Latest / The Bull Brotherhood / Episode 9 - The Anatomy of a Quality Bull: Mindset, Muscle & Mastery in ENM
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- 0:00The second one is physical. Uncovered a lot of
- 0:03it, you know. Get your breath right. Do your
- 0:06hair. Have a style of dress. Iron your clothes,
- 0:10right? Wash your ass. All that kind of stuff,
- 0:12right? But what I want to talk about... Wash
- 0:17your ass and your balls. And your balls. And
- 0:20your balls, for the love of God. Please. This
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- 0:28themes and candid conversations about sex, dominance,
- 0:33power exchange, and ethical non -monogamy. It
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- 1:18If you're not comfortable with Frank talk about
- 1:21sex, kink, dominance, or emotional power, this
- 1:25probably isn't the show for you. But if you're
- 1:27ready to step into your masculine edge and embrace
- 1:31a lifestyle that demands mastery, welcome to
- 1:34the Brotherhood. Welcome to the Bull Brotherhood
- 1:39podcast, where we talk power, pleasure, and the
- 1:43art of dominance in ethical non -monogamy. This
- 1:46is not your average lifestyle podcast. This is
- 1:49for men who lead, men who master, and men who
- 1:52leave a lasting impression. If you're here, you're
- 1:56not just curious. You're ready to elevate. So
- 1:59to all the bulls, hot wives, stags, and open
- 2:02-minded explorers, we see you. Let's go. Ladies
- 2:20and gentlemen, good evening and welcome to another
- 2:22informative episode of the Girl Brotherhood Podcast.
- 2:25I'm the Sigma male himself, Brian Morgan, along
- 2:27with the family, the lovely Siren. Say hello.
- 2:32Hello, everyone. And of course, my nephew himself
- 2:38and my brother from another mother, the informative
- 2:41Socrates, the perpetual student. What's up, brother?
- 2:44What's good? What's good? We ready to learn today.
- 2:47We're going to learn you today. Absolutely. Audience,
- 2:54ladies and gentlemen, we have a real doozy tonight
- 2:57because you often hear me use the word quality
- 3:00in a lot of my references when I'm talking about
- 3:05a particular bull. I think everyone who's in
- 3:09this lifestyle, whether new or mid -card or you're
- 3:13a seasoned veteran, as far as couples are concerned,
- 3:16you know about. the BBC bull. You know, you meet
- 3:20those guys when you go to different events. They
- 3:23are your one and done. They're strictly there
- 3:26to just provide the sexual pleasure, you know,
- 3:29i .e. the dick, and maybe that's it. You know
- 3:33about the dominant bull. The bull that comes
- 3:37in there, he takes the lead in the relationship,
- 3:40you know, and the hot wife really, she becomes
- 3:44submissive to his needs. You heard me talk about
- 3:48the alpha bull, okay? That bull is a little bit
- 3:51different. He provides more of, say, the boyfriend
- 3:55experience. But when I say what is a quality
- 3:59bull, that word quality means this individual,
- 4:04this bull brings everything to the table. He
- 4:09brings everything. He brings the physical. He
- 4:11brings the emotional. He brings... He just brings
- 4:15that it, that aura to the table. And he makes
- 4:20a couple just go home and be like, well, I just
- 4:23can't do without this guy. So we're going to
- 4:26discuss that tonight. This podcast is aimed more
- 4:29for my new bulls out there who are just coming
- 4:34into this life, as well as what I call my mid
- 4:36-carters. You're not a newbie, but you're not
- 4:39necessarily, you haven't been around the block
- 4:41a lot also. So here again. I'm going to start
- 4:44it off with asking my perpetual student, Socrates,
- 4:47to give me his definition of what that word quality
- 4:50means before we bring him into the bull lifestyle.
- 4:54Yes, sir. Yes, sir. So I think of several things.
- 4:58I'm just going to use a pattern that I always
- 5:00use, which is I always start from the spiritual
- 5:02or the ethereal down to the mental, then the
- 5:05emotional, then the physical. I don't want to
- 5:08get too religious with the spiritual. It's more
- 5:10about a state of being, who you are as an individual,
- 5:14and who you should be as a leader. A bull is
- 5:19there to lead the hot wife and husband or cuckold
- 5:25and cuckoldress through a journey, right? It
- 5:30could be a scene. It could be, you know, a date,
- 5:34a scene in the bedroom. on a scene out, you know,
- 5:39walking, it's about leadership. And that requires
- 5:43a vision. And it doesn't have to be like, you
- 5:47know, it doesn't have to be this grandiose vision.
- 5:50You know, it could be like, how do you want the
- 5:52night to go? Like, how do you want this relationship
- 5:56to go? You know? So it's like, what can you do
- 6:00to lead them through this journey? So that's
- 6:02who I think you should be. Outstanding. Sounds
- 6:05great to me. Here again, the qualities of a bull,
- 6:10of an ideal bull. One of the qualities that I
- 6:14think about is, and here again, I'm talking about
- 6:17myself first and foremost, because I've been
- 6:19in this for a very, very long time. I think about
- 6:22the word discretion. I'm very, very discreet,
- 6:25very, very discreet. I am very, very mindful
- 6:28of what a couple wants, what their desires are.
- 6:34but I'm also very, very mindful of their personal
- 6:36life. And also when I think about the word quality,
- 6:41I refer to myself as like always, I'm always
- 6:45on time when I meet a couple, whether it's a
- 6:48first meet or if it's a, you know, veteran meet.
- 6:53Always on time. I'm always there to do, first
- 6:57and foremost, my job. And that's in quotes, J
- 7:01-O -B meaning. i'm there to provide an experience
- 7:05whether it's a boyfriend experience or whether
- 7:08it is just a sexual experience or it's both i'm
- 7:12there to do my job also i have i will always
- 7:17remember to never interfere or like get involved
- 7:21in your personal life i always remember hey these
- 7:25guys have jobs they have families so you you
- 7:30know discretion is is a must. So that's one of
- 7:33the first things that I think about when I think
- 7:35of a quality bull. Socrates, what is a, what
- 7:40is a trait that you think about? So, yeah, getting
- 7:43back to the mental part of it, I think of one
- 7:49word framework. Now, if you're familiar in the
- 7:53red pill community, talk about frame a lot. And
- 7:56what frame simply means is like, What do you
- 8:01bring as your entire life that that couple is
- 8:05stepping into? In other words, you have values.
- 8:10You have a standard. You have things you do and
- 8:13you don't do. You have a way you do it and a
- 8:16way you don't do it. If that's down, now you
- 8:20might be a nerd like me and have it written down
- 8:22and down to a science and steps and what you
- 8:25need to do. Or you might just come naturally
- 8:27like, You know, where it's like you've developed
- 8:30it over time. Right. But I think when you're
- 8:34thinking right, who you're being or spirit should
- 8:38be one of leadership. But the thought process
- 8:41should always be a framework of what they are
- 8:43coming into. Does that make sense? Absolutely.
- 8:49I think I've said it before that, you know, you
- 8:52you're coming into an already existing loving
- 8:56relationship. So, yeah, you are bringing something
- 9:01to the table because they're looking for you
- 9:04to eventually take charge. Maybe not at first
- 9:07when you first meet somebody, but they are looking
- 9:10to see, okay, what does he bring to the table
- 9:12that is going to make us just go gaga, in other
- 9:16words. So I definitely understand what you're
- 9:20talking about. One of the things that I do that
- 9:24I think a lot of bulls – don't do at first. I
- 9:29think bulls do a lot of listening to what the
- 9:33couple wants and what the couple desires and
- 9:38needs, but I don't think they ask a lot of questions.
- 9:42I don't think they ask a lot of questions. I'm
- 9:43getting like you now, student, when I say asking
- 9:48questions, and I ask questions to determine the
- 9:53couple's expectations. And not only the couple's
- 9:56expectations, but to determine my expectations
- 9:59also. Because here again, I am bringing something
- 10:02to the table. And really what a bull is bringing
- 10:06to the table is something that is, I'm going
- 10:10to say the word superior to what they're already
- 10:12used to, but not in a bad way. You understand
- 10:15what I'm saying? I'm bringing something that
- 10:18is above what they already know. And that is
- 10:23why, you know, I have to ask a lot of questions.
- 10:25I have to find out what the do's, the don'ts
- 10:28are from them. And they need to know what I am
- 10:33comfortable with, what I am not comfortable with.
- 10:36But at the same time, they need to know that
- 10:38I'm also open -minded. I'm open to all of the
- 10:41possibilities. So, yeah, I mean, what do you
- 10:45think about that as far as like the questions?
- 10:48Oh, I love it. And you know me, I mean. I'm always
- 10:51asking questions. I used to get in trouble for
- 10:53asking. Yeah. And that's, that's part of that
- 11:00framework I was talking about. Like that's me
- 11:03and me and your framework when we, and you know,
- 11:06the people that we know that we admire, you know,
- 11:09Michael C, uh, pagan, those cats, people that
- 11:12we know that are quality bull. I haven't met
- 11:15one that doesn't start off with a million questions.
- 11:18Right. Exactly. Yeah. So it's like when you start
- 11:22off and you add asking a lot of questions to
- 11:27your framework, what that does is it tells them
- 11:30this person is genuinely interested in me and
- 11:33he's genuinely going to try to tailor an experience
- 11:37based on our needs. And that allows the woman
- 11:40to shut her mind off, you know, because what
- 11:44you want is the woman, the hot wife or the cuckoldress.
- 11:49the unicorn, whatever you're, whatever you're
- 11:52interacting with to shut her mind off and reboot.
- 11:56And, um, and, and when you have that as your
- 12:00framework, then that really, and then what happens
- 12:03is, is they're way more open to your leadership,
- 12:06right? There you go. And what, and, and you,
- 12:11you saying that that brings me up to, to another
- 12:14quality. Um, I don't go into anything like seeking
- 12:20romance, you know, from the couple, you know,
- 12:24from the hot wife. But, but, and this is a big
- 12:27but in capital letters, if emotions do get involved,
- 12:32I never ever try to compete or replace the husband.
- 12:38I think that is something that has made me very,
- 12:41very successful over the years. It definitely
- 12:43made me successful with... you know my couple
- 12:45now um philip and lindsey he knows that although
- 12:49i am you know crazy about lindsey and we are
- 12:52very very close he knows that i'm never ever
- 12:55trying to replace him in any way shape or form
- 12:58uh he is always hubby i will always you know
- 13:01go through him for certain things and that works
- 13:06that works every time so what you were saying
- 13:08that just kind of blending in with that you know
- 13:12seeking the romance and how the meat can evolve
- 13:17over time and it can turn into something that
- 13:21might be a little bit heavier than what you thought
- 13:24you were getting into. Right, right. Another
- 13:27thing, I think that quality bull has to learn
- 13:30or know everything there is to know about the
- 13:33lifestyle. I'm not saying you got to be a perfectionist,
- 13:37but you have to know a lot about this world that
- 13:41we live in. And you got to know a lot about yourself.
- 13:46You need to know exactly what you bring to the
- 13:49table that is good. You need to know exactly
- 13:52what you're not good at, but can possibly get
- 13:56better at. And then you need to know what, you
- 13:58know, hey, I'm not really good at this. And be
- 14:03able to say, you know, look, people, I've never
- 14:04experienced something like this before. But here
- 14:06again, I'm willing to branch out and try, you
- 14:10know, and be open -minded. Your thoughts? You
- 14:14know what? I love it because that happened to
- 14:17me at Utopia. Shout out to my boy Michael C and
- 14:22his Utopia team when we went there and we were
- 14:27kind of part of the staff. And when I did have
- 14:31a little bit of time to play, which is something
- 14:34I won't be doing in the future, thanks to my
- 14:36uncle. But I did say that. I said, hey, this
- 14:40is... a new experience for me, and, you know,
- 14:44whatever the situation was. And they were very
- 14:46open. And what I'm surprised at, Unc, is that
- 14:50you would think as a new bull that saying that
- 14:55would diminish your position as a leader. And
- 15:00surprisingly, it didn't. It actually gave me
- 15:04a lot more authority. And I want you to speak
- 15:07on that before I kind of keep going on what I
- 15:09think a quality bull is. Why doesn't it diminish
- 15:12your position as a leader when you're telling
- 15:15them, hey, this is a new experience, but I'm
- 15:17willing to learn and let's rock and keep going?
- 15:22Because you're letting them, you're letting,
- 15:24in my opinion, you're letting that couple know
- 15:26that, hey, although I've been in this game for
- 15:29quite some time, you know, I don't, I'm not afraid
- 15:33to say that I don't know everything. And that
- 15:36lets a couple know that, hey, this guy's real.
- 15:39He's very, very real. He's not trying to be somebody
- 15:42that he's not. He's letting me know that, hey,
- 15:45I don't know everything, but here again, I am
- 15:48willing to learn and try and be open -minded
- 15:54and become the absolute best bull, confidant,
- 15:59whatever you want to be to that couple. Because
- 16:03like I said, the majority of the couples in this
- 16:07lifestyle now, They're not looking just for that
- 16:09BBC bull. They might be looking for that when
- 16:12they go to different events, i .e. Splash. But
- 16:16the majority of couples now, they're looking
- 16:19for, here again, the boyfriend experience. They
- 16:23want somebody they can call their guy, their
- 16:26bull. So, you know, if I came into a situation
- 16:29just saying that, okay, yeah, I've done this,
- 16:32I've done that, I know everything, absolutely
- 16:34everything. Guess what? I am to that. couple
- 16:37probably i'm i'm i'm boring i'm boring because
- 16:42they're like okay well maybe we don't measure
- 16:45up to this guy you know he's done every damn
- 16:47thing um that's kind of a turnoff but if you
- 16:50come in there though like i said you are a seasoned
- 16:53vet but at the same time there might be a few
- 16:55things that you have not done but you do want
- 16:57to experience it with the right couple so that's
- 17:02how i feel about that i love it love it I tell
- 17:05you what, we've gone over a few things so far.
- 17:08I would love to hear from the lovely Siren, your
- 17:11better half. Are you there, baby girl? I am.
- 17:14Give us your thoughts on what we've talked about
- 17:16so far, please. Give the audience some feedback.
- 17:19First, I want the audience to get out a pen and
- 17:24a piece of paper. And I want you to write out
- 17:28the letters of the word quality. And I'm going
- 17:31to go over each letter. and give you something
- 17:34for each letter. And so what I have for Q is
- 17:40quiet confidence. A quality bull lets the results
- 17:44speak louder than his mouth. There's so many
- 17:47guys out there that run their mouth about what
- 17:49they're going to do to you and how great it's
- 17:52going to be. But a quality bull will bring in
- 17:56that quiet confidence and just show you what
- 17:59it's all about. For the letter U, we have unshakable
- 18:03standards. No shortcuts, no sloppiness. And that's
- 18:09what being part of the Bull Brotherhood is all
- 18:12about, is the standards, the ethics for, you
- 18:17know, from everything from you guys, from the
- 18:19communication to the quality of play that you
- 18:24bring, you know, to the ethical standards. A,
- 18:31assertive presence. You own every room, every
- 18:37play situation, every moment. You, even like
- 18:45Socrates was talking about, like even if you
- 18:47have something where you have to communicate
- 18:49that an experience is new for you, you're still
- 18:52assertive with that. You're unapologetic and
- 18:57you just bring that presence. to the room that
- 19:00you're in um oh you lead like a lion calm powerful
- 19:09protective especially you mr morgan with your
- 19:14couple um i see that you're calm you're powerful
- 19:18you're protective of lindsay um but you also
- 19:23are calming to philip as the husband and i think
- 19:26that is amazing and just such a great example
- 19:29of that leading. Um, I, you invest in mastery,
- 19:36like skill isn't optional is expected in this
- 19:40lifestyle and you know, everybody got to start
- 19:43somewhere. Right. But that quality bowl will
- 19:47invest in that mastery. And that's what you guys
- 19:49have done. And that's why we have this podcast
- 19:52is because you two have invested in that mastery
- 19:55and now you're trying to help. other bulls to
- 19:59do that um and then t you take let's take the
- 20:06damn responsibility no blaming no whining you
- 20:09know if the situation goes a different direction
- 20:13just take the responsibility of that there's
- 20:15nothing hot than a hotter than a man that can
- 20:18say sorry apologize or you know just be like
- 20:24hey You know, I didn't prepare quite right for
- 20:27this play date today. Or, you know, I'm sorry
- 20:31that I was late. Or, you know, whatever. Whatever
- 20:35the circumstance may be, just take responsibility
- 20:37for your actions. Don't blame others. Well, if
- 20:40you would have wore that lingerie, then my dick
- 20:42would have got harder. You know, whatever. Just
- 20:46take the responsibility. Be the man in the room.
- 20:49And then lastly, the why. You set the bar. And
- 20:54others will follow where you lead. And that's
- 20:56what you do for your couples, for your, you know,
- 21:00one -on -one. It's like, set the standard, you
- 21:03know? Like, there was a bull that got a hotel
- 21:07room for me the other day. Like, I walked in.
- 21:09It's a fucking suite. Like, this is our first
- 21:13hotel play date, you know? It was amazing. You
- 21:16know, he had the drinks out and this and that
- 21:20and everything prepared. He set the standard.
- 21:22And now I'm like, wow. All right. Well, I need
- 21:26to I need to bump my bar a little higher because
- 21:28that was a great experience, you know. And when
- 21:32you show that it's the standard in different
- 21:36areas that. You know, some guys will complain.
- 21:39A bull that's not quality will complain and be,
- 21:42oh, you're making it hard for the rest of us,
- 21:44man. No. Step your fucking game up. It's not
- 21:49that you have to spend a lot of money like that
- 21:51with the suite. I understand everybody has different
- 21:54budgets, but you can set an amazing standard
- 21:57with whatever income level you're at. There's
- 22:01lots of ways to set a great standard. It's not
- 22:03just with what you do with the woman or the couple.
- 22:08As far as taking someone to dinner or doing the
- 22:14different things to give that boyfriend experience.
- 22:16you know that's the the communication that you
- 22:20bring um how you speak to the woman um how you're
- 22:24respectful but all of that you know really just
- 22:27sums up the whole package of just setting the
- 22:30bar and um others following you and that's what
- 22:34you and socrates have both done so that's what
- 22:37i have so far on the matter ladies and gentlemen
- 22:43one word damn How do we, how do we go on after
- 22:48that? I don't know. I'm ready to be done. Let's
- 22:51just close it down. That was fire. Oh my goodness.
- 22:56Did she not just put the stamp on everything
- 23:00that we were saying and, and to have, to have,
- 23:08you know, and what an acronym for, for the, you
- 23:12know, for quality. That's. that needs to be written
- 23:15down and like post it we'll put it in the show
- 23:18notes exactly that needs to be written down to
- 23:21you guys beautiful because i mean that's it right
- 23:25there in a nutshell that is it that is what quality
- 23:28truly means in this in this lifestyle for a book
- 23:32you know what you are I used my friend ChatGBT
- 23:40to make that. That's okay. That's okay. I could
- 23:43kill this. I could kill this. What's super cool
- 23:47is that we have programmed our ChatGBT for both
- 23:51of our podcasts, The Siren of Freedom and The
- 23:54Bull Brotherhood. Socrates has done that. So
- 23:56when I knew what I wanted to create with it,
- 24:00and then it asked me some questions, you know,
- 24:03do you want something sassier? I can even remix
- 24:07it for, you know, the Siren of Freedom or Bull
- 24:10Brotherhood tone. And I said, a little sassier,
- 24:13but male -dominated. And it says, here's a sassier,
- 24:16male -dominated version of quality. Something
- 24:22a strong, competent, and emotionally intelligent
- 24:25man, like the Bulls on the Bull Brotherhood,
- 24:28would stand behind. Confident, no fluff, and
- 24:30no apologies. You heard it here first, ladies
- 24:33and gentlemen. We are here teaching you chat
- 24:36GBT prompts and stuff. Yeah. But I was just like,
- 24:43if that didn't nail it on the head, because you
- 24:45know, everything that we've been talking about,
- 24:47it really just, you know, brought it into the
- 24:51acronym. I love acronyms. That's my kind of nerdiness
- 24:54right there. Well, I do too. So that's why, that's
- 24:57why I was like, damn, I couldn't say no, but
- 24:59damn after that, that really does break down
- 25:02what quality. is, you know, for this lifestyle.
- 25:06And like I said, whether you are a newbie, you
- 25:10know, just starting out, or if you are a seasoned
- 25:12vet, that is what needs to be brought to the
- 25:16table every time you meet a couple or you meet
- 25:20a single. But here again, we're talking about
- 25:22couples now. When you meet a couple, you need
- 25:24to exemplify all of that. All of that. And it's
- 25:28not hard, gentlemen. It is not hard. Like I said,
- 25:32look at yourself first. Look at yourself in the
- 25:36mirror, okay? And say to yourself, you know,
- 25:40what kind of man am I? That's first and foremost.
- 25:44What kind of man am I? You know, do I get up
- 25:47in the morning? Do I have that discipline to
- 25:49get up in the morning? Do I, and here again I'm
- 25:53talking about myself, do I practice the body
- 25:55game? Okay, do I go to the gym? Do I work out?
- 25:57Do I make myself look as... as my genetic makeup
- 26:02will allow me to look, okay? Here again, I'm
- 26:07going on 60 years old, but there aren't too many
- 26:09people my age that look the way I look right
- 26:13now. There aren't. And I'm not trying to toot
- 26:16my own horn, but hell, nephew, you're what, 53,
- 26:1954? Yes, sir. I'll toot it for you guys. Toot,
- 26:22toot. You know what I mean? So this game, this
- 26:26life that we're talking about, You have more
- 26:30guys in it and ladies. You have more ladies and
- 26:35gentlemen in it that are what I call the mature,
- 26:39the real mature people of, you know, over 40,
- 26:42really over 45. And, hell, that's another damn
- 26:46podcast. Also, nephew, we're going to talk about
- 26:48the evolution of a bull soon, real soon. But
- 26:52back to what I was saying, though, you have people
- 26:55that are 40, 45, 50. and above, we're representing
- 27:01in this life. We're the ones that are representing.
- 27:04Your 20 -somethings, what percentage do you think
- 27:09are in their 20s that come to splash? Ooh, maybe
- 27:13about 5%, 10%. Yeah, I don't think it's a big
- 27:18number. But when you get to your 30s, it gets
- 27:22a little higher. But when you get to your mature
- 27:24level, 40 and over, that's what's representing.
- 27:27at these you know at these events and like i
- 27:30said a lot of the bulls they are 40 some 50 and
- 27:34over so you know are you staying are you getting
- 27:37are you you doing what you have to do to keep
- 27:40yourself a looking 120 feeling 120 being able
- 27:47to perform 120 you know because here again when
- 27:51you get 50 and over we start thinking about men
- 27:54our testosterone levels they do drop Certain
- 27:57things do happen, you know, but you can correct
- 28:01that with certain, you know, medicines and stuff.
- 28:04And I'm talking about testosterone replacement
- 28:07therapy. I am glad to say that I'm on it. I have
- 28:10been on it now for a little over a year. It does
- 28:12amazing things for you. But, you know, are you
- 28:15practicing everything, like Siren said, that
- 28:18acronym quality? Are you doing what it takes
- 28:21to get in front of a couple and they look at
- 28:23you and be like, okay. That's a grown -ass man
- 28:26standing in front of me right now talking to
- 28:28us. I mean, simple, to a T. Am I right or wrong?
- 28:36Amen. Well, I spelled it out for you. If you
- 28:39can spell the word quality, that's why I said
- 28:42let's just spell it out. Let's just spell it
- 28:44out. I love things like that. I love a checklist.
- 28:47I love a roadmap that I can follow, steps. And
- 28:53there's seven steps for you. There you go. There
- 28:57you go. Beautiful. Beautiful. Nephew, I know
- 29:00you got a million questions, as you always do.
- 29:03I want to hear them. I want to hear them. Siren,
- 29:06you're in here now. We both want to hear. Audience,
- 29:10I know you want to hear also. Take it away. Well,
- 29:14I wanted to finish the other two, and then I
- 29:16do have a lot of questions. Go ahead. So the
- 29:18other two is emotions and physical. And you covered
- 29:21a lot of the physical, but I do have something
- 29:22to say about that. Emotion is really easy. Emotional
- 29:26intelligence. There's a book with that same title.
- 29:34I highly recommend. There's two books, actually,
- 29:36I think, with that title. I recommend both. And
- 29:39emotional intelligence is just about being able
- 29:42to manage and control your emotions. And as a
- 29:46leader, With frame, right, with who's looking
- 29:51to be quality, you have to be able to manage
- 29:54your emotions. The cuck or cuckoldress or somebody
- 29:58might feel a little uncomfortable. They might
- 30:01lose their temper. They might feel scared or
- 30:04fear or insecurity. And you have to keep composure
- 30:08about yourself. I think we'd love to, I'd love
- 30:13to do another podcast on this as far as what
- 30:15are the basic characteristics of emotional intelligence
- 30:17and how bulls can execute that. We won't talk
- 30:20about that now, but I do highly recommend that
- 30:24you read those books. I'll put those book titles
- 30:26in the show notes and links to those books. The
- 30:30second one is physical. Uncovered a lot of it,
- 30:33you know. Get your breath right. Do your hair.
- 30:37Learn, have a style of dress. Iron your clothes,
- 30:40right? Wash your ass. All that kind of stuff,
- 30:42right? But what I want to talk about. Wash your
- 30:48ass. And your balls. And your balls. And your
- 30:50balls, for the love of God. Please. I .E. Impeccable
- 30:56hygiene. Impeccable hygiene. You want to be very,
- 31:01very clean. And let me elaborate on that word
- 31:04clean. Not just the cleanliness of the. exterior
- 31:09of the body, but also the cleanliness of the
- 31:12interior of the body. I mean, you know what I'm
- 31:15talking about? Free of all STDs. Okay. It is
- 31:19not hard to go and get an HIV test and a STD
- 31:25test. I do it every 30 days. Okay. Because here
- 31:29again, I can, I cannot wear condoms. I can't
- 31:33wear condoms due to a severe allergy, but that
- 31:36is me. OK, I think you should, you know, use
- 31:42condoms if you can. Always, always, always have
- 31:46the safety of your couple in mind. OK, as well
- 31:50as yourself. But first and foremost, the safety
- 31:53of that couple. So be clean outside as well as
- 31:58inside. Again, outside as well as inside. That's
- 32:02what that cleaning is all about. Anything else
- 32:05on that? Oh, yeah. I can't say any more out of
- 32:09pain. What you just said, wash your ass. You
- 32:12know what I mean? Brush your teeth. Okay? Brush
- 32:16your teeth. If you're a bald man, hey, have the
- 32:19most immaculate bald head like I do in the world.
- 32:23Okay? I shave every day. I like people to see
- 32:26my face, so I'm always clean shaved. Your appearance
- 32:29is everything. It goes along with what I said,
- 32:32the body game. You know, you don't have to laugh.
- 32:35look like a bodybuilder or anything like that,
- 32:36but have some, have some pride in your appearance,
- 32:40have some pride in your appearance. Um, she might
- 32:43not come out and say, well, you know, that doesn't
- 32:45appeal to me as far as, you know, you have a
- 32:47beautiful body and all that. She's lying. They're
- 32:51lying. Okay. They like to see something that
- 32:55looks good when you take your clothes off. Period.
- 32:58Facts. I want to jump in. I think that's a joke.
- 33:02Please. Please jump in. I knew you were going
- 33:06to say something. That's why I said what I said.
- 33:08Oh man, because this is my jam, okay? Because
- 33:12I think so, I think I agree with you. I agree
- 33:15with you saying that they should take the best
- 33:17care of themselves that is genetically possible,
- 33:20right? Exactly. And obviously, you know, it's
- 33:24appealing to have someone who makes the effort
- 33:29to take care of themselves. But I want to say
- 33:32that I enjoy a wide variety of body types on
- 33:37men. And even some of the men, I call them full
- 33:40-bodied. On women, we'd call them thick, right?
- 33:43But on men, I call it full -bodied. And I enjoy
- 33:46that because it's like... just comfy and there's
- 33:52something comforting about that, that cushion,
- 33:54you know? And so I don't want any of the, the,
- 33:59the more full -bodied men to feel discouraged
- 34:02if they are, you know, doing the best or, you
- 34:05know, need to make life changes because I enjoy
- 34:09a wide variety of body types on men. And, and
- 34:14there will be more full -bodied men that won't
- 34:17take their shirt off. during play they'll just
- 34:20you know they'll be naked from the waist down
- 34:21and I always make them take their shirt off you
- 34:24know I'm like take your shirt off you know like
- 34:26I want to see it all like I'm here for it all
- 34:29and I think in the same way that you know women
- 34:33like we're thicker we've we've got some stretch
- 34:36marks we've got a fat roller too here and there
- 34:39um you know but it's about our health and our
- 34:43and our efforts right and you men you know just
- 34:47lifting us up and and attracted and um worshiping
- 34:53the body that we have you know the skin that
- 34:55we're in i think that confidence no matter what
- 34:58your meat suit looks like is the most important
- 35:02thing and then taking care of your health and
- 35:04then you know obviously there's going to be many
- 35:08women who i mean we all we all love some muscles
- 35:12Right. But I just want to say that I enjoy personally
- 35:15a wide variety of body types on that. Can I jump
- 35:18in there? Of course. Of course. But I knew she
- 35:23was going to chime in, though. I knew when I
- 35:25said that I knew your wife was going to come
- 35:27back with that because I've heard her say before
- 35:29she loves a wide variety, you know, and she's
- 35:32one of the she's one of the few. I know there
- 35:36are more ladies out there who do. uh, level wide
- 35:39variety, but siren, you are one of the ones who
- 35:42actually comes out. You really do say, you know,
- 35:45I, I, I admire, um, quote unquote, the thick
- 35:49body or the dad bod, you know, compared to just
- 35:53being, you know, muscular and, and, and athletic
- 35:56and stuff like that. So that's a, that's a shout
- 35:59out to you. It is really a shout out to you ladies
- 36:03again, uh, listen to the sound of freedom podcast.
- 36:07Okay. Become a member of her sisterhood because
- 36:12you will learn a lot. But nephew, go ahead. Yeah,
- 36:15so I want to actually bring both of you guys'
- 36:17statements together. So, you know, me being the
- 36:19nerd, I'm going to bring some science in here.
- 36:21So, one, I'm just like Siren on the other end.
- 36:26I prefer thicker women, but I love them all shapes
- 36:30and sizes. And I like them white, black, brown,
- 36:34Puerto Rican, a Haitian with good conversation.
- 36:37You know what I mean? So let me just put that
- 36:40out there. I love them all. I love them all.
- 36:43And here's the science behind it. And this is
- 36:47all based on evolutionary psychology. So if you
- 36:49don't believe in that, it's fine. But this is
- 36:52also, there's also other research that proves
- 36:56these through. you know, self testing or people
- 36:59giving their own testimony or opinions about
- 37:02what they believe in. A man only has to focus
- 37:06on one thing. Now that doesn't mean there isn't
- 37:09other things to worry about, but if you're concerned
- 37:11about your looks, it's your shoulder to waist
- 37:15ratio. So you could be a bigger guy, but like
- 37:19me, ever since I turned like 35, I've struggled
- 37:22with gaining weight in my midsection. A lot of
- 37:26it is because I be snacking too much. But that
- 37:30is the truth. Let me say this, nephew. Every
- 37:38man, every man, regardless of his genetic makeup,
- 37:42whether he's muscular, i .e. a mesomorph, if
- 37:45he's an endomorph, kind of a little body fat,
- 37:48or if he's skinny, we all generally hold our...
- 37:54Fat once we get 40 and over or 50 and over in
- 37:58the same Part of the body the midsection. Okay.
- 38:03I am fighting. I am fighting. I am fighting right
- 38:07now You know me I am fighting so hard. I don't
- 38:10care how many damn At workouts I do. I don't
- 38:14care how clean I eat or whatever It is just that's
- 38:17just the genetic makeup of a man, you know, so
- 38:20it is what it is But here again, I didn't mean
- 38:24to interrupt. Keep going. No, no. We need to
- 38:28say that. So work on that, and there's things
- 38:33you could do to work on that. The testosterone
- 38:34will help you, right? A lot of it's based on
- 38:38cortisol that you're putting out there. Check
- 38:42your diet. You don't have to be some crazy. meathead
- 38:49gym guy who's in the diet all the time, which
- 38:52me and the Sigma male here, we try to go to the
- 38:55gym at least four or five times a day. But if
- 38:59you can focus on your shoulders and build your
- 39:01shoulders up a lot while you're trying to work
- 39:04on your midsection, that will really help you.
- 39:07And the same for women. You know, we're talking
- 39:09about bulls, but really quick, it's waist to
- 39:11hip ratio. And here's a scientific fact you can
- 39:14look up. Most men. Don't care about the size
- 39:18as long as it's an hourglass figure. So it could
- 39:20be a three -hour glass figure, a two -hour glass
- 39:22figure, a one -hour glass figure. Scientifically
- 39:25proven that men go to the hip to, I mean, the
- 39:29waist to hip ratio. So going back to bulls, physically,
- 39:35we talked about the emotional challenges. Physically,
- 39:38focus on that. And then I want to add something
- 39:41else. Another thing, a subject we're going to
- 39:43be talking about in the future, especially with
- 39:45my man, Pagan. because he's the best at this,
- 39:47is peacocking. And what peacocking is, it comes
- 39:52from the pickup artist community. If you guys
- 39:56haven't already figured out, I am a student of
- 39:59the Manosphere or the Red Pill, the pickup artist
- 40:02community. Not that I believe in them. You know,
- 40:04these are the Andrew Tates of the world, the
- 40:07Sterling, I think his last name is, what's Sterling's
- 40:11last name that me and you like to follow, Unc?
- 40:16He's a bull. You're talking about Cooper. Sterling
- 40:19Cooper, yeah. Sterling Cooper. So these guys
- 40:23also teach whether you walk in in a suit, suited
- 40:26and booted, or you walk in there in a jumpsuit,
- 40:29or you walk in there with a top hat, you want
- 40:32to have a signature look. Now, my signature look
- 40:37a lot of times is I'm just plain. I'm just black
- 40:40from the top down. My signature look a lot of
- 40:43times is not to have a signature look. But when
- 40:47you have some form of a look, that distinguishes
- 40:53you from everybody else, right? What I like,
- 40:57there's this really cool guy, I think he's even
- 40:58Green Beret, that shows up, and I won't mention
- 41:02any other details, but he shows up and he dresses
- 41:05like he is in the military. Every time I see
- 41:08him, he's got something on that has some kind
- 41:10of fatigue or something that lets you know he's
- 41:12military. And that is kind of his way of... Peacocking,
- 41:15you know? So, you know, me and the Sigma male,
- 41:21we kind of like simple looks. You know, whenever
- 41:23I go to an event, if they have a theme, I try
- 41:27to dress up. A lot of guys don't, but I do. I
- 41:30like doing that. You know, but I would definitely.
- 41:32I like it. I like doing it with you. Yeah, we
- 41:35love doing it. We always go to our room. And
- 41:37if it's a theme night, we always just together,
- 41:39we try to do it together as a team. And that's
- 41:42my way of peacocking. I'm playing when I'm not,
- 41:44and then I'll go all out when it comes to a theme.
- 41:48So that's, that's, that's what I got on all four
- 41:51of those. So if you want, I'd love to move into
- 41:54some of the questions, you know, I got. Go right
- 41:58ahead, bro. What are your. Excuse me, Siren,
- 42:04you got anything else to add? Well, I was just
- 42:07going to say that the guy that comes to mind
- 42:10as having a very signature look for himself is
- 42:13Dimitri at Splash Mocha. And that's why I call
- 42:17him Dapper Dan. He talked about that on his episode.
- 42:20But he just has this certain style about him.
- 42:24It's not flashy or anything crazy, but it's very
- 42:29unique. And it's put together. every single time,
- 42:34whether he's just being more casual or he's being
- 42:36a little more dressed up. So that's all I was
- 42:40thinking about. That's the first person that
- 42:43popped to mind. Dimitri is the signature for,
- 42:51like I said, the Dapper Dan look. Myself along
- 42:54with Mr. Mocha, both of us being fitness trainers
- 43:00and fitness guys. We like to wear, you know,
- 43:03our fitness stuff that, like, is usually dark
- 43:07and everything contours, you know, shows off
- 43:09the body. But at the same time, though, when
- 43:13it comes to the evening events, no, I don't do
- 43:15the theme. I don't do the theme. But I do like
- 43:18to bring out my, as Socrates saw me, you know,
- 43:22with the slacks and, you know, the shirt and,
- 43:24you know, the nice shoes and stuff. Not like
- 43:27I'm necessarily going to a club, but just let
- 43:29everybody know that, hey, he can dress. He can
- 43:32come out looking, you know, signature also. Yeah,
- 43:38I love it. So my first question to you, Unc,
- 43:41is what are some of the don'ts that you would
- 43:44tell every bull, no matter what, you know, if
- 43:49it's BBC or a white bull or any other race or
- 43:53any kind of gentleman in this lifestyle, what
- 43:57are some of the things that you would say, don't
- 44:00do that? Do not go in there and everything that
- 44:10comes out of your mouth when you first meet a
- 44:12couple is referencing you guys having sex. Never,
- 44:18ever do that. Never. I don't care if you're at
- 44:22a splash smoking event. Don't do that. It's one
- 44:27thing to go to an event and you're a newbie.
- 44:33And it's another thing to hit an event and you
- 44:36are just as thirsty as the wives who are there.
- 44:40This is a wife event. We expect the wives to
- 44:43come there and they are thirsty. But don't you
- 44:46come in there like you've never had a piece of
- 44:49pussy before in your damn life. So that's one
- 44:52of the key things right there that just turns
- 44:56me the hell off. A, you're bouncing around like
- 44:58a pinball and everything that comes out of your
- 45:01mouth when you... talk to a wife or to a couple
- 45:03is you know a how big my dick is uh what i'll
- 45:09do to the wife um that just total turn off that
- 45:14is like the number one pet peeve of mine number
- 45:19one well i like it i like it um do you think
- 45:28a newbie so let's say If people don't, you know,
- 45:32if you've heard the episode, if people have heard
- 45:35the episode, you know, I started off as a newbie
- 45:39bull after my divorce. And I listened to the
- 45:44Keys and Anklets. And I listened to Stag Stable,
- 45:49I think. I don't think he's doing anything. Really
- 45:50cool bull out of Arizona. Doctor. Super cool
- 45:54guy. And I went online and I called myself a
- 45:59bull. I was in the lifestyle before, but I had
- 46:03never been a bull. Do you think a newbie, first
- 46:08time, he wants to get online or wants to present
- 46:12himself at a club, whatever, do you think a man
- 46:14should call himself a bull if he's never had
- 46:18a bull experience when he's out there online
- 46:20or getting himself out there? Or should he just
- 46:23be like a manicorn or an individual or a single
- 46:26guy until he gets some... you know, bull chops
- 46:29under his belt. Nephew, he is a civilian. He
- 46:35is a civilian until he earns his bull title.
- 46:39We always got to bring it back to the military
- 46:41around here, folks. He is a civilian, okay? He's
- 46:46got to go through, just like in the military,
- 46:49you got to earn your stripes through basic training,
- 46:52first and foremost. Then you got to learn the
- 46:55skills, i .e. the job. Then you got to get a
- 46:58duty station and perform those skills. Okay.
- 47:02And then you got to go to events like a splash
- 47:05mocha and other things that would be a deployment.
- 47:08So he is a civilian until he earns his stripes.
- 47:15When he earns those stripes, then we can anoint
- 47:18him or promote him to the rank of bull. Oh, I
- 47:24like that. I can't wait to start getting some
- 47:25feedback on emails because we're going to get
- 47:28some pushback on that one for sure. But we standing
- 47:32on business around here, y 'all. Ten toes down.
- 47:35Exactly. Exactly. Again, this podcast is not
- 47:40to put down any of my brothers out there, okay,
- 47:44of the brotherhood. It's not to put you down,
- 47:46but it is to make you realize that. This, you
- 47:50know, this term, this moniker, whatever you want
- 47:53to call it, when you call yourself a bull, you
- 47:56have earned it. You have earned it. And it is
- 48:00not for everybody. This isn't for everybody.
- 48:04This is not, I say again, this is not for every
- 48:07male out there. Okay? Can you learn this? Yes,
- 48:11you can. But it takes time. It takes patience.
- 48:15It takes time. It takes fuck ups. Okay, when
- 48:18you mess up, hey, like the beautiful siren said,
- 48:23own up to it. You effed up, you know, but learn
- 48:27from your mistakes. Come back. Try it again.
- 48:30Because guess what? You will fail a few times
- 48:33in this before you get your equation, what works
- 48:36for you, correct. Believe me, I know. I do know.
- 48:42So here again, you know, if you didn't like what
- 48:45I just said, hey. It is what it is. But yes,
- 48:49you are a civilian until you earn that term of
- 48:52bull. Keep it going, nephew. One of the things
- 48:55that I pride myself on as the, you know, as the,
- 48:59you know, editor and project manager and everything
- 49:03is that I really do think this is going to be
- 49:06valuable to every man out there, vanilla or lifestyle.
- 49:15you know single or married and one of the reasons
- 49:18why is because of what you said it's like we
- 49:22want to get you there but lying and telling you
- 49:25you're already there is not the best way to get
- 49:29there and you know what i'm saying we're not
- 49:32here to cause controversy we're here to help
- 49:35everybody and we believe in principles that these
- 49:38things can help any man in any situation lead
- 49:43and better be the one who's in control and the
- 49:47one who is leading them to a wonderful experience.
- 49:51So I just want to put that out before I put my
- 49:53next question, which is, do you think that a
- 50:00bull, when he's interacting with the husband,
- 50:03do you think that he should lead with what turns
- 50:10the wife on? Or should he lead with what they
- 50:15love together whenever they're interacting with
- 50:19the husband? Or should it be a completely different
- 50:23relationship in your mind? How do you look at
- 50:27it when you're interacting with the husband?
- 50:32First of all, anything that comes up in a sexual
- 50:37tone, that comes. after he and I just have the
- 50:46basic conversation of, you know, hello, how you
- 50:49doing? You know, my name is such and such. Just
- 50:52getting to know each other. Then we will go,
- 50:56once we're comfortable there, we will get into
- 50:58what they like. You know, it's never about what
- 51:03she likes at first. I've been in this long enough,
- 51:07hell, I can kind of look at her and tell, you
- 51:09know, if she has a rapport. with me already um
- 51:14so it's you know it's all about like what they
- 51:18like what they like i want him to feel as comfortable
- 51:21around me as possible in that first meet because
- 51:26that first meet is is it's gonna make you or
- 51:29it's gonna break you you know like i said they
- 51:32already know what they're looking for they know
- 51:34they know exactly what they're looking for um
- 51:36when they read your bio or whatever you know
- 51:39everybody met you You fit the criteria of what
- 51:42they were looking for. So now you got to come
- 51:44in there now. And when you talk to him, he's
- 51:49going to be checking out the boxes. Okay, yeah,
- 51:51I read this. That goes with that. That goes with
- 51:54this. That goes with that. Now, if you come in
- 51:56there talking bullshit and it doesn't, you know,
- 52:01line up with what he's read, then he's going
- 52:04to know, okay, this guy is full of shit. So you...
- 52:08Forget about the sexual things at first. Just
- 52:11get to know him and then, you know, get in there
- 52:15and find out what they want as a couple first.
- 52:19And then when you find out what they want, then
- 52:21you can move over to what she likes. And that's
- 52:26a three -way conversation. When you get to what
- 52:29she likes, have him there. Always have him there.
- 52:32Don't like, you know, be like, okay, I don't
- 52:34need to talk to you now. I can talk to her. Have
- 52:37her come to you guys and you guys sit down and
- 52:41make that a three -way conversation. And that
- 52:43may not be on the first meet. That might be on
- 52:46the second or third meet, depending on how, you
- 52:49know, fast they want to get to know you, how
- 52:51much chemistry you have. It could be a very,
- 52:55very quick conversation. Or it could be, like
- 52:58I said, you know, two or three -time meet. But
- 53:02here again, that's how I do it. Bulls, brothers,
- 53:05that's how I do it. It might, you know, you might
- 53:07have a different, you might have a different
- 53:09equation, but that's always worked for me. Got
- 53:15it. Yeah, I love it. I love it. So those are
- 53:18all the questions I got on. We're going to cover
- 53:21anything else on this subject? I don't know.
- 53:25I'm going to turn it over, well, we're going
- 53:27to turn it over to the lovely Siren and see what
- 53:29she has to throw. out to us all right now i know
- 53:33i just put you on the spot right there oh you
- 53:37know me i can figure out something to say um
- 53:41so i'm trying to think uh how to either wrap
- 53:46it up and put a bow on it or else start a whole
- 53:48new thing right you were kind of talking about
- 53:51the don't the things not to do so i wanted to
- 53:56see what chat gbt had to say about that according
- 53:58to um you know the prompts that we give it and
- 54:04it had some good things too you pretty much you
- 54:06know covered most of it but well i really just
- 54:12you know i really just get on one with the sexual
- 54:14aspect i mean there are more don'ts you know
- 54:17i mean there are more don'ts but here again go
- 54:19ahead There's a whole list here, like 10 things.
- 54:22But again, we can always post these in the show
- 54:24notes as well, just for, you know, more resources.
- 54:28So I won't go into them too deeply because, you
- 54:31know, I know we like to keep at an hour, but
- 54:34I can just read them off really quick. Like,
- 54:36do not chase validation. You know, like you were
- 54:40saying, don't walk into the room acting like
- 54:43you never had a piece of pussy. You know, do
- 54:47not cross people's boundaries. You know, honor
- 54:50what people say and let them grow with you in
- 54:54their comfortability to expand their boundaries
- 54:57with you. Don't bad mouth the husbands or partners.
- 55:01You know, that's just not a good looking vanilla
- 55:05world or in the lifestyle. You know, don't skip
- 55:09aftercare. You know, like emotional leadership
- 55:13includes. some some of that you know like afterwards
- 55:16it's like don't just jump up throw your clothes
- 55:19on and leave you know talk a little while you
- 55:23know make sure that everybody is leaving in a
- 55:25good in a good spot um don't post or share private
- 55:30content without full consent of the people that
- 55:34you have taken pictures of or recorded um You
- 55:38know, I so far have not seen any of my personal
- 55:42or heard of my personal stuff like getting out
- 55:44there. But that's a big one in the lifestyle.
- 55:47We take it very seriously in our relationship.
- 55:50Socrates has photos and videos from before he
- 55:53met me that he doesn't have their permission
- 55:57to share. So guess what? I've never seen them.
- 55:59And I don't want to because I respect people's
- 56:02privacy that much. And they're a lot more boring
- 56:05than the shit we do now. Let's just be real.
- 56:12Cause I was new, you know, I was new in the lifestyle.
- 56:14I'll just take, I'll take your word for it on
- 56:16that. But it's like, I don't, I don't have any,
- 56:19you know, some women would be like, well, that's
- 56:20my husband. I want to see. But I just am like,
- 56:23well, you know, it's more titties, ass, and pussy,
- 56:26okay, and different combinations. But it's like
- 56:28if those people don't want that shared, like
- 56:30don't share it, you know. Don't let your ego
- 56:34run the show, you know. Confidence is silent.
- 56:37Insecurity is loud. Stay grounded, you know.
- 56:41Don't lie about your status, your health, or
- 56:44your intentions. Honesty is huge, right? It's
- 56:48like. Don't be hiding the fact that you got a
- 56:51girlfriend or a wife or whatever your status
- 56:54is. Just be honest with people and let them make
- 56:57the decisions from there. And then obviously
- 57:01about your health. It's like we're a small community.
- 57:05And if we're not getting tested regularly, like
- 57:09you were talking about earlier, we're in protection.
- 57:13for the majority of the population you know can
- 57:15you expand your circumstance um you know taking
- 57:19good care of our health like socrates and i we
- 57:22always use protection and we still follow up
- 57:25with regimens of antibiotics and regular testing
- 57:29you know just to make sure that we're doing our
- 57:31part to keep our community safe um don't blur
- 57:35the line between seduction and manipulation seduction
- 57:39invites manipulation deceives going back to the
- 57:42op honesty and having integrity um and then don't
- 57:46do not enter this lifestyle if you can't handle
- 57:49rejection um and take responsibility for your
- 57:53own emotions you know there's you're going to
- 57:56get rejected um even me as a woman i wouldn't
- 58:00say i'm the hottest woman at splash but i don't
- 58:04think i'm i'll say i think i'm pretty Thanks,
- 58:07baby. I think I'm pretty damn good looking, though,
- 58:12you know, and I try to try to dress cute and
- 58:15keep up with myself. And being a huge slut doesn't
- 58:19hurt either. But you know what? Even I get rejected
- 58:24and even some of the best looking men get rejected
- 58:29for different reasons. So you've got to be able
- 58:31to take that rejection is that you're just not
- 58:34everyone's cup of tea. You know, and that's fine.
- 58:37And I've even kind of given guys permission to
- 58:40reject me. And I want to say something a little
- 58:43bit about that is like, sometimes the guy will
- 58:46be actually a little hesitant or it seems like
- 58:48we don't, you know, we're kind of not meeting
- 58:50up. And I'll tell him, I'll say, listen, it will
- 58:53not hurt my feelings if I am not your flavor.
- 58:57Please just say so, so I can move along to someone
- 59:00else that we are compatible. And vice versa,
- 59:04I'll do that to men. I'll say, listen, I don't
- 59:06want to waste your time because there is going
- 59:08to be a woman right around the corner here that
- 59:11is 100 % and wants to play with you and is an
- 59:14enthusiastic yes. I can't provide that enthusiastic
- 59:17yes. So I just want to be, and I'll counsel women
- 59:21to that effect too. I'll be like, don't say maybe
- 59:24later. Don't say, you know. another time or whatever.
- 59:28If you are not into them, just be straight and
- 59:31just say, the vibe's not there for me. I'm not
- 59:34interested in playing with you. Yeah, it's going
- 59:36to sting a little, but whether they have that
- 59:39little sting, let them grow and then be able
- 59:41to, you know, move on to somebody that is more
- 59:46excited about them. You know, that's all in.
- 59:49And to the brothers out there listening, if I
- 59:55meet someone, and I'm not their cup of tea, trust
- 1:00:00and believe. If I know a brother that does meet
- 1:00:05their criteria, I will reach out to you and ask.
- 1:00:08I'll send you a picture if they are good with
- 1:00:11that. Or if it's an event, I will bring you over
- 1:00:14to them, and I will gladly introduce you to them,
- 1:00:19and you take the lead from there, okay? Because
- 1:00:23here again, it's all about everybody. everybody
- 1:00:27being happy it's all about uh um when i say we
- 1:00:32are brothers we are brothers you know and just
- 1:00:35because somebody doesn't like me or maybe don't
- 1:00:37like my look doesn't mean i'm just gonna like
- 1:00:39you know get mad and oh this and you know the
- 1:00:43event and all that no no no no i i will more
- 1:00:47than you know uh more than be happy to go and
- 1:00:51find somebody and you know for that couple so
- 1:00:55here again that's part of being a brotherhood
- 1:00:57also of being in the brotherhood can i just say
- 1:01:00you know and i know i'm biased y 'all i am blown
- 1:01:03away by my wife right now lord she just hit twice
- 1:01:07like omg those two things you know the the don'ts
- 1:01:13and that quality mommy oh my goodness and so
- 1:01:18You just stepped my game up. I'm sitting there
- 1:01:21like I can't wait to listen to this episode again
- 1:01:23and take notes. I'm being serious. Like, you
- 1:01:27know, I'm excited about that. And you know what,
- 1:01:29audience? I really want to hear from you about
- 1:01:32with this episode. You know, by the time this
- 1:01:35comes out, we'll have our social media up. You
- 1:01:37know, you have our email, thebullbrotherhoodatgmail
- 1:01:42.com. I really want to hear from you guys on
- 1:01:44this one because. I learned a lot myself and
- 1:01:47my wife did not tell me she had these things
- 1:01:50in mind. And I'm excited. I really am. I feel
- 1:01:55the same way. I feel the same way, nephew. Like
- 1:01:59I said, she took it. She took it and ran with
- 1:02:01it when she broke down the word quality. She
- 1:02:05really did. And I have nothing else to say. I
- 1:02:08really didn't. I had nothing else to say. Well,
- 1:02:11you gave me some direction in the text. You know,
- 1:02:15we always text each other, the three of us, before.
- 1:02:19And, you know, Brian is where he is. We live
- 1:02:23where we live. And I happen to be out of town
- 1:02:26right now visiting a quality bull. And so I was
- 1:02:31looking at the text message, and you gave the
- 1:02:33marching orders, and I just tried to. to come
- 1:02:37up to that level. So that is it. That is it.
- 1:02:41It helps. I had a little inspiration this afternoon
- 1:02:43for myself. So that's good. That is good. That
- 1:02:50is good. And again, going into this episode.
- 1:02:53Right. You're right. And again, ladies and gentlemen,
- 1:02:57it's, it's what Socrates said. We do want to
- 1:03:00hear your feedback from this episode, as well
- 1:03:04as all of the episodes. I feel like we are getting
- 1:03:07better and better with each episode. And we're
- 1:03:11just excited about what the future brings for
- 1:03:14not only the Bull Brotherhood, but for the Siren
- 1:03:17podcast also, for the Siren of Freedom podcast
- 1:03:20also. In the future, we want to have couples
- 1:03:24up here as guests. We want to have some more
- 1:03:30bulls up here, you know, from here again, from
- 1:03:33all walks of life. from the hot wife lifestyle,
- 1:03:36from guys who just experienced swinging, et cetera,
- 1:03:40et cetera. And we want to hear from everybody.
- 1:03:43We want to bring everybody into this world that
- 1:03:46we love so much because it's all about family
- 1:03:50in the end. It's all about family. It's all about
- 1:03:52having fun. It's all about making connection.
- 1:03:54It is all about making those couples feel as
- 1:03:59special as possible and enriching their marriage.
- 1:04:04enriching and enhancing their marriage as a quality
- 1:04:07boy. If my family doesn't have anything else
- 1:04:10to comment about, do you guys? No, I'm good.
- 1:04:15I think you put the bow on it. Both of you are
- 1:04:19good? Well, I guess we're going to call this
- 1:04:23one a night, ladies and gentlemen. And if my
- 1:04:26nephew would, go ahead and hit that music so
- 1:04:28I can do my exit here again. Thank you so much
- 1:04:34for another informative episode of the Bull Brotherhood
- 1:04:37podcast. We look forward to talking to everyone
- 1:04:40again very, very soon. And of course, to all
- 1:04:44my brothers of the Brotherhood, I bid you guys
- 1:04:47good night. And as always, to all my lovely hot
- 1:04:51wives out there, I bid you good morning. Again,
- 1:04:56have a great night. Have a great rest of the
- 1:04:59week. All right, we love you, and we'll talk
- 1:05:02to you again soon. Good night.