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The Midlife Manifesto: Real Talk, Red Flags, and Reclaiming Power with Cynthia Bailey and Dana Hill-Robinson · The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

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  A
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  boundary
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  I'll
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  never
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  break
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  again
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  is.
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  Blank,
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  allowing
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  anyone
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  to
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  try
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  to
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  dim
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  my
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  light.
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  Oh,
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  that's
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  a
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  good
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  one.
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  Did
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  you
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  hear
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  that,
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  Real
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  Housewives
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  of
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  Atlanta?
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  A
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  red
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  flag
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  I
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  no
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  longer
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  ignore
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  is
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  blank.
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  I
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  am
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  well
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  researched
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  on
• 0:19
  narcissistic
• 0:20
  personality
• 0:20
  disorder.
• 0:21
  I
• 0:21
  can
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  spot
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  it
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  from
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  a
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  mile
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  away.
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  We
• 0:24
  should
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  have
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  had
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  a
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  cocktail
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  while
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  we
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  chatted.
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  I
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  know,
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  right?
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  I
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  think
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  I'm
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  gonna
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  have
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  one
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  after.
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  I'd
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  love
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  to
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  play
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  a
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  quick
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  rapid
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  fire
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  game
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  with
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  you.
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  We
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  like
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  to
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  wrap
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  up
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  the
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  show
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  with
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  a
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  little
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  game.
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  Okay.
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  I
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  love
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  games.
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  Okay.
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  All
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  right.
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  Okay.
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  This
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  is
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  the
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  game
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  segment
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  that
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  is
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  called
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  Midlife
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  Manifesto.
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  So
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  I
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  will
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  start
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  a
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  sentence
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  and
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  you
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  finish
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  it
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  with
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  whatever
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  comes
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  to
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  mind
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  first.
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  Okay?
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  In
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  midlife,
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  I
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  finally
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  learned
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  to
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  blank.
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  Love
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  myself,
• 0:59
  pamper
• 1:00
  myself.
• 1:00
  O.
• 1:02
  Those
• 1:02
  are
• 1:02
  both
• 1:02
  really
• 1:03
  good.
• 1:05
  Okay,
• 1:05
  next
• 1:05
  one.
• 1:06
  A
• 1:06
  boundary
• 1:07
  I'll
• 1:07
  never
• 1:07
  break
• 1:07
  again
• 1:08
  is.
• 1:09
  Blank
• 1:11
  allowing
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  any
• 1:11
  kind
• 1:12
  of
• 1:12
  disrespect.
• 1:13
  Do
• 1:14
  you
• 1:14
  hear
• 1:14
  that?
• 1:14
  Real
• 1:14
  Housewives
• 1:15
  of
• 1:15
  Atlanta.
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  I
• 1:18
  don't
• 1:18
  think
• 1:19
  they're
• 1:19
  included
• 1:19
  in
• 1:20
  this
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  one
• 1:20
  because
• 1:20
  they've
• 1:20
  already
• 1:21
  been
• 1:21
  disrespectful.
• 1:22
  So.
• 1:22
  Yeah,
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  I
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  can
• 1:24
  only
• 1:24
  imagine.
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  Allowing
• 1:27
  anyone
• 1:28
  to
• 1:28
  try
• 1:28
  to
• 1:28
  dim
• 1:28
  my
• 1:29
  light.
• 1:29
  Oh,
• 1:30
  that's
• 1:30
  a
• 1:30
  good
• 1:30
  one.
• 1:31
  Yeah,
• 1:31
  that
• 1:31
  one
• 1:31
  is
• 1:32
  really
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  good
• 1:33
  and
• 1:33
  very.
• 1:33
  Oh,
• 1:34
  you
• 1:34
  know
• 1:34
  what
• 1:34
  I
• 1:34
  want?
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  I
• 1:34
  want
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  to
• 1:35
  change
• 1:35
  mine.
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  Okay.
• 1:36
  I
• 1:36
  love
• 1:36
  that
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  one.
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  I
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  won't
• 1:38
  allow
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  anyone
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  to
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  make
• 1:41
  me
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  feel
• 1:41
  like
• 1:41
  I
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  have
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  to
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  dumb
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  myself
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  down.
• 1:43
  Yes.
• 1:43
  We're
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  done
• 1:44
  with
• 1:44
  that.
• 1:44
  That's,
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  like,
• 1:45
  old
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  news.
• 1:46
  That's
• 1:46
  not
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  happening
• 1:47
  anymore.
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  Shine
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  bright.
• 1:48
  Shine
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  bright.
• 1:49
  Yeah,
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  that's
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  right.
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  Okay.
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  The
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  sexiest
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  thing
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  about
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  getting
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  older
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  is
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  blank.
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  My
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  confidence.
• 1:58
  Self
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  confidence.
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  Like,
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  I.
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  This
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  is
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  it.
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  Like,
• 2:01
  you
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  know,
• 2:02
  you
• 2:02
  get
• 2:02
  the
• 2:02
  wig,
• 2:02
  you
• 2:03
  get
• 2:03
  the
• 2:03
  wig
• 2:03
  off,
• 2:03
  you
• 2:04
  get
• 2:04
  the
• 2:04
  makeup,
• 2:04
  you
• 2:05
  get
• 2:05
  the
• 2:05
  makeup
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  off,
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  you
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  get
• 2:07
  the
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  real
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  body.
• 2:09
  Like,
• 2:09
  you.
• 2:10
  You
• 2:10
  get.
• 2:10
  Everything
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  is
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  you.
• 2:11
  You
• 2:12
  get
• 2:12
  the
• 2:12
  real.
• 2:12
  So
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  I
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  would
• 2:14
  say
• 2:14
  confidence.
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  Yes.
• 2:16
  And
• 2:16
  just.
• 2:17
  Just
• 2:17
  feeling
• 2:17
  comfortable.
• 2:18
  Comfortable
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  being
• 2:19
  yourself.
• 2:19
  Like,
• 2:19
  my
• 2:20
  husband
• 2:20
  always
• 2:20
  teases
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  me.
• 2:21
  Like
• 2:22
  we
• 2:22
  were
• 2:22
  first
• 2:23
  dating.
• 2:23
  In,
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  like,
• 2:24
  one
• 2:24
  of
• 2:24
  the
• 2:24
  first
• 2:25
  nights
• 2:26
  we
• 2:26
  were
• 2:26
  together.
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  I
• 2:28
  said,
• 2:28
  you
• 2:28
  know,
• 2:28
  I'm
• 2:28
  not
• 2:28
  taking
• 2:28
  off
• 2:29
  my
• 2:29
  scarf.
• 2:30
  Your
• 2:30
  scarf?
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  Oh,
• 2:31
  my
• 2:31
  God.
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  Not
• 2:34
  messing
• 2:35
  up
• 2:35
  my
• 2:35
  hair.
• 2:36
  Right.
• 2:36
  That
• 2:37
  scarf.
• 2:37
  You're
• 2:37
  like,
• 2:38
  okay,
• 2:38
  there's
• 2:38
  gonna
• 2:38
  be
• 2:39
  one
• 2:39
  thing
• 2:39
  that
• 2:39
  you're
• 2:39
  not
• 2:40
  going
• 2:40
  to
• 2:40
  touch
• 2:40
  tonight,
• 2:41
  and
• 2:41
  that
• 2:41
  will
• 2:41
  be
• 2:41
  the
• 2:41
  hair.
• 2:42
  Right?
• 2:44
  Hey,
• 2:44
  I
• 2:44
  don't
• 2:45
  blame
• 2:45
  you.
• 2:45
  I
• 2:46
  don't
• 2:46
  blame
• 2:46
  you.
• 2:48
  I
• 2:48
  love
• 2:48
  it.
• 2:49
  A
• 2:50
  red
• 2:50
  flag
• 2:51
  I
• 2:51
  no
• 2:51
  longer
• 2:52
  ignore
• 2:52
  is
• 2:53
  blank.
• 2:54
  Oh,
• 2:55
  a
• 2:55
  red
• 2:55
  flag.
• 2:58
  I.
• 2:58
  Nice.
• 2:59
  You
• 3:00
  don't
• 3:00
  say
• 3:00
  narcissist.
• 3:01
  Yeah,
• 3:03
  I
• 3:03
  was
• 3:03
  getting
• 3:03
  ready
• 3:03
  to
• 3:04
  say
• 3:04
  I
• 3:04
  am
• 3:05
  well
• 3:05
  researched
• 3:06
  on
• 3:06
  narcissistic
• 3:07
  personality.
• 3:08
  Disorder.
• 3:09
  I
• 3:09
  can
• 3:09
  spot
• 3:09
  it
• 3:10
  from
• 3:10
  a
• 3:10
  mile
• 3:10
  away.
• 3:12
  No
• 3:13
  narcissist.
• 3:14
  I
• 3:14
  see
• 3:14
  you
• 3:15
  coming
• 3:15
  before
• 3:15
  you
• 3:15
  even
• 3:15
  get
• 3:16
  here.
• 3:16
  Like,
• 3:17
  I'm
• 3:17
  not
• 3:18
  doing
• 3:18
  narcissist
• 3:19
  in
• 3:20
  2026
• 3:21
  are
• 3:21
  for
• 3:22
  the
• 3:22
  rest
• 3:22
  of
• 3:22
  my
• 3:22
  life.
• 3:23
  I'm
• 3:23
  good
• 3:23
  on
• 3:23
  narcissists.
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  Goodbye.
• 3:26
  Got
• 3:26
  your
• 3:26
  fill?
• 3:28
  And
• 3:29
  they
• 3:29
  walks
• 3:29
  amongst.
• 3:30
  Amongst
• 3:30
  us,
• 3:30
  not
• 3:30
  only
• 3:30
  in
• 3:31
  our
• 3:31
  romantic
• 3:31
  relationships,
• 3:32
  but
• 3:32
  even
• 3:32
  our
• 3:33
  female
• 3:33
  friendship
• 3:34
  groups.
• 3:35
  Oh,
• 3:35
  yes.
• 3:35
  That's
• 3:36
  some
• 3:36
  of
• 3:36
  the
• 3:36
  worst
• 3:36
  of
• 3:36
  it.
• 3:37
  Oh,
• 3:37
  and
• 3:38
  family
• 3:38
  members.
• 3:39
  And
• 3:39
  family
• 3:39
  members.
• 3:40
  Don't
• 3:40
  forget
• 3:41
  the
• 3:41
  family
• 3:41
  members
• 3:41
  and
• 3:42
  business
• 3:42
  people
• 3:42
  in
• 3:43
  the
• 3:43
  year.
• 3:44
  You
• 3:44
  know,
• 3:44
  they're
• 3:45
  everywhere.
• 3:45
  They're
• 3:46
  everywhere.
• 3:46
  It's
• 3:46
  crazy.
• 3:47
  Yeah.
• 3:48
  Yeah,
• 3:48
  absolutely.
• 3:50
  My
• 3:51
  power
• 3:51
  shows
• 3:52
  up
• 3:52
  strongest
• 3:53
  when
• 3:53
  I
• 3:53
  blink.
• 3:55
  I
• 3:55
  would
• 3:55
  say
• 3:55
  for
• 3:55
  me,
• 3:56
  in
• 3:57
  mom
• 3:57
  mode,
• 3:59
  when
• 3:59
  I'm
• 3:59
  with
• 3:59
  Noelle,
• 4:00
  like,
• 4:00
  I
• 4:01
  feel
• 4:01
  like
• 4:03
  that
• 4:03
  is
• 4:03
  my.
• 4:04
  Being
• 4:04
  a
• 4:05
  mother
• 4:05
  is
• 4:05
  my
• 4:06
  biggest
• 4:07
  and
• 4:07
  most
• 4:07
  proudest
• 4:08
  accomplishment.
• 4:11
  I
• 4:11
  feel
• 4:12
  very
• 4:12
  powerful
• 4:13
  as
• 4:14
  a
• 4:14
  mom.
• 4:14
  Like,
• 4:15
  I'm
• 4:16
  definitely.
• 4:16
  All
• 4:17
  I
• 4:17
  need
• 4:17
  is
• 4:17
  my
• 4:17
  cape.
• 4:18
  Because
• 4:19
  when
• 4:19
  it's
• 4:19
  time
• 4:20
  to
• 4:20
  clock
• 4:21
  in,
• 4:21
  as
• 4:22
  a
• 4:22
  mom,
• 4:22
  I
• 4:23
  am
• 4:23
  all
• 4:23
  the
• 4:24
  way
• 4:24
  in.
• 4:24
  And
• 4:25
  that
• 4:25
  is
• 4:25
  the
• 4:25
  job,
• 4:26
  the
• 4:26
  responsibility
• 4:27
  that
• 4:27
  I
• 4:27
  take
• 4:27
  the
• 4:27
  most
• 4:27
  serious.
• 4:28
  So,
• 4:29
  yeah,
• 4:30
  I
• 4:30
  think
• 4:30
  for
• 4:30
  me.
• 4:33
  I
• 4:33
  think
• 4:34
  being
• 4:35
  able
• 4:35
  to
• 4:35
  deal
• 4:35
  with
• 4:35
  conflict
• 4:39
  and
• 4:39
  handling
• 4:40
  it
• 4:40
  in
• 4:40
  a
• 4:40
  balanced
• 4:41
  way
• 4:42
  and
• 4:42
  maintaining
• 4:43
  my
• 4:43
  composure,
• 4:45
  that
• 4:45
  is
• 4:45
  handling.
• 4:46
  Power
• 4:47
  and
• 4:48
  handling
• 4:48
  it
• 4:48
  in
• 4:48
  a
• 4:48
  smart
• 4:49
  way.
• 4:50
  In
• 4:50
  a
• 4:50
  smart
• 4:50
  way.
• 4:51
  Yeah.
• 4:52
  Correct.
• 4:52
  Yeah.
• 4:53
  If
• 4:53
  you
• 4:53
  can
• 4:53
  handle
• 4:53
  it
• 4:54
  in
• 4:54
  a
• 4:54
  smart
• 4:54
  way
• 4:54
  and
• 4:54
  not,
• 4:55
  like,
• 4:55
  just
• 4:55
  let
• 4:55
  it
• 4:56
  get
• 4:56
  to
• 4:56
  you,
• 4:57
  like,
• 4:57
  that's.
• 4:57
  That
• 4:57
  is
• 4:58
  a
• 4:58
  superpower.
• 4:59
  Trying
• 4:59
  to
• 4:59
  stay,
• 4:59
  you
• 5:00
  know,
• 5:00
  maintain
• 5:00
  my
• 5:01
  emotions
• 5:01
  and
• 5:01
  just,
• 5:02
  you
• 5:02
  know.
• 5:02
  Yep,
• 5:03
  absolutely.
• 5:04
  One
• 5:04
  thing
• 5:04
  that
• 5:04
  used
• 5:05
  to
• 5:05
  scare
• 5:05
  me
• 5:06
  but
• 5:06
  doesn't
• 5:07
  anymore
• 5:07
  is
• 5:09
  losing
• 5:09
  friends.
• 5:11
  Like,
• 5:11
  honestly,
• 5:12
  I
• 5:12
  feel
• 5:12
  like
• 5:15
  sometimes
• 5:15
  in
• 5:15
  life,
• 5:16
  you
• 5:17
  know,
• 5:17
  people
• 5:17
  are
• 5:18
  just
• 5:18
  with
• 5:18
  you
• 5:18
  for
• 5:18
  a
• 5:19
  reason
• 5:19
  and
• 5:19
  a
• 5:19
  season,
• 5:20
  and
• 5:21
  it's
• 5:21
  okay
• 5:22
  for
• 5:23
  one
• 5:23
  or
• 5:23
  two
• 5:23
  to
• 5:23
  fall
• 5:24
  off
• 5:24
  every
• 5:24
  year
• 5:25
  and
• 5:25
  two
• 5:25
  new
• 5:26
  ones
• 5:26
  to
• 5:26
  come
• 5:26
  on.
• 5:27
  Like,
• 5:27
  it
• 5:27
  just.
• 5:27
  It
• 5:28
  doesn't.
• 5:28
  I
• 5:29
  don't
• 5:29
  second
• 5:29
  guess
• 5:29
  it.
• 5:30
  I
• 5:30
  trust
• 5:30
  myself.
• 5:31
  I
• 5:31
  trust
• 5:32
  my
• 5:32
  discernment.
• 5:32
  I
• 5:33
  trust
• 5:33
  timing.
• 5:34
  I
• 5:34
  trust
• 5:35
  energy.
• 5:37
  And,
• 5:40
  you
• 5:40
  know,
• 5:41
  sometimes
• 5:42
  it's
• 5:43
  just
• 5:44
  time
• 5:44
  to
• 5:45
  let
• 5:45
  go.
• 5:45
  And
• 5:45
  it's
• 5:45
  not
• 5:45
  even
• 5:46
  a
• 5:46
  bad
• 5:46
  thing.
• 5:46
  It's
• 5:47
  just
• 5:47
  you
• 5:47
  guys
• 5:48
  no
• 5:48
  longer
• 5:49
  energetically
• 5:50
  and
• 5:50
  spiritually,
• 5:51
  mentally,
• 5:52
  and
• 5:52
  emotionally
• 5:53
  have
• 5:53
  that
• 5:53
  connection
• 5:54
  anymore.
• 5:54
  And
• 5:54
  that's
• 5:55
  okay.
• 5:55
  And
• 5:56
  that's
• 5:56
  okay.
• 5:56
  Yeah.
• 5:57
  It's
• 5:57
  a
• 5:57
  season.
• 5:58
  Like,
• 5:58
  you're
• 5:58
  saying
• 5:58
  it
• 5:58
  passes.
• 6:00
  Mm.
• 6:00
  Yeah.
• 6:00
  And
• 6:00
  you
• 6:01
  have
• 6:01
  to
• 6:01
  be
• 6:01
  okay
• 6:01
  with
• 6:01
  letting
• 6:01
  it
• 6:02
  go,
• 6:02
  which
• 6:03
  we
• 6:03
  need
• 6:03
  to
• 6:03
  sometimes.
• 6:05
  Okay.
• 6:06
  I
• 6:06
  used
• 6:06
  to
• 6:06
  chase
• 6:07
  blank,
• 6:07
  but
• 6:08
  now
• 6:08
  I
• 6:08
  attract
• 6:09
  blank.
• 6:10
  I
• 6:10
  think
• 6:11
  I
• 6:11
  would
• 6:11
  say
• 6:13
  I
• 6:13
  attract
• 6:14
  opportunities.
• 6:19
  For
• 6:19
  example,
• 6:20
  even
• 6:22
  the
• 6:22
  birth
• 6:22
  of
• 6:22
  Gloisima
• 6:23
  came
• 6:24
  from
• 6:25
  an
• 6:25
  opportunity
• 6:27
  of
• 6:27
  just
• 6:27
  out
• 6:28
  into
• 6:28
  the
• 6:28
  universe
• 6:29
  and
• 6:29
  speaking
• 6:30
  to
• 6:30
  people
• 6:30
  and
• 6:31
  speaking
• 6:31
  it
• 6:31
  into
• 6:31
  Existence
• 6:32
  and.
• 6:33
  And
• 6:34
  just
• 6:34
  being
• 6:35
  at
• 6:35
  the
• 6:35
  right
• 6:35
  place
• 6:35
  at
• 6:35
  the
• 6:36
  right
• 6:36
  time
• 6:36
  with
• 6:36
  the
• 6:36
  right
• 6:37
  people
• 6:37
  helped
• 6:38
  us
• 6:38
  to
• 6:38
  bring
• 6:40
  gluism
• 6:41
  to
• 6:41
  fruition.
• 6:42
  That
• 6:43
  is
• 6:43
  amazing.
• 6:43
  I
• 6:44
  mean,
• 6:44
  you
• 6:44
  say
• 6:44
  something
• 6:44
  and
• 6:45
  then
• 6:45
  you
• 6:45
  create
• 6:45
  it,
• 6:46
  and
• 6:46
  here
• 6:46
  it
• 6:46
  is.
• 6:47
  Yes.
• 6:48
  Yes.
• 6:48
  I
• 6:49
  feel
• 6:49
  like
• 6:49
  I
• 6:49
  used
• 6:49
  to
• 6:49
  chase
• 6:50
  money.
• 6:52
  Coming
• 6:52
  from
• 6:54
  very
• 6:54
  humble
• 6:54
  beginnings.
• 6:55
  Like,
• 6:55
  I
• 6:55
  always
• 6:56
  was.
• 6:56
  Like,
• 6:58
  if
• 6:58
  I
• 6:58
  had
• 6:59
  money,
• 7:00
  I
• 7:00
  would
• 7:00
  have
• 7:01
  more
• 7:01
  options,
• 7:01
  I
• 7:01
  would
• 7:01
  have
• 7:02
  more
• 7:02
  choices,
• 7:02
  more
• 7:03
  power
• 7:03
  to
• 7:03
  do
• 7:03
  the
• 7:03
  things
• 7:04
  that
• 7:04
  I
• 7:05
  want
• 7:05
  to
• 7:05
  do.
• 7:06
  I
• 7:06
  won't
• 7:06
  be
• 7:06
  in
• 7:07
  a
• 7:07
  position
• 7:07
  of
• 7:07
  being
• 7:07
  stuck
• 7:08
  because
• 7:08
  I
• 7:08
  would
• 7:09
  have
• 7:09
  the
• 7:09
  means
• 7:10
  to
• 7:11
  do
• 7:12
  what
• 7:12
  I
• 7:12
  need
• 7:12
  to
• 7:12
  do.
• 7:13
  So
• 7:14
  I
• 7:14
  feel
• 7:14
  like
• 7:14
  I
• 7:14
  used
• 7:14
  to
• 7:15
  chase
• 7:15
  money,
• 7:15
  and
• 7:16
  now
• 7:16
  I
• 7:16
  feel
• 7:16
  like
• 7:16
  I
• 7:16
  attract
• 7:17
  it.
• 7:17
  I
• 7:17
  feel
• 7:17
  like
• 7:17
  at
• 7:18
  this
• 7:18
  point,
• 7:19
  I
• 7:19
  built
• 7:20
  a
• 7:21
  brand
• 7:21
  for
• 7:22
  myself
• 7:22
  that
• 7:23
  people
• 7:23
  resonate
• 7:24
  with.
• 7:25
  I
• 7:25
  think
• 7:25
  as
• 7:26
  a
• 7:26
  person
• 7:26
  and
• 7:27
  as
• 7:27
  a
• 7:27
  brand,
• 7:27
  I'm
• 7:27
  very
• 7:28
  authentic.
• 7:30
  Yeah.
• 7:31
  So
• 7:31
  opportunities
• 7:32
  and
• 7:33
  the
• 7:33
  money
• 7:35
  sing
• 7:35
  by
• 7:36
  me.
• 7:37
  Happiness
• 7:38
  to
• 7:38
  me
• 7:38
  now
• 7:39
  looks
• 7:39
  like
• 7:40
  blank.
• 7:41
  Being
• 7:41
  in
• 7:41
  control
• 7:42
  of
• 7:42
  my
• 7:42
  destiny.
• 7:45
  You.
• 7:45
  Know,
• 7:45
  and
• 7:45
  that
• 7:46
  means,
• 7:47
  you
• 7:47
  know,
• 7:47
  like,
• 7:47
  for,
• 7:47
  you
• 7:48
  know,
• 7:48
  just
• 7:48
  working,
• 7:48
  being
• 7:49
  able
• 7:49
  to,
• 7:49
  you
• 7:50
  know,
• 7:50
  have
• 7:50
  my
• 7:50
  own
• 7:50
  businesses
• 7:51
  and.
• 7:51
  And
• 7:52
  not,
• 7:54
  you
• 7:55
  know,
• 7:55
  it's.
• 7:55
  It's
• 7:55
  great
• 7:55
  having
• 7:56
  the.
• 7:56
  Having
• 7:56
  that
• 7:57
  level
• 7:57
  of.
• 7:57
  Of
• 7:58
  comfort
• 7:58
  of
• 7:58
  getting,
• 7:58
  you
• 7:59
  know,
• 7:59
  a
• 7:59
  paycheck
• 7:59
  every
• 8:00
  two
• 8:00
  weeks
• 8:00
  or
• 8:00
  whatever
• 8:01
  it
• 8:01
  is,
• 8:01
  but,
• 8:02
  you
• 8:02
  know,
• 8:02
  you
• 8:02
  never
• 8:03
  know
• 8:03
  when
• 8:03
  that's
• 8:04
  going
• 8:04
  to
• 8:04
  be
• 8:04
  taken
• 8:04
  away
• 8:05
  from
• 8:05
  you.
• 8:06
  So
• 8:07
  just
• 8:07
  being
• 8:07
  able.
• 8:08
  Control
• 8:08
  of
• 8:08
  that,
• 8:11
  for
• 8:11
  me,
• 8:11
  is.
• 8:11
  Is
• 8:12
  happiness.
• 8:14
  Happiness
• 8:15
  looks
• 8:15
  like.
• 8:16
  Looks
• 8:16
  like
• 8:17
  peace
• 8:18
  to
• 8:18
  me.
• 8:19
  I
• 8:19
  feel
• 8:20
  like.
• 8:21
  And
• 8:22
  when
• 8:22
  you
• 8:22
  have
• 8:22
  true
• 8:23
  peace,
• 8:23
  you
• 8:23
  have
• 8:24
  happiness.
• 8:26
  You
• 8:27
  do
• 8:27
  because
• 8:27
  you
• 8:27
  have
• 8:27
  peace.
• 8:31
  Yeah,
• 8:31
  Peace.
• 8:32
  Peace
• 8:32
  equals
• 8:33
  happiness.
• 8:34
  Like,
• 8:34
  when
• 8:34
  I'm
• 8:35
  at
• 8:35
  peace,
• 8:36
  I
• 8:36
  am
• 8:37
  genuinely
• 8:39
  happy.
• 8:40
  I'm
• 8:40
  in
• 8:40
  my
• 8:40
  happy
• 8:41
  place.
• 8:42
  Yeah,
• 8:42
  that.
• 8:42
  That
• 8:43
  is
• 8:43
  the
• 8:43
  key,
• 8:43
  being
• 8:44
  at
• 8:44
  peace.
• 8:46
  Ladies,
• 8:46
  I
• 8:47
  love
• 8:47
  chatting
• 8:47
  with
• 8:48
  you.
• 8:48
  It's
• 8:48
  like
• 8:48
  sitting
• 8:48
  with
• 8:48
  girlfriends
• 8:49
  at
• 8:49
  dinner.
• 8:49
  I
• 8:50
  love
• 8:50
  it.
• 8:50
  I
• 8:50
  love
• 8:50
  it
• 8:50
  so
• 8:51
  much.
• 8:51
  We
• 8:52
  should
• 8:52
  have
• 8:52
  had
• 8:52
  a
• 8:52
  cocktail
• 8:52
  while
• 8:53
  we
• 8:53
  chatted.
• 8:53
  I
• 8:54
  know,
• 8:54
  right?
• 8:54
  I
• 8:55
  think
• 8:55
  I'm
• 8:55
  gonna
• 8:55
  have
• 8:55
  one
• 8:55
  after.
• 8:56
  After
• 8:57
  we.
• 8:57
  Exactly.
• 8:58
  We're
• 8:59
  like,
• 8:59
  oh,
• 8:59
  yes,
• 8:59
  a
• 9:00
  margarita
• 9:00
  sounds
• 9:01
  good.
• 9:01
  It.