre. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: But even if you're employed and seeing them like I
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  Speaker 4: miss you and I can't wait to.
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  Speaker 1: That's all really fucked up.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And, you know, talking about kinky shit. That's weird. Yeah. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I would say it's just really weird.
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  Speaker 3: This seems like a fairly naive post to just like,
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  Speaker 3: what do you expect people are going to say?
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  Speaker 1: People are going to say a lot of red flags.
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  Speaker 1: He just wants confirmation from other people, I think.
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  Speaker 4: And he's going through like a midlife crisis because he's
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  Speaker 4: just going for something that he doesn't normally like.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, when you have someone who claims they
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  Speaker 3: don't like something and they're adamant about that, usually they
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  Speaker 3: actually like that.
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  Speaker 1: That's their thing. As above, so below. My favorite horror movie.
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  Speaker 1: Horror movie. It's a good movie. Yeah, Kinky Ted's really weird.
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  Speaker 3: Obviously, it's very clearly just like trying to pave the
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  Speaker 3: way for being unfaithful.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, if he already hasn't been. It sounds like he
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  Speaker 1: probably has.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Unfortunately.
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  Speaker 3: Boyfriend 30M spanks me 29F sometimes when he went upset.
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  Speaker 2: What?
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  Speaker 3: Can our relationship still work? He spanks her? I guess.
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  Speaker 1: Like a parent would spank a child? I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I only read the thing. My boyfriend often spanks me
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  Speaker 3: in a playful or sexual context, and I usually enjoy it.
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  Speaker 3: But there have been a few instances where I notice
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  Speaker 3: him spanking me when he's clearly upset with me. The
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  Speaker 3: first time it happened, he denied it. In subsequent times,
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  Speaker 3: he did admit it, but not really apologize to me after.
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  Speaker 3: He seemed to think that it was okay and said
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  Speaker 3: that it meant we were incompatible if I took issue
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  Speaker 3: with it.
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  Speaker 1: That's weird.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Setting up that, like, that weird, that's a weird line
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  Speaker 1: to draw on the sand.
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  Speaker 3: It is. We've been together for seven years and this
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  Speaker 3: has just started happening recently. He's going through a stressful
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  Speaker 3: time with his family. The spanking is about the same
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  Speaker 3: level of force as when it's playful slash. which is
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  Speaker 3: sometimes too hard, sometimes not that bad. I've tried to
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  Speaker 3: broach the subject for conversation, but he keeps deflecting. I
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  Speaker 3: worry the line between a slap on the butt intending
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  Speaker 3: to be playful versus intending to hurt is getting blurred,
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  Speaker 3: and it will get worse. It doesn't feel like a
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  Speaker 3: huge issue because spanking is common in our relationship, but
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  Speaker 3: it does feel really bad. How can I approach this conversation?
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  Speaker 3: If it feels really bad, then you probably shouldn't... It's bad.
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  Speaker 1: That's not good.
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  Speaker 3: It is bad.
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  Speaker 1: That's like.
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  Speaker 4: That's two parties that aren't consenting or one party that's
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  Speaker 4: not consenting and also not only.
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  Speaker 3: That that's bad a lot that that's not good Who
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  Speaker 3: he's otherwise otherwise he's great. No, that's really weird for
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: one But also for two the fact that he's like
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: feels the need to speak you when he's up.
• 15:01
  Speaker 4: If I just like if I like I don't know
• 15:03
  Speaker 4: he's got what's something against the wall.
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: What's the hard time of his family? Is his mom
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: passing or something? His dad and he's just like- I
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: don't think that's an excuse to hit your girlfriend. I know,
• 15:12
  Speaker 3: I'm not saying it is. He's reliving his weird trauma. Maybe.
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: Because he used to get his ass whooped. Yeah, well,
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: she said, should I get him to seek therapy? Yes. Oh, no,
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: I would just leave him. I'm scared to be anything
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: that I do wrong.
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: Bye.
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: As long as your prefrontal cortex doesn't like, you know,
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: start to become full of holes and you start to
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: lose your mind and act very irrationally.
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: I think you'd be fine. Okay. Because a lot of
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: these things are very irrational. They are. This is wild.
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: Seven years. You should have a conversation with them. Absolutely.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: You shouldn't be holding this in. That's very unhealthy.
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: And it should start like this. It's me, not you.
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: And then you should say, we're breaking up and this
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: is the problem that I have.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: And then spank them. And then she'll probably get spanked.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: She probably will. Well, then that's bad. Then that's abuse
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: at that point. It's already abuse. It is already abuse.
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: I feel like, to be honest.
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: That's so weird though. I feel like that's super bizarre.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: Hoping it's a joke.
• 16:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: All these I hope are jokes. I always do.
• 16:06
  Speaker 4: But I mean, I treat it like it's not just
• 16:08
  Speaker 4: because we're trying to give, you know, semi good advice.
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: Licensed feedback.
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: True.
• 16:13
  Speaker 4: That's my license is on the wall back there. Where?
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: It's behind that monkey. You're lying. You're lying.
• 16:19
  Speaker 4: Anyway, we're licensed professionals. You should probably leave them. My
• 16:23
  Speaker 4: 33 female boyfriend, 45 male, posted a photo of me
• 16:26
  Speaker 4: on social media we both made fun of, laughed at
• 16:29
  Speaker 4: for being so awful.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: How do I move forward? Hi, all.
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: It's been two days since he's spoken to me because
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: I guess... I was the asshole? What? We were driving
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: back from a trip. We stopped at a view and
• 16:40
  Speaker 4: he told me to pose for a photo. I hate
• 16:42
  Speaker 4: having my photo taken mostly because I'm super awkward and
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: cannot take a decent photo to save my life. After
• 16:47
  Speaker 4: he took a couple, we got back in the car
• 16:49
  Speaker 4: and he started laughing and was like, these are so bad.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: That's awful. What's wrong with you?
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: What's wrong with you? I laughed and asked him. And
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: then just laughed in her eyes. What's wrong with you?
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: You're so small and I'm big. That's really good. I
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: think that's exactly how.
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: He did it. I'm going to grow into that, by
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: the way, once we eventually, you know, once we get,
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: once we start to grow old together and have like
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: 10 or 11 kids. It's just going to become more
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: and more predictable relationship advice. We're going to create the
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: ultimate relationship advice. You're going to make the ultimate post.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: Am I?
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: You're going to combine all these things. Guys, am I
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: crazy or my boyfriend farts a lot? And sometimes he
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: farts while spanking me. Yeah.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: And we have 14 kids. Just putting in the ammo. Yeah, exactly.
• 17:37
  Speaker 4: About two hours after we're home, I'm on socials and
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: see the.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: photo posted. I texted him, what the f * * *,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: you posted that? On him? So embarrassed, please delete it.
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: He goes on to say, you can't even zoom in,
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: and then turns it around to, fine, it's deleted. I'll
• 17:55
  Speaker 4: delete everything of you, and will never post you again.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: Classic. Classic deflection. Here's the thing.
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: When we first started dating two-ish years ago, he was
• 18:04
  Speaker 4: always posting us things we did together. And about six
• 18:06
  Speaker 4: months ago, he wiped basically all of me and him
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: from his socials. When I asked about it, he turned
• 18:11
  Speaker 4: on me that I'm overthinking and being ridiculous. So for
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: him to finally post something again was pretty big, but
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: not because of my actions.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: He's learned his lesson and will never do it again.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: I was told he's.
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: Staying out of my way and tired of being a
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: target and refuses to apologize for triggering whatever it is
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: I'm going through like what the last text said he
• 18:32
  Speaker 4: wants nothing to do with me and needs space What
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: look I've tried to explain to him that I was
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: hurt because we actively had conversations about how ugly the
• 18:40
  Speaker 4: photo was So why would he post it? I'm just
• 18:43
  Speaker 4: tired of being in the constant extremes to justify his behavior.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like this one is one weird This
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: seems like we need more context.
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah. How does she treat him? I mean, really, there's
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: not enough to go on here, in my opinion. This
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: is just so perfectly one-sided. It's like, why are you
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: posting this? If this is completely true, then just break
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: up with him.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: There you go. Yeah, because his actions sound... Ah, I
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: just hit my knee. Yeah, I'm all right, thanks.
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: His actions sound really weird with deleting all of the
• 19:09
  Speaker 4: photos of you. This seems bad. I just don't understand why.
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: And like, I mean, we post photos of each other
• 19:16
  Speaker 4: that are ridiculous all the time. But I mean, I
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: guess we have a lot of photos.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Of each other.
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: I feel like this one is just so obvious that
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: you should just not even have posted this and just
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: broken up with him immediately. But if this is real,
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: then there's got to be more to it. There's got
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: to be more to it. I feel like I would
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: like to know more. But from his perspective, though, from
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: the guy's perspective, because it just doesn't.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: Seem like anyone.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: From the guy's perspective, yeah. Why would a 45-year-old man
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: act like that?
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: That makes no sense.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, right? It's very childish. Yeah, it's pretty childish to
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: post anything on Reddit.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: And it's... Just saying. Yeah, the way he was talking
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: about you, if that's the way he's talking to you,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: is why are you with him? Pauling?
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: Think more of yourself, please. Yeah, please.
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: What the fuck are you doing? What the fuck? Yeah,
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: come on. What the fuck? Self-respect.
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: Anyway, block him on Instagram. I, 23 female, have different
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: political and religious views from 21 male partner. How can
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: I make it work out? I have been with my
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: boyfriend for six months, and there are big differences that
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: are beginning to tear us apart. I am Buddhist, bisexual, pro-abortion,
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: and usually left-leaning. I am open to changing political views
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: depending on the current plant form. My boyfriend is Muslim, anti-abortion,
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: slightly homophobic, and very conservative. Slightly homophobic, but only very conservative.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: I started to realize this is a problem when he
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: refuses to talk about these topics at all. After stating
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: his stance, he accepts my views because I was upfront
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: about it before we started dating. However, it is getting
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: more and more difficult for me to accept his views,
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: especially when he refuses to talk about them. for me
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: to understand. Also, he was not upfront about his beliefs
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: in the beginning of the Reladioship. Every chance I get
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: to bring it up, he feels as though I am
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: trying to change him. To be fair, I am not
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: good at communicating, so it may have come up as
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: an attack when I brought these up. I am unsure
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: if this can work in the long term considering the
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: differences are very big.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Very big. Spelled wrong. Very big.
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: Very big.
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: But are there any ways I can make this work?
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: I feel like if he's a, uh, if he's a
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: actual devout conservative religious person.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: No. Muslims specifically.
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: That's like, as far as I know in my, I
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: have a little bit of knowledge of it, but there's
• 21:16
  Speaker 4: not a lot of leeway.
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: No, no, none of the, none of the, if you,
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: if you have someone who is a follower of a
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: religion and the tenants of that religion are the antithesis
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: of what you believe. Yeah.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: It's not going to work.
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: No, I've, I've seen a few relationships now where this
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: is an issue and it never works.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: Someone will have to concede. And that's, and that's okay.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: Like you don't like just, just, yeah.
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: I mean, that sucks that he didn't tell you at
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: the beginning of the relationship, but it doesn't make anything different.
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: You're not going to change him and you shouldn't change
• 21:45
  Speaker 4: for him if you don't feel like.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: You want to.
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: Cause that's weird. And vice versa. He shouldn't have to
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: change for her either. No, no, that's a, yeah. I mean,
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: he's entitled to his own beliefs as well.
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: Exactly.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 21:54
  Speaker 4: This is like the big thing. It's like having kids
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: or not. You need to have that discussion.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: You gotta have that figured out. And then what you believe,
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: believe in or not having the, having the same, um,
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: set of morals.
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: Morals. Yeah.
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: That makes, I mean, that makes perfect sense.
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah. I think that that's having the same morals is very,
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: is just like a requirement of compatibility. And if your
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: morals are, you just like, either A, you can't, you
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: don't want a certain type of person to exist, then
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: it's just not going.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: To work out.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's never going to work out. Like, where do
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: you want them to go? Do you want them to
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: just disappear? Or do you just want to not worry
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: about them? You just don't want to talk about them?
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: Or what is the end game?
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: Yeah, never go into a relationship thinking that you can
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: fix somebody or change somebody.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: That is the worst thing you could do.
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: And I've seen so many people do that. Where they're like, hmm,
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: this little thing or this thing. But I think I
• 22:41
  Speaker 4: can change it. Like, yeah. definitely there's like putting the
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: toilet seat down and then there's you know believing in
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: god or not yeah i feel like that's two different
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: things yeah those.
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: Are pretty uh pretty substantially different things yeah there's a
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: there's a lot of uh i feel like that's not
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: gonna work you know it's not gonna work to be
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: honest i'm a buddhist bisexual pro-abortion left-leaning person who's also
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: open-minded but really bad at communication.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: And he's just a Muslim guy. Break up! A lot
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: of these have been breaking up.
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: I feel like if you post shit for advice on Reddit,
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: it's too far gone.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: Probably. It's too far gone.
• 23:18
  Speaker 4: My husband, male 33, threatening me, female 30, to cut
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: off my allowance and provide money just for food alone.
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: Feeling frustrated and emotionally confused, my husband seems to be
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: limiting my access to finances, threatening to cut off my allowance,
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: and only providing enough money for basic necessities like food.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: I feel like I have no rights in managing our finances.
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: As he justifies his actions by accusing me of always
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: spending on online shopping apps.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: To buy home items.
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: By the way, we're newlyweds and our household items aren't
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: complete yet. His excuse is that I shouldn't buy too
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: many things because we tend to move frequently due to
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: his job. I understand, but I swear I only buy
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: things that we actually need. As a woman, I take
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: pride in creating a warm and cozy home environment, but
• 24:06
  Speaker 4: now I feel reduced.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: To a mere housemaid.
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: Doing laundry, cooking, cleaning the house, and taking care of
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: his needs. The situation has left me feeling deeply hurt
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: and questioning my worth.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: What are your insights to this matter? I feel like
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: I need more information, to be honest. Yeah, so do
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: you both, I'm assuming you don't work then. Seems like not.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: If she gets an allowance. She works in the home,
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: which is a job. Kinda. If you have kids.
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah. But if you're just at home, there's not that
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: much to do at home, you know?
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, not for every day.
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: If you're like a newlywed and you don't have any kids,
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: then there's not enough to do at home too. Unless
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: you're like a writer or something like that. Yeah, this is...
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: We need a lot more information, I feel like. Yeah,
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: because it's not looking good for you. Yeah.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you seem a little, uh, a little unreasonable.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't pull the, um, the, uh, that feminist card here.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: Cause it, for one, it's not, it's not your money.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: Obviously he earned it. He's earned the money.
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: If you're not even like working for a job, if
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: you're not like trying to get a job at the
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: end of the day, you are a team and you
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: should be able to share your money and things that
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: you're getting.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: And if he's feels that it's unreasonable, then either a,
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: He's really bad at communication and needs to improve his
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: work with you in terms of finances. Or B, you
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: do actually spend all of his money online shopping.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And he's justified in doing what he's done.
• 25:33
  Speaker 4: He's doing the work and he's making the money. So
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: it's kind of like you need to respect that. And
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: you move a lot, which, yeah, we don't know what
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: you're buying. So it's kind of hard for us to
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: be like.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we need context. Yeah, context is needed. Here's my advice.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: Break up.
• 25:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: Just got married.
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: Immediately. Fell for divorce. I know you can't just break
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: up when you're married, but try really hard. Try as
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: hard as you can to do it as quickly as possible,
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: burning as many bridges as you can. ruining as many
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: lives as possible.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: No. See if you can get access to his funds
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: and then break up.
• 26:06
  Speaker 4: Maybe they're in a situation where she can't work or
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: something or he told her not to work.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we need more information. So we don't know. It's
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: probably because he moves jobs so much and he makes
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: more money. Yeah, she can't hold down a job because
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: she has like a.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: So, like, it doesn't seem, yeah, I'm just, like, losing,
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: because she's not really saying that, she does say that
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: she feels reduced to something. Yeah, like a child, because
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: it's an allowance. But it's like she's not, she's not, like,
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: worried about making money. Yeah. If she's that worried about money,
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: then just get a part-time job. You can get a job.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: You can get a, you can easily get a online,
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: like a.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: Copywriting gig.
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: A lot of people have trouble finding jobs because they
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: can't cover their basic necessities like their food. If you're
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: just chilling at home and you have an extra 40
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: hours a week, then you should just.
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: Try to get a job. That's what I would do.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: Or volunteer or something. Then you have your own money
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: and then you can buy the little things that you want.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: I mean, volunteering, there's always volunteer work, no matter what.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: Maybe you don't make money volunteering. Maybe he'd have more
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: respect for her. Give her more money. Maybe he would.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know this guy.
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: I don't know you. Y'all got them all worked up. No,
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: we gave some sound advice. Yeah, we joked around a
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: little bit. That's what we do. But we give some
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: sound advice, I think.
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 27:11
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• 27:13
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• 27:15
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• 27:24
  Speaker 3: Guys, I need some advice. My girlfriend farts a lot.
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: And she's always shitting. She shits the bed every night. Help.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: You were supposed to say that.