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Putting Yourself Out There · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  Speaker 1: We got a question for American mama's. Dear mama's, how
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  Speaker 1: difficult has it been for you to put yourself out
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  Speaker 1: there on American ground radio.
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  Speaker 2: Well, let's ask our American mama's.
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  Speaker 3: Alma mama, she said, and joining us now we're American Mama's.
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  Speaker 1: Terry Notediville and Kimberly Burlesson. I mean, you guys have
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  Speaker 1: been on this for years. It's easy stuff by now, right.
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  Speaker 4: Well you have this is nine years for you, two
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  Speaker 4: years for me.
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  Speaker 2: You know, it's so funny because I think about when
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  Speaker 2: Denise and I first started, we couldn't even listen back
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  Speaker 2: to our segments because we thought, oh, we sound so dumb.
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  Speaker 2: She was, I sound so hick. And but you know,
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  Speaker 2: it's it's that the cringe factor is gone, because I think,
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  Speaker 2: you know, it is like if I say something cringey, okay,
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  Speaker 2: I mean it's okay. I'm used to my kids that
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  Speaker 2: I cringe them all the time. And so but Kimer
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  Speaker 2: sauw something.
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  Speaker 4: On, Well, I saw this podcast jour and it was
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  Speaker 4: just talking about getting past the cringe. If you can
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  Speaker 4: get past the cringe, you were better off because you're
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  Speaker 4: putting yourself out there and I thought, as I'm listening.
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  Speaker 4: First of all, the radio show, I still have only
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  Speaker 4: heard maybe two episodes of myself on it, because I
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  Speaker 4: don't like the way my voice sounds. I think I
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  Speaker 4: sound like an idiot sometimes, you know. So I'm not
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  Speaker 4: quite there where I'm like like, I just like completely
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  Speaker 4: tighten up if I hear myself. But but I mean,
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  Speaker 4: think about how I was at the very beginning. Do
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  Speaker 4: you remember when I cried?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Do you that? Yes?
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  Speaker 4: I had been on the radio for maybe a month,
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  Speaker 4: and we were in here, We're about to start, and
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  Speaker 4: I just started crying because I couldn't get past the
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  Speaker 4: cringe of myself.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. I must have laughed.
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  Speaker 4: You don't remember that.
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  Speaker 2: I must have thought it was hilarious that you cried
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  Speaker 2: over there, because I don't remember I would have if
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  Speaker 2: you were really traumatically sad, I would have been traumatic. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I laughed and said so dramatic.
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  Speaker 4: But but but yes, I'm past feeling feeling the cringe.
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  Speaker 1: I remember you all making Lindsey cry when when you're younger,
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  Speaker 1: you guys put her on there.
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  Speaker 2: We tried.
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  Speaker 1: She hated that.
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  Speaker 4: She flipped me off. The entire time I have video
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  Speaker 4: of her.
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  Speaker 2: We may do it. She wasn't prepared. Just come watch,
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  Speaker 2: just come watch, and then we stuck.
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  Speaker 4: The I feel like so much of being cringed to
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  Speaker 4: is feeling judged, because I will judge. There are things
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  Speaker 4: that I do get cringed out. And one of the
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  Speaker 4: things and when people do dance routines at their wedding,
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  Speaker 4: uh huh, I can't. I'm like passing out from secondhand
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  Speaker 4: cringe because but I'm like now, I'm like, no, they're
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  Speaker 4: putting themselves out there. This is their moment, but I
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  Speaker 4: will cringe.
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  Speaker 2: Or or when the when the bridle party comes down,
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  Speaker 2: you know, they had that like okay, we'll pipe. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you coming through the you know, usually a barn door,
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  Speaker 2: and and and they're like walking down the aisle doing
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  Speaker 2: these like I says, and you're just watching it with
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  Speaker 2: your phone, going oh god, oh God, just get down there,
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  Speaker 2: just get married. It's almost like, I don't know if y'all, y'all,
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  Speaker 2: if you want to cringe so hard that your stomach
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  Speaker 2: does some flip flops, go online. It's fun. It's fine
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  Speaker 2: to cringe. So you go, oh god, I think it's
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  Speaker 2: man and woman. It's a man and a woman. They
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  Speaker 2: were on a reality show and they had their very
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  Speaker 2: first kid ever when they said I do oh god,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: Married at first sight.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, it's like they were didn't even last one day.
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  Speaker 2: They were not almost but there were some religion where
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  Speaker 2: we're not going to even hold hands until we're married.
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  Speaker 2: And then when they kissed at the oft, I'm telling you,
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  Speaker 2: I said this to every every one of my children,
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  Speaker 2: my nieces, my nephews. We were rolling. It was so
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  Speaker 2: it's so hard to watch because he basically eats her
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  Speaker 2: face like he's trying. So he's trying to be cool,
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  Speaker 2: because you know, like the kids that kiss are pillow
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  Speaker 2: in their head goes back and forth. It is so cringey.
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  Speaker 2: You have to google.
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  Speaker 4: I think it's called first Kiss. I really do think
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  Speaker 4: it was a show called Kiss.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well that was, and you can see that's a
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  Speaker 2: whole different kind and I know it panned the audience
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  Speaker 2: and their parents were both like, oh oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: And then if you watch I know this, I love
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  Speaker 2: that show that has on level on the spectrum. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: And well there was one girl, she's so cute. She
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  Speaker 2: met this guy's like a cowboy. They came into the
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  Speaker 2: house and they're both on the spectrum and in front
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  Speaker 2: of the parents. This little this cute little girl that's
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  Speaker 2: her first boyfriend. They're making out constantly like they cannot
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  Speaker 2: keep her and the mom and they are are going,
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  Speaker 2: oh okay, oh oh, oh, oh oh, is this what
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  Speaker 2: we're doing? Like they're looking at each other like we
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  Speaker 2: don't know what you do and they're like all over
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  Speaker 2: each other like they don't have the social cues. That's
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  Speaker 2: a fun cringe. Like watching that, you're like.
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  Speaker 4: That's a whole different kind of cringe. That is that
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  Speaker 4: is a that is that's a.
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  Speaker 2: Whole different level.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 2: It's so funny because when if people are cringed at
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  Speaker 2: something I say or do it, it doesn't I don't
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  Speaker 2: know it. First of all. It's like when Summer said, Mom,
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  Speaker 2: were you ever Bullyeve in school? And I said, I
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  Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know. I thought if girls weren't nice,
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  Speaker 2: but I just thought they were having a bad day.
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  Speaker 2: I really don't think that I really know when people
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  Speaker 2: are cringed out or if they don't like me, unless
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  Speaker 2: you make it very clear.
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  Speaker 4: That's the key.
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  Speaker 2: Be oblivious, Be oblivious, live your life and oblivion. It's
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  Speaker 2: a beautiful thing.
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  Speaker 1: That is really funny. I'm really stressing out about this
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  Speaker 1: whole conversation because the entire time I'm just picturing the
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  Speaker 1: TV show The Office. Yeah, and I can't watch that
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  Speaker 1: show because of the cringe factor.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 1: The characters that my kids love the show, I can't
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  Speaker 1: watch them, like no, don't no, don't, don't don't, don't,
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  Speaker 1: don't know, no, don't stop. Oh god stop, please just
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  Speaker 1: Michael Scott. It's a great it's a beautifully written character,
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  Speaker 1: but just the things he does and says, I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Just like supposed to make you crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Oh God, I can't handle it. It's hilarious. But it's
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  Speaker 1: very easy for me to be on the radio. So
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  Speaker 1: Terry Neutivele, Kimberly bur listen, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you,