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GTL BONUS: Teresa Giudice Q&A · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous Lala Kent. We're back with the Give Them
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  Speaker 1: Lalla Podcast bonus episode. I have Teresa Judaice and we
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  Speaker 1: are going to deep dive into the questions that I
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  Speaker 1: asked you guys on Give Them La La pod on
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  Speaker 1: ig Hi babe.
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  Speaker 2: Hi honey, welcome back, Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 1: The first question, where do you stand with Tiffany? After
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  Speaker 1: House of Villains?
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  Speaker 3: We made up.
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  Speaker 2: She said sorry to me, she said sorry on the show,
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  Speaker 2: and then you know, we were fine.
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  Speaker 3: I mean I still was like a little.
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  Speaker 2: Like, you know, I was like, my poor honey always
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  Speaker 2: has to get like blamed, you know, yeah, because you
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  Speaker 2: know what, you know what Louis told me. He's like, babe,
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  Speaker 2: I'm getting DMS. They're like, I can't believe you cheated
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  Speaker 2: on Teresa.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, are you freaking kidding me?
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  Speaker 2: Like, poor guy. It's like, let me just put it
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  Speaker 2: out there. If he was cheating on me, he would
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  Speaker 2: not be here. He's not you know, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: No I don't see I don't see that happening.
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  Speaker 3: No, it's sad.
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  Speaker 2: But just because she said it, now, my poor husband's
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  Speaker 2: getting DMS that he cheated on me, and it's like,
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  Speaker 2: you know, what.
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  Speaker 1: That's the worst thing is there's so many times where
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  Speaker 1: it's like, okay, even if someone says it, let's just
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  Speaker 1: say it's something huge, right, and it's like, okay, well hello,
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  Speaker 1: defamation of character. It's like it doesn't matter once it's
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  Speaker 1: out there.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, exactly, it's out there exactly. So that's what I
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  Speaker 2: said to her, Like, you shouldn't have said that, but whatever.
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  Speaker 3: I guess she wanted.
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  Speaker 2: You know, she wanted to try to get a moment
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  Speaker 2: with Teresa Judice, like everyone tries to do that.
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  Speaker 3: And I wasn't going to give it to her.
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  Speaker 1: You make everybody relevant, You weren't going to give it
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  Speaker 1: to her. What was the truth behind the flowers that
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  Speaker 1: were suent?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, he just said he missed me, like la la,
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  Speaker 2: he missed me like we were I mean that was
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  Speaker 2: like last year, so we were only married over a year.
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  Speaker 2: And like he loves like we love being with each other,
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  Speaker 2: and so he sent me he's your best friend.
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  Speaker 3: He really is.
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  Speaker 2: No, like we I actually love being with my husband,
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  Speaker 2: like we yeah, we have the best time. And I
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  Speaker 2: have a tattoo, so rare for people, Well you have
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  Speaker 2: a tattoo of tattoo on the side that says Sampan
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  Speaker 2: and Zami. That means always together. It's on my parents mausoleum.
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  Speaker 2: That means because my parents were always together, Sampanan Zami.
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  Speaker 2: And then right underneath it, I have three three three.
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  Speaker 2: When my dad was passing, I went to talk to
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  Speaker 2: a medium and my mom was giving me signs of threes.
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  Speaker 2: So I knew my dad was going to pass away
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  Speaker 2: with a three in it, and he did. He passed
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  Speaker 2: away April third. My mom passed away March third. I
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  Speaker 2: met Louis three months after my dad passed. My dad
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  Speaker 2: was with me three years after my mom passed. My
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  Speaker 2: parents got married in three months. Everything is threes. That's
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  Speaker 2: your number.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, So I have a.
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  Speaker 2: Tattoo three three three, And then Louis sent me three
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  Speaker 2: hundred and thirty three roses and he said, hey, missed me.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, there's damn two.
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  Speaker 2: People had to carry two like Safari and I think
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  Speaker 2: Jesse had to carry it inside.
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  Speaker 3: It was always huge.
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  Speaker 1: You know what, I'm not going to accept any man
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  Speaker 1: who doesn't send me that number of persons.
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  Speaker 2: That right when, like I didn't know it was going
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  Speaker 2: to make some people in the house mad or like you.
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  Speaker 1: Know, yeah, you found you found. You're in your love bubble.
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  Speaker 1: People try to burst it, so I won't try to
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  Speaker 1: burst it. I'm very happy for you you.
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  Speaker 2: So that's why he just sent me flash because he
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  Speaker 2: missed me. And he also got me a Chanel bag
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  Speaker 2: and sent that also, But I don't that was another time.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if they're going to show that on there.
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  Speaker 2: And I didn't even show Tiffany.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, wonder these holes are even.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't even show Tiffany that because I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna show it to her because like
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  Speaker 2: people are gonna think that I'm like trying to brag
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  Speaker 2: or anything.
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  Speaker 3: But I just showed Larsa.
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  Speaker 1: You know, Larsa will appreciate it. Do you have any
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  Speaker 1: advice for being a girl mom? This woman's struggling being
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  Speaker 1: a girl mom. I would like this advice.
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  Speaker 3: You know what.
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  Speaker 2: I know, it's hard, Like I only know, like to me,
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  Speaker 2: that's all I know, because I'm a girl mom, and
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  Speaker 2: to me, I feel like I know, everyone always tells
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  Speaker 2: me like being a boy mom is so much easier.
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  Speaker 2: I know because the girls, you know the time of
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  Speaker 2: the month, you know, and they get bitchy and moody
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  Speaker 2: and I don't know. I always deal with a smile
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  Speaker 2: on my face. Like with my daughters, like I know
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  Speaker 2: they know how much I love them and like adore them,
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  Speaker 2: and like I don't know, like it's like when you're
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  Speaker 2: a mom, like just be happy, like yeah, like you know,
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  Speaker 2: don't be bitchy to your daughters or if they are,
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  Speaker 2: you know, just say okay, you know what if or
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  Speaker 2: just try to ask them, like what's wrong or something,
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  Speaker 2: because you know what, nowadays, high school and even middle school,
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  Speaker 2: it's hard, like you have these brutals, Like you have
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  Speaker 2: these other kids that are so judgmental and like they
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  Speaker 2: say the nastiest thing just because you know, if you're
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  Speaker 2: if you're too pretty, or maybe if you're not. And
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  Speaker 2: it's like it's like so sad to me that I
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  Speaker 2: see what goes on in high school, you know, high school,
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  Speaker 2: middle school that you know, sometimes we don't even know
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  Speaker 2: like what our kids are going thro, so like try
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  Speaker 2: to make the door open that if they are struggling
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  Speaker 2: with something, that they could speak to you and they
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  Speaker 2: could tell you about it.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I agree, creating the safe space. My my
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  Speaker 1: biggest thing is you know, with with my girls, the
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  Speaker 1: world is going to toughen them up. I don't need
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  Speaker 1: to toughen them up. The world is going to do
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  Speaker 1: that for me and creating that safe and I will say, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and it is very unfortunate. Then the social media aspect
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  Speaker 1: comes in and it's it absolutely terrifies me. My thing
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  Speaker 1: with with Ocean. She's three and a half, she'll be
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  Speaker 1: four in March. But I'm like, she she gets moody already,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, I can handle the moods. What I
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  Speaker 1: can't deal with is when she kind of takes on
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  Speaker 1: a little bit of boy energy and wants to like
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  Speaker 1: kick my walls or throw shit in the house. That's
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  Speaker 1: when I'm like, oh my god, this is hard.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know that.
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  Speaker 2: You have to give her time out. Give her time
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  Speaker 2: out and like.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe Teresa, you would die a mouse. I tell her,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, listen, kid, I will check you the next
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  Speaker 1: time you do this. And she tells me, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: check you the next time you talk to me that way.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, I'm gonna bat it with myself.
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  Speaker 1: I cannot do that.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, Milanya was she was my my third one,
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  Speaker 2: was the one that used to test to me. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: she would run away from me in stores and stuff.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, like that.
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  Speaker 2: It's like you do they always say, you have one,
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  Speaker 2: you have.
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  Speaker 3: One that like one's gonna listen to the other ones not.
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  Speaker 2: You just gotta have a lot of patience, unfortunately, a
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  Speaker 2: lot of patience Milania.
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  Speaker 1: Milania has such a soft spot. What a vibe, calling
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  Speaker 1: her dad a troll?
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  Speaker 2: I know, Oh my god, Lala, do you remember all
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  Speaker 2: that I couldn't even when I was filming, and the
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  Speaker 2: things that used to come out of her mouth. I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: what is she saying?
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  Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, like yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But by the way, ten out of ten excellent parenting,
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  Speaker 1: excellent entertainment. I mean, she's got a mind, she's had it,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm sure she's still this way, a mind of
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  Speaker 1: her own, a mouth that she's not afraid to use.
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  Speaker 1: It's what we try to instill in our girls, and
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  Speaker 1: Milania is just freaking born with it. It's like, what
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  Speaker 1: more could you ask for. I may not like that
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  Speaker 1: she's saying these things, but in the real world this
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  Speaker 1: will come in hand again.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's definitely Milania. She's doing that stand out. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's crazy. The current Gia are more like, and Gabrielle
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  Speaker 2: and Augianna are more like they're the Gabrielle and Adren
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  Speaker 2: are the quieter ones, and then Gia and Mala more outspoken.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I love that though an equal balance. Someone wants
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  Speaker 1: to know, can you please clear up how you say
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  Speaker 1: your last name? Is it Judae or Judic?
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  Speaker 3: I mean both?
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  Speaker 2: Judj is more Italian Judice Okay, American way, it's just easy,
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  Speaker 2: do you care? I do care either, or we say Judaice.
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  Speaker 2: That's what Joe used to always say, and that's what
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  Speaker 2: I said too. That's it's his last name.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, so legally, have you taken on Louise's name?
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  Speaker 2: No, Gluisa, babe, keep your name. He's like, everybody knows
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  Speaker 2: just Teresa Judae.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's probably easier to have the same last
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  Speaker 1: name as your kid.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I mean he's like, you know, I thought that was
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  Speaker 2: sweet of him too to say that. So I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: you know, I was fine with that, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because some men are funny about it and I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: it's just a fucking.
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  Speaker 3: A yeah no, yeah, And he was like he's not
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  Speaker 3: macho like that.
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  Speaker 2: He's like, maybe you're everybody knows just Teresa Judie and
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  Speaker 2: just stay like that. And I'm like, Okay, a confident man.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah no, I mean I love a confident man. Yeah
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  Speaker 1: I'm not. I don't ever want Well, I've already changed money.
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  Speaker 1: I really can't go through it again. Biggest reason for
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  Speaker 1: thankfulness and then your biggest regret, like when you look
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  Speaker 1: at your life, what do you look at and you go,
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  Speaker 1: I'm the most thankful for this thing? And then do
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  Speaker 1: you have any regrets in your seventeen years of being
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  Speaker 1: on our TV?
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  Speaker 2: All right, I'm I'm really grateful for my beautiful four daughters.
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  Speaker 2: Like I'm so proud of them. They make me proud
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  Speaker 2: every day. And I always tell him, just please always
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  Speaker 2: love each other, you know. All I'm alive. You guys
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  Speaker 2: better always love each other and like and you know,
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  Speaker 2: and I see, like I'm just very proud of them.
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  Speaker 2: So my four daughters. And what I regret in life
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  Speaker 2: I wish I would have never signed that paper that
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  Speaker 2: Joe told me to sign.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, how has that? Like, I'm sure now you've
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  Speaker 1: got to stack of lawyers, Like I'm sure they're combing
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  Speaker 1: through every single document that comes across your desk.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I have that Jim Leonard that you
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  Speaker 2: know that he was on the show, like he's he's
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  Speaker 2: always has my back, and then everyone sees that he
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  Speaker 2: has my back, and I think people get jealous that
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  Speaker 2: he has my back so much, but he does look
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  Speaker 2: out for me, and that's his job, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Was he the one?
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  Speaker 3: Uh?
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  Speaker 1: How long has he been with you? Because, by the way,
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  Speaker 1: his vibe is fucking awesome?
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  Speaker 3: Thank you? I mean, guess how I found him?
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  Speaker 2: Like, and I didn't even want him when I was yeah,
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  Speaker 2: because listen he was he was Kathy and Melissa's lawyer.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yes, And then I was I was going, I
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  Speaker 2: want to jail, and I was going to do a
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  Speaker 2: twenty two fifty five. That's like if you go in
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  Speaker 2: front of the judge again and ask to like resentence you,
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  Speaker 2: it's called a twenty two fifty five. So at the time,
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  Speaker 2: Joe had this friend that he represented it that Jim represented,
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  Speaker 2: and they're like, you know you should use this attorney.
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  Speaker 2: I'm using him. So I met him and I gave
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  Speaker 2: him an attitude. I'm like, I don't. I'm like, Joe,
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  Speaker 2: why are you bringing him here? I don't want to
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  Speaker 2: use him. He's Melissa's and Kathy's attorney. I want nothing
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  Speaker 2: to do with him, so I gave like and I
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  Speaker 2: don't know, we just clicked after that and I really
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  Speaker 2: didn't want to use him, and he tried to help me,
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  Speaker 2: but we couldn't do it. Twenty two to fifty five.
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  Speaker 2: But anyway, and Jim was the one that brought me
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  Speaker 2: to jail. And he couldn't believe that, Like, I didn't
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  Speaker 2: even cry. He's like, I've never seen anybody like you.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, all right, I'm like and I just
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  Speaker 2: said goodbye to him. I'm like, God, you know, I
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  Speaker 2: got this to just tell my family I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: be fine. And that was it, and like yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: And ever since then he's been by my side. He's
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  Speaker 2: pretty amazing. Yeah, he seems amazing. Did you have nights
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  Speaker 2: where you would sob in jail?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 1: No, you kept it together.
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  Speaker 3: I would cry just look.
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  Speaker 2: I missed my kids, like to myself, I just and
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  Speaker 2: then it's just like and then when I walk the track,
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  Speaker 2: I would be like, God, really.
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  Speaker 3: Why did I have to be here? Like seriously?
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  Speaker 2: I used to's like I would ask him questions like that,
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  Speaker 2: like what kind of I know you're trying to show
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  Speaker 2: me something like what are you trying to show me?
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  Speaker 2: And I'm teaching.
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  Speaker 1: You to read?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, bitch, I wrote my book.
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  Speaker 2: I wrote my book, Turning the Tables while I was
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  Speaker 2: in there, and it was and I came out. I
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  Speaker 2: was a New York Times bestseller. But I was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I didn't need, you know, all this time to do that.
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  Speaker 1: But I feel like I could have written this not
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  Speaker 1: in jail.
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  Speaker 3: I guess.
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  Speaker 2: And then I was like, are you trying to give
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  Speaker 2: me a break? I get it, I have four kids.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe he's trying to give me a break, you know.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, all right, little I'm like, exactly,
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  Speaker 2: I didn't need this kind of break. But then I
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  Speaker 2: finally got my answer. I was like, I guess because
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  Speaker 2: I probably would have never left Joe.
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  Speaker 3: And really Joe was.
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  Speaker 2: Not my guy, Like because I see the love that
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  Speaker 2: I have with Louis and the love that I have
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  Speaker 2: with Joe, it's so different. I always stay to my kids.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I was supposed to have my kids with Joe,
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  Speaker 2: me me beautiful daughters.
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  Speaker 3: But my guy's Louie.
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  Speaker 2: Like, so I think we kind of got ripped apart
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  Speaker 2: because he got deported and and like I tried, I
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  Speaker 2: went to Italy to see him.
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  Speaker 3: That happened on the There was a show.
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  Speaker 1: I know, and it was it was that's so crazy
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  Speaker 1: because I'm remembering this, and when you left, you said
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  Speaker 1: you didn't feel anything that you used to feel.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like when I saw him, as soon as I
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  Speaker 2: saw him, like you know, if you see someone and
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  Speaker 2: you haven't seen him in three years and eight months,
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  Speaker 2: because he stayed in ice for eight months more trying
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  Speaker 2: to fight it. Okay, he finally gave up, so he
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  Speaker 2: had a three year sentence. Then he stayed eight months longer.
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  Speaker 2: So I saw him after three years and eight months.
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  Speaker 2: And I didn't even go see him that much there
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  Speaker 2: because I just didn't like visiting that place.
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  Speaker 3: You know. My kids went more with.
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  Speaker 2: His mom and his sister and anybody that would go,
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  Speaker 2: I would send my kids with them. I just didn't
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  Speaker 2: like going there. I just hated it because I just
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  Speaker 2: got out of there. I didn't want to go there.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't see him that much, and I used to
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  Speaker 2: tell him, don't come see me because I didn't didn't
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  Speaker 2: like that. I didn't like being in that room, like
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  Speaker 2: I just i'd rather talk to people on the phone,
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  Speaker 2: you know, totally. But he came every single weekend, you know,
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  Speaker 2: with my kids, and he cried every single weekend he
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  Speaker 2: came to see me, you know, because he you know,
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  Speaker 2: I guess he you know, obviously felt bad and he
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  Speaker 2: did try to take responsibility, but they didn't. They weren't
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  Speaker 2: having that, you know. Of course, they wanted to make
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  Speaker 2: an example out of me, right of course, but that
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  Speaker 2: was it. And that's what he kept saying. He's like,
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  Speaker 2: they want you more than they want me, and he's like,
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  Speaker 2: you didn't even do anything, and I was like, oh,
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: like but anyway, I think I finally got my answer.
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  Speaker 2: Like I wouldn't never, I would have probably not left,
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  Speaker 2: you know, so we kind of got ripped apart. So
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  Speaker 2: I think that's why I had to go through, you know, Unfortunately,
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  Speaker 2: sometimes you don't understand why we.
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  Speaker 3: Have to go through things in life.
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  Speaker 2: But I had to go through that in order, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: to find like the person that I feel like that
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  Speaker 2: I really am supposed to be with, which is you know, Lowie.
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  Speaker 2: Like I feel like I thought he was called my soulmate.
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  Speaker 2: I talked to this other psychic. She's like, he's your
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  Speaker 2: twin flame, and I was like, oh, that makes sense,
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  Speaker 2: you know, because she said you have to go through
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: a lot of souls to find your twin flate. Yes,
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: so I feel like, you know, and we're so much alike,
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: like we like the same things. Like me and Joe
• 14:37
  Speaker 2: didn't like the same things. We were like opposites.
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: It's like, so crazy, you're such a lover and juicy Joe.
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: You know, I only know what I saw on TV.
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: But I'm happy that you found someone who babies you
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: because you have to take on such a and I
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: know that this is antiquated, but you have to take
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: on an alpha, more masculine in role because no matter
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: how hard we try to fight to be equal, right,
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: it's it's usually looked at like the man does this
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: and the woman does this, except when we're in roles
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: like the two of us, Teresa. You know, we really
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: have to step into alpha energy and sometimes you just
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: want to be done. And I'm so happy that you
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: can now. You know, when it's time to come home
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: and cameras are down, you're not in the forefront of anything.
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: Be with a man who babies you and makes you
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: find the femininity.
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what nobody ever said it that way.
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: You're right, because then that's what Louis does to me,
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: Like he gives me a lot of attention, and I
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: like that, Like I like attention, Like Joan never told
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: me I was pretty. I mean, you know, he like
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: I used to like get dressed up for him, like
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: do you like what? And he like yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: like you know, like just like he was not he
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: didn't know how to show love, you know. And it's like,
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: you know, maybe some girls don't need that, but I
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: like that. I like a lot of attention. And Louis
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: definitely gives me a lot of attention and that's what
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: I like. And I give it tim Bright back, so
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: you know, of course, and I remember what Joe was
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: only one sided, Like I would always like give him
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: more attention, and I'm sure he loved that, you know,
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: and he wouldn't give it to me back, and so
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: I was missing that part, you know. I mean he
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: was a good husband, did you think, like you know
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: he was He didn't cheat me bad or anything. Like
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: a few times he said stupid things on the show
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: that I couldn't even believe it that I was just like,
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: you don't even talk like that to me. Well, the
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: like when the like he never said the things that
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: he said on the show, believe or not, like when
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: drinking he called he called me see you next Tuesday,
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: and I was shocked.
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: I was shocked on the show in the Lala.
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: And he was drinking so much and he's never you understand,
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: Andy Cohen, I said to him, you guys edit that in.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: I was fighting with that. I was like, there's no
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: way Joe said that. I'm like, cause you know you
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: if you guys call each other names, meaning like you
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: and your spouse, you know what name he calls you like,
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: He's never said that word, like see you next to
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: He's never said that word. So I was like, there's
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: no way he said that because that's not a word
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: that we use with each other.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: You know, You're like, this is some ai sh I
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: was like, and they're.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: Like, Teresa, I'm telling you he said it. And then
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: when I saw it, my mouth dropped and like he
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: was talking to someone obviously, like I don't know. I
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: even asked him till today, I'm like, were you talking
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: to a girl? Just freaking ad minute. Now we're not
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: even together, we're divorced, and he's like, now he's still
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: denies until today.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: What do you think do you think he's done?
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think it was a girl. Yeah,
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: I think it was. But he says now, he's like, now,
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: he's like, it was my worker. But I'm like, why
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: would you say that?
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: You know? But whatever do.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: You do you think that he was unfaithful to you?
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: Now?
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: Well, I did find a phone that he was calling
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: someone like, which he told me I found the phone.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: He said, well, he's like, I'm talking to her because
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: you know, he's like, it was his friend. But then me,
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: while I think something was going on, and like I wasn't.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: I guess I believed him because I asked the girl
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: at the time too, and she denied it.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: So I don't know. I mean, this is the thing.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: If I was banging the guy, I would say, I'm
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: banging him.
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: Yes I am. He's cheating on you. I'm banging.
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: But like, there was these two girls that I thought
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: he was doing something with, and I asked them both
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: and they both denied it.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: Okay, but you're intimidating these women probably have seen.
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: Doing it.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: I would say, yes, bitch, I'm doing it. Yes, I'm
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: with your heart because I'm with him, Like it's like.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: Because you're coming from a place of being Teresa Judas,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: these women aren't Teresa Judas. There they could potentially be
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: on the other side of Teresa. I don't know that.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: I mean, it wouldn't be the other side.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: I would be like you could have them, bye, you
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: could have them, like I would think I wouldn't, Yes, exactly,
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't have did anything to them. I just wanted
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: to know the truth. I haven't said like I just
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: you know, and they both denied it. So it's like
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: when you have kids, unless you have the proof, it's like,
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: what was I going to tell my kids? Like, oh,
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: I thought something was happening, but it wasn't. So it's
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: like I wanted I needed proof, you know, in order
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: to walk away, and I didn't have it.
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: It's it always comes back to the proof. Yeah, they
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: need evidence, well because then because then.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: It's easier to walk away when you don't have the
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: proof and someone else is telling you or you or
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: you think it's true, and then you find and then
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: you ask and then they say no, it's not true.
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: Then it's like how do you go by that?
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: You know, It's like then your kids are going to
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: question you, So what happened, mammy? Why'd you guys get divorced?
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: It's like you got to I don't know. I always
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: thought about that. It's like I always wanted to have
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: the proof in order, you know, if I was going
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: to walk away otherwise then your kids could blame you.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: Oh you broke up, you know, it's all your fault, mommy,
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: or you know, I don't know.
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: I always thought about that too, you know.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: That's what I would say. They'd say, do you have proof?
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: I would have said, only my gut, I know, no,
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: But did your gut tell you that something was off
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: with him? Yeah?
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: I did feel something. I did, like idea, like that's
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: why I questioned those two girls, you know, and like
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: I felt something, but they denied it and there was
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: nothing I could do about it, you know. And then
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: I was just and I had little kids at the time.
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: So it's like, you know, I mean, I guess if
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: I mean whatever. Listen, you can't go back in time,
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: you know, no.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: You can't. And by the way, Teresa, one wrong, not wrong,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: one different move a part of your entire story, one
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: wrong move or different, we'll say different, your whole life
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: would be different. You would never be with Louis. You
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: wouldn't experience the things you're experiencing, like and I truly
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: believe that. And when you walk through life and it
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: doesn't make sense, and I questioned. I was questioning God
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: last week, being like, dude, you ain't real all right,
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: Like you're pissing me off? What the fuck is this?
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: And then I lay in my bed and I'm like, God,
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been going I went back for questioning. I
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: went back to church. So go back to church, try
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: to you know. I think I think he does help,
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: you know, because I was mad. I was mad for
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: a while too, so and now I made up with him.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: But like you're saying, walking around the track asking him
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: like what is this? What are you trying to teach me?
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: And it's like you said, there will always come a
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: time that it does make sense.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah it does.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: I mean that's the only thing I only one thing
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: I regret, which I tell my kids too.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: It's like I feel like the scar.
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: Remember that letter, Scarlet, the scarlet letter, the scarlet. People
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: judge me just because I went to jail, and it's
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: just like you don't know, they don't know the truth,
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: like I didn't I know if I know, I didn't
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: commit a crime, you know, and it's sad that there
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: wasn't behind what you yeah, right, but it's sad because
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: like all my business deals want to ship. At the
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: time when that happened, it was like I had I
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: was booming, I was on fire, and then all that happened,
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: it was like, you know, but then thank god, I
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: came back again. But it was just hard, you know,
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: and then even I felt bad that my kids had
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: to go through that.
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: You know, that's you know, like them being.
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: Judged by other you know, kids at school and then
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: their parents talking like that's sad to me. I wish
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: my kids didn't have to go through that because that
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: was really hard. And that's why my kids are so
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: strong the way they are, because they know who their
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: mommy is, you know, and they.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: Of course, and that's the rest of the world who's
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: judging you. There are times where I'm like, are you
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: saying unkind things because you believe them, or are you
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: you're you just know that this will hurt my feelings.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Like I don't think Teresa, when people start calling you criminal,
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: I don't think that they believe you're a criminal. I
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: think people know the truth, right, I think they're just
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: trying to hurt you because it's really hard people find it.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: We talked about this on the podcast a few weeks ago,
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: that your success they take as a personal insult. Yeah,
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: when it's not. So it's the only thing they can
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: put out there that makes them feel better about where
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: you are in life.
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: Right, No, you're right, You're right. So that's why.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: I mean, that's why I like laugh at that when
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: they went you know, when people used to call me
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: your criminal or anything or click click, I like what,
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: I'm like, what I never even knew what click click was.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: I was like, you know I that Yeah, I was like, okay,
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: like you know, it's just funny to me.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: But it's just that I you know, when as a mom,
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: like you don't want your kids to ever hurt, and
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: I fall like for my kids, I don't care. I'll
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: take all the bullets you want to throw at me,
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: you know, but you know, my kids, like it was hard.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: You know, it was hard for them to go through
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: what they had to go through, you know, So.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: I just I I adore you as a mama, Like
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: you you really are It's been such an amazing thing
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: to watch your kids from, you know, the time they
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: were young children, and just the way that you getting
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: forward girls ready and deck to the nines, by the way,
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: on top of yourself. I used to always worry.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: About they were to perfection, and then with me, I
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: would rush myself, but I always make.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: Sure that you also looked perfect.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Tried, I tried, but I always made sure they looked great.
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: And then I would get and then I would rush myself.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: And yeah, because I would do everything. Joe would not
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: help me with nothing. It was always may I used
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: to do everything.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: He would just yell shirtless at the top of the stairs. Milania,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: you get your you get you, asking you in your room,
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: put your bowling like it was great in television. I
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: want to know before we sign off, what are your girls?
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: What's the your girls? So they have a favorite meal
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: that you that you made, they like, I got a
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: lot of questions about your.
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they have four cookbooks.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: And then Milania love steak bitsa yalla, and it's it's
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: like a steak and like in the in with plump
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: tomatoes like and I yeah, and then I make it
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: over white rice and then They also love Taia Deli
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: like the spinach and the white I make it with
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: in ham. I discep the ham and then peas with
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: Peccorino romano cheese and it's delicious.
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: It's in my cook water. Yeah.
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: And Skinny Italian ordering your coat, Skinny Italian and fabulous
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: Skinny Italian.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: That's the It's fabulicious the first one.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Oh, Skinny Italian's the first one.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: Did both of those. How how many books have you
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: had on the New York Times Bestseller?
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: I have three cookbooks and one memoir, so I'm a
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: four times New York Times bestselling author. Congratulations.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: What does that feel like, because I know what it
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: feels like to have someone call you and tell you
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: that you're not Yeah.
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: Very proud. I'm very proud of that. Yeah.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: So that was like, that's like a really big accomplishment,
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: like having six books four times on the New York
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: Times Bestseller. I love doing my Super Bowl commercial. When
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: I did that with Dak Prescott. That was so much fun.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: That was amazing.
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: That was fun. Yeah.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: And your body is sick tree. I know we're it's
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: a comment, no, but I mean it's it's high. Your
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: body is high. Level, like, whatever you're doing in the
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: gym is what I need to take on. And again,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I know we're not supposed to comment on people's bodies
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: in this day and age, but I'm I'm going to
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: because you're asked in those fucking football pants.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: I was like, are you thank you joking me? I
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: work out a trainer and then I do pilates. Plates
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: is great. Yeah, but your body is amazing too. You
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: have a sick body, you're beautiful.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Well, I appreciate that, and I'm gonna let you say
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: that to me because I don't have a man to
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: tell me how sick my body is, so I will
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: take it from you.
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: Well, I'm sure you need to just go out there.
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: Well we're talking. You can't. You got to get out there,
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: you can't.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: I talked to Teresa on the phone the other day
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: and I was asking her about Safari because I'm like,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: I gotta get him on the pod, and she was like,
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: you like him. I was like, no, no, no, I'm looking
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: for men who don't want to swing their dick all
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: over town. So yes, I do want you to hit
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: him up, though, because I'm dying to put him on
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: this podcast and ask him all the questions in the world.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he will definitely do it. Yeah, he's awesome, well, amazing, guys.
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: Up, I will, I will.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: Link it up. You know, I'm just looking for a
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: quick chat on the plot. Beautiful and you know, if
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: I'm feeling morny that day, we'll just see where the podcast.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: Jesus Christ.
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm the Queen of being inappropriate in front of people. Teresa,
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: thank you for doing my bonus episode. I really appreciate you.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: You're welcome, and you, guys, thank you for listening to
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: another bonus episode of the Give Them.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: La La podcast.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: Enjoy The YouTube video is up now. Enjoy that and
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: I will catch you on Wednesday for the regular old episode.
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: Bye bye,