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DLHS Hour 2 | What Had Happened was Friday · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: A woman asked her baby daddy for money to buy
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  Speaker 1: their kid some clothes. The man bought the clothes instead
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  Speaker 1: of giving her the money, and she got mad.
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  Speaker 2: What the money at, Chris?
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  Speaker 3: What money?
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  Speaker 4: I got the clothes you said my son needed.
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  Speaker 5: I said give me the money and I'll go get it.
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  Speaker 6: What you mean?
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  Speaker 4: No, that's not how it works. You said my son
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  Speaker 4: needed clothes, so I bought my son clothes. I'm not
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  Speaker 4: giving you no cash to spend on whatever you're going
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  Speaker 4: to spend it on. I bought my son clothes.
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  Speaker 2: Are you serious right now?
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  Speaker 6: I'm dead serious.
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  Speaker 4: I went to get my son the stuff that he
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  Speaker 4: needed for school, and he got the clothes where he
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  Speaker 4: was going to take it or not.
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  Speaker 2: Just give me the receipt. I'll take it back myself.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not giving you no receipt so you can take
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  Speaker 4: my son's stuff back and spend the stuff on what
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  Speaker 4: you wanted to spend it on.
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  Speaker 6: Show list.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's not how it works.
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  Speaker 4: I need stuff for myself, and he's going to get
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  Speaker 4: some stuff.
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  Speaker 2: What you mean?
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  Speaker 4: I'm here to take care of my son. I'm not
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  Speaker 4: here to take care of you. My job is to
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  Speaker 4: take care of him.
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  Speaker 6: Ungrateful ass. What do you think?
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  Speaker 1: We posed that question to you.
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  Speaker 6: You said.
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  Speaker 7: Well, for me, it's like this. She got an ulterior motive.
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  Speaker 7: You know, if she want to cash money, she want
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  Speaker 7: to go get some nails done, some hair done, some pedicure,
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  Speaker 7: go kick it with the girl. Instead of saying, okay, baby,
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  Speaker 7: thank you for the clothes for our child or our children. Now,
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  Speaker 7: if she turn around and want the receipt too, then yeah,
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  Speaker 7: you definitely know that's her agenda. He did right, brought
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  Speaker 7: the clothes, point blank period. And she is trifling for
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  Speaker 7: asking for the money. When you ask for money for clothes,
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  Speaker 7: he gave you the clothes without giving you the money.
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  Speaker 7: You saw it. He still fulfilled his responsibility. So kick rocks,
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  Speaker 7: old young tramp, excuse me, young girl. I think that
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  Speaker 7: the man is all right. She's wrong for being mad
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  Speaker 7: that he bought the clothes and not give her the money. Evidently,
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  Speaker 7: he didn't trust her enough to give her the money
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  Speaker 7: to buy the clothes. So I don't feel the.
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  Speaker 2: Man was wrong.
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  Speaker 8: I feel that the female was wrong. She sounded like
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  Speaker 8: a gold digger. I wouldn't have gave her a jack.
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  Speaker 3: She said my children needed some clothes, right? Why I
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  Speaker 3: got to give her the money? I would have went
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  Speaker 3: and did just what he did. I would have went
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  Speaker 3: and bought the stuff myself because what she wanted to
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  Speaker 3: do was spend the money on her own self and
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  Speaker 3: get them one thing and get her some stuff. I
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  Speaker 3: wouldn't have given her nothing. He did right. And I
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  Speaker 3: said hi to this Southside topper.
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  Speaker 9: Well, I think it's okay. If the father wants to
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  Speaker 9: go out and buy the child's clothes with the money,
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  Speaker 9: I don't think that's an issue, for real. Sometimes we
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  Speaker 9: can be too difficult. You know, we need to work
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  Speaker 9: with each other instead of working against one another. That's
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  Speaker 9: how I feel about that.
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  Speaker 10: I've been in a volunteer project for decades now where
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  Speaker 10: we get black children and their fathers out of the
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  Speaker 10: family court system, particularly child support. And this particular thing
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  Speaker 10: that you talked about on the radio today comes up
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  Speaker 10: every single year for one reason or another. If If
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  Speaker 10: the father is paying for the things that the money
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  Speaker 10: is being requested for, then there should be no request
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  Speaker 10: for any additional money if the things that are needed
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  Speaker 10: are being paid for by the father to the satisfaction
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  Speaker 10: of the well-being of the child. And it's shameful. It's
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  Speaker 10: very shameful. And that very thing that that woman was
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  Speaker 10: complaining about is given support in our taxpayer-funded court system,
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  Speaker 10: which means the service that's being paid by the taxpayers
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  Speaker 10: is In the court system, meaning the family courts, is
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  Speaker 10: being disrupted through dishonorable, unethical behavior.
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  Speaker 1: So the man, he won't let his transgender brother-in-law watch
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  Speaker 1: his kids.
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  Speaker 5: I don't want to confuse my two boys. We have
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  Speaker 5: two boys and a little girl. Why would you want
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  Speaker 5: that around them? One is 10, one is 8, the
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  Speaker 5: little girl is 11. They ask the most craziest questions.
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  Speaker 5: You don't think they're going to ask me, who is
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  Speaker 5: this person? Why is Uncle wearing a dress? Turned to
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  Speaker 5: a big uproar, got into a big argument. So yeah,
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  Speaker 5: I went in the guest room. And not to mention,
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  Speaker 5: she's talking about she can't be with somebody who doesn't
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  Speaker 5: allow her family members to be active in our kids' lives.
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  Speaker 5: I have no problem with your bro, whatever, being active,
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  Speaker 5: just not along with them. He's not taking them out
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  Speaker 5: of town. He's not spending the night with them while
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  Speaker 5: one of us being there. And I don't agree with
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  Speaker 5: his lifestyle, so I don't know what he's going to
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  Speaker 5: do with talking about it in front of the kids.
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  Speaker 5: We haven't seen him, her in 10 years. The man
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  Speaker 5: I met had a clean shaved head, had a fiance.
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  Speaker 5: This new person now has a dress, a wig, and fingernails.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe we need to discuss on how this came about
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  Speaker 5: before we let him take our kids. What you guys
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  Speaker 5: thought on that? Am I being an a * * hole?
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  Speaker 5: Am I being pig-headed?
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  Speaker 2: You know, stubborn?
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  Speaker 5: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I don't get it.
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  Speaker 5: There's no word today, but it's not happening here.
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  Speaker 6: Do you think that he had it right?
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  Speaker 11: I wouldn't want my children around Rihanna or whatever the
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  Speaker 11: name is because kids tend to pattern after who they're around.
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  Speaker 12: And sometimes that's how pedophiles do. They try to gain
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  Speaker 12: the trust of the little people and next thing you know,
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  Speaker 12: they're grown up to be just like them. I'm so
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  Speaker 12: against it. I'm like that man, totally against it.
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  Speaker 8: Calling from Cleveland. Here's my thing, man. I don't care
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  Speaker 8: if it's a transgender thing or whoever, if you haven't
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  Speaker 8: been around the family in 10 years and then all
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  Speaker 8: of a sudden you just come back around, no, you're
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  Speaker 8: not watching my kids, and especially not overnight. If somebody's transgender,
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  Speaker 8: they're transgender. That's their life. They have to deal with
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  Speaker 8: God on that. But I definitely understand the father being
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  Speaker 8: uncomfortable for anybody. Like I said, it doesn't matter if
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  Speaker 8: they're transgender or whoever. If one of the parents is
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  Speaker 8: uncomfortable with somebody watching them their child, they should be
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  Speaker 8: able to say how uncomfortable they are and not allow
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  Speaker 8: that person to not watch their child without any repercussions.
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  Speaker 8: So that's my take, man. Hopefully they get this resolved.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, he has a right to decide what
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  Speaker 2: he wants his kids to be and, you know, to
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  Speaker 2: look after his kids. That's his right. And if he
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  Speaker 2: don't feel that people are doing so much to kids,
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  Speaker 2: you know, you have to be careful about who you
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  Speaker 2: have around your kids, especially family, because a lot of
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  Speaker 2: times that's where it all starts. So I feel like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: he has the right. I feel like he's in the
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  Speaker 2: right to protect his kids. That's his child. They'll go
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  Speaker 2: be his children.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, he has the right.
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  Speaker 13: If he don't have faith and trust and the transactional presence,
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  Speaker 13: I wouldn't even let him go with my kids either.
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  Speaker 13: Because you never know what's going to take place when
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  Speaker 13: you're not there. And that is my belief. Because, I mean,
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  Speaker 13: if you're not there, you don't know what's going on.
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  Speaker 13: And the next thing you know, your kids come back
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  Speaker 13: and tell you he did this or she did this
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  Speaker 13: or whatever the gender may be. Came back and said, well,
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  Speaker 13: he or she did this to me, and then now
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  Speaker 13: we got problems. So I wouldn't even have him around
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  Speaker 13: my kids if I feel insecure about that.
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  Speaker 2: I do not believe that he is in the wrong.
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  Speaker 2: You have to protect your children's spirits and their minds
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  Speaker 2: as much as possible. And that's the problem with these
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  Speaker 2: new parents. They just exposing their kids to everything. My
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  Speaker 2: daughter is 11 years old. She will not color her
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  Speaker 2: hair until she's a sophomore. Until she's a sophomore. She
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  Speaker 2: better not put on no lipstick red until she's a senior.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not playing none of that.
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  Speaker 7: I'm a 33-year-old mother.
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  Speaker 2: And I wish I would. I don't know what your
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  Speaker 2: agenda is. You've been gone for 10 years. How do
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  Speaker 2: I know that my.
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  Speaker 7: Children are safe with you? You're wording.
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  Speaker 2: I need to know that you are still on the
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  Speaker 2: up and up and will protect my children's spirit and
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  Speaker 2: their soul. Because I'm not getting ready to be held
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  Speaker 2: accountable for being negligent over my children. So, no, he
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  Speaker 2: is not wrong. Go on a divorce and go live
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  Speaker 2: your best life and.
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  Speaker 9: Raise your kids.
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  Speaker 2: And if it becomes a problem, then you need to
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  Speaker 2: handle that with the mama and the court. That's how
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  Speaker 2: far y'all got to take it. If y'all can't handle it,
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  Speaker 2: mother and father. But as for me and my eyes,
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  Speaker 2: absolutely not.
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  Speaker 10: No, sir.
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  Speaker 2: He's not wrong.
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  Speaker 1: And this goes out to the brother-in-law.
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  Speaker 6: Who you calling a b * * * *? It's
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  Speaker 6: a song, Sprig. You and I, T. All right.
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  Speaker 1: Now it's time to give a deserving someone the Shoe
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  Speaker 1: Booty of the Week Award. And now it's time for the.
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  Speaker 6: Shoe Booty of the Week Award.
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  Speaker 10: Ah!
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  Speaker 6: Brandon Tatum, also known as the Officer Tatum.
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  Speaker 10: I'm an officer of the law.
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  Speaker 6: Is an American YouTuber, conservative, political commentator, author, radio personality,
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  Speaker 6: former policeman, and former college football player.
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  Speaker 12: Wow.
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  Speaker 6: So, why is Officer Ruckus this week's recipient of the
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  Speaker 6: Shoe Booty of the Week Award?
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  Speaker 10: Why?
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  Speaker 6: He gets the shoe booty because he's the shoe booty licker. Oh,
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  Speaker 6: that's nasty. Let's start with him agreeing with Charlie Kirk
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  Speaker 6: that black people were better off during slavery. This man
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  Speaker 6: doesn't know black history. He knows alternative black history. The
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  Speaker 6: director's cut. The one where they swap out the facts
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  Speaker 6: for a fan fiction version written by a guy who
• 9:13
  Speaker 6: still thinks separate but equal was just good urban planning.
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  Speaker 6: He went on a forum and straight up lied about
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  Speaker 6: the Tulsa Massacre. Not spun it. Not reframed it.
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  Speaker 3: Lied.
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  Speaker 6: Liar! Black Wall Street got burned to the ground by
• 9:32
  Speaker 6: a white mob. Hundreds of black people killed. An entire
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  Speaker 6: thriving community turned into ash. And Brandon's out here like, Actually,
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  Speaker 6: it was a big misunderstanding, and maybe the black folks
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  Speaker 6: started it. The only thing you started is your own
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  Speaker 6: career as the human version of a participant trophy for racists.
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  Speaker 6: white man, let me say that I love you, honor you,
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  Speaker 6: envy you, enjoy your smell, and I celebrate you in
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  Speaker 6: the name of white Jesus. He's the biggest sellout. Even
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  Speaker 6: white racists think he's cool. Look at my African American
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  Speaker 6: over here. That's not a compliment. That's a diagnosis.
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  Speaker 3: I don't feel so good.
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  Speaker 6: He put the dis and disgrace to his race. You
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  Speaker 6: are an absolute disgrace. And that's why.
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  Speaker 9: The shoe.
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  Speaker 6: Booty of the Week award goes to Officer Tatum. Now
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  Speaker 6: here's a swift kick in the ass.